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Did God send my affair partner?

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  • Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
  • Infidelity can be a confusing time and we tend to ask many questions that to someone on the outside may seem ridiculous to ask, but I along with my clients have found themselves in this muddled state of wondering if God is behind the appearance of what seems like the perfect person. In this video, I share with you my answer to this question.
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Комментарии • 48

  • @bhektiartisucimandiri6527
    @bhektiartisucimandiri6527 3 года назад +12

    Seriously, your video deserve more views and your channel deserve moooorreeeeee and more subscriber

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  3 года назад +1

      Awe that's sweet of you to say. And hopefully it will continue up to grow and more people will find the confort they need to get through this hard time.

  • @salgreco8353
    @salgreco8353 Год назад +2

    You could not be more spot on!! They are either looking for validation from someone else or they just are being selfish for their own pleasure!!

  • @iamflay3776
    @iamflay3776 2 года назад +8

    Thank you that’s all. I know my marriage won’t survive but I need this for my soul.

  • @thenorthface4
    @thenorthface4 Год назад +4

    My soon to be ex husband is now bringing his affair partner to the same church I go to. He claims he’s been reading the Bible for the first time in years because of his affair partner. I guess he forgot he was baptized while we were together to be a follower of god. No, affair partners are not sent from god. God brings people together in a healthy relationship, not by cheating and lying.

  • @wz4498
    @wz4498 2 года назад +1

    I during my abduction,I was held at gunpoint execution style,and I did not think I would make it home,ams this is one of many traumas put of many,and my fiance,now ex,just added to my pain and now I have to try to heal from this along with everything else,thanks for reading this,
    Bill

  • @wz4498
    @wz4498 2 года назад +3

    Mi fiance of 6 years,ups and left me for another man,just because she liked his looks and some physical traits netter than she did me,and she was miserable to me for 10 months before she broke it off with me.
    I am a Christian,and she claims that she is,but yet,she would not stop lusting after every guy whenever we went out in public,and this has pit me in emotional turmoil.I already have PTSD from lots of trauma in life,including being abducted in a foreign country during my military service,and I hope I can start healing by watching more of your videos,and Reading Gods word,just wanted to let you know,and hope you don't mind,
    Your friend and brother in Christ.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  2 года назад

      Oh I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm happy the videos are helping you. God has spared you from a lifetime of headache should you have gotten married. I know it maybe hard to see his protection right now but someday you will. I pray the lord gives you strength and hope for your future durning this difficult time in your life. 💕

  • @andrella7748
    @andrella7748 Год назад +5

    I believe it’s from Hell too

  • @digoldstone8263
    @digoldstone8263 2 месяца назад

    My husband said his affair partner was sent by God. Absolutely God did not send her to him. God is a God of restoration.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  2 месяца назад

      The deception gets worse as time goes on. We really believe this. But it's not true.

  • @kellynorman8509
    @kellynorman8509 2 года назад +1

    Once again you have encouraged me more than you know!

  • @asamusicdude
    @asamusicdude 2 года назад +2

    Bible is clear. He will Not temp anyone Into sin. There are 3 wills of God.
    Intentional
    Circumstantial
    And ultimate
    Thank you for this vid

  • @ericanderson8425
    @ericanderson8425 Месяц назад

    Well said! Thanks!

  • @muchgoodisgiven1517
    @muchgoodisgiven1517 2 года назад +2

    What if people are disobedient in who they marry?

  • @kellynorman8509
    @kellynorman8509 2 года назад

    Rewatching. So good. And all the truth.

  • @HappyHolyHealthyLife
    @HappyHolyHealthyLife 2 года назад

    Wonderful video! ❤

  • @ajene1906
    @ajene1906 Год назад +2

    I had same question.But I hate to think Satan sent me and my affair partner who is also married to destroy one another this is deep... because we are not bad people so ..What do you think about that?

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  Год назад +5

      Satans job is to destroy your life. Satan sets people up in an affair so that in the end their marriage will be destroyed and many people will suffer because of it. God will never send you another persons spouse because he knows the pain it causes. As hard as it may be for you to believe the enemy of our soul would do that, its still the truth.

    • @ajene1906
      @ajene1906 Год назад

      @@staceychenevert Thank you.🙏💛

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  Год назад

      @@ajene1906 welcome 🙏

    • @user-xu4xj2cd2j
      @user-xu4xj2cd2j Год назад +1

      If you have an affair your not a good person, there's no excuse

  • @EButta71
    @EButta71 2 года назад +2

    I know that I was sent into his life truly in a divine way. It was like he was sleeping and I woke him up to so many things. He also awakened a dormant side of me but in a much different way. It was beautiful and challenging but over now-- I basically got caught so I had to end it and he's not worth risking my family for. If he was a more stand up guy then maybe but no. Anyway, I do feel that I was divinely sent to be in his life and he blessed me as well.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  2 года назад +9

      I understand that you guys have impacted each other in a positive way, which is normal in any relationship whether that be friendship or romantic. However, one thing to know about infidelity it is deceptive in nature, meaning it appears beneficial for a moment but in the end, it is very destructive. God would never send someone into your life while you are married. He does not work that way, it's against his word. He knows the pain infidelity can cause and his word says he has good plans for you and destroying families is never a good thing. His word does say he will turn what was meant for your bad into something good.

    • @EButta71
      @EButta71 2 года назад

      @@staceychenevert that's really tough to hear. I'm definitely in the denial phase of grief because I don't fully agree but I do understand. It is definitely destructive and deceptive and the further I get into no contact the more I see this. I'm just relieved from having to live a double life. Thank you for your work and help and you'll probably see me commenting all on your videos because I am going THROUGH it over here lol I will most likely book a session or take your course as well. Thank you again and Happy New Year 🙏🏾💞✨

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  2 года назад +2

      @@EButta71 I know its a hard truth, ine I didn't want to face as well. And that's the crazy thing about infidelity it really affects our perception. Happy new year to you as well. Hang in there the best is yet to come!!!

    • @EButta71
      @EButta71 2 года назад

      @@staceychenevert thank you✨💞🙏🏾

    • @marcowagner3930
      @marcowagner3930 Год назад +2

      Thats one of the ways Satan works. If He can he guide supernatural circumstances, so that we might think its from heaven. And sin can feel so good, right and peaceful. But its sin. And the fruit of IT IS Always Destruction. Some people say: This feels right. But Feelings are Not the Standard For what is right or wrong. Only the Word of god. Satan knows what we or Others need. And If He can he send us someone or send us to someone.

  • @fireeye33
    @fireeye33 2 года назад +2

    HA!! sorry but seriously dumb question. you attract what you are, the law of universe. If you continue attracting unavailable men, that's you projecting your unhealed wound on them.

  • @beverlywilson3752
    @beverlywilson3752 2 года назад

    This is insanity…just a hopeful rationalization!

  • @salinaahdal2505
    @salinaahdal2505 2 года назад

    I'm a Muslim single female, having an affair with married man. We keep justifying it because in Islam a man is allowed to have more than one wife. If in islam god has said a man can keep up to 4 wifes. I agreed to be second wife because of islam allowing it. But his first wife won't agree. And he can't divorce her because of kids, community and finances. Not because he loves her. So it's hard to get over this break up because God has gave permission for a man to have up to 4 wife's. And so many Muslims are married to 2 or more wife's and everyone is happy in the situation. So as a Muslim prospective I disagree with this video.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  2 года назад +3

      You are free to disagree but your disagreement doesn't make what I'm saying not true. There is one true God creator of heaven and earth and one true savior Jesus Christ and when my Jesus says infidelity is wrong I trust that his words are coming from a place of love and protection. You can see that not everyone is as happy and wiing as you say to share their husband because your ap wife doesn't agree and I have had multiple clients who were involved with Muslim men and their wife did not want to share. The lie you are telling yourself about how yall could be a happy family is just that it's a lie. No one escapes the pain it causes. You would do better to find your own husband and rethink your religion. Taste and see that God is good all who come to him for help will not be disappointed 🙏

  • @melvern946
    @melvern946 2 года назад +1

    Marriage is empty no sex...what does the Bible sya about that? and then God brings a beautiful person into your life? Compatible in all ways even
    Christian values. Marriage is mad made. I appreciate the sentiment but it's not the unpardonable sin and not sending you to hell. That's just a blanket statement. A harsh one at that.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  2 года назад +4

      God will never send you another person while married. He would never go aganist his word. Since God calls adultery a sin then there is no way he would send you another person. A man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife and the two shall become one flesh. Marriage was created as a covenant by God. If your marriage is empty then why respond to a difficult marriage by hurting other people? We can not justify unhealthy behaviors.

  • @littlemissy8356
    @littlemissy8356 2 года назад +1

    That's a little too much God stuff for me.

    • @hannahrockey3037
      @hannahrockey3037 2 года назад +1

      But you married your affair partner. Is he now from God?

    • @marcowagner3930
      @marcowagner3930 Год назад

      ​@@hannahrockey3037 No. The bible says clear, that a marriage before god will Always ends If one of them died. Even If you remarried someone other. So you live in adultery