A pregnant woman in the mortuary - your questions answered
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- Опубликовано: 7 июл 2024
- This week Tracy answers an interesting question regarding what happens when a pregnant woman comes into the mortuary. We've also got a little clarification to make, so stay tuned for that to ensure you have the correct information.
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My son 32 weeks stillborn didn’t get embalmed we had him for 3days with me in a Moses basket on ice and for sure yes babies do start to discolour and turn quite fast without embalming...I use to ring the morgue in Wellington everyday to see how he was because when he died it was a public holiday in NZ so he wasn’t able to be cremated right away due to back log of other people who had passed before him.....I had to leave him in Wellington hospital morgue they were lovely and so kind and then I had to drive 4 hrs back to Hawkes bay in Napier without my baby...a week later he got sent in the courier to Hawkes bay hospital but the most cruelest part is they made me collect his ashes from the maternity ward and as new parents were walking out with their babies in car seats I had to walk out with my boys ashes in a wooden box which I wrapped in a blue and white fluffy cloud blanket...I would have rather pick him up from the morgue then to go through what I had to endure. So much more to my story with my Son Sebastian 💙💔
Oh that is so heartbreaking. Thank you for sharing this painful story. Sending our love to you xx
I am very, very saddened to read what they made you do. I am very sorry for your loss and terrible unhuman experience. I am sending all my sisterly live from Rome, Italy
Loving the two videos a week. Just love how you deliver the info to us..
Hi Amanda, thank you so much, you are a great support. Take care 😊💚
You girls make my day when you upload. Lots of love and hugs from Birmingham, England. Stay safe both of you. Thanks for keeping us entertained! 😊❤️
Hi Amber, thank you for your kind words and support, big hugs back over to you in Birmingham, England, take care 😊💚
Thank you for answering questions about things we've wanted to know.
Hi Janie, you are very welcome, thank you for your support. Take care 😊💚
I’ve just discovered this channel, but you ladies are amazing. Sending love for Cali 💚
Welcome BlooGloom 🌹 and thank you for your kind words. Is that California 😎 fabulous place 😍 any questions you may have don't hesitate to ask 😁 take care 💚💚
@@Areyoudyingtoknow Thank you so much 💞😌 And Yes, California! If I come up with a good question, I’ll definitely ask!!
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I'm from America and here there have been what's called " coffin births". Have you ever heard of this? Thank you for all you do.
Hi Who Knows, yes we have heard of coffin births, these are very rear and I have never witnessed one. Thank you for your comments 😊 take care out in America ☺️ 💚💚
That’s not an American thing. It’s a universal thing!
@@Areyoudyingtoknow I always thought a “coffin birth” was more of an old wives tale.
Not very common in America either but it happens like Shanann watts. Its sad.
Love yall teaching
Thanks got the educational videos ! Love you guys! Happy Friday!
Hi Alex lovely to hear from you again 😊 hope you are having a great weekend, take care 😊💚
Always great information.Thanks from western Canada.
Thanks for watching! All the way from Western Canada 🤗💚💚
Good afternoon beautiful ladies and Kalvin. Hope you have a wonderful Memorial weekend.
Hi George, Hope you're Memorial weekend is going well too, take care 😊💚
I’ve just subscribed to your channel and I’m making my way through your videos . When I heard you say TRET and then the comment lol 😆 my dad was from South Shields and I’ve not heard that phrase for 10 yrs since he passed away , so thanks for the memory 😉 Really enjoying every video.
Hi Julie, welcome to the channel ☺️ so glad we brought back a happy memory of your dad, sorry you have lost him 😔 ❤️
South Shields not far from where I was born and bred in Co Durham 😊
Take care 💚💚
Another interesting topic, thank you ❤
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On Sunday, I will be attending a visitation of a woman who was 8 1/2 months pregnant and died in a car accident. She was a fellow Mom in my community. I really don’t know what to expect and am wondering if the baby will be out of the womb laid to rest with mom or not. Sounds to be an open casket and I just wish I knew. I’ll find out Sunday but..Thank you for this.
Oh Ashley, that is so very tragic 😔 we are both so very sorry to heard this please except of deepest condolences. I hope the viewing goes well and you will be ok. I would imagine the baby would have been taken out if an autopsy was required and most likely layed with mum after 😔😔 so so sorry we hope you are ok 🙏💚💚
This may be controversial but my 10 year old daughter insisted that she go with me, knowing beforehand what she might see. She wanted to be there for her friend. This woman was her friends mom and our Girl Scout leader. The baby was place in moms arm and both looked as good as it gets, I believe. It was very sad and very difficult to witness but neither me or my daughter regret going to support the family and her little friend. Thank you for your condolences!
Hi Ashley, thank you for letting us know how the viewing went. We definitely do not think it's controversial that you daughter went along with you to pay here respects too 💚💚 in other cultures children are very much part of the death of family members from a very young age, we don't think it should be hidden away as it part of all our lives. The family would have got a lot of comfort from you both been there. Hope you are both doing ok it is such a very sad time to live through. Sending positive thoughts to you and your daughter 🙏 take good care big hugs from us both 💚💚
Great video as usual ladies.
Hi FJ, thank you so much and for your support 😊💚
very respectful discussion. than k you.
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Such a sensitive topic to discuss. On a second note I’m still “dying” of laughter at the “Tret” comment in the top right screen 🤣🤣
Hi Carol, I have a very unique way of saying things 😂 😂 take care 😊💚
...(Trish here), I can never let something like that slip through. As the ‘editor’ I make sure I always have the last laugh - that’s what friends are for, right!? 🤣🤣 thanks for watching Carol. 🤩
Awesome Queensland chicks doing this!!! You go hard girls!!!
Hi Kathie, thank you so much for you support and kinds words 💚 take care from us both 😊💚
A baby that is conceived is separate no matter how far along she is
Yes, of course, but we still don't remove them. I'm not a surgeon. They stay with their mum unless sometimes when it's an autopsy Thanks for watching xx
I'm with Tracy on this one... Tret may not be a word, neither is 'frit' but it's said alot in the UK. I say both tret and frit. #TeamTracysMadeupWords. Keep up the great videos ladies! Much love ❤❤❤
Hi Jess, thank you for your kind words ☺️ and support in my made up words 🤣🤣 Trish is very much used to my crazy way of talking and she is great at making other understand what I am saying because I can dribble on a bit ...🤦😉 Take care 😊💚
Hang on, hang on, Trish here...what in Earth does Frit mean?? 🤯Jess, you have just blown my mind. Please use it in a sentence...
@@Areyoudyingtoknow so we would say "that really frit me" as in that really frightened me. Frit is just a made up past tense word from frightened 🤣
So, (Trish here) I asked the lovely mortician this morning about frit, and she had a different use... perhaps a difference in dialect? She used it like to waste something to ‘frit’ it away, where we would say fritter. Personally I think Tracy’s just made up a meaning for your made up word. 🤣🤣 I’m going to use it your way and see if she notices 😉
@@Areyoudyingtoknow frit it away is how you would actually use the word. To be honest, I think it's a Lincolnshire thing. (That's a county in the UK) alot of people outside of Lincolnshire have never heard the word frit... Me and Tracy can just make absolute drivvle together (drivvle just means nonsense) Let me know if she notices the word frit 😉
Ladies your comments in this video has made me think and i have a question. I live in the US. If I came to Queensland on a vacation and died during my visit. How would my body get back to my family in the States? What would happen to be?
Hi Barbara, let's hope that doesn't happen but if it did, you could be cremated here and have your ashes flown back over to the USA, but would have to check if your state had any requirement for arrival of ashes. Or your body could be embalmed and sealed in a metallic bag then into a sealed coffin then flown over, again would need to check what your state laws are in your area on receiving human remains. The funeral home that your family have chosen would do all the work this end in Queensland, on finding out what the rules and regulations are in your state so families don't have to stress about that part.
We hope you stay very healthy and safe, take care 😊💚
Loving your videos! Question: Have you ever had to prep a body for a viewing where someone was being viewed in a regular setting as if they were still alive? Ex. I've seen an older lady place at her table playing cards because that's what she loved to do and how she wanted to be remembered and a guy was placed behind the steering wheel of his favorite car.
Hi Tiffany, hope your well ☺️
We know the two cases you are talking about, there is another one you can google it. A guy sitting on his Harley Davidson motorbike in a glass box and the whole thing was buried with him still sitting upright so cool. For that kind of 'I would call' extreme embalming a lot of rods are used under the clothing to keep the bodies in an upright position. I have never be asked to present a body like that only certain things to be placed in they hands and unusual outfits to be dressed in.
Thank you for your question, take care 😊💚
@@Areyoudyingtoknow WOW! No way! I'm going to check that one out. I'm doing great, and thanks for responding. Blessings!
No problem 😊💚
I'm from northumberland in the UK my dad passed away while on holiday in Spain we had him flown bak home but he had to be embalmed over there his death certificate is even in Spanish it cost us 5 grand to have him flown bak home we also had to deal with an international funeral director
Hi Leanne, in beautiful Northumberland 💚
We are so sorry to hear sad news of losing your dad 😔 it does make it harder also been in another country. (This is Tracy here) I totally understand what you and your family went through as my mum was killed in Malta, and we had the same expensive things to go through. She was also embalmed as it's is the rules with aviation when transporting a deceased person international. It is very traumatic at the time too, the fact that you lose you dad in another country but also having to deal with other funeral homes can also be a challenge. Sending hugs to you and your family back in Northumberland. Take care 😊💚
I’m a proper British northerner and I say Tret too! 🤣🤣🤣 xxx
Welcome to the Tret club 🤣🤭 think it is definitely a Northern thing. Take care 😊
Oh Nathan - thank goodness Tracy isn’t the only one - doesn’t make it a word, though 🤷♀️😉
I'm not for sure but have herd that the mother's body will exspell the baby shortly after death.
My brothers wife committed suicide at 5 months pregnant and the baby was taken and put between her legs which no one saw. This was in Florida.
That's very sad.😔 Thank you for sharing.
Interesting but my wish is for no mum and baby to ever be in this situation ..
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I recently attended a funeral where my God Son's wife died in a road accident. She was in her first trimester.
The child was embalmed and placed inside the mother. I'm not sure how that was done with it being so small.
Sorry to hear about the power outage did it affect the refrigerated storage at the mortuary or do you have backup power?
Hi Steve, remember you telling us about your god sons wife, terrible sad. On I can only think if she has an autopsy that the embalmer opened up the cavity to place the baby back in, really not to sure on that one. Take care 😊💚
@@Areyoudyingtoknow I'm sure there must have been a postmortem to determine cause of death. Police were involved lorry driver under investigation think he may have been charged.
I'm not too sure of the exact details. Funeral Director who organised everything was a lovely young woman who worked closely with the family. She said the baby would be treated (that's TREAT in Tracy Speak) and put back inside Mum.
It was a cremation they have a tree in the garden and the ashes were put into the hole when the tree was planted.
Probably right Steve, should would have had an autopsy, so sad. I am sure she was taking good care of 💚
I do have my own language 😉 my husband is always saying is that word from the 'TRACY DICTIONARY' 🤪😂 when he does understand what I say or how I spell 😂 🤦🤷 take care 😊💚
Hi Tracy and Trish, hope you are both well. I’m from Kent in the uk, and I was wondering if you choose to bring a loved one home after they are embalmed, how long can you have them home. Xxxx
Hi Donna, Tracy here I know Kent really well 😁 I have family live there too. To answer your question it depends on how long you want the body home for as to how strong an embalm we do. You can embalm a body to last a few weeks to many years. The longest time I have dealt with is someone going home for a week. Take good care out in beautiful Kent 😘💚
Have you got a most memorable person you have prepared in a good way and the same in a bad way please
Great question.. watch this space!
My sister died in a car wreck just about 2 weeks shy of her due date. It was very tragic 🙏 The funeral director left the decision up to us. My parents opted to leave her baby with her since he passed in uturu if thats the correct term. She also has 4 young kids and it may have been even more tragic for them. Im in the US so it could be different in other parts of the Country or world.
Oh my goodness what an absolute tragic story we are so very sorry to hear this 😔 we have no words only to pass on our deepest condolences to you and your family 🙏🌹 we hope you are all support each other through this very difficult time. Think your parents made a good decision, yes it is the right term.
Please take good care and look after yourself and the family 🌹💚💚
@@Areyoudyingtoknow Thank You so much for your kindness 💙 Bless you.
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What happens if someone is frozen to death?
It preserves the body from decomposition until defrost. ❤️
Can you set a face to smile?
Not on purpose but it happens often 😁 💚😞
Hiya,, Thank you so much for my reply, Its Sha puma wildcat lol,, Am i allowed to ask another question,, My mum passed 2 years ago through cancer, No autopsy was performed .. She was sorta left in a fridge for 9 days without being embalmed or any thing due to no death certificate as her DR was on holiday and had to wait till he returned for it to be signed, She was then embalmed so we were allowed to view her, I went 4 times to visit her with other members of the family who were a lill too nervous to go on their own, My question is, Each time i visited her, her eyes seemed to open a bit more as did her mouth. 1st visit both were closed but by my 4th visit ((5 days after 1st)) eyes were half open as was her mouth,,Any ideas why this happened, to me this was beautiful but other family members were a bit freaked out,,,, Thank you and im so loving 2 posts a week, great stuff ladies xx
You are very welcome ☺️ of course you can asked as many questions as you like.
We are both very sorry for the loss of your mum 😔 hope you are doing ok 💚
If it ok will answer this on another video, it is a good question. Thank you for you support 🤗 take care 😊💚
Oh and...yeah,😏 your name sounds easy when you put it like that🤭🤣🤣🤣
You not supposed to buried a woman with a baby inside her you can place the baby between her leg
We have a video coming out tomorrow 2/12/22 about pregnancy, thanks. ☺️
Ghouls.
I really don't think it's cute to say, "I'm a mortician " and the other person to say, " I'm so and so, and I'm not,.". That's just kind of stupid.
It's not meant to be cute, it's stating the truth so people know who is who in the video. And they're definitely not stupid. Thanks for your comments take care 🙂