Found a month after death
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- Опубликовано: 17 июл 2022
- In this video Tracy answers some questions regarding a person found month after death, how they are removed from the scene, where they are taken and what is left behind. It's a very sad sitauation but one that happens from time to time. Thankfully, there are professionals on hand to remove the person and clean up afterwards.
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This happened with my dad 😢 these types of videos have played a massive part in my healing process. Thank you for sharing this. It makes a massive difference to some people’s lives.
Hi, we are so very sorry to hear 😔 that's very sad. Hope you are doing well 🙏 take good care 💚💚
My dad and his wife were in a residential care facility where every morning they had to hang a sign out that said, "We are fine," or something like that. If the sign wasn't up they would get a wellness check. I thought that was brilliant. Sure enough their neighbor passed and the sign wasn't there and the management got right in. We need to take better care of each other. I just love you ladies.
Well said yes we definitely do need to take more care of each other. That's a lovely story you just shared thank you 😘❤️❤️
I've worked as a forensic photographer back 20+ years ago and seen many things.
2 things that this career has given me is an appreciation of life, right down to the smallest attributes. And no matter how, when and where we go, we all must go. Our bodies are our vessel in this life only and it is made of blood, flesh and bone just like every other living creature. So please don't worry to much about death or what happens after. Live for now. ❤
Hi thank you for sharing what a great job. I was in the process of doing that job just before my visa come through to move to Australia. Yes we agree life is for living now 💕
Take care and have a wonderful weekend 💚💚
When i was Suicidal, if i had have managed to go through with it, it would have been at least 2 months before someone found me... Due to being alone. I had no family, and i had no friends.
We both hope you are doing well and seek help if you ever need to 🙏 from your you tube friends take good care 😘💚💚
What a sad indictment of our society today that people can lie unfound for weeks and months.
Hi, yes it is very sad 😢 💚
I have so much respect for your job and those like you this profession takes special people.
Thank you so much 🙏😙💚💚
Hello sweethearts !! I had been involved with several decedent's that were found dead for one month up to three months. One cannot describe what bodied that death was that length of time AND the weather/temperature at the time of death. The sights and smells are indescribable. People are curious and that is normal. People are fortunate if they never see or smell such things. As usual, this video was great. You have a wonderful as to how you explain these things. It shows the compassion and kindness that you possess. Take care and God bless.
Thank you so much Michael 🙏 you are so right, you can never unsee or forget that smell ever 🥺 like I have said before thank you for all the work you did in helping others 🙏 we just could not do it. Take good care and have a wonderful Christmas and New year 🎄🥳💚
At work, they do final checks before a coffin goes for cremation or burial. The coffin is opened by the funeral director and an assistant to have one last check that it is in-fact the correct person and that the ID tags match the name on the coffin. I witnessed a gentleman who was exactly as you described. Deceased for a month, no embalming - liquid in the coffin, the yellow staining you mentioned.
Hi Kayleigh, yes it's the same in most funeral homes or at least it should be, were many checks are done by staff members to make sure we have the correct person in the correct coffin for the correct service. Thank you for your comments 😊 take care 💚💚
My brother was released from jail October 10th and never called anybody the next day and was reported missing soon after. He was older 49. In bad health. He was homeless. He asked me to pick him up from jail that night but I refused. 2 months later December 10th his body was found so I’m certain he died the same night he got out. He was found in a wooded area not far from where his last known location. Still waiting on autopsy and toxicology reports. I can’t stand the fact that if I’d been there for him that night and picked him up he could still be alive or at least not died alone in the woods by himself. I will never forgive myself no matter how many people tell me it’s not my fault. But I’ve been searching trying to find out what he may have looked like after 2 months in the woods. I shouldn’t but I want to know. I thought of asking the coroner for the pictures but idk if I need to see it with my mental state right now. I want to see what a person might look like after that long but not really see my brother in that state If that makes any sense.
Oh my goodness we are so very sorry to hear this 😔
Please don't be to hard on yourself and we do hope you can seek help if you are struggling to cope with all this. Please take good care 🙏❤️
My aunt had become a recluse and had had no relationship with my mother and my uncle. A neighbor called my uncle and let him know mail was piling up at my aunt’s house and they had not seen my aunt in weeks. The police were called to do a welfare check. They broke down the door and found my aunt dead in the bedroom. She was so badly decomposed that the funeral home told my mother and uncle that the smell was so bad they couldn’t bring her into the funeral home. They cremated her remains. It was so sad.
On so very sorry to hear such a sad story 😞 ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for answering my questions!!! I appreciate the information….hope you ladies are doing well ❤️
You are very welcome Melissa. We are both well thanks you 😊💚💚
We had a tenant in Japan who was about 40 years old that deceased in his unit. He was deceased about 6 weeks before being found. He kept paying his rent with direct deposit. The neighbor above complained about the smell, and the agency came around to be greeted with flies., so they called the police. It was summer and the unit was double glazed.The agency sent us photos of the body stain, and he had seeped through his bedding, flooring down to the subfloor. Cost a fortune as the unit needed a complete refurb. We had to go back over to inspect the unit before signing off on the refurb; really creepy. Due to Japanese law the new tenant needed to be told why the previous tenant left, so couldn’t get a tenant for ages. Police could not determine cause of death and put it down to natural causes although suicide is common in Japan. Really sad as we used to wave to him and say hi.
😔 very sad story 😞 poor man, thank you for sharing 💚💚
Same thing happened to my aunt, Dad’s sister, quite a few years ago. Found on Christmas Day. When she didn’t open the door to my Dad, we rang police who then found her, deceased, probably for a few days. Police were wonderful and so was the man from the coroner’s who came to collect her. We were so grateful A sad Christmas Day.
Oh Kathy that is a sad thing to happen. It's great you had lovely helpful people around you.big hugs xx🥰
This happened this week to man across from me, he was dead a few days, he was a recluse but local shopkeeper who delivered things asked police to do a welfare check and they found him deceased
Just stumbled upon this channel and I find all this stuff morbidly fascinating.
I also enjoy the channel "ask a mortician". She, as well as y'all, have such respect for the passed individuals, but such good info too.
Thanks.
Hello and welcome to the channel 🙂 thank you for your kind words 🙏💚💚
Melissa, I’m so sorry that happened to your Uncle and your family.
I think it’s really sad that some people pass alone 🥲
Sometimes, life can be cruel....
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Ty so much ❤️
I love your many intros! It is so sad that some people die alone and are not found for a while
It is very sad 😞
Thank you take care 💚
I love you two! All your videos are so interesting. It is a comfort to know what happens after our loved ones pass. Thank you soooo much!
Awww thanks so much 🙏 you are always so kind 🥰❤️❤️
Thank you for the answers. I try to get my far away children to call every once in a while so I don't melt in my home.
You u know what children are like 🥴 but it's always great to hear from them so you know they ok too 😉❤️❤️
Poor man… I feel for the family. What a horrible thing to experience
Gos bless you Tracy… you are a godsend and so appreciated❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
Yes the poor families 😞 it's heartbreaking.
Take care 😘💚💚
I love your channel. You answer all our questions we asked. Love you ladies ❤️
🥰🥰 thank you so much 🙏💚💚
Thank you beautiful ladies for your content. I'm from US and I found my grandmother deceased in her home. She was found halfway in the hallway and bathroom. She was there about 2.5 weeks and it was in the summer no air conditioning many flies. She never wanted company or even neighbors checking on her. She was pretty much liquid jaw bone showing the funeral home asked if he can use a shovel to help get her in a bag because such the condition she was in. The smell reminded me of rotten fruit and also annoying like it wouldn't leave. But I made a concoction to rid the stains and smell from her closet being all the liquid drain into her walk in closet. What I did I poured baking soda all over it, I laid wash clothes on the baking soda poured peroxide on the clothes and covered every space with trash bags and weighted items. Took the smell right out.
Oh wow what a story 😯 sorry for the loss of your grandmother 😔❤️
Yes it's very difficult to get rid of that smell sometimes impossible but you did well to get the smell out.
Thank you for sharing your story, take good care ❤️❤️
This happend to my sisters husband. He was found 5 days after death in summer heat about +35 celcius. It was massive heart attack and He was swollen, blackend and leaked badly. My sister and they 6 year old son found Him. I cleaned a lot of that mess and I never ever forget the smell and the colour of the bodily fluids on the floor.
Oh no so very sorry to hear such a sad story of your brother-in-law 😞
That would have been such a difficult job cleaning up after his death. Sending you our best please take good care 💚💚
Hello from Texas! You two are absolutely fantastic! 😍
Hi Collin in Texas ☺️
Thank you for your kind words 🙏💚💚
My Brother had been dead for three weeks before his body was found. The police had to break in because the neighbours were complaining of a foul smell coming from his flat. A post mortem was proformed but his body was so decomposed that a cause of death could not be found. We were told by the funeral directors that were unable to view and say and say our goodbyes to him, it was Heartbreaking for all his family.
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother and how things occurred. I can't begin to know how difficult this was for you.
I found my aunt deceased and from what we could tell by the mail in the box and from the Last time I saw her and her neighbor saw her we came up with 5 days she had been gone it was horrible to witness I just can't put it into words how bad it was it pretty much scarred me for life it sure makes you think about things for sure
Oh David, that is awful. I hope you got the support you needed at the time.🥰 Thanks for sharing xx
@@Areyoudyingtoknow no I didn't have any support or anything I just went on and done the best I could and trying to forget about it
We are really sorry to hear that. We hope you are ok now 💚
Great video as always. You ladies look beautiful! 😊
Thank you so much Rhiannon 💚 💚
Intresting topic , would be good to have a segment on speaking to those professional cleaners who clean up the deceased cases .
Onto it Andy 👍
Luv you gals! You remind me of me with my best friends! GREAT honest content!!!
Thank you so much!! 🥰🥰
So, the poor man basically turned into clots of watered down gelatin...
It's a natural process but yep that's pretty much how we would all go if left. 🤷
Yup
I've read many comments which answered the questions about what a dead human body smelled like. From what I understand it's a very distinctive smell and a very bad one as well. When I found a dead large chimpmunk at work in a trash can I thought I was going to throw up. The smell was absolutely horrid. It was a sickly sweet smell and was very strong. I never smelled anything like it. I thought that perhaps this was similar to the smell of a human body which was deceased.
Hi lovely, yes that's exactly what it smells like 😳 sweet and sickly! Not pleasant at all. Take good care 💚💚
When my husband suddenly passed we had his services here at home he also requested if he passed to be cremated 2 weeks after his services he was cremated me and my kids went to say our last Good byes and watch till they put him in the crematory from the moment we got there a stench was really bad upon opening the door to the funeral home when we were escorted to the crematory l knew where the smell was coming from it was my coming from my husband the smell was intense we could not tolerate it l believe it was because they did not take anything out in my husband body he had all his organs in him it is not a smell that goes away it lingered on me all that Day
Just watched this whilst eating lunch and it didn’t put me off my food!! (Is there something wrong with me?) very sad story but the explanation was on point as per usual ❤️
Hi James, nothing wrong with that at all. Thank you for your kind words too 😊💚💚
Strong stomach, eh? If you were watching the actual decomposing body, you probably WOULD be “off your food”!
Thank you. Stay warm. It is supposed to be 89°F tomorrow.
Thank you we will
🥵 stay hydrated in that heat 💚
Lol I absolutely love you ladies and your accent o my it's my absolute favorite in the world and when you said my name Melissa to the lady who sent in the question I was man I swear that accent too cool again love you ladies and all your videos as well!!!!💜💜💜💜
You are so welcome 🤗
Funny lots of people say I am hard to understand 😉 Thank you so much for all your kind words and support 🙏🥰❤️❤️
The youtube channel Crime Scene Cleaning covers this topic very well the body literally turns to fats and liquids and gets absorbed into the floor or into the bed or sofa or under the wall or under the tiles and beyond meaning they have to cut out and treat the contaminated areas as any remaining fluid trapped underneath will continue to stink.
👍thanks for sharing.
Oh no. 🤢 God bless you Tracy and colleagues 🙏♥️🌹
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Hiiii beauties ! Watching some posts again❤️
Lovely to hear from you darlin 🥰
I have another question thanks for doing a video on the last one :) Sorry if it sounds a bit nuts, but at 5.50 there is like a toilet inside the mortuary. Is it a toilet cistern on the wall? Is it for convenience in case someone feels sick or something I'm just wondering what a toilet is doing there? I mean it's not very private if Tracey needs to use it, but I guess if the doors are locked maybe that's okay.
🤣 well spotted it's not in use it's old. I definitely would not be doing anything in that 😳🤣
Thanks take care 😊💚
I’m curious about something..now in the US when a person is found like you described or has committed suicide, after the removal of the body there are cleaning companies that can be called to deal with the mess left over. I hate that this poor fellow had to clean this himself! Do you have cleaning or sanitizing services available for situations like this?
Hi, yes we do have specialised cleaners for these kind of jobs here in Australia. So hopefully the family used one of these.
Thank you for your question take care 😊💚
Are they able to be viewed? How can you work on a decomposed individual like this? Must be very hsrd.
Hi Nancy, we've touched on this in a few of our videos. We recommend they aren't viewed if they are too far gone but the families sometimes insist and we don't stop them. Just prepare and support them for what they will see. 🥰
I respect you girls a lot for speaking to us my mand is so a rest of what happens l lost my mam to blood cancer
So very sorry to hear you have lost your mum 😞 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹❤️❤️
Can you explain what would happen if someone would pass away from a drowning? My friend passed away recently from a sudden kayak drowning and his body wasn't found till days later. Went missing on a Saturday and was found on the Monday. Because he was in water for so long, what would happen to the body? And does that affect the family's decision in the funeral planning? Cremation instead of embalming?
Hi Meagan, We have done videos on this before. The body could be in advance stages of decomposition after a few days in water, skin slip would be happening meaning the top layers of skin will be pealing away a bit like really bad sunburn. The skin underneath would be wet and slippery this is hard to cosmitise over. You could embalm the body this will help dry out the skin. Sometimes if water is really cold it may even preserve the body a little so might not have advanced stages of decomposition. It is hard for me to say exactly what state the deceased was in at the time as a lot of factors need to be taken into account. That's a very sad story and we are sorry to hear this news, we hope the family are doing ok sending our deepest condolences to them 😔 thank you for your question I hope that helps a little, take care 💚💚
They're programmed devices you can wear which at the press of a button you can notify someone if you had a fall or wasn't feeling well so you can get the help you need
Hi Geriann, yes we have them here in Australia too, it's a shame we all don't carry one. Take care 😊💚💚
Usually we put a bead of silicone on the hull of the coffin which forms a sealed gasket under the lid to further seal in any odours.
Thank you for sharing 🙂❤️
I told you a few weeks ago about a body being recovered from an apartment block across from mine.
2 CID 4 Uniform police, a scenes of crime ofgicer there for a couple of hours before the police contract funeral directors came to remove the body.It looked quite dramatic! I think its standard practice that if a death is unexpected there's an investigation involving police and coroner.
Turns out it was a natural death.
Quite sad the person had nobody visiting. Neighbours alerted police to the smell.
I have family and friends who I speak to regularly and I see and hear my neighbours regularly. Tell them when I'm working away or going home to North Yorks they keep an eye on the apartment.
I doubt I'd be left to devompose.
Sad story must have been awful for his brother!
Interesting topic handled as usual with tact and sensitivity 😊.
Hi Steve. Sounds very sad and a dramatic exit for that poor person. 😔I reckon someone would miss you pretty quickly. We'd know if you hadn't been in touch for a while! Stay safe though... 🥰
Hi Tracy, This maybe going off tràck abit. My mother passed away two months and she had cancer which she was going through chemo therapy. Which was very sad and still coming to terms with her gone.
My question is that, at the viewing my mother was heavily perfumed and I found this it quite confronting. Just wondering why would that be.Is this is because of the Chemo medication, maybe? As my sister and I were wondering.Queensland, 🇦🇺
Hi Susan, so very sorry to hear you have lost you mother, please accept our deepest condolences to you and your family 🙏 it is a tough journey we travel when we lose our mum's 💚
Not to sure but some mortician can sometimes get carried away with spraying a lot of perfume for no reason but just to make the person smell nice, then over do it. Because normally after a prep to clear any bad smells if they was any and the body is washed and cleaned there is not normal a smell, even with people that have had chemo treatment. Sorry your experience that, please remember to keep talking and sharing your struggles with either family, friends or professional counselor, believe me it will help. Please take good care sending hugs your way 💚💚
This is exactly how I found this 43 year old male in his hotel room he was fully clothed assume of a dose or suicide in the hotel room he was probably just says for 24 hours he was hard and stiff was hard for me to move him
That would have been awful for you. Thanks for sharing! Take care🙂
How would you fix their bloating faces?
I’ve seen pictures of “floaters”,and the faces don’t resemble that person at all.
It's a process of embalming and massage to move fluid (oedema) out of the body. 😊💚
Very interesting. Wondered bow it was done
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This happened to my dad also but thankfully he was only alone for a few days before he was found. He was travelling around Australia after recently retiring and had a massive heart attack and when he was found he was face down in a crouching position as he had fallen of his chair in his caravan! All his blood had pooled to his face and head but the funeral home did a remarkable job of making him as presentable as they could so we were able to have one last visit with him the night before his funeral. It was him but you could tell that they had "patched" him up with makeup and other tricks so we could say our goodbyes. By the time we had the viewing it was almost 2 weeks post death as he died in remote Southwest Queensland right near the corner of the borders to NSW and NT, so it took an extra-long time recover his remains and do what the coroner needed to do and then have him returned home to us in NSW.
Oh wow we are so very sorry to hear 😔 sending you our deepest condolences 🌹🌹
So glad the funeral home give him so much care ❤️❤️
I'm so sorry to say this and I mean no disrespect nor am I trying to make light of the situation but I've got to say that I've had a really good laugh... I am dyslexic and try as I might I couldn't read anything other than "Deceased OF the Month" instead of "deceased FOR a month" and I was watching this video wondering how one joins that club... I'd heard of "employee of the month" but I couldn't figure out what one had to do to become the "Deceased of the Month".... turns out it was just my eyes that couldn't figure it out. LOL!
😂😂 to funny 💚💚
Very interesting
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Hi ladies, Hope you are doing well! Tacy how have you coped with seeing bodies in these late decomposed states? I see some really "tough" pictures in my embalming book, and even though I can handle it, it is still unsettling to see. does it ever get easier with time in the field? or were there certain coping mechanisms you used? Thanks again!
Hi Samantha, we are both well thank you. It does get a little easier over time but somedays I need to walk away for 5/10 minutes to compose myself and prepare mentally when it's extreme. I always remind myself too, why I am I doing this job why do I put myself through such horror somedays and the answer is because theses people can no longer help themselves nor can the family help, I need to make this traumatic journey a little easier for the family and someone has to care and be able to look after that person. Always talk to other work colleagues and seek help if you need it never bottle anything up are you will never cope with seeing such things. I hope that helps you 🌹 take care 😘💚💚
@@Areyoudyingtoknow yes very helpful! 🌻☀️
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If a person is found in that shape is there bio hazard people in Australia that come clean properties and cars and cut up and remover walls and floors near and where the body was found.
Like is America
There is a RUclips channel Crime Scene Cleaning that was pretty interesting I would also watch.
Hi, yes we do have forensic cleaners here in Australia, do a similar kind of job. Thank you for your question take care 😊💚
evening ladies it's still hot here in the UK 🇬🇧 and I'm melting also what happens if someone dies in the hot weather what will happen
Hi Natalie, stay hydrated during the heat wave in Europe especially the UK we are just not used to it.
Well it depends if the person died at home and not found the heat will accelerate the decomposition. But if died in a hospital or nursing home the body will be transfered to a mortuary for cold storage so nothing unusual they.
Thanks for your question take care 😊💚
My sons father died suddenly 10 mths ago..5 days post we were still able to have open casket without embalming...cremation..I took lot pics for my son, and just looked at a few recently..I noticed all around his head..now didnt notice nor even look then..think we were just to much in shock and I know they did have plastic undergarmets...but in pics side I could see was serosangious type drainage from his head. His shoulder area.....Nothing hands, but notice 1 finger had become to decompose...but ironically there was no odor, so were the products that good? Or he was maintaining well? The seepage through skin pores, was that a purge then, decomp? I a nurse so have always been around dead bodies....
I will say, have many relatives pass...and only 1 was sudden..and been on the other side a million times..but nothing prepares for the....news
Hi, it was I think oedema. Fluids building up under the skin, natural start to the body breaking down then seeping from the poured of the skin until the pressure gets too much then we go into skin slip where the skin splits open from the building up of fluid. The coffin or casket would most likely have absorbed autopsy power sprinkled under the body this absorbs any odour. Hope that helps. You take good care ❤️❤️
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I so appreciate you taking the time to answer me...I did notice on hands, more so fingers what probably was skin slippage, appearance....
Thank you for the information I think I would rather be cremated
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Just out of curiosity approximately how "fresh" are the bodies you receive to embalm or in other words on average how long after a person dies do you receive that body to embalm?
Average usually 2 or 3 days.
Oh you've got it easy. We receive our bodies on average 2 - 6 weeks on average after death. So bodies of this nature for us over here generally speaking presents problems for embalming if we can embalm at all😮😮😢.
What causes body to mummify vs decompose?
Hi, embalming is one. But there are many other factors such as temperature, where the body is cause of death the list goes on. Some many factors play a part. 💚💚
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Hi beautiful lady’s
Hi Briety, have a wonderful day 💚💚
Do the dead cry
No I have never seen that. 💚💚