I Don't know how but the older I Get the more my friends Get into Relationship's start Dating someone or Get married and I believe I'm Gonna Die single
Did my period finally arrive? Is my fly open? Is my hair messed up? Do I look fat in this jacket? Am I covering my bum? -thought that run through my head
I have a friend who I view as very attractive but she’s never really been in a proper long term relationship before. I think the reason a lot of people are single for a longer amount of time is because they choose to not be in a relationship. Either because they don’t find anyone they’d want to be in a relationship with or because they just don’t feel like being in a relationship at all. The right people will show up in different places in time, and one of them will probably the long lasting love of your life
If you don't get compliments, it doesn't mean you're hot or ugly. I've met lots of beautiful women and I haven't complimented them. A compliment says more about the person who gives the compliment than about you. Some people just want to be nice, others are simps.
@@thewildhealer541 yeah me too but I don't think I'm good looking...Idk why...even if some people say that I look good, stare at me etc, I still think I'm ugly
I was walking down the street this morning feeling confident after watching this video. Everyone was looking at me and it made me feel like a handsome prince! They weren't looking at my face though, so I thought they were just being shy. Until I got back home and saw my Jeans' zipper was still open...
"You don't stay single for long" *me being single for 23 years and The last time someone confessed was ages ago.* *update:* 26 years old and still single.
Lol don't count your baby and childhood years as being single! That's cheating!.. Yes I know technically, you didn't have anyone but you weren't really supposed to. You should start counting on the years you actually TRIED getting a date hehe.
Hey guess what, to that person reading this, yes you, your gorgeous and beautiful and great and awesome and amazing and inspirational and deserve the world, I don’t even have to know you to know that. Keep it up!
Alec Lu not necessary, most of the people who don’t get much compliments deserve the most compliments. That’s my motto! It’s seriously simple to not have to know them, they seem nice and I love complimenting people here and there! And if you have nothing else to do then insult people, then leave. This is a place for peace.
This is what I’ve realized a while back is that sometimes the insecurities we see in ourselves when we look in the mirror don’t even cross anyone’s mind when they are talking with you. So don’t worry about it so much just be yourself and you’ll find someone will find you attractive.
Have you made an efford to find anyone? I lost my virginity by being raped, and after that I was afraid of men more or less knowingly I put up guards towards men, i didnt have sex willingly until I was 30years old, after that Ive meet six or seven really nice guys and a few really bad ones too Im 37, obese, Intovert( like last six years Ive been home alone like in quarantee( only go out to buy food or, medical appointments, and visit my parents) with no job, but lots of hobbies, and creative thinking is my middle name, Im a booknerd with glasses. But there have been ppl who wanted my number just because I walked by and apparently glowed to them( I think that I was probably sweaty)
@@jayamilapersson4030 I'm sorry that happened to you. I am in a somewhat similar situation, and I'm wondering if you have any advice for getting over the fear of men?
The point about being intimidatingly attractive also applies to whether or not you are single. A lot of people don't try to get a date with someone they consider out of their league, so don't get too down!
Ashley Bogdan I’ve been hurt a lot over the years, to the point that this is probably the true reason why I am currently single. I don’t trust people very easily at all anymore, I get plagued with the thoughts that deep down they only care about themselves and I only matter to serve and satisfy them. I am so tired of being hurt and f’ed over. I see my brother- he is truly a great genuine caring person, a wonderful father, and husband to his wife. He has been my reminder in life that good men can actually exist. It’s hard because our painful experiences can F with our mindsets, and I try to not let other people’s mistakes cloud my judgement towards new people because it’s not fair for them obviously. While it is so hard to trust after all the hurt, I try to bear in mind there are technically some really good people like my brother, so keep an open (but still cautious! Lol) mind!
0:42 1. You dont get alot of compliments 1:02 2. When you do, it feels insincere 1:30 3. Strangers stare at you 1:52 4. People gravitate towards you 2:11 5. Others might act differently around you 2:37 6. People are surprised by your insecurities 3:02 7. Others tend to have strong feelings for you 3:26 8. You have alot of dating prospects
@@rebeccaeverett8957 I apologise if this sounds mean in anyway but I don't think what you said was the best response. Maybe you weren't trying to be mean, but it came out that way. I'm assuming that you don't know Selena in real life, so what you are saying isn't right. Try to think about how what you say can be viewed. I'm not trying to be hurtful in anyway, I just want to support people who may need it.
Selena, I'm sure that you are attractive. I've heard someone say that the most insecure people are the most beautiful. Remember that no matter what, you are stunning! I know I'm just a random person on the internet but I wish you the best! Have a nice day/night!
People at my school: Stares at my friend because she attractive People at my school: Stares at me because I make evil nun and chungus jokes and has a weird obsession with drawing cancer zodiac sign along with smiley faces and the word checkmate
The black Beauty i’m 20 and in my first relationship and i consider myself pretty. trust me if you’ve never been in a relationship that doesn’t mean you’re unattractive. someday you will find someone who appreciates you for you.
It doesn't necessarily means you are attractive, but struggling to find someone to date is a sign of unatractivenes. Usually guys have to make the first move anyway, but if you're always being reject, this is a sign, and when I say "always", I don't mean 1 successful attempt after 5 rehections, because this happens quite a lot for normal guys, but when you try 10, 15, 20 times and nothing...well, bad news
Rafael S. i used to look horrible one guy said i look like a cow’s asshole and now i’m dating a model. i got rejected many times in the past. things turn around if you’re going through puberty don’t worry things can change. if someone told me that a few years ago i wouldn’t have worried so much.
Physc2Go:"Think about your most attractive freind." Me:*Thinks about my most attractive freind.* Physc2Go:"Do you always gush about how attractive they look?" Me"YES!" Physc2Go:"No,probubly not!" Me:😅
Here’s the truth: you’re more attractive than you think because you’ve never seen your own face ... just photos and reflections. This video was obviously targeted at already “conventionally attractive” individuals but you can be more beautiful simply by smiling often and carrying yourself with good posture. No, no one has ever been lost in my eyes nor have I ever been in a relationship, but I’m becoming more beautiful as I change my habits and become healthier and happier.
Listening to this made my heart basically stop because a lot of these apply to me. People tend to talk to me a lot and, despite being introverted, I make friends surprisingly easily. I feel like it may have been amplified this year because, after quarantine, I felt the need to stop looking like a burlap sack doll of muffins in a baggy hoodie and have been taking much better care of myself. It’s honestly really trippy to realize I might be pretty because I’m blind and can’t really tell if I’m good looking or not. Of course, I’ve felt my face before and have a general idea of my appearance, though people tend to fight about what color my eyes are, I don’t really have a concept of weather or not that’s pretty, y’know? I’ve had people describe what I look like to me before, but it’s typically a friend or family member like my dad, grandma, or seatmate in one of my classes, so I’ve always thought being told I’m pretty was just someone being nice. I’m feeling a little high now thanks to this video and I think I’ll walk with my back straight and my chin up today.
i feel like i have the hardest bitch face when walking about but in reality i’m trying my best not to spasm and explode before getting to where i need to be
People say I look like a bully...Idk what they try to say maybe I look like I'm gonna beat the shit out of someone (I believe I'm the sweetest kind of person)😌
I hate my unibrow, people make fun of me because of my girl facial hair, people make fun of my unibrow, I have a big head small brain, I don't have front hair (forgot the name) my nose is big, my head is fat not round, im fat myself, my hair looks like bunch of rat tails put together, my lips are fat, my eyes look disgusting, my thighs are too big, my arms have too much fat, my legs have too much fat, my freckles look like red paint splat all over me, I have alot of moles, my eyelashes art short, my stitches my my face look choppy, a chunk of my nose is missing, my feet are too large, my voice sounds like a 2 year old boy, my neck makes a double chin, my eyebags are dark, my teeth are kinda yellow, my gums bleed alot, my teeth are crooked, my smile looks like a trash bag, my whole entire face is the shape of a trash bag, I have chubby cheeks, my eyes look dirty and messed up, how the heck am I attractive?
Mel M That is just sexist. How is that rude and disrespectful? You’re judging people based on their gender which is just wrong. Should I, a guy, just put on a wig, say I’m a girl and say you have nice tits for your own reaction? So sexist
It's okay! Friends take up all that extra time you could be reading or watching your favorite shows. They require a lot of energy with their conversations, texts and going... outside. Just be your own best friend! You'll have lots in common! No concerns about talking behind your back! The talking to yourself will keep those other FAKE friends away! Yay, I'm helping others! Oh, better stop before they try to friend me.
One sign you're unattractive. Is that people tend to assume you're wrong or don't know what you're talking about? It happens to me quite often even though I'm right. This isn't denial. They realize that after they find out they're wrong. But what I have to say is never considered important or taken at face value.
I want a bf or a person who likes me..... But no one except a few do... People tend to stay away due to my dark skin colour(I am wheatish tho... U know wheatish +a bit of a chocolate shade)
That's literally my life motto. I try to compliment everyone I think has nice features or is wearing something I like because nobody does it to me and I don't want others to have the same experience as I do lmao
It means your love language is probably words of affirmation, but most people only compliment when something is irregular. Note to this thread: don’t drop someone as a friend just because they don’t gush about you. Now if they don’t appreciate you as a friend or treat you right, yeah no, but most people’s love language isn’t words of affirmation, so not a lot of people are going to express like their love language is words of affirmation
basically the purpose of this video is to build unwanted over self confidence we all honestly need over anxiety in almost every situation. Thanks psych
To everyone who’s single: *Being single doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive! Being single isn’t bad at all, we just prefer to focus on ourself and you don’t have to feel obligated to find a partner because society says so- it’s better if they find you, because when you’re looking for a partner, that means your settling for just that when someone better will come along and you’ll know it. Just focus on yourself first, heck you don’t even need a partner if you don’t want one! Do whatever you want because it’s your life!*
Yeah, and I don't like that. People should learn that being ugly isn't a crime, it doesn't make you less of a person than attractive people and it doesn't matter overall. Videos like this only further reinforce the idea that appearance is everything. That "everyone is beautiful" stuff is bullshit - a lot of people aren't attractive physically and that's okay, because looks shouldn't be all we see in people.
wow, so apparently i'm ugly and everyone hates me edit: oh damn, this comment got over 1k likes and I didn't even realize until now, it's always the stupid comments that you don't even think before posting that get tons of likes lol
I feel ya even though I’ve been in a relationship since June 8th, I still feel ugly because he didn’t make the first move and nobody made the first move for me EVER and he’s my second boyfriend so I hope he’s my soulmate
Alternate title: how to trick yourself into thinking you're attractive. (edit:Damn you guys are harsh on yourself.I was just making a joke. I guarantee you,you look better than you actually think you do. It's been proven strangers see you 20% more attractive than you see yourself bc they don't see the flaws you see in yourself bc the best parts about you distract them from the flaws. Hell i swear i have wonky eye's but i don't give a sh*t. bc i know my hair is f**king sick.)
Strangers: *watching me walk down the street.* Me: "I must be attractive." Also me: *a stain in the back of my pants.* (Edit: didn't expect this comment to get so many likes, I appreciate it though. Thanks.)
Damn ittttt!!! 🙀 except for 4 and 8 all rest of the points are TRUE for me. And "attractiveness can be intimidating" was an eye opener for me. I do feel like I find it hard to make friends with other women. I had a job where I noticed that fellow teachers started wearing makeup after I entered. And I do feel fellow women and friends see me as a threat often. I had no idea why before now.
Domo lol, I’ve gotten a sugar daddy, a guy into feet, some random chick sending me sexual gifs, another chick sending me inappropriate mirror selfies, you name it lol
Can we all just agree that 80% of the people here are introverts? Through this channel, I feel like home😭❤ Edit: Ambiverts can be part of the 80%! Everybody should be at home
Because you might be still too young in terms of age and maturity I'm 22 and i think i can date woman when I'll be 30 now it just feels like i can't handle the date thing i need to become mature first lol
If you are guy, lets say 3 girls are sitting at a bench giggling. When you pass them and they change their attitude to just sitting saying nothing. Or girls sitting being silent and when they see you they start giggling.
Bruh same. So many people have told me about the first time they saw me and it’s usually me walking around campus with my head down. And I’m like ah, yes, that’s how I avoid eye contact and any possible human interaction because I’m awkward and have a n x i e t y.
Which other Psych2Go videos have you seen? Comment below.
Oof. A lot
Too many to count 😂
Almost all 😍
All of them. I need to go to sleep.
all the ones in april 2020 - june 2020
i went here to stroke my ego not to feel even uglier
HAHHAHA
YES
Same 😔😔😔😔
😂😂😂😂😂😂 This is exactly what I was thinking oh my gosh best comment
i came for hopeful validation and was only hurt further lmao
Mirza F Taher SAME 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
“When strangers look at you”
So that guy in the white van thought I was cute?
😂😂
Imagine if the guy in the white van doesn't even want to look at you ...
😂🤣😂
Definitely
man you be geting out their
“When strangers look at you.”
Yea the baby in the grocery store definitely thought I was hot
Thanks for making me laugh.
I'm dying lmao-
Hello in fact babies stare at the people they find beautiful !
XD
@@mireillelabeille9962 Exactly!
Shrek closing book: Like thats ever gonna happen
That, my friend, is an underrated compliment.
Also Shrek: What a load of... *flushes toilet*
Some.... BODY ONCE TOLD ME!
LOL
I Don't know how but the older I Get the more my friends Get into Relationship's start Dating someone or Get married and I believe I'm Gonna Die single
😂
‘You don’t get a lot of compliments’
Wow, I’m a supermodel.
Wow I'm an ugly person
(I'm saying that I get alot of compliments for my green eyes lol)
When you're male:
I havent laughed for a week. Until now. Thank you
@@marze6292 I was what
@@afoxcatartvideos4877 uh? I don't understand sorry
"When strangers look at you"
Me: They're judging me. They're deeeeefinitely judging me.
Thats how I feel😅
SAME OMG
same
Me: Do I have a wedgie :0
Did my period finally arrive? Is my fly open? Is my hair messed up? Do I look fat in this jacket? Am I covering my bum?
-thought that run through my head
“You don’t stay single for too long”
Me: *been single for too long*
By looking at your pic youre beautiful!
False perception. I think some ppl are just oblivious to others' feelings
Me: Always been single
*NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP*
I have a friend who I view as very attractive but she’s never really been in a proper long term relationship before. I think the reason a lot of people are single for a longer amount of time is because they choose to not be in a relationship. Either because they don’t find anyone they’d want to be in a relationship with or because they just don’t feel like being in a relationship at all. The right people will show up in different places in time, and one of them will probably the long lasting love of your life
"you don't get a lot of compliments"
Me: suddenly I'm ✨ attractive✨
Can relate.
@ Y/N you an army?...i am one 😁💜
If you don't get compliments, it doesn't mean you're hot or ugly. I've met lots of beautiful women and I haven't complimented them. A compliment says more about the person who gives the compliment than about you. Some people just want to be nice, others are simps.
@@Neo-Reloaded true. Though I've gotten a lot of compliments on my hair
Nobody:
Me: *comes here to get even the tiniest bit of validation*
*most people
I feel further depressed after watching the video.
So did I
I did the same but then realised how even this didn’t help and now will go back to starving myself lol
The poll is literally this comment section lmao
"A lot of people stare at you"
**Me with anxiety and I feel like everyone is looking at me on public and it makes me uncomfortable**
Accurate
H_nta1 M_st3r *me, a person that looks extremely gay*
There are alot of strangers who stare at me but not because they find me attractive but something else. Plus I'm ugly as heck.
This is exactly what I'm thinking T.T
Me
I was feeling confident until they said “you probably dated a lot of people”
Yeah that one got me too lol
My count so far is 0.
I know I'm good looking. Still at 0 dates because I grew up with crippling social anxiety and lack of confidence.
@@sunnishae5047 same
@@thewildhealer541 yeah me too but I don't think I'm good looking...Idk why...even if some people say that I look good, stare at me etc, I still think I'm ugly
I was walking down the street this morning feeling confident after watching this video. Everyone was looking at me and it made me feel like a handsome prince! They weren't looking at my face though, so I thought they were just being shy.
Until I got back home and saw my Jeans' zipper was still open...
Oof 😂💔
You must have an absolute monster down there
@@leonrussell9607 some people really can see the bright side of everything huh...
Oh lawd-
😂😂😂😂
"You don't stay single for long"
*me being single for 23 years and The last time someone confessed was ages ago.*
*update:* 26 years old and still single.
Marry me
Lol don't count your baby and childhood years as being single! That's cheating!.. Yes I know technically, you didn't have anyone but you weren't really supposed to. You should start counting on the years you actually TRIED getting a date hehe.
Very Relatable ...
@@svasianfilipiname6603 I never tried, I am so shy and guys never approach me lol
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo 😂
The only one I relate to is no one giving me compliments.
Here's a compliment:
@@user-zg3gh8xg9v Lol
I am so sorry :(( ur stunning amazing beautiful gorgeous pretty unique sweet and much more
@@kennywennyboo Aww thanks! Same to you 😁
@@kimberlysharkey8164 your very welcome and aww thank you! ✨
Video: * appears in my recommended*
Me: *dont do that. Dont give me hope*
Wow this is relatable
Sadly
@@CVSavagepersona exactly vrooo
@@Phantom_8522 you listen to xxxtentacion
I know a vro when i see one
@@CVSavagepersona yes i do lol
Dont give me hope just to crush it again
"stranger looking at you"
There judging you. They hate you. There annoyed with you.
Me:
W hating
Mine is always “they’re reading your mind” and I always have immediate internal panic as my thoughts start to bully me.
I don't think so to be honest, I'd rather think they admire something on me or that they didn't even actively notice me.
@@i_EatWafflesYumm 😅
The only sign I related to was no one giving me compliments lmaooo
Same. And strangers stare at me
Hey guess what, to that person reading this, yes you, your gorgeous and beautiful and great and awesome and amazing and inspirational and deserve the world, I don’t even have to know you to know that. Keep it up!
same 😂
Alec Lu not necessary, most of the people who don’t get much compliments deserve the most compliments. That’s my motto! It’s seriously simple to not have to know them, they seem nice and I love complimenting people here and there! And if you have nothing else to do then insult people, then leave. This is a place for peace.
Same with me. People stare at me, and it creeps me the fuck out.And I don't get compliments either.
“Has anyone seemed dazed and confused around you?”
Looks at my stoner friend who is currently lying on my bed trying to find her feet
...Yes?
PFFFT 💀
Z3XKAGE she started singing Jump by BTS but she speaks Spanish/ English and when she’s high she switches to Spanish so it sounded a little... off...😂
@@lunchablecheese5931 lmao that's amazing
HAHAHAH
Jimin sneezing is my fucking religion your username is * sharp inhale * LoVeLy LoVeLy LoVeLy😂
"1. You don't get a lot of compliments"
I must be the most attractive person in the world then
Not more than me
I don’t even get wished on birthdays
^ i relate
Imaoooo same!🤣🤣
The only compliments I get are for my ugly dresses, from a girl who pities me :)
YOUR AMAZING 😤💓💖💯
'People may think you are attractive if they wanna get close to you'
Me: nah, they just want to get homework answers
*_True, or try to copy off me, in which I'd rather just give them the wrong answers._*
Man this says a lot about my looks.
*None of these apply to me.*
gottemm
i bet they do
Same
Truuu
So you DO get a lot of compliments...🧐🧐
*"strangers stare at you"*
ah yes they must be thinking why is that person walking like a newborn giraffe
I relate to this on a spiritual level
😂
Lmao me
i find it very anxious having that feeling
*I'm in this comment and I don't like it*
I seriously realize just now that i'm not attractive because none of this happen to me. I just laughed tho
Oh my god HAHHAHHAHHAHA me too, i cried but laughed
same xD
Saaaaame 😅
That’s a mood
@u bitches are my sons yup
This is what I’ve realized a while back is that sometimes the insecurities we see in ourselves when we look in the mirror don’t even cross anyone’s mind when they are talking with you. So don’t worry about it so much just be yourself and you’ll find someone will find you attractive.
Be insecure fucker
AMEN 🙏
Let’s be honest, we all clicked on this video because we wanted to feel better about ourselves. ;-;
Yup, the more I watched the more I realised how ugly I am🙃😅
yes but it didnt work
Ilana facts😪
H-how you know bro
Facts ;-;
“ You don’t stay single for too long “
Me who never dated anyone in my whole life.
Have you made an efford to find anyone?
I lost my virginity by being raped, and after that I was afraid of men more or less knowingly I put up guards towards men, i didnt have sex willingly until I was 30years old, after that Ive meet six or seven really nice guys and a few really bad ones too Im 37, obese, Intovert( like last six years Ive been home alone like in quarantee( only go out to buy food or, medical appointments, and visit my parents) with no job, but lots of hobbies, and creative thinking is my middle name, Im a booknerd with glasses. But there have been ppl who wanted my number just because I walked by and apparently glowed to them( I think that I was probably sweaty)
@@jayamilapersson4030 I'm sorry that happened to you. I am in a somewhat similar situation, and I'm wondering if you have any advice for getting over the fear of men?
The point about being intimidatingly attractive also applies to whether or not you are single. A lot of people don't try to get a date with someone they consider out of their league, so don't get too down!
Plot twist: commenter is only 16
Ashley Bogdan I’ve been hurt a lot over the years, to the point that this is probably the true reason why I am currently single. I don’t trust people very easily at all anymore, I get plagued with the thoughts that deep down they only care about themselves and I only matter to serve and satisfy them. I am so tired of being hurt and f’ed over. I see my brother- he is truly a great genuine caring person, a wonderful father, and husband to his wife. He has been my reminder in life that good men can actually exist. It’s hard because our painful experiences can F with our mindsets, and I try to not let other people’s mistakes cloud my judgement towards new people because it’s not fair for them obviously. While it is so hard to trust after all the hurt, I try to bear in mind there are technically some really good people like my brother, so keep an open (but still cautious! Lol) mind!
I clicked instantly to make myself feel better i guess
Same 💀
Same yo
I think thats the sense of this video :D
Ditto lol
I don't think im attractive at all and none of these signs click with me
0:42 1. You dont get alot of compliments
1:02 2. When you do, it feels insincere
1:30 3. Strangers stare at you
1:52 4. People gravitate towards you
2:11 5. Others might act differently around you
2:37 6. People are surprised by your insecurities
3:02 7. Others tend to have strong feelings for you
3:26 8. You have alot of dating prospects
I clicked on this for a confidence boost.
It didn’t work.
Same🙂
I only related to the very first one, and not relating to number 2 made me think, "yep I knew I was right about myself."
Same
Same, couldn't relate
Even though I can’t see you. Ur good looking. Period
"Strangers stare at you"
My social awkwardness is shaking
Serahh Social same
MOOD
My social anxiety is SHOOK
I would have a panic attack if strangers were staring at me.
@@twilightlight_
I would've been like: "Is there something on my face or something..?"
Conclusion: I'm not attractive
people call me cute but ive never been in a relationship and literally have 1 friend
@@willow2069 same except no one calls me cute ahaha 😂
(ha...)
@Tayebz Tayebz :3 Same.. Which is why quarantine was the best thing thats ever happened to me lol
Everyone is attractive in a way
Join the club
Lmao the only thing that applied to me was the no compliments part 😅😅😅
same
Turns out I'm not more attractive than i think.
😂 same here sis
@@kristoffersparegodt420
Ffs dont hit her with that line 😂😂😂
Edit: he deleted it but he said that shes a lil to young to wery about it 😂👌
@@kristoffersparegodt420 How would you know the age of someone on the internet, and who are you to gatekeep worrying about one's own appearance?
@@kristoffersparegodt420 you're beautiful 😂😂👋
Strangers stare at me and i never get compliments from anyone. Doesnt really sound like im too attractive :/
"others may act differently towards you"
My insecure ass: that's because they pity me
@@rebeccaeverett8957 I apologise if this sounds mean in anyway but I don't think what you said was the best response. Maybe you weren't trying to be mean, but it came out that way. I'm assuming that you don't know Selena in real life, so what you are saying isn't right. Try to think about how what you say can be viewed. I'm not trying to be hurtful in anyway, I just want to support people who may need it.
Selena, I'm sure that you are attractive. I've heard someone say that the most insecure people are the most beautiful. Remember that no matter what, you are stunning! I know I'm just a random person on the internet but I wish you the best! Have a nice day/night!
Vannah Melon oh!!! I just realised I commented it on the wrong comment! 😂🤦🏼♀️
@@rebeccaeverett8957 Oh, I understand! Have an incredible night/day!
@@melonmastermind2854 you're such a nice person. We need more people like you in this world
“You don’t get a lot of compliments” the reason why is because I’m ugly.
I compliment my ugly friends more
Ramen Noodles don’t call them ugly :(
Weeb i just said I compliment my ugly friends more.... I never called anyone ugly
Ramen Noodles u literally just called ur friends ugly again-
Black Listed ohhh I understand now whoops
The fact that people in real life see us as what we look like in photos is killing me and I am crying
they actually see how you look in the mirror
@@Jefferywoodshoodie neither nor. Like I actually think they see us mixed (I mean they see us how we look in mirror but also in photos)
@@galactic_mapper bffr 💀💀
@@galactic_mapper they don't even see us how we look in photos 😹
@@Jefferywoodshoodie no. They see too
what I imagine people are thinking when they stare at me:
"why she look like that 😗"
What I imagine people are thinking when they stare at me: “why she look like tht 🤢”
✨What I imagine ppl think when the look at me: omg she's so tiny I could fit her in my teacup😙✨
People at my school: Stares at my friend because she attractive
People at my school: Stares at me because I make evil nun and chungus jokes and has a weird obsession with drawing cancer zodiac sign along with smiley faces and the word checkmate
Feathered Alpha you are one of a kind in mankind
@@Idk-ue9cf You're gorgeous inside and out
"Others might act differently around you"
It's because I'm weird
Your pfp looks attractive
Whwhwhhwhhhwh Dldkjdsnsjskskskdk It’s not them
Toyah ok
@@whwhwhhwhhhwhdldkjdsnsjsks6544 oh really? thanks
I read this as otters and I was confused y otters cared that ur weird
Being single or in a relationship isn't a sign of attractiveness.
People kinda judge u based on ur looks when they first see u..... before u talk to them
The black Beauty i’m 20 and in my first relationship and i consider myself pretty. trust me if you’ve never been in a relationship that doesn’t mean you’re unattractive. someday you will find someone who appreciates you for you.
It doesn't necessarily means you are attractive, but struggling to find someone to date is a sign of unatractivenes. Usually guys have to make the first move anyway, but if you're always being reject, this is a sign, and when I say "always", I don't mean 1 successful attempt after 5 rehections, because this happens quite a lot for normal guys, but when you try 10, 15, 20 times and nothing...well, bad news
Rafael S. i used to look horrible one guy said i look like a cow’s asshole and now i’m dating a model. i got rejected many times in the past. things turn around if you’re going through puberty don’t worry things can change. if someone told me that a few years ago i wouldn’t have worried so much.
Rafael S. ...yep I was right
Physc2Go:"Think about your most attractive freind."
Me:*Thinks about my most attractive freind.*
Physc2Go:"Do you always gush about how attractive they look?"
Me"YES!"
Physc2Go:"No,probubly not!"
Me:😅
Same 😂
Me:*thinks about my most attractive friend and immediately realises doesn't have friends*
Strangers are staring at me because I'm ugly as hell, and not because I look like a younger Danny Devito.
Danny Devito is hot in any shape or form lol
danny devito was really cute when he was young, and he's hot now that he's okder🥵
@@jordankosick7178 I think you need tk get your eyes checked danny devito is the hottest man alive
@@k1llsh0t_87 Bish that's what I said
@AggrievedCommenter who?
Step 1: Realize that you fit into all of these
Step 2: Search "Signs that you are delusional"
LOL
Lmao
*3: Strangers Stare At You*
The kids that stare at me for no reason at public places: 👁👄👁
Relatable XD
If you were unattractive, those kids staring at you would tell you for sure. Kids are brutal
Same they look at me then hide 😔
Omg same! I dunno, maybe it’s the blood...
If_only_I_was_a_potato _I_would_rule_the_world huh???
"You don't stay single for to long"
I am single for about... 21 years. I must be really atractive to other people
“And strangers may stare at you bc your attractive“
The old men in public:👁👄👁
Edit:Daddy chill with all the likes it’s just a true fact-
xD
i- 💅😌🧚♀️
Bro IK it’s creepy but at the same it’s nice to get attention 😏
CottageFlowers 😭I mean ya but-
and those 9 year olds that stare you out-
"everyone struggles with low self esteem sometimes"
.....sometimes???
i can’t even take a selfie of myself 😩😂😂😬
All the times*
@@mtreesgt4401 this is because you are smart...
You mean always 😑 literally 🙂
I read this comment as soon as they said that
Here’s the truth: you’re more attractive than you think because you’ve never seen your own face ... just photos and reflections.
This video was obviously targeted at already “conventionally attractive” individuals but you can be more beautiful simply by smiling often and carrying yourself with good posture.
No, no one has ever been lost in my eyes nor have I ever been in a relationship, but I’m becoming more beautiful as I change my habits and become healthier and happier.
Agreed
Yeah I feel like this video might actually be harmful for some people who already don't feel good about themselves
Beautifully spoken.
Wholesome❤️
Couldn’t have phrased it better❤️
When others stare at me I'm be like: What did I'm do wrong tell me! Am i ugly? Oh yeah they are judging me... Again... I'm so embarrassed 😳
POV: You came here to boost your self-confidence.
POV: you came here to boost your confidence only to realize you don't relate to any of these now you feel worse than ever and you're still ugly
Yes... Didn't work out.
Plot twist: its in my reccomendation
@@minudoru same
h a h
“strangers stare at you”
me: green haired living in a small town
HEY WHO SAYS YOU CAN’T BE CUTE AND HAVE GREEN HAIR 😆
I’m androgynous, so they stare.
And sometimes ask whether or not I’m a boy or a girl, like I can’t hear them.
Lol relatable but I wear "animal ears" (Yes I'm a furry) and I dye my hair green sometimes
Bruhhhhh, same! 🤣
I mean Deku from MHA has green hair and is a fecking BUNNY
When you click on a video for reassurance that you're attractive...
And it reassures you that you're not >.
@Angel Muffin It's 4 pm where I live.
IT HURTS
HAHAHAHahahaha hahaha ha ha *cries*
Don’t be silly lmaoooo the hottest thing about a person it really is confidence, that’s why non conventional hot people exist
i feel the same, sad :/
Listening to this made my heart basically stop because a lot of these apply to me. People tend to talk to me a lot and, despite being introverted, I make friends surprisingly easily. I feel like it may have been amplified this year because, after quarantine, I felt the need to stop looking like a burlap sack doll of muffins in a baggy hoodie and have been taking much better care of myself. It’s honestly really trippy to realize I might be pretty because I’m blind and can’t really tell if I’m good looking or not. Of course, I’ve felt my face before and have a general idea of my appearance, though people tend to fight about what color my eyes are, I don’t really have a concept of weather or not that’s pretty, y’know?
I’ve had people describe what I look like to me before, but it’s typically a friend or family member like my dad, grandma, or seatmate in one of my classes, so I’ve always thought being told I’m pretty was just someone being nice. I’m feeling a little high now thanks to this video and I think I’ll walk with my back straight and my chin up today.
"do people seem uncomfortable/intimidated around you?"
yes, but that's because i look and act like i eat souls
LMAOO this right here
i feel like i have the hardest bitch face when walking about but in reality i’m trying my best not to spasm and explode before getting to where i need to be
I look like I haven’t slept and showered in days lmao
People say I look like a bully...Idk what they try to say maybe I look like I'm gonna beat the shit out of someone (I believe I'm the sweetest kind of person)😌
LMAO
“When strangers look at you“
*Laugh in social anxiety*
😂😏
lol
strangers stare at me cause i’m a guy with long hair
it’s terrifying
@@connerstewart7155 hit me up mate
They stare at for 2 reasons:
1. You're attractive
2. You have a unibrow
Omg what about both. Frida all day errday
@@alenaivanov3868 thank you 😁
I hate my unibrow, people make fun of me because of my girl facial hair, people make fun of my unibrow, I have a big head small brain, I don't have front hair (forgot the name) my nose is big, my head is fat not round, im fat myself, my hair looks like bunch of rat tails put together, my lips are fat, my eyes look disgusting, my thighs are too big, my arms have too much fat, my legs have too much fat, my freckles look like red paint splat all over me, I have alot of moles, my eyelashes art short, my stitches my my face look choppy, a chunk of my nose is missing, my feet are too large, my voice sounds like a 2 year old boy, my neck makes a double chin, my eyebags are dark, my teeth are kinda yellow, my gums bleed alot, my teeth are crooked, my smile looks like a trash bag, my whole entire face is the shape of a trash bag, I have chubby cheeks, my eyes look dirty and messed up, how the heck am I attractive?
@@Dandel1onF1eld U r probably rlly beautiful don't worry
Zuli Winds your not ugly your beautiful
I love her quiet, soothing, beautiful voice.
Is this reverse psychology for people who are unattractive to boost their confidence? Lol. If so, damn. I’m hurt.
Same
Same
Same
Same
Mel M That is just sexist. How is that rude and disrespectful? You’re judging people based on their gender which is just wrong. Should I, a guy, just put on a wig, say I’m a girl and say you have nice tits for your own reaction?
So sexist
Me: entered the video feeling a bit of hope.
Also me: *leaves the video crying in ugly*
SUBTLE
Why this have 13 likes???????????
Same 😂😂😂
@Raman New yes, but I think that it's just angle and make up bc in real life I'm not pretty 🤷♀️
@@ianejesus7011 Just make sure people you like see you from this angle
@@maciejkleszczynski9808 I'm going to take that joke serious 🤣
“Have several people confessed their feelings for you?”
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
no.
I agree, this was a very good joke
oh god. feels bad man
😂😂
Ikr this channel obviously don't know their audiences
I love you
Pros: I am 15 and have a jawline of steel and good facial features
Cons:I'm 4'10
And to this day I still doubt im gonna get a girl
Me to I also have jawline , high cheek bones and my height is 5'9 but still I don't get girls cuz I ignore them
@@FPS.bhargav no, u dont get girls cuz ur name is “Aimbot oP”
@@orangepeel7413 it's my online name bruhh -__-
Same...
Become a femboy
“think of ur most attractive friend” me, who only has one person he considers as friend: oh come on
😂😂😂
lmao😭
I have no friends and I’m *still* the less attractive one
Nadia :3 i’m sure u ain’t man
I have no friends
me: *thinking i'm attractive.* The video : *think again*
me: thinking im unattractive. The video: yeah you right
@@tabithiajones2511 😭😭😂right
honestly, this video just solidifies my point that I'm-best case scenario-incredibly average looking lmao
@@weliveinasociety4629 and that's good enough my man, that's good enough.
Attractiveness is mostly confidence.
Video is telling you to think that you're more attractive than you think🤗
“Think of your most attractive friend”
Me: *i don’t have any friends*
Oof I felt this one
Oof-
Samesies
It's okay! Friends take up all that extra time you could be reading or watching your favorite shows. They require a lot of energy with their conversations, texts and going... outside. Just be your own best friend! You'll have lots in common! No concerns about talking behind your back! The talking to yourself will keep those other FAKE friends away! Yay, I'm helping others! Oh, better stop before they try to friend me.
@@eumorphavonobscura2753 aww thanks I was just joking but I love your support
One sign you're unattractive. Is that people tend to assume you're wrong or don't know what you're talking about? It happens to me quite often even though I'm right. This isn't denial. They realize that after they find out they're wrong. But what I have to say is never considered important or taken at face value.
“Do people often confess their feelings for you?” Yes of course, Indian men in my Instagram DMs....................
You’re lucky... I don’t even have that much
@@alwaysbeingcalledaweeb772 don't worry I'm here " can I see bobs?" "Bobs please??" " Vag please" source: Indian men
Ugh same..and I'm Indian too 😅
Honestly though, I genuinely want to disown those 'bobs and veganers' 🤢
This is soo accurate
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Being 13 sucks
I want a bf or a person who likes me..... But no one except a few do... People tend to stay away due to my dark skin colour(I am wheatish tho... U know wheatish +a bit of a chocolate shade)
Me: looks at the mirror
Mirror : breaks in dust
Me: **Looks at the mirror**
My reflection: **breaks itself**
Me: looks in mirror
Also me: oh wait, I don't get mirrors.
you're all so attractive that the mirrors fell apart purely at the sight of you!
It does feel like that here and there...
Damn, your mirror just blipped
“You don’t constantly gush about your friends’ appearance do you?”
Me, constantly complimenting my friends bc they’re just gorgeous: 👁👄👁
A same
Stop. See if they gush over you. If they dont, dump 'em.
@@MilitantTalker that's literally implying that their friends are gonna dump them- ;-;
That's literally my life motto. I try to compliment everyone I think has nice features or is wearing something I like because nobody does it to me and I don't want others to have the same experience as I do lmao
It means your love language is probably words of affirmation, but most people only compliment when something is irregular.
Note to this thread: don’t drop someone as a friend just because they don’t gush about you. Now if they don’t appreciate you as a friend or treat you right, yeah no, but most people’s love language isn’t words of affirmation, so not a lot of people are going to express like their love language is words of affirmation
basically the purpose of this video is to build unwanted over self confidence we all honestly need over anxiety in almost every situation. Thanks psych
“Strangers stare at you” me with social anxiety thinking they are judging me: 👁👄👁 💦
They are judging your every single movement.
Yee Yee really they are just looking if they can steal something from you
*sweats nervously* -
Mood
That i can relate to
When stangers stare at me i think they're judging me
Oml same 🤣🤣
lol BIG same!
Tbh I'm often looking at someone because I think they're cute or have a nice outfit, but I'm too awkward to tell them
Well when you're looking at someone in public, what are you usually thinking? :)
Same
To everyone who’s single:
*Being single doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive! Being single isn’t bad at all, we just prefer to focus on ourself and you don’t have to feel obligated to find a partner because society says so- it’s better if they find you, because when you’re looking for a partner, that means your settling for just that when someone better will come along and you’ll know it. Just focus on yourself first, heck you don’t even need a partner if you don’t want one! Do whatever you want because it’s your life!*
This made my day(≧▽≦)
Thank you, i love being single
you an ARMYYYY?
@Raielle ingram you blew my mind...
Raielle ingram you’ve got a point
Me: I'm not attractive at all :(
Psych2Go : exactly
“when strangers look at you”
that doesn’t makes me feel attractive at all, that just build my anxiety more
petalshyunjin seriously I be thinking something on my face 😹
YaHighNess X exactly ;
could be because u have a funky hairstyle or nice fashion choice
Yep
@@catclipshorts 😂😂😂😂 yes, wild hair attracts a lot of attention
Anyone else feel like this video is just trying to convince ugly people “nah, you’re not that ugly”
Well jokes on them if that's true. I feel even worse about myself!
😂
Yeah, and I don't like that. People should learn that being ugly isn't a crime, it doesn't make you less of a person than attractive people and it doesn't matter overall. Videos like this only further reinforce the idea that appearance is everything. That "everyone is beautiful" stuff is bullshit - a lot of people aren't attractive physically and that's okay, because looks shouldn't be all we see in people.
FRRRRR 😭😭
@@dipdop9734 Same
Me during the first half: “Hmm maybe I am”
Me during the second half: “Ah, I see you’ve raised my spirits so they had further to fall”
You’re pretty❤️
Funny and cute you are!!
Me too... 😔 Me too.
It’s all good though, does it really matter that much anyways? 😂
and then the part about dating came, and I was like nope I never have dating prospects😢 and I don't think people have strong feelings about me
Girl you're cute af cut the crap!! 😫
These videos helped my self esteem a lot over the past few years. I adore the cute little animations!! 🥰
One day I was working at Target and a couple of girls said to me: “You’re pretty!!!” and I smiled like an idiot. Awesome people.
Love your pfp!
thegingerbreadman when ppl say stuff like that my brain instantly says *its a DARE*
@@dianaj8153 lollll
*RANDOM PERSONS STARING AT ME*
No one:
My Social Anxiety: *STONKS* 📈
Edit: OMG This is my first time that I got lots of likes, thank y'all🥰😘
Same😬
*stonks* lololol my Asperger’s does that too
Through the roof i would say
Kshskkajsjsy same
me: -drinks water in class-
my social anxiety: omg every things ur a freak and they’re gonna stare, quick put ur mask back on or somethin
video: "people stare at you"
me: "only because they've never seen someone so ugly and they can't help but stare"
Same 🤣
That was deep🤭
Taili Cotoco I meannn it’s kinda true lol, in my case.
*Oof*
So funny 🤣
Who else was just lying to themselves like THAT HAPPENS TO ME I DEFINITELY DO THAT
wow, so apparently i'm ugly and everyone hates me
edit: oh damn, this comment got over 1k likes and I didn't even realize until now, it's always the stupid comments that you don't even think before posting that get tons of likes lol
u wish ppl paid enough attention to hate you
i dont hate you, i send you a virtual hug
@@choutzuyu8915 thanks
JAJAJAJAJAJAA
same :)
Me before watching: haha I'm ugly
Me after watching: haha I'm still ugly
I feel you bro 😭I feel the exact same thing
Yeah, me too :,(
Cmon y’all!! We’re All Beautiful!
On the inside.
@@Adrian_Estando that hit hard lol😢👌🤣
I feel ya even though I’ve been in a relationship since June 8th, I still feel ugly because he didn’t make the first move and nobody made the first move for me EVER and he’s my second boyfriend so I hope he’s my soulmate
Me before I clicked on the video: “ohhohoh boy am I about to be humbled”
Fr
big mood
RUclips recommending this feels like a personal attack ;-;
Alternate title: how to trick yourself into thinking you're attractive.
(edit:Damn you guys are harsh on yourself.I was just making a joke. I guarantee you,you look better than you actually think you do. It's been proven strangers see you 20% more attractive than you see yourself bc they don't see the flaws you see in yourself bc the best parts about you distract them from the flaws. Hell i swear i have wonky eye's but i don't give a sh*t. bc i know my hair is f**king sick.)
u r right 😂
Fr
I came here for that but this video just confirmed that I'm ugly lol
U dont have to call me out like that😂😂
Yeah, it didn't work for me tho
"Strangers look at you"
Me, with social anxiety: *they're judging me*
Same...
Agree
^
Same
Yeah, same
Strangers: *watching me walk down the street.*
Me: "I must be attractive."
Also me: *a stain in the back of my pants.*
(Edit: didn't expect this comment to get so many likes, I appreciate it though. Thanks.)
**YELLS FROM ACROSS THE STREET** "FREAK!!"
also me: my fat titties
@@jayniejurado9969 at least yours don't shrink
Nya Kitty lmaoooo
Nya Kitty I feel that on a SPIRITUAL level
Damn ittttt!!! 🙀 except for 4 and 8 all rest of the points are TRUE for me.
And "attractiveness can be intimidating" was an eye opener for me. I do feel like I find it hard to make friends with other women. I had a job where I noticed that fellow teachers started wearing makeup after I entered. And I do feel fellow women and friends see me as a threat often. I had no idea why before now.
"You don't stay single for too long"
*I've literally never been in a relationship*
Same like my whole life
Guess im hideous
Same. Only questionable ppl approach me. Like elderly men at gas stations...
Same: (
SAME
Domo lol, I’ve gotten a sugar daddy, a guy into feet, some random chick sending me sexual gifs, another chick sending me inappropriate mirror selfies, you name it lol
is no one gonna talk about how calming her voice is😌
It is tho
I legit fell asleep to it once
Its breathy. I personally don't love it.
yess im actually gonna rewatch this tonight
RIGHT
Me: I'm not attractive at all
This video: you're right
Fuuuuck 😂😂😂🤣🤣
XD
Same 😂
lmfao
Same man .-.
"strangers staring at you"
Me: anxiousness activated TnT
Can we all just agree that 80% of the people here are introverts? Through this channel, I feel like home😭❤
Edit: Ambiverts can be part of the 80%! Everybody should be at home
@Anialator Same
Same🤣
I’m an ambivert I think🤔
ambivert here
Ambivert
"you don't stay single for long"
Me: laughs in have never been in a relationship
You dont get one cuz you have an anime as your prof pic.90% of the comment section does infact.
And they also complain the same.
@@azmilalon6448 I don't have an anime pfp
One question: WhErE aRe My BoYfRiEnDs?¿
Because you might be still too young in terms of age and maturity I'm 22 and i think i can date woman when I'll be 30 now it just feels like i can't handle the date thing i need to become mature first lol
hahaha same
@@azmilalon6448 it's because weebs are lonely being
"Do people act differently around you?" How the heck would I know?
Exactly
Spy on them, you'll see
Like how they act towards u and how they act with others
If you are guy, lets say 3 girls are sitting at a bench giggling. When you pass them and they change their attitude to just sitting saying nothing. Or girls sitting being silent and when they see you they start giggling.
everyones quiet around me, is that a bad thing?
I needed this! Thank you so much!!
“Strangers stare at you” I avoid eye contact like the plague so idk who’s staring ☠️
Eye contact scares me 💀💀😔
Bruh same. So many people have told me about the first time they saw me and it’s usually me walking around campus with my head down. And I’m like ah, yes, that’s how I avoid eye contact and any possible human interaction because I’m awkward and have a n x i e t y.
I’m a big introvert so I hate eye contact
I'm rooting for you
I secretly look and people keep looking at me, it’s flattering but at the same time it’s really uncomfortable especially when you’re 13 and sad
Yes, people gravitate towards me because they know I have the damn math answers😔
People don't gravitate towards me, I gravitate towards them. I wouldn't have friends otherwise.
R E L A T A B L E
At the bright side they know you are SMART
Well, if it works it works.
Math skills are hot.
"Everyone looks at you"
Me walking with a serial killer face.
Same 😂😂😂
Same
XDDDD
Like really, guys and girls are always staring at me and I always have that killer face
hahhahaa