How to find people who align with your values
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Jesus Christ and angel are servants of God and His messengers
They are not gods
Question
Does God die?
No, he is the complete component of the universes, the creator of everything, for which we do not know anything similar
Impossible, because there is nothing like him, and He is All-Hearing and All-Seeing
The Qur'an is a miraculous word in its language, meanings and stories
In it is healing and mercy for those who believe
The Creator revealed it as a distinction between truth and falsehood
Indicating what was before him from the messengers and prophets and from the beginning of the creation of the heavens, the earth and humans
The Prophet to whom the Qur’an was revealed is an illiterate human being. He does not write or read, but he came with words that are an eternal miracle. They did not call to worship himself, but rather to worship the Creator. of you my Brother's and sister's, me ,and Moses , Jesus ,Mohamed.
Peace be Upon them .
Allah said in the Quaran
قُلْ هُوَ اللَّهُ أَحَدٌ
1Say, "He is Allah, [who is] One
,اللَّهُ الصَّمَدُ
2Allah, the Eternal Refuge.
لَمْ يَلِدْ وَلَمْ يُولَدْ
3He neither begets nor is born
,وَلَمْ يَكُنْ لَهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ
4Nor is there to Him any equivalent."
No sane person will disagree with me. I was a drop, then a human being. Then you die even though your organs are intact. Guess how is that all? I found the answer in a ........ You might be suspicious of this big knowledge it is The Islam tells you that it is the truth He addresses the wise
and forbids immorality And the Saves the five purposes of human life .
1 (selfs).
. 2 (mind).
. 3 (family honour) .
4 (money) .
(5) Religion .
Do not judge by the media saying
, but look and read about who brought it:
"Muhammad". S A W
Messenger of God
Thenks
We believe in Jesus Christ
But
We don't Believe that he is God
Because
The God is perfect he did not deid
and
didn't want to sleep
And one and individuell
In the Islam
There is nothing like him
So
Believe in him
And don't let your habit stop you
Because it is a fading lust and a trivial whim
These things do not prevent us from
Entering Heaven
O Most Merciful, O Lord of the Worlds
Make us firm on your religion
🤲🏻🤲🏼🤲🏽🤲🏾🤲🏿
You’re so pretty ❤ 💍
Hi there! Beautiful Intro, can I get a link to the original music please? I'd really appreciate it.
This is so mindblowing. i'm now 37yrs... when i was young i talked like you to my loved ones (some attemted suicide) ...at one point i was put into Psych-ward and was totally destroyed there... you're building me up on my way back to my core... have to leave my country soon... pssssht! ;) cant wait to learn more of your impressing content! unbelievable moment to me... feel hugged, lots of tears of joy and pain as well dropping from my face right now,.... cant find words how overwelmed i am right now! Thank you very very veeeery much! you cant imagine how importent this is right now!
Sending lots of love and healing your way❤️
I think that this phase where we don't have any friends who deeply connect with ourselves is part of the process of developing a strong sense of self.
Once you learn how to deal with yourself, you will be able to deal with people around you much better.
i needed to hear this on some self love type shi these days 😤😊
This.
Jesus Christ and angel are servants of God and His messengers
They are not gods
Question
Does God die?
No, he is the complete component of the universes, the creator of everything, for which we do not know anything similar
Impossible, because there is nothing like him, and He is All-Hearing and All-Seeing
The Qur'an is a miraculous word in its language, meanings and stories
In it is healing and mercy for those who believe
The Creator revealed it as a distinction between truth and falsehood
Indicating what was before him from the messengers and prophets and from the beginning of the creation of the heavens, the earth and humans
The Prophet to whom the Qur’an was revealed is an illiterate human being. He does not write or read, but he came with words that are an eternal miracle. They did not call to worship himself, but rather to worship the Creator. of you my Brother's and sister's, me ,and Moses , Jesus ,Mohamed.
Peace be Upon them .
Allah said in the Quaran
قُلْ هُوَ اللَّهُ أَحَدٌ
1Say, "He is Allah, [who is] One
,اللَّهُ الصَّمَدُ
2Allah, the Eternal Refuge.
لَمْ يَلِدْ وَلَمْ يُولَدْ
3He neither begets nor is born
,وَلَمْ يَكُنْ لَهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ
4Nor is there to Him any equivalent."
No sane person will disagree with me. I was a drop, then a human being. Then you die even though your organs are intact. Guess how is that all? I found the answer in a ........ You might be suspicious of this big knowledge it is The Islam tells you that it is the truth He addresses the wise
and forbids immorality And the Saves the five purposes of human life .
1 (selfs).
. 2 (mind).
. 3 (family honour) .
4 (money) .
(5) Religion .
Do not judge by the media saying
, but look and read about who brought it:
"Muhammad". S A W
Messenger of God
Thenks
We believe in Jesus Christ
But
We don't Believe that he is God
Because
The God is perfect he did not deid
and
didn't want to sleep
And one and individuell
In the Islam
There is nothing like him
So
Believe in him
And don't let your habit stop you
Because it is a fading lust and a trivial whim
These things do not prevent us from
Entering Heaven
O Most Merciful, O Lord of the Worlds
Make us firm on your religion
🤲🏻🤲🏼🤲🏽🤲🏾🤲🏿
In my entire life i only ever had one person i was truly able to consider as a "true friend" yet when we parted ways cause of time i've never managed to make another friend like him.I had attachment, abandonment issues, and also failed to open up to many people who looking back i could've been great friends with... Now im on the road to losing yet another friend cause of the passing of time yet again now im filled with restlessness, and anxiety as well as acceptance of the fact, cause i've experienced it before.
I think you are right, I just commented this on another video, a lot of people never gain a strong sense of self.
i have this kind of philosophy that negativity and pain need not to be turned into something else. nature hurts too, there is evilness. So i dont get the point to be constantly muffling those emotions, i think by saying: "no let's be positive" or something is more harmfull than acting out those emotions as they feel.
amen. everything in balance ❤
Alchemy in motion.
Your philosophy doesn't work if you feel evil things towards other people, if you want people reading it to not act being awful. I feel hatred and fear towards some, there's only two ways i know to act those that isn't harmful and evil towards others too.
@@orbismworldbuilding8428 but like in nature ( to simply this), there is evilness without regard. i believe that just by acting in harmful ways towards yourself and other is not necessarily evil. i find this difficult to understand myself Because it is not "good". but i ask myself then, why we can act like that? and feel that. Howcan you deny yourself your blood thirst, were animals only we can communicate "intelligently". So yes i i will act violently toward others instead of trying to morph it into it's not. i will try to fully embrace that emotion. i feel like that is the most natural way to live. I dont like limiting myself (and it doesnt even work, forcing yourself to be a positive). i just want to live, so what if i cause damage. everything is a balance. there is no good without evil, and evil is the reason we need love.like im saying be evil when the emotion arises, nothing more northing less. stop trying to change emotions.
Beautifully said 🤍
Here, after 69 years, I am reminded that I will never be too old to learn. Thank you.
Nice👍
I wanted to like this comment but i like how it sits at 222 likes so i don't wanna ruin it
I'm not 50 yet, but I can't learn anymore. The loneliness is destroying my brain.
I totally agree.
@@hhah23 Don't worry, someone will always break the pattern. So as they say, "just do it". :)
I'm in a phase where meeting people does feel painful and exhausting. I feel like everyone is so far away, shallow or just so in the bubble of this society matrix and all the healed people live outside of this. I want to leave and find those people. Find myself and gain the confidence by that challenge.
Edit: Oh my daymn, I can't believe all the comments underneath
Same here. Word for word. Literally. Especially the shallow aspect and I feel like that’s not only amplified by our capitalist society but just stupid social norms in general.
YES
Same
Jesus Christ and angel are servants of God and His messengers
They are not gods
Question
Does God die?
No, he is the complete component of the universes, the creator of everything, for which we do not know anything similar
Impossible, because there is nothing like him, and He is All-Hearing and All-Seeing
The Qur'an is a miraculous word in its language, meanings and stories
In it is healing and mercy for those who believe
The Creator revealed it as a distinction between truth and falsehood
Indicating what was before him from the messengers and prophets and from the beginning of the creation of the heavens, the earth and humans
The Prophet to whom the Qur’an was revealed is an illiterate human being. He does not write or read, but he came with words that are an eternal miracle. They did not call to worship himself, but rather to worship the Creator. of you my Brother's and sister's, me ,and Moses , Jesus ,Mohamed.
Peace be Upon them .
Allah said in the Quaran
قُلْ هُوَ اللَّهُ أَحَدٌ
1Say, "He is Allah, [who is] One
,اللَّهُ الصَّمَدُ
2Allah, the Eternal Refuge.
لَمْ يَلِدْ وَلَمْ يُولَدْ
3He neither begets nor is born
,وَلَمْ يَكُنْ لَهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ
4Nor is there to Him any equivalent."
No sane person will disagree with me. I was a drop, then a human being. Then you die even though your organs are intact. Guess how is that all? I found the answer in a ........ You might be suspicious of this big knowledge it is The Islam tells you that it is the truth He addresses the wise
and forbids immorality And the Saves the five purposes of human life .
1 (selfs).
. 2 (mind).
. 3 (family honour) .
4 (money) .
(5) Religion .
Do not judge by the media saying
, but look and read about who brought it:
"Muhammad". S A W
Messenger of God
Thenks
We believe in Jesus Christ
But
We don't Believe that he is God
Because
The God is perfect he did not deid
and
didn't want to sleep
And one and individuell
In the Islam
There is nothing like him
So
Believe in him
And don't let your habit stop you
Because it is a fading lust and a trivial whim
These things do not prevent us from
Entering Heaven
O Most Merciful, O Lord of the Worlds
Make us firm on your religion
🤲🏻🤲🏼🤲🏽🤲🏾🤲🏿
Yessssss!!! You are my ppl
the healed people live for themself only, its just me myself and i. once u healed u understand that everyone that has a relationship is stuck in some toxic bs. love yourself and give a fuck about everyone it might sound toxic but thats the way u wont find someone who will love you, like u can love yourself
After years of tolerating superficial friendships and toxic family members due to a fear of loneliness and ostracism, I decided to seek solitude. Finally, I am at peace.
I'm so happy for you
@@nebulanebulous Thank you. I hope you also find your peace, if you have not already found it
@@cerdic6586 I haven't but I know that I will find it one day :-)
Agreed
@@dianadiana101-u7y Several things: I keep myself busy; I have weekly letter exchanges with pen pals from different countries; the companionship of animals.
I would say yes. You can forgive someone but you have the RIGHT to not talk to them again. You have the choice to be around people who will resonate and treat you good
Exactly!! especially when you understand forgiveness is more for yourself than others . whether they receive your forgiveness verbally , physically , or through energy, you are still doing yourself service .
Jesus Christ and angel are servants of God and His messengers
They are not gods
Question
Does God die?
No, he is the complete component of the universes, the creator of everything, for which we do not know anything similar
Impossible, because there is nothing like him, and He is All-Hearing and All-Seeing
The Qur'an is a miraculous word in its language, meanings and stories
In it is healing and mercy for those who believe
The Creator revealed it as a distinction between truth and falsehood
Indicating what was before him from the messengers and prophets and from the beginning of the creation of the heavens, the earth and humans
The Prophet to whom the Qur’an was revealed is an illiterate human being. He does not write or read, but he came with words that are an eternal miracle. They did not call to worship himself, but rather to worship the Creator. of you my Brother's and sister's, me ,and Moses , Jesus ,Mohamed.
Peace be Upon them .
Allah said in the Quaran
قُلْ هُوَ اللَّهُ أَحَدٌ
1Say, "He is Allah, [who is] One
,اللَّهُ الصَّمَدُ
2Allah, the Eternal Refuge.
لَمْ يَلِدْ وَلَمْ يُولَدْ
3He neither begets nor is born
,وَلَمْ يَكُنْ لَهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ
4Nor is there to Him any equivalent."
No sane person will disagree with me. I was a drop, then a human being. Then you die even though your organs are intact. Guess how is that all? I found the answer in a ........ You might be suspicious of this big knowledge it is The Islam tells you that it is the truth He addresses the wise
and forbids immorality And the Saves the five purposes of human life .
1 (selfs).
. 2 (mind).
. 3 (family honour) .
4 (money) .
(5) Religion .
Do not judge by the media saying
, but look and read about who brought it:
"Muhammad". S A W
Messenger of God
Thenks
We believe in Jesus Christ
But
We don't Believe that he is God
Because
The God is perfect he did not deid
and
didn't want to sleep
And one and individuell
In the Islam
There is nothing like him
So
Believe in him
And don't let your habit stop you
Because it is a fading lust and a trivial whim
These things do not prevent us from
Entering Heaven
O Most Merciful, O Lord of the Worlds
Make us firm on your religion
🤲🏻🤲🏼🤲🏽🤲🏾🤲🏿
There is no such thing as forgiveness. You (all of us) have two powers, truth and compassion. These two powers are complete in all things.
@@ToddDouglasFoxthis is true, cmpassion gets misstreated, so do truth. And truth hurts. Suffer! And love it
@@fearstare Truth hurts until we take responsibility by holding ourselves accountable. After we dig into the shame that is definitely there and we each fall in love with ourselves, we no longer suffer. It is painful however to see others suffer. Purity of compassion is a thing to aspire to - one day no more suffering, just love. You’ve acknowledged this path, now you can follow it to the shame and beyond. Go well 👊
Empathy.
Such a rare quality.
I'm a big fan of this girls speaking
Yeah, I agree it's rare.
Cuz most girls don't try to share some wisdom on the internet but showing off their boobies and asses
This may be true for you, but in my case, I see it as such the opposite. I see empathy as an abundant quality seen in a lot of people (friends, strangers, etc.)....I guess it just depends on where you look and how you seek others around you, whether those be people in your circle or complete strangers you interact with. This reminds me of when people say "nobody is nice these days".....maybe the people who say this just aren't looking in the right places and have a closed mindset thinking that everybody is out there to get them, when in reality it might be quite the opposite. I believe there are great people all around us....
@@carolineb3712 interesting. Thank you for your empathy
@@carolineb3712 empathy. Not to be confused with sympathy.
You seem to be able to sympathize with me, maybe.
Having the ability to empathize with someone and sympathize with someone are 2 different levels of understanding.
And forgive me for my sarcasm earlier please haha
@@biblebasher9364 As a complete stranger, it is impossible for me to empathize with you as I have no clue who you are and what you have experienced. It would be disingenuous to empathize with you. The closest thing I can offer as a complete stranger is sympathy and saying things from my perspective. Sorry if my initial comment came off as rude to you, I just wanted to shed light of my own opinion on the subject of finding empathy in others.
this is a great message... finding those who align with you starts with aligning with your internal values and actually treating yourself the way you want others to treat you... once you love yourself, you cannot be around people who do not treat you the same way..
I love the potential of our generation. 27 year old raised by alternative folk who're borderline mt-top monks and I've always struggled with the... 'short mindedness' of so many, who seemingly are just trying to hustle through life.. society egg shells if you will. Say one thing, do something completely else, then blame other people, move on with no emotive or cognitive empathy, completely self absolving from responsibility... Self responsibility.
There's so much music and media today, just like your video here, that are rapidly raising awareness of these core human experiential dynamics and its awesome. Spending 27 years questioning the cold hearted cognitive position of people, only to come across those same people realising the potential of their self responsibility... It is a very, humbling and gratitude instilling thing to see.
There's an interesting dynamic with karma...
Life isn't "what goes around, comes around"... No, that is morality imposed upon karma.
Karma is simply what goes around.
Karma bridges the gap between Nietzsche and Sarte... It bridges age old debate of; free will or destiny?
Simply. Karma is the RIGHT to action, AND luck.
.. that is life.
Life is lucky to have evolved.
It is so unlikely to have evolved that, life itself on this planet, could be the rarest, luckiest thing to have ever happened in the history of the universe.
.... Could be.
Regardless, you're pretty damn lucky to be here reading this comment. Thanks for choosing to. 🎩 Have a nice day.
Wise beyond your years👍
This is the most valuable comment section I've ever seen.
True🫶🏻
فديت جمالك❤🍯@@lizabashkova
@@lizabashkova قلب ،ما حلاتك الاجتماعية ؟❤
I found that it really helps to make a list of your values then decide on what the top 3 to 5 are. Doing this means you always have those core values in mind when you make any decision and will always live in alignment with those values. When things are hard or when things go wrong, you’ll always know that you did the right thing and that brings you a certain amount of peace. Life may not be easy but you’ll always be in alignment with yourself.
Your idea of having a value-based system is also discussed in the book of Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
@@MoonCqke123 Interesting… I’ll have to have a look and see if it comes to similar conclusions or has additional insights. 🙂
0:23 You are nature. Universe experiencing itself.
yesss
This guy gets it.
I am 25 years old guy and I totally identify with everything you say at this time in my life. Thank you so much for expressing so well this moment of personal discovery, which is quite overwhelming and sudden, but you know it is for the greater good and to become a better version of yourself.
You have to accept the stages of change in life, and as you say, this is a stage of having strong values, taking action, doing more and saying less, doing things for yourself (not out of a need to prove anything to the world (Nowadays social media plays an important role here)), knowing how to have boundaries and choosing friendships that you understand and that understand you....
I don't usually leave comments, but I totally resonated with everything you said and the way you said it.
Thanks.
Thank you I really appreciate this. We got this you're never alone🙏🏻
Lately…I’ve been lonely, no major “friend connections” established…. 😢 maybe for the best…. It’s better not to force things, off course… but also..I, search for genuine connections, those might take time… no rush….no new ones… yet ❤
Ive been experiencing the same thing. I hope you found yours soon 🥹🙏🏻
Are you perhaps in your mid twenties or early thirties? Cuz that's when it becomes hard af. People end up in established friend circles and in turn anyome who is "good" or even "great" but is a new friend, hardly gets the chance go breach into that circle. Because people forget to value connections outside of established ones. They don't forget to value them per se. They just forget to continually show effort or acknowledgement. It's nothing bad or evil. It's just sad what society has pushed people to. They naturally focus on specific relationships which as said is not bad and is to be expected. But the sad reality then is that you might push someone away who LOVES you equally like your brother, sister, mother, friend, cousin etc etc. Sometimes there are people who care so much about you but they dont get enough attentiom because others focus on established circles or families. There should be balance and an open spot for growth always. But yeah, nobody should point fingers. Point fingers at nature and work life society idk.
I also want to find a really close friendship where i can go out with people, but if we cant they call and remember me, at leasr text daily. But not wait on months and months to actually hang out. Those friendships can be deep yes, but everyone has someone they spend time with aside of their gf bf hubby or wife. I want a close friend.
Yeah...
can i get your insta or fb account?
Get out of the house then youll make connections. Everything you want is in the wild
The last message you said while laying on grass was heart-warming. I love how you emphasize the words clearly and explain things without disconnecting it with the main context.
I’m thankful that I’ve found few connections and I value those few person. It feels fulfilling and enough for me and that helped me engaged with things in better manner. I am working with myself day by day with the simplest things I do.
Also, I love nature wholeheartedly💚🌳
I love going back here.
My joy at my senior age is actually seeing young folks like you holding the light and making these videos and creating a truthful following based on true freedom...much love young lady, travel safe 🇬🇧🧡
Most people will not do the hard work of facing their most difficult emotions, they become self-absorbed or totally other-absorbed. Challenge yourself a tiny bit (and only a tiny bit) each day.
I am an intelligent man who always feels less in society. Respect everyone but I rarely get the respect back.
Yup, i decided no more respect for this sick society.
right off the bat “there’s gotta be balance it can’t be perfect” needed this ty
Deconstructing what values/core beliefs you have & how to stand by them is part of CBT so this is genuinely good advice!
5:12 I’d say leave peacefully.. a person with real peace within only gonna release peace to the outside.. and if you crossed their boundaries or mistreat them.. they value that peace so much to ruin over giving you some reaction
Yeah yeah for sure. Misinterpretation here🫶🏻 I just meant to show a cause and effect reaction with your action not hurting anyone of course
Thats true
Yeah, I did that. I forgave my friend for all the bulshits she made me going through. The irrespectful acts she had done and things she said in my face and to the friends we had in common. I forgave her but made clear boundaries that I don't want her for more than one moment in my life. I cut her out of my life but I don't have any anger towards her cuz in life I learnt that anger only hurts me and poisons my being. I feel powerful within myself...
Wow, managing to keep the conversation going without a break for a whole 18 minutes is seriously impressive!
idk why the "nobody cares about you" hit me in the best way possible. I dont need anybody to care as long as I care :)
the way u worded it is beautiful i get it now too.
“Unconditional” love... Why search and measure, compare, judge, grade, quantify, rate, categorize, sort, label, etc? How about just … being? The love comes naturally from the universe because if we see the light as kindness it “IS”. Think… the “conditions” are always there! 😊
My therapist once told me that unconditional love is the purest form of rebellion, to rebel against a sick society is the only way to fix it to some capacity, too many rebel against love, quite ironic. 🤨
I get such good energy off you speaking. I literally feel like someone just did reiki on me or something 😭
29 yr old male here, and this is so relatable. IDK why i was recommended this video tbh xD but im glad i watched it. It's reassuring that other's are experiencing the same or similar things as I am, even in such difference circumstances. I've recently had to cut off a couple of very good and close "friends" due to misalignment and being taken advantage of. It hurts, no matter what age. But seeking that inner peace and reassuring that inner peace and supporting that inner peace, has only begun to bring me great blessings and good things in life. Keep going, your journey is your journey, it is valid, and i am only beginning to realize that it is valid, what i felt and feel is valid. Men are always told to ignore and override and be tough etc. But that gets really hard, and really sad sometimes. and not allowing yourself to experience those emotions is robbing yourself of a huge portion of life. Thanks for making this video :)
Crazyyyyyy. I'm 23 n going through the same thing. Had to cut off a lot of so-called friends in the past few months. It's definitely hard and isolating at times but ultimately it's for the best. One day at a time ig🙌🏼
In today's world. It's hard to find people with value and morality. And good folks are dying everyday because of things I won't state.
Your concern is exactly what the video is about. Clearing space and taking action to realign with people of similar value and morality.
@@tomphillips3162 Except that you will not "find" those "people". They don't exist anymore, for the most part.
@@prussiansocietyofamerica but you don’t want majority of people, all it takes is one or two people to make life worth it, and that’s hard to find because the best ones are often hidden, but once you start to be truthful, many may not say anything right away, but they later contact you in secret, until they too become as confident and as brave as you. But first you gotta take the first step (or wish someone else does it to approach them instead).
Same with your job. I used to be so stressed out talking to clients, but I don’t want just any client, I want to help people and businesses I care about only, so I stopped appearing and begging to everyone, I went to the ones I wanted and offered helped and I meant every word I said, so now I have 4 amazing clients that pay me like 20 crappy ones, because now I’m happy doing what I do so I do better.
So I mean. Niche the hell down in all areas of your life. You don’t want to be popular, you don’t want everyone’s attention, because like that you attract all humans, and most humans are very lost, and because of that they’re very unhappy and very mean. Following only those who lack intelligence and empathy because they’re often MUCH loud.
Step 1: find your values
Words of value and wisdom. I’m in isolation and learning all these things. God bless you for showing up my feed. 💙
I am in university and I can't seem to find people who align with my values, for example I go walks in the woods by myself go swimming to the nearest lake and do outdoor activities but no one at my department likes those things so I am a bit lonely.
I'm here
same😢
GurshAWww!🦃🐣 ; )
Mee eeeeeeee😂
@@gebhardt244 :) lol
this came at the perfect time. i see great things for all of us in the near future!!!!
I personally think that you are really strong, your way of thinking and your philosofy and spiritual side are admiring and really precious. In my opinion your content is gold
Thank you for seeing me that's really just a reflection of you ❤️❤️
I agree
Liza, Wow, you are a profound Divine Light in this World for Awakening those who seek Truth and their own Divine Spiritual purpose. Please keep sharing your Conscious wisdom, empathy & compassion for others as a path for others to follow..💛✨🌈🙏🏽😇
You're my age, you display my exact same point of view to the world, you show your soft side to the point where I feel like we're having a familiar conversation and you don't use lots of effects, lights, complications and thumbnails on your videos. You got my subscribe, please keep it this simple❤
Great video❤ just to add some wisdom I once learned: saying things you’re going to do and not actually taking action makes you doubt yourself and not trust yourself. If you don’t trust yourself how are you supposed to align. Build up trust by keeping your word and doing what you said you would do.
forgiving comes from the heart and setting boundaries also comes from the heart so id say you don’t have to prove to anyone that you forgave you just have to forgive
Beautiful
The timing is perfect...i really needed to hear this 🙌🏻
Thank you so much for posting this!
We all need someone like you in their lives...
I've just found your channel and oh my god how I feel connected to what you tell, I'm 23, last year of my masters biomedical sciences, and I love that you make it feel like this way of thinking is okay/normal for this age, in my student years it was sometimes so hard, cause i've always found it so hard to connect/find a similar way of thinking with people my age range, so in general, all i wanted to say was: thank you so much for making these videos, sharing your ideas/insights, it's worth so much, truly
So grateful for you🙏🏻
You can forgive someone without engaging with them. Engaging with them or not isn't really about their actions necessarily, it's about how you feel. If something someone does makes you feel bad, even if they are in the right to do the action, you have to look out for you.
That doesn't need to come with judgement of their character. Just recognising that you have needs that need to be met and that you're the only one with the power to make sure of that
Everyone needs to listen to this video. Huge wisdom package. Bravo ❤
As you say in the final part of the video...think and act as if no one cares about you, that's the best and most encouraging way to raise motivation to do the same thing in the long run, and when you lack motivation, to achieve discipline to keep doing the same thing and achieve a great skill on that. Keep in mind that only you care and can make you improve YOURSELF, it's up to you only.
Girl, it's ACTUALLY what I have needed all this time..
“Show up and grow into it.”❤
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I probably look like a fool giving this girl a standing ovation in my living room. 👏🏼 👏🏼 Hit the nail on the head with so many points, I love it. Thank you for these videos. An extremely valuable worth of 18 minutes.
Hahaha thank you😭❤️
Your voice reaches Venezuela. I am Venezuelan and I loved your reflection, I like channels like that. You are so natural in the way you say things from your experience, reflections like this give a lot of encouragement to continue. Imagine that of those 10,000 people who see you, 500 get your message, there you really change the world.
Thank you for the love angel🫶🏻
Yes.. a wall between you and the world And not to reject because of that wall is your way out of the enclosure that you created that holds you back❤
I don't really understand everything you said, because I'm still learning English, but I feel good when I hear what you say.
Currently have been cut off from so many people who I used to hang out with all the time, I viewed it negatively for a while but soon realized my values changed and I am healing from cptsd… which naturally means the energy is shifting and so will the people I am surrounded by. I am betting energy is being cleared for newer and fresh and more authentic souls who will align with my newly discovered boundaries and essence .. amen
I believe the best people for you are those who bring the best out of you. It will be rare but so worth it
Liza, I really liked when you talked about the difference between the 3 types of people: those who are loving, those who hate everyone, those who always complain.
In fact in this case if you want to be a loving person, it is not healthy and good for you to include in your friendships people who always complain or who hate everyone, are too distant from your values and would lead you to do actions that are not suitable. in line with who you want to be...
Furthermore, it is really true that you must try to have coherence between your actions and your values, this then leads you to strengthen your values and become, step by step, the person you want to be.
Wow, your last point about being scared to get what I know I'm really capable of was spot on. The way you framed it was beautiful, I've always been worthy of it but I need to grow into it. I couldn't handle it in its entirety right now, I've got to go through the necessary trials and become the version of myself that can handle my potential.
No waisted words at all! I got a lot out of this. What ‘is’ so much more awesome is that it’s coming from such a young lady for your age. Great stuff. Took me years to get to this…😅
it's the nature that made me click on the video and I didn't regret it afterwards
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Thanks for your thoughts, I like opinions of people from far away. Bless Poland!
I've moved and lived abroad for 5 years where finding genuine connection was a struggle for someone who can see through facades and pretence. So I value my tight and close-knit group very much.
I am happy to see clever and mature people on our age. Appreciate your wisdom and even your ability to think
This girl is a guru man she’s wise as hell
@2:30 Having a good big heart doesn't mean that one 'accepts' disrespect or 'allows' themselves to get hurt, it just happens because most people lack empathy.
It hurts an unbelievable amount, and it hurts that you can't do anything about it other than not letting the hate poison your heart but once you do that and your heart is clean, you get the strength to 'accept' disrespect again and 'allow' yourself to get hurt again.
It is not a conscious effort.
Loved this video because I perceived myself as my old self all the time but as you said, you need a clean desktop
me too
You’re beautiful and so eternal ! Thank you for your wise words! As soon as I clicked the video, this calmness came over me…
the challenge of feeling alone, has led me to enjoying my own company and Loving myself.
fighting with value improves your resilience and endurance. more energy is coming back in the long run because you deserved it.
2:40 both are correct. But one is not the same as the other.
In fact it does take the most courage of all to become perfectly humble. Because humility is the state in which I accept everything the way it is. And this necessarily means I must give up my desire to control things. And since me desire to control things is rooted deeply in my psychological bias, this is the most difficult thing to do, because it means that I must actually face the thing that I was trying to use my control to avoid.
Surrendering control hurts a lot. And yet after a time of processing I then become stronger than before because I will have used my surrender to slough off the w slave chains of the things that fear, by facing those fears.
I say this from experience and not from having studied some words. And I can say it with confidence because I have at last done the hardest things in life, which pertain to my own mind, and these were the cause of decades of suffering for me in my story. And if one has gone through it and come out the other side after having done the right thing, one need not worry about sounding argumentative or boastful when they recount their experiences. For indeed, they may possibly help many people and that is the important part.
Absolutely powerful wisdom! Our actions truly become the fertilizer for our values to flourish. Love how you connected it to nature's cycles - a beautiful reminder of cause and effect. ❤💚💙
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Jakże to inspirujące i pokrzepiające widząc jak coraz więcej ludzi porusza te głębsze tematy na całym świece. Truly, something is actually on the rise, seems that the pendulum of this so called global “spiritual battle” is certainly swinging in the 5D direction at full speed..✌️🌿
"Show up and grow into it" best advice!
I will ALWAYS find people who align with my values. 🙏
thank you so much..💗🥺 you give me courage to keep going to change.. it's not easy but I am able to do this, that's why they happen
7:19 we are imperfect, in order to align ourselves with our values it will take time and practice. Constant reminders, manifestations and compassion for your humaneness. Mistakes will be made and It’s not something that can be solved overnight but it can get better every day if you choose to try. One thing that I’ve realized recently is in order to find myself I must remove the old constructs of my mind. I can’t find myself purely through experimentation. I already exist within myself. The best version of me already exists. It’s the years upon years of negative reinforcement by everyone and everything including myself that has turned me into this person I know today. It will take time to challenge these labels I attach to myself that are holding me back. “I am anxious” “I am unmotivated” “I am undeserving” it’s coming along great and I see the following years as unlimited potential and growth for myself.
People are like that. If you don't vibe, just walk away. Most of the time it's not about ourselves especially when you're consciously improving yourselves. Most people don't even understand the concept of self-improvements and just fake them. The lack of conscious decisions attributed to this kind of result.
i love this perspective so much! i can tell we would align with our values 💕💕
accepting that all of us are ignorant and brilliant and capable of love and hate. at times it becomes impossible to ignore our own darkness. understanding it and accepting it gives way to the light.
. *This is not an argument against setting boundaries.*
I mean.. the most preferred method by many which is rarely spoken of until many years down the road is to ... pursue and embody one's values in silence, through mainly actions while alone without speaking of them rarely at all. Some of one's values that is.
To simply let one's success and life's results and higher levels of quality do ALL of the talking... I know you get me. It was great to sample a moment of your Passion. Sounds like you too have done a lot of pen and paper journaling; I received my first journal in 3rd grade and still have it!
I'm watching this at 1 am before school an this really resonated with me. I am 17 and in a place where i constantly question myself and my values. This inspired me to continue to better myself and doing things purely for me😊
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17:35 Yess!!!! Needed to hear that. Bless you.
Awesome! This is the second video I watched that confirms that "Just do it!" is not just a meme. :) We should also take action!
I'm russian yt bloger. Hello. That was very valuable to me. Thank You.
This is unrelated, but you speak English exceedingly well. It took me a minute to even notice your accent.
2:28 In my religion (Islam), in Quran ,the God said “And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you.”
People with the kindest hearts will win eventually.
Wow! You look so young to be so articulate and confident in what you're saying. But then again, I remember moments when I was younger, feeling like I knew things or could see things that some adults didn't know or couldn't see, or sense. And not because I thought I was smarter or better than them. I'm so thankful for my family and certain people I have been privileged to know on my journey. It just was. And sometimes in my past and now, there are those people I come across, and it seems like we both understand a situation or can just see something, and all we have to do is look at each other. It's a knowing glance or look. Anyway, thank you for articulating so clearly what I have been experiencing for a number of years and especially now. You are beautiful and awesome!!! Love & blessings ❤❤❤❤❤
Hi! I just start to watch the video because it's makes me felt comfortable and I need to practice my English via input. On the beginning I was like "oh, another person trying to explain what life is" or "these people makes this kind of content just for the money" but then, I couldn't agree more with you about the drained people, the love path, and your own ways to be the person that you actually are but somehow is behind a shadow. I'm glad to find meet you without even find you. Gracias!!
Thanks for sharing, that's 18 minutes is a lot of value that you sharing to others, especially for me. Now I'm realized that I'm in the right way, I must build my own value, perspective, and act with that value, don't be the follower for someone or something that didn't match with your value just because you afraid of losing or something. Thanks for realizing me, great speech.
I have recently started romanticizing life, and I'll tell you what: it's amazing. Hopefully, im not gonna let it go, ans I'm gonna stick to this lifestyle in the long run. That's my sort of resolution.
Wow wow wow! So much wisdom running through such a young body-mind-organism is craaazy! ❤🎉
confidence is birthed through inner peace with yourself ❤🔥
Damnnnn hahaha... I just realized something... so I have anxiety of people punishing/hurting me when I did smt wrong or am not good enough (I couldn't understand why I am so anxious about it). And my values were (in my mind) that everyone makes mistakes sometimes and it doesn't mean they are a bad person. Guess who has been hurting and punishing themselfs since years for every little wrong thing? Yes, me 🤡. I convinced my body to be afraid of humans. I mean I did get abused, but just a little bit. I continued hurting myself, when I felt hate towards myself when I did smt wrong.
ourself is the foremost acceptance to concern ourselves with.
This video came out of the blue in my suggestions and it turned out to be the most inspiring talk I've heard in a long time! Thank you!
Preach it, sister.
This is very good.
I have never heard this philosophy-of-life spelled out so plainly.
You need to travel a good ways down the road of life before you can articulate such things.
Love the intention. Exactly the amount of time needed to communicate.
The yap was long can't disagree
@@lizabashkova everyone is one of a kind and that’s what makes them perfect. Like some of the comments have stated; Your video is perfect. I believe you are being true to yourself, so that’s what makes everything you do exactly what makes you perfect just the way you are
Okay that's so sweet 😭🙏🏻 thank you
Simple but brilliant!
You are an extraordinary girl!
You're so underrated youtuber, you deserve so muchhh
I think it difficult to find people who align with your values. The point of being able to accept someone's values that you can endure more than looking for someone with same values is worth thinking. The key to do this is that you have a tolerant mindset.
I had a dream earlier that I was walking having a loving chat and connection with a young lady like you. Now you came up on my RUclips. Thank you for making this- its a pleasure to see and hear. I feel like I'm in the garden of Eden with you. I just ate some peanut butter and bread and an 🍎. It's somewhat odd to be 37 years old, and be listening to a young lady telling me how to be... but I like it... it's less abrasive than having people yell at me or boss me around.
I think this you vs you thing is very important. Like you said, in the end of the day no one cares. When you are not dependent to the applouses and opinions of others, thats where you do it all for youself and thats where you make the biggest progress. You have to imagine your best self and act so. Act like the person you want to become. Of course you dont know every detail of your future self but it is important to do smt every day. Maybe you lose some great relationships but when you are on the journey to become better, you will meet new people that will have a great impact on your life. The most important thing is to do something. Not every door that you open in your life is good for you, but you cant know the right ones if you dont start to open doors. Good video
Appreciate you !
if you have the ability to love, love yourself first. - Charles Bukowski
watching these type of videos at 18 is the best thing to do at that age and thank God i found your video ❤
Learn to be a good listener, exercise tolerance, diplomacy, and seek common ground.... Learn to get along with everyone.