His mom needs to go to jail as an accessory to sexual assault. Never let Karrens _____________. I don't care *what* it is, Karens need to be kept away from it or stopped from doing it!
@jsmith1291 - I wonder where he learned that behavior. Maybe mommy isn't as discreet as she should be at home with her other adult "relation(s)." I had a (divorced) male roommate whose kids showed similar inappropriate behavior with each other. They spent more time with their mother and her boyfriend. Custody agreement. I told roommate they were now too old to share baths. He disagreed until I told him what I caught them doing after I got the locked bathroom door open. They were 4 & 5 years old. Thankfully they are all grown now and seem to be reasonably adjusted adults with kids of their own, who are also fine.
its even worse than him not knowing better, he gave his mom an answer as to why he's crying.... "They took away my Girlfriend..." that shows he A) thinks of her as an object, not a person, B) shows he thinks of her as HIS, and C) he's crying like a Toy was taken away from him.... that kid's gonna wind up on the sex offender registry...
We need to start answering the Karen’s question “are you telling me how to parent?” With “yes since you are incompetent in teaching them right from wrong”
yeah, narcissists hate being challenged, which is why you get Karens doing the whole "Don't you DARE tell me how to parent my own kid!" even though they're committing childrearing malpractice that will cost society in the long run, BIG.
Story 2: blatant sexual assault. CPS should have be called, and the mother arrested. Her “Angel” of a son will no doubt try this same Shizz on someone else’s daughter, and the Parent/Older Sibling won’t be as nice, and the “Angel” will end up with a bloody lip or worse
CPS should be called also to find out why a 9 year old is displaying age-inappropriate sexual behavior, because this is not really normal and could be a red flag of something inappropriate going on in his own home, as well as advising the mother to teach the boy about consent.
Seriously. Some people take VERY unkindly to the criminal underworld. So much so that committing crimes (or even being known to do/have done so) in their presence may be more dangerous than doing so around cops, or military soldiers/veterans.
"My son is nine, he doesn't know any better" is such bullcrap. If he doesn't know such basic things at that age then obviously there's been some lazy parenting going on. I bet when he's older and does worse stuff, she'll be victim blaming and spouting off the old "boys will be boys" line.
@@ponyfairyVania exactly. He doesn’t know any better because she isn’t telling him not to do it. This was the perfect opportunity for her to explain to him why that’s not OK and teach him a lesson. Of course, seeing on how the boy wouldn’t let go and started after OP before going into a tantrum, I’m gonna guess that she hasn’t said no to a lot of even more basic issues. Like, 9 is too old to not know better. A 9 year old might pull up a girl’s shirt and run away as a misguided prank, but to try to physically restrain and touch her, especially after an adult/older teen is trying to intervene… that’s preschool stuff.
Story 2: lady, the way you acted after what your kid did, you'll help him become famous. On a registry that causes him to have to watch his back in the streets and prison.
Also, lady, you are the one to make sure he knows better, the excuse of him being a kid stopped working after five for most others. Even three year olds would better than your nine year old.
I'd hoped grandfather had asked the secueity guard if their CCTV cams recorded audio and that they wanted to press charges against karen for aiding and abetting felony sexual assault on a minor after the fact and for criminally corrupting a minor, and to call police and CPS immediately.
@@alexandriawilliams-brooker9475 that's exactly why a relative of mine bump heads a lot. I get on to her grandsons and try to teach them how to behave but they don't want to listen. My relative has them in sports believing that would teach them values but it build their ego more. One is around this age and when I try to tell him no means no or when someone tells him to stop for him to stop. He gives a cocky attitude of no and some rap song of he doesn't have to if doesn't want to. They are basically spoiled but yet I find parents or parental who thinks sports are the answers to all is stupid. Being athletic doesn't entitle you anything other than a trophy or championship.b
Story 2: that wasn't harassment. That was sexual assault. That kid's going to wind up in prison and his mother's going to stand around wailing about her precious boy would never do such a thing.
Or that it was consentual and the girl is lying. There are a lot of mothers who refuse to believe their sons are monsters and will say it was a set up or lies
As a former dishwasher > prep cook > cook's helper > line cook > head cook > restaurant manager (very long climb, but very much worth the effort, and missing a step or two would actually make it far harder at the endgame), I can truthfully say every restaurant needs a "Professional Lurch" or two for just such nasty customers as this.
Final Story - The ending had me laughing because that… was… BRILLIANT! A gentle giant of a manager that can strike fear into people without yelling or cursing. We need more people like that.
Gentle Giant: (Leaning down and whispering boomingly) Is the food Goooooood? Entitled Customer: Y...yes, very good. GG: That's your napkin. EC: It's very delicious.
i had a teacher like this once. 2,10 meter giant. the students behaved so well with him XD even though it was known he had the patience of a rock , if he got loud , it was not only warranted but he got REALLY loud. we could hear him in the rooms below.
Story 2 - If the kid was 3 to 5 years I can understand him not knowing better, but 9 years old… HELL NO. At the rate the Karen is ‘raising’ her son he’s going to touch the wrong girl and end up either in the hospital, jail, or 6 feet under.
i dont even think a normal child under puberty is going to be considering doing such things anyway. this shows that karen's child has been exposed to some very age-inappropriate things and is mimicking the behavior.
@@ryotedeschi6626 I was thinking the same. I was wondering what he'd been witnessing at home that calling a girl his girlfriend and shoving his hand up her shirt against her wishes was something he thought he should do. Clearly something is wrong in that family beyond just the enabling delusional mother.
Honestly I would’ve told the mom that if you gave me a couple hundred I would give her son a white belt, which *MAY* be better than a black belt, and honestly the mother and son might be stupid enough to fall for it
If she wants him to have a black belt, so bad suck it up and buy just enough black material for one. Done now, her son can go around town claiming to be a black belt pick fights and get his ass handed to him.
Story 2: That is not sexual harassment. That is *sexual assault.* Everywhere in the US I'm aware of, what he did (physically coerced sexual contact) is a *felony offense,* _even if the perpetrator is underage._ Security should not have just let them leave like that. They entirely should have called the police in that situation, and if they failed to do so, OP's family should have insisted that the police be called (and pressed charges). The fact that the boy called her his "girlfriend" makes it quite clear that he entirely did know that what he was doing was sexual in nature, and it was obviously without her consent, and he did it anyway. The "he doesn't know any better" argument would never fly in any court. He knew exactly what he was doing, and he basically just got away with it (and even told it was OK by his mom), so he'll almost certainly do it (or something even worse) again in the future, to someone else, too.
He‘s a fucking kid. He does what he’s taught. Claiming that he knew what he was doing is insane. Reminds me of the time they jailed a boy, who wasn’t even American, because his neighbours saw him helping his 5yo sister pee and was tried for Incest. Country of lunatics…. seriously!
Unforunetly I want to school whose mom made accuse for her son. The guy is 32 now. Always stalking girls. He even stalk me. And trying to r word them. All the time. I heard he even try to sell his kids off. Yet his mom still tries to make excuses that its the way the girls dress. Or the mother of his kids was lying. She told everyone I was a patheological liar and I never went to college. Lots and lots of bs. He has many restraining orders now. No one likes him.
He was 9… as unsavory as it is, that’s ridiculous. I feel like people don’t actually know any 9 year olds, especially ones with seemingly crappy parents. Beyond that I don’t understand what people think the law would do about it. Nothing is the answer
Story 3 - This one hits home with me. I’m a 1st degree black belt in Taekwondo and all I can say is that that brat of a kid wouldn’t last 5 minutes in my class because my instructor was a woman and was and still is a ‘No BS woman’ and ‘Mess with my kids and I’ll make you pay’ kind of teacher and his mother would still be arrested and facing assault charges. To Kira and the purple belt girl… bravo 👏
I’m a 3rd Dan myself. While I’m grateful we didn’t have incidents like this in our dojang, I’m almost certain Coach or I would react the same way. From one champion to another, (bow).
I tried Karate and other martial arts but unfortunately I couldn't do it because my weak lungs and easy asthma attacks I just couldn't do it so... instead I started learning massage points instead especially pressure points I loved all my teachers especially for there lessons in meditation helps me calm down
@@drakofox1362 I’m sorry to hear that martial arts didn’t work out for you because of your asthma but I’m glad to hear that you were able to learn how to use pressure points and meditation to help you.
Story 3: Unfortunately the OP would not be able to turn the brat around as that would require the people that conceived the brat to actually become parents and back the OP up.
Normally I wouldn't say this, but that kid is well on his way to jail as either a rapist or a serial killer. Hatred of women that strong at that age is terrifying.
@@evansquilt Considering she enables everything he does, its no wonder he has zero respect for her. If she were smart, she would have let purple belt girl go a few more rounds with him to help him understand females are not to be taken for granted instead of assaulting her. Guess she'll have to think about that while she's in her holding cell.
Story 2: 9 Year old is way too old to not know that shoving your hand up people's shirts is not okay. I bet you Karen would completely change her tune if that happened to her son. If nobody stops that behavior, he might carry this to adulthood and end up on The Registry
Might not have to wait until adulthood. There's actually a list for offenders who are minors (I think 9 is too young, but 16 might not be. Not sure how it works. Just know it exists)
Story 2... Creepy kid's mom did not react when the girl screamed. An ear piercing scream, everyone around them must've heard it and most parent's second reaction would be to confirm that their own kid was OK. She only got involved after OP swatted the kid, so she saw creepy kid grabbing Mel, she saw creepy kid trying to grab Mel again with OP trying to separate them, she didn't care. That's why she said "I didn't ask you what my son did". She saw everything and had no problem with it.
"We're taking him to karate so he learns discipline" "oh why don't you just give him what he wants, he doesn't like being told no" my neurons are dying
“I don’t like making my pwecious baby boy upset by telling him ‘No’ or disciplining him, so I just give him whatever he wants to make him happy.” Is basically all she’s saying.
@@pommunist yeah but Flanders let the Dr discipline Ned for an entire year. The moment they gave the disciple she wanted, she immediately retracted her statement. They weren't looking for discipline, they just wanted this boy to have an accolade.
Karen: I'm going to slap a black belt instructor because nothing bad can come from that. Karate instructor: ^thwak^ Gym mat: Ew gross, there's Karen drool all over me.
Public shaming only works when the person being shamed has the capability of even feeling shame, embarrassment or remorse. Those are things that way too many people are lacking these days.
In regards to Story 2: EM: "I won't leave without an apology." Me: "Sorry your life as a parental failure is so dismally boring. Get a hobby. It'll keep your mind active when your son goes to Juvie."
In today's current social climate, story 2 has my blood boiling. I'm especially weary of people that unironically reject reality and substitute their own.
at a dental office I worked at, I went out to get my new patient to bring him into the room we were working out of. I am 5'3" and except to be towered over by many but this man got up and he was 7'5" and had an English accent. He and I greeted each other and laughed. I brought him into room when the dentist was not there and he came in later after I sat the patient down and started to talk to him to make him feel comfortable. than the dentist who was 5'10" came in and introduced himself and we began to work. When all the work was done and the patient got up to leave the expression on the dentist was a laugh. like he know he was tall but not that tall and we all laughed.
That's basically how it went, I am sure he was expecting some scrawny or dude he could intimidate. He never expected a massive man like John Coffey to come out. His table knew they messed up.
The second story: My God! That entitled mother is a total piece of work. Mark my words, she's raising a future criminal. "He's just playing.” “He doesn't know any better.” "He's just a kid.” The fact that she makes a series of excuses for why her nine-year-old son doesn't respect boundaries, has zero regard for the word no and no sense of accountability tells me everything I need to know about her parenting style or lack thereof. Immediately running to his defense, conniving, lying, blame-shifting, projecting and villainizing anyone who dares shut down the atrocious behavior of her crotch spawn is only going to lead to bigger problems. I know, because I've seen it first-hand both with my older and younger siblings as well as with the child of a former family friend. As for my siblings, the older one is in prison (again) and the younger one is dead. Draw your own conclusions on how the hands-off parenting worked with both of them. As for the former family friend, she was what we now refer to as the stereotypical common everyday garden variety Karen. Let's call her Sally. Sally was one of the most self-absorbed people I've ever known in my life. She was always more concerned with the status of her cigarette, her manicure, her hair or how much booze she had in the fridge over actually raising her two kids that never asked to be born. She had a daughter from her first marriage who became a background character in the family unit after her spoiled little half-brother was born. Seven years younger than his older half-sister, Sally doted on her son as she had always wanted a boy. She put him on a pedestal, practically beatified him into sainthood and essentially deified him into godhood. A product of non-existent to inconsistent discipline, hands-off parenting and his mom always enabling his terrible behavior, it was quite taxing dealing with his increasingly violent tantrums. He was a holy terror by age four, a total nightmare by the time he was a pre-teen and an absolute monster by the time he was midway through his teens. For the record, he was not neurodivergent or on the spectrum in any way shape or form. Despite his clean bill of health, Sally insisted for years that he had Asperger's and ADHD. She even got her quack of a doctor to prescribe her some Xanax that she would slip to her son so she could get him to go to sleep. I warned Sally, for ages, that she wasn't doing her son any favors by not teaching him right or instilling in him that the real world wasn't going to put up with his gigantic ego and overwhelming arrogance that she had instilled in him. Since I'm male, single and adamantly child-free by choice, Sally dismissed my warnings claiming I didn't know what I was talking about. I told her to have fun with that and I hoped my words rang through her mind when her son inevitably raised a hand to her. What happened next was even better. She called me up flipping out when he was approximately 12 and told me that he had gotten beaten up at school. After dancing around the topic and trying to deflect while breathlessly ranting she was planning to sue the school, the kid and the principal (a notion that I laughed out loud at and told her that she was so broke she couldn't even afford to pay attention), I got her to spill what actually happened. It turned out, because she had taught her son that he was bulletproof and could do whatever he wanted, he tried to start a fight with a kid who was bigger than him and fought with more than just words. Apparently, and take this with a grain of salt, because Sally had a habit of exaggerating and lying every time she opened her mouth full of tobacco stained teeth, that her son was pinned down and then beaten up. I couldn't help but laugh. Sally was infuriated that I thought that her “precious baby” being beaten up was funny. I told her, in no uncertain terms, that "the little f*cker deserved it.” I added that Sally had asked for it by not raising her son right and to have fun with the monster she created. Sally was shocked into silence and ended the call. I went very low contact with her after that and it was a very big surprise to me when she called up out of the blue about two years later when her son was about 14. Sally was ranting and raving about God knows what. For all I knew she could have had a hangnail and wanted to whine about how her perfect manicure had been ruined. When I finally got her to calm down and explain what happened, she babbled all over the place and from what I could gather, her son had been suspended from school for a variety of infractions: truancy, doing poorly in his classes, disrespect towards faculty and other students, yet she hadn't gotten to the point for her latest crying meltdown. Sally alleged that when she grounded her son, who at this point dwarfed her in size, he shoved her and slapped her out of the way and left the house. Again, considering Sally had a habit of making up pure fiction every time she opened her mouth, it's anybody's guess if this actually happened. I don't know nor do I care. I told Sally, again, without mincing any words, that she asked for it by not raising him right. I also thanked her for reaffirming every reason for why I was child-free. She called me a butthole and hung up on me. Because Sally was the type to not be content without getting the last word (even when she was totally wrong), she took to social media and posted a shouty, almost indecipherable, typo-filled rant seeking validation for her poor life choices. In her wall of text that she wrote In all capital letters, she decried the trials and tribulations of being a parent, how no one knew "how hard” it was unless they were a parent, specifically a mother and that she was getting ready to cut ties with some “child haters.” Since Sally's reputation as a Karen and her son's awful behavior preceded both of them, she got dragged in the comments section. Even her own mother-in-law shared Proverbs 13:24 "Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him." Being as Sally saw herself as some great big Bible thumping pillar of the community (at least online anyway), her mother-in-law's reply was the metaphorical kick to her gut which completely took the wind out of her sails. Unsurprisingly, after not getting the response and sympathy she was looking for, Sally deleted her post. It was later replaced with another status where Sally defaulted to writing yet another stanza of her signature tune of ’poor me, my life sucks,’ in which she declared that she would be leaving social media for a while because it had become "too toxic.” I chuckled at the irony of her assertion as I knew she would never be able to look within herself or in the mirror and see that she was the root cause of all the problems in her life. Again, Sally did not receive the sympathetic reaction she was looking for and [surprise, surprise] stayed on. I mean, where else is a narcissist with an extremely fragile Texas-sized ego going to find an endless supply of attention?
@@JamesDavy2009 I don't really see the correlation. I just know from what I heard, that her son is now an overgrown twenty-something unemployed man-child, with no life skills, no dignity, no respect and totally expects the world to bend over backwards for him while giving him everything he wants in life. In other words he grew up to be just like his mother.
@@stardustpie1992 Point well taken. I haven't had any contact with Sally or her horrible kid in nearly eleven years. I did hear it through the grapevine, though, that her daughter from her first marriage went very low contact after her mom actively sabotaged her own marriage. She also cut her off from her only grandchild. That must hurt like hell. It's the karma of her horrible behavior. As for the son, I heard that he's a disrespectful, unemployed overgrown 20-something man-child with no dignity and no life skills who totally expects the world to bend over backwards for him, while giving him everything he wants in life, through no effort on his part. In other words, he grew up to be just like his mother.
Used to teach kid's karate classes. Had one parent come running onto the floor when her son started to cry because I wouldn't let him do something. She got told off. And was told that if she gave her son everything he wanted just so he wouldn't cry, she was going to have problems with him. Needless to say, he didn't stick with it.
If I ran a restaurant, I would NOT be shy with the ban hammer. One bad table can make a miserable experience for a dozen other customers who may now think twice about coming back.
How ridiculous that a mother demanded applause and so did the young girl….my daughter is in her school choir. But we don’t demand anything from anyone. That mom is teaching her daughter to put herself into situations that will hurt her feelings.
I could let the girl off (it was implied she was a good student which usually indicates they're well behaved enough along with their good grades) if the embarassment got to her and she was realizing that she's bad after being told she's amazing all her life and snapped as that realization sunk in. Kids and teens don't always make good judgements or take impulsive actions so it is possible it was impulsive. I don't know the girl's normal behavior so it could be a normal thing or it could have just been an outburst. Mom though, no she was wrong.
@@Alphasnowbordergirl that poor kid is DOOMED with a mother like that. I’m not saying she will 199,999% become a raging b!tch…but she will go way too far one way or the other. Either complain and become a “Karen”, OR go the other way and accuse everyone of being a “Karen” when they aren’t. Either way having an insane parent effects their life dramatically
Story 2: Just playing?! JUST PLAYING?! OH HELL NAW!!! KAREN THATS HARASSMENT OF THE SEXUAL KIND!!! 😡😡😡😡😡 HONESTLY!! IDK HOW SHES STILL A PARENT OF THE KID!!
On story 2, my nephew is 2 and understands boundaries! He wanted to hug me, I said no, and he accepted it! If a damn two year old can understand boundaries, so can a 9 year old!
@@KingNoah231 Oh definitely. Followed by Karen trying to sue the network and everyone for discrimination against her daughter and humiliating her. You know that it would happen.
@@fictionfan0 In a courtroom, there's no such thing as too much documentation. Police should have been brought into the picture because there was something rotten behind all that behavior. Also, there might be a law about enabling your child to SA someone regardless of their age because YOU are responsible for their actions to a certain point. At the least, CPS could make an investigation.
I met a Sensei who had a very talented student, but the student had a bit of an attitude. This kid took his Black Belt test at 15 and passed and this is when his attitude really showed. One day while working with some lower ranks this kid starts going nuts and beating on a Blue Belt, five ranks lower (This school/dojo had these belts: White, Yellow/Gold, Green, Purple, Blue, Brown, Second Degree Brown, Red, Second Degree Red, Black.) The Dojo Senior Sensei/Owner walked up stopped the kid and then removed his Black Belt and placed it on a shelf. He then told the kid that he was starting over at White and when he got to the point he could stand on the mat and reach the belt with no help he could get his Black Belt back. This kid ended up being one of the most patient and understanding Senseis at the Dojo.
Story 3: As a martial artist, that was really insulting! That stupid Karen and her little monster are spitting in the face of people who worked for YEARS to receive their blackbelts! If they gave into that boy's demands, he wouldn't survive a real fight! He didn't even survive that class! And bravo to the girls for standing up to Karen and the goblin. Karen needs to wake up and understand that she has to stop her enabling and discipline her child. Otherwise, someone will show him the hard and dangerous way.
Karen shouldn't have been allowed to watch him in class. Maybe then that little crotch goblin would've truly learned discipline, courtesy, how to work as part of a team AND respect. That helicopter Karen only made things worse for her kid.
Story 2, the kid Literally told her why he was crying.... "They took away my Girlfriend" which was A) ignored by the mom, B) Corroborates their story, C) shows he doesn't even think of the girl as a person but as an object, and D) is some seriously messed up behavior >.>
This story is why I hated working at restaurants over the years…I am so sick of picky patrons who just want to have something wrong with their food so they can get it for free. And that “dad” needs to step up and BE A REAL DAD!
My son is on the Autism spectrum and got in trouble for touching a girl inappropriately when he was younger. I was appalled and spent a lot of time explaining to him about not touching people without permission. I also took him to the psychologist we were seeing and she talked to him about it too. He was disciplined for his behaviour. Aside from his behaviour being wrong and totally inappropriate, I was scared that he could grow up getting into more trouble because he didn't know how to behave. I absolutely drummed it into him. If that mother in the first story keeps defending such behaviour, her son could end up in jail.
Story 2: When I was a kid, there was a boy whose family went to the same church as my family, so I've known him since I was about 3. He had this trick of putting his hand on the seat of a chair that a girl was about to sit on. He did this from childhood all the way through high school. The girls always told him to knock it off, but he was the golden child of one of the more respected families in town, so he never really got in trouble for it. He's now in prison for SA. I don't know if more discipline would've stopped him, but kids who habitually grope other kids need to be watched carefully, and should never be trusted to behave themselves.
Can't sing story: Some people just can't carry a tune in a bucket. My wife and daughter are a couple of them. My wife's older sisters were great singers. Thier music teacher asked them what happened after first hearing my future wife. My wife played clarinet in the band. She can carry a tune, just not with her voice. My daughter is the same, played violin and cello, can't sing. No shame unless you try to be someone you aren't. "Feel up" story: OP, I know it's been years, but I hope your family got your sister some self-defense training after that. Karen and her kid were both completely out of line. Karate class story: Sorry OP, all that kid wanted was lessons on how to be a bigger bully. But I have to ask, doesn't the dojo have cameras watching the training areas and front counter? If not, the owner needs to get some for exactly this sort of reason. You can't always count on the parents on the sidelines to be recording with their phones. Bad table story: Absolutely well done. A great way to get some entitled jerks to ban themselves without having to get the police involved.
LOL. I come from a family that can't carry a tune to save our lives. The only "unsatisfactory' I ever got on my grade school report card was from music class in the category "can carry a tune pleasantly and correctly". My brother played in a rock band since high school (he is an excellent guitar player). The one time he tried to join in the harmonies he was told if he ever tried that again he would be kicked out. We know our place and it is not in front of a microphone.
Second Dan in Taekwondo here, and I have had to deal with parents that want us to do the discipline for them, but not actually discipline the kid. In my 7 years of teaching, these kind of kids NEVER last long and this brat would have been kicked out at the second insult. You do not show that level of disrespect to my fellow instructors, my students, my school or myself without consequences. My students know me as the Drill Seargent and call me scary for good reason, but I have been mobbed by these same kids for a hug when I was out of class for a week. I am so proud of all of them. BUT. This kid wouldnt even lasted 5 minutes. At the second insult, he and his mom would be escorted out of the building and told to leave.
That last story was the BEST! I used to work in food service many, many years ago.Drunks are the worst. 🙄 I do wish “big brother” would have made that guy stand in the middle of the room and apologize.
Story 2: If she continues encouraging her son in the way she did in the story, that Karen had better prepare to visit him in prison when he's an adult, and hear his sob stories about what his fellow inmates do to him on a regular basis, as they don't take kindly to the sort of criminals that she has been raising him to be...
I loved that last story. IMO mr Shaq did humiliate that table by simply watching them like they needed to be watched like children in front of the entire restaurant until they left
Story 3: ...I don't get the mom's logic. The kid apparently "needs discipline" but at the same time she just wants him to be given everything he wants and facing no repercussions for his actions. Lady, this is NOT how discipline works.
I have a cousin who is a very large guy like the last story. Like, he used to pick up his little boys in one arm and also worked as a bouncer. He even rides a Harley. However, despite appearing very intimidating, he is like a giant teddy bear but I know he would scare the piss out of anyone who threatened his family like that douchebag dad did.
Final Story: That group seems to be first timers in a restaurant, never knowing NOT TO MESS WITH PEOPLE HANDLING YOUR FOOD. As for punishment? BD squirming in his seat silenced to submission by BB is already platinum-not just gold.
Supporting your child includes realistic judgements on their talents and skills so that they can appreciate what they actually accomplish not lying to them, the real world won't.
Story 2: That kid is going to end up behind bars, or worse, faster than Karen can blink. Story 3: It's for the best that the brat _didn't_ and _won't be_ learning from that class. Judging by what Karen Mom said and did, he wasn't going to learn discipline but new ways to assault women, girls, and anyone else he doesn't like.
There is a line of encouraging a child dreams and reality, for example when I was young I wanted to be a knight, and considering I'm a UK citizen it is possible for me to get a knighthood, but their is a big difference between knights in armour on horses of the past which was what I was thinking of, and modern knights who performed acts that benefit the community/country or went beyond the call of duty. My parents didn't just blindly support my dream nor bluntly tell me to my face that my vision of knights no longer existed. They encouraged me to research in my own time who current knights are and what deeds awarded them the knighthood, from former politicians, to fireman, from soldiers to charity workers. From there I came to my own realization that knighthood isn't what it used allowing the old dream to fade to be replaced by a new one as I realized reality. What they didn't do was arrange for me to be humiliated in front of hundreds of people, and somehow delude themselves that I would somehow be a success.
I used to work in a resturant under a chef who was a very big man. He carried some weight but under all that, he was built. He was ex army, had been a Commonwealth level boxer and under the appropriate circumstances a very scary man. Otherwise he was a gentle giant. But I remember one night when a patron got violent, he casually walked out of the kitchen, walks right up to the guy, gives him dead eyes and calmly asked what the problem was. Under that calm veil was a very strong hint of steel. Well the idiot started on him. Chef drops him, picks him up by the scruff and seat of his pants and literally lobbed him out on the pavement like a sack of trash, calmy says to the guy as he's regained some sense and said "I was being gentle, leave before you taste real pain and don't come back because I won't be so nice next time. The dude was also kicked out out of that hotel right after in the middle of the night. He was the best chef I ever worked under when I was in that industry.
Being a child is never an excuse to harass someone! It actually brought back some awful memories from my childhood. I was six years old and begged my mom to only let me wear shorts and pants, because the boys kept lifting my skirt/dress and it only got worse, because the teacher I had at the time would make the boys and girls change in the same room for PE (she left the room, of course, since she wasn't going to watch young children change into and out of their clothes). But the boys would repeatedly try to pin/hold the girls down (including me) to completely strip them down, because they wanted to "look at the boobs" and "the p****". Keep in mind these were six year old children. I was an extremely naive and sheltered child and knew nothing about sex or even fully understood some of the words they were using at the time. I never even told my mom, because I thought it was just the standard "bullying/teasing" that I had been lead to believe was "normal" and that there was nothing I could do about it. (Socialization was also something I struggled with for most of childhood and adolescence and I would do my best to learn by observation and copying behaviors that seemed to fit the social norm, which meant not telling anyone what was happening and keeping it to myself). In hindsight, I really wish I fully understood that it was very wrong and that I should have at least told my parents what those boys did to me and the other girls.
Story 2 reminds me of how my mother tells me that when I was little, we went to this one place for my birthday and this little boy started bullying me while we were on the climbing frames. I'm not 100% sure what happened because I can't remember and my mum only knows what I told her which wasn't much but it was enough to make me cry apparently (I know he pulled on my hair or on my skirt). I told my mum about him and pointed him out. Mum had no idea who this boy's parents were but the next time he bothered me, my mother stopped him and told him "If you touch my daughter one more time, I will give you the whalloping your mommy won't for touching girls like that." And the kid stopped bothering me, lol.
I would have called CPS on that lady since she obviously doesn't know how to parent her kid properly and he had to learn this behavior from somewhere. What's he seeing at home? What movies is she letting him watch? CPS should investigate.
Story 2: Karen’s son needs to be taken away from her before he gets put on a list that he can’t get off from the list. Also her “Angel” wouldn’t survive in prison once inmates find out the reason why her “Angel is in prison for
Story 2: As Karen keeps demanding an appology, I think that at that point I would have gone over to the kid, crounched down so I could look him in the eye and say: "Look, kid... I am sorry!! I am so very sorry.... that You got to have such a terrible mom! I just hope You don't grow up to be like her!!"
Story 1: The deafening silence said it all. No need to call out Karen on her daughter's terrible singing. Story 2: That was definitely sexual/indecent assault. When is the kid ever gonna learn it is wrong to do such things? I can see him ending up being a sexual offender if he continues down that path. Story 3: Karen's son clearly lacks discipline and boundaries. Karate lessons aren't the answer. A black belt is earned not bought. Karen got everything she deserved. How can she sue somebody who acted in self defense (as verified by the police)? Story 4: Good on OP's brother for intimidating that bunch of entitled people.
My son is 4. Lately he thinks it’s fun to randomly scream and body slam people. He once thought it was funny to hit a woman at a restaurant with a balloon. He’s tall for his age. He looks like he’s 6 or 7 so I have to tell people he’s 4 after he does his bad deed. Then I make him apologize and give him a lecture. I’m not using his age as an excuse for his bad behavior. I’m using it as a justification for forgiveness. I think that’s where a lot of entitled parents forget the difference. If mom so wanted her son to have a black belt. Don’t they have to go through certain tests to get each belt? Should have let her son spar with a lower belt girl. If he wins, black belt. Doubt he would have.
I've heard that last story before. I have a friend from college, "Jerry", who's prob about 6'7", 300+ pounds. Massive dude. He was a car salesman for a while, and if a customer caused any trouble, "Jerry" was called in to settle the matter. Suffice it to say, difficult customers didn't stay difficult for long.
Story 2: 9 year old boys and girls know what body parts are. They are also aware of good touch and bad touch (if you’re a good parent.) I’m surprised that Karen didn’t say “boys will be boys,” to add to her failure as a parent. I hope OP’s little sister doesn’t have permanent scars from this event, but I’m glad that she’s hyper-aware of what can happen to her, so she keeps her guard up.
I taught martial arts for over 17 years, retiring in 2007. It was amazing how many parents used us as baby sitters pretending they wanted their child to have some disipline, but really wanted their child to be given belts / promotions and magically be able to learn without any effort. I had a Black Belt instructor call me complaining her 15 yo son was kicked too hard in class. He was almost 6' tall and probably 180+ pounds. Eventually he became an excellent student and now teaches my old class - no thanks to her.
I work in a school and you teach them from 3 onwards about no-touch zones, because if they don't learn it's not okay, they're at a much higher risk of not knowing when they're being abused. If a kid reaches 9 and doesn't know about consent, there's a huge failing in raising that child.
Story 3: Oh boy, I'd pay real money to see the crazy Karen assaulting the black belt karate instructor only to have her leg tenderized. Reminds me a story back from high school. One year a gang of freshmen decided they needed to bully some nerds to steam off and expose how big their tiny ding-dongs were. They picked one nerdy friend of mine, which unbeknownst to them used to attend Kung Fu classes since he was 8 or something like that. He wasn't a prodigy or anything alike when it came to fighting, I'd even say he was a bit slow and lazy, but he had plenty of experience just from the sheer number of classes he had on his record. They started with some innocent pranks at first, but then they started calling him names and test his patience. He tried to avoid confrontations and trouble in general, but one day a particularly confident asshole decided to lay his finger on him. The body check however failed to assert the dominance, as within no more than 3 seconds the bully wannabe was laying on the floor with smashed head, some bruises and in general misery. It looked helluva impressive, but in retrospect I believe my friend held back, as no hard hits were delivered, just a few quick smacks was all it took. The smashed his head was a result of the fall to the floor, which being concrete refused to cushion the fall.
The story about the martial arts teacher, reminded me of something. When I was in the 9th grade, we would dress out in the locker room before going out to Phys Ed. There was a guy named Richard who was always talking about how he was taking martial arts, and how good he was. So, he gets into a fight with a guy, and tries a kick, and the guy (knowing what Richard was going to do) grabs his leg and proceeds to beat the dog garbage out of him. The next day, Richard wasn't there, and the guy at the next locker over, Wade, and I (Wade was kind geeky and a super nice guy) were talking about what happened to Richard. I mentioned to Wade that Richard should have kept his mouth shut bragging. Then Wade, the "geek" laid this on me.. he said, "Yeah, and you know, he isn't that good really." I asked, "How'd you know that?" He said, "Oh, I'm in the same martial arts class." I had to laugh thinking that if someone decided to push Wade around, they were in for one heck of a surprise. To be fair, Richard was a really nice guy, he just had some life lessons to straighten out.
Story 2: EB: But officer, my mom said its okay to fondle strangers because everyone in the world is my girlfriend! Why are you arresting me? Officer: You're in your twenties now, if mommy didn't teach you its wrong to commit SA, you're more than welcome to sue her after you serve your prison sentence.
Story 1: Dang, I feel sorry for her. As a performer back in school, I can remember audience clapping, and standing ovations especially, are not just handed for participation. It’s earned. Had it been a talent show or a fun karaoke night, it would have been fun and people probably would have cheered her on and gave her more social confidence. But the fact it was for entertainment, and especially equally in front of a large crowd, makes it devastating when the audience doesn’t react how you want. I’ve seen it happen, heck, it’s happened to me even. But it goes to show that performing is just as much a vulnerable expression as it is an artistic challenge. Hope she found something more successful and enjoyable.
Martial Art "belts" are achieved after a certification. They are the same to getting a license after passing a course. People with a martial arts background CAN and DO get charged with "Assault with a deadly weapon" if they fight someone without it being in a dojo/gym or in self defence of themselves or others. They can get a murder charge if they accidentally kill someone during a fight. So they don't give the belts out "willy-nilly"
It takes at least a decade to achieve a black belt, and it requires discipline and hard work. Kid #3 has zero chance, especially if he begins by telling an instructor she's a f*cking b*tch.
Story 2: My first sexual harrassment/ life threat happened when I was 8 and he was 9 and it was dismissed with "Boys will be boys" by the first adult I told. Because of that I never told my parents, never accepted my trauma as trauma (that or future trauma) and it has destroyed my life. I am so glad OP was there for his sister when this awful thing happened to her. It makes a difference.
"Are you really going to scold a nine year old--" Lady, at nine years old he SHOULD know better and it should be your job to TEACH him better! Same for the parents who never tell their son "no"... that's exactly why he's not disciplined.
Reminds me of the story of the 13 year old in the changing rooms. There was a swimming pool and a mom brought her 13yr old son into the women's locker room. The boy kept getting into stalls and when he tried to go into ops she's kicked him. Mom threaten to beat op. All the women are like he's too old to be in the women's room. And mom complained he's just a child who didn't know better. Normally when I see little little kids in the bathroom running around I go somewhere else.
Story 2 isn't just sexual harassment, it's sexual assault. That kid is going to end up in jail if he doesn't learn boundaries
Possibly in jail with splints and bandages all over his body.
Or worse if he keeps up it up, and does it with girl whose family is a crime syndicate or something.
Good thing you're here to tell that anonymous woman who didn't post the story. I'm sure she'll get the message.
His mom needs to go to jail as an accessory to sexual assault. Never let Karrens _____________. I don't care *what* it is, Karens need to be kept away from it or stopped from doing it!
Prison, not jail.
Story 2: If the 9-year-old doesn't know better than to touch someone he doesn't know, that suggests a parental failure.
Obviously with the mother who thinks that was acceptable, and not a harassment. Like seriously, what would she consider harassment if not that?
She should lose coustady of that boy
@jsmith1291 - I wonder where he learned that behavior. Maybe mommy isn't as discreet as she should be at home with her other adult "relation(s)." I had a (divorced) male roommate whose kids showed similar inappropriate behavior with each other. They spent more time with their mother and her boyfriend. Custody agreement. I told roommate they were now too old to share baths. He disagreed until I told him what I caught them doing after I got the locked bathroom door open. They were 4 & 5 years old. Thankfully they are all grown now and seem to be reasonably adjusted adults with kids of their own, who are also fine.
its even worse than him not knowing better, he gave his mom an answer as to why he's crying.... "They took away my Girlfriend..." that shows he A) thinks of her as an object, not a person, B) shows he thinks of her as HIS, and C) he's crying like a Toy was taken away from him.... that kid's gonna wind up on the sex offender registry...
@@durk5331 Or he's gonna get beaten up by overprotective big brothers who couldn't care less that CK is "young and doesn't know any better"
Story 3: "He never gets told no, so....."
"So PERFECT time for him to learn."
I don't think I could have stopped myself from screaming that if I was within earshot
As if we need more Veruca Salts (of either sex) in the world.
Lol i loved that one
To me, it was like, and you wonder why he needs work on discpline?
We need to start answering the Karen’s question “are you telling me how to parent?” With “yes since you are incompetent in teaching them right from wrong”
Exactly, along with "well its obvious that someone needs to"
Yep. The answer to that question needs to be an emphatic hell yes.
yeah, narcissists hate being challenged, which is why you get Karens doing the whole "Don't you DARE tell me how to parent my own kid!" even though they're committing childrearing malpractice that will cost society in the long run, BIG.
Agreed!
Story 2: blatant sexual assault. CPS should have be called, and the mother arrested. Her “Angel” of a son will no doubt try this same Shizz on someone else’s daughter, and the Parent/Older Sibling won’t be as nice, and the “Angel” will end up with a bloody lip or worse
Worse than that even, especially if he ends up assaulting a girl whose family being a crime group or something.
CPS should be called also to find out why a 9 year old is displaying age-inappropriate sexual behavior, because this is not really normal and could be a red flag of something inappropriate going on in his own home, as well as advising the mother to teach the boy about consent.
Seriously. Some people take VERY unkindly to the criminal underworld. So much so that committing crimes (or even being known to do/have done so) in their presence may be more dangerous than doing so around cops, or military soldiers/veterans.
One could hope
If I had a 9 year old sister, or worse a 9 year old daughter, that went through this, Karen would be lucky to still have her son is all I’m saying
Story 2: Your son is going to be on the Offender List soon if you don't fix him now.
"My son is nine, he doesn't know any better" is such bullcrap. If he doesn't know such basic things at that age then obviously there's been some lazy parenting going on. I bet when he's older and does worse stuff, she'll be victim blaming and spouting off the old "boys will be boys" line.
Future (in the) woodchipper!!!!
@@ponyfairyVania exactly. He doesn’t know any better because she isn’t telling him not to do it. This was the perfect opportunity for her to explain to him why that’s not OK and teach him a lesson. Of course, seeing on how the boy wouldn’t let go and started after OP before going into a tantrum, I’m gonna guess that she hasn’t said no to a lot of even more basic issues. Like, 9 is too old to not know better. A 9 year old might pull up a girl’s shirt and run away as a misguided prank, but to try to physically restrain and touch her, especially after an adult/older teen is trying to intervene… that’s preschool stuff.
@@YellaBellaRenoHe's a future felon/SA offender.
@@RavenHaili All *9* inches of him.
Story 2: lady, the way you acted after what your kid did, you'll help him become famous. On a registry that causes him to have to watch his back in the streets and prison.
Also, lady, you are the one to make sure he knows better, the excuse of him being a kid stopped working after five for most others. Even three year olds would better than your nine year old.
She's gonna end up a part of the same facebook group that Brock Turner's mom is on that's for a group trying to get rid of the sex offender registry.
I'd hoped grandfather had asked the secueity guard if their CCTV cams recorded audio and that they wanted to press charges against karen for aiding and abetting felony sexual assault on a minor after the fact and for criminally corrupting a minor, and to call police and CPS immediately.
@@alexandriawilliams-brooker9475 that's exactly why a relative of mine bump heads a lot. I get on to her grandsons and try to teach them how to behave but they don't want to listen. My relative has them in sports believing that would teach them values but it build their ego more. One is around this age and when I try to tell him no means no or when someone tells him to stop for him to stop. He gives a cocky attitude of no and some rap song of he doesn't have to if doesn't want to. They are basically spoiled but yet I find parents or parental who thinks sports are the answers to all is stupid. Being athletic doesn't entitle you anything other than a trophy or championship.b
@@alexandriawilliams-brooker9475Turner's mom is trying to do what???
Story 2: that wasn't harassment. That was sexual assault. That kid's going to wind up in prison and his mother's going to stand around wailing about her precious boy would never do such a thing.
The worst part of it is the op says she look back and laughs, she probably does but it’s a coping tactic.
Or that it was consentual and the girl is lying. There are a lot of mothers who refuse to believe their sons are monsters and will say it was a set up or lies
As a former dishwasher > prep cook > cook's helper > line cook > head cook > restaurant manager (very long climb, but very much worth the effort, and missing a step or two would actually make it far harder at the endgame), I can truthfully say every restaurant needs a "Professional Lurch" or two for just such nasty customers as this.
Professional Lurch. PERFECT job description!👏👏👏💖💖😉👍
It's always good to have a giant on staff
It's really too bad he didn't have green face paint to put on.
If I were taller and looked intimidating, I would do it for free if I was out and saw some other customers acting like that.
Final Story - The ending had me laughing because that… was… BRILLIANT! A gentle giant of a manager that can strike fear into people without yelling or cursing. We need more people like that.
That is such an awesome effect to witness.
I work in food services and I used to have a 6'8" coworker. I can imagine how big that guy was. That would have been glorious to behold.
Gentle Giant: (Leaning down and whispering boomingly) Is the food Goooooood?
Entitled Customer: Y...yes, very good.
GG: That's your napkin.
EC: It's very delicious.
yep they ask for a manager but end up with the manager watch dog of the place.
i had a teacher like this once. 2,10 meter giant. the students behaved so well with him XD even though it was known he had the patience of a rock , if he got loud , it was not only warranted but he got REALLY loud. we could hear him in the rooms below.
Story 2 - If the kid was 3 to 5 years I can understand him not knowing better, but 9 years old… HELL NO. At the rate the Karen is ‘raising’ her son he’s going to touch the wrong girl and end up either in the hospital, jail, or 6 feet under.
Or all three in consecutive order.
@@lotusasche4183 That’s a very strong possibility
i dont even think a normal child under puberty is going to be considering doing such things anyway. this shows that karen's child has been exposed to some very age-inappropriate things and is mimicking the behavior.
@@ryotedeschi6626 I was thinking the same. I was wondering what he'd been witnessing at home that calling a girl his girlfriend and shoving his hand up her shirt against her wishes was something he thought he should do. Clearly something is wrong in that family beyond just the enabling delusional mother.
@@ryotedeschi6626 I can smell a tablet kid with no age restrictions set.
Story 3 - The only way that kid is EVER going to get a black belt is if it came from a Halloween costume.
Honestly I would’ve told the mom that if you gave me a couple hundred I would give her son a white belt, which *MAY* be better than a black belt, and honestly the mother and son might be stupid enough to fall for it
If she wants him to have a black belt, so bad suck it up and buy just enough black material for one. Done now, her son can go around town claiming to be a black belt pick fights and get his ass handed to him.
That nine year old KNEW exactly what he was doing
probably encouraged to do so by his apologist mother
Story 2: That is not sexual harassment. That is *sexual assault.* Everywhere in the US I'm aware of, what he did (physically coerced sexual contact) is a *felony offense,* _even if the perpetrator is underage._ Security should not have just let them leave like that. They entirely should have called the police in that situation, and if they failed to do so, OP's family should have insisted that the police be called (and pressed charges).
The fact that the boy called her his "girlfriend" makes it quite clear that he entirely did know that what he was doing was sexual in nature, and it was obviously without her consent, and he did it anyway. The "he doesn't know any better" argument would never fly in any court. He knew exactly what he was doing, and he basically just got away with it (and even told it was OK by his mom), so he'll almost certainly do it (or something even worse) again in the future, to someone else, too.
He‘s a fucking kid. He does what he’s taught. Claiming that he knew what he was doing is insane. Reminds me of the time they jailed a boy, who wasn’t even American, because his neighbours saw him helping his 5yo sister pee and was tried for Incest.
Country of lunatics…. seriously!
Unforunetly I want to school whose mom made accuse for her son. The guy is 32 now. Always stalking girls. He even stalk me. And trying to r word them. All the time. I heard he even try to sell his kids off. Yet his mom still tries to make excuses that its the way the girls dress. Or the mother of his kids was lying. She told everyone I was a patheological liar and I never went to college. Lots and lots of bs. He has many restraining orders now. No one likes him.
He was 9… as unsavory as it is, that’s ridiculous. I feel like people don’t actually know any 9 year olds, especially ones with seemingly crappy parents. Beyond that I don’t understand what people think the law would do about it. Nothing is the answer
@@nocturne000 old enough to learn if parents teach him better
@@nicholerubes2959 absolutely
Story 3 - This one hits home with me. I’m a 1st degree black belt in Taekwondo and all I can say is that that brat of a kid wouldn’t last 5 minutes in my class because my instructor was a woman and was and still is a ‘No BS woman’ and ‘Mess with my kids and I’ll make you pay’ kind of teacher and his mother would still be arrested and facing assault charges. To Kira and the purple belt girl… bravo 👏
Also a good lesson: "Being a duma$$ doesn't discriminate."
I’m a 3rd Dan myself. While I’m grateful we didn’t have incidents like this in our dojang, I’m almost certain Coach or I would react the same way. From one champion to another, (bow).
@@krazoa555 (bows back) Thank you.
I tried Karate and other martial arts but unfortunately I couldn't do it because my weak lungs and easy asthma attacks I just couldn't do it so... instead I started learning massage points instead especially pressure points I loved all my teachers especially for there lessons in meditation helps me calm down
@@drakofox1362 I’m sorry to hear that martial arts didn’t work out for you because of your asthma but I’m glad to hear that you were able to learn how to use pressure points and meditation to help you.
Story 3: Unfortunately the OP would not be able to turn the brat around as that would require the people that conceived the brat to actually become parents and back the OP up.
Normally I wouldn't say this, but that kid is well on his way to jail as either a rapist or a serial killer. Hatred of women that strong at that age is terrifying.
@@evansquilt tbh it sounds like the men in his family are the same. he had to have learned it from somewhere.
@@evansquilt Considering she enables everything he does, its no wonder he has zero respect for her. If she were smart, she would have let purple belt girl go a few more rounds with him to help him understand females are not to be taken for granted instead of assaulting her. Guess she'll have to think about that while she's in her holding cell.
@@ryotedeschi6626 - wouldn't surprise me.
she should take him to mcdojo they give black belt after 2 to 4 years with out learning anything
Story 2: 9 Year old is way too old to not know that shoving your hand up people's shirts is not okay. I bet you Karen would completely change her tune if that happened to her son.
If nobody stops that behavior, he might carry this to adulthood and end up on The Registry
Or prison
Might not have to wait until adulthood. There's actually a list for offenders who are minors (I think 9 is too young, but 16 might not be. Not sure how it works. Just know it exists)
I'm assuming that Karen taught her son at an early that it was okay to do that to a girl and that they would enjoy it....what an idiot...
Boy : "He push me away from my girlfriend"
Mom: "He is 9 : he doesn't understand that"
So... why was he putting his hand under her shirt?
He'll be on the register when he is on his teens and some DA and judge have the balls to try him as an adult.
Karen: My daughter has a wonderful singing voice
Me: Maybe to the deaf
You kidding? Even to the deaf that's cruel and unusual
A face for radio, and the voice of a silent film star. My go to when I encounter entitled parents...I worked retail too long.
@@LordDuff😂😂😂👏👏👏 I LOVE THIS!!
Tho I thought the intense was the mom until the daughter screamed "clap for me!"
Some people have faces made for radio, she had a voice made for writing books.
Story 1: Karen; "My daughter has the voice of an angel"
her daughter; *Breaks every window and mirror within a 1 mile radius*
A biblically accurate angel maybe...
@@jingo4754 that would sound like Chthulu on Karaoke night
"Lucifer was an angel at one point." (great way to respond to that).
"The Angel of Death? Because your daughter's voice is killing me."
@@meh2510 Perfect response!
Story 2... Creepy kid's mom did not react when the girl screamed.
An ear piercing scream, everyone around them must've heard it and most parent's second reaction would be to confirm that their own kid was OK. She only got involved after OP swatted the kid, so she saw creepy kid grabbing Mel, she saw creepy kid trying to grab Mel again with OP trying to separate them, she didn't care. That's why she said "I didn't ask you what my son did". She saw everything and had no problem with it.
at age 9 you absolutely know not to grab someone else below their shirt. 9 year olds are not toddlers.
Also his saying that they took his girl friend certainly points toward him having some idea what he was about.
"We're taking him to karate so he learns discipline" "oh why don't you just give him what he wants, he doesn't like being told no" my neurons are dying
We've tried nothing, and we're all out of ideas.
“I don’t like making my pwecious baby boy upset by telling him ‘No’ or disciplining him, so I just give him whatever he wants to make him happy.” Is basically all she’s saying.
@@pommunist yeah but Flanders let the Dr discipline Ned for an entire year. The moment they gave the disciple she wanted, she immediately retracted her statement. They weren't looking for discipline, they just wanted this boy to have an accolade.
Karens acting up in a dojo with black belts never ends well for them.
Karen: I'm going to slap a black belt instructor because nothing bad can come from that.
Karate instructor: ^thwak^
Gym mat: Ew gross, there's Karen drool all over me.
@MattSanders-hp4qp or in a krav maga gym...😂
@MattSanders-hp4qp Or a military boot camp
I'm surprised the "purple" belt cried when confronted.... sound bs to me
Public shaming only works when the person being shamed has the capability of even feeling shame, embarrassment or remorse. Those are things that way too many people are lacking these days.
Story 2: "He never gets told no" and THAT right there is why he'll grow up to be a menace to society if you don't do a better job of raising him
Who does this remind me of? The clue: she's named after a sole wart and sodium chloride.
I want an oompa loompa now daddy!!!@@JamesDavy2009
In regards to Story 2:
EM: "I won't leave without an apology."
Me: "Sorry your life as a parental failure is so dismally boring. Get a hobby. It'll keep your mind active when your son goes to Juvie."
*Story 2-* That poor little girl!!! I can’t believe a mom wouldn’t care if her son was doing that to someone!!! That mom is disgusted!!!
That mom is an unindicted felon.
In today's current social climate, story 2 has my blood boiling. I'm especially weary of people that unironically reject reality and substitute their own.
Next, he will be putting on skirts to use the girls' bathroom.
When a kid channels both Veruca Salt and Mike Teavee, that's a dangerous combination. Karen's son was even the same age as Mike.
Last story
Brother asks boss if he could speak to table
People at table "why is there boss music playing?"
at a dental office I worked at, I went out to get my new patient to bring him into the room we were working out of. I am 5'3" and except to be towered over by many but this man got up and he was 7'5" and had an English accent. He and I greeted each other and laughed. I brought him into room when the dentist was not there and he came in later after I sat the patient down and started to talk to him to make him feel comfortable. than the dentist who was 5'10" came in and introduced himself and we began to work. When all the work was done and the patient got up to leave the expression on the dentist was a laugh. like he know he was tall but not that tall and we all laughed.
That's basically how it went, I am sure he was expecting some scrawny or dude he could intimidate. He never expected a massive man like John Coffey to come out. His table knew they messed up.
The second story: My God! That entitled mother is a total piece of work. Mark my words, she's raising a future criminal. "He's just playing.” “He doesn't know any better.” "He's just a kid.” The fact that she makes a series of excuses for why her nine-year-old son doesn't respect boundaries, has zero regard for the word no and no sense of accountability tells me everything I need to know about her parenting style or lack thereof.
Immediately running to his defense, conniving, lying, blame-shifting, projecting and villainizing anyone who dares shut down the atrocious behavior of her crotch spawn is only going to lead to bigger problems.
I know, because I've seen it first-hand both with my older and younger siblings as well as with the child of a former family friend. As for my siblings, the older one is in prison (again) and the younger one is dead. Draw your own conclusions on how the hands-off parenting worked with both of them.
As for the former family friend, she was what we now refer to as the stereotypical common everyday garden variety Karen. Let's call her Sally. Sally was one of the most self-absorbed people I've ever known in my life. She was always more concerned with the status of her cigarette, her manicure, her hair or how much booze she had in the fridge over actually raising her two kids that never asked to be born. She had a daughter from her first marriage who became a background character in the family unit after her spoiled little half-brother was born. Seven years younger than his older half-sister, Sally doted on her son as she had always wanted a boy. She put him on a pedestal, practically beatified him into sainthood and essentially deified him into godhood. A product of non-existent to inconsistent discipline, hands-off parenting and his mom always enabling his terrible behavior, it was quite taxing dealing with his increasingly violent tantrums. He was a holy terror by age four, a total nightmare by the time he was a pre-teen and an absolute monster by the time he was midway through his teens. For the record, he was not neurodivergent or on the spectrum in any way shape or form. Despite his clean bill of health, Sally insisted for years that he had Asperger's and ADHD. She even got her quack of a doctor to prescribe her some Xanax that she would slip to her son so she could get him to go to sleep.
I warned Sally, for ages, that she wasn't doing her son any favors by not teaching him right or instilling in him that the real world wasn't going to put up with his gigantic ego and overwhelming arrogance that she had instilled in him. Since I'm male, single and adamantly child-free by choice, Sally dismissed my warnings claiming I didn't know what I was talking about. I told her to have fun with that and I hoped my words rang through her mind when her son inevitably raised a hand to her.
What happened next was even better. She called me up flipping out when he was approximately 12 and told me that he had gotten beaten up at school. After dancing around the topic and trying to deflect while breathlessly ranting she was planning to sue the school, the kid and the principal (a notion that I laughed out loud at and told her that she was so broke she couldn't even afford to pay attention), I got her to spill what actually happened. It turned out, because she had taught her son that he was bulletproof and could do whatever he wanted, he tried to start a fight with a kid who was bigger than him and fought with more than just words. Apparently, and take this with a grain of salt, because Sally had a habit of exaggerating and lying every time she opened her mouth full of tobacco stained teeth, that her son was pinned down and then beaten up. I couldn't help but laugh. Sally was infuriated that I thought that her “precious baby” being beaten up was funny. I told her, in no uncertain terms, that "the little f*cker deserved it.” I added that Sally had asked for it by not raising her son right and to have fun with the monster she created. Sally was shocked into silence and ended the call.
I went very low contact with her after that and it was a very big surprise to me when she called up out of the blue about two years later when her son was about 14. Sally was ranting and raving about God knows what. For all I knew she could have had a hangnail and wanted to whine about how her perfect manicure had been ruined. When I finally got her to calm down and explain what happened, she babbled all over the place and from what I could gather, her son had been suspended from school for a variety of infractions: truancy, doing poorly in his classes, disrespect towards faculty and other students, yet she hadn't gotten to the point for her latest crying meltdown.
Sally alleged that when she grounded her son, who at this point dwarfed her in size, he shoved her and slapped her out of the way and left the house. Again, considering Sally had a habit of making up pure fiction every time she opened her mouth, it's anybody's guess if this actually happened. I don't know nor do I care.
I told Sally, again, without mincing any words, that she asked for it by not raising him right. I also thanked her for reaffirming every reason for why I was child-free. She called me a butthole and hung up on me.
Because Sally was the type to not be content without getting the last word (even when she was totally wrong), she took to social media and posted a shouty, almost indecipherable, typo-filled rant seeking validation for her poor life choices. In her wall of text that she wrote In all capital letters, she decried the trials and tribulations of being a parent, how no one knew "how hard” it was unless they were a parent, specifically a mother and that she was getting ready to cut ties with some “child haters.”
Since Sally's reputation as a Karen and her son's awful behavior preceded both of them, she got dragged in the comments section. Even her own mother-in-law shared Proverbs 13:24 "Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him." Being as Sally saw herself as some great big Bible thumping pillar of the community (at least online anyway), her mother-in-law's reply was the metaphorical kick to her gut which completely took the wind out of her sails.
Unsurprisingly, after not getting the response and sympathy she was looking for, Sally deleted her post. It was later replaced with another status where Sally defaulted to writing yet another stanza of her signature tune of ’poor me, my life sucks,’ in which she declared that she would be leaving social media for a while because it had become "too toxic.” I chuckled at the irony of her assertion as I knew she would never be able to look within herself or in the mirror and see that she was the root cause of all the problems in her life. Again, Sally did not receive the sympathetic reaction she was looking for and [surprise, surprise] stayed on. I mean, where else is a narcissist with an extremely fragile Texas-sized ego going to find an endless supply of attention?
Your FFF tried the Teavee method of parenting and turned her son into Mike Teavee.
@@JamesDavy2009 I don't really see the correlation. I just know from what I heard, that her son is now an overgrown twenty-something unemployed man-child, with no life skills, no dignity, no respect and totally expects the world to bend over backwards for him while giving him everything he wants in life. In other words he grew up to be just like his mother.
As someone from Texas, that’s an Alaska sized ego. (Alaska is bigger than Texas.)
@@stardustpie1992 Point well taken. I haven't had any contact with Sally or her horrible kid in nearly eleven years. I did hear it through the grapevine, though, that her daughter from her first marriage went very low contact after her mom actively sabotaged her own marriage. She also cut her off from her only grandchild. That must hurt like hell. It's the karma of her horrible behavior. As for the son, I heard that he's a disrespectful, unemployed overgrown 20-something man-child with no dignity and no life skills who totally expects the world to bend over backwards for him, while giving him everything he wants in life, through no effort on his part. In other words, he grew up to be just like his mother.
Used to teach kid's karate classes. Had one parent come running onto the floor when her son started to cry because I wouldn't let him do something.
She got told off. And was told that if she gave her son everything he wanted just so he wouldn't cry, she was going to have problems with him.
Needless to say, he didn't stick with it.
"He doesn't know any better" and who's job is it to teach him better???
If I ran a restaurant, I would NOT be shy with the ban hammer. One bad table can make a miserable experience for a dozen other customers who may now think twice about coming back.
How ridiculous that a mother demanded applause and so did the young girl….my daughter is in her school choir. But we don’t demand anything from anyone. That mom is teaching her daughter to put herself into situations that will hurt her feelings.
Delusions of grandeur
I could let the girl off (it was implied she was a good student which usually indicates they're well behaved enough along with their good grades) if the embarassment got to her and she was realizing that she's bad after being told she's amazing all her life and snapped as that realization sunk in. Kids and teens don't always make good judgements or take impulsive actions so it is possible it was impulsive. I don't know the girl's normal behavior so it could be a normal thing or it could have just been an outburst. Mom though, no she was wrong.
@@Alphasnowbordergirl that poor kid is DOOMED with a mother like that. I’m not saying she will 199,999% become a raging b!tch…but she will go way too far one way or the other. Either complain and become a “Karen”, OR go the other way and accuse everyone of being a “Karen” when they aren’t. Either way having an insane parent effects their life dramatically
Story 2: Just playing?! JUST PLAYING?! OH HELL NAW!!! KAREN THATS HARASSMENT OF THE SEXUAL KIND!!! 😡😡😡😡😡 HONESTLY!! IDK HOW SHES STILL A PARENT OF THE KID!!
Once contact is made, the line is crossed from harassment into assault and/or battery. Karen was as enabling as Mrs. Doris Teavee.
On story 2, my nephew is 2 and understands boundaries! He wanted to hug me, I said no, and he accepted it! If a damn two year old can understand boundaries, so can a 9 year old!
Story 1 - Imagine if Karen took her daughter to the American Idol auditions or the Voice auditions and tried that with the judges.
That Karen would be arrested on the spot if she tried that
the coaches would quickly turn the chairs around....the other way. if they could have the chairs face even further away they would
She would’ve gotten embarrassed on national television and then worldwide once it goes on RUclips
the first story kinda reminded me of the whole North West debacle for some reason.
@@KingNoah231 Oh definitely. Followed by Karen trying to sue the network and everyone for discrimination against her daughter and humiliating her. You know that it would happen.
Story 2 - what happened to security cameras in the mall?
When you have that many witnesses with that much consistency, what's the point?
@@fictionfan0 In a courtroom, there's no such thing as too much documentation. Police should have been brought into the picture because there was something rotten behind all that behavior. Also, there might be a law about enabling your child to SA someone regardless of their age because YOU are responsible for their actions to a certain point. At the least, CPS could make an investigation.
@@meh2510 exactly! Especially if those security cameras also records audio!
"My son needs a black belt." No he needs to learn Discipline, honor, respect, something it seems he will never learn living in that home.
I met a Sensei who had a very talented student, but the student had a bit of an attitude. This kid took his Black Belt test at 15 and passed and this is when his attitude really showed. One day while working with some lower ranks this kid starts going nuts and beating on a Blue Belt, five ranks lower (This school/dojo had these belts: White, Yellow/Gold, Green, Purple, Blue, Brown, Second Degree Brown, Red, Second Degree Red, Black.)
The Dojo Senior Sensei/Owner walked up stopped the kid and then removed his Black Belt and placed it on a shelf. He then told the kid that he was starting over at White and when he got to the point he could stand on the mat and reach the belt with no help he could get his Black Belt back.
This kid ended up being one of the most patient and understanding Senseis at the Dojo.
Way to teach the _Mulan_ method.
What a wonderful way to teach a lesson.
story 3 had me laughing, karen really thought that getting physical was a good idea in a *dojo.* great work, lady
I’m actually a bit concerned about the boy in Story 2. Sexualized behavior at a young age can be a sign of sexual abuse.
I've actually thought the same thing about several creepy children on these types of subreddits.
Or child watching wayyyyyyy to much p🌽
Story 3: As a martial artist, that was really insulting! That stupid Karen and her little monster are spitting in the face of people who worked for YEARS to receive their blackbelts! If they gave into that boy's demands, he wouldn't survive a real fight! He didn't even survive that class! And bravo to the girls for standing up to Karen and the goblin. Karen needs to wake up and understand that she has to stop her enabling and discipline her child. Otherwise, someone will show him the hard and dangerous way.
Karen shouldn't have been allowed to watch him in class.
Maybe then that little crotch goblin would've truly learned discipline, courtesy, how to work as part of a team AND respect.
That helicopter Karen only made things worse for her kid.
We unfortunately haven't developed the tech to make Wonkavision a reality.
Story 2, the kid Literally told her why he was crying.... "They took away my Girlfriend" which was A) ignored by the mom, B) Corroborates their story, C) shows he doesn't even think of the girl as a person but as an object, and D) is some seriously messed up behavior >.>
This story is why I hated working at restaurants over the years…I am so sick of picky patrons who just want to have something wrong with their food so they can get it for free.
And that “dad” needs to step up and BE A REAL DAD!
OP's brother reminds me of the Alton Giant
My son is on the Autism spectrum and got in trouble for touching a girl inappropriately when he was younger. I was appalled and spent a lot of time explaining to him about not touching people without permission. I also took him to the psychologist we were seeing and she talked to him about it too. He was disciplined for his behaviour. Aside from his behaviour being wrong and totally inappropriate, I was scared that he could grow up getting into more trouble because he didn't know how to behave. I absolutely drummed it into him. If that mother in the first story keeps defending such behaviour, her son could end up in jail.
Story 2: When I was a kid, there was a boy whose family went to the same church as my family, so I've known him since I was about 3. He had this trick of putting his hand on the seat of a chair that a girl was about to sit on. He did this from childhood all the way through high school. The girls always told him to knock it off, but he was the golden child of one of the more respected families in town, so he never really got in trouble for it. He's now in prison for SA. I don't know if more discipline would've stopped him, but kids who habitually grope other kids need to be watched carefully, and should never be trusted to behave themselves.
Can't sing story: Some people just can't carry a tune in a bucket. My wife and daughter are a couple of them. My wife's older sisters were great singers. Thier music teacher asked them what happened after first hearing my future wife. My wife played clarinet in the band. She can carry a tune, just not with her voice. My daughter is the same, played violin and cello, can't sing. No shame unless you try to be someone you aren't.
"Feel up" story: OP, I know it's been years, but I hope your family got your sister some self-defense training after that. Karen and her kid were both completely out of line.
Karate class story: Sorry OP, all that kid wanted was lessons on how to be a bigger bully. But I have to ask, doesn't the dojo have cameras watching the training areas and front counter? If not, the owner needs to get some for exactly this sort of reason. You can't always count on the parents on the sidelines to be recording with their phones.
Bad table story: Absolutely well done. A great way to get some entitled jerks to ban themselves without having to get the police involved.
LOL. I come from a family that can't carry a tune to save our lives. The only "unsatisfactory' I ever got on my grade school report card was from music class in the category "can carry a tune pleasantly and correctly". My brother played in a rock band since high school (he is an excellent guitar player). The one time he tried to join in the harmonies he was told if he ever tried that again he would be kicked out. We know our place and it is not in front of a microphone.
Story 4: holy smokes that brother is a damn hero
He reminds me of the time in history where I learned about the Giant of Illinois
Second Dan in Taekwondo here, and I have had to deal with parents that want us to do the discipline for them, but not actually discipline the kid. In my 7 years of teaching, these kind of kids NEVER last long and this brat would have been kicked out at the second insult. You do not show that level of disrespect to my fellow instructors, my students, my school or myself without consequences. My students know me as the Drill Seargent and call me scary for good reason, but I have been mobbed by these same kids for a hug when I was out of class for a week. I am so proud of all of them. BUT. This kid wouldnt even lasted 5 minutes. At the second insult, he and his mom would be escorted out of the building and told to leave.
That last story was the BEST! I used to work in food service many, many years ago.Drunks are the worst. 🙄 I do wish “big brother” would have made that guy stand in the middle of the room and apologize.
Story 2: If she continues encouraging her son in the way she did in the story, that Karen had better prepare to visit him in prison when he's an adult, and hear his sob stories about what his fellow inmates do to him on a regular basis, as they don't take kindly to the sort of criminals that she has been raising him to be...
just sitting there for half and hour as they silently eat their food is one of the biggest power move I've ever seen XD
I loved that last story. IMO mr Shaq did humiliate that table by simply watching them like they needed to be watched like children in front of the entire restaurant until they left
Story 3: ...I don't get the mom's logic. The kid apparently "needs discipline" but at the same time she just wants him to be given everything he wants and facing no repercussions for his actions. Lady, this is NOT how discipline works.
Oh the gentle giant chef! I've missed this story!
I have a cousin who is a very large guy like the last story. Like, he used to pick up his little boys in one arm and also worked as a bouncer. He even rides a Harley. However, despite appearing very intimidating, he is like a giant teddy bear but I know he would scare the piss out of anyone who threatened his family like that douchebag dad did.
Final Story: That group seems to be first timers in a restaurant, never knowing NOT TO MESS WITH PEOPLE HANDLING YOUR FOOD.
As for punishment? BD squirming in his seat silenced to submission by BB is already platinum-not just gold.
Story 3: classic case of eff around and find out
During that last story with the giant person, my first thought was *"How does the kitty cat GOOOOOOO?!"*
If you know, you know.
"Meow" Cats Don't Dance.
*"Yes, Ms. Dimple?"*
@@kitarrah1422 *VERY GOOOOOOD!*
Supporting your child includes realistic judgements on their talents and skills so that they can appreciate what they actually accomplish not lying to them, the real world won't.
it is epidemic how many 'parents' are quick and determined to demand their kid's right to do wrong.
Sadly in story 2, that karen is of the majority. Most people think kids cant do anything wrong cuz they are underage
Story 2: That kid is going to end up behind bars, or worse, faster than Karen can blink.
Story 3: It's for the best that the brat _didn't_ and _won't be_ learning from that class. Judging by what Karen Mom said and did, he wasn't going to learn discipline but new ways to assault women, girls, and anyone else he doesn't like.
The last story was gold . Thus is how u handle people like that .and he should have banned them from the place.
#2
"But he was just playing!"
To quote Rick and morty:
"So was Jeffrey Dahmer"
There is a line of encouraging a child dreams and reality, for example when I was young I wanted to be a knight, and considering I'm a UK citizen it is possible for me to get a knighthood, but their is a big difference between knights in armour on horses of the past which was what I was thinking of, and modern knights who performed acts that benefit the community/country or went beyond the call of duty. My parents didn't just blindly support my dream nor bluntly tell me to my face that my vision of knights no longer existed. They encouraged me to research in my own time who current knights are and what deeds awarded them the knighthood, from former politicians, to fireman, from soldiers to charity workers. From there I came to my own realization that knighthood isn't what it used allowing the old dream to fade to be replaced by a new one as I realized reality. What they didn't do was arrange for me to be humiliated in front of hundreds of people, and somehow delude themselves that I would somehow be a success.
Story 1: Uh…. Look EM, I know your kid’s a good student, but you should know that she’s not… well yeah.. I’m leaving at what OP and fluff said.
I used to work in a resturant under a chef who was a very big man. He carried some weight but under all that, he was built. He was ex army, had been a Commonwealth level boxer and under the appropriate circumstances a very scary man. Otherwise he was a gentle giant. But I remember one night when a patron got violent, he casually walked out of the kitchen, walks right up to the guy, gives him dead eyes and calmly asked what the problem was. Under that calm veil was a very strong hint of steel. Well the idiot started on him. Chef drops him, picks him up by the scruff and seat of his pants and literally lobbed him out on the pavement like a sack of trash, calmy says to the guy as he's regained some sense and said "I was being gentle, leave before you taste real pain and don't come back because I won't be so nice next time. The dude was also kicked out out of that hotel right after in the middle of the night. He was the best chef I ever worked under when I was in that industry.
Being a child is never an excuse to harass someone! It actually brought back some awful memories from my childhood.
I was six years old and begged my mom to only let me wear shorts and pants, because the boys kept lifting my skirt/dress and it only got worse, because the teacher I had at the time would make the boys and girls change in the same room for PE (she left the room, of course, since she wasn't going to watch young children change into and out of their clothes). But the boys would repeatedly try to pin/hold the girls down (including me) to completely strip them down, because they wanted to "look at the boobs" and "the p****". Keep in mind these were six year old children.
I was an extremely naive and sheltered child and knew nothing about sex or even fully understood some of the words they were using at the time. I never even told my mom, because I thought it was just the standard "bullying/teasing" that I had been lead to believe was "normal" and that there was nothing I could do about it. (Socialization was also something I struggled with for most of childhood and adolescence and I would do my best to learn by observation and copying behaviors that seemed to fit the social norm, which meant not telling anyone what was happening and keeping it to myself).
In hindsight, I really wish I fully understood that it was very wrong and that I should have at least told my parents what those boys did to me and the other girls.
Story 2 reminds me of how my mother tells me that when I was little, we went to this one place for my birthday and this little boy started bullying me while we were on the climbing frames. I'm not 100% sure what happened because I can't remember and my mum only knows what I told her which wasn't much but it was enough to make me cry apparently (I know he pulled on my hair or on my skirt). I told my mum about him and pointed him out. Mum had no idea who this boy's parents were but the next time he bothered me, my mother stopped him and told him "If you touch my daughter one more time, I will give you the whalloping your mommy won't for touching girls like that." And the kid stopped bothering me, lol.
Story 1. They should have clapped. As my dad used to tell me, sometimes you clap because they're good, sometimes you clap because they're done.
There is a wise man who has been to a lot of school concerts!!
I would have called CPS on that lady since she obviously doesn't know how to parent her kid properly and he had to learn this behavior from somewhere. What's he seeing at home? What movies is she letting him watch? CPS should investigate.
Story 2: Karen’s son needs to be taken away from her before he gets put on a list that he can’t get off from the list. Also her “Angel” wouldn’t survive in prison once inmates find out the reason why her “Angel is in prison for
Story 3: OP should have fake black belts with the word "L0SER" written on them, just for those Karens.
@MattSanders-hp4qp If you want the authentic look, have ばか written on them.
Story 3: And how did you think assaulting a self-defense instructor was gonna work out for you, Karen?😒
Story 2: As Karen keeps demanding an appology, I think that at that point I would have gone over to the kid, crounched down so I could look him in the eye and say: "Look, kid... I am sorry!! I am so very sorry.... that You got to have such a terrible mom! I just hope You don't grow up to be like her!!"
Story 1: The deafening silence said it all. No need to call out Karen on her daughter's terrible singing.
Story 2: That was definitely sexual/indecent assault. When is the kid ever gonna learn it is wrong to do such things? I can see him ending up being a sexual offender if he continues down that path.
Story 3: Karen's son clearly lacks discipline and boundaries. Karate lessons aren't the answer. A black belt is earned not bought. Karen got everything she deserved. How can she sue somebody who acted in self defense (as verified by the police)?
Story 4: Good on OP's brother for intimidating that bunch of entitled people.
No I would not subject the poor girl to having to see the piece of crap again even for an apology because it wouldn't be genuine
miss the days where "parents" went home paying their food they finish at home and being banned for not having their kids under control.
No is a one word sentence. You have to earn a black belt.
My son is 4. Lately he thinks it’s fun to randomly scream and body slam people. He once thought it was funny to hit a woman at a restaurant with a balloon. He’s tall for his age. He looks like he’s 6 or 7 so I have to tell people he’s 4 after he does his bad deed. Then I make him apologize and give him a lecture. I’m not using his age as an excuse for his bad behavior. I’m using it as a justification for forgiveness. I think that’s where a lot of entitled parents forget the difference.
If mom so wanted her son to have a black belt. Don’t they have to go through certain tests to get each belt? Should have let her son spar with a lower belt girl. If he wins, black belt. Doubt he would have.
I've heard that last story before. I have a friend from college, "Jerry", who's prob about 6'7", 300+ pounds. Massive dude. He was a car salesman for a while, and if a customer caused any trouble, "Jerry" was called in to settle the matter. Suffice it to say, difficult customers didn't stay difficult for long.
Story 2:
9 year old boys and girls know what body parts are. They are also aware of good touch and bad touch (if you’re a good parent.) I’m surprised that Karen didn’t say “boys will be boys,” to add to her failure as a parent.
I hope OP’s little sister doesn’t have permanent scars from this event, but I’m glad that she’s hyper-aware of what can happen to her, so she keeps her guard up.
I taught martial arts for over 17 years, retiring in 2007. It was amazing how many parents used us as baby sitters pretending they wanted their child to have some disipline, but really wanted their child to be given belts / promotions and magically be able to learn without any effort. I had a Black Belt instructor call me complaining her 15 yo son was kicked too hard in class. He was almost 6' tall and probably 180+ pounds. Eventually he became an excellent student and now teaches my old class - no thanks to her.
I work in a school and you teach them from 3 onwards about no-touch zones, because if they don't learn it's not okay, they're at a much higher risk of not knowing when they're being abused. If a kid reaches 9 and doesn't know about consent, there's a huge failing in raising that child.
Story 3: Oh boy, I'd pay real money to see the crazy Karen assaulting the black belt karate instructor only to have her leg tenderized.
Reminds me a story back from high school. One year a gang of freshmen decided they needed to bully some nerds to steam off and expose how big their tiny ding-dongs were. They picked one nerdy friend of mine, which unbeknownst to them used to attend Kung Fu classes since he was 8 or something like that. He wasn't a prodigy or anything alike when it came to fighting, I'd even say he was a bit slow and lazy, but he had plenty of experience just from the sheer number of classes he had on his record. They started with some innocent pranks at first, but then they started calling him names and test his patience. He tried to avoid confrontations and trouble in general, but one day a particularly confident asshole decided to lay his finger on him. The body check however failed to assert the dominance, as within no more than 3 seconds the bully wannabe was laying on the floor with smashed head, some bruises and in general misery. It looked helluva impressive, but in retrospect I believe my friend held back, as no hard hits were delivered, just a few quick smacks was all it took. The smashed his head was a result of the fall to the floor, which being concrete refused to cushion the fall.
The story about the martial arts teacher, reminded me of something. When I was in the 9th grade, we would dress out in the locker room before going out to Phys Ed. There was a guy named Richard who was always talking about how he was taking martial arts, and how good he was. So, he gets into a fight with a guy, and tries a kick, and the guy (knowing what Richard was going to do) grabs his leg and proceeds to beat the dog garbage out of him. The next day, Richard wasn't there, and the guy at the next locker over, Wade, and I (Wade was kind geeky and a super nice guy) were talking about what happened to Richard. I mentioned to Wade that Richard should have kept his mouth shut bragging. Then Wade, the "geek" laid this on me.. he said, "Yeah, and you know, he isn't that good really." I asked, "How'd you know that?" He said, "Oh, I'm in the same martial arts class." I had to laugh thinking that if someone decided to push Wade around, they were in for one heck of a surprise. To be fair, Richard was a really nice guy, he just had some life lessons to straighten out.
Big Brother sous-chef was a HERO!!! I loved that!!!
Yup, I agree with you. Big bro should have made the guy apologize to that poor waitress, she didn't deserve that.
Story 2:
EB: But officer, my mom said its okay to fondle strangers because everyone in the world is my girlfriend! Why are you arresting me?
Officer: You're in your twenties now, if mommy didn't teach you its wrong to commit SA, you're more than welcome to sue her after you serve your prison sentence.
He'll be in prison long before his twenties.
16:15 missed opportunity to call the boy everything you want except "anything"
Story number two, that’s not sexual harassment! that’s called sexual assault!!!
The brother is a hero! Yes. An apology would have been better.
The last story was a retelling of a previous episode. I like this one, it's told better. Big brother's methods were perfect
Story 1: Dang, I feel sorry for her. As a performer back in school, I can remember audience clapping, and standing ovations especially, are not just handed for participation. It’s earned. Had it been a talent show or a fun karaoke night, it would have been fun and people probably would have cheered her on and gave her more social confidence. But the fact it was for entertainment, and especially equally in front of a large crowd, makes it devastating when the audience doesn’t react how you want. I’ve seen it happen, heck, it’s happened to me even. But it goes to show that performing is just as much a vulnerable expression as it is an artistic challenge. Hope she found something more successful and enjoyable.
Martial Art "belts" are achieved after a certification. They are the same to getting a license after passing a course. People with a martial arts background CAN and DO get charged with "Assault with a deadly weapon" if they fight someone without it being in a dojo/gym or in self defence of themselves or others. They can get a murder charge if they accidentally kill someone during a fight. So they don't give the belts out "willy-nilly"
It takes at least a decade to achieve a black belt, and it requires discipline and hard work. Kid #3 has zero chance, especially if he begins by telling an instructor she's a f*cking b*tch.
Who IS that kid? Eric Cartman?
@@nancyomalley6286 Could be-he "racks disciprine".
Story 2: My first sexual harrassment/ life threat happened when I was 8 and he was 9 and it was dismissed with "Boys will be boys" by the first adult I told. Because of that I never told my parents, never accepted my trauma as trauma (that or future trauma) and it has destroyed my life. I am so glad OP was there for his sister when this awful thing happened to her. It makes a difference.
"Are you really going to scold a nine year old--" Lady, at nine years old he SHOULD know better and it should be your job to TEACH him better!
Same for the parents who never tell their son "no"... that's exactly why he's not disciplined.
Reminds me of the story of the 13 year old in the changing rooms. There was a swimming pool and a mom brought her 13yr old son into the women's locker room. The boy kept getting into stalls and when he tried to go into ops she's kicked him. Mom threaten to beat op. All the women are like he's too old to be in the women's room. And mom complained he's just a child who didn't know better. Normally when I see little little kids in the bathroom running around I go somewhere else.