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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2021
  • Its a fan favorite today: the q and a! I will be answering your questions about a side variety of topics such as Jewish life, gender roles in Orthodox Judaism, childbirth, homeschooling, clothing and so much more! In this video I answer over 30 of your questions from my perspective as an Orthodox Jewish homeschooling mother of three. Thank you so much for watching and learning about my Orthodox Jewish life!
    Hello and welcome! My name is Chana, I’m married to my best friend, and we have three wonderful children together. We also happen to be Orthodox Jews and we homeschool our kids. This video is a sneak peek into our daily lives :) You can see how this particular Jewish homeschool mom sets up her days, rolls with the punches, and gets it all done. Thanks for watching!
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  • @jaroffireflies
    @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +47

    Hope you are all having a fantastic day! Let me know if you have any follow up questions! I will do my best to get to them!

    • @michelemarie4128
      @michelemarie4128 2 года назад

      What is your baptismal name?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +10

      @@michelemarie4128 that’s not something that I share here

    • @mastljn
      @mastljn 2 года назад

      You said before that you agreed to a marriage contract and did not write your own vows as in many Christian weddings. Is there a specific marriage contract or are you able to customize your marriage contract and what is in a typical marriage contract that could not be changed if you can customize it?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@mastljn I honestly don’t know a whole lot about the marriage contract.

    • @andiG2444
      @andiG2444 2 года назад

      I noticed that you use an iPhone 11...do you like it? I’m thinking about upgrading from a seven. 🙂

  • @xqzan
    @xqzan 2 года назад +67

    Just a note, I really respect your morning ritual and the spirituality of it. So a few days ago, I've decided to follow suit, sitting on the stoep with my tea and reading. What a wonderful way to start each day

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +7

      That’s amazing! Thank you so much for sharing that with me Isabella!

    • @carolinamoreno5419
      @carolinamoreno5419 2 года назад +3

      It is the best! I wish I can copy Chana in that but I enjoy my tea at bedtime. In the morning is a bit crazy and I drink it while doing a million things but don't enjoy it.

    • @carolinamoreno5419
      @carolinamoreno5419 2 года назад

      👎👎 Didn't like this one. I am not mad but very disappointed and...who knows what.
      Women ARE obligated to study Torah, except religion flips things over to the convenience of the particular group without caring what The Almighty Father wrote as a commandment, law or decree. That is why He says "children of Israel" meaning both male and female, unless there is something specifically for men, like brit milah or for women like mikveh, but twisting things around they tell you to keep this and not that. So women miss out on using talit and tzitziot, etc, which is commanded into women as well. Judaism as praisers of Him is the answer; not Judaism as a religion with sooo many men-made commandments. As another example, the Torah states not to mention His name in vain, yet men command you not to mention it at all, which is not His word. Adonai, Elohai etc are okay as they are in the Torah but not hashem. Ha= the Shem= name so you are invoking "the name" which is any of the thousand gods there are. The worse part is that they do so knowing that you are not allowed to add to the Torah. When you do that it is following the creation and not the Creator. Also, Purim is just like the 4th of July or so because it wasandated by the queen, not by the Creator. So, it is okay to celebrate if you wish; what is WRONG is to add to the Torah saying it is a Moed -Holy Feast. Hannukah is a miracle; not a Moed either. You can have it as a reminder because it is important but it is not a commandment of The Father. That is messed up because why go through all the trouble of switching religions if you are still following man-made rules that take priority above The Father's.
      I respect but I don't necessarily agree. It is a commandment not to mislead your brother. I am not saying you, Chana, as in doing in purpose, no, because you, yourself were mislead. You, as a women are not reading the Torah in depth but following what you are told without searching for the truth, which is what actually brought you here. Shalom!

    • @hpyrkh3
      @hpyrkh3 2 года назад +5

      @@carolinamoreno5419 I think it means, women are not obligated to study Talmud, the Oral Torah. They are not forbidden, though. But, frankly speaking, I tried studying Talmud, I don’t enjoy it, I would rather just study Chumash and other books of the Tanakh and enjoy it, than figuring out what to do, if a bull falls off the neighbors’ roof and accidentally kills your goat. I’m making it up, but there are cases even crazier than this is the Talmud.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +10

      @@carolinamoreno5419 it’s all about the quiet time which can be at any time of day :)

  • @phyllismandelbaum5550
    @phyllismandelbaum5550 2 года назад +33

    Just a sweet thing to mention. My husband also was in the room when I was in labor. When each of our 4 children were born, my husband literally danced around the room singing Shema when holding them for the first tome. It is a cherished memory that each of my children know about. When I was able, I said the blessing for a boy or girl along with shehechiyanu. It still brings happy tears of joy to me. His reasoning was that he wanted HaShem in their lives from their first moments of life.
    Shabbat Shalom!
    This q and a was so interesting!!

  • @xovickymarie
    @xovickymarie 2 года назад

    Ahhh! Thanks Chana for answering my question! 💗 these Q&A’s are so fun to watch! I hope you have the best day!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      It was such a great question Vicky that I had to add it in :) Thanks! And I hope you’re having an awesome day too!

  • @abbeykielinen4551
    @abbeykielinen4551 2 года назад

    Chana I absolutely love these videos, Im drinking tea and feel like im learning so much from a friend. thank you for sharing with us, I always look forward to you uploads :)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Aw thanks so much Abbey! I am so glad that you are here! Thank you for your kind words :)

  • @amma3536
    @amma3536 2 года назад +23

    I really like your attitude. Honestly, I am a Roman Catholic. I love my religion, but also believe that Jesus was born a Jew. So, my feelings are that I love Jewish people, if that makes sense. Thank you for all the insight. I love watching your channel. Take care and God bless!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +5

      Thank you so much for your kind words :) I really appreciate you!

  • @angelavlogt2230
    @angelavlogt2230 2 года назад

    Yeey! You've answered my questions, thank you so much for that! I wish you a great weekend, including your mini holiday! Greetings from The Netherlands

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You’re so welcome Angela! Hope you have a great weekend as well!

  • @staceypantazis3860
    @staceypantazis3860 2 года назад

    Thank you, Chana. Thoughtful and informative.

  • @myboyzr2
    @myboyzr2 2 года назад

    I always feel so fulfilled and calm after watching your videos Chana.. Thank you for that!

  • @annetteaylett4157
    @annetteaylett4157 2 года назад

    Thank you for doing the Q&As, I appreciate your openness, enthusiasm and honesty. I'm looking forward to learning more about the Mikvah experience which I know a little about through watching different youtubers. Although it is a cleansing/renewal of the body, it seems to me that it's like a spa for the soul too and is a precious experience.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      You are so welcome! And thank you for your kind words :) I am really excited to do the mikvah videos!

  • @ems_h.eartnotes
    @ems_h.eartnotes 2 года назад

    I just love your channel Chana. I learn so much from every video and I love your calm yet vibrant energy and your warm personality 💛

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so very much! Your comment gave me a smile thank you!

  • @mackenzieb2218
    @mackenzieb2218 2 года назад +4

    I love these Q&A's. I always feel like I know you and your family so much better after these videos.
    Hope your week is going well, Chana!

  • @oxymom2002
    @oxymom2002 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for your openness and willingness to share of your experience. It is a blessing. 💜

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You’re so welcome! Thanks for being here!

  • @alliemac1974
    @alliemac1974 2 года назад +2

    I absolutely love all of your video's, Chana - but especially these ones :) I actually can't wait for your videos to come out every week and it seems I am not the only one! You are such a special person - thank you for sharing your life, beliefs, loves and passions with us all. It is amazing that so many "strangers" care so much about what you have to say - it is truly a blessing from G-d xoxo!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so very much Alison! You made my day!

  • @tiagorman1553
    @tiagorman1553 2 года назад

    Thank you for your honesty, sharing your life and beliefs as well as your opinions. Some interesting questions and info.
    As always I look forward to watching your videos and appreciate your candour.😊

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      It’s my pleasure:) Thanks so much for being here Tia!

  • @nielsenkelsey545
    @nielsenkelsey545 2 года назад +4

    Absolutely love your content. I’ve said it before but your genuine and positive spirit is absolutely contagious. I hope you and your family have a great rest of the week 😊

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so very much Kelsey! I really appreciate your kind words 💜💜💜

  • @andiG2444
    @andiG2444 2 года назад

    Hello Chana! I’m really busy this morning so am looking forward to watching your video later. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for dropping by to say hello! Hope your day goes well 💜

  • @victoriaheisser7137
    @victoriaheisser7137 2 года назад

    So interesting! Always view your videos and I am recommending them to my friends and family.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Thank you so very much Victoria! I so very much app you recommending my channel to folks you know! 💜💜💜

  • @MediocreComedian
    @MediocreComedian 2 года назад

    Hi Chana, I love how open you are and I think it is so admirable that you share. You are really awesome ❤️

  • @lesleywhite6285
    @lesleywhite6285 2 года назад

    What s diverse range of topics you covered here today Chana!!
    Marathon runner and Marathon question answerer!!!!👏🏻👏🏻
    Thank you so much for taking time to answer everything.
    I really love learning more about Judaism through your videos and
    I’m looking forward to the upcoming ones you mentioned.
    Have a great day!!
    Lesley

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thanks Lesley! I’m so glad that you enjoyed!

  • @joannarakoski9620
    @joannarakoski9620 2 года назад +30

    Gah! So excited for this. I recently found your channel. I am a traditional catholic and I respect your story of conversion. I enjoy your content and find peace in your traditions and everything you have shown / shared with us. Currently dealing with 4 tummy bugs in our home so I am coming back to watch this later ❤️. Thank you for posting. We share many many similar values!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Ack! I hope y’all are all better soon! Those tummy bugs are the worst! Thank you so much for your kind words and welcome to my channel! I am truly so happy that you are here 💜

  • @lafemmerouge4271
    @lafemmerouge4271 2 года назад +1

    These are great! I’m learning as much about the Jar of Fireflies community by the questions as I am about your life/family/community from the answers. ❤️

  • @annettemurielle
    @annettemurielle 2 года назад +1

    You are such a joyful person! I love watching your videos because your joy is contagious and it fills me up--Thank you!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you Murielle and you are so welcome!

  • @kaydixie5727
    @kaydixie5727 2 года назад

    Thanks for all your honest answers. Always enjoy listening to your videos.

  • @belagrozdanovic5860
    @belagrozdanovic5860 2 года назад +1

    Slatka gospodja i Bas mi je drago sto snima,sto upoznajem obicaje svojih dedova

  • @couturehelvetica1261
    @couturehelvetica1261 2 года назад

    Hey Chana! Thanks for the video - very informative. I can clearly see I'm not alone when it comes to really, really wanting to try your husband's fish dish recipe. It feels like questions about the recipe are always among the most asked ones. ;) Loved hearing about your marathon experiences.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed! I hope you enjoy the fish when you try it!!!

  • @marthaaliceallen8711
    @marthaaliceallen8711 2 года назад

    Thanks for your candid answers. So informative

  • @steph1986
    @steph1986 2 года назад +5

    I love your videos Chana! You're honesty and openness and willingness to share your experience as an orthodox Jewish person is beautiful. I love learning and really understanding how people of different beliefs live, and you do that so well. Thanks again, from Australia

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment and kind words! I really appreciate you!

  • @melhebs1
    @melhebs1 2 года назад +20

    I love your positivity and cheerful attitude. What a joy it must be for your family to be around you!

  • @dawnbaker9274
    @dawnbaker9274 2 года назад +2

    Love these q and a session's. So interesting. Thanks.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      So glad you are enjoying them Dawn! I have so much fun doing them :)

  • @iceeyes3875
    @iceeyes3875 2 года назад +1

    Watching your Q&A’s gives me so much more appreciation for your religion and beliefs! You speak with such pride and it’s nice to see that you have friends/family with different backgrounds and are able to all respect one another’s cultures/ religions! Much love 💕

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so very much! I’m so glad you’re here!!!

  • @jettabartholomew1118
    @jettabartholomew1118 2 года назад +1

    I love this channel 💕 I am learning so much ‼️ Thank you 💛💛💛

  • @michelelynn6914
    @michelelynn6914 2 года назад

    Thank you Chana I really enjoyed the Q&A and learning more about the Jewish religion.

  • @barbarashames1372
    @barbarashames1372 2 года назад

    Thank you for answering all those questions. It was so informative

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      You’re so welcome Barbara! Thanks for watching!

  • @karenhopper1691
    @karenhopper1691 2 года назад +9

    Good morning Chana! Thank you once again for a very informative Q and A video. I agree with you and think women are more spiritual than men. Bringing life into this world is hard work and our emotional strength and spirituality see us through. I hope all of your upcoming holidays will be extra special and filled with love and joy! 😊❤

  • @macintyredunning
    @macintyredunning 2 года назад +1

    Yes yes yes !!!! I literally squealed when I saw it was a Q&A!!!! Love to you all x

  • @crystal7217
    @crystal7217 2 года назад +17

    Good morning I just want to take a minute to thank you. I can’t tell you enough how appreciative I am for your openness. I try to teach my children that if they have a question about a persons culture or beliefs depending on the relationship it’s better to politely ask the question than wonder in silence. I don’t know why it is the fear of offending someone kicks in when we approach these types of questions. People like you are what I hope my kids encounter if they have questions. A nice open person who understands that curiosity is often just a yearning to understand another human. It’s nice when a person is okay sharing the reasons behind beliefs or behaviors. To me that takes down walls, builds bridges ,and knits people together where once their might have been a separation.
    I think the world would be so much better with more people like you in it. I’m glad your kids have the benefit of learning your warmth and openness. Goodness knows the world needs more nonjudgmental open honest people ready to communicate with kindness.
    I hope the sun shines on you and you have a good day. Crystal

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +3

      Thank you so very much Crystal! I really appreciate your lovely comment :) I’m totally with you, a few more conversations with folks not the same as us would help the world a lot!

  • @Yomariegut
    @Yomariegut 2 года назад +1

    I love your transparency and heart for Hashem! Thank you for opening your home 💜

  • @winnieewing7730
    @winnieewing7730 2 года назад

    Good question even better answers. You bring a nice light into my life. Love listing to your life and the way your face lights up when you talk about God and your family. Ireland x

  • @erikatablet2401
    @erikatablet2401 2 года назад

    Hello Chana! I’m a new subscriber to your channel and I really enjoy the Q&A videos. Learning a lot and having fun along the way! Thank you!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Hello Erika! Welcome to my channel! I’m so glad you’re here!!!

  • @Penny-bt4gc
    @Penny-bt4gc 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing more of your life and faith journey. It’s really beautiful to see how your faith encompasses your daily life and teaching your children the same way. It really doesn’t seem as restrictive as people may think. I guess it also depends on which sect you’re in same as some other Christian faiths.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! It’s definitely not restricting, I’m glad you see that. There is such an emphasis on free will in Judaism also, everything is our choice. Including whether to be observant or not. We choose to observe these obligations :)

  • @janbee1895
    @janbee1895 2 года назад

    Hi Chana and Family it is Thursday evening here. I would like to wish you a blessed Shabbat. Hope you and family have a good time and enjoy your Moroccan fish if your having it this week
    much appreciated your hubby showing how to make the dish
    Blessed xxx

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you Jan! We are definitely having the Moroccan fish again tomorrow! Very excited for it! Hope you have a great weekend!

  • @kaydublin5164
    @kaydublin5164 2 года назад

    Hi, you are such a bright light, so positive and an easy going, your family is very lucky. I so enjoy your videos.🙂

  • @123scrappygirl
    @123scrappygirl 2 года назад +3

    Chana, I am so glad that you do these Q & A’s. You have made me realize how much I have missed my Judaism these past years. I am now trying to bring it back into my life. I do try to do some readings every morning, but I still have a long way to go. Lighting Sabat candles and making challah again are in my near future. Thank you. Shabbat shalom.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Oh my gosh that’s amazing!!!!! Wow! If you want my regular challah recipe (like not gluten free) email me and I’ll send it to you! Wow! You made my day!

    • @123scrappygirl
      @123scrappygirl 2 года назад

      @@jaroffireflies , thank you for that offer, but I have celiac like your son. Everything in my house needs to be gluten free except for my husbands d granddaughter’s snacks. I do sneak in many gluten free snacks for her, but she is lucky at 22 months old!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@123scrappygirl ohhhhh in that case here is my gluten free challah recipe just in case 😁 ruclips.net/video/0PUzgMR4JtU/видео.html

  • @CherylNoe
    @CherylNoe 2 года назад

    Love your Q&A's! Thank you!!!

  • @franbowers7032
    @franbowers7032 2 года назад

    Hi Chana wow I love the q n a videos I always learn so much from them and you x

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Thanks for being here Fran!

    • @franbowers7032
      @franbowers7032 2 года назад

      @@jaroffireflies your welcome Chana I love your videos and have learnt so much from you and them. I'm so glad that I found your RUclips channel x

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@franbowers7032 thank you so very much!!! 💜😊

  • @arleneg1271
    @arleneg1271 2 года назад

    Another good Q and A, Chana. I have been busy and may be in and out for a while. My sisters and I are caring for our 91 yo mom who fell and broke her foot. So if I do not comment, that is why!! Happy Tnanksgiving to you and your family.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Oh my! May she have a full and quick and complete recovery without complications!

  • @elspeth8876
    @elspeth8876 2 года назад

    I loved listening to you speak so passionately about your faith.

  • @Rose-ip2xu
    @Rose-ip2xu 2 года назад +1

    This video is a real gift to help folks understand Judaism - I am becoming more open with my own Jewish identity for this very reason (for example inviting non-Jewish friends over for Shabbat dinner). Thank you for the inspo Chana!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      You’re so very welcome!!!! 💜💜💜

  • @nancyayala2217
    @nancyayala2217 2 года назад

    Happy holidays to you and your beautiful family

  • @MartianInDisguise
    @MartianInDisguise 2 года назад

    I don't know exactly why but I find your videos to be comforting, like going to my grandma's house when I was a kid.

  • @mcomeslast
    @mcomeslast 2 года назад +7

    I love these. Especially the part about our relationship with Hashem growing at different rates. I needed some downtime after converting reform and wasn’t surprised when I needed it after finishing my orthodox conversion. Just time to daven at home, a couple rabbinic zoom classes and a couple RUclips lectures a week while I finished fall canning. I love davening at shul. Just recharging some batteries.

  • @patriciagreene5842
    @patriciagreene5842 2 года назад

    Thank you for your sharing and your honesty.

  • @carolynturnerclark9287
    @carolynturnerclark9287 2 года назад

    Your honesty is refreshing.

  • @YaYa-jy1yv
    @YaYa-jy1yv 2 года назад

    I have learned so much from you. Thank you.

  • @LoisMary1
    @LoisMary1 2 года назад

    Love your q&a’s!

  • @jackienaiditch7965
    @jackienaiditch7965 2 года назад +3

    I really enjoy watching your channel. I'm a secular Jew who grew up going to the only orthodox synagogue in San Diego. We were very good friends with the rabbi. Life intervened, including college classes in existentialism, so here I am. I still love all the cultural aspects of being Jewish. I think your channel shows the power of the Internet to do something good: provide a way to learn about different cultures, lifestyles, and religions. With all the divisiveness in the country today, we need to reach out to each other and share our basic humanity.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words Jackie! I really appreciate you and I’m so glad you’re here

  • @vergieclark131
    @vergieclark131 2 года назад +1

    Love this video ! I am fascinated with your lifestyle and how it coincides with my mine as a Christian ! Many blessings to you and your family ! 🥰🙏🏼

  • @vgunning4441
    @vgunning4441 2 года назад +1

    First comment! Thanks Chana for sharing your life- I have a totally different life from you but love learning about yours!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Thank you so very much! I love that we can all be here together and learn from each other!

  • @FennecTheRabbit
    @FennecTheRabbit Год назад

    You and I are super different humans and I feel like it would be so interesting to like have a tea and just chat (I’m very much agnostic and I just find folks beliefs and the why fascinating). Thank you so much for being open and sharing.

  • @ellenhomeister7374
    @ellenhomeister7374 2 года назад +6

    Thanks so much for the Q&A’s. As a conservative Jew, I respect your choices very much. You are a natural teacher. I explain to my friends and family, the mitzvot are for drawing closer to and becoming more like Hashem, it’s all about self improvement which leads to bringing heaven to earth. When studying the Tanach, we learn how the Jews before us succeeded or fell short, how to make better choices in all our ways. There I look for inspiration to keep going on so many levels. When each person improves themselves, the family is improved, when families are improved the community is improved….eventually the world is improved.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Totally agree! Love how you worded that. Someone told me once that mitzvot are a physical way to a spiritual result or something like that. I thought that was really cool

  • @FrugalFunMum
    @FrugalFunMum 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing it's great to learn!

  • @sararussell7227
    @sararussell7227 2 года назад +15

    I appreciate your Q and A videos so much. I find them very helpful in understanding Orthodox Judaism better. Thank you for taking the time to explain your culture and religion.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You are so welcome Sara! Thanks so much for being here :)

    • @idmouse
      @idmouse 2 года назад

      This exactly. And she's so fun and so... personable. She would definitely be someone I would love to meet for tea and chat

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@idmouse Aw thank you 😊

    • @idmouse
      @idmouse 2 года назад

      @@jaroffireflies huggles

  • @lizhumble9953
    @lizhumble9953 2 года назад

    Thank you to your husband for the suggestion of oxtail. Since we have a fish allergy we will give that a try. I love oxtail actually so looking forward to trying this. Also thanks for the answers to my homeschool questions. I love these videos. Happy Thanksgiving to your sweet family!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Sure thing Liz! And I will pass along your thanks to my husband. Please let me know how you like the recipe with the oxtail!

  • @janithgottfried8320
    @janithgottfried8320 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing, I enjoy your Q and A's and appreciate your input. Please thank your husband for me for the recipe and suggestion of oxtail, I can almost smell it cooking!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      You are so welcome! I’m so happy to hear that you enjoy this kind of video! And I will absolutely pass along your thanks to my husband :) Enjoy!

  • @Ummkelechi
    @Ummkelechi 2 года назад +1

    I enjoyed your Q&A! It was very informative and you are such a sweet person🥰 I like your discussion on gender roles and I agree! I think we live in a society where women and men are in constant competition with each other. I think it’s better to embrace our differences as women and men and just enjoy it☺️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Kelly! And yes, I totally agree with you :)

  • @reginagoldbaum1605
    @reginagoldbaum1605 2 года назад +14

    Actually I'm a convert to Islam and I find it really interesting what you share in your Videos and I like your personality very much, so light-hearted and positive. I hope to see and learn more about your life as an orthodox jew. I find so many similarities between our faiths. ⚘

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Thanks Regina! I’m so glad you’re here!

    • @arosemorose
      @arosemorose 2 года назад

      Oh hey me too!Judging by your name I'd say same as me, converted from Judaism?

    • @reginagoldbaum1605
      @reginagoldbaum1605 2 года назад

      @@arosemorose No, I converted from Christianity. But because of my name, and it's association with Judaism, I 'm interested in the religion, culture and even trying to learn jiddish 😅

  • @robine6337
    @robine6337 2 года назад

    You are so interesting and real. I enjoy your videos so much.

  • @mrsgoofykid10
    @mrsgoofykid10 2 года назад +5

    As another person of faith, I LOVE your description of how you feel freed by all the laws and restrictions. I feel absolutely the same. Also, I almost choked laughing when you said “I drank the kool-aid”. 🤣

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      😂😂😂 I’m so glad all that resonated with you! Sorry to make you laugh so hard 😁 Your comment made me giggle too

  • @barbseverino1278
    @barbseverino1278 2 года назад +1

    I am so happy you did the Q and A. It clears up all the negativity people fee

    • @ckzac5
      @ckzac5 2 года назад

      You always seem to be so upbeat. Have you always been this way? I often find myself feeling grumpy 😠 Any tips for how to keep an upbeat, positive attitude?

  • @kristinmiller4779
    @kristinmiller4779 2 года назад +1

    I thought I missed you good morning Chana! I made the fish and used cod and added fresh mushrooms it was delish!!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Amazing! That sounds delicious! So very glad that you enjoyed the recipe :)

  • @angelabarber5783
    @angelabarber5783 2 года назад +1

    So cool to hear about your ultra marathon running! I don't run myself but my BIL does. We celebrated him as he ran the JFK50 in his 50th year with a time in the 7hr range. He's a beast ... and so are you! :)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      That’s awesome! Very cool! And thank you 😊

  • @yesabenson
    @yesabenson Год назад +1

    Loved this! Very interesting!’

  • @RedHeadedStorm
    @RedHeadedStorm 2 года назад +1

    I loved your last video with your husband cooking. I'd love to see more videos with your husband. I love watching you. 💜

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thanks Wendy! He said he would definitely do more cooking videos with me so stay tuned!

  • @michaelurvoy
    @michaelurvoy 2 года назад +1

    Hello, Chana, I hope that you and your family are well. I am excited to hear your opinions on some of these topics. I think we will probably think the same way about a lot of topics. Gut Shabbos!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You’ll have to let me know if you agree :) It was a huge range of questions this time and I had so much fun answering them :) Shabbat shalom!

    • @michaelurvoy
      @michaelurvoy 2 года назад

      @@jaroffireflies I definitely agree with a lot of what you said, yes. We are both Old Earth Creationists. As a psychology student, I was fascinated by your insight into gender roles and their link to how men and women tend to behave and think anyway.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      @@michaelurvoy glad you enjoyed that :) From a psychological sociological perspective Judaism is pretty fascinating.

  • @bookmouse2719
    @bookmouse2719 2 года назад +1

    You go girl! Your channel popped up. My husband is a Ger and my daughter in law is Moroccan, but we are Ashkenasi.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Hello! Welcome! I’m so glad you’re here!

  • @aidele5757
    @aidele5757 2 года назад

    This was amazing!❤️❤️❤️

  • @carolinedowdeswell4897
    @carolinedowdeswell4897 2 года назад

    I love these videos, you're so good at explaining things clearly, will you be doing a thanksgiving prep video? I'm from the UK and love watching those

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Hello Caroline! Thanks so much! I’m so glad that you enjoy these! I am doing a thanksgiving prep video, it’s going to be posted on thanksgiving day, so next Thursday! So stay tuned!

    • @carolinedowdeswell4897
      @carolinedowdeswell4897 2 года назад

      @@jaroffireflies brilliant, I'll look forward to that, 😊

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@carolinedowdeswell4897 enjoy!

  • @jennifercarter1437
    @jennifercarter1437 2 года назад +1

    Love your explanation of gender rolls

  • @terriehamtak2512
    @terriehamtak2512 2 года назад

    Also I am doing a 30 days of gratitude. It is fun. I am grateful to you for sharing you life. I am LDS but I love learning about orthodox life.

  • @gailresko8315
    @gailresko8315 2 года назад

    Beautiful!! Thank you again.

  • @juliabartlam2083
    @juliabartlam2083 2 года назад +1

    I love how you talked about what is a day to God because you put it how I want to but don't have the words.

  • @barbseverino1278
    @barbseverino1278 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful life.

  • @AMPattee
    @AMPattee 2 года назад

    I feel the same way about creation! God's time is definitely different than our time I feel.
    I love your channel, and I love learning about the things you share.
    Thank you for letting us share in pieces of your life!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Thank you so much! I’m so glad you’re here!

  • @Katalila
    @Katalila 2 года назад

    I love watching your videos after a stressful day, your cheerful personality always puts me in a good mood.
    Please tell your husband thank you for the tip of using only 1/3 of a bunch of parsley in the Moroccan fish. I'm making it for my husband tomorrow night!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate you! And I will definitely pass along your thanks! Enjoy the fish and please let me know how y’all like it!

  • @julieoliver3848
    @julieoliver3848 2 года назад

    Happy Friday! Have a great weekend.

  • @karenbailey9717
    @karenbailey9717 2 года назад

    You're so lovely Chana! Sometime ago you asked if we might be interested in seeing your wedding video and I for one would love to see it...so one day if you are able...I can imagine how beautiful it was! 🙂

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Thank you so much Karen! I did post the wedding video :) Here’s a link: ruclips.net/video/rf1mgkfeNX4/видео.html Enjoy!

  • @deboraoseguera8485
    @deboraoseguera8485 2 года назад

    Loved your answer to the creation question

  • @jaysondavis7064
    @jaysondavis7064 2 года назад

    I learned so much again today. I am so looking forward to the homeschool update. I thought this year would be our last year homeschooling and my grandson would return to public school next year for 3rd grade, but then today he said he wanted to stay homeschooling and be with me for school. Oh what a tug tug heartstrings! I told him I would pray about and talk to his parents. I do know if we continue, we will be looking for a different curriculum. I love the literature aspect of Blossom & Root for language arts , but the Science is more than he is absorbing. Well -that was a little TMI. 😂
    I pray the rest of your week is wonderful. Blessings, Shawn

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Oh wow that’s amazing! What a testament to how awesome you are doing :)

    • @jaysondavis7064
      @jaysondavis7064 2 года назад

      Thank you, lately most days I feel like we are barely treading water and then today he says this and I may have teared up a little!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      @@jaysondavis7064 awww I call that a pay day!!!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Ps we called it quits today and went out for ice cream, we all have those days!

  • @mackenzieb2218
    @mackenzieb2218 2 года назад +2

    I think the reason why I love your channel so much is because my grandpa converted to Judaism to marry my step grandma (in my opinion it was the sweetest thing he could have ever done). He passed away when I was 18, and my first experience of Judaism was a funeral. I feel like I'm learning everything he never got to teach me about Judaism. So thank you. I know I spam your comments all the time, but I just truly appreciate you and this channel.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      May your grandpa's memory be a blessing. I am so sorry for your loss. I am so happy though that my channel is able to bring you closer to him as you are leaning more about Judaism!

  • @OurBucketListHasHoles
    @OurBucketListHasHoles 2 года назад

    Hi Chana 🤗 It’s so good to see you today. Yes I’m having a great day! I’m so glad to hear your having a great day as well. Your Q&A’s are very informative. I love to learn about different religious customs and holidays, so thank you for sharing. I would love to learn more about the Judaism faith. I have a Tanakh-The Holy Scriptures Bible and have been reading that now for a few months. Do you feel that is a good place to start? Also do you have any other suggestions for me to read to learn more about the faith? I’m sorry for bombarding you with these questions, but I do cherish your opinion on this subject. I totally understand if you don’t feel comfortable answering these questions as well. I hope you and the family have a wonderful Shabbat and a wonderful week following💜 many Blessings and take care-Debbie💜

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Hello Debbie! Its really hard for me to tell someone where to start reading to learn about Judaism because it is such a HUGE topic! You might look into if there is a synagogue near you that you would be able to attend a class at. Sometimes they offer intro to Judaism classes.

    • @OurBucketListHasHoles
      @OurBucketListHasHoles 2 года назад

      Thank you Chana for your advise😊

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      @@OurBucketListHasHoles You are so welcome! Good luck!

  • @baileyschindler9270
    @baileyschindler9270 2 года назад +12

    Chana, thanks so much, I love these Q and A’s. When you were speaking about creationism it made me smile because I don’t know anyone around me who believes in that type of creationism like I do:)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Ohhh are you an old world creationist too?

    • @baileyschindler9270
      @baileyschindler9270 2 года назад +4

      @@jaroffireflies yes, it’s made the most sense to me personally. Like you said, who knows how long the days were back then, the length of days fluctuates today between the seasons.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      @@baileyschindler9270 exactly :)

    • @tinas8085
      @tinas8085 2 года назад +2

      Yes!! I feel the same and have struggled to explain it to people.

    • @karenharper2266
      @karenharper2266 2 года назад +1

      I have always felt that the Lord created the dinosaurs. Thank you for answering that question. I was afraid that I was the only one.

  • @colleendobsondatum3643
    @colleendobsondatum3643 2 года назад

    Do you put a place at the table for the Profit Ilisha? My Mum started us on that and we do it at every celebration. Thanks for the answers and your time. It feels like I'm talking to a friend (not a stalker) lol!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Hi Colleen, No, we do not do that. So glad you are enjoying these! I am so happy that you are here!

  • @renanims6630
    @renanims6630 2 года назад +1

    I’m LOVING your channel. You mentioned the Bible & Genesis being your favorite book. As you know as a former Catholic, the Catholic Bible has included the “missing” books. Does the Jewish Bible include these “Missing” books?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much Rena! The Torah is these 5 books: Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy. There is also the Tanakh, in which sense it includes not only those first five I just mentioned, but all 24 books of the Hebrew Bible. And we also have lots of rabbinic writings on the Torah which is our Oral Torah and also extremely important to us :)

  • @samanthagordon6215
    @samanthagordon6215 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for answering my questions. Judaism especially Orthodox Judaism has always intrigued me. I guess I have never had the opportunity to ask questions and you are so open and honest and willing to share. I do have another question, here in Melbourne Australia a lot of Orthodox Jews wear I think its called a Shteimel? Does your husband wear one or is it specific to a Jewish community?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Ah a shtriemel! The big fur hat! No, my husband does not wear one. That is not our custom :)

  • @marylousilk6420
    @marylousilk6420 2 года назад +1

    Good Morning! Mary Lou Silk here from Pittsburgh PA. How are you and your family? Hope all is well. I loved your Q&A! Thank you for sharing. I do have 2 questions that you may have already answered previously and I just don't remember. Did you have to get permission from your Rabbi to be on RUclips? Do you and your family celebrate the secular New Year (January 1)? Let me know if you can, or wait until you do your next Q&A. I want to wish you and your entire family a Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Channukah!!!!! Looking forward to your next video. I enjoy them so much! Take Care. Mary Lou

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Good afternoon Mary Lou! We are well thank G-d! Hope you are well also! I did not ask my rabbi before I started my RUclips channel but he does know about it. We do celebrate New Years. The kids enjoy staying up and having a little party :) I’m always down for making a fun experience for them!

    • @marylousilk6420
      @marylousilk6420 2 года назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies Thank you for answering my questions! Take care and looking forward to your next video! Enjoy the holidays! Mary Lou

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@marylousilk6420 you’re so welcome and thank you!

  • @roseyc.5846
    @roseyc.5846 2 года назад +1

    I love learning more about Judaism from you, Chana! I've always been eager to learn as much as possible, because I admire your laws and traditions so very much. I don't necessarily believe in reincarnation, but..I've never liked wearing red, and, I don't care for pork. 🤔 So, maybe I was an orthodox Jewish woman in my "other life", lol? My Ashkenazi friend told me that my grown kids have Jewish/American names, if that makes sense. Anyway, you are just a joy to watch; I look forward to any and all your videos. TFS; have a good Shabbat and weekend. 🙂 Rosemarie 💖

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      How fun! Hope you have a wonderful weekend as well Rosemarie!

  • @ronangoforth3081
    @ronangoforth3081 2 года назад +2

    I love seeing all your homeschool supplies. I'm in my conversion process right now, but I was raised Christian & homeschooled, and seeing your shelves of school materials makes me think of how much I loved my schooling experience. And it reminds me to call my mama!

  • @heatherweather8491
    @heatherweather8491 2 года назад +1

    I would love to see a video about the Mikvah. I saw such a lovely video about women discussing it and how much it means to them and their marriage. It would be great to hear a little deeper into your perspective and what it means to you, and having some footage inside ones in your area would be a nice insight.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      I’m definitely wanting to do something like this!

    • @heatherweather8491
      @heatherweather8491 2 года назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies This video called “The Gift of Mikvah” on YT really opened my eyes, educated me, and changed my perspective. I didn’t fully understand it before but now I think it’s beautiful and I’m actually quite enamored by it. I can’t wait to hear your orthodox experience and perspective! ❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@heatherweather8491 oh cool! I’ll have to check that out! Thank you for sharing :)

  • @avivarabinowitz7895
    @avivarabinowitz7895 2 года назад

    Tofu works just fine in"Mor. Fish" recipes.I recommend increasing spices a bit.