Shabbat with an Orthodox Jew | Story Time | Orthodox Jewish Mom (Jar of Fireflies)

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  • Опубликовано: 29 авг 2021
  • In this video I do a sit down story time where I tell you everything that happens on Shabbat. I use the previous Shabbat (Shabbos) as my example and talk you through everything we do starting with lighting candles on Friday night, dinner with unexpected guests, how late we were up, what happened after our guests left, then off to bed before the morning where I get up, handle breakfast, my husband leaves for services, I get things ready for lunch and heat up our food, then leave for services myself with the kids, explain kiddish, then we come home for lunch with our guests and I go on to explain what happens after lunch up until the close of Shabbat. Along the way I explain things and share our traditions and laws that I follow as an Orthodox Jew who observed Shabbat.
    Hello and welcome! My name is Chana, I’m married to my best friend, and we have three wonderful children together. We also happen to be Orthodox Jews and we homeschool our kids. This video is a sneak peek into our daily lives :) You can see how this particular Jewish homeschool mom sets up her days, rolls with the punches, and gets it all done. Thanks for watching!
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  • @jaroffireflies
    @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +47

    Was my Shabbat what you thought? I would love to hear! Hope you are all having a fantastic start to your week :)

    • @McCreaFamilyHomestead
      @McCreaFamilyHomestead 2 года назад +8

      I laughed at the paused conversation. I’d forget what we were talking about. Shabbat sounds wonderful. I don’t think I could make it to 9-10 pm till dinner though.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +5

      @@McCreaFamilyHomestead You know, I get tired when dinner is late, but the conversation is so engaging that its really all good! It's a lovely time for sure.

    • @jennytillery6408
      @jennytillery6408 2 года назад +3

      I've watched documentaries about Shabbat and Hasidic Jews on BBC so I wasn't to surprised. It sounded like an old fashioned Sunday dinner with friends.

    • @mastljn
      @mastljn 2 года назад +2

      It seems like the men attend a lot of services. what happens if a man has a job that does not allow them so much time off or is not flexible on scheduling? Also, did your one friend not know about not talking between washing hands and eating the bread?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +4

      @@mastljn men do attend a lot of services :) My friend who had continued talking had not yet washed her hands, so she could still talk :) If a man can’t attend services due to work or something else, he will pray alone.

  • @blessedtrimability9626
    @blessedtrimability9626 10 месяцев назад +2

    It is so nice that so many people are so welcome in your home❤

  • @Haziesmom2023
    @Haziesmom2023 2 года назад +20

    I'm just going to pretend that you are my own Jewish Daughter (if I were Jewish-wishful thinking here.) You're so friendly and at times like we're in, your love and friendliness shine forth. You are a light in a dark world. Thank You for all you do, Chana.

  • @SonyasPrep
    @SonyasPrep 2 года назад +24

    Loved this story time. There really is no other way of Truely explaining what Shabbat is all about. Eating, eating and more eating lol. Great food with great company. So enjoy having this platform with another orthodox Jewish mommy.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +6

      Yes! All the food! Which is why I love your channel 💜 You always make the most beautiful and delicious looking food!

    • @koshermate
      @koshermate 2 года назад +5

      You guys are both great! Thanks for your contributions to the Jewish community!!

    • @jenniferlawrence9652
      @jenniferlawrence9652 2 года назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies so cute to see Sonya reply I go back and forth between the 2 of you ..I feel like I know both of you now ..you are both awesome

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@koshermate than you so much! 💖

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@jenniferlawrence9652 thank you! I love hanging out over on Sonya’s channel too 💖

  • @jackiewilson925
    @jackiewilson925 2 года назад +26

    I have always been curious about the Jewish religion, I enjoyed and learned so much from this video , I want to learn more ,please continue to make more of these videos , I had to subscribe ,thanks for sharing your lifestyle.❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +3

      You are so welcome! Thank you for the encouragement! I appreciate you!

  • @marydrummond8832
    @marydrummond8832 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your teaching me so much . Thank you .2 November 2023 .

  • @JesuslovinMomma1979
    @JesuslovinMomma1979 11 месяцев назад +2

    I enjoy learning! Thank you for sharing!

  • @vergieclark131
    @vergieclark131 2 года назад +1

    Love learning about your lifestyle thank you so much ! 💜

  • @annamacdonald6738
    @annamacdonald6738 2 года назад +2

    I love your bloopers at the end Hannah. Sending love to you and all your family x

  • @kimberlyjohnson6352
    @kimberlyjohnson6352 Год назад +2

    That was so interesting. Ty for sharing your very special family timd. Tyfs that special time.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Год назад +1

      You are so welcome! So glad you enjoyed :)

  • @lendysantiago657
    @lendysantiago657 2 года назад +4

    So interesting, it's way longer than the one I used to help do at the Nursing Home...I always enjoy the music, and challah is my favorite bread

  • @teutonic7113
    @teutonic7113 2 года назад +1

    You are a truly great teacher. I love learning from you.

  • @wendyhoward2699
    @wendyhoward2699 Год назад +3

    So interesting. I love learning about other cultures. Many blessings.

  • @shaavivi1968
    @shaavivi1968 2 года назад +2

    :) I really enjoy your stories! Thank you! :)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! And you’re welcome 😊

  • @mysti0.o683
    @mysti0.o683 2 года назад +1

    I love the outtakes sooooo much. Thank you for the work you put into your wonderful videos!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you :) I’m so glad you are enjoying!

  • @iceeyes8275
    @iceeyes8275 2 года назад +3

    I absolutely love learning about Shabbat and how you and your family do things! It sounds like such a wonderful time! If the opportunity ever came up, I would like to experience that one day! You always bring such a ray of light and I thank you for sharing! Much love 💜

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      I hope you are able to experience it! It truly is a wonderful gift :) Thank you for your lovely words 💜💜💜

  • @susansierra6652
    @susansierra6652 2 года назад +1

    LOVED IT. THANK YOU

  • @lowlow54lowe22
    @lowlow54lowe22 2 года назад +1

    I'm so grateful to have found your channel. Your videos have been so enlightening. Watching you has created a peaceful place to end my day. Your family and life are both beautiful to view. Thank you.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! Your comment made my day 💜

  • @LindseyN1223
    @LindseyN1223 2 года назад +5

    I've just recently discovered your channel and I absolutely love your videos. You have such a calming and uplifting demeanor, and your faith lights you up in a way that can't be mistaken.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Welcome! I’m so glad you’re here! Thank you for your kind words 💜💜💜

  • @oxymom2002
    @oxymom2002 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your Shabbot with us. 💜

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! Thank you for listening to my story :)

  • @barbarashames1372
    @barbarashames1372 2 года назад +1

    You are a joy to watch! Love your videos.

  • @lisashibata6356
    @lisashibata6356 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      My pleasure! Thank you for watching :)

  • @marisamanning9355
    @marisamanning9355 2 года назад +2

    Chana,
    You bring such a bright energy to every video! Thank you for sharing such a special part of your life ❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! Thank you so much for your kind words 😊😊😊

  • @inthedaysstillleft1257
    @inthedaysstillleft1257 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful and meaningful tradition!

  • @Lorrowen1
    @Lorrowen1 2 года назад +1

    Wow.. thanks I will have to listen again! All very new to me but I’m getting lots of joy just listening to you

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so glad you’re enjoying:)

  • @barbseverino1278
    @barbseverino1278 2 года назад +8

    I enjoyed learning about Shabbat. I am a 70 year old Mom of 5 and Grandmother of 13.

  • @Jackie-dm1ye
    @Jackie-dm1ye 2 года назад +5

    Hi Chana! I do admire how you naturally and graciously you do the mitzvah of hachnasas orchim! What a beautiful example for your children, and what lucky guests! The food looks delicious, as I’ve seen from your Shabbos prep videos.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate that :) we love having guests and I’m always so flattered when people just show up :)

  • @BriyerRose
    @BriyerRose 2 года назад +1

    This was so interesting. I am learning a lot. Thanks for sharing

  • @TwinL17
    @TwinL17 2 года назад +1

    So interesting, thanks for sharing! The bloopers at the end had me laughing!

  • @karenhill1739
    @karenhill1739 2 года назад +3

    So loving your bloopers at the end, they are hilarious. Your Shabbat sounds like a lovely way to spend the time with your family. Its Bank holiday Monday in the UK today, so I have extended my weekend with minimal chores lol. Meeting with my friend tomorrow so looking forward to that. Have a great and blessed week.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      So glad you are enjoying those bloopers! 😂 And enjoy your holiday! Sounds like you have some fun things planned!

  • @HisMaidservant
    @HisMaidservant 2 года назад +9

    You are an amazing storyteller, I'm hooked! And thank you for sharing your life with us

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! And you are so welcome:)

  • @rubykath6788
    @rubykath6788 2 года назад +1

    Enjoyed your SABBATH STORY Time.Bloopers was hilarious...loved it!!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! Im so glad you enjoyed it!

  • @esthers6014
    @esthers6014 2 года назад +2

    I love your blooper reel!!! 😁

  • @jeanneamato8278
    @jeanneamato8278 2 года назад +1

    I do love just listening to you. You’re very homey. Besides informative.

  • @bonniebunting6415
    @bonniebunting6415 2 года назад +1

    Lol I loved loved loved your out takes. Your so cute

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you 😊😂😊 I’m so glad you enjoyed!

  • @frankieniedorf4463
    @frankieniedorf4463 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing

  • @jaysondavis7064
    @jaysondavis7064 2 года назад +1

    This is Shawn again. I so enjoyed this video. It was so interesting and informative.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Hi Shawn! Thank you :) I’m so happy that you enjoyed this one!

  • @susansierra6652
    @susansierra6652 2 года назад +1

    SO WONDERFUL THAT YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY JOINS IN WITH SHABBOT AND CELEBRATES TOGETHER, SUCH A BLESSING. SUCH A BLESSING

  • @eileenhildreth8355
    @eileenhildreth8355 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video, very informative

  • @DeliaLRuiz
    @DeliaLRuiz 2 года назад +1

    18 minutes before, good to know. Thank you.

  • @mycrazylife2491
    @mycrazylife2491 2 года назад

    I found you in my recommendations and I have always learning other religions. This was very educational. I subscribed and cant wait to learn more.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад

      Thank you so much! Welcome! I’m so happy to have you here :)

  • @Cymraesarall
    @Cymraesarall 2 года назад +3

    Thank you- that was lovely to listen to - quite easy to get a sense of the timeline. Loved your bloopers bit🤣

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You’re welcome 😊 I am so happy you enjoyed!

    • @smiley99
      @smiley99 2 года назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies I so do the same thing - my eyes go up into the right as I try to think of the word I want. I think it is part of being an introvert and a visual person. I am searching for the right word in my head.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@smiley99 oh I love that! I knew I did it but I didn’t realize it was a thing!

  • @WALLOFDESTINY
    @WALLOFDESTINY 2 года назад +1

    I really like how detailed thia video is!

  • @MediocreComedian
    @MediocreComedian 2 года назад +2

    Hello Chana....I loved the "blooper" ending of this video. It was fun to laugh with you, not at you :). I appreciate your sharing all the details of Shabbat, especially how gracious you are when unexpected guests show up. When I was growing up, this is how people always were about people dropping in unexpectedly. People just don't do this anymore and I so appreciated that nostalgic feeling it gave me. God Bless!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! I am so glad you enjoyed :) especially the bloopers lol I enjoy including those 😂 And guests, oh how I love guests! To me it’s the greatest compliment when someone just shows up for food and company :)

  • @lamington1949
    @lamington1949 2 года назад +4

    your home sounds like it's so full of love and joy.

  • @lisandrabracero7301
    @lisandrabracero7301 2 года назад +1

    I look forward to seeing your videos!!
    It's nice to hear how everyone celebrates shabbat differently! My shabbat is comfy clothing and a slow cooker and sandwiches that i made from the night before, Cerial for breakfast and walks in the garden talk with the kids and that's it lol watch maybe a movie with my oldest daughter.I m grateful for your video ❤

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      That sounds so lovely! What a nice Shabbat you make! Thank you for sharing!

  • @sandram5664
    @sandram5664 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing your Shabbat story; it was so interesting! And thanks for telling us about your latest read. I am definitely going to check out that series as it sounds right up my alley! 😀

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! Check out her White House chef series also, it was really good!

    • @sandram5664
      @sandram5664 2 года назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies I’ve just ordered the kindle version of ‘State of the Onion’ and can’t wait to start. I just have to be disciplined and not spend every moment reading (which I’ve been known to do in the past ☺️)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@sandram5664 lol please let me know how you like it!!!

  • @theblessedmum6683
    @theblessedmum6683 2 года назад +9

    Hi Chana. I think this is my first time commenting lol.. thank you for sharing your life and I definitely found this video very interesting. I think some things were what I thought it would be like, but I honestly thought you couldn't do anything at all like washing up or sweeping etc, so that cleared a lot of things up. It sounds like a wonderful time together as a family and with others. Thank you again and I am glad I found your channel (still catching up on old vidoes) xxx

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +3

      Hello! Thank you so much for your lovely comment! I’m so glad this video gave you a better understanding of Shabbat and what’s allowed :)

    • @milkteanomnom
      @milkteanomnom 2 года назад +2

      Actually, cleaning up comes with a lot of rules. Like you have to use either Shabbat sponges (sponges that don’t absorb water), or you have to use a bristled brush to wash dishes. We aren’t allowed to use hot water on Shabbat either, so it has to be cold water only. We are only allowed to wash dishes if we need those dishes for another meal during the duration of Shabbat. We can’t just wash dishes just to get it over with. We can only wash the dishes we need. There’s a lot of other rules that apply to all sorts of things concerning cleaning, but hopefully that gave you some insight on it.

  • @themaddiemads
    @themaddiemads 2 года назад +1

    It sounds like you have such a beautiful and supportive community around you and your family. You and your husband have such kind souls, always making sure those around you have a place to enjoy a meal so they won't have to spend such an important time alone.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind comment!

  • @nekonoai
    @nekonoai 2 года назад +2

    I love your videos. I just found you the other day and I've been watching so many of them! I'm not Jewish myself, but a couple of years ago we moved into a neighborhood with a big Orthodox Jewish population, and while I am friendly with my neighbors (they are pretty awesome, actually), I always feel odd asking them certain questions about their culture, etc, because I don't want to come off as disrespectful or something, since I still don't know them very well yet...
    Thank you for providing these educational opportunities!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Hello and welcome! I am so happy that you found my little corner of RUclips :) And I am so glad you are able to get those questions answered! Enjoy!

  • @alexandrastein9452
    @alexandrastein9452 2 года назад +1

    I just love listening to your stories. You have such a nice way to talk ;-)
    Greetings from Germany.

  • @bethbowers5595
    @bethbowers5595 2 года назад +10

    Chana, I love that I found your channel. Its like finding a new “bossom friend” . At age 13, I discovered my fathers family had immigrated to the US from Russia, just before the Bolshevik revolution. My paternal grandparents both came from kosher families. I obviously wasn’t raised in the Jewish faith, but I have wanted to learn more about it. When raising my kids one of them developed a brain tumor, and my hands became too full to branch out much beyond his care, child raising (3) and going back to work once my son was more stable. Now he is out living a full life and getting married, so I have free time now!!! Ive been looking up synogogs in my area for classes.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Hello! Thank you for the lovely introduction and for sharing about your story! That’s so exciting that you are able to dive fewer into your history! Feel free to reach out if you have questions! I’m happy to help you if I can :)

  • @karunastar3084
    @karunastar3084 Год назад +2

    Thank You Miss Chana for this very informative video 🙏 I learned soo much!! Your storytelling style resonates with my learning style. I appreciate you. Stay Blessed

  • @laurenk88pa
    @laurenk88pa 2 года назад +1

    thank you for the cozy book series reccomendation! I just got all caught up on the Laura Child's Tea Shop series and was looking for a new series!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Fantastic! I really enjoyed the White House chef series by the same author as well as anything by Amanda Flower :) How did you like the tea shop series?

    • @laurenk88pa
      @laurenk88pa 2 года назад +1

      I love the Tea Shop series. Laura Child's also has a Scrapbook series which may strike your fancy (do you scrapbook?) I haven't started that yet, and also a series called Cakleberry Club, which is fun. But the Tea Shop is my favorite of hers.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@laurenk88pa awesome thank you! I’ll check them out!

  • @bonniebunting6415
    @bonniebunting6415 2 года назад +1

    Hello sweet Chana. I hope your having a wonderful day. 🙏

  • @fcohen8296
    @fcohen8296 2 года назад +1

    it was a lovely "story" but my absolutely favorite part of this video was the "outtakes" at the very end. Gives a glimpse into what it's like to make a video

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      😂 so glad you enjoyed! There’s definitely a lot of me staring at the ceiling and making faces while I film 😊

  • @yesabenson
    @yesabenson Год назад +1

    Great video and great explanation!

  • @roseyc.5846
    @roseyc.5846 2 года назад +1

    Hi Chana: I enjoyed this very much, and, I am so glad to have found your channel! I'm also an INFJ personality type; however, you really seem like much more of a "people person" than I am. Anyway, I'm loving all your content, and, the bloopers were hilarious! Thank you so much for sharing..looking forward to your next video, hopefully on Thursday. 🙂
    Rosemarie 💖

  • @dtanzman5
    @dtanzman5 2 года назад +1

    Wishing you a sweet New Year. Shana Tova

  • @ginnyburley9552
    @ginnyburley9552 2 года назад +1

    I can see how you would be really tired at the end of Shabbat. As much pleasure as it must be to share your table with guests and go through the meaningful rituals of this day, I imagine that the late night Friday and almost constant socializing would leave you drained as well as satisfied I’ve gotten so used to being alone now that I’ve become even more introverted than was typical for me. Thank you for sharing the details of your day!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Oh yes I’m usually quite ready for bed Saturday night but it also takes me a while to wind down and decompress after. I wouldn’t trade for anything though!

  • @mamadeb1963
    @mamadeb1963 2 года назад +12

    You're truly a mistress of hospitality. We've only recently started having guests again, and it's just so exciting, after so long with just my husband and me for Shabbat and Yom Tov. I'm looking forward to a full table for Rosh HaShanah. Have you started thinking about the holidays yet?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      I am so glad you are able to have guests again! Yay! We have started thinking a little about RH, I started inviting guests lol That's about as far as I have gotten so far!

  • @elizabethj.davenport8947
    @elizabethj.davenport8947 2 года назад +7

    I do love these cozy stories. I like to listen to your videos while I’m at work.
    I would be interested in a video where you describe the roles of men and women, or husbands and wives. You seem to have a really good dynamic with your husband. I would value your insight.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +5

      Thank you so much! I am so happy to hear that you enjoy my videos :) That’s an interesting topic! Thank you for the suggestion!

  • @xqzan
    @xqzan 2 года назад +2

    Good day from South Africa - I really enjoy the videos and just the joy that is so visible in your videos. Can you please tell us about an Orthodox wedding? Kind regards (Isabella)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +4

      Hello from Texas! Yes, I plan to tell my wedding story soon complete with pictures!

  • @Judy122550
    @Judy122550 2 года назад +6

    I love how your faith has you all coming together as family & with friends.Many years ago we had this where families & friends came together even though we are not Jewish ,now it is not done like days gone by for some of us .I think if people would go back to this & to their faith we would have a better world to live in.Your children will carry this on to their children & for many generations. May I ask why the bread is so important in the meal? Have a lovely day

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +6

      Yes I agree! As for your question about the bread, there are many reasons. It’s the core of our meal. When we had the Temple, we would take a portion of our dough when making challah and bring it to the priests in the temple. We still separate our challah today though with no temple, we burn it instead. This is one of the special mitzvot (laws) of women.

  • @dianajenkins2220
    @dianajenkins2220 2 года назад +1

    Hi Chana- finally got back to watching your videos. Missed them. Thank you for answering the question I was thinking about if you went to services or how that worked.
    It’s no wonder you slept in on Saturday, not being Jewish I am exhausted thinking of all that goes on for Shabbat.
    Love the bloopers, lol

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! Glad you enjoyed the bloopers :)

  • @itsyovel3278
    @itsyovel3278 2 года назад +1

    I love your channel.

  • @maxzip100
    @maxzip100 Месяц назад +1

    Love your stories

  • @maryreynolds5310
    @maryreynolds5310 2 года назад +1

    Hi, thanks for sharing your stories and much more! Ok, so I’m watching an older video where your husband was preparing food. I see you have something called madboka, (spelled wrong I’m sure) I would love to know the recipe for this. Is it possible you could share sometime, and show how it’s made? Thank you, looks delicious!
    Love you bloopers lol

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Hello! We plan to do recipes for all these salads we make :) Not sure when yet, but it will come!

  • @itzchakbenavi
    @itzchakbenavi 2 года назад +1

    Oh my gosh your outtakes are hilarious. I am an INFP and you remind me so much of me with some of the INF thoughtfulness/constant internal editing and the awkwardness that ensues because of that lol.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Oh yes INFPs are very similar to INFJs!!!

  • @judycaper5504
    @judycaper5504 2 года назад

    I really enjoy your videos but I must say.... I loved the out takes! :)

  • @karennuckols3007
    @karennuckols3007 Год назад +5

    I have been interested in Judaism for a long time. I love watching your videos. You have answered so many of my questions!

  • @kimberlygonzalez3148
    @kimberlygonzalez3148 2 года назад +1

    I worked at a Jewish preschool for years and we did Shabbat during the day with all the kids but I didn’t realize how it was in homes! I really enjoyed this video 😊

  • @jessieely5363
    @jessieely5363 2 года назад +2

    I may have responded to this in the past…I’m sorry if I did! I’m so fascinated by your take on Judaism! You are an amazing story teller! Your voice is so calming! I rewatch your videos when I need to calm down/take an anxiety break! Thank you so much for your wonderful videos! I’m so happy to be here! I know your channel will soar!
    Edit to add: my New Years resolution this year is to make sure that people know they are important in my life whether they are on line or in real life!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words! I so appreciate you!!!

    • @jessieely5363
      @jessieely5363 2 года назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies you are so welcome! :)

  • @Shan-flan
    @Shan-flan 2 года назад +7

    Thank you for such a detailed account, was very interesting to listen to :) I am curious though on one point... you’ve mentioned in other videos that Shabbat is about a day of rest which in turn means certain work is not permitted., however, might it not be reasoned that using say the vacuum to clear away crumbs instead of a broom is more restful? I guess I can see why you might not use the vacuum to give your whole house a once over on Shabbat but I’m curious as to why a small task like cleaning up after dinner with children might necessitate the “lower tech” option of a broom?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +16

      Great question! So what we consider work on Shabbat is not the same as what we consider work in the traditional sense (like washing dishes for example). We get our rules for Shabbat from the Torah. When we were building the Tabernacle, we stopped that work on Shabbat. We get our definition of work (for the purposes of Shabbat) from this. There are 39 activities that we ceased on Shabbat while we were building the Tabernacle. These were things like lighting a fire, weaving, and more. So using a vacuum would be considered like lighting a fire because of the electricity, but using a broom is fine. Plus, it makes my Shabbat much more enjoyable to have a clean floor :) I hope that helps to explain!

  • @sherrielouise9125
    @sherrielouise9125 2 года назад +2

    Shalom Chana! I am so touched by your beautiful videos as you describe Shabbat. I discovered Judaism in 2017 then I told my mom I was going to convert and she said “ You know your great grandmother on my side was Jewish right?” I was like “No! I didn’t! “ it was the best day of my life learning that! So I have been an observant Orthodox Jew for over 2 years now and I can so relate to your Shabbat prep videos! It’s an amazing and wonderful time to get close to HaShem and family! Thank you so much for sharing your stories with us! You are a true joy to watch! 🙏🏻🇳🇮💚

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Oh my gosh that is amazing!!!! What a story!!!

  • @pinkpainter2579
    @pinkpainter2579 2 года назад +2

    Channa, I'm new to your channel and love it! You're perspective as a convert brings great clarity as you had to learn everything without the advantage of growing up in the faith. I love studying and learning about the Jewish faith and how much it is reflected in my faith as a Christian.
    One question, you mentioned plastic table clothes you removed after each meal. Is that something significant or your way of cleaning? Thank you for sharing¡

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Hello! Welcome! I’m so glad you’re here! And thank you so much for your kind words :) I greatly appreciate it 💜 To answer your question… It has no significance:) I just only have the one tablecloth so I use a clear plastic disposable table cloth on top to keep it clean as we eat 3 meals on our table each Shabbat :)

  • @erinkimmel9479
    @erinkimmel9479 2 года назад +8

    It's funny that you say it is restful because that all sounds very stressful to me! Having all those guests and socializing! But I'm so glad you enjoy it. I think my kind of rest is more like being alone ;)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +4

      I also enjoy being alone so I get you! But it is so nice to share the holiday with friends :)

    • @susanturner1171
      @susanturner1171 2 года назад +1

      Lol. I was thinking the same thing.

  • @natl2042
    @natl2042 2 года назад +1

    It is so interesting to learn about Judaism! Thank you for sharing your life with us!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! Thank you for watching!

  • @aprilmapp3140
    @aprilmapp3140 3 месяца назад

    Thank you very interesting you help explain it very well.

  • @susanrizzo193
    @susanrizzo193 2 года назад +1

    I also live in Texas - 30 miles SE from San Antonio. That you again for your videos

  • @McCreaFamilyHomestead
    @McCreaFamilyHomestead 2 года назад +2

    Oh thank you so very much for this video. Your religion fascinates me more than mine does. ❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      You are so welcome! I also enjoy learning about other religions and cultures :) It’s fun!

    • @McCreaFamilyHomestead
      @McCreaFamilyHomestead 2 года назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies I wish there could be a big convention where all religions can come together and people can go between each one and learn about them. Just maybe then our world would be a little nicer but sadly with so much hatred in the world that amazing day would never happen 😭💔

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      @@McCreaFamilyHomestead If only! I think understanding is the way :) At least we have youtube! (never thought I would say that lol)

  • @desert_moon
    @desert_moon 2 года назад +1

    Sounds lovely but I totally get the introvert stuff. I'm one too!!
    Growing up, my next door neighbors were Jewish and I learned a lot from them!!

  • @eci1163
    @eci1163 2 года назад

    I love to watch your videos. It seems to me that Shabbat is very stressful with all the cooking and cleaning. But it’s great that you follow your faith.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      It’s really not stressful :) It’s a beautiful oasis each week :)

  • @alennegrabowski5506
    @alennegrabowski5506 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your faith & your family with us. I've learned soo much about Judaism thank you!!

  • @kristinrooney-erb501
    @kristinrooney-erb501 2 года назад +2

    I am Christian, but I also am a stay at home mother of three and I find your channel so inspiring to lean into faith and the simple joys of life. In my faith as you know, we have the Sabbath and your channel has encouraged me to really set that day apart. I have church but still it can be such a full day. I’m going to make some changes including not going on social media on Sundays and taking the time to reconnect with my God and family. I find you really refreshing Hannah. You present your faith so positively which is some thing I haven’t seen a whole lot for Orthodox Judaism from outsider perspectives.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      I love how much we have in common! So fun! And I’m so glad my channel helps give you some inspiration:) It’s hard to find that out there these days :) And I’m especially glad you are getting insight into how amazing Orthodox Judaism is (as opposed to like how the media so often portrays us). Thank you for your kind and encouraging words 💜

  • @michaelurvoy
    @michaelurvoy 2 года назад +1

    Shabbos/Shabbat truly is a blessing! I am also like you in that I very rarely look at the clock on Shabbos. I become far too engrossed in a good book, or prayer, or let's face it, challah! 😆

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Challah! It’s definitely a favorite of mine too :) Love that you don’t look at the clock much on Shabbat!

  • @steph1986
    @steph1986 2 года назад +1

    Hi Chana,
    I subscribed a couple of weeks ago after one of your videos popped up in my list and I'm glad it did, thanks RUclips algorithm!
    You've got such a kind and friendly personality, and I'm sure I'm speaking for a lot of your subscribers, you make us feel like you're just talking to your friend. Not to mention your editing and camera work, its up there with the bigger RUclips channels.
    I love learning about how people of different beliefs live their lives. I have a couple of questions for your next q&a.
    Why do you say you don't wear your snood out, I think it looks just as beautiful as the scarves?
    What "rule" was the most difficult to adhere to, or was there one thing that you found more difficult to remember to do/not do?
    And a suggestion, I don't know if its up your alley, but a reaction type video to a show such as My Unorthodox Life?
    I'm glad the algorithm suggested your channel and thank you for sharing.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Hello and welcome! I am so happy you are here! And thank you so much for your kind words :) That really means so much to me and I appreciate you so much! Thank you so much for your questions :) About the snood, I just think it is too unusual ( I get stared at enough as it is with scarves lol) and too casual, I prefer to feel a little more put together when I am out :) Loving your question about what I find most difficult! I'll answer that in my next video :) And thank you for the suggestion about a reaction video. I have thought about it, but I just really don't want to watch that show. I watched the first couple episodes of Unorthodox and had to turn it off. Those shows are so unappealing to me and My Unorthodox Life in particular I just find to be awful.

  • @debra333
    @debra333 2 года назад +2

    Hi, Hannah! Another beautiful and meaningful video. Thank you. One question I have: Do you discuss politics with guests over dinner? You mentioned world situations, but I'm wondering about the divisive topic of American politics.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      It does come up (such big things happening in the world right now!) but my son gets us back on track quickly. We work to create a home culture of discussing Torah at our Shabbat table.

  • @4itGrow
    @4itGrow 2 года назад +5

    With all the food, blessings and friends it sounds like a two day party.

  • @kellif01
    @kellif01 2 года назад +1

    I love your channel! I grew up as a Catholic but since part of my family and many of my friends are (Reform) Jewish, I was fortunate to celebrate both. Back in the 80s, Bar/Bat Mitvahs were almost a weekly occurrence and were like mini weddings. And then I went to many weddings too.
    I have a few questions for your next Q&A. Why do you have 6 Shabbos candles? I know many families do this differently. I am used to just 2.
    Where do you get your Kosher meat from? I grew up in north New Jersey and in my area kosher meat was very easy to buy. But I imagine it’s not so easy in Texas.
    Your channel is beautiful and you are so great at explaining everything. My friends and family didn’t celebrate Shabbat the way your family does but I know that feeling of togetherness.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Hello! thank you so much for your kind words! Love your questions too :) I will answer the question about the candles in an upcoming video. It's a great questions! The kosher meat question, we can get it at Trader Joes and another local grocery store plus Costco!

    • @kellif01
      @kellif01 2 года назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies I’m glad to hear that it isn’t difficult to get kosher meat in your area. I love your channel!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@kellif01 thank you so much! Yes, pretty much anywhere there is an established Jewish community in the USA kosher food is available. We don’t have the selection we would get in say New York, but have plenty :)

  • @OurBucketListHasHoles
    @OurBucketListHasHoles 2 года назад

    Oh those bloopers are cute and funny lol 😄

  • @michellesunshinestar
    @michellesunshinestar 2 года назад +1

    My friend likes mysteries. I like science fiction and romance novels, sometimes I can find a Star Trek novel with romance in it. I need to get back into reading. I used to really enjoy reading. I totally switched over to reading e-books and listening to them on Audible at the same time.

  • @foxforpeace7351
    @foxforpeace7351 2 года назад +1

    I noticed the Luna Lovegood print behind. You must have an Accio box subscription! As a Harry
    Potter fan, I liked the touch in your school area!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Yes! Its our second box :) My son ordered one, and when I saw it was Luna next, I had to order! We are loving it! Do you get the Accio box also?

    • @foxforpeace7351
      @foxforpeace7351 2 года назад +1

      I don’t have a subscription but purchase the boxes I like. As a huge Luna fan, I was disappointed that it was sold out. I was able to purchase some individual items. New subscriber to your channel, have been enjoying your videos. I have many friends who are in Reformed congregations but am unfamiliar with Orthodox practices. ❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@foxforpeace7351 welcome! I’m so happy you’re here! Aw I’m sorry her box sold out before you were able to get it! That’s a bummer. I wore the scarf that came with it in another recent video. I absolutely loved that item! We’re you able to get all the individual items you wanted?

    • @foxforpeace7351
      @foxforpeace7351 2 года назад +1

      @@jaroffireflies I was, able to get the t-shirt and the Luna patronas pin. I’m a pin collector and might have to get the patronas series, they are really nice, All the best to you and your family!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      @@foxforpeace7351 great! Enjoy them!

  • @arleneg1271
    @arleneg1271 2 года назад +1

    Very interesting Chana. I had to smile when you said you walk your guests outside. All native Southerners do that usually encouraging their guests to stay longer.lol I remember my daddy saying, Stay with us and the visitor would respond No Yall come go with us. Did they mean any of that? probably not. I always wondered what would happen if they stayed for the night!!:)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      Lol in the south I bet it would be no problem :) Southern hospitality is totally a thing!

  • @m.c.fromnyc2187
    @m.c.fromnyc2187 2 года назад

    Very nice!

  • @karenl6246
    @karenl6246 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing about Shabbat Chana! I'd love to know some of your favorite mystery novels or authors if you ever want to share. That's a genre I haven't read much of so it'd be fun to give it a try.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      I love Julie Hyzy! I’m on my second of her series. I also love anything by Amanda Flower who also writes under a pseudonym I can’t remember offhand. Isabella something I think.

  • @victoriaheisser7137
    @victoriaheisser7137 2 года назад

    Great video!

  • @brittany8671
    @brittany8671 2 года назад +1

    I don't know if you've read her books or not, but Dee Henderson is a great Christian Fiction author. My favorite series by her is the O' Malley series.

  • @lindyrodwell6340
    @lindyrodwell6340 2 года назад +4

    Thanks Chana. That was really informative. I admire the way you bring friends to your meals without the sort of dinner party angst that affects those who don't entertain so often. The common cause you share must help enormously. I also admire the reasonableness of allowing medical technology.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! I am so happy you enjoyed :) I am honestly so flattered when people just show up to a meal at my house lol

  • @yafois988
    @yafois988 2 года назад +1

    Shalom,
    are you folks in Israel?
    I Lived in Ashqelon 5 years, my Heart is there and felt like I am a citizen and actually “home” there, , working in the land on visa, yet now my current place is in USA..
    I Am learning Torah and am so so deeply blessed.
    The hidden blessings obedience on the Shabbat bring s a peace found in almost no other thing.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  2 года назад +2

      Shalom! I am not in Israel, I am in the USA also. One day maybe I’ll get to Israel!

    • @yafois988
      @yafois988 2 года назад

      @@jaroffireflies
      We will be gathered again like before, from our diaspora, in Deuteronomy 30 it is a promise, and Jeremiah and Ezekiel also said this , to Mt Zion where Torah will be roared. Yes I hope you can visit there and stay for a good while to get to sense life in the land . I Absolutely loved it.