This is so relatable. In high school I suppressed my opinions bc of bad experiences. Now I’m in uni, I had an epiphany in class where I realised how bad I am at not discussing things. And I have an assessment soon where you need to participate verbally… so I’ll try to improve 😭
These are some solid tips especially the last one. I've been feeling lost lately and actually started looking within myself, who it is I want to be. I've been binging on your videos to actually help me be more confident and comfortable in social settings, and I've been binging on Kiana Docherty's videos on self improvement, so I can start showing up for myself and live life on my terms.
honestly, I enjoyed this video quite a lot, especially because I could identify with all of the things that you were saying :') thank you for this, it was very helpful ❤
I feel like my personality is kinda loud and energetic so people get me perceive me as annoying so it makes me want to suppress myself all the time 😭😭😭
Wow calling me out right at the start. I am not even that nice or agreeable, but I am afraid to come on too strongly, I sometimes can't sleep at night remembering what I did wrong, upsetting someone or simply not giving my best that day. I hate myself so much at times and the only validation I give myself is work. Work became my only life's content in the last 4 years. I can't form relationships at all...
“Start Swearing” is not something that would help; There is no such thing as curse words for me, as I use words in context: Any word I use to curse/ condemn someone is cursing/ condemning them and that is a negative thing to do to anyone.
I don't like this video at all. You don't need a 'personality' to be worthy. What does that even mean? You're good as you are, you don't have to be more 'spicy' to be liked. Just be yourself and don't take yourself too seriously.
That's the thing some people, like myself, don't feel like we have a personality. I don't want to be seen, in a way, I was trying to hide who I was to keep the peace. We generally lack the self confidence within ourselves that we end up suppressing who we are.
You actually DO need a personality to be liked. That's the whole point of genuine social connections. Being a people pleaser, only being surface-level, not having an identity are things that make you socially invaluable. Yes, obviously that doesn't make you a bad person, but it makes you a not particularly likable one.
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hot take: the people who grew up the most insecure end up having the spiciest personalities later
I second this since I am a spicy picses that grew up insecure
@@bcpersonalprofessional687 i love a water sign, you guys are so chill
the "stop smiling" part made a HUGE shift in me...
This is so relatable. In high school I suppressed my opinions bc of bad experiences. Now I’m in uni, I had an epiphany in class where I realised how bad I am at not discussing things. And I have an assessment soon where you need to participate verbally… so I’ll try to improve 😭
Just realising you have it is a huge step, you'll get better I'm sure 🥹
huge callout but defo needed to hear😭
im calling myself out too dont u worry 😭
THANK!!!!!!!YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
These are some solid tips especially the last one. I've been feeling lost lately and actually started looking within myself, who it is I want to be. I've been binging on your videos to actually help me be more confident and comfortable in social settings, and I've been binging on Kiana Docherty's videos on self improvement, so I can start showing up for myself and live life on my terms.
honestly, I enjoyed this video quite a lot, especially because I could identify with all of the things that you were saying :') thank you for this, it was very helpful ❤
I’m so glad you enjoyed Rachel ❤️
I feel like my personality is kinda loud and energetic so people get me perceive me as annoying so it makes me want to suppress myself all the time 😭😭😭
Wow calling me out right at the start.
I am not even that nice or agreeable, but I am afraid to come on too strongly, I sometimes can't sleep at night remembering what I did wrong, upsetting someone or simply not giving my best that day. I hate myself so much at times and the only validation I give myself is work. Work became my only life's content in the last 4 years. I can't form relationships at all...
Fuck😂 I started to realize 🤣🤣🤣
Your videos is reallyyyyyy good and helpful I really needed to hear that , thx a lot🤭❤️
Omg thanks bestie, i love making them so seeing other people enjoy makes me happy :D
@ChristinaAaliyah I didn't notice the views when I first entered but when I saw them I was like wtf more people needs to watch this😭😭😭😭
@@nnnnnaada Aww no way, youtube do be like that sometimes 😂 I'm making another vid rn on social anxiety, can't wait for u to see it!
@@ChristinaAaliyah omg looking forward to it😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
This helps, thank you:)
Glad it helped!
Thank you!!! ❤❤
Such a helpful video!! What do you use to edit your RUclips videos if I may ask? :)
Premiere pro!
“Start Swearing” is not something that would help; There is no such thing as curse words for me, as I use words in context: Any word I use to curse/ condemn someone is cursing/ condemning them and that is a negative thing to do to anyone.
omg you met steven bartlett ❤
ikr!!! still not over it 😩
I don't like this video at all. You don't need a 'personality' to be worthy. What does that even mean? You're good as you are, you don't have to be more 'spicy' to be liked. Just be yourself and don't take yourself too seriously.
I agree 🫶
This video is definitely for ppl that are already wanting to change
That's the thing some people, like myself, don't feel like we have a personality. I don't want to be seen, in a way, I was trying to hide who I was to keep the peace. We generally lack the self confidence within ourselves that we end up suppressing who we are.
You actually DO need a personality to be liked. That's the whole point of genuine social connections. Being a people pleaser, only being surface-level, not having an identity are things that make you socially invaluable. Yes, obviously that doesn't make you a bad person, but it makes you a not particularly likable one.