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I found your Chanel today and I’m impressed, this is exactly what I was looking for! You help me feel less alone. The unhealthy friendship thing is real for me. This year i had a friendship breakup , in march and I’m still not over it. This friendship was so special to me bc it was like understanding each other on another level, it’s just not like any other friendship and I can’t help just missing it. Thanks for helping us learn the hard lessons in life👏🏼

You are not ugly by any means you are beautiful

I'm curious how well a proximity chat social media app would do. Real names, few chat rooms, limited to like 20 miles around you

When females complain about facing "lookism", they always remind me of when white people complain about "anti-white racism". Like yeah, I guess it's _technically_ a thing that happens, but it isn't really an issue compared to what the other side faces in their daily life.

4:19 subtitle error or am I missing something???

only in first year? im in my 3rd year and i still don't have one I really feel lonely

I think the ‘lonliness epidemic’ in the West stems from the individualistic mindset that our society is structured from. For example, we’re taught to rely on ourselves, to go out and get the education and career, and to focus on wealth and prosperity over anything else. Furthermore, unlike families in other parts of the world, Western families are stereotypically nuclear and self-containing. The idea of living with extended family members, our parents, etc., is seen as a failure because we weren’t able to go it alone and carve out a life for ourselves. So, not excepting living with family to be a good thing, people might not have the ability to socialize with others if they come from small families, etc. It would be interesting to compare this epidemic of loneliness between Western culture and others.

When im not sitting there judging myself before other people get the chance i have amazing interactions with people, our minds are our worst enemy sometimes. I often find myself wanting a certain reaction from other people or i stop talking, if i talk a lot and they barely say anything i shut up because i assume theyre not interested. Even if im having fun talking.. i used to get told i was annoying and now im quiet my mind tells me im boring- i always ask questions about others but feel like i have no stories to say about my life. Idk, i feel like im easily looked past.

Girl Math: I'm average at best and completely worthless to any guy relationship-wise...so I'll demand a 2nd Father with a Million Bucks in the Bank as a Bare Minimum. Also Girls: WhErE aRe ThE rEaL MeN?

Your snare sound effects in the background make me so unreasonably angry please chill with these I am not a baby that you need to dangle keys in front of every 5 seconds. Plus it's high pitched and really too strong compared to your voice (maybe get a better mic or tone down the SFX ? )

Introvert 😢

So? Mocking any guy, who's uglier than Chris Hemsworth comes right back at ya

I'm 45 and it's so peaceful to not have any.. u hardly even speak to those trifling colleagues. They are haters. This morning one of them made small talk after she ran into me at parking bay. I literally refused to walk along side her told her I'm gonna rush.

I am some of both 😂😂 I like to see people and intract with them and I like to stay with my self and do what I like to do

This may probably sound stupid but there’s actually power in being not conventionally pretty. First off, and sadly so, as a woman you will be taken more seriously by both men and women. And this is an advantage in professional settings. Secondly, you will more easily make friendships and connections with other women. Thirdly, people who get by on looks alone, will struggle once they age and cannot experience and enjoy that sort of priviliege anymore. When you accept that you are not your face and get by on your skills, life in general will be so much smoother in the passage of time. And fourth, people reading this: you are probably not «ugly.» You most likely don’t have any deviations outside what is conscidered «normal» in terms of functioning proportion and therefore you are not ugly. It’s just online where people’s perceptions of reality is disorted because some have to create insecurities that should not be there to make money of basic human psycology to fit in and be loved/admired by peers.

Well put together video ya got there.

1:44 this is real. My thing is I'll start dating when I buy a house which I'm on track to buy sometime between spring to summer of 2025.

Or maybe dating is dated!

I feel like our generation is just overly insecure

J’ai 36 ans et je n’ai jamais été en couple!

Women have no idea what it truly means to be lonely.

im gonna end it all lol

id say hi to random people but then they look at me like im insane 🥹

3:20 Women will often say this, whether you're 18 or 32, but you always have a seemingly normal guy who you're dating. So clearly you had choices and your effort was spent discerning who would be that seemingly normal guy and not a weirdo out of hundreds of seemingly normal guys. For men, clearly, we don't even get anywhere near that when we're a bit above average looking or are at least told we are/treated as if we're attractive offline. I have gotten about 5 solid real matches in the last 2-3 weeks, but maybe swiped 100 or less profiles right over that time period. I'm not sure how many I'll right swipe in a half hour of slow swiping while reading each profile thoroughly. Probably not as many as I'm assuming. So I don't think that's a horrible rate considering how horrible apps/sites are for most men. One almost led to a meet up. Still horrible out there though.

You are gorgeous. Seriously.

I was never anyone number one or first pick partner in school, i dread everytime a workload was announced and that we could split it up, i always did my work alone because id have no idea what to do and asking someone to be my partner felt like a crime because i knew whom ever that hot potato loaded shotgun was aimed they never seemed happy, grunts, sighs, frowns where commen. I was average looking but strange and quiet. One day partnered work was announced, before i could look up and around nervously the boy across from me caught my eye because he stared me down with a giddy genuine smile.. And asked to be my partner; He even did his fair share of work. Its been 3 months but i still think about it.

Hookup culture needs to end. It’s done irreparable damage to Gen Z and Millennials. Women don’t realize it but men do judge you based on your body count. Women don’t tend to care as much, but it is a deal breaker for most men. If a man tells you otherwise he is lying. We need to shame men and women who engage in such activities.

Think positive would not work to be honest if you don't work on yourself. Meditation, journalling, exercise, and eating healthy help immensely. I fall down and get up once in a while for years, and I notice I do feel happy and beautiful when I take care of myself.

I think you can become attractive if you really take care if yourself. Because if you do, you start to feel confident. Healthy and confident vibes will make you beautiful.

but when you know you’re pretty and that’s why every girl sees you as a competition and never as just a friend. that shit hurts. imagine having a best friend for 11 years just to know she hates you and just wanted to be you. envies you and trys to harm u secretly. just imagine sometime you are scared to meet the boyfriends of your friends bcz they might try to approach u. just imagine walking in a street where everyone is looking at you in a wrong way n u never feel safe anywhere you go imagine your parents restricts you from going outside bcz youll get in danger. imagine people trynna threat you to date them imagine not uploading anything on social media bcz people always lusts over you and stalks you shows up infront of your house / bedroom window. imagine feeling always being seen even in the home where you are supposed to be safe imagine almost getting graped by you cousin or relatives imagine being in love with someone, looking at them with pure eyes with a intention of creating a family but all they do is lusting over you imagine always getting stared at to the point where u just wanted to rip of your skin be free and be out of everything imagine no one considers your talent or no one sees you as a capable woman bcz they think you are in that position bcz ur pretty. imagine having a boyfriend ffor 3 years but never felt being loved. you are always seen, but you are never felt. you are always touched but you are never adored. you were there, just like a exceptional product but never as a breathing person with heart. you are never capable to feel the beauty of female friends. ik being pretty is a privilege and myb people will call ungrateful for saying these things. but one thing is that- there will be always an emptiness inside that soul, who’s broken but the sounds of her screaming heart was never heard

Lolol im 16

This overall is basically why I had very few to no consistent peer-relationships back in school because I felt more comfortable doing meaningful activities alone while rarely surrounding myself with too many acquaintances by not jumping the gun to casual friendships because most of them didn't seem up to the kind of close friendships I really longed for despite cultivating my self-love in silence over the years.

Definitely introvert 😢😭

Hey Christina! I have a question for you, i have lots of friends and i have becomed social. I like being around my friends, but sometimes i feel pressured to laugh stuff that i dont find funny (i dont find funny many things lol) and idk, if i dont laugh, i feel like my friends are gonna ask me if im alr. Do you know how i could approach a funny comment without laughing? Thank you!!

On tinder men outnumber women around 9 to 1. When people say that 5% of the men are dating 50% of the women, they think it means that a handful of wealthy chads basically have casual harems on speed dial. In actually, it means that statistically around 4.5 men out of every 90 men (5%) are dating 5 women out of every 10 women (50%). The problem is the audiences for this stuff tends to be a mix of young men with zero historical knowledge/life experience and divorced dads who were too damn lazy to help around the house and can't figure out why their wives divorced them. I say this as someone who fell for an older version of manosphere garbage about 15 years ago.

Condensed shiyte of the internet put into a video.

Women are a waste of time. We need to hurry up with AI so men can start marry robots

ill start dating when i figure out how to start dating.

Chris are u single tho

I KNOW IM CONFIDENT..... JUST CLICKED TO CONFIRM😭DAMN I PASSED

Wow. It's refreshing to see a video how doesn't blame a side to another and actually see things with nuance.

Yall saying there is no quality in the dating market but yall are the quality thats given

Dear Christina gurl, i am 36 😅 Thank you for your videos, i have just sunscribed. Greetings from a Russian on Canary islands, Spain

Dating is not a contest. Date everyone. If you really don't know the date outside of your type, ask questions. ( u don't know what you need till you date someone, and u will grow and change ) I should say a serious question is this person who I want to be a father to my kids or a mother to my kids? If it's no, then you may have a real answer

This sounds more like neurodiverdioncy

This is an important topic. We talk a lot about "ugly" and lonely men, but never about women, while in reality most bullies are men/boys and most victims are women/girls. Girl get bullied A LOT more (especially for their looks). All the mean incels comming here, insulting and then crying why we don't go and build them up are just hilarious. :,D You push as down and get angry when we don't solve your problems...? Pathetic.

I was ugly and Lookwise always a nerd... Even now i am nerd... And with those glassee and acne i looked like so ugly... Even now people now judge me because in high school i was lot bad... But now i have just been content about how i look... Because when i was ugly... I still had boyfriend who loved me for my personality... People even said me... Oh you have bf.... How it happened... How did he chose you??.... So i am content that... Whenever people choose me even though i have close frnd circle they choose me for my personality.

Gawd. You are my new personal best friend. We don't know each other in real life, but you are my friend. You actually make my life so much easier and you've helped turn the world through my eyes into a better place. Thank you❤

I'm 21 almost 22 (I turn 22 in January) and never had a relationship. I get so lonely all the time but I'm still hope for the future. I see my friends in relationships and I wish it was me. I think I'm a likeable and loveable person I just hope I meet someone soon. Hopefully before my birthday.

girl keep going ❤