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They have a beautiful spirit of humility, yet they are confident because they are God-fearing individuals. They are convicted in their own spirit if they mistreat another person. Morals, standards and how they carry themselves before they even meet us is just WHO these MEN are at their core.
@@angelnetworkascension2039 I agree. I was was in a relationship and after a year in...i started seeing him for who he really was. He had DEEP convictions going on within. Holding onto all that baggage of sins from his childhood. This is how I know...Hurt People, Hurt People! Another reason why I now take my time getting to know men. I'll continue to move slow, even now in my current relationship. We have to...🤗
@@jayceelaw6772 I wish you the absolute best! 🤗. What tends to happen is that these individuals are acting and they grow weary of "playing the role". The authenticity of who they truly are will come to the light. We just have to observe. It will always reveal itself. Having a spirit of discernment is such a gift and one of which I am grateful. Be blessed! 🙌❤
Never having a father in my life growing up. I never knew how a man is supposed to love a woman. So I thank Tony for teaching me at the age of 45 how I should be treated, valued, respected and above all loved.❤✝️
Been married 7 years. Extremely toxic and emotionally & mentally abusive. We have 5 kids together. I guess he's not in love with me. Filing for divorce. Finally gonna love myself the way I know I deserve.❤ Be Blessed!
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I hope the rest of your years you will be happy and loved properly
To GOD be The Glory!!! After 20 yrs. of being single and 4 yrs. of celibacy, I have now been blessed with a gentleMAN that truly loves me and has exhibited all 5 traits you spoke on Tony. Thank you for being open, honest and obedient to The Lord's mission in your life. Be BLESSED. Minister TinaMarie🌹🌿 🙏🏽🕊️😇
Wow that sounds awesome thats a testimony. 29 years of being single with 4 years celibacy wow how did you go thru all of that without feeling lonely? I’m glad you met someone but how did you meet ur new man?
Thank you Tony. I was married to a “nice guy” who never stood up for me when his family spoke bad about me. I left him and everyone thought I was crazy because he was so nice. No matter how many nice things he did for me I didn’t feel loved because I felt betrayed. I appreciate someone finally validating me for this.
Going through this for years now. Husband of 22 years lets his family say horrible things about me and I have the screen shots and he is not remorseful and brainwashed by his narcissistic cult family and is enmeshed with his mother. Sick of it and done with it.
You lovely ladies deserve better. What’s crazy is Mr nice guy turned into Mr Nightmare when I left. He completely dropped the nice guy facade. I was shocked to discover he was a phony for all those years. “Nice guys” like this aren’t nice. They’re users who manipulate you into feeling sorry for them to get what they want out if you and then when you leave and no longer make them feel better about themselves they turn on you in the most brutal way. It shouldn’t have come as a surprise though with the way he didn’t stand up for me when others attacked me. That’s a red flag that underneath it all they don’t care about you. They’re only out for themselves. Let that allow you to feel justified in leaving their sorry asses.
@@AD-hh6ddI feel you, I've been with a guy like that and felt even lonelier than being single, took me nearly 12 years to finally made the decision, never look back.
The way a man loves his wife puts a spotlight on his relationship with his Lord! No man can truthfully claim he loves his Lord, if he’s not honoring his wife...
Joyful n Blessed yes indeed! They can claim to be Muslim Christian or whatever... some men use religion as a cover to hide who they REALLY are... but actions don’t lie... (some women too!!!) If he TRULY loves his Lord he can’t help but to genuinely love and adore and sacrifice for his wife!!!
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
*#*I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEARD DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX THROUGH THE GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR WILSON, WHO HELPED ME RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE*#*
@@anointedstilettos Hasnt been easy, trials and tribulations has came in between. We were just teenagers when we started , we been through it all and now we are married with 2 kids . . Life makes detours some can be for right reasons some can be for wrong.. May god bless u someday💯❤
@Eternity With Christ hello Amen 👆🙏 Amen💫 Amen together as ONE💫👑 Amen what a blessing it's mighty blessings that men is still out hear that is spoken for an knows the love for a women's that has her back to all thing's as well 👆an Mr Tony Gaskins 🌹 Yassss Sir so true walk in it live in it an Yassss Chris 💯🤗 happy holidays too we all an safe happiness an joy wishing myself an y'all a healthy Right spirit of that Right one too become together as one of 2020☝️🙏💫👑🌹 Peace on Earth Peace within Peace too we All thank for reading 🌹
Aww my boyfriend told me he’s in love with me last week on top of him doing end showing all of these signs from the very jump of our relationship we are going on two years in June..
That's my husband, 30 years of marriage 🙏💓 he has always given me his last and put us before his own needs . I love him so much . I remember when we first got married and we didn't have much but he made sure we had everything we would ever need 🙏 Be Blessed 🙏
That's my soon to be husband now. Although I've went through the valleys of the shadows of death, fearing no evil, God has truly blessed me this time around. Thank you Jesus! 🙌🏽 Blessed indeed.
Good morning real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n also ask what ‘ s you need help with , what ‘s your future goals ! A real man will send you roses , keep gas in your car , also has God in life n make you first properity , help you with the bills , take you too work on your off days ! A real man will work too bones too make should you didn’t have too work that hard !
I was married for 22 years before I divorced him, because he was not that apologetic man. He has told me, “Let me make my mistakes.” What the heck?!😳 Some men never grow up. They just grow old. “So, out with the old!”
I AM BLESSED!!! My husband is a true gift from God. He is everything God said a husband should be God has blessed me exceedently and abundantly above anything I could ask or think. Thank you Father.
Love it !!!🥰 I can honestly say me and my husband have all 5 by the grace of God we have got to this point going on 10 yrs now and I love him more now than when I first met him 💖🙏
A man that find a wife find a good thing! Stop trying to find him wrong way. Pray the Lord will guide YOUR husband he has for u to find u!. Grace to all. gh
@@bosslady9108 u be Bless & trust in the Word of Jehovah God& no i am not a Jehovah's witness. My mom was . bless her heart i am a christian & i know the Lord has many names, King of Kings, i am that i am, Lord & Saviour, master, etc. I just like to call him by his name as we have names too. So i want to say to u Boss lady910. That it is no secret that what he does for 1 he will also do for u. & his word is tried & proven true. So u just KEEP your faith & he shall bring it to pass for u. I am celebrating your HUSBAND finding u before. Why because i am standing in faith with u Boss lady 910. Grace keep u & all. gh
YES HE DOES CAR NOTE AND ALL OTHERS BILLS HOUSE MORTGAGE LIGHTS GAS POOL MAN ALWAYS HAVE I ONLY BUY GROCERIES I THANK GOD HE SENT MY HONEY TO FIND ME LIKE I SAID 35 WONDERFUL BLESSED YEARS THANK YOU JESUS THANK YOU
U r blessed. My boyfriend never defend me from his abusive family and friends. he even sided against me when i argued with his highschool female friend for always flirting with him. U really r blessed.
Thanks Tony #5 is a great struggle for many men mine included. Never getting an apology has ended our relationship. I have no interest in a man who has too much pride, ego and arrogance to apologize.
I needed to see this to make the RIGHT decision for myself. Thank you so much. I came across this video by accident but this is for me. I needed this message.
My fiance and I both do all of those things, it's amazing how much we love each other and bring a peaceful feeling to one another when one or the other has had a bad day or is in a bad mood. We actually don't get tired of each other and our differences complement the other one. We do have the same values and beliefs. I'm so happy to have a beautiful man who LOVES ME and is attentive when I'm sick takes care of me and took off work to be there for me when I was in the hospital for pleurisy. He tells me EVERY DAY I'm BEAUTIFUL and that he thanks GOD for bringing him an Angel! We both have been hurt in the past bit we treat each other with respect and love. We don't argue due to the fact that we may say something about the other that we can't take back. We talk to each other and we talk calmly and we listen to the other one and see where the other one is coming from. It's amazing how much we love each other and know that we will be together for the rest of our lives. We NEVER EVER HAVE put the other one or say anything wrong and hateful to each other! When he makes a mistake I don't yell at him we talk about it, and he made a mistake fixing a vehicle one time and basically tore up the parts for not tightening a part or something on the vehicle, I didn't say one word to him because I realized that he was kicking himself in his butt good enough. God love him, & he apologized to me because I was the one who bought the parts for the truck with my own money. We are not married YET! But we are getting married very soon. I prayed for God to send me a good man, and told God exactly what I wanted in a good relationship. Also told God that if there was no good. Man for me out there to not send me 1 at all. God blessed me with a beautiful loving attentive man, who is protecting and cherrishes me and tells me EVERY DAY I'm BEAUTIFUL and that he loves me. I'm blessed. I appreciate your video it reminded me of him to the T. Keep up the good work and have a good day.
This is Beautiful ❤ It Brought tears to my eyes I'm a woman and don't get teary eyed much due to now having thick skin due to Trials & Tribulations I want a Godly Honest Man. Not One who Claims he is a "Godly man" and at the same time manipulates religion and the Bible at his convenience.
I'm glad to see a black man speak about healthy relationships...I appreciate what you're doing to help us as women pay attention to what's necessary for a loving relationship!!❤❤❤❤
Amen!! Me too! U are not by yourself!! God is picking exactly who we need sista!! We are a good thing!! What he said? He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing!!🙂🙏😇That's us!!😇🙏❤😇
Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I just found you. Perfect timing for my struggle. God bless you for glorifying the Lord and showing women honor young man🌞
This is me bro. Most women don’t know how to receive it man. I felt like I wasn’t doing too much being this way. You just showed me that it’s the correct way. Thanks bro 💪🏾
Brother Gaskins, my future wife sent this video to me...Her birthday just passed and I made her feel like the Queen she is. I agree with everything you shared. I live by it too. Be blessed!!!
To find such an honorable man with such morals and values is truly a blessing in itself for it takes vigerous discipline to be a faithful husband and to truly show so much love for others is so beautiful to me
Amen !!! My husband just passed we were married for forty plus years he was every thing for me on the day he died he had returned the drug store for me and an hour later died , we loved each other and I still love my husband❤️👍🏽
I'm glad to hear you had a wonderful 40 plus years. And made it through the up and downs. I can imagine your loss was difficult. I pray that God heals your heart and gives you the understanding you need in this situation. So that you may accept it and be able to avoid the darkness that always sits and waits on us to come that way. If you have already been healed by God then that is absolutely awesome. I loss my boyfriend in 2018 to a car accident. And that blew my mind. We had recently broke up but were still very much communicating. And I know that's not a marriage but that hurt was massive. I had to quickly reach out to the Lord and take a look at my son and ask God to please help me because I didn't wanna go to the dark side of depression and being upset with God. I had to ask for understanding at its fullest. As of now I still miss him and I do shed a few tears here and there but I thank God for helping me through it all. May God bless you my sister and all your days to come. Remember, reach for God and believe that he will heal your heart. You have to believe and actually want to be healed. And that doesn't mean you cannot grieve your husband. Just try not to lie in it forever. And think of what your husband would want for you which is happiness.
Prayers n my condolences to you Queen you have a Angel now blessings sitting with God my ex passed Jan 29th 2020 of this yr from Cancer I miss him became my bestfriend n I got hurt by his family of jelousy never made it to the Funeral it hurts y'all I was only 1 there for n threw everything but God is good still in the midst of a storm
💯 accurate! My own personal experience a man can leave to work on themselves and come back apologies and be the man you deserve but he had to do he's own self worth first and foremost to be love. This was great as a women to hear this advice and teaching, good men can be overlooked Or belittled purely because women like the lie . Women need to understand their own fathers haven't been able to show what love looks like either and the game keeps playing out in their hands and prespective of what they believe a man or love should look like. Love your talks, your honesty is a blessing.
Be blessed. Tony isn't lying either when he talks about how he interacts with women. I went to one of his seminars and he was kind, helpful and humble. Tons of beautiful woman at the seminar but for him it was strictly business.
This brother truly care about his black sistas. I know that all the black dusty, brother hate on him because he's spilling the tea on there game and giving us the upper hand. We know now! No more excuses. Thank you bro. Gaskins. God bless you and your family.
I have been married for 42 years and my husband has always sacrifice for our children grandchildren and myself!!! Thank for reminder me that I need to tell him that I truly LOVE him!!!! ♥️
#1. He will sacrifice for you #2. He won't intentionally hurt you #3. He will defend you #4. He will be consistent and completely faithful to you (watch for signs, and be honest with yourself!) #5. He will apologize
My wife asked me to check this out and it made me feel good as I evaluated my relationship with my wife but at the same time it made me realize that there’s still work to be done on my end. Thank you for this video and be blessed!
Yep, all true. My Hubby been this way since day one. It took my slow behind a year to figure it out and not mess it up. I love him forever for it. Be Blessed... 17 years and still in love.
Be blessed! Thank you for taking the time out of your families schedule...to help the world (or at least those who have watched this) a better place....God has worked through you and so I thank and praise Him for using you to help us in our relationships....i feel like I still have so much to learn
This confirmed that the only man who was in love with me was my first boyfriend. I was too young and broken to know it. I know it now. No regrets. I had to go through what I had to go through to love me first. I'm truly loving me. So when the next man who is in love with me comes along....I AIN'T LETTING HIM GO!!!
Dana Wright my sentiments also. My very first BF was all these things. Now, another woman has been reaping the benefits of a good man all these years. 23 to be exact!
@Dana Wright.. I totally understand where you’re comin from. He wasn’t my first boyfriend but he was definitely in love with me. I was just too young broken and unhappy to see it. I’ve only had duds come into my life since😳🤨😓... if and when given another chance I’m there for it. I’m grown today so I know better now🤔💯
This revealed to me that I have never really experienced real love even with the father of my kids... it hurts but I needed this, thank you❤️ it’s really sweet to see a black man speak so passionately about his wife
I'am so Blessed I've got the best husband in the he world, he does all 5 and more .we are so very much in love with each other ,it's so amazing how someone can fall so deeply in love with their partner. We're going on 9 years and growing strong .
@BARBARA STEVENSON. Thank you so much for sharing this Barbera. It great to know that married, single, happy or in question women watch the show. It takes a good woman to have a good man. Thanks again for sharing.
Thank you so much for this message. Absolutely makes so much sense. I’ve been married for over 3 years and we have a 1 year old child we are raising and sadly I’m now dealing with the Jezebel spirit of my mother in-law, who is definitely trying to destroy my marriage and ruin my child. Needed to hear this. Now I know how to proceed. I will definitely be in my Bible, continue to serve my husband, and stay prayed up. This demon loves chaos and confusion. I’m ready to fight this battle and the demon will never win or succeed. BE BLESSED! 🙏🏾
Be Blessed!!! I so happy I came across your page. Thank you for what you do to help others in relationships, marriages. I like the fact you uncut raw an keep it real!!
A man is suppose to search for his mate The Woman is supposed to wait until he finds her most women go out to find a man that’s why they end up with Lil boys playing kid game and please don’t bring any Baggage or Attitude from any of your past Relationships you must not think all men are the same this will interfere with your new Journey and your new progress with LOVE
Thank you Tony and thank your beautiful wife for allowing you to do what you do. You and RC Blake keep it 100. I love you my brother! I just pray that every woman that hears you will meditate on every word that comes out of your mouth because they are God inspired. May God continue to bless you as you are such a blessing to us women 🤗
Felt like I was never fortunate enough to be in a relationship with a man that was truly in love with me... I pray that God will help me discover what true love is and how it feels like to be in such relationship. My Mr Right is coming soon 😏
Your honest is refreshing. And your walk with God is evident. Your relationship is blessed because you are blessed. And that is a true blessing from God. Blessings to your entire family. Be blessed. Acts 2:38
Be blessed! Married my husband 6/27/2020 and it took us ten years to get it right. My God I love my husband totally we both had to grow soooo much and God blesses us to get it right. Thank you Lord.
Amen my sister....bang goes the theory that you have to date for a specific amount of time....there is no set time and it took this time for a reason. I thank God that you were both able to go through those experiences and then eventually come together with a meeting of the minds. God enabled you both to be go through his character development in order to prepare you for marriage, even though it took 10 years...To God be the Glory. I love your testimony.
I'm glad y'all got it together. I believe there are times where it's two people that love each other but just need time to grow. Tony would tell you he settled 🙄🤣🤣. Let's be real, we all know men take longer to mature. I don't want the commitment just because he wants to keep me around. Sounds like you both have learned each other and it's paid off. Wishing you all the best.
I admire the way you talk about your wife. So happy to see a faithful man who sticks by his wife's side and show true agape love. God bless y'all marriage. Love it!
This means that I’ve been in a 3 year toxic relationship and I knew this. I’ve been getting myself together to leave this relationship because it’s not heading anywhere.
Thank you Tony for providing the ointment I need to heal my wounds that got from my ex husband. I am on the road to recovery and am living a peaceful life
Be blessed. Thanks for sharing Tony. I admire the way you love 💕 your wife. It’s adorable and more men should follow in your footsteps. God bless you abundantly 💐🙏🏼😊
When I got in an accident my man was right there everyday came to my house I couldn't do nothing I could walk or the bathroom wash up or nothing he was right there to do it that's a real man
Consistency is more important then actions nowadays. Some people will do certain things to act as if they care about you. But once they feel like you are all in. They show the real them.
Hi Tony , I just want to say thank you so much for being supportive to us ladies out there e.I’m truly blessed with your words they very inspired.May god continue to strengthen you abundantly guide and protect you each and every day stay blessed.🙏🏾
Be blessed. Tony, this is my second or third time watching this video and I enjoy it. You know what? This video seemed so close to your heart. I could feel that you really enjoyed it and you are sincere about it. I had all five of those points with my late husband but never since then. I haven't given up; believing God for that kind of a husband and working on myself so I can be the kind of wife he wants and needs. God bless you and yours, Tony.
I taught my son from Day NEVER LET ANY MAN OR WOMAN COME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR WIFE....I said son , NOT EVEN ME,YOUR MOTHER, YOU PUT YOUR WIFE BEFORE YOU PUT ME SON.. Because to me that's what God says, go forth to make HIS OWN FAMILY..and if I love my son I wouldn't disrespect the love he has for his wife or make him choose... Jus sayin I agree with you putting your wife first .
That’s right Moma you have taught him very well and taught him how to Truly Respect His God His Mother & Father whether he’s known’s his Father or not His Self Worth this teaches him how to forgive with a open Heart then when his Children Come He Has Come Full Circle when a Son see’s His Parents Sacrifice and have enough courage to teach him how to be a man then he is free to love a Women Unconditionally
@@reenasambaza8462 Well God Made Man To Pursuit and Hunt for His Women Your doing this backward a man was create it to Love You And Provide for you to Cherish You And Protect You And You Are His Help Mate this means to Love & Cherish him Make him feel like a Happy, Proud and Loving Man this doesn’t mean you have to change him or fix him if you have to do all of that he is not the one This doesn’t mean You take care of him you spoil him some men are looking for a fool to use WHO’S FOOLING WHO I’m sorry that’s not a man that a boy trying to show out in front of his boys a real man won’t put you threw This mess always know your RED FLAGS most women see them but for some reason SEX ALWAYS WIN’S Over Common Sense Beware of the man with the candy in his hand you don’t need no man Cuter or finer then you you don’t need any competition from a man just pray baby and ask God to send you your KING THAT HE Create it just for you and be very pacific of what you want I pray for a humble man a loving man a working man a man that loves me more than he loves his self A man who knows what a man supposed to do for his wife and family I didn’t look for any man I stayed Focus oh my career and my love for God so I would be ready now you must bring something to the table too becuz when times get rough he need to lean on you a little bit also and you must be ready and My Husband found me two years later we dated for another three years and now we’ve been together 35 years when you know you’re getting sick of being sick and tired of going through the same thing over and over and over you’ll slow down just think about what you want and you must be fair because if you’re not you’re going to find the same dudes I never thought I could be so happy I never thought then I will stop bumping my head looking for him but it turns out God knew BEST GOD WANTS YOU TO HAVE HIS BEST IN YOUR LIFE THE BEST OF GOD’S LOVE
So glad to hear that Sharon. We don’t communicate well at all. I’ve put my foot down and stop accepting the way he talks to me and I’ve let him know not to talk to me crazy. He’s called me out of my name once and it showed me what he really thinks about me.
1. Sacrifices for you
2. Consistent
3. Defends you
4. Doesn't intentionally hurt you
5. Apologizes
Thank you for being my note-taker, and also for being a member of the The Blessed Tribe! You are appreciated! #BlessedFam
@@TonyGaskins Thank you. Be Blessed.!!!!!!!
I pray for a man that has all these qualities. GOD BLESS YOU.✝️✝️✝️
Thank you for being a blessing to so many women with Godly advice and insite as it relates to relationships.
Be blessed
Be Blessed
let the church say AMEN
I've learned that...Real men, do not have a problem apologizing!
**Accept accountability**
There is power in a true apology.
They have a beautiful spirit of humility, yet they are confident because they are God-fearing individuals.
They are convicted in their own spirit if they mistreat another person. Morals, standards and how they carry themselves before they even meet us is just WHO these MEN are at their core.
@@TheRoyalty1982 yes there is...PERIOD!
@@angelnetworkascension2039 I agree. I was was in a relationship and after a year in...i started seeing him for who he really was. He had DEEP convictions going on within. Holding onto all that baggage of sins from his childhood. This is how I know...Hurt People, Hurt People!
Another reason why I now take my time getting to know men. I'll continue to move slow, even now in my current relationship.
We have to...🤗
@@jayceelaw6772
I wish you the absolute best! 🤗. What tends to happen is that these individuals are acting and they grow weary of "playing the role". The authenticity of who they truly are will come to the light. We just have to observe. It will always reveal itself. Having a spirit of discernment is such a gift and one of which I am grateful.
Be blessed! 🙌❤
Been married 43 years. This is my hubby, 100%. Lol
Very sweet! Congrats
You are Blessed for sure
What a blessing,!
What a blessing to be married that long.
Same here Kay❤️🙏💯
Never having a father in my life growing up. I never knew how a man is supposed to love a woman. So I thank Tony for teaching me at the age of 45 how I should be treated, valued, respected and above all loved.❤✝️
Hi Dee how can I get your number I don't have much to say lol
@@Anthony-du8bn lol you got jokes 🤣
There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can’t take them off you. you're beautiful 😉
You're blessed Dee darling. Enjoy
At age 45 don’t expect to get that treat from men. You should give that to him. He is the price!!!
Been married 7 years. Extremely toxic and emotionally & mentally abusive. We have 5 kids together. I guess he's not in love with me. Filing for divorce. Finally gonna love myself the way I know I deserve.❤ Be Blessed!
I hope the rest of your years you will be happy and loved properly
Good for u sister!✌💋😥sorry. Same minus the marriage n children.
You deserve better
Wishing you endless blessings. I'm praying for you and your family
I'm proud of you for saying enough is enough!💙💜❤ NOW take care of you.😊
Men say I need a good woman but when they get you they don’t know how to appreciate you.
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To GOD be The Glory!!! After 20 yrs. of being single and 4 yrs. of celibacy, I have now been blessed with a gentleMAN that truly loves me and has exhibited all 5 traits you spoke on Tony. Thank you for being open, honest and obedient to The Lord's mission in your life. Be BLESSED. Minister TinaMarie🌹🌿 🙏🏽🕊️😇
Congrats girl amen 🙌🙌🙌
Must b nice stay blessed💙
Wow that sounds awesome thats a testimony. 29 years of being single with 4 years celibacy wow how did you go thru all of that without feeling lonely? I’m glad you met someone but how did you meet ur new man?
❤️❤️❤️
Happy for u
Thank you Tony. I was married to a “nice guy” who never stood up for me when his family spoke bad about me. I left him and everyone thought I was crazy because he was so nice. No matter how many nice things he did for me I didn’t feel loved because I felt betrayed. I appreciate someone finally validating me for this.
Thank you for sharing, I finally have the courage to leave.
Going through this for years now. Husband of 22 years lets his family say horrible things about me and I have the screen shots and he is not remorseful and brainwashed by his narcissistic cult family and is enmeshed with his mother. Sick of it and done with it.
I’m going through this now also. Trying to decide whether to leave or stay.
You lovely ladies deserve better. What’s crazy is Mr nice guy turned into Mr Nightmare when I left. He completely dropped the nice guy facade. I was shocked to discover he was a phony for all those years. “Nice guys” like this aren’t nice. They’re users who manipulate you into feeling sorry for them to get what they want out if you and then when you leave and no longer make them feel better about themselves they turn on you in the most brutal way. It shouldn’t have come as a surprise though with the way he didn’t stand up for me when others attacked me. That’s a red flag that underneath it all they don’t care about you. They’re only out for themselves. Let that allow you to feel justified in leaving their sorry asses.
@@AD-hh6ddI feel you, I've been with a guy like that and felt even lonelier than being single, took me nearly 12 years to finally made the decision, never look back.
The way a man loves his wife puts a spotlight on his relationship with his Lord! No man can truthfully claim he loves his Lord, if he’s not honoring his wife...
Amen
The man I'm praying for, still gives me butterflies whenever he's near me or we're on a date🦋💞😘💜🌹🙏🏽💞
Aaaaamen
Selah
Joyful n Blessed yes indeed! They can claim to be Muslim Christian or whatever... some men use religion as a cover to hide who they REALLY are... but actions don’t lie... (some women too!!!) If he TRULY loves his Lord he can’t help but to genuinely love and adore and sacrifice for his wife!!!
This a mature man who is not emotionally closed off and open to love. Let all the good women get this type of partner 🙏🏾
Yes Amen
AMEN Ms. Dee ,Speak that, speak that!!
Amen
Yes, for the good women around the world.
Ameen
If the man wants me he'll go hard for you if he don't, he'll go ghost. Point Blank
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
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Your love for your wife is so beautiful it made me cry. I want that for me.
Right!!! I hope that I’ll be that blessed someday!
@@wshelby83 I hope that too, everyone deserves love so pure and kind.
@@PrincessPeach7555 thank you!
And so it shall be! Work on yourself
You will have that sis.
1) He sacrifices for you
2) Is consistent with you
3) He defends you
4) He doesn't intentionally hurt you
5) He apologizes to you
Be blessed
This list is like spoiling the movie before watching it
Yours out of order😒
Be Blessed
*#*I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEARD DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX THROUGH THE GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR WILSON, WHO HELPED ME RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE*#*
My husband is definitely in love with me ,even after 23 yrs ! Be Blessed 🙌💯❤
You are so blessed! I am patiently waiting on someone to be in love with me so I can reciprocate this kind of love back.
@@anointedstilettos Hasnt been easy, trials and tribulations has came in between. We were just teenagers when we started , we been through it all and now we are married with 2 kids . . Life makes detours some can be for right reasons some can be for wrong.. May god bless u someday💯❤
@@jessicamartir56 Thank you 🙏🏾
@@EvahA7 thank you hun ❤❤
Congratulations to the two of you and may Allah ( God) continue to bless the two of you abundantly
My husband sold his favorite ring to buy me a gift before we were married. I was like wow. Been married for 18 years now
I pray God send me a man with these qualities!
And what do he get in return?
AMEN! Im praying for US Queen
Me too girl
Me too
Yes ma'am for all of us
Thank God my husband is IN love with me!!! He actually does all 5. I’m so blessed and grateful.
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Good stuff 👏 👍 👌 💪 🙌
Amen this is so right
That’s awesome!
lucky you
Thank you for all the positive information.
I love that you don't let noone disrespect your wife💞
@Eternity With Christ hello Amen 👆🙏 Amen💫 Amen together as ONE💫👑 Amen what a blessing it's mighty blessings that men is still out hear that is spoken for an knows the love for a women's that has her back to all thing's as well 👆an Mr Tony Gaskins 🌹 Yassss Sir so true walk in it live in it an Yassss Chris 💯🤗 happy holidays too we all an safe happiness an joy wishing myself an y'all a healthy Right spirit of that Right one too become together as one of 2020☝️🙏💫👑🌹 Peace on Earth Peace within Peace too we All thank for reading 🌹
Yesss thats what i I said because I had an ex who didnt say jothing when his family talked junk to me.
Then you say something, they get mad
Be blessed
Aww my boyfriend told me he’s in love with me last week on top of him doing end showing all of these signs from the very jump of our relationship we are going on two years in June..
Amen!
Wow!!! That’s so nice. I wish you guys all the best
Ladies stop looking for a good man , and pray for a godly man .
That's my husband, 30 years of marriage 🙏💓 he has always given me his last and put us before his own needs . I love him so much . I remember when we first got married and we didn't have much but he made sure we had everything we would ever need 🙏
Be Blessed 🙏
You're so blessed🙏🏾🙌🏾
That's my soon to be husband now. Although I've went through the valleys of the shadows of death, fearing no evil, God has truly blessed me this time around. Thank you Jesus! 🙌🏽 Blessed indeed.
Count yourself blessed my dear!
2nd good report - there is hope!
You are very blessed
A man in love with you will always be consistent with courting you and engaging you the way he did initially to win your heart. 🙌🏽👌🏽
And what does she do to deserve all of this.
Good morning real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n also ask what ‘ s you need help with , what ‘s your future goals ! A real man will send you roses , keep gas in your car , also has God in life n make you first properity , help you with the bills , take you too work on your off days ! A real man will work too bones too make should you didn’t have too work that hard !
I’ m just being real n honest
Thank you for replying back
Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you❤️
I’ve never met a man that does ALL
5. Hard to find..
Women don't do none of the things
@@ministerstayfly9213 please say some women🇯🇲
@@sharonferguson2410 ok some women
Thank you.🇯🇲
I was married for 22 years before I divorced him, because he was not that apologetic man. He has told me, “Let me make my mistakes.” What the heck?!😳 Some men never grow up. They just grow old. “So, out with the old!”
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I have been married for 16 years and I must truly say you are 100% correct!!!! This is my husband to the tee..lol
My husband does ALL the above., MY man LOVES ME! IN LOVE WITH ME. I'm surely BLESSED. 21yrs and loving him more every year.
Your truly blessed!!
Yay!!!! I love that ❤️❤️❤️❤️ god bless your union
That's wonderful Regina!
Praise GOD, so happy for you.
You is so blessed! I hope I could have the same type of relationship ☺️
I AM BLESSED!!! My husband is a true gift from God. He is everything God said a husband should be God has blessed me exceedently and abundantly above anything I could ask or think. Thank you Father.
Amen
Love it !!!🥰 I can honestly say me and my husband have all 5 by the grace of God we have got to this point going on 10 yrs now and I love him more now than when I first met him 💖🙏
Thank you for a sharing. I feel you bro. I believe you .🇯🇲
God bless ❤❤❤
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I'm praying and believing that I will find a man for me that has these five qualities. I'm tired of casting my pearls amongst the swine.
A man that find a wife find a good thing! Stop trying to find him wrong way. Pray the Lord will guide YOUR husband he has for u to find u!. Grace to all. gh
@@gailhopkins5767 Thank you.....
I'm so with you on that...
@@bosslady9108 u be Bless & trust in the Word of Jehovah God& no i am not a Jehovah's witness. My mom was . bless her heart i am a christian & i know the Lord has many names, King of Kings, i am that i am, Lord & Saviour, master, etc. I just like to call him by his name as we have names too. So i want to say to u Boss lady910. That it is no secret that what he does for 1 he will also do for u. & his word is tried & proven true. So u just KEEP your faith & he shall bring it to pass for u. I am celebrating your HUSBAND finding u before. Why because i am standing in faith with u Boss lady 910. Grace keep u & all. gh
@@QueenNia Ms. Veiro u too be bless all your days of a long good life. Simply because u believe in the word of our Lord. Grace to u & all. gh
My husband protects me to the fullest he doesn’t care who it is he makes them give me respect
YES HE DOES CAR NOTE AND ALL OTHERS BILLS HOUSE MORTGAGE LIGHTS GAS POOL MAN ALWAYS HAVE I ONLY BUY GROCERIES I THANK GOD HE SENT MY HONEY TO FIND ME LIKE I SAID 35 WONDERFUL BLESSED YEARS THANK YOU JESUS THANK YOU
He is a keeper and he loves you
Was he always like this or did you have to teach him
U r blessed. My boyfriend never defend me from his abusive family and friends. he even sided against me when i argued with his highschool female friend for always flirting with him. U really r blessed.
@@pinkylovie my hubby flirts with just any female. It does not upset me bc when i do it to him unintentionally, he gets green.
Thanks Tony #5 is a great struggle for many men mine included. Never getting an apology has ended our relationship. I have no interest in a man who has too much pride, ego and arrogance to apologize.
I needed to see this to make the RIGHT decision for myself. Thank you so much. I came across this video by accident but this is for me. I needed this message.
How you know you need this message
I have an ALL 5 husband! I’m so blessed. I recognize it. My first marriage was abusive, but God has truly blessed me. Thank you Tony!
Thats a great testimony for women like me you could still find that god fearing man.
God does give 2nd chances. I am praying for mines.
You can’t make anyone fall in love. It comes naturally if it’s meant to be.
True
100%
Nailed it! That is the bottom line, and we simply need to just accept that fact and not take it personally.
Right Right. A guy said I can make you fall in love with me. I said that’s not how I roll
You can
My fiance and I both do all of those things, it's amazing how much we love each other and bring a peaceful feeling to one another when one or the other has had a bad day or is in a bad mood. We actually don't get tired of each other and our differences complement the other one. We do have the same values and beliefs. I'm so happy to have a beautiful man who LOVES ME and is attentive when I'm sick takes care of me and took off work to be there for me when I was in the hospital for pleurisy. He tells me EVERY DAY I'm BEAUTIFUL and that he thanks GOD for bringing him an Angel! We both have been hurt in the past bit we treat each other with respect and love. We don't argue due to the fact that we may say something about the other that we can't take back. We talk to each other and we talk calmly and we listen to the other one and see where the other one is coming from. It's amazing how much we love each other and know that we will be together for the rest of our lives. We NEVER EVER HAVE put the other one or say anything wrong and hateful to each other! When he makes a mistake I don't yell at him we talk about it, and he made a mistake fixing a vehicle one time and basically tore up the parts for not tightening a part or something on the vehicle, I didn't say one word to him because I realized that he was kicking himself in his butt good enough. God love him, & he apologized to me because I was the one who bought the parts for the truck with my own money. We are not married YET! But we are getting married very soon. I prayed for God to send me a good man, and told God exactly what I wanted in a good relationship. Also told God that if there was no good. Man for me out there to not send me 1 at all.
God blessed me with a beautiful loving attentive man, who is protecting and cherrishes me and tells me EVERY DAY I'm BEAUTIFUL and that he loves me. I'm blessed. I appreciate your video it reminded me of him to the T. Keep up the good work and have a good day.
I pray that one day I can say the same thing or more about my future spouse
This is Beautiful ❤
It Brought tears to my eyes
I'm a woman and don't get teary eyed much due to now having thick skin due to Trials & Tribulations
I want a Godly Honest Man.
Not One who Claims he is a "Godly man" and at the same time manipulates religion and the Bible at his convenience.
Be blessed!!!! Great video on 5 things to know that a man is in love with you. Thank you.
I'm glad to see a black man speak about healthy relationships...I appreciate what you're doing to help us as women pay attention to what's necessary for a loving relationship!!❤❤❤❤
I pray God will bless me with a man
That will love me like Christ loves the church. Scripture speaking.
Amen
Me too. You said it so well, God fearing.
Amen!! Me too! U are not by yourself!! God is picking exactly who we need sista!! We are a good thing!! What he said? He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing!!🙂🙏😇That's us!!😇🙏❤😇
Amen 🙏 ooooooooooooo
Amen 🙏
Thank you Tony!! Be blessed you're the only one out there giving true man insight to us women & I appreciate you 💜
Thank you so much for your encouraging words.
I just found you. Perfect timing for my struggle. God bless you for glorifying the Lord and showing women honor
young man🌞
This is me bro. Most women don’t know how to receive it man. I felt like I wasn’t doing too much being this way. You just showed me that it’s the correct way. Thanks bro 💪🏾
Their Loss. It Always happens this way, the good always gets the bad. I know how you feel
I do. I can't speak for the other women.
Keep being you 😊
Thank y’all 🙏🏾
❣️
Brother Gaskins, my future wife sent this video to me...Her birthday just passed and I made her feel like the Queen she is. I agree with everything you shared. I live by it too. Be blessed!!!
Thanks Tony and be blessed for keeping it real.😊 It's so refreshing to see & hear an awesome Black Man share such Godly Wisdom about true love💕😍💝🎉💕😍💝💕
To find such an honorable man with such morals and values is truly a blessing in itself for it takes vigerous discipline to be a faithful husband and to truly show so much love for others is so beautiful to me
It makes me smile….the way you talk about your Wife and date night. Thank you for your videos!
Amen !!! My husband just passed we were married for forty plus years he was every thing for me on the day he died he had returned the drug store for me and an hour later died , we loved each other and I still love my husband❤️👍🏽
I'm glad to hear you had a wonderful 40 plus years. And made it through the up and downs. I can imagine your loss was difficult. I pray that God heals your heart and gives you the understanding you need in this situation. So that you may accept it and be able to avoid the darkness that always sits and waits on us to come that way. If you have already been healed by God then that is absolutely awesome. I loss my boyfriend in 2018 to a car accident. And that blew my mind. We had recently broke up but were still very much communicating. And I know that's not a marriage but that hurt was massive. I had to quickly reach out to the Lord and take a look at my son and ask God to please help me because I didn't wanna go to the dark side of depression and being upset with God. I had to ask for understanding at its fullest. As of now I still miss him and I do shed a few tears here and there but I thank God for helping me through it all. May God bless you my sister and all your days to come. Remember, reach for God and believe that he will heal your heart. You have to believe and actually want to be healed. And that doesn't mean you cannot grieve your husband. Just try not to lie in it forever. And think of what your husband would want for you which is happiness.
I am very very sorry for your lost Beloved my GOD bless your soul.
So special ❤️
Rev 21:3,4
Too be commended...👏👏👏
Prayers n my condolences to you Queen you have a Angel now blessings sitting with God my ex passed Jan 29th 2020 of this yr from Cancer I miss him became my bestfriend n I got hurt by his family of jelousy never made it to the Funeral it hurts y'all I was only 1 there for n threw everything but God is good still in the midst of a storm
Praise God, I finally found a man who TRULY loves me... Be blessed.
Thank you for all of your insight. Be blessed.
This young brother has a lot of wisdom well-spoken look forward to hearing more
💯 accurate!
My own personal experience a man can leave to work on themselves and come back apologies and be the man you deserve but he had to do he's own self worth first and foremost to be love.
This was great as a women to hear this advice and teaching, good men can be overlooked Or belittled purely because women like the lie . Women need to understand their own fathers haven't been able to show what love looks like either and the game keeps playing out in their hands and prespective of what they believe a man or love should look like.
Love your talks, your honesty is a blessing.
Be blessed, I'm hooked on your videos, lately I've been learning so much! Thank you.
Be blessed. Tony isn't lying either when he talks about how he interacts with women. I went to one of his seminars and he was kind, helpful and humble. Tons of beautiful woman at the seminar but for him it was strictly business.
As it should be ..some of these men still cant get past understanding they shouldnt have a harem of female friends
Jules Arebalo thanks for that stamp Sis! Bless you!
This brother truly care about his black sistas. I know that all the black dusty, brother hate on him because he's spilling the tea on there game and giving us the upper hand. We know now! No more excuses. Thank you bro. Gaskins. God bless you and your family.
Your speaking in terms of a MATURE man because a little boy knows absolutely nothing about it 💅🏽🥴
Amen
Agreed
Facts.. 😂
I concur
Well said Pluto Starr... immature boys can't understand these concepts.
You recovered my relationship, I’m finally happy he’s happy no more cursing or fighting it feels great
Be blessed. I'm definitely listening. You brought up some very valid points. Your wife is so blessed to have a husband like you. Excellent job!
I have been married for 42 years and my husband has always sacrifice for our children grandchildren and myself!!! Thank for reminder me that I need to tell him that I truly LOVE him!!!! ♥️
#1. He will sacrifice for you
#2. He won't intentionally hurt you
#3. He will defend you
#4. He will be consistent and completely faithful to you (watch for signs, and be honest with yourself!)
#5. He will apologize
Thanks
This is it!!!
Be blessed Tony and everyone. You are doing a great service to all out here. Thank you for your obedience to God on relaying these wonderful messages.
I love how you say no one will disrespect your wife not even your mom or sister. That is something beautiful in that
My wife asked me to check this out and it made me feel good as I evaluated my relationship with my wife but at the same time it made me realize that there’s still work to be done on my end. Thank you for this video and be blessed!
you’re truly a king for wanting to change for the better!
That's beautiful that you are so humble to admit improvement.
You are a high value man 👍
Aawwww. She’s blessed to have a man who wants and is actively working on youre relationship ♥️
@@Glhug amen to that!
Yep, all true. My Hubby been this way since day one. It took my slow behind a year to figure it out and not mess it up. I love him forever for it. Be Blessed...
17 years and still in love.
La Kesha Hayes That’s beautiful... Godspeed...
When and how did you realize he was in love and that you could trust and rest to marry him?
beautiful
Congrats
Be blessed
I"m waiting for the 5 or more sign man. 🤩
That was awesome.
Be blessed! Thank you for taking the time out of your families schedule...to help the world (or at least those who have watched this) a better place....God has worked through you and so I thank and praise Him for using you to help us in our relationships....i feel like I still have so much to learn
This confirmed that the only man who was in love with me was my first boyfriend. I was too young and broken to know it. I know it now. No regrets. I had to go through what I had to go through to love me first. I'm truly loving me. So when the next man who is in love with me comes along....I AIN'T LETTING HIM GO!!!
Dana Wright my sentiments also. My very first BF was all these things. Now, another woman has been reaping the benefits of a good man all these years. 23 to be exact!
Oh, and I’m twice divorced. ☹️
@Dana Wright.. I totally understand where you’re comin from. He wasn’t my first boyfriend but he was definitely in love with me. I was just too young broken and unhappy to see it. I’ve only had duds come into my life since😳🤨😓... if and when given another chance I’m there for it. I’m grown today so I know better now🤔💯
This revealed to me that I have never really experienced real love even with the father of my kids... it hurts but I needed this, thank you❤️ it’s really sweet to see a black man speak so passionately about his wife
No disrespect. I have always been curious. After the first child and the father doesn't marry you. Why do you have more children with him?
No disrespect. I have always been curious. After the first child and the father doesn't marry you. Why do you have more children with him?
No disrespect. I have always been curious. After the first child and the father doesn't marry you. Why do you have more children with him?
@@darrelljackson484 It's a choice.
Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you❤️
I'm Listening 🎧 to this with 😢 in my 👀 eye's open..!! Y'all be blessed 🙏..!
Thanks for sharing and more respect for you for not yelding to the trap of the enemy ✊🏾
I'am so Blessed I've got the best husband in the he world, he does all 5 and more .we are so very much in love with each other ,it's so amazing how someone can fall so deeply in love with their partner. We're going on 9 years and growing strong .
@BARBARA STEVENSON. Thank you so much for sharing this Barbera. It great to know that married, single, happy or in question women watch the show. It takes a good woman to have a good man. Thanks again for sharing.
Amen!
@BARBARA STEVENSON God bless your union.
I agree don't let nobody disrespect your wife, not even your own children... I agree with that.
Eric u said that THANK YOU SIR!!
@@stephaniecollier2003 You're Welcome
Thank you so much for this message. Absolutely makes so much sense. I’ve been married for over 3 years and we have a 1 year old child we are raising and sadly I’m now dealing with the Jezebel spirit of my mother in-law, who is definitely trying to destroy my marriage and ruin my child. Needed to hear this. Now I know how to proceed. I will definitely be in my Bible, continue to serve my husband, and stay prayed up. This demon loves chaos and confusion. I’m ready to fight this battle and the demon will never win or succeed. BE BLESSED! 🙏🏾
Be Blessed!!! I so happy I came across your page. Thank you for what you do to help others in relationships, marriages. I like the fact you uncut raw an keep it real!!
I’m 59yrs old & never had that real love in my life but still hopeful.
It's never too late Ms Pamela. My aunt found her soul mate at 55. Never give up your love story just hasn't been written yet. Oxoxox
same
A man is suppose to search for his mate The Woman is supposed to wait until he finds her most women go out to find a man that’s why they end up with Lil boys playing kid game and please don’t bring any Baggage or Attitude from any of your past Relationships you must not think all men are the same this will interfere with your new Journey and your new progress with LOVE
It will happen for you!!
Tell me about it 🤦♀️
I’m a blessed woman. My husband does all 5 of those things and more!
Bless you!!!
:-) Wonderful!♡◇♡
And what do you ma'am?
💞
Happy for u my husband does all these things too😍🥰 love being in love
Thank you Tony and thank your beautiful wife for allowing you to do what you do. You and RC Blake keep it 100. I love you my brother! I just pray that every woman that hears you will meditate on every word that comes out of your mouth because they are God inspired. May God continue to bless you as you are such a blessing to us women 🤗
Thanks for your candidness & honesty when giving such great advice, Tony!
This is my husband all day .omg I've never known a man like him .its breathtaking .sometimes I cant believe how amazing he is .
Glory to God! You are blessed.
Yes ♥️
So happy for you. You’re so blessed.
That is so wonderful Im happy for you I can’t wait to say this about my future husband
Be Blessed
Felt like I was never fortunate enough to be in a relationship with a man that was truly in love with me... I pray that God will help me discover what true love is and how it feels like to be in such relationship. My Mr Right is coming soon 😏
Blessings
In Jesus name
Your honest is refreshing. And your walk with God is evident. Your relationship is blessed because you are blessed. And that is a true blessing from God. Blessings to your entire family. Be blessed. Acts 2:38
Yes he is..you will find each other because you know..YOU DESERVE IT.
Facts you preached today and put it all on the table❤
Be Blessed! Thank you Tony Gaskins for this wonderful advice! 🙏🏽
Be blessed! Married my husband 6/27/2020 and it took us ten years to get it right. My God I love my husband totally we both had to grow soooo much and God blesses us to get it right. Thank you Lord.
Alexandria Andrew’s, Thanks for sharing those encouraging words. It really does take allot of Love and Patience to get everything right! Be Blessed
How long were you with your husband before you all married?
Amen my sister....bang goes the theory that you have to date for a specific amount of time....there is no set time and it took this time for a reason. I thank God that you were both able to go through those experiences and then eventually come together with a meeting of the minds. God enabled you both to be go through his character development in order to prepare you for marriage, even though it took 10 years...To God be the Glory. I love your testimony.
I'm glad y'all got it together. I believe there are times where it's two people that love each other but just need time to grow. Tony would tell you he settled 🙄🤣🤣. Let's be real, we all know men take longer to mature. I don't want the commitment just because he wants to keep me around. Sounds like you both have learned each other and it's paid off. Wishing you all the best.
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My ex let my enlaws harass me he was abusive I left ! 10 years divorced! Happy
Be Blessed. Thank you my brother 🙏🏾
You never know what to expect with these types of videos. This was solid.
I admire the way you talk about your wife. So happy to see a faithful man who sticks by his wife's side and show true agape love. God bless y'all marriage. Love it!
This means that I’ve been in a 3 year toxic relationship and I knew this. I’ve been getting myself together to leave this relationship because it’s not heading anywhere.
Best of love to you and you will get out keep planning and when you get out stay out, stay blessed.
So sorry. Better late than never
@Size24 NO More! so true. When we are done...it is done.
Good for u....you deserve better !
Maybe time to go!!...if you are not happy, leave it alone!!
Such great advice. That list is real as the day is long.
Thank you, Tony! I take notes and read them when I need it. 🙌
Couples rarely talk about the butterflies anymore.
My husband does all of it n a hundred times more..he loves me more than I love him..thnk god n m really grateful..he is sent by God for me 😭😭
That a true blessing
You better start loving your husband just as much as he loves you. Don't be o.k with giving him less, it sounds like he deserves you're very best.
@@14kurtismiller I was saying the same thing...uhh
"He loves you more "...🤔
Amen 🙏🏾
Thank you Tony for providing the ointment I need to heal my wounds that got from my ex husband. I am on the road to recovery and am living a peaceful life
Be blessed. Thanks for sharing Tony. I admire the way you love 💕 your wife. It’s adorable and more men should follow in your footsteps. God bless you abundantly 💐🙏🏼😊
When I got in an accident my man was right there everyday came to my house I couldn't do nothing I could walk or the bathroom wash up or nothing he was right there to do it that's a real man
This Is No Old Wives Tale. ACTIONS SPEAK VOLUMES! SHOW ME, NOT JUST TALK MY HEAD OFF WITH WORDS! 🤷🏽♀️
Yessss!!!
Consistency is more important then actions nowadays. Some people will do certain things to act as if they care about you. But once they feel like you are all in. They show the real them.
YOu are SPOT on...ACTIONS!!! i've been with someone to where its all WORDS and no actions!!
@@TheElokim It's A Waste Of Time Period. Thank You!
@@ladennayoung2939 True Statement Sis, I Agree. 💯
Hi Tony ,
I just want to say thank you so much for being supportive to us ladies out there e.I’m truly blessed with your words they very inspired.May god continue to strengthen you abundantly guide and protect you each and every day stay blessed.🙏🏾
Now i have a succinct list of non negotiables to pray for in a man. Be blessed! 🙏
If he in love with u and let people disrespect dont say nothing u dont need him period
MY MOM TAUGHT HER FIVE DAUGHTERS THAT LOVE DOESN'T HURT.
So did mine!
As did mine all 6 of her girls.
I Agree
Be blessed. Tony, this is my second or third time watching this video and I enjoy it. You know what? This video seemed so close to your heart. I could feel that you really enjoyed it and you are sincere about it.
I had all five of those points with my late husband but never since then. I haven't given up; believing God for that kind of a husband and working on myself so I can be the kind of wife he wants and needs.
God bless you and yours, Tony.
The story about the flight attendant - WOW!! You are the type of man who gives me hope that there are good men out there. Thank you for the video!
I taught my son from Day NEVER LET ANY MAN OR WOMAN COME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR WIFE....I said son , NOT EVEN ME,YOUR MOTHER, YOU PUT YOUR WIFE BEFORE YOU PUT ME SON.. Because to me that's what God says, go forth to make HIS OWN FAMILY..and if I love my son I wouldn't disrespect the love he has for his wife or make him choose... Jus sayin I agree with you putting your wife first .
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I wish Men could copy-these valuable principles!!
Bless you. You taught him very well.
That’s right Moma you have taught
him very well and taught him how to Truly Respect His God His Mother & Father whether he’s known’s his Father or not His Self Worth this teaches him how to forgive with a open Heart then when his Children Come He Has Come Full Circle when a Son see’s His Parents Sacrifice and have enough courage to teach him how to be a man then he is free to love a Women Unconditionally
@@reenasambaza8462 Well God Made Man To Pursuit and Hunt for His Women Your doing this backward a man was create it to Love You And Provide for you to Cherish You And Protect You And You Are His Help Mate this means to Love & Cherish him Make him feel like a Happy, Proud and Loving Man this doesn’t mean you have to change him or fix him if you have to do all of that he is not the one This doesn’t mean You take care of him you spoil him some men are looking for a fool to use WHO’S FOOLING WHO I’m sorry that’s not a man that a boy trying to show out in front of his boys a real man won’t put you threw This mess always know your RED FLAGS most women see them but for some reason SEX ALWAYS WIN’S Over Common Sense Beware of the man with the candy in his hand you don’t need no man Cuter or finer then you you don’t need any competition from a man just pray baby and ask God to send you your KING THAT HE Create it just for you and be very pacific of what you want I pray for a humble man a loving man a working man a man that loves me more than he loves his self A man who knows what a man supposed to do for his wife and family I didn’t look for any man I stayed Focus oh my career and my love for God so I would be ready now you must bring something to the table too becuz when times get rough he need to lean on you a little bit also and you must be ready and My Husband found me two years later we dated for another three years and now we’ve been together 35 years when you know you’re getting sick of being sick and tired of going through the same thing over and over and over you’ll slow down just think about what you want and you must be fair because if you’re not you’re going to find the same dudes I never thought I could be so happy I never thought then I will stop bumping my head looking for him but it turns out God knew BEST GOD WANTS YOU TO HAVE HIS BEST IN YOUR LIFE THE BEST OF GOD’S LOVE
Thats very good advice :)
Married 20 yrs only 2 bad fights. That taught us both a lesson not to repeat. We talk things out no yelling and screaming.
So glad to hear that Sharon. We don’t communicate well at all. I’ve put my foot down and stop accepting the way he talks to me and I’ve let him know not to talk to me crazy. He’s called me out of my name once and it showed me what he really thinks about me.
Amazing ❤️ thanks for the testimony
How beautiful is this! I'm looking forward to this for my love life and my future. Thank you for giving us hope.
@@lotusphoenix8 oh by the way I was 51 when I married him.
@@sharonmassetti2685 Hallelujah! Even more hope! Bless you!😍
Be blessed. Walk in your assignment, to the glory of God.
Be blessed. .thank you and I love you mr Gaskins... such an Inspiration always to the world.. GODBLESS you And your family ❤️