5 Signs He’s In Love with You!

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  • Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
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    How to know a man is in love? In this video I share 5 of the biggest signs a man is in love.
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Комментарии • 8 тыс.

  • @Bgrace15
    @Bgrace15 5 лет назад +7264

    1. Sacrifices for you
    2. Consistent
    3. Defends you
    4. Doesn't intentionally hurt you
    5. Apologizes

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  5 лет назад +904

      Thank you for being my note-taker, and also for being a member of the The Blessed Tribe! You are appreciated! #BlessedFam

    • @MsAJones-ic9bx
      @MsAJones-ic9bx 5 лет назад +160

      @@TonyGaskins Thank you. Be Blessed.!!!!!!!
      I pray for a man that has all these qualities. GOD BLESS YOU.✝️✝️✝️

    • @rocreationsllc8245
      @rocreationsllc8245 5 лет назад +80

      Thank you for being a blessing to so many women with Godly advice and insite as it relates to relationships.
      Be blessed

    • @feliciahenry967
      @feliciahenry967 5 лет назад +32

      Be Blessed

    • @queenofthesouth4205
      @queenofthesouth4205 5 лет назад +56

      let the church say AMEN

  • @jayceelaw6772
    @jayceelaw6772 5 лет назад +1912

    I've learned that...Real men, do not have a problem apologizing!
    **Accept accountability**

    • @TheRoyalty1982
      @TheRoyalty1982 5 лет назад +44

      There is power in a true apology.

    • @angelnetworkascension2039
      @angelnetworkascension2039 5 лет назад +27

      They have a beautiful spirit of humility, yet they are confident because they are God-fearing individuals.
      They are convicted in their own spirit if they mistreat another person. Morals, standards and how they carry themselves before they even meet us is just WHO these MEN are at their core.

    • @jayceelaw6772
      @jayceelaw6772 5 лет назад +3

      @@TheRoyalty1982 yes there is...PERIOD!

    • @jayceelaw6772
      @jayceelaw6772 5 лет назад +18

      @@angelnetworkascension2039 I agree. I was was in a relationship and after a year in...i started seeing him for who he really was. He had DEEP convictions going on within. Holding onto all that baggage of sins from his childhood. This is how I know...Hurt People, Hurt People!
      Another reason why I now take my time getting to know men. I'll continue to move slow, even now in my current relationship.
      We have to...🤗

    • @angelnetworkascension2039
      @angelnetworkascension2039 5 лет назад +11

      @@jayceelaw6772
      I wish you the absolute best! 🤗. What tends to happen is that these individuals are acting and they grow weary of "playing the role". The authenticity of who they truly are will come to the light. We just have to observe. It will always reveal itself. Having a spirit of discernment is such a gift and one of which I am grateful.
      Be blessed! 🙌❤

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter 5 лет назад +3066

    Been married 7 years. Extremely toxic and emotionally & mentally abusive. We have 5 kids together. I guess he's not in love with me. Filing for divorce. Finally gonna love myself the way I know I deserve.❤ Be Blessed!

    •  5 лет назад +220

      I hope the rest of your years you will be happy and loved properly

    • @sunnyday3117
      @sunnyday3117 5 лет назад +67

      You deserve better

    • @TheAdamslena
      @TheAdamslena 5 лет назад +62

      Wishing you endless blessings. I'm praying for you and your family

    • @zenasherman9444
      @zenasherman9444 5 лет назад +75

      I'm proud of you for saying enough is enough!💙💜❤ NOW take care of you.😊

    • @twansqueen2349
      @twansqueen2349 5 лет назад +40

      Hate what u been going through

  • @TheKayzieMichelle
    @TheKayzieMichelle 4 года назад +356

    Been married 43 years. This is my hubby, 100%. Lol

    • @missmcphee8859
      @missmcphee8859 4 года назад +7

      Very sweet! Congrats

    • @londaj823
      @londaj823 3 года назад +9

      You are Blessed for sure

    • @linrey3397
      @linrey3397 3 года назад +5

      What a blessing,!

    • @c.l.9344
      @c.l.9344 3 года назад +6

      What a blessing to be married that long.

    • @biruruth5956
      @biruruth5956 3 года назад +4

      Same here Kay❤️🙏💯

  • @lisamarie9642
    @lisamarie9642 4 года назад +448

    1) He sacrifices for you
    2) Is consistent with you
    3) He defends you
    4) He doesn't intentionally hurt you
    5) He apologizes to you

    • @brownsugabooneboone5636
      @brownsugabooneboone5636 4 года назад +2

      Be blessed

    • @westcoastbred7745
      @westcoastbred7745 4 года назад +1

      This list is like spoiling the movie before watching it

    • @MrsBryant1024
      @MrsBryant1024 4 года назад

      Yours out of order😒

    • @joannhamilton3546
      @joannhamilton3546 3 года назад +2

      Be Blessed

    • @salamiakeem6149
      @salamiakeem6149 3 года назад

      *#*I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEARD DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX THROUGH THE GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR WILSON, WHO HELPED ME RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE*#*

  • @tyandrahashley7250
    @tyandrahashley7250 5 лет назад +795

    The way a man loves his wife puts a spotlight on his relationship with his Lord! No man can truthfully claim he loves his Lord, if he’s not honoring his wife...

    • @zoeelauren4649
      @zoeelauren4649 5 лет назад +11

      Amen

    • @angib6482
      @angib6482 5 лет назад +16

      The man I'm praying for, still gives me butterflies whenever he's near me or we're on a date🦋💞😘💜🌹🙏🏽💞

    • @angib6482
      @angib6482 5 лет назад +6

      Aaaaamen

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 5 лет назад +5

      Selah

    • @tyandrahashley7250
      @tyandrahashley7250 5 лет назад +11

      Joyful n Blessed yes indeed! They can claim to be Muslim Christian or whatever... some men use religion as a cover to hide who they REALLY are... but actions don’t lie... (some women too!!!) If he TRULY loves his Lord he can’t help but to genuinely love and adore and sacrifice for his wife!!!

  • @winsomeanyisia2096
    @winsomeanyisia2096 4 года назад +672

    Men say I need a good woman but when they get you they don’t know how to appreciate you.

  • @adelafirme
    @adelafirme 3 года назад +467

    Never having a father in my life growing up. I never knew how a man is supposed to love a woman. So I thank Tony for teaching me at the age of 45 how I should be treated, valued, respected and above all loved.❤✝️

    • @Anthony-du8bn
      @Anthony-du8bn 3 года назад

      Hi Dee how can I get your number I don't have much to say lol

    • @adelafirme
      @adelafirme 3 года назад +1

      @@Anthony-du8bn lol you got jokes 🤣

    • @Anthony-du8bn
      @Anthony-du8bn 3 года назад +2

      There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can’t take them off you. you're beautiful 😉

    • @MindYourImage
      @MindYourImage 3 года назад +2

      You're blessed Dee darling. Enjoy

    • @noalula3234
      @noalula3234 3 года назад

      At age 45 don’t expect to get that treat from men. You should give that to him. He is the price!!!

  • @camgent3307
    @camgent3307 4 года назад +146

    I have been married for 16 years and I must truly say you are 100% correct!!!! This is my husband to the tee..lol

  • @msdeefit
    @msdeefit 4 года назад +693

    This a mature man who is not emotionally closed off and open to love. Let all the good women get this type of partner 🙏🏾

  • @daviddunn4409
    @daviddunn4409 4 года назад +211

    Brother Gaskins, my future wife sent this video to me...Her birthday just passed and I made her feel like the Queen she is. I agree with everything you shared. I live by it too. Be blessed!!!

    • @marilynbassett6071
      @marilynbassett6071 4 года назад +2

      Thanks Tony and be blessed for keeping it real.😊 It's so refreshing to see & hear an awesome Black Man share such Godly Wisdom about true love💕😍💝🎉💕😍💝💕

  • @AD-hh6dd
    @AD-hh6dd 2 года назад +191

    Thank you Tony. I was married to a “nice guy” who never stood up for me when his family spoke bad about me. I left him and everyone thought I was crazy because he was so nice. No matter how many nice things he did for me I didn’t feel loved because I felt betrayed. I appreciate someone finally validating me for this.

    • @andieisms
      @andieisms 2 года назад +10

      Thank you for sharing, I finally have the courage to leave.

    • @anewchapter1336
      @anewchapter1336 2 года назад +10

      Going through this for years now. Husband of 22 years lets his family say horrible things about me and I have the screen shots and he is not remorseful and brainwashed by his narcissistic cult family and is enmeshed with his mother. Sick of it and done with it.

    • @theofficialnikkisnews
      @theofficialnikkisnews 2 года назад +2

      I’m going through this now also. Trying to decide whether to leave or stay.

    • @AD-hh6dd
      @AD-hh6dd 2 года назад +10

      You lovely ladies deserve better. What’s crazy is Mr nice guy turned into Mr Nightmare when I left. He completely dropped the nice guy facade. I was shocked to discover he was a phony for all those years. “Nice guys” like this aren’t nice. They’re users who manipulate you into feeling sorry for them to get what they want out if you and then when you leave and no longer make them feel better about themselves they turn on you in the most brutal way. It shouldn’t have come as a surprise though with the way he didn’t stand up for me when others attacked me. That’s a red flag that underneath it all they don’t care about you. They’re only out for themselves. Let that allow you to feel justified in leaving their sorry asses.

    • @LittleBambi777
      @LittleBambi777 Год назад +1

      @@AD-hh6ddI feel you, I've been with a guy like that and felt even lonelier than being single, took me nearly 12 years to finally made the decision, never look back.

  • @phyllisbell-sutton3273
    @phyllisbell-sutton3273 4 года назад +471

    Thank God my husband is IN love with me!!! He actually does all 5. I’m so blessed and grateful.
    .

  • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
    @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 5 лет назад +149

    Praise God, I finally found a man who TRULY loves me... Be blessed.

    • @FlyCorpGirl
      @FlyCorpGirl 5 лет назад +2

      Thank you for all of your insight. Be blessed.

    •  4 года назад

      @@beckysouthlondon AMEN 💖🙏🏾

    • @leroywills1368
      @leroywills1368 3 года назад

      This young brother has a lot of wisdom well-spoken look forward to hearing more

  • @c.c.taylor371
    @c.c.taylor371 4 года назад +363

    I have an ALL 5 husband! I’m so blessed. I recognize it. My first marriage was abusive, but God has truly blessed me. Thank you Tony!

    • @amimartinez4217
      @amimartinez4217 3 года назад +5

      Thats a great testimony for women like me you could still find that god fearing man.

    • @acameridley9536
      @acameridley9536 2 года назад +3

      God does give 2nd chances. I am praying for mines.

  • @munchkinm6929
    @munchkinm6929 Год назад +10

    My husband sold his favorite ring to buy me a gift before we were married. I was like wow. Been married for 18 years now

  • @sassyclassy3316
    @sassyclassy3316 5 лет назад +268

    I love that you don't let noone disrespect your wife💞

    • @odessamurphy974
      @odessamurphy974 5 лет назад +3

      @Eternity With Christ hello Amen 👆🙏 Amen💫 Amen together as ONE💫👑 Amen what a blessing it's mighty blessings that men is still out hear that is spoken for an knows the love for a women's that has her back to all thing's as well 👆an Mr Tony Gaskins 🌹 Yassss Sir so true walk in it live in it an Yassss Chris 💯🤗 happy holidays too we all an safe happiness an joy wishing myself an y'all a healthy Right spirit of that Right one too become together as one of 2020☝️🙏💫👑🌹 Peace on Earth Peace within Peace too we All thank for reading 🌹

    • @QueenOfPrinciple
      @QueenOfPrinciple 5 лет назад +9

      Yesss thats what i I said because I had an ex who didnt say jothing when his family talked junk to me.
      Then you say something, they get mad

    • @nitoshiamitchell9352
      @nitoshiamitchell9352 5 лет назад

      Be blessed

  • @reginasolomon6596
    @reginasolomon6596 4 года назад +252

    My husband does ALL the above., MY man LOVES ME! IN LOVE WITH ME. I'm surely BLESSED. 21yrs and loving him more every year.

    • @teshabeauty79
      @teshabeauty79 4 года назад +1

      Your truly blessed!!

    • @CheeKnoSheBad
      @CheeKnoSheBad 4 года назад +1

      Yay!!!! I love that ❤️❤️❤️❤️ god bless your union

    • @teresai1877
      @teresai1877 3 года назад +1

      That's wonderful Regina!

    • @1real-taylor
      @1real-taylor 3 года назад +2

      Praise GOD, so happy for you.

    • @itsamorlol1204
      @itsamorlol1204 3 года назад

      You is so blessed! I hope I could have the same type of relationship ☺️

  • @carollove2427
    @carollove2427 4 года назад +212

    My husband protects me to the fullest he doesn’t care who it is he makes them give me respect

    • @carollove2427
      @carollove2427 4 года назад +15

      YES HE DOES CAR NOTE AND ALL OTHERS BILLS HOUSE MORTGAGE LIGHTS GAS POOL MAN ALWAYS HAVE I ONLY BUY GROCERIES I THANK GOD HE SENT MY HONEY TO FIND ME LIKE I SAID 35 WONDERFUL BLESSED YEARS THANK YOU JESUS THANK YOU

    • @disnalee
      @disnalee 4 года назад +6

      He is a keeper and he loves you

    • @abeena7017
      @abeena7017 4 года назад +3

      Was he always like this or did you have to teach him

    • @pinkylovie
      @pinkylovie 4 года назад +6

      U r blessed. My boyfriend never defend me from his abusive family and friends. he even sided against me when i argued with his highschool female friend for always flirting with him. U really r blessed.

    • @disnalee
      @disnalee 4 года назад

      @@pinkylovie my hubby flirts with just any female. It does not upset me bc when i do it to him unintentionally, he gets green.

  • @lisadeav73
    @lisadeav73 3 года назад +66

    If the man wants me he'll go hard for you if he don't, he'll go ghost. Point Blank

    • @pococofamily3170
      @pococofamily3170 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @pococofamily3170
      @pococofamily3170 3 года назад

      Whxtapp me

    • @pococofamily3170
      @pococofamily3170 3 года назад

      +1 9-7-2 5 3 4-8 3 9 9

  • @bosslady9108
    @bosslady9108 4 года назад +263

    I'm praying and believing that I will find a man for me that has these five qualities. I'm tired of casting my pearls amongst the swine.

    • @gailhopkins5767
      @gailhopkins5767 4 года назад +24

      A man that find a wife find a good thing! Stop trying to find him wrong way. Pray the Lord will guide YOUR husband he has for u to find u!. Grace to all. gh

    • @bosslady9108
      @bosslady9108 4 года назад +4

      @@gailhopkins5767 Thank you.....

    • @QueenNia
      @QueenNia 4 года назад +6

      I'm so with you on that...

    • @gailhopkins5767
      @gailhopkins5767 4 года назад +4

      @@bosslady9108 u be Bless & trust in the Word of Jehovah God& no i am not a Jehovah's witness. My mom was . bless her heart i am a christian & i know the Lord has many names, King of Kings, i am that i am, Lord & Saviour, master, etc. I just like to call him by his name as we have names too. So i want to say to u Boss lady910. That it is no secret that what he does for 1 he will also do for u. & his word is tried & proven true. So u just KEEP your faith & he shall bring it to pass for u. I am celebrating your HUSBAND finding u before. Why because i am standing in faith with u Boss lady 910. Grace keep u & all. gh

    • @gailhopkins5767
      @gailhopkins5767 4 года назад +4

      @@QueenNia Ms. Veiro u too be bless all your days of a long good life. Simply because u believe in the word of our Lord. Grace to u & all. gh

  • @lisasapp2466
    @lisasapp2466 4 года назад +93

    I have been married for 42 years and my husband has always sacrifice for our children grandchildren and myself!!! Thank for reminder me that I need to tell him that I truly LOVE him!!!! ♥️

  • @tamarajordan485
    @tamarajordan485 5 лет назад +318

    I pray God will bless me with a man
    That will love me like Christ loves the church. Scripture speaking.

    • @msbaker8027
      @msbaker8027 4 года назад +2

      Amen

    • @DailyreadwithNee
      @DailyreadwithNee 4 года назад +1

      Me too. You said it so well, God fearing.

    • @19lbrown
      @19lbrown 4 года назад +1

      Amen!! Me too! U are not by yourself!! God is picking exactly who we need sista!! We are a good thing!! What he said? He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing!!🙂🙏😇That's us!!😇🙏❤😇

    • @chinwe2507
      @chinwe2507 4 года назад +1

      Amen 🙏 ooooooooooooo

    • @LS-we6ji
      @LS-we6ji 4 года назад +1

      Amen 🙏

  • @PrincessPeach7555
    @PrincessPeach7555 3 года назад +132

    Your love for your wife is so beautiful it made me cry. I want that for me.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 3 года назад +5

      Right!!! I hope that I’ll be that blessed someday!

    • @PrincessPeach7555
      @PrincessPeach7555 3 года назад +2

      @@wshelby83 I hope that too, everyone deserves love so pure and kind.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 3 года назад +2

      @@PrincessPeach7555 thank you!

    • @Jesuslovesherr
      @Jesuslovesherr 3 года назад +2

      And so it shall be! Work on yourself

    • @magarethecharles1085
      @magarethecharles1085 3 года назад +2

      You will have that sis.

  • @hopewhite4308
    @hopewhite4308 4 года назад +290

    I'm glad to see a black man speak about healthy relationships...I appreciate what you're doing to help us as women pay attention to what's necessary for a loving relationship!!❤❤❤❤

  • @laurenalexander8720
    @laurenalexander8720 5 лет назад +278

    That's my husband, 30 years of marriage 🙏💓 he has always given me his last and put us before his own needs . I love him so much . I remember when we first got married and we didn't have much but he made sure we had everything we would ever need 🙏
    Be Blessed 🙏

    • @ingridcarney615
      @ingridcarney615 5 лет назад +12

      You're so blessed🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @JustDoRight
      @JustDoRight 5 лет назад +4

      That's my soon to be husband now. Although I've went through the valleys of the shadows of death, fearing no evil, God has truly blessed me this time around. Thank you Jesus! 🙌🏽 Blessed indeed.

    • @ladysafari01
      @ladysafari01 5 лет назад +2

      Count yourself blessed my dear!

    • @kstarrify
      @kstarrify 5 лет назад +2

      2nd good report - there is hope!

    • @katherineaddicks6468
      @katherineaddicks6468 5 лет назад

      You are very blessed

  • @laren2479
    @laren2479 4 года назад +157

    Yep, all true. My Hubby been this way since day one. It took my slow behind a year to figure it out and not mess it up. I love him forever for it. Be Blessed...
    17 years and still in love.

    • @akuasalaam490
      @akuasalaam490 4 года назад +5

      La Kesha Hayes That’s beautiful... Godspeed...

    • @saneeshaf
      @saneeshaf 4 года назад +4

      When and how did you realize he was in love and that you could trust and rest to marry him?

    • @briana14333
      @briana14333 4 года назад

      beautiful

    • @bevjohnson22
      @bevjohnson22 4 года назад

      Congrats

  • @tiffanyjohnson4271
    @tiffanyjohnson4271 3 года назад +99

    I pray God send me a man with these qualities!

  • @drummerboy91productions63
    @drummerboy91productions63 4 года назад +461

    This is me bro. Most women don’t know how to receive it man. I felt like I wasn’t doing too much being this way. You just showed me that it’s the correct way. Thanks bro 💪🏾

  • @Jules_TX
    @Jules_TX 5 лет назад +283

    Be blessed. Tony isn't lying either when he talks about how he interacts with women. I went to one of his seminars and he was kind, helpful and humble. Tons of beautiful woman at the seminar but for him it was strictly business.

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  5 лет назад +41

      Jules Arebalo thanks for that stamp Sis! Bless you!

    • @jillcooper4854
      @jillcooper4854 5 лет назад +26

      This brother truly care about his black sistas. I know that all the black dusty, brother hate on him because he's spilling the tea on there game and giving us the upper hand. We know now! No more excuses. Thank you bro. Gaskins. God bless you and your family.

  • @jessicamartir56
    @jessicamartir56 5 лет назад +540

    My husband is definitely in love with me ,even after 23 yrs ! Be Blessed 🙌💯❤

    • @anointedstilettos
      @anointedstilettos 5 лет назад +21

      You are so blessed! I am patiently waiting on someone to be in love with me so I can reciprocate this kind of love back.

    • @jessicamartir56
      @jessicamartir56 5 лет назад +18

      @@anointedstilettos Hasnt been easy, trials and tribulations has came in between. We were just teenagers when we started , we been through it all and now we are married with 2 kids . . Life makes detours some can be for right reasons some can be for wrong.. May god bless u someday💯❤

    • @anointedstilettos
      @anointedstilettos 5 лет назад +3

      @@jessicamartir56 Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @jessicamartir56
      @jessicamartir56 5 лет назад +2

      @@LilieAn1 thank you hun ❤❤

    • @keythjones9588
      @keythjones9588 5 лет назад +5

      Congratulations to the two of you and may Allah ( God) continue to bless the two of you abundantly

  • @Cindy-bm2hn
    @Cindy-bm2hn 3 года назад +59

    Love it !!!🥰 I can honestly say me and my husband have all 5 by the grace of God we have got to this point going on 10 yrs now and I love him more now than when I first met him 💖🙏

    • @sharonferguson2410
      @sharonferguson2410 3 года назад

      Thank you for a sharing. I feel you bro. I believe you .🇯🇲

    • @nicolelagamo11
      @nicolelagamo11 3 года назад

      God bless ❤❤❤

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 3 года назад

      Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you❤️

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 3 года назад

      ***Wh'|sapp him for help****

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 3 года назад

      ✝12086496208⏯⏯⏭⏭⏯⏯⏯⏯????????????????????????????????????????????????????

  • @daughteroftheking4301
    @daughteroftheking4301 5 лет назад +46

    I admire the way you talk about your wife. So happy to see a faithful man who sticks by his wife's side and show true agape love. God bless y'all marriage. Love it!

  • @DynamicallyDC
    @DynamicallyDC 5 лет назад +432

    A man in love with you will always be consistent with courting you and engaging you the way he did initially to win your heart. 🙌🏽👌🏽

    • @ministerstayfly9213
      @ministerstayfly9213 3 года назад +1

      And what does she do to deserve all of this.

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 года назад +2

      Good morning real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n also ask what ‘ s you need help with , what ‘s your future goals ! A real man will send you roses , keep gas in your car , also has God in life n make you first properity , help you with the bills , take you too work on your off days ! A real man will work too bones too make should you didn’t have too work that hard !

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 года назад +2

      I’ m just being real n honest

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 года назад +1

      Thank you for replying back

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 3 года назад

      Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you❤️

  • @DELIVERANCE-TODAY
    @DELIVERANCE-TODAY 4 года назад +266

    #1. He will sacrifice for you
    #2. He won't intentionally hurt you
    #3. He will defend you
    #4. He will be consistent and completely faithful to you (watch for signs, and be honest with yourself!)
    #5. He will apologize

  • @cynthiabaker9177
    @cynthiabaker9177 2 года назад +39

    I AM BLESSED!!! My husband is a true gift from God. He is everything God said a husband should be God has blessed me exceedently and abundantly above anything I could ask or think. Thank you Father.

  • @TheNillyp
    @TheNillyp 4 года назад +316

    This revealed to me that I have never really experienced real love even with the father of my kids... it hurts but I needed this, thank you❤️ it’s really sweet to see a black man speak so passionately about his wife

    • @darrelljackson484
      @darrelljackson484 4 года назад +7

      No disrespect. I have always been curious. After the first child and the father doesn't marry you. Why do you have more children with him?

    • @darrelljackson484
      @darrelljackson484 4 года назад +2

      No disrespect. I have always been curious. After the first child and the father doesn't marry you. Why do you have more children with him?

    • @darrelljackson484
      @darrelljackson484 4 года назад +1

      No disrespect. I have always been curious. After the first child and the father doesn't marry you. Why do you have more children with him?

    • @ms.ladysanders3939
      @ms.ladysanders3939 4 года назад

      @@darrelljackson484 It's a choice.

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 3 года назад

      Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you❤️

  • @danawright8306
    @danawright8306 5 лет назад +104

    This confirmed that the only man who was in love with me was my first boyfriend. I was too young and broken to know it. I know it now. No regrets. I had to go through what I had to go through to love me first. I'm truly loving me. So when the next man who is in love with me comes along....I AIN'T LETTING HIM GO!!!

    • @michelleclay1494
      @michelleclay1494 4 года назад +2

      Dana Wright my sentiments also. My very first BF was all these things. Now, another woman has been reaping the benefits of a good man all these years. 23 to be exact!

    • @michelleclay1494
      @michelleclay1494 4 года назад

      Oh, and I’m twice divorced. ☹️

    • @danaglover6801
      @danaglover6801 4 года назад +2

      @Dana Wright.. I totally understand where you’re comin from. He wasn’t my first boyfriend but he was definitely in love with me. I was just too young broken and unhappy to see it. I’ve only had duds come into my life since😳🤨😓... if and when given another chance I’m there for it. I’m grown today so I know better now🤔💯

  • @barbarastevenson760
    @barbarastevenson760 5 лет назад +165

    I'am so Blessed I've got the best husband in the he world, he does all 5 and more .we are so very much in love with each other ,it's so amazing how someone can fall so deeply in love with their partner. We're going on 9 years and growing strong .

    • @shaquitastuart
      @shaquitastuart 4 года назад +3

      @BARBARA STEVENSON. Thank you so much for sharing this Barbera. It great to know that married, single, happy or in question women watch the show. It takes a good woman to have a good man. Thanks again for sharing.

    • @NatureGirlMoniDrew
      @NatureGirlMoniDrew 4 года назад

      Amen!

    • @queensonjilee7379
      @queensonjilee7379 4 года назад

      @BARBARA STEVENSON God bless your union.

  • @chloethemessenger
    @chloethemessenger 5 месяцев назад

    Just sending a small token of my appreciation to you. You’ve really helped me become a better woman even though there is still plenty of work left for me to do 😂, your videos have helped me. Please don’t stop being a good and godly man and husband. God will honour you amongst many✨you’ll see. God bless you Mr. TG.

  • @tinamariew8251
    @tinamariew8251 4 года назад +320

    To GOD be The Glory!!! After 20 yrs. of being single and 4 yrs. of celibacy, I have now been blessed with a gentleMAN that truly loves me and has exhibited all 5 traits you spoke on Tony. Thank you for being open, honest and obedient to The Lord's mission in your life. Be BLESSED. Minister TinaMarie🌹🌿 🙏🏽🕊️😇

    • @theejadadiamondd4210
      @theejadadiamondd4210 3 года назад +5

      Congrats girl amen 🙌🙌🙌

    • @christinan005
      @christinan005 3 года назад +5

      Must b nice stay blessed💙

    • @shiracobb3098
      @shiracobb3098 3 года назад +3

      Wow that sounds awesome thats a testimony. 29 years of being single with 4 years celibacy wow how did you go thru all of that without feeling lonely? I’m glad you met someone but how did you meet ur new man?

    • @nnzulu7684
      @nnzulu7684 3 года назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @missc2091
      @missc2091 3 года назад

      Happy for u

  • @ericmuhammad8920
    @ericmuhammad8920 5 лет назад +167

    I agree don't let nobody disrespect your wife, not even your own children... I agree with that.

  • @ladyandrews9371
    @ladyandrews9371 4 года назад +90

    Be blessed! Married my husband 6/27/2020 and it took us ten years to get it right. My God I love my husband totally we both had to grow soooo much and God blesses us to get it right. Thank you Lord.

    • @joycesadler940
      @joycesadler940 4 года назад +2

      Alexandria Andrew’s, Thanks for sharing those encouraging words. It really does take allot of Love and Patience to get everything right! Be Blessed

    • @karreechanewby7548
      @karreechanewby7548 4 года назад +2

      How long were you with your husband before you all married?

    • @altheaturner9805
      @altheaturner9805 4 года назад +1

      Amen my sister....bang goes the theory that you have to date for a specific amount of time....there is no set time and it took this time for a reason. I thank God that you were both able to go through those experiences and then eventually come together with a meeting of the minds. God enabled you both to be go through his character development in order to prepare you for marriage, even though it took 10 years...To God be the Glory. I love your testimony.

    • @pinkishdiamondz
      @pinkishdiamondz 4 года назад +2

      I'm glad y'all got it together. I believe there are times where it's two people that love each other but just need time to grow. Tony would tell you he settled 🙄🤣🤣. Let's be real, we all know men take longer to mature. I don't want the commitment just because he wants to keep me around. Sounds like you both have learned each other and it's paid off. Wishing you all the best.

    • @zek280
      @zek280 4 года назад +1

      🥰🥰🥰

  • @LifeasLeah
    @LifeasLeah 4 года назад +87

    Aww my boyfriend told me he’s in love with me last week on top of him doing end showing all of these signs from the very jump of our relationship we are going on two years in June..

    • @MayaDTV
      @MayaDTV 3 года назад +2

      Amen!

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 3 года назад +5

      Wow!!! That’s so nice. I wish you guys all the best

  • @CoachHC
    @CoachHC 5 лет назад +59

    A big difference, care for you, have love for you and in love with you. We definitely have to know the difference . Be Blessed

  • @alharris1643
    @alharris1643 4 года назад +604

    My wife asked me to check this out and it made me feel good as I evaluated my relationship with my wife but at the same time it made me realize that there’s still work to be done on my end. Thank you for this video and be blessed!

    • @Glhug
      @Glhug 4 года назад +31

      you’re truly a king for wanting to change for the better!

    • @Myhiddentalents_64
      @Myhiddentalents_64 4 года назад +16

      That's beautiful that you are so humble to admit improvement.

    • @oluremi595
      @oluremi595 4 года назад +9

      You are a high value man 👍

    • @chloethemessenger
      @chloethemessenger 4 года назад +14

      Aawwww. She’s blessed to have a man who wants and is actively working on youre relationship ♥️

    • @chloethemessenger
      @chloethemessenger 4 года назад +5

      @@Glhug amen to that!

  • @pongkham143
    @pongkham143 4 года назад +408

    You can’t make anyone fall in love. It comes naturally if it’s meant to be.

    • @DC-8-8-8-
      @DC-8-8-8- 3 года назад +4

      True

    • @jonasbheart
      @jonasbheart 3 года назад +4

      100%

    • @lynniepoo6206
      @lynniepoo6206 3 года назад +8

      Nailed it! That is the bottom line, and we simply need to just accept that fact and not take it personally.

    • @Fulltimefreedomvibe
      @Fulltimefreedomvibe 3 года назад +5

      Right Right. A guy said I can make you fall in love with me. I said that’s not how I roll

    • @Eevanova
      @Eevanova 3 года назад

      You can

  • @OhNoSheDidItAgain
    @OhNoSheDidItAgain 3 года назад +45

    I needed to see this to make the RIGHT decision for myself. Thank you so much. I came across this video by accident but this is for me. I needed this message.

    • @Will-b5b
      @Will-b5b Год назад

      How you know you need this message

  • @krystlemccray420
    @krystlemccray420 4 года назад +81

    Absolutely facts!!! Myself and my Husband do all of these things for each other! We've been together for 3 years and everything is the same since day one! We are best friends!!!

  • @namiereed2383
    @namiereed2383 4 года назад +50

    When I got in an accident my man was right there everyday came to my house I couldn't do nothing I could walk or the bathroom wash up or nothing he was right there to do it that's a real man

  • @cristinamorris6845
    @cristinamorris6845 4 года назад +47

    Be blessed. Narcissistic exhusband. I realize he never loved me. He didn’t apologize. My new boyfriend is healthy and does the things you have mentioned. Thank you for your advice.

  • @lenasmith3563
    @lenasmith3563 3 года назад +13

    To find such an honorable man with such morals and values is truly a blessing in itself for it takes vigerous discipline to be a faithful husband and to truly show so much love for others is so beautiful to me

  • @LifeofToniesia
    @LifeofToniesia 5 лет назад +78

    Be blessed , I’m dealing with a man now who does all of these things but I was to blind to even see it ! You literally opened my eyes ! Thank you

  • @Woosahbrant
    @Woosahbrant 5 лет назад +31

    Pride and Real Love can’t dwell in the same temple. If that man truly loves, apologizing will come natural for him. Also, apology without change is manipulation.
    Thanks for your awesome works. They are 💯!
    Be Blessed!

    • @Woosahbrant
      @Woosahbrant 5 лет назад +1

      Eternity With Christ Thanks!

  • @heavenaya
    @heavenaya 5 лет назад +183

    Felt like I was never fortunate enough to be in a relationship with a man that was truly in love with me... I pray that God will help me discover what true love is and how it feels like to be in such relationship. My Mr Right is coming soon 😏

    • @timeforcommonsense.3136
      @timeforcommonsense.3136 5 лет назад +1

      Blessings

    • @deborahfrancois5596
      @deborahfrancois5596 5 лет назад +4

      In Jesus name

    • @inishimccune7384
      @inishimccune7384 5 лет назад +4

      Your honest is refreshing. And your walk with God is evident. Your relationship is blessed because you are blessed. And that is a true blessing from God. Blessings to your entire family. Be blessed. Acts 2:38

    • @EntertainmentTadayyyy
      @EntertainmentTadayyyy 5 лет назад

      Yes he is..you will find each other because you know..YOU DESERVE IT.

  • @christinacaravello6461
    @christinacaravello6461 2 года назад +2

    I love how you say no one will disrespect your wife not even your mom or sister. That is something beautiful in that

  • @sharonkelly5945
    @sharonkelly5945 4 года назад +512

    Amen !!! My husband just passed we were married for forty plus years he was every thing for me on the day he died he had returned the drug store for me and an hour later died , we loved each other and I still love my husband❤️👍🏽

    • @ericawilliams5174
      @ericawilliams5174 4 года назад +18

      I'm glad to hear you had a wonderful 40 plus years. And made it through the up and downs. I can imagine your loss was difficult. I pray that God heals your heart and gives you the understanding you need in this situation. So that you may accept it and be able to avoid the darkness that always sits and waits on us to come that way. If you have already been healed by God then that is absolutely awesome. I loss my boyfriend in 2018 to a car accident. And that blew my mind. We had recently broke up but were still very much communicating. And I know that's not a marriage but that hurt was massive. I had to quickly reach out to the Lord and take a look at my son and ask God to please help me because I didn't wanna go to the dark side of depression and being upset with God. I had to ask for understanding at its fullest. As of now I still miss him and I do shed a few tears here and there but I thank God for helping me through it all. May God bless you my sister and all your days to come. Remember, reach for God and believe that he will heal your heart. You have to believe and actually want to be healed. And that doesn't mean you cannot grieve your husband. Just try not to lie in it forever. And think of what your husband would want for you which is happiness.

    • @michellejackson1096
      @michellejackson1096 4 года назад +17

      I am very very sorry for your lost Beloved my GOD bless your soul.

    • @lowcalgyal406
      @lowcalgyal406 4 года назад +8

      So special ❤️

    • @ifyoucantmexiCAN...9948
      @ifyoucantmexiCAN...9948 4 года назад +10

      Rev 21:3,4
      Too be commended...👏👏👏

    • @laquitawallers5744
      @laquitawallers5744 4 года назад +8

      Prayers n my condolences to you Queen you have a Angel now blessings sitting with God my ex passed Jan 29th 2020 of this yr from Cancer I miss him became my bestfriend n I got hurt by his family of jelousy never made it to the Funeral it hurts y'all I was only 1 there for n threw everything but God is good still in the midst of a storm

  • @jacquettedaniels422
    @jacquettedaniels422 5 лет назад +31

    I miss being in love. But i am also happy getting my life back by doing the inner work while im single.

  • @BoswelliaLuna8
    @BoswelliaLuna8 5 лет назад +93

    Couples rarely talk about the butterflies anymore.

  • @mimidph
    @mimidph 4 года назад +88

    I was married for 22 years before I divorced him, because he was not that apologetic man. He has told me, “Let me make my mistakes.” What the heck?!😳 Some men never grow up. They just grow old. “So, out with the old!”

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 3 года назад

      Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you❤️

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 3 года назад

      ***Wh'|sapp him for help****

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 3 года назад

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      @ugobestelectrical4252 3 года назад

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    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 3 года назад

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  • @lesliesmith3452
    @lesliesmith3452 4 года назад +67

    My ex let my enlaws harass me he was abusive I left ! 10 years divorced! Happy

  • @rasheemastevenson5833
    @rasheemastevenson5833 4 года назад +26

    Be blessed...after being in a few bad relationships I have finally been given the man meant for me by God..we go on dates every Saturday and I don't pay for anything..he sees things that need to be done and does them without having to be asked..the man has his own place and helps me pay bills in my house.. today, he took the day off work to go to another city to buy new tires for my truck when he could have been making money, AND paid the shop to put the tires on just so I wouldn't drive out of town on bald tires..I'm all in with this man and he has my ❤️..our love is everything.. thanks Tony!!

    • @patjohnson9794
      @patjohnson9794 4 года назад +1

      That's a good man! Happy for you! Stay blessed.

    • @moriahcoleman275
      @moriahcoleman275 4 года назад +1

      Happy for you, you deserve it!!! 💛

  • @janicesewell7634
    @janicesewell7634 4 года назад +41

    Be BLESS!! 43 Years married. Went together for 2 before we got married. THANK GOD.

    • @cynthiajune2818
      @cynthiajune2818 3 года назад +2

      I love that you say " went together" ❤

  • @mika2707
    @mika2707 3 года назад +6

    It makes me smile….the way you talk about your Wife and date night. Thank you for your videos!

  • @tiredofalwayshurting4838
    @tiredofalwayshurting4838 4 года назад +61

    I taught my son from Day NEVER LET ANY MAN OR WOMAN COME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR WIFE....I said son , NOT EVEN ME,YOUR MOTHER, YOU PUT YOUR WIFE BEFORE YOU PUT ME SON.. Because to me that's what God says, go forth to make HIS OWN FAMILY..and if I love my son I wouldn't disrespect the love he has for his wife or make him choose... Jus sayin I agree with you putting your wife first .

    • @reenasambaza8462
      @reenasambaza8462 4 года назад +2

      TiredOf AlwaysHurtin
      I wish Men could copy-these valuable principles!!

    • @wonnielee3407
      @wonnielee3407 4 года назад +2

      Bless you. You taught him very well.

    • @carollove2427
      @carollove2427 4 года назад +1

      That’s right Moma you have taught
      him very well and taught him how to Truly Respect His God His Mother & Father whether he’s known’s his Father or not His Self Worth this teaches him how to forgive with a open Heart then when his Children Come He Has Come Full Circle when a Son see’s His Parents Sacrifice and have enough courage to teach him how to be a man then he is free to love a Women Unconditionally

    • @carollove2427
      @carollove2427 4 года назад

      @@reenasambaza8462 Well God Made Man To Pursuit and Hunt for His Women Your doing this backward a man was create it to Love You And Provide for you to Cherish You And Protect You And You Are His Help Mate this means to Love & Cherish him Make him feel like a Happy, Proud and Loving Man this doesn’t mean you have to change him or fix him if you have to do all of that he is not the one This doesn’t mean You take care of him you spoil him some men are looking for a fool to use WHO’S FOOLING WHO I’m sorry that’s not a man that a boy trying to show out in front of his boys a real man won’t put you threw This mess always know your RED FLAGS most women see them but for some reason SEX ALWAYS WIN’S Over Common Sense Beware of the man with the candy in his hand you don’t need no man Cuter or finer then you you don’t need any competition from a man just pray baby and ask God to send you your KING THAT HE Create it just for you and be very pacific of what you want I pray for a humble man a loving man a working man a man that loves me more than he loves his self A man who knows what a man supposed to do for his wife and family I didn’t look for any man I stayed Focus oh my career and my love for God so I would be ready now you must bring something to the table too becuz when times get rough he need to lean on you a little bit also and you must be ready and My Husband found me two years later we dated for another three years and now we’ve been together 35 years when you know you’re getting sick of being sick and tired of going through the same thing over and over and over you’ll slow down just think about what you want and you must be fair because if you’re not you’re going to find the same dudes I never thought I could be so happy I never thought then I will stop bumping my head looking for him but it turns out God knew BEST GOD WANTS YOU TO HAVE HIS BEST IN YOUR LIFE THE BEST OF GOD’S LOVE

    • @dinnipinni4810
      @dinnipinni4810 4 года назад

      Thats very good advice :)

  • @MikaisMika
    @MikaisMika 5 лет назад +21

    Be BLESSED! I almost cried listening to you talk about the love you have for your wife. What a beautiful thing.

  • @nguyenhang2241
    @nguyenhang2241 4 месяца назад +2

    0:40: he will sacrifice for you
    4:54: he won’t intentionally hurt you
    7:19: he will defend you
    10:28: he will be consistent
    14:55: he will apologize

  • @faactivate1
    @faactivate1 4 года назад +128

    My husband does all of it n a hundred times more..he loves me more than I love him..thnk god n m really grateful..he is sent by God for me 😭😭

    • @jocelovesart2911
      @jocelovesart2911 4 года назад +4

      That a true blessing

    • @14kurtismiller
      @14kurtismiller 4 года назад +16

      You better start loving your husband just as much as he loves you. Don't be o.k with giving him less, it sounds like he deserves you're very best.

    • @deidrasaunders6606
      @deidrasaunders6606 4 года назад +1

      @@14kurtismiller I was saying the same thing...uhh
      "He loves you more "...🤔

    • @SS-vk1xn
      @SS-vk1xn 4 года назад

      Amen 🙏🏾

  • @pamelawilliams6331
    @pamelawilliams6331 4 года назад +146

    I’m 59yrs old & never had that real love in my life but still hopeful.

    • @moorebeautymua6362
      @moorebeautymua6362 4 года назад +21

      It's never too late Ms Pamela. My aunt found her soul mate at 55. Never give up your love story just hasn't been written yet. Oxoxox

    • @flamboyant731
      @flamboyant731 4 года назад +5

      same

    • @carollove2427
      @carollove2427 4 года назад +13

      A man is suppose to search for his mate The Woman is supposed to wait until he finds her most women go out to find a man that’s why they end up with Lil boys playing kid game and please don’t bring any Baggage or Attitude from any of your past Relationships you must not think all men are the same this will interfere with your new Journey and your new progress with LOVE

    • @cynthiastevens8302
      @cynthiastevens8302 4 года назад +6

      It will happen for you!!

    • @1tnt833
      @1tnt833 4 года назад +3

      Tell me about it 🤦‍♀️

  • @SarynVyo
    @SarynVyo 5 лет назад +16

    Lol “he apologizes, whew” 😅 BE BLESSED. Thank you for this 🙏🏽

  • @brooketubbs8189
    @brooketubbs8189 3 года назад +15

    My fiance and I both do all of those things, it's amazing how much we love each other and bring a peaceful feeling to one another when one or the other has had a bad day or is in a bad mood. We actually don't get tired of each other and our differences complement the other one. We do have the same values and beliefs. I'm so happy to have a beautiful man who LOVES ME and is attentive when I'm sick takes care of me and took off work to be there for me when I was in the hospital for pleurisy. He tells me EVERY DAY I'm BEAUTIFUL and that he thanks GOD for bringing him an Angel! We both have been hurt in the past bit we treat each other with respect and love. We don't argue due to the fact that we may say something about the other that we can't take back. We talk to each other and we talk calmly and we listen to the other one and see where the other one is coming from. It's amazing how much we love each other and know that we will be together for the rest of our lives. We NEVER EVER HAVE put the other one or say anything wrong and hateful to each other! When he makes a mistake I don't yell at him we talk about it, and he made a mistake fixing a vehicle one time and basically tore up the parts for not tightening a part or something on the vehicle, I didn't say one word to him because I realized that he was kicking himself in his butt good enough. God love him, & he apologized to me because I was the one who bought the parts for the truck with my own money. We are not married YET! But we are getting married very soon. I prayed for God to send me a good man, and told God exactly what I wanted in a good relationship. Also told God that if there was no good. Man for me out there to not send me 1 at all.
    God blessed me with a beautiful loving attentive man, who is protecting and cherrishes me and tells me EVERY DAY I'm BEAUTIFUL and that he loves me. I'm blessed. I appreciate your video it reminded me of him to the T. Keep up the good work and have a good day.

    • @okoyestella4991
      @okoyestella4991 2 года назад +2

      I pray that one day I can say the same thing or more about my future spouse

    • @---nj7hl
      @---nj7hl Год назад

      This is Beautiful ❤
      It Brought tears to my eyes
      I'm a woman and don't get teary eyed much due to now having thick skin due to Trials & Tribulations
      I want a Godly Honest Man.
      Not One who Claims he is a "Godly man" and at the same time manipulates religion and the Bible at his convenience.

  • @monicacoleman6995
    @monicacoleman6995 4 года назад +250

    This means that I’ve been in a 3 year toxic relationship and I knew this. I’ve been getting myself together to leave this relationship because it’s not heading anywhere.

    • @danitadavis3
      @danitadavis3 4 года назад +12

      Best of love to you and you will get out keep planning and when you get out stay out, stay blessed.

    • @PREGOMILLIE
      @PREGOMILLIE 4 года назад +11

      So sorry. Better late than never

    • @marykayyolo
      @marykayyolo 4 года назад +13

      @Size24 NO More! so true. When we are done...it is done.

    • @beefaye18
      @beefaye18 4 года назад +9

      Good for u....you deserve better !

    • @jmsmurfy9
      @jmsmurfy9 4 года назад +8

      Maybe time to go!!...if you are not happy, leave it alone!!

  • @paulettesingleton9077
    @paulettesingleton9077 5 лет назад +244

    I’m a blessed woman. My husband does all 5 of those things and more!

  • @vernitaechols9376
    @vernitaechols9376 4 года назад +42

    You know for sure when you get really sick.Get hospitalized he's starnding over your bed crying & doesn't leave your side.

  • @peachypeachpea
    @peachypeachpea Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for this message. Absolutely makes so much sense. I’ve been married for over 3 years and we have a 1 year old child we are raising and sadly I’m now dealing with the Jezebel spirit of my mother in-law, who is definitely trying to destroy my marriage and ruin my child. Needed to hear this. Now I know how to proceed. I will definitely be in my Bible, continue to serve my husband, and stay prayed up. This demon loves chaos and confusion. I’m ready to fight this battle and the demon will never win or succeed. BE BLESSED! 🙏🏾

  • @reginapayne3501
    @reginapayne3501 4 года назад +63

    If he in love with u and let people disrespect dont say nothing u dont need him period

  • @faithfullyscratchinnewyork
    @faithfullyscratchinnewyork 5 лет назад +200

    This Is No Old Wives Tale. ACTIONS SPEAK VOLUMES! SHOW ME, NOT JUST TALK MY HEAD OFF WITH WORDS! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
      @StandupGirl-ym3ey 5 лет назад +3

      Yessss!!!

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 5 лет назад +8

      Consistency is more important then actions nowadays. Some people will do certain things to act as if they care about you. But once they feel like you are all in. They show the real them.

    • @TheElokim
      @TheElokim 5 лет назад +4

      YOu are SPOT on...ACTIONS!!! i've been with someone to where its all WORDS and no actions!!

    • @faithfullyscratchinnewyork
      @faithfullyscratchinnewyork 5 лет назад +1

      @@TheElokim It's A Waste Of Time Period. Thank You!

    • @faithfullyscratchinnewyork
      @faithfullyscratchinnewyork 5 лет назад +1

      @@ladennayoung2939 True Statement Sis, I Agree. 💯

  • @Hisdesire1st
    @Hisdesire1st 4 года назад +81

    I already knew I was blessed and this only confirms it. Thank you Lord. I was laying here last night in the dark just blushing. We’ve been married 34 years. It is a growing process. But it is beautiful to be loved this way and to love this way.

  • @anitamendez116
    @anitamendez116 4 месяца назад +1

    Be blessed! Thank you for always bringing us back to what is the right thing to do in a loving relationship. I have definitely made my mistakes in relationships, but through the years, I have learned to lead with Love. ❤️

  • @ReneeToni43
    @ReneeToni43 4 года назад +52

    I sat back and waited for 4 years to to examine myself first in what I was doing wrong because I was always constantly meeting the wrong guy. so God sent me the right one and now I'm in engaged. He does all those things for me. Blessed.

  • @lanaeshaw8724
    @lanaeshaw8724 5 лет назад +32

    A male friend of mines while we were walking he found a dollar and he tore the dollar in half and gave me a half. I said, “you found it, now it’s no good.” He retorted, “apart it’s no good, but when you bring the pieces together there nothing we cant do together.” I was sorta speechless, but I did receive the explanation with a smile. Am telling you this and any one reading my note there are a ton of great guys who brings all they have to the table, so let us be swift to hear slow at times to speak.

  • @legal_beagle5294
    @legal_beagle5294 4 года назад +23

    “But, the Bible I read...” You betta preach it Man of God!!

  • @thomiaburgess2689
    @thomiaburgess2689 3 года назад +13

    Ladies stop looking for a good man , and pray for a godly man .

    • @JKM-j7d
      @JKM-j7d 23 дня назад

      @thomiaburgess2689 A Godly Man this is it(.)

  • @esapressy13
    @esapressy13 4 года назад +24

    Im glad I finally found a REAL MAN that loves me fully for me and am BLESSED to say he is MINE 😁😍🥰 THANK YOU

  • @kathywilliams5678
    @kathywilliams5678 4 года назад +34

    It's so good to here a man...a real man break it down like this....some men...grown men are still yet to understand what it takes to be the kind of man he should be. Thank you so much....class is in session👏👏👏👏👏

  • @NativeAmerican10
    @NativeAmerican10 4 года назад +83

    I found this. 27 years ago still going strong

  • @milyonroberts6226
    @milyonroberts6226 3 года назад +11

    I'm Listening 🎧 to this with 😢 in my 👀 eye's open..!! Y'all be blessed 🙏..!

  • @BettyblackBlack
    @BettyblackBlack 4 года назад +144

    MY MOM TAUGHT HER FIVE DAUGHTERS THAT LOVE DOESN'T HURT.

  • @reginadeans218
    @reginadeans218 5 лет назад +206

    It is wonderful being in Love and being loved. It’s good for your health.

    • @tamekagrigler4869
      @tamekagrigler4869 4 года назад +2

      AMEN

    • @angeledwards6521
      @angeledwards6521 4 года назад +1

      🙄😒uh nope

    • @tangerinecooper3442
      @tangerinecooper3442 4 года назад +1

      I love your wisdom I pray God favors me to have someone who would treasure me as such

    • @luluraf
      @luluraf 4 года назад +1

      I’m not bothered about love anymore if it comes if it doesn’t so be it , I’ve been lied to , cheated on and dumped my last 3 long term relationships so sorry to say but there’s not one man on this earth that will impress me unless he comes with good intentions. I’m 48 never been married been put 3rd / 4th even last place because I’ve allowed them to do it . I’ve even been told people are horrible to me because I’m too nice ! How does that work out ?

    • @tatonyapowell8793
      @tatonyapowell8793 4 года назад

      @@angeledwards6521 !!ass!!!!da$$

  • @moniquestuckey-kirkham7762
    @moniquestuckey-kirkham7762 4 года назад +51

    I am so blessed, I love my Partner He is 100% in love with me. I can say this with emphamitically. I am 100% in love with him. I thank God for bringing this man into my life!

    • @moniquestuckey-kirkham7762
      @moniquestuckey-kirkham7762 4 года назад +3

      Be blessed, Thank you. For the first time in my adult life I am in love sure I was married but I was never in love with my ex husband, I had been in only a few serious relationships but never was in Love, I cared and Loved them but never was in love and now knowing because they were never in Love with me. And I thank you for this Message because I truly know that not only he in Love with me that I am in Love.

  • @lunadust8017
    @lunadust8017 3 года назад +3

    Now i have a succinct list of non negotiables to pray for in a man. Be blessed! 🙏

  • @latinabrame5779
    @latinabrame5779 5 лет назад +45

    Be blessed. I pray that this kind of love finds me.

  • @nancylee6893
    @nancylee6893 4 года назад +41

    Right now since all my male family members are unavailable you have been like a father to me. God bless you for this.

    • @amyjjewel
      @amyjjewel 4 года назад

      This is literally me

  • @geraldhoward4168
    @geraldhoward4168 4 года назад +148

    As a man, I feel so much better by these words. Thank you, my brother.

    • @Nessa67
      @Nessa67 3 года назад

      I thank you My Brother for your words

  • @empressforgod980
    @empressforgod980 3 года назад +2

    Be blessed. Thanks for sharing Tony. I admire the way you love 💕 your wife. It’s adorable and more men should follow in your footsteps. God bless you abundantly 💐🙏🏼😊

  • @tawainahollis4770
    @tawainahollis4770 5 лет назад +42

    Dear GOD,
    Thank YOU for placing me in the arms of the man who truly LOVES ME & enjoys showing me his dedication. It's gonna be amazing to learn what this feels like. I am so happy and grateful for the gift of TRUE LOVE!!!

  • @missnickiejay7028
    @missnickiejay7028 4 года назад +187

    13 years 5 kids and I within the past year I asked god to reveal everything I DIDNT WANT TO SEE and accept for what it truly is and when I tell you my god showed out !!! That man has never loved me or our kids for that matter I was a live In sex toy his personal doormat his fool for life god gave me the strength I needed to walk away and love me believe in me and his purpose for my life I soon launch my first business my kids first business and many more goals to accomplish we are finally happy and thriving it’s a lil sad but they barely even miss their father we their not with him and doesn’t even really care to see him when they do sometimes we hold on for our kids not realizing it’s destroying them too ladies trust in god he will show you he will give you the strength you need to better yourself your life your children one day god will send the right holy man to love us correctly ❤️🙏🏾

    • @kheidy7
      @kheidy7 4 года назад +9

      Perhaps he didn't even love himself.

    • @amoyamorris1897
      @amoyamorris1897 4 года назад +6

      Oh girl.... I totally understand how you are feeling. You will be OK. You are stronger than you feel and you will get the love you need

    • @jazzyejan
      @jazzyejan 4 года назад +7

      When I was growing up I could tell my parents didn't get along. When I graduated my younger brother was a senior. My dad moved out. This wAs back in 1968 I asks my dad did he just stay to keep from paying child support? He said yes. I thought that was awfully selfish.because I never saw love and I always felt we may have been better off if he had taken that BS somewhere else and not continue to make my mom miserable. I was an intuitive Lil girl. When they would argue I knew the one time it was about to turn physical and I ran in there and grabbed him. He said don't grab me grab her. She was whopping his butt. I was glad. But for me staying around was not beneficial because the kids get to see nothing but negativity. If the love were there and it were balanced it would be different. But that wasn't the case. So women I agree you can save your children a lot of unhealthy emotional drama. The Lord will make a way. And the Lord will be whatever you need that's missing in your life. He loved you and wants you to be at peace. God bless you sister. Oh, and if you want to be married. Start preparing yourself. Be like Esther in Bible. Prepare ask God to show you your faults and help you correct them and know that HE is preparing the right man just for you. Be blessed my sister.

    • @rosapalacios6619
      @rosapalacios6619 4 года назад +4

      Your story sounds just like mine, except the part where God gives me strength to walk away. I have been begging God for strength to leave for years now but i havent recived it. Today is my 13th Wedding anniversary and I just realized he never loved me and possibly our 4 kids. Im glad to hear you got the strength to leave. I wish you many blessings.

    • @cindyking7229
      @cindyking7229 4 года назад +2

      @Ms NickyJ I understand you completely. I prayed for 20 years for mine to change and then God sent me what I had been praying for

  • @queenlinda6907
    @queenlinda6907 5 лет назад +70

    That’s so true I’m in a relationship like that and words can I can never thank him enough for all that he’s doing for me his consistency and everything I I’m truly thankful to the God first and foremody

    • @linad9811
      @linad9811 5 лет назад +5

      Awaiting for that day 🙏🏽

  • @dalebentley5312
    @dalebentley5312 3 года назад +3

    You are so accurate with this one!!! I dropped a guy after 2 months. This is a winning formula to attract the right man. Thank u.

  • @JoshFRee
    @JoshFRee 4 года назад +104

    Thank u for this video brotha Gaskins.,. my fiancé FINALLY realized how in love I am with her after watchin it!!! Lol. Be blessed!

    • @raphaelparris
      @raphaelparris 4 года назад +1

      Be bless

    • @jaiiafrica686
      @jaiiafrica686 4 года назад +2

      Awww

    • @tlb98
      @tlb98 4 года назад +1

      She didn't know before watching this???

    • @jocelovesart2911
      @jocelovesart2911 4 года назад +1

      That a true blessing

    • @kellijasper5912
      @kellijasper5912 4 года назад +6

      deane koby you can know but because of what you have experienced makes it hard to embrace