What makes a man fall in love?

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  • Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025

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  • @greyahmarie0905
    @greyahmarie0905 11 месяцев назад +1158

    LEGS CLOSED, EYES OPENED, Standards high!

    • @greyahmarie0905
      @greyahmarie0905 11 месяцев назад +25

      @Kenyagirly ummmm ok. I'm a woman, so I speak for women. THANK YOU

    • @asha4189
      @asha4189 11 месяцев назад +21

      MORALS GROUNDED!

    • @nawi332
      @nawi332 11 месяцев назад +5

      This.

    • @adannadurant4611
      @adannadurant4611 11 месяцев назад +7

      Facts have value in yourself and be modest

    • @JustBeingJae01
      @JustBeingJae01 11 месяцев назад +3

      Hello!!!!

  • @haleycamille
    @haleycamille 11 месяцев назад +1675

    The best way to reach this place as a woman is to find your identity in Christ.

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 11 месяцев назад +21

      Amen!

    • @ka8155
      @ka8155 11 месяцев назад +14

      Amen and Amen

    • @Janney3791
      @Janney3791 11 месяцев назад +10

      Amen 🎉

    • @IamBatyah
      @IamBatyah 11 месяцев назад +11

      Thank youuu!

    • @Wina-pv8kr
      @Wina-pv8kr 11 месяцев назад +18

      ❤❤🎉 Amen Jesus is everything ❤❤

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 11 месяцев назад +547

    “Men respect who and what respects themselves.” TG

    • @c.l.9344
      @c.l.9344 11 месяцев назад +5

      Quoted and noted. 📝

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 11 месяцев назад +1

      That's actually not true. But, the lesson should still be for a women to respect themselves first and foremost. That will attract men who respect themselves.

    • @Dr.Elaine1
      @Dr.Elaine1 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@truettadevil That is the lesson.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 11 месяцев назад +5

      @@Dr.Elaine1 men should respect everyone, whether they respect themselves or not. That should be the lesson taught to boys and men.

    • @Dr.Elaine1
      @Dr.Elaine1 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@truettadevil We agree. Unfortunately, men (and women) don’t always do what they should.

  • @Bella_M26
    @Bella_M26 11 месяцев назад +354

    Gems: A grown man will fall in love with a woman who is an accountability partner, not a doormat/nagger/enabler. A man will fall in love with a woman who loves herself, knows who she is, has boundaries, has standards, and is firm on what she will do/not do and give/not give.
    Women: Be a strong loving woman. You must stand your ground (in love)! Give, love, sacrifice, support, do not reinforce toxic behavior, do not allow yourself to be mistreated or taken for granted, only compromise on things that do no effect your soul/ eternity, & always speak up for your needs. Be consistent! You cannot finesse a real man!
    No husband benefits to a boyfriend!!

    • @ChiChick312
      @ChiChick312 11 месяцев назад +10

      THis is great! Thank you!

    • @Bella_M26
      @Bella_M26 11 месяцев назад +5

      @@ChiChick312 you’re welcome ❤️

    • @CrystalClear9
      @CrystalClear9 11 месяцев назад +11

      Very well said!

  • @MrsTruthTeller
    @MrsTruthTeller 10 месяцев назад +348

    Decenter men. That's how you do it, ladies! Men seem to love me the most when I am booked and busy and barely available. When I'm flirty one day, and gone the next. But don't do this by playing a game. No, do it naturally by making everything else in your life a higher priority than men. The man who wants you for real will earn his way into being your highest priority. And he will earn it through consistency, persistency, reliability, emotional stability, integrity, etc. And you can very slowly make him a higher priority after he shows you that he's willing to do that for you. Men like boundaries, standards, and expectations and you don't always have to say what they are for him to know that they are there. Your actions can tell him everything he needs to know about you and what you will and will not tolerate.

    • @vzaddy694
      @vzaddy694 10 месяцев назад +23

      Your comment should be on top !! You covered alot of ground in your post and every woman needs to see this. God bless🙏🏾👍🙏🏾💖.

    • @dannieannie
      @dannieannie 10 месяцев назад +8

      Love this!

    • @moniquefletcher2186
      @moniquefletcher2186 10 месяцев назад +10

      I do this by accident but it works

    • @kimberlypride4781
      @kimberlypride4781 9 месяцев назад +5

      Thank you 💯💯💯

    • @latushasmith1016
      @latushasmith1016 9 месяцев назад +2

      ❤💯💯

  • @Blessseddbb
    @Blessseddbb 11 месяцев назад +561

    Well, I’m praying for the man that God has for me .. days get lonely, but I will not settle ❤

    • @sharrellfaith
      @sharrellfaith 11 месяцев назад +21

      Amen sista. ❤ hold on to God.

    • @briabliss
      @briabliss 11 месяцев назад +26

      I was just thinking this to myself. I’ve been through so much that I REFUSE to settle.

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 11 месяцев назад +10

      Amen! Me too.

    • @algobrehane7369
      @algobrehane7369 11 месяцев назад +12

      You're not alone xo

    • @sunkissedn71
      @sunkissedn71 11 месяцев назад +15

      Same! I'm safer and saner waiting.

  • @Aisha_babii
    @Aisha_babii 11 месяцев назад +1552

    Stay off yo back and let him get to know you

    • @ebonyg9632
      @ebonyg9632 11 месяцев назад +46

      Exactly 💯💯 💯.

    • @Blessseddbb
      @Blessseddbb 11 месяцев назад +22

      💯

    • @J78685
      @J78685 11 месяцев назад +22

      Very true 😊❤

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 11 месяцев назад +195

      And if he don’t try to get to know you, have the courage to compassionately release him

    • @dianewilliams9566
      @dianewilliams9566 11 месяцев назад +23

      Well said!!

  • @Rossi.K
    @Rossi.K 11 месяцев назад +283

    Mannn it’s really rare for a man to appreciate this type of woman in this generation.. You’ll get placed in the “mothering” category even if you are just holding them accountable.. Then they chase after the “fun girls” and appreciate the good woman after they’ve been tossed to the side by them.
    Grown men who can appreciate accountable women are very, very rare.

    • @NomsLoots
      @NomsLoots 10 месяцев назад +12

      Grown men vs grown boys. That’s the distinction.

    • @creativeconner80
      @creativeconner80 9 месяцев назад +5

      Rare like Strawberry Kit Kat

    • @DaintyAbby
      @DaintyAbby 2 месяца назад +1

      THIS. im so tired of curating and trying to be extra careful trying to come off “encouraging while making him accountable” without coming off nagging and motherly.

    • @swanir1842
      @swanir1842 Месяц назад +1

      @Rossi.K I completely agree with you!
      I was told by a grown man that his mother wouldn’t even dare telling him that. So it’s very difficult for us women having to deal with these men. Unfortunately, most of these grown boys didn’t have a good example, a good father or a good father figure, and their mother just allowed them do whatever they wanted without disciplining them.

  • @elizabethjackson3176
    @elizabethjackson3176 11 месяцев назад +99

    You have a lot of men that are good men, you just have to take the time to find them, like my grandma use to say “If you wanna find gold, you don’t go digging in the trash!

  • @alifeofjoy29
    @alifeofjoy29 11 месяцев назад +78

    "Men respect who and what respects themselves." - Tony G.

  • @tiffanyhall6342
    @tiffanyhall6342 8 месяцев назад +66

    Nothing makes a man fall in love..but him falling in love..

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 11 месяцев назад +40

    In order words, respect yourself. I've seen it with my own eye. Men dont know how to respect what they didn't earn, carry yourself with grace, dignity and self respect. Know youre loved and already chosen by God.

  • @lindae7013
    @lindae7013 11 месяцев назад +124

    So many of our young women need to hear this talk.

  • @Notyrmombiz
    @Notyrmombiz 9 месяцев назад +8

    You described me... my guy had no intentions on being with me but he ended up falling in love for all the right reasons once he got to know me.. ive always had that with guys. Im not the finest or the prettiest. I just carry myself very well and im a genuinely good person.

  • @lilienne_
    @lilienne_ 11 месяцев назад +33

    So true! If a man starts to play mental gymnastics with me, I will leave instantly. Grown women don't have time for that.

  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer101 9 месяцев назад +17

    This message is so true. No… I’m not a man, but I’m so blessed to be married to a grown man!!! Everything that this guy described as a real man, my husband possess. I tell him every day that I’m so grateful to God for putting such a wonderful human being in my life!!

  • @cuniqueness
    @cuniqueness 10 месяцев назад +92

    Fall in love with self & everything will be added🙏🏽

    • @charquella
      @charquella 8 месяцев назад

      THIS

    • @Queen-ConsciousYa
      @Queen-ConsciousYa 3 месяца назад

      Please and thankyou! Self actualization and self discovery over everything.

  • @queenkeesh8660
    @queenkeesh8660 11 месяцев назад +83

    A man that play games and don’t wanna be held accountable I don’t deal with when I did before it was miserable and I had to leave

    • @lifewthcece
      @lifewthcece 11 месяцев назад +4

      i felt this because some men feel we come off hard to deal with but we been through maybe similar red flags

  • @daniellemiller5123
    @daniellemiller5123 11 месяцев назад +146

    I have been guilty of all of these things and am praying for God to restore me. Thank you for your inspiring message for direction to us women and healing🙏

    • @slk8674
      @slk8674 11 месяцев назад +3

      Your Heavenly Father is writing a beautiful story for you!!

  • @j-tenn226
    @j-tenn226 11 месяцев назад +233

    I knew from when I was very young that sex wasn’t supposed to be had without time, commitment, compatibility, and love. That wasn’t ingrained in me by anyone, it was almost innate knowledge. How come some adults don’t understand that concept?

    • @relisbetrel
      @relisbetrel 11 месяцев назад +22

      Maybe you're called to be a teacher on this ❤🙏

    • @wandak1889
      @wandak1889 11 месяцев назад +15

      It’s called Group Think. You are strong will discipline

    • @susanhampton9671
      @susanhampton9671 11 месяцев назад +19

      Everyone does not think the same as you. With peer pressure, societal pressure, and biological programming, some people jump in the deep end without enough of a vetting process. Some women have sex with males to try to fill the love they did not get from their dads. Some young women don't know that sex does not equal love. Sometimes it is easy to get carried away from making out. People are waiting to get married later in life. Especially with a hook-up culture, and people choosing casual relationships over real solid relationships, it has ruined our society. A lot of men have no idea what courting is or women for that matter. People say, "I love you" without knowing the person. How many layers do you need to experience and see before you truly are in love? How many hours with him have you experienced with him face to face. That is why always watch a man's words and actions. Do they match? How many quality conversations are being had with both parties curious about each other.

    • @Kashmir-lt4cx
      @Kashmir-lt4cx 11 месяцев назад +6

      @j-tenn yeah right! I been called weird, told to grow up, told idk what an adult relationship is etc. One told me that I think I'm top good to be touched on the leg, like wt?! Heck, once I was even called cursed cause I didn't wanna sleep with a vile swine!

    • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
      @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 11 месяцев назад +5

      They get swayed with their hormones (biology and baby making hormones) and society. I did. Took me until 34 in 2018 to realize what you realized. So now I am waiting till marriage for sex, but it's been a long, lonely and hard road because I've been meeting nothing but toads! As soon as they realize I'm not into the easy sex thing, their out. Either that or the first few challenges of a relationship, their also out! So yeah... harder to get a man to love.. Maybe I've been barking up the wrong tree because I like white men, but I do know that a lot of white men DO like Asians so I really don't know what it is!

  • @joekie71
    @joekie71 11 месяцев назад +183

    Hi, T. Just to add to the conversation. Was almost 25 years married. Divorced because of infidelity. My x was hyper sexual, not even getting older changed it. He was always so proud of himself looking in the mirror, fully "e. ct". I thought it was normal because I was taught, you don't talk out of the bedroom. It took an affair, epileptic seizure to get to the issue. Triggered by the stress obviously. When the neurologist asked me if he was hyper, I was shocked. On his brain scan, he showed me damage areas of his brain. He was in motorcycle accident when he was sixteen, that did the damage to temporal lobes. All made sense and everything fell into place. He then told me, it will never stop and if I'm willing to keep my eye on him 24/7. The trauma and lies up until then, I couldn't. We divorced and we still can be "friends" for children. God helped me overcome it all, by grace and grace alone. Point of this story is, please ask if your guy or woman was in a accident or head injury. It can alter things forever and never ever overlook it!!! 🙏

    • @LDolar
      @LDolar 11 месяцев назад +27

      Wow thanks for Sharing this is powerful! Sorry about your Divorce and I pray your Strength 🙏🙏

    • @joiagenae
      @joiagenae 11 месяцев назад +10

      Wow!!

    • @ehmrahq1548
      @ehmrahq1548 9 месяцев назад +8

      If a man doesn't want to discipline of his lust, then he shouldn't be married.

  • @Misunderstood1_
    @Misunderstood1_ 11 месяцев назад +81

    I just read an article that stated due to the rising cost of living most people will enter relationships and marriages with individuals who they do not love but view as business opportunities to split costs.

    • @burnttoast1076
      @burnttoast1076 10 месяцев назад +11

      For most of history marriage has been a business opportunity. It’s the business of raising children.

  • @kirawong4629
    @kirawong4629 11 месяцев назад +149

    Oral everyday? Shes working overtime😂😂😂 ain’t no way
    Tony said a man who needs it everyday and multiple times a day is sick, he needs therapy😂😂

    • @MichelleBurks-sc2rp
      @MichelleBurks-sc2rp 6 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @nonyabidness1838
      @nonyabidness1838 6 месяцев назад +3

      I heard Its actually unbiblical to do it at all.

    • @nonyabidness1838
      @nonyabidness1838 6 месяцев назад

      I Just watched this for the 2nd time and it hit harder. I feel so confused by all the man signals and lack there of that I decided to stop trying and pray to The Most High that if its his will to have me found then so be it. I cried myself to sleep last night with Otis Redding on repeat and its not healthy so Im letting it alone.

    • @jessicaobi1838
      @jessicaobi1838 5 месяцев назад +1

      And unemployed 😂😂😂😂. Ain’t no way she’s employed & has stuff other than her relationship going on in her life 😂😂😂, if she did she’d be tired and then realised her bf’s addiction and left him.

    • @cupcake2009ist
      @cupcake2009ist 2 месяца назад

      Not unemployed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @VCD512
    @VCD512 9 месяцев назад +10

    It took me a very long time to get to a place of true love for self. I really like being with ME. If I tell a man that I’m not dating and are happily single, there is something wrong with me. If a man says “what is wrong with you” after I tell him that, I am not interested. You should be happy that I am single by choice and not out screwing around. Some have accused me of sleeping around, just based on. The way I dress. I have been abstinent for almost 5 yrs and cool with it. I would love to share my life with someone but right now my focus is on me and what truly makes me happy. The right one will show himself one day soon….i am just thankful to God that I am blessed with a real spirit of discernment. Great topic!

  • @Girl_in_mask
    @Girl_in_mask 11 месяцев назад +9

    So true!! That’s me❤ that’s why I got the ring 💍
    The most important is RESPECT…if he doesn’t respect you it’s not love! If you want to be loved…stand in your ground…don’t compromise your own moral and your values
    I never give a second chance who betrayal me
    My feelings is gone
    I’m very strong to sabotage my own feelings that I know he is the wrong person in my life! I choose to hurt my heart! And remember what I deserve!! My values,my worth and my MORALITY!
    It’s ok to love him
    But it’s more ok to love yourself moreeee!! Put on the pedestal your own moral! If you want to be loved and honor you as a woman of his life 💍❤

  • @sherry2250
    @sherry2250 11 месяцев назад +68

    Ladies, stop giving a man the contents of your cup if he only drains and never fills it back up. What you have to offer whether tangible or intangible is ALWAYS earned...never freely given!!!

  • @johannanoguez101
    @johannanoguez101 11 месяцев назад +284

    Long story short, do not be unequally yoked.

    • @kurstina9349
      @kurstina9349 9 месяцев назад +3

      And that's the bottom line!

  • @saundrasouledoutsandy4985
    @saundrasouledoutsandy4985 9 месяцев назад +6

    I am a woman of a certain age and my husband is 10 years younger than me and he was with countless women before me. He was with one for 13 years
    referring to her as his fiancé we
    were married and engaged within 10 months and we are celebrating three years of marriage. The most important thing is that you elevate a man spiritually you hold him accountable and as everyone else said, close your legs open your heart and gently challenge him to become a better ..more improved version of himself and don’t lower your standards ❤ be patient consistent and lead in the love of The Lord

  • @tiffl8868
    @tiffl8868 10 месяцев назад +2

    He is a spiritual warrior! He goes to war in the dark when no one is looking! ❤❤❤❤

  • @jacquelinewashington23
    @jacquelinewashington23 11 месяцев назад +51

    Beautiful young man! We need more BLACK men like you. May God continue to bless you and your famliy's journey.

  • @CrystalFlood
    @CrystalFlood 11 месяцев назад +26

    I love the way you articulated in this video

  • @carolynrose3171
    @carolynrose3171 10 месяцев назад +5

    Love this advice for our young women! And even for me 60+
    After 50 years of unconditional love of a man he speaks of. Amen.He covered me his love. We served each other. He speaks truth, this young man! Intimacy is out of the bedroom is what he's saying. Don't ever lose you confidence in yourself. Strong but loving and expecting the best from your man. ❤
    😮

  • @Best-ThingYouNeverHad
    @Best-ThingYouNeverHad 11 месяцев назад +26

    So true everything life didnt teach me I learned from you! Thanks T.G! Keep letting God use you! You're going to deliver a generation of lost women!

  • @dinakindred
    @dinakindred 11 месяцев назад +32

    This is the truth 🙌🏾 💯 sex isn't the whole package

  • @deltv5937
    @deltv5937 9 месяцев назад +4

    Everything you've said is so true I was in a relationship for almost a year. It had its toxicities. I felt as if I were taken for granted underappreciated devalued. I set boundaries, I held him accountable I stood up to him and I left him. He then revealed that he was in love with me. He wanted me to give him another chance and I told him no I've given so many and I'm tired. He didn't take that well. He also mentioned a attachment to me. Men better realize women often give a lot of chances but when we reach the end we're at the end. All of you men if you love a woman please listen to her please let her feel heard and seen appreciate her make sure she knows she's a value if you do not you're going to lose her forever.

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 11 месяцев назад +28

    Keep going Brother Tony Gaskins! Salute to you and your wife fir setting a God led marriage and family! Im so proud of you two!

  • @sd41113
    @sd41113 10 месяцев назад +4

    My! This is the most concise and accurate description of what love really is.

  • @Keba2008
    @Keba2008 11 месяцев назад +24

    Very informational video, Tony and I thank you for taking the time to put it out here for us.✨❤️✨ Ladies…It may be challenging to stand your ground when you love the man or care about the man but when you love yourself more than you love the man and understand that the man is most likely acting out of immaturity, selfishness, entitlement or any other low vibrational spirit, you will feel your power and tell him “No” without worrying about the consequences that may come from the man. There’s power in saying no and walking away. Don’t let fear keep you from exercising that power…your non-negotiables.

  • @LovelyVibrations
    @LovelyVibrations 11 месяцев назад +11

    This was so ON POINT!! Most women don’t understand that when they exhibit these qualities Tony covers they actually ATTRACT the right man!! Thank you sir for your guidance !!❤

  • @chloethemessenger
    @chloethemessenger 11 месяцев назад +15

    I appreciate this Tony. Still working on me, too but you’ve helped me come along way. I find if the man isn’t “grown” even your best laid words (even if sprinkled with fairy dust and cake) will seem like nagging and complaining. No matter how you put it, he’ll find fault in everything you say and that breaks a woman down, regardless of how strong she is. The only man that can appreciate all you’ve said is a man who’s ready to be a man/husband, as you’ve stated so eloquently. God bless you for helping both men and women.

  • @h.k.hiskingdom4961
    @h.k.hiskingdom4961 11 месяцев назад +9

    This is a good message highlighting the main point that a man is a spiritual warrior. He moves from pleasure-seeking to purpose-driven with God's plan guiding him. Good job Tony on this one. Possibly you can come out with a daily message to the males, maybe like 1-3 minutes focusing on reversing platitudes to help them move from taking a red pill or other pills to digesting meat, this being seasoned Word from God to cultivate their appetites. Their palette has to change. Blessings!

  • @DN-wy3ud
    @DN-wy3ud 11 месяцев назад +49

    Wouldn't feel the need to nag if men took personal responsibility. Basically, if a man isn't doing what he's supposed to/said he would do, its time to go✌🏾

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 11 месяцев назад

      Yeah, Tony pushes patriarchy in this regard. Wives only nag husbands who aren't doing what they should be doing on their own.

  • @tiktokfamous3446
    @tiktokfamous3446 4 месяца назад +2

    Tony you a King, I don’t have these conversations with my Dad and I’m learning from you ! Thank you

  • @paulasmith3252
    @paulasmith3252 10 месяцев назад +4

    This is by far the best input that I've heard from a relationship coach on the differences of "Grown Boys vs. Grown Men. " Thank you, Mr. Gaskins for taking the time to share your thoughts on this topic. Much appreciated 🙏🏻🙏🏿🙏🏻🙏🏿

  • @candyjuiceable
    @candyjuiceable 10 месяцев назад +72

    It’s sad how it’s always about men , this is a big reason why women who focus on pleasing their man always lose themself in it . We forget ourselves and put ourselves last😢. A grown man will want to be kept and a grown boy don’t know about compromise. Both parties should learn one another !

  • @tonyasherrod9042
    @tonyasherrod9042 11 месяцев назад +14

    Tony,
    Thank you for breaking down what will make a grown man for in love.

  • @epickp8364
    @epickp8364 11 месяцев назад +35

    Key word husband. Men and women need to learn their worth. Know you should be a husband and a wife. The old saying why buy a cow, when you can get the milk free.

  • @darlenec3231
    @darlenec3231 11 месяцев назад +28

    “just barkin” instead of affirming - U GO MR GASKINS, talk your talk … tell the truth about those addictions & vices!!

  • @brittanys1982
    @brittanys1982 8 месяцев назад +4

    I really love the advice you give. I pray that women will take the advice to get the relationship they desire and need.

  • @UltimateLoveGoddessMagic
    @UltimateLoveGoddessMagic 10 месяцев назад +3

    This was so enlightening and empowering. Your voice is so peaceful and sure. Thank you so much for sharing. 🙏🏽💛💐

  • @portiagillespie856
    @portiagillespie856 10 месяцев назад +2

    Preach Tony Preach……..True that!!!!!💯💯

  • @PrettyMamaPatchwork
    @PrettyMamaPatchwork Месяц назад +2

    I married a grown boy and it was disastrous. Ended horribly. That was 18 yrs ago, and I'm still healing from it.

  • @MWisdomWisdom
    @MWisdomWisdom 11 месяцев назад +9

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THiS 😊🤞🏽. BEEN STAYiNG OFF OF MY BACK FOR ALMOST 6 YEARS 🙌🏾. A LOT OF WOMEN NEED TO LiSTEN TO YOU.

  • @Pheonix1111
    @Pheonix1111 11 месяцев назад +14

    I love this video. It is worth re-watching numerous times!

  • @queenkeesh8660
    @queenkeesh8660 11 месяцев назад +13

    Great advice everything I thought was not right now I’m wiser n will apply new knowledge

  • @patricefoley4331
    @patricefoley4331 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you I’m glad you confirmed what I am doing is correct. Loving myself and setting boundaries in a loving way.

  • @FamilyinChrist-r5w
    @FamilyinChrist-r5w 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you. We're proud of you for speaking the truth. We appreciate you a lot!

  • @Bella_M26
    @Bella_M26 11 месяцев назад +4

    This right here !! Tony never misses 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾📝

  • @danielleb1223
    @danielleb1223 11 месяцев назад +31

    No lies told .

  • @NIKI888SUCCESS
    @NIKI888SUCCESS 8 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful coaching. Your teaching finds a room within me. Thank you! ❤

  • @destineehill446
    @destineehill446 10 месяцев назад +3

    This message is beautiful!! Thank you! ♥️✨

  • @motorbreath22
    @motorbreath22 11 месяцев назад +31

    Im not a man of God.
    Im a man of the world.. listen to this man.
    In the ' manosphere' we tell each other, become the man of your dreams, as in become the best version of yourself, it means loving yours by getting fit, getting your diet right, getring yoir money right and working on your hangups.
    This really applies to everyone. But also keep in mind you are trying to attract the opposite sex. Learn what they value, and go out and provide value.
    If he doesn't reciprocate, realize thats not the person for you.

  • @JessE-mr4yu
    @JessE-mr4yu 11 месяцев назад +10

    Love this. Thank you for sharing. Your channel has been helpful to my growth. Sending peace and blessings to you and all the beautiful souls out there 🙏💙🕊

  • @Invaluable1
    @Invaluable1 11 месяцев назад +13

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏🏾

  • @LDolar
    @LDolar 11 месяцев назад +4

    My Brother helping us Ladies as Always💪💪❤️❤️

  • @EtheReal3laine
    @EtheReal3laine 11 месяцев назад +13

    I Appreciate You for Always genuinely teaching us 🖤✨

  • @cocokarma77
    @cocokarma77 9 месяцев назад +4

    I like the way he takes the time to explain

  • @MoeMoe-em2sh
    @MoeMoe-em2sh 2 месяца назад +1

    Love the message. Thank you.

  • @sadiranybreez
    @sadiranybreez 2 месяца назад +1

    A woman being everything you mentioned, will scare away all of the wrong men or men who is not willing to take on such a powerful woman, a woman who does not bend or fold!

  • @Nita_Beata
    @Nita_Beata 11 месяцев назад +7

    This was so good, Tony. I constantly have to remind myself not to complain but simply state what I need in a nice way. Who knew it was that easy to get what you need from a man that cares about you.

  • @EmpressRieniaTV
    @EmpressRieniaTV 9 месяцев назад

    Yes I always try to get to know someone on an emotional, mental, and spiritual level first.
    If we can pour into each other outside of physical intimacy ,
    build a healthy friendship first, encourage each other to reach our highest selves, connect through common passions, nurture each other with self care, create a beautiful safe space that’s surrounded by peace, trust, and happiness then we might be able to have something special.
    It’s also important for yall to speak love and light into each other. Be each other’s
    biggest supporter, and respect the protection/ leadership the man provides in the relationship.
    I was also told by my grandfather to always stay feminine, pleasant, calm, and kind, and beautiful inside/ outside.
    Like you said Tony don’t just go for anything, hold him accountable but don’t nag or carry a negative energy 24/7.

  • @TwanaHanson-dv2yp
    @TwanaHanson-dv2yp 9 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for making this video I hope every young and older woman watch this

  • @kaseymorrill2671
    @kaseymorrill2671 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @glchild251
    @glchild251 11 месяцев назад +3

    Tony, I appreciate you sharing your insight on this subject. I have been listening and reading some of the comments. I can understand why some people get a little uncomfortable about what you're saying. I get it you are speaking from experience and a lot of faith. In these last days, we can not use the name of JESUS in any way we feel. Be bless

  • @queenkeesh8660
    @queenkeesh8660 11 месяцев назад +28

    She doesn’t reinforce toxic behavior 😊 n if he doesn’t like it leave him

  • @cinconizar7725
    @cinconizar7725 10 месяцев назад +1

    You hit the nail on the head Tony🔥🔥🔥

  • @dannieannie
    @dannieannie 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for this Tony🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🙌🙌✨✨

  • @ShaniOnSinai
    @ShaniOnSinai 10 месяцев назад +1

    Being Christ/Yeshua led has led me to my Joshua, a hard working Christian man who courted and pursued me. I am grateful for this anointing.

  • @BlancaRosa79
    @BlancaRosa79 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for this one. Much needed for myself and have a better understanding of men and grown boys.

  • @angyt1070
    @angyt1070 4 месяца назад +1

    Wow I love your advice. It’s so clear and I truly appreciate it! ❤

  • @Litehoney77
    @Litehoney77 11 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you Tony. Any advise for a woman who tries to hold him accountable but is met with toxic behavior such as gaslighting? And yes, she stands her ground & all the things you mentioned.

  • @jelenatanjic2128
    @jelenatanjic2128 10 месяцев назад +1

    This is by far the best explanation I've heard. Thank you 😊

  • @happyandpositivethinking
    @happyandpositivethinking 9 месяцев назад

    Wow, beautiful messages. More couples and women need to hear these messages! Selfdiscipline is key.

  • @nadinapowell5820
    @nadinapowell5820 9 месяцев назад

    So glad I was able to see you live! You’ve been pouring into us women for so long! May God continue to bless you

  • @MiracleMirMir
    @MiracleMirMir 11 месяцев назад +8

    Amazing video Tony as always! Thank you thank you so much 🙏🏾😁

  • @Mia-sd5it
    @Mia-sd5it 11 месяцев назад +5

    Love this message, Tony! Thank you ❤

  • @vzaddy694
    @vzaddy694 10 месяцев назад

    This was extremely insightful and real. Appreciate the message. It was definitely the video I didnt know I needed to see. Everything mentioned is relevant to my situation. It was quite helpful in my quest to gain clarity and direction to move forward in my life for the the better God has for me. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @EverJacobs
    @EverJacobs 11 месяцев назад +3

    On point Pastor Tony!!! 👍🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽😁💯

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 11 месяцев назад +3

    Amen this definitely the truth

  • @nonyabidness1838
    @nonyabidness1838 7 месяцев назад +4

    Sometimes I cant help but cry when I'm hurting so bad.

  • @kenishahammond3935
    @kenishahammond3935 11 месяцев назад +1

    You give the best advice on these topics dealing with men and how they think. I’m here for it!

  • @touchpoint4christministries444
    @touchpoint4christministries444 11 месяцев назад +6

    Tony stay dropping them Jewels💎💪🏾🙏🏾

  • @Berkeleykid94703
    @Berkeleykid94703 9 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful message

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist 11 месяцев назад +2

    Powerful teaching!

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 11 месяцев назад +2

    Always a Big Thank you Bro Tony for this timely message so on point 💯❤️🎯

  • @yoyo-jt6yp
    @yoyo-jt6yp 11 месяцев назад +5

    This is great. I loved the wisdom

  • @WhitneyVeroncia
    @WhitneyVeroncia 11 месяцев назад +3

    I needed to hear this. Thank you. 🙏🏽

  • @2452dee
    @2452dee 10 месяцев назад +4

    He makes a lot of great points here.

  • @cryjohn7257
    @cryjohn7257 10 месяцев назад

    I am really appreciating your wisdom. Thank you.

  • @lashunnalove8336
    @lashunnalove8336 8 месяцев назад +2

    A man can fall in love with multiple women and will try to have them all if he can. Love and loyalty is two different things