How To Make A Man Fall In Love? | Tony Gaskins
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- Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2019
- This is not clickbait. This is a real explanation of how and why men fall in love with a woman!
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1. Hold him accountable.
2. Listen to him.
3. Speak life into him.
4. Support him.
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Eboné Barnes Thank you
@@October3074 well that's not a man it's a grown boy 🤷🏾♀️ and not the one. Negativity will be your reason tho...ijs
@@October3074 PREACH!!
@@cherh Most guys are grown boys. It isn't negativity. It is fact.
Women please remember that no matter how many tips u learn , if he is the wrong man, pls dont waste time.
Yesssssssssss. Good woman + wrong man= waste of time
Yes ladies thanks 🙏🏾 for speaking truth you're comments speak volumes🗣blessings.
Amen
Amen!
Zoom zoom 💃
In the beginning he says “love yourself”
1- love yourself
2- hold him accountable
3- listen to him
4- speak life into him
5-support him
Thank you
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He did say love yourself first off the top you are right thanks
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Something in my heart tells me that this man is telling the real truth.
As a man he is telling the truth, 100 percent sure if you do what he said while you love yourself, you can attract any man in the world, if some don't love you they will definitely respect you.
He most definitely is and I'm only a few minutes in this video.
He is. I'm living this right now. And it happened in the *exact* order he said.
I think it's safe to say then that a man who isn't ready for accountability isn't ready for love
Sure
True and that hasn't proved himself to you yet. I am going to test that theory out this Chinese New Year.
After MCO 2.0, we will see. And will see whether he will video call on Valentine's Day even if he cant drive to me. We'll see, if not, i know where i stand'- friend only.
Right
I held mine accountable for his word. He gave me his word about something, he didn't live up to it and I called him out on. His ego got bruised and the next he says to me that if I won't stop contacting him he will get a no contact order placed. Happened yesterday.
This applies to a normal man and not a narcissist. With a narcissist, all this goes out the door
Go somewhere with that narcissist bull crap, because a person play games and don't respond to you like you want them to does not make that person a narcissist
I was thinking the same thing... this is reality ! Not the narcissist reality
@@thelmathomas3437 well your entitled your opinion and so I'm I.
EXACTLY
Wow and that what I think I’m dealing with
When love is real, these qualities come easily and subconsciously.
Lucky are people who never had to watch these videos 🙂
True as long as that real love begins with self or else our subconscious wreaks havoc on our external life
@@rachellerockel very true. After I became insecure about myself, I stopped holding people accountable to certain standards. Everything went downhill from there.
@@marigoldandpeony Haha true.
I agree!!
*Making a man fall in love is about being ourselves and nurturing a bond built on trust and understanding. Let's remember to embrace our true selves and let love happen naturally.*
Self love is EVERYTHING, Ladies! Before you meet this man of God for you, learn to be kind, loving and gentle with yourselves! Establish your boundaries and speak life into yourself! Thanks Tony, God bless!!
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Speak life💯💯
What if a women experienced sexual trauma and loses her sexual integrity does she loses her worth ?
I can recommend you to a man who can helped you get your ex back to you within 48hours
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I put my ex-husband out for cheating on me. Now, I’m officially divorced & loving myself
Strength!
He cheated cos you were controlling the sex.
Was the divorce easier because he cheated?
I'll toast to that
Sstefan t Im divorcing a cheater and no, it hasn’t been easy. this pain has brought me closer to God and I am learning to rebuild my character and trust Gods truth about reaping what you sow. I’ve come out with abundant blessings for it too! You will not just survive but you will thrive!!
The sassy side of Tony is too funny 🤣
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“We fall in Love with the people who call us to our Higher Selves” *Gold*
You are so right about this my late husband I asked him before he passed away what he loved most about me? He said I never let him get away with anything.
I'm so sorry for your loss huh.. my husband was killed in a motorcycle accident 12 years ago and I think about what he said to me 3 days before his accident he said I'm so in love with you that if God never answers any of my prayers ever again I hope and pray he'll answer only this prayer I hope he'll take me before he ever takes you because I couldn't live with you and I said what is it about me that makes you love me and he said You believe in me every single day even the days I didn't believe in myself
I love a man who shows me his vulnerability
Be blessed...72 yr old widow
was married 52 yrs. You are right! My husband used to tell me we were a team & that I shared in his successes because I always supported him & spoke the truth to him.
miss my love💔
You were married at 20? God bless you and your heart. I know that ache is real. You are still dearly loved Ms. Adams, if you haven't heard it enough as of late.
I didn't have positive role model growing up. No parents to show me how to respect myself or set boundaries. You give me all the advice/guidance ive ever needed. Ive finally got the love that you have for your wife. He wasn't a believer when we met but when he saw how dedicated i was to not having sex before marriage because of my life for the lord, he became interested. I didnt have to do a single thing for him to be attracted to me. He said im the first girl who didnt give up my body right away. He also shows all the signs that u listed that a man is in love with you. We are taking it day by day but im doing things the right way this time. Thank you so much for teaching me things I've never known about. My love life has turned around 360 since ive been watching you. I feel so unconditionally loved, the way i love everyone else.
This is a great story! Thanks for sharing!!
Thank you for sharing! Loved reading this. I’m so happy for you ☺️
I was just hoping you could share how things are now? Looking for inspo
How are things now?
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships.
So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way.
The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.
B blessed brotha... I'm a man and my lady asked me to watch this segment... and I was like why do I need to know how to learn how to love a man? So I watched it and I have to say that although this segment is catered women, I learned alot about myself and i became aware of things i didnt know that I loved about my woman.. appreciate you brotha💯💯
See there....men, are receptive to input and information from other men. Well, at least you are aligned with his message - that's progress...!
I'm so glad that you listened to this! ❤️ Women need to see comments like this ☺️
More men need to listen to the positive advice given by REAL MEN! God bless you and your lady!
Be blessed
You should share it with others in our city 🙏🏽🙌🏽
After he curses you out and you stay, no matter what you do, he'd do it again because you stayed. Leave once it happens. Period.
You said it right! He disrespects you, you stay, he believes you got no respect for yourself. When you leave you show him that you got worth and self respect . Nothing can beat that.
Preach
Wow!!! God bless you. Thank you so much for this insight.
WORD!!! 😏
FACTS🤞🏽
I think one can't make a man fall in love , either he does or he does not, that is my lifelong experience ! Love is a Many Splendored Thing and no one knows how it happen .
Although you're right, I'd add that one can guide others to love which is what this video is about.
@@prettydisabled9060 i respectfully disagree , because the so called human love is conditional and no one can guide anybody to love somebody . Without Gods Love most people do not even know what love really is , i have been there . Wishing you the very best and may you come to know the love of God .
@@isrberlinerin4063 my thinking is that by setting the bar realistically and reasonably high others aim for it which is the umbrella for what the video is talking about. I think even humans with the best intentions if not checked will do the bare minimum and disrespect if they know they can get away with again and again. While it's guardians primary job to discipline there is a nuances to the type of 'discipline' perhaps for a lack of a better word that partners can bring to each other. Also unfortunately not everyone has good guardians and some of those people if getting professional help can use the guidance of their loved one. It's alright if you disagree. 😊
You are soooo right my husband told me when we first met and he wasn't acting right and I told him to lose my number in the most polite lady like way and wasn't accepting less than I deserved he said he was turned on by my strength your absolutely correct 💯
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This man is the truth🙌🏾 God bless him!
Wowwwww, I am so glad you are expressing your personal feelings about men! Thank you for your priceless instructions!
A humbled Mom He really is. Saved my life.
A humbled Mom yess sis ! I can’t blame some of the past bad behavior I got from men when I myself was not the best version of me nor was I setting any requirements. So this video hit home. We can’t be scared to tell men what we want and what we REQUIRE if he truly wants you he will do the necessary to KEEP you and respect you. ❤️💕🤞🏽
@Trina B do the opposite and good luck.
Be blessed! I am from this video
To make a man fall in love:
1. Be your best self
2. Hold him accountable using your quiet strength to call him out
3. Listen to him without judgment and without interrupting
4. Speak life into him
5. Support him
6. Pray for him
Love it all...BUT be your Best Self yaaas.... KNOW AND LOVE THYSELF FIRST...
Tried all of this and he STILL broke up with me . Don't know if it's worth it anymore really.
@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858Then that's not the one for you. You are amazing. You deserve someone equally as amazing. Don't cheapen yourself to run after the wrong one...
My first love just showed up in my life after 50 years of separation saying I was the only woman to 'make him better'. Now I know what he's really saying to me. Wow...
Just be yourself, love yourself, and then the man for you will love you for you
I solely agree natural love 💕 is the beauty within your self
I’ve been married 34 years , and young men you’re on target.. Be Blessed.
What’s the secret to finding and keeping your mate?
Yes make him accountable!Accountability feels like an attack when you’re not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others!
Speak girl...'cause its just like that.
stylesbykbella, Wow!!! Spot on!
Exactly! He’s 50 I called him out on his drinking. He got mad said he already had a mother and broke up with me. Sir you’re 12 years my senior. Goodbye!
true! I experienced this with my mentor. She would call me out and most conversations we had left me in tears at the realization of how right she was about my behavior. Facing oneself is painful if your behavior has been toxic and immature. But I was and still am determined to change and be my best self. The last guy I was with, I called him out on everything and was appalled at his behavior because of the position he holds in church. But.... If no one ever hold you accountable, you can go through life thinking you're ok. Which is sad, because it could mean one of two things, no one loved you enough to check you, or they did and you didn't listen! Well buddy, with me you're going to show visible signs of improvement or I'm out! And that's exactly what happened. I'm not playing games with grown folks. You better grow some fruit man of God!
Shan Russell that’s right set your boundaries and stick with them Happy Friday
Simple: respect him. Respect is a man's love language.
Works both ways dear. Also, love language my ass, love is universal and if I someone loves you/cares about you they will act in ALL ways to show that. 🙂 Golden rule: If it feels like love it is, if it doesn't, it isn't! Why make things so complicated??!!
@@svasianfilipiname6603You have made your point.There was no need to be rude or disrespectful. I don't know what your 'arse' has got to do with a simple innocuous comment I made.
Well said...a man needs His Womans' respect and love.
Now I understand what my husband wants all because of this video. Thank you so much for your video! I can see my marriage going up from here. 🥰🙌🏾
Has it worked?
Be Blessed, I am 70 years and have never heard life spoken like this. Thank you young man it is very helpful. married 48 yrs.
Hello claudia
Wow that's amazing
Be blessed!
1. "Hold him Accountable!"
2. "Listen 2 Him!"
3. "Speak Life into Him!"
4. "SUPPORT HIM!"
Thank You Tony. BE BLESSED 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️‼️
This is so helpful and powerful. I can see the mountains that many women have to climb when traumatized broken relatives including our fathers, uncles, brothers ect... cross the line with us and then somehow in the dysfunction we have to find our inner strength as to not repeat what is familiar when we have no clue about appropriate boundaries, red flags or healthy behaviors. At the end of day we still hold the power.
Be blessed I’m so glad I came across this video. 🙏🏾 now I see where I’ve been going wrong with men. It’s not about servitude it’s about self love, boundaries, and putting myself first. Anything else is bonus.
If a man doesn't have GOD in him he wont ever change he will be stubborn, hardheaded not caring while you have life & god in you.
PERIODT
So what to do if you have God in you and he doesn't? But you are married to him.. do you continue to pray for him?
Jaleesa Shipp Absolutely not! Men’s language is hold him accountable of what you will not accept or you will be a doormat. I have been there. I wish I would have heard this sooner.
true sis
If a guy is messed up with that brainwashing, I wouldn't give him a second look. He HAS to be psychologically healthy to get my attention.
This is something 🗣🗣now I wanna slap my self for how many times I cried over my useless exs🤦🏾♀️😭
I totally understand...
I know i do
I know right!? I came here wondering how I could get that passive aggressive Grown Man to want me again and then I realized I DONT want him back at all! We were engaged and I'm paying rent. I was going through a rough time with my family I was so depressed and he was resentful because I had no desire for getting on my back or talking on the microphone. He was emotionally cold and unsupportive.
I know better now. I am better now but I had to get away from him first.
Same here
I love you Tony Gaskin. You’re such a monumental man, I’ve learned so many things that the men in my life can never recite. God bless 🤞🏾
BE BLESSED!!! Thank You for shedding LIGHT in this area!! So many hurting, disappointed and women who lack this understanding NEED TO HEAR THIS!!! THANK YOU! THANK GOD FOR YOUR WORK AND TEACHING!!!
Also making him feel Respected, Needed, and Appreciated...the Bible says men need to be Needed & Respected and Women need to be Wanted & Loved
KIMMYMACK TALK I agree see. And I can’t blame some of the past bad behavior I got from men when I myself was not the best version of me nor was I setting any requirements. So this video hit home. We can’t be scared to tell men what we want and what we REQUIRE if he truly wants you he will do the necessary to KEEP you and respect you. ❤️💕🤞🏽
@@PrettiRissa Thank you and you are right as well...we need to have standards and refuse to lower those standards because your standards should be fair, attainable, & reasonable
KIMMYMACK TALK 🤞🏽❤️
Each person need to Love GOD first,then yourself,and it becomes easy to love someone else! Tulsa Oklahoma!
Yeah but some men send mixed messages. One minute they want to feel needed and will tell a woman things that her feel bad for being independent, then the next minute they will make the woman feel needy for expecting or asking for certain things..... It sounds like confusion and indecisiveness to me.
I held him accountable and walked my fine ass away lol :)
Take your time baby
Like Lizzo says in her song, "Feeling Good as H
ell"
Jessica Wojcik you better say it boo
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Tony, this was so beautiful! This is so real. I wish I had this. It grieves my spirit the time I have lost. I have asked my spouse what his dreams were and he told me years ago that he didn’t have any but I stayed and supported THAT! Thanks for the clarity Tony in detail. This was key to me letting go and moving on. I needed this.
Be blessed Tony . Can you make a video ? What’s the 5 things you must teach your Son as a single Mom ??
He is so right! I had to call a person on his behavior on our second date.... He was totally surprised after he apologized, he told me that no one had ever done that before.... It never happened again!
Thanks for sharing that! What a beautiful blessing you are! God bless you and your family and work love from Wendy Drummond from Adelaide South Australia
5:41..😂😂❤
holding men accountable is something all women need to practice like they practice twerking in the mirror. lmfaoo👏🏾bc when you stay with a man that constantly finds different ways to disrespect you, your "indirectly" showing him your weak & insecure no man should ever get comfortable with disrespecting you.💯never be afraid to walk away from a relationship...✌🏾
Amen sis
Hajahajhaj Melanin, you're Poppin!
Soo. True. Hold. High. Standard and. Don't. Let it drop. Cuzz of. A man. Let. Him know. Your not. The 1. And. You're not. Going to tolerate. Him. Disrespecting you. ! And that you will keep it moving next time he disrespect you again. And. Mean it. Don't. Just. Say it. ..
Melanin Poppin I can’t blame some of the past bad behavior I got from men when I myself was not the best version of me nor was I setting any requirements. So this video hit home. We can’t be scared to tell men what we want and what we REQUIRE if he truly wants you he will do the necessary to KEEP you and respect you. ❤️❤️❤️
Be blessed Tony. I want to thank you for shining the light on so many aspects I was completely wrong on. Your advice is truly the inspirational thank you🙌
straight to the point, very well articulated, no beating around the bush, definitely got a lot out of this video, Thank you!
Be blessed!!! I’ve been married for 18 years & everything that he said is true!! 👈🏽
I'm so inspired by your post; I look forward to the same! 😀
"You being weak makes him despise u"
redeemed1352 Truth the guy I’m with Now mentioned that to me several times in the beginning of the relationship
redeemed1352 I’ve seen this live and in living color.
He said If you're being a weak woman IN RESPONSE TO HIS IGNORANT BEHAVIOR". He didn't mean being weak in general and showing any weakness in any area will make him despise you. Just wanted to clear that up in case some ppl misunderstand..
That’s deep
@@SermonsSubtitled yes meaning he's done something negative and you don't handle him or the situation... if you don't there goes his respect for you and the seeing you as being weak
Be blessed Tony and your family!
This wasn’t the first time I listened to this and it won’t be the last!
God bless!
This was really good. Thank you, Tony! May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family. 🙏🏾
When you hold him accountable that’s when they try to call you controlling🙄
MsRenaissance 07 that’s not a man that’s grown boy . He talking about MEN who wants to change but need that guidance from a real woman
Well the question you gotta ask yourself was did you let anything slide? You show a man how to treat you by what you ACCEPT. If you let your child get away with something once, best believe they will turn around and do it again even after you say no. Say no the first time and every time, they will understand the word “NO.” Men only act foolish to see what you will put up with cause all the girls before you let him do whatever he pleases. This video is about being the woman he would change and become his best self for. And you have to follow all 4 things. In my experience listening to a man and supporting being his #1 supporter while at the same time knowing your worth and making sure he respects you fully and holding him accountable for everything cause you could walk out that door and find better than the way he is treating you but doing it in a feminine way and not argumentatively. He learns how to respect a woman and not seeing you as a doormat. Never talk to a man like you’re his mother. For example, when I’m mad my boyfriend is spending too much money and we are barely making end meet I say, “we need money for such and such” and I let him figure it out Cause he is a grown man. He got it. But if I called him lazy, or talk down and start an argument all it does is make him disrespect me because it shows I don’t support and believe in him to be a provider. All you have to do is be patient and time will tell. What the video doesn’t mention is that there are a lot of boys out there who are not men. I’ve dated dozens of men by age but only 2 of those men were grown men. Look at his character towards you. How he treats you at the beginning(first 2-3 months) shows you EVERYTHING. And whatever bad behavior you accept from him is on you. Look out for you. You’re the prize. 💕
And dats wen u leave his sorry ass
True
That’s a child honey
"Me being my absolute best self"...Amen.
Chelle b yesssss ! I can’t blame some of the past bad behavior I got from men when I myself was not the best version of me nor was I setting any requirements. So this video hit home. We can’t be scared to tell men what we want and what we REQUIRE if he truly wants you he will do the necessary to KEEP you and respect you. ❤️💕🤞🏽
Be blessed. Just found your channel and I'm wondering why did it take me so long! You are a blessing!
Be blessed 🙏🏼
Thank you, Tony!
I been with the same guy for 32 years ..28 years of Marriage the 4 things that you said I've done and #5 I make him laugh I love to laugh .. And your right sex is not the main focus .. But since the start I didn't let him get away with nothing and I was honest ..
I did all that and he still left!! He didn’t like to be told when he was wrong. He didn’t like me being straightforward in a respectful way. He’d say I was too straight and to the point. He didn’t like when I’d try to close his wounds by speaking positivity. He flat out told me that he’d never be happy. It is what it is. I tried!!!
It sounds like you were with a grown boy! Be glad that he's gone💪🏾
Kisha Emanuel sis that is actually a good sign. He eliminated himself . That prevented you from wasting your time.
Those actions meant he is not the man for you. Tony didn't say these things will make every man fall in love with you. Some men are not ready for the truth. It is what it is...
He was not the man for you... You will go through many frogs to find your Boaz...
Kisha Emanuel He sounds like someone who is dealing with personal issues, maybe someone who feels he doesn’t deserve a good thing like yourself. If and when he finds healing for himself, don’t be surprised if he comes back.
Wow! Thank you! You are on POINT! This is some good stuff. I'm a living witness, listen up women! This man knows what he's talking about. PERIOD!!!
Thank you, Tony! Your words are difficult to hear - but you speak truth to power! I hope many women of all ages and backgrounds take your teachings to heart . . .
I’ve cried while driving and at a red light before😐
Yola Mayo damn Ive cried just yesterday
Mannnn what I just be hoping nobody be looking at me 😭😂
Yola Mayo Yup
Right?? Like was it me he saw?? 😂
He saw u 🤣🤣🤣
This man is for real. Hold a man accountable for what he does. Speak life into him. Love yourself first.
Be BLESSED! 🙏🏽 thank you, I really needed to hear this today. 🤗😉
Six minutes in & this video is resonating so much. Thank you Tony!
Dude. Dude. You just saved my life without even knowing. You’re amazing.
Every black woman in the world needs to hear this ....I appreciate your honesty I really needed it ..Be Blessed
Every woman in fact every female child needs to be bought up on this I will be teaching my 3 year old granddaughter this when I see her next time. I am not black I'm a Caucasian South Australian 62 year old Christian lady and I've needed and prayed for this information all my life so you can see he's a major blessing to me God bless you
Just women in general need to listen to this video.
Why only black women?
Not only black. I’m white and I need to practice this.
Be blessed!! For what you shared here, thank you Professor Tony.
Be blessed. Thank you for those powerful points.
When he did that voice mocking a woman lmao 😂
Jade lmaooo & it was spot on 😂😂😂
Shannen’s Shannen so accurate 😂
Took me out sis 😭
Reminds me of that movie with Eddie Murphy Norbet 😂😂
Omg Lmaoooooooooooo it definitely was accurate I had to rewind.
Love the ending when you said he can’t hurt you bc he know you will hold him accountable for everything so he gives you his best instead(not your exact words but my interpretation)
I love that! I’m on they neck Tony but in a nice ,feminine way lol
DeeDee hahaha. Me too girl *on their neck, in a feminine way 😅😂
Be blessed 🙌🏻 perfectly on point. It’s not about the things people think... it’s bout so much more. Ya know, the stuff one can’t ever fake 🙌🏻 love it Sir!
Be blessed, thank you for the words! It was well received on my end 😊
It all comes down to Loving Yourself!!
What if I didn’t do this in the beginning’ can o turn this around going forward and how do I do that?? Help
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It. Funny. They. Want. To. Be. Love. But. Dont. Want..too. love. Smile. .but. an. .change. will. Come
This is facts ladies!!!! I have experienced this! I always had boundaries and walked away and now years later all 3 of my ex's want back in!! Nope, that time is up!! Ladies it's not always easy to hear his videos because sometimes it feels like a personal attack when he touches a nerve but please understand we all are diff because we all experienced diff things in childhood and life. So it is not a personal attack. He is called to help u. Do u think he WANTS to deal with the back lash from men OR constantly hear us women debating him on these post? No! I'm sure their are days when he wants to walk away but he can NOT because he knows he is called. He has to answer to God. Thank you Tony because many of us did not have involved dads so thank you no matter how much we yap!
@@megabooplantz 🥰
Right
@@stylesbykbella 😘
Stand, girl, STAND!!!
Love this!
I Thank U Very Much 4 running this Down 1-4 Steps!
Be blessed. Thank you for your beautiful words of wisdom and love.
If he's reacting from a place of immaturity, it's not love anyway. A man who truly loves you loves himself. True love is respect for self, others and communicating effectively. He's not going to be perfect but if he loves you, he'll listen, take note and do differently.
Very good sir. I must admit I wasn’t going to watch this at first thinking “What do I need to know about this if it’s aimed at women?” It’s great to hear a man articulate what a man needs from our perspective and it be much deeper than the typical things you noted like back rubs. It’s true, holding a man accountable makes him realize that everything he thinks and does affects the life of his partner, their relationship and how they’ll move in any regard.
Be blessed and thanks for the message 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Be Blessed and Thank You! Tony
Wow now I’m wondering how many time I’ve been caught crying at the red light😭😂
I like this guy, straightforward and speaks the obvious truth. Most important the advice he gives is his knowledge about the Holy Bible and from a Christian perspective's experience. Listen to him ladies and you'll prevent yourself from being heartbroken from mistreatment from men!
Be blessed! Thank you so much Tony!
You're opening my eyes to alot of things I've experienced
Now I really understand the importance of having your own money. When a women can't provide for herself and stand on her own two feet, it's going to be harder for her to hold a man accountable. When the men see she can hold her own he will be more careful how he treats her.
Zarasha1 Plenty of us homemakers are being loved, respected and adored by our husbands. Having a job has little to do with a real man loving his woman. You kind of missed the point he’s making here in this video. A woman stands as a woman with or without a corporate job.
@@ShadaeMastersAstrology True you are 100 percent right.
Oh yes ma'am. You have CHOICES when you stand on your own!!
@@ShadaeMastersAstrology we talking about single ladies. You RIGHT as your husband it is his job to take care of his wife and family. If you have jump in and help I'm sure you would.
God Bless!!
I agree with Venus Unlocked! Respect has little to do with your financial status. In fact, having money of your own might make him even more disrespectful. A woman who will leave with nothing in her packet is a very dangerous woman because she not only has respect for herself but the determination to make it happen. He knows if his woman has to walk out of his house like that and with his children she's gone! As the Psalmist said, I've never seen the righteous forsaken or the begging for bread! God will prove!
OMG, I have never heard this before, especially from a man. 😂 happy tears. Now, I know where I failed at. Blessings to you and your family.
Don't say you failed. A relationship takes two people. This won't help a man who does not want to be better.
I’m SOOOOO GLAD I started following you! Thanks to MTV’s Couples Retreat. 🙌🏼🔥. I can listen to each of videos all the way through with no intent that I would. 3 hours have gone by because of being zoned in! Absolute GREAT content!
Be blessed, many women are for hearing these words from you Tony. You are an inspiration that there are real men out there
Be blessed. I will admit have been a doormat. I’ve taken so much from men that I have actually had to look directly at myself for allowing it. It’s definitely shameful and I was embarrassed for years about it. I am finally getting to the point where I will allow no one to do as they please with me and that’s family friends or guys. I am not happy with who I’ve been but definitely happy with who I’m becoming. I had a problem with hurting other people, but they had no problem with hurting me. A clear example of not loving myself. I didn’t understand what self love was. I was always taught to love others, but never taught to love myself and in all actuality like I guess I wasn’t really loving them.
Same sis, same. For years I've given too much of myself and haven't had the love reciprocated.
1karley Knowing and understanding that you deserve what you’ve been giving others and the power of “No” will take you a long way❤️ I rooting for you!!
Wow. I feel the same way. My bad relationship choices have even affected how i deal with anyone in my life. I refuse to let anyone feel they can use or devalue me.
You go, Girl! You're my kinda woman. As you have, I've been there, done that, and now, in my later years, I finally know what kind of man to give my time. Either he's already a grown-ass, mature man, or not. I don't raise boys.
@@kimberlyclark6326 yes, and I'm amazed how many older grown boys there are out there, aren't you? And at my age, they've gotten settled into their ways, and with a couple divorces under their belt they got deep rooted bitterness piled on top of it.
Tony I knew when you said “Whew” this was going to be good! 😊 I know like me a lot of your listeners watch Power, look at the character Tasha life she’s a ride or die. Look where it got her with her husband! Everything you said is so true, I was married almost 20 years and was a doormat because I never spoke up or held him accountable for his actions but once I did and packed my bags and left I never looked back! Thank you be blessed!
Me too sweetheart..17 yrs😔
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Wow 20years 😣 that would be one of my worst feels. It’s good you got out now
Be blessed! You have definitely taken me to school today.
Thank you so much for explaining everything you talk about. Its so refreshing. Reading men between the lines is hard enough you explain everything thank you, thank you.
I appreciate how my brothers are letting us know that being treated like shit is not OK, and they tell what a good supportive man should look like.
I would love to speak to your wife or for you to do a video with her to get her perspective. She’s sounds like the women my 25 year old self is trying to become. Great advice!
SAMEEEEEE
Its very dangerous to idolize yourself as the wife of these relationship coaches.
ItsKenya Yes, I agree with Kenya! Please bring Your wife on. We would Love to listen to You both together.
Same! We need more women like her.
Thank You, this helped me change my thought process 🙏🏽
Thank you so much for all you do! You have helped me tremendously!
Truth, Sir...TRUTH!!! I am newly engaged to a man I met for the 1st time Ever on July 27th! We attended the same high school 6 years apart. He is my junior. We are both established (each owning our own home/cars), and each have grown children. He "knew" 2 months in and proposed to me on Sweetest day (October 19th) in front of both our families. We are in marriage counseling and are getting married in April 2020! My point is this...when a man "knows" he has found THAT ONE...he moves Quickly and on purpose to ensure No one else is an option for her! If a man doesn't know...then it's a "NO", ladies! He should be pursing You, not the other way around! Blessings,
A~🦋
Congratulations!
Congratulations Queen ❤️
Congratulations
Thank you E-Dream and Northern Roots.
Congratulations
Hahaha .. he said “ He may try you again in 10yrs & you pack up like it was 10days” that’s right Tony! I’m guilty of not standing on my word and it sho nuff bit me in ass. Lol you telling the truth
Be blessed. Thank you so much. This was life changing level information.
Amazing!! What a simple and powerful message.
Thank you for this knowledge
Tony's imitation of us typing in these comments lmaoooo
LMBO 😂 took me out. Those fingers were moving fast on that imaginary keyboard
Be blessed.... ty..xx
You are sooo right! My husband said the very same thing to me I was not liking me , and he felt that. He told me “ love your self I’m feeling your insecurities “ he loves me but not attracted to me because I’m not attracted to me.
Be blessed
And why are u married to him??!?!!
@@eleventhecccreator right! Sounds like some manipulative bs!
Yup! You are 1000% right! I packed it up and never looked back because he was never going to change his ways! Thank you for speaking the truth!
Thanks, Tony! This video really resonated with me.