Psychology of Re-Attracting a Man

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025
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  • @user-fi5nz4uo1x
    @user-fi5nz4uo1x 2 года назад +376

    I’m islam it’s said in the Quran that if we love someone more than Allah we will lose them , if you say I can’t live without this person, Allah will take them away from you to prove you wrong. It is said for us to be grateful for everything as everything happens for a reason people go and come in your life for either for them to learn something from you or to teach you something

    • @saaramohamed8921
      @saaramohamed8921 2 года назад +31

      OMG that's a great take. I'm muslim and applying Islamic principles have been very effective in love relationships overall.

    • @TramaineFoye
      @TramaineFoye 2 года назад +3

      Ameen

    • @jane-ew2jh
      @jane-ew2jh 2 года назад

      Better marry

    • @reemkannin500
      @reemkannin500 2 года назад +20

      may Allah bless you for spreading the beauty of islam

    • @furryhaters9982
      @furryhaters9982 2 года назад +4

      MashaAllah

  • @Mandycapetown
    @Mandycapetown 2 года назад +120

    You are changing my life dude. I ended a 11 month relationship two days ago after watching 12 of your videos. All that energy is going into myself. I’ve also just learned that my ex from 2 years ago loves me still. It’s insane. I’ve always done too much and now it’s distance distance distance. You deserve a freekin Nobel peace award ❤

    • @cbrown4293
      @cbrown4293 2 года назад +9

      Legit bout to do the same on 5 years ,once u realize your worth it's impossible to forget it

    • @LK-fn1nk
      @LK-fn1nk Год назад +3

      Any update?

    • @sandy-leechetty9703
      @sandy-leechetty9703 Год назад +5

      South African's love this guy 😊

    • @anca2919
      @anca2919 Год назад +2

      Same story 😮🎉

  • @avvninarayan6906
    @avvninarayan6906 2 года назад +75

    "Breakups are not the end of the world, they are the start of something new."
    Man, Alexis, I literally just got out of something, and immediately starting working out regularly. It has truly been a blessing for me. Though it hurts and I do feel bad and perhaps not good enough, watching your videos just helps not sugarcoat anything and makes me truly see things for what they are. You just gotta love yourself enough to not chase. To let people go.
    I also believe in destiny. Though we are the creators of our destiny, but some things are out of our control and if things are truly meant to be, two people can eventually meet each other again when they have learned their life lessons and are more emotionally mature.
    Anyhoo, thanks for your videos!! Keep it up

    • @avvninarayan6906
      @avvninarayan6906 2 года назад +1

      ALSO, the breathing right in the middle of the video ahaha, it's so helpful for anxiety prone peeps like moi. Thanks Alexis, you're a gem.

  • @akashamedia671
    @akashamedia671 2 года назад +9

    Hi Alex, I like your meditation approach. I just want to add to what you’re saying. Once an older wise grandmother told me, she’s said to me, it’s ok to be needy. Accepting that neediness is apart of us and stop fighting against it and be gentle with ourselves is part of letting go. Also part of the negative emotion is feeling ashamed about it and hang on to that emotion. When you just allow yourself to feel the neediness and not beat yourself about it will reduce the pain making it more manageable. It’s ok to feel and be a little needy, and still be able to be manage your emotion. it makes so much sense what you’re saying.

  • @nadia16nadia
    @nadia16nadia 2 года назад +17

    Alexis 💯 right
    What love don’t give you distance and coldness will ❤

  • @Quitthyn
    @Quitthyn 2 года назад +4

    The dead person/ghost example was so good and true😳

  • @LK-fn1nk
    @LK-fn1nk Год назад +7

    I agree and disagree at the same time. I did not show myself needy and either did too much. However, i showed them that i was happy and rewarded when they'd have good actions. Most of the time, i explained what i expected in terms of behavior, or action but also highlighted that i would make my life with the "right person". I was always self mantained but never played the "i am too independant, get out". They knew i was independant but i also showed a bit of vulnerability (without being desperate) when i was in difficult position in different states of my life. Anyways, that just means that they are the one who lack of emotion and cannot deal with many things together. As they focus on their problems or personal business, they start detaching from you. Even if they have in front of them the most "ideal" person, if they are not ready, they won't be either way.

  • @Iamall0
    @Iamall0 2 года назад +8

    You are like the big Brother i always wanted even though im older in years.

  • @nmania3
    @nmania3 2 года назад +10

    The lighting is giving

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  2 года назад +1

      What lighting

    • @nmania3
      @nmania3 2 года назад

      Maybe it's a different camera but video quality looks better not as dark as before.

  • @roseandrews8523
    @roseandrews8523 2 года назад +3

    Super, duper helpful. Thank you for your videos they are helping me figure out HOW to improve my relationships all around (as someone who did not have a good upbringing).

  • @marlimarlirni
    @marlimarlirni 2 года назад +5

    This is so wise wow 😢thanks Alex !!!! You are the best

  • @brendabanuelos194
    @brendabanuelos194 2 года назад +4

    I love that you remind us about our breathing. It is helping me a lot!

  • @adreethomas2844
    @adreethomas2844 2 года назад +56

    You need to coach men on the how to retract women

    • @sherrita8582
      @sherrita8582 2 года назад +5

      😂😂

    • @michelled.6001
      @michelled.6001 2 года назад

      I don't think this video is woman-specific? The principles will work for either gender?

    • @FleurRiche
      @FleurRiche 2 года назад +3

      😂😂 why was this my first thought and I see your comment lol

    • @adreethomas2844
      @adreethomas2844 2 года назад +4

      @@FleurRiche Women are fed up, yo, look up Sheila True Love for some hehe, hahas.

  • @tasyatristan4455
    @tasyatristan4455 2 года назад +1

    ur so comforting omg,god bless ur heart man🤍

  • @juelleburrell3916
    @juelleburrell3916 2 года назад +6

    Love this Alex 😄😄😄

  • @auralionasol2205
    @auralionasol2205 2 года назад +6

    FEEL THE HAND

  • @Itspaolatina
    @Itspaolatina 2 года назад +17

    5:33 I was dating a guy for 5 months and he was verbally abuse and possesive and I Lost interest. Facts.

    • @Itspaolatina
      @Itspaolatina 2 года назад

      Abusive*

    • @michelled.6001
      @michelled.6001 2 года назад +7

      That guy isn't someone you necessarily want to re-attract..

  • @kiutpi
    @kiutpi 2 года назад +30

    How about losing 100 lbs, glowing up, focusing only on yourself and dating other people? Would that reattach them?
    Not really an ex but someone I dated and we remained friends.

    • @smediumlarge
      @smediumlarge 2 года назад +36

      Yeah it definitely would. But honestly, after you accomplish all that, you won’t even want your ex anymore.

    • @luckyfox1911
      @luckyfox1911 2 года назад +6

      @@smediumlarge I'm in @kiutpi's situation and I hope that's true, even though it makes me a little sad. I'd rather love myself alone than feel unwanted.

    • @RRthee1
      @RRthee1 2 года назад +2

      Yes but their pride might keep them away.

  • @irmadimac7933
    @irmadimac7933 2 года назад +5

    I really love you man💙

  • @heatherhalloway9573
    @heatherhalloway9573 10 месяцев назад

    You’re so brilliant! Thank you!!!

  • @Ppucixel
    @Ppucixel Год назад

    No I just started watching and you said because long term goals change… I want a kid he doesn’t right now

  • @rilalabingbing
    @rilalabingbing 2 года назад +7

    How are you doing, Alex? You are a phenomenal teacher. Gracias ❤️‍🩹

  • @talejo1
    @talejo1 2 года назад

    Just discovered your channel & I love your vibe! Keep it up 😊

  • @Itspaolatina
    @Itspaolatina 2 года назад +5

    12:05 whats the difference between commitment and chasing?? How can we Stay commited to someone yet not chase seem naggy or needy?

    • @michelled.6001
      @michelled.6001 2 года назад +9

      Keep some mystery in the relationship by pulling away from time to time.. give each other space

    • @Shotbytino914
      @Shotbytino914 2 года назад +1

      Space

  • @shine.brighter6170
    @shine.brighter6170 Год назад

    Great video, love the advice. ❤

  • @lavishlovestory
    @lavishlovestory 2 года назад +2

    Needed this! 💯

  • @halim1582
    @halim1582 2 года назад

    Love the video Father Alex!

  • @zaidalazaidala4396
    @zaidalazaidala4396 11 месяцев назад

    I like the breathwork inbetween did you do NLP?

  • @ItsAV2023
    @ItsAV2023 Год назад

    Do you by chance, study Positive Psychology? One of the main tenets in that niche is having a mindfulness practice.

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 2 года назад +9

    I give my man space. I have a freakin' life. I am an author on a book tour presently. I have options. I am a follower of Christ ..right? The reason my man is pulling away...he tells me has OCD. Anxiety. You have any advice, booboo? He's a great man. Very loyal, handsome. Very good to me.

    • @luckyfox1911
      @luckyfox1911 2 года назад +8

      Sounds like he's busy fighting his own demons right now.

    • @onelove8118
      @onelove8118 2 года назад +2

      Definitely

    • @onelove8118
      @onelove8118 2 года назад +3

      Give it time...

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Год назад

      @@onelove8118 Thank you. I appreciate that!

  • @bjrambow584
    @bjrambow584 5 месяцев назад

    Ive experienced the opposite. I got stories for you. Lol

  • @wrangelinhabitant161
    @wrangelinhabitant161 4 месяца назад

    Oh i thought you are coming straight from bath and has a bathrobe on😂

  • @kimgreene5489
    @kimgreene5489 4 месяца назад

    Thank you

  • @fashioniswhereitsify
    @fashioniswhereitsify 2 года назад +2

    I wish I seen this video long time ago

  • @nurelani3802
    @nurelani3802 Год назад

    Hehehehehee.. I know this is a serious video but my first reaction when I saw you was laughter.. you’re cute hehehe

  • @ritaaddo5292
    @ritaaddo5292 2 года назад

    An ex served me breakfast 17years ago. He is married am also married, yet we seem to be coming closer.......he is 50 plus now😅

  • @JustUsSystemInc
    @JustUsSystemInc Год назад

    I need a session

  • @gracegracegraceee
    @gracegracegraceee 2 года назад +9

    Alex is coaching in his robe y'all😂

  • @drea57
    @drea57 2 года назад +1

    Lmaooooo me while I'm here high af 12:30

  • @mmg_722
    @mmg_722 2 года назад

    Dude I love u

  • @BabyFaceRose
    @BabyFaceRose 2 года назад

    You literally don’t know when someone comes back they be tryna spin the block after 1 - 2 years but is it even worth it at that point 😂 probably not … and the person I loved basically told me to leave cause he wasn’t good but I already know what that means so

  • @RRthee1
    @RRthee1 2 года назад +1

    I appreciate this.

  • @user-pe2yx9kt4e
    @user-pe2yx9kt4e 2 года назад

    2:47 2:52

  • @thevillakhalifashow3109
    @thevillakhalifashow3109 2 года назад +2

    I want to make a shirt with your face on it

  • @ivyvillacarlos3129
    @ivyvillacarlos3129 2 года назад +1

    🥰

  • @sanatm
    @sanatm 10 месяцев назад

    facts

  • @kimberlyshue2823
    @kimberlyshue2823 2 года назад

    Hello

  • @naimamusah3824
    @naimamusah3824 2 года назад

    My takeaway

  • @Aja.S
    @Aja.S 2 года назад

    Bitter ghost 🤣🤣🤣 hope I won't be one

  • @PennyR-t4y
    @PennyR-t4y 6 месяцев назад

    Well done, there's so many tips, techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words od Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.

  • @lillyme9056
    @lillyme9056 2 года назад +1

    Alex I dm u on insta about the nice girl course u haven’t responded yet.

  • @RoseB-c5c
    @RoseB-c5c 6 месяцев назад

    Well done, there's so many tips, techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words od Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.