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#Furry #PCD #Convention
Your voice is amazing just saying
Hi Stormi!
Hi Stormi!
Hi Stormi!
Hi stormi :D
Can't get PCD if you're too poor to go to a con 👌
Can have D, depression, not dick.
Joshua Young wtf are you saying dumbass
You can hear alot of people refer to the d, as dick. But thx for the compliment:)
Yeeeaaah man that’s the life 👌👌
Me too, thanks
I didn't get it, but that's partially because I have to make a vlog thing about it and I get to visit and log the memories I had there and it just warms my heart.
Imaginatively Unimaginative sup zillion.
your vlog gave me depression for the fact that I can never get into a con
Well... Me myself I am no furry but I kinda get what he means. It's great to have a passion but sometimes it is the case no one shares that passion with you. And once you get in touch with those other furries you have finally met people with the same interests. (Believe me, that feels really quite awesome ^-^) And once u get thrown back into reality like Eta said and that feeling kinda sucks. I believe that's what his point is
Furry: I have PCD
Me: *LAUGHS* Icantaffordtogotoaconvention
Lucario Emblem Mhm, I know, just an example ^^'
Lucario Emblem *HAHAHAHAHAH* same..
Anywhere outside of my own town aswell...
Same here bra
Im literally the only furry in my city, never have I ever met any furry in real life :/
REAL TALK: It usually takes me two or three days to get over post con depression. But when PCD kicks in, I actually do cry tears on the last day of the con. It's because I love hanging out with my friends, I love building wonderful memories with people. I love going to the room parties, go fursuiting, Go to the rave, get some cool stuff, and Shop at dealers den. It's something I really enjoy. Because going to a Furry Convention is like going to Disneyland. It's the happiest place on earth. I know it sounds cliche but it's the best way I can describe the experience of going to these conventions. But you also got a wonderful community of people who are loving, caring or just plain awesome. Plus some of the furries who are really chill or fun to hangout with too. This is why I enjoy the fandom.
Damn! I should've used that analogy of Furry Cons being similar to Disneyland in the video! Would've helped with explaining it! Still, I can definitely relate to you on these feelings ^_^
That's a long coment and I've had a paragraph hate comment
seth the Artist Ok. What does mentioning that you've had a paragraph hate comment have to do with anything?
@@thema1998 He is saying he has a reference, because he had a paragraph hate comment so he knows what a long comment is.
qwq I wanna go to a furry convention but I don't think my parents would let me ;-;
Staying home trumps all, you can't miss something you don't experience.
Ha...
Stencil Zhi-Yi same...
Same.
Stencil Zhi-Yi same...
O o f same
I feel attacked hahah... same :(
Aaaand its going to be one of these videos.
Just remember to stay positive. Thats what always helps me.
Except that I don't have PCD.
But still, stay positive
Morbidcrab Bruh
Have a Positive Mental Attitude
Ohh, I've seen you from one of Mugiwara Cosplay's comments :D
I suffer from IATBTGTAC aka im too broke to go to a con
Hope youll get more fur friends
I suffer from ACACDTCD
Aka All Cons are cancelled due to covid 19 Depression
I once had PPCD: pre-post con depression. About Friday of a convention one time I realized that it would be over in only two more short days, and I started to get really sad about it.
Very true about it being more pronounced for those who don't have friends in their daily life who are furries. People who do have friends who are furries can have fur meets, do furry bowling, get together for reviewing furry art (or making furry art if they are artists), watching TV shows and movies with furry cartoon characters, and so on. People who don't have everyday friends who are furries only have friends on the internet when not at a convention, so it can really make a person feel lonely about it. I have one friend who is a furry, my best friend who I attended my (and his) first furry convention with 10 years ago. When we were roomies it helped because we could talk about conventions, share the anticipation of upcoming cons, look at the art we bought, share art we find online from the artists we follow, etc. But when I moved out and got my own place I only ever saw him a little while every day at work, where we could never openly talk about furry stuff, and then when I lost my job at that company I almost never see him any more. But I'm so asocial I don't like the idea of finding new friends in the area who are furries. I'd have to meet and make friends with them at a con first so the connection is there for getting together outside of a con. And the loneliness makes it all the more depressing when a convention comes to an end.
:(
4:34 OwO What's this~?
Okay, but for real, I can relate to having PCD. I've only been to one con so far (gonna have my second in about 3 months), but the aftermath of going to that con after the first time is truly devastating. I suffered for about a month, which was not fun at all. It's exactly as Beta says, reality kicks in and your immediately slapped back into school, work, or whatever and you have an emptiness inside of you that stays until you can finally get over it. PCD sucks, but I wouldn't trade anything for the good times that I've had at furry conventions.
It feels like a fire in your heart is forced to be extinguished
I can't really relate, but I MIGHT know what that feels like.
One time I was at an Indie Game Con (yes I'm a furry and a gamer) and I had an absolute blast being there for about 8 hours. But when it ended, I felt kinda sad and upset, but luckily it was only for that day. I can only imagine how devastating PCD must feel like after a furry con...
I'd like to see you do a vid on the topic of "the loner furry"
Thank you good sir, you just saved me from a hiatus!
No worries ;)
oh also as a side note, ya discord link in the description comes up as invalid.
Ya if like to see that
Luconis That would definitely apply to me. My only two friends aren't furries like I am.
I’m a loner furry and I don’t have any other friends that are interested in the furry fandom,when you mentioned this in your video I was thinking in that moment “that’s me,wow a famous fur experiences the same emotions as me!”So thanks beta for this,it helped me realize that I’m not alone,and a lot of people are experiencing this as well.THANK YOU BETA!!!!!!!!!❤️
I've personally had a similar experience to PCD, except since I don't have the money to go to a convention (and never have been to one) it was over a visual novel.
It sounds kinda stupid, but when I finished the game I got pretty depressed for about a week over the realization that the characters weren't real and that I have nobody that will ever relate to me like the characters did.
Guess that's what happens when you never leave the house-
Same EXACT thing happened to me, it was over Night in The Woods though.
EXACT SAME THING happened to me lmao. It was with Zootopia. I was in love with Nick for about a week or so after watching the movie, but i knew that the characters were not real, so i was really not okay about it...
I had the exact same thing happen to me as well... Visual novels, books, movies, you name it...
It sucks that your impromptu asking-your-coworker-if-they-are-a-furry expiriment failed!
It's not like that everywhere -
I worked in a big department store all year last year, and I did my own experiment to see who many coworkers I could tell about the fandom.
By the end I got almost all of of them except my bosses.
And yeah, we definitely were talking about it when random guests were around >w<
So it's not a given that people will think you're weird!
Sometimes you get lucky and encounter cool people.
"Post Con Depression" I don't need that. I feel bad every day because I suffer from chronic depression. Is that a tear running down my cheek?
Hellfire I'll sub and lik :D
*tight hugs* You are not alone.
Having PCD and depression at the same time must suck :/
I just have one xD
its been a while I hope you're life is now better
I remember my first PCD. I was 20 and worked as a designer at the city hall. Went to my first con, and when I came back the reality bitchslap hit me so hard I couldn't produce anything decent (to the point my boss called my designs "trash"), didn't eat for two entire days for no reason and spent my breaks in the bathroom texting people from the con as I tried not to cry or get overemotional. Today the fandom means a lot to me and I find it easy to understand PCD. Things get better, though. I just came back from a con feeling even more alive, rather than destroyed.
I've been open about being a furry to everyone only when people ask and it feels pretty good because I've never once been made fun of for being a furry and most people accept that. In fact, some of my friends have become furries as well
Have you considered going to local furry meets? I am sure you could find some real life furry friends if you try going out to meets and etc more :) I used to do that before I got with my current IRL furry friends (who now all live with me :D). I met a lot of awesome furry friends that way! ♥ I definitely suggest it!! If you just drove for a day to the con then you are not far from Boston, which there are lots of furries out there. :) Definitely join local groups on Facebook and elsewhere, and search for meets and etc in your area! ♥
I burst into tears several times before, during, and after the 8 hour drive home from AnthroCon. I'd be drowning in PCD if it wasn't for furry Amino and furry RUclipsrs, which keeps me pretty well connected with the community.
I’m pretty sure I got a similar feeling whenever everyone left from like a party or sleepover when I was younger. It was lonely and tiring for like an hour, then became all normal and okay. PCD is more severe, though.
Finally, an intro.
You now deserve my subscription :3
Just kidding, this is my furst time watching your videos and I subbed :3 very well said on everything
Better give yourself heads up to PCD. I didn't really have PCD as the night before last day at the con, this is the last day at a con, I tried to relax and make the most of what a furry convention has to offer. Say goodbye to my old and new friends, suit around one more time, dance until 2am and have one last room party with some furries. Also, I met a good friend of mine after the con who I really wanted to meet so that might of helped to keep my past memories input. But next con? Not sure will I or will I not get a PCD. anyways amazing advice, Beta.
Let’s just rename it Post Fun Depression
Post anything interesting depression
Going to have to disagree with one of the points made, specifically about people who go to anime/gaming/ comic cons not getting PCD.
As someone who doesn’t have any friends in the furry fandom and who has never made an online friend or a con friend, I heavily disagree. This is all due to social problems I have.
This is all, however, erased when I cosplay. I have people hugging, high fiving me, and getting photos with me as well as chatting to me, it’s honestly amazing.
That is all stripped however when I leave the con and it’s honestly horrible. This is also a form of PCD as you realise that you’re alone again. Yeah you have one friend who likes Voltron, but you don’t have anyone who likes, let’s just say The Vampire Chronicles book series so you can’t talk to them about it without them being uninterested. Whereas when you cosplay that character you do run into people who like it.
PCD hits you like a brick when you realise this.
What I’m trying to say is, the most PCD happens to the most socially insecure/ inept/ unsocial etc people and happens at all cons.
Loved the video, good to see furry things again
Lucifer Black Beta never said that if doesn't happen. He just said that it is LESS likely to happen.
ADP1998 Apologies for the misunderstanding
I don't feel depressed about not being able to talk about one thing I like, I mean I know 0 furries around here and I'm fine without talking about furry things. I feel fine just drawing or watching videos like this alone. I just don't like the feeling of being the weird guy, going to a fur meet or whatever is fun as hell, the depression isn't really post con, it's just normal life coming back in, and the reason it is terribly painful for a few weeks is because you're getting used to it again. The pain feels new again and it sucks. But you get used to it again and then it's time to be normal again. But I can't say I'd trade the feeling for anything else when you meet someone else in a fur suit, it's a rare sight where I live.
Ay i see that Halo 3 ODST on the background boi.
I was about to say you can't possibly call yourself something as harsh as a "Loner Furry" because you have Carnine with you in your fraternity
P.S. I'm so sorry for laughing my head off when you said you got called a "Fagioli" xD
Dude, trust me, i would love to meet you, but i live in michigan, if im ever in MA, i could meet ya
I haven't been able to go to a con yet, but I definitely fall under the sub category of Loner Furry as well. and I definitely think that not having any other furries to talk to and hang out with definitely sucks and makes going through depression like this extremely difficult.
Thank you for all of the content you put out. much appreciated.
Definitely a good video. You can also factor in that often the period of _anticipating_ the event, compared to being there, can make the event itself seem like it went by even faster. I've had this sometimes. A Canadafur friend of mine came down for a visit recently. I looked forward to it for two months. The day flew by so fast that, before I knew it, he was already driving home. That hurt.
I went to AWU 2023, which was my first con, and I just can't fathom how much I loved it, I couldn't stay the entire time because it was miles away from home and I was pretty late to signing up, but I really can't explain how good it is to be surrounded by people like me. I literally keep looking back at the things I bought with sentiment value and pictures I've taken. I completely forgot PCD existed and I heard about it years ago but didn't think of it until now
I get those too when i go to anime conventions or anything fun
...Halp. All of the fun I had in life was mostly just videogames and internet and I have both of these every day, so I can't experience post fun depression. And I can't just go somewhere because our family is broke.
Is it a good thing or a bad thing?
This is a great video, I very much relate with you on the “loaner furry grope". Living in Wisconsin and working in a public place and not telling anyone is very hard. Somehow I’m just trying to stay quiet but I’m waiting for the day for everything to slip out. Thanks again for the very good and fun video!
I introduced furries to my friend a year ago and we're going to a Con soon.
I have never been to a convention
I died when you said "Faggioli", as I had never heard it before and you have awesome delivery, not to underplay how insulting that is. Loner Fur here at well. My first con was AC 2012 and man was leaving tough. Totally sympathize. This world needs more she-furs running around, even if that is only my personal preference.
I never really believed in PCD until I attended my first furry con and it hit me BIG TIME lol
I went to IndyFurCon yesterday and it's hitting me hard. I spent 8 hours there yesterday and I had the best time of my life. Being there was amazing. I saw the Fursuit Parade, Dance Competition, went to the furry meetup, it was a lot of fun. I'm in a position where I don't have any irl furry friends to talk to and it sucks. Thanks for making this video though hopefully it helps me, have a nice day.
ANE2018 was MY first furry convention! And it's true. On Sunday, I just felt emotionally drained, and PCD hit me hard!! I've been to other conventions like PAX East, and never had PCD. I went to Pine Fur Con 2018, and my PCD wasn't that bad because I filmed the majority of my experience so it's fun to look back at it and reminisce with others who have attended the con (they're on my channel if you wanna see ^^). I am a lone wolf/loner furry myself, but I do enjoy the company of others.
I went to Anthrocon 2022 and had a blast but after going to my hotel room the day Anthrocon ended I cried for the rest of the day. I was upset that the convention ended because back at home I have friends just not furry friends, and being a furry is my favorite hobby and its sad I had nobody to share that hobby with. I wish I just had one friend who had the same hobby as me, But luckily my PCD ended within just a couple of days now all I get is sad thoughts but its not as bad as before. I am not the type to express my emotions but its a story I want people to hear about considering before I went to my first con I thought PCD was a joke and I figured out it isn't. I thought I would be able to handle my emotions but I couldn't knowing the people I love being around is moving away from me.
As someone who flew across the country to go to anthro new England I really do relate to this hard. I remembered getting back home with a backpack with my con haul, that literally only I was interested in. My family was mildly weirded out by the fact I flew to the opposite coast just to see a bunch of furries, my friends didn’t get why I liked what I got, or why I was freaking out over signatures I got from artists, and all of the friends I made were an 8-10 hour flight away at least!
The post con depression is honestly still in my gut, and every so often I have to stop myself from blowing a whole load of money on another trip (couldn’t go to blfc for just this reason ;;)
(I know, late comment)
I think i might’ve gone through something similar, except it was with an online game, it was called monkey quest. I adored the game and played it very frequently, and it was a place where i could go relax if i was having a bad day. (With most of my classmates being absolutely awful company) and when it shut down, i was crushed.... i stopped caring about my life routine, my studies, and such. With my class becoming worse as well and the post-monkey-quest community not being a safe place anymore, so overall i don’t remember 2014 fondly at all, as it was when everything started going wrong. i didn’t really have anywhere to go... though the shut down of that game inspired me to draw my character to preserve him, and he pretty much became my second persona. I eventually got over it and pretty much everything was solved when i moved to high school. I still draw and while high school can be stressful, I’m in a much better mental state now.
I had a lot of PCD during NYCC 2018, at the time I was going through a lot of shit and that day was the first day in 2 months that brought me genuine joy and I was depressed after wards that my one day away from the bullshit was over and I had to go back to my bullshit situation
"When your thrown back into reality " honestly same
I had a PCD about 10 years ago. I have to say I am not a furry and it was an anime convention. But I was in the middle of a 9 months long professional training as a cashier, surrounded by people that either didn't care about anime or thought it was for kids. Joy ._.
Anyway, I went to my town's con (it must have been the 2nd or 3rd time I think?) and was able to hear and sing anime openings, geek about anything and just be friendly with people for 2 days. Monday comes, I realize the next con is in 6 months and that the coworkers with me in this training thing are... not nice I could say... and I legit started crying in the break room.
I was lucky, in about 3 days, everything got back into place, but I never forgot how I was feeling so good and at home in a con when my workplace wasn't so bad at all but... you know, when you can't share the things you like with others because you'll look immature if you do, it takes a lot from you. I am glad I have friends that are as much fans of animation in general as me
I sort of had this after a weekend musical festival, had a great time even with the immense pain of an ingrown nail and being on my feet for the whole weekend, then when i get home pretty much had a breakdown. I felt so out of place and disorientated even though i was only away from home for 5 days and I'd never experienced anything like that before.
I was at my first furry convention a month ago and I still have a PCD. And good to know that there is a name for ones like me without furry friends irl.
“Not feeling so good”
*thanos walks into the room*
I actually experienced my first case of this. Its extreemely draining on everything, especially when you need to be adulting. But hey, you can always plan for the next experience, the next chance you have to meet, greet, and have fun.
I think that I am actually lucky to have a furry friend irl
PysiaDaFluff :3 yes. Yes you are.
Good for you bud. I’m done goofed though.
Been watching for a short while and notice you talk about being an engineer often, which is awesome to know there are more furs in the trades
I feel your pain. In the land down under, it's really hard to find friends that are furries. I also haven't told my parents yet so I end up been hyper aware of my surroundings and not letting my family see this stuff. I know it's weird but I like the art and social stuff. I hope I can at least open up about it so I don't feel so paranoid about it when I'm near them. I hope I can open up soon.
Despite MFF being possibly my favorite convention so far and being the place where I met some of the greatest people I know, PCD didn't hit me hard until after FurSquared. It was that convention that the new friends I made at MFF asked me to attend with them. After coming home and experiencing how shitty things were between me, my brother, and my dad, all I wanted was to be around the people that made me feel worthwhile and wanted.
I think I had a near panic attack when I ate at Olive Garden with my dad and brother, because it reminded me of the amazing time I had at MFF and the dinner I shared with wonderful friends, but I was instead around the 2 people who generally make me feel quite shitty. After leaving the Olive Garden that feeling went away.
I'll be able to see a large majority of those friends again at AnthroCon, so I'm absolutely stoked for that.
HELP REALITY IS AT MY DOOR!
My friends are just mocking me for watching this in school
xX_dank_mlg_dragon_Xx Why the hell would you watch this at school? You couldn't have waited until you got home?
EDIT (8/1/18): After seeing RU57ED_DRAG0N's comment reply to me, I realized that I unintentionally came off as harsh.
ADP1998 nah everyone at my school knows I'm a furry so I mean
ADP1998 the heck is up with u dude let MLG dragon watch what he wants
Feral Snowflake I always bring up otherkin in defense so furrys don't look as bad
Feral Snowflake what if everyone else at your school is too stupid to get you're being witty. The smart people at mine either accepted it or were to scared of conflict to bother me.
I have 1 furry irl friend, and there is no way I am not taking him to my first con now that I watched this.
Still riding my high from getting back from MFF. I'm hoping I can avoid the pcd.
I just wanna say though that you are one of the handful of furries that got me to truly throw myself into the fandom.
Thank you
Best way to get over PCD is to go to another convention( if possible if not scroll down and read the last bit) this is easier if you’re from the Midwest around Chicago like me we have so many conventions within a reasonable distance and some of the best might I add like: MidWest FurFest, New Years Eve Con, Fur Squared, Motor City Fur Con, AnthOhio, Anthrocon(bit of a stretch but close enough for me), IndyFurCon, and Fur Reality in that order. These are all the cons I’ve personally been to at least once and intend to continue going to year after year I cannot recommend these conventions highly enough most of which are smaller conventions but are an amazing place to meet new people! Also for those who can’t afford to go to this many cons telegram is a good way to stay in touch with the friends you make especially The Dragget Show’s telegram chat it’s quite lively at all hours of the day and night, yes it’s not as good as irl friends but it helps a bit.
@BetaEtaDelota Don't worry I know the feels of being a Loner Furry. I don't have many furry friends online or otherwise, and the ones I do have I hardly ever talk to. Sure my brother is also a furry, but he's my brother. That's a totally different situation. I do have a lot of friends who know I'm a furry and are ok with it, but none of them consider themselves furries. Follow that up with social anxiety and you can see why I get so lonely so often. Although honestly, if I knew who you were, I would've come up to you so fast at Anthrocon. I literally just discovered you and already love your content.
Also I already recognize the gameplay in the background: Halo. I approve of this.
Every time you mention how you study engineering I always get really interested in learning more about that as I'm studying it to here in the UK.
Basically whenever summer ends XD
Midwest Furfest 2018 isn't even over at the time of writing this, and PDC is already hitting me really hard.
Bro honestly if we were ever to meet each other I would take you out to any furry or other convention you wanted because honestly, I know that feeling too man. I really want to see you happy dude and I’m sorry if after that convention you were feeling as sad as you did. Just know that you have people here to give you as much support as possible man. Love you homes.
PCD sucks for sure, especially right now during the quarantine, i'm still having PCD from pretty much the last convention ever for 2020, TFF x3
Me when I get back from a Holiday
I feel that depression after I finish furry visual novels
Last time I went 8 hours straigh reading to be depressed the next 2 days
I just realized how boring was my life in comparison
It's pretty much PED aka Post-Event Depression(as told by my therapist and psychologist) When you have a great time during a holiday, vacation, convention, spa day, party, whatever and you get sad/depressed that it's over.
It's where the saying comes from don't be sad it's over, be happy that it happened.
Hey just so you know a week or two ago I was talking to Mark barks and he thought you were cool .( On Amino)
That "Loner Furry" term, relates to me, on everything...
They're lots of loners out there, so at least you're not alone being a loner. Feel you man...
I am still doing my "research" about furries (love you so far), but i can assure you that this is not a furry exclusive thing. I'm deeply involved in the Star Wars fandom and we call it the Con Blues. Its exactly the same, maybe just not that hard ;)
I've never had post convention depression (most likely due to the fact that I've never been to one) but I have had something similar to that after a concert because I like heavy metal music and not a lot of other people (including nearly all of my friends) like that music so after the concert I just wanted to go back there and experience it again. So I understood how you felt.
This happens with just about any event. I go on a school trip. I go back, i have to go to school and do homework. I never get to go back on that trip. I hate that feeling. Btw i have never gone to a con tho
I have friends who accept me for being a furry but aren’t furries themselves
My first con was ANE 2018 too, but I planned horribly and only got to stay for an hour and was pretty sad I missed out on a bunch of cool stuff.
well that's odd... for my case... I had PCM... basically the exact opposite of that...
I was SO exhilarated after the Con last year... I felt so reinvigorated... so refreshed and realized... like I base a dream come true... so many memories and feelings all crammed in a single ball of excitement!!
after the weekend, I felt way better than anything in my live prior to that! I felt way more confident, a lot more happy on my everyday life, and I finally could speak up, make friends and come out
I even start seeing Furry stuff in everyday life that I didn't even noticed before and I even got a Furdar now
sure, it was bad to wait until the next year, but I felt so great about it, that I got a lot more motivated
before, I have 1 friend on facebook, and 3 on Steam
right now, I have over 40 Kik chats, 27 friends on Steam, 16 friends on Telegram a mate and 2 pets, a lot of crushes on me asking to wait for them, I'm the moderator of 3 Furry groups and 1 forum
that was something I really needed to do... and I'm glad I did and if I had to go back in time, I would do it twice!
the best advice when you are battling Post con depression. look through photos and videos you took from the con. if you are like me. a photographer with a good camera and somehow comes home with 2 overfilled 32 GB memeory cards. yes that happen during eurofurence. the best way that helped me was sharing the photos with fursuiters and fursuit makers, the response are always good
"Ravioli Ravioli I never heard of Faggioli. Give me some chips and Guacamole. To get cured from PCD that feels so unholy. I never felt so bad nor so lowly. Yet I am returning to reality surely, but slowly." -by Nunetoon+some furry
I can relate. Even though I have never been to a con I still feel depressed that I don't have people to talk to about being a furry. Thing is, I'm pretty sure my friend is a furry. I asked him many times if he was. He never confirmed it but he also never denied it.
I've been a furry for some time now but I'm one of the lonely furrys. Literally nobody knows I'm a furry but my online furry friends and they have no idea who my person is irl. I want to come out so badly and meet up with my friends and get fursuits and do all that but the public frown on furrys and my irl friends would despise me if they knew. I roleplay on kik but I want to go further. I'm always so paranoid that people will find out about me being a furry that I use incognito mode just to watch furry videos and anything related to being a furry. However, Beta, your videos seem to help me get closer to coming out and I feel like in a couple years I might be able to get there but theirs so much holding me back. I love you though Beta and keep up the good content!
I can relate to that feeling of loneliness, remembering the time when you had nice people interacting with you and the need of a hug/snuggle, but I have never gone to a Convention ;-;
I had gone to 3 cons in a row with some time in between I being a loner myself by the end of each con my experience with PCD only got worse, but all worked out in the end when I returned home to one friend who was more curious of my story and experiences then going out for lunch that day.
I'm becoming your fan man, I really like your videos and how your personality and voice give that sarcastic voice.
I’m a loner furry. I actually DID end up dropkicking someone into the furry fandom too. They definitely helped me out emotionally. I actually figured out later on that it helped them too... Anywho, they moved away far from Houston about a month later and now I’m left stranded. I hate being a loner fur... oof.
i dont know about y'all but i got an intense post soul eater depression after i finished the anime and manga, and then when I tried to talk to my friend about it (who watched and read along with me) they told me to shut up because it was annoying so then I had all this repressed knowledge and feelings for the fandom and I couldn't let it out, so it just stirred in me until it just turned sad.
so I just cant imagine what it would be like to finally find a group to share it with only to be torn away a day or three after
I had a thing like PCD once when I went to a gaming/tech camp. This was before I knew about the fandom. When I went there everyone was basically the same nerd who loved gaming. You could see a 17 year old relating to an 8 year old. After a week there I had the time of my life and then I had to leave. I’m gonna say Post Camp Depression. PCD sucked because I wanted to stay another week to hang out with people just like me.
Man the video is even better than when I was in your stream ,Beta nicely done
I too lack irl friends in this fandom and honestly very little online I have gone to furmeets but I never connect with anyone to the point that we really click. I still crave this but I have social anxieties and it makes it hard for me to stay motivated to stay in contact with someone. Means I have no one to really go with to a convention and no one to really talk about it to.
Can't have post con depression if you don't go to a con :D
*_or if you sneak in and never leave_*
Damn. Good to know what this is before I can even experience a fur con. Honestly im kinda proud I use VR almost everyday since I've developed phantom touch so I can't be such a lone fur. And Fur Cons in Virtual Reality are now happening so that's a plus.
Good video. :3I had pretty bad PCD after my first con, because I was in a situation I didn't like, plus I came home to my best friends breaking up and splitting our friend group! ACK! It's definitely better having a furry SO now, and I 100% recommend going to local meetups.
I live in a pretty small town and a bit ago back I would go to a anime con because it was closer and convenient and sometimes at this con I was lucky enough to have small interactions with furries it was very nice. I never have been to a furry con but thinking about how I dont know many furries and how cool a con would be I would most likely get PCD lmao.
Yup, feeling the PCD now. But I’m trying to look on the bright side and plan for my next con. I’m very lucky to have IRL furry friends to go to during the convention drought.
Never heard faggioli before
I am a faggioli, faggioli, now give me the formioli
Faggioli sounds like a pasta dish
Ravioli ravioli we are all faggiolies
It’s cigarettes mixed with Ravioli
I remember my second time going to an anime Convention. My first Con I didn't really have to deal with it because I was still in high school and most my friends went with me. But my second time, i had a graduated and went to work instead college so after the Con like my friends did, I was more like a "Loner Otaku" in PCD afterwards cause my social life kinda died after high school. Now im in a state where i really wanna go to a Con again and even a furry con for the first time but i dont really have friends near me who could help with PCD and most furry cons are nowhere near me
PCD is definitely something I’m not looking forward to when I’m able to go to my first convention.
Yup. PCD sucks. I only got to experience it from time to time. The last con I went to was a pony one. That one was right in the feels. But I had friends to cheer me up from PCD.
"Professionally sucks? Yeah that sounds about right." Best quote
I'm so late to this but damn.. this hits me so HARD. I went to FWA 2023 a day ago and I'm just so down. I don't have any furry friends in my life at all and even though I didn't talk much at the con (yay social anxiety).. I still had a lot of fun. I'm hoping I'll make some friends some day because I know my normie friends are sick to death of hearing me talk about the fandom. 😮💨
"Not Feeling So Good"
Spider man: Mr. Stark, I don't feel so good.
Iron man: Me too, that convention was awesome.
Spider man: *Dies*
So i have an anime con in city and i never had pcd, yeah i was pretty bummed out but it was nothing that made me feel "depressed". But the furry fandom is very small in italy so i'm a loner furry too, but i will be exactly like everyone else, i might be a little cold usually but there are those 1 or 2 topics that make me emotional as shit, and i know for a fact it will become one
Thought I was alone when I feel like this. Never been to a furcon but after having fun and everyone leaves, suddenly reality hits me and I become more depressed than usual 👌. It happens everytime.