Why You Can't Draw (It's not your fault - well, it is somewhat.)

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @abigailhumes4608
    @abigailhumes4608 2 года назад +230

    Yes. Yes, I can do this! I was down today. I WANT to draw and paint. I want to do it so badly! But I am a busy grandmother with responsibilities and waning energy. I love your tutorials, and have most of what I need to do nice drawings, too. So, I will try again, and soon sign up for your whole course. I know I can! I will be 73 soon, and I need this. Oh, thank you, Matt. You teach so much more than art! Thanks so much!

    • @thevirtualinstructor
      @thevirtualinstructor  2 года назад +19

      Wonderful! Go for it.

    • @Pyroific
      @Pyroific 2 года назад +7

      you can do it!

    • @tammaraliberty
      @tammaraliberty 2 года назад +10

      I'm with you Abigail! Just starting at 61.

    • @ElveeKaye
      @ElveeKaye 2 года назад +5

      Please post updates so we can see how you're doing! ❤️

    • @connied8507
      @connied8507 Год назад +5

      Go Abigail!🥰 I'm 67 and am learning watercolor and piano. I didn't have time to do this before but I'm retired now and it's the perfect time. Let's cheer each other on as we enjoy our golden years ❤️

  • @LaurenLanguages
    @LaurenLanguages 2 года назад +136

    I'm an adult learning how to draw and play a musical instrument- things I wanted to do as a child, but, as you said, somewhere along the way, stopped, probably due to feeling "untalented" in these two areas. Loved this. Thank you.

    • @jugg9140
      @jugg9140 8 месяцев назад

      My issue was always i can draw realistic sketches that can blow peoples mind but when i draw from imagination it looks like a 5 years old draw it, now i find out that these amazing artist that drew cool things in comics and others simply jot down reference in their memory and i never really try to remember anything in my mind, so since i don't have reference in my mind there is nothing to draw when i try to imagine. No one can't simply draw with nothing in their mind, even in drawing competition where they don't use reference, hahaha should have known. And some fo the peopel i knew who were good drawers don't even have idea of their own or are they actually smarter than me, not being proud. it was all a fraud to me hehe, if people with less brain power can draw amazing things imagine what a brain with good photgraphic memory can do, so i never really don't have talent i was just misinformed.

  • @Bubileaf
    @Bubileaf 2 года назад +329

    I was gifted as a child and picked up drawing and did so really well for my age at the time. What stunted me was the continual praise that I received. It put me in a mindset that I was good and didn’t need to improve and so I stopped. 🥴

    • @thevirtualinstructor
      @thevirtualinstructor  2 года назад +86

      Yep. That happens too. I've seen this with a few students over the years. We believe what others tell us so much that we often drown out what we tell ourselves.

    • @wretched560
      @wretched560 2 года назад +12

      Same thing happened to me with school, hobbies, and achievements... now i suck at everything lmao

    • @ForgeMasterXXL
      @ForgeMasterXXL 2 года назад +6

      Yeah, the same happened to me I came to hate praise for my artwork. And now I find it hard to start or finish a painting as I am sure it will not be perfect, and if it's not perfect I end up thinking I'm no good at art in any way.

    • @ElveeKaye
      @ElveeKaye 2 года назад +6

      @@ForgeMasterXXL I find that if I put my artwork aside for awhile, when I go back to it I think it's pretty good. I'm always like, "Why did I hate this? It's not that bad." We are our own worst critics!

    • @theunassumnglocalguy5441
      @theunassumnglocalguy5441 2 года назад +2

      Same here. I always just figured I would get progressively better just as I got older. While I did in a lot of ways, actually taking practicing and working on the fundamentals would have pushed me far past where I would get just by raw talent.

  • @judithkraus7583
    @judithkraus7583 2 года назад +41

    Thanks for this video, Matt. I'll add a few comments here from my personal experience. I was never an artist as a child. I was forced at an early age to to switch from my dominant left hand to my right hand. I was clumsy, awkward, and very messy. (I still am.) Any attempt I made at drawing was ridiculed. I truly never had a single positive art experience until I decided to learn to draw 7 years ago (at retirement age). I was lucky to find you and your website soon after I started learning. You made such a huge difference for me, Matt. I can't thank you enough. Now, after 7 years, I'm finally developing some sense of "competency" and a bit of confidence. I'm recognizing my uniqueness as an artist, too. I think I'm really ready now to start learning and growing! I've said it before, and I'll say it again, I couldn't have done it without your encouragement. Judith

  • @le2382
    @le2382 2 года назад +24

    This is such an important video, I want to blast it on loudspeakers to the whole world! I also wish someone had told me this when I was a kid, it would have spared me so much heartache thinking that I don’t have “talent” as an artist or that “talent” in writing for example and in drawing are mutually exclusive when in reality it’s all about loving what you do enough to put in hours of practice to get better at it. It was only in my 30s when I read Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain and did the exercises in the book that I had a pleasant surprise that I can actually draw! I’ve been drawing consistently for a couple of years now (I’m 41) and I’m so happy to see constant improvement. Your channel and website have been a gold mine for me in learning how to draw, paint, use different media.

  • @jackieconnell7183
    @jackieconnell7183 2 года назад +7

    fab, at 68 i want to learn to draw and play a musical instrument, today is the first day of the rest of my life and now i believe i will carry out my goal.i had 3 goals but i will drop singing.thank you matt exciting days ahead.

    • @zardoge
      @zardoge 7 месяцев назад

      Good luck

  • @ArtisticMysticSoul
    @ArtisticMysticSoul 2 года назад +22

    My drawing instructor in commercial art school was horrible. He told us to look at something, see it, and draw it. That was the extent of the lessons we got with this man. I really wanted to learn how to draw, but this class left me frustrated and I grew to hate drawing. Maybe it is time to start fresh.

    • @noelramirez1551
      @noelramirez1551 Месяц назад

      Our art class in high school was split between advanced art and regular art. I didn't even know there was an advanced art class, but the teacher was horrible. She only cared about her advanced kids like she wouldn't even let you sit on the advanced side, but she didn't know I could draw just as well and better than some of her advanced kids. It's just that I never took art that seriously, like she would get mad at me when I would throw away my art after she graded it, and she asked me if I wanted to be switched to advanced, and I was like,No, it's not that serious, and she was furious. 😂

  • @slvva
    @slvva 2 года назад +64

    'I was born with a pencil in my hand'☺️
    My teacher in secondary school said that I can't draw or paint and I was devastated because I loved creating so much. Although she never showed me how good drawing should looks like. No tips no tricks just negative feedback.
    I didn't stop drawing but lost my self confidence and happiness to share my work.
    Now I'm 45 and still drawing and painting. Always surprised how I'm stressed before I start new work and how proud I am after finishing it. Still struggling with this negative voice in my head. Still working to believe I can do it and deliver.
    I know I can draw many things and I'm good at it and maybe she was a good artist but very bad teacher.
    This bird from my profile picture is my painting and I'm proud of it ☺️
    Thank you for this video!!!
    I just regret that I never met anyone at my younger age to help me build self-confidence in art. My school choices were definitely different.
    Thank you ❣️

    • @ElveeKaye
      @ElveeKaye 2 года назад +5

      The hummingbird is really good, I thought it was a photograph! Some teachers are just horrible at their job. She probably sucked at art, herself, and tore down other people to make herself feel better. Whatever her problem, you're a good artist, no matter what she said!

    • @tamarabrown6739
      @tamarabrown6739 Год назад +3

      That's sad. She never should have told you that. Especially since it was only an opinion. Not the truth 😊

    • @chasinglife43
      @chasinglife43 Год назад +1

      Wow! You should be really proud, your bird is amazing! Keep doing what you love, you are clearly quite talented. ❤

    • @elise2892
      @elise2892 Год назад +1

      I’ve had the same kind of experience. My teacher always had nothing to say about my art while she would praise the art of others. I still need help getting over things like that in life.

    • @slvva
      @slvva Год назад

      @@elise2892 We are our own greatest enemy. Daily practice will make this voice very quiet. I am with you, I get it. I always felt like a part of me was taken away from me, I felt incomplete.

  • @mezomoza7
    @mezomoza7 2 года назад +77

    I used to draw portraits of my relatives with pencils, Looking back at them I still think they are good. I was discouraged by comparing myself to others' works on the internet. They were so good, to the point I stopped drawing at all because I believed I would never be able to draw as good as them

    • @dramamine6199
      @dramamine6199 2 года назад +7

      i relate to this

    • @studiouspanda7183
      @studiouspanda7183 2 года назад +1

      Me toooooo!

    • @joemomma7
      @joemomma7 2 года назад +5

      I thought the same but then a lot of them use digital. Yes digital is real art but it's not real art if you know what I mean. If someone on digital can put it on paper without using a printer then they're pretty good but you should knock yourself. They have probably top of the line art supplies that you don't have and I'm in the same boat as you but that don't stop me from trying. I'm not great but when I first started the people thought it was good and now they seen my progress.

    • @MrBlack-wt5er
      @MrBlack-wt5er Год назад +2

      I'm 35 and I started drawing seriously about 45 days ago and I'm surprised about how much I've improved! I've done an actual great job out of (coloring type comic books) I spent a lot of hours on the best drawings I've done so far but I think I actually developed that amount of patience because I didn't have it when I started! Hopefully I can speed up and get a little more accurate plus I have a really hard time trying to draw something from a (small reference) even if it isn't difficult so I need a decent size reference to work with so I might stick to this idea and hopefully be able to bang away at this night and day, speed up and learn a lot of tricks ect....

    • @RandomSticko
      @RandomSticko Год назад +1

      i sort of agree to this to some degree but imo it’s the work that each artist puta in that matters. Digital art is much faster to make but puts in the same amount of effort as traditional. After all you still have the draw the sketch and stuff, id say lineart and coloring are the only differences

  • @besthobbit
    @besthobbit Год назад +17

    The word "talent" implies that you can just magically do something, and leads to people thinking that if they're not "talented" they can't do the thing. I hate when people use "you're so talented" as praise. It belittles all the hard work and effort that was put into learning the skill. You hit the nail on the head.

    • @kool4209
      @kool4209 8 месяцев назад

      no talent implies different ceilings. You can spend all your life in the gym on a treadmill and will never run a 4 flat in the 40, yet someone else will. this is a fact of life lmao

  • @marinapetkovic4525
    @marinapetkovic4525 2 года назад +18

    You are such a wonderful person Matt. Thank you for being a support for everyone.

  • @MelissaISUExtension
    @MelissaISUExtension Год назад +17

    I just love how people say that "anyone can draw." Ha. The people who say this are people who CAN draw. They can translate from their brain to their eye and their hand and to the paper. That's not "talent" -- that's an eye-brain-hand ability. My brain doesn't work that way. Couldn't do it when I was 3 or 4 or 5. Grade school teachers TRIED to teach me and I WANTED to draw . . . but my brain doesn't work that way.

    • @ButtercupsEvilTwin8877
      @ButtercupsEvilTwin8877 20 дней назад

      I’ve been drawing since I was five and I’m 23 now. I always say anybody can draw because they can. Just like anything in life, it’s a learned skill that took years of practice. I’m not a professional artist, I draw because it helps regulate my emotions and grows my creativity, and I still can’t translate what I see in my head on to paper. When I get an idea I look at references photos and usually I have a hard time finding the exact pose, especially if I’m drawing a full body but, I make do or change the pose to match the reference that’s closest. I used to think the same way, don’t get hung up on the details and look up references photos, I find it usually helps.

  • @paulah317
    @paulah317 2 года назад +10

    My drawing improved significantly after reading the book Drawing on the right side of the Brain. I worked through the exercises.....actually still have part of the book to finish. Every one should get a copy. I love art and at age 66 I've been exploring painting, drawing, charcoal, pastels, etc. Loved art in grade school and did year of art classes in college, then took a detour to a different career for 40 years. I'm BACK to art.....so happy!

  • @dancingnana4900
    @dancingnana4900 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for a very supportive and positive message. The world needs more positive messages.

  • @Sabrina-tf3ci
    @Sabrina-tf3ci 2 года назад +70

    I think talent only means that you can learn a certain skill faster than others because you are more willing to put time into learning it

  • @TheoryUnraveled
    @TheoryUnraveled 2 года назад +8

    when I was younger I drew all the time, I wouldn't consider them good drawing but I wanted to be good, and constantly compared myself to my"talented" peers. It Discouraged me and eventually I stopped drawing.
    I will be 30 next month, and I just started drawing again last year. And I can actually draw very good, to the point people are calling me talented, and I inspire them to start drawing. I had all this potential inside of me, I kept stifled for years, and im still learning. I honestly do believe everyone can create art. It's only 5% talent the rest is hard work, determination, and mindset. 💕

  • @blacklight683
    @blacklight683 2 года назад +8

    I have no excuses for myself for not being able to draw but after 6years and still not being able to draw a stick man am starting to lose hope

  • @lilybay1
    @lilybay1 2 года назад +17

    I’m finding that I don’t “see” as an artist. I’ll try the drawing exercises you suggested. I’ve already begun to draw using shapes instead of trying to draw that red umbrella blowing the the wind or the exotic sports car. See the shapes!

  • @christinebarone2151
    @christinebarone2151 2 года назад +4

    I just signed up for the yearly membership..I just began today, wow, it is the most detailed, easy to follow, instructions I’ve ever received in any subject. Thank you. You rock !

    • @thevirtualinstructor
      @thevirtualinstructor  2 года назад

      Thanks Christine! So awesome to hear and welcome aboard!

    • @audrey3042
      @audrey3042 Год назад

      Hello Christine! I am new to this channel and drawing all together really. Can you give a brief update on how the course went or is going?

    • @christinebarone2151
      @christinebarone2151 Год назад +1

      @@audrey3042 i took it for one year..self paced in whatever medium you want to study. I never knew I could draw!! I tried all they had to offer . I think they are great teachers. I did not renew because I am in other programs at this time..

  • @twantlavish
    @twantlavish Год назад +2

    Helped me more than any other video out there today. Thank you.

  • @Cariena66
    @Cariena66 2 года назад +1

    Dear Matt, thank you so much for all the encouragement you are spreading. After two years of membership, I can tell the improvements I neuer would have been able to achieve without your great talent as a teacher as well. Never give up! Buddy

  • @nicoyou11
    @nicoyou11 2 года назад +6

    Life changing message! Applies to every part of our life. Thank you creating such professional and well structured video

  • @catherinegoodsett-wein3313
    @catherinegoodsett-wein3313 2 года назад +2

    ❤️ your channel! As a former educator I would like to add that teaching is also an important skill that has to be practiced for many years! And you guys are excellent teachers!

  • @michaeldunkin7553
    @michaeldunkin7553 Год назад

    After watching this video, it described me right to the letter. This is exactly what I needed. I "started" drawing about a year ago, got frustrated and just gave it up. But this video really gave me the encouragement to start it back up. Thank you

  • @junenezamis533
    @junenezamis533 2 года назад +5

    I am starting to believe I can draw thanks to you! Love your courses. Working my way thru pastels currently. Not sure what I shall tackle next.

  • @NightStarGamer
    @NightStarGamer 2 года назад +2

    Great video, I totally agree.
    I even drew my first comic a few months ago on instagram about this topic since I've been pondering this topic for a while since I to was an artist as a child and fell out of it.
    When we are children we have less pressure to be perfect but as you grow I've learned that people's expectations become higher, even asking a question in class can result in being laughed at which makes seeking knowledge embarrassing, at least for me.
    I also during high school felt like I had to hide that I drew because I got mocked a lot by my father's friends and schoolmates and growing up I had awful advice from students and teachers that affected my ability to improve. I was actually given the advice to "not use basic shapes".
    A hurdle I realized when I got back into drawing a few years back is comparing your artwork with someone else's.
    Since our skills improve slower than our appreciation it's easy to see someone else's work and think "I can never be that good" and give up.
    But great job, keep up the excellent work.

  • @empressnikaila
    @empressnikaila 3 месяца назад +2

    I believe that talent exists, but that it's simply being born with being able to do the thing more easily from the first attempt.
    For example:
    Anyone can sing if they put in the time to learn it, but some people can sing well from their first attempt while others have to practice for years to develop the skill needed to be good.
    Someone who is naturally talented doesn't have to try that hard.
    Everyone else, has to work at it.
    I know because I was born talented in regards to singing.
    I've never had to work at it very hard.
    I have plenty of room to improve, but I was naturally ahead when I sang my first note in comparison to where most people start out.
    I believe that everyone has a talent for something, but not having talent doesn't mean that you can't learn a skill
    It simply means that you weren't born with an innate gift where you don't have to work as hard to at least be good enough.

  • @franckalcidi599
    @franckalcidi599 2 года назад +5

    Absolutely brilliantly explained. I keep telling everyone I meet who have seen my drawings that they too can draw. It just takes practice and patience. The way you explained it in this video is spot on! Thank you for a very informative and well put together video on the subject.

  • @HarmonixJourney
    @HarmonixJourney Год назад +3

    Some people can throw balls further than others, some people can see further than others, some people are more intelligent than others, some people can pick out every instrument's part in a symphony, and yes, some people without any training has a much easier time to send what they see from their brain to their hand, and draw it.
    Anyone can learn anything with enough hard work and perseverance, sure - and it's a nice message you're trying to convey here, but without any innate talent you'll always be one or two steps behind the one who has talent, and are working just as hard as you do (and probably works even harder, 'cause when something comes naturally to you it's, of course, also much more enjoyable).
    That's life, it's not always fair, but that's how it is.
    Saying that there is no such thing as talent is just objectively wrong

  • @patsymcdanielsirman4023
    @patsymcdanielsirman4023 2 года назад +1

    A very valuable video, Matt. We draw with our heads more than with our hands. I think true "talent" is about resilience and perseverance in pushing through discouragement. Techniques can be taught and practiced, but it is hard work and desire to improve that keeps us going no matter our craft. Thank you for posting this video. It was exactly what I needed right now.

  • @Catgaming-vp3qg
    @Catgaming-vp3qg 6 месяцев назад +2

    This man is an artist a therapist and a scientist all in one

  • @BunxBunstudios14
    @BunxBunstudios14 10 месяцев назад

    i got emotional watching this. After my head injury I have been having lots of difficulties with my art as i did before. This video sparked something in me that I thought was dead. Thank you for the motivation :)

  • @sunnycharacter
    @sunnycharacter 2 года назад +12

    Here is another angle I’ve observed in my 67 years on this amazing globe God gave us. Parents and teachers have a responsibility to not only offer encouragement, praise, honest yet gentle critique, but to instruct us as human beings to accept criticism, use it as a tool for improvement. And not as a final judgement of what talents we are capable of working toward. If a child isn’t taught how to suffer then overcome the slings and arrows of either well-meaning critics or mean ones, how will they mentally be able to mush on and keep practicing in spite of them? In my opinion, it is a huge mistake for parents and teachers to say to a kid or student (of any age) “Apparently they’re right, you have no talent so just find something else.” Or “See? I told you you couldn’t do it. You’ll never amount to anything. I guess you just don’t have the chops.”

  • @fayerocks
    @fayerocks 2 года назад

    Still, such an inspiring video. There is no talent, there is only interest or not. Was told about the talent stuff for far to long - and I payed with years of not learning what I want to learn. Wasted time, that will never happen again!

  • @BrazenSpirituality
    @BrazenSpirituality 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for these videos. I think some may be obvious but perhaps not for newcomers. I am so appreciative for the more intermediate tips though, which will be applied to me pushing my art forward. 🧑🏻‍🎨🎨🥰

  • @ybe7011
    @ybe7011 2 года назад +16

    I'm an artist but I can attest that fear and concentration issues have held me back from being as great at it as I would like to be. It's very frustrating.

    • @wanderlustaesthete4117
      @wanderlustaesthete4117 2 года назад +1

      I’m in the same boat. It is very frustrating when you know what you need to do to get better but you can’t focus.

    • @ybe7011
      @ybe7011 2 года назад +1

      @@wanderlustaesthete4117 yes I definitely understand!

  • @brianmcdonald2832
    @brianmcdonald2832 5 месяцев назад

    I used to draw all the time when I was a kid. I told my father I wanted to be a cartoonist or a comic book artist. He told me I needed to think about getting a real job. I put my pencil down and picked up a wrench and life sucked ever since

  • @SaifAwwad0
    @SaifAwwad0 29 дней назад

    This video didn't just help me drawing but life in general thank you❤

  • @rebekah1362
    @rebekah1362 2 года назад +1

    I think all people are predisposed to some skills, what we call "talent" really just means we catch on a little bit faster/easier but what it doesn't mean is we don't have to work just as hard. Let's face it most people with the ability to speak *can* sing, but not everyone sounds *good* singing. LOL But, a voice trainer can help someone who isn't predisposed to sing well to sound better - maybe not on a Whitney Houston level but they can carry a tune and make people smile and enjoy the experience. I've always been very observative by nature, this helps me to "see" better and thus draw better - not perfectly, not without practice, or understanding the foundations. Does this mean I'm talented? That's semantics. ANYONE (who has sight) can learn to build observational skills and thus improve their drawing skills. I agree, most can learn to draw well if they're willing to put in the time and effort to learn AND change their mindset to can instead of can't.

  • @chrystinelacaille9884
    @chrystinelacaille9884 Год назад

    What an exceptional video 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @s1ckname
    @s1ckname 6 месяцев назад

    When I was a kid, I really want to be an Artist as my profession. But when I grow old, now I'm thinking how I'm gonna earn money as an Artist. This thinking really holds me back.

  • @aldrinsimeon8288
    @aldrinsimeon8288 Год назад

    Thank you for this wonderful video, you didn't just teach us lessons in art, but also we can apply it in our daily lives. Thank you again!

  • @Petticca
    @Petticca Год назад

    I agree with this sentiment up to a point. I do think that people can, all things being equal learn to draw or play musical instruments...
    That said, an individual's creative abilities in certain areas will alter how easily they can understand and then incorporate more abstract elements.
    An inability to generate even simple mental images of things I have seen thousands of times, like an apple for example, never mind attempting to understand it in different ways to determine how light would alter it, makes it really really difficult for me to draw something that I'm not using a clear reference picture of. I can achieve a good level of realism doing this.
    Try as I might I can not properly use the technical skill and knowledge of texture, tone or contrast I have if I try to draw anything, and I mean anything, that I'm not looking at the complete picture of. I am unable to understand and evaluate how those elements should be in relation to one another in a completed drawing of something that I know well, but can only see partially, from the work in progress itself. It's a bummer.
    In contrast music is something I can easily abstractly manipulate. I am able to 'hear' all the elements I want to and I know how they will interact and contrast and what I need to do to create the music I want to.
    I truly do believe that for some people the way that they process information means they might not be able to move beyond a certain level of skill.

  • @Bat_fan-1
    @Bat_fan-1 Год назад +1

    I've been drawing for 7 years and I normally draw Batman but recently I took a weeks break off drawing and so I can't draw Batman's head so I might stop and just draw him unmasked from now on

  • @stevencheung9361
    @stevencheung9361 9 месяцев назад

    This video has far more depth than drawing. Highly inspiring 💗

  • @senbonzakura5620
    @senbonzakura5620 Год назад

    Thank you for popping out in my recommendation. You reignited the fun and love I always had for drawing. But I gave up because I got demotivated and gradually stopped whenever I thought "I can never be the best at it so why bother?"

  • @silver-phoenix
    @silver-phoenix 2 года назад

    Great info & inspiration
    I enjoyed & loved art class in school.
    Haven't messed with it much until recently.
    Saying to myself "why did I let go of something I truly loved and enjoyed?"
    I'm super excited to learn and put into practice daily now of drawing, painting, sketching, etc...
    Thank you 😊

  • @jasonballinger3549
    @jasonballinger3549 Год назад

    Your are so encouraging and speaking the truth …. Education and practice are the key !

  • @nioushasaleki1887
    @nioushasaleki1887 10 месяцев назад +3

    yes actually im afraid of not drawing perfect .. that is why i stop ...

    • @logankue9627
      @logankue9627 10 месяцев назад +1

      I stopped in middle school. Started it back up in my junior and senior year of high school and stopped after graduation. Started back up in community college for an art class then stopped again afterward. It's been almost 20 years and I haven't seriously drawn since. I'm thinking about starting back up again, but I lack the patience. I want to get really good right away, or I'll probably quit again :(

  • @00smash69
    @00smash69 Год назад +4

    Im stuck to this cycle man here i am again watching your video

  • @11cyndee
    @11cyndee 2 года назад +1

    Glad I renewed my membership and enjoyed the video. Having fun with the color pencil course. Next will be watercolor. 😃

  • @ClassicalKaren
    @ClassicalKaren 2 года назад +1

    This is relieving! It reminds me that my "friend" was quite awful in that I would compliment her for her specialization in realistic renderings for interior design and in tern she would tell me that I suck at drawing so eventually I started having panic attacks in trying to do art homework with her in the room. I have only been drawing since I was 18 while she has been drawing since she was 5. She just has more practice because her parents had the money to invest in her interests and not that I have no talent like she said. Also I know I could have practiced with RUclips before age 18 but I was on track to becoming an opera singer my whole life. Sue me! So I changed my mind on what I wanted to do as a career when I became age 21. Better late then never!

  • @SotraEngine4
    @SotraEngine4 2 года назад +1

    I can't draw people (or I can, but they get wacky propotions and creepy faces), but I feel very confident in drawing flowers

  • @BakiX
    @BakiX Год назад

    This was what I needed to hear. Sincerely, thank you.

  • @Silvervinge72
    @Silvervinge72 2 года назад +5

    This actually brings tears to my eyes. I've been so much in love with nearly every creative area of life, but my co-dependency have "stolen" my energy and life force. Its only as a *very* old man (hehe) I've started to let go and gently trying my feet in painting, photography, writing and so much more. Nearly every try has been a "failure" as I've felt stressed out, wanted to get ahead, felt as if I've missed too much and in the end finishing my "try". You have really inspired me in many of your videos, and with this one in particular. Thank you. I need to calm down and take it step by step and I need to realize that it takes time..and that its worth it. :-)

  • @TheGlennAbides
    @TheGlennAbides 2 года назад

    Wow, That really struck a nerve. I feel inspired. THANKS!

  • @Godisgood137
    @Godisgood137 2 года назад

    This really made me reflect this makes so much sense

  • @maureenpillay9498
    @maureenpillay9498 2 года назад

    So,so, inspirational," yes I can, yes I can and I will". Thanks for sharing

  • @jendavis9185
    @jendavis9185 2 года назад +3

    I was the opposite. My senior year my art teacher wanted to submit a drawing I did of a shoe into the eastern nc district art contest. I did not understand what was so great about it. I told her no. My art teacher did it anyway and it won 3rd place. I was surprised but still did not understand why it won. I didn’t think I was an artist… my dad always gave me praises for my art… but then I still didn’t think I was that good… I didn’t do any art after high school until I was in my 30s… my ex-husband and I had a tattoo shop and we both did tattoos, but we closed it… I continued to do art and my daddy was my biggest fan. He was always my biggest fan… he loved my art. He got killed in a motorcycle accident Aug 14, 2020 (a 18 wheeler tire blew while passing my Dad on Hwy 10). I am REALLY struggling picking up a pencil to draw or a paintbrush to paint since I lost my dad… I know he would never want me to stop painting… but I have no motivation to do it anymore. So I watch your art videos, and other tutorials to help to motivate me…. I have put my art supplies and unfinished art work in the living room so I have to look at it everyday to help motivate me… I feel the twinkle of desire to paint… so hopefully I will make time to do so soon.. hopefully sooner than later.

    • @arioctober
      @arioctober 2 года назад +1

      Grief will do that to you. You may want to pick up a different creative hobby in the meantime, something to keep your hands busy. There is nothing more dangerous than idle hands while grieving. I had to switch to just coloring in coloring books after I lost my first child, I couldn't draw anything, but coloring gave me an outlet I desperately needed. Now I make free coloring pages because I was inspired by that time of horrible pain. It's okay if you can't paint right now. Maybe you can write, maybe you can knit, etc. Go on walks too, it really does help. That pain will ALWAYS be there. We move forward with grief, not past it. It's because you loved him so much that it hurts so bad that he's gone, so in some messed up way it's beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story here, because of that I was able to reflect on the last few years while writing this reply.

  • @loriegoldstein4972
    @loriegoldstein4972 Год назад

    I love that you made this video! Thank you

  • @dymaz_azure
    @dymaz_azure 6 месяцев назад +1

    3:13 in my case:
    its because
    is it even worth it to actually learn how to draw? i sometimes ask myself that question and while writing this i feel a crushing feeling on my chest because im not sure if im bein 100% honest with myself when i say that is not worth it
    Because... i don't care about people judging me,
    i care if its an abilty that actually will work or be useful, or if the tame i "waste" i can spend it on something else

  • @jekentmenietje
    @jekentmenietje 2 года назад +1

    When I was young, they told me that anyone could learn any skill with enough practice, but talent influences how quickly you learn it. I think that's a healthy and realistic way to look at it! It helps you believe you can do anything while still being realistic.
    I was considered talented at drawing as a kid, but as a teen I lost interest in it. Now at 25, I'm trying to pick it up again. I'm still good for a 14 year old but compared to professional artists, I'm a noob.
    Meanwhile I do NOT have a talent for learning languages. I learned English better than most of my peers though, because I loved to read and spent hours upon hours passively practicing.

  • @kraizer2484
    @kraizer2484 2 года назад

    Being judged by others turns into being critical to oneself has become repetitive whenever I pick up a pen and try to learn and leave it after an hour

  • @bluecrossfire2375
    @bluecrossfire2375 Год назад +1

    I need to see as an artist, glad we can practice that.

  • @Tiger4ever89
    @Tiger4ever89 Год назад

    i believe that ''talent'' is a curtain pulled over (Obsession)
    anyone who is obsessed about something, becomes ''Talented'' about
    that particular thing.. one thing is to have a hobby about something
    like casual drawing.. and something else is to be so obsessed that
    everyday after school or work.. you draw until you go to sleep..
    i read somewhere else about the 10.000 hours rule..
    but 10.000 hours into anything, and you will become the master of it

  • @claritzairosario68
    @claritzairosario68 2 года назад

    Oh wow! This is soooo true! I see many tutorial videos...and I thought that drawing for me was the easiest. I was wrong! I started drawing when I was a little girl... but due to the circumstances of life, I gave it up. I was doing it like a hubby, and looking at the tutorials, I realized I was doing it wrong! and what I was drawing was more caricature than realism. And I wanted to draw realism, because I like it! I painted and occasionally drew... and now at 46 years old, I'm taking up drawing again. And I've been frustrated many times, but I'm not going to stop!

  • @emusedesigns
    @emusedesigns 2 года назад +1

    What wonderful advice. Thank you for sharing this video!!

  • @matejsmoljo5162
    @matejsmoljo5162 Год назад +1

    I honestly don't really get why I can't draw well. I have been studying for like almost 4 years since I was 18 and I have made absolutely no progress at all. Why do I have no talent and can not improve, its so unfair. I don't understand what skills am I supposed to work on?
    My family now harasses me because I have don't have a meaningful job yet. Fuck this life.

  • @prisca5
    @prisca5 4 месяца назад

    Thank God your video came up, I ll start!

  • @xxxtentacionfanxxx1446
    @xxxtentacionfanxxx1446 2 года назад

    To me it happened as an adult. I joined art groups on facebook & saw how my work were ignored while others received so much praise comments & likes.

  • @sumitbachhar3410
    @sumitbachhar3410 Год назад +1

    Oh tank you very much sir i really really motivated to start drawing again i think i cant do it as good as my classmate ( my teacher not so good at all he always makes drawing and we have to copy that he didn't tell how to learn it)
    But I have a question
    1.I stopped drawing 1.5 year ago can i Start it again from now?
    2.i want to be a very good artist and drawing is my favourite thing to do?
    3.i searched in goggle and it said that “ drawing is challenging but it not mean that with hard work and love everyone can be expert" is it true?
    Please reply

  • @makeitmakesense5577
    @makeitmakesense5577 2 года назад

    EXCELLENT video! Just EXCELLENT! ...And Important info for everyone interested in becoming an artist...keyword here is "becoming"...it truly is a process.

  • @toonybrain
    @toonybrain 2 года назад

    As we grow older we begin to compare ourselves to others. If we’re in the presence of “innate greatness,” we believe our capability is self-delusion. I think we get too easily defeated.

  • @manondube2696
    @manondube2696 3 месяца назад

    I used to be afraid to draw after a bad critic at school. 2 years ago, I met an art teacher who took the time to really teach me and stop being afraid. Been drawing and improving since then.

  • @tammymintz4275
    @tammymintz4275 2 года назад

    Thank you ...love the quotes you added to your clip.....very true...thank you !!

  • @ArtSmag-xw7pd
    @ArtSmag-xw7pd Год назад

    Thanks for this video, I hope that if I try more often, I will succeed)

  • @shawnpeavy4335
    @shawnpeavy4335 2 года назад

    Wonderful and inspiring . Big virtual hugs and thanks 😊

  • @anitaelghandor7295
    @anitaelghandor7295 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for your time,I try to draw every day,I have really improved,thank you😁

  • @Skyeleafe
    @Skyeleafe 6 месяцев назад

    At the time, you may call me a delusional kid. But I constantly believed that I am a(n) art god. No matter how bad it looked, I stuck to the belief that one day, I will get good.
    As to what keeps me going, I now believe this: "I'm not where I used to be. But I can't sit and be satisfied with my current level."

  • @vishalsingh-jv3ic
    @vishalsingh-jv3ic Год назад

    This was inspirational, gonna apply this to digital art

  • @astrogoodvibes6164
    @astrogoodvibes6164 2 года назад

    I found throughout my life that most of my drawing and painting skills came from a dogged stubbornness that has always been a part of my personality. Criticism from others quickly became a positive challenge. So for me, the jibe 'you can't do that' motivated me to say I will find 10 ways to show you I can. It would be easy to succumb to the criticism by others around me as a show off and that jibe may be true. I now know that my art is a comfortable mix of show off and a conscious self improving showmanship and professionalism, so it is easy to find a balance between those who liked my work and those who didn't but that is a natural part of life.
    Also, a well defined sense of day dreaming has always been a crucial component and I never considered it wasted time as some would have it. To relax my mind into endless possibilities has been the at the core of every element of my art practice.

  • @clairemcmorss2406
    @clairemcmorss2406 2 года назад

    Thanx for this encouraging episode! I’m gonna spend more time drawing with my colour pencils 😊

  • @kevinanthony3888
    @kevinanthony3888 6 дней назад

    I'm one that believes I can't draw, I love Angel trumpet plants, Brugmansias as the flowers are spectacular. but one day, sitting by a TV, not really following what was playing, I picked up a pencil and pad and drew a beautiful one, I was amazed but that was the first and last time I drew something that to me, was amazing. So, our ability must be affected by something in life that flips the switch into the off position.

  • @manochithra9682
    @manochithra9682 2 года назад

    Thank you...ur positive words..sir...definitely..I believe myself...I achieve my goal....

  • @sofiainfante1830
    @sofiainfante1830 2 года назад

    Beautiful video!

  • @joycesavage2629
    @joycesavage2629 2 года назад

    I growing up years was to be outside. It was just easier to be out then near my family. According to them I was ' good for nothing '. I played sports and started painting after I was married. I do these things but have always thought that I do these things but I'm not good at anything. Thank you for the encouragement.

  • @CivicRec
    @CivicRec 9 месяцев назад +1

    Even though it sounds completely weird, I hated drawing as a little kid because I though that all I did was trash and I was also told that by teachers and classmates. Now I am a teen and my whole class laughs at my drawing skills 😢.

  • @Nightmare704RY
    @Nightmare704RY Год назад +1

    funny enough... in a sad way... I went from "I don't have the talent" excuse to "I know it takes hard work but I'm to lazy for it" excuse.

  • @miavos3610
    @miavos3610 2 года назад +2

    I'm a pianist. I know what it takes to become a concert pianist. But I firmly believe there is an artist in me dying to break out. Only, I can only draw stick people. I miss the step by step training that is the essence of piano playing. Nobody ever starts at Middle C in arts.

  • @ChimpPunck
    @ChimpPunck 6 месяцев назад

    I have been draw throughout my life yet I keep getting stuck on retaining character art. I for the life of me have to keep restarting from scratch basics every time I stop draw for a few weeks to month I just need to start carrying a small sketch book with me and draw head hand and feet until I beat it into my head.

  • @thomastoland5993
    @thomastoland5993 Год назад

    I think of "talent" differently than this video portrays it. I think of "talent" as the ability to learn a skill quickly, so I may be something that you're born with. But with practice your skill at anything will improve.

  • @НикитаВолков-з1н

    Thanks for motivation. I think i have to start learning. Honestly, i think i have no other option. Just to keep the ruins of my mind from further crumbling. Not much have left from the person i used to be, and it have started to get way worse all of a sudden. Maybe it will help me to keep sanity and life for a little longer. Again - thank you!

  • @OkieSketcher1949
    @OkieSketcher1949 2 года назад

    Great, honest, and straightforward advice.

  • @jdavis8646
    @jdavis8646 2 года назад

    Love this!!! Sorely needed to hear this today!!🤗

  • @angelcarl8404
    @angelcarl8404 Год назад +1

    To me, seeing like an artist is easy but the hardest part was trying to draw what i see...

  • @sbarullasbonderi9577
    @sbarullasbonderi9577 2 года назад

    I ve seen a lot of video with same quote " you can draw!!! "... But i tried so hard, and no matter what i fail everytime with the same subject : 3D shapes... Gesture, hands, legs even a single box! No matter what, I always put the pencil down for that reason. I don t understand the tridimentional shape and how to draw on a paper that is 2D!!!
    So...

  • @ThePinkfluf
    @ThePinkfluf 2 месяца назад

    Thankyou for this encouragement

  • @rickricci7592
    @rickricci7592 2 года назад +2

    Great video and for the most part I agree with you. But I do believe there are people that all this comes easier to them, call it a gift from God or something. Take me as an example. I have found drawing from a young age easy in seeing shapes and values. I never went to art school but decided to try pastel pencils and sticks. I found this so easy to do in identifying the shapes, values and exact colors in blending. Yes, as I ventured into PanPastels, I have to understand how they works, but that was a few minuets. What I had to experiment on was pastel paper but fast (Pastelmat). So, I do learn by trial and error on specific sections within a pastel painting, But I can just see in my mind what I need to do. A while back, I taught a lady how to used pastels as I use them, not as a school would train them. Her advancement was a WOW to me because she said she could not draw good. Am I a good trainer, was she a good learner? I do not know, I taught her how I see images and color. So, I think everyone can be taught but, it is easier for some people then other people. My two cents...........

  • @deeman524
    @deeman524 2 года назад

    Perfect lesson, thanks

  • @ekaeteekop5616
    @ekaeteekop5616 Год назад +1

    This is not about drawing...it's about LIFE.
    Thank you!!