For anyone who saw I deleted this then re-uploaded - the video got copyright claimed for 5 seconds of a song that was part of another video I used. Which made me mad. So I deleted it, changed it and here we are.
Thank you. I was in a marriage in which I was physically abused for many years. I never hit her back. I called the police once and they told me, "You're a man. Get over it". She also cheated on me constantly and I even had a recording of her and her boyfriend plotting to kill me. When I left her, my friends didn't congratulate me like when a woman gets out of an abusive relationship, they told me to be a man and take it for the kids. At divorce court, her female attorney insisted that I owed her alimony because she was a woman and she deserved it. People do not realize how many men out there are abused and do not retaliate or report it.
I maybe a nameless person but hey, congratulations for getting out of a such abusive relationship. Certainly seem to take you a while to get to the decision because of your love for your children but you did it.
We have joint custody. She is nice to me now. I actually get along with the boyfriend to whom she is now married. I get along with her for the sake of our kids. She did finally apologize to me last year. I just found out two weeks ago that she has breast cancer and it did make me sad. No matter what she put me through, she is the mother of my children.
“Put in an amendment that makes a curfew for men after 6pm, and this will keep women safer and bring discrimination down” this is the definition of discrimination
There’s also the fact that curfews only work on law abiding citizens. Everyone but the predators will be inside. And the good people aren’t allowed outside to help. Nor are any male officers. Or fire fighters. Or medics. Just the women, and the predators. Have fun lady 😃
I am a woman. My dad is my rock he's been there for me whenever I needed it regardless of whether I wanted it. My mother is an abusive nut job guess who got custody.
@Kel'Thuzad not really I was very small but as I got older I made more active decisions so spend time with dad. It came down to ability to provide and stability ya know buzzwords
Government dolts: "Here's a curfew for all men!" All good men who otherwise would've protected you: *need to stay home* All the criminals and rapists who don't give a crap about your curfew: "It's open season, boys!" Government dolts: *shocked Pikachu face*
“Discrimination of all kind would be lessened” She says as she attempts to pass a bill that literally discriminates against men Edit: and for those of you saying it’s a joke or she didn’t mean it, jokes aren’t supposed to be told in Congress. Congress is where shit is supposed to get done, not where people play these petty games. Jokes are ALSO supposed to be funny, and when you’re telling them in such a serious and monotone manner, jokes are very unlikely to be funny
She said it to prove a point, she doesn't even have the political power to pass something like that. It was to point put the ridiculousness of women being told to "just not go out after 6pm" if they don't want to be at risk of abuse, giving a male equivalent.
Best part is if I point that out, I am suddenly not allowed to contribute to the discussion because I am a man. If they can make boys standup to apologise collectively for the violence their gender imposed upon women, I demand a collective apology by women towards me for making fun of me, sexually harassing me and shaming me in front of my whole class back in college. And it was not one, it was a group of girls imposing violence upon a male classmate. Thus the potential for violence and abuse is there. I guess it is easier to see that potential in others than to realise that WE ALL have the potential to inflict pain in countless ways.
yha i'm surprised females specially young ones tries to tell you how much stress they have or force them self to have stress issues cause they have a boring life but i know it is mainly the young ones as the old ones don't really complain that much about their health issue.
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that is the fucking freedom man given to a woman to even say something like "curfew for men" , these people wont understand how lucky they are to be born in a western country
My head is about to explode, One man does something to a woman and it’s okay to hate his entire gender. Two young women kill a Uber eats driver. Their biggest concern is the phone they left in his car. Mankind is doomed🤯
I'm a 50 year old male. I have worked in the care sector for 20 years. Most of that time I have been sexually harassed, have been inappropriately touched on countless occasions, actually had a work colleague shove her hand down the front of my jeans. EVERYTIME I've brought these issues to my mainly female bosses I've been laughed out of the office. Pathetic double standards.
I have said this many times, I know, but it may be worth repeating. If you are watching a movie where two men are having their way with a naked woman, you can be sure before the final credits roll that Bruce Willis or Leam Meehan or some other Alpha Male will burst through the door and shoot them in the face, after shooting them in the groin to make their deaths more painful. But if you are seeing two women having their way with a naked man, you are watching either a romantic comedy or a lighter moment in an otherwise serious movie.
I agree. I watch how women act and point it out that women sexual harass men all the time and nothing is done about it. I try to turn it around on them and say if that guy did that to a woman it would be an outrage. It's laugh at like it's an impossible. Any sexual advancement that is unwanted is harassment regardless of the gender that commits it.
I also have had my ass pinched, balls grabbed by a woman. I even had one woman bite me on the ass while I was standing at the bar, I did not know this woman it was quite painful and she left teeth marks on my ass which I had to conceal when I got home so my wife didn't think I was having sex on the road. I had a female boss that would talk nothing but sex during work with.. I am glad I am pushing 80 and I no longer deal with them.
@@barryaaa5909 they can cry all they want when they expire after their 40ties and no one wants them anymore, its going to be fun, for them. The fact that someone who thinks like Sydney exists make me have hope I can one day have a "tradional" family, just like my parents. Fuck the left/red/commies.
Fits the Agenda 30 scenario, doesn't it. How gullible & easily manipulated are humans. Same for the encouragement of infertile couplings (s.s relationships), readily available & state sponsored abortion and, more recently, the sterilisation of young people via hormones & surgery. WWII's German Dr Mengele would be impressed with the speed & depth of this social experiment. Add in some critical race theory to foment conflict between race groups & sit back in your elitist island bunker & watch the fireworks. Chilling, isn't it.
I'm only 22 years old, and I would already absolutely describe myself as a misanthrope, I grew up in a single mother household with a long list of my emotionally damaged moms abusive "boyfriends" coming and going, I've been in low income housing, my first four years of my life where me and my teenage mother jumping from couch to homeless shelter, I saw the worst of what modern society had to offer be it drug addiction or sex crimes or even just people in a higher tax bracket treating you like your lesser. by 14 years old I got kicked out of my home by my BPD mother and jumped from group home to group home, now Imagine, having experienced all of that, and already having a bad opinion of other people, and now you are being told to your face, now that your a homeless teenage boy your evil and a risk to women everywhere, how you should never be left alone with children or anywhere near them, how your worth is so little because your part of a demographic that commits crimes and rarely accomplishes anything, after years of abuse and mistreatment, be it physically or emotionally, I had to drag my ass into a better life, I had to fight for my position in college, (despite being told to my face that I don't qualify for half the scholarships because their BIPOC only) and now here I am, a young man whos attending college, I'm not associated with any of those risk factors anymore, I pulled my ass out of the fire, and now because I am a "Straight White Male" in such a "Cushy" position, I know nothing about the struggles of people of color, of discrimination or fear to walk outside at night, because I'm not part of any victim group anymore, I'm once again a "Threat" and should apologize for those who actually do whatever crimes I'm being told I'm capable of. I subscribe to the idea that "a person is smart, people are dumb", I don't assign myself to any group, be it victim or otherwise, and I will not endure anything from those who do not know me, I am my own person, not a risk factor, not a statistic, I am just me
Stay strong man. There's good and bad, but keep making good choices and it will all be worth it. I grew up very poor, in a home with no electricity in the hills of Vermont. I've never met anyone who grew up poorer... the welfare people I knew had it much easier. I somehow always believed I'd go to college, and did, despite similar social drawbacks as you, including my own grandmother telling me "Why would you want all that debt" when I went along my college path. I still don't know exactly how the financing went, I just pushed and pushed and made it thru. I was mid-30's before I had the college loans paid off, and around that time we got our first home. I worked when others f|_|cked off, but made sure I had some fun along the way too. Most importantly, make your own luck with choices and not burning bridges. Take educated chances. I'm solidly middle class now and can provide for my kids, and hopefully will end up with a retirement in which I can provide for the grandkids too. And by provide, I mean educate.
Man our lives were very similar I'm 51 now though, but had almost identical challenges in life you did and feel alienated by society, now I'm almost officially a senior citizen and still treated like the apetimy of toxic masculinity.
I love this, had the same kind of upbringing and had to finish college homeless after being kicked. Was always talked down to about my privilege from the bipoc communities to almost 100% had their parents footing their bills, or at least a home to go to and feel loved. And now being told I'm not good enough for any women and need to work on myself to some unknown goal even after all I've dealt with. Glad to know there is some partial solidarity, sorry to know that there are more that share my pain.
The thing that annoys me is this myth that men can walk around at night by themselves without fear. It is an issue faced by everyone not just women. I'm not a small bloke and I am still highly aware when walking alone at night. When people realise that it's not a gender issue, but rather one affecting us all, we may finally be able to have a decent conversation. And I agree with you Sydney, everyone should have the right to self defence, whether tasers, pepper spray or firearms. Not just those who sit in offices & dictate to the rest of us.
@@tehpepper78 you're 110kgs at 6'7? Why does that sound really slim to me? I'm 3 inches shorter but a hefty boy so it may be perception bias... but yeah even us big lads are very self conscious walking on our own. Hell, even in daylight I don't like people walking behind me.
I agree, I've had a couple of narrow escapes at night, once when some moron let my dog out the gate around 1 in the morning and while looking for her I ran into a big group of people both men and women dealing and doing drugs and generally up to no good. Another time when I was younger, I was almost gang raped by women none the less who I overheard saying that if I was to fight back they'd had me charged with violence and who would the Police believe poor defenceless women or a big scary man? Luckily I was quicker than them and got away. Of course with the 2nd one according to feminists men can't be raped, I know of a few men who'd say otherwise.
@@tehpepper78 And I know a 5'3" guy who thinks he can't ever get mugged because that happens to women and girls. That "myth" is perpetuated by guys, not girls.
Men are attacked 200% more often at night. While we are not necessarily victims of sexual assault, were more likely to be robbed, beaten and/or murdered. Violent crime is violent crime. So no, its actually safer for women to be alone at night based on crime statistics. A woman is statistically more likely to be attacked in their home/work by someone they know. Where as men are more likely to be attacked by strangers while in public. But statistics are racist... And I guess sexist now too.
“even a good man has the potential for violence and harm” SO DOES EVERY SINGLE HUMAN ON EARTH! GOOD LORD that’s so sexist. assuming women don’t have the potential to be violent? wtf?
Stg self control is so undervalued the reason why I don't just eat a hole pizza or spend all my money on lottery tickets is because I have self control
Here is a few fine examples. Gudrid Thorbjarnardóttir: When the men around her feared engaging their foe in battle she apparently told them off before TEARING OFF HER SHIRT AND BEATING HER CHEST WITH A SWORD! Carrie Nation: A quote: 'I felt invincible. My strength was that of a giant. God was certainly standing by me. I smashed five saloons with rocks before I ever took a hatchet.' The Princess Pauline von Metternich and Countess Anastasia Kielmannsegg: These two lovely ladies got into a duel, with swords, over flower arrangements, first duel where both combatants were women.
Impressive how this woman who has been sexually assaulted knows men’s issues better than 90% of other women who haven’t been through such situations (even some conservatives I’ve seen). Keep it up Sydney
@@garrettevans9193 my best guess, they've seen men at their worse directly so they really understand what happened to them and how it was caused. and although some guys are just genuinely horrible people, i'm sure there are some that have been put where they are because of problems outside of their control.
There is an African proverb that goes something like "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth", I imagine we are about 5-10 years from seeing the inevitable result of how we are currently treating young men and boys in the west. It's not going to be pretty.
I obviously don't know who you are but that quote is so realistic that it scares me & it most probably will come to pass in the near future. P.S : I'm a guy too
@@kehbab Wait, women can't go out after 6? Damn it, now I have to cut a whippin' stick from the elder tree and go find my wife and the next door neighbor on their walk.
Funny because giving the curfew wouldn't apply to criminals. They do as they please. So really, you'd be locking up the lawful men who might actually hear and help a woman in distress, only to leave her alone in an alley way with a criminal. Nice one...
Curfew for men past 6? "Oh no my house is on fire" "Sorry madam we are currently understaffed because of the law you implemented, we'll dispatch a team at 9am when you let men out of their cages."
@@daarksideyt They take too much for granted. These same people who want to oppress and remove men from society would have meltdowns as soon as the benefits of modern society that have mostly been created & maintained by men are gone.
64 percent to 36 percent of doctors are men imagine covid with no men hospitals were overwhelmed already imagine if 64% of doctors disappeared lmfao ill give civilization 2 days max before it collapses
These laws are so stupid because they assume the premise of law-abiding criminals. LAW-ABIDING CRIMINALS. Ah yes, the crooked men who want to go and r*pe women are totally going to obey that curfew law. It's like "hey, I want to break the law and go violate a bunch of women, but...OH NO, it's after curfew, I can't go out or else I'll be breaking the law!" What criminal is going to care about obeying the law like that, they're a CRIMINAL for a reason. All this would do is perhaps ENCOURAGE more of this kind of violence, as the actual r*pists won't give a crap out the curfew law, and will see this as an opportunity because "Great! There's a bunch of women out on the street and not a single strong man to keep anyone safe because they're not allowed to be outside! I can go r*pe whomever I want and no one will be there to stop me!" I know it's sexist nowadays for me to talk about "protective men" but sorry, that's just biology, whether by design or by evolution, either way it's the same: men are on average stronger than women because of the way they're built, and actual decent law-abiding men with a clear head on their shoulders and proper moral standards will act as protectors. A r*pist will be more likely to be deterred if there's several other men out on the street as well, but if it's only women and not a man in sight, who's gonna stop the r*pist? No one. He's just surrounded by potential targets and few adversaries. Gun control laws assume a similar premise of law-abiding criminals, but that's another issue and at least in those cases the criminal still has to find gun smugglers to trade with so there's some difficulty, but in this case the r*pist already has a p*nis and doesn't need to smuggle a p*nis from another country or whatever, so it's more stupid than gun control laws because there's actually nothing stopping the criminal.
Imagine people dying because there wasn't a doctor available since a portion of them couldn't get to work, and all the women were either too far away or whatever
my mother literally tried to murder me when i was 16, but since i survived was blamed and arrested, and that has spiraled into an entire lifetime of women abusing me and then lying to the law and being blamed for shit i would never do, but since a woman says i did im guilty by default. the gross injustices stemming from this has literally driven me insane, ive been diagnosed schizophrenic. i live my life in sheer terror of who is going to lie to the law and destroy my life even worse than it already is, or worse, i get that one zealous cop with an over itchy trigger finger and im dead, whether they get away with it or not, im still dead, for something i never did in the first place. i can barely stand to walk out my door let alone function in society, but since i appear a physically capable male im "just being lazy"......i dont want sympathy, i just want people to know this shit is real, and its literally killing me....
Jesus Christ man that’s fucking horrible, I’m so sorry you have to live like this in a society like this. May you one day find a woman who doesn’t hurt you, I’m rooting for you
Holy crap that really is horrible, I hope the best for you and that eventually you can live a better life, would also be nice if those women could get charged for their crimes, good luck man.
"nO sWeaTy wHEN woMeN ArE vIOLenT tHey hAve a REASON!!!!! bUt mEN Do iT cUZ thEy h8 WOMEN!!!!" no seriously i have gotten into too many arguments where women have basically said this bs even though everyone is capable of violence
@@mcdonaldscashier742 I've seen that argument too. If women have a toxic behavior feminist always try to shift accountability by blaming the patriarchy. They make it seem as if women can do no wrong and if they do wrong then they were socialized to do that smh. They contribute to the Women are Wonderful Syndrome which is said to be a form of misogyny and they don't even know it
This is as universally true as the undue demonizing of violence. It has its place, in the role of protecting. People are too fearful and naively think they make the world completely peaceful and free of conflict.
@@Breaker197 Undue? It's objectively harmful and chaotic. I agree there is no such thing as a world free of conflict. However, the conflict doesn't really ever have to resort to physical violence unless one of the parties takes it there. It's primitive. So many other ways to handle situations without breaking or damaging things/people
Ok! that lady only said that next time there should be a curfew on boys after 6:00 PM because the police started it by saying that girls should not leave the house after 6:00 So if you're feeling bad about not being able to go outside after 6:00 we felt bad as well . How girls are expected to adjust and not go out because of something they didn't even do
@@rishikarajput8587 Theres a difference between recommending people to stay inside and making it illegal to go outside after 6 despite having done nothing wrong.
@@sirflappington2484 she was just answering back the police of course no one is gonna make it illegal for boys to go out after 6 that's bullshit and not a solution and you think it was a good recommendation for girls despite having done nothing wrong
@@rishikarajput8587 First, please use punctuation, got a headache reading that. For clarification, giving advice to get home early is not a solution, but it is a good practice. The only meaning behind my words was that, making it illegal to for males to go out after 6 is absolutely not the right way to keep women safe. Although you said that "no one is gonna make it illegal for boys to go out after 6", I think you give humanity too much credit. There is without doubt people that think that is the right thing to do.
I was raped by my female "friend." And when I called the cops a female answered and told me that the rape of a male was not possible. I was drugged and raped, and that woman has suffered no consequences at all
The definition of rape is being changed across jurisdiction to make it legally impossible to accuse female perpetrators. It used to be sex without consent, and could apply equally to females as well as a male victim who was drugged, asleep, incapacitated eg wheelchair, tied down or a minor (who cannot consent). Now the definition is changing to penetration without consent, thus a woman who has sex with a male victim who is drugged, incapacitated, tied down or a minor (who cannot consent) is not guilty of rape. The only way a women under this definition can rape is if she digitally penetrates her victim anally. This was at the insistence of the feminist lobby and not only does not allow for lack of consent from men as a factor, but also effectively decriminalises sex between adult women and children of both sexes. This is a huge problem because there are many many examples of adult women having sex with children. Such women, if they fall pregnant from an underage male victim, can sue him for child support. Again, an outcome sought by feminism.
I'm a male 5'10" and 225lbs and if I'm walking alone at night I'm on high alert. It's a basic survival thing. I don't think our society can ever offer complete safety to individuals. Be alert, travel in groups, be wary of others approaching you, and trust your instincts.
Exactly. There won't always be someone to solve your problems. Likewise, there won't always be someone to save you from danger. Take care and you won't need anyone to do so in the first place.
I'm 6'2" 230bs and even I'm on high alert whilst walking to work early in the morning while still dark. Most attackers are going to be carrying a weapon. My above average size isn't going to hold me in great stead against a knife etc.
They do make the problem bigger, involving all men, and so putting pressure on men to put the pressure back on them and finally the few men who cause it, like ping pong for a bit.
They don’t realise that when they don’t clarify the amount of people they’re talking about when they refer to a group (I.E, saying “children do this...” instead of “some children do this...”) that automatically means they are talking about everyone in the group. All they have to do is adjust their wording slightly by adding a “some” in front of their sentences, and no one would mind. Instead they decide to make generalisations and act offended when men speak out against them. I could only imagine their reaction if I said something like “women are dirty, lying whores” and then defended myself by saying “yeah, but I didn’t say ALL women :)”. They would change their stance so quick.
Predators are predators and they should be dealt with. However, Western Men are getting such a non-stop beat down from so many directions, a significant number have given up of dating and find gaming is more satisfying than attempting to have a relationship with todays harpies.
@JJ Dillon lots of black men and other groups of men from different races also don't fuck with women anymore. The race doesn't matter. Western women have become toxic.
I agree why date. In today's society if you're accused of sexual assault or rape its game over no more life for you. Just because someone lied. I personally want a family and kids but trying to find none crazy's is difficult.and to top it all of my sister is one. Not all women are bad or crazy and I'm probably just not looking in the right place but every sane woman I've met is already dating someone there are so few of these women. We need to find a way to change our society be for it's to late and we get a Male version of a hand mades tale
That's pretty damn sad. Gaming can not replace real relationships with real people. The "modern harpy" is still the exception to the norm. You just have to turn off the Playstation, go outside, and meet people. Harpies don't want men - they want betas. Women, on the other hand, want men. Be a man, be amongst others, live and breathe with others, and you'll likely find a real woman who appreciates you. Trust me: It's far better than anything any video game could ever give you.
My mom had personality disorders that made her murderously violent. I'm not being hyperbolic. In my late 20s I sought trauma therapy for the childhood abuse. Cutting the story to social media size, the therapist convinced me since I was the male I was the one responsible for the domestic violence and my mom was responding in self-defense. The therapist talked me into apologizing to my mom. Fortunately, I was later able to break out of that thinking and come to terms with the fact my mom had serious mental-health problems and I wasn't to blame for them.
@@thevladman2000 The therapist has every right to hold the professional opinion that in all domestic violence starts with males even if they're the children. However, she was, in my consumer opinion, wrong to withhold from me that was her professional opinion before we started therapy.
@@Cathmoytura Bruh, you say you were "able to break out", but you definitely were not. "The therapist has every right to hold the professional opinion" my foot. She was a biased, misandrist, sexist, holier than thou, wannabe dumb bitch. (No, I don't mean that, I'm just saying it in the way a woke person would say. What I do mean is that, she was definitely not professional, and these kinds of biases should get her license cancelled.)
@@Cathmoytura umm. no. the point of therapy is to work on issues in a neutral manner and not bring your idiocy into it. what you should have done was report this women.
That thing they did at that school, where all the boys were demanded to apologize to the girls for all the men... sounds like the definition of a hate crime, perpetrated by the school against the boys. EDIT: As mentioned in a comment bellow, the actual definition of "crime" may not really fit my comment above. My use of the word was, specifically in conjunction with the word "hate", as in "hate crime" in accordance with what I perceive is the (somewhat) recent use of this term by people using it to classify the actions (or speech? thoughts?...) of others. In other words, I think the recent common use of the term "hate crime" is a misuse of both words. But according to what I perceive is meant by people misusing the term, what was done in that school fits what the people misusing this term seemingly describe as hate crime.
@Nicholas Bryce Good on you. I admire your courage. And sometimes, just not doing what you're told is all you can do; and if you're doing what you can, then you're doing good enough. Keep it up!
@@kekelaward I think I understand your feeling, but that would be just as bad for the girls who've done nothing wrong as this situation was for the boys who've done nothing wrong either. Heck, for all we know, the girls in that school didn't ask for an apology either...
@Nicholas Bryce How about sending an e-mail to every parent of those boys advicing them to start a lawsuit against each and everyone at that school involved in that travesty and tell them to demand financial compensation for mental abuse against their children. And don't sue the school, sue each of those assholes on a personal title so they have to pay themselves and not have other parents - or the taxpayer - pick up the tab.
Shaming boys for being born male is psychologically damaging. You're making them think that there is something wrong with them when there isn't. I fear for the world my nephew is growing up in. I have been with my husband for twenty years, and has never shown any violence, never raised his voice to me, never shown me anything but respect. And he is still masculine. I can't express my frustration with this extreme misandry. It's mind boggling.
Same, same for women, but there are many cultures which still support this defect in thinking. This isn’t the only evidence of social de-evolution, but it’s still Sad to see our own culture digress so much so quickly
I'm against shame but educating male to correct others when they are sexist (or other discrimination really) would be great (same for everyone but I see a lot of men not being the problem yet don't say anything about the "joke" of their friends)
Some facts in Australia: Physical Assault is reportedly equal between male victims and female victims. (It's like 52% female, 48% male when I last checked. But then, the population was also 51% female.) Physical assault against males is 80% from a stranger Physical assault against women is 80% by someone they know (And more than 50% of those victims are repeated offenses.) So more MEN get assaulted walking around on the streets late at night than women do. These are the reported assaults, with males 99% as the perpetrators. When females get physical it rarely gets reported. (Because the threat of harm comes from the more physical strong people). Females FEEL less safe because they FEEL things more than males do. So when they are unsafe they feel it more. They also feel unsafe even when they are not. Men feel unsafe when they are genuinely unsafe. An example of what I'm trying to say. A person is walking home late at night (say, 2am). There are no other people walking around. A male does not feel unsafe. A woman feels unsafe. The person sees a group of young males on the other side of the street. A male is cautious. A woman feels unsafe. The group cross the street straight toward the person. A male feels unsafe. A woman feels unsafe. The group passes by harmlessly. A male is cautious. A woman is panicked. So the way to fix this is education. It is not curfew. However, when you try to educate a woman about personal safety, she insists we are victim blaming, and should be teaching those young males not to sexually assault women - a thing they have never done in their life.
Article in a nutshell: "objectifying women is a sign of an oppressive patriarchy." Me following the same consistent logic: Does that also mean that women objectifying men is a sign of an oppressive matriarchy? (How dare I apply true equality to both genders, when instead I should just listen and believe everything without question.)
Is OnlyFans OK because it's women objectifying themselves? Or are men to blame again because males visit the site & pay to see the content?? Aren't women allowed to financially benefit from being on that site? Their bodies, their choice right? I'm so confused!
@@davestuddert4392 don't be confused. There statement are like water and fire exists together which is not possible. Two sides can't exists together so you don't believe their lies. Ignore their BS statements, opinions and them.
Haven't you heard that you have to believe women? No, you don't have to believe facts or compelling evidence, you don't have to believe someone based on the statement they are making. You have to believe someone because they got a cunt between their legs, only reason
Sydney, the fact that you have dealt with abuse in your past and yet can still rationally consider these issues is a testament to your character and intelligence.
I feel a lot of men got annoyed for 2 reasons: 1. You're lumping men in the same category of the worst men. 2. Like a lot of things, it ignores men's issues / men's issues with women / etc.
@@darrylrevok9936 I wonder what the statistics are for women on women violence. More often than not, its often your own people that give you more hassle than the supposed opposition.
@@darrylrevok9936 Most of the women in my inner circle say they've been attacked more by other women. Yeah, when you search for things like that it shows you how biased Google is.
I enjoy all your videos. You should become a comedian. "Generally view women as better people than men." Hmmm...must have never met the "crazy girlfriend."
Requiring anyone, let alone a child, to apologize for the crimes of others… is so utterly bonkers. How is it even slightly ok to blame people for what someone else did?
My 13 year old daughter currently has an open rape case against a 16 year old boy... And I'm here to say it IS NOT ALL MEN! Evidence is this;the two male officers who had to be talked down from hurting this guy, my husband who has never cried harder at his daughters suffering, my eldest son who threw up after hearing the details... These MEN will never be rapists. #notallmen ✊
Trying to blame a collective group for what that boy did to your daughter is also kind of sickening because it's like saying that the criminal is a piece of shit because he can't help being a man. That's taking away his responsibility. Sorry for your daughter. Hope the shit gets locked up.
I'm sorry for what your daughter went through.... If I was there he would not be breathing is all I can say... she's going to need yalls help for a very long time...
Walking at night even as an “intimidating individual” who “looks like they’re ready to kill” as man (or so I’ve been described), people have still tried to run up on me. I don’t tell just women to not walk alone at night... I TELL EVERYONE to not walk alone. They make it sound like it’s only women in danger at night. It’s dark. There’s less people around... it’s generally bad to walk around alone at night.
As a feminist, I 100% agree with you. The stakes are a bit higher for women in that attacks are more likely to take the form of rapes or abductions rather than other physical violence or muggings, but telling everyone to try not to walk alone at night seems really sensible to me, because (1) everyone is at danger at night, not just women (2) it makes public spaces feel safer for women after dark because even in a group of 2 or 3 women, encountering a lone man can be scary (3) it would make it seem more suspicious if someone is walking alone, potentially deterring people who intend to commit a crime (4) it sets a precedent for equality, and gets rid of the feeling imposed on women that they are unsafe, vulnerable and helpless, whilst men can enjoy all public spaces with a sense of safety.
The sad thing is that we've known men are more likely to be attacked than women for about fifty years. Victimization data going back to 1973 shows that men make up about 60% of victims of every violent crime except sexual assault. Ironically, this was first determined in 1993 by the Violence Against Women report put together by the Bureau of Justice to specifically focus on protecting women. And the narrative continues to be that only women have to fear the night. The reality is that men aren't talked to about safety and the statistics, so we don't think about it all the time. What we are taught is to be aware of our surroundings, don't go into poorly lit areas, and to stay out of known dangerous areas. Anything else where women are the 60% victims is cause for outrage and uproar focusing solely on women. I saw a retweet of something proclaiming support for Asian-Americans. The part that got me was that they had to throw in that 60% of the attacks on Asian-Americans over the last few decades has been against women. Don't even know if that's true. But I don't see it as all that relevant. All it does it make a racist issue a gender issue. The people injecting their other politics don't think about what they are actually saying; they are just trying to virtue signal. Making a racist problem about sexism is saying that it's more important to fight racism against women than men. Your first question when you hear that a POC was surrounded and had aluminum cans thrown at them shouldn't be whether it was a man or a woman.
@@ccw344 women are NOT at greater risk of violence according to statistics. While rape is violent and hideous, death I think is at least as bad and men are far more likely to get killed. In Chicago for example it’s literally 6 times higher risk for men! Otherwise I agree with you. While gender differences exist, women are at notable greater risk of rape, no one can walk around safely at night in most places. It’s ignorant or plain stupid for someone to argue that men don’t have to worry about their safety while women do, we all have to worry. Sadly that is what a few powerful loud mouth brain dead self proclaimed feminists literally are saying, in multiple countries...
In the early 90s, the crew of my ship was given "sensitivity training" (I was active Navy) because of an incident that happened in Las Vegas. We were shown a series of short videos that presented various situations where male crewmembers were predators or would-be predators and female crewmembers were helpless victims. At the end of the presentation, the presenter solicited questions, and I raised my hand. I proceeded to inform the presenter that I could condense her entire 90-minute presentation down to three sentences. When asked to proceed, I listed the following: 1. All men are sexual predators, and any who claim otherwise are either liars or somehow haven't yet had the opportunity. 2. All women are victims, and any who claim otherwise either haven't been assaulted YET, or have blocked out the memory of their assault as a self-defense mechanism. After a moment of silence, the presenter asked me what the third sentence was. I responded "please sign the attendance sheet of your way out." After about four years of this annual training, someone got the message (kind of) and switched out one of the videos to a situation where the female was STILL the victim, but now with a female aggressor. This, then sent the message that all men were STILL predators, but now women had to worry about assault from other women, s well.
As a victim of rape myself (I'm one of the men who is never included in statistics because I didn't report). I find it insane that during MeToo when I said things like "I'm so sorry you went through this, I myself was raped by my ex-wife, I can empathize" and I was universally responded to claiming I'm a bigot and part of the problem for sharing my experience with rape too. That's when I realized MeToo isn't about helping women with their experiences with sexual assault, it's about telling men we have the capacity to rape, and therefore we're all bad for one reason or another. Thanks.
That's the worst, the fact that men are seen as bigots for sharing their experience of being raped with women who have raped really shows are little society cares about men.
Welcome to 2021. Everyone's a 'bigot' and the actual bigots are left unpunised because they're the one pointing the finger and screaming over everyone else. No doubt that some women in meetoo were there for help dealing with their experience but it really doesnt surprise me that you were treated like that. These people are, quite frankly, scum. It honestly upsets me that femanism has devolved into what it is today, an attempt at justifying mass sexism.
@RoyalCanook I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but even if you have reported the incident, society doesn't keep track of female rapists because by the legal definition, a woman can't rape a man. Even the news that cover the incident avoid using the 4 letter R word at all costs. Some media outlets such as local or national TV news try framing it as if the woman was a victim, "not herself", or had "brain fog" etc.
Thank you for making this video. It addresses many of the problems and overlooked details. Also the gaslighting, where all men are implicitly or explicitly blamed but told that they're either stupid, self centred or evil for pointing out the fact.
As a man, I can say that when I was 18 I was walking alone. Then was randomly jumped by 3 drunk dudes in the parking lot of my dorm room in college. At like 9pm. While 2 women watched from a balcony. They Didn't call anyone, or get anyone else in the dorm to help. Just watched.
Appreciate the replies. But my point was, that concern for your own safety isn't exclusive to one gender. Sure that night I learned I'm not made of glass. But more importantly, I'm always more aware of my surroundings. Wasn't looking for a savior. I was young. Was just surprised at the women's complete indifference to the situation.
"if you are a man who has grown up in the United states or any western culture, you have picked up some aspect of toxic masculinity" ... Are they saying we should be more like men in Saudi Arabia? is that less toxic? LOL
I'm just so tired of being out in the streets begging you not to rape me! /s But yeah, I feel like Western men and more specifically, Christian men, are sort of the standard. Not that all western or Christian men are perfect because there are bad apples in every group (I would say the same with women too), but most Western Christian values held by men are around respecting women.
@@szechuon6971 Western Christian values were not about respecting women, but worshiping them. Chivalry was about finding glory from sacrificing yourself for women. You have videos about "good manners" in the early 20th century showing men taking off their jackets and putting them into puddles of dirty water to prevent women's shoes from getting dirty.
I like this notion that you have to teach men not to rape as if men don't already know not to rape. A rapist isn't going to think "hey I just went to a class that talked about rape and how it's bad and now I don't want to do it anymore." No this is like trying to teach a person who steals that stealing is bad. They already know it's bad they just don't care.
It worse, they say that like man are going right and forth raping people, its not like something is wrong with specific individuals. Just like no one steals, because that's what everyone is taught, wait, people do in fact steal regardless.
They actually have anti-rape classes that men go through in Norway in order to receive benefits. It does not go well and has not significantly affected the rape rate...granted it isn't the population they want to talk about that's doing it
None of these idiots ever grasp the one basic truth, criminals do not obey laws, that's WHY they are criminals. It's so simple, it's self evidently true. It's been proven over and over and over again, and yet they STILL can not understand it.
EXACTLY. Thank you. We first have to understand how rapists become the way they are to come to a lawful solution. Saying "don't rape" isn't going to stop these guys. It's like trying to tell a psycho serial killer to grow a conscience and stop killing people....
Thanks for your support. The current trends are too insane and hostile towards men. Emotional abuse by women is extremely overlooked and it is just as damaging if not more than physical abuse!
@@nothing_to_read_here Well, no Men are 48% of the population Granted, i’m using global statistics, so it could be more than half depending on the life expectancy of where she was
Just today I tried to tell that to a Feminist who thought men could walk free in night, in Pinterest, but she said "Most men are the problem" or something and I decided to deleted my comment to save myself more problems Probably she thought I was a men too tho
I’m actually gonna be honest really happy someone (especially a woman) is taking about this. As a guy who has been sexually assaulted by both men and women it really kept making me uncomfortable by the way people kept talking about this subject like it doesn’t matter. It actually feels nice not just having someone put down the other gender for once.
this is just plain facts I agree with you so much just know that there are people in the world who are working very hard to get this message through the problem is that most people agree with you but the thing is the opinion of femenists is more out there and its up to society to fix it
As someone who is in the same boat as you (being sexually assaulted by both genders), I just want to clarify that this is why feminism is needed. Although rape an issue that disproportionately affects women, it happens to men and that's terrible and we realize that it's toxic masculinity that prevents men from having a safe space to speak on the subject. When Terry Crews spoke out about his abuse it wasn't feminists belittling him and his experience.
@@alleifloyd245 Oh, bullshit. Try forming a club at any college campus, designed as a safe space for men to come together to talk about their issues. And you will see that it is the feminists who will protest it and cause it to get shut down. It's happened before, when male students invite a speaker on campus to talk about male issues.
Thank you for a great examination of this issue. I am so tired of being lumped in with males who are doing horrible things when I have never even considered doing such things. Most males are good yet are thought to be liable to assault women any second. I just wish that males would be looked at as individuals and not part of a dangerous group.
@@v1007v men do have a voice, the problem is when dealing with overly aggressive feminism men speaking at all is seen as patriarchal oppression of women, this is a specific arena where men need women to speak up for common sense for us, it boils down to dealing with people who either can not or refuse to see value in the words of men, our voice means nothing positive to them.
That awkward moment when you tell people that they're criminals even if they don't commit crimes while ignoring their mental health and specifically telling them their emotions don't matter but they become aggressive and violent... Then you deal with it by doing that more instead of villianizing the criminals themselves
That's the plot of an anime called Psycho-Pass. There's a system that examines your mental health and evaluates your potential to commit crime and if it's to high you'll be arrested. It can even get the point where you can be killed even if you haven't committed a crime yet.
Absolutely. Recently, I was a part of a photo shoot with 2 females and myself, a male. Jokingly one of the women said she was man splaining while sitting with her legs apart, and soon was told it is _spreading_ by the other women (another was the photographer). She giggled and laughed. On the walk back she openly said she watched OZ rules football for the hunky men (ps - she has a wedding band). I was walking in front of the women rolling my eyes. Hypocrisy, I say. Still, she was hot. Can I say that?
Oh, you can’t say that in today’s climate! We don’t speak the truth anymore. You will offend and be neutered! Who knew that one day, being offensive would be an admired trait. I too, like to live dangerously.
@@_c_e_ I would have told her that I will sit with my legs apart with or without her permission and that mansplaining is necessary because of femdensity.
If a man and a teen female OR male get together, seems perverted, pedophilic. Woman with a male, they may be like "Lucky". Woman with a female, nothing said!
The point that was "all men benefit of sexist violence" really had me facepalm. I'm a man and I would definitely not benefit of having any of my friends traumatized by rape.
maybe not directly. but you do benefit in ways you might not even realize. say you ask a girl for her number. she will probably give it to you. yay you benefited because now you have a girls number. but there is a high possibility that she only said yes because she was scared of how you would react if she said no. this and many other things happen that benefit men. and its because of sexist violence.
If she has no interest, but gave the number out of fear, how does that benefit the guy? Afterwards, he writes her a message, she blocks him, time wasted and he doesn't even know what he's done wrong. Even if there are circumstances where (non-violent) men would benefit, I highly doubt that the net benefit is positive.
@@zeldahandel6211 Can you blame him? You can't control how other people feel, it's not up to you if other person feels threatened, or if it's insecure.
I know a girl who posted a tik tok saying that all men are abusive, and when I told her that was sexist, she said "If you're offended by it, you're probably one of those guys"
making umbrella statements like that girl is not only ignorant and arrogant, but also won't end well for those that make them. It's like saying all democrats are whiny brats in their 20s and are in antifa or blm... or that all women are childish gold-diggers that frivolously spend your money like a parasite while you work hard and provide for the household. me? bitter? nah! what gave *that* away? 😜 I digress... not all people live up to their stereotypes, labels, or descriptions we give them just because of a few poor experiences we had. I'm sure there are decent democrats and decent, sensible, respectable women.
Woman beats living shit out of man, "he must of done something to her!" Man stops woman from beating the living shit out of him "Omg he threatened her life!"
@@jellyfishi_ Yet the people who don’t think like that don’t call it out, instead of disavowing the extremists’ tirades, the movement makes said extremists its face which only serves to hurt it.
So in my school there is an event called girls night where all the girls get together and talk about issues facing women and stuff. So this year me and my friend (boys) wanted to make a boys night, so we joined the empowerment team and asked. As soon as we announced it most of the females tried to shut it down, even after we said it was to bring awarness. And luckily the sensable teacher called the crazies out but they wanted us to talk about female issues and basically say how shitty masculine traits were. The breaking point for me is when the teacher emailed me asking if I can change the events name from boys night to something else because "it seems theres a stigma from the girls" and I just felt so bad as if I and my gender did something wrong. I'm 16 and ik I havent experienced all of life but sometimes it just makes me so scared. Luckily my gf really supports me but otherwise idk :(
It goes both ways "not all men" "not all woman" It was really brave and admirable of you to start that group. And even if it doesn't take or the teachers ruin it, there are boys at your school that will remember that and it will help them feel seen. I'm not much older then you, about to be 20, but I've see enough to know that there are some honest to goodness really good people out there. They have good hearts and good minds and are capable of seeing both sides of the picture. But I've also seen enough to know that there are some really bad people out there. My advice to you is keep at it. Keep being awesome. As you go you'll find the ones that are worth while. But take the things people say with a grain of salt. Not everyone is true honest or good. And even the good ones have moments of weakness. (That doesn't make them evil, their just human and they make mistakes just like you and me) This part sucks to say but keep that fear. Don't obsess over it, don't let it over rule your life. But keep it in the back of your mind, just a "oh yeah" to remind you that the people around you aren't always who they say they are, they aren't always good. I'm glad you have a supportive girlfriend, that's awesome. You got this man, life is scary but its worth it and you'll figure it out as you go :D
wow! i strive to be like you. i'm around your age, just a bit older, and that's super admirable! and repeating what Kay Wolf said: keep being you! you've shown amazing and level-headed qualities that all of humankind needs hopefully, your personality and thinking will help those around you understand men's rights activism just a bit more :)
Most people hate conflict mate and as a result they will compromise to avoid it... teacher was probably looking for an easy compromise out of the situation went to you as what he saw as the most reasonable party and didn't think through the impact it would have, the problem is something's couldn't and shouldn't be the subject of comprimise but it's easy and most people will default to easy. Tell the teacher the impact their word and assumptions have and it may shake up their views a bit and that compromise to avoid conflict isn't always the right solution
all female students are allowed a girls night with no boys but boys are not allowed a boys night without girls unless its to talk about girl issues and the name cant be boys night coz it excludes girls ????????
2:04 "a curfew for men after 6 p.m." --> "discrimination of all kinds will be lessened" Did she hear what she just said?... This demonstrates just all about such activists. They say they want some social groups to have more rights and that this will increase social equality, but actually they want some other social groups to have LESS RIGHTS than the "preferred" social groups, and this is nothing else than social UNEQUALITY and DISCRIMINATION. Many of these activists are more intolerant, sexist and racist than the people they blame in intolerance, sexism and racism. They don't really want to have a free society with equity, they just want to dictate their rules. It is a WOLF IN A SHEEP'S CLOTHING!
They're saying not all men are bad. Yet they're totally contradicting themselves by trying to pass bills that discriminate against all men of all ages.
@@frostkilling If you believe in equality of the sexes then you're a feminist. That's all you need to be a feminist lol. You don't have to identify yourself with the feminists you say hold double standards. Personally, I think of it as identifying as a christian. Despite the fact that many christians are bigoted and do use religion to oppress others- they are apart of my religion- we'd both identify as Christians however I don't think about everything in the same way that they do.
@@ismth well it is precisely because of the majority holding the double standards that I can't call myself that, because its practically the norm even if its not what its supposed to stand for, I just don't want to be associated with them so I'd rather say I believe in equality than call myself a feminist. The term just seems tainted to me now.
Agreed.. I don’t know if this is your experience but I’ve been told this by several of my guy friends. Almost every single guy I know has been jumped out of nowhere! bad things happen to both genders and most anyone finds it scary to walk alone at night because of it.
Absolutely!! Moving back to Europe after a long time living in Asia (which is super-safe) and seeing how much Europe has degraded in the meantime due to certain policies allowing quite a few bad dudes practically free reign was quite a change. Even now I wouldn’t walk through my town at night by myself and I’m a pretty well-built guy. Even during the daytime some of these guys size you up when you walk by.
I was jumped so many times in high school I became a martial artist. I was a white kid in a predominantly black school I was jumped because of my skin color. It was never one on one it was always one on seven. And so I learned how to fight one on seven. I didn't train hard because I wanted to I trained hard because I had a reason to. But I didn't grow to become a racist I don't blame every black person I meet for the black people that jumped me. I just blame the people who jumped me.
i have been bullied and psychologically abused over many years and just took it because noone would help me and just tell me to "man up" it left me completely mentally broken causing me to start getting panic attacks, huge anxiety issues, depression and crying myself to sleep almost every night with no help or courage to ask for it anymore, i even started somewhat getting schizophrenia and felt like i was going insane if it wasn't for a online friends and me meeting my current loving relationship i probably would no longer be here due to just not being able to take it anymore people act like this is ok just because "im a man",it feels like society just doesn't recognize men as people with actual feelings even today i still have the issues with anxiety and more rare panic attacks, to put it simply, people act as if me being completely emotionally broken for the rest of my life due to the experiences i made is not important and no big deal just because of my gender
Someone had tweeted "Not all men, but always the men who say Not all men". Please feel free to discuss how illogical, ridiculous, and outright crazy this is.
@@xxxmaysilssss690 No, cause I say not all men and I been disgusted by the way women have been acting with regards to men since the before I was born. It gets worst as time moves on.
@@jasminecaulden1089 get ready for the people who claim to be for women’s rights call you a pick me and someone who only has those opinions for male attention now.
Women: "We know it isn't all men. We just want some sympathy and help." Men: "We are tired of getting cheated on, divorce raped, not being able to see our children, falsely accused of rape, and more by women." Women: "NOT ALL WOMEN!!!"
the thing is...it's not a great quote. it implies that harmless men are bad and dangerous men who haven't acted out on their dangerous actions are good. It's a bit silly. Sounds nice. Especially if it comes someone the people have propped up to be their secular pastors, but it's silly.
My husband has special forces training and karate. He says he has the physical skills to kill and the mental training to do it if necessary. He's also a good, kind, loving man. Whom do I feel safer with? A harmless man or my man? Exactly. 😃
2:17 ah yes the classic anti discrimination move, discriminate against all men and force them to be at home before 6 in the afternoon. THATS NOT SEXIST OR DISCRIMINATORY AT ALL
“All men have it in them for violence…” I’ll have to let all my past violent girlfriends know that they aren’t violent and that I was obviously the one who was. 🙄
Yup, as if the idea of blaming people simply because of potential bad behavior would ever end well XD We'll just give you an F because you had the potential to not do any work and skip every test.
tbh there is some truth to it ... on an animalistic level a cow vs a bull ... I think we have difference in behavior ... But I agree that not everyone with sharp teeth and big muscles should treated as predators ... only the ones that take bad actions should be held responsible, not based on their potential & ability to do that
Being a male teacher must be scary for example: "Why do I have a low grade?!?!!?" "because you didn't study" "RAPE RAPE!!!" "wait, I didn't do anything" and if it goes well they'll only lose their job for a false accusation but if it doesn't he'll go to jail.
Its real my mum was a teacher as a joke a girl accused a male teacher of being inapporpriate at a school camp. She was forced to admit it after the police got invloved, marriage was destroyed his reputation was tarnished. Funny thing even though the school desperately wanted male teachers to go on camps after that all refused point blank. There were only 2-3 male teachers in the whole school FYI. Any sane man would not become a teacher the system is designed agaist them.
Male teachers should wear hidden body cameras to record their day from leaving home to returning so as to have a log of their movements with date time stamps. This will be cumbersome but will save a lot of hardship later when accused.
@@piper1415 The really sad thing is that the mother either did not let and didn't want her daughter to apologies and she refused to citing"it was only a joke". She had zero empthy or self awarwness that a persons life had been destroyed.
I am a single father that got custody of my children when my son was 3 years old and my daughter was 13 months old. I saw a show with women talking about dating and the types of men they would date, singles fathers were brought and every single woman on the show said they would not date a single father because the men had to do something wrong or their wives would not have left them to start with.
I was a single father of two girls, got custody when one was 2 years old and the other 2 months. Throughout the 20 years of raising them, I had to beat the women off with a stick, because they all recognized that it's ridiculously easy for a man to walk away and leave his wife to raise their kids, while only a truly exceptional man would take that challenge. Hold your head high and be a man. You'll do just fine.
What she said is dumb in so many levels considering how much effort it probably takes because court usually takes side on giving custody to mothers. I have so much respect for single dads. You guys rule 👏
No kids myself, but an personal experience of mine: Once (very rare occurrence since i live so far away) i picked up my nephew from kindergarten, i had not even sat down more than a few minutes at the tram location before a woman started talking and showing interest. I think a lot of women do really like men that shows that they do care about kids and will be good fathers
My first response to this is not "It's not my fault." My first response to this is "I stay away from ALL women because they're not worth the hassle!" When I think I need to socialize, I hang out with dudes, because they don't want anything from me, they don't want to control me, they don't want to have sex with me, they don't want to tie me down to some stupid life I don't want. It's a win-win-win-win.
I'm a male and I get worried all the time whilst walking on my own, no I'm not concerned that it will be of a sexual nature but of a violent nature I have suffered broken bones for the money I wish I had in my wallet. Get off my back
I think the biggest issue is women just don't have the same thinking patterns as men do. My wife has never thought about what she would do or what would happen if someone busted into our house one night, tried to carjack us, or anything else of that nature but I'm pretty confident that almost every guy has thought about these things and how to respond.
@@CryptoDatabase Yeah not sure why but I also have planned the escape from my house if it is on fire and different strats for where I am and where the fire is. If shit goes down I'm going to be gone so fast.
There's crazy people out at night or just generally being outside im a man and when im out alone at night I don't trust anybody mostly because stranger danger lol if some1 says hi though I normally say it back
She was being sarcastic though. Joking. I saw that when it happened and looked into it. She's def not into putting a curfew on men. It was to make a point.
No shit. I was driving home one night and went to make a withdrawal from my bank. Saw a group of dudes walking towards the ATM and I thought "Yeah I'm not getting robbed tonight" and just drove home instead
@@dylancross1039 Dude i got beat to aboslute shit yeasterday omw home. i got 3 broken ribs and a messed up face, but they didnt take any money bc it was locked in my car a few blocks away.
One of the problems with the blanket-blame approach is that it removes all personal accountability, no matter the side you're on. It doesn't lay the blame at the feet of the individuals who are responsible for damaging other people, it lets them fade into the camouflage of a group and scurry away.
That always annoyed me and that is usually the default reaction when something bad happens nowadays. One person in a group does something and they point to the entire broad group that they are associated with. So many people deal in absolutes.
@@fanofeverything30465 It seems like people are more emotional than logical nowadays, and people becoming quick to jump to negative conclusions and are also dependent on other people's opinions about them. Although, I will add that there are mental behaviors attributed to males and females. Like females are usually more emotional than males. However, in some cases, the behavior being called out isn't necessarily harmful or even present, it is just people looking for things that aren't there. Then again, it might be contributed to human irrationality. I think it is just a lesson that humans with increased intelligence will never actually be able to truly understand the truth, because some people just can't handle it. If you can't even glance at someone without it being taken in a negative connotation in the majority of cases, then how are humans supposed to progress?
That boy who had to apologize to all women and got confused. He got metaphorically punched in the face for nothing. These people are metaphorically punching all men in the face for doing nothing wrong. That stuff is so damaging to men's well being and confidence. It is also literally sexism.
Oh yeah. There's nothing like a "hey, your a horrible piece of shit. Stand up and apologize for it" to build up a boys confidence. Which is counter productive. Society rips apart mens confidence, beats them down at every opportunity and then wonders why some of them turn out bad. Building men up, giving them confidence, showing them their worth it and instilling in them that their important and strong, giving them a sense of pride in themselves, would accomplish much more than forcing kids who have done nothing wrong too apologize for the actions of their ancestors.
It's the 'sins of our fathers' or 'created sick and commanded to be well' or 'guilty by association' bullshit. It's literally mental child abuse. This is the sort of nonsense you get when you extrapolate from the false axioms of feminist theory.
Woman here - yes thank you. So many times ive felt bad for the many many good men i know... it must be horrific sometimes and to not be able to say that just makes it worse. Dont tar everyone with the same brueh as the saying goes.
I’ve been married for 23 years. My wife has been affected negatively by this entire female movement. I’m at the point I cannot stay around anymore....I’m done....getting away from a twisted crazy mind.
You gotta get out of there, it’s gonna get worse if you stay. It may be hard, but you’ll find someone as rational as Sydney. I’m so lucky as to have my current girlfriend, who sees the world exactly how it is (for the most part)
@Stephanie Marie Well we both tolerate some behavior that we "wish" the other wouldn't exhibit. But no she's not being sexist. Not on the regular anyways ☺️.
"Self-Defense Spray." Does not contain any nasty substances, doesnt cause injury or harm to others, marks an attacker with a dye that doesnt come off for about a week Sooo... the physical manifestation of a Twitter callout post?
I was just baffled as to why the guy with the knife didn't continue attacking. He just stood there. "Oh no, my favorite hoody is dirty now, guess I'm just not in the mood anymore, please carry on lady I was about to attack."
paint doesn't stop rape. pepper spay can. yes this might hurt the attacker less but it causes a lot more danger for the people who only get paint to defend themselves.
I'm so sorry. This shouldn't haooen to anyone, ppeeiod. Abise is abuse, I used ro have to teaxh about domestic violence for orientation classes. I saod ot was often the people wwho were admitting someone to thebhospital or the ER wjo saw the sifns first. I always taught that men xould also be abused but they rarely said so for fear of being laughed at or axxused of being the "real'l" abuser, or of nmbeing weak. S8nce men canneasily overlower most women, the faslct they are abusee & don't abuse back is a tremendous tribute to their strength of character. Men deserve helpe in abusive situations just as women & children do. People are so much more violent in general than when I was a kid in the 50s & 60s. I know a lot of women, mostly (but not exclusively) were abused in secret...for men in that era it would have gone triple. I grew up in a rpugh area woth girl and boy gangs & organized crime that was an open secret (and tied deeply to the Democrat machine politics). I was confro ted once by a girl gang when I went to use the bathroom...told I had to smoke a joint before I could leave. I ruffled the feathers of the leader & laid down the law - nobody ordered me around, period. I lowered her to the ground & straightened out her clothes & went into a stall. Came out, everyone is waitong for me, it hits me I am now the gang leader. I won the fight, aich as it was. So I disbanded the gang, changed it to a atudy group, promised help if O could render it, & told them to stop using boize, drigs, and nicotine completely & their minds would be clear enough to understand. And I left. Yes, I dod tell the teacher what had happened & what I had done. He had to pick his jaw up off the floor. I had to remind him I had to get to the next class, so he wrote me a note. So yeah, rough area. My MGM was quite a character & didn't take any guff off anyone. She taught me well. She also taught me men could be & were abused by women. She was ahead of her time. Anyway, i got too sick to keep working in 2008, but if thentopic comes up, I try to affirm that it does happen, & the men to whom it happens are some of the bravest in our societies, not the weakest.
@Silver & Cold men can definitely be victims of sexual assault and it is so disappointing that they are almost never taken seriously, but don't use the fact that men are assaulted as a way of discrediting women's genuine and justified fear of assault that they are more likely to be victims of than not.
@@kennykash6089 That was so clearly not the point, the point was that men are assaulted too and almost never believed. no matter how small the act may seem to you doesn't mean that it's not capable of having a negative impact. don't belittle something like this just because you don't think it's a big deal.
yes men are assaulted and I think it's fucking terrible that they are almost never believed and that their experiences are so belittled and that they are told that they are meant to enjoy it just because they are men and men are supposed to always want and like sex. That being said, don't use the fact that men are assaulted as a way of discrediting women's experiences. In my opinion, there really isn't a double standard, because the majority of the time women aren't believed either. IDK say if you disagree but I just think that it's shitty for everyone (regardless of their gender) and the only reason that women say 'all men' is because we genuinely don't know who to trust, it's just a defence mechanism.
Here in Argentina they are discussing a law to include men as victims of gender violence and regulate false accusation claims. I'm sorry for not having a propper English written source to add.
You should be charged with gender violence if you make a false claim, punishable by the amount of time that the crime you accused someone of carries. Problem with that is...the system in the US already can't be trusted to not lock up innocent people, and God forbid you lock up an actual victim who you thought was lying. But people who make false accusations are a LITERAL DANGER TO OTHER MEMBERS OF SOCIETY.
I was told by my cousin that I was brainwashed bc I stood up for men as a whole bc she said she hates men. I literally said men aren’t as complicated as we may think they just want simple things. I was just saying not all men are bad just looking for a partner to be cooperative with them and be nice to them. But I’m brainwashed. 🤦♀️
"I might actually put in an amendment to create a curfew for men on the streets.. …and discrimination of all kind will be lessened" time to fight discrimination with new discrimination
I really want them to have their curfew. Force all the law abiding male citizens in doors and then watch the actual scum who don't care about the law break that said curfew. I guarantee you, rape and murder stats would skyrocket in just 1 week.
So all men in the house by 6:00 PM... well, all this violence supposedly happening out on the streets will just come home early for the evening, instead of being relieved down the pub or at the football... men are not even allowed to do what they do for stress-relief anymore?
@@Squidbush When my white male privilege alarm goes off at 4:00 AM, and I get to go out to keep society safe and running smoothly for everyone, not just my Patriarchal brothers, I know what life as a middle age white guy is really about... I'm swimming in the privilege to serve women - because that's their perspective - men are useful to serve them... nothing else... we are the new slave class...
As a woman who has been a victim of violence both physical and sexual a handful of times, I believe that I am responsible for my own protection and do not put it in anyone else's hands. I personally carry tools to help me in that endeavor. As far as what needs to happen, we need to teach our children, both boys and girls, to respect other people.
That’s great to read. When I tried to convince females to always carry pepper spray and a taser with them whenever they leave home, one of ya’ll told me that women don’t need to change anything about what they do. Another one of ya’ll actually accused ME of being a predator… as did my female cousins when I suggested they do the same.
I'm sorry for what you've been through, you've been dealt a bad hand, a vast majority of men are disgusted and embarrassed with men abusing women, I don't know why it happened multiple times to you but maybe you can figure out if there is something you can do to try and get away from risk factors. And yes children should spend time together and be taught that they're supposed to compliment each other instead of competing.
@@jiorno_jowanaYou need to realize it wasn't your fault and you don't need to think you, 'should have protected yourself better' and 'are responsible for the people you raped you.' That would be like me hitting someone the head with a sledgehammer and them saying, 'I'm responsible for my own protection so I should've Wore a hard hat.'
like wtf is " "male humans" causing fear about walking alone at night " i am male, my friends are male, my dad is male and none of them are in this group SO this is not about gender alright ? YES ? omfg i hate this kind of sentences "man is bad, man causing harm"
That not an equivalent. Men _are_ taught not to rape, at least in western countries. Rapist are scum, even in prisons. However, can you say the same about golddiggers? "Marry a rich man" or "dont marry someone that makes less than you" is still advice given to women.
@Grakky TheGrakky Leftists can't be too dumb. After all, they've managed to consolidate institutional power across the Western world. Meanwhile, us "smart" right-wingers are increasingly afraid to publicly utter a single word in opposition for fear of losing our livelihoods... and we've allowed ourselves to get cornered into a position of continually voting for politicians who don't expend the time of day to defend our interests or beliefs, simply because the only other alternative is the left themselves. Honestly, I don't see how the right can claim any amount of intelligence or even wisdom at this point.
@@margueritezoe Some of them are not dumb, and the guy who wrote their manifesto definitively wasn't, see, its working. Still I think he was a sociopath, burn all his books.
@@margueritezoe Don't know how it has been for others but for anyone who has lived through this crap before it does trigger the PTSD knowing all too well just how bad it can get as their ideology and its derivative nazi ideology are deadly when put to action in society.
Some of the reasons I've chosen to stay single for so long. Also some of the reasons I no longer have any social media accounts. All this stupidity is pushing good people away or even worse, into a corner. We all no what eventually happens when you push someone too far? Instead of lashing out. I'd rather just do my own thing and stay away from toxic people. I love this young lady's videos. Not only is she articulate, brilliant and funny. She's adorable and that accent is priceless. Keep up the great work! 👍👊✌️
My 6 year old daughter spent 3 weeks telling me my wife could do every thing I did better than I could no matter what I was doing even ripping out a bathroom and fitting a new one I had to sit her down and talk to her about it
geez, it got to this level, you shouldn't left children unsupervised on the school, school is infected. If I had children I would stay all the time when they study for their online classes (those specific bullshit ones, I don't think they will push that propaganda in a math class).
@@monad_tcp You're right... math class is reserved for indoctrinating students with the idea that expecting one objectively correct answer to a math problem is a toxic byproduct of "white supremacy."
Girls are indoctrinated with this crap not only throughout their entire school careers, but from every corner of the culture... books, magazines, movies, music, commercials, social media... it's everywhere. Then they complete it with formal ideological indoctrination in college. It's getting to the point that some women are making it to their 30s now with the idea that men having greater upper body strength is a just a myth of the patriarchy. Do you really think one talk is going to counteract all of that?
I'm so tired of seeing morons in politics... I'm an American so this British MP isn't even my concern! But a man who's willing to attack a woman is probably not going to obey a curfew, and this never occurred to her?!?
For anyone who saw I deleted this then re-uploaded - the video got copyright claimed for 5 seconds of a song that was part of another video I used. Which made me mad. So I deleted it, changed it and here we are.
had me worried! love your uploads.
Thank you for explaining lol. I figured you had a good reason. You're just brilliant like that :-)
Damn lol
5 seconds of a song?, such a crime
I was wondering what happened ? I was trying to post a comment and the video was gone !!! Btw I love your character ( Wigney : Pink hair Sydney ) .
Thank you. I was in a marriage in which I was physically abused for many years. I never hit her back. I called the police once and they told me, "You're a man. Get over it". She also cheated on me constantly and I even had a recording of her and her boyfriend plotting to kill me.
When I left her, my friends didn't congratulate me like when a woman gets out of an abusive relationship, they told me to be a man and take it for the kids. At divorce court, her female attorney insisted that I owed her alimony because she was a woman and she deserved it.
People do not realize how many men out there are abused and do not retaliate or report it.
I'm sorry this has been your experience 😥
I’m sorry for you. I hope you are well now
I maybe a nameless person but hey, congratulations for getting out of a such abusive relationship. Certainly seem to take you a while to get to the decision because of your love for your children but you did it.
Did you get custody of your kids?
We have joint custody. She is nice to me now. I actually get along with the boyfriend to whom she is now married. I get along with her for the sake of our kids. She did finally apologize to me last year. I just found out two weeks ago that she has breast cancer and it did make me sad. No matter what she put me through, she is the mother of my children.
“Put in an amendment that makes a curfew for men after 6pm, and this will keep women safer and bring discrimination down” this is the definition of discrimination
The irony ain't funny no mo
ah yes, nothing says “we’ll stop discrimination” quite like making rules that only apply to people with certain uncontrollable traits
This is a thinly veiled attempt at Prohibition. All bars will close.
There’s also the fact that curfews only work on law abiding citizens. Everyone but the predators will be inside. And the good people aren’t allowed outside to help. Nor are any male officers. Or fire fighters. Or medics. Just the women, and the predators. Have fun lady 😃
Just do a curfew for all, 75 percent of victims of violent crimes are men. Curfew for all keeps everyone safe
I am a woman. My dad is my rock he's been there for me whenever I needed it regardless of whether I wanted it.
My mother is an abusive nut job guess who got custody.
Alex, can I have mother for 200?
Your mother? Considering the court favors women in custody battles.
I read that as my dad is the rock🤣I was about to call you super lucky
Yup ma mother
Alas my dad is not the rock he's more a Viking
@Kel'Thuzad not really I was very small but as I got older I made more active decisions so spend time with dad. It came down to ability to provide and stability ya know buzzwords
Government dolts: "Here's a curfew for all men!"
All good men who otherwise would've protected you: *need to stay home*
All the criminals and rapists who don't give a crap about your curfew: "It's open season, boys!"
Government dolts: *shocked Pikachu face*
6pm is fucking ridiculous no ones going to be following that
Spot on! Dopes!
Yea like imagine eating out at a restaurant and 6 pm rolls around do you have to sprint home full speed or hide lol
@@Walt305 is 6 pm the part of this you're considering ridiculous ?
Pika Pika!!
“Discrimination of all kind would be lessened”
She says as she attempts to pass a bill that literally discriminates against men
Edit: and for those of you saying it’s a joke or she didn’t mean it, jokes aren’t supposed to be told in Congress. Congress is where shit is supposed to get done, not where people play these petty games. Jokes are ALSO supposed to be funny, and when you’re telling them in such a serious and monotone manner, jokes are very unlikely to be funny
Dont tell her, she cares not about hypocrisy, only about power.
Cause apparently it‘a not possible to discriminate against men. 🙄
They have no sense
She said it to prove a point, she doesn't even have the political power to pass something like that. It was to point put the ridiculousness of women being told to "just not go out after 6pm" if they don't want to be at risk of abuse, giving a male equivalent.
Stop being logical. Logic has no place in todays society.
When you complain about the struggles women face, it's not about men.
When you implement policies that effect all men, then it becomes about all men.
Best part is if I point that out, I am suddenly not allowed to contribute to the discussion because I am a man.
If they can make boys standup to apologise collectively for the violence their gender imposed upon women, I demand a collective apology by women towards me for making fun of me, sexually harassing me and shaming me in front of my whole class back in college. And it was not one, it was a group of girls imposing violence upon a male classmate. Thus the potential for violence and abuse is there.
I guess it is easier to see that potential in others than to realise that WE ALL have the potential to inflict pain in countless ways.
@@maybeageek Someone tried that with me about the topic of racism. Same exact nonsense.
thats true but no one is actually implementing any policies
We have the same name
yha i'm surprised females specially young ones tries to tell you how much stress they have or force them self to have stress issues cause they have a boring life but i know it is mainly the young ones as the old ones don't really complain that much about their health issue.
"Men are trying to make this about them". I guess it's something hard to understand, but when you attack a whole group YOU'RE making it about them
I think is funny, considering how feminist always make every freaking thing about themselves.
Sorry my mouse freaked the fuck out and I disliked and un-disliked this a million times. Now you deserve the achievement of 🅱 liking your comment, have a good day 😊
True Story.
@rross27 no wonder we are going to have a second red scare very soon, that will stop them.
@rross27 Saul Alinsky was the father of the modern left. He bares a lot of the blame. He taught them to lie.
The fact that even a single person in that position even got to the THOUGHT of something as messed up as "curfew for men" is very worrying.
A curfew for n-words is completely justified though, not gonna lie.
Just suggest a curfew for women so that they are safe :)
that is the fucking freedom man given to a woman to even say something like "curfew for men" , these people wont understand how lucky they are to be born in a western country
My head is about to explode, One man does something to a woman and it’s okay to hate his entire gender. Two young women kill a Uber eats driver. Their biggest concern is the phone they left in his car. Mankind is doomed🤯
Took a second I thought you kill uber eats driver and thought didn't know things were that bad cannibalism became a thing
I realized society was going down the drain when we and the media propped up an ex stripper that openly bragged about drugging and robbing men.
Just go gay on manscape island and avoid women killing men for free fast food.
And if the guy fought back it would have been "excessive force" since they were 15 and 13
@@supermandanny2434 search uber eats driver killed DC
I'm a 50 year old male. I have worked in the care sector for 20 years. Most of that time I have been sexually harassed, have been inappropriately touched on countless occasions, actually had a work colleague shove her hand down the front of my jeans. EVERYTIME I've brought these issues to my mainly female bosses I've been laughed out of the office. Pathetic double standards.
I have said this many times, I know, but it may be worth repeating. If you are watching a movie where two men are having their way with a naked woman, you can be sure before the final credits roll that Bruce Willis or Leam Meehan or some other Alpha Male will burst through the door and shoot them in the face, after shooting them in the groin to make their deaths more painful. But if you are seeing two women having their way with a naked man, you are watching either a romantic comedy or a lighter moment in an otherwise serious movie.
I agree. I watch how women act and point it out that women sexual harass men all the time and nothing is done about it. I try to turn it around on them and say if that guy did that to a woman it would be an outrage. It's laugh at like it's an impossible. Any sexual advancement that is unwanted is harassment regardless of the gender that commits it.
I also have had my ass pinched, balls grabbed by a woman. I even had one woman bite me on the ass while I was standing at the bar, I did not know this woman it was quite painful and she left teeth marks on my ass which I had to conceal when I got home so my wife didn't think I was having sex on the road. I had a female boss that would talk nothing but sex during work with.. I am glad I am pushing 80 and I no longer deal with them.
@@Norm475 holy crap. You should've pressed charges with definitive physical evidence.
@@hees0009 He said he is pushing 80. He wouldn't have been believed back then. He'd hardly be credited now. That's the point.
Men choosing to live life single is up 30%. I guess that isn't enough they want it higher.
MGTOW 👍
Then it will be "it's men's fault that child birth is down X%" "all misogny" the never ending cycle of bullshit
@@els236 It's already "where did all the good men go, I just can't find them" many reasons for this and this is a contributor for it.
@@barryaaa5909 they can cry all they want when they expire after their 40ties and no one wants them anymore, its going to be fun, for them.
The fact that someone who thinks like Sydney exists make me have hope I can one day have a "tradional" family, just like my parents.
Fuck the left/red/commies.
Fits the Agenda 30 scenario, doesn't it. How gullible & easily manipulated are humans. Same for the encouragement of infertile couplings (s.s relationships), readily available & state sponsored abortion and, more recently, the sterilisation of young people via hormones & surgery. WWII's German Dr Mengele would be impressed with the speed & depth of this social experiment. Add in some critical race theory to foment conflict between race groups & sit back in your elitist island bunker & watch the fireworks. Chilling, isn't it.
I'm only 22 years old, and I would already absolutely describe myself as a misanthrope, I grew up in a single mother household with a long list of my emotionally damaged moms abusive "boyfriends" coming and going, I've been in low income housing, my first four years of my life where me and my teenage mother jumping from couch to homeless shelter, I saw the worst of what modern society had to offer be it drug addiction or sex crimes or even just people in a higher tax bracket treating you like your lesser. by 14 years old I got kicked out of my home by my BPD mother and jumped from group home to group home, now Imagine, having experienced all of that, and already having a bad opinion of other people, and now you are being told to your face, now that your a homeless teenage boy your evil and a risk to women everywhere, how you should never be left alone with children or anywhere near them, how your worth is so little because your part of a demographic that commits crimes and rarely accomplishes anything, after years of abuse and mistreatment, be it physically or emotionally, I had to drag my ass into a better life, I had to fight for my position in college, (despite being told to my face that I don't qualify for half the scholarships because their BIPOC only) and now here I am, a young man whos attending college, I'm not associated with any of those risk factors anymore, I pulled my ass out of the fire, and now because I am a "Straight White Male" in such a "Cushy" position, I know nothing about the struggles of people of color, of discrimination or fear to walk outside at night, because I'm not part of any victim group anymore, I'm once again a "Threat" and should apologize for those who actually do whatever crimes I'm being told I'm capable of. I subscribe to the idea that "a person is smart, people are dumb", I don't assign myself to any group, be it victim or otherwise, and I will not endure anything from those who do not know me, I am my own person, not a risk factor, not a statistic, I am just me
Stay strong man. There's good and bad, but keep making good choices and it will all be worth it. I grew up very poor, in a home with no electricity in the hills of Vermont. I've never met anyone who grew up poorer... the welfare people I knew had it much easier. I somehow always believed I'd go to college, and did, despite similar social drawbacks as you, including my own grandmother telling me "Why would you want all that debt" when I went along my college path. I still don't know exactly how the financing went, I just pushed and pushed and made it thru. I was mid-30's before I had the college loans paid off, and around that time we got our first home. I worked when others f|_|cked off, but made sure I had some fun along the way too. Most importantly, make your own luck with choices and not burning bridges. Take educated chances. I'm solidly middle class now and can provide for my kids, and hopefully will end up with a retirement in which I can provide for the grandkids too. And by provide, I mean educate.
I don't even blame you, humans are so fucked up and hypocrites
Man our lives were very similar I'm 51 now though, but had almost identical challenges in life you did and feel alienated by society, now I'm almost officially a senior citizen and still treated like the apetimy of toxic masculinity.
I love this, had the same kind of upbringing and had to finish college homeless after being kicked. Was always talked down to about my privilege from the bipoc communities to almost 100% had their parents footing their bills, or at least a home to go to and feel loved.
And now being told I'm not good enough for any women and need to work on myself to some unknown goal even after all I've dealt with.
Glad to know there is some partial solidarity, sorry to know that there are more that share my pain.
I'm sorry 😞
As a man who already has massive anxiety and trust issues from school, I thank you for actually caring about facts and not “hurr durr men bad”
True
Agreed
im on the same boat tbh. just some men even myself are afraid to get into relationships just for this nonesense of male hate.
I'm Canadian, and and a man, and I don't feel safe to go outside alone a night
@@iselalatol735 and she could report you for something you didn't do and get you locked up for life even with no proof
The thing that annoys me is this myth that men can walk around at night by themselves without fear. It is an issue faced by everyone not just women. I'm not a small bloke and I am still highly aware when walking alone at night. When people realise that it's not a gender issue, but rather one affecting us all, we may finally be able to have a decent conversation. And I agree with you Sydney, everyone should have the right to self defence, whether tasers, pepper spray or firearms. Not just those who sit in offices & dictate to the rest of us.
You are 100% correct. I'm 6'7", 110 Kg (240 lb), I don't not walk around at night without paying attention to my surroundings.
@@tehpepper78 you're 110kgs at 6'7? Why does that sound really slim to me? I'm 3 inches shorter but a hefty boy so it may be perception bias... but yeah even us big lads are very self conscious walking on our own. Hell, even in daylight I don't like people walking behind me.
I agree, I've had a couple of narrow escapes at night, once when some moron let my dog out the gate around 1 in the morning and while looking for her I ran into a big group of people both men and women dealing and doing drugs and generally up to no good. Another time when I was younger, I was almost gang raped by women none the less who I overheard saying that if I was to fight back they'd had me charged with violence and who would the Police believe poor defenceless women or a big scary man? Luckily I was quicker than them and got away.
Of course with the 2nd one according to feminists men can't be raped, I know of a few men who'd say otherwise.
@@tehpepper78 And I know a 5'3" guy who thinks he can't ever get mugged because that happens to women and girls. That "myth" is perpetuated by guys, not girls.
Men are attacked 200% more often at night. While we are not necessarily victims of sexual assault, were more likely to be robbed, beaten and/or murdered. Violent crime is violent crime.
So no, its actually safer for women to be alone at night based on crime statistics. A woman is statistically more likely to be attacked in their home/work by someone they know. Where as men are more likely to be attacked by strangers while in public.
But statistics are racist... And I guess sexist now too.
“even a good man has the potential for violence and harm”
SO DOES EVERY SINGLE HUMAN ON EARTH! GOOD LORD that’s so sexist. assuming women don’t have the potential to be violent? wtf?
Evidently, no feminist has ever heard of Lorena Bobbit...
Stg self control is so undervalued the reason why I don't just eat a hole pizza or spend all my money on lottery tickets is because I have self control
Here is a few fine examples.
Gudrid Thorbjarnardóttir: When the men around her feared engaging their foe in battle she apparently told them off before TEARING OFF HER SHIRT AND BEATING HER CHEST WITH A SWORD!
Carrie Nation: A quote: 'I felt invincible. My strength was that of a giant. God was certainly standing by me. I smashed five saloons with rocks before I ever took a hatchet.'
The Princess Pauline von Metternich and Countess Anastasia Kielmannsegg: These two lovely ladies got into a duel, with swords, over flower arrangements, first duel where both combatants were women.
Humans are silly. Never satisfied.
Ask Erin Pizzey. She started domestic violence shelters ("refuges") and soon discovered that over half the women in them were violent themselves.
Impressive how this woman who has been sexually assaulted knows men’s issues better than 90% of other women who haven’t been through such situations (even some conservatives I’ve seen). Keep it up Sydney
@@garrettevans9193 my best guess, they've seen men at their worse directly so they really understand what happened to them and how it was caused. and although some guys are just genuinely horrible people, i'm sure there are some that have been put where they are because of problems outside of their control.
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There is an African proverb that goes something like "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth", I imagine we are about 5-10 years from seeing the inevitable result of how we are currently treating young men and boys in the west. It's not going to be pretty.
A part of the Great Reset...
5 to 10 years? Its already starting.
@@samuelbishop3316 I agree it is, but it will only get worse
I obviously don't know who you are but that quote is so realistic that it scares me & it most probably will come to pass in the near future.
P.S : I'm a guy too
Actually pretty same down here in south east as well
*Makes curfew for men after 6pm
*Says, "Discrimination of all kinds will be lessened."
Do you see the irony?
Appearantly it was a joke covered in how it has been for women: "they cant go out after 6 because of men" since the Beginning of time 🥴
@@kehbab Wait, women can't go out after 6? Damn it, now I have to cut a whippin' stick from the elder tree and go find my wife and the next door neighbor on their walk.
@@CasualNotice yeah
Funny because giving the curfew wouldn't apply to criminals. They do as they please. So really, you'd be locking up the lawful men who might actually hear and help a woman in distress, only to leave her alone in an alley way with a criminal. Nice one...
@@WoWGirl6 you cant expect logic from people who think with their horoscope
Curfew for men past 6?
"Oh no my house is on fire"
"Sorry madam we are currently understaffed because of the law you implemented, we'll dispatch a team at 9am when you let men out of their cages."
@@daarksideyt They take too much for granted. These same people who want to oppress and remove men from society would have meltdowns as soon as the benefits of modern society that have mostly been created & maintained by men are gone.
@@daarksideyt a week? Pfft, 24hrs
64 percent to 36 percent of doctors are men imagine covid with no men hospitals were overwhelmed already imagine if 64% of doctors disappeared lmfao ill give civilization 2 days max before it collapses
These laws are so stupid because they assume the premise of law-abiding criminals. LAW-ABIDING CRIMINALS. Ah yes, the crooked men who want to go and r*pe women are totally going to obey that curfew law. It's like "hey, I want to break the law and go violate a bunch of women, but...OH NO, it's after curfew, I can't go out or else I'll be breaking the law!" What criminal is going to care about obeying the law like that, they're a CRIMINAL for a reason. All this would do is perhaps ENCOURAGE more of this kind of violence, as the actual r*pists won't give a crap out the curfew law, and will see this as an opportunity because "Great! There's a bunch of women out on the street and not a single strong man to keep anyone safe because they're not allowed to be outside! I can go r*pe whomever I want and no one will be there to stop me!" I know it's sexist nowadays for me to talk about "protective men" but sorry, that's just biology, whether by design or by evolution, either way it's the same: men are on average stronger than women because of the way they're built, and actual decent law-abiding men with a clear head on their shoulders and proper moral standards will act as protectors. A r*pist will be more likely to be deterred if there's several other men out on the street as well, but if it's only women and not a man in sight, who's gonna stop the r*pist? No one. He's just surrounded by potential targets and few adversaries.
Gun control laws assume a similar premise of law-abiding criminals, but that's another issue and at least in those cases the criminal still has to find gun smugglers to trade with so there's some difficulty, but in this case the r*pist already has a p*nis and doesn't need to smuggle a p*nis from another country or whatever, so it's more stupid than gun control laws because there's actually nothing stopping the criminal.
Imagine people dying because there wasn't a doctor available since a portion of them couldn't get to work, and all the women were either too far away or whatever
my mother literally tried to murder me when i was 16, but since i survived was blamed and arrested, and that has spiraled into an entire lifetime of women abusing me and then lying to the law and being blamed for shit i would never do, but since a woman says i did im guilty by default. the gross injustices stemming from this has literally driven me insane, ive been diagnosed schizophrenic. i live my life in sheer terror of who is going to lie to the law and destroy my life even worse than it already is, or worse, i get that one zealous cop with an over itchy trigger finger and im dead, whether they get away with it or not, im still dead, for something i never did in the first place. i can barely stand to walk out my door let alone function in society, but since i appear a physically capable male im "just being lazy"......i dont want sympathy, i just want people to know this shit is real, and its literally killing me....
Jesus Christ man that’s fucking horrible, I’m so sorry you have to live like this in a society like this. May you one day find a woman who doesn’t hurt you, I’m rooting for you
Holy crap that really is horrible, I hope the best for you and that eventually you can live a better life, would also be nice if those women could get charged for their crimes, good luck man.
What?!.
Then they say they have to “do all the emotional weightlifting”
"All men have the potential for violence in harm."
Soooo just like the rest of humanity then?
"nO sWeaTy wHEN woMeN ArE vIOLenT tHey hAve a REASON!!!!! bUt mEN Do iT cUZ thEy h8 WOMEN!!!!"
no seriously i have gotten into too many arguments where women have basically said this bs even though everyone is capable of violence
@@mcdonaldscashier742 I've seen that argument too. If women have a toxic behavior feminist always try to shift accountability by blaming the patriarchy. They make it seem as if women can do no wrong and if they do wrong then they were socialized to do that smh. They contribute to the Women are Wonderful Syndrome which is said to be a form of misogyny and they don't even know it
The human being is a living weapon. It is something that does not need a secondary weapon to take the life of another.
Literally every breathing human on earth has the potential of violence in them
This is as universally true as the undue demonizing of violence. It has its place, in the role of protecting. People are too fearful and naively think they make the world completely peaceful and free of conflict.
Nurture over nature
@@Breaker197 Undue? It's objectively harmful and chaotic. I agree there is no such thing as a world free of conflict. However, the conflict doesn't really ever have to resort to physical violence unless one of the parties takes it there. It's primitive. So many other ways to handle situations without breaking or damaging things/people
@@Breaker197 undue demonizing of violence... so violence good?
@@ismth now tell me, what do you think a war is?
Crush: *Asks boy out*
Boy: Sorry it is 6pm. I cant go outside
Time for some gaming with the boys! >:D
Curfew is the perfect excuse lmao!
Ok! that lady only said that next time there should be a curfew on boys after 6:00 PM because the police started it by saying that girls should not leave the house after 6:00
So if you're feeling bad about not being able to go outside after 6:00 we felt bad as well . How girls are expected to adjust and not go out because of something they didn't even do
@@rishikarajput8587 Theres a difference between recommending people to stay inside and making it illegal to go outside after 6 despite having done nothing wrong.
@@sirflappington2484 she was just answering back the police of course no one is gonna make it illegal for boys to go out after 6 that's bullshit and not a solution and you think it was a good recommendation for girls despite having done nothing wrong
@@rishikarajput8587 First, please use punctuation, got a headache reading that. For clarification, giving advice to get home early is not a solution, but it is a good practice. The only meaning behind my words was that, making it illegal to for males to go out after 6 is absolutely not the right way to keep women safe. Although you said that "no one is gonna make it illegal for boys to go out after 6", I think you give humanity too much credit. There is without doubt people that think that is the right thing to do.
I was raped by my female "friend." And when I called the cops a female answered and told me that the rape of a male was not possible. I was drugged and raped, and that woman has suffered no consequences at all
It still pisses me off that its "technically not rape"
Bruh that is rape that female cop was just dumb
The definition of rape is being changed across jurisdiction to make it legally impossible to accuse female perpetrators. It used to be sex without consent, and could apply equally to females as well as a male victim who was drugged, asleep, incapacitated eg wheelchair, tied down or a minor (who cannot consent). Now the definition is changing to penetration without consent, thus a woman who has sex with a male victim who is drugged, incapacitated, tied down or a minor (who cannot consent) is not guilty of rape. The only way a women under this definition can rape is if she digitally penetrates her victim anally. This was at the insistence of the feminist lobby and not only does not allow for lack of consent from men as a factor, but also effectively decriminalises sex between adult women and children of both sexes. This is a huge problem because there are many many examples of adult women having sex with children. Such women, if they fall pregnant from an underage male victim, can sue him for child support. Again, an outcome sought by feminism.
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@@dharmadasa66this is why we need to get our laws straight
I'm a male 5'10" and 225lbs and if I'm walking alone at night I'm on high alert. It's a basic survival thing. I don't think our society can ever offer complete safety to individuals. Be alert, travel in groups, be wary of others approaching you, and trust your instincts.
Exactly. There won't always be someone to solve your problems. Likewise, there won't always be someone to save you from danger. Take care and you won't need anyone to do so in the first place.
I'm 6'2" 230bs and even I'm on high alert whilst walking to work early in the morning while still dark. Most attackers are going to be carrying a weapon. My above average size isn't going to hold me in great stead against a knife etc.
Yeah. Being careful isn't a woman thing. It is a common sense thing, for everybody.
And stay away from womxn unless you have a lot of witnesses.
“Travel in groups.”
Basically make sure you’re not the slowest and stay in the center of the group. Funny but true.
"ugh, I can't believe the men are making it about themselves, I didn't say all men are bad" -someone who said all men are bad
If they say they didn't do it, they are giving away the attention.
"it's all about men being rapists and none about women taking accountability"
Also
"Can't believe men are making it all about themselves"
They do make the problem bigger, involving all men, and so putting pressure on men to put the pressure back on them and finally the few men who cause it, like ping pong for a bit.
They don’t realise that when they don’t clarify the amount of people they’re talking about when they refer to a group (I.E, saying “children do this...” instead of “some children do this...”) that automatically means they are talking about everyone in the group. All they have to do is adjust their wording slightly by adding a “some” in front of their sentences, and no one would mind. Instead they decide to make generalisations and act offended when men speak out against them. I could only imagine their reaction if I said something like “women are dirty, lying whores” and then defended myself by saying “yeah, but I didn’t say ALL women :)”. They would change their stance so quick.
Predators are predators and they should be dealt with. However, Western Men are getting such a non-stop beat down from so many directions, a significant number have given up of dating and find gaming is more satisfying than attempting to have a relationship with todays harpies.
@JJ Dillon lots of black men and other groups of men from different races also don't fuck with women anymore. The race doesn't matter. Western women have become toxic.
I agree why date. In today's society if you're accused of sexual assault or rape its game over no more life for you. Just because someone lied. I personally want a family and kids but trying to find none crazy's is difficult.and to top it all of my sister is one. Not all women are bad or crazy and I'm probably just not looking in the right place but every sane woman I've met is already dating someone there are so few of these women. We need to find a way to change our society be for it's to late and we get a Male version of a hand mades tale
Or riding motorcycles and collecting firearms.
@JJ Dillon call the bigot police, we found one
That's pretty damn sad. Gaming can not replace real relationships with real people. The "modern harpy" is still the exception to the norm. You just have to turn off the Playstation, go outside, and meet people.
Harpies don't want men - they want betas. Women, on the other hand, want men. Be a man, be amongst others, live and breathe with others, and you'll likely find a real woman who appreciates you. Trust me: It's far better than anything any video game could ever give you.
My mom had personality disorders that made her murderously violent. I'm not being hyperbolic. In my late 20s I sought trauma therapy for the childhood abuse. Cutting the story to social media size, the therapist convinced me since I was the male I was the one responsible for the domestic violence and my mom was responding in self-defense. The therapist talked me into apologizing to my mom. Fortunately, I was later able to break out of that thinking and come to terms with the fact my mom had serious mental-health problems and I wasn't to blame for them.
That therapist needs to be fired and banned from the field as she poses more of a danger than a person who could help.
@@thevladman2000 The therapist has every right to hold the professional opinion that in all domestic violence starts with males even if they're the children. However, she was, in my consumer opinion, wrong to withhold from me that was her professional opinion before we started therapy.
Women: go get mental help and go see therapists
The therapists:
@@Cathmoytura Bruh, you say you were "able to break out", but you definitely were not. "The therapist has every right to hold the professional opinion" my foot. She was a biased, misandrist, sexist, holier than thou, wannabe dumb bitch. (No, I don't mean that, I'm just saying it in the way a woke person would say. What I do mean is that, she was definitely not professional, and these kinds of biases should get her license cancelled.)
@@Cathmoytura umm. no. the point of therapy is to work on issues in a neutral manner and not bring your idiocy into it. what you should have done was report this women.
That thing they did at that school, where all the boys were demanded to apologize to the girls for all the men... sounds like the definition of a hate crime, perpetrated by the school against the boys.
EDIT: As mentioned in a comment bellow, the actual definition of "crime" may not really fit my comment above. My use of the word was, specifically in conjunction with the word "hate", as in "hate crime" in accordance with what I perceive is the (somewhat) recent use of this term by people using it to classify the actions (or speech? thoughts?...) of others.
In other words, I think the recent common use of the term "hate crime" is a misuse of both words. But according to what I perceive is meant by people misusing the term, what was done in that school fits what the people misusing this term seemingly describe as hate crime.
@Nicholas Bryce please tell me the principal got fired after this
I'd be glad to, right after the girls apologize to me for all the bad things women have done thru history.
@Nicholas Bryce Good on you. I admire your courage.
And sometimes, just not doing what you're told is all you can do; and if you're doing what you can, then you're doing good enough.
Keep it up!
@@kekelaward I think I understand your feeling, but that would be just as bad for the girls who've done nothing wrong as this situation was for the boys who've done nothing wrong either.
Heck, for all we know, the girls in that school didn't ask for an apology either...
@Nicholas Bryce How about sending an e-mail to every parent of those boys advicing them to start a lawsuit against each and everyone at that school involved in that travesty and tell them to demand financial compensation for mental abuse against their children. And don't sue the school, sue each of those assholes on a personal title so they have to pay themselves and not have other parents - or the taxpayer - pick up the tab.
Shaming boys for being born male is psychologically damaging. You're making them think that there is something wrong with them when there isn't. I fear for the world my nephew is growing up in. I have been with my husband for twenty years, and has never shown any violence, never raised his voice to me, never shown me anything but respect. And he is still masculine. I can't express my frustration with this extreme misandry. It's mind boggling.
Reason is, that people don't know the difference between female and women. Today They even call a slut or prostituter a women
Same, same for women, but there are many cultures which still support this defect in thinking. This isn’t the only evidence of social de-evolution, but it’s still Sad to see our own culture digress so much so quickly
I'm against shame but educating male to correct others when they are sexist (or other discrimination really) would be great (same for everyone but I see a lot of men not being the problem yet don't say anything about the "joke" of their friends)
Hiya! There is still HOPE!
We cant let them do this to the children
@@zaddkiel4458 Shut it jokes are jokes deal with it sorry I wont be going to jail over your feelings like UK.
I feel immensely sorry for the person doing sign language for Biden, that job must be a complete nightmare.
Just like for trump.
I bet it's easier, because you can just do nothing while he fumbles.
Bruh
Nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing.......
@@wcresponder Trump doesnt stutter and ramble like Biden does. What are you talking about?
Some facts in Australia:
Physical Assault is reportedly equal between male victims and female victims. (It's like 52% female, 48% male when I last checked. But then, the population was also 51% female.)
Physical assault against males is 80% from a stranger
Physical assault against women is 80% by someone they know
(And more than 50% of those victims are repeated offenses.)
So more MEN get assaulted walking around on the streets late at night than women do.
These are the reported assaults, with males 99% as the perpetrators. When females get physical it rarely gets reported. (Because the threat of harm comes from the more physical strong people).
Females FEEL less safe because they FEEL things more than males do. So when they are unsafe they feel it more. They also feel unsafe even when they are not.
Men feel unsafe when they are genuinely unsafe.
An example of what I'm trying to say.
A person is walking home late at night (say, 2am). There are no other people walking around.
A male does not feel unsafe. A woman feels unsafe.
The person sees a group of young males on the other side of the street.
A male is cautious. A woman feels unsafe.
The group cross the street straight toward the person.
A male feels unsafe. A woman feels unsafe.
The group passes by harmlessly.
A male is cautious. A woman is panicked.
So the way to fix this is education. It is not curfew. However, when you try to educate a woman about personal safety, she insists we are victim blaming, and should be teaching those young males not to sexually assault women - a thing they have never done in their life.
Article in a nutshell: "objectifying women is a sign of an oppressive patriarchy."
Me following the same consistent logic: Does that also mean that women objectifying men is a sign of an oppressive matriarchy?
(How dare I apply true equality to both genders, when instead I should just listen and believe everything without question.)
Is OnlyFans OK because it's women objectifying themselves? Or are men to blame again because males visit the site & pay to see the content?? Aren't women allowed to financially benefit from being on that site? Their bodies, their choice right? I'm so confused!
@@davestuddert4392 don't be confused. There statement are like water and fire exists together which is not possible. Two sides can't exists together so you don't believe their lies. Ignore their BS statements, opinions and them.
Haven't you heard that you have to believe women? No, you don't have to believe facts or compelling evidence, you don't have to believe someone based on the statement they are making. You have to believe someone because they got a cunt between their legs, only reason
Women objectify women in modern society, anyone see the WAP Phenomenon?
Physical attraction is the 1st thing anyone sees on a person but they claim it's a gender issue
Sydney, the fact that you have dealt with abuse in your past and yet can still rationally consider these issues is a testament to your character and intelligence.
Facts
I feel a lot of men got annoyed for 2 reasons:
1. You're lumping men in the same category of the worst men.
2. Like a lot of things, it ignores men's issues / men's issues with women / etc.
I said this in a Twitter post years ago. Something happens when the wave of outrage continues to splash over the innocent men.
@@darrylrevok9936 I wonder what the statistics are for women on women violence. More often than not, its often your own people that give you more hassle than the supposed opposition.
That’s exactly why I hate these statements, your two points complete describe how I feel at the given situation
@@darrylrevok9936 Most of the women in my inner circle say they've been attacked more by other women.
Yeah, when you search for things like that it shows you how biased Google is.
I enjoy all your videos. You should become a comedian. "Generally view women as better people than men." Hmmm...must have never met the "crazy girlfriend."
Requiring anyone, let alone a child, to apologize for the crimes of others… is so utterly bonkers. How is it even slightly ok to blame people for what someone else did?
As a man, I can tell you, walking alone at night is scary for us as well.
Yeah, i got beat to shit yeasterday omw home
@@motokid1492 by whom? Where do u live?
@@menschgebliebenergossenpar9213 Some immigrants ofc, i live in europe.
Yeah. Especially when you get mugged by three guys working together. Those odds suck, unless you’re Bruce Lee.
@@michaelk4113 agreed it's never a 1v1 it's always a numbers game, that's why when I do walk at night it's with a buddy
My 13 year old daughter currently has an open rape case against a 16 year old boy... And I'm here to say it IS NOT ALL MEN! Evidence is this;the two male officers who had to be talked down from hurting this guy, my husband who has never cried harder at his daughters suffering, my eldest son who threw up after hearing the details... These MEN will never be rapists. #notallmen ✊
Sorry for what your daughter has/will be put through 😞.
Sorry for what your daughter and what I'm sure the rest of your family is going through right now. Best wishes to all of you.
I’m so sorry for what happened to your daughter. That is horrible
Trying to blame a collective group for what that boy did to your daughter is also kind of sickening because it's like saying that the criminal is a piece of shit because he can't help being a man. That's taking away his responsibility.
Sorry for your daughter. Hope the shit gets locked up.
I'm sorry for what your daughter went through.... If I was there he would not be breathing is all I can say... she's going to need yalls help for a very long time...
Walking at night even as an “intimidating individual” who “looks like they’re ready to kill” as man (or so I’ve been described), people have still tried to run up on me. I don’t tell just women to not walk alone at night... I TELL EVERYONE to not walk alone.
They make it sound like it’s only women in danger at night. It’s dark. There’s less people around... it’s generally bad to walk around alone at night.
As a feminist, I 100% agree with you. The stakes are a bit higher for women in that attacks are more likely to take the form of rapes or abductions rather than other physical violence or muggings, but telling everyone to try not to walk alone at night seems really sensible to me, because (1) everyone is at danger at night, not just women (2) it makes public spaces feel safer for women after dark because even in a group of 2 or 3 women, encountering a lone man can be scary (3) it would make it seem more suspicious if someone is walking alone, potentially deterring people who intend to commit a crime (4) it sets a precedent for equality, and gets rid of the feeling imposed on women that they are unsafe, vulnerable and helpless, whilst men can enjoy all public spaces with a sense of safety.
Okay but who
The sad thing is that we've known men are more likely to be attacked than women for about fifty years. Victimization data going back to 1973 shows that men make up about 60% of victims of every violent crime except sexual assault. Ironically, this was first determined in 1993 by the Violence Against Women report put together by the Bureau of Justice to specifically focus on protecting women. And the narrative continues to be that only women have to fear the night. The reality is that men aren't talked to about safety and the statistics, so we don't think about it all the time. What we are taught is to be aware of our surroundings, don't go into poorly lit areas, and to stay out of known dangerous areas.
Anything else where women are the 60% victims is cause for outrage and uproar focusing solely on women. I saw a retweet of something proclaiming support for Asian-Americans. The part that got me was that they had to throw in that 60% of the attacks on Asian-Americans over the last few decades has been against women. Don't even know if that's true. But I don't see it as all that relevant. All it does it make a racist issue a gender issue. The people injecting their other politics don't think about what they are actually saying; they are just trying to virtue signal. Making a racist problem about sexism is saying that it's more important to fight racism against women than men. Your first question when you hear that a POC was surrounded and had aluminum cans thrown at them shouldn't be whether it was a man or a woman.
@@ccw344 you are a rare breed. An actual feminist. Thank you.
@@ccw344 women are NOT at greater risk of violence according to statistics. While rape is violent and hideous, death I think is at least as bad and men are far more likely to get killed. In Chicago for example it’s literally 6 times higher risk for men!
Otherwise I agree with you. While gender differences exist, women are at notable greater risk of rape, no one can walk around safely at night in most places. It’s ignorant or plain stupid for someone to argue that men don’t have to worry about their safety while women do, we all have to worry. Sadly that is what a few powerful loud mouth brain dead self proclaimed feminists literally are saying, in multiple countries...
In the early 90s, the crew of my ship was given "sensitivity training" (I was active Navy) because of an incident that happened in Las Vegas. We were shown a series of short videos that presented various situations where male crewmembers were predators or would-be predators and female crewmembers were helpless victims.
At the end of the presentation, the presenter solicited questions, and I raised my hand. I proceeded to inform the presenter that I could condense her entire 90-minute presentation down to three sentences. When asked to proceed, I listed the following:
1. All men are sexual predators, and any who claim otherwise are either liars or somehow haven't yet had the opportunity.
2. All women are victims, and any who claim otherwise either haven't been assaulted YET, or have blocked out the memory of their assault as a self-defense mechanism.
After a moment of silence, the presenter asked me what the third sentence was.
I responded "please sign the attendance sheet of your way out."
After about four years of this annual training, someone got the message (kind of) and switched out one of the videos to a situation where the female was STILL the victim, but now with a female aggressor. This, then sent the message that all men were STILL predators, but now women had to worry about assault from other women, s well.
"I don't think racists should be allowed to use tanning salons."
Is that why she looks like she hasn't encountered a UV ray for at least a decade?
she was hoping the color would leach from her hair into the skin and give her some color.
@@wcresponder Looks like that dye coloring leached into her brain, because sh... wait didn't want to "misgender" it.. because IT'S an imbecile
With all do respect, it looked like an excommunicated angry Smurf...
@@ATR000 spot on.
How do you spot a racist, just by looking at someone one.
As a victim of rape myself (I'm one of the men who is never included in statistics because I didn't report). I find it insane that during MeToo when I said things like "I'm so sorry you went through this, I myself was raped by my ex-wife, I can empathize" and I was universally responded to claiming I'm a bigot and part of the problem for sharing my experience with rape too. That's when I realized MeToo isn't about helping women with their experiences with sexual assault, it's about telling men we have the capacity to rape, and therefore we're all bad for one reason or another. Thanks.
That's the worst, the fact that men are seen as bigots for sharing their experience of being raped with women who have raped really shows are little society cares about men.
Welcome to 2021. Everyone's a 'bigot' and the actual bigots are left unpunised because they're the one pointing the finger and screaming over everyone else. No doubt that some women in meetoo were there for help dealing with their experience but it really doesnt surprise me that you were treated like that. These people are, quite frankly, scum. It honestly upsets me that femanism has devolved into what it is today, an attempt at justifying mass sexism.
@RoyalCanook I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but even if you have reported the incident, society doesn't keep track of female rapists because by the legal definition, a woman can't rape a man. Even the news that cover the incident avoid using the 4 letter R word at all costs. Some media outlets such as local or national TV news try framing it as if the woman was a victim, "not herself", or had "brain fog" etc.
@@herekitty791 thats terrible
@@herekitty791 The double standard is crazy, and the people who deny that male rape can happen are delusional.
"I propose a curfew for men... and discrimination of all kinds would be lessened". That sentence is so insanely funny to me.
Thank you! I want to ask that woman - did you just hear what you said? Hmmm....
The level of hypocrisy is astronomical
It's not funny to me. But I live in Britain and these lunatics are everywhere.
What kind of mind could say such a thing in public.
I propose exiling feminists to Iran
Thank you for making this video. It addresses many of the problems and overlooked details. Also the gaslighting, where all men are implicitly or explicitly blamed but told that they're either stupid, self centred or evil for pointing out the fact.
As a man, I can say that when I was 18 I was walking alone. Then was randomly jumped by 3 drunk dudes in the parking lot of my dorm room in college. At like 9pm. While 2 women watched from a balcony. They Didn't call anyone, or get anyone else in the dorm to help. Just watched.
Sounds about right.
Probably went and touched themselves to thoughts about the most aggressive of them, too.
Welcome to life. One survives because of oneself. There are no saviors.
I'm sorry, that must've been awful.
Appreciate the replies. But my point was, that concern for your own safety isn't exclusive to one gender. Sure that night I learned I'm not made of glass. But more importantly, I'm always more aware of my surroundings. Wasn't looking for a savior. I was young. Was just surprised at the women's complete indifference to the situation.
"if you are a man who has grown up in the United states or any western culture, you have picked up some aspect of toxic masculinity"
... Are they saying we should be more like men in Saudi Arabia? is that less toxic? LOL
I noticed that as well when watching the video
And don't forget China,where for years they were aborting girls so they could have only boys. Let's emulate that.
I'm just so tired of being out in the streets begging you not to rape me! /s
But yeah, I feel like Western men and more specifically, Christian men, are sort of the standard. Not that all western or Christian men are perfect because there are bad apples in every group (I would say the same with women too), but most Western Christian values held by men are around respecting women.
@@szechuon6971 Western Christian values were not about respecting women, but worshiping them.
Chivalry was about finding glory from sacrificing yourself for women.
You have videos about "good manners" in the early 20th century showing men taking off their jackets and putting them into puddles of dirty water to prevent women's shoes from getting dirty.
That made me laugh, thank you.
I like this notion that you have to teach men not to rape as if men don't already know not to rape. A rapist isn't going to think "hey I just went to a class that talked about rape and how it's bad and now I don't want to do it anymore." No this is like trying to teach a person who steals that stealing is bad. They already know it's bad they just don't care.
It worse, they say that like man are going right and forth raping people, its not like something is wrong with specific individuals.
Just like no one steals, because that's what everyone is taught, wait, people do in fact steal regardless.
They actually have anti-rape classes that men go through in Norway in order to receive benefits. It does not go well and has not significantly affected the rape rate...granted it isn't the population they want to talk about that's doing it
you make a good point but can you shut your god damned mouth? if the feminists discover this they will turn to genocide against men.
None of these idiots ever grasp the one basic truth, criminals do not obey laws, that's WHY they are criminals. It's so simple, it's self evidently true. It's been proven over and over and over again, and yet they STILL can not understand it.
EXACTLY. Thank you. We first have to understand how rapists become the way they are to come to a lawful solution. Saying "don't rape" isn't going to stop these guys. It's like trying to tell a psycho serial killer to grow a conscience and stop killing people....
Thanks for your support. The current trends are too insane and hostile towards men.
Emotional abuse by women is extremely overlooked and it is just as damaging if not more than physical abuse!
"And discrimination of all kinds would be lessened"
She says while discriminating against half the population
technically, less than half
@@tacticallemon7518thenicly more than half
Or around since some people think that they are whatever they say
@@nothing_to_read_here Well, no
Men are 48% of the population
Granted, i’m using global statistics, so it could be more than half depending on the life expectancy of where she was
@@tacticallemon7518 Globally, 50,4% are men. In the USA, it's 49,5%. So, technically, You are both correct
@@ravenouself4181i love reply section statistics
It makes arguments so much easier
We need to work together against violence rather than blaming each other for the actions of people
🤝
yep exactly, males and females, or females and males need to help each other out
Well said.
YES!!!!!!
Just today I tried to tell that to a Feminist who thought men could walk free in night, in Pinterest, but she said "Most men are the problem" or something and I decided to deleted my comment to save myself more problems
Probably she thought I was a men too tho
I’m actually gonna be honest really happy someone (especially a woman) is taking about this. As a guy who has been sexually assaulted by both men and women it really kept making me uncomfortable by the way people kept talking about this subject like it doesn’t matter. It actually feels nice not just having someone put down the other gender for once.
this is just plain facts I agree with you so much just know that there are people in the world who are working very hard to get this message through the problem is that most people agree with you but the thing is the opinion of femenists is more out there and its up to society to fix it
As someone who is in the same boat as you (being sexually assaulted by both genders), I just want to clarify that this is why feminism is needed. Although rape an issue that disproportionately affects women, it happens to men and that's terrible and we realize that it's toxic masculinity that prevents men from having a safe space to speak on the subject. When Terry Crews spoke out about his abuse it wasn't feminists belittling him and his experience.
@@alleifloyd245 Oh, bullshit. Try forming a club at any college campus, designed as a safe space for men to come together to talk about their issues. And you will see that it is the feminists who will protest it and cause it to get shut down. It's happened before, when male students invite a speaker on campus to talk about male issues.
@@alleifloyd245 As Woman Abused By both Gender , Modern Femenism is Lie , Lobby Only Woman 🥶🥶🥶 This Truth They Never Care About WOMAN
@@xmoreno3366 You can't just say an entire movement isn't anything and still reap the benefits of the movement.
Thank you for a great examination of this issue. I am so tired of being lumped in with males who are doing horrible things when I have never even considered doing such things. Most males are good yet are thought to be liable to assault women any second. I just wish that males would be looked at as individuals and not part of a dangerous group.
This woman is the only voice we have lads. We must protect her
Roma army also speaks out against aggressive feminism and advocates for men's fair treatment
you don't need a woman to "have a voice". speak for yourselves :)
@@v1007v men do have a voice, the problem is when dealing with overly aggressive feminism men speaking at all is seen as patriarchal oppression of women, this is a specific arena where men need women to speak up for common sense for us, it boils down to dealing with people who either can not or refuse to see value in the words of men, our voice means nothing positive to them.
she dont need protection lol
@@heavenlydragoon Watch the Th ink Before you Sleep video on her , she's not on our side
"We should setup a curfew for men"
"Discrimination of all kinds would be lessened"
... What?
oxymoron if there ever was one
It's called double think. They actually believe their own bs, even if it is contradictory.
you can't discriminate against half of the population and say it'll lessen discrimination XD
"Rules for thee, but not for me"
lol this, I was looking to see if someone said it. ~
That awkward moment when you tell people that they're criminals even if they don't commit crimes while ignoring their mental health and specifically telling them their emotions don't matter but they become aggressive and violent... Then you deal with it by doing that more instead of villianizing the criminals themselves
That's the plot of an anime called Psycho-Pass. There's a system that examines your mental health and evaluates your potential to commit crime and if it's to high you'll be arrested. It can even get the point where you can be killed even if you haven't committed a crime yet.
Seems like the plot of every movie villains
Misandry equally by logic, is a hate crime in egalitarian society. No double standards.
Misandrous women: “men objectify women”
Also misandrous women: “When does the magic Mike show begin?”
Absolutely. Recently, I was a part of a photo shoot with 2 females and myself, a male. Jokingly one of the women said she was man splaining while sitting with her legs apart, and soon was told it is _spreading_ by the other women (another was the photographer). She giggled and laughed. On the walk back she openly said she watched OZ rules football for the hunky men (ps - she has a wedding band). I was walking in front of the women rolling my eyes. Hypocrisy, I say. Still, she was hot. Can I say that?
Oh, you can’t say that in today’s climate! We don’t speak the truth anymore. You will offend and be neutered!
Who knew that one day, being offensive would be an admired trait. I too, like to live dangerously.
@@_c_e_
I would have told her that I will sit with my legs apart with or without her permission and that mansplaining is necessary because of femdensity.
Yeah! It's ok when a woman talks about a guys muscle mass, and there are double standards
If a man and a teen female OR male get together, seems perverted, pedophilic. Woman with a male, they may be like "Lucky". Woman with a female, nothing said!
I love these "We don't really mean all men - now let me explain why we actually do" articles.
We are not sexist, but we are pretty much sexist as hell, but don’t worry, we justify!!
The point that was "all men benefit of sexist violence" really had me facepalm. I'm a man and I would definitely not benefit of having any of my friends traumatized by rape.
maybe not directly. but you do benefit in ways you might not even realize. say you ask a girl for her number. she will probably give it to you. yay you benefited because now you have a girls number. but there is a high possibility that she only said yes because she was scared of how you would react if she said no. this and many other things happen that benefit men. and its because of sexist violence.
If she has no interest, but gave the number out of fear, how does that benefit the guy? Afterwards, he writes her a message, she blocks him, time wasted and he doesn't even know what he's done wrong. Even if there are circumstances where (non-violent) men would benefit, I highly doubt that the net benefit is positive.
@Timmy L I have found another sane person in these comments. thank you
@@zeldahandel6211 you make me loose braincells, misandrist
@@zeldahandel6211 Can you blame him? You can't control how other people feel, it's not up to you if other person feels threatened, or if it's insecure.
Asking all the Boys to apologize to the girls for other Man's actions Is like asking all islamic people to apologize to americans for terrorism
I know a girl who posted a tik tok saying that all men are abusive, and when I told her that was sexist, she said "If you're offended by it, you're probably one of those guys"
making umbrella statements like that girl is not only ignorant and arrogant, but also won't end well for those that make them. It's like saying all democrats are whiny brats in their 20s and are in antifa or blm... or that all women are childish gold-diggers that frivolously spend your money like a parasite while you work hard and provide for the household. me? bitter? nah! what gave *that* away? 😜 I digress...
not all people live up to their stereotypes, labels, or descriptions we give them just because of a few poor experiences we had. I'm sure there are decent democrats and decent, sensible, respectable women.
Ah yes, using the "fragile masculinity" card when you point out misandry.
I would like to be able to discuss such topics and try to convince people out of this trance.
But then I would probably be friendless in a month.
@@miguelmontenegro3520 Try it. We need people that start the disscusions.
@@miguelmontenegro3520 If thats the case they really arent your friends.
Woman beats living shit out of man, "he must of done something to her!" Man stops woman from beating the living shit out of him "Omg he threatened her life!"
@@jellyfishi_ those people make the entire movement’s integrity come into question
@@jellyfishi_ Yet the people who don’t think like that don’t call it out, instead of disavowing the extremists’ tirades, the movement makes said extremists its face which only serves to hurt it.
So in my school there is an event called girls night where all the girls get together and talk about issues facing women and stuff. So this year me and my friend (boys) wanted to make a boys night, so we joined the empowerment team and asked. As soon as we announced it most of the females tried to shut it down, even after we said it was to bring awarness. And luckily the sensable teacher called the crazies out but they wanted us to talk about female issues and basically say how shitty masculine traits were. The breaking point for me is when the teacher emailed me asking if I can change the events name from boys night to something else because "it seems theres a stigma from the girls" and I just felt so bad as if I and my gender did something wrong. I'm 16 and ik I havent experienced all of life but sometimes it just makes me so scared. Luckily my gf really supports me but otherwise idk :(
It goes both ways "not all men" "not all woman"
It was really brave and admirable of you to start that group. And even if it doesn't take or the teachers ruin it, there are boys at your school that will remember that and it will help them feel seen.
I'm not much older then you, about to be 20, but I've see enough to know that there are some honest to goodness really good people out there. They have good hearts and good minds and are capable of seeing both sides of the picture. But I've also seen enough to know that there are some really bad people out there.
My advice to you is keep at it. Keep being awesome. As you go you'll find the ones that are worth while. But take the things people say with a grain of salt. Not everyone is true honest or good. And even the good ones have moments of weakness. (That doesn't make them evil, their just human and they make mistakes just like you and me)
This part sucks to say but keep that fear. Don't obsess over it, don't let it over rule your life. But keep it in the back of your mind, just a "oh yeah" to remind you that the people around you aren't always who they say they are, they aren't always good.
I'm glad you have a supportive girlfriend, that's awesome. You got this man, life is scary but its worth it and you'll figure it out as you go :D
wow! i strive to be like you. i'm around your age, just a bit older, and that's super admirable!
and repeating what Kay Wolf said: keep being you!
you've shown amazing and level-headed qualities that all of humankind needs
hopefully, your personality and thinking will help those around you understand men's rights activism just a bit more
:)
Don't give in mate
Most people hate conflict mate and as a result they will compromise to avoid it... teacher was probably looking for an easy compromise out of the situation went to you as what he saw as the most reasonable party and didn't think through the impact it would have, the problem is something's couldn't and shouldn't be the subject of comprimise but it's easy and most people will default to easy. Tell the teacher the impact their word and assumptions have and it may shake up their views a bit and that compromise to avoid conflict isn't always the right solution
all female students are allowed a girls night with no boys
but boys are not allowed a boys night without girls unless its to talk about girl issues and the name cant be boys night coz it excludes girls
????????
2:04 "a curfew for men after 6 p.m." --> "discrimination of all kinds will be lessened"
Did she hear what she just said?...
This demonstrates just all about such activists. They say they want some social groups to have more rights and that this will increase social equality, but actually they want some other social groups to have LESS RIGHTS than the "preferred" social groups, and this is nothing else than social UNEQUALITY and DISCRIMINATION. Many of these activists are more intolerant, sexist and racist than the people they blame in intolerance, sexism and racism. They don't really want to have a free society with equity, they just want to dictate their rules. It is a WOLF IN A SHEEP'S CLOTHING!
They're saying not all men are bad. Yet they're totally contradicting themselves by trying to pass bills that discriminate against all men of all ages.
The double standard most feminists have are just stupid, which is why I can't call myself a feminist.
Edit: spelling
Gotta love Mrs. "I want to establish a curfew against men to be out after 6.30 p.m. because I believe it will get rid of all discrimination"
@@callandor4704 Oh yes, fighting discrimination with discrimination. Marvellous.
@@frostkilling If you believe in equality of the sexes then you're a feminist. That's all you need to be a feminist lol. You don't have to identify yourself with the feminists you say hold double standards. Personally, I think of it as identifying as a christian. Despite the fact that many christians are bigoted and do use religion to oppress others- they are apart of my religion- we'd both identify as Christians however I don't think about everything in the same way that they do.
@@ismth well it is precisely because of the majority holding the double standards that I can't call myself that, because its practically the norm even if its not what its supposed to stand for, I just don't want to be associated with them so I'd rather say I believe in equality than call myself a feminist. The term just seems tainted to me now.
A lot of us men are afraid to walk alone at night also, these bad dudes that do these heinous crimes are scary af to everyone
Agreed.. I don’t know if this is your experience but I’ve been told this by several of my guy friends. Almost every single guy I know has been jumped out of nowhere! bad things happen to both genders and most anyone finds it scary to walk alone at night because of it.
Yeh walking at night is terrifying didn't know your fear was based on gender 😂
Walking alone at night (sometimes even at day) is always uncomfortable to me. Guess I'm a woman now? Not.
Absolutely!! Moving back to Europe after a long time living in Asia (which is super-safe) and seeing how much Europe has degraded in the meantime due to certain policies allowing quite a few bad dudes practically free reign was quite a change. Even now I wouldn’t walk through my town at night by myself and I’m a pretty well-built guy. Even during the daytime some of these guys size you up when you walk by.
I was jumped so many times in high school I became a martial artist. I was a white kid in a predominantly black school I was jumped because of my skin color. It was never one on one it was always one on seven. And so I learned how to fight one on seven. I didn't train hard because I wanted to I trained hard because I had a reason to. But I didn't grow to become a racist I don't blame every black person I meet for the black people that jumped me. I just blame the people who jumped me.
i have been bullied and psychologically abused over many years and just took it because noone would help me and just tell me to "man up"
it left me completely mentally broken causing me to start getting panic attacks, huge anxiety issues, depression and crying myself to sleep almost every night with no help or courage to ask for it anymore, i even started somewhat getting schizophrenia and felt like i was going insane
if it wasn't for a online friends and me meeting my current loving relationship i probably would no longer be here due to just not being able to take it anymore
people act like this is ok just because "im a man",it feels like society just doesn't recognize men as people with actual feelings
even today i still have the issues with anxiety and more rare panic attacks, to put it simply, people act as if me being completely emotionally broken for the rest of my life due to the experiences i made is not important and no big deal just because of my gender
Someone had tweeted "Not all men, but always the men who say Not all men".
Please feel free to discuss how illogical, ridiculous, and outright crazy this is.
Nothing to discuss here.. no logic to be found.
I’ll have better luck inventing time travel than finding the logic in that
So are women who say “not all men” apart of that group too?
@@xxxmaysilssss690 No, cause I say not all men and I been disgusted by the way women have been acting with regards to men since the before I was born. It gets worst as time moves on.
@@jasminecaulden1089 get ready for the people who claim to be for women’s rights call you a pick me and someone who only has those opinions for male attention now.
Women: "We know it isn't all men. We just want some sympathy and help."
Men: "We are tired of getting cheated on, divorce raped, not being able to see our children, falsely accused of rape, and more by women."
Women: "NOT ALL WOMEN!!!"
I don't know where you have seen that, but honestly it's the opposite for me. I always hear me men say "not all men".
@@kmd4759
You've TRULY MISSED his point!
Read it again, and this time please pay attention to the CONTEXT!
@@jrbailey3208 I know I read very clearly, I just wanted to add that both genders like to point out the "not all women" and "not all men".
Men: "We know it isn't all women. We just want some sympathy and help."
Women: ..[Realisation kicks in] "OHHH-"
@SirSnufflelots more like a bowel movement.
"A harmless man is not a good man. A good man is a very, very dangerous man who keeps himself controlled." -paraphrased from some quote I heard once
the thing is...it's not a great quote. it implies that harmless men are bad and dangerous men who haven't acted out on their dangerous actions are good. It's a bit silly. Sounds nice. Especially if it comes someone the people have propped up to be their secular pastors, but it's silly.
I believe Jordan Peterson said something like this once
Jordan Peterson, my dude :)
Jordan Peterson is the man!!!
My husband has special forces training and karate. He says he has the physical skills to kill and the mental training to do it if necessary. He's also a good, kind, loving man.
Whom do I feel safer with? A harmless man or my man?
Exactly. 😃
2:17 ah yes the classic anti discrimination move, discriminate against all men and force them to be at home before 6 in the afternoon. THATS NOT SEXIST OR DISCRIMINATORY AT ALL
“All men have it in them for violence…” I’ll have to let all my past violent girlfriends know that they aren’t violent and that I was obviously the one who was. 🙄
Yup, as if the idea of blaming people simply because of potential bad behavior would ever end well XD We'll just give you an F because you had the potential to not do any work and skip every test.
Spot on. Guess the last girl that threw a cinder block through my car window wasn't violent at all. 😂
@@Boogaloo_Baloo Jesus Christ, dude. You good?
@@brainiac.computer yep. I moved far away 😂 no broken windows...for now 😅
tbh there is some truth to it ... on an animalistic level a cow vs a bull ... I think we have difference in behavior ...
But I agree that not everyone with sharp teeth and big muscles should treated as predators ... only the ones that take bad actions should be held responsible, not based on their potential & ability to do that
Being a male teacher must be scary for example:
"Why do I have a low grade?!?!!?"
"because you didn't study"
"RAPE RAPE!!!"
"wait, I didn't do anything"
and if it goes well they'll only lose their job for a false accusation but if it doesn't he'll go to jail.
Its real my mum was a teacher as a joke a girl accused a male teacher of being inapporpriate at a school camp. She was forced to admit it after the police got invloved, marriage was destroyed his reputation was tarnished. Funny thing even though the school desperately wanted male teachers to go on camps after that all refused point blank. There were only 2-3 male teachers in the whole school FYI. Any sane man would not become a teacher the system is designed agaist them.
@@Davey1ooo That's just awful. 😔 You're right. It's very unwise for men to be teachers in today's insane world.
Male teachers should wear hidden body cameras to record their day from leaving home to returning so as to have a log of their movements with date time stamps. This will be cumbersome but will save a lot of hardship later when accused.
@@piper1415 The really sad thing is that the mother either did not let and didn't want her daughter to apologies and she refused to citing"it was only a joke". She had zero empthy or self awarwness that a persons life had been destroyed.
@@Davey1ooo if it was the other way around, it would be a media circus surrounding gender bias.
I am a single father that got custody of my children when my son was 3 years old and my daughter was 13 months old. I saw a show with women talking about dating and the types of men they would date, singles fathers were brought and every single woman on the show said they would not date a single father because the men had to do something wrong or their wives would not have left them to start with.
Show women are for show.
I was a single father of two girls, got custody when one was 2 years old and the other 2 months. Throughout the 20 years of raising them, I had to beat the women off with a stick, because they all recognized that it's ridiculously easy for a man to walk away and leave his wife to raise their kids, while only a truly exceptional man would take that challenge. Hold your head high and be a man. You'll do just fine.
What she said is dumb in so many levels considering how much effort it probably takes because court usually takes side on giving custody to mothers. I have so much respect for single dads. You guys rule 👏
No kids myself, but an personal experience of mine: Once (very rare occurrence since i live so far away) i picked up my nephew from kindergarten, i had not even sat down more than a few minutes at the tram location before a woman started talking and showing interest.
I think a lot of women do really like men that shows that they do care about kids and will be good fathers
it would make a guy more attractive to me.
My first response to this is not "It's not my fault." My first response to this is "I stay away from ALL
women because they're not worth the hassle!" When I think I need to socialize, I hang out with dudes,
because they don't want anything from me, they don't want to control me, they don't want to have sex
with me, they don't want to tie me down to some stupid life I don't want. It's a win-win-win-win.
I'm a male and I get worried all the time whilst walking on my own, no I'm not concerned that it will be of a sexual nature but of a violent nature I have suffered broken bones for the money I wish I had in my wallet. Get off my back
Men feel scared to walk alone at night in bad neighbourhoods as well it's just not very manly to say you are afraid of something so men don't do it.
I think the biggest issue is women just don't have the same thinking patterns as men do. My wife has never thought about what she would do or what would happen if someone busted into our house one night, tried to carjack us, or anything else of that nature but I'm pretty confident that almost every guy has thought about these things and how to respond.
@@CryptoDatabase Yeah not sure why but I also have planned the escape from my house if it is on fire and different strats for where I am and where the fire is. If shit goes down I'm going to be gone so fast.
For real when ever I or my dad is out at night I get scare
As a guy I agree but in this particular issue women definitely are right to feel less safe alone at night
There's crazy people out at night or just generally being outside im a man and when im out alone at night I don't trust anybody mostly because stranger danger lol if some1 says hi though I normally say it back
I'm glad you showed that clip of the female MP calling for curfew because I found that outrageous, not least because I am both British and a man
"Giving men a 6 PM curfew will reduce discrimination of all kinds"...logic has just died a hideous death
The Podcast of the Lotus Eaters (odd name...) had an entire segment about that crazy f*ck that wanted a curfew a few weeks ago. Its worth a watch.
She was being sarcastic though. Joking. I saw that when it happened and looked into it. She's def not into putting a curfew on men. It was to make a point.
@@carynschmidt5061 it really has.
It's only made worse by the fact that if we reversed it everyone would see it for what it is
@@itstinat that definitely wasn't sarcasm
Women like you fully deserve to be respected!
most men if they are honest would also admit to being nervous to walk alone at night
No shit. I was driving home one night and went to make a withdrawal from my bank. Saw a group of dudes walking towards the ATM and I thought "Yeah I'm not getting robbed tonight" and just drove home instead
Rational men.
I carry.
@@dylancross1039 Dude i got beat to aboslute shit yeasterday omw home. i got 3 broken ribs and a messed up face, but they didnt take any money bc it was locked in my car a few blocks away.
@@motokid1492 fuck bro, you go to the hospital? Police report?
@@motokid1492 hope you recover quickly man ❤️
One of the problems with the blanket-blame approach is that it removes all personal accountability, no matter the side you're on. It doesn't lay the blame at the feet of the individuals who are responsible for damaging other people, it lets them fade into the camouflage of a group and scurry away.
That always annoyed me and that is usually the default reaction when something bad happens nowadays. One person in a group does something and they point to the entire broad group that they are associated with. So many people deal in absolutes.
@@LuminousWhispers11only sith do that
@@ntfoperative9432 I guess I have been seeing a lot of Siths then. 😂
@@LuminousWhispers11People just don't want to take responsibility so they say 'I'm a man/woman, I can't help it'
@@fanofeverything30465 It seems like people are more emotional than logical nowadays, and people becoming quick to jump to negative conclusions and are also dependent on other people's opinions about them. Although, I will add that there are mental behaviors attributed to males and females. Like females are usually more emotional than males.
However, in some cases, the behavior being called out isn't necessarily harmful or even present, it is just people looking for things that aren't there. Then again, it might be contributed to human irrationality. I think it is just a lesson that humans with increased intelligence will never actually be able to truly understand the truth, because some people just can't handle it. If you can't even glance at someone without it being taken in a negative connotation in the majority of cases, then how are humans supposed to progress?
That boy who had to apologize to all women and got confused. He got metaphorically punched in the face for nothing. These people are metaphorically punching all men in the face for doing nothing wrong. That stuff is so damaging to men's well being and confidence. It is also literally sexism.
FYI: it wasn't one boy, it was all the boys in the school.
Don't you know? It's only sexist if a man says it (note sarcasm)
If I had been in that school I would have stood up and apologized to the boys for being demonized by women for the actions of others.
Oh yeah. There's nothing like a "hey, your a horrible piece of shit. Stand up and apologize for it" to build up a boys confidence.
Which is counter productive. Society rips apart mens confidence, beats them down at every opportunity and then wonders why some of them turn out bad.
Building men up, giving them confidence, showing them their worth it and instilling in them that their important and strong, giving them a sense of pride in themselves, would accomplish much more than forcing kids who have done nothing wrong too apologize for the actions of their ancestors.
It's the 'sins of our fathers' or 'created sick and commanded to be well' or 'guilty by association' bullshit. It's literally mental child abuse. This is the sort of nonsense you get when you extrapolate from the false axioms of feminist theory.
Woman here - yes thank you. So many times ive felt bad for the many many good men i know... it must be horrific sometimes and to not be able to say that just makes it worse. Dont tar everyone with the same brueh as the saying goes.
I’ve been married for 23 years. My wife has been affected negatively by this entire female movement. I’m at the point I cannot stay around anymore....I’m done....getting away from a twisted crazy mind.
Hey man, I’m sure you’ll find another gal.
Hey I'm dealing with that with my girlfriend right now. It's getting better. Just give it some time. I know it's total madness!
@@CornFedZ06 Thank god my woman hasn’t gone down the rabbit hole. Glad your situation is getting better.
You gotta get out of there, it’s gonna get worse if you stay. It may be hard, but you’ll find someone as rational as Sydney. I’m so lucky as to have my current girlfriend, who sees the world exactly how it is (for the most part)
@Stephanie Marie Well we both tolerate some behavior that we "wish" the other wouldn't exhibit. But no she's not being sexist. Not on the regular anyways ☺️.
"Self-Defense Spray."
Does not contain any nasty substances, doesnt cause injury or harm to others, marks an attacker with a dye that doesnt come off for about a week
Sooo... the physical manifestation of a Twitter callout post?
I was just baffled as to why the guy with the knife didn't continue attacking. He just stood there. "Oh no, my favorite hoody is dirty now, guess I'm just not in the mood anymore, please carry on lady I was about to attack."
Why do I feel like it is another word for pepper spray.
@@alext3811 it's not, because pepper spray actually hurts you
@@alext3811 nope, that one is just, effectivelly, worthless paint.
paint doesn't stop rape. pepper spay can. yes this might hurt the attacker less but it causes a lot more danger for the people who only get paint to defend themselves.
Both my ex-wives were abusive to me. There is virtually no help for abused men either.
Yeah that's unfair
I’m so sorry dude
I'm so sorry. This shouldn't haooen to anyone, ppeeiod. Abise is abuse, I used ro have to teaxh about domestic violence for orientation classes. I saod ot was often the people wwho were admitting someone to thebhospital or the ER wjo saw the sifns first. I always taught that men xould also be abused but they rarely said so for fear of being laughed at or axxused of being the "real'l" abuser, or of nmbeing weak. S8nce men canneasily overlower most women, the faslct they are abusee & don't abuse back is a tremendous tribute to their strength of character. Men deserve helpe in abusive situations just as women & children do. People are so much more violent in general than when I was a kid in the 50s & 60s. I know a lot of women, mostly (but not exclusively) were abused in secret...for men in that era it would have gone triple. I grew up in a rpugh area woth girl and boy gangs & organized crime that was an open secret (and tied deeply to the Democrat machine politics). I was confro ted once by a girl gang when I went to use the bathroom...told I had to smoke a joint before I could leave. I ruffled the feathers of the leader & laid down the law - nobody ordered me around, period. I lowered her to the ground & straightened out her clothes & went into a stall. Came out, everyone is waitong for me, it hits me I am now the gang leader. I won the fight, aich as it was. So I disbanded the gang, changed it to a atudy group, promised help if O could render it, & told them to stop using boize, drigs, and nicotine completely & their minds would be clear enough to understand. And I left. Yes, I dod tell the teacher what had happened & what I had done. He had to pick his jaw up off the floor. I had to remind him I had to get to the next class, so he wrote me a note.
So yeah, rough area. My MGM was quite a character & didn't take any guff off anyone. She taught me well. She also taught me men could be & were abused by women. She was ahead of her time. Anyway, i got too sick to keep working in 2008, but if thentopic comes up, I try to affirm that it does happen, & the men to whom it happens are some of the bravest in our societies, not the weakest.
What's the saying, something like "Just because you met a few doesn't mean you've met em all"
I saw a drunk woman at the bar the other day rubbing her foot against random guys junk. If that’s not a double standard I don’t know what is.
What did the guy do?
OMG! You think those guys are gonna be okay? How will they EVER recover from that footsie PP touch?
@Silver & Cold men can definitely be victims of sexual assault and it is so disappointing that they are almost never taken seriously, but don't use the fact that men are assaulted as a way of discrediting women's genuine and justified fear of assault that they are more likely to be victims of than not.
@@kennykash6089 That was so clearly not the point, the point was that men are assaulted too and almost never believed. no matter how small the act may seem to you doesn't mean that it's not capable of having a negative impact. don't belittle something like this just because you don't think it's a big deal.
yes men are assaulted and I think it's fucking terrible that they are almost never believed and that their experiences are so belittled and that they are told that they are meant to enjoy it just because they are men and men are supposed to always want and like sex. That being said, don't use the fact that men are assaulted as a way of discrediting women's experiences. In my opinion, there really isn't a double standard, because the majority of the time women aren't believed either. IDK say if you disagree but I just think that it's shitty for everyone (regardless of their gender) and the only reason that women say 'all men' is because we genuinely don't know who to trust, it's just a defence mechanism.
Here in Argentina they are discussing a law to include men as victims of gender violence and regulate false accusation claims. I'm sorry for not having a propper English written source to add.
You should be charged with gender violence if you make a false claim, punishable by the amount of time that the crime you accused someone of carries.
Problem with that is...the system in the US already can't be trusted to not lock up innocent people, and God forbid you lock up an actual victim who you thought was lying. But people who make false accusations are a LITERAL DANGER TO OTHER MEMBERS OF SOCIETY.
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I was told by my cousin that I was brainwashed bc I stood up for men as a whole bc she said she hates men. I literally said men aren’t as complicated as we may think they just want simple things. I was just saying not all men are bad just looking for a partner to be cooperative with them and be nice to them. But I’m brainwashed. 🤦♀️
She is .
she isn't your cousin, because your cousin would be a human being like you. she's definitely an alien impostor.
Nah your cousin is the one that is brainwashed by these femi-nazis
My family told me all men are bad when I was a young boy
I’m hopeful that one day it will dawn on us all that men and women are both important. Though we are different in several ways, we need each other.
"I might actually put in an amendment to create a curfew for men on the streets.. …and discrimination of all kind will be lessened"
time to fight discrimination with new discrimination
A woman telling that a Men have to be home by 6pm? Listen, she just doesn't want her man going to next Tuesday's poker game.
I really want them to have their curfew. Force all the law abiding male citizens in doors and then watch the actual scum who don't care about the law break that said curfew. I guarantee you, rape and murder stats would skyrocket in just 1 week.
So all men in the house by 6:00 PM... well, all this violence supposedly happening out on the streets will just come home early for the evening, instead of being relieved down the pub or at the football... men are not even allowed to do what they do for stress-relief anymore?
And have fun doing all the jobs at night that men do which women refuse to do.
@@Squidbush When my white male privilege alarm goes off at 4:00 AM, and I get to go out to keep society safe and running smoothly for everyone, not just my Patriarchal brothers, I know what life as a middle age white guy is really about... I'm swimming in the privilege to serve women - because that's their perspective - men are useful to serve them... nothing else... we are the new slave class...
As a woman who has been a victim of violence both physical and sexual a handful of times, I believe that I am responsible for my own protection and do not put it in anyone else's hands. I personally carry tools to help me in that endeavor. As far as what needs to happen, we need to teach our children, both boys and girls, to respect other people.
Hey. I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. I hope you’re safe wherever you are out there.
That’s great to read.
When I tried to convince females to always carry pepper spray and a taser with them whenever they leave home, one of ya’ll told me that women don’t need to change anything about what they do. Another one of ya’ll actually accused ME of being a predator… as did my female cousins when I suggested they do the same.
I'm sorry for what you've been through, you've been dealt a bad hand, a vast majority of men are disgusted and embarrassed with men abusing women, I don't know why it happened multiple times to you but maybe you can figure out if there is something you can do to try and get away from risk factors. And yes children should spend time together and be taught that they're supposed to compliment each other instead of competing.
Be safe
@@jiorno_jowanaYou need to realize it wasn't your fault and you don't need to think you, 'should have protected yourself better' and 'are responsible for the people you raped you.' That would be like me hitting someone the head with a sledgehammer and them saying, 'I'm responsible for my own protection so I should've
Wore a hard hat.'
Ill tell you a little secret.. We man are also not stoked about walking alone at night. There are just horrible people out there no matter the gender.
Makes sense since most violent crimes happen against men
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Humans
@dzika żaba I can’t really tell but I’m assuming this was sarcasm
@@exceptionallyriso I don't call these creatures "human"
so yeah
like wtf is " "male humans" causing fear about walking alone at night "
i am male, my friends are male, my dad is male and none of them are in this group
SO this is not about gender alright ?
YES ?
omfg i hate this kind of sentences "man is bad, man causing harm"
Government trying to not favour one gende.
Difficulty: *IMPOSSIBLE*
My blood boils when I hear anyone say the "teach men not to rape" crap...it would be the equivalent of men saying "teach women not to be gold diggers"
That not an equivalent.
Men _are_ taught not to rape, at least in western countries. Rapist are scum, even in prisons.
However, can you say the same about golddiggers? "Marry a rich man" or "dont marry someone that makes less than you" is still advice given to women.
@Grakky TheGrakky Leftists can't be too dumb. After all, they've managed to consolidate institutional power across the Western world. Meanwhile, us "smart" right-wingers are increasingly afraid to publicly utter a single word in opposition for fear of losing our livelihoods... and we've allowed ourselves to get cornered into a position of continually voting for politicians who don't expend the time of day to defend our interests or beliefs, simply because the only other alternative is the left themselves.
Honestly, I don't see how the right can claim any amount of intelligence or even wisdom at this point.
actually the equivalent blanket statement would be teach women not to be false accusers
@@margueritezoe Some of them are not dumb, and the guy who wrote their manifesto definitively wasn't, see, its working. Still I think he was a sociopath, burn all his books.
@@margueritezoe Don't know how it has been for others but for anyone who has lived through this crap before it does trigger the PTSD knowing all too well just how bad it can get as their ideology and its derivative nazi ideology are deadly when put to action in society.
Some of the reasons I've chosen to stay single for so long.
Also some of the reasons I no longer have any social media accounts.
All this stupidity is pushing good people away or even worse, into a corner. We all no what eventually happens when you push someone too far?
Instead of lashing out. I'd rather just do my own thing and stay away from toxic people.
I love this young lady's videos. Not only is she articulate, brilliant and funny. She's adorable and that accent is priceless.
Keep up the great work! 👍👊✌️
My 6 year old daughter spent 3 weeks telling me my wife could do every thing I did better than I could no matter what I was doing even ripping out a bathroom and fitting a new one I had to sit her down and talk to her about it
geez, it got to this level, you shouldn't left children unsupervised on the school, school is infected. If I had children I would stay all the time when they study for their online classes (those specific bullshit ones, I don't think they will push that propaganda in a math class).
You should have had your wife try to rip out the bathroom to prove her point.
@@monad_tcp You're right... math class is reserved for indoctrinating students with the idea that expecting one objectively correct answer to a math problem is a toxic byproduct of "white supremacy."
holy shit.
Girls are indoctrinated with this crap not only throughout their entire school careers, but from every corner of the culture... books, magazines, movies, music, commercials, social media... it's everywhere. Then they complete it with formal ideological indoctrination in college. It's getting to the point that some women are making it to their 30s now with the idea that men having greater upper body strength is a just a myth of the patriarchy.
Do you really think one talk is going to counteract all of that?
I'm so tired of seeing morons in politics... I'm an American so this British MP isn't even my concern! But a man who's willing to attack a woman is probably not going to obey a curfew, and this never occurred to her?!?