I strongly recommend watching Dr Warren Farrell's talk. It's pretty terrific. Link in the description box :) Instagram is basically the place of hilarity, where everyone laughs at dumb things I find on the Internet. Join us there. ONE OF US, ONE OF US! @sydneywatson__
Um, isn't instagram just Facebook, it will go the same way with censorship, I wouldn't promote it because it will eventually come for you, and of course will be selling your information as FB does.
I'm a single father. Filed for Child support..... haven't gotten any nor has she received any sort of penalties. I'd probably be in jail if the roles were reversed.
My mom walked out on me and my sister when I was 4. My dad raised us. I now have 2 girls and they are my world! I’m a stay at home mom and wife. I’m the one with them 100% of the time. Even though their father is only home on the weekends, I’m woman enough to realize and say that he’s the better parent. It could be because he’s gone and misses them. He’s the one that puts a large tent in our second family room just for the girls when I’m the one that puts it up because it doesn’t belong there. He turns the house into a jungle gym with the couches, mattresses and ottomans, while I sigh because I now have a mess to clean up. But he’s taught me a huge lesson: laughter is the most beautiful thing. Who cares what the house looks like for a few hours. Live and laugh a little. Have adventures, even if they are inside the house. Have fun. The kids are only young for so long. Fathers ARE necessary.
I'm a single father, and I've been fighting for 2 years, just to be with my child. It's been psychological warfare and I've never been so depressed. My son lights up when he sees me, and it engulfs my heart with warmth, but it does nothing to convince his mother how important I am to the development of our son. That being said, as of August 20, I will be a full time single father. I would never, and will never stoop to the same level that she has, and I will always understand her importance in my son's life, but, I am grateful that the court has decided that I was the more stable parent, (psychologically, financially and emotionally). I'll never talk trash about his mother to him, I'll never take her away from him, I'll never stop fighting for my son's well being, and I'll always be willing to help other men going through the same thing. We need a drastic shift in how we treat fathers, or we're never going to create a shift the suicide rates in men. I was there, and there's millions of men in that position, that need help and support. We need to stop this ideology that, men are just brutish, emotionless, misogynist, and toxic womanizers, and realize that we're (for the most part) loving, caring, emotional and supportive creatures. 2 sides of the same coin people! Never stop fighting for your children boys! They need us!
You are a good man. I hope everything for the best for you. I just got back in contact with my dad that i haven't seen in six years and i was so happy. My mom guilt tripped me into not seeing him since i was twelve and would tell me she would kill herself but i moved out of her place because she was super toxic to be around. She was the same with my sister who isn't with us anymore. My mom hurt me and my sister a lot and fuelled the fire that was in my sister and that is why she isn't here anymore. I want to start new and be happy and feel free because i never had that with my mom. My mom tried to get me on disability so she could get money to get drugs and i will never forgive her for that.
Keep your head up bro im going through the same thing its been three years now its feels just as hard as day one but with a better understanding i still feel like i dont know what im doing
The justice system is so messed up. When my parents split, I was old enough to choose who I wanted to live with, I chose my Dad by my mom wasn't having it. So I was forced to go back and forth for nearly six years. My mom fought so hard to keep me in her life, but she didn't want to pay for anything I needed, parent me or even treat me with any kind of mutual respect. For her it was a stab at my Dad. I ended up developing severe depression, multiple eating disorders and body dysmorphia. (luckily I am pretty far along in my recovery and at a decent state, mental health wise) Fathers are essential and it pains me to see so many courts just hand full custody to mothers no question asked. I am lucky that I am "stronger" than my mother and fought tooth and nail until she gave up and let me stay at my Dads full time. God this is a long comment, but its nice getting it off of my chest. :)
As a fatherless child, its genuinely saddens me that people want fathers day essentially gone. Though i do have a loving mother, I still feel like theres a huge hole in my life.
I am fortunate enough to have both parents active in my life, even at 32 years old. I cannot imagine life without my Dad. I always looked up to my Dad and still rely on his input to this day. I'm a Daddy's Girl through and through.
I was raised by a single father and virtually have no relationship with my mother due to her own life choices so I would absolutely refuse to call father's day mother's day. This concept that all mothers are the best in the world is tiring. Yes, some are outstanding but not all are.
Sam Valladares Bc Rule 1- Potential partner must NOT be a feminist, they are hateful, spiteful, weak-minded people who are not worth my time and energy
Well I'm a single father. How about changing mother's day to special persons day? Also I've had my daughter since she was 2 weeks old. Now 12 she is an honor student. She eats her veggies, she goes to the gym with me and she trusts me. (she told me about her first crush without me asking) Fathers for the win! Love your channel!
you have been rewarded the following medals: dad of 2008 dad of 2009 dad of 2010 dad of 2011 dad of 2012 dad of 2013 dad of 2014 dad of 2015 dad of 2016 dad of 2017 dad of 2018 dad of 2019 dad of 2020
Fixing to be in the same boat as you OP with 3 kids. 8 y.o. boy, 4 y.o. daughter, and 18 month boy. My kids love me and respect me. They always talk about what I do for them and how I buy them things and am always there for them.
"The push to rename father's day, special persons day, so children without a dad are not offended." I thought Father's day was meant to celebrate Fathers, not children.
@@erikmckoul2478 lmao special person's day, that is not even about parents anymore my special person could be that teacher I liked going through puberty😅 dumbest fucking shit ever
If we named Father’s Day “Special Person’s Day” for kids that don’t have dads, shouldn’t we rename Mother’s Day “Special Person’s Day” too for kids that don’t have moms? I mean, please think before you speak.
kweenofhugz :D Unfortunately it’s not the internet, this is literally ideas being implemented. I work at a school and I know a lot of schools don’t say anything about Mother or Father’s Day anymore, there’s only “Family Day”.
In my state father's day is after the school year has ended which is the reason I credit for it not being celebrated as much because theirs just less hype. Perhaps it's because there's more single mothers than single father's or perhaps it because a man that has actually fought and won custody, or split custody or even just supervised visitation, knows all too well that he has to Foster healthy communication between the child and the other parent while the single mother who gets custody by default and or never had to fight for rights or custody isn't worried about that.
Usually it's the single-mother son that becomes a rapist/killer/beat of women these so called feminists are fighting so hard against. But heck yeah go single-mothers!!
@@daniroadto900lbsdeadlift4 its true there's a psychology journal about children raised in dysfunctional families (single parent, parents who abandon children, etc) showing more tendency towards crimes. But not exclusively the single mother's fault.
I grew up in a single parent house with just my dad after my "mom" abandoned her entire family . so can we rename mothers day "special person's day"? as it offends me .
It isnt just men committing crimes. A lot of women get their self worth and self esteem from their father. Kind of sad but you see it a lot, these girls fall for the very first loser that pays attention to them, they get knocked up at the age of 16 and that guy leaves. It's a terrible vicious cycle.
Check out the Deadly Women channel, so many are sadistic mothers poisoning or torturing their spouses and kids There was also a huuuuuuge chunk of history where women were thought to be "too gentle and delicate" to be capable of murder, as time goes on cases from before 1900 are coming up as female serial killers, a lot of whom married for status then killed then married for more status in part because it was so easy to get life insurance on other people back then
When my marriage broke down my ex wife and I made an agreement that we would not use our son against each other. I was soon to learn that this was an empty promise. When I met a new partner my ex wife used my son's anger from the divorce against the new partner and the pressure worked as she left. Now armed with this success she then had my son turn his anger directly against me and it also worked. Basically I lost all contact with him for approx 5 years. I knew if I chased after him I was proving everything my ex wife was saying was true and that I was this "ugly" person. So all I could do is wait and hope. Out of the blue my son contacted me and wanted to talk. We met and I said little opting to listen to him instead (scary tactic for me). He actually told me how he felt about me and kind of what he was told about me but he also noticed I didn't act that way while he was talking. Today I have an incredible relationship with my son. I don't push anything on him, merely give him support when needed and give him a place to openly talk without fear of criticism. I have only made one request, that is that he is to keep loving his mother however we are never to be under the same roof at the same time because of what was done. He thankfully fully understands this request. It seems time, patience and a very big dose of luck has paid off.
There is hope then for me. Has been almost 2 years, since I have scene my boy. Paying $600.00 monthly in child support. Taken, even if I do not make it.The worse part for me is the state will NOT allow me to divorce, because I have no address. To serve to. Will not give me address. Supper, frustrated. One day at a time.... Thank you for sharing. Gives me hope. God Bless Everyone
@@garethfossey9590 I’m so happy for you, but this needs to be fixed. I am only sixteen and look forward to being a father one day, but I don’t think I could stand not seeing my child for that long. Child custody and divorce settlements and all that need to be fixed to make it fair for fathers
@@maximilliansmith4922 My advice is get custody papers in writing before you even have kids. Go to a lawyer and get guaranteed custody up front. I think this will be more common as time goes on. Also have the DNA checked before you sign for being the father.
I am a single father of a daughter. My wife passed away and I was bullied for wanting to take care of my daughter as a single father to the point I was forced to give guardianship of daughter to my in laws. Apparently it's wrong for single dad to raise his daughter. But at the same time that's not what Full House taught me.
Please fight to get her back. It will damage her badly. My granddad lost his wife and my mom went to live with relatives. She felt abandoned and never learned how to love or feel secure. My siblings and I suffered for it. That kind of damage goes on forever.😥
Right but then the left doesn't stand to gain as much. We need whatever "solution" can be exploited the most - chiefly, foster infighting as much as possible.
Conservative Gal Absolutely,several years ago an intelligent woman even included that very point ,at a meeting, to the UN..when they were "platforming" the idea of the rights of children....much to their " surprise " God bless.
"Kids without dads get offended on Fathers Day." So... what about kids without moms on Mothers Day? Not gonna talk about that one, of course they're not, because THAT DOESN'T FIT THE NARRATIVE!
Yeah man I remember being 7 when my birth dad wasn't there and I just loaghed fathers day ugh I was so offended by seeing other people talk but now my new dad has made the day not offensive :)))
I am confident that the reason my fiancé is such a good woman is because her father and mother are such good male/female role models. Her father especially.
Mother: *drug addict, cheater, rude, pro-disease* Father: *firefighter, amazing, fit, loving* Court: well, she IS a woman so... full custody goes to Karen!
I commented this before just take your life in court while saying “I will like to see you try to make me pay for a women that cheated on me,is rude, and get my kids sick”
True , and worst of all is that many of my fellow Fireman take their lives, begin using drugs, or abusing alcohol because of it so thanks a lot feminists.
@@tomgeytenbeek2207 ......my dad left me when I was 2. I soon began to develop alot of anxiety and depression So no I'm not fine and never fucking will be fine
Tom Geytenbeek see they do, and always will, just like we’ll always need mothers. But if they ever get rid of 1, the consequences of that will be catastrophic
@@OnionKnight0000 I'm sorry to hear that, mate :/ just on the off chance my sarcasm didn't quite land, I'm with you- both parents are a seriously and deeply important part of childhood, and it's horrible when one or both of them are removed. Again, I'm sorry to hear the crap that's put you through. Hope life throws you a few good father figures at some point to make up for things a little bit.
Fathers are not becoming less important, they're becoming less and less respected and appreciated. More and more young men do not want to get married or have children. Coincidence?
Are u sure cause i've seen so many women who don't want to get married and only realises at or close to 40 that oh i don't have my own family. Mhh i guess why, cause they always look for the perfect male or just deny their existence.
@@mathewmantas Yes, I am sure more and more young men are choosing to never marry or cohabitate with women and to definitely never have children. Instead, knowing the screwing they're in for if they do marry or cohabitate, especially if they father a child, they choose to put themselves first instead of marrying and starting a family. Most women I've seen who decide not to ever get married are successful, career-minded businesswomen who make a high salary. These women represent a small percentage of women overall. The young men choosing to go their own way, on the other hand, come from all walks of life on every economic level, with the youngest being teens still in school. MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) is growing quickly. For every one who identifies as MGTOW to publicly spread the philosophy, there are many more who remain silent and simply drop out of the dating/marriage game. Either way, though, the birthrate and marriage rate are at an all time low in the US and it is expected to go much lower. The disconnect I see between men and women only looks to get worse as time goes by, so I think the predictions are accurate, no matter who gets the credit for destroying the institution of marriage.
Over 50 never married, didn't know what MGTOW was until a couple of years ago. I've got a 29yr old very interested in me at the moment. I know she's got a child, but she's still under one yrs old
@@drsiigabb9935 Don't fall for it, it's a trap! She's interested in and attracted to your resources. If you marry her or cohabitate with her, she'll be able to claim half your wealth by leaving you, getting what she really wants without having to be with you, which she never wanted in the first place. My advice, get a modern, realistic sex doll and wish her the best of luck with her life. Best money you'll ever spemd.
Remember when we were kids and we had those arguments of who's better boys or girls... I'm guessing feminist never grew out of that stage of their life
Mine was reversed I had a father but my mama passed away when I was 1. That feeling I had that something is missing is what Im sure kids who dont have a father feel.
My dad grew up without a father, and while I really consider him an amazing father, I've seen how much that lack of a dad affected him. There are conversations we can't have, things I can't ask, and wounds that cannot stop bleeding, no matter how much the mantra "time heals all wounds" continues to be repeated. I love my dad, and I wouldn't be striving to become a good man without him.
Can't you ask him Apollos and discuss it with him? Maybe he does not know that you are wanting answers, how could he if you are silent on the subject? I am much older than you and my father died of cancer in 2017, I was lucky, both of my parents were loving and caring. Not gloating, it makes me feel more strongly for those who did not have the benefit of loving parents. You don't want to regret asking the questions. He may open up if you approach it the appropriate way.
I am a full custody single dad of a 4 year old daughter.... her mom bailed when she was 2 months old... so please tell me f3minits who is taking care of my child??? oh yeah i am also straight white and male.
Yep I know how you feel, my wife bailed on our 1st and only premature daughter while she was still in the hospital then had the nerve to take it to court.
@@kasapkrvnik7799 I only said it because my ex stole my son and it's been 14years and I'm 1 of these dads that was tossed aside by the court even though I'm the sane 1 but I faithfully pay support to her hoping it goes to him. Dads like you show not all of us are deadbeat or expendable
Feminists, seeing the last part of this comment: *STOP OPPRESSING MEEEEEEE!* Also, keep on going, man! I'm sure you're a great parent, and a good person in general :)
Brilliant! If men are so unnecessary than why do you need their money? May I use this? I live near a hotbed of SJWs and I'm always looking for new ammo. 😎
My Dad was responsible for just about every fun activity in my childhood: toboganning, skating, cross country skiing, swimming, camping, card games etc etc etc. He was also the person we girls (me and my sisters) could talk to. My Mum was wonderful in so many other ways - she has been gone almost 10 years and I miss her every single day - but life would have been really boring and lonely without my Dad.
Mother are helpful too, but its (my father and my grandpa) who teach how to drive a tractor and a combine harvester to do jobs on my father farm ( basically, my grandfather was a farmer and became a trucker for 30 years and now, my father own the farm and I will own the farm later) In short word: three boys plus my grandmother and my grandfather divorced when my father was young but saw his two parents and is ok and eventually my grandmother got breast cancer so she came back to live at my grandfather house and he takes care of her her. Plus, if it wasn’t for father or my grandfather, I would never have learned how to drive a backhoe loader and a tractor at 5 year old sat on the lap of my grandpa, an other thing we do together is that when he do trucking for is job, I can come with him and I have fun im a boy and I want kids latter because they can be your helper like I am myself on the farm and and I will probably take care of my two parents when they will be old
Im so sad that my other grandfather that died of cancer:(my cousin just doesn’t like me my other one likes me and i miss my aunt and my uncle they’re in Australia
"We're changing the name of Father's Day because we want to include fatherless children!" Then are you going to do the same thing with Mother's Day? Children can also be motherless.
they don't want to leave some children out, because they don't have a father. There was a big fuss that a "father daughter dance" night would exclude some kids, kids without fathers.
@@stephenc2481 There’s a *big* difference there. A father daughter dance is for both the father *and* the daughter(and btw, what about the sons, huh? They don’t seem to care about sons getting left out of father daughter stuff) whereas Father’s Day is for *the FATHERS,* not the children.
The night my parents divorced, my mom was screaming at my dad. Me and my siblings saw this, and my younger brother and sister went to help him. My older brother went upstairs while I cried on the floor. The court gave my mom ownership of us, and she proceeded to abuse us. Fun times.
It's what the Left always does: communists, socialists, atheists, feminists, environmentalists. Indoctrinate the children and destroy the family so that they have nowhere to turn but the state.
These morons are the minority though. Don't worry about it, they may have their time in the sun right now but it will all come crashing down, and when reality kicks in they won't survive because they don't know how to.
This is happening because people Don't realize that family is more than a biological kid and biological parent living together, family is a bond that stands through all time, doenst matter who you're born with, it's who you'll die for. I know this basic lesson AND I'M 16 and my Girlfriend is 19, once I'm out of University I'm dedicating my entire life to the woman that saved me from suicide. I hope you and your husband are well. Enjoy your lovely lucky family
I lost my dad to suicide about 3 years ago, ide be offended is fathers day was changed to "special persons day" for completely taking my dad out of it. dads deserve recognition as much as mothers do.
My sincerest condolences for your loss. To take away a day dedicated to fathers because being a man is offensive is ludicrous and should not ever be considered, let alone allowed to happen. There are great fathers in this world, and having this ideology is a huge slap in their face. Fathers deserve recognition.
I am sorry to heard that. You are a brave person admiting your reality. If I could let you have mine I would gladly do. He is amazing, funny, hard working, creative, street wise, smart, intelligent and one hell of a lady's man at 73. My mom died few years ago and he was right at her side every single day in the elderly home. We need more people like him.
Emily You’re blaming a child during its development. Really? Have you ever met children? They’re feral. It is the job of the parents, the wider family, and the whole of society to raise them. Setting boundaries is a critical part of that, and it is somewhat typical for women to be more kind and forgiving, thereby unknowingly neglecting that essential duty. Statistically overlapping curves and all that - there are plenty of hard-ass mothers around, with daddy being the sweet (cough gullible cough) one.
@Emily He was a child. What child (on this planet) doesnt try to get away with as much as possible. I did you did. A father is much less likely to be walked on. Plus its a second person to try to get by. Get out of your feelings for 5 seconds.
I have a cousin who was raised by a single mother and she treated him like shit, forcing him to eat canned food and left over food so she could eat out more often and she also likes to talk down to him like he is a stupid slave, now he is in his late 20s and he has a girlfriend that has tamed him so much to the point where she makes him do all the housework even though he earns 90% of the money in their household, she even cucked him by taking his money and spending it on another man, he is doing all this because he get pussy once in a blue moon. when i confronted him about it he told me to f off as im a evil misogynist. all i said was there are better women out there why are you paying for a roommate that takes your money and spends it on another guy, you are just her walking atm, and now he looks at me like im the enemy. there is only 1 type of single mother i can give some respect towards and that is a widow other than that most are terrible to society as a whole
True, as a womam, I am so done with having fake female friends, with a narcissistic behaviour and also see stupid feminists all the time that ruin true women's reputation, making ppl questioning their morals.
@@yunak8106 especially when it comes to the military, where men are rigurously trained in combat. even though one might argue that women would get the same training (or maybe even a better one), the physiological differences between male bodies and female bodies would result in a fight that is tilted (at the least) in favor of men.
I wouldn't be a fraction of the person I am today if my grandfather hadn't acted as a father-figure to me. I was very lucky to have someone in my life to serve this roll.
neither would i be 1% of the person i am without my father. He is an amazing husband, father and man. I remember a day he arrived home completely torn apart by his job and tired as hell, and he went to my mother who was sick and asked her what he could do for her. That's the man my father is, he can be tired and sick as hell, but he still works hard and shows his love to his family. Apparently the same people who hates anything man related would love a father like mine. In the meantime, my mom had an abscent father who cheated on my grandma, and it impacted her life very bad. My grandpa died last month and my mom cried, so did my aunts and my uncle, because he was their father and they still loved him. He was an abscent father but he wasn't a bad person, and still, his abscence was really bad for her. Lack of not only fathers but masculine fathers is doing such a harm to society, the only people who don't see it are those who don't wanna see or pretend not to.
I grow up without a father in my life it a hard road to recovery from i have to learn all by myself or take little information about how to be a great man by my mother ex-boyfriend but now i am a good man
Yes same for me, but my grandfather was a bigger man, than my father, a famous man in my state, well known, I've gone on to be a third generation miner in my state, now I'm well known, for what I do, I have a 6 Yr old, she knows her dad well! And I wouldn't let anyone, anything get between that, I don't care if you're a screaming feminazi, some Marxist moron, not going to happen ever
Well I did, he died, but the four matriarch daughters decided not to tell anyone he was in hospital sick, and through absolute stubbornness on behalf of their's he is fine, he died without anyone saying goodbye, within two days of being hospitalised, advanced bone marrow cancer, so I have a pretty piss poor, ability to accept matriarch society because emotion does not make good decisions,
I have 3 daughters and a son. Fathers are crucial for sons, but for daughters we are irreplaceable. Daughters learn from their fathers how men think, get their sense of dignity and self-respect from their father’s attention. A father also shows his daughter what platonic love looks like, and later in life she’ll be able to discern between men seeking a marriage and family as opposed to just sex. Most of all, how her father treats her mother will inform her expectations of her future husband. A mother teaches a daughter how to be a woman, but a father teaches her how to be a wife through his interactions with her mother. This is why girls from a single mother household are much more likely to be pregnant in their teens and to be single mothers themselves.
So glad you brought up that point. Boys clearly need fathers....and so do girls. Even the worldly show How I Met Your Mother acknowledged that the connection between promiscuity and daddy issues. It’s not loving dads that create porn stars. It is absent or abusive dads that do. And that is obviously not every guy (despite the feminist rhetoric.) Sadly selfish women are justifying pushing loving fathers out of their kids lives by this leftist nonsense.
Allie Davis Perhaps the saddest thing of all is that it is not hard to do. You don’t have to read parenting books or be a child psychologist, you just have to love them. My wife and I have talked about this before, when our eldest daughter was born, that I feared the worldly would impress upon my daughter the values of promiscuity and worthlessness it entails. One of the things I love most about my wife is her dignity - what humans used to call class - and virtuousness. I wanted my daughter to grow up knowing she was loved, and that her body was a precious gift not to be misused. My wife simply says that’s what her father gave her by being around. My eldest is 10. Last year she came home crying from school, saying another girl didn’t think she was pretty. What’s telling is that did not run to her mother, but to me, to tell me what the other girl said. Later I realized she was instinctively seeking male affirmation. Her mother wouldn’t lie to her, but she needed to know males did believe she was pretty. It was very insightful.
My wife and I raised 3 very articulate,respectful,and successful boys,all without the help of Parents Magazine,or quack Psychologists--what a miracle!!
That's what I was thinking too, my friend's mom committed suicide, so is mother's day offense towards him? I have to say this though, he's fine with it. He makes jokes about it.
I have a friend that parents left a 5 year old to their parents because they were more interested in drugs and money than in her and she don't get offended when we talk about those special day
I’ve grown up without a dad. I have social anxiety, have been depressed a lot, and am a “nice guy”. I missed out having a masculine role model. Boys need that.
@weirdalfanatic2788 masculinity is not toxic lol. there's nothing wrong with it. what is wrong with being a bit masculine? being strong isn't going to make you toxic. not all men are bad, most men are great people. if all men are bad people, I guess that means you are too?
@weirdalfanatic2788 you must have been dropped as a child.Thats also a double standard. Strong women = good, strong man = bad. Hahaha this world is doomed.
On the topic of "boys will be boys", my dad has never once said that. He liked to play wrestle with my brothers when he was younger and likes playing with our dogs, but never tolerated violence. He's more sharp about it than my mother, who has said "boys will be boys" before.
"A mother's best threat to her kids is "I'm gonna tell your Daddy"-Chris Rock "Of course you can raise a kid without a father, you can also drive with your feet, doesn't mean it's a good fucking idea"- also Chris Rock
"Why don't men want to date us and want to start a family?" "Maybe it's because you crap on them and crap on fathers." "No, I think it's just because they're toxic." "....."
..For real, dude. Had a gal friend rant about how much white men sucked, only to lament how nobody approached her for a date not three sentences later. I just don't get that kind of logic.
It's nuts. I lived with my mom after her and my dad divorced, but I would have been devastated had he been taken from my life. Dad was always in my life and he always made sure we were cared for, even outside of child support. Father's are important in a family structure NO MATTER WHAT.
I’ve been a single dad since my son was 1. He’s 7 now....his mom doesn’t help never has, and she only sees him maybe once a month for a few hours. I do homework with him, I teach him, I discipline, I feed him, i explain right and wrong to him as best I can.... a daunting task when it seems right and wrong is changing by the week now.... I do everything for my son and without a woman’s help.... and yet I still get nasty comments from teachers and government workers and all kinds of folks because they don’t think a man is capable of being a good single parent. The rap I’ve been through as a single father, would shock you.... I will never ever get married or have more kids. It’s way to terrifying of a prospect to risk undertaking again.
I know it's not much from a stranger on the internet, but I'm really glad that you take good care of your son and I'm really sorry, that people give you such a hard time. It really boggles my mind that some people are so nasty to fathers! I for one really appriciate my father and thinking back my childhood would have been so much worse without him. So keep it up and don't let these idiots put you down. I'm sure you are doing great and your son loves you for it!
I was a single father to two small children. When they got a little older and came to the conclusion, on their own, that their mother was toxic to their well being, they cut all ties with her. No more mothers day for her.
How the FUQ did you find a woman willing to marry you? All the women here in the US are man-hating feminazi's. Even with the novelty of an Australian in the USA, because of my white skin and middle age, I'm part of that dreaded "patriarchy", dripping with my "white privilege" and thus I must be shunned! I must be purged, and forced to die alone!
I just found the channel, love the info. Facts mixed with some humor is always a win. As a 43 year old father, thanks for this one, we get a lot of hate these days.
And this ladies is what mature men find attractive... an intelligent woman that can use common sense and the intelligence the good lord gave her. Thank you for the video.
My parents divorced acrimoniously when I was five. I never saw him after that, and I was raised by my mother and my older sister who are vicious man-haters. My mother never married again, and my sister never married at all. The whole family was narcissistic, and I was the scapegoat child. I left at seventeen and never really looked back. My mother and my sister hated me because I resemble my father. Today I am keen to perceive man-haters. Man-haters are rife and are encouraged to come out of the closet and revel in their man-hate. This trend will hurt developing children most of all. It is doom approaching.
@@necrosteel5013 I wasn't old enough to diagnose, but I think her personality changed, and she bore a great, persistent bitterness. My father was not much either, but I really don't know much about him. She had a violent temper, but I was the only child she beat. She made it clear that she hated me, and my older sister did the same. There were several incidents where she beat me, but I never saw her do that to my brother or sister. It was very hard to understand her. She rambled in a confused manner, in my opinion, and I found her incoherent. I have a high intelligence, and that threatened her, so she tried to undermine my confidence.
Cary Baxter I see,I guess your experience is just one situation where the inconsistency of the human psyche results in a bad ending for everyone around them.
My father is dead for a long time and i lived with my mother, from what i have learned from living only with her, boys really need a father figure, a male role model for them to follow
Join the club however I was fortunate to have had several v good male role models. Despite this I'm often depressed and have contemplated suicide in the past. I've also been a victim of female sexual abuse and I'm the one that ended up in trouble with the police. Go figure. I suspect we all support equalility not male or female dog nation. Increasingly it appears that man these days are only nescessary for reproduction
You might be right. I have tried to meet with females my age and they act soo disrespectful. Can't imagine what it would be like dating those kind of people.
Literally though, that's the reason I kind of have an issue with lgbtq couples of men and couples of women adopting and raising kids. Sure the kid might still turn out alright, but that boy or girl is going to be lacking in the things that only having both a father and mother can teach them. Both mother and father teach different things that the kid needs to grow up to be a wise and mature adult. Just my opinion, I'm worried for how the future generation will turn out :/.
Bruh Imagine sacrificing yourself for your child, being a single father, working hard to provide for them, then suddenly Twitter woman comes In and you don't feel so good
Danish child : "Dad, why doesn't Denmark have cool Giant Spiders like Australia?" Danish Dad : "Your father is a beast of a man, who kills all the Giant Spiders." Danish Child : "Oh, ok." *_*thinks for a little bit*_* "Dad, where's all the man eating tigers?" Danish Dad : "Your grandfather was a beast of a man, who killed all the man eating tigers." Denmark : "Dammit, I used to be dangerous too!!" *_*sniff*_*
"your logic offends my feelings... my feelings count for more than your facts, and your feelings don't count for anything". I think that about covers it?!?
@Mark also a good male role model, is important for both sons and daughter. Someone to look up to for sons and someone to make daughters realize how a man is supposed to be
Saeemul Choudhury They will evolve to have dicks. And then start generating sperm, after a couple of hundred of years they evolved and now they have more mass and more muscle. They start cutting their hair more because it gets in the way- oh hold on. We just fucking created men
Hi my name is Clinton. I live in America am 32 years old and haven't seen my children in 7 years. While still paying child support while having ZERO legal rights to them. Their mother won all custody leaving me in enough debt to where I'll never get it paid off. As a male who has been broken by a large majority of the people in his life. I have toiled endlessly to right whatever cosmic wrong I did to deserve this pain. I don't have much in my life just what I've made or earned. I'm white, a male, and in no way privileged. Having been on my own since told to leave my home for nonconformacy to a way of life I didn't belive in. I graduated high school having only my tent and a pocket full of hopes and fears.I thuroughly enjoyed the four videos I've watched out of your collection and would like to thank you. This particular video really touched home. In my home state of Texas I was told a father is easy to replace while a mother can never be anyone but the biological mother is unfit and will corrupt the child's development. I had given up hope not to long ago and almost put an end to the pain. All because I fell for the wrong woman. But alas all I could think about was now she will get what she wants and could not go through with it. However after hearing your words I realize that not every woman will burn me as she did. It seems some good women are left in this world. Keep up the good work my friend.
I’m so sorry for what you’ve gone through I hope you’re in a better place and just know you’re stronger than you think. Your kids should be proud of having a dad like you. God bless
Your children will turnup at your door in the future.. They will question you about this forced estrangement ,it will damage the mother when truth is revealed ...patience ..write letters to each child on birthdays,and Fathers day expressing your love and thoughts and conclusions of life..keep these letters until they contact you.. then give the letters one at a time as truth of the mothers actions is hard to digest..the collapse of the belief system the mother has constructed will confuse and anger your children..your willingness to help them through this time will be a foundation to the relationship you will have for the rest of your lives..
Please don't give up :( I really hope you will see your kids some time in the future, so you can explain to them that you've been waiting on them for an eternity :)
How does it work in US, you pay and no accountability ? System should not make you debt .Do you have to pay if, your ex got a bf or Married ? What she already got one & hide from you ..
If that is true I urge you please take legal action as that is definitely not what you should get and the mother in this equation is absolutely disgusting for that. If it’s ur choice I respect that and if it’s the child’s choice I respect that too but if not then please take legal action
I don't know where I would be without my dad. He taught me so many important life lessons. It's crazy that people think that father's are not important when they absolutely are.
@Just Someone The world is kinda in better shape than it ever was you know. So many countries have reach first world condition. Might also mean climate change will kill us all, but I imagine you don't believe in that anyway.
It’s sad to see you list my city (Baltimore) here, but as a resident of of this city for 5+ years, it’s very scary to see first hand what is happening to the poverty stricken, fatherless parts of my city. It continues to get more and more violent and will only continue to spiral out of control. I see no hope in the near future for it and unfortunately will need to move away soon and suffer a horrible daily commute in order to ensure the safety of my family 😓 maybe one day people will stop pretending everything is okay and start voting in the right people that can change things. Until then, I will be forced to work, but not live, in Baltimore. Seeing one, incredibly destructive, riot is enough for one lifetime!
I raised by a single mum and two sisters and have seen far too many shrinks about how narcissistic and manipulative my mum is. Always telling me how bad of a person my dad is only to, (when i became an adult,) discovered my Dad was dragged through hell just to try and see me for a couple of days a week after she attempted to take everything he had, and then completely cut him off. I now get along with my father than my mother who raised me, and have never been happier though i wish my mother let my dad see me growing up. You dont have to be the best father, you just have to be "there". But for a mother to purposefully do that is toxic, incredibly selfish and narcissistic.
I feel thats what feminists want...all men to be in jails so they can inherit the Earth. When they want a baby they just drug up a chosen inmate, extract the sperm and use IVF.
@weirdalfanatic2788 men fought in the war for women. it is disgusting how people treat men. and feminists think men are sexist? there are so many amazing men. my dad, my brother, my sisters boyfriend, my neighbours, they're all amazing men. and there are so many more. and not all women are good. I have met some not very nice women. there was a women in 2009 who tried to murder her husband for his house and money. there was a women in the 90s who raped a man. there are good people and bad people in both genders.
@Kixi My sister asks me to babysit my nephew while she goes out with a new person once a week. When she gets home she doesn't take care of him, pay attention to him or interact with him at all she just knocks out. I can't begin to tell you how annoying it is.
I know, right?! My mom is a sweet and loving mother but she has a mental illness so without my father I would have probably ended up in the same situation! Ugh, I cannot stress enough how much I hate these crazy feminists.
@@l.m.8339 9:24 and listen to him because I totally disagree with you imagine what happened if nobody could be the father of a child anymore...? Literally we would create clones of Hitler or something like that since they will lack of empathy...
It's so fresh to ear your opinion, whish there would be more people thinking like you. I am a father of a 4 years old daughter and I absolutelly love her and couldn't live without. We have very strong ties and in my opinon, both father and mother have a very strong part on a childs grouth. Neither the fatther or the mother are more important, both are. As a final word, I am divorced but luky to have a kid that loves both her mom and dad the same way and spends equal time with both of them.
Father of three, grandfather of three here. ( 4 girls and 2 boys in total) I have dragged ALL of them either kicking and screaming or side by side through my wood shop, basic auto mechanics, electrical wiring, and mathematics ( most making it through calculus) I let them fail first off. But where I differ from my wife is that I show them how to pick themselves up and try again. Not coddling them and doing things for them. I’m not going to lie and say it’s easy. Building self reliance skills and self worth are shear gold for child development. Learning that the harder you work on something and the more effort you put into it, the more rewarding the experience. You may not have won, succeeded or achieved the goal you were trying for. But you gave it your all and there is no shame in that as long as you learned something about yourself along the way. These are lessons passed down to me from all the family men: father, grandfather, great uncle. Anyone thinking that they can raise a child on their own is at the least slightly narcissistic. Parenting is best done by as many adults as possible. Let’s face it children have way too much energy for anyone of us to keep up with on our own.😅
I feel your pain, my wife always stands between me and my daughter when I try to teach her. But my boys no problem. A joy to coach them through difficult times.
Another father, and I have always tried to do much of what you have said with our four...well, except the woodshop, because I don't have one. 😊 Interestingly enough, now that they are all grown, they are thankful for it.
Far as i can tell it takes 3 physically and mentally fit adults to keep up with and provide fully for one child. Not many of us had that. Pretty sure next to nobody now in thier 20's did....
I agree. This and Boy Scouts being changed to Scouts BSA is fucking dumb. Why should we allow girls into the Boy Scouts. There's a separate division for a reason. Tired of this PC crap. Its so fuckin dumb. Everything that pertains the male species is being eradicated due to these overly offended shitheads
@@Ozziemandias56 true, but instead of putting girls with boys on camping trips, because of obvious reasons, they should work on making girl scouts better, not forcing boy scouts into equality with benefits scouts, all because people are too stupid to fix something, that they rather dump it to ruin another similar thing. Common sense no longer exists with feminists running around like hypocritical fake victims, because they think women should have benefits for having a vagina, not actually equal rights.
Okay so my partner has two children from a previous relationship and he isn’t allowed to see, contact, or even send them birthday cards, and hasn’t done for over a year now. He has made multiple attempts to call them, send them cards, see them, all of which have been answered with their mother pulling them away from him or removing any evidence that he cares about them. Unless he takes her to court (which would cost approximately 8K which we don’t have), there is nothing that can legally be done. I know multiple fathers in similar situations, some who have actually taken their ex’s to court, been granted shared custody, and STILL had nothing done when the mothers have decided they dont want them seeing their kids, some who don’t even know where their kids are. Men literally have no legal rights when it comes to their children and so many of them get fucked over by a system that doesn’t care. It’s so depressing to see this treatment of men and fathers become a mainstream idea and anyone who is daft enough to think that fathers are literally just unnecessary sperm donors or that situations like this don’t affect the men or children involved are fucking idiots.
@David Stairs The legal system is a reflection of the culture. If you want to change the legal system, you have to change the culture. Until most people accept that feminism is evil, nothing will change for the better.
Anyone that would deny their child a father's love is not a fit parent, unless the father is a complete piece of shit. That being said, I had a girlfriend once who during our relationship lost custody of one of her sons, so there is hope for fathers that love their children to win such cases. But if you fight, just be sure it's for the children and not for yourselves.
Daryl Spiewak II not all cases have to do with a judge. Many cases it’s cause the father didn’t want anything to do with the child prior to it going to court. Naturally it’ll be ruled that the judge declares the child to be under full custody of the mother at that point. It happened to me. My father didn’t want me. In fact everyone but my mother wanted me to be aborted I was unwanted on all fronts. Yes I’m white having the lowest of the three main races of America (Caucasian, African American and some Latin descent) there’s also a cultural difference between those races. Ever look into Asian countries and their marriages. They have some of the lowest divorce rates cause it’s shameful to discredit a marriage. It’s also bad on the child as stated and one of the biggest things is to keep the family intact to maintain good standing with all members of the family and to those outside of it. However black families have the highest rate of fatherless homes and it seems to be a trend of the father leaving and not wanting the kid. And some point you need to ask why are people turning their back on their families (assuming they were even married when conception happened) and why people do not wish to stick around. I find the whole you didn’t have a father in the house you won’t be a proper man thing to be stupid. It’s nothing more than an excuse because you got dealt a bad hand and didn’t want to figure out a way around it. I was raised by a single mother and lived in a broken down trailer. She worked multiple jobs to keep us afloat and I even worked small jobs starting at the age of 7 to make some small money to buy myself things I wanted cause I didn’t have the cool J’s like everyone else, the new game system and so on. I wore hand me downs too big for me from cousins cause I was an only child for a long while. Despite that I still worked hard. And didn’t choose to do stupid crap because I’m “broken” and I definitely didn’t let it stop me from what I was doing. I never had a hard time getting dates when I was younger and I actually ended up marrying my high school sweetheart who I went to the same school with from elementary and up. I wasn’t the smartest kid but I managed to earn half a scholarship but I didn’t have any way to pay for the rest so I opted into the armed forces to get all my college free. That was a big risk but it was my choice. I now have 13 years of free college I can use however I please now with no worries of debt as I chose a route that would most benefit me. I didn’t become like the kids at my school who ended up in prison or druggies. They blame their parents even if they had both. It’s nothing but excuses and they don’t want to take responsibility for the things they chose to do up to that point. And that’s a fact
My dad was so important to me. My mother was never there for me emotionally and had favorites among my sisters and brother. I was basically the middle kid between the oldest, the youngest, and the only boy. I know my mother loved me in her own way, but I always got the brunt of any punishment and the easiest to dump on. My father just had love for each of us and I always felt his pride in being his daughter. If he wasn't in my life during those years, I don't think I would have ended up as well. Unfortunately, he passed a little over 30 years ago and I have never stopped missing him.
My heart broke hearing about the father who took his life. I narrowly avoided a similar fate while fighting for visitation with my oldest son. It still kills me that I wasn't there for him on a day to day basis and have to hope that the 2 weekends a month and occasional dinner visit were enough to assure him that I love him. He just graduated from high school and is going to college, so I've been dealing with all of that regret as he moves on with the next stage of his life. Again, thanks for your understanding and insight. It's really buoying.
Sydney, Thank you. I also am a father of 3 kids. and I could have very easily lost access to my kids as my ex wife tried to move them to Canada. thankfully our justice system in the US worked and they wanted to live with me, and the court agreed. but "There, but for the grace of God go I." LOVE this video.
I strongly recommend watching Dr Warren Farrell's talk. It's pretty terrific. Link in the description box :)
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Um, isn't instagram just Facebook, it will go the same way with censorship, I wouldn't promote it because it will eventually come for you, and of course will be selling your information as FB does.
Hi Sydney , lookin' great as always. Come visit Alabama soon. So you can change your name to Sydney Harrison,😘
One of us😬
@@frederickcatilian7886 so does google they were the first yet here you are
If fathers are obsolete, then child support payment should also be obsolete.
No money no means of buying stuff and actually needing to earn their own money that's how you stop feminist
Yeah, that won't happen. They will keep the father away, but divorce rape him for money.
I'm a single father. Filed for Child support..... haven't gotten any nor has she received any sort of penalties.
I'd probably be in jail if the roles were reversed.
Impossible.....the state makes wwwaaayyyy to much money off our labor.
@@someguy5673 very true sir.
My mom walked out on me and my sister when I was 4. My dad raised us. I now have 2 girls and they are my world! I’m a stay at home mom and wife. I’m the one with them 100% of the time. Even though their father is only home on the weekends, I’m woman enough to realize and say that he’s the better parent. It could be because he’s gone and misses them. He’s the one that puts a large tent in our second family room just for the girls when I’m the one that puts it up because it doesn’t belong there. He turns the house into a jungle gym with the couches, mattresses and ottomans, while I sigh because I now have a mess to clean up. But he’s taught me a huge lesson: laughter is the most beautiful thing. Who cares what the house looks like for a few hours. Live and laugh a little. Have adventures, even if they are inside the house. Have fun. The kids are only young for so long.
Fathers ARE necessary.
This is the most underrated comment i've ever had the pleasure to read.
I wish you the very best for you, your kids and their dad.
Underrated comment!!!
This put a tear in my eye
Wow thank you guys for the kind replies ❤️
Dont mind me, just waiting for an angry feminist to show up.....
I'm a single father, and I've been fighting for 2 years, just to be with my child. It's been psychological warfare and I've never been so depressed. My son lights up when he sees me, and it engulfs my heart with warmth, but it does nothing to convince his mother how important I am to the development of our son.
That being said, as of August 20, I will be a full time single father.
I would never, and will never stoop to the same level that she has, and I will always understand her importance in my son's life, but, I am grateful that the court has decided that I was the more stable parent, (psychologically, financially and emotionally).
I'll never talk trash about his mother to him, I'll never take her away from him, I'll never stop fighting for my son's well being, and I'll always be willing to help other men going through the same thing.
We need a drastic shift in how we treat fathers, or we're never going to create a shift the suicide rates in men.
I was there, and there's millions of men in that position, that need help and support.
We need to stop this ideology that, men are just brutish, emotionless, misogynist, and toxic womanizers, and realize that we're (for the most part) loving, caring, emotional and supportive creatures.
2 sides of the same coin people!
Never stop fighting for your children boys! They need us!
Good job getting your kids I'm working on the same thing with my son.
Looks like tomorrow is the special day I wish you luck be the best dad you can!!!
You are a good man. I hope everything for the best for you. I just got back in contact with my dad that i haven't seen in six years and i was so happy. My mom guilt tripped me into not seeing him since i was twelve and would tell me she would kill herself but i moved out of her place because she was super toxic to be around. She was the same with my sister who isn't with us anymore.
My mom hurt me and my sister a lot and fuelled the fire that was in my sister and that is why she isn't here anymore. I want to start new and be happy and feel free because i never had that with my mom. My mom tried to get me on disability so she could get money to get drugs and i will never forgive her for that.
Keep your head up bro im going through the same thing its been three years now its feels just as hard as day one but with a better understanding i still feel like i dont know what im doing
I feel you, mate.
The justice system is so messed up.
When my parents split, I was old enough to choose who I wanted to live with, I chose my Dad by my mom wasn't having it. So I was forced to go back and forth for nearly six years. My mom fought so hard to keep me in her life, but she didn't want to pay for anything I needed, parent me or even treat me with any kind of mutual respect. For her it was a stab at my Dad. I ended up developing severe depression, multiple eating disorders and body dysmorphia. (luckily I am pretty far along in my recovery and at a decent state, mental health wise)
Fathers are essential and it pains me to see so many courts just hand full custody to mothers no question asked. I am lucky that I am "stronger" than my mother and fought tooth and nail until she gave up and let me stay at my Dads full time.
God this is a long comment, but its nice getting it off of my chest. :)
It is wonderful to know that you are doing better now, wish you all the best in life. You are heard.
@@easterlee2143 thank you, that means so much 😊
@@Jordan.elaine I'm kinda late but I hope you're doing better now.
I am so sorry to hear that. :/ I wish you a speedy recovery. Prayers going up!
I’m so sorry that you had to go through this nightmare.
As a fatherless child, its genuinely saddens me that people want fathers day essentially gone. Though i do have a loving mother, I still feel like theres a huge hole in my life.
Same
I am fortunate enough to have both parents active in my life, even at 32 years old. I cannot imagine life without my Dad. I always looked up to my Dad and still rely on his input to this day. I'm a Daddy's Girl through and through.
I was raised by a single father and virtually have no relationship with my mother due to her own life choices so I would absolutely refuse to call father's day mother's day. This concept that all mothers are the best in the world is tiring. Yes, some are outstanding but not all are.
Same here
Same. Dad left me so i was forced to stay with mom
Feminists: men are unnecessary.
Also feminists: why won't anyone date me!?
Sam Valladares
Bc Rule 1- Potential partner must NOT be a feminist, they are hateful, spiteful, weak-minded people who are not worth my time and energy
Lol
@@Duval-In-The-Wall 🤔😜
@@africaisacontinent2149 😂
@@epixkid1127 😵🙃
Well I'm a single father. How about changing mother's day to special persons day?
Also I've had my daughter since she was 2 weeks old. Now 12 she is an honor student. She eats her veggies, she goes to the gym with me and she trusts me. (she told me about her first crush without me asking)
Fathers for the win!
Love your channel!
Dad of the year dam man
@@iscott3187 thank you!
you have been rewarded the following medals:
dad of 2008
dad of 2009
dad of 2010
dad of 2011
dad of 2012
dad of 2013
dad of 2014
dad of 2015
dad of 2016
dad of 2017
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She told you her crush? You sir, deserve an award
Fixing to be in the same boat as you OP with 3 kids. 8 y.o. boy, 4 y.o. daughter, and 18 month boy. My kids love me and respect me. They always talk about what I do for them and how I buy them things and am always there for them.
"The push to rename father's day, special persons day, so children without a dad are not offended."
I thought Father's day was meant to celebrate Fathers, not children.
Also
What about motherless children?
This whole renaming thing is so dumb
@@dreysantillan Yeah plus special persons day doesn't make sense as a holiday lol
@@erikmckoul2478 lmao special person's day, that is not even about parents anymore my special person could be that teacher I liked going through puberty😅 dumbest fucking shit ever
And I love how they're discussing something that is related to fathers and children and the one who is speaking is a karin
I don't see the logic there then how about children without a mother????
If we named Father’s Day “Special Person’s Day” for kids that don’t have dads, shouldn’t we rename Mother’s Day “Special Person’s Day” too for kids that don’t have moms? I mean, please think before you speak.
kweenofhugz :D Unfortunately it’s not the internet, this is literally ideas being implemented. I work at a school and I know a lot of schools don’t say anything about Mother or Father’s Day anymore, there’s only “Family Day”.
special persons day sounds like disabled people day
@@PriscilaKlopper Super offensive to orphans we gotta change the name!
@@PriscilaKlopper At least thats for BOTH days and it's not only kicking dads out.
In my state father's day is after the school year has ended which is the reason I credit for it not being celebrated as much because theirs just less hype. Perhaps it's because there's more single mothers than single father's or perhaps it because a man that has actually fought and won custody, or split custody or even just supervised visitation, knows all too well that he has to Foster healthy communication between the child and the other parent while the single mother who gets custody by default and or never had to fight for rights or custody isn't worried about that.
as the daughter of a single dad...I can confidently say that my dad was pretty necessary.
I guarantee you that he was fsr more necessary to you than your mother past the toddler stage.
Agreed. My mom died when I was a baby in 9/11, so my father pretty much raised me and my sister on his own
@@wickedweavile4612 wow
😌 a fellow woman of culture. So there are some good women left in the world
Everyone needs a single male to reproduce not two. Just making fun of your comment.
Luke, I am your special person
-NOOOOOOOOOOO...
Owh god 😂
Hahahhahahaha broooo 🤣
Sounds like something out of "Back strokes of the west"
Lol right
Actually its no I am your father, no one asked but I did anyway like a coke
Fathers are important. Single mother 'trend' is toxic. Children need both parents.
as a son of a single mother.Yes,my mother is toxic
Faxxx
Usually it's the single-mother son that becomes a rapist/killer/beat of women these so called feminists are fighting so hard against. But heck yeah go single-mothers!!
@selenite That only applies if the data pool is small, if it's in most of the cases then indeed correlation does equal causation.
@@daniroadto900lbsdeadlift4 its true there's a psychology journal about children raised in dysfunctional families (single parent, parents who abandon children, etc) showing more tendency towards crimes. But not exclusively the single mother's fault.
I grew up in a single parent house with just my dad after my "mom" abandoned her entire family . so can we rename mothers day "special person's day"? as it offends me .
Read my mind.
I thought the same
Changing either would be a slap in the face to parents. I honestly can't understand how this can be considered ok on any level.
thats just as stupid as changing fathers day...
@Another Agent wow i bet you get all the ladies talking like that douchenozzle
“Fathers are no longer necessary”
time to pull out crime statistics
Fathers are needed
It isnt just men committing crimes. A lot of women get their self worth and self esteem from their father. Kind of sad but you see it a lot, these girls fall for the very first loser that pays attention to them, they get knocked up at the age of 16 and that guy leaves. It's a terrible vicious cycle.
A single parent household has statistically proven to produce more delinquints.
Check out the Deadly Women channel, so many are sadistic mothers poisoning or torturing their spouses and kids
There was also a huuuuuuge chunk of history where women were thought to be "too gentle and delicate" to be capable of murder, as time goes on cases from before 1900 are coming up as female serial killers, a lot of whom married for status then killed then married for more status in part because it was so easy to get life insurance on other people back then
I believe He is saying that crime statistics are massively in favor of dad's being important.. like overwhelmingly
When my marriage broke down my ex wife and I made an agreement that we would not use our son against each other. I was soon to learn that this was an empty promise. When I met a new partner my ex wife used my son's anger from the divorce against the new partner and the pressure worked as she left. Now armed with this success she then had my son turn his anger directly against me and it also worked. Basically I lost all contact with him for approx 5 years. I knew if I chased after him I was proving everything my ex wife was saying was true and that I was this "ugly" person. So all I could do is wait and hope. Out of the blue my son contacted me and wanted to talk. We met and I said little opting to listen to him instead (scary tactic for me). He actually told me how he felt about me and kind of what he was told about me but he also noticed I didn't act that way while he was talking. Today I have an incredible relationship with my son. I don't push anything on him, merely give him support when needed and give him a place to openly talk without fear of criticism. I have only made one request, that is that he is to keep loving his mother however we are never to be under the same roof at the same time because of what was done. He thankfully fully understands this request. It seems time, patience and a very big dose of luck has paid off.
There is hope then for me. Has been almost 2 years, since I have scene my boy. Paying $600.00 monthly in child support. Taken, even if I do not make it.The worse part for me is the state will NOT allow me to divorce, because I have no address. To serve to. Will not give me address. Supper, frustrated. One day at a time....
Thank you for sharing. Gives me hope.
God Bless Everyone
Went 16 years without seeing my daughter, was a fantastic time when we did reunite! Sometimes patience is the only key!
@@garethfossey9590
Thank you. I really need to be reminded. As you know how frustrating it is.
God Bless Everyone
@@garethfossey9590 I’m so happy for you, but this needs to be fixed. I am only sixteen and look forward to being a father one day, but I don’t think I could stand not seeing my child for that long. Child custody and divorce settlements and all that need to be fixed to make it fair for fathers
@@maximilliansmith4922 My advice is get custody papers in writing before you even have kids. Go to a lawyer and get guaranteed custody up front. I think this will be more common as time goes on. Also have the DNA checked before you sign for being the father.
I am a single father of a daughter. My wife passed away and I was bullied for wanting to take care of my daughter as a single father to the point I was forced to give guardianship of daughter to my in laws. Apparently it's wrong for single dad to raise his daughter. But at the same time that's not what Full House taught me.
Please fight to get her back. It will damage her badly. My granddad lost his wife and my mom went to live with relatives. She felt abandoned and never learned how to love or feel secure. My siblings and I suffered for it. That kind of damage goes on forever.😥
Please, please, please fight for her. She’s yours not theirs. She needs you more than you’ll ever know. 😢
I'm so sorry! That's so heartbreaking 💔
Audacity to claim a Child which is not even there
We can empower women without stepping on men same thing on racism
some people need to hear this
Same thing with whites, same thing with men...
I don’t think feminists understand this
Yes! This is what people need to hear.
Right but then the left doesn't stand to gain as much. We need whatever "solution" can be exploited the most - chiefly, foster infighting as much as possible.
"If we think about children's right..." Children have the right to have a mother and a father. End of story.
All children have a mother and a father...they have the right to have a mother and a father in their home that they know and loves them.
Thats the FACT!
Conservative Gal Absolutely,several years ago an intelligent woman even included that very point ,at a meeting, to the UN..when they were "platforming" the idea of the rights of children....much to their " surprise " God bless.
"Kids without dads get offended on Fathers Day."
So... what about kids without moms on Mothers Day? Not gonna talk about that one, of course they're not, because THAT DOESN'T FIT THE NARRATIVE!
Yeah man I remember being 7 when my birth dad wasn't there and I just loaghed fathers day ugh I was so offended by seeing other people talk but now my new dad has made the day not offensive :)))
@@poppykatbs14 Wait you were really offended by fathers day, that's weird, but at least your not offended by it anymore.
As a kid growing up without a father/father figure, I am offended by them trying to minimize the importance of fathers
@@nishita3084 grew up without a father too
And I feel the same
Moreover, what about people without partners on Valentine day!
Dads are important. Daughters look up to their father as strong male example. Sons look up toward their fathers as strong coach.
I am confident that the reason my fiancé is such a good woman is because her father and mother are such good male/female role models. Her father especially.
Mother: *drug addict, cheater, rude, pro-disease*
Father: *firefighter, amazing, fit, loving*
Court: well, she IS a woman so... full custody goes to Karen!
Court: oh yeah you have to pay for all their purchases
Father: kills him self
I commented this before just take your life in court while saying “I will like to see you try to make me pay for a women that cheated on me,is rude, and get my kids sick”
And then Karen uses all the money to herself it barely uses any on the child
So true
True , and worst of all is that many of my fellow Fireman take their lives, begin using drugs, or abusing alcohol because of it so thanks a lot feminists.
"Are men necessary?" Thanks for making me feel like and object, and not a person.
Feminists think men objectify woman while hypocritically objectifying men in the procesd.
*Guess ill die*
@@tomgeytenbeek2207 ......my dad left me when I was 2. I soon began to develop alot of anxiety and depression
So no I'm not fine and never fucking will be fine
Tom Geytenbeek see they do, and always will, just like we’ll always need mothers. But if they ever get rid of 1, the consequences of that will be catastrophic
@@OnionKnight0000 I'm sorry to hear that, mate :/ just on the off chance my sarcasm didn't quite land, I'm with you- both parents are a seriously and deeply important part of childhood, and it's horrible when one or both of them are removed.
Again, I'm sorry to hear the crap that's put you through. Hope life throws you a few good father figures at some point to make up for things a little bit.
Fathers are not becoming less important, they're becoming less and less respected and appreciated. More and more young men do not want to get married or have children. Coincidence?
Are u sure cause i've seen so many women who don't want to get married and only realises at or close to 40 that oh i don't have my own family. Mhh i guess why, cause they always look for the perfect male or just deny their existence.
@@mathewmantas Yes, I am sure more and more young men are choosing to never marry or cohabitate with women and to definitely never have children. Instead, knowing the screwing they're in for if they do marry or cohabitate, especially if they father a child, they choose to put themselves first instead of marrying and starting a family.
Most women I've seen who decide not to ever get married are successful, career-minded businesswomen who make a high salary. These women represent a small percentage of women overall.
The young men choosing to go their own way, on the other hand, come from all walks of life on every economic level, with the youngest being teens still in school.
MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) is growing quickly. For every one who identifies as MGTOW to publicly spread the philosophy, there are many more who remain silent and simply drop out of the dating/marriage game.
Either way, though, the birthrate and marriage rate are at an all time low in the US and it is expected to go much lower. The disconnect I see between men and women only looks to get worse as time goes by, so I think the predictions are accurate, no matter who gets the credit for destroying the institution of marriage.
Over 50 never married, didn't know what MGTOW was until a couple of years ago. I've got a 29yr old very interested in me at the moment. I know she's got a child, but she's still under one yrs old
@@drsiigabb9935 Don't fall for it, it's a trap! She's interested in and attracted to your resources. If you marry her or cohabitate with her, she'll be able to claim half your wealth by leaving you, getting what she really wants without having to be with you, which she never wanted in the first place.
My advice, get a modern, realistic sex doll and wish her the best of luck with her life. Best money you'll ever spemd.
@@tomgault1079 I'm one,its a waste of time
When I was growing up "Special People" was a term used for people with learning disabilities!!
Exactly what I was thinking when I heard this wtf
Remember when we were kids and we had those arguments of who's better boys or girls... I'm guessing feminist never grew out of that stage of their life
My father died when I was a baby and my whole life I’ve felt like something is missing. I think both parents are very important in a persons life.
F
Yes, 100%, mine passed a couple months ago and I’m sorry for your dad, I hope he was a great guy and I’m really just glad I got to know mine
F
Rest in Peace...
Mine was reversed I had a father but my mama passed away when I was 1. That feeling I had that something is missing is what Im sure kids who dont have a father feel.
father: pillars of the family
mother: light of the family
Feminist: DESTROYERS of a family
Aaron dela cruz truth: destroyers of femenism
Amen to all of you!
Amen to all of you
Lol
Nice
My dad grew up without a father, and while I really consider him an amazing father, I've seen how much that lack of a dad affected him. There are conversations we can't have, things I can't ask, and wounds that cannot stop bleeding, no matter how much the mantra "time heals all wounds" continues to be repeated. I love my dad, and I wouldn't be striving to become a good man without him.
Can't you ask him Apollos and discuss it with him? Maybe he does not know that you are wanting answers, how could he if you are silent on the subject? I am much older than you and my father died of cancer in 2017, I was lucky, both of my parents were loving and caring. Not gloating, it makes me feel more strongly for those who did not have the benefit of loving parents. You don't want to regret asking the questions. He may open up if you approach it the appropriate way.
I am a full custody single dad of a 4 year old daughter.... her mom bailed when she was 2 months old... so please tell me f3minits who is taking care of my child??? oh yeah i am also straight white and male.
Yep I know how you feel, my wife bailed on our 1st and only premature daughter while she was still in the hospital then had the nerve to take it to court.
I guess they're scared of your story...
All you guys are heroes and I appreciate you.
@@kasapkrvnik7799 I only said it because my ex stole my son and it's been 14years and I'm 1 of these dads that was tossed aside by the court even though I'm the sane 1 but I faithfully pay support to her hoping it goes to him. Dads like you show not all of us are deadbeat or expendable
Feminists, seeing the last part of this comment: *STOP OPPRESSING MEEEEEEE!*
Also, keep on going, man! I'm sure you're a great parent, and a good person in general :)
Fathers are unnecessary.
Me: Runs to tell my friends their child support payments are also unnecessary.
oh man! Perfect!👌🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Brilliant! If men are so unnecessary than why do you need their money? May I use this? I live near a hotbed of SJWs and I'm always looking for new ammo. 😎
@@kristicottrell8244 haha feel free to use it 😂😂
Thats gold
Is it too late to get a refund?
My Dad was responsible for just about every fun activity in my childhood: toboganning, skating, cross country skiing, swimming, camping, card games etc etc etc. He was also the person we girls (me and my sisters) could talk to. My Mum was wonderful in so many other ways - she has been gone almost 10 years and I miss her every single day - but life would have been really boring and lonely without my Dad.
Mother are helpful too, but its (my father and my grandpa) who teach how to drive a tractor and a combine harvester to do jobs on my father farm ( basically, my grandfather was a farmer and became a trucker for 30 years and now, my father own the farm and I will own the farm later) In short word: three boys plus my grandmother and my grandfather divorced when my father was young but saw his two parents and is ok and eventually my grandmother got breast cancer so she came back to live at my grandfather house and he takes care of her her.
Plus, if it wasn’t for father or my grandfather, I would never have learned how to drive a backhoe loader and a tractor at 5 year old sat on the lap of my grandpa, an other thing we do together is that when he do trucking for is job, I can come with him and I have fun
im a boy and I want kids latter because they can be your helper like I am myself on the farm and and I will probably take care of my two parents when they will be old
Your xp explains why 2 parents are important.
Im so sad that my other grandfather that died of cancer:(my cousin just doesn’t like me my other one likes me and i miss my aunt and my uncle they’re in Australia
@@spookzer16it’s ok. Sometimes I want to bitch-slap my sister as well
"Men are no longer necessary"
*Birth rate: Au revoir*
Ahh, français. C'est bien.
lol
More like: *a dieu*
or to be more manly: TSCHÜSS! Auf Nimmerwiedersehen!
Bonjour mon ami
Me not knowing French.
*BAGUETTE BAGUETTE BAGUETTE BAGUETTE*
"We're changing the name of Father's Day because we want to include fatherless children!"
Then are you going to do the same thing with Mother's Day? Children can also be motherless.
Exactly!
Of course not :D cause feminists cabt handle their shit
Although motherless children definetly exist, fatherless children are more common.
@@toasturhztoastbunz896 No. It's just more heard of.
My kids are motherless
Silly me, I thought Father's Day was for the fathers not the children....
LOL I used to buy my dad gifts for his day , mot anymore.
Right? Why would kid’s get offended by Father’s Day from not having a father when the holiday is for the father, not the kid?🤨
they don't want to leave some children out, because they don't have a father. There was a big fuss that a "father daughter dance" night would exclude some kids, kids without fathers.
@@stephenc2481 There’s a *big* difference there. A father daughter dance is for both the father *and* the daughter(and btw, what about the sons, huh? They don’t seem to care about sons getting left out of father daughter stuff) whereas Father’s Day is for *the FATHERS,* not the children.
@@lewisaino did he die
So "father's day" should be "specials whatever" cause some children don't have fathers
What about children without mothers?
It's just Others Day
yeah exactly theres such thing as absent mothers
luna wolf Good movie
THANKYOU 👏👏👏 as a person who's mother has passed away I always skip mother's day in school
"Wait those exist?"
- some crazy feminist if they read this comment
The night my parents divorced, my mom was screaming at my dad. Me and my siblings saw this, and my younger brother and sister went to help him. My older brother went upstairs while I cried on the floor. The court gave my mom ownership of us, and she proceeded to abuse us.
Fun times.
My boyfriend grew up without his father and he has a lot of pain from that. Fathers are so necessary, it's disgusting people think they aren't.
This is starting to look like the breakdown of society once the family unit is gone what Society do you have left.
It's what the Left always does: communists, socialists, atheists, feminists, environmentalists. Indoctrinate the children and destroy the family so that they have nowhere to turn but the state.
@F G -- I wouldn't say it was "before" the indoctrination, but you are absolutely right that it was part of the same program.
These morons are the minority though. Don't worry about it, they may have their time in the sun right now but it will all come crashing down, and when reality kicks in they won't survive because they don't know how to.
Starting to? Where you been the last 20 years? LoL
Well you have post birth abortion now so...
my child needs her father. just like i need my husband. this actually makes me angry how this is happening....
This is happening because people Don't realize that family is more than a biological kid and biological parent living together, family is a bond that stands through all time, doenst matter who you're born with, it's who you'll die for.
I know this basic lesson AND I'M 16 and my Girlfriend is 19, once I'm out of University I'm dedicating my entire life to the woman that saved me from suicide. I hope you and your husband are well. Enjoy your lovely lucky family
@@stealthbrawler i agree
Don't let it happen to you, there's no need to let it effect you x
Me too!
How its happening? Their called Democrats - Modern Day Nazi's
I lost my dad to suicide about 3 years ago, ide be offended is fathers day was changed to "special persons day" for completely taking my dad out of it. dads deserve recognition as much as mothers do.
Sorry 😢 for loss keep head up
Dang man never forget your father he will always be looking over his son
My sincerest condolences for your loss. To take away a day dedicated to fathers because being a man is offensive is ludicrous and should not ever be considered, let alone allowed to happen. There are great fathers in this world, and having this ideology is a huge slap in their face. Fathers deserve recognition.
I was a child of a single mother. YES, THEY ARE NECESSARY!
I am sorry to heard that. You are a brave person admiting your reality. If I could let you have mine I would gladly do. He is amazing, funny, hard working, creative, street wise, smart, intelligent and one hell of a lady's man at 73. My mom died few years ago and he was right at her side every single day in the elderly home. We need more people like him.
Emily You’re blaming a child during its development. Really?
Have you ever met children? They’re feral. It is the job of the parents, the wider family, and the whole of society to raise them. Setting boundaries is a critical part of that, and it is somewhat typical for women to be more kind and forgiving, thereby unknowingly neglecting that essential duty.
Statistically overlapping curves and all that - there are plenty of hard-ass mothers around, with daddy being the sweet (cough gullible cough) one.
@Emily He was a child. What child (on this planet) doesnt try to get away with as much as possible. I did you did. A father is much less likely to be walked on. Plus its a second person to try to get by. Get out of your feelings for 5 seconds.
@Emily ok so you missed the point.
I have a cousin who was raised by a single mother and she treated him like shit, forcing him to eat canned food and left over food so she could eat out more often and she also likes to talk down to him like he is a stupid slave, now he is in his late 20s and he has a girlfriend that has tamed him so much to the point where she makes him do all the housework even though he earns 90% of the money in their household, she even cucked him by taking his money and spending it on another man, he is doing all this because he get pussy once in a blue moon. when i confronted him about it he told me to f off as im a evil misogynist. all i said was there are better women out there why are you paying for a roommate that takes your money and spends it on another guy, you are just her walking atm, and now he looks at me like im the enemy. there is only 1 type of single mother i can give some respect towards and that is a widow other than that most are terrible to society as a whole
The world need women like you.
Knockout i want a girl like her
Needs**
true
True, as a womam, I am so done with having fake female friends, with a narcissistic behaviour and also see stupid feminists all the time that ruin true women's reputation, making ppl questioning their morals.
Nethascot X What is your mother tongue?
"We don't need men.. except when there's a war to fight" ' -- got it
Yeah until u need bodyguard
So we are robots. That needs the permission of entitled , beluga whales. Just one more reason to die.
@@nickim1085 Yup - 1 in a million - let's ignore the 999.999 and focus on the 1 - we are SUCH mysogynists!!!
@@yunak8106 have you ever heard of the dahomey warriors?
@@yunak8106 especially when it comes to the military, where men are rigurously trained in combat. even though one might argue that women would get the same training (or maybe even a better one), the physiological differences between male bodies and female bodies would result in a fight that is tilted (at the least) in favor of men.
As a father myself, I experience this first hand often. Mothers get 99.9 percent of the credit.
I wouldn't be a fraction of the person I am today if my grandfather hadn't acted as a father-figure to me. I was very lucky to have someone in my life to serve this roll.
neither would i be 1% of the person i am without my father. He is an amazing husband, father and man. I remember a day he arrived home completely torn apart by his job and tired as hell, and he went to my mother who was sick and asked her what he could do for her. That's the man my father is, he can be tired and sick as hell, but he still works hard and shows his love to his family. Apparently the same people who hates anything man related would love a father like mine. In the meantime, my mom had an abscent father who cheated on my grandma, and it impacted her life very bad. My grandpa died last month and my mom cried, so did my aunts and my uncle, because he was their father and they still loved him. He was an abscent father but he wasn't a bad person, and still, his abscence was really bad for her. Lack of not only fathers but masculine fathers is doing such a harm to society, the only people who don't see it are those who don't wanna see or pretend not to.
I grow up without a father in my life it a hard road to recovery from i have to learn all by myself or take little information about how to be a great man by my mother ex-boyfriend but now i am a good man
Yes same for me, but my grandfather was a bigger man, than my father, a famous man in my state, well known, I've gone on to be a third generation miner in my state, now I'm well known, for what I do, I have a 6 Yr old, she knows her dad well! And I wouldn't let anyone, anything get between that, I don't care if you're a screaming feminazi, some Marxist moron, not going to happen ever
@@bradmasters8491 i am happy you have your grandfather as your roll model
i don't have that
Well I did, he died, but the four matriarch daughters decided not to tell anyone he was in hospital sick, and through absolute stubbornness on behalf of their's he is fine, he died without anyone saying goodbye, within two days of being hospitalised, advanced bone marrow cancer, so I have a pretty piss poor, ability to accept matriarch society because emotion does not make good decisions,
I have 3 daughters and a son. Fathers are crucial for sons, but for daughters we are irreplaceable. Daughters learn from their fathers how men think, get their sense of dignity and self-respect from their father’s attention. A father also shows his daughter what platonic love looks like, and later in life she’ll be able to discern between men seeking a marriage and family as opposed to just sex. Most of all, how her father treats her mother will inform her expectations of her future husband. A mother teaches a daughter how to be a woman, but a father teaches her how to be a wife through his interactions with her mother. This is why girls from a single mother household are much more likely to be pregnant in their teens and to be single mothers themselves.
Amen to that. The idea of "Men teaching girls how to select husbands" idea is just so good and so important, yet so underappreciated.
@@dondemitri3760 Did you just say Amen?
So many of my 19-year-old daughter's friends are truly wrong in the head due to lack of influence of the father. So true.
So glad you brought up that point. Boys clearly need fathers....and so do girls.
Even the worldly show How I Met Your Mother acknowledged that the connection between promiscuity and daddy issues. It’s not loving dads that create porn stars. It is absent or abusive dads that do. And that is obviously not every guy (despite the feminist rhetoric.) Sadly selfish women are justifying pushing loving fathers out of their kids lives by this leftist nonsense.
Allie Davis Perhaps the saddest thing of all is that it is not hard to do. You don’t have to read parenting books or be a child psychologist, you just have to love them.
My wife and I have talked about this before, when our eldest daughter was born, that I feared the worldly would impress upon my daughter the values of promiscuity and worthlessness it entails. One of the things I love most about my wife is her dignity - what humans used to call class - and virtuousness. I wanted my daughter to grow up knowing she was loved, and that her body was a precious gift not to be misused. My wife simply says that’s what her father gave her by being around.
My eldest is 10. Last year she came home crying from school, saying another girl didn’t think she was pretty. What’s telling is that did not run to her mother, but to me, to tell me what the other girl said. Later I realized she was instinctively seeking male affirmation. Her mother wouldn’t lie to her, but she needed to know males did believe she was pretty. It was very insightful.
What they call masculinity is actually the teachings of chivalry, bravery, strength, leadership, and sacrifice.
Most of chivalry is dueling
Instead of holding a door open for a lady challenge her to a duel
Chivaly is mainly dueling
Well boys, time to challenge feminists for a duel to the death
@@reggy7706 That wouldnt be a duel.
My wife and I raised 3 very articulate,respectful,and successful boys,all without the help of Parents Magazine,or quack Psychologists--what a miracle!!
Did some of these people that created "Special Persons day" Completely forget that there's kid without moms either 💀💀
That's what I was thinking too, my friend's mom committed suicide, so is mother's day offense towards him?
I have to say this though, he's fine with it. He makes jokes about it.
I have a friend that parents left a 5 year old to their parents because they were more interested in drugs and money than in her and she don't get offended when we talk about those special day
Is that a Hunter reference
My question is 'Was Mother's Day eliminated at the same time?'.
and yknow nobody would even THINK about renaming mothers day
I’ve grown up without a dad. I have social anxiety, have been depressed a lot, and am a “nice guy”. I missed out having a masculine role model. Boys need that.
@weirdalfanatic2788 please just go home
@weirdalfanatic2788 masculinity is not toxic lol. there's nothing wrong with it. what is wrong with being a bit masculine? being strong isn't going to make you toxic. not all men are bad, most men are great people. if all men are bad people, I guess that means you are too?
@weirdalfanatic2788 are you joking i can't tell
@weirdalfanatic2788 you must have been dropped as a child.Thats also a double standard. Strong women = good, strong man = bad. Hahaha this world is doomed.
@weirdalfanatic2788 um no becuase thats genocide. I see that you think all men are bad, may I ask who gave you this idea?
Dads are definitely crucial for daughters as well.
Yeah father's make daughters less likely to be whores, just saying, girls are more likely to be slots if they don't have a good father figure.
@Michael Chan wat? I think you responded to the wrong thread.
@Michael Chan okay man lol
On the topic of "boys will be boys", my dad has never once said that. He liked to play wrestle with my brothers when he was younger and likes playing with our dogs, but never tolerated violence. He's more sharp about it than my mother, who has said "boys will be boys" before.
Modern feminism: What's mine is mine and what's yours is also mine.
Karen took the kids
ironwolf56 u smart
You mean all feminist
which is communism
Larfleeze could not said it better.
"A mother's best threat to her kids is "I'm gonna tell your Daddy"-Chris Rock
"Of course you can raise a kid without a father, you can also drive with your feet, doesn't mean it's a good fucking idea"- also Chris Rock
@McBizz 9 yes, I guess that clarification was needed, thank you...
Preach man,preach
Yep! The first time I heard that one (2) I fell off my chair.
@McBizz 9 you dont drive woth your feet you press the pedals with them and drive with your eyes and hands
FATHER'S ARE UNNECESSARY? no wonder there are so many people in Jail
"Why don't men want to date us and want to start a family?"
"Maybe it's because you crap on them and crap on fathers."
"No, I think it's just because they're toxic."
"....."
..For real, dude.
Had a gal friend rant about how much white men sucked, only to lament how nobody approached her for a date not three sentences later. I just don't get that kind of logic.
How dare anyone say fathers are unnecessary have y’all seen ice age
It's nuts. I lived with my mom after her and my dad divorced, but I would have been devastated had he been taken from my life. Dad was always in my life and he always made sure we were cared for, even outside of child support. Father's are important in a family structure NO MATTER WHAT.
and have y'all played Dad of Boi?
That movie was shit! Don’t remind me!
@Soul Wandering I know, not to mention the baby was picked up by three MEN before his DAD found him 😂
Or full house?
I’ve been a single dad since my son was 1. He’s 7 now....his mom doesn’t help never has, and she only sees him maybe once a month for a few hours. I do homework with him, I teach him, I discipline, I feed him, i explain right and wrong to him as best I can.... a daunting task when it seems right and wrong is changing by the week now.... I do everything for my son and without a woman’s help.... and yet I still get nasty comments from teachers and government workers and all kinds of folks because they don’t think a man is capable of being a good single parent.
The rap I’ve been through as a single father, would shock you.... I will never ever get married or have more kids. It’s way to terrifying of a prospect to risk undertaking again.
Archer Hawke start a court case for child support. See what the result is
I know it's not much from a stranger on the internet, but I'm really glad that you take good care of your son and I'm really sorry, that people give you such a hard time. It really boggles my mind that some people are so nasty to fathers! I for one really appriciate my father and thinking back my childhood would have been so much worse without him. So keep it up and don't let these idiots put you down. I'm sure you are doing great and your son loves you for it!
@@Mrsmeigor it does mean something. I appreciate you saying that.
@@somedude9771 been there done that. Got nowhere except poorer and more demonized by the courts and ex and my own family.
your a goddamn hero sir.
So i was a single father for many years before i remarried, no one ever suggested getting rid of mothers day, what a crock
I was a single father to two small children. When they got a little older and came to the conclusion, on their own, that their mother was toxic to their well being, they cut all ties with her. No more mothers day for her.
How the FUQ did you find a woman willing to marry you? All the women here in the US are man-hating feminazi's. Even with the novelty of an Australian in the USA, because of my white skin and middle age, I'm part of that dreaded "patriarchy", dripping with my "white privilege" and thus I must be shunned! I must be purged, and forced to die alone!
Lurch USA is it worse in England 😕
Lurch is a bit. A joke. Not real.
@@asnekboi7232 It's the same
I just found the channel, love the info. Facts mixed with some humor is always a win. As a 43 year old father, thanks for this one, we get a lot of hate these days.
And this ladies is what mature men find attractive... an intelligent woman that can use common sense and the intelligence the good lord gave her.
Thank you for the video.
Ye exactly that's what makes her hot xd , she is so logical
Tomi Lahren too 😍
She is easy on the eyes but her logic is soo attractive.
Yay. You're the first woman to finally understand us! Bravo!
Yes, this right here!
My parents divorced acrimoniously when I was five. I never saw him after that, and I was raised by my mother and my older sister who are vicious man-haters. My mother never married again, and my sister never married at all. The whole family was narcissistic, and I was the scapegoat child. I left at seventeen and never really looked back. My mother and my sister hated me because I resemble my father. Today I am keen to perceive man-haters. Man-haters are rife and are encouraged to come out of the closet and revel in their man-hate. This trend will hurt developing children most of all. It is doom approaching.
Cary Baxter how did your father and mother even end up together if she was that much of narcissism.
necro steele she turned into the monster after he left
Richard Hobbs perhaps that was the case
@@necrosteel5013 I wasn't old enough to diagnose, but I think her personality changed, and she bore a great, persistent bitterness. My father was not much either, but I really don't know much about him. She had a violent temper, but I was the only child she beat. She made it clear that she hated me, and my older sister did the same. There were several incidents where she beat me, but I never saw her do that to my brother or sister. It was very hard to understand her. She rambled in a confused manner, in my opinion, and I found her incoherent. I have a high intelligence, and that threatened her, so she tried to undermine my confidence.
Cary Baxter I see,I guess your experience is just one situation where the inconsistency of the human psyche results in a bad ending for everyone around them.
My father is dead for a long time and i lived with my mother, from what i have learned from living only with her, boys really need a father figure, a male role model for them to follow
Yes. i lost my father when i was 13 years old and have lived with my sister and mother since. (7years now) and i have felt that since it happened
Join the club however I was fortunate to have had several v good male role models. Despite this I'm often depressed and have contemplated suicide in the past. I've also been a victim of female sexual abuse and I'm the one that ended up in trouble with the police. Go figure. I suspect we all support equalility not male or female dog nation.
Increasingly it appears that man these days are only nescessary for reproduction
You might be right. I have tried to meet with females my age and they act soo disrespectful. Can't imagine what it would be like dating those kind of people.
Literally though, that's the reason I kind of have an issue with lgbtq couples of men and couples of women adopting and raising kids. Sure the kid might still turn out alright, but that boy or girl is going to be lacking in the things that only having both a father and mother can teach them. Both mother and father teach different things that the kid needs to grow up to be a wise and mature adult. Just my opinion, I'm worried for how the future generation will turn out :/.
@@kp33467 It's not looking too promising. They will be brainwashed in a way, knowing their standarts
Bruh Imagine sacrificing yourself for your child, being a single father, working hard to provide for them, then suddenly Twitter woman comes In and you don't feel so good
Dads everywhere: want some ice cream
Dads in Australia: GET AWAY from my children you mega spider!!
Danish child : "Dad, why doesn't Denmark have cool Giant Spiders like Australia?"
Danish Dad : "Your father is a beast of a man, who kills all the Giant Spiders."
Danish Child : "Oh, ok." *_*thinks for a little bit*_* "Dad, where's all the man eating tigers?"
Danish Dad : "Your grandfather was a beast of a man, who killed all the man eating tigers."
Denmark : "Dammit, I used to be dangerous too!!" *_*sniff*_*
I'm Australian the spiders run from us
@@tramtaku6553
That's because you keep running after them, trying to film them !! 🤣
Good one buddy I laughed soo hard
SPIDER HISSES
If you get rid of father's day and make it special person's day why do you need a mother's day?
dont do that they will die from logic
Special persons day part two
@@amarg7657
To late......
"your logic offends my feelings... my feelings count for more than your facts, and your feelings don't count for anything". I think that about covers it?!?
They would never give up Mother's Day... Happy Father's Day, mom!
I grew up fatherless but I'd say that having a father in the family is important to the proper development of a child
Yeah, it's always better to have both parents.
Also... All you had to do was to follow the damn train CJ!
@@elenapolyviou6396 true, my father was shit until he left when i was 10, i'm happier without him
@Mark also a good male role model, is important for both sons and daughter. Someone to look up to for sons and someone to make daughters realize how a man is supposed to be
@Mark
You obviously haven't seen a mother say, " Because I said so."
This breaks my heart. I have an amazing Dad and an amazing husband who is an amazing Dad to our sons.
I really really respect you, the humor, the logic.. I wish more women were like you.
I agree. She's very informative and funny
yea were out there. its just getting harder to find good people on both sides
Feminists : "men aren't needed"
Biologists : "how were you born"
Saeemul Choudhury They will evolve to have dicks. And then start generating sperm, after a couple of hundred of years they evolved and now they have more mass and more muscle. They start cutting their hair more because it gets in the way- oh hold on. We just fucking created men
@ωσlғιε only a woman?
@ωσlғιε what
@ωσlғιε you mean the woman is creating her child in her Joe?
@ωσlғιε yeah joe do you know him
"Here I was thinking in 2019 that children were conceived using essential oils." I love it. Can I subscribe again?
"Men are unnecessary!"
"Why aren't there any good men out there?!" 😂
That’s like banning the raising of cattle and then asking why there’s no more beef in the grocery store.
You didn't search hard enough.
Maybe it's you
Hi my name is Clinton. I live in America am 32 years old and haven't seen my children in 7 years. While still paying child support while having ZERO legal rights to them. Their mother won all custody leaving me in enough debt to where I'll never get it paid off. As a male who has been broken by a large majority of the people in his life. I have toiled endlessly to right whatever cosmic wrong I did to deserve this pain. I don't have much in my life just what I've made or earned. I'm white, a male, and in no way privileged. Having been on my own since told to leave my home for nonconformacy to a way of life I didn't belive in. I graduated high school having only my tent and a pocket full of hopes and fears.I thuroughly enjoyed the four videos I've watched out of your collection and would like to thank you. This particular video really touched home. In my home state of Texas I was told a father is easy to replace while a mother can never be anyone but the biological mother is unfit and will corrupt the child's development. I had given up hope not to long ago and almost put an end to the pain. All because I fell for the wrong woman. But alas all I could think about was now she will get what she wants and could not go through with it. However after hearing your words I realize that not every woman will burn me as she did. It seems some good women are left in this world. Keep up the good work my friend.
I’m so sorry for what you’ve gone through I hope you’re in a better place and just know you’re stronger than you think. Your kids should be proud of having a dad like you. God bless
Your children will turnup at your door in the future.. They will question you about this forced estrangement ,it will damage the mother when truth is revealed ...patience ..write letters to each child on birthdays,and Fathers day expressing your love and thoughts and conclusions of life..keep these letters until they contact you.. then give the letters one at a time as truth of the mothers actions is hard to digest..the collapse of the belief system the mother has constructed will confuse and anger your children..your willingness to help them through this time will be a foundation to the relationship you will have for the rest of your lives..
Please don't give up :( I really hope you will see your kids some time in the future, so you can explain to them that you've been waiting on them for an eternity :)
You have all my respect my friend. Stay strong
How does it work in US, you pay and no accountability ? System should not make you debt .Do you have to pay if, your ex got a bf or Married ? What she already got one & hide from you ..
Me: Happy Mother’s Day Dad!!!
Feminists: you weren’t supposed to do that
Everyone else: Outstanding move!!!
Idea: You can have your “special person’s day”, but if you do, mother’s day Will revert to Mothering Sunday and be about the Church.
@Anabella Szabo yep
Yep, outstanding move!!!
@@peterh2223 mothers day would be "special persons day 2 electric boogaloo"
Sydney, As A Father Who Has Only Seen His Son Once A Year For 14 Years Now, Thanks For Making This Video
If that is true I urge you please take legal action as that is definitely not what you should get and the mother in this equation is absolutely disgusting for that. If it’s ur choice I respect that and if it’s the child’s choice I respect that too but if not then please take legal action
I hope things get better. Also why did you capitalize every word?
Bad Grammar Habit
Why don't you see your kid more often? Can't be bothered?
I'm so sorry that feminism has affected you this way.
I don't know where I would be without my dad. He taught me so many important life lessons. It's crazy that people think that father's are not important when they absolutely are.
"Special Person's Day."
i'm glad i live in Asia. Better food. Less insanity.
Lmao!
@Phang Kuan Hoon Can you send me a bowl? I'm hungry. I haven't had any vegetables since they were last shelved at the market.
Same
Fellow Asian . You are right . Which country?
@@arvinderkaur2677 Malaysia :)
Changing fathers day is a great idea! And we can change mothers day to "Embryo containment system day"
"X X chromosome embryo containment mitochondria dna cariier nonbinary parent"
This comment made my day. Thank you
That made me genuinely laugh aloud 😂
Or Mobile incubator day.
@Just Someone The world is kinda in better shape than it ever was you know. So many countries have reach first world condition. Might also mean climate change will kill us all, but I imagine you don't believe in that anyway.
Yeah, fatherless households seem to be doing amazing in Detroit, Chicago, St Louis... Milwaukee...Cleveland...Baltimore...I can go on.
Don't forget Compton
Created by the Democrat Party to ensure a constant supply of votes.
@JENALYN ROSE JACKSON Do you understand sarcasm?
@JENALYN ROSE JACKSON nothing gets past you, right?
It’s sad to see you list my city (Baltimore) here, but as a resident of of this city for 5+ years, it’s very scary to see first hand what is happening to the poverty stricken, fatherless parts of my city. It continues to get more and more violent and will only continue to spiral out of control. I see no hope in the near future for it and unfortunately will need to move away soon and suffer a horrible daily commute in order to ensure the safety of my family 😓 maybe one day people will stop pretending everything is okay and start voting in the right people that can change things. Until then, I will be forced to work, but not live, in Baltimore. Seeing one, incredibly destructive, riot is enough for one lifetime!
I raised by a single mum and two sisters and have seen far too many shrinks about how narcissistic and manipulative my mum is. Always telling me how bad of a person my dad is only to, (when i became an adult,) discovered my Dad was dragged through hell just to try and see me for a couple of days a week after she attempted to take everything he had, and then completely cut him off.
I now get along with my father than my mother who raised me, and have never been happier though i wish my mother let my dad see me growing up. You dont have to be the best father, you just have to be "there". But for a mother to purposefully do that is toxic, incredibly selfish and narcissistic.
This is what my ex wife told me, I haven’t seen my son in over ten years, thanks feminists.
Alex McGregor I’m so sorry for you
Omg. I’m so sorry for you you should take that back to court
@@adrianareyes7300 men rarely win in court vs women
Hopefully, when ur son is old enough, he will try to reach out to you.
Unfortunately she has brainwashed him for the last ten years and he has no interest in ever meeting his ‘biological contributor’.
"Dads are no longer necessary"
Kids who grow up without a father are more likely to be incarcerated
Just their paychecks and childsupport and alimony, amirite? So much for the STRONG, INDEPENDANT WOMAN!
Also more likely to drop out of third level education
ikr just think about the entire city of detroit like really
My dad may as well be a fucking brick wall cause we make no conversation or do anything together, as a result I'm the same
I feel thats what feminists want...all men to be in jails so they can inherit the Earth. When they want a baby they just drug up a chosen inmate, extract the sperm and use IVF.
With my father being dead, I feel like “Special person’s Day” would offend me more as it feels as if they’re disrespecting fathers
I agree HIGHLY! I had no dad but it almost insults my granddad and all the men who did grow up stood up and was the man, the father I needed
Being raised fatherless is one of THE most influencing factor of becoming criminal.
I cringed hard when I heard “ Special person day “
You and me both brother
Same here.
Yes it made me so mad to hear that. My dad is amazing.
@weirdalfanatic2788 men fought in the war for women. it is disgusting how people treat men. and feminists think men are sexist? there are so many amazing men. my dad, my brother, my sisters boyfriend, my neighbours, they're all amazing men. and there are so many more. and not all women are good. I have met some not very nice women. there was a women in 2009 who tried to murder her husband for his house and money. there was a women in the 90s who raped a man. there are good people and bad people in both genders.
@weirdalfanatic2788 we have a self hating simp here lol
Feminists: Fathers are unnecessary.
Me: Essentially had a deadbeat mother and would probably have been in foster care without her father.
@Kixi My sister asks me to babysit my nephew while she goes out with a new person once a week. When she gets home she doesn't take care of him, pay attention to him or interact with him at all she just knocks out. I can't begin to tell you how annoying it is.
My bf was raised by his father as well
I think I'd be better off having a father, I'd love to have had one...
I know, right?! My mom is a sweet and loving mother but she has a mental illness so without my father I would have probably ended up in the same situation! Ugh, I cannot stress enough how much I hate these crazy feminists.
@Fun. Feisty. Fabulous! Same these feminist are insane if they don't realize how important a dad is.
fathers are always necessary a child needs a MALE role model no matter what anyone says
Yea I'm still waiting for him to come back
popeye807 Not true, if it is true, why? for what reasons?
@@l.m.8339 did you even watched the video ma guy ? Totally proven that we do need our fathers ...
@@l.m.8339 9:24 and listen to him because I totally disagree with you imagine what happened if nobody could be the father of a child anymore...? Literally we would create clones of Hitler or something like that since they will lack of empathy...
The drunken Irishmen that’s just your dad not all dads are like this
It's so fresh to ear your opinion, whish there would be more people thinking like you. I am a father of a 4 years old daughter and I absolutelly love her and couldn't live without. We have very strong ties and in my opinon, both father and mother have a very strong part on a childs grouth. Neither the fatther or the mother are more important, both are. As a final word, I am divorced but luky to have a kid that loves both her mom and dad the same way and spends equal time with both of them.
Father of three, grandfather of three here. ( 4 girls and 2 boys in total) I have dragged ALL of them either kicking and screaming or side by side through my wood shop, basic auto mechanics, electrical wiring, and mathematics ( most making it through calculus)
I let them fail first off. But where I differ from my wife is that I show them how to pick themselves up and try again. Not coddling them and doing things for them. I’m not going to lie and say it’s easy. Building self reliance skills and self worth are shear gold for child development. Learning that the harder you work on something and the more effort you put into it, the more rewarding the experience. You may not have won, succeeded or achieved the goal you were trying for. But you gave it your all and there is no shame in that as long as you learned something about yourself along the way. These are lessons passed down to me from all the family men: father, grandfather, great uncle.
Anyone thinking that they can raise a child on their own is at the least slightly narcissistic. Parenting is best done by as many adults as possible. Let’s face it children have way too much energy for anyone of us to keep up with on our own.😅
I feel your pain, my wife always stands between me and my daughter when I try to teach her. But my boys no problem. A joy to coach them through difficult times.
Another father, and I have always tried to do much of what you have said with our four...well, except the woodshop, because I don't have one. 😊 Interestingly enough, now that they are all grown, they are thankful for it.
Far as i can tell it takes 3 physically and mentally fit adults to keep up with and provide fully for one child. Not many of us had that. Pretty sure next to nobody now in thier 20's did....
Any child that had a father like you would be more than greatful, the lessons you've taught most likely brought them through life.
I don’t have a dad but my brother did this for me, he was definitely a more father figure and made me be able to take care of myself
Changing father's day to "special person's day"? Then do the same for mother's day. SOME PEOPLE DON'T HAVE A MOM.
just feminists being anti-male and trying to disguise it as a "kindness", per usual
I agree. This and Boy Scouts being changed to Scouts BSA is fucking dumb. Why should we allow girls into the Boy Scouts. There's a separate division for a reason. Tired of this PC crap. Its so fuckin dumb. Everything that pertains the male species is being eradicated due to these overly offended shitheads
Let’s just make it parent’s day like how they have grandparent’s day
@@hulkfan97 we allow girls into scouts cause girl scouts is shit. At least where I am. I am a boy by the way.
@@Ozziemandias56 true, but instead of putting girls with boys on camping trips, because of obvious reasons, they should work on making girl scouts better, not forcing boy scouts into equality with benefits scouts, all because people are too stupid to fix something, that they rather dump it to ruin another similar thing. Common sense no longer exists with feminists running around like hypocritical fake victims, because they think women should have benefits for having a vagina, not actually equal rights.
More then half of the Prison population came from Fatherless Homes 🤔
Depends on the country you are in.
It is over 80% in the states.
@• Haze • "More than"....
A nun said most of divorces are filed by the women, there your problem.
I guess fathers teach the kids of the responsibilty of being a man or something
"Father's are unnecessary "
Population: Not Stonks
The environment : helth
@@BelcarrigFarm The works that require men: *stinks*
Okay so my partner has two children from a previous relationship and he isn’t allowed to see, contact, or even send them birthday cards, and hasn’t done for over a year now. He has made multiple attempts to call them, send them cards, see them, all of which have been answered with their mother pulling them away from him or removing any evidence that he cares about them. Unless he takes her to court (which would cost approximately 8K which we don’t have), there is nothing that can legally be done. I know multiple fathers in similar situations, some who have actually taken their ex’s to court, been granted shared custody, and STILL had nothing done when the mothers have decided they dont want them seeing their kids, some who don’t even know where their kids are.
Men literally have no legal rights when it comes to their children and so many of them get fucked over by a system that doesn’t care. It’s so depressing to see this treatment of men and fathers become a mainstream idea and anyone who is daft enough to think that fathers are literally just unnecessary sperm donors or that situations like this don’t affect the men or children involved are fucking idiots.
@David Stairs The legal system is a reflection of the culture. If you want to change the legal system, you have to change the culture. Until most people accept that feminism is evil, nothing will change for the better.
Thank you Grace. I really believe that for anything to change it will require women to support men's rights.
I have three kids and in the same situation, with the exception of cost. Around 10k to start and no promising resolution.
Anyone that would deny their child a father's love is not a fit parent, unless the father is a complete piece of shit. That being said, I had a girlfriend once who during our relationship lost custody of one of her sons, so there is hope for fathers that love their children to win such cases. But if you fight, just be sure it's for the children and not for yourselves.
Sounds like you need to dump that broad
"Fathers are unnecessary"
Yeah, look, an entire generation of absent father figures and what we have?
Daryl Spiewak II not all cases have to do with a judge. Many cases it’s cause the father didn’t want anything to do with the child prior to it going to court. Naturally it’ll be ruled that the judge declares the child to be under full custody of the mother at that point. It happened to me. My father didn’t want me. In fact everyone but my mother wanted me to be aborted I was unwanted on all fronts. Yes I’m white having the lowest of the three main races of America (Caucasian, African American and some Latin descent) there’s also a cultural difference between those races. Ever look into Asian countries and their marriages. They have some of the lowest divorce rates cause it’s shameful to discredit a marriage. It’s also bad on the child as stated and one of the biggest things is to keep the family intact to maintain good standing with all members of the family and to those outside of it. However black families have the highest rate of fatherless homes and it seems to be a trend of the father leaving and not wanting the kid. And some point you need to ask why are people turning their back on their families (assuming they were even married when conception happened) and why people do not wish to stick around. I find the whole you didn’t have a father in the house you won’t be a proper man thing to be stupid. It’s nothing more than an excuse because you got dealt a bad hand and didn’t want to figure out a way around it. I was raised by a single mother and lived in a broken down trailer. She worked multiple jobs to keep us afloat and I even worked small jobs starting at the age of 7 to make some small money to buy myself things I wanted cause I didn’t have the cool J’s like everyone else, the new game system and so on. I wore hand me downs too big for me from cousins cause I was an only child for a long while. Despite that I still worked hard. And didn’t choose to do stupid crap because I’m “broken” and I definitely didn’t let it stop me from what I was doing. I never had a hard time getting dates when I was younger and I actually ended up marrying my high school sweetheart who I went to the same school with from elementary and up. I wasn’t the smartest kid but I managed to earn half a scholarship but I didn’t have any way to pay for the rest so I opted into the armed forces to get all my college free. That was a big risk but it was my choice. I now have 13 years of free college I can use however I please now with no worries of debt as I chose a route that would most benefit me. I didn’t become like the kids at my school who ended up in prison or druggies. They blame their parents even if they had both. It’s nothing but excuses and they don’t want to take responsibility for the things they chose to do up to that point. And that’s a fact
Look to black communities in USA, see how great kids with no father do..
My dad was so important to me. My mother was never there for me emotionally and had favorites among my sisters and brother. I was basically the middle kid between the oldest, the youngest, and the only boy. I know my mother loved me in her own way, but I always got the brunt of any punishment and the easiest to dump on. My father just had love for each of us and I always felt his pride in being his daughter. If he wasn't in my life during those years, I don't think I would have ended up as well. Unfortunately, he passed a little over 30 years ago and I have never stopped missing him.
My heart broke hearing about the father who took his life. I narrowly avoided a similar fate while fighting for visitation with my oldest son. It still kills me that I wasn't there for him on a day to day basis and have to hope that the 2 weekends a month and occasional dinner visit were enough to assure him that I love him. He just graduated from high school and is going to college, so I've been dealing with all of that regret as he moves on with the next stage of his life. Again, thanks for your understanding and insight. It's really buoying.
Sydney, Thank you. I also am a father of 3 kids. and I could have very easily lost access to my kids as my ex wife tried to move them to Canada. thankfully our justice system in the US worked and they wanted to live with me, and the court agreed. but "There, but for the grace of God go I." LOVE this video.
I wish you the very best in life, please raise them well!
The magazine should be renamed "Lonely crazy cat lady"
Perfect!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Give that guy a 🌟
THIS COMMENT
**Critical damage 4x**
Dayum, right in the bullseye!
Feminist: Happy Fathers day mom
Me: Throwing up in a corner
So i know it's because of their agendas but if they ONLY had a Mother then yes
She was basacly their psycological father
Thank you