Thank you! As I listened to your presentation I began to see my life experiences more clearly. You mirrored my feelings, defined some blurry memories and towards the end, my 50 years of lack of attachment trauma triggered a powerful physical explosion of feelings. I burst into tears tore off all my clothing and allowed all the hurt and frustration to flow through the river of tears. Then I stopped and said ok enough of this it has never made for a good feeling. So with out this attachment, I can seek out information, try new responses and have hope that I will be able to love fully and rise above past traumas. Whenever I become aware of my disfunction, I hear a loving voice inside me telling me how to develop healthy human relations. I already know how despite not being shown how as a child. So with a lot of curiosity and a happy and open personality I can e like learn to be mindful and present so I can hear that soft loving voice guiding me.
Thanks!! . .. what about another "complicated" angle -the child's failure to initiate or respond to the guardian due to neurological factors, autism etc causing/affecting the guardians subsequent actions. Educating parents on this, and perhaps "forcing" the issue/attachment may be an extreme irritant to the child. RARE? Perhaps, not (drug babies, autism, etc). While the Adult leads/tries to lead in dynamic systems, it still, nonetheless remains a "system". .. . .No easy answers. . ...we still search. .
Stop it. You simple little humans... I've been black a long time , and have long been survived of oblivatively intense abuse and tortureas well as holding a pocketful of other qualifiers.. and I can tell you authoritatively, that being called a n***** holds no whiff- of a- candle, to being raped and tortured by your bio- worm-shits and their clients during your infant and toddler stages. Horrifically- inappropriate to drop that petty -ish here .
@@DocSnipes i dont know whats up with me, lost my gran at 10, and my mum when was 12 , dad wasnt around, lived with a aunt and her husband didnt want me there so basically had nobody there from 12 really, im very bad tempered and violent sometimes but loving aswel, not violant to my partner or people i love but ,authoritys, people trying to assert over me or make me look daft or stupid , constantly threatening people on road or wherever , have outbursts all time explosive doesnt matter where i am , shopping and somethings pissed me off ill blow up then feel bad after well sometimes , i dont know, i know its not right but ive no compassion for anyone, i dont worry , i dont have the fight or flight response most people have its just there ready to go whenever if that makes sense.
One would think it would have to be observable by natural and normal percentage gaps or missing normativ- responses in patients ..for one example... right? I mean there's developmental stages that are demonstrate , documented standard- deviation / misdiagnosis case-studies, sorcerer's-grimore rumors.. available for all ages. Are you trolling?
Thank you! As I listened to your presentation I began to see my life experiences more clearly. You mirrored my feelings, defined some blurry memories and towards the end, my 50 years of lack of attachment trauma triggered a powerful physical explosion of feelings. I burst into tears tore off all my clothing and allowed all the hurt and frustration to flow through the river of tears. Then I stopped and said ok enough of this it has never made for a good feeling. So with out this attachment, I can seek out information, try new responses and have hope that I will be able to love fully and rise above past traumas. Whenever I become aware of my disfunction, I hear a loving voice inside me telling me how to develop healthy human relations. I already know how despite not being shown how as a child. So with a lot of curiosity and a happy and open personality I can e like learn to be mindful and present so I can hear that soft loving voice guiding me.
Thank you so much for this.
You’re so welcome. What was your favorite tip from the video?
Thank you very much for sharing this!
So welcome. Thanks for watching.
Ty
So welcome. I appreciate you watching
Thanks!! . .. what about another "complicated" angle -the child's failure to initiate or respond to the guardian due to neurological factors, autism etc causing/affecting the guardians subsequent actions. Educating parents on this, and perhaps "forcing" the issue/attachment may be an extreme irritant to the child. RARE? Perhaps, not (drug babies, autism, etc). While the Adult leads/tries to lead in dynamic systems, it still, nonetheless remains a "system". .. . .No easy answers. . ...we still search. .
Excellent point about those who are neuro-atypical
If you have another video about processing grief, particularly the loss of a parent at a young age, can you please tell me what title it’s under?
I have many videos on grief. This search will pull them up: ruclips.net/user/DocSnipessearch?query=grief
This is good stuff.. I would imagine that I am getting triggered because a lot of my GI stuff is acting up..
Thanks for watching!
Could u do a video on the how racism is trauma please?
Stop it. You simple little humans... I've been black a long time , and have long been survived of oblivatively intense abuse and tortureas well as holding a pocketful of other qualifiers.. and I can tell you authoritatively, that being called a n***** holds no whiff- of a- candle, to being raped and tortured by your bio- worm-shits and their clients during your infant and toddler stages. Horrifically- inappropriate to drop that petty -ish here .
Id like you to assess myself, 👍
Thank you so much for watching. How are you planning to start creating secure attachment?
@@DocSnipes i dont know whats up with me, lost my gran at 10, and my mum when was 12 , dad wasnt around, lived with a aunt and her husband didnt want me there so basically had nobody there from 12 really, im very bad tempered and violent sometimes but loving aswel, not violant to my partner or people i love but ,authoritys, people trying to assert over me or make me look daft or stupid , constantly threatening people on road or wherever , have outbursts all time explosive doesnt matter where i am , shopping and somethings pissed me off ill blow up then feel bad after well sometimes , i dont know, i know its not right but ive no compassion for anyone, i dont worry , i dont have the fight or flight response most people have its just there ready to go whenever if that makes sense.
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How do you know what a baby is thinking….
Thanks for watching.
One would think it would have to be observable by natural and normal percentage gaps or missing normativ- responses in patients ..for one example... right? I mean there's developmental stages that are demonstrate , documented standard- deviation / misdiagnosis case-studies, sorcerer's-grimore rumors.. available for all ages. Are you trolling?
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