Lost my whole family to their egos in 2017 and now I've lost my wife and kids because of the grief of that previous loss. I'm so tired of living like this.
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Thank you very much I lost my elder brother on February at first I was living in denial trying to distract myself by hanging out with friends because I didn’t want to feel the emotions but it didn’t work out really well for me and that’s why I’m here . Also I lost my education in Ukraine due to the war and finances I had to come back to my country and start all over so I was extremely sad . So that’s two losses but I thank GOD for helping me and thank you so very much for the counseling GOD BLESS YOU
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In the past three years I've had more losses than I've ever imagined- and after this lecture I realize why I'm feeling so vulnerable. I had to sell my home, move to another state, loss of my Dad ( my security and best friend), sister and daughter. My family is no longer. My world view has shifted - like many of us. I gained weight and feel more Fibromyalgia symptoms and my hone sold for $90,00 less than I expected. It's a lot.
I'm so sorry for all this pain and loss. I too have lost so much. My Foster parents kicked me out last year after 13 years and I lost my whole Foster extended family. Then after dealing with that grief came to the acceptance stage. I then lost my brother at 23 he died in his sleep. Now I'm back to grieving. It hurts alot. Life's so hard. It's nice to hear you story 💔
I'm sorry for your losses. I know how major and complete loss feels also. We have to remember that life is going to throw stones at us. To live we have to get up, hold your head up, throw your shoulders back and keep going. Keep working toward building your life. Best wishes 😊
I have been wanting to thank you. I'm not 100% sure that it was this video about grief or not where you discussed losing your mom and how you decided, after some time, that you had two choices, one to ruminate about the loss and the other to actively decide to focus on the good memories. For me, that was the one thing that finally helped free me from the endless distress and rumination cycle I was in. I am still greiving deeply for my losses, but what you did was give me permission to not continue to beat myself with all of the guilt, and anger and sorrow, but instead, remember the love, the joy, and all the wonderfulness I got from those I have lost recently. There are still so many tears, but there is joy and appreciation and kindness sprinkled liberally in them now. I owe you a very big debt of gratitude for providing me this tool that has allowed me this paradigm shift. Thank you 🙂
I lost my Mother about 18 months ago. We were extremely close. I didn't know how to deal with mums loss so made myself extremely busy. The grieving process slowly and unknowingly crept up on me. I find myself crying now. But I've also lost passion for other things in my life like my work, my family. Mum had connected all the dots. But mums no longer there. Is this normal or am I just wierd?
Unfortunately depression and numbness are a part of the grief process. I am sorry for your loss. I can relate as I have lost both of my parents. A grief counselor or support group could help you recognize and work through the grief symptoms. ~Peace
Dear Dr. Snipes, thank you so much for all your videos. Would you diagnose prolonged grief disorder in case of perennial grief after a separation (not death) from an abusive ex-partner? Interestingly, even if a person had narcisstic parents and tended to have narcisstic partners, not every narcisstic partner could trigger the prolonged grief over 1 year.
@@fembot521 uh, yes I have lost several people to death… don’t YOU tell me what pain and grief are. I have had both and divorce is living with grief but the person who caused the grief is still alive.
I have a delay grief for my mom who died in 2019 and now I suffer from Thanatophobia myself and I really feel unable to live normally 😔 How can I reach out to you doc.?
Before it was to much for me loosing peolpe cloosest to me. I cold not think that they were okei anymore as they are dead. Now is just life changes and i dont really feel anything for the ones who have left and is always new ways to live life as long as we have health.
The 5 stages apply to dying people not grieving people. The book it cames from is on dying and the thesis based on the interview of dozens of terminally ill people.
Lost my whole family to their egos in 2017 and now I've lost my wife and kids because of the grief of that previous loss. I'm so tired of living like this.
I am sorry that happened to you and I appreciate you watching!Other videos you might be interested in can be found at: ruclips.net/user/DocSnipessearch?query=grief
Thank you very much I lost my elder brother on February at first I was living in denial trying to distract myself by hanging out with friends because I didn’t want to feel the emotions but it didn’t work out really well for me and that’s why I’m here .
Also I lost my education in Ukraine due to the war and finances I had to come back to my country and start all over so I was extremely sad .
So that’s two losses but I thank GOD for helping me and thank you so very much for the counseling GOD BLESS YOU
I am sorry that happened to you and I appreciate you watching!Other videos you might be interested in can be found at: ruclips.net/user/DocSnipessearch?query=grief
In the past three years I've had more losses than I've ever imagined- and after this lecture I realize why I'm feeling so vulnerable.
I had to sell my home, move to another state, loss of my Dad ( my security and best friend), sister and daughter. My family is no longer. My world view has shifted - like many of us.
I gained weight and feel more Fibromyalgia symptoms and my hone sold for $90,00 less than I expected.
It's a lot.
I'm so sorry for all this pain and loss. I too have lost so much. My Foster parents kicked me out last year after 13 years and I lost my whole Foster extended family. Then after dealing with that grief came to the acceptance stage. I then lost my brother at 23 he died in his sleep. Now I'm back to grieving. It hurts alot. Life's so hard. It's nice to hear you story 💔
Grief comes in all forms….i’m sorry
I'm sorry for your losses. I know how major and complete loss feels also.
We have to remember that life is going to throw stones at us. To live we have to get up, hold your head up, throw your shoulders back and keep going. Keep working toward building your life.
Best wishes 😊
That is very hard to hear, I hope you're doing better little by little
I have been wanting to thank you. I'm not 100% sure that it was this video about grief or not where you discussed losing your mom and how you decided, after some time, that you had two choices, one to ruminate about the loss and the other to actively decide to focus on the good memories. For me, that was the one thing that finally helped free me from the endless distress and rumination cycle I was in.
I am still greiving deeply for my losses, but what you did was give me permission to not continue to beat myself with all of the guilt, and anger and sorrow, but instead, remember the love, the joy, and all the wonderfulness I got from those I have lost recently.
There are still so many tears, but there is joy and appreciation and kindness sprinkled liberally in them now. I owe you a very big debt of gratitude for providing me this tool that has allowed me this paradigm shift. Thank you 🙂
Thanks for sharing that. 🙂 I am glad I was able to help! Wishing you peace, health, and, happiness.
Thank you so much. This was incredible to work through.
I lost my Mother about 18 months ago. We were extremely close. I didn't know how to deal with mums loss so made myself extremely busy. The grieving process slowly and unknowingly crept up on me.
I find myself crying now.
But I've also lost passion for other things in my life like my work, my family.
Mum had connected all the dots. But mums no longer there.
Is this normal or am I just wierd?
Unfortunately depression and numbness are a part of the grief process. I am sorry for your loss. I can relate as I have lost both of my parents. A grief counselor or support group could help you recognize and work through the grief symptoms. ~Peace
Dear Dr. Snipes, thank you so much for all your videos. Would you diagnose prolonged grief disorder in case of perennial grief after a separation (not death) from an abusive ex-partner? Interestingly, even if a person had narcisstic parents and tended to have narcisstic partners, not every narcisstic partner could trigger the prolonged grief over 1 year.
I love this channel no rlly bruh u help me so much
Grieving is not just someone dying… divorce and the demise of the family is the worst type of grief
Thanks for sharing and watching.
No it’s not and it’s obvious you have never had a close family member die if you compare it to divorce!
@@fembot521 uh, yes I have lost several people to death… don’t YOU tell me what pain and grief are. I have had both and divorce is living with grief but the person who caused the grief is still alive.
@@fembot521 actually it can be ever worse for some.
@@Blonde111 There's no need to compare.
Anger against Mom's Physicians.
I do understand.....
I am grieving the loss of my Baby Brother....
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41:57 Triggers
42:41 more knowledge now
43:41 grief burst 💥
44:35 self care grief
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Thanks for watching the video
so helpful, thank you!
You're so welcome!
Like you said my world was shaken up and then my dog ,my best friend, died...DJ.DEB.USA it was overwhelming Sadness 😥😢
@@DocSnipes I feel those GRIEF BURSTS
I have a delay grief for my mom who died in 2019 and now I suffer from Thanatophobia myself and I really feel unable to live normally 😔
How can I reach out to you doc.?
I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching the video. You can reach me at support@allceus.com
Before it was to much for me loosing peolpe cloosest to me.
I cold not think that they were okei anymore as they are dead.
Now is just life changes and i dont really feel anything for the ones who have left and is always new ways to live life as long as we have health.
Thanks for watching and for sharing
Being Abandoned by people who were suppose to help Mom & I.
The 5 stages apply to dying people not grieving people. The book it cames from is on dying and the thesis based on the interview of dozens of terminally ill people.
Five stages of GRIEF IT SAYS ON DEATH & DIEING.
going throw a lot right now, very helpful thank you
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
39:10 How you deal with loss 39:41 Action steps
Thanks for watching
Anxious and Traumatized that Iatrogenic's Malfeasance Malpractices is still happening.
Hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again if you’ve been through that tough experience of losing a love one.
Very helpful. Well explained.
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Very helpful. Well explained.
I was gaslihhted that what I witnessed was deflected by my Psychiatrist. It was minimized. Yes their were Medical Culprits who is to blame.
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
Yes chronic depression
Thank You for all your videos ❣️👍🥰 ❣️ ArtoftheHeart1 ❣️
You are so welcome
Complicates Grief because Mom was Corporate Manslaughter/Murdered.
12. Delayed grief did happen to me.
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Pets are as important
They are, to me anyways. 😀
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