Getting results for man who was ordered to pay child support for a kid who wasn't his

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @christinegrimes8825
    @christinegrimes8825 3 года назад +3006

    I will never understand why a DNA test is not required before they issue child support to anyone.

    • @FurnitureFan
      @FurnitureFan 3 года назад +108

      Agree, it makes no sense otherwise. Heck of a mistake to make when she had decades to put this right.

    • @Cecespizza14
      @Cecespizza14 3 года назад +47

      Well technically when the mother filled out that paperwork the father was supposed to come to court and prove whether he was or wasn’t the father but was in jail.But I’m not sure I think they do that also because some people know they are the father and will avoid courts so that there is no DNA testing on file because I have heard of men who think as long as it’s not proven DNA that there’s a father they don’t have to pay for a child that they know is their’s

    • @rhondakendrick2563
      @rhondakendrick2563 3 года назад +11

      b curse they can get away with ti u can due FRAUD AND THEY DON`T CARE

    • @imshaunnurse
      @imshaunnurse 3 года назад +32

      @@Cecespizza14 that's not the case in this situation that's why he was fighting this in court

    • @chevon1920
      @chevon1920 3 года назад +40

      That would make sense. For men who refuse the dna test they would have to pay until they take it.

  • @DkKombo
    @DkKombo 3 года назад +47

    Mom, judge, and all the people who were involved should pay TRIPLE for all the crap he had to go through.

    • @jonetyson
      @jonetyson 3 года назад +1

      It is the judge that is really at fault here. Promiscuous women have trouble naming the correct fathers all the time, but the legal confusion should have ended the instant the DNA test came back.

  • @patriciaoconnor402
    @patriciaoconnor402 3 года назад +4100

    Mom should be forced to repay the money he was forced to pay. Should be illegal to force someone to pay when they can prove they aren't the father.

    • @raymondstewart5787
      @raymondstewart5787 3 года назад +331

      The mother herself confess, she willfully wrongfully put is name down. Which should be against the law. N here go the man going through hell. How about she goes to jail for lying on a document not only that let pay back every cent. This system is strictly made for these women to get away with murder.

    • @william629
      @william629 3 года назад +16

      Preach!

    • @onlythewise1
      @onlythewise1 3 года назад +19

      @@raymondstewart5787 correct been going on now for thirty years

    • @onlythewise1
      @onlythewise1 3 года назад +10

      @@william629 bitch !

    • @stevedarnell8444
      @stevedarnell8444 3 года назад +90

      Not only should she have to pay him, sense she wrote his name down to get welfare she should also have to pay all of that money back.

  • @davidhutchinson7888
    @davidhutchinson7888 3 года назад +104

    Imagine a woman forced to pay for a child that isn't hers.

    • @kuunami
      @kuunami 3 года назад +16

      That would never happen because in our feminist society women are the only ones considered human while men are looked at as walking toxic ATMs who only exist to subsidize the female lifestyle.

    • @scarlettsibis5351
      @scarlettsibis5351 3 года назад +5

      @@kuunami probably will never happen because the child came directly from her???

    • @edwardgaines6561
      @edwardgaines6561 3 года назад +2

      @@kuunami Women only get away with what men allow.
      Men have allowed 3 waves of feminism, and 3 generations of single motherhood. Not to mention the 19th amendment.

    • @ojivey8273
      @ojivey8273 3 года назад +1

      A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

    • @gobot581
      @gobot581 2 года назад +1

      @@scarlettsibis5351 nope doesn't matter with the marital laws if as a man you go sleep around you should be able to get child support from your wife or ex wife even if it isn't there's it's a one sided law because even with paternity proof they are still forcing some men

  • @kendallhill1734
    @kendallhill1734 3 года назад +1343

    He should get back pay from that deadbeat judge.

    • @marc-andreservant201
      @marc-andreservant201 3 года назад +32

      Usually if your civil rights are violated by the court you sue the "State of ...", not the individual judge. Judges have immunity for their decisions, so your lawsuit against the judge will get thrown out.

    • @peterrivney552
      @peterrivney552 3 года назад +5

      At least from the state or since it is a state judge then the state can go after the mother why should he suffer any more becouse someone else lied they proved his inicent now the state should pay him back and the state job to get the money from the dead beat mother. Wash your hands clean man it's always the man's fault bull sh 💩 there are dead beat mother's out there as well this is a perfect example ...time for the goverment officeals to do what's right.

    • @nispelsm
      @nispelsm 3 года назад +29

      @WhyAmIWearing ARedShirt As far as I am concerned, the mother committed Fraud when she knowingly and falsely claimed he was the father. She should be put in jail and lose custody of her child

    • @onlythewise1
      @onlythewise1 3 года назад +3

      @@marc-andreservant201 no judge should be removed . and maybe other things to

    • @onlythewise1
      @onlythewise1 3 года назад +2

      @@peterrivney552 bad courts are always doing bad things cause people do nothing , other lawyers know this and call them as- holes

  • @taleshiashivers4907
    @taleshiashivers4907 3 года назад +86

    Not only should the judge & the lying deadbeat “mother” have to pay every single dime back to that man but that cop that called him a deadbeat should be sued for defamation of character for calling him that!! Just because a person doesn’t have money doesn’t make them a “deadbeat”! That term deadbeat makes me sick to no end!!!

    • @irimac1806
      @irimac1806 3 года назад +1

      Exactly. Deadbeat parents to me are those who dont care avout the child (bailing in certain cases), neglect the child to a dangerous extent or are abusing their or other children.

    • @ojivey8273
      @ojivey8273 3 года назад +1

      A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

  • @Wonmanbanned
    @Wonmanbanned 3 года назад +1333

    “Dad by default.” That is the most bizarre terminology I’ve ever heard.

    • @sueann9065
      @sueann9065 3 года назад +61

      In most States, Married men are also dad by default to any child born from his wife during marriage even when the child isn't his.

    • @chrishansen9102
      @chrishansen9102 3 года назад +84

      @@sueann9065 this feels like an absolute win to women who want to leech off of men

    • @sueann9065
      @sueann9065 3 года назад +49

      @@chrishansen9102 It's sad to me. I couldn't in good conscience be apart of the bullcrap rather it benefits my gender. Hopefully those laws will be changed.
      Women who enjoy gender bias in the family court system don't think about how the gender bias will affect their sons and other male family members.

    • @DeathBringer769
      @DeathBringer769 3 года назад +8

      @Deplorable_Brian "Certain period of time" always seems like BS though. If it's not your kid, it's never going to be your kid no matter how long you wait. A DNA test even 20 years later should still exonerate since it's still the truth. Sometimes statutes of limitations I understand, but other times they just seem stupid to me in other cases. Courts are there, as the point of their whole existence in the first place (at least in theory), to seek truth and justice, right? The truth doesn't change just because you "waited too long" and the system doesn't want to bother anymore.

    • @Dwightstjohn-fo8ki
      @Dwightstjohn-fo8ki 3 года назад +3

      @@DeathBringer769 An LA law professor told me decades ago "Society guards it's negative back doors". Look at Labour Law or Human Rights: you have DAYS to appeal when the case filed took months, or even years to build. You have ten days to appeal, to find out and PROVE with paperwork your Union set you up, cut a back door deal, just to protect their control. It had nothing to do with anything but control. Law? No. You have seven years to file a claim against banks the Trust companies. I didn't find out for twenty years until dad passed on, and I saw the paperwork. Who does that protect? the Banks. Mom is OUT a million US in cash twenty years ago. Too late, protect those who already have the power.

  • @herbalheroine1184
    @herbalheroine1184 3 года назад +132

    “Automatically set as the father” that’s the most fucked up part, this can happen to any man 🤧

  • @komenisai
    @komenisai 3 года назад +1217

    26 years?! That "child" stopped being a child 8 years before and the mother should be investigated for potential fraud by claiming that he was the father.

    • @jamesfarina7247
      @jamesfarina7247 3 года назад +66

      I was wondering the same thing. How the hell do they keep taking money after the kid turns 18? Why wouldn't he have gone to the courts then instead of waiting 8 more years?

    • @adri9974
      @adri9974 3 года назад +71

      @@jamesfarina7247 was more than likely back child support. If you don't pay it just piles up then you have to pay interest on top of it.

    • @beechrgrad88
      @beechrgrad88 3 года назад +21

      @@jamesfarina7247 Michigan charges interest on any child support in the arrears.

    • @Just_janee_
      @Just_janee_ 3 года назад +19

      In most states if the child is special needs or go to college you are still responsible for the child cost

    • @ErikaLaGrande
      @ErikaLaGrande 3 года назад +19

      @@jamesfarina7247 what happens is that the mother went on welfare and listed him as the father. Then the state pays the welfare benefits and the D.A. goes after the “father” to get the money. Once there is an order in place, ALL the non payment of support can be taken even after the child turns 18. It stops accumulating at 18, but the back support still has to be paid. My mom had a friend that had to pay 18 years of child support for a kid he didn’t even know he had. He got some girl at a party pregnant when he was 18 and never knew. Somehow, he was found when he was in his 50s and was ordered to pay back all the money that the mother received in welfare benefits.

  • @kittentacticalwarfare1140
    @kittentacticalwarfare1140 3 года назад +52

    The amount of people trying to deflect guilt on that PoS who lied about him being the father is disgusting.

    • @ojivey8273
      @ojivey8273 3 года назад

      A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

  • @kimjones2056
    @kimjones2056 3 года назад +852

    Arrest the mother for filing a false claim. She is the one responsible

    • @fredajordan5704
      @fredajordan5704 3 года назад +44

      Kim Jones. Absolutely. And she needs to pay every single Dollar back to the man that she shamelessly lied to.

    • @VogtTD
      @VogtTD 3 года назад +30

      @@fredajordan5704 The state is culpuble as well.

    • @FurnitureFan
      @FurnitureFan 3 года назад +18

      @@VogtTD Agreed, the state has all the resources to pursue the real father. Too harsh on the child tho' to imprison their mom. Besides, she can work to repay him.

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 3 года назад +6

      @@FurnitureFan they didn't have a problem locking him up the resources wouldn't be revantlent n this case if she wouldn't falsely accused him resources should be warrant wen it's legit not on lies I'm sure there are women would really need the resources legitimately as opposed to false accusations

    • @SanaSamaha
      @SanaSamaha 3 года назад +21

      @@FurnitureFan After 26 years, that child is already an adult. Mom can serve jail time without affecting the "child" too badly.

  • @MrManish005
    @MrManish005 2 года назад +5

    Why was that judge not reprimanded?
    why is the women still not punished?
    WTF IS UP WITH THIS DISGUSTING LEGISLATURE!!!!!!!!

  • @Jan_YTview
    @Jan_YTview 3 года назад +603

    In 2021, nobody should pay support for a kid until paternity is confirmed by DNA..

    • @akmd114379
      @akmd114379 3 года назад +40

      How about this, no estranged father should pay more than the child's expenses per month including half baby sitter/ day care time. The mother also has to provide receipts for expenses and be subject to a DNA test.

    • @fex144
      @fex144 3 года назад +28

      @ So you think equality and justice is a bad thing?

    • @mrnuna4793
      @mrnuna4793 3 года назад +6

      @@akmd114379 yeah it would be lovely if they were check and balances for child support. I can't stand that the more a man makes the more the child support agency entitles them self to your money. That means you can never grow as a person and you can never do better. Even though your child is fine and has everything they need , there needs to be cap on child support because a child only cost so much the rest of it goes straight to Mommy's pocket.... it's like this if you get a raise at work or you just get a new job that pays a lot better then that bitter ass female can take you to court and get more money from you simply because you're not making more. So you might as well just stay at the job you're at until your kid is 18. That's ridiculous right? It's like this, if you get a new job does your mortgage payment go up? How about your cell phone bill? Or any other bills for that matter? No so why the fuck that does child support go up simply because you have done better and work harder in life? Men have killed themselves over this shit

    • @johndoee7836
      @johndoee7836 3 года назад +29

      @@fex144 if a woman can choose to abort a baby without the father's consent then a father should be able to opt out of child support if he chooses. In my opinion

    • @maribart4237
      @maribart4237 3 года назад +12

      @ yep. As you can see he was called a “deadbeat “ to a damn kid that wasn’t even his.

  • @James-xj5eb
    @James-xj5eb 3 года назад +15

    Imagine if a man did this to a women. Doubt it would take 26 years for the courts to fix this 🤷.

    • @ojivey8273
      @ojivey8273 3 года назад

      A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

  • @bigoz1734
    @bigoz1734 3 года назад +810

    Glad that lawyer stuck up for him. Not only to save his life but to set a precedence for the court

  • @awestruck9075
    @awestruck9075 3 года назад +28

    DNA testing should be mandatory for every child, for the child's sake. They have a right to know their true father.

    • @vanessaamesty6739
      @vanessaamesty6739 3 года назад

      also, that would help to built a data base if the child goes missing...

    • @awestruck9075
      @awestruck9075 3 года назад +1

      @@vanessaamesty6739 ....or future health issues that they may develop.

  • @motherofthreeb6337
    @motherofthreeb6337 3 года назад +252

    The woman should be arrested for falsely naming him as the father.

    • @popcorn8153
      @popcorn8153 3 года назад +5

      you think that would actually happen? The law sucks

    • @nicewholesomeandpure5165
      @nicewholesomeandpure5165 3 года назад +5

      @@popcorn8153 They said "should be" not "will be".

    • @luciavaughn3793
      @luciavaughn3793 3 года назад +5

      Some serious time in prison for her would be lovely.

    • @bobhoffman5581
      @bobhoffman5581 3 года назад +2

      She was likely intimate with more than one man, and it was just a guess on her part...

    • @nicewholesomeandpure5165
      @nicewholesomeandpure5165 3 года назад +1

      @@bobhoffman5581 Yeah...?

  • @IAT1964
    @IAT1964 3 года назад +338

    And this is why it should become mandatory to have mandatory DNA test results of the parents and child on the birth certificate.

    • @darkstorminc
      @darkstorminc 3 года назад +3

      Don't think that matters in Michigan.

    • @verstumfung43
      @verstumfung43 3 года назад +8

      @JustAGuy InBensalem a former Co-Worker of mine was a PI on the side and he had a saying "Mamma's baby, Daddies Maybe".

    • @fredajordan5704
      @fredajordan5704 3 года назад +1

      So very true.

    • @ErikaLaGrande
      @ErikaLaGrande 3 года назад +7

      In California, if your not married the father has to sign a paternity declaration for his name to go on the birth certificate. If you are married, it’s automatic. If the father won’t sign, the mother has to go to court to get a paternity declaration and a dna test is usually asked for by the father. The problem in this mans case is that he missed the hearing. He says he was in jail so he should have been easy to serve. He probably didn’t know what to do.

    • @IAT1964
      @IAT1964 3 года назад +4

      @@ErikaLaGrande there are a lot of ifs and buts. A law mandating a DNA test solves all this BS. Even for married couples.

  • @brandonburnham822
    @brandonburnham822 3 года назад +33

    “He’s in court tomorrow to ask the judge to allow him to seek justice for his civil rights” lmfao

    • @CryptoDatabase
      @CryptoDatabase 3 года назад +2

      I ask no man permission for justice, I provide my own like a good American.

  • @autigaming1376
    @autigaming1376 3 года назад +771

    You can’t just declare somebody a father because a woman says he is that is highly illegal.

    • @nordicwarrior2176
      @nordicwarrior2176 3 года назад +82

      Tell that to the court systems. They seem to be alright with it.

    • @damonmachado2077
      @damonmachado2077 3 года назад +64

      They do it all the time. I've had PTSD since I got back from the Gulf War in 1991. I was basically unemployed and homeless until I was finally diagnosed with PTSD in 2015. In 2007 my EX got a default judgment against me for child support. she gave them my paystubs from a job I'd had in 1998 for one summer. I didn't even know about it until my license got suspended and I found out I already owed about 30,000$ in arrears. I now owe 150000 in arrears and I can't get a license. I have 5 boys, I have to drive or my wife would never rest. I will likely never drive legally again.

    • @nordicwarrior2176
      @nordicwarrior2176 3 года назад +8

      @@damonmachado2077 crazy but true

    • @Jw-no7id
      @Jw-no7id 3 года назад +13

      The court is satisfied with sending correspondence to the last known address and proceeding with court cases if you don't show up. That's within the law. The biggest culprit here is the woman who said he's the father, not the court for believing her. Where the court starts being at fault is when he was able to show up in court to defend himself. Unfortunately it sounds like the timing of all of this is when DNA testing wasn't specific enough to definitively say if it was his or not. One big issue not covered in this story is the mother who lied to the court and caused this man significant legal injury in the process.

    • @myahill7475
      @myahill7475 3 года назад +14

      Child abandonment by absentee fathers is a problem within society so the court system tried to find a way to handle this issue but of course they abused an innocent man in the mist of things. I wonder how many others were and are abused...

  • @peternorthrup6274
    @peternorthrup6274 Год назад +2

    I avoided all of this. I had my vasectomy at 27. Even after that I was told I got someone pregnant. The joke was on her. I'm nobody's meal ticket.

  • @Jw-no7id
    @Jw-no7id 3 года назад +95

    So when does the mother who lied to the courts and cause very real legal injury to this man get to pay for her crime?

    • @SmallSpoonBrigade
      @SmallSpoonBrigade 3 года назад +6

      She probably won't. We don't hold women accountable for much of anything in this country. Especially when it comes to kids. Judges and medical personnel will look the other way, even when they know ther kid couldn't possibly be his.

    • @fuggoff5277
      @fuggoff5277 3 года назад +1

      You are a Mysogonist

    • @Jw-no7id
      @Jw-no7id 3 года назад +1

      @@fuggoff5277 Such an eloquent and well presented argument.

    • @irimac1806
      @irimac1806 3 года назад +2

      @@SmallSpoonBrigade Its even worse when the mother abuses the child/ren and the father or anyone else trys to get custody and actually could provide a better live. But CPS and the courts dont do that bc taking away the child from the mother would be to cruel o_O -.-

    • @jonetyson
      @jonetyson 3 года назад

      The form probably wasn't long enough for her to name all the potential fathers.

  • @22roseblue9
    @22roseblue9 3 года назад +13

    "Where have the good men gone?" This and many other reasons is why men are walking away.

    • @ojivey8273
      @ojivey8273 3 года назад

      A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

  • @user-vm5ud4xw6n
    @user-vm5ud4xw6n 3 года назад +142

    Thank God he got some help and I pray he wins this lawsuit as well. The woman involved definitely needs to be held accountable for wrecking this mans life! 26 years! Unbelievable!! Basically she was stealing from him. I hope her kid grows up with a bit more integrity than she has!

    • @nordicwarrior2176
      @nordicwarrior2176 3 года назад +6

      Most definitely God Bless that lawyer INDEFINITELY!!!!! But also the TV News because if it wasn't for them the attorney would have never heard about the case.

    • @user-vm5ud4xw6n
      @user-vm5ud4xw6n 3 года назад +4

      @@nordicwarrior2176 you are so right about that. It was a terrible thing to hear but at the same time a good thing.

    • @MrBrachiatingApe
      @MrBrachiatingApe 3 года назад

      @mark tamayo It's still there because the billions of annual donations and tax dollars still flow in. All those gender studies degrees gotta earn a living to pay down their student debt somehow.

    • @user-vm5ud4xw6n
      @user-vm5ud4xw6n 3 года назад +2

      @mark tamayo try telling that to a woman who’s been raped, gets pregnant and then some judge awards her attacker visitation rights thereby forcing her to see this person on a regular basis and taking away any chance she might have for healing. It also forces that child to understand that his father once assaulted his mother and thats how they were conceived. Or maybe a woman is accused of consenting to the assault because she tells someone who is getting ready to assault her to put a condom on so she doesn’t get an STD. At one time even hospitals didn’t believe a woman if she said she was raped. Some police still don’t. Sure makes me feel protected. I might also add young girls in the foster system who are often repeatedly assaulted by so called “foster parents.” Women’s Rights are protected but there are still some disparities.

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 3 года назад

      She want look who's involved a blk man remember this is the same system who imprison blk men 4 crimes they don't commit

  • @JohnBogle286
    @JohnBogle286 3 года назад +40

    We are all just going to ignore the fact that his ex-girlfriend lied on a government form too?

    • @jonetyson
      @jonetyson 3 года назад +1

      The form evidently wasn't long enough to list all the potential fathers. :P

  • @RCMN-2024
    @RCMN-2024 3 года назад +104

    Any woman that claims a man is her baby daddy should be forced to do a paternity test, this will save alot of heartache for the man and child involved

    • @juliancain3872
      @juliancain3872 3 года назад +6

      And If not, there should be a charge for paternity fraud.

    • @TekkLuthor
      @TekkLuthor 3 года назад +1

      I don't understand how none of these courts do it. It's common sense

    • @MajeedBelle
      @MajeedBelle 3 года назад +5

      It won't happen because truth would come out that the vast majority of these women don't even know who they let bust a nut inside them in the system don't want to make even more single mothers than it is now.

    • @purewezzin9341
      @purewezzin9341 3 года назад

      Who would pay for it? Healthcare for all?

  • @ramoncook8480
    @ramoncook8480 3 года назад +1

    WTF. 26 YEARS OF child Support for a child that wasn't his????sue EVERY DAMN BODY!!! What about the female that lied and just put his name down as the father, knowing good and DAMN well that the child wasn't his??

  • @johnfairweather9188
    @johnfairweather9188 3 года назад +90

    This is just one more way the family court system abuses men.

  • @johnniebeavers
    @johnniebeavers 2 года назад +1

    I think she should be in jail for lying

  • @purefunguy
    @purefunguy 3 года назад +195

    Every single moms should put the police officer and judges as fathers and enjoy the court system

    • @nordicwarrior2176
      @nordicwarrior2176 3 года назад +20

      Even something better, start listing Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos or even Joe Biden. All the celebrities stars, why not they got plenty of money.

    • @ThePeterDislikeShow
      @ThePeterDislikeShow 3 года назад +4

      @@nordicwarrior2176 Yea, every woman who happens to be around Joe Biden should just stain their dress every time they see him and then list their children as fathered by him. Great plan!

    • @justonetime6179
      @justonetime6179 3 года назад +2

      If only that was a rule when you were born.

    • @alexanderthegreat5649
      @alexanderthegreat5649 3 года назад +2

      @@nordicwarrior2176
      You missed the entire point of their statement, no don't list those billionaires just because they have money that makes no sense and wouldn't change anything. They were saying list the judges/cops because when they have the injustice happen to them they'll have the laws changed immediately.

  • @downunderfulla6001
    @downunderfulla6001 2 года назад +2

    Why didn’t the mother get jailed for forgery!!!
    She admits to signing his name as father just so she could claim benefits.

  • @thurmeez
    @thurmeez 3 года назад +193

    Daddy by default?! Now that's some BS!

    • @KNByam
      @KNByam 3 года назад +3

      I've seen this story before years ago, I believe what happened was the baby mama needed a father's name in order to collect benefits so she just put his name down, she knew he was not the father but she just needed a name, but she didn't know this would happen to him.

    • @fitrianhidayat
      @fitrianhidayat 3 года назад +7

      @@KNByam did she collect his money nonetheless?

    • @KNByam
      @KNByam 3 года назад +3

      @@fitrianhidayat Yes but some states what happens is the government gives the money and the state collects child support as reimbursement. But she obviously never tried to rectify it.

    • @Dwightstjohn-fo8ki
      @Dwightstjohn-fo8ki 3 года назад +2

      @Jordan Powell sounds convenient for govt. on many levels: welfare, courts, and then make the guy unemployable, and then screw him again. Half a century to fix??? Even Canada "bought into" this game.

    • @mrnuna4793
      @mrnuna4793 3 года назад

      @@KNByam brother that's all states. It's called title IV-D of the Social Security Act.

  • @rottierumbles9451
    @rottierumbles9451 3 года назад +5

    When you knowingly LIE and FORCE someone to pay for Child Support , YOU should be FORCED to pay the man back when he isn't the Father and you knew it.

  • @jamesteiwimate172
    @jamesteiwimate172 3 года назад +198

    That deadbeat judge that ordered child support, should back pay this man out of her own pocket along with the mother and the father of the child

    • @CringeDealer69
      @CringeDealer69 3 года назад +5

      *her own pocket.

    • @jamesteiwimate172
      @jamesteiwimate172 3 года назад +2

      @@CringeDealer69 thank you for your correction👍

    • @klopcodez
      @klopcodez 3 года назад +3

      I bet she made him pay because he had more money and dint want him around..while getting ran through by the actual dad and others that she really want..such sickness and evil cannot be forgiven..or go unpunished but sometimes God knows better perhaps protecting this Child, and who knows..as long as everyone is happy in the end and guy is paid money from the state..let’s even face it the states takes too much taxes from people anyways.

    • @ojivey8273
      @ojivey8273 3 года назад

      A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

  • @computernerdtechman
    @computernerdtechman 9 месяцев назад +1

    I think the Judge who ordered him to pay child support without ordering a DNA test should pay the child support.

  • @josephreese6502
    @josephreese6502 Год назад +1

    How was he still paying child support for a grown ass man though? 26 years and he just now stopped paying? That makes zero sense.

  • @acnologi1115
    @acnologi1115 3 года назад +106

    Deadbeat father to a child that does not belong to him and he has only met once and didn't really talked to...?
    Wtf is this...

    • @CheekoLFreako
      @CheekoLFreako 3 года назад +12

      Democrats for you. (This is coming from one )

    • @WalkerOne
      @WalkerOne 3 года назад +1

      Social justice

    • @Danko_Sekulic
      @Danko_Sekulic 3 года назад +17

      You cannot possibly be a deadbeat father , if you are NOT the father in the first place.

    • @lanceknightmare
      @lanceknightmare 3 года назад +3

      @@CheekoLFreako I am a Democrat, you are an idiot who votes Democrat.

    • @markmeade2937
      @markmeade2937 3 года назад +1

      The reality of our current lunatic world

  • @sayyourmind1
    @sayyourmind1 3 года назад +5

    This would have never happened in the UK and I am saying this from experience. After separation, my ex attempted to claim child maintenance for a child we both knew was not mine. I appealed it and the CSA requested a paternity test and I readily provided my DNA sample. She on the other declined to provide DNA for herself and the child.......and that was the end of story. I was also told that the CSA went after her for a full refund of the cost of the test. I remember sending her a short text message saying....'Nice try..byeeee'

  • @FigmentVFX
    @FigmentVFX 3 года назад +29

    He should sue the state and get triple damages! They took a portion of his life and lively hood away, he deserves nothing less. The woman deserves jail time for fraud.

  • @TheJayair
    @TheJayair 2 года назад +3

    And they say, America is the land of the free.

  • @kdkay4039
    @kdkay4039 3 года назад +36

    I’m praying this man WIN that lawsuit! It’s asinine to demand anyone pay for something they are not responsible for. I’ll be praying for this man!

    • @ojivey8273
      @ojivey8273 3 года назад

      A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

  • @rackcity5981
    @rackcity5981 3 года назад +1

    Wow... whats the argument?! The state/ court ought to reimburse this man. 26 yrs!!!

  • @verstumfung43
    @verstumfung43 3 года назад +19

    How is woman not charged with Fraud?!?

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 3 года назад +3

      Here's the trick the fraud was committed against him and not them wat did the system loose nothing so that's why she want be charged

    • @sabin97
      @sabin97 3 года назад

      when the victim is male, it's generally not considered a crime.

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 3 года назад

      @@sabin97 u said it a male

  • @iess2006
    @iess2006 2 года назад +2

    What would happen to the man if he committed welfare fraud like she did???

  • @scottymaun
    @scottymaun 3 года назад +39

    I would hurt people if I was this man over this crap. Good on him for being a bigger person.

  • @meatpopsicle1567
    @meatpopsicle1567 3 года назад +7

    One man finally getting a fair shake in family court. One small victory, one giant step. Keep up the good fight, men! There can be victory at last.

    • @ojivey8273
      @ojivey8273 3 года назад

      A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

  • @sweeptheleg.
    @sweeptheleg. 3 года назад +28

    Innocent til proven guilty huh? What a pile of horseshit! Even after the DNA test proved he wasn't the father, the judge said, oh no, you still have to pay.

  • @8mathdaddy
    @8mathdaddy 3 года назад +1

    Sue the judge for 26 million, 1 mill for each torturing year the judge put him through.

  • @sueann9065
    @sueann9065 3 года назад +26

    Smh. Men are treated like crap in the family court system.

    • @SignOfTheTimes008
      @SignOfTheTimes008 3 года назад +1

      Its true. More women need to speak up about it, men can't change this.

    • @sueann9065
      @sueann9065 3 года назад

      @@SignOfTheTimes008 I agree that more women should speak about gender bias in the family court system. I disagree that men are powerless to change anything. The majority of law makers (Senate and House) are men. I hope that feminist lawmakers don't block laws that change gender bias against men.
      Have you ever disputed a feminist? You can explain everything fully and they'll still disregard what you say because it's not beneficial to women.

    • @SignOfTheTimes008
      @SignOfTheTimes008 3 года назад +1

      @@sueann9065 There are guys out there fighting to change it and no one listens to them. And with woke sjws trying to shut them up its even harder. If those in power were brave and gave a shit, maybe it would be fixed

    • @sueann9065
      @sueann9065 3 года назад

      @@SignOfTheTimes008 I agree and don't doubt that there are men fighting to change it. I also know that females like me are also fighting to change it. The majority of lawmakers are men and i don't understand why those men aren't doing anything about it when they have the majority vote. The majority vote is why im saying men aren't powerless to change this.

    • @SignOfTheTimes008
      @SignOfTheTimes008 3 года назад

      @@sueann9065 Probably too many traditionalists or something. Hard to say. I think in time it will start to change. Glad they're are females out there trying to change it.

  • @redroses309
    @redroses309 Год назад +2

    Now is the time to re lawyer up and sue the system for malpractice. The law was used as their personal weapon to confiscate money from him. Re Lawyer up and file a civil suit against that judge.

  • @libertyordeath8338
    @libertyordeath8338 3 года назад +15

    Lying mother should have to return all of the money they took from him. This started with her lie.

    • @FurnitureFan
      @FurnitureFan 3 года назад +1

      I seriously doubt she has money. Better to repay that man his money outright and then deal with her issues. Legally they pursued the wrong man, why should he suffer?
      I mean it was the court's mistake that they sought the wrong person.

    • @libertyordeath8338
      @libertyordeath8338 3 года назад +4

      @@FurnitureFan she sent them after him, they should be dealt with, but she is the source.

  • @jackiewiliams1510
    @jackiewiliams1510 3 года назад +7

    That speaks volumes about the American justice system, how can you be deemed a dad by default, absolute madness, you either are the father or you are not the father.....

  • @fathomless
    @fathomless 3 года назад +10

    So, is he gonna be able to claim back all the money the mother got? And is she going to have any kind of punishment for fraudulantly taking his money?

    • @TheGuruStud
      @TheGuruStud 3 года назад +1

      You're funny

    • @mariatheresavonhabsburg
      @mariatheresavonhabsburg 3 года назад

      @@TheGuruStud Why do you say that? It isn't called a justice system for nothing.

    • @aardvarkbiscuit2677
      @aardvarkbiscuit2677 3 года назад

      @@mariatheresavonhabsburg - He said it because every man here knows the only way that would happen is if he paid expensive lawyers and then the deadbeat mother would pay $5 a month coz she's so broke.

    • @wadestanton
      @wadestanton 3 года назад

      The state takes the money where I live in the US

  • @catritz
    @catritz 3 года назад +3

    Wait a minute... He has to get permission from a judge to sue???
    That's some serious BS!

  • @Kaiserbill99
    @Kaiserbill99 3 года назад +7

    Needs significant financial compensation. I can only imagine how it must feel to have that wrongful debt hanging over you for that many years.

  • @tyrannyterminator4179
    @tyrannyterminator4179 3 года назад +19

    Everyone everywhere, start to list all Judges in your area as the father/mother of your child.

    • @simpsonservices6463
      @simpsonservices6463 3 года назад +2

      yep if the state wants to play that game do it and watch how fast they will fix the law

    • @-BuddyGuy
      @-BuddyGuy 3 года назад +1

      A simple, practical idea

    • @mrnuna4793
      @mrnuna4793 3 года назад +1

      LOL that's kind of a good idea, but you'd get hit with fraud real quick.

    • @blakewright4786
      @blakewright4786 3 года назад

      Leave out the 'mother' bit. Only fathers get listed lol

  • @Liitebulb
    @Liitebulb 3 года назад +15

    So actual deadbeat dads weave the system for years avoiding to pay, and this man was forced to pay for 26 years? How? And the judge knew there was no bio connected. How do they explain that?

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 3 года назад

      Easy he's blk

    • @FurnitureFan
      @FurnitureFan 3 года назад +2

      I guess because he had a jailable offence once, he would be reluctant to speak up for his right to justice. Who wouldn't be wary after his experience?
      I hope he gets some justice here.

  • @DM_21
    @DM_21 3 года назад +3

    The mother needs to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. She needs to be sued in civil court as well. The court that would not listen to reason needs to be held legally and financially accountable

  • @craigdavidson2278
    @craigdavidson2278 3 года назад +11

    Hope the woman who said he was the dad gets a term in prison....or at tge least publicly named.

  • @katherinefrasheski6331
    @katherinefrasheski6331 3 года назад +2

    Women that do this should be prosecuted

  • @a1lady88
    @a1lady88 3 года назад +26

    so 4 years after this video was posted - how did it play out? Did the money hungry mom go to jail/pay him back? i feel for this man!

    • @CathyGoes
      @CathyGoes 3 года назад

      The suit against the state was dismissed. I don't know if he ever sued the woman.

    • @purewezzin9341
      @purewezzin9341 3 года назад

      Just looked it up. He’s still owns the 30k even tho, he’s not the father. Based on the law written in 1950 something. That’s he was the supporter of the child for too long for anyone else to become the main supporters

    • @purewezzin9341
      @purewezzin9341 3 года назад

      Said he’s the father in all but dna. And denied his appeal

  • @simpsonservices6463
    @simpsonservices6463 3 года назад +8

    sue to everything, the costs the amount paid and interest on the money and all the suffering

  • @tommcnaught1050
    @tommcnaught1050 3 года назад +25

    When are the women who make these deliberate and false declarations on official documents going to be prosecuted and held accountable for the damage distress and slander of these mens characters they always get to walk away without consequences if they were held accountable for their actions they would think twice about lying on this paperwork

  • @maribrunson4464
    @maribrunson4464 3 года назад +4

    Just a shame this happened to this man; I hope he wins a State and Federal lawsuit for forcing him to take care of a child that wasn't his child.

  • @sueann9065
    @sueann9065 3 года назад +6

    The mom should face fraud charges.

    • @tonymetzger6769
      @tonymetzger6769 3 года назад +4

      She should but god knows that will never happen

    • @wadestanton
      @wadestanton 3 года назад

      @@tonymetzger6769 That's why the state collects the money where I live in the US

  • @MrTStat
    @MrTStat 3 года назад +1

    26 years child support!! I don't know how this s**t works but I'm pretty sure 26 is not a child nor they will need support!!

    • @georgebarton1582
      @georgebarton1582 3 года назад

      he wasnt being charged child support for 26 years. He was fighting the child support for 26 years.Meaning for 26 years he had been battling the courts about his name being illegally put on a childs birth certificate.
      He wasnt being charged child support for 26 years. 26 years is just how long this shit has been going on for him. It wasnt the number of years that money was being takin out of his pay
      26 years is just how long he has been dealing with this. HOw long he has been fighting the courts.

  • @osmodious8533
    @osmodious8533 3 года назад +13

    It’s supposed to be a justice system, apparently with no little to no justice.

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 3 года назад +1

      The symbol tells me all I need to no blind folded&unbalance scale

    • @adamofblastworks1517
      @adamofblastworks1517 3 года назад +1

      Well, it's not just this, but it certainly doesn't help.

  • @brandonfitzgerald1457
    @brandonfitzgerald1457 3 года назад +2

    The judge needs to be fired.

  • @AnyoneCanSee
    @AnyoneCanSee 3 года назад +21

    Men need to understand their rights and how the law works.
    A lot of men do not realise that if you marry a woman that already has children and then divorce her you could find yourself paying for those kids until they are 18. Once you take on parental duties even for a short period you are stuck with them. A lot of guys are shocked when this happens.

    • @l.a.french3063
      @l.a.french3063 3 года назад

      That wasn't the case here.

    • @AnyoneCanSee
      @AnyoneCanSee 3 года назад +1

      @@l.a.french3063 - Yes, I'm aware of that I was simply giving a much more common example of how a man can find himself legally obligated to pay child support for a child that is not his.
      In this case, he didn't go to the original court hearing as he did not receive the summons and was made the father of the child by the court.
      My point was that men need to be more aware of how the system works. Most men do not think that if they live with a woman for a few years that has children he might become liable to pay child support after the relationship breaks down until her children are 18. Once you take on a parental role you may find yourself liable.

    • @l.a.french3063
      @l.a.french3063 3 года назад +1

      @@AnyoneCanSee Gotcha. I agree. When it comes to custody, child support, visitation etc., everything is stacked against the man. It's always best to make yourself aware how things work. Until the laws are changed however, men will continue to be victimized.

    • @Cecespizza14
      @Cecespizza14 3 года назад

      @@AnyoneCanSee that is so true what I was thinking I feel sorry for this man but there’s a lot of men who don’t follow the rules and think because a child is not theirs that they can just ignore it and they’re stuck in the same situations not showing up to court because you’re like it’s not my child not my problem

    • @centze3550
      @centze3550 3 года назад

      @@Cecespizza14 there’s ALOT of men that do that but the MAJORITY don’t

  • @David-wm4ox
    @David-wm4ox 3 года назад +2

    Sue the state, and repay him back for 26 years

  • @davidtherwhanger6795
    @davidtherwhanger6795 3 года назад +5

    It came as no shock to me when the court docquet said Michigan on it. I have heard a lot of this happening in Michigan in the recent months.

  • @choosey87
    @choosey87 Месяц назад +1

    This is why you don't miss your court date for a dna test.

  • @bertram46
    @bertram46 3 года назад +8

    That's because judges don't care. The system has no accountability.
    It's a mess and they are to lazy to make changes

  • @davidrichards9529
    @davidrichards9529 3 года назад

    Any money taken should be forced to be given back to him.

  • @imposter0shadow
    @imposter0shadow 3 года назад +6

    Any man stuck paying child support has lost the ability to make a life fpr themselves

    • @tonymetzger6769
      @tonymetzger6769 3 года назад

      If the child is his he should and if the child was with him the mother should pay him if they child is not his no way in hell sho6he be forced to pay

    • @imposter0shadow
      @imposter0shadow 3 года назад +1

      @@tonymetzger6769 let me stop you with that bs right here. If you're being an active part of your kids life and supporting your kids on your time then cs is a scam. Men are only being allowed to see their kids 4 days a month and yet are responsible for 60% of child care. No. Its a scam against fathers and keeps them in a financial bind for years while the mother makes out like a bandit

    • @tonymetzger6769
      @tonymetzger6769 3 года назад

      @@imposter0shadow usually there not in a part of their lives hence is why they pay child support if ur actively providing food clothes yeah I count that as child support but if you don't see ur kid or send money for food yeah you should pay the other for the kids needs

    • @imposter0shadow
      @imposter0shadow 3 года назад +2

      @@tonymetzger6769 you obviously have no idea how the courts work and i hope you never have to. I agree if you arent providing then you should pay, but you have fathers who are actively trying to get a fair chance to raise their kids and being denied by the courts just to have the courts then make them pay a ridiculous amount of child support to the mother.

    • @tonymetzger6769
      @tonymetzger6769 3 года назад

      @@imposter0shadow oh ok I get what you mean wemon ask for high amounts of child support and refuse to let the father see there kids even when there try to be part if life I understand that one if that is what you ment and yeah 99% of all courts will take the moms side men get fu**ed up in court which sucks sometimes the kids r better off with the father tbh

  • @KJ-rx5ph
    @KJ-rx5ph 2 года назад +2

    It’s long process to get his name removed from birth certificate n child support to be stopped the system is so fuxk up

  • @jameslucas5590
    @jameslucas5590 3 года назад +4

    so how did it play out?

  • @belindagarza3958
    @belindagarza3958 3 года назад +1

    It would be nice if they could get the men who do owe child support for their kids to pay it. This guys situation is messed up but it’s incredibly rare.

  • @randomtask9643
    @randomtask9643 3 года назад +9

    That's a "GoFundMe" I can probably get behind. They didn't even give the man lube when they stuck it to him.

  • @jaywholoveseveryone1721
    @jaywholoveseveryone1721 3 года назад +3

    There should be no such thing as "Dad by DEFAULT" --doesn't even make logical sense

  • @Oxnate
    @Oxnate 3 года назад +12

    Go down to the welfare office and give out the names of judges and politicians (especially female ones) to be listed as the father on welfare applications.

  • @MichaelLauzon1976
    @MichaelLauzon1976 3 года назад +6

    So, what was the eventual outcome of this, seeing as how it was posted 4yrs ago..?!

  • @fdgd9998
    @fdgd9998 3 года назад +3

    It's about time they have some justice for the man when it comes to child support.

  • @antoniopuertorico1566
    @antoniopuertorico1566 3 года назад +4

    You can fix alot of these problems by requiring paternity test before signing birth certificate or declaring someone has to pay child suport.

  • @iwishyouwould1781
    @iwishyouwould1781 3 года назад +7

    I had the same thing happen to me. The system protects lying women and vilify honest hard working men.

    • @ojivey8273
      @ojivey8273 3 года назад

      A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

  • @mtw1234
    @mtw1234 3 года назад +1

    How could the judge get away with this?

  • @charlesttent8972
    @charlesttent8972 3 года назад +25

    The judge drug it out cause she did the same thing herself to 4 different men...😂🤣😂🤣

  • @atmosphericpressure3560
    @atmosphericpressure3560 Год назад +1

    Trust no woman during your life.

  • @MrsPetal
    @MrsPetal 3 года назад +3

    The mother needs to go to jail for fraud, she clearly taking advantage of the government, I heard this case.

    • @ojivey8273
      @ojivey8273 3 года назад

      A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

  • @haroldb1856
    @haroldb1856 3 года назад +1

    Every bureaucrat, lawyer, judge and official involved with this injustice should be jailed and sued.

  • @boedillard8807
    @boedillard8807 3 года назад +5

    It is absolutely stunning to me that a judge can steal your money like this. They'll do this to husband's who find out that the kids aren't theirs even after a divorce. They say that this is in the best interest of the child! WTF!?! It is my best interest that the government give me back all the taxes they've wasted throughout my lifetime - let me know when that is going to happen.

    • @jefferyhartwell9102
      @jefferyhartwell9102 3 года назад +1

      Yup the best interest is its convenient 2let someone else pay and not them

    • @FurnitureFan
      @FurnitureFan 3 года назад

      But still, it was the court's error to pursue an innocent man. They should fix that and then deal with the mother over repayments. It shouldn't be his problem rn.

    • @Cecespizza14
      @Cecespizza14 3 года назад

      They only take money from husbands who find out the kids aren’t theirs because by being married to that person you take the legal responsibility of the child so you have to go to court to get yourself taken off because it’s the same as someone marry someone and their step child can become their child now.

    • @Cecespizza14
      @Cecespizza14 3 года назад

      @Rose Roberson not defending, only thing I did was explain the rules that happen when it comes to rights to a child through marriage also nothing disgusting about a stepparent stepping up and taking responsibilities for a child that they married into I was just putting into context some details On a small aspect of family court. Reading comprehension would be good before writing a comment I was just adding this because a lot of people seem to be throwing all the blame on this woman without knowing how the Family Court systems operate

    • @dhamin8168
      @dhamin8168 3 года назад

      @@Cecespizza14 Was he even married to her? There was nothing stated in the video about his relationship with the mother

  • @susanspatz9501
    @susanspatz9501 3 года назад +1

    I heard a story about a man that doubted whether or not he was the father of his girl friends daughter. A dna test was done and it showed he was not the Father. The judge still made him pay child support. He told the man that the child was use to living a certain way and that she should be able to continue to live that way.

  • @BCAprocess
    @BCAprocess 3 года назад +5

    Any recent update on the matter?

  • @stillwaterbuilders3714
    @stillwaterbuilders3714 3 года назад +1

    All courts should be forced to comply with the empirical standards required for criminal justice court.

  • @troywilcox
    @troywilcox 3 года назад +10

    Should be a law that you need a paternity test before paying child support

  • @Eygor007
    @Eygor007 3 года назад

    Congratulations! Hope justice is served! Good luck!

  • @rochellecrump-mcnulty9675
    @rochellecrump-mcnulty9675 3 года назад +4

    Get every dollar back they had taken, plus interest

  • @SignOfTheTimes008
    @SignOfTheTimes008 3 года назад

    Thank you for supporting him. He should sue and get his back if that is even possible.

  • @RobeonMew
    @RobeonMew 3 года назад +3

    Legends say Carnell is still seekimg Justice. ⚖

  • @RobinsTinyHomestead
    @RobinsTinyHomestead 3 года назад +1

    They need to repay every penny back to this man.