Try out some of the tips mentioned in the video in your real-life conversations. And let me know your stories and personal experiences with talking with others ❤
I also struggled with it for years. Due to bullying at 16-18. Your self esteem plummets. The thing that gave me a boost was going to bars and clubs and meeting girls my age. The fact girls thought I was attractive was a massive ego boost and kind of sorted me out. Been with my partner for over 30 year now.
Thanks for sharing your journey. It’s awesome to hear how you bounced back and rebuilt your self-esteem after a tough time. And it’s great that you turned those interactions into something positive. Congrats on your long-lasting relationship! Here is to many more years 🙌
12:50 How the other person made you feel, and how you make the other person feel. This point is exactly about how we show up in our every day energy in front of others! 🙌
I felt just like you Laurie, the fact that we didn't get much practice coming out of the pandemic a few years ago, I'm really learning to be socially open again and overcoming this anxiety. This video was so helpful.
Great Laurie, this is one heck of a video on handling conversations with strangers or anyone for that matter!! Fantastic insights really on how to keep it going and I enjoyed it to the core. Here I remember the Legendary Les Brown's quote "Someone's opinion of you need not be your reality" for what you said at 4.23 At 6.27 I pick few words from the book "How to win friends and Influence People" about showing genuine interest in others
Les Brown indeed was legendary, and I love that you shared this. Thank you for your kind words and really glad that this video resonated with you and was useful! Also, love that book How to Win Friends and Influence People, always such a timeless classic doesn't matter what age we live in. 🙌
@@lauriexwang Great that you admire them. I do love conversational skills Laurie. I would like to have atleast one conversation with you on skype or zoom else a platform of your choice please. It would be great if you give me Yr time convenience and availability also an opportunity to connect with you. Btw am from India, where do you live in? Simple reason, I just love the way you summarize things
It's all part of experiences that we get from living life, the more we talk to people, the more we understand others. Glad you resonated with this video! 🙌
@@lauriexwang I discovered your video about staying focused in work flow and have been watching your other videos. I also attended a Tony Robbins event and It totally changed me
I find small talk really tough. Some people seem to make such grand loud conversations out of the most meaningless subjects. How can i learn not to feel 'fake' and therefore anxious, when i talk about meaningless things?
It’s completely understandable to feel that way about small talk-it can definitely seem challenging, especially when it feels superficial. One approach that might help is to view small talk as a bridge to deeper connections. Instead of focusing on the content, try to focus on the person you're speaking with and see it as a way to ease into more meaningful conversations. It’s okay to keep it light and simple; you're not being fake, just finding common ground. You're not alone in feeling this way, and it's great that you're open to learning how to navigate it better.
Hey Laurie, I just watched your video and I must say that it was really informative and well-made. I was wondering if I could help you edit your highly engaging videos and thumbnails which will help your video to reach to a wider audience and increase your subscribers and viewers.
Thank you, I'm currently not looking actively, but if you can send over an email to support@lauriewang.com, we can put your info on the list of video editors for future.
Hello, I've been unemployed for a bit in the UK, so my confidence is really low. I do ask open questions, especially about information for interviews and my own personal information, but don't get a reply. What am I doing wrong?
Im trying so hard to change my mindset but the problem is I have this feeling that everyone is boring and they don't have nothing good to share in a conversation. I know I'm wrong and when someone come to me and force a conversation (in a good way) it's go very well. So I'm looking for some help with this issue. 😢
It can be challenging to provide longer answers, but you’re definitely not alone in feeling this way. Sometimes, it helps to take a moment to think about your response and consider elaborating on your thoughts or adding examples. A conversation is a two way dialogue and it also depends on the person you are speaking to as well.
Try out some of the tips mentioned in the video in your real-life conversations. And let me know your stories and personal experiences with talking with others ❤
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I also struggled with it for years. Due to bullying at 16-18. Your self esteem plummets. The thing that gave me a boost was going to bars and clubs and meeting girls my age. The fact girls thought I was attractive was a massive ego boost and kind of sorted me out. Been with my partner for over 30 year now.
Thanks for sharing your journey. It’s awesome to hear how you bounced back and rebuilt your self-esteem after a tough time. And it’s great that you turned those interactions into something positive. Congrats on your long-lasting relationship! Here is to many more years 🙌
You come across so sincere. Appreciate your content Laurie
Thanks and glad you found it helpful 🙌
12:50 How the other person made you feel, and how you make the other person feel. This point is exactly about how we show up in our every day energy in front of others! 🙌
Energy is everything 🙌
@@lauriexwang Yep, you hit the nail on the head!! Energy is contagious
I felt just like you Laurie, the fact that we didn't get much practice coming out of the pandemic a few years ago, I'm really learning to be socially open again and overcoming this anxiety. This video was so helpful.
I can definitely relate to this and glad that you enjoyed this video! 🙌
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Great Laurie, this is one heck of a video on handling conversations with strangers or anyone for that matter!! Fantastic insights really on how to keep it going and I enjoyed it to the core.
Here I remember the Legendary Les Brown's quote "Someone's opinion of you need not be your reality" for what you said at 4.23
At 6.27 I pick few words from the book "How to win friends and Influence People" about showing genuine interest in others
Les Brown indeed was legendary, and I love that you shared this. Thank you for your kind words and really glad that this video resonated with you and was useful! Also, love that book How to Win Friends and Influence People, always such a timeless classic doesn't matter what age we live in. 🙌
@@lauriexwang Great that you admire them. I do love conversational skills Laurie.
I would like to have atleast one conversation with you on skype or zoom else a platform of your choice please. It would be great if you give me Yr time convenience and availability also an opportunity to connect with you. Btw am from India, where do you live in?
Simple reason, I just love the way you summarize things
Such a nice message and nice message giver... good job mate. Keep up the good work.
Thanks a lot, glad you resonated with the message! 🙌
I’m always thinking about what the person is thinking about me as I speak😅 how I sound, how I look, etc.
Yep I've definitely been there! 😅
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Thanks! Glad you found the video useful 🙌😀
How in the world are you this emotionally intelligent?!?? I am so imprssaed
It's all part of experiences that we get from living life, the more we talk to people, the more we understand others. Glad you resonated with this video! 🙌
@@lauriexwang I discovered your video about staying focused in work flow and have been watching your other videos. I also attended a Tony Robbins event and It totally changed me
I appreciate you so much ❤
Thank you. Glad you found this video helpful! 🙌
What kind therapy are you referring to?
I find small talk really tough. Some people seem to make such grand loud conversations out of the most meaningless subjects. How can i learn not to feel 'fake' and therefore anxious, when i talk about meaningless things?
It’s completely understandable to feel that way about small talk-it can definitely seem challenging, especially when it feels superficial. One approach that might help is to view small talk as a bridge to deeper connections. Instead of focusing on the content, try to focus on the person you're speaking with and see it as a way to ease into more meaningful conversations. It’s okay to keep it light and simple; you're not being fake, just finding common ground. You're not alone in feeling this way, and it's great that you're open to learning how to navigate it better.
Great video! I highly recommend the book: Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg
Thank you! Will do! Great book recommendation, I loved his Power of Habit book too.
Hey Laurie, I just watched your video and I must say that it was really informative and well-made. I was wondering if I could help you edit your highly engaging videos and thumbnails which will help your video to reach to a wider audience and increase your subscribers and viewers.
Thank you, I'm currently not looking actively, but if you can send over an email to support@lauriewang.com, we can put your info on the list of video editors for future.
Hello, I've been unemployed for a bit in the UK, so my confidence is really low. I do ask open questions, especially about information for interviews and my own personal information, but don't get a reply. What am I doing wrong?
Im trying so hard to change my mindset but the problem is I have this feeling that everyone is boring and they don't have nothing good to share in a conversation. I know I'm wrong and when someone come to me and force a conversation (in a good way) it's go very well. So I'm looking for some help with this issue. 😢
Hey, just emulate politicians. They talk aimlessly and without worrying about delivering what they say. Just blab like them. It's easy.
I just can’t seem to give longer answers to questions.
It can be challenging to provide longer answers, but you’re definitely not alone in feeling this way. Sometimes, it helps to take a moment to think about your response and consider elaborating on your thoughts or adding examples. A conversation is a two way dialogue and it also depends on the person you are speaking to as well.
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