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Excellent Video clip! Apologies for chiming in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you tried - Saankramer Love Trick System (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a smashing exclusive product for falling in love with an amazing partner without the normal expense. Ive heard some decent things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.
You have to pick a man of good character, honesty and someone worth trusting before you allow him into your life. Don’t throw your good heart on a selfish, immature creep who doesn’t deserve you. You don’t need that kind of heartache.
@Ligeia D.Aurevilly I hope to hear what he has to say as well ha..ive had a similar case but long ago...i hope it goes well..and as long as he's not under age then go for it 🙏
Oh tats awesome..to hear that.But if a much younger man than me by decades, get interest in me..I would be wondering what does he want me to do with him? I find it embarrassing though I might look younger than him than the numbers in decades...why do they not able to find women of their own age, or he can't find any same age group woman interested in him?
100% agreed that men have a certain look in their eyes when they love u. U will feel it. It may seem corny but I know it to be true. Also, 100% agreed that if a man loves u his friends and family will treat u well. If u find disrespect from people around him, walk away. Also, a guy that wants to have no part in ur problems or protecting u, does not love u.
My bf said a man will play with your hair if he’s in love with you! I was laying in his arms one night and he was rubbing my head and running his hands through my hair! He definitely protects me! He picks me flowers! No other man has ever done that! He cooks for me, cleans house! He even shaved my legs for me the other night just out of the blue for more reason! I’ve never had a man do these things for me! I love him so much and I have no doubt he feels the same!
Being in love is letting them be who n how they are, and loving them regardless of the outcome. Wanting them to be happy. Treasuring every moment you have and had. That is true love.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do. Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.
@@icysnow57cold64 I wouldn't agree with that. Every person has masculine and feminine energies, and it's how those energies are balanced.... not being male or female.
@@icysnow57cold64 What bond have you formed? Be it your dad, mum, dog, cat where you love them that much you would...miss them, cry if they got hurt, admire, love seeing them be funny, just be themselves...??
Please remember, falling in love doesn’t warrant a long term relationship. Falling in love is a good component to get a relationship starts, but the candles don’t lit forever. LTR is hard work and self sacrifice. Unconditional love.
I’m blessed ! Finally got it right ! My baby loves me “ just as I am “ Been waiting years for a man to just love me for me and he does and it makes me feel so alive ! I’m never letting him go ! We have a very good relationship with each other it’s a real blessing!!
Hell yeah and yesterday I told my friend who was standing infront of the mirror that he‘s beautiful and he should hurry up to come cuddle (which we always do). And a while after I showed him a note I took on my phone which said „holy sh*t I forgot how beautiful he was...“ Deep down I already knew he didn’t have the same feelings but it didn’t stop me to tell him at least one beautiful thing about him because all I want is him to understand how much I care about him. How much he means to me. That he‘s so crazy beautiful in so many ways and I wish I could show them all to him. I don’t regret telling him in words. It‘s hard to describe what I feel. But according to all the videos I just watched I guess I am somewhat falling in love with this person or at least crushing on him.
And they do. Discernment is crucial, and if we get played we have to forgive _ourselves!_ Then the user fades in importance and we can/must forgive them so we're not chained to them forever. This is how we get free of toxic ppl: By first forgiving ourselves, which dumps our feelings of embarrassment and we can learn and grow and develop discernment free of the embarrassement that keep us from moving on. See, if we let ourselves be embarrassed by a situation or a person then we give up ownership of it, they have power over us by our letting them own it, thus making ourselves helpless to move on: Chained forever. But if we can say, ''Well, that didn't go as planned! _I_ fell into that: What can _I_ _learn_ from it / what can _I_ _gain_ from it to make myself more effective? WE then own the situation and its consequences and WE control our future so that we _can_ learn from it. Which makes the final step simple: ''Forgive them, Father, for they know not what they do'' in the famous words of the most discerning person Earth ever hosted as he was being executed for showing love. We can do that! And we have to or we blunder along hurting ourselves through eternity, or so it seems.
My younger guy is still in awe of me after three years ....He is a one in a million to me ....and I am to him . We are years apart in age and it just works ....
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My husband did all of this to me, and then he did it with someone else and we divorced; and I recently found out a year ago he’s doing it again with another girl; and maybe by now he’s doing it again with someone else. And to think I gave up having kids to his sterility. Never let love override what you really want. Dump them and live for you!
As for me the one I am really in love with is jesus christ is the sweetest name that will make me fall in love more for because of his great work over my life and my sweet families.
What you’re talking about is limerance. It lasts for about 18 months to two years. Love is a choice. Love is choosing loving behaviors and actions even when it’s difficult. Love is committing to the commitment. Love is having the grace to hold a space for someone without blame, shame, or judgment. Love is inter-dependence-you, me and we.
I remember my bfs first sign - he introduced me to his nieces. He's very protective of them and wanted to wait to do that because of previous bad experiences. After that he included me in his interests - showing me places he liked, offering to let me use his PS4 (he's a gamer), and hanging out with his friends. The next and one of the most significant was when he told me he trusted me. He has trust issues so it really meant a lot that he opened up like that. The last thing I noticed was when he started talking about serious future plans with me. He's a very careful person and very direct so I knew that these showed he's serious about me.
I actually left the love of my life because I didn't think we were on the same page. I still love him till this day it's been 30 plus years.. I told him I loved him, he said thank you. I felt so hurt. So I broke up with him.
Hit the nail right on the head with your opening lines...'falling for him dont, wanna get hurt, so coming from a place of anxiety..a tough place to be in.' I'm right at this place, the fear swept over me when I realised I'm falling in love and I don't wanna get hurt. I felt I wanted to run away from him cos he is showing signs he is doing the same and I'm so scared . Everything you say seems to be where we're both at. Very useful information. Thanks.
When he is in general very confident, and around me he all of a sudden so confused and cannot put two words together. He is constantly saying that I am so unique to him...
I have literally watched every single one of your videos in their entirety and you always share such wonderful ideas, concepts, and advice. Thank you for putting all of this out to the world. You have helped me so much in my personal relationships with both my boyfriend and myself. Really appreciate you. Your channel is the best that I've found! Cheers!!
Thank you so much. I've watched a number on online youtube relationship advice stuff and no one... and I do mean no one has worded what goes on so straightforwardly and accurately wuth no gimmicks no buts etc. I have found you to be very insightful and your videos have given me confidence in myself and where I am going relationship wise thank you very very much!
Thank you Clayton. It does clear up a few things. He is a strong believer in actions speak louder then words. In the past he has always expressed himself by yelling and being condescending, he started out that way with me but for a year now he hasn't done that. There are numerous other things he had started out doing but no longer does them.
Clayton is SO good. I usually start these type videos & in 2 secs I'm losing focus. Not with Clayton! I'm with you on that. Can't believe I found his channel! I sure need it tho, PRONTO!! It's been a while since I loved a man. But things are picking up in a big way now. Being IN LOVE is just SO SPECIAL!! If we could just bottle it up, we would be all set!!
Thank you.. All of these things were present in my relationship and I love him with all my heart. I am saddened that we broke things off due to his fears, and uncomfortableness. I truly feel he was afraid of being hurt. I will say everything you pointed out was present in his behavior.
Clayton U R AWESOME! How did U know I needed your help??? Your voice is made for videos. You have a LOT of insight!! That's a HUGE blessing for us who need your help! SO happy I found U. Keep doing what U do!! You have a great thing going on here. Thanks SO much!!
WILD WOMAN and thanks for not having us sit for 20 minutes to get to the “point” or the “insight or clarity” that you plan on sharing. I loathe the “teasers” via ads that promise information they will gladly deliver for $xx.xx dollars and will throw in a cd if you click now. Drives me nuts.
I really appreciate how Clayton goes so in-depth in his video clips. He truly describes human nature in a way you seldom come across in these kind of videos. It’s very deep and insightful.
Sooo many people need this video. 😂One spark in cortisol and people get weird! Just relax, breath, enjoy. Love yourself. Love all. Merge. Enjoy it. There is no special one person. Everyone is beautiful - so BE love, be acceptance & kindness. Great video! Thank you.
this is a great video. it makes lots of sense, and I love it. my guy is falling into all of these things mentioned in this video. I love him, and never want to loose him.
There is a guy i love such that i cant date anyone else, we have been friends foe 7 months now sometimes he shows like he has feelings for me. I help please
How long does it take men to fall in love? I had a first date with a man and I’ve never had a man look at me the way he did, I felt this intense connection, absolutely insane like I can’t describe it. Almost as if I felt like he’s the one.
Thank you so much. My man was in love with me when he first saw me. He was a customer & I had no idea until he said something one day & only wanted me to serve him over the pharmacist! I knew then something was happening & he chased me! Ha ha.
YES.THANK YOU LOVE TEACHER . WHAT YOU SAY IS SO TRUE .NICE TO HEAR FROM YOU AND THANKS FOR SHARING .AND I HOPE THAT THE TYPE OF FEELING WILL BE FOUND INSIDE OF MY LOVELY HEART .AS MY LOVE FOR HIM IS SO STRONG BUT HE IS VERY FAR AWAY FROM ME .BUT EVEN THOU HE IS FAR AWAY FROM ME BUT HE IS ALWAYS IN MY HEART IN EVERY MOMENT IN MY HEART BEAT.
I love the painting/picture behind you ... it seemed very familiar as i saw something similar in another video as in that video there was a woman explaining the meaning of something very in depth to the meaning of the church.
Sensitive, informative and nuanced presentation on this topic. I like that you provide a breadth of examples allowing for better understanding of the points, rather than being solution based.
Wow! this video was really helpful! It was much more than just 3 signs. The way he elaborated on each one packed much more into this video. Thank You so much for providing such valuable and useful advice! You seem like such a genuine man. I almost feel your love and care coming at me through your video!
This literally describes someone I know in orientation to me. However he is too involved in family and work matters and we lost touch. I hope we reconnect again one day.
*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*
It goes both ways. You will know what people say about you based on how their friends treat you. If he says good things, they will be nice. If he says bad things, they will ignore and be cold to you. It's crazy.
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A sign that I saw is..he started to be unusually shy around me and he couldn't even do eye contact with me. Unlike what we think, guys can become shy around the person they really like.
He doesn't distinguish "falling in love" which is an emotion that has nothing to do with love, and actual love, which is a choice the other person makes to seek the best for you. This video fools woman because a man can just as easily "fall out of love", so ladies should not even be wasting their time trying to figure out if he is "in love" anyway, that's immature and for teenagers. What you should be doing is judging whether he is a man of good character. If he is a man of good character he will choose to love you or not, and that is not something you can control.
Duke "falling in love" insinuates infatuation. Inflation in necessary to truly love someone and to start acting out of love. To invalidate infatuation and its necessity is pure folly.
Your description is quite insightful and helpful....wish i had heard you when i was younger and before i ended my last possible relationship. do you have insights for senior people by any chance???
I am mesmerized. You are so real, so easy to listen to, so believable, so correct, so "put it out there" where as most men "it's a guy secret" - thank you!, We all benefit!
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Yes he is doing all of this 2!😁❤ Thank you
Excellent Video clip! Apologies for chiming in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you tried - Saankramer Love Trick System (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a smashing exclusive product for falling in love with an amazing partner without the normal expense. Ive heard some decent things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.
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@@alonagumansing5279 Me too...never cross my path.. it's up to God..if He wants to put love life into our life...(sigh)
1) He’s in awe of your uniqueness.
2) Clinginess to you.
3) Deep, wide connection with you.
Thanks for the condensed version. Sometimes I wish these experts get to the damn point.
Thanks
@@michellemckinney4678 Are they really experts?
You did it in 3 seconds and it took him over 9 minutes; ain't nobody got time for that...SMH God bless you and thank you so much!
Thanks saves time
When a man loves you, there is absolutely NO DOUBT. You will know.
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Nice to meet you here,where are you originally from?
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@@areufkingkiddingme He (davis marthin) wants Google play cards......
You have to pick a man of good character, honesty and someone worth trusting before you allow him into your life. Don’t throw your good heart on a selfish, immature creep who doesn’t deserve you. You don’t need that kind of heartache.
@Ligeia D.Aurevilly I hope to hear what he has to say as well ha..ive had a similar case but long ago...i hope it goes well..and as long as he's not under age then go for it 🙏
@Ligeia D.Aurevilly the best of luck hun
Mason Kissel , easy said than seen. Bad guys knows they r bad. They will camouflage their behavior .
Yea too late for me get to know his back ground
Agreed!
YOU FALL IN LOVE BY CHANCE YOU STAY IN LOVE BY CHOICE -Love :)
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Oh tats awesome..to hear that.But if a much younger man than me by decades, get interest in me..I would be wondering what does he want me to do with him? I find it embarrassing though I might look younger than him than the numbers in decades...why do they not able to find women of their own age, or he can't find any same age group woman interested in him?
This is so true!
That right!
When you can be yourself with someone and they dont judge you is an amazing feeling. And when his face lights up upon seeing you.
Yea, that’s really nice.
So true
“Love is not only something you feel, it is something you do."
I TOTALLY AGREE with you insight
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Maturity comes With Commonsense... Words & Actions NEEDS- MUST- BE In Alignment Together. They work Conjunction.
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100% agreed that men have a certain look in their eyes when they love u. U will feel it. It may seem corny but I know it to be true. Also, 100% agreed that if a man loves u his friends and family will treat u well. If u find disrespect from people around him, walk away. Also, a guy that wants to have no part in ur problems or protecting u, does not love u.
Spot on
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Agreed. If his friends treat you badly, run away, don't walk away. :)
If a man wants no part in your problems or protecting you. Thank you that made me come to a realization.
@@gilliangodden3386 I'm glad. You deserve to be cared for.
My bf said a man will play with your hair if he’s in love with you! I was laying in his arms one night and he was rubbing my head and running his hands through my hair! He definitely protects me! He picks me flowers! No other man has ever done that! He cooks for me, cleans house! He even shaved my legs for me the other night just out of the blue for more reason! I’ve never had a man do these things for me! I love him so much and I have no doubt he feels the same!
Love it!! Very happy for what is blossoming in your life.
Beautiful. 🧡🌷
Shaving your legs is going in deep. Men don't usually find that very appealing.
Being in love is letting them be who n how they are, and loving them regardless of the outcome. Wanting them to be happy. Treasuring every moment you have and had. That is true love.
Unconditional
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.
Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man.
Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way.
Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father.
Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers.
The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view.
How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.
@@icysnow57cold64 I wouldn't agree with that. Every person has masculine and feminine energies, and it's how those energies are balanced.... not being male or female.
@@shellducker7078 But males and females are wired differently, and females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do.
@@icysnow57cold64 What bond have you formed? Be it your dad, mum, dog, cat where you love them that much you would...miss them, cry if they got hurt, admire, love seeing them be funny, just be themselves...??
I always wait for the guy to say “I love you” first.
I did, he probably said it 200 times before me and he still ended up being trash
@@TJ_Eats ugh saaameee...
It slipped out. I thought he did. He did everything right. But once I slipped he freaked out and pulled away and we ended up breaking up.
My cousin did not like his wife when she made it clear she liked him and they ended up married...It worked for them..
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Narcisist do all that when they are getting to know you and want to enchant you to win you over , and them .. you are heartbroken.
Please remember, falling in love doesn’t warrant a long term relationship. Falling in love is a good component to get a relationship starts, but the candles don’t lit forever. LTR is hard work and self sacrifice. Unconditional love.
I’m blessed ! Finally got it right !
My baby loves me “ just as I am “
Been waiting years for a man to just love me for me and he does and it makes me feel so alive ! I’m never letting him go ! We have a very good relationship with each other it’s a real blessing!!
Bless you and your man
There’s a song for you! It’s : My Baby Loves Me! I like the song!
@@alicetrejo1992 You must be a kind being 💓🤙
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Hello jewelry hope you’re having a wonderful day?
I am a direct person...communication is key..!
Same here man..screw assuming things which I do alot but try not to
@@luna84_ same here what's ur name
@@snnsriderz6165 real name is Angelica, yours?
Exactly not text...!
Hell yeah and yesterday I told my friend who was standing infront of the mirror that he‘s beautiful and he should hurry up to come cuddle (which we always do). And a while after I showed him a note I took on my phone which said „holy sh*t I forgot how beautiful he was...“
Deep down I already knew he didn’t have the same feelings but it didn’t stop me to tell him at least one beautiful thing about him because all I want is him to understand how much I care about him. How much he means to me. That he‘s so crazy beautiful in so many ways and I wish I could show them all to him. I don’t regret telling him in words.
It‘s hard to describe what I feel.
But according to all the videos I just watched I guess I am somewhat falling in love with this person or at least crushing on him.
Wow! Gosh! I hope I meet this person soon in Jesus Name. Amen
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@@maluravalo1029 me too💞
Amen.
Yet be careful a person can learn these skills to play u.....both male and female can do this
And they do. Discernment is crucial, and if we get played we have to forgive _ourselves!_ Then the user fades in importance and we can/must forgive them so we're not chained to them forever.
This is how we get free of toxic ppl: By first forgiving ourselves, which dumps our feelings of embarrassment and we can learn and grow and develop discernment free of the embarrassement that keep us from moving on. See, if we let ourselves be embarrassed by a situation or a person then we give up ownership of it, they have power over us by our letting them own it, thus making ourselves helpless to move on: Chained forever. But if we can say, ''Well, that didn't go as planned! _I_ fell into that: What can _I_ _learn_ from it / what can _I_ _gain_ from it to make myself more effective? WE then own the situation and its consequences and WE control our future so that we _can_ learn from it. Which makes the final step simple: ''Forgive them, Father, for they know not what they do'' in the famous words of the most discerning person Earth ever hosted as he was being executed for showing love. We can do that! And we have to or we blunder along hurting ourselves through eternity, or so it seems.
@@dayondastribling5080 couldn't have said it better baby doll
I had that 2 times in my life they both were fraude
Right
Dayonda Stribling Soo right on! One of the best comments I've heard in a long time, Thank you so much for sharing this 🌹
My younger guy is still in awe of me after three years ....He is a one in a million to me ....and I am to him . We are years apart in age and it just works ....
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Waiting for the one that will fall in love with my scars.
Scars are awesome,,they were your journey and story 😀
Oh they're out there. But we have to be able to love our scars first. If we dont we push people away unintentionally. Be patient with yourself love.
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Just don't reopen them. Heal first and then be open to new love, manifest new love.
My husband did all of this to me, and then he did it with someone else and we divorced; and I recently found out a year ago he’s doing it again with another girl; and maybe by now he’s doing it again with someone else. And to think I gave up having kids to his sterility. Never let love override what you really want. Dump them and live for you!
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Wrong guy
😂😂😂dump them got me
I love him and that's what's important to me. If he loves me back, it's a bonus!
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You can tell when a man truly loves you. Actions speak louder than words
As for me the one I am really in love with is jesus christ is the sweetest name that will make me fall in love more for because of his great work over my life and my sweet families.
Stupid
Yes he is
Jesus is the author of marital attraction and love so it is just as godly as loving the Lord.
Indeed 😍
I always say tht too but i really need somone physically too
What you’re talking about is limerance. It lasts for about 18 months to two years. Love is a choice. Love is choosing loving behaviors and actions even when it’s difficult. Love is committing to the commitment. Love is having the grace to hold a space for someone without blame, shame, or judgment. Love is inter-dependence-you, me and we.
Beautiful post!!
LinYouToo exactly it is a choice 👌🏻
Limerance? I've never heard this word before.
You heard it here first-Falling in love is a crisis!
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Lol...you're right! I've lived it. It's a scary, yet awesome experience.
I remember my bfs first sign - he introduced me to his nieces. He's very protective of them and wanted to wait to do that because of previous bad experiences. After that he included me in his interests - showing me places he liked, offering to let me use his PS4 (he's a gamer), and hanging out with his friends. The next and one of the most significant was when he told me he trusted me. He has trust issues so it really meant a lot that he opened up like that. The last thing I noticed was when he started talking about serious future plans with me. He's a very careful person and very direct so I knew that these showed he's serious about me.
I actually left the love of my life because I didn't think we were on the same page. I still love him till this day it's been 30 plus years.. I told him I loved him, he said thank you. I felt so hurt. So I broke up with him.
Hit the nail right on the head with your opening lines...'falling for him dont, wanna get hurt, so coming from a place of anxiety..a tough place to be in.' I'm right at this place, the fear swept over me when I realised I'm falling in love and I don't wanna get hurt. I felt I wanted to run away from him cos he is showing signs he is doing the same and I'm so scared . Everything you say seems to be where we're both at. Very useful information. Thanks.
Thanks for being so ‘tuned in’! You are a old soul, and you are awake! 💕
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Heart racing when he says i love you for the first time !!
When he is in general very confident, and around me he all of a sudden so confused and cannot put two words together.
He is constantly saying that I am so unique to him...
Excellent timing. It's good to know what's normal psychologically, in the vulnerable sense, for men. Such great insight!
Happy you found this valuable, Autumnpixx
LOVE this program about LOVE!! LOVE CLAYTON FOR MAKING THESE VERY HELPFUL, INFORMATIVE, INTESTING & INSIGHTFUL VIDEOS!! THANKS CLAYTON!!!!
Clayton is great for this type of program!
You always present your topics with valuable information in an intelligent, well spoken manner. I really get alot out of them, thank you Clayton.
Thanks for the feedback, Laura. I'm glad this is how you are receiving me.
Laura Vanschaick he loves me he loves me not!
An older woman once told me better to be alone that to get involved n invest in a person who isn't real best advice ever she's alone but drama free.
This is great info and sooo true! I’ve seen all of these with my guy it’s surreal. Thank you for sharing!
I have literally watched every single one of your videos in their entirety and you always share such wonderful ideas, concepts, and advice. Thank you for putting all of this out to the world. You have helped me so much in my personal relationships with both my boyfriend and myself. Really appreciate you. Your channel is the best that I've found! Cheers!!
Properties by Natalie,I admire your lovely smile!😊😊😊
Thank you, Natalie. Whether you’re referring to Mark or me, I appreciate it.
The way u did the intro gave me anxiety but I appreciated the rest of the video. Thanks for your work!
My guy got scared and ran away. He said "I have to focus on my finances and kids". Awesome, so lovely that I'm not important enough to focus on.
Stop dating men with kids he is still looking after. You'll never be top
Thank you so much. I've watched a number on online youtube relationship advice stuff and no one... and I do mean no one has worded what goes on so straightforwardly and accurately wuth no gimmicks no buts etc. I have found you to be very insightful and your videos have given me confidence in myself and where I am going relationship wise thank you very very much!
Thank you Clayton. It does clear up a few things. He is a strong believer in actions speak louder then words. In the past he has always expressed himself by yelling and being condescending, he started out that way with me but for a year now he hasn't done that. There are numerous other things he had started out doing but no longer does them.
I could listen to you for hours, heaps of insightful content served in a calm, almost soothing manner. Always a pleasure to tune in ;)
thank you!
Clayton is SO good. I usually start these type videos & in 2 secs I'm losing focus. Not with Clayton! I'm with you on that. Can't believe I found his channel! I sure need it tho, PRONTO!! It's been a while since I loved a man. But things are picking up in a big way now. Being IN LOVE is just SO SPECIAL!! If we could just bottle it up, we would be all set!!
Clayton U R WONDERFUL!!
I totally agree
Thank you.. All of these things were present in my relationship and I love him with all my heart. I am saddened that we broke things off due to his fears, and uncomfortableness. I truly feel he was afraid of being hurt. I will say everything you pointed out was present in his behavior.
He calls me his person and sings to me...even gave me a key to his place! I must be on the love track!❤💜
I am in awe of how in depth and well thought out this delicate topic has been clarified! Thank you so much
Clayton U R AWESOME! How did U know I needed your help??? Your voice is made for videos. You have a LOT of insight!! That's a HUGE blessing for us who need your help! SO happy I found U. Keep doing what U do!! You have a great thing going on here. Thanks SO much!!
WILD WOMAN and thanks for not having us sit for 20 minutes to get to the “point” or the “insight or clarity” that you plan on sharing. I loathe the “teasers” via ads that promise information they will gladly deliver for $xx.xx dollars and will throw in a cd if you click now. Drives me nuts.
Totally agree! So insightful and always such a pleasure to listen to!
I think you're one of the best coaches on the planet Clayson. Thankyou for inspiring me to show up more deeply x
Jay Diamond then you don't no Ralph smart .
Dear boy, a man comes to you and simply declares his love to you .
I really appreciate how Clayton goes so in-depth in his video clips. He truly describes human nature in a way you seldom come across in these kind of videos. It’s very deep and insightful.
Thank you, Cecilia. I hope you’ve been following my work recently as well.
Sooo many people need this video. 😂One spark in cortisol and people get weird!
Just relax, breath, enjoy.
Love yourself.
Love all.
Merge.
Enjoy it.
There is no special one person. Everyone is beautiful - so BE love, be acceptance & kindness.
Great video! Thank you.
Great information, I especially like how you talk about how love begins to dissolve judgments.
Michelle Baxo,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌷🌺
Awww. Is there any better feeling than falling in love? So sweet. ❤
this is a great video. it makes lots of sense, and I love it. my guy is falling into all of these things mentioned in this video. I love him, and never want to loose him.
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Am An introvert and I express every little thing in my writings AND comments
There is a guy i love such that i cant date anyone else, we have been friends foe 7 months now sometimes he shows like he has feelings for me. I help please
@@mwansalubumbula7648 forget it..not worth it.
How long does it take men to fall in love? I had a first date with a man and I’ve never had a man look at me the way he did, I felt this intense connection, absolutely insane like I can’t describe it. Almost as if I felt like he’s the one.
Thank you so much. My man was in love with me when he first saw me. He was a customer & I had no idea until he said something one day & only wanted me to serve him over the pharmacist! I knew then something was happening & he chased me! Ha ha.
Hi Clayt good to hear you back! I like the tone of your voice. You’re confident in what you are saying. You inspire women......
Grass is always greener no matter how happy you think he is. I'm over it.
These signs sound so lovely. I would love to feel precious
I will give Gollum a call! 😉👍
Thank you for this high quality video Clayton! So accurate and knowledgeable!
This video is brilliant. Thank you! Totally moved me down into my body and intuition. Appreciate your coaching skills.
I love your brief and right to the point explanation.Thank you so much.
Love the softness of your voice. very comforting....
YES.THANK YOU LOVE TEACHER .
WHAT YOU SAY IS SO TRUE .NICE TO HEAR FROM YOU AND THANKS FOR SHARING .AND I HOPE THAT THE TYPE OF FEELING WILL BE FOUND INSIDE OF MY LOVELY HEART .AS MY LOVE FOR HIM IS SO STRONG BUT HE IS VERY FAR AWAY FROM ME .BUT EVEN THOU HE IS FAR AWAY FROM ME BUT HE IS ALWAYS IN MY HEART IN EVERY MOMENT IN MY HEART BEAT.
This is a sweet and lovely description. Clayton, healing hearts everywhere!!! Well done
Julia Skagfjord,Love your innocent smile ☺️
Clayton, this video is extremely helpful and beats the rest of the guides I have ever read and heard. Bless you and thank you.
This was very helpful. And it couldn't have come at a better time! I'm always happy to hear your insights 😊
Thanks for the comment. Happy it's helping.
am African but my boyfriend does the exact things you mentioned, even though our way of doing things is different .Thank you have learnt something
Oh my gosh...so helpful. He checked all of these boxes and this video helped confirm my gut feeling. :)
I like the uptick of his presence!! Thank you for this video 🙂
I love the painting/picture behind you ... it seemed very familiar as i saw something similar in another video as in that video there was a woman explaining the meaning of something very in depth to the meaning of the church.
Sensitive, informative and nuanced presentation on this topic. I like that you provide a breadth of examples allowing for better understanding of the points, rather than being solution based.
Thank you!
Really coach. Olsen enjoyed that!!! Happy. Valentine's. Day in advance!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow! this video was really helpful! It was much more than just 3 signs. The way he elaborated on each one packed much more into this video. Thank You so much for providing such valuable and useful advice! You seem like such a genuine man. I almost feel your love and care coming at me through your video!
I love your energy, very masculine and very deeply heart centred
Hello Tammie hope you’re having a wonderful day?
This literally describes someone I know in orientation to me. However he is too involved in family and work matters and we lost touch. I hope we reconnect again one day.
I love your calm soothing voice I could listen to you all day
*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*
Instead of looking for the right person..be the right person
I can't tell you how much your coaching has improved my relationship. Thank you 💖
Hello lady hope you’re having a wonderful day?
You are so knowledgeable!!!! He use to look at me for long eye contact. I felt very precious!
It goes both ways. You will know what people say about you based on how their friends treat you. If he says good things, they will be nice. If he says bad things, they will ignore and be cold to you. It's crazy.
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Thank you very much for your time sir. Very helpful information.
You're welcome
A sign that I saw is..he started to be unusually shy around me and he couldn't even do eye contact with me. Unlike what we think, guys can become shy around the person they really like.
3 minutes in to this video, everything resonates and your delivery is great! Thank you for posting this.
Elana Beth Fariss,Hope you are with a good man!
Love is mysterious. There is no recipe for love.
He doesn't distinguish "falling in love" which is an emotion that has nothing to do with love, and actual love, which is a choice the other person makes to seek the best for you. This video fools woman because a man can just as easily "fall out of love", so ladies should not even be wasting their time trying to figure out if he is "in love" anyway, that's immature and for teenagers. What you should be doing is judging whether he is a man of good character. If he is a man of good character he will choose to love you or not, and that is not something you can control.
Duke "falling in love" insinuates infatuation. Inflation in necessary to truly love someone and to start acting out of love. To invalidate infatuation and its necessity is pure folly.
Duke well said
Spot on.
Amen
I agree.
Perfect timing! Thank you so much for your insight!
You’re welcome!
Love how u explain things.
Thankyou for that insight.
Bless!
Thank you, deeply! I have learned so very much from your coachings.
Your description is quite insightful and helpful....wish i had heard you when i was younger and before i ended my last possible relationship. do you have insights for senior people by any chance???
it's the first time I stop by your channel but I really liked your talk
Wow, beautiful insightfull. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience.
Very informative info, thank you for the insight you give it's great hearing this info from a male perspective. Thanks Clayton
I don't remember my husband ever exhibiting these signs. I don't know if he has ever loved me.
His love language might be different from yours, thus causing you to ask yourself this..take a love language test with him
Thank you for explaining this so intellectually, and logically.
You’re welcome!
Best explanation I’ve heard so far! Thanks it all makes sense now 😌
Clayton,
Your teaching is awesome! Thank you for sharing your insights.
Your comment is awesome. Thank you.
This is very interesting and makes me think of my guy friend in a different way.
I don't give all my love anymore you get hurt that way ppl always let u down don't do it
I totally agree with you!!
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While I agree that you can get hurt, I don’t think you should give up on love!
I am mesmerized. You are so real, so easy to listen to, so believable, so correct, so "put it out there" where as most men "it's a guy secret" - thank you!, We all benefit!