Woah stop right here at the title!!! If a married man is interested in you, run for the hills sister!! Speaking from experience here. If he can't stay true to her he ain't in no ways going to be true to you. Don't be second best. Have self respect! Leave this whole idea before you wake up lonely and hurt while he texts his wife telling her how much he misses her and you're on the side feeling lost and alone!!
What if the advances are unwanted and you want to make sure, before reporting a guy to HR. Why is everyone automatically assuming that the only reason women watch this video is to be with a married man, get a grip people 👍🏻
If he is serious about you he won't string you..he will become single again and court you properly...that's the true sign..he likes you and cares about you
People have to realize that people get married for many of reasons and were different at the time of first meeting. And this video is right, in most cases, a marriage has an issue that had not been resolved or satified for a person to cheat. The person cheating more than likely tried numerous times to fix it or to get satisfaction. Divorce is not easy. Kids are involved, mortgage. You can't just pick up and leave. A person when unhappy and not loved can really lose themselves. I'm not making excuses or saying it is okay. This has to be fixed and not ignored. But this is the reason a person will find another to love. Which is why married couples have to communicate and not only focus on their family and what come with that BUT take time to focus on JUST the two of them. The two that started the family.
Marriage is not easy people make .mistakes and if they were sincere about their vows they wood try to stay married to grow closer and raise their children together and celebrate anniversaries.
People have made mistakes both partners or just one. It s up to them to decide if they want to try to stay married or leave .I had a very lonely life with just raising a family my spouse worked alot to keep the Bill's paid they re were no trips or cruises we cared for are family and I was always sick due to lung problems. I ll always miss my husband and the time we had and the family misses him.
Your very right but many times that other person is not willing to talk or go for counselling or do what is necessary to fix what is very obviously failing and falling apart in the marriage. A d not matter what the spouse is doing to try and put things back in perspective it is not working. The other partner decides to cut off the love life. There by rendering the spouse working actively to put things back together off.. now the obstacles are truly getting harder to work through. Even though the husband swears nothings going on the wife still has doubts. How could things go from normal love life to nothing? She had to have a Hysterectomy due to obvious issues Female issues and yes she tried everything possible up to and including female hormone therapy however when it gets to the point the husband wants her on that but, at the same time refers to her as the insane female bitch when’s she’s on these bc her mood swings are so bad and her PMS is already out of hand also due to age partially and menstraul issues
You have no other alternative. Drs have offered more Meds but have told the wife it will get worse. So the next choice is surgery to do the Hysterectomy… yes it’s time. He’s mad your doing it but she’s about to turn 40! Enough.. and then 3 yrs later she ends up w stage 3 Breast Ca so it’s a good thing she had the Hysterectomy or that would have spread to that anatomy too! And she would have died from that it was found out in pathology! He’s still angry about that! So no matter what happened it’s never made right and 18yrs later still no love life.. so you can understand why affairs happen from both stand points! That’s all that this person is saying!!! It’s not that you are looking to start something but you meet someone and a friendship happens and it blooms into more then what you expected it to be.. and a lot of times that truly turns into love. And sometimes the deepest love of your life. It wasn’t what you ever intended but just happens. In this persons opinion that’s not a bad thing and if the children are grown and married what does it matter? They move on and so does everyone else. That’s what life is about anymore. You can’t force someone to be happy if they are not. I’ve seen this too many times as a military wife!
Call me old fashioned but I believe you shouldn’t care how a MARRIED man feels about you. If he really cares about you he would DIVORCE his WIFE.... also, remember if he leaves his WIFE for you, then you will always have that thought of him leaving you for the next woman... Leave married men alone and find a man that available. Don’t be desperate ♥️
@@margretwangari2066 I meant my thoughts exactly, hahaha. You caught me off guard. I thank you for taking the time out and comment. Nice to meet you! ☺
This world is so screwup to wear now they’re making videos about a married man liking someone else other than his wife..😳😳 WHAT THE DEVIL IS GOING ON..
A lot of married man are acting the way showed in the video and it makes you 🤔 and you there like am I being crazy or does this idiot think that I would go for a married man lol thanks to this video I know I’m not crazy and he indeed was hitting up on me, intuition never fails me, bless his wife, hopefully she will dump his ass and find someone who will love her
I came here for red flags… I am not great at figuring out when someone has a crush on me until it’s too late. Now to figure out how to draw boundaries without hurting people or looking conceited…
That go with a married man when when I first start going with him he told me he don't believe in the bosses so we just go on seeing each other but I know he's not on never leave this my that's just how it is
We don't always get to choose who we fall in love with. If I'd fallen in love with what was on my list, it would've been a tall man, very well-dressed, black hair.... sorta the Italian look but not necessarily Italian, good manners, rich, funny, etc. When I met "the one", all that went out the window. We were together 27 years before I lost him to cancer. Only man..... actually, the only PERSON I ever loved in my life.
If the married man leaves wife for you, he will leave you for someone else, and you seem like a homewrecker, you shouldn't go after someones husband what is wrong with you.
He will surely leave you for someone else but I wouldn't curse the female..I would curse the man because he knows he is a married man and besides sometimes we don't know what he is telling the female..so...
@@candycandy2110 do you not know what this title is ? Ok ? No both are to blame if she know he is married and he is in love with her knowing he's married, and if the man lies and doesn't tell her and she don't she is dating a married man, yes all the blame goes to him, but women do make it a fantasy to steal someomes marriage too, just like this video, I am judging no one, the video speaks for itself, the woman speaks for herself, God is the Judge and see's this video and says turn away from this sin. This is wrong if you think this I judging then you are wrong to even put all the blame on the guy, from this video the woman knows what she is doing, wants what is not hers, the video speaks for itself, if a married man is in love with me, I would be like bitch wtf you doing ? You're married and your punk ass coming over to me ? I would cuss his ass out, then I would say if I would tell his wife, cause if he do that to me, how many women is he doing that to ? I wouldn't want to be desprate for a man that I would take someone elses man.
@@candycandy2110 no the video speaks for herself. That is a bitch man stealing bitch she should tell him to back off and go home to his wife and kids before she goes to his wife and tells her she, what is doing, and you need Dr Phil for even giving me these comments.
I get what you are saying clearly..I meant no harm and I weren't judging anyone..you are so right too..sometimes some women do it on purpose like it's their job and pleasure in having a relationship with married men.
If this is the case, I do understand anything can happen in two years. But it is true that God will bring two souls together. I'm not one to break relationship s. But for two years, I have always been single for the whole two years. Because I have been have been homeless the whole time thinking of him. But I still want to take things slow. Before we proceed, I don't have any married issues, I don't have any kids, but if this is the case with him. I need to have signs that he really wants to be with me amen.
I go with a married man at first he didn't tell me but I found out and then we talked about it and he said he'll never leave his wife he don't believe in divorces but yet and still you come back every so often so I know it's not going to go no problem then what it is I think it's just sex have a good day
Why not go and get a man who is not married. If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you. A better tittle: "How to Tell if a Man is in Love With You." Why a married man. Sorry, but I find this title sickening.
If he is married and says he loves someone else he is a liar and once you find out you better run baby run. He lied to Almighty GOD and his wife. Where is the truth being told for you? Pray before you date anyone. No one knows the heart but the manufacturer and He is GOD. Humanity please let's get real
3:38 can carry his lil blu pill if interested and 6:44 talks to his wife and kids with the same words or language of interest. 10:44 planning to leave and follow outside of country for job that is already in the works. Sorry dude, your family figured you out years ago! Just waiting on the day you decide to give them the freedom of your lies and deception. It really don’t matter what reason you give or feel entitled too, a real man is honest to his vows regardless. A man would and should speak his mind to feel alive and awaken his love for the marriage he chose. Whatever choice he makes stand up grow a pair and be aman and accept it. Don’t hide behind blaming your wife for your cowardice and fear honesty. It isn’t her fault because you got a little stiffy elsewhere. Idk, just sayin...
Doesn’t mean he likes you. He may just like you as a distraction from his messed up marriage and just wants to get laid. The chase and excitement. Doesn’t mean he develops actual feelings for you
Oh believe me, he gets hurt too especially when he gets caught and freaks out because his true love, that he married, leaves him for being a lying cheating whoredog infidel. Yup he gets hurt too and then has to live in the sea of shame and guilt for his evil sex fueled infidelity for the rest of his life. He loses the love of his life, family and friends, property and possessions and all because he couldn’t control King Dickhead and indulged in the lies and secrecy of his sex fueled Fantasyland.
@@gavinjames6025 Sorry for you that you seem very unhappy. Maybe you need to talk to your Doctor. Stop judging those that you dont agree with. Have a nice life or get a life
@@CrystalDatingCoach they all cant be happy with their wives maybe it was never meant to be and they had problems from the start u see me and my old bf met when I was 23 he was30 so there is a great history there
Me and my current fiancé were both in unhappy relationships. He was married and I had a serious boyfriend. We started as friends and developed a very intimate (not sexual) way of relating to each other. We fell in love supporting each other through the rough ends of our relationships. To say married people are only interested in their spouses if they stay married is a naive fallacy. Financial reasons, children, loneliness, not wanting to explode your family are also reasons why someone would stay unhappy in a marriage. In my experience men rarely file for divorce, because it doesn’t benefit them to file because they typically lose more. They wait for the wife to get fed up and move on from there.
A man cheating is not always a result of a sexual pursuit. Some men cheat because they have domineering verbally abusive wives but the men stay because they still love her and hold out hope the relationship may improve at some point. In general, men don’t like to be alone either so many have married for reasons other than love such as to not be alone, for money, for status, pressure from family like in an arranged marriage. Therefore, his heart aches for love because he never loved his wife. Actually, he can learn to love the woman in time but that is not the same thins as being IN LOVE! Then, when a wonderful woman crosses his path and he falls in love with her he can’t resist because he finally feels love. Men marry wrong too at times, just like women. I think when they get older and mature they may make better decisions in who they marry so these affairs don’t happen as often. Remember, and this is a scientific fact, when it comes to maturity, men are ten years behind women. The older the man the better.
Yes this happened to prince Charles. Forced to marry a woman much younger he didn't love. So many here don't understand natural human emotion. Some cheat because they not in love and met someone else. Everyone is different.
@@anony7170 This is true. When Prince Charles was a single young man, he was in love with Camila but she was already married at the time. At some later point in his marriage to Lady Di, Di found out about his love for Camila and they eventually got divorced. Then Lady Di dies, Camila got divorced and then she and Prince Charles were both finally free to marry and they did.
@@firegal2k the difference in his face on both wedding days says it all. He looks miserable on the day with Di, he's beaming with delight on the second wedding day.
@@anony7170 Yes, that’s true for an average citizen but isn’t British royalty trained to always look so straight-faced? So that’s what I thought it was with Di. I didn’t see his marriage to Camilla though. I’ll have to try and find video on that and check out his facial expression. Thanks!
If you entertain a married mans interest on you, then you should probably question any hidden traumas (or issues you might have). Don’t entertain a married mans interest on you, if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you (just give it time).
How about this... Married cheats with you. You date others and stop because He Still Is Married.. This continues On and Off as You Brake Off Relationship's. But He has a GF as You don't and He still calling You. 🙄 So You Go.. Single so why not?.. Then, It's 10- 11 years later he is divorced. Had GF's, and Tries calling you after not talking for 2-3 years. And in Single As Well As He. And He wants a Actual Relationship with You. Stepping Up, And Respectfully.
You can’t stop someone from falling for you and I work with 90% men but I would not touch a male co-worker or married man. Because of my husbands infidelity, it caused the demise of our marriage and my actions to avenge my pain only hurt me. Find peace and dignity then love & happiness will find you! 🙏🏽😌
If he keeps asking things about your personal life..then obviously he doing that 4 a reason. If a guy is married they shouldn't even be interested in that girl/woman...!!
Thank you..that is also one reason we shouldn't just curse out the female he is cheating with or quick to call her names..he knows he's married and sometimes we don't know what he's telling the female
Some men won't some don't mind..everybody is different..everybody thinks differently..there are men out there who leave their wives for their lovers..I don't believe in divorce but marriages ends for various reasons..sometimes the person you marry turns out to be somebody totally different from what you thought..that is why people should not rush into marriage..but even so sometimes it's not until after marriage you see the person true color...that's just my view base on what I observed.
And don't think all men take their lovers for toy..sometimes they end up loving them more than their partner..as much as we would want to deny this..it's the plain truth.
Nop I dont think so she choose someone Els cz her wife stressing him...most of Husband are not happy in their marriage cz once u get married u tell ur mind that u are married now....and u start forget what atrect the man to u....that's the reasone man start going owt
Wrong! my friend was married with a child and her husband left her, and divorced her for somebody else! Then he married with the new lady after 7 years he also divorced the new one 😂🤣🤣 but that can happen in any relationship
Y’all are complaining about the video but everything said is TRUE. Deal with it! It happens. Doesn’t mean the woman will want him. I’m dealing with this as we speak.
For 6 months I dealt with this this man came out of no where and he looked at me with intense desire. I just chilled out when I saw him I wasn't a ***** I made it calm. I don't live with him so I not judging him. His wife may be a nuts case . 🙄😬
@@Indrani_Mukherjee19 why do u think like that, I dont want to name the product brand names. I became loyal to some brand products. I did not opt for new one again
@@Indrani_Mukherjee19 actually i am liking my office colleague though i was married. wife is creating lot of tensions at home, the colleague creates pleasure atmosphere. u should see what works for u. life is short enjoy and move on life. if my colleague allows i want to sleep with her. i dont know how to approach without breaking friendship. anyhow there are ways to get rid of pregnancy if she does not want like abortion etc. its mutual cooperation required.
Many women think that they are breaking a marriage by "stepping into" a marriage but I will tell you this as a man who is experiencing this right now. A)You cannot break something that is already broken. B)If it hadn't been you then it would have been someone else. Some things are inevitable. I know it might not work out with this girl that I am in love with but I am glad that she showed up in my life and reminded me of what I truly deserve. Lastly, please try to think why a man does what he does, says what he says, and acts like he acts before you label him or the situation (also it is never bad to ask if you care).
Sorry but you are such a weak man, you should divorce first and not cheat like you guys are thieves, SEX is just seconds of release, it’s high blood pressure problem and you get bad karma, face your unloveable wife head on and break up ASAP and finally divorce HER because what you’re avoiding will always be the character of your present loveR, remember: MARRIAGE IS A LIFETIME COMMITMENT, YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE MARRIED YOUR WIFE, THAT’s why those staying unmarried and staying single with multiple partners are honest to themselves, remember LIARS GO TO HELL…
Married guy is also a human. Why does he cannot like a woman. I am married too and i am sometimes attracted to another men but it doesnt mean i cheat with them.
What i am trying to say is marriage isn't for life for everyone. Divorce isn't terrible. Can't understand why People in theese modern Times Still seem to belive so.
None of this info is new to me as I have a masters degree in psychology, but it is a good blog for women who are clueless. I don't want to judge, but getting involved with a married man can only lead to heartache. Not just for you, but for many besides yourself. You are better than that. He is behaving horribly. Don't encourage him. If he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you. Good luck.
That'll lead you into some unnecessary drama. I don't even understand, why a woman/girl would wanna put themselves through that...!! It's simply dumb for them to do that..!!
@@kimberleypuddicombe6168 I think you misunderstand Kimberley. I was disagreeing with the person who started this thread (Heidi) when they said getting involved with a married man can only lead to heartache and if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you. Cuz that's not always true. That's what I was trying to say and yes you're right what if it's an old flame who came back I understand.
I like a married man bcoz of his character but would never be a pain for his happily married life We work in a grp for upliftment and know each other past 10years and we are put up in two different city Still I admire his entire personality and share a respectful relation So I really don't know What it means but happy working in his company😊
You can always have feelings for someone, even if they are in a relationship. Human emotions, my dear. But you ONLY admire them from afar. Don't take the chance of giving them a chance while they're with someone.
Heya I'm in similar situation love a married guy cos of his character. I have been travelling for many years with him and yes at times I feel he is my crush but I keep reminding myself he is married man and in no way would I be the cause of his breakup in his marriage. It's tough feeling but I feel now in this new year I will stop travelling with him and keep my distance from me
My God, why am I going through this at this very moment? 🤦🏾♀️ I've been friends with a man for a few years now. He has been feeling this way about me for some time, but he wasn't sure how I would feel about him. He got married to a woman he dated shortly, and she became pregnant. He did so, because he did not feel right just making her a mother. I get that and I have respect him for doing so. Shortly after they married and before the baby was born, her insecure ways poured out like cold coffee. She argues and accuses him at the rise of the morning. Sometimes when he reaches out, he's almost crying because he's at the end of his rope. I feel bad for him, because he is a good man. But at the same time, it's up to him to stay and work things out. Or leave, and still coparent.
He's a GOOD MAN? He got a Woman Pregnant...you act like she did all by herself. SHE got pregnant! Instead of trying to work it out...he's crying to you. He's wasting Two Women's life. Yours and his Wife!
@@CrystalDatingCoach 🙄 I can see that reading is clearly not fundamental with you. You missed EVERYTHING I stated, but it's ok. The 3 likes read it carefully, and know where I'm coming from. 🤦🏾♀️
@@CrystalDatingCoach Let me elaborate a little more so you can understand without jumping the gun, and seeing the parts you only want to see. Ready? Here goes: I was friends with this man long before he got married. Why he never let me know in the beginning how he felt for me, I don't know. But I wish he would've let it be known before he got married. We now live in different places. Despite his marriage, WE ARE STILL FRIENDS AND ALWAYS WILL BE! I harbor no ill feelings toward him. He dated his wife only a short time. Therefore, they did things too soon without really getting to know each other. I even asked him this myself. He is a GOOD MAN to think of doing the right thing by marrying her, because any other man would've bailed out once those words came about. And FYI, he does try to work things out with his wife when things go awry. There's nothing wrong with reaching out to someone who needs an ear to listen. So he is NOT wasting my time! I'm single and I've been abstinent for 8 years. I don't want anyone's husband but my own, if God sees fit to send a good one my way. And I do hope that he can work on his marriage, because they have a child who needs them both. People can't help what they feel and when they feel it, dear. You are not much of a dating coach if the only way you think is negatively
@@marchbabi323 Are you friends also with the wife? Does she know about you? If the answer is yes. Ok. If not. Why? If you have just a friendship...why hide it from his wife. Would you like your husband to be friends with woman you don't know?
Friend, what if there is this handsome man who always stairs at you any time you both are on the street, then later you notice d he is with a woman and a baby. But kept staring and smiling , and you beaing a single mother with kid not used to white men and needed a good person for a serious relationship what would you do.
I had a married man show an interest in me about a year ago. I had to have some business dealings with him. I took a single friend who at first didn't believe me but as soon as he heard the married guy's voice on the phone he said, "Yeaa, I can hear the hormones in his voice." Listen to the quality of his voice when he's around you. If it's warmer, smoother, more seductive, even if he's talking about something not romantic or personal, the sexual interest is there. I took care of the business and got rid of him asap.
So true.. Me and my partner once loved each other unconditionally but under family circumstances he married to different girl.. But after marriage he contacted me, we both have feelings for each other.. But for him it's very difficult to accept, he is hiding his feelings.. But as the proverb says love and cough can't be hidden, he shows his love, care, affection, attraction through his actions.. I know he's not happy in his marriage because that marriage was not by his choice.. I wish he could get the courage to take the divorce.. I'll always be there for him to give all the comfort and emotional support he is in need of.. We are soulmate ❤️
Unfulfillement will break down a marriage , we all have needs and when there not met without fighting its easier to seek it some place else ,after all its human nature to have our needs and be happy who wants to live in misery nobody ...
That could be one reason. However, not always. Probably not usually. These kind of men have an illness- it's sexual addiction, porn addiction and are womanizing. It's all misery. Finding another before the first one is gone is very harmful to everyone involved. Blaming the victims is not valid.
I have one that just started crushing on me on my birthday this past summer. It’s online, so not all of the things apply- but if it were, I could see them manifesting. I’m no home wrecker. So,whenever he tries to flirt or makes comments that elude that he’s developed feelings for me- I make suggestions of things that he can try to spice up his marriage. I pick on him (jokingly, of course!), but never in a flirtatious manner. His situation is complex; and there are small children involved. My father cheated on my mom when I was a very young child . This ended their marriage. I could never consciously do that to another family.
it doesnt make sense .if that married man is inlove with you or not .his still a married man .and having a relationship with a married will you.a sinner dont waste your time with him wait for single fine man to come your way instead.
That's a big time sin. Married but love someone else. Even loving another man's wife. When they say they are single lonely and need you. Then use your love like a lie. Then it's them that stalks you. To say they hate you. God knows everything and exactly what they did. Everyone involved too. God bless us all. Amen
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The man I was seeing lied to me the whole 3 years. He has a wife and they are in an open marriage. He moved to Florida from Atlanta and wanted me to move with him, but everything was damaged the moment he lied. Broke my heart!! He explained if was more like business and that she really liked women., but for a man to be that low I don’t want him anyway. So, picking up the pieces and going on with life. He called the 4th of July and was hoping I was ok. Men really hurt the good women.
Did you know about his wife at the beginning? I have a married man chasing me and wondering if this could be an arrangement that he and his wife have. Just because he appears to want to take so many risks with me, even find ways to invite me around like fix my car in his workshop at the house, things like that. I don't go
FOR MARRIED PEOPLE: The feeling that you get in an affair can NEVER be love. Love comes from God, the same God who designed marriage and commanded us to honor it. I truly believe that God will not contradict Himself and put love in your heart for someone else other than your spouse. The feeling you have for the other person can be LUST, INFATUATION, OBSESSION, A SOURCE OF VALIDATION, AN EGO BOOSTER, A FORM OF ESCAPE or any other feeling that satan will USE to destroy your marriage (and push you to commit a SIN by breaking the VOW that you made before God). The devil will make you believe that what you feel for this other person is love when in fact it really ISN'T. That's what satan does. That's the reason he's called a LIAR and a DESTROYER. INFIDELITY has a very destructive impact on people, and can be PASSED DOWN from generation to generation like a CURSE. The devil has VIOLATED so many marriages; has TORN so many families apart; has RUINED so many lives. Don't let that monster proudly look at your OWN FAMILY and boast that he has successfully DESTROYED it too. "Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth." - 1 Corinthians 13:6
I believe love is God's construct, soul's search and arranged marriage is social construct.. Social construct maybe a Satan's call, Go find your love and get married.. Follow your heart, there the God lives.. Marriage is only love, like Shiv Parvati, their marriage is 1st love marriage in the universe.. In true marriage no one will cheat
There are so many reasons that men cheat, loveless marriage, looking for some excitement or outside entertainment. Often men will say they are separated, what a line. I had one for them which left them speechless. I would reply" so your're separated". She's home and you're here.
Yes!! When I met him, he told me that he was married. I immediately felt a pain in my heart! I would never date a married man.... But as friends, we found that we both had something in common. The people that we were involved with are narcissist. I had someone stalking me for 4 years and his wife was so horrible to him that we began to understand each other on a different level. Still.... I respected him because of his responsibility towards his wife and his desire to care for her. But in the last few weeks, after constant abuse from his wife... This brought us together in a beautiful way. I believe he is my soulmate and I want to be with him forever ❤️
I am in a realationship with a married man . We started out as friends . We are in love and have found our soulmate in each other. Many people do not find their soulmate when you do there is no way to fight this! His marriage had fallen apart for several years before we met. His divorce will be final in March of 2021 True love for some never happens. We are truly in love and very happy. Think before you judge us .This happens many times i am sure !☺❤👄
@@cherylthompson2731 My love had the same problem with his wife treating him like less of a man no respect for him. I want to thank her for throwing him away and giving him to me we are soulmates .I have a bit of a problem I am 15yrs older than he is .He doesn't have a problem with age. Love is more important to him something he has not had for many yrs We will be together in April of 2021 I can't hardly wait to start our life's together. I want to bring him happiness and be with him forever . Good Luck Cheryl
@@ginnygoingfishingwatson6128 May God bless you and him for many years. My story is identical to yours. He's what I waited for all these years. Don't let age bother you. I'm 57 and just now found my true love. Oh! The irony 💗 Be happy! Ct
Sometimes they married man can't get out of the marriage because the woman he's married to will give him a hard time if he tries to leave and they will be attracted to other people while he is married.
Won't be a good excuse of having a hard time to divorce. If he knows he will be attracted, he mind as well divorce his wife now. No excuses in staying in that marriage just to cheat. If a man cheats, he will have a lot more hard time dealing with his wife. Once the divorce is finalized, it is no longer a wife's job to fix him.
This is a really messed up video to put out there especially knowing that I am a married woman and have been cheated on. There is Nothing funny about this!
I have flirted with a coworker and he didn't flirt back to my comment but I noticed he loved being flirted. Then I learnt he has a gf. I stopped making any flirty comments but I noticed everytime he sees me he stares at me longer than before. My conclusion is that he would not dare to make a move with me but he loved the playful pull and push. Men are histerical too.
Dissatisfaction, resentment, and excitement are the three reasons a married man may be in love with a woman? A married man may fall in love with a woman because of none of these and simply because of her own attractive qualities and personalities. Those are three reasons, and maybe the most common ones, a married man might start looking around, but they are not reasons for someone to fall in love. They are probably common reasons for a married man to start looking for a side-chick, but not for finding a serious love interest.
Number 1, if a married man is looking at you it's because you are his next victim in his game. The tips in this video was probably another method to help him catch his next toy. If you are watching this video then realize it's for entertainment only. My uncle that I asked since childhood loved all his women and dated 2 or 3 at a time. He told his 2 son's (from different women while married) that they should always have a backup woman. You will always be the other toy, he is going to say and do whatever, bring presents just to buy you because it works.
He doesn't. I've been married to a serial cheater for 30 years. His code on his calendar for dates I later figured out was "take out the trash" When they would get to clingy I would see "dump excess garbage " They don't care about anyone but themselves. As good as they fake it. Challenge them , question them he will show you his true self.
This is crazy . I mean like really? When a man is unhappy at home he gets a divorce. I don't know why women even entertain that dumb shit. I could care less if you like me . You probably liked ur wife when you first met her too. I think to much of this Queen to lay with a married man. Plus I will not put that kind of hurt on his wife !
Looking back when we were at college my wife told me, "I thought back then, I might as well marry you. Almost every time I opened my apartment door you were standing there. Number two; you were always taking me to your place to cook very nice meals for me. I thought at first, 'damn, this man has plenty of food. REAL FOOD! I had Raman noodles and crackers.'
no his wife always nags at him if she can't see he says lets get you a new pair of glasses she says nothing's wrong with my eyes if a woman complains all the time, will seek else ware
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I felt offended when a married man flirted with my wife, he was lucky it was my 1st. time to workout with my wife at the gym. I was so tired to confront him even though he was a manager there. Making an excuse by training my wife. So I reported him & blocked him on Facebook & messenger too! Thank God for this pandemic, the gym is permanently closed! Never going to open again due to non payment rental for months due to this pandemic! Karma got them good, they have no salary since their boss didn't pay them. Thanks piece out!
@@isismorrissey9075 it can break a relationship or marriage so it's bad unless you're single of course. How would feel if your wife won't talk to you for for years" won't watch a movie with you or date you? Not even greeting you Good morning or good night? I already set borders & final warning. Next time he does that I'm sending him to jail. Last check when a guy flirted with my wife he almost raped her but lucky she escape. I forgot to mention she was my girlfriend back then before I married her. Hope you understand where I'm coming from. I didn't mean to sound rude. I'm sorry if I sounded like it. Thanks & God bless you!
@@isismorrissey9075 I forgot to mention I keep notes on events be it good or bad. Location, time, date & people around. It's recorded be it hard copy or soft copy. Thanks again!
We tried not to fall in love, it just happened and we’re both happier and better off for it💘🏡👍
Amen
Woah stop right here at the title!!! If a married man is interested in you, run for the hills sister!! Speaking from experience here. If he can't stay true to her he ain't in no ways going to be true to you. Don't be second best. Have self respect! Leave this whole idea before you wake up lonely and hurt while he texts his wife telling her how much he misses her and you're on the side feeling lost and alone!!
😂😂😂 if they are separated for quite a few years likee me and my estranged husband thats whole different subject
Been there done that! A married man never leaves his wife no matter how toxic the marriage is.
What if the advances are unwanted and you want to make sure, before reporting a guy to HR. Why is everyone automatically assuming that the only reason women watch this video is to be with a married man, get a grip people 👍🏻
EXACTLY!!!! You're so on point here!!! Thank you for this!!
@@brandyheartqueen9326 not true, maybe not for you, but there are a lot men that did it and I witnessed it 🤷♀️
If he is serious about you he won't string you..he will become single again and court you properly...that's the true sign..he likes you and cares about you
Totally agree. For me, that's how it would have to be.
Very True!
Amen. If a man is married he happy or he would get a DIVORCE.
Cindy Thank you for your comment . I agree with you and this is the way it should be !
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People have to realize that people get married for many of reasons and were different at the time of first meeting. And this video is right, in most cases, a marriage has an issue that had not been resolved or satified for a person to cheat. The person cheating more than likely tried numerous times to fix it or to get satisfaction. Divorce is not easy. Kids are involved, mortgage. You can't just pick up and leave. A person when unhappy and not loved can really lose themselves. I'm not making excuses or saying it is okay. This has to be fixed and not ignored. But this is the reason a person will find another to love. Which is why married couples have to communicate and not only focus on their family and what come with that BUT take time to focus on JUST the two of them. The two that started the family.
Marriage is not easy people make .mistakes and if they were sincere about their vows they wood try to stay married to grow closer and raise their children together and celebrate anniversaries.
People have made mistakes both partners or just one. It s up to them to decide if they want to try to stay married or leave .I had a very lonely life with just raising a family my spouse worked alot to keep the Bill's paid they re were no trips or cruises we cared for are family and I was always sick due to lung problems. I ll always miss my husband and the time we had and the family misses him.
Well Said!
Your very right but many times that other person is not willing to talk or go for counselling or do what is necessary to fix what is very obviously failing and falling apart in the marriage. A d not matter what the spouse is doing to try and put things back in perspective it is not working. The other partner decides to cut off the love life. There by rendering the spouse working actively to put things back together off.. now the obstacles are truly getting harder to work through. Even though the husband swears nothings going on the wife still has doubts. How could things go from normal love life to nothing? She had to have a Hysterectomy due to obvious issues Female issues and yes she tried everything possible up to and including female hormone therapy however when it gets to the point the husband wants her on that but, at the same time refers to her as the insane female bitch when’s she’s on these bc her mood swings are so bad and her PMS is already out of hand also due to age partially and menstraul issues
You have no other alternative. Drs have offered more Meds but have told the wife it will get worse. So the next choice is surgery to do the Hysterectomy… yes it’s time. He’s mad your doing it but she’s about to turn 40! Enough.. and then 3 yrs later she ends up w stage 3 Breast Ca so it’s a good thing she had the Hysterectomy or that would have spread to that anatomy too! And she would have died from that it was found out in pathology! He’s still angry about that! So no matter what happened it’s never made right and 18yrs later still no love life.. so you can understand why affairs happen from both stand points! That’s all that this person is saying!!! It’s not that you are looking to start something but you meet someone and a friendship happens and it blooms into more then what you expected it to be.. and a lot of times that truly turns into love. And sometimes the deepest love of your life. It wasn’t what you ever intended but just happens. In this persons opinion that’s not a bad thing and if the children are grown and married what does it matter? They move on and so does everyone else. That’s what life is about anymore. You can’t force someone to be happy if they are not. I’ve seen this too many times as a military wife!
Call me old fashioned but I believe you shouldn’t care how a MARRIED man feels about you. If he really cares about you he would DIVORCE his WIFE.... also, remember if he leaves his WIFE for you, then you will always have that thought of him leaving you for the next woman... Leave married men alone and find a man that available. Don’t be desperate ♥️
Well said and spot on!
How many wives does he have at the same time?
you said my thoughts already
Yes, Amen
@@margretwangari2066 I meant my thoughts exactly, hahaha. You caught me off guard. I thank you for taking the time out and comment. Nice to meet you! ☺
This world is so screwup to wear now they’re making videos about a married man liking someone else other than his wife..😳😳 WHAT THE DEVIL IS GOING ON..
Exactly ah ah.i would keep away from married ma
A lot of married man are acting the way showed in the video and it makes you 🤔 and you there like am I being crazy or does this idiot think that I would go for a married man lol thanks to this video I know I’m not crazy and he indeed was hitting up on me, intuition never fails me, bless his wife, hopefully she will dump his ass and find someone who will love her
I came here for red flags… I am not great at figuring out when someone has a crush on me until it’s too late. Now to figure out how to draw boundaries without hurting people or looking conceited…
I can't believe I just watched this 👀...how did this get in my feed😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣...girl stop it
That go with a married man when when I first start going with him he told me he don't believe in the bosses so we just go on seeing each other but I know he's not on never leave this my that's just how it is
That's not how it is. That's how he decided it is. Only one suffering is you.
We don't always get to choose who we fall in love with. If I'd fallen in love with what was on my list, it would've been a tall man, very well-dressed, black hair.... sorta the Italian look but not necessarily Italian, good manners, rich, funny, etc. When I met "the one", all that went out the window. We were together 27 years before I lost him to cancer. Only man..... actually, the only PERSON I ever loved in my life.
Thanks for the video
Now I know. It gave me something to see how, why someone behaves differently. Thanks
If the married man leaves wife for you, he will leave you for someone else, and you seem like a homewrecker, you shouldn't go after someones husband what is wrong with you.
He will surely leave you for someone else but I wouldn't curse the female..I would curse the man because he knows he is a married man and besides sometimes we don't know what he is telling the female..so...
Sometimes we are so quick to curse out a female and we don't know what she was told.
@@candycandy2110 do you not know what this title is ? Ok ? No both are to blame if she know he is married and he is in love with her knowing he's married, and if the man lies and doesn't tell her and she don't she is dating a married man, yes all the blame goes to him, but women do make it a fantasy to steal someomes marriage too, just like this video, I am judging no one, the video speaks for itself, the woman speaks for herself, God is the Judge and see's this video and says turn away from this sin. This is wrong if you think this I judging then you are wrong to even put all the blame on the guy, from this video the woman knows what she is doing, wants what is not hers, the video speaks for itself, if a married man is in love with me, I would be like bitch wtf you doing ? You're married and your punk ass coming over to me ? I would cuss his ass out, then I would say if I would tell his wife, cause if he do that to me, how many women is he doing that to ? I wouldn't want to be desprate for a man that I would take someone elses man.
@@candycandy2110 no the video speaks for herself. That is a bitch man stealing bitch she should tell him to back off and go home to his wife and kids before she goes to his wife and tells her she, what is doing, and you need Dr Phil for even giving me these comments.
I get what you are saying clearly..I meant no harm and I weren't judging anyone..you are so right too..sometimes some women do it on purpose like it's their job and pleasure in having a relationship with married men.
If this is the case, I do understand anything can happen in two years.
But it is true that God will bring two souls together.
I'm not one to break relationship s.
But for two years, I have always been single for the whole two years.
Because I have been have been homeless the whole time thinking of him.
But I still want to take things slow.
Before we proceed, I don't have any married issues, I don't have any kids, but if this is the case with him.
I need to have signs that he really wants to be with me amen.
What about if the two had a big falling out and later on in life the first true love comes back into the future
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Great. He Gets a DIVORCE and you live happily ever after.
If he is cheating on his wife... He will start cheating on you!
I have no idea why this popped up on my feed
I didn't bother to watch.... Smh. The fact that this is a topic proves the world is truly going to hell.
Men will be men regardless if not would you someone else
Wow wonder who that could be why did this come across here again ?
RUN
I go with a married man at first he didn't tell me but I found out and then we talked about it and he said he'll never leave his wife he don't believe in divorces but yet and still you come back every so often so I know it's not going to go no problem then what it is I think it's just sex have a good day
Why are you letting him use you?? Get your life and self respect back.
my dear let me introduce you to my doctor am sure he can help you out help me with my relationship issue
you can text him on whatsapp
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And your OK with that?? He's get to have Sex with two Women. You get half a Man.
Why not go and get a man who is not married. If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you. A better tittle: "How to Tell if a Man is in Love With You." Why a married man. Sorry, but I find this title sickening.
If he is married and says he loves someone else he is a liar and once you find out you better run baby run. He lied to Almighty GOD and his wife. Where is the truth being told for you? Pray before you date anyone. No one knows the heart but the manufacturer and He is GOD. Humanity please let's get real
3:38 can carry his lil blu pill if interested and 6:44 talks to his wife and kids with the same words or language of interest. 10:44 planning to leave and follow outside of country for job that is already in the works. Sorry dude, your family figured you out years ago! Just waiting on the day you decide to give them the freedom of your lies and deception. It really don’t matter what reason you give or feel entitled too, a real man is honest to his vows regardless. A man would and should speak his mind to feel alive and awaken his love for the marriage he chose. Whatever choice he makes stand up grow a pair and be aman and accept it. Don’t hide behind blaming your wife for your cowardice and fear honesty. It isn’t her fault because you got a little stiffy elsewhere. Idk, just sayin...
I am trying to find out who they are
Doesn’t mean he likes you. He may just like you as a distraction from his messed up marriage and just wants to get laid. The chase and excitement. Doesn’t mean he develops actual feelings for you
agreed
Men can always have sex with women without emotional connection.
Yep
Some guys really cheat simply because the chase gives them a rush and they like that
100% true👍
DON'T ENGAGE IN IT! EVERYONE GETS HURT....EXCEPT MAYBE NOT HIM. 😔 if he's unhappy he needs 2 leave first, divorce & then find his happiness.
so true, women need to realize that it is the man that wins in the situation. he got to have 2 women his wife and girlfriend. The 2 women get hurt.
Oh believe me, he gets hurt too especially when he gets caught and freaks out because his true love, that he married, leaves him for being a lying cheating whoredog infidel. Yup he gets hurt too and then has to live in the sea of shame and guilt for his evil sex fueled infidelity for the rest of his life. He loses the love of his life, family and friends, property and possessions and all because he couldn’t control King Dickhead and indulged in the lies and secrecy of his sex fueled Fantasyland.
How to tell a Married man is in Love with you?? 1. He leaves his WIFE. No excuses. You're not happily married. Get a DIVORCE.
my dear let me introduce you to my doctor am sure he can help you out
I agree Crystal !
@@gavinjames6025 Sorry for you that you seem very unhappy. Maybe you need to talk to your Doctor. Stop judging those that you dont agree with. Have a nice life or get a life
@@ginnygoingfishingwatson6128 If there still with their wives...there happy. If they weren't they get a DIVORCE. 😉
@@CrystalDatingCoach they all cant be happy with their wives maybe it was never meant to be and they had problems from the start u see me and my old bf met when I was 23 he was30 so there is a great history there
Me and my current fiancé were both in unhappy relationships. He was married and I had a serious boyfriend. We started as friends and developed a very intimate (not sexual) way of relating to each other. We fell in love supporting each other through the rough ends of our relationships.
To say married people are only interested in their spouses if they stay married is a naive fallacy. Financial reasons, children, loneliness, not wanting to explode your family are also reasons why someone would stay unhappy in a marriage. In my experience men rarely file for divorce, because it doesn’t benefit them to file because they typically lose more. They wait for the wife to get fed up and move on from there.
A man cheating is not always a result of a sexual pursuit. Some men cheat because they have domineering verbally abusive wives but the men stay because they still love her and hold out hope the relationship may improve at some point. In general, men don’t like to be alone either so many have married for reasons other than love such as to not be alone, for money, for status, pressure from family like in an arranged marriage. Therefore, his heart aches for love because he never loved his wife. Actually, he can learn to love the woman in time but that is not the same thins as being IN LOVE! Then, when a wonderful woman crosses his path and he falls in love with her he can’t resist because he finally feels love. Men marry wrong too at times, just like women. I think when they get older and mature they may make better decisions in who they marry so these affairs don’t happen as often. Remember, and this is a scientific fact, when it comes to maturity, men are ten years behind women. The older the man the better.
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Yes this happened to prince Charles. Forced to marry a woman much younger he didn't love. So many here don't understand natural human emotion. Some cheat because they not in love and met someone else. Everyone is different.
@@anony7170 This is true. When Prince Charles was a single young man, he was in love with Camila but she was already married at the time. At some later point in his marriage to Lady Di, Di found out about his love for Camila and they eventually got divorced. Then Lady Di dies, Camila got divorced and then she and Prince Charles were both finally free to marry and they did.
@@firegal2k the difference in his face on both wedding days says it all. He looks miserable on the day with Di, he's beaming with delight on the second wedding day.
@@anony7170 Yes, that’s true for an average citizen but isn’t British royalty trained to always look so straight-faced? So that’s what I thought it was with Di. I didn’t see his marriage to Camilla though. I’ll have to try and find video on that and check out his facial expression. Thanks!
If he's married, the shit is irrelevant.
If you entertain a married mans interest on you, then you should probably question any hidden traumas (or issues you might have). Don’t entertain a married mans interest on you, if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you (just give it time).
If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you; it's that simple........just give it time!
@@pattiharvey2721 yes! In my opinion it takes Prayer and getting to know Jesus, there will always be temptation, and lust is never satisfied.
true
How about this... Married cheats with you. You date others and stop because He Still Is Married.. This continues On and Off as You Brake Off Relationship's. But He has a GF as You don't and He still calling You. 🙄 So You Go.. Single so why not?.. Then, It's 10- 11 years later he is divorced. Had GF's, and Tries calling you after not talking for 2-3 years. And in Single As Well As He. And He wants a Actual Relationship with You. Stepping Up, And Respectfully.
True
Why should I care if a married man is interested in me? He's married! If I need or want a man I'll get one without taking one from someone else.
Exactly!! If he's Married he's interested in his WIFE.
Agreed! Who wants someone’s trash?
Right!
😴😴😴😴😴 stories that touch
@@CrystalDatingCoach Not true in every case . Depends on how much his wife treats him
I know this for a fact from. family
You can’t stop someone from falling for you and I work with 90% men but I would not touch a male co-worker or married man. Because of my husbands infidelity, it caused the demise of our marriage and my actions to avenge my pain only hurt me. Find peace and dignity then love & happiness will find you! 🙏🏽😌
Why on earth would you want to be liked by a married man? This video is ridiculous
Agreed! Cause she's involved with a married man. He's trembling and shaking cause he might get caught.
EXACTLY!
I think just in case you hear one day that cute hunk is married to someone else??
Maybe because you love a married man
Well u r here too😂😂😂🤔🤔🤔🤔
If he keeps asking things about your personal life..then obviously he doing that 4 a reason. If a guy is married they shouldn't even be interested in that girl/woman...!!
Thank you
I seen this and was like wtf
Thank you..that is also one reason we shouldn't just curse out the female he is cheating with or quick to call her names..he knows he's married and sometimes we don't know what he's telling the female
Asking about your life...saying nothing about theirs.
No one should have any deep relationship w/ married men/women. Have some self respect ✊
so true.
I randomly watched this video and got curious 😂
You should run he never divorce his wife for you are just a toy end of story
Some men won't some don't mind..everybody is different..everybody thinks differently..there are men out there who leave their wives for their lovers..I don't believe in divorce but marriages ends for various reasons..sometimes the person you marry turns out to be somebody totally different from what you thought..that is why people should not rush into marriage..but even so sometimes it's not until after marriage you see the person true color...that's just my view base on what I observed.
And don't think all men take their lovers for toy..sometimes they end up loving them more than their partner..as much as we would want to deny this..it's the plain truth.
Nop I dont think so she choose someone Els cz her wife stressing him...most of Husband are not happy in their marriage cz once u get married u tell ur mind that u are married now....and u start forget what atrect the man to u....that's the reasone man start going owt
Wrong! my friend was married with a child and her husband left her, and divorced her for somebody else! Then he married with the new lady after 7 years he also divorced the new one 😂🤣🤣 but that can happen in any relationship
Y’all are complaining about the video but everything said is TRUE. Deal with it! It happens. Doesn’t mean the woman will want him. I’m dealing with this as we speak.
For 6 months I dealt with this this man came out of no where and he looked at me with intense desire. I just chilled out when I saw him I wasn't a ***** I made it calm. I don't live with him so I not judging him. His wife may be a nuts case . 🙄😬
If a married man is falling for you then run, if he didn't care about his wife's feelings, he won't care for you as well. An Indian grandma advice.
True that!!!
Need not be, you may not like biryani from a restaurant but does not mean u never like biryani s
@@ecnirp2ful that's right,he is out on tasting biriyanis, not love and getting married...he will never do that coz he is a cheater.
@@Indrani_Mukherjee19 why do u think like that, I dont want to name the product brand names. I became loyal to some brand products. I did not opt for new one again
@@Indrani_Mukherjee19 actually i am liking my office colleague though i was married. wife is creating lot of tensions at home, the colleague creates pleasure atmosphere. u should see what works for u. life is short enjoy and move on life. if my colleague allows i want to sleep with her. i dont know how to approach without breaking friendship. anyhow there are ways to get rid of pregnancy if she does not want like abortion etc. its mutual cooperation required.
Many women think that they are breaking a marriage by "stepping into" a marriage but I will tell you this as a man who is experiencing this right now.
A)You cannot break something that is already broken.
B)If it hadn't been you then it would have been someone else.
Some things are inevitable.
I know it might not work out with this girl that I am in love with but I am glad that she showed up in my life and reminded me of what I truly deserve.
Lastly, please try to think why a man does what he does, says what he says, and acts like he acts before you label him or the situation (also it is never bad to ask if you care).
Sorry to intrude but I can't help not to ask. Were you and your wife genuinely in love with each other?
@@andromeda3780 no, not from my part
@@milxasap7412 Thank you for answering me. I was expecting a glare of non genuine love is what brought you together.
Sorry but you are such a weak man, you should divorce first and not cheat like you guys are thieves, SEX is just seconds of release, it’s high blood pressure problem and you get bad karma, face your unloveable wife head on and break up ASAP and finally divorce HER because what you’re avoiding will always be the character of your present loveR, remember: MARRIAGE IS A LIFETIME COMMITMENT, YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE MARRIED YOUR WIFE, THAT’s why those staying unmarried and staying single with multiple partners are honest to themselves, remember LIARS GO TO HELL…
Yes he's making ways to be close 💋🥺😭 to you but not divorce his family 🤪🤪🤪🙄🙄🙄
He's a Professional liar. Every time he's with you... He's lying to her.
Please stop romanticising this kind of things ! This is sinning to God..
Married guy is also a human. Why does he cannot like a woman. I am married too and i am sometimes attracted to another men but it doesnt mean i cheat with them.
A very good comment!!Love that❤❤
Make a friend is ok, but please try to be a friend who directs him to do appropriate thing as a married man who has right friendship.
I ain't a friend of nobody's husband, but the couple.
Stay away from someone else's person.
PERIOD-
🤔 No One belongs to anyone. Also, feelings change.
@@user-oc6mr1jr6s not a matter of "owning" or "feelings"; it's a matter of RESPECT, for one's self and another fellow. human.
What i am trying to say is marriage isn't for life for everyone. Divorce isn't terrible. Can't understand why People in theese modern Times Still seem to belive so.
@@user-oc6mr1jr6s amen
That’s have anything to do with love, but all to do for being horney.
None of this info is new to me as I have a masters degree in psychology, but it is a good blog for women who are clueless. I don't want to judge, but getting involved with a married man can only lead to heartache. Not just for you, but for many besides yourself. You are better than that. He is behaving horribly. Don't encourage him. If he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you. Good luck.
That'll lead you into some unnecessary drama. I don't even understand, why a woman/girl would wanna put themselves through that...!! It's simply dumb for them to do that..!!
Simply not true in all cases.
@@CatT1987 what about if it was a first true love that reconnected after so many years
@@kimberleypuddicombe6168 I think you misunderstand Kimberley. I was disagreeing with the person who started this thread (Heidi) when they said getting involved with a married man can only lead to heartache and if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you. Cuz that's not always true. That's what I was trying to say and yes you're right what if it's an old flame who came back I understand.
@@CatT1987 I fully understand about what u were saying
I like a married man bcoz of his character but would never be a pain for his happily married life
We work in a grp for upliftment and know each other past 10years and we are put up in two different city
Still I admire his entire personality and share a respectful relation
So I really don't know
What it means but happy working in his company😊
Have too met his wife? Would you like to? I think your playing with fire.
You can always have feelings for someone, even if they are in a relationship. Human emotions, my dear. But you ONLY admire them from afar. Don't take the chance of giving them a chance while they're with someone.
Heya I'm in similar situation love a married guy cos of his character. I have been travelling for many years with him and yes at times I feel he is my crush but I keep reminding myself he is married man and in no way would I be the cause of his breakup in his marriage. It's tough feeling but I feel now in this new year I will stop travelling with him and keep my distance from me
My God, why am I going through this at this very moment? 🤦🏾♀️ I've been friends with a man for a few years now. He has been feeling this way about me for some time, but he wasn't sure how I would feel about him. He got married to a woman he dated shortly, and she became pregnant. He did so, because he did not feel right just making her a mother. I get that and I have respect him for doing so. Shortly after they married and before the baby was born, her insecure ways poured out like cold coffee. She argues and accuses him at the rise of the morning. Sometimes when he reaches out, he's almost crying because he's at the end of his rope. I feel bad for him, because he is a good man. But at the same time, it's up to him to stay and work things out. Or leave, and still coparent.
He's a GOOD MAN? He got a Woman Pregnant...you act like she did all by herself. SHE got pregnant! Instead of trying to work it out...he's crying to you. He's wasting Two Women's life. Yours and his Wife!
@@CrystalDatingCoach 🙄 I can see that reading is clearly not fundamental with you. You missed EVERYTHING I stated, but it's ok. The 3 likes read it carefully, and know where I'm coming from. 🤦🏾♀️
@@CrystalDatingCoach Let me elaborate a little more so you can understand without jumping the gun, and seeing the parts you only want to see. Ready? Here goes:
I was friends with this man long before he got married. Why he never let me know in the beginning how he felt for me, I don't know. But I wish he would've let it be known before he got married. We now live in different places. Despite his marriage, WE ARE STILL FRIENDS AND ALWAYS WILL BE! I harbor no ill feelings toward him. He dated his wife only a short time. Therefore, they did things too soon without really getting to know each other. I even asked him this myself. He is a GOOD MAN to think of doing the right thing by marrying her, because any other man would've bailed out once those words came about. And FYI, he does try to work things out with his wife when things go awry. There's nothing wrong with reaching out to someone who needs an ear to listen. So he is NOT wasting my time! I'm single and I've been abstinent for 8 years. I don't want anyone's husband but my own, if God sees fit to send a good one my way. And I do hope that he can work on his marriage, because they have a child who needs them both. People can't help what they feel and when they feel it, dear. You are not much of a dating coach if the only way you think is negatively
@@marchbabi323 Are you friends also with the wife? Does she know about you? If the answer is yes. Ok. If not. Why? If you have just a friendship...why hide it from his wife. Would you like your husband to be friends with woman you don't know?
@@marchbabi323 If you are happy...that's all that matters. Just don't lie...to yourself.
This is a seriously disturbing video...please consider yourselves warned rather than see it is romantic
Friend, what if there is this handsome man who always stairs at you any time you both are on the street, then later you notice d he is with a woman and a baby. But kept staring and smiling , and you beaing a single mother with kid not used to white men and needed a good person for a serious relationship what would you do.
I hope not because I dont want a married man
I had a married man show an interest in me about a year ago. I had to have some business dealings with him. I took a single friend who at first didn't believe me but as soon as he heard the married guy's voice on the phone he said, "Yeaa, I can hear the hormones in his voice." Listen to the quality of his voice when he's around you. If it's warmer, smoother, more seductive, even if he's talking about something not romantic or personal, the sexual interest is there. I took care of the business and got rid of him asap.
So true.. Me and my partner once loved each other unconditionally but under family circumstances he married to different girl.. But after marriage he contacted me, we both have feelings for each other.. But for him it's very difficult to accept, he is hiding his feelings.. But as the proverb says love and cough can't be hidden, he shows his love, care, affection, attraction through his actions.. I know he's not happy in his marriage because that marriage was not by his choice.. I wish he could get the courage to take the divorce.. I'll always be there for him to give all the comfort and emotional support he is in need of.. We are soulmate ❤️
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Unfulfillement will break down a marriage , we all have needs and when there not met without fighting its easier to seek it some place else ,after all its human nature to have our needs and be happy who wants to live in misery nobody ...
Exactly
You got it.
Exactly
That could be one reason. However, not always. Probably not usually. These kind of men have an illness- it's sexual addiction, porn addiction and are womanizing. It's all misery. Finding another before the first one is gone is very harmful to everyone involved. Blaming the victims is not valid.
@@wcgreenefineart what about if it was about an old couple that always thought the world over each other but reunited
I have one that just started crushing on me on my birthday this past summer. It’s online, so not all of the things apply- but if it were, I could see them manifesting. I’m no home wrecker. So,whenever he tries to flirt or makes comments that elude that he’s developed feelings for me- I make suggestions of things that he can try to spice up his marriage. I pick on him (jokingly, of course!), but never in a flirtatious manner. His situation is complex; and there are small children involved. My father cheated on my mom when I was a very young child . This ended their marriage. I could never consciously do that to another family.
Did it ever cross a cheaters mind if you cheat on someone they will cheat on you too That’s a fact So don’t expect more.
I don’t want to be a marriage breaker rather then marry a single unmarried person.
One thing i have learned in life is you are always going to find someone better that you like because. Everyone changes as time goes by.
Lol why is this on my recommendation list 😂😂😂😂this is weird
it doesnt make sense .if that married man is inlove with you or not .his still a married man
.and having a relationship with a married will you.a sinner dont waste your time with him wait for single fine man to come your way instead.
What if a married man is texting you?(as friends) would you call that cheating?
yes...he is married
That's a big time sin. Married but love someone else. Even loving another man's wife. When they say they are single lonely and need you. Then use your love like a lie. Then it's them that stalks you. To say they hate you. God knows everything and exactly what they did. Everyone involved too. God bless us all. Amen
What's up with the computer 🖥 voice. 😅😅
Woman borns with 6 senses
They can feel it
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The man I was seeing lied to me the whole 3 years. He has a wife and they are in an open marriage. He moved to Florida from Atlanta and wanted me to move with him, but everything was damaged the moment he lied. Broke my heart!! He explained if was more like business and that she really liked women., but for a man to be that low I don’t want him anyway. So, picking up the pieces and going on with life. He called the 4th of July and was hoping I was ok. Men really hurt the good women.
Good Women LET Men hurt them. Stop collecting Red Flags!
Did you know about his wife at the beginning?
I have a married man chasing me and wondering if this could be an arrangement that he and his wife have. Just because he appears to want to take so many risks with me, even find ways to invite me around like fix my car in his workshop at the house, things like that. I don't go
Iam attracted to him but very aware that I do not need to get involved either, I deserve a good clean slate to start from
When The prize is a cheater....... I wouldn't want it😊
FOR MARRIED PEOPLE: The feeling that you get in an affair can NEVER be love. Love comes from God, the same God who designed marriage and commanded us to honor it. I truly believe that God will not contradict Himself and put love in your heart for someone else other than your spouse. The feeling you have for the other person can be LUST, INFATUATION, OBSESSION, A SOURCE OF VALIDATION, AN EGO BOOSTER, A FORM OF ESCAPE or any other feeling that satan will USE to destroy your marriage (and push you to commit a SIN by breaking the VOW that you made before God). The devil will make you believe that what you feel for this other person is love when in fact it really ISN'T. That's what satan does. That's the reason he's called a LIAR and a DESTROYER.
INFIDELITY has a very destructive impact on people, and can be PASSED DOWN from generation to generation like a CURSE.
The devil has VIOLATED so many marriages; has TORN so many families apart; has RUINED so many lives. Don't let that monster proudly look at your OWN FAMILY and boast that he has successfully DESTROYED it too.
"Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth." - 1 Corinthians 13:6
Amen. Thank you
Thank u .That's real.
Amen! Well said.
I believe love is God's construct, soul's search and arranged marriage is social construct.. Social construct maybe a Satan's call, Go find your love and get married.. Follow your heart, there the God lives.. Marriage is only love, like Shiv Parvati, their marriage is 1st love marriage in the universe.. In true marriage no one will cheat
There are so many reasons that men cheat, loveless marriage, looking for some excitement or outside entertainment. Often men will say they are separated, what a line. I had one for them which left them speechless. I would reply" so your're separated". She's home and you're here.
It’s about finding your soulmate
Married man! RUN as fast as you can!!!!!
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People are not getting married for love anymore enough said.
Amen to that!!
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His fault not mine it is just lust for him because I am 83 & only look like 38 always looking after my health & my intimacy myself
This is absolutely insanity.
Why would you want a married man? You ain’t no ones mistress. Avoid!!!!!
I think there is another reason and it's that he has found his soul mate.
Yes!! When I met him, he told me that he was married. I immediately felt a pain in my heart! I would never date a married man....
But as friends, we found that we both had something in common. The people that we were involved with are narcissist. I had someone stalking me for 4 years and his wife was so horrible to him that we began to understand each other on a different level.
Still.... I respected him because of his responsibility towards his wife and his desire to care for her. But in the last few weeks, after constant abuse from his wife... This brought us together in a beautiful way. I believe he is my soulmate and I want to be with him forever ❤️
I am in a realationship with a married man . We started out as friends . We are in love and have found our soulmate in each other. Many people do not find their soulmate when you do there is no way to fight this! His marriage had fallen apart for several years before we met. His divorce will be final in March of 2021 True love for some never happens. We are truly in love and very happy. Think before you judge us .This happens many times i am sure !☺❤👄
@@ginnygoingfishingwatson6128 I do understand 💗
@@cherylthompson2731 My love had the same problem with his wife treating him like less of a man no respect for him. I want to thank her for throwing him away and giving him to me we are soulmates .I have a bit of a problem I am 15yrs older than he is .He doesn't have a problem with age. Love is more important to him something he has not had for many yrs
We will be together in April of 2021 I can't hardly wait to start our life's together. I want to bring him happiness and be with him forever . Good Luck Cheryl
@@ginnygoingfishingwatson6128 May God bless you and him for many years. My story is identical to yours.
He's what I waited for all these years. Don't let age bother you. I'm 57 and just now found my true love.
Oh! The irony 💗 Be happy! Ct
Why date a married person ? Instead of trying Polygamy?
1.) He divorced his wife. 😂
🤣🤣🤣that part🤣🤣
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Exactly
Home brake hope ur happy
@@michelleelfazzate178 You have to be in the home in order to break it up so the actual “home wrecker” is the one in the home or the marriage.
Sometimes they married man can't get out of the marriage because the woman he's married to will give him a hard time if he tries to leave and they will be attracted to other people while he is married.
Won't be a good excuse of having a hard time to divorce. If he knows he will be attracted, he mind as well divorce his wife now. No excuses in staying in that marriage just to cheat. If a man cheats, he will have a lot more hard time dealing with his wife. Once the divorce is finalized, it is no longer a wife's job to fix him.
This is a really messed up video to put out there especially knowing that I am a married woman and have been cheated on. There is Nothing funny about this!
Married man don't get involved save him for his wife .
My last boyfriend was divorced, but after we broke up, (he was a Narcissist) he went back to his ex.
He went back to her, because she was the only one who would put up with his foolishness. Good for them. They deserve each other. You deserve peace ♥️
you deserve better 💯⭐️😅
I have flirted with a coworker and he didn't flirt back to my comment but I noticed he loved being flirted. Then I learnt he has a gf. I stopped making any flirty comments but I noticed everytime he sees me he stares at me longer than before. My conclusion is that he would not dare to make a move with me but he loved the playful pull and push. Men are histerical too.
Dissatisfaction, resentment, and excitement are the three reasons a married man may be in love with a woman? A married man may fall in love with a woman because of none of these and simply because of her own attractive qualities and personalities. Those are three reasons, and maybe the most common ones, a married man might start looking around, but they are not reasons for someone to fall in love. They are probably common reasons for a married man to start looking for a side-chick, but not for finding a serious love interest.
Number 1, if a married man is looking at you it's because you are his next victim in his game. The tips in this video was probably another method to help him catch his next toy. If you are watching this video then realize it's for entertainment only. My uncle that I asked since childhood loved all his women and dated 2 or 3 at a time. He told his 2 son's (from different women while married) that they should always have a backup woman. You will always be the other toy, he is going to say and do whatever, bring presents just to buy you because it works.
Don't date a married man date someone who loves you for u many guys out there that are single and will try u like a queen
He doesn't. I've been married to a serial cheater for 30 years.
His code on his calendar for dates I later figured out was "take out the trash"
When they would get to clingy I would see "dump excess garbage "
They don't care about anyone but themselves. As good as they fake it. Challenge them , question them he will show you his true self.
Considering my husband is a married man... I hope so.. 😂
This is crazy . I mean like really? When a man is unhappy at home he gets a divorce. I don't know why women even entertain that dumb shit. I could care less if you like me . You probably liked ur wife when you first met her too. I think to much of this Queen to lay with a married man. Plus I will not put that kind of hurt on his wife !
Looking back when we were at college my wife told me, "I thought back then, I might as well marry you. Almost every time I opened my apartment door you were standing there. Number two; you were always taking me to your place to cook very nice meals for me. I thought at first, 'damn, this man has plenty of food. REAL FOOD! I had Raman noodles and crackers.'
He is married,point blank,run
no his wife always nags at him if she can't see he says lets get you a new pair of glasses she says nothing's wrong with my eyes if a woman complains all the time, will seek else ware
As the married guy who fell in love with a much younger woman, I heartily agree with all of your “Reasons Why…”!
You hit the nail on the head. Good information.
I will never date a married man because it will ruin his married life
Cheaters are vile and the ones they cheat with are just as vile .
What I learned in this video? What is wrong is right, lol
Purpose of this is what exactly? Motivate people to consider breaking up others homes or what?
If a married man shows interest in you, RUN! He sees you as a toy to play with.
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Maybe not. Married men fall in love too.
I felt offended when a married man flirted with my wife, he was lucky it was my 1st. time to workout with my wife at the gym. I was so tired to confront him even though he was a manager there. Making an excuse by training my wife. So I reported him & blocked him on Facebook & messenger too! Thank God for this pandemic, the gym is permanently closed! Never going to open again due to non payment rental for months due to this pandemic! Karma got them good, they have no salary since their boss didn't pay them. Thanks piece out!
@@isismorrissey9075 it can break a relationship or marriage so it's bad unless you're single of course. How would feel if your wife won't talk to you for for years" won't watch a movie with you or date you? Not even greeting you Good morning or good night? I already set borders & final warning. Next time he does that I'm sending him to jail. Last check when a guy flirted with my wife he almost raped her but lucky she escape. I forgot to mention she was my girlfriend back then before I married her. Hope you understand where I'm coming from. I didn't mean to sound rude. I'm sorry if I sounded like it. Thanks & God bless you!
@@isismorrissey9075 I forgot to mention I keep notes on events be it good or bad. Location, time, date & people around. It's recorded be it hard copy or soft copy. Thanks again!
Seriously. Garbage 🗑️