Jane Fonda says she isn't scared of dying, but she has regrets

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  • Опубликовано: 18 фев 2023
  • Actress and activist Jane Fonda tells CNN's Chris Wallace why she is not afraid of death, and if she has any regrets in her life. #CNN #WhosTalkingtoChrisWallace

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  • @ninapaz522
    @ninapaz522 Год назад +164

    "I am not scared of dying. What I am really scared of is getting to the end of life with a lot of regrets when there's no time to do anything about it".
    I can relate to that! . . . I loved the interview!

  • @HealthyMBS1
    @HealthyMBS1 Год назад +317

    I was my father's youngest son. I saw my father cry one time in my life. It was when I was getting on the plane to go to boot camp when I was 18. My father told me a few years later he wasn't ready to see his baby boy leave home. He's been gone a while now and when my youngest left home recently, I felt connected to my father again and what it was like for him all those years ago

    • @USS-SNAKE-ISLAND
      @USS-SNAKE-ISLAND Год назад +7

      Love.

    • @randibgood
      @randibgood Год назад +10

      It seems we always come full circle. Congrats!

    • @SUGAR_XYLER
      @SUGAR_XYLER Год назад +1

      ​@@randibgood
      Sounds like a cats in the cradle reference 🙄

    • @janet5135
      @janet5135 Год назад +3

      @@SUGAR_XYLER the song speaks volumes for all people. People raised during the depression was raised in survival mode, they were humble and the wisdom they had insurmountable.

    • @mhall801
      @mhall801 Год назад +2

      Hanoi Jane

  • @pam0626
    @pam0626 Год назад +253

    The older you get, the more vulnerable you become. All of the hardness that builds up in adulthood through to late middle age starts to fade away, back to the pure hearts we had in childhood. That’s what I thought watching Jane tear up seeing her father onscreen.

    • @pamelariley8842
      @pamelariley8842 Год назад +7

      So true Pam💓

    • @lesleyhubble2976
      @lesleyhubble2976 Год назад +5

      Very true

    • @unowen-nh9ov
      @unowen-nh9ov Год назад +10

      NOTHING to do with age, that's eternal. My parents died young, I think of them every day, not to grieve but as inspiration. Jane has loved her Dad always, no matter how difficult he made it, he's also part of her trauma over her mother's suicide, some things we don't get over, but she is literally a survivor, you have to be to reach old age.

    • @deeskers1
      @deeskers1 Год назад +4

      Well said, Pam! So true.

    • @daliagrigonyte6872
      @daliagrigonyte6872 Год назад +3

      you described it perfectly about going from not guarded to guarded to not guarded again

  • @viyau10
    @viyau10 Год назад +121

    I love these kinds of interviews. She took time to think. She was candid. Vulnerable. A treasure.

  • @1scootergirl
    @1scootergirl Год назад +45

    Thank you, Jane. And thank you Chris. I had that same midwestern father. And my awakening came at 52, aha! I appreciated the realness and candor. And if it wasn’t real, damn you’re good!

  • @anne8511
    @anne8511 Год назад +120

    My father has passed away but before he did he mentioned many times how he had no regrets and how happy he was about that. We all need to get our house in order before we go. Love you Jane Fonda. You are the best!

    • @mhall801
      @mhall801 Год назад

      She’s a traitor

    • @sandragruhle6288
      @sandragruhle6288 Год назад +10

      @@mhall801There we’re millions of us anti-war protestors. She was just famous.

    • @stefanantolin5501
      @stefanantolin5501 Год назад +7

      @@mhall801 Naah, clear hindsight shows that she was right in her stance against the Vietnam War.
      She's far more open minded, clear thinking and powerful than you could ever hope to be but that's an issue for you to deal with and get over bro.

    • @firstgopinbredhillbilliesl6100
      @firstgopinbredhillbilliesl6100 Год назад +7

      @@mhall801 trump dodge the draft now that a real traitor.

    • @mhall801
      @mhall801 Год назад

      @@stefanantolin5501 👈. There were Americans dying over there, thousands of soldiers while she was doing photo ops with the Vietnamese butchers that were killing them. You don’t have a single clue do you Stefan?

  • @babybro70
    @babybro70 Год назад +4

    I love this so much, what a great lady!

  • @Hello-Stoiko
    @Hello-Stoiko Год назад +100

    What a raw and honest interview. She’s not afraid to tell us things not many people can say out loud. Especially the motherhood part.

  • @Kiwiakatarawa
    @Kiwiakatarawa Год назад +19

    Lover her 🥰 keep up the amazing activism Jane!

  • @marilyntaylor223
    @marilyntaylor223 Год назад +86

    Courage; this lady has so much courage.

  • @marquizz2005
    @marquizz2005 Год назад +170

    One of the best interviews I have ever watched! Never seen anyone being so vulnerable and open like Jane Fonda is here. Just beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time. ❤

    • @JeffSmith-it4tm
      @JeffSmith-it4tm Год назад

      The flames of hellfire await her for supporting abortion.

  • @DenkyManner
    @DenkyManner Год назад +102

    Love and memory are remarkable. She's 85, her father died over 40 years ago and the grief is still there as strong as ever, when something triggers it. I lost my father in November and I'm fine 99% of them then something will catch me and I'm in tears. I guess that never ends.

    • @valeria-militiamessalina5672
      @valeria-militiamessalina5672 Год назад +1

      Not really "not never", IT will end at some point.

    • @whitneydavis7443
      @whitneydavis7443 Год назад +5

      It doesn’t; not really. My dad passed away 17 years ago, and it’s still there. I’m okay most of the time, though I miss him all the time. But there are still days that I am barely functional because the grief feels so heavy.

    • @Maarjaanaa
      @Maarjaanaa Год назад +3

      I feel like this for my beloved granny but never for my father. He was not some evil man but he never unerstood my right to be an independent person. He had always treated me just as a child belonging to him. My mother still treats me like this today... and she is 97 and I am 70 - having my own husband, children, grandchildren ... I have been longing for freedom away from my parents for 70 years now.

    • @Utubepgs
      @Utubepgs 2 месяца назад

      Don’t believe 👿 evil pray she has never ask Jesus Christ to forgive her and she stood with evil 👿 remember that!!

  • @gaylevonderembse1456
    @gaylevonderembse1456 Год назад +118

    Great interview!! So real. You both expressed relationship issues and healing that many of us benefit from hearing. Thank you.

  • @laurenhuntsinger9170
    @laurenhuntsinger9170 Год назад +131

    This level of honesty is exactly what we all need to be doing together. I thank both of you with all of my heart.

    • @jane2594
      @jane2594 Год назад

      100 %

    • @greenthumb8266
      @greenthumb8266 Год назад +4

      Yes, we need to discuss openly all the unpleasant things that are just part of the human condition. We’ve lost touch with our humanity.

  • @annehirsch9964
    @annehirsch9964 11 месяцев назад +4

    thank you Jane Fonda for your authenticity and sharing

  • @ROYAL_REBEL
    @ROYAL_REBEL Год назад +4

    Wow. Jane Fonda in all her vulnerable glory. This is one of the best interviews between an anchor and a celebrity I've ever seen.

  • @classicalaid1
    @classicalaid1 Год назад +163

    Henry Fonda needed to be in the movies. It was a safe place for him to have and express his deepest emotions.

    • @nyccheckin
      @nyccheckin Год назад +9

      Astute observation.

    • @unowen-nh9ov
      @unowen-nh9ov Год назад +7

      But his characters were very often like himself, stoic, 1 reason he was so great in Westerns, or as a man of conscience, like in 12 Angry Men & Mr. Roberts.

    • @velikovskysghost
      @velikovskysghost Год назад +3

      @@unowen-nh9ov Mr. Roberts was in my opinion one of the greatest films ever! I loved the part where Jack Lemmon (Ensign Pulver) was coming down the steps and finally ran into the Captain (James Cagney) who asked him who he was. "Well Ensign Pulver how long have you been on board?, SIX MONTHS!?, and I haven't seen you, "well I've been busy doing laundry and moral boosting, well Ensign Pulver we must have dinner some time" than Mr. Roberts (Henry Fonda) giving him the business for being scared of the captain, so cool, and such a good movie.

    • @lennarthagen3638
      @lennarthagen3638 Год назад

      The hell does that mean

    • @helenhunter4540
      @helenhunter4540 Год назад +2

      Classically. He WASN'T expressing HIS emotions in movies at all! That's the POINT! He was acting other emotions, SCRIPTED, therefore FAKE emotions.
      As another commenter says, most of his roles were stoic emotionless men like him.

  • @ravenmccall5486
    @ravenmccall5486 Год назад +201

    I read the book about her life she wrote a few years ago and got such insight into the real Jane Fonda. She has learned so many life lessons the hard way, but she did learn them. Jane Fonda is quite a lady!

    • @jaymass1178
      @jaymass1178 Год назад +5

      Did she talk about why she's called Hanoi Jane?

    • @antoniahamilton3201
      @antoniahamilton3201 Год назад +12

      @@jaymass1178 How are your hemorrhoids today?

    • @chevychase3103
      @chevychase3103 Год назад +1

      ​@@antoniahamilton3201 my guess is they're not hanging outside for everyone to see unlike some other people that like to shake them in other people's faces!

    • @paulzammataro7185
      @paulzammataro7185 Год назад +4

      @@jaymass1178
      She's apologized for that and admitted to being wrong. People make mistakes - she never fired that AA gun, she only sat in the seat.
      And she never turned over any notes.

    • @jaymass1178
      @jaymass1178 Год назад

      @@antoniahamilton3201
      That is an incredibly stupid statement.

  • @motheryuba57
    @motheryuba57 Год назад +29

    What a very touching interview. She was so open. The interviewer was sensitive and let her speak. I don't know if I have ever seen Jane Fonda so vulnerable and open. My 90 year old father of Mexican descent has always been the emotional one in my family. My 89 year old mother of German and British descent has always been cold, dismissive, harsh and seems to not have the capacity for personal intimacy, human warmth, etc. I think she endured such harsh poverty and emotional deprivation that it's a wonder she was so materially successful in her life. Yet it was a hell world living with a cold mother and has an impact to her children and grandchildren.
    Jane Fonda's mother died when she was 12. She was probably raised by nannies? She continues to be an amazing and admirable woman.

  • @mammajeanine
    @mammajeanine Год назад +9

    What a powerful interview. I thank her for her candidness and vulnerability.

  • @stacihodges9976
    @stacihodges9976 Год назад +35

    Now I'm crying 😭

    • @immortalasirpa6006
      @immortalasirpa6006 Год назад +1

      Yeah. I was unprepared to have her directly address my own struggle to understand my own father. Now I'm a wreck.

    • @christineblaszczyk1602
      @christineblaszczyk1602 Год назад

      She made me cry too. I grew up in a similar matter where my Father never paid me compliments nor discussed important things with me. Communication was not his strong point and it affected my relationships also. I was always picking men like my Father. I understand why now and now prefer to stay single for what remains of it.

    • @blueocean-me1ns
      @blueocean-me1ns Год назад

      Maybe cry for the pilots in Vietnam who got shot down by a gun turret she was sitting on a laughing her azz off with the North Vietnamese.

    • @lukestuningshop8467
      @lukestuningshop8467 Месяц назад

      😂🤣😂😅😅

  • @randolphholland6942
    @randolphholland6942 Год назад +24

    You are a damn good interviewer, Chris Wallace.

  • @luisaapostol2414
    @luisaapostol2414 Год назад +1

    Jane, you are wonderful!!

  • @Atheria444
    @Atheria444 Год назад +13

    This is a powerful interview, and I can totally relate. Thank you, Jane and Chris for being so open.

  • @nodatastored684
    @nodatastored684 Год назад +32

    We love you, Jane Fonda ❤️
    Grace and Frankie was Hysterical as a comedy

    • @rootstorising7348
      @rootstorising7348 Год назад +2

      So many women so love that show! Refreshing return to true comedy with the best timing and acting. Growth for the actresses and for the audience. The world was starving for good comedy and depth!

  • @kristinwright6632
    @kristinwright6632 Год назад +173

    What an emotionally courageous interview. She really seemed to bare her true feelings. I've always found her inspiring.

    • @davidrobertson5881
      @davidrobertson5881 Год назад

      She is just a scumgbag liberal actress.

    • @patmelton43
      @patmelton43 10 месяцев назад

      Bullshit.

    • @trhansen3244
      @trhansen3244 5 месяцев назад

      I find her uninspiring. Not a very nice person at all.

  • @l.tallmadge6536
    @l.tallmadge6536 Год назад +28

    I love you Jane. I remember this scene, it still lives with me today. So many are unable to be vulnerable, but those of us who are willing,
    it is a precious gift.

  • @pjfreeman4789
    @pjfreeman4789 Год назад +37

    She reflects so many of us with our fathers, and not seeing what healthy relationships look like as we are growing up. Life is one long (we hope) learning experience. She is articulate and honest.

  • @johnlookabill4271
    @johnlookabill4271 Год назад +1052

    This was an amazing, very moving interview. I already liked and admired Jane, and now I love her even more. When she teared up about her father, I found that especially touching.
    And she's so right that many of us around her age had fathers that weren't openly affectionate or emotional. Great interview. Thank you, Chris Wallace.

    • @jetmirmetaliaj8521
      @jetmirmetaliaj8521 Год назад +30

      She IS a traitor

    • @Tao_Tology
      @Tao_Tology Год назад +6

      @@jetmirmetaliaj8521 😂

    • @jaymass1178
      @jaymass1178 Год назад +23

      Hanoi Jane

    • @segurosincero4057
      @segurosincero4057 Год назад +26

      She is an actress. It’s what she does. She provided aid and comfort to our enemies. That should never be forgotten.

    • @chevychase3103
      @chevychase3103 Год назад +1

      She could have been an actress but she wound up here!

  • @Aubrey_Harris
    @Aubrey_Harris Год назад +67

    I just want to give Jane Fonda a hug. How hard it must be to see loved ones in such context.

    • @hitirussantosa7116
      @hitirussantosa7116 Год назад

      Jane has always been involved in films that had powerful themes of cultural significance with corollaries to the current events at the time .
      cat balloo. barbarella. coming home. china syndrome. dick and jane. nine to five. agnes of god are some of my favorite films of hers. diverse characters that show the range of her performance abilities.
      She has her lingering critics from early boomers and silent gen who think anti-war protests she was involved with during Vietnam were unpatriotic. She also was at the forefront of the major health and fitness craze of the 80s with her workout videotapes as that technology was booming.

    • @arstars411
      @arstars411 Год назад +1

      She looked really raw there… like she needed a hug ❤ ! I agree such a context as the movie is a life reflection.

  • @susancoffey419
    @susancoffey419 Год назад +4

    Well done, Jane. You have always been an inspiration - so brave, even if you don't think so. Congratulations and thanks from a 77 year old across the big pond.

  • @jennarose60monroe51
    @jennarose60monroe51 Год назад +3

    Such heart & authenticity.

  • @dianewhalen9721
    @dianewhalen9721 Год назад +92

    What a wonderful interview .So Honest and vulnerable.Takes courage to do that👍❤️

    • @rtorres4132
      @rtorres4132 Год назад +4

      It's crazy how hated she was by the American public once upon a time.

    • @rtorres4132
      @rtorres4132 Год назад +12

      @Claude Charley- Was she eventually right about the war? Lots of anti-war activists usually are. Many who called out Bush, like the Dixie Chicks, got the same treatment. But they too were right.

    • @wanderinggeri8477
      @wanderinggeri8477 Год назад +8

      @Claude Charley She was very young and has apologized for that on several occasions. I like people that can publicly admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness.

    • @unowen-nh9ov
      @unowen-nh9ov Год назад

      @@rtorres4132 Pay attention, Amweicans have been @ war with one another before this country even existed, Jane wasn''t the only 1 against Vietnem, now you kill each in the streets, concerts, theatres & school grounds.

    • @unowen-nh9ov
      @unowen-nh9ov Год назад +2

      @@claudecharley9302 What about It, why do you think she made Coming Home?

  • @TITOFROG1
    @TITOFROG1 Год назад +211

    I love Jane Fonda and with this interview in which she bared her emotions, misgivings, shyness, etc., I love and admire her even more. She's one hell of a lady. Kudos and thanks Chris.

    • @silentmajority8365
      @silentmajority8365 Год назад +2

      a traitor

    • @user-ti3vp9mt3z
      @user-ti3vp9mt3z Год назад

      @@silentmajority8365 your shallow and one dimensional

    • @beyourself2444
      @beyourself2444 Год назад

      Was she now? Shy? Jane? Ok…

    • @chrispoe8404
      @chrispoe8404 Год назад +1

      She bared her SOUL, much like those pilots did writing notes to their families while being a POW. She took those notes and had them killed. SHES SO PRECIOUS! 🤣

    • @DemonDog444
      @DemonDog444 Год назад

      Jane is a complete idiot

  • @olgaelizalde5221
    @olgaelizalde5221 Год назад +1

    Thank you Jane for sharing your ❤️💜

  • @jenn280
    @jenn280 3 месяца назад

    The most real celebrity ever. Thank you for posting. A true and honest voice.

  • @THETRAVELGOD410
    @THETRAVELGOD410 Год назад +31

    I feel the same about life and regret

    • @youknowhowwedo1278
      @youknowhowwedo1278 Год назад

      One of her regrets was not sleeping with Marvin Gaye 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @nodnarb3540
    @nodnarb3540 Год назад +68

    I can only imagine how hard that would be to watch scenes of her dad. I lost my mom 13 years ago, and while it sounds nice on paper to have a massive archive video footage of her, I can understand how it would also be extremely hard to watch !

    • @christineblaszczyk1602
      @christineblaszczyk1602 Год назад +8

      Well I have trouble with pictures and tearing up, I can't imagine the pain and feelings of loss watching a Mother or Father on film.

    • @lyndi9082
      @lyndi9082 Год назад +10

      @@christineblaszczyk1602 same. She's 85 and still aches for her dad. That feeling is forever.

  • @carolyn8271
    @carolyn8271 Год назад +1

    This brings tears.

  • @thebelieverevolution2127
    @thebelieverevolution2127 Год назад +1

    Oh I love you Jane! Your my kind of person!

  • @bsquared4604
    @bsquared4604 Год назад +15

    she's so captivating.

  • @loulew07
    @loulew07 Год назад +23

    My WW2 22YR Navy vet dad never told me he loved me, but he told me in his own way saying " No one in this life will do for you like me " I miss my dad to

  • @cazi5759
    @cazi5759 Год назад +3

    WOW… that was the most honest interview with a celebrity I have ever seen. What an amazing lady, very impressive!!

  • @worldpeace8187
    @worldpeace8187 Год назад

    Absolutely wonderful interview!! Jane is a firecracker!!

  • @corazonagoncillo2699
    @corazonagoncillo2699 Год назад +22

    I have known Jane from cinema but knowing her up "personally" ,wow,she is real! amazing! what a great person!Thank you so much for this interview.

  • @bowtoyoursensei554
    @bowtoyoursensei554 Год назад +11

    What a remarkable conversation. So emotional an honest and raw.

  • @622barmacost
    @622barmacost Год назад +7

    Great interview!! She was so real in this discussion. And knowing she is basically shy and is terrible at small talk is comforting because it is something I have struggled with all my 67 years. Thank you Jane for being honest and sincere.

  • @georgebergamini1108
    @georgebergamini1108 Год назад

    Sending much love and blessings to you Jane 😊💚🙏

  • @bakenumber4
    @bakenumber4 Год назад +37

    What a fantastic interview. I think Jane got a bum rap during the 1970's but jane plz forgive yourself for not being the mom you wish you were. I'm sorry that your mom did to you too, you deserved better. It's unfortunate your dad was born during a certain generation that couldn't show love very easily sometimes, however you've learned where your shortcomings are and your doing something to change it for the better, you should be congratulated on the good work you're doing. I wish you well.

  • @jimdelong987
    @jimdelong987 Год назад +20

    Great interview...you gotta love Jane Fonda!

    • @ronaldmcrae4896
      @ronaldmcrae4896 Год назад

      Depends on your generation. We older folks have long memories.

    • @chasevaughn1804
      @chasevaughn1804 4 месяца назад +1

      This lady is evil

    • @bluejay9681
      @bluejay9681 2 месяца назад

      Her grave will become the home of competitive pissing

  • @interestinginfo6765
    @interestinginfo6765 Год назад +25

    There is something about Jane Fonda that just makes me cry. She is so fearless and honest and sincere and wise and beautiful and, and, and. I wish I could sit in the corner of a cocktail party and talk to her all night. I wish I was as brave as her. What a gift she has been to this world whether it has been through her activism or her entertaining us…she just keeps on giving. I love you Jane. Please live forever!!

  • @craigfurlow7692
    @craigfurlow7692 Год назад +85

    This woman has withstood a great deal in her lifetime. She's broken. And still trying to put the pieces back together. SURPRISE! She's human like the rest of us. Yet people continue to beat her up. I personally think she's a national treasure, and deserves her flowers. None of that other stuff matters anymore. This moment was touching.

    • @joygoncalves4917
      @joygoncalves4917 Год назад +9

      I’m on your team. Those of us that are compassionate are lucky and should be proud.

    • @jackienaiditch7965
      @jackienaiditch7965 Год назад +8

      Jane Fonda was only 35 years old when she sat on top of that North Vietnamese tank. She's now 83, and some people still blame her. Enough is enough! She's expressed her regrets, yet some will not forgive. Her openness during this interview was admirable.

    • @marlenepolinik3302
      @marlenepolinik3302 Год назад +4

      She's not broken. She is brave and so REAL. Her sense of the journey...wow. I have a few political differences...BUT MY global respect and admiration...have been steadfast for generations. I think God, may have broken the mold...
      Much adoration...I promise to follow your advice...starting, tomorrow.

    • @denisemartin3603
      @denisemartin3603 Год назад +1

      Why is she a national treasure?

    • @whitneydavis7443
      @whitneydavis7443 Год назад +2

      @@jackienaiditch7965 Exactly. And she didn’t really know what was going to happen with that picture. She didn’t know it would be used as propaganda. People just need to just leave her alone.

  • @lyndi9082
    @lyndi9082 Год назад +118

    Of course I cried with her. Missing a parent you love never goes away... at any age. Wonderful interview

    • @justinmartyr6045
      @justinmartyr6045 Год назад +1

      *Both of My Parents were Skuum!!!!*

    • @mikivanduyn9630
      @mikivanduyn9630 Год назад +1

      dont care they are gone...

    • @jamilgotcher5456
      @jamilgotcher5456 Год назад +2

      I miss my Mom every day. I had the honor of taking care of her in her last decade of life. Now I take care of my Dad. I love my parents so much. I had two husbands, can't see myself getting married again.

    • @carolynwoods
      @carolynwoods Год назад +4

      Touching to see Jane get emotional while viewing her father on screen. I am 63 y.o. I do not need a man & I am okay. Companion would be nice though. I miss my parents as well. So glad I was able to heal my relationship with them before they both transitioned.

    • @stavros333
      @stavros333 Год назад

      Please Don't Judge me because I love The Lord. In America it seems you can be Proud about anything Bizarre and Unnatural , Strange and
      Immoral except Jesus. Isaiah 5:20 warned us that a time will come when "Good will be considered Evil and Evil Good." Well I won't apologize for being Loud and Proud about my Faith in God. No Matter what you say or do to Me.
      ruclips.net/video/_9QNpmdQb70/видео.html

  • @scl5172
    @scl5172 Год назад +563

    It takes a pretty strong person to survive a father who barely communicates with you, his daughter, and a mother who commits suicide when you're 12. Jane is that strong, brilliant, talented woman.

    • @jaymass1178
      @jaymass1178 Год назад

      She's a traitor to her country

    • @themysterycook7320
      @themysterycook7320 Год назад +6

      She was soooooo beautiful in Barbarella!! a hubba hubba!!!!

    • @mhall801
      @mhall801 Год назад

      She’s a traitor. She should have gotten the firing squad.

    • @TheJimprez
      @TheJimprez Год назад

      It took me a while before I fund out that MOST families were at least as f'ed-up as mine... She isn't special, she is normal. Having a nice, tv family is a 1 in 1000 event. Even then, it's still fake, just look at how Dr. Huxtable really turned out.
      Cheers.

    • @Cwgrlup
      @Cwgrlup Год назад +8

      I’m looking forward to dying too. Jane looks amazing by the way.

  • @olgaelizalde5221
    @olgaelizalde5221 Год назад +1

    We have much in common Jane. I love you and God bless you.

  • @Elethyl
    @Elethyl Год назад +8

    I discovered her with Grace and Frankie and I have to admit, it is one of the best discoveries of my life 🖤 and listening to her, noticing some shared traits and quirks with her is an experience on its own. Thanks for delivering that 🖤👏🏻

  • @BarbieCatt
    @BarbieCatt Год назад +161

    How terrible to love your father immensely and receive no love in return is agonizing.

    • @ells80
      @ells80 Год назад +13

      I don’t think it’s that she didn’t receive love in return. She told us he wept and for many parents who parent in this way that’s the language of love and forgiveness they are able to share in a way (form) that is beyond the words.

    • @janet5135
      @janet5135 Год назад +10

      Love given in a different way

    • @jeffsansone7576
      @jeffsansone7576 Год назад +18

      Sadly, as she said, many of us from a certain age group, and especially Midwestern, had this as our "normal" from both mother and father.

    • @lordsatanicus1622
      @lordsatanicus1622 Год назад +3

      not to mention what he did to her mother

    • @jeffsansone7576
      @jeffsansone7576 Год назад

      @@lordsatanicus1622 what did he do? I hadn't heard anything about that?

  • @catherinelewis1951
    @catherinelewis1951 Год назад +10

    Jane, you my well not be afraid of dying, but you will be greatly missed.

  • @olgaelizalde5221
    @olgaelizalde5221 Год назад +1

    Is it one of the best interviews I have ever heard.

  • @harlantait3636
    @harlantait3636 Год назад +1

    Amazing Conversation

  • @mrgordy1980
    @mrgordy1980 Год назад +301

    What amazes me is how this type of pain doesn’t leave at no matter what age. My 84 year old mother still agonises over the dysfunctional relationship with her abusive father who is long gone. The human condition is something else altogether

    • @motheryuba57
      @motheryuba57 Год назад +12

      Hope your mom can find insight and peace over her relationship with her father. Most likely, he, too was a victim of horrific abuse and passed that along to her. I am 66 and have done years of deep inner work to deal with my father's abuse. I learned so much about what my father and his mother and siblings endured at the hands of his father. Who knows how many generations endured poverty, racism, extreme deprivation and abuse to get down to us. Healing, resolution, reconciliation and forgiveness and understanding are always possible.

    • @mrgordy1980
      @mrgordy1980 Год назад +19

      @@motheryuba57 that’s very true, thank you for saying. Funny how most of our life can be spent dealing with the first 15 years of it

    • @AriessunvirgomoonlightLibraise
      @AriessunvirgomoonlightLibraise Год назад +4

      I get it, my mom is like this but hides it because she's been threw a lot an was an over achiever ,, I have the same fate I don't talk to any of my siblings or family either an I have issue because of family, I'm the youngest an only girl so I get it

    • @rsmith-wr7hc
      @rsmith-wr7hc Год назад +18

      There is no pain like the pain a child feels. And we carry our child self around with us all of our lives.

    • @motheryuba57
      @motheryuba57 Год назад +4

      @@rsmith-wr7hc So tender and so true.

  • @merlinstwin7373
    @merlinstwin7373 Год назад +45

    Love her so much. There is so much hard won wisdom in her.

  • @southernrooster
    @southernrooster Год назад +1

    One hell of an interview. Thank you, Chris and of course, Jane.

  • @JoyceMartincream
    @JoyceMartincream Год назад +1

    Love you Jane ❤️

  • @picsburgh
    @picsburgh Год назад +58

    I want to be like her when I’m older.

    • @Cutedrawings2
      @Cutedrawings2 Год назад +9

      Yes, me too.

    • @immortalasirpa6006
      @immortalasirpa6006 Год назад +14

      Me, too. Although I'm already old. So I'll just wish I was a cool as her.

    • @spicyirwin5835
      @spicyirwin5835 Год назад +7

      Why not NOW?

    • @myman8336
      @myman8336 Год назад +2

      You'd have to change your gender and make it in Hollywood

    • @mhall801
      @mhall801 Год назад +2

      You want to be a traitor too? That’s weird.

  • @BarbieCatt
    @BarbieCatt Год назад +23

    She understands what life is all about.

  • @louiselaiacona8054
    @louiselaiacona8054 Год назад +1

    Thanks Jane. I feel bad you’ve may have suffered. What a a challenging upbringing. I think you’re very talented and you’ve brought me joy 😊

  • @franss7554
    @franss7554 Год назад +1

    Omg this got me crying in the middle of night!!

  • @TheAmyplumpness
    @TheAmyplumpness Год назад +44

    She has lead an amazing life!

  • @spicyirwin5835
    @spicyirwin5835 Год назад +17

    Jane communicating this helps so many! Ur life has been full of passion & trying to help the world. U did the best u could do at the time bc WHEN WE KNOW BETTER, WE DO BETTER! Parenting doesnt come with instructions we mirror what our parents did but u hopefully just opened souls WE CAN DO BETTER! Jane Fonda is not APATHETIC! God Bless & Stay Safe💜🙏💜💃

  • @marystonge2761
    @marystonge2761 Год назад

    Oh this is so wonderful! I love her! I relate to her. Shine on Jane!

  • @Sheila-2023
    @Sheila-2023 Год назад +2

    This was a great and very emotional interview..I love this lady and she is so sweet and strong and beautiful ..
    .

  • @debbeleigh1930
    @debbeleigh1930 Год назад +7

    Jane and Chris two of my favorite people! ❤

  • @thebuccaneersden
    @thebuccaneersden Год назад +15

    This is such an emotional interview. I teared up.

  • @giginy8697
    @giginy8697 Год назад +3

    I just lost my parents a couple years back and also cannot look at pictures, or the many videos I have… Jane made me remember what my mom told me - that the pain & missing will never go away… which surprisingly made me feel more at peace & like a normal human being. My mom had your workout book in the 80s - she had an intense professional life & was a lioness just like you, Jane! Thank you for your candid interview & your beautiful soul! ♡

  • @Myamirah
    @Myamirah Год назад +6

    She seems like such a nice, sensitive down to earth person. The people she found to talk to in the corner of room at cocktail parties were lucky to get to known her. Also she looks wonderful. I think she’s better looking now than when she was younger.

  • @deniserichard5613
    @deniserichard5613 Год назад +6

    I loved, loved, loved this interview. So real! So special! Thank you Chris for this! ❣

  • @conniesmith5161
    @conniesmith5161 Год назад +101

    I found that when you have situations like this with your father or mother and you feel distant, the only way you can go is back and I mean back to their childhood. I had two loving parents but they brought damaged into their marriage from their childhood. Actually unresolved damage. My mother was raped by her father and my dad had a deadbeat dad and a stepfather that beat him so bad and so much that he wound up being raised by his grandfather. There are things in our childhood that if we don't come to terms with them we can bring them into our children

    • @JudgeJulieLit
      @JudgeJulieLit Год назад +9

      Glad that you achieved emotional peace and normalcy.

    • @CT-vm4gf
      @CT-vm4gf Год назад +4

      Absolutely without a doubt, I see my parents in myself and I see the way parents treat their kids and it sad .

    • @ksc743
      @ksc743 Год назад +7

      I've never married, but it's interesting to see that my sister saw that our childhood was not what it should have been. She married a wonderful guy and they have two very happy, highly successful children. No life is idyllic but hers is pretty close.
      My brother, on the other hand, although successful and married to the same, wonderful woman, interestingly made the exact same parenting mistakes with their children as my parents did, and are still reaping what they sowed some 30 years later, which has resulted in much acrimony in their family. He and his wife are close, but their boys struggle with life.

    • @SUGAR_XYLER
      @SUGAR_XYLER Год назад +5

      ​@@ksc743 my sister and I both had our tubes tied a long time ago. We refused to pass our parents wicked genes

    • @ksc743
      @ksc743 Год назад +3

      @@SUGAR_XYLER
      No disrespect, but we can alter the course of past mistakes. I know many people who have done exactly the opposite of how their parents raised them. That must be so satisfying!! Not to say they won't make their own mistakes, but there are mistakes, and then there's plain neglect and deliberate power over those who have no choice but to endure it.

  • @jen6319
    @jen6319 Год назад +9

    It is also powerful for people to see that everyone has painful issues that are challenging in our lives. I think we assume bc someone is successful they don’t go through these difficulties. This is the most vulnerable I have ever seen Jane. I love you Jane. Thank you for always being a role model for us all. ❤

  • @Richard-xo2gm
    @Richard-xo2gm Год назад +1

    She is a beautiful human being. I love her so much. Thank you for this. ❣️

  • @donnaarnold9526
    @donnaarnold9526 Год назад +17

    I love her❤

  • @bambooblue74
    @bambooblue74 Год назад +16

    Amazing interview. Took away so much. This is the model for all real interviews.

  • @karenellis3039
    @karenellis3039 Год назад +1

    So sad, the bottling of emotion the stunted ability to share and express ……… so much love and respect for Jane Fonda ❤❣️❤️❣️❤️

  • @4696885415
    @4696885415 Год назад +1

    Watching from Oak Cliff, TX

  • @planetpjr
    @planetpjr Год назад +10

    She is amazing.

  • @bermudagirl5039
    @bermudagirl5039 Год назад +6

    Fantastic interview! I love and admire her even more - thank you Ms Fonda and Mr Wallace.

  • @francesclare8335
    @francesclare8335 Год назад +1

    Beautiful, honest interview - rare from Hollywood. Thank you Jane.

  • @cindycharest3035
    @cindycharest3035 Год назад +1

    Amazing, inspiring woman. I would love to meet her.

  • @laineyturner3785
    @laineyturner3785 Год назад +103

    Proof! The parental relationship is everything! And even at 80+ she weeps. Beautiful interview ❤

    • @ameliaerin1544
      @ameliaerin1544 Год назад +1

      There is nothing like a father and daughter relationship.

  • @maukasara808
    @maukasara808 Год назад +5

    Jane, you are such an inspiration and a cool and warm woman. Thank you for being you. Aloha.

  • @MsBluheart
    @MsBluheart Год назад +2

    Thank you both for this wonderful interview. I feel so much from Jane. What a gift.

  • @adrianonate4678
    @adrianonate4678 Год назад +1

    This woman is amazing! ❤

  • @dianejoel717
    @dianejoel717 Год назад +241

    I just love her. She’s one of the most authentic actresses that’s ever graced the silver screen.

    • @jetmirmetaliaj8521
      @jetmirmetaliaj8521 Год назад

      She IS a crazy libéral psycho

    • @jaymass1178
      @jaymass1178 Год назад +10

      She's a traitor

    • @mikivanduyn9630
      @mikivanduyn9630 Год назад +14

      @@jaymass1178 ohhh...please...
      you must have been perfect when you were young...

    • @Mikathedog100
      @Mikathedog100 Год назад +18

      @@jaymass1178 a traitor? Do you know the problems - medically and physically - that Vietnam veterans came home with? What the US put both their own soldiers and the Vietnamese people through was freaking horrific.

    • @oswaldcobblepot502
      @oswaldcobblepot502 Год назад +3

      "Not scared of dying" coming from someone who made it their life mission to strive against God.

  • @neptunesdreams
    @neptunesdreams Год назад +11

    CEN - Childhood Emotional Neglect - it's a THING. Thank you, Jane, for telling your story, and bringing attention to an issue that has been largely hidden until now.

  • @donnathompson3625
    @donnathompson3625 Год назад +1

    Blessings

  • @grafxgrl8030
    @grafxgrl8030 Год назад +1

    I love how honest and transparent she is.

  • @nothingworksworks3511
    @nothingworksworks3511 Год назад +8

    More conversational than an interview...really beautiful from two of our era's fabulous minds

  • @elizabethkusce2718
    @elizabethkusce2718 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love you Jane Fonda, you are a legend. I love tell it like it is , I love your honesty and your raw emotional truth. I’m so sorry about your childhood and I’m surprised your dad wasn’t more close to you after your mom passed. But I’m so happy you made amends with him before he died. I too loved my father but I didn’t get everything I needed from him . I was there when he was dying but he didn’t say anything to fix or close chapters no apologies. So I totally relate to you. I loved On Golden Pond. ❤❤❤ to you Jane.

  • @bernadettevelasco6323
    @bernadettevelasco6323 Год назад

    Very powerful. Thank you.

  • @EvesRevenge
    @EvesRevenge Год назад +14

    This is the saddest 😢 relationship between Jane and Henry, her dad, and the movie On Golden Pond was so touching! It's a classic and just priceless film. Love you Ms Fonda!!!!