What is love? A journey through the heart | Mia Hansson | TEDxDouglas
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. What is love indeed?
Born to parents from two different continents, Mia grew up and worked in Europe, Africa and South East Asia. Even while 'helping' her nuclear physicist father and geneticist mother at work, Mia had a hunch that there was more to life than science alone. Obsessed with finding the answer to the question of love she travelled through Tibet, studied jungle survival with Bruce Parry in Borneo, worked as a model in Paris, a journalist in Bangkok, and a human rights researcher in the Middle East, before going to live for a year at a Zen monastery. Finally, she found the answer - with unexpected results. Now a writer about 'spiritual life in the real world' and training to be a counsellor, Mia’s work has been featured in the Guardian, the BBC, The Huffington Post, Time Out, and as Editor to the Buddhist Society. She has an MA in Comparative Literature, three post graduate degrees and a Millennium Award from Jon Snow.
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This is a topic infinitely harder to talk about and more difficult to explain than Brian Green talking about super string theory to an audience full of non-physicists. Brian Green himself could not have explained a very difficult subject any better. This lady is a physicist of another sort; one of the heart and of what really matters, absolute reality! Because real typically normal life matters too!
Warren Spies >>> Very wise words. More relevant physics I would say. Brian Green doesn´t deal with physics on a more emotional level.
"sometimes we are far too often defensive and imagine that people want to hurt us, when they don't..."
Beautiful Mia. I've been do TM and it's advanced techniques in large groups at Maharishi University of Management for 33 years.
JON KIRKPATRICK hello Jon
I truly love your speech :) Thank you
Good talk thanks for sharing these ideas!
"There is a crack in everything and that is where light comes in." Beautiful. 💖
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Hello dr..can i talk with you about something
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When I was six years old my Dad went around the table asking us kids what was the most important thing in life. I forgot what I said, then discovered his notes--"love". I experience love with such intensity, the two romantic interests I had/have (first is loving as a friend now), they probably can't imagine how deep my sentiments are. Once I fall in love, I never fall out of love, it is with me forever. Once in a while, you stumble upon a soul that is breathtaking in its raw, unadorned beauty. Just being with them is such an incredible state of bliss, you don't fear death, you fear nothing, you feel safe. I am whole and don't need someone to complete me but when I meet a woman who bewitches me, she is always in my thoughts.
You write so beautifully and your open mindedness is amazing. Love it man
Thank you for being vulnerable and teaching .
Yeah she was really beautiful!!!!
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She brought tears in my eyes when said : we can get love from plants and other things ❤️ very true ! It doesn’t just come from people!
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Actually it is attraction . I mean love for plant animals or smth else
This topic is a lot harder to talk about because, to talk about love you have to true to yourself, open yourself to others. You see, today there are millions of people, who have friends and family but they ask, write, seek help anonymously.
Most of us have friends and family yet we are all alone. I wonder why, we can't open ourselves.
A brave, honest, inspiring talk by a Buddhist practitioner. Buddhism can seem very cold to some people, but here Mia brings a warmth to that most difficult of topics, relationships.
I totally agree with her speech, love can be a big surprise. Sometimes you don’t even expect that it is next to you. It sometimes take a time, you can spend time together as a friend, and after a few years it can change immediately and something magical happens… then you finally may feel how comfortable and full of good vibe you can be in relationship, you have to feel it. If you hesitate - is it a right person, and you’re worry about this relationship, If you have internal feeling that you want to feel more safe, stable etc. So. Go ahead and meet another person, the sky is the limit. This is only your choice, which life you want to create. Process of ending is very hard, but it is worth it, and than when you meet a truly love of your life, you are not hesitate, you just feel it in the air
(Self) Love is the desire to thrive, the will to live a full-filling life. Love for another is understanding and admiring similarities and differences to the end of living a full-filling life together.
Be honest to yourself, that's a good one.... we forget something so basic.
Frederick Noronha hello Frederick
Love is sacrifice, even if you are far from each other you will always find a way to get along with your girl.. spending time to each other.
LoveMe,com yeah unconditional love is all abt seeing other person truly a part of urslf.. And being happy :)
I wish I could......! I hope I can!
Wow! That was beautiful in every sense, Mia. I LOVE REAL! You are that, and the love that we all are at our deepest core shines soooo brilliantly through you! Perfectly expressed. Thank you for bringing this to a TED stage.
Mia has awakened to Love. It's incorrect to associate her with Buddhism especially Zen (or Sufism). When I had my own Awakening/Enlightenment I was put under various labels. Being unique cannot be captured by any religion. I hope Mia discovers this.
Agreed!
Dave Oshana Enlightenment Transmission Teaching lol no enlightened person calls themselves enlightened and then gives unsolicited suggestions to tedx presenters
Buddhism is the tool that got her there; probably the most "neutral" tool, which is important when the mind is impressionable because the soul is weak.
At the end of the day, we need one another to pass down illuminating though and also to share it. It's less likely that she could have done this on her own; she needed the support network of LOVE
Enlightenment Transmission Buddhism and jainism was born at the time when inequality and oppression by ellite class was prevailing in india it doesn't have nething except love to share..
I needed to hear this, though I pretty much share the same perspective, but I still learn from other people's experiences, especially when I can relate to it. Thank you for sharing this.
Hey guys I need your help, i was shopping with my friends in a group of 8, 3 boys and 5 girls and in that group i really wanted to buy her all the things that she liked, stuff like books, plushie,chips, etc. I know for a fact that I'm not rude and I'm always ready to help others but on that day i didn't know what was going on, I just wanted her to have everything that she liked! ( I have never been in a relationship, I was trying my best to deny myself from saying they don't deserve me and all the rubbish things, so at the end I'm lost as in, idk what crush is..) so if anyone is willing then can someone kindly clear this out. And she was trying to stick with me from before and she also defended me but later when we asked her she denied it. I'm absolutely lost.
And yes if you guys are wondering if I'm interested in dating then yes but I want to date someone who would be my spouse .
One of the best TED talks on this matter, thank you ♥
What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more...
Mia, thank you for sharing this lovely talk with us. I also would love to share how much i appreciated your vulnerability and the honest, kind way you talked. Your story with the plant made my eyes teary. For i long for such moments in my life and i feel so grateful when they happen.
Inclusiveness is such a great ideal. May our illusory sense of separateness melt away into the direct and tangible experience of our collective expanding consciousness.
Mia thank you for a fantastic talk. I was walking and this little dog jumped into my arms. I felt an unbelievable love, like you could touch it. I have not experienced anything like that in my whole life. I'm fifty. I will never forget it and look forward to experiencing it again. Thank you much
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Has anyone noticed how beautiful her voice is with that little tremble type of a feel!
Really loved the honesty she brought into the talk, you can tell she truly means what she says.
sorry but... Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more xD
TheStoryBro I was looking for this!
clicked on this vid just to see if someone made that comment. and if not, to do it myself.
Emilio!
If you want to know what love is look to Jesus.
Love between the land and other beings can be reciprocal, people don’t get that. Plants saved my life, they give me joy and hope
beautiful vulnerability and sweetness
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your vulnerability is so powerful. thank you!
Wow I really loved her speech... It was wonderful to hear her great thoughts.... Just amazing... Everything is a choice in this temporary world
.. That's what I believe... Some people are emotional and some not... Its all about the taste of a person that makes the person go forward and select the things which they want... Some gives importance to love some not,, some are into luxuries or money or any other passion... 7.7 billion of the entire world is different and unique in 7.7 billion ways every individual is different and amazing in thereown... For me iam not a emotional person & I don't give much importance to feelings or any such kind of craps...To love someone is a choice what matters for me is not to be harmful by any means...After all I have got one life in this temporary world and its not to get stick with one and to create some unwanted emotions but to enjoy my precious days in the way which I want by chasing my dreams and living it according to my taste and that's what I have to say everyone live a life In your way if it love or money or any kind of passion towards whatever it may go for it.. Its your life and its one time offer use it well rock it your best...live a rememberable worthy life before we depart from this earth... Keep rocking.. Luv u all
What a beautiful speech!!!
Thanks for your great insight.
I wish you all the happiness and prosperity in your life.
Thanks so much Mia. How lovely and brave
Love is simple. Have two people that are attracted to each physically and have similar interests. Let these people spend time together for 1 month and you got love.
That's romantic love. In a spiritual sense, romantic love is just a tiny fraction of pure love that's everywhere and in everyone.
The way she was telling her feelings i felt itz me.. same feelings
True love is the thoughts and deeds of benevolence. Period. Relation issues are one thing in itself, it's all about attachment and bonding. If there is true love in a relation, depends on if the partners are capable of giving and receiving true love, i.e. being benevolent to each other as well as to themselves.
Baby dont hurt, dont hurt me, no more...
How wonderful and beautiful, and moving, and vulnerable. We are all imperfect and seeing that at a deeper level, well, perhaps the light begins to shine in...
Mia Hansson, you are an incredible and beautiful soul.
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Wonderful - full of simple wonder. Thank you.
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baby dont hurt me
incredibly insightful and got me emotional . thank you xxx
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We can only come from one of 2 places,....Fear or Love...that's it. So,I choose Love almost all the time and it has served me well♡:)
Very eye opening appreciate your simplicity
This woman is 100% a childless woman. I may be wrong, but I'm only 3 minutes in.
The way my parents met was i guess...oldschool? My mom was screeching and my dad hit her in the head with a blunt object? Idk? Somewhere in a cave somewhere?
Baby Don't Hurt me, Don't Hurt me. No more...
To be honest life is a mixture of different ways of life and all of them are working and each of us have to travel on these paths to find truths hidden on these avenues of life. Strangely each of us when on different paths find essential truths to make life meaningful even sometimes we might contradict with our views because of our position on the map of life. Regards
This talk was absolutely beautiful. I don't know what to say..but thank you.
Sharing. information and thank. Love is knowledge of oneself
her accent is so graceful
“Let us have love and more love; a love that melts all opposition, a love that conquers all foes, a love that sweeps away all barriers, a love that aboundeth in charity, a large-heartedness, tolerance, forgiveness and noble striving, a love that triumphs over all obstacles.”
- Abdu'l-Bahá
Your dad knew that Denmark has no girls to marry and that's why he tried abroad 😂😂😂
Thank you, you give me love :)
Baby don't hurt me
I wanna meet my turkish language exchange partner too 😂
So beautiful!
You are me and I am you.
When she spoke of Indras net, and feeling like there was a protective hand over her it rung deep within me. I feel that same protection. Especially when I am at my lowest. The trauma I have experienced my entire life, quite literally, has provided me with the means of empathy & love. As long as I purely love and know that I am capable of it I am free.
Love is wanting more for somebody then they want for themselves
True love always mutual and something more...
Love is a friendship inspires by beauty and truth and sustains by loving-kindness.
The rule of friendship means that there must be a mutual understanding between them;
each supplying what the other lacks and trying to benefit the other:
Always using sincere and friendly words.
Therefore the expressions of love must be kind and gentle.
25 monks 50/50 guys and girls? That one poor sap!
real good one...happy to listen to those experiences
Filipino here! 👐
Buddhism is special!!! Don't believe what I am telling you, but prove it yourself.
This is inspiring. So emotional, so raw and honest
thank you so much. ... this really is the greatest speech I've ever listened or ever heard. thank you Mia
Omg I can’t hear you past 6 minutes
Your talking and to me it sounds like your crying and it’s too sad to hear
Sorry
I wish you Love and peace
wow. a twist in the fabric of love.
Beautifully spoken. It is exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks for sharing.
Exactly...!
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Baby don't hurt me
Celine Dion:
"I am in love; love is not necessarily to marry again; when I see a rainbow, when I see a sunset, a beautiful dance number, I laugh, I cry. I'm in love. I go on stage every night because I love what I do. I'm very much in love."
Waoo !!!
What a beautiful lady.
IDK about the light through cracks statement bc I believe light comes from within already so no cracks needed for light to come in....I think its already there, it's always there,and always has been.
Baby don't hurt me
❤ very beautiful!
Wow!! Thank you. AD.
I love someone but she didn't Now I am so said cause i don't now what to do what say i scared that she ganna say that she don't love me can someone tell me what to do please
"LOVE" is a broad sense that means connecting from one heart to another heart self-relation that's given about LOVE.- also give a different meaning
That’s amazing how much effort is needed from people to realise things they were taught in childhood.
Not gonna lie, I was waiting for satangcheoreom dalkomhadaneunde. Beautiful talk though.
Mia you shine, yourself, like the small plant you spoke about so clearly - Love cannot be taken it can only be given. Thank you.
love does not exist
Excellent!
baby don't hurt me
My grandparents met through international letter exchange at school too
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The Net of Indra!!! Fabulous Talk! Worth Pondering On!! BRAVO!!
Very good. Were is the monetary I'm asking as I'm in the same situation as you were.
beautiful
Thank you
This woman has achieved enlightenment.