Productivity in your Feminine Energy

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @LauraLangheinrich
    @LauraLangheinrich Год назад +74

    I am a teacher so to me being productive in my feminine also entails the way I hold myself when being around others. I think it’s such a gift when you’re able to walk into a room and bring a soft, relaxed and grounded vibe with you (especially when entering a stressful, hectic, busy environment) 🌺🌸 Just by talking more slowly, smiling openly and taking the time to LISTEN and respond mindfully can have such an impact on yourself and others. I always notice it how when I ground myself and lean back into my feminine, the kids in my classroom have an easier time to calm down and focus. 😇

    • @KalynsCoffeeTalk
      @KalynsCoffeeTalk  Год назад +8

      I swear I could feel the exact energy you're speaking of just reading your experience. I love this so much, I bet your students feel so warm and their intelligence nurtured around you ✨

    • @mariasibbio8844
      @mariasibbio8844 Год назад +1

      I am a teacher as well listening with this perspective. I struggle so much with getting overstimulated that I get out of my feminine energy. Any ideas around that?

    • @LauraLangheinrich
      @LauraLangheinrich Год назад +3

      @@mariasibbio8844 Oh I totally get overstimulated as well (I am highly sensitive so it happens easily sometimes). What helps me is creating an atmosphere that feels as relaxing as possible - sometimes I play meditation music when my students are working or I even do a guided meditation / breathing exercises with them. Depending on your school you might consider going outside with your students I find that really grounds me and it's less noisy Also making sure there are longer periods of time (depending how old your students are) in which they can really go into a deep work flow without me interrupting, walking around, distracting etc. This benefits my students AND it gives me a break during lessons I also make sure to set boundaries with students when I notice myself getting overstimulated f.e. during breaks my students often want to talk to me so I say "Thank you for sharing this. I also have my break right now and I want to relax. Maybe you can do something that's relaxing for you?" OH and one more thing - trying not to multi-task as much... I often catch myself using every tiny break I have to do something "productive" instead of just sitting, breathing, relaxing... Of course this doesn't always happen but I try to include it as much as possible! Hope any of this helps! xx

    • @acelestialwitch8512
      @acelestialwitch8512 Год назад +2

      Wow very lucky children ❤

  • @sophiaisabelle027
    @sophiaisabelle027 Год назад +65

    We will support this channel no matter what. May God bless all the people behind this.

    • @KalynsCoffeeTalk
      @KalynsCoffeeTalk  Год назад +1

      Thank you, bless you.🫶🏼 I hope I can live up to and deliver you something in return for giving me such loyalty and care.

    • @madisonbrownlee6971
      @madisonbrownlee6971 Год назад

      Amen ❤

  • @PinAda92
    @PinAda92 Год назад +7

    This new distance AND mic are perfect

  • @legallybrunettemee
    @legallybrunettemee Год назад +15

    To the person reading this I am so grateful to share this world with you

  • @annakostopoulos2542
    @annakostopoulos2542 Год назад +23

    I would definitely love more of these conversations! I needed this so badly today. I can sense that I’m going to get my period soon and I feel so much slower, needing rest, etc. I feel the need to embrace my feminine energy and be flexible with my expectations throughout the day, not rushing and pushing through even though that’s the opposite of what my body is telling me. Thank you Kalyn ❤

    • @KalynsCoffeeTalk
      @KalynsCoffeeTalk  Год назад +2

      thissss, we didn't even dip into the avenue of how this all links up to our cycles

  • @catherineosullivan6208
    @catherineosullivan6208 Год назад +10

    Absolutely relate to being so stuck in the masculine - buying into hustle culture, attaching my worth to my productivity.. along with avoidant attachment and need to be independent !! Still unlearning but it was really at a point where I could not rest at all

  • @natachaguyot
    @natachaguyot Год назад +3

    Having struggled with leaning into my feminine for years, this video is so timely as I have been leaning more, surrendering more. Being able to feel safe and trust loved ones (and ourselves) can make a big difference so we can let ourselves to embrace our feminine. Baby steps! Learning to accept support, gifts, compliments is still a challenge but I feel like I am making progress there even if it’s saying a heartfelt thank you without arguing against what is freely (and lovingly) given.

  • @kristynashleysmith8081
    @kristynashleysmith8081 Год назад +6

    Kalyn this was an absolutely beautiful chat. I love your perspective of finding productivity by diving deepest into our own desires and flow. It feels so organic and simple, but somehow we’ve lost touch with our abilities to do so. Thank you for the reminders!

  • @jacque8236
    @jacque8236 Год назад +1

    Love this! I admire that you present femininity in such a grounded, practical way. Often the advice out there for expressing femininity does not account for our work life and everyday ebbs and flows. Love your channel

  • @maggieruth
    @maggieruth Год назад +6

    This distance! I like that it feels like I’m on the floor across from you :) thanks girl

  • @Adinamfeldman
    @Adinamfeldman Год назад +16

    I definitely struggle to balance my masculine and feminine energies. I’ve been grinding and work and school for so many years, and I’ve been correlating value with productivity. As I finish my master’s degree I want to start dating again, and I think I’d be a better partner if I worked for that balance more.

  • @the.kate.outdoors
    @the.kate.outdoors Год назад +2

    Absolutely LOVE that you brought up not being rushed, and instead receiving. I own a drive through coffee shop (rushed and impatient energy to the MAX) and I’ve had to fight like hell to create peace within that and steer the energy around my business to be more relaxed and peaceful. Absolutely love hearing it from your perspective and love reflecting on the balance I’ve felt come into my own life over the years

  • @morganbeasley7919
    @morganbeasley7919 Год назад +10

    Definitely would love more on this topic as related to relationships! This is a dynamic I've definitely become more aware of the past couple years and hearing other women talk on this would be so insightful.

  • @cassandramichellecoaching
    @cassandramichellecoaching Год назад +2

    i love this distance! like you said gives even cozier vibes

  • @alexandrapanait566
    @alexandrapanait566 Год назад +1

    I think you have such a gift of bringing enlightened concepts and truth and putting it all together into a form that can be easily understood and taken in by other people. Please keep doing these talks and just sharing your energy and light with the world, we so need this right now. Your presence is so safe, comforting and peaceful. I came from a very toxic family, my mother being a genuine narcissist, and hearing and seeing you heal from a family pattern that was similar to mine, seeing how you overcame and grew into a vert stable and peaceful presence gives me hope and makes me feel like it is possible and that it will be ok. Thank you so much Kalyn. ❤

  • @jaidyn888
    @jaidyn888 Год назад +1

    i definitively like this distance! You always post at the perfect time. thank you

  • @rachelbaker960
    @rachelbaker960 Год назад +4

    I've always felt like yoga is a huge way that in productive in my feminine energy. It's good for my health and mind (has a tangible outcome) and yet it encourages all those yin traits, even when you're doing a Yang practice! 🧘‍♂️

  • @residentskmfk
    @residentskmfk Год назад

    I love the new distance. It creates a cozy vibe seeing you chill in your joggers! :)

  • @tofitta35
    @tofitta35 Год назад

    The Universe has it's ways... Today it dawned on me that I am border line burnt out. So I grabbed my journal and started reflecting why, as it happens every 6 months or so. And I realised that I push too much and I have way too high expectations of myself. I push, crash and burn. At the end I feel defeated, disappointed and ashamed. To compensate it all I push even harder, and I crash, and I burn all over again. I've been in this cycle for quite some time now.
    I am a millennial myself and I agree with you. We grew up with certain notions of what being productive and successful looks like. The masculine way of doing things is so far from who I truly am and since that's the only way I know how to 'be successful' I push for it and that never ends well.
    This video helped me realise that there is a different way to do things and that I can be productive, successful and fulfilled while leaning into my feminine energy and being more myself. I'm looking forward to explore it. Thank you!

  • @PatchaXEtaw
    @PatchaXEtaw Год назад +3

    I abandoned a relationship where I was leading my partner. It was tiring. Yes, I was fully in power. Felt on top. But over time I found out I don’t want to be on top, I do not need to be the leader of the whole machine. So I am happy I finally found me a man who wants to handle things. And I let him take the responsibility. Men enjoy it. And I think we should be fair and say that we enjoy resting, nurturing, cooking, making a home for them while they handle the heavy stuff, the hard stuff, the renovation, the book cabinet or the naughty child who just needs their dad as support.

  • @sierradawnhall
    @sierradawnhall Год назад +1

    Love the camera being further away! It feels much more cozy.
    Love the Taylor reference, love the topic and have been hoping you’d cover it again, and love that you had the courage to get a nanny! It’s obvious you love your son and give him the world, and getting a nanny didn’t change that. 🤍

  • @natalievanderheyden4315
    @natalievanderheyden4315 Год назад +1

    I prefer this camera distance over the close up. I like to watch the podcast on my TV and find the closer camera set up is too much. And now we can see more of your backdrop which is so nice ❤

  • @EJ-vn4pv
    @EJ-vn4pv Год назад +1

    Such a great topic! For me tapping into my feminine energy was definitely asking for support and letting go of control. I’m able to have love and confidence in others and my husband to receive and accept love and support. This was a challenge after years of hyper-independence due to unstable childhood conditions.

  • @shiranamsalem1312
    @shiranamsalem1312 Год назад

    Just yesterday I was contemplating why I have such a difficult time receiving. I am generally very in touch with my feminine- or so I thought. While it is true that I tend to be softer and in touch with my emotions, there is a lot that I keep guarded in order to avoid asking for help or seeming less than. And a big thing I was contemplating yesterday was why it is so difficult for me to accept compliments, praise, or attention. It has been a recurring observation, and this talk cleared up a whole lot of confusion within and resonated with my inner knowing. Thank you so much for sharing. I am incredibly grateful the universe led me to these words, which shed light on a whole lot of truth. :)

  • @marthazaremba7482
    @marthazaremba7482 Год назад

    the distance feels very chill and gives me coffee shop vibes :)

  • @elizabethknode4246
    @elizabethknode4246 Год назад

    I also got more intentional about the life I wanted to create for myself which lead to most tasks I complete in a day to support that. It made doing things feel less like a burden and more like self care

  • @acelestialwitch8512
    @acelestialwitch8512 Год назад

    Yes I love the concept that intuition and ideas come to us from a great source that is infinite and part of the universe. I always feel guided and supported in this energy it feels like a warm memory or home

  • @kelseycreating
    @kelseycreating Год назад

    GOORLLLL the timing! Im so happy seeing you on here a lot again 😍😍

  • @acelestialwitch8512
    @acelestialwitch8512 Год назад

    The hire help part; I am a single mum of two girls and I just went self employed as a illustrator while my two are in school. I’ve been building up my work for stationary for three years for my own shop but it takes time. I’m learning video editing, marketing, product design, so much! And I do try to take on a lot. The pressure to do this in the one year I have been given by registering as self employed in the uk, makes me put myself under huge amount of pressure to avoid failure. But I love how you explain this. Community was always the way and still should be the main focus . This video came up at the perfect time!

  • @aanchaallllllll
    @aanchaallllllll Год назад +5

    0:00: ✨ The speaker discusses finding a balance between productivity and feminine energy.
    4:25: 🔑 The speaker reflects on their experience of balancing masculine and feminine energy and the challenges of embracing their feminine side while still being successful.
    8:31: 🔍 The speaker discusses the concept of feminine energy, including intuition, nurturing, empathy, and collaboration, and contrasts it with masculine traits influenced by the patriarchal society.
    13:12: 🌟 The speaker discusses traits associated with feminine energy, such as attention-seeking, emotional intelligence, and surrender.
    17:32: 🌸 Feminine energy is characterized by flow, creativity, collaboration, receiving, and embodiment.
    21:31: 🌟 Feminine energy can be harnessed for productivity by creating rituals, allowing time for transitions, and seeking collaboration and help.
    25:42: 💪 Embrace feminine energy to manage time effectively and create a supportive community around you.
    29:52: 🕒 Managing time and being productive in feminine energy is about honoring oneself and embracing the moment.
    Recap by Tammy AI
    0:00: ✨ The speaker discusses finding a balance between productivity and feminine energy.
    4:25: 🔑 The speaker reflects on their experience of balancing masculine and feminine energy and the challenges of embracing their feminine side while still being successful.
    8:31: 🔍 The speaker discusses the concept of feminine energy, including intuition, nurturing, empathy, and collaboration, and contrasts it with masculine traits influenced by the patriarchal society.
    13:12: 🌟 The speaker discusses traits associated with feminine energy, such as attention-seeking, emotional intelligence, and surrender.
    17:32: 🌸 Feminine energy is characterized by flow, creativity, collaboration, receiving, and embodiment.
    21:31: 🌟 Feminine energy can be harnessed for productivity by creating rituals, allowing time for transitions, and seeking collaboration and help.
    25:42: 💪 Embrace feminine energy to manage time effectively and create a supportive community around you.
    29:52: 🕒 Managing time and being productive in feminine energy is about honoring oneself and embracing the moment.
    Recap by Tammy AI

  • @amberlyyeomans9522
    @amberlyyeomans9522 Год назад +1

    Wish i could like this more than once! Every video this year has hit where i am in life/what im struggling with. You really are opening minds and creating healthy conversations. ❤

  • @fayealh
    @fayealh Год назад +1

    good morning Kalyn! this is such a nice morning company! your videos make me feel inspired. 💖 Thank you for this!!

  • @chrissyhammerbeck4133
    @chrissyhammerbeck4133 Год назад

    I like this distance from the camera. I had to much on my plate last year and hired someone to work on the yard. They were budget friendly. And you are so right about people coming after you for that. That being said, I do struggle with accepting help.

  • @Forceprincess
    @Forceprincess Год назад +1

    I think over the last few years, I've finally been embracing that feminine energy. I left a job that was just go go go...panic mode...found a job that is more manual labor, but doesn't tax my brain or emotions. Since then, I've been more deep into my gardening, my art, my relationships. The privilege of playing with my daughter. And it is more productive in a way. Because I'm doing more stuff, but almost never in a hurry

  • @AnanyaLikhi-qp5ej
    @AnanyaLikhi-qp5ej Год назад

    I simply loved everything shared in this video:)

  • @rhiannonmarshall7488
    @rhiannonmarshall7488 Год назад

    I absolutely LOVE and needed this episode!

  • @amandac3362
    @amandac3362 Год назад

    1000% relate and feel and have felt this daily & nightly frustration since I was a teenager---thank you for making this

  • @rachelynette
    @rachelynette Год назад

    You just helped me realize that being so detached from my feminine energy has single-handedly been the thing causing so much misery in my day to day life. Thank you Kalyn 😭😭

  • @nicolesedran2688
    @nicolesedran2688 Год назад +1

    Hey Kalyn! Just wanted to hop on here and say thanks for this one. This is something I've been grappling with alot lately, trying to balance both energies and not burn myself out, so this episode just got to my soul (not to sound dramatic but it really did). Again, thank you ❤ Also would love a part 2 to this conversation.

  • @aseitzzz
    @aseitzzz Год назад +2

    Needed to hear that snippet about hiring childcare....struggling with that currently, and that just put so much perspective on my situation. Enjoyed this, thank you!

  • @alyseharisay
    @alyseharisay Год назад +1

    I think it's so important that you shared that you hired a nanny. I'm also a working mom, running a business from home to fully support my family of 4 and there's pushback for not being able to do it all. How are we supposed to be with our kids 24/7 and maintain a growing career? It's also wild to me that the shame comes from women who put the pressure on themselves to do it all, but no one ever shames dads for having help with the kids. Such a weird double standard.

    • @KalynsCoffeeTalk
      @KalynsCoffeeTalk  Год назад

      That's exactly it. I feel we were taught to somehow do and be both (a stay at home mom who creates and keeps a nurturing home while also working and building up a career). Combine it with maintaining your health, relationship, friendships and interests and its a recipe for burn out and failure with shame often baked into hiring or asking for help in any way possible (if you aren't lucky enough to have regular help coming from extended family, which many don't!) All power and peace to you in your journey of balancing both! ♥️

  • @shayleemartz7105
    @shayleemartz7105 Год назад

    I do like the new set up/distance! More real/ personal!!! Just hanging out with my girlie!!! Deep talks💜

  • @naagmatimakondu6352
    @naagmatimakondu6352 Год назад +7

    This was such a good talk!!! It really spoke to me and I would love to hear more of your thoughts and ideas on this 😊

    • @KalynsCoffeeTalk
      @KalynsCoffeeTalk  Год назад +1

      I'm so glad!! Any area in particular to dive deeper or just ~energies~ in general?

    • @naagmatimakondu6352
      @naagmatimakondu6352 Год назад

      I loved hearing your tips on how to build more care and flexibility/time to allow the creative energy to flow through… it was really refreshing to hear the tips because I traditionally associate productivity with those more masculine traits you mentioned. If you have stories or personal examples or more tips that would be so lovely!! Thanks again for sharing and keeping my mind and soul happy :)

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa Год назад +3

    Hi Kalyn good morning happy Thursday morning and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

  • @marijaRosie94
    @marijaRosie94 Год назад

    I love this distance, we are all in home edition, true coffee talk

  • @tessallations378
    @tessallations378 Год назад +1

    i think you described the millennial dilemma really well with being raised with contrasting ideals (traditional with a huge push on career). i really wasn’t taught the beauty and strength of femininity . thank you!

  • @acelestialwitch8512
    @acelestialwitch8512 Год назад

    Ah it’s nice to be back 😊☕️

  • @bellarosevisions
    @bellarosevisions Год назад +2

    love the distance. It feels closer. :-)

  • @CherryBerryFashion
    @CherryBerryFashion Год назад

    I’m drinking some good Colombian coffe ❤️ I just realized how much I missed watching your videos, so happy to be back here, enjoying a beverage together ❤️❤️
    15:50 this is SO good!

  • @hippie_spirit
    @hippie_spirit Год назад +2

    I just love your presence 😅

  • @audearthling
    @audearthling Год назад

    just what I needed today. Thank you

  • @tessmorgs
    @tessmorgs Год назад +1

    I like the distance view fyi!

  • @TheBeautyMage
    @TheBeautyMage Год назад

    Best Video EVER!!! I am hoping to come into the energy to afford a nanny... If you are not stressed out with your child. You can have more and better quality loving time with your child.

    • @KalynsCoffeeTalk
      @KalynsCoffeeTalk  Год назад

      Absolutely agree. Childcare is also wildly expensive, I pray you get all the resources you need to make it work ♥️♥️

  • @leahellyson
    @leahellyson Год назад +1

    I prefer the distance cause I love your pretty long hair!!

  • @OliviaPlummer
    @OliviaPlummer Год назад

    Huh, this really resonated with me. #Thankyou #fullmoon #crystals #raisethevibe

  • @silkbuttons
    @silkbuttons Год назад

    You have so much natural masculine energy

  • @Thelady30
    @Thelady30 Год назад

    💯 agreed with everything you stated in this video.

  • @bigamae
    @bigamae Год назад

    You mentioned women used to be the gatherers. There's actually been research recently saying that is grossly inaccurate and that women actually hunted but did it differently. I'd love to hear your thoughts on how the different styles might align with feminine vs masculine energy.

  • @camillakrack6735
    @camillakrack6735 Год назад +1

    Great graph at 1:16, did you create it?

  • @cassandramichellecoaching
    @cassandramichellecoaching Год назад

    i would love more of these conversations!! has anyone read sacred instructions by sherri mitchell? that was one of the first places where i really began to understand how the masculine and feminine are meant to be balanced on a community-wide level

  • @rachelbaker960
    @rachelbaker960 Год назад

    Also thanks for your amazing content as always 🧡

  • @chhavimonga
    @chhavimonga Год назад +1

    Since you asked my coffee of choice today is a sour grape vodka lmao

  • @jenniferlynnwaters
    @jenniferlynnwaters Год назад

    I like this distance :)

  • @SimoneLandrum
    @SimoneLandrum Год назад

    Thanks this was beautiful

  • @lexiexcatxcoaching
    @lexiexcatxcoaching Год назад

    I like this distance.

  • @jaidyn888
    @jaidyn888 Год назад +1

    i think it would be a really cool chat if you would be able to maybe start with something broad like femininity and instead of coming back to a point, allowing yourself to branch off into different conversations to see where your mind goes and maybe even get some divine knowledge to come through you without as much structure. it would be interesting to see what could happen. much love and peace

    • @jaidyn888
      @jaidyn888 Год назад

      id also love to hear about your hair care!

  • @dylanhamilton3225
    @dylanhamilton3225 Год назад

    Your philosophy on flow reminds me a lot of Disney’s Soul

  • @flori-bloom
    @flori-bloom Год назад

    Thank you for this topic and all the inspiring videos you've been posting, especially as of late.
    While I loved this video, I would absolutely love if you could touch up the other side of the coin - where one is overly feminine and finds it difficult to "activate"/nurture/improve upon the masculine energy.

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 Год назад

    Drinking ginger 🫚 tea and lemon 🍋.
    Let’s talk 😂😂😂

  • @shaunasigren
    @shaunasigren Год назад

    i like this distance.

  • @Mishamelle14
    @Mishamelle14 Год назад

    I love these types of talks and would definitely want to hear more!
    Can anyone maybe suggest good books about the emotional body or chakras that's insightful? Would love to get into it, just don't know where to start :)

    • @KalynsCoffeeTalk
      @KalynsCoffeeTalk  Год назад

      Yes!! Check out “The Body Heals Itself” by Emily A. Francis for the emotional/physical body connection and for a deeeeep dive on chakras check out “Anatomy of the Spirit” by Caroline Myss

    • @Mishamelle14
      @Mishamelle14 Год назад

      Thank you sm!! 🙏

  • @elizabethg1056
    @elizabethg1056 Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @teriamurkins555
    @teriamurkins555 Год назад

  • @jordanrintoul-thomas722
    @jordanrintoul-thomas722 Год назад

    I'm drinking iced coffee.

  • @JG-di8oi
    @JG-di8oi Год назад +1

    I like it further away (:

  • @Forceprincess
    @Forceprincess Год назад

    I watch your videos on my TV. So this distance is a little bit like we are sitting together in NY living room

  • @MoxieRose444
    @MoxieRose444 Год назад

    Closer

  • @KayRang
    @KayRang Год назад +2

    Surprising that women came at you for seeking help… maybe they just aren’t moms and don’t understand it

  • @spruceandhemlock
    @spruceandhemlock Год назад

    Not sure if I agree with blaming capitalism or the concept of gender roles. When humans turn 18, we need to feed, clean, and support ourselves. Capitalism or Communism.

  • @megcreates2.0
    @megcreates2.0 Год назад

    I hate Lume! It smells the worst on me 😢

  • @THECHANGINGPODCAST
    @THECHANGINGPODCAST Год назад

    your hair are beautiful🥰