How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection | Brian Tracy
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- Опубликовано: 19 июл 2017
- More than 99 percent of adults experience the fears of failure and rejection. They are often times caught in the trap of feeling, "I can’t, but I have to." In this video, I will share my proven 4 step formula for overcoming these fears and changing your attitude from negative to positive. bit.ly/2tjYKzq
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Copy-Paste Cheat Sheet:
1. Define the problem or situation you're worrying about clearly in writing
2. Write the worst possible outcome
3. Accept the worst possible outcome
4. Begin immediately to improve upon the worst
Thank you, Brian!
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I look forward to it as well, Coach!
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your continued wisdom never ceases to amaze me
Thank you so much Mr. Tracy.
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This is the first video I’ve seen from Mr Tracey. Love this wisdom. Time to dive deep into Traceys channel. 🌊
Brilliant,Brian...
Thank you Mr Tracy.
Thank you for your Tips
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There is much wisdom in your words, i appreciate your work, thank you!
Thank you so much Sir
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I love this topic
I have been listening for so long that I found myself using these steps without knowing it was from you! Thank you for all your practical wisdom.
Thank you for this video Mr.Tracy. You are awesome!
thank you sir....
This is actually a great technique, amazing
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Thank you, Brian. I really like your quote at the end of each video.
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Hmmm... I really like this. I've actually known of the first 2 steps for awhile now and they've definitely helped me in overcoming a number of obstacles. I've always written reflections whenever I've had built up feelings inside me and simply the act of writing has relieved a lot of that tension. Elliot Hulse taught me in one of his old videos the 2nd part. "What's the worst thing that can happen and can you live with it?" "Now what's the best sting that can happen and can you live with it?" This comparison and contrast like you said in regards to the first part makes one come to grips that the worst is not as bad as it seems. Like you said, it's resistance to realizing the worst possible outcome that causes the most anxiety. Never identifying the worst causes the worry to stay swirling over and over in our heads because we haven't pictured what the worst can be. And what the worst can be seems a lot worse and scarier than it really is! I can definitely relate to that as writing out my problems has helped me come to grips that the worst is really not that bad and upon realizing that gives me more courage to take that action.
Upon finishing your video, I've come to understand better the mindset people have when it comes to taking a risk. People naturally take the action when they feel that have a high chance of succeeding aka getting their desired result. An example would be starting and finishing a project. That factor is the main reason people take action. Another factor is that the "bad" things they think can happen have a low chance of happening. The higher the chance of having "bad" results, the riskier the action becomes and the less likely they will take it. Their assessment of these 2 characteristics are the main things that determine whether they take action or not.
So now your 3rd step is accepting the worst possible outcome. The key part about that is that when one fully does that, the aspect ofin the possibility of having the bad things that could happen lose its power. That aspect becomes meaningless and as a result, anything above that becomes good! Accepting the worst means that you have so much gain from taking the action and having nothing to lose, because what you have to lose means nothing anymore. Losing an opportunity, money, or whatever stops having an effect on you that would really cause you to lose what's important: your self-esteem, self-love, confidence, and so on.
Well, in the end people will usually not be able to have "nothing to lose." Failing will still hurt like it naturally does, but by following your method, the pain that would be produced is lessened by a lot.
To conclude this simple 6 minute video taught me a lot. I will definitely apply this technique towards overcoming my fear of giving a lecture in the cool chill Hispanic style here in Puerto Rico. I will have to do it in Spanish and after living in the US for 14 years of my life, Spanish stopped being my primary language and needs some work. My worst fear (the worst possible outcome) that could happen in giving a the lecture in Spanish is losing my train of thought, and then having my anxiety freeze up my brain causing me to become unable to finish the lecture, causing an abrupt finish and humiliating myself in front of all my peers. The chances of that happening are slim, and even if that were to happen, upon coming to grips and really being able to identify the worst possible outcome, I've been able to eliminate that fear of rejection. Before identifying the worst, I assumed that I'd lose friends' love, the group's support, and I'd become an outcast. But really that would never happen as even if I fall, the fact that their genuine people and genuine Catholics, their unconditional support would never waver.
I thank you Mr. Tracy for this wonderful insight and I know when the time comes, I'll ready to give an amazing presentation.
Great one, thanks for this video!
Thank you for you videos and steps to follow. YES...
Thanks 👍
Great content. Thanks
Thank you!! You have made my life easier to manage with all your methods and advice.
This video is so true, deep and accurate, kudos to your work.This helped me a lot!
Thank you Brian! This video will help someone i know who is facing this issue.
Thank you Sir, your plans are very practical and easy to follow.
Wow incredible, I enjoyed this, I'll keep listening to it untill it seats on the Word of my spirit.
Thank you sir
Extremely life changing for someone like me❤
Thank u so much Brian 😍😍😍
Thanks for this video sir. Your every video help and guide me a lot during my failure period.
I actually need this video right now ,
Thank you so much Brian sir ,
Love from India.
You are beautiful. You will solve a problem 99% are dealing with. Thank you!
Thank you, sir. You are the proof of an ongoing contribution. I will learn from you!
Thank you Mr. Brian Tracy. You are a blessing. God bless you.
I fear my finals tomorrow but this advice has made me feel much more confident :)
Brilliant video, very useful and practical steps
What a genius and humble man ! I always watch your videos as habit to learn from you . God bless !
Thank you Sir, exactly what I was looking for (:
Really helpful tips...I will try this method out to overcome my fear of rejection and also social anxiety. Thanks Mr Tracy!
Love you Brian, Wish you the happy and healthy life ahead.
I like this man. I like the way he thinks. Because he thinks like me. He's not afraid to face the worst possible scenario. He's not another "optimist" who just goes around telling me to: "don't worry, be happy" or: "think positive" or something you might as well tell someone to get a gambling addiction.
No. He's right. Even my worst case scenario is not too bad. I can live with it. And I can improve it. I like this. This man is smart. And wise. He doesn't mess around. He doesn't talk fluff. He's not another one of those notorious "RUclips gurus" of "success" or "motivational speakers" or one of those people who say: "you can do it!" Or one of those people who tell you to do this and this and this, and you're guaranteed success or some other nonsense like that.
This man genuinely understands my problems and genuinely has my best interests at heart in how to resolve my issues without enslaving me into his philosophy or methodologies.
He's won my trust. He's one of the few people I wouldn't have any reservations about recommending to the people I value as human beings.
Thank you for your genuine service to humanity, sir.
He nails the explanation and the steps are good steps. In my experience though with myself and with my clients it takes a few more steps to fully overcome this fear.
So helpful. Exactly what I was looking for 👍🏾 I have been fearful of how people could judge me after being assaulted.
Got rejected from a job today. Felt really down then I watched this video. Feel so much better now
Tq Brian Tracy
I wish to meet Brian Tracy one day. You are a legend Sir.
Very beneficial
Keep inspiring people..You are heaven sent! You are deeply appreciated.Thank u so much.
Very valuable and insightful.
Thanks brian this techniques really works you are a very good mentor. I leaned a lot with your videos
Loved Your technique sir.....it helped me remove my fear of talking to new potential clients in my business.
Thank you
You are really an inspiration... Looking forward for more good speech's...😊
Simple and profound advice.
Wow video...with immediate outcome. Thanks 😊
Sir Brian..i learned a lot from u..And youre like my father who advises me..Im truly grateful to God for u.
Finishing my AP English Summer Homework thx a lot for what you said, I saw a majority of videos to assist me, however yours was the only one that cause me to do action.
These suggestions is very helpful ! I apply these formula ! And now my mind is clear ! These is amazing tips !
Thanks sir sharing your valuable experience and motivational ideas.
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I can do all things!
I studied the Psychology of Achievement years ago but it makes more sense now...thank you Mr. Tracy!
Your voice is so captivating and thus ine can listen to you for the whole night and day, especially because if the wisdom you possess. Thank you Brian. Regards: Brian Seweya 😊😊
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I send you many thanks, sir ... from Egypt ... I hope one day come to Egypt and meet you ... my best wishes for you Tracy
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This is an important message for backbenchers.
Tracy is analysing a complicated issue,by offering concrete solutions.
Ever thank ful to you for these kind of constructive solutions
Will surely work out this technique as I am currently experiencing a severe fear of rejection. The message reached out to me at the right time. Thank you, Sir.
Brian Tracy. You are a genius.
Well that's really very helpful
This is good. Points 1 and 2 especially.
Thanks Vivian from Nigeria
This method has helped me so much I’ve had better outcomes to the situations!!
Thank you Sir.!!! I´m going to apply to my life and theach to my family.
Muito Obrigado
Thank you from Brasil!!!
Amazing video! I went through this exercise and realized that as I was going through it I don't know what I am worried about. I am going to spend some time identifying my fear because the one I listed for the exercise did not seem to speak to my fear. Looking forward to what I find :)
My greatest fear is fear to face unknown prospects . I'll try this method tomorrow and edit the results. Thank you : )
As always, Thank you Brian for the insight!
Thanks sir
Nothing helpful more than Inspired and valuable lessons. Thank you so much, Mr Brian Tracy. Wishing you all good health. Your meaningful lessons will never fail to inspire and motivate people all over the world overcoming their struggle to achieve their goal.
...from Vietnam
Overcoming is the main solution
Thank you from Chile
You're welcome, Daniel!
i like your each words ....you are my first teacher from whom i get chance to learn more about success...can you give some knowledge about the people who dont know value of helping other and being rude........lots of respect and love sir....
Superb 👍
My biggest fear was people finding negative videos on the net about the direct selling company I’m associated with, resulting in my friends distrusting me.
I got over that fear by deciding to talk to them about the negative media first and explaining to them why I felt the videos or articles had feeble ground.
thanks sir, it really help me a lot! :)
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Thanks for watching, Suzaku!
@@BrianTracyOfficial and have been sharing them to my loved ones and as a teacher I am thinking of showing these videos to my students in daily basis. Appreciate you very much. Keep posting your great work. ♥️♥️
We got to face our fear. We can let fear control our life our we move towards our fear.
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This exercise is allowing me to bring my fears to the forefront. These fears revolve around my separation and possible future divorce. My worse case scenarios are all not likely; however, it is good to be cognizant of the possibilities; good and bad.
I can ; everything is possible 😁
Mr. Tracy. Sus enseñanzas son muy atrapantes y simples para aprenderlas. Lo encuentro en uno de sus seminarios traducidos. Aprendo inglés para poder entenderlo mejor. Un gran saludo desde Argentina. Y muchas gracias por su aporte al mundo!
worth realy.
Nice video I will surely follow your steps to your overcome my current problem. Thank you Sir :)
You're welcome, Lavanya! I am happy you enjoyed it.