5 Self-Love Habits for the Holidays 🎄

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  • Опубликовано: 1 ноя 2020
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Комментарии • 133

  • @amy_lee
    @amy_lee  3 года назад +328

    if someone comments on your weight, just eat them. 😋

  • @milky_quartz
    @milky_quartz 3 года назад +181

    The part about setting boundaries with family being seen as rude!!!!!!! latino families think you're being rude AND stuck up for saying something as simple as "I would not like to discuss this topic right now" . Its like walking a tightrope because u have to choose do u let ur family chip away at your mental state passively or do I set a boundary which will cause definitely cause a fight, anger, and tension, thus regardlessly still chipping away at your own mental state

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  3 года назад +11

      I felt this so deeply >_

    • @gabbyruiz9859
      @gabbyruiz9859 3 года назад +1

      THIS!! ^^

    • @chiaradelia829
      @chiaradelia829 3 года назад +1

      As an Italian girl I feel you

    • @leona5543
      @leona5543 3 года назад +1

      Mine is the same and we’re British

    • @fluxusjpg
      @fluxusjpg 3 года назад +1

      Yesss black families are like this too 😭 its so awful bc sometimes its truly a lose lose situation 😔

  • @joymae
    @joymae 3 года назад +111

    The holidays can be so hard for many. Sending love to everyone during this challenging year.

  • @heyitsLizzy
    @heyitsLizzy 3 года назад +60

    “And if someone comments about your weight, just eat them.”😂

  • @alwaaysbeyouurself
    @alwaaysbeyouurself 3 года назад +47

    Your content is so sacred to me! It feels like you're a friend whos talking about emotions and very vulnerable but urgent things nobody else in my place wants to talk about with me, thank you so much!!

  • @stellatheestar
    @stellatheestar 3 года назад +29

    your big sis energy never fails to bring me comfort, I love uuu

  • @lannah6285
    @lannah6285 3 года назад +8

    Amy has been thriving recently, after her hair transformation I feel like she has been loving life so much more, she looks like a new person and i'm for it

  • @DaisyShaz
    @DaisyShaz 3 года назад +14

    I honestly have so much anxiety dealing with my family during christmas holidays.I feel like they unravel all of the self growth i do throughout the year😞

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 года назад +38

    omg this is definitely the video I needed!! Holidays are a very anxiety filled time of year for me (seeing family and relatives can be super hard) and I definitely have been working on coping mechanisms and things I can do to soothe myself so i'm less anxious

    • @kiara_lofi
      @kiara_lofi 3 года назад +3

      I see you often haha

    • @jokesonyou222
      @jokesonyou222 3 года назад +1

      @@kiara_lofi I was just boutta say thatt:)

  • @CynthiaCho
    @CynthiaCho 3 года назад +58

    WHEN AMY COMES AT YOU WITH AN AMAZING QUOTE THAT FEELS SO PERSONAL AS SOON AS THE VIDEO STARTS 😩💖

    • @gobadbltch
      @gobadbltch 3 года назад

      Hey if you wanna try yo get back into being happy no joke my video might help not even to advertise my channel but I really struggle with being happy after being depressed and some times it comes and go now cuz I been in a good space for a long while now but I all the things I said in my video really helped me with haunting control over my life again ❤️ ruclips.net/video/0qgZyFtuSdg/видео.html

  • @juliialopez
    @juliialopez 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for making this video. I struggle so much around the holidays because of family. In general, it's often draining to give so much of my energy to people I feel like don't deserve it. I am too still learning how to set boundaries and being okay with it. Thank you for shedding light on this topic. It's so nice to know that I am not alone. 💖

  • @carriesun1793
    @carriesun1793 3 года назад +4

    totally agree that boundaries are difficult to set, especially in Asian households. when family friends ask "how much money do you make" or comment on your weight, it's difficult to navigate away from those conversations. this video definitely helped me realize there ARE ways to avoid those topics

  • @JuliaGaik
    @JuliaGaik 3 года назад +12

    Amy! The shorter hair looks amazing!

  • @Lee-nz7oi
    @Lee-nz7oi 3 года назад +13

    This is my therapy session. Much needed and appreciated❤

  • @honeypotfilms6066
    @honeypotfilms6066 3 года назад +25

    can we pls talk about this girls style tho?! she’s rlly perfect
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  • @carolinacastelan3094
    @carolinacastelan3094 3 года назад +13

    you look incredible Amy, lots of love
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  • @ryleaholbert1814
    @ryleaholbert1814 3 года назад +1

    Is anyone else so captivated in how she speaks and how her mind works ? She so wise and smart and knows what she wants to say and how to say it , so inspiring ❤️

  • @BlancheTecson
    @BlancheTecson 3 года назад +2

    That coat is sososo cute. The first tip is soso true. Once you start to become more aware and enlightened, you become more sensative and its a lot harder to carry a conversation when you dont feel comfortable encouraging it or brushing it off

    • @HeyAsdfg
      @HeyAsdfg 3 года назад

      This comment is everything..... Ever since I started therapy and my self-healing journey I've feeling as if I am exaggerating everything, but I'm probably more self aware ? I've been thinking alot about this lately, so thank you 🙏

  • @rhythmicelegance4670
    @rhythmicelegance4670 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for the tactful response solutions, from someone who usually reacts to rudeness rather aggressively (which doesn’t always help the situation).. 😬

  • @kiara_lofi
    @kiara_lofi 3 года назад +14

    And why do we need this video?
    Cause self love is IMPERATIVE TO SURVIVE! And some families just be doing to much lmao
    Happy Holidays to all!!
    Love u girl💕

    • @gobadbltch
      @gobadbltch 3 года назад

      Hey if you wanna try yo get back into being happy no joke my video might help not even to advertise my channel but I really struggle with being happy after being depressed and some times it comes and go now cuz I been in a good space for a long while now but I all the things I said in my video really helped me with haunting control over my life again ❤️ ruclips.net/video/0qgZyFtuSdg/видео.html

    • @kiara_lofi
      @kiara_lofi 3 года назад +1

      @@gobadbltch lol I'm happy thanks anyways ♥️

  • @planetakarina
    @planetakarina 3 года назад +2

    this video was so informational and helpful. i also feel like boundaries is the hardest one for me specially when it comes to conversations

  • @MathildeG
    @MathildeG 3 года назад +1

    I love the Holidays 🎄, but it can definitely be draining at times!

  • @AnaS-of8ri
    @AnaS-of8ri 3 года назад +11

    You're always right on time love! I really needed this

  • @vsvids2210
    @vsvids2210 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for this video Amy! The holidays have been really difficult and sad for me ever since I lost my mom a few years ago. I felt pressured to spend time with other family, but they ended up not being the best support system for me personally. I recently made the decision to spend the holidays alone to focus on my own healing and at first the concept of being alone during the holidays made me feel so sad. Just the word “alone” has such a sadness in my opinion. But this video really opened up to me that I’m making the right decision! It’s not about being a loner, it’s about needing space to heal. Thank you so much Amy❤️

  • @floridagirl432
    @floridagirl432 3 года назад +1

    Please give us more vlog content! I’m dying to know how you’re adjusting to your new place.

  • @gracielaglows
    @gracielaglows 3 года назад +10

    So happy to see this title on a beautiful day, when I’m so ready to learn (: you’re awesome great job !

  • @MelonMuse
    @MelonMuse 3 года назад +1

    This was a much needed video, thanks so much for talking about this! I'm also in the process of learning what my needs are, how to set boundaries with the people that I love, and a recovering people pleaser! It's especially difficult with Asian families because I feel that speaking up for what you need is seen as being disrespectful to your elders 😥

  • @didu2689
    @didu2689 3 года назад +1

    Dude I am soooooooo grateful for you and your content, it's hard to explain into words!

  • @BeeSemaj
    @BeeSemaj 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for this. I typically don’t set boundaries because I haven’t found out how to do so without seeming rude but the list of boundary examples you made is perfect!

  • @grannyblitz5130
    @grannyblitz5130 3 года назад +6

    I loved this talk! I love that we are preparing for the holidays from November this year 💗

    • @gobadbltch
      @gobadbltch 3 года назад

      Hey if you wanna try yo get back into being happy no joke my video might help not even to advertise my channel but I really struggle with being happy after being depressed and some times it comes and go now cuz I been in a good space for a long while now but I all the things I said in my video really helped me with haunting control over my life again ❤️ ruclips.net/video/0qgZyFtuSdg/видео.html

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 3 года назад +3

    ❤ be Kind to yourself always, be free and be you 🌸
    Love your hair ! 🤩

  • @MariaClara-it8bw
    @MariaClara-it8bw 3 года назад

    your videos give me so much peace ❤

  • @fluxusjpg
    @fluxusjpg 3 года назад +3

    I needed thissss ive been so worried about being around my family members this season bc ive been butting heads with them lately so yeah I definitely needed this reminder to take space for myself to avoid hurting them and being hurt myself 🥺 thank you!

  • @vevict
    @vevict 3 года назад +1

    Love you so much. You are part of my self-care routine, you always help me to look inwards to work on myself and to break (and to keep on braking) the cycle of violence I've been since birth ♥️ my soul thanks you the most

  • @pentominoes3609
    @pentominoes3609 3 года назад

    This video was so needed right now! I recently found your channel and am so thankful for all of the resources and love you share.

  • @mariahisabelle
    @mariahisabelle 3 года назад

    thank u for the warm reminders right at the beginning of holiday season

  • @rudig5698
    @rudig5698 3 года назад +9

    Needed this 😍

  • @LC-cw2wx
    @LC-cw2wx 3 года назад +1

    Just bought a mindful journal because of your self care segment in this!! Best of luck and love to all of you during the holidays!

  • @kara265
    @kara265 3 года назад +1

    heck yeah! ending the year strong with love

  • @jpocket7330
    @jpocket7330 3 года назад

    You're a breath of fresh air. Keep doing you, girl.

  • @seohyun4815
    @seohyun4815 3 года назад +1

    I was stressed about school but amy your video is literally healing me 🥺:) thank u for being who you are always!

  • @karina7599
    @karina7599 3 года назад

    Thank you for this. You came at the right time and so I’ll take this as a sign from the universe.❤️

  • @raynaperry1779
    @raynaperry1779 3 года назад +1

    Needed to hear this. Thank you for your channel!!

  • @angelikabatwoman
    @angelikabatwoman 3 года назад +13

    Hey Amy since your passion is self development I wanted to know if you're interested in topics related to sustainability or veganism? Cause when I started on my spiritual/self discovery journey I noticed how my compassion grew beyond myself and humanity and I started to care more about the clothes I wear, brands I give money and attention to and about all the horrible things that happen to animals every single day. This isn't meant to say you have to do all these things, I just noticed that on myself and was wondering if you are interested in those topics. 😊

  • @isabelaaguilar7394
    @isabelaaguilar7394 3 года назад +1

    This is such an informative and we'll thought out video!! I am also in the process of discussing these topics with my therapist, particularly setting boundaries with my family members. Asian culture is such a tricky situation to navigate. When you hold space for yourself, you give yourself room to have love and support for those around you. I especially love the idea of creating new experiences and traditions in adulthood. Christmas has always been a sad and lonely time of the year, so I resonate with this idea.
    This was a really great video Amy and I've loved watching you evolve and grow. Hope you are settling into your new place and that you have a good day!! 💙

  • @avawilkinson4296
    @avawilkinson4296 3 года назад

    LOVE YOU AMY. all your videos are like a breath of fresh air that bring me peace, confidence, and contentment

  • @gabbycantskate
    @gabbycantskate 3 года назад +1

    your channel is so uplifting and your videos are so accessible and always remind me to keep exercising the tools I learnt in therapy everyday!! hope you’re doing well throughout this pandemic and best wishes for the holidays ❤️✨

  • @thankfuljohn2979
    @thankfuljohn2979 3 года назад

    Thank you, Amy!🌹

  • @RosaDaniello
    @RosaDaniello 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for always spreading good vibes 🥺

  • @viola6562
    @viola6562 3 года назад

    Woah this color suits you so well😍 you look phenomenal! Lived your tips especially about settling boundaries. Thanks sis💞

  • @lead8174
    @lead8174 3 года назад +1

    First person to like the video and I am not regretting it. Thank you for your good vibes during those times

  • @Irene-in9nz
    @Irene-in9nz 3 года назад +2

    THANK YOU AMY!! i didn't know you were THIs into spirituality, i'm a healer myself and i LOVE shamans, tarot, reiki, and more!! its nice to know someone out there knows what reiki is too!!!!

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  3 года назад +1

      Yes!! Lol I’ve been learning to read tarot on and off for 2 years and I rly love the readings on RUclips- hope I can get to a point that I can do them too 🤣🤣

  • @kaileypaige6802
    @kaileypaige6802 3 года назад +4

    I can already tell by the intro I’m gonna like this video :))

  • @riceshineshow
    @riceshineshow 3 года назад

    Love yourself first! Amazing video!

  • @denicev5740
    @denicev5740 3 года назад

    Thank you!!

  • @xoexoticxo8424
    @xoexoticxo8424 3 года назад

    thank you for this video!!! and your hair

  • @symphoniecameron
    @symphoniecameron 3 года назад

    thank you soooo much for this video🥺

  • @HighlitesYoga
    @HighlitesYoga 3 года назад

    another killer video amy !

  • @kamilazaba7280
    @kamilazaba7280 3 года назад

    beautiful make up Amy !

  • @user-fg6hg7ds1v
    @user-fg6hg7ds1v 3 года назад

    Your hair is stunninggg & thank u baby 🤍🤍

  • @Justgabbyyy25
    @Justgabbyyy25 3 года назад

    This bought flashbacks that I will always regret doing. But yes, I agree with everything you said :) I’ve set boundaries and I don’t regret that.

  • @d.d.2127
    @d.d.2127 3 года назад

    I just wanted to say that I love you !! I feel proud to be one of your subscribers (and old one, been here since the beginning)! Sending u love from Belgium ❤❤❤

  • @toholdandfill
    @toholdandfill 3 года назад +1

    I love ur intro music makes me feel like I’m marching into self love~

  • @Hazellites
    @Hazellites 3 года назад

    Love your videos!! Keep up the great work!

  • @IvyJadeBucher
    @IvyJadeBucher 3 года назад

    Yesss new Amy video ❤

  • @gracielaglows
    @gracielaglows 3 года назад

    Also beautiful outfits omg

  • @Yesu_l
    @Yesu_l 3 года назад

    i love the blue and collar bone length haircut!! 💚💚

  • @raayjayyy
    @raayjayyy 3 года назад

    Thank you.🥺💓

  • @blueberrymuffin113
    @blueberrymuffin113 3 года назад +2

    The thumbnail ist beautiful 🥺🌸

  • @agnerukaite5742
    @agnerukaite5742 3 года назад

    thank you Amy !!!!!

  • @glorianamartinez2356
    @glorianamartinez2356 3 года назад

    thank u for this

  • @leanneowen3134
    @leanneowen3134 3 года назад

    Needed this❤️

  • @user-ez5iw4ng7v
    @user-ez5iw4ng7v 3 года назад

    I love your outfit and style 👍

  • @juliawale4294
    @juliawale4294 3 года назад

    thank you for this

  • @radamesboscolo
    @radamesboscolo 3 года назад

    You anthem of colors!!

  • @idobevibintho2252
    @idobevibintho2252 3 года назад

    amy!!! you are amazing ♥️ love from finland

  • @lashtastics
    @lashtastics 3 года назад

    I am older than you but you’re the big sister I never had 💕 much love from Canada 🇨🇦

  • @marla422
    @marla422 3 года назад

    thanks for sharing

  • @KateEliza6
    @KateEliza6 3 года назад

    She said just simply ✨eat them✨

  • @tatamarienoelle
    @tatamarienoelle 3 года назад

    thank you

  • @sophcowley6733
    @sophcowley6733 3 года назад

    Love u so much

  • @anacristinasoto8961
    @anacristinasoto8961 3 года назад

    I’ve never been so early ❤️❤️

  • @raregodcards
    @raregodcards 3 года назад

    Goodmorning Amy!

  • @marammaaroufi6093
    @marammaaroufi6093 3 года назад +1

    You're so beautiful Amy!❤❤👑

  • @thandochristinamkize556
    @thandochristinamkize556 3 года назад

    Hair colour 😍

  • @lapushbabyitslapush566
    @lapushbabyitslapush566 3 года назад +1

    you’re so classy!

  • @moreofmansoor
    @moreofmansoor 3 года назад

    I honestly wish you’d wish understand how much this video meant to me 🥺🤍.

  • @theLilly9987
    @theLilly9987 3 года назад

    thanks for this video!

  • @Sally20101
    @Sally20101 3 года назад

    Hi Amy!!...😍😍❤❤

  • @hyurisa
    @hyurisa 3 года назад

    pretty thumbnail 💙

  • @sadiereich6759
    @sadiereich6759 3 года назад

    Where did you get those pants?? I’m in love with them and have been looking for a pair that makes me feel like a rockstar Edit: the ones you paired with the hard rock tee

  • @MOON-pe4jm
    @MOON-pe4jm 3 года назад

    Almost cried. I dont have family to do holidays with:( it's a very lonely time during the holidays

  • @anonanon7553
    @anonanon7553 3 года назад

    Have you looked into intuitive eating?

  • @MaxGr33nfan
    @MaxGr33nfan 3 года назад

    My sisters are my biggest triggers. I just stay away from them. I have to maintain my peace.

  • @Saran2701
    @Saran2701 3 года назад

    OMG people pleaser i am...being too nice

  • @EciiAmeAlexeciaBernard
    @EciiAmeAlexeciaBernard 3 года назад +3

    I cant find the person in the comments who writes down her main points ..HELP lmao I just got my pen and paper after watching everything loll

  • @moreofmansoor
    @moreofmansoor 3 года назад

    4:47

  • @anonanon7553
    @anonanon7553 3 года назад

    What were the initial reasons you went into therapy?

  • @paralight17
    @paralight17 3 года назад

    GIRL YOUR LEGS. DROP THAT WORKOUT ROUTINE

  • @CHARISMA7171
    @CHARISMA7171 3 года назад