Feeling alienated and left out is awful. It can drive people to anger, despair and sometimes violence. It's especially hard when you're a sensitive soul who feels deeply. I'm so glad you've found your way, Tim. It shows strength to admit when we need help. Keep going and keep having these important conversations! You're a bright light in the world and we love you !!! ♥♥♥
Thank you Tim. I wish I had heard someone like you when I was a kid. I never even heard the word "depression" until I was 17 and it was like a revelation. Then I understood what was going on in my head had a name - but it took many more years before I could come to terms with it. So don't be overwhelmed, but if you feel you need help, please get it. And keep posting your videos because they help a lot of us as well!
Incredibly important video. I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you for having the courage to share your feelings, experience, insight & and awareness, and for initiating this conversation. Continued blessings to you, young man. Congratulations on everything you have accomplished thus far and congratulations in advance for all that is to come. Have a beautiful Christmas with your loved ones and a very prosperous New Year! 🙏🏾✨️
I have depression too all my life and now I exercise. I got myself a step board and just learning to do it and am so enjoying it. Got to 10 mins of step aerobics and feel so good about my self. You r a good young man and be proud of yourself and you r a asset to the world. Thanks for telling us. I appreciate how you r dealing with it. Would like to hear also how your twin managed, kids as twins and And were small hey it takes time to catch up. I worked in the premature ward years ago and these people now r doing great so thanks for the positive talk
Tim you inherited you're Mamma's toughness and you're Grand Daddies wisdom. I am glad you have a positive testimony, too many people are victims to their pasts. Keep on keeping on .
Tim, these comments say what I feel. You're an inspiration to so many! It can't be easy to share painful memories, but you have the desire to touch and help others. I'm so happy your journey through this difficult life keeps going in the right direction. Oh, and as someone here mentioned, how many can say the President of the United States contacted them to give his support?! 💝
Tim you may have faced difficult circumstances when you were young. I think maybe you were a shy child. But to think how far you have come is inspiring. Not everyone gets a call from a president…. But President Obama reached out to you! I don’t think any of your former classmates can claim that. Thanks for opening up about your struggles. I’m sure it will help other young people that have similar feelings. Stay strong 💪 and keep developing. You deserve peace and happiness. Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones 🙂
Woah I feel like this video found me no 🧢 loll .. I just randomly decided to watch one of yalls old reactions then when I looked back I saw y’all uploaded this. I have been struggling w seasonal depression recently so I’m looking forward to this && just know u not alone & I’m happy you overcame ✨stay strong ✨
Depression is a nasty b****. Especially around holidays. God bless, dude. Love and respect from the 217, our house to yours. EDIT: Premature myself, small kid, 10 years getting bullied and beat up in school by groups of bullies. Now dealing with depression and anxiety, realizing I was also undiagnosed adhd, possibly mild autism. Didn't find real respect from peers outside my close friends until my late thirties (shout out to my black belt brothers, never dreamed that would be me as a kid). So proud of your open attitude and your honesty.
BTW. You and Fred got me through the covid shutdowns. If I didn't start watching ya'll, I wouldn't have managed. I loved seeing you react to the music I grew up with. It brought and brings so much joy.
Before I finish the video, let me say how I enjoy these conversations you have with us. Of course probably 90% of us are 40 and up, so we have lived more life and can either relate or have figured out more ways to help, other than what you already know now. Y’all got thousands of RUclips parents ❤️
When I was a kid it brought me down because I never fit in in school. Kids can be really cruel if you dress different or have different ideas. I saw how they looked at me and laughed. I know what that rage is like. However, I too found my happy places. I learned that those kids were the real losers because they missed out on who I really was, Depression hurts but love heals. You can find it and believe in yourself. You are an amazing guy because of all you endured. And yes Tim. Never ever prejudge.Youre a diamond in the rough. Merry Christmas 🎄
I'm praying for you baby boy. God has you. Never lose yourself to this evil world. God has so much in store for you and I'm rooting for you and your brother. You are a beautiful soul and offer so much light to this world. Stay strong, pure and true to who you are and everything will follow. God bless you papito 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Proud of you for sharing with us. I suffer from depression since my mom passed in 2009. Holidays are the worse. I don't get invited anywhere for Christmas or Christmas Eve and it really sucks. I didn't buy anyone presents because I don't have extra money for it. God bless 🙏. Merry Christmas Tim and Fred. 🎄🎁🎀🎅❤️💚
I lost my mom in 2007, so I understand any day as well as the holidays can be tough to get through. Please don't feel the pressure because you can't give material items or haven't received invites. You can give back in other ways, such as filling your free time helping others that may be lonely or in need. Volunteer at shelters, food banks, nursing homes, hospitals, or orphanages. Help the elderly or disabled veteran's with chores or walking pets. Read to kids in libraries. Anytime you concentrate on helping others, it takes away from sad thoughts. You also get to meet new people and get out of the house. You can end up finding your purpose in life. I continued my mom's traditions of helping others and it kept her memory alive. Do things that make you happy. Take one day at a time. I pray abundant blessings for you as you experience all that life has to offer!!!
Timothy, I think a lot of kids went through a version of that, not fitting in, and having only a few friends. I was not really into sports, aviation was my thing and building models. My happy place was climbing on the roof with a small spotting scope and watching airliners flying into LAX. That and riding bikes with my friends to watch takeoffs and landings at the local airport. All of that led to a career in aviation working on airplanes, and later writing about them. In 7th grade my English teacher told me I'd never be a writer. Well I later cowrote two books that were published, and many articles on commercial aviation, and became an associate editor of a aviation magazine. For years I wanted to track that teacher down and dump a pile of my published material in front of him, but finally I just let it go. As for RUclips, no one told me I would not be able to do it, but would have not been surprised if they were not thinking it. I just considered YT as a personal challenge to myself, and now I cannot imagine not doing it! Anyway those who doubted you about RUclips Timothy, I seriously doubt they will think twice about doubting you when you put your mind to something again! Anyway, another great video! 🎯
I am proud of you and your twin. I am glad you are reaching out to others. That is very brave and commendable. Just remember if it ever creeps back in, don't feel defeated, reach out for help. MamaKat is always hear to talk it out. I've had depression since first grade that I can recall. In 4th grade, 1976, mental health was taboo. The school told my Mom I needed to talk to someone. She said absolutely not. Thank God they did bring someone in any way. I remember her name and our time together. I still try to get my mother to understand my mental health with added on head injuries and trauma Survivor. She still doesn't want to hear it, and I'm 56. Painting is my escape. I am so extremely proud of you.
There's a saying that 'empty vessels make the loudest noise'... in society we really need to value deeper, more thoughtful introverted people. You're really helping people to feel that they can open up about their own feelings by sharing all that you've had to deal with Tim, thank you for your honesty❤️🙏
I think the fact that you listen to such a wide range of music with an open heart is proof that you don't judge a book by its cover. You are walking the talk, behaving the words you say, instead of just saying them. I love to watch you finding a new song that speaks to something in you, you are so open to the joy that comes from music. Watching you is reminding myself that as much as I hurt, I must be open to find joy.
If there's one thing you are not, it's dumb. Thank God you found your words, and are able To use them in such a constructive, empathic way. You are definitely being guided, sweet man. Don't ever stop listening to your angels and your guides.
One definition of depression is “suppressed anger”. So you’re experience makes sense. I really hope mental health services improve. Another old doctor said to me “Stress is the mother of all illnesses”. Life is rough and so unfair for many. Thanks for sharing Timothy. You’ll help others❤️
Anger is often one of the more obvious signs of depression in children. Psychiatrists used to believe kids couldn’t get depressed but now we know that’s not true. Being quiet can also signal withdrawal and social anxiety. My own daughter is brilliant (high achiever) but suffers from depression and anxiety and has battled it since she was about 15. Now in her mid 30s she is stable but every day is a battle to remain on an even keel.
Being a high achiever/gifted has its own drawbacks - mostly because you understand the world differently than most. Also because there's little to no room for error, externally nor internally, the pressure for perfection can be debilitating. Even as an adult, it's difficult to let up on the reigns. I was an honors kid who also had ADHD. When I was coming along in the 80s & 90s, ADD/ADHD wasn't a thing. So, I was constantly disappointing people with my "laziness", lack of organizational skills, being disruptive, etc. I was also always high anxiety and highly empathic. I had such a low self-esteem in high school, I wanted to die. I was sure I wouldn't make it to 30. Most of my friends and family never knew my mental struggles because it was such a stigma. I rebelled in my own way - mostly with malicious compliance trying to find my own power. But overall I was a good kid, almost too good of a kid. Only now are professionals finally looking out for neurodivergences in gifted kids. My gf also grew up gifted but had a missed dislexia diagnosis until she was well into her teens. Her parents and teachers also thought she was being lazy or making excuses for not producing her best. My twenties were worst; I knew what I had to do and had the altitude to make it happen but...just couldn't. It was paralyzing. I went through even deeper depression, even with counseling and antidepressants, I was barely keeping my head above water. I was finally diagnosed with ADD just after my 30th birthday. I tell people, without my meds, my brain is like the DC spaghetti junction with no gps - or like one of those hidden object puzzles, lol. Now, there's clarity and I'm better at keeping to task and completing previously overwhelming tasks. Now in my 40s, the depression and anxiety are still there but a lot more manageable & better treated. I don't feel the need to constantly prove myself or place unnecessary pressure on myself to please others. I don't set unattainable goals and I'm still working on letting go of things and not punishing myself for less than optimal choices. All that to say, even (and especially) when things are going perfectly, check on her. Around holidays and other important anniversaries or dates, check on her. Celebrate the tiny things. No matter how old we get, we still have your voices in the back of our heads & still -even secretly- long for your approval. So sorry this is so long.
Tim, I have to tell you, when I was a kid in the 70's, my mom, dad & grandparents always said, "do unto others as you would want them to do unto you", which basically is, you don't want someone to treat you bad, so don't treat them the same way. The way it's quoted is a Bible verse & I feel bad that at this moment as I comment, I can't remember where it's found!!! My youngest daughter is a mental health clinician & co-responder, partnered with a police officer. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). She LOVES her job because her thought is that if she can help someone get on the right track by getting folks help, whether its medications, seeing that they have resources & who they can call, the phone numbers, etc. She feels like she can move mountains when she helps someone. That means she doesn't want folks to be locked up in jail or DEAD!!! She's seen some pretty awful stuff, like completed suicides. When she arrives on scene & if in time, that person usually calms down with her, she's also ridden in the back of an ambulance to help an individual stay calm & she lets them talk, cry, yell, etc. When they go to the ER, the doc usually talks to the person, my daughter, the officer & the paramedics on the ambulance to make sure that this person is going to be ok. That person is usually released after a few hours if all goes ok & within 3 days, my daughter & the police officer follow up with the person to answer any questions they may have. She's got a lot more things she does, like forensic psychology, targeted violence-domestic & international, works occasionally with the FBI, etc. Btw, she wears a kevlar bullet proof vest every day she's on duty, 4-10 hour days, unless on a call. She's the only co-responder with one of our local police depts & they reached out to her when she was at a different city & they want her to get a crisis response team up & running. The job is very rewarding, I couldn't do it, but if everyone who thinks about suicide or something else, I would hope they would reach out to the resources that are everywhere in the nation!! Tim, I see you as a councilor, you've really have come far from your childhood!!! You're doing great with talking about your depression, but I see skills in you, my young friend!!! You're doing great Tim, keep up the great work!! Merry Christmas, Happy New Year!! 😎👍🏼☮️❤️💚🎄🎁🎇🎆🥳🥂🍾
Tuesday morning my wife of almost 15 years passed away. I'm not just depressed, I can't even"feel" anymore. I am not suicidal but feel like I'm losing my sanity.
I'm so sorry for your loss and understand your profound grief. 😔 When you're ready, you might consider talking to a grief counselor who can help you develop a new spiritual relationship with your beloved wife. May she rest in peace.
Tim: I am thankful that you didn’t give up. I hope you’re able to grasp how amazing your life experience has been. You grew from being a kid who was viewed as dumb and not worth much to a man who people want to meet, a man people listen to, and a man who even interviewed President Obama. You are someone to be admired and respected. (Don’t forget all the people you helped to make the shut-down during the pandemic more bearable. You did that.) I appreciate you and the man you are. Lou
Thank you for being YOU!!!! You and your brother are amazing people to me and I love All of the videos, whether they are funny stuff or serious like this video. Just keep following your own path and let the rest go. GOD'S GOT YOU!!!!!!
Tim, I'm so glad that you found your happy place and then began (and continue) to thrive. Do you have ANY idea of how much happiness you bring to others? Your channel has brought so many people together, especially during the pandemic. You put smiles on ALL of our faces as we watched you and Fred being open-minded enough to listen to and react to music you'd never heard. At a time when none of us could go anywhere, we could visit your channel and ENJOY the content. It was a refreshing change then...and it STILL is. God bless you for the light that shines within you and radiates outwardly to everyone. I don't know everyone's religious beliefs; so, I'll say Merry Christmas AND Happy Holidays to you and everybody that's watching! Peace and love to all...😘🙏🏾❤
You guys really have grown up on you tube. Hey you had the SNL skit about you both. You had President Obama call you. Be proud of yourselves. You've come far.
You add infinite value to this world, young man. ~ I hope you continue to strive for balance and meaningful moments for you and your complete well-being. ... Thank you for sharing the content of this important video. ... I see you, ... I hear you... and, your life, your thoughts, ideas and feelings... matter.~ Take care and remember that toxic and unnecessary comparisons and assumptions, and speaking negatively about yourself and within your mind, can do more harm than good. ~ Peace and goodness to you and your loved ones. xoxo ... I hope you see this comment.
I am so thankful we are in a time where mental health is talked about more, because so many people, including myself, have struggled at some point with our mental health. It really is just like having an issue or something wrong with your physical body, we would seek help for that, but when it comes to mental health, peoples views towards that tend to be so different and quite often it's not talked about, and most don't ask for or seek help for fear of what people will think, and suffer in silence. Being an introvert is not a bad thing at all, it's just how you're wired and that's okay but I'm glad you found your voice and decided where you would like to use it because look at you now and all the people you help! I am curious to know how your twin handled what you were going through. As mentioned I am a mother of twin daughters your age, (thelovetwinsss) and we all enjoy and watch your videos and they both had somewhat similar experiences in school as well. Similar only in that they would view one of them as more introverted and the other extroverted(which is true) and would have certain judgements and expectations of them due to how they viewed them. They didn't have bad experiences due to it, but I use to talk with them about if and how that affected them because I could tell at times it would. I just wonder if your twin knew what you were going through or feeling at the time. Thanks for being so open and talking about such an important topic.
You're a good man. It takes a lot to recognize depression & your symptoms. Life is a journey, ours are all different but we can always help others to see their life is priceless & worthy. Hugs to you sweetheart. Hope you and your family have a nice Christmas and many wishes for a Happy New Year. 🎄🎅🕯⛪️😇❤️❤️❤️ Hearing you say people said "I didn't know you could talk!" Made me smile & remember when I was young I was SUPER shy. When people would talk to me my throat would close & my mind would go blank. I was always called a snob or stuck up. It hurt because I really wasn't but just couldn't talk. I'm 52 now & you can't shut me up! Lol.
It is okay if it returns. Get help as long as needed, no matter how many times it takes. For many, it is never overcome but managed as a part of life in the background; while living a satisfying life in the foreground.
I’m so sorry you went through that. I can certainly relate to being depressed as a child from bullying. My escape was reading. Thank you for sharing this and I hope you and your family have a blessed Christmas!
I always went to the gym 6 days a week and walking my dogs everyday after work it helped so much when i was feeling sad and lonely and i didnt have any one to talk to. I also grew up in a non cursing home so cursing wasnt natural in my vocabulary some kids will see you different but i also saw them different because they cursed to much and thought im glad i dont talk that way. Im glad you found a way to let your energy out, these videos your putting out might help people to help themselves to not hurt themselves.
More young men need to have the strength you showed here to be vulnerable and talk openly about your mental health. You have grown to be such an incredible young man. Happy new year. The best is yet to come 🎉🎉🎉
Tim, you are a class act. You are more motivated and stronger than most people I know. I admire you for taking the time to share your personal experiences. Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Tim this is what a lot of people go though I feel everyone goes though something in life, By you talking about it, this is helping you heal and your helping others with your words of inspiration and I am so proud of you and your brother just putting it all out on the table, God Bless you and your brother Fred Happy Holidays to you and your family, that’s right Tim!! Keep pushing for your dreams, I am excited to see how far you go. Your going to get everything you wish for and your dreams, I can see you felt a little emotionally talking about this, you need to talk, great video love the talks😊
Introverts listen and take time to think things over before talking, and when they talk it's often a well thought out response. Unfortunately Extroverts often walk all over Introverts and don't give them time to express themselves.
Dear Tim, It takes Courage to speak with such honesty! I discovered you through your videos sharing your reactions on many musical titles (and my favorites are those on Queen!). 🤗 And this recent video proves that, despite all the things you’ve been through, and suffered, you have chosen to share joy and hope! I’m french, and i write to you from Reunion Island (a tiny island near to Madagascar). And in french, the word « courage » comes from the word « coeur », which means « heart »! You have a kind heart, Tim! Preserve it well! That’s precious! Florence
YOU ARE NEEDED. I'm 66. An old white lady. I know my birth privilege of ghostly pigment. I am not rich with income but with education. And my greatest knowledge has come from other people, who they themselves may not have formal education, but they have soul, spirit, love to give and most of all morals. We are all part of this life puzzle, some pieces are the edge or foundation that gives it shape, others are obvious, pointing out extreme life pictures, others surround those to provide contrast, and most pieces seemingly fade-in to make it all come together, without getting overly noticed, appreciated, or acknowledged. BUT WITHOUT THEM LIFE IN THIS WORLD PICTURE IS INCOMPLETE. Don't underestimate how your life connects with and completes this thing we call life. You are valued.❤️
WOW!!!! From a "premy" to a champion!!!! You are a real light to any generation......You are the definition of a real MAN!!!! God has blessed you and your brother and you should ALWAYS be an inspiration to others as you mature in life!!! THank you for sharing your testimony......
Thank you for opening up the topic of depression. A lot of people including myself go thru it during the holidays as well as every day. Stay strong Tim. You are blessed and thanks for using your platform for greatness.
Bravo to you Tim on opening up on how you overcame depression, I think your struggles became your stepping stones that lead you to your accomplishments in your young life, "Let it all out" you say but don't take it out on your loved ones, I agree, some of us need to have that breakdown in order to have a breakthrough to finally see that light that leads us into the right path; I am glad that you overcame those struggles and continue to reach out to your viewers via RUclips to not only share the wisdom you've gained so far but to also motivate others to do the same, Stay strong Tim, keep up the good work in everything you do, you got this! May you and your family continue to be blessed with love, happiness and good health. Merry Christmas! ☮💕🎄
Timothy thanks for for another power session this one hits deep and close to home for me we can't let are past determine our future we got to let go and let God in spite of what we been through or going through Timothy we go tto live a Purpose Driven Life finding something that drives and motivate us for the better like you doing RUclips Channel it help you get through the anger and dark days that's was bottle up inside of you iam so proud of you for over coming those struggle's in life keep.grinding not let anything or anyone hold you back remember let this be your learning Tree much love ma boy
Tim the best thing to do is not to listen to people. If you say you want to do something and they can’t do it they’ll say you can’t do just like you said👌🏾✊🏽👏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
I never fit in at school either. But I found a group of kids to hang out with that had similar interests. This helped, because it’s not about being popular, it’s about how strong can you be by yourself. And it’s good to have a few friends that you can count on. I asked my niece the other day how many good friends does she have. She said 3. It’s not about the number it’s about the quality. Can these people in your life help you through the bad times? That’s what you want in life.
Tim, you are a smart, strong and insightful young man with a lot of motivation and a great encourager for any of us who needs a word of encouragement. And who doesn’t. I love your perseverance and your courage to not believe what others say about you. Your testimony is strong. Thank you for sharing your story and your faith in God. You are an amazing young man. ❤💪🏽✝️
Thanks so much for sharing this. It will help so many who hesitate to talk about their feelings with such openness.Big love and appreciation always❣️👍🏿🌹
God bless you for sharing this. I’ve dealt with depression and severe depression after certain things happened in my life. It’s so isolating. It’s hell I hope so many people have been helped by you sharing this personal aspect of yourself. It was brave to do. ❤
Nice Christmas tree. Just keep doing what you’re doing. Most of your listeners can’t believe you’ve never heard certain songs. But it’s true. So that’s why I enjoy watching your reaction. Love it brother!
Sending you so much love and best wishes for 2023! People can be cruel and judge wrongly when they don’t understand someone. Glad you are speaking up. You have so much courage. I just turned 56 and I find so much inspiration through your videos. Wishing you health, joy, and continued success always.😊
Thank you for your transparency! Much respect for you for overcoming the battle that we all struggle with. Thank you for sharing. A lot of people needed to hear this.
I'm glad you found this out at an early age that PEOPLE WILL PUT THEIR EXPECTATIONS ON YOU!!! That's a heavy weight to bear at any age. Live for you and your dreams and goals. If you meet them great. If you don't it's still okay because the point is to keep trying and never give up. We learn lessons in all that we go through. Keep persevering Tim! God has plans for you. You went from being quiet to actually being a public, motivational speaker. You encourage the masses while building yourself up in the process. Many people don't finish what they start or try different things before purpose falls into place. You help others to come out of dark places. That takes strength. You exhibit the Fruit of the Spirit. You are an Exhorter. You build people up instead of tearing them down. You could end up being paid to be a motivational speaker or life coach. Don't worry about gifts and talents. Your skills shine through with every video. Stay blessed.
When I was a kid, I was treated wrong and different by everyone. My dad was super strict on my sister and me. My father told me, Son, You ain't old enough to learn on your own. He made me work hard at 4 years old. I was going through child abuse, child neglect, and domestic violence. All I do is work all the time, no fun, no balance, and no celebration in my life. When my parents get divorced, I feel so bad, get pissed off, and mentally put down. After, I graduated from high school, My father said, No partying after graduation. I've been getting negative criticism from my family and some toxic people. When I was in my 20s, I was alone in my apartment. I remembered all the abuse, the beatings, the verbal abuse, the betrayal, the mistreatments, and the heartbreak. Besides, I have almost committed suicide back in 2008. But I refuse to go through it. Thank God, I'm still here till this day.
Aww sweetie, I kind of want to give you a hug. I've had similar experiences as you and there's no easy answer to get through it, and no one way. Just have to find things that you love. You reminded me of an old movie from Ireland, My Left Foot, about a man, Christy Brown, who had cerebral palsy, and only had use of his left foot, but couldn't use it for much as a kid because nobody thought he could do anything. I won't spoil the story for you in case you see it, but he became famous for a couple different things. It's a truly inspiring movie you may want to check out. Daniel Day-Lewis stars in it and won the Oscar for it. Brilliant.
I grew up with Asperger syndrome and was very skinny as a child, so obviously school was difficult for me, too. I was also a premature baby (three weeks) and in my teens I was diagnosed with generalised anxiety disorder, for which I remain on medication, and being the youngest of three didn't help at home. But that's enough about me. Look at yourself, Tim. I don't know what you see when you see yourself but from where I'm sitting there's a confident, established and successful young guy who's now willing to share his personal problems with the entire world, and those same people who used to look down on you because they considered you dumb and quiet are probably watching this video and therefore kissing your arse now. You've had the last laugh.
I love these. These are issues that matter. Hearing it from someone whose been there, so important. Some folks have whats called clinical depression that require anti-depressants. Its NOT a mental thing its medical. Just like some people have diabetis, some folks have a dip in seratonin levels. That said, you nailed it! Thank you brudda!
It takes a big man to admit he needs help. Thanks for opening up a dialogue that needs to be talked about.
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I love that you and ur brother are not afraid to talk about mental health! Huge kudos to you!!
Feeling alienated and left out is awful. It can drive people to anger, despair and sometimes violence. It's especially hard when you're a sensitive soul who feels deeply. I'm so glad you've found your way, Tim. It shows strength to admit when we need help. Keep going and keep having these important conversations! You're a bright light in the world and we love you !!! ♥♥♥
Well this broke my heart. You are a warrior my friend. You should be very proud of your accomplishments.
Thank you Tim. I wish I had heard someone like you when I was a kid. I never even heard the word "depression" until I was 17 and it was like a revelation. Then I understood what was going on in my head had a name - but it took many more years before I could come to terms with it.
So don't be overwhelmed, but if you feel you need help, please get it. And keep posting your videos because they help a lot of us as well!
God will use you to his glory young man. You are doing more than you think. Stay strong!
AMEN 🙏
I really commend you as a young man speaking about this! This is a positive message to the younger generations❤
Amen
You are such a wise young man. The world needs your values and your positivity. 💖
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"intimidation" making you feel small so they feel big
Incredibly important video. I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you for having the courage to share your feelings, experience, insight & and awareness, and for initiating this conversation. Continued blessings to you, young man. Congratulations on everything you have accomplished thus far and congratulations in advance for all that is to come. Have a beautiful Christmas with your loved ones and a very prosperous New Year! 🙏🏾✨️
I always thought you were a extrovert. Glad you shared this with the world. Tim you really are helping people.
dude i got you! i know how you feel, and so happy youre sharing. its helps so many people.
Introverts rock.... in their own quiet way 😎😊💞
Well said❣️
I have depression too all my life and now I exercise. I got myself a step board and just learning to do it and am so enjoying it. Got to 10 mins of step aerobics and feel so good about my self. You r a good young man and be proud of yourself and you r a asset to the world. Thanks for telling us. I appreciate how you r dealing with it. Would like to hear also how your twin managed, kids as twins and And were small hey it takes time to catch up. I worked in the premature ward years ago and these people now r doing great so thanks for the positive talk
Keep the faith...it's not easy, even as an old person. My spirit is with you. 💖
AMEN 🙏
Tim you inherited you're Mamma's toughness and you're Grand Daddies wisdom. I am glad you have a positive testimony, too many people are victims to their pasts. Keep on keeping on .
Tim, these comments say what I feel. You're an inspiration to so many! It can't be easy to share painful memories, but you have the desire to touch and help others. I'm so happy your journey through this difficult life keeps going in the right direction. Oh, and as someone here mentioned, how many can say the President of the United States contacted them to give his support?! 💝
Find your quiet space. Perfect words.
Tim you may have faced difficult circumstances when you were young. I think maybe you were a shy child. But to think how far you have come is inspiring. Not everyone gets a call from a president…. But President Obama reached out to you! I don’t think any of your former classmates can claim that. Thanks for opening up about your struggles. I’m sure it will help other young people that have similar feelings. Stay strong 💪 and keep developing. You deserve peace and happiness. Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones 🙂
I was going to mention the same thing about President Obama! Who else can claim that he called them? ❤
Woah I feel like this video found me no 🧢 loll .. I just randomly decided to watch one of yalls old reactions then when I looked back I saw y’all uploaded this. I have been struggling w seasonal depression recently so I’m looking forward to this && just know u not alone & I’m happy you overcame ✨stay strong ✨
Yess happy I could help you 🙌🏽
Depression is a nasty b****. Especially around holidays. God bless, dude. Love and respect from the 217, our house to yours.
EDIT: Premature myself, small kid, 10 years getting bullied and beat up in school by groups of bullies. Now dealing with depression and anxiety, realizing I was also undiagnosed adhd, possibly mild autism. Didn't find real respect from peers outside my close friends until my late thirties (shout out to my black belt brothers, never dreamed that would be me as a kid). So proud of your open attitude and your honesty.
BTW. You and Fred got me through the covid shutdowns. If I didn't start watching ya'll, I wouldn't have managed. I loved seeing you react to the music I grew up with. It brought and brings so much joy.
Before I finish the video, let me say how I enjoy these conversations you have with us. Of course probably 90% of us are 40 and up, so we have lived more life and can either relate or have figured out more ways to help, other than what you already know now. Y’all got thousands of RUclips parents ❤️
@Litten Kitten Thank you❤️🌹
When I was a kid it brought me down because I never fit in in school. Kids can be really cruel if you dress different or have different ideas. I saw how they looked at me and laughed. I know what that rage is like. However, I too found my happy places. I learned that those kids were the real losers because they missed out on who I really was, Depression hurts but love heals. You can find it and believe in yourself. You are an amazing guy because of all you endured. And yes Tim. Never ever prejudge.Youre a diamond in the rough. Merry Christmas 🎄
I'm praying for you baby boy. God has you. Never lose yourself to this evil world. God has so much in store for you and I'm rooting for you and your brother. You are a beautiful soul and offer so much light to this world. Stay strong, pure and true to who you are and everything will follow. God bless you papito 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Proud of you for sharing with us. I suffer from depression since my mom passed in 2009. Holidays are the worse. I don't get invited anywhere for Christmas or Christmas Eve and it really sucks. I didn't buy anyone presents because I don't have extra money for it. God bless 🙏. Merry Christmas Tim and Fred. 🎄🎁🎀🎅❤️💚
I lost my mom in 2007, so I understand any day as well as the holidays can be tough to get through. Please don't feel the pressure because you can't give material items or haven't received invites. You can give back in other ways, such as filling your free time helping others that may be lonely or in need. Volunteer at shelters, food banks, nursing homes, hospitals, or orphanages. Help the elderly or disabled veteran's with chores or walking pets. Read to kids in libraries. Anytime you concentrate on helping others, it takes away from sad thoughts. You also get to meet new people and get out of the house. You can end up finding your purpose in life. I continued my mom's traditions of helping others and it kept her memory alive. Do things that make you happy. Take one day at a time. I pray abundant blessings for you as you experience all that life has to offer!!!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.😊
Timothy, I think a lot of kids went through a version of that, not fitting in, and having only a few friends. I was not really into sports, aviation was my thing and building models. My happy place was climbing on the roof with a small spotting scope and watching airliners flying into LAX. That and riding bikes with my friends to watch takeoffs and landings at the local airport. All of that led to a career in aviation working on airplanes, and later writing about them. In 7th grade my English teacher told me I'd never be a writer. Well I later cowrote two books that were published, and many articles on commercial aviation, and became an associate editor of a aviation magazine. For years I wanted to track that teacher down and dump a pile of my published material in front of him, but finally I just let it go. As for RUclips, no one told me I would not be able to do it, but would have not been surprised if they were not thinking it. I just considered YT as a personal challenge to myself, and now I cannot imagine not doing it! Anyway those who doubted you about RUclips Timothy, I seriously doubt they will think twice about doubting you when you put your mind to something again! Anyway, another great video! 🎯
Young Man, you have a good head on your shoulders. Keep on doing what you’re doing. BRAVO!
Have a Blessed & Safe Holiday ❤🙏🏾
I am proud of you and your twin. I am glad you are reaching out to others. That is very brave and commendable. Just remember if it ever creeps back in, don't feel defeated, reach out for help. MamaKat is always hear to talk it out. I've had depression since first grade that I can recall. In 4th grade, 1976, mental health was taboo. The school told my Mom I needed to talk to someone. She said absolutely not. Thank God they did bring someone in any way. I remember her name and our time together. I still try to get my mother to understand my mental health with added on head injuries and trauma Survivor. She still doesn't want to hear it, and I'm 56. Painting is my escape. I am so extremely proud of you.
There's a saying that 'empty vessels make the loudest noise'... in society we really need to value deeper, more thoughtful introverted people. You're really helping people to feel that they can open up about their own feelings by sharing all that you've had to deal with Tim, thank you for your honesty❤️🙏
Very wise words....thanks for sharing and helping others :) As I got older I've realized being introverted can have it's own gifts and advantages :)
I think the fact that you listen to such a wide range of music with an open heart is proof that you don't judge a book by its cover. You are walking the talk, behaving the words you say, instead of just saying them. I love to watch you finding a new song that speaks to something in you, you are so open to the joy that comes from music. Watching you is reminding myself that as much as I hurt, I must be open to find joy.
If there's one thing you are not, it's dumb. Thank God you found your words, and are able To use them in such a constructive, empathic way. You are definitely being guided, sweet man. Don't ever stop listening to your angels and your guides.
One definition of depression is “suppressed anger”. So you’re experience makes sense. I really hope mental health services improve. Another old doctor said to me “Stress is the mother of all illnesses”. Life is rough and so unfair for many. Thanks for sharing Timothy. You’ll help others❤️
Thank you so much for sharing! Hoping that EVERYONE has a great Holiday and best of the New Year 💖.
Anger is often one of the more obvious signs of depression in children. Psychiatrists used to believe kids couldn’t get depressed but now we know that’s not true. Being quiet can also signal withdrawal and social anxiety. My own daughter is brilliant (high achiever) but suffers from depression and anxiety and has battled it since she was about 15. Now in her mid 30s she is stable but every day is a battle to remain on an even keel.
Being a high achiever/gifted has its own drawbacks - mostly because you understand the world differently than most. Also because there's little to no room for error, externally nor internally, the pressure for perfection can be debilitating. Even as an adult, it's difficult to let up on the reigns.
I was an honors kid who also had ADHD. When I was coming along in the 80s & 90s, ADD/ADHD wasn't a thing. So, I was constantly disappointing people with my "laziness", lack of organizational skills, being disruptive, etc. I was also always high anxiety and highly empathic. I had such a low self-esteem in high school, I wanted to die. I was sure I wouldn't make it to 30. Most of my friends and family never knew my mental struggles because it was such a stigma. I rebelled in my own way - mostly with malicious compliance trying to find my own power. But overall I was a good kid, almost too good of a kid. Only now are professionals finally looking out for neurodivergences in gifted kids. My gf also grew up gifted but had a missed dislexia diagnosis until she was well into her teens. Her parents and teachers also thought she was being lazy or making excuses for not producing her best.
My twenties were worst; I knew what I had to do and had the altitude to make it happen but...just couldn't. It was paralyzing. I went through even deeper depression, even with counseling and antidepressants, I was barely keeping my head above water.
I was finally diagnosed with ADD just after my 30th birthday. I tell people, without my meds, my brain is like the DC spaghetti junction with no gps - or like one of those hidden object puzzles, lol. Now, there's clarity and I'm better at keeping to task and completing previously overwhelming tasks. Now in my 40s, the depression and anxiety are still there but a lot more manageable & better treated. I don't feel the need to constantly prove myself or place unnecessary pressure on myself to please others. I don't set unattainable goals and I'm still working on letting go of things and not punishing myself for less than optimal choices.
All that to say, even (and especially) when things are going perfectly, check on her. Around holidays and other important anniversaries or dates, check on her. Celebrate the tiny things. No matter how old we get, we still have your voices in the back of our heads & still -even secretly- long for your approval. So sorry this is so long.
Tim, I have to tell you, when I was a kid in the 70's, my mom, dad & grandparents always said, "do unto others as you would want them to do unto you", which basically is, you don't want someone to treat you bad, so don't treat them the same way. The way it's quoted is a Bible verse & I feel bad that at this moment as I comment, I can't remember where it's found!!!
My youngest daughter is a mental health clinician & co-responder, partnered with a police officer. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). She LOVES her job because her thought is that if she can help someone get on the right track by getting folks help, whether its medications, seeing that they have resources & who they can call, the phone numbers, etc. She feels like she can move mountains when she helps someone. That means she doesn't want folks to be locked up in jail or DEAD!!! She's seen some pretty awful stuff, like completed suicides. When she arrives on scene & if in time, that person usually calms down with her, she's also ridden in the back of an ambulance to help an individual stay calm & she lets them talk, cry, yell, etc. When they go to the ER, the doc usually talks to the person, my daughter, the officer & the paramedics on the ambulance to make sure that this person is going to be ok. That person is usually released after a few hours if all goes ok & within 3 days, my daughter & the police officer follow up with the person to answer any questions they may have. She's got a lot more things she does, like forensic psychology, targeted violence-domestic & international, works occasionally with the FBI, etc. Btw, she wears a kevlar bullet proof vest every day she's on duty, 4-10 hour days, unless on a call. She's the only co-responder with one of our local police depts & they reached out to her when she was at a different city & they want her to get a crisis response team up & running. The job is very rewarding, I couldn't do it, but if everyone who thinks about suicide or something else, I would hope they would reach out to the resources that are everywhere in the nation!! Tim, I see you as a councilor, you've really have come far from your childhood!!! You're doing great with talking about your depression, but I see skills in you, my young friend!!! You're doing great Tim, keep up the great work!! Merry Christmas, Happy New Year!! 😎👍🏼☮️❤️💚🎄🎁🎇🎆🥳🥂🍾
Much love to you. I can totally relate. Please know that you are loved and valued by so many.
I am glad you got through all of this. You are a wonderful young man. Don't let anyone talk you into changing.
The transparency of this. Keep sharing.
I can very much relate on being quiet. Thanks for your openness, man.
Tuesday morning my wife of almost 15 years passed away. I'm not just depressed, I can't even"feel" anymore. I am not suicidal but feel like I'm losing my sanity.
I'm so sorry for your loss and understand your profound grief. 😔 When you're ready, you might consider talking to a grief counselor who can help you develop a new spiritual relationship with your beloved wife. May she rest in peace.
Sorry for your loss. 😔🙏🏼
Condolences on your loss
Thank you for sharing with us. 💕 Prayers.
You are a very strong man. Merry Christmas 🎄.
Tim: I am thankful that you didn’t give up. I hope you’re able to grasp how amazing your life experience has been. You grew from being a kid who was viewed as dumb and not worth much to a man who people want to meet, a man people listen to, and a man who even interviewed President Obama. You are someone to be admired and respected. (Don’t forget all the people you helped to make the shut-down during the pandemic more bearable. You did that.) I appreciate you and the man you are. Lou
I appreciate the kinds words ❤️
Thank you for being YOU!!!! You and your brother are amazing people to me and I love All of the videos, whether they are funny stuff or serious like this video. Just keep following your own path and let the rest go. GOD'S GOT YOU!!!!!!
Tim, I'm so glad that you found your happy place and then began (and continue) to thrive. Do you have ANY idea of how much happiness you bring to others? Your channel has brought so many people together, especially during the pandemic. You put smiles on ALL of our faces as we watched you and Fred being open-minded enough to listen to and react to music you'd never heard. At a time when none of us could go anywhere, we could visit your channel and ENJOY the content. It was a refreshing change then...and it STILL is. God bless you for the light that shines within you and radiates outwardly to everyone. I don't know everyone's religious beliefs; so, I'll say Merry Christmas AND Happy Holidays to you and everybody that's watching! Peace and love to all...😘🙏🏾❤
You guys really have grown up on you tube. Hey you had the SNL skit about you both. You had President Obama call you. Be proud of yourselves. You've come far.
I was born Premature to God bless you bro
You are a brave and impressive man. I love that you shared your story. Keep on sharing these motivational videos!
Great commentary Tim
You add infinite value to this world, young man. ~ I hope you continue to strive for balance and meaningful moments for you and your complete well-being. ... Thank you for sharing the content of this important video. ... I see you, ... I hear you... and, your life, your thoughts, ideas and feelings... matter.~ Take care and remember that toxic and unnecessary comparisons and assumptions, and speaking negatively about yourself and within your mind, can do more harm than good. ~ Peace and goodness to you and your loved ones. xoxo ... I hope you see this comment.
Love & Joy !! 🕊️🫶💗💕🙏🙏🕯️🌞🙌🎄🌹🌌Keep up the positivity & drive!🙌🙌🙌🌹 You are amazing!
May God continue to bless you.Happy Holiday's.❤🌲🎁
I am so thankful we are in a time where mental health is talked about more, because so many people, including myself, have struggled at some point with our mental health. It really is just like having an issue or something wrong with your physical body, we would seek help for that, but when it comes to mental health, peoples views towards that tend to be so different and quite often it's not talked about, and most don't ask for or seek help for fear of what people will think, and suffer in silence. Being an introvert is not a bad thing at all, it's just how you're wired and that's okay but I'm glad you found your voice and decided where you would like to use it because look at you now and all the people you help! I am curious to know how your twin handled what you were going through. As mentioned I am a mother of twin daughters your age, (thelovetwinsss) and we all enjoy and watch your videos and they both had somewhat similar experiences in school as well. Similar only in that they would view one of them as more introverted and the other extroverted(which is true) and would have certain judgements and expectations of them due to how they viewed them. They didn't have bad experiences due to it, but I use to talk with them about if and how that affected them because I could tell at times it would. I just wonder if your twin knew what you were going through or feeling at the time. Thanks for being so open and talking about such an important topic.
Much love.
You're a good man. It takes a lot to recognize depression & your symptoms. Life is a journey, ours are all different but we can always help others to see their life is priceless & worthy. Hugs to you sweetheart. Hope you and your family have a nice Christmas and many wishes for a Happy New Year. 🎄🎅🕯⛪️😇❤️❤️❤️ Hearing you say people said "I didn't know you could talk!" Made me smile & remember when I was young I was SUPER shy. When people would talk to me my throat would close & my mind would go blank. I was always called a snob or stuck up. It hurt because I really wasn't but just couldn't talk. I'm 52 now & you can't shut me up! Lol.
It is okay if it returns. Get help as long as needed, no matter how many times it takes. For many, it is never overcome but managed as a part of life in the background; while living a satisfying life in the foreground.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. We need to talk about mental health. I know you’re helping others by talking about your journey. ❤️🎄❤️
Love and hugs - you are truly an inspiration - stay strong 💪🏻 ❤🙏🏻💙👍
Keep doing you Tim! Thanks for sharing. Christmas Blessings to you and your family.
I’m so sorry you went through that. I can certainly relate to being depressed as a child from bullying. My escape was reading. Thank you for sharing this and I hope you and your family have a blessed Christmas!
You are perfect in every way. You fill my heart. You good! You are so beautiful.
I always went to the gym 6 days a week and walking my dogs everyday after work it helped so much when i was feeling sad and lonely and i didnt have any one to talk to. I also grew up in a non cursing home so cursing wasnt natural in my vocabulary some kids will see you different but i also saw them different because they cursed to much and thought im glad i dont talk that way. Im glad you found a way to let your energy out, these videos your putting out might help people to help themselves to not hurt themselves.
More young men need to have the strength you showed here to be vulnerable and talk openly about your mental health. You have grown to be such an incredible young man. Happy new year. The best is yet to come 🎉🎉🎉
Tim, you are a class act. You are more motivated and stronger than most people I know. I admire you for taking the time to share your personal experiences. Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Tim this is what a lot of people go though I feel everyone goes though something in life, By you talking about it, this is helping you heal and your helping others with your words of inspiration and I am so proud of you and your brother just putting it all out on the table, God Bless you and your brother Fred Happy Holidays to you and your family, that’s right Tim!! Keep pushing for your dreams, I am excited to see how far you go. Your going to get everything you wish for and your dreams, I can see you felt a little emotionally talking about this, you need to talk, great video love the talks😊
Introverts listen and take time to think things over before talking, and when they talk it's often a well thought out response. Unfortunately Extroverts often walk all over Introverts and don't give them time to express themselves.
Wow! From quiet young Tim to excellent motivational speaker! Love your story, bro!
Dear Tim,
It takes Courage to speak with such honesty!
I discovered you through your videos sharing your reactions on many musical titles (and my favorites are those on Queen!). 🤗
And this recent video proves that, despite all the things you’ve been through, and suffered, you have chosen to share joy and hope!
I’m french, and i write to you from Reunion Island (a tiny island near to Madagascar). And in french, the word « courage » comes from the word « coeur », which means « heart »! You have a kind heart, Tim! Preserve it well! That’s precious!
Florence
YOU ARE NEEDED.
I'm 66. An old white lady. I know my birth privilege of ghostly pigment. I am not rich with income but with education. And my greatest knowledge has come from other people, who they themselves may not have formal education, but they have soul, spirit, love to give and most of all morals.
We are all part of this life puzzle, some pieces are the edge or foundation that gives it shape, others are obvious, pointing out extreme life pictures, others surround those to provide contrast, and most pieces seemingly fade-in to make it all come together, without getting overly noticed, appreciated, or acknowledged. BUT WITHOUT THEM LIFE IN THIS WORLD PICTURE IS INCOMPLETE.
Don't underestimate how your life connects with and completes this thing we call life. You are valued.❤️
WOW!!!! From a "premy" to a champion!!!! You are a real light to any generation......You are the definition of a real MAN!!!! God has blessed you and your brother and you should ALWAYS be an inspiration to others as you mature in life!!! THank you for sharing your testimony......
Thank you for opening up the topic of depression. A lot of people including myself go thru it during the holidays as well as every day. Stay strong Tim. You are blessed and thanks for using your platform for greatness.
You're a rock star! Much love and admiration...
You are a gift. You are so brave. You are helping more people than you could ever imagine. Thank you.
Bravo to you Tim on opening up on how you overcame depression, I think your struggles became your stepping stones that lead you to your accomplishments in your young life, "Let it all out" you say but don't take it out on your loved ones, I agree, some of us need to have that breakdown in order to have a breakthrough to finally see that light that leads us into the right path; I am glad that you overcame those struggles and continue to reach out to your viewers via RUclips to not only share the wisdom you've gained so far but to also motivate others to do the same, Stay strong Tim, keep up the good work in everything you do, you got this! May you and your family continue to be blessed with love, happiness and good health. Merry Christmas! ☮💕🎄
Damn man didn’t know you was going through it
Timothy thanks for for another power session this one hits deep and close to home for me we can't let are past determine our future we got to let go and let God in spite of what we been through or going through Timothy we go tto live a Purpose Driven Life finding something that drives and motivate us for the better like you doing RUclips Channel it help you get through the anger and dark days that's was bottle up inside of you iam so proud of you for over coming those struggle's in life keep.grinding not let anything or anyone hold you back remember let this be your learning Tree much love ma boy
❤️I hope your message reaches many
Tim the best thing to do is not to listen to people. If you say you want to do something and they can’t do it they’ll say you can’t do just like you said👌🏾✊🏽👏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
Mental health is all we all have. Thank you for this video.
I never fit in at school either. But I found a group of kids to hang out with that had similar interests. This helped, because it’s not about being popular, it’s about how strong can you be by yourself. And it’s good to have a few friends that you can count on. I asked my niece the other day how many good friends does she have. She said 3. It’s not about the number it’s about the quality. Can these people in your life help you through the bad times? That’s what you want in life.
Tim, you are a smart, strong and insightful young man with a lot of motivation and a great encourager for any of us who needs a word of encouragement. And who doesn’t.
I love your perseverance and your courage to not believe what others say about you.
Your testimony is strong. Thank you for sharing your story and your faith in God.
You are an amazing young man. ❤💪🏽✝️
Your all's channel is so awesome and such a inspiration
Thanks so much for sharing this. It will help so many who hesitate to talk about their feelings with such openness.Big love and appreciation always❣️👍🏿🌹
God bless you for sharing this. I’ve dealt with depression and severe depression after certain things happened in my life. It’s so isolating. It’s hell I hope so many people have been helped by you sharing this personal aspect of yourself. It was brave to do. ❤
Thank you, Tim. You are an exceptional young man and WE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!
Nice Christmas tree. Just keep doing what you’re doing. Most of your listeners can’t believe you’ve never heard certain songs. But it’s true. So that’s why I enjoy watching your reaction. Love it brother!
You is spitting some real shyt. Thanks for this, you just made me feel better as a human being. ❤
The quiet ones are thinking, always.
Thanks for sharing.
Sending you so much love and best wishes for 2023! People can be cruel and judge wrongly when they don’t understand someone. Glad you are speaking up. You have so much courage. I just turned 56 and I find so much inspiration through your videos. Wishing you health, joy, and continued success always.😊
Thank you for your transparency! Much respect for you for overcoming the battle that we all struggle with. Thank you for sharing. A lot of people needed to hear this.
I'm glad you found this out at an early age that PEOPLE WILL PUT THEIR EXPECTATIONS ON YOU!!! That's a heavy weight to bear at any age. Live for you and your dreams and goals. If you meet them great. If you don't it's still okay because the point is to keep trying and never give up. We learn lessons in all that we go through. Keep persevering Tim! God has plans for you. You went from being quiet to actually being a public, motivational speaker. You encourage the masses while building yourself up in the process. Many people don't finish what they start or try different things before purpose falls into place. You help others to come out of dark places. That takes strength. You exhibit the Fruit of the Spirit. You are an Exhorter. You build people up instead of tearing them down. You could end up being paid to be a motivational speaker or life coach. Don't worry about gifts and talents. Your skills shine through with every video. Stay blessed.
When I was a kid, I was treated wrong and different by everyone. My dad was super strict on my sister and me. My father told me, Son, You ain't old enough to learn on your own. He made me work hard at 4 years old. I was going through child abuse, child neglect, and domestic violence. All I do is work all the time, no fun, no balance, and no celebration in my life. When my parents get divorced, I feel so bad, get pissed off, and mentally put down. After, I graduated from high school, My father said, No partying after graduation. I've been getting negative criticism from my family and some toxic people. When I was in my 20s, I was alone in my apartment. I remembered all the abuse, the beatings, the verbal abuse, the betrayal, the mistreatments, and the heartbreak. Besides, I have almost committed suicide back in 2008. But I refuse to go through it. Thank God, I'm still here till this day.
Aww sweetie, I kind of want to give you a hug. I've had similar experiences as you and there's no easy answer to get through it, and no one way. Just have to find things that you love. You reminded me of an old movie from Ireland, My Left Foot, about a man, Christy Brown, who had cerebral palsy, and only had use of his left foot, but couldn't use it for much as a kid because nobody thought he could do anything. I won't spoil the story for you in case you see it, but he became famous for a couple different things. It's a truly inspiring movie you may want to check out. Daniel Day-Lewis stars in it and won the Oscar for it. Brilliant.
Oh my goodness. I totally forgot about that movie. Daniel Day Lewis is a GOAT for sure. GREAT SUGGESTION! I've got to find it and watch it again.
@@dianeouellette3571, yay! He overcame HUGE obstacles! I haven't thought about the movie in a long time either. I wonder if Tim will see it.
@@elysehfm8797 🤞🏻🤞🏻Hopefully he does. Great movie! THX for the suggestion.
@@dianeouellette3571, surely! I hope you enjoy it again when you find it. ☺
Tim, you are a gift in so many lives!
So sorry too hear of your depression that’s sad, I’m to see you worked through it god bless you ❤❤
I grew up with Asperger syndrome and was very skinny as a child, so obviously school was difficult for me, too. I was also a premature baby (three weeks) and in my teens I was diagnosed with generalised anxiety disorder, for which I remain on medication, and being the youngest of three didn't help at home. But that's enough about me. Look at yourself, Tim. I don't know what you see when you see yourself but from where I'm sitting there's a confident, established and successful young guy who's now willing to share his personal problems with the entire world, and those same people who used to look down on you because they considered you dumb and quiet are probably watching this video and therefore kissing your arse now. You've had the last laugh.
I love these. These are issues that matter. Hearing it from someone whose been there, so important.
Some folks have whats called clinical depression that require anti-depressants. Its NOT a mental thing its medical. Just like some people have diabetis, some folks have a dip in seratonin levels. That said, you nailed it!
Thank you brudda!
Thanks for sharing your journey with depression 🤍