How to be Silent Person (Animated Story)
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- Опубликовано: 12 июн 2019
- How to be Silent Person (Animated Story)
In this video, you will learn how to be silent and talk less. There are many benefits of being a silent person or a quiet person. There will be an animated story that will show you one way to be more silent.
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Are you Chinese? Just wondering because I hear a Chinese accent. No offense if I’m wrong!
Gratitude!
Whenever I talk a lot I hate myself at the end. I found out that being silent give me more value, save me a lot of power and also ends my days peacefully without feeling bad about myself.
Thanks for sharing
same
same
I agree, totally.
Same here... exact words
That quote is so perfect:
"A wise man speaks, because he has something to say. A fool speaks, because he has to say something."
:)
Damn. I’m a fool...
@@milkncookies4632 me too bro 🙄🙄
Cmon its the social anxiety..
I'm a fool
Silence is powerful. It gives you a chance to reflect on life, purpose and gives you sense of peace.
Yep!
Says a fellow with an Anime profile picture.
Hmm...
That's true!
Silence makes me think about all of my failures and serious mistakes that can be easily avoided, all i have is guilt.
Ryuzaki Simms before I was like Kevin in the first part
Next year someone told me a funny joke but I did not laugh
Started being quiet its nice happy peaceful and started not Talking
I Felt no emotions
My friend said I was an emberrasment for my loud talking... I used to be too quiet and everyone thought I was serious and boring, but I got out of my shell and it appears it burst not gracefully but instead shattered into pieces. I can still be really quiet but I don't really control it, I'm passionate about almost everything, and I come off as impulsive. Thoughts? I want to be silent again. Even if people thought I was boring, it was better than whatever I am now.
Edit: For those who resonate with this - consider autism.
I think you need to learn self control. Try thinking about what you are going to say before saying something so you don't come off as impulsive
@@TheLifeFormulaa I'll work on it
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You just have to know how to express yourself be who you are and not people want you to be to please. Express yourself
@@movingon2081 thank you for the advice :)
SAMMEE! I used to be very quiet but now I can't shut up and I come of as loud and anxious
I hate being talkative, I'm even annoyed at myself, I tried to change it but my siblings told me it was just fine, that I don't have to change it, I know I still have to Change it, because when I get older, people will be annoyed at me
You can change
Same, I will start journaling and try to think before I say anything. Also the problem is I stutter, so I talk a lot + stuttering which makes me feel like my friends are getting annoyed from me
same g
Or maybe you’re meant to have a career where you are meant to speak. 🤷🏾♂️
Yes change it because I suffered a lot ...don't do this to yourself
Damn , I just realized I am Kevin
You can change that :)
Me too
Oh yeah
gokul singh lol same
gokul singh same
Talk when you need too, not when you have too.
Being a listener you get much appreciation since most just want to be heard and understood. Stay positive. Stay cool. Remain confident.
Thanks for sharing
-Stop isolating
+Start engaging
-Stop telling lies
+Start getting honest
-Stop procrastinating
+Start making daily progress
-Stop excusing your lack of effort
+Start taking action and work hard
-Stop talking to yourself negatively
+Start praising your good qualities
Good actions to take
Thanks so much
Stop begging for attention
-stop with this trash
+start commenting useful things
BRIGHT MINDS but what if i had no qualities at all?
If the conversation is not meaningful, positive, & vivid, then silence is the better option.
:)
Silence is golden.
Yep! :)
. . . . . .
Teach my how be silent
P/s im so fcking annoying at school
@Elizabeth Taylor i have seen duct tapes with many colors
"Nope silence is dope" 😙😙😙😙
That bad thing is that when your talkative, people will listen and take the words you said, twist them, and turn them into something completely opposite of what you said and tell everyone their version just to try to make you look bad. People a lot times dont want to hear what you have to say, they want to take what you say and use it to talk badly about you to others. People feed off one another's pain. This doesn't happen always but sadly it's more common than you'd imagine. Sit back and watch, and those people that make you feel bad about yourself will slowly begin to turn on each other. Never stop being you for anyone or anything
It's the worst when people interpret what you say in the wrong way
Even when you're silent people misunderstand it, we have a problem here and is that judging just what we perceive is bad, people need to start thinking that what we perceive is not the reality per se is just a perception, to known reality people need to listen carefully, watch, observe, ask the right questions and make it without judging
This resonated so much with me that I am ready to change !!
I've known toxic people like this. I've learned to avoid them lol.
I'm a silent person, especially when everyone's blasting their opinion or perspective. I'm silent, but I listen and observe, which is probably the cause of my silence. People can be quite shady...gossiping about you, intentionally misinterpreting your words, etc. So, I stay silent unless I truly have something meaningful to say.
Thanks for sharing
You hit the nail on the head! So true. I am the same.
I wish I can be like you :( people have called me annoying and said they didnt care even my own family
What you said bro that hit me I'm going through something so thanks for sharing such great words of encouragement
I can’t seem to tell what’s meaningful to the person I’m saying it to which is normal, but I haven’t been able to get the concept of that.
But only if Im in a group of 3 (myself and two others ) because 2 other people is hard enough finding when I should say what I was saving up before the topic changes. 🤦🏽♀️ no speaking in big groups for me ! 😂
How the hell did RUclips knew that I am talkative
RUclips is crazy!
Me toi
Relate I'm talkative much
They just know
Maybe ur search history? Idk lol
I used to be quite and shy. I then became a security guard and started interacting with customers . I can't stop talking. I need to change this.
Interacting with customers is fine. Why do you think its a problem?
I have the same job and the same problem. I gotta learn to be quiet
People keep calling me annoying and after five years I’m just gonna start to stay silent, even people I just meet after like 3 minutes they say I’m annoying
If everyone is calling you annoying maybe you are doing something wrong
@@TheLifeFormulaa I just ask a lot because I get worried when it’s silent so I try to start conversation and talk about random crap
Same here. Know, that you are still precious, even if people can't handle your energy. I will have to learn to "not be a burden" too. This feeling is disgusting, to know, that one is "too much".
I know
🤣🤣🤫🤫🤫🤫
Kevin accepted feedback and grew from it, that’s powerful.
Yep!
im actually like the class clown in my school. i was pretty sad when i realized that most of my friends consider me super dumb. i dont really feel like talking to someone and only to focus. thanks for the story tho :)
Hope this video helps
Keep in mind that our language, social system, & economy is very old. You & I are victims of our surroundings. You're doing fine. And have a good ability to learn, given the correct environment ;)
This is such great advice. I always feel like people who talk a lot but never say anything meaningful have nothing worth while to say. But that may not always be true
It usually depends on the context but yea some people just talk for the sake of talking
In my country they say (in my translation so not that accurate):
"if talking is made from silver, then silence is made from gold"
Thanks for sharing
haha yes we habe That in germany too! We say „Reden ist Silber, Schweigen ist Gold“
Never let the enemy know your thoughts, wishes, dreams or desires because it can be used against you when you least expect it. Carefully choose whom to speak with🌝
:)
SUPER AGREE
Who tf is the enemy 💀
I really wanted to share that I wanted to be silent because i know that the feeling of being silent is more comfortable than being talkative to people who cannot take you seriously at school and at public and I also wanted to be silent when im with my parents because I know they dont like the way I act in front of them and I also know that I just embarrass them in front of their friends and relatives.
Theres a lot of reason why i want to be silent but those examples shows it all.
Thanks for sharing
@@idkwhattomakemyname2091 not saying it’s easy but I’m kinda of a quiet guy I just be quiet in most lessons but in some I go a bit talkative
Watching this because I feel that I've been a burden to my colleagues. I don't know if I'm overthinking but whenever I talk to them I feel like I'm suffocating them. Sometimes I just put my earphones on, and have my own world while working but it feels suck as I feel that they are all against me.
Look at their facial expressions to see if you are suffocating them
@@TheLifeFormulaa this is noted. But we all know that not everyone will be open to welcome you. I'm quite new in my work and it seems that they don't want to welcome me at all. I tried to communicate and be close to them (I'm normally outgoing person) but the thing is I'm feeling that they were backstabbing me that's why I feel that I'm suffocating them. That's the reason why I want to be quiet person.
How are things now? X
Face the same things just don't know when to stop sometimes u just forget how to .
@@CatherineLynnielReyes
Think about what you say and when you say. If that what you are saying is alright, you are not the one who needs to change. Never change yourself for others if you are not doing anything wrong.
Be the last to talk, everyone will listen.
You are welcome.
:)
I used to be Kevin. The whole "quiet until you know me" type of situation. I realized I spoke with no meaning so I went silent and started to listen.
My coworkers are still scared. They think I've "snapped", no matter how much I tried to reassure them that it's just me not annoying them anymore. Their problem, not mine.
Thanks for sharing
I often feel i bug and annoy my friends too much so i might just go full silent atp😶
Facts stop talking an they will think u acting different o well to bad
I use to hate being a quiet introvert (Infp) but now I see the power behind it.
Nice
The most underrated channel. I wish people could get to know about you. As your videos can be relatable
Thanks for the kind words
I've been the quiet kid at school and let me tell you I regret nothing. I was the listener. Loved every bit of being mysterious. Then only payment was that you might end up being alone but for those who don't mind, I really recommend this.
Thanks for sharing
i know this is a year late but.. how do u entartain urself when u need entertainment, and u dont have friends?
or you know, when u want to talk about something personal to other, expressing ur feeling, do you just hide ur feeling?
@@someonesomewhereinthisworld I used to read a lot and yes I did have a bunch of closest friends I had fun with. But I was a good listener, not much of a talker. However now that I'm working I have changed a lot. Usually talk too much but only with certain people...introvert for life, huh 😄
@@someonesomewhereinthisworld and yes, I do express my feelings. I'm an honest person, don't like sugar-coating
I've spent my whole life being quiet and trying to be louder and now I realise being loud isnt everything
:)
Dude thanks for this. I talked a lot but didn't really enjoy talking cause I made people feel uncomfortable and decided to start using a journal myself and self reflect before I discovered this video. And this really provided me with confidence on how I should improve myself
Glad this video helped!
I realized that I have fake friends who only put up a facade
And I went through a hard time with depression thinking no one loves me
Now I decided I won't be fake in order to get "friends"
I'll just be the silent one
Being yourself is good
I always learn the hard way, lots of friends leave you if you have a mental illness but God forbid they would be supportive if you have a physical illness (broken bone or cancer) and they think mental illness isn't real
@@hasbrogrl74 I'm lucky that my family has lot of experience healing their depression and anxiety. So they always know the right things to say to me
OMG!So relatable
I can't be silent when am angry otherwise it will finish me on the inside i have to let it out.
Bottling feelings is never the answer
Good idea to bottle up your feeling's. To me that implie's your aware of the people around you.
@@AJ-cv9zf It also implies a sense of distrust towards people in general. That is good and bad depending on how you see it. I prefer to silently suffer.
The Life Formula i don’t understand how come everyone tells you to be silent but when you mention your emotions then you’re “bottling them up” so what the fuck does anyone ever want from us
Sydney Anne fr
I'm currently workin on strengthening my silence, mainly due to a lot of fake and negative ppl I encountered my whole life and currently. So I'm resuming daily dose of meditation. It not only helps me learn from my mistakes and reflect on good memories, but it mainly helps me tackle negative situations and be prepared for the worst. Not to mention it teaches me being quiet is a great thing. I guarantee you, the more u do it, the more you'll learn, grow, and develop as Life goes on. U necessarily don't have to keep your eyes closed the whole time, and other factors too like writing in a daily journal, drawing, workin on a song, etc, all of these assist with finding who you are. So everyone start askin yourself "Who are you?" and I guarantee you'll be rewarded. Patience is key here and it's worth it. Good luck everyone!! 😇👍🏿
Thanks for sharing
" Big minds discuss about ideas, fool ones discuss about others" BIG WORDS
:)
Ughh I talk too much, I need to keep my Business to myself!
You can change!
Don't reveal your plan to anyone even your parents surprise them with your success
I know how you feel. After you blab you find yourself saying “Why did I SAY that?!?”
@kryshayla same
I need help I talk to much I’m a gossiper and a two faced liar I need help please
I learned how silence is important. I’m going to learn how to remain silent around people.
I’m an introvert while talkative. It is an oxymoron.
I will practice these skills in my future human interactions.
Initially, it will be extremely difficult. However, everything is a major adjustment.
I learned that most people talk about things that I don’t even like, so I will be in less conversations.
Maybe, I can get more stuff done including being around more knowledgeable people.
You can change personalities!
Well said
Being silent is golden especially if you are a person with good morals and character. Just sit back and watch people they tell on themselves and show their true character and morals. Majority of humans don't have morals or character. Shady, gossiping, lying, backstabbing you name it, I am a naturally quiet person and I don't fool with people period! Too many shady snakes for me!!!!!! Especially females!!!!! I be by myself and love every bit of it.
Thanks for sharing
A wise man once said
“Talk less, smile more”
:)
AARON BURR?
A wise man once said " don't argue with fools!! Cuz ppl from a distance can tell who is who" jay z
Thank you for changing my life. I was Kevin 100% MAX! I have talked my way out relationships (work/love), jobs, & help. Your videos have saved my relationships! Thank you man!
Glad my videos helped
Thank you for the nudging me to introspect.
As an only child I always wanted to talk to people since I believed talking can help me to come off as a friendly & interesting person and help me to "belong ".
Talking usually will make you come off as friendly but when done wrong it appears tryhard
This has really made me think why I don’t fit in with groups, feel to left out or to self centered... feeling like I speak just to speak.... this really hurts my ego but I appreciate this a lot.... I want to say less then needed
You can change
@@TheLifeFormulaa I’ll try to, I just need be more conscious what I say 😭
Hold your tongue is my motto☺
I am most definitely a quiet person.
Awesome!
This video has helped me greatly. I've realized I'm the same bc of extreme anxiety and low self esteem. I've been wanting to start journaling for a long time and now I've decided I definitely will. TY.👍😊
Glad this video helped!
Got tired of society , was extroverted and giddy early on in my infantile years
By the time I had reached 16 , I had been backstabbed , betrayed , lied to and harmed so many times that I had lost count
The real sucker is most of the sabotage came from close family
My home turned into literal battleground with different groups fighting for property rights
I'm 19 now , been silent , observing and cautious for 3 years now ..
Have to say ..un predictability caused by this silence is a powerful and lethal weapon
Thanks for sharing
It’s always better to listen more and talk less, since taking knowledge is better than giving away knowledge, and you’ll also know what to say and what not to say. It also makes your words more impactful to others also shows others that you’re willing to listen, which they will also mirror when you speak. The only disadvantage is people will also try to find fault in your words.
Thanks for sharing
Thanks I will be showing this video to my son tonight. I'm so glad I found this for him. Hopefully this will help him and be able to make more friends as well.
Hope it helps!
I used to be very quite and now I want to go back. Everyone thought I was serious but inside my head I was having hella fun observing everything. I was always quiet in every situation in life. No matter how fun the environment I was in, I was still really quite. Now that I am getting older I felt the need to get out of my shell and be more outgoing and talkative but turns out that I just notice everybody doesn't want to do anything with me anymore. Nobody asks questions about my life like they used to. Nobody would invite me to place like they used to. Nobody calls or texts me first like they used to. All because I felt the need to be "extroverted." I think what's best in life is just be who you are and just vibe.
Being true to yourself is so important
Best Video EVER💞💞💞 Thank you, this is very needed in my life!!!
Thank you
Very good and eye-opening video! Thanks I really needed this!
Glad it was helpful!
Silence helps with protecting your energy.
Yep
My brothers wife hasn’t said “you’re quiet today” to me for 2 days so I’m here to get back into my quiet habit.
:)
I NEED THIS!!! 😂 I'm always talking a lot while playing basketball with people I just met Lol! I already know about self awareness/control but starting for now I will mainly focus into it.
But I don't know, people already know my personality being like that and most of the time my words hurts them where I found guilty like the dude on the animation, it is hard to change your personality in front of the people you already met but I guess I'll give it a try and idc if they'll be confuse asf bc of a quiet version of me. Btw thanks for making this video! 👌
Glad this video helped
Great video ! Powerful and short approach to getting the point across. Very insightful and Helpful.
Thank you for sharing
Glad you enjoyed it!
i literally hate my talkative person. i hate being an extrovert i literally enjoy being alonee
Spend some more alone time :)
I can't help it I just get excited and talk too much, how can I control this?
Depends on the situation. If you are talking a lot because its a topic you are passionate about and everyone is into the conversation, there is nothing wrong with it and you shouldn't change. If you are talking a lot because you just want to and no one wants to participate, find out the reason why you talk and go from there
People forget that they are in control when they are talking.
I hate when I get really excited about stuff that is important to me and they slam you down, degrade you and tell me to shut the fuck up. I wish I didn't have a voice
the best clip in the universe....thank you very much for this....its exactly what av been looking for in years .....i have kept repeating this clip over and over again for hours
Glad you enjoyed it!
i am always told i talk to much. my teachers over the years , i’ve noticed , don’t like me. they say i’m bubbly but what they really mean is i talk to much. it’s always me that’s not liked and this is why. i remember picking up my teachers clipboard and i saw my name in a big red circle and in red it said “talks to loud and to much”. that was years ago. i feel like what i say is important. i don’t ramble on most the time , i usually talk about important matters or feelings. to anyone who is told that they are to loud or talk to much , never let that stop you from saying what you feel.
Thanks for sharing
The Life Formula no problem! :)
I was searching this out because I was already making my friends uncomfortable so they end up leaving me. I am living with two of my cousins(girls) and my sister. They always end up not listening to me and i was getting tired on embarrassing my self. Today i wanted to be less open so i wouldn't be able to hurt,and make people uncomfortable. They don't want me because of this attitude of me so i wanted to end it. I don't know if i will really be silent tho cause i have no self control :))
Try applying the lessons in this video and see what happens
Today I realized how much I hurt people because of how much I talk, my own best friend told me "we cant be friends anymore" it broke me inside, my other best friend avoided me, because of something I did (it has something to do with talking) so now I just wanna try change myself..
You can change
Then they were not true friends to begin with. You don't just call off a friendship for something as superficial as that.
I really needed this Thank you so much !
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for the content.
Glad you like the content
Thanks for the information and 100% reflection of myself and I believe it’s time to apply the information in my life. It will be very helpful if a video through which ways to become silence is mentioned
Glad you enjoyed the video
Woah you never missed a point.
Well explained😁
Glad you liked it
You made me realized alot of things. Thank you.
Glad this video helped
this video is so helpful. thank you
Glad it was helpful!
This video has inspired me a lot. I hope that I change my life forever 💯
:)
I used to be quiet, shy, underconfident girl in my school time. I barely have friends, my classmates used to make fun of me, they used to bully me and comment on me for my looks and it was hard for me to start a conversation with someone. But I decided that i will change myself in college. I start talking to everyone. Now everyone thinks that i am stupid because I talk too much. I really want to talk only little bit.
It's great you changed. It's all about finding the right balance
Yes, I will work on it and will balance my life
This video has helped me a lot I used to get in trouble because of my mouth I used to take it to far and say dumb comments or opinions that I should have just kept to my self and now I keep them to my self and I learned about my self and now I love myself more than ever
Glad this video helped
Thank you very much! Your video is very helpful!
Glad it helped!
you converted me into a quiet kid.
:)
i always keep engaging questions and convos so that the other person never feels left our or not heard but i guess people don't really understand the motive and label me as curious and talkative. I've been told to start talking less alot by my family too, guess it's time i stop doing something people take as opposite. it'll hurt though, to not respond even when i feel like someone is saying something, but everytime I've tried it, good results have come out nonetheless
Thanks for sharing
@@TheLifeFormulaa ✨️
Thanks the story reminds me of my own story my dad and mom and everybody saying im too loud and annoying so thank you.
Thanks for sharing
thnaks alot. im planning on changing attitude for gr 5.
Thank you. I needed to see this video..
Glad you liked it!
being silent is better than being annoying
Yep
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH, I HOPE IT'S WISDOM REVERBERATES THROUGHOUT MY EXISTENSE
Thank you
Thanks for the video
Glad this video helped
I am the most talkative but my friend's are 😇
Interesting..
The thing is, I used to be an extrovert, and very humorous, but now I want to come more towards the ambiverted side. It's mainly because of my friends, and luckily I've realized that they weren't taking me seriously and not understanding that sometimes I'm sad too, and took me for granted. Now, If I want to be quiet, they think I'm mad. Even if I'm quiet, they still talk rubbish and expect me to respond. 1. How to explain to them that I'm not mad, just want to be silent. 2. How to try to distance myself from them, since they're those "popular" girls.
It's not that hard to be more ambiverted. Good luck!
@@TheLifeFormulaa Alright, thanks!
Silence is good .listening to people talk lets you find out the type of person they are ..Empty vessels make the most noise .true
:)
Thank you.
Glad this video helped
~STORY TIME~~
Once me and my bffs were playing 'Whose most likely to' and i ask this question 'Whose most likely to talk without stopping ?'' then all my friends pointed at me i was shook and asked why then one of them said '' You can talk endlessly and shamelessly and you won't even stop even if some one told you to ... so yea its you'' i was shocked and i lowered my head and since that day i was really quiet as what she said hurt me,but thanks for this video i know why i was this talkative !! thanks for helping me!!
Glad you got value out of this video!
So true!
😂😂😂😂😂😂It is you😂😂😂😂and me too, shamelessly 😨
Did they even talk to you about it? That's cold
I know that feeling bro I have been there before
As someone who talks too much when it's best to be silent, I thank you for this.
:)
I want to be silent because i love love talking and joking around and socializing, but lately, I've realized that sometimes i come off as rude and straightforward without considering someone's feelings. That's why. I mean, i can learn from it and move on, but if im always talkative, im afraid I'll repeat the same mistake
Thanks man 👍
Glad this video helped
I just don't like my personality man, people call me annoying for expressing myself. I wish I could change
You can always change your personality
@@TheLifeFormulaa u see i question that
I was a talkative guy until i fall in love lol
Its amazing how people think of you when you suddenly just go quiet, In one of my classes I used to be a bit of a class clown, now I was silent, people just sort of got curious why I didn't talk as much. I simply had nothing to say.
Thanks for sharing
Thank you so much
Glad this video helped
Thanks for this golden video. I finally understood that i talk too much because i want attention and validation from others.
Glad this video helped
The same exact thing happened to me except I’m a kid and a girl
Wow that's crazy
I heard when one doesn't talk others will wonder what one is thinking.
:)
I’m a talker trying to be more self aware. Always good to come back to this video to remind me that silence is a good thing.
Glad this video helps!
Thanks for your explanation. Great job bro
Thank you
I got silence when I got depressed
Depression will go away after some time
Thanks... You earned a sub because of that😂
Hang in there buddy.This too shall pass.
Me too
Better to remain Silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt
:)
I ruin my friendships by constantly looking for reassurance for my anxiety … I used to keep to myself when I was around people because my anxiety kept me from talking to people, now I talk when I’m anxious :/
In high school I was kind of a teacher’s pet and sought approval when I would raise my hand in class and say some shit that sounded smart. I learned through experience in college that I was just being annoying. I cringe at myself but I was still really young, you can’t be too hard on yourself since we’re all still learning.
I became aware of how annoying I was and since stopped but I feel like it’s something I still need to work on.
You got this. Keep working on yourself
Congrats for 100k sub
Thank you so much
woah I’m feeling a tad bit attacked in this vid. I have a little book that I carry around when I think about something I want to say but is super random or weird or when I’m rambling I write it down so I am more quiet
Thanks for sharing
I keep to myself at times so people don't have to hear me. Peaceful for them and less awkward for me.
:)
Great!
Thank you...
Glad this video helped