Healing from Grief, Loss and Death of a Loved One | Powerful Motivation Video
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- For those who have lost so much. For those who have been put through more than your fair share of suffering. For those who have been beaten down by life time and time again. For those who feel weak and tired from torment. I just want to say, you are brave. You are strong. You have gone through so much and are still here. You are a survivor. A fighter. And if you can get through all that you've gone through, you can get through anything. You've got this. Be patient with yourself. Be kind to yourself. And don't forget to love yourself.
In this RUclips video, I share how we can all get through these most difficult times of loss in our lives. Whether it's a person, a pet, or a breakup, these devastating events can change us forever. May these words bring you some solace and meaning. Peace and love.
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My son died 4 days ago, Im very much in pain, I dont know what to do, I cant accept the realization that his no longer with us, Please heal me oh Lord!😢😢😢
I’m so sorry for the loss of your son. I lost my boy too 2 months ago. May the lord show us the way through because I am at a loss of what to do.
Praying for you both
@@browneyedgirl1542 Im sorry for your loss too brother! 🥲♥️🙏
Praying for comfort
I am so sorry you lost your son😢. My son died on 18 November 2022. The space in my heart where he was torn from is still there, still painful and empty. I'm used to the the grief now, it is part of who I am. No words can comfort you, just know, you are not alone ❤
When my mom died about two years ago, the whole concept of life changed for me. The Joy and happiness of life just filtered away. Its not as bad now, but it was at a point in life where I felt like I was the camera, watching everyone be happy. While I was there, recording the happy memories of others.
Grief is the price you pay for for love when you lose that person and the stronger the love the stronger the grief stay busy
Sending love
You’ve put it so well. I feel like I’m observing people being happy while I just look on and remember I won’t have that joy again. But I want to
Exactly!🙏
The healing process can only be accomplished if we accept the reality we will never see our loved one again in this life. I lost my husband, my best friend after 50 years. When you’ve known someone that long you don’t know how to exist without them. Loving someone as long as I had him was the greatest gift he gave me. Positivity can help to accept what we cannot change.
Beloved, the good news is that we will reunite with our past deceased loved ones in Heaven. Even more mind blowing is that God will fulfill his promise to create a new heaven and world where we will live and Jesus will walk with us for 1000 years. It’s all throughout the Bible. The only requirement is that no one can enter the kingdom of Heaven unless through Christ the Lord and accept him as Lord and Savior. Repent of your sins. That’s it. Praise God! It’s going to be alright ❤
I lost my father because of the pandemic last year. I couldn't get to be with him in his last moments and it is haunting me everyday. I hope he is in peace wherever he is 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
After you have ceased to exist, sooner or later an exact copy of yourself with an exact copy of your brain, with an exact copy of your consciousness, with an exact copy of your mind, with an exact copy of your soul and with an exact copy of your spirit will randomly be created from scratch and will be realised somewhere else, on another exact copy of this Earth, in another exact copy of our observable universe, in another universe that is completely disconnected from our universe that is also created from nothing and that also pops into existence without a cause that has it's very own space and time that has it's very own big bang followed by it's very own subsequent evolution.
Over the course of eternity your exact life you have lived so far and every other possible variation of your life will ultimately be lived an infinite number of times by other exact copies of you, that have an exact copy of your brain, that have an exact copy of your consciousness, that have an exact copy of your mind, that have an exact copy of your soul and that have an exact copy of your spirit, living on other exact copies of this Earth, in other exact copies of our observable universe, in other universes that are completely disconnected from our universe that are also created from nothing and that also pop into existence without a cause that have their very own spaces and times that have their very own big bangs followed by their very own subsequent evolutions.
In conclusion, life after (your) death does NOT exist because there is no way for who you were before you died to persist after the chemical reactions in your brain and body come to an end. After you die (your) brain will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) consciousness will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) mind will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) soul will no longer function and will become inactive and (your) spirit will no longer function and will become inactive.
After you have ceased to exist, sooner or later an exact copy of yourself with an exact copy of your brain, with an exact copy of your consciousness, with an exact copy of your mind, with an exact copy of your soul and with an exact copy of your spirit will randomly be created from scratch and will be realised somewhere else, on another exact copy of this Earth, in another exact copy of our observable universe, in another universe that is completely disconnected from our universe that is also created from nothing and that also pops into existence without a cause that has it's very own space and time that has it's very own big bang followed by it's very own subsequent evolution.
Over the course of eternity your exact life you have lived so far and every other possible variation of your life will ultimately be lived an infinite number of times by other exact copies of you, that have an exact copy of your brain, that have an exact copy of your consciousness, that have an exact copy of your mind, that have an exact copy of your soul and that have an exact copy of your spirit, living on other exact copies of this Earth, in other exact copies of our observable universe, in other universes that are completely disconnected from our universe that are also created from nothing and that also pop into existence without a cause that have their very own spaces and times that have their very own big bangs followed by their very own subsequent evolutions.
In conclusion, life after (your) death does NOT exist because there is no way for who you were before you died to persist after the chemical reactions in your brain and body come to an end. After you die (your) brain will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) consciousness will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) mind will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) soul will no longer function and will become inactive and (your) spirit will no longer function and will become inactive.
same, my boyfriend died and I was in another state looking for our new place while he tied up loose ends back home. he died and none told me because we were so private with our relationship and I missed the funeral and didn't know he passed until weeks after trying to ge in touch with him. idk what to do anymore. Hope your feeling okay today. love and light ✨️❤
Even if you was there, as long as you love him deeply it will keep haunting you..
I lost my loved one, my fiance, everyday I stay beside her for fighting cancer..
In her last minute until she is gone, I was beside her at the hospital, I huged her, feel her body, smell her from warm to cold body..
But it still haunted me every day, it really² hurt me so deeply.
Sorry for my bad english
Hi, I genuinely hope you’re doing okay. My dad passed away because of covid, it was during lockdown and I lived in a different place. I didn’t get to see him in 4 months. It has been years and I’m still suffering from it everyday. I hope he is in peace too.
My father was my best friend and I was with him nearly every day of my life. He died two years ago at the age of 85. We were so in sync with each other and so alike in most every area of life, that it was like losing a twin when he died. It was unbearably dark for me for a month afterward, then I found myself again, somehow, but was still in a very lonesome place for about a year, of deep anguish. Then it slowly got to be less traumatic, even though I still have a little panic or anxiety some days, briefly here and there. And there is not a day that I don't think about him multiple times each day, but its not a haunting nor an obsession like it use to be. There was nothing I could do to recover from it, even though I talked to God about it all the time; but I didn't ask Him to make the pain go away, because I felt like if He did, that I would have turned my back on Dad and didn't need him anymore. I didn't want my dad to end up like nothing more than a character I had read about in a storybook. The grieving definitely had to run its course in my case. I couldn't just snap out of it. And the crazy thing is that I have lost all sorts of people over the years, and dealt with losing each of them pretty well--- friends, aunts, uncles, all my grandparents, and even my mom. But the trauma from losing my dad outweighed all of the rest put together. In spite of all that, I had a thought one day that helped a little, a thought that still crosses my mind often: My dad would hate to know that the last thing he did for me, through his dying, was to ruin the rest of my life. I loved my dad too much to put that burden on him now that he's gone, even though I know that none of that is true or even possible. God bless us all as we try to cope with life on planet earth. And may we all have our souls ready, once we are gone ourselves, so that we can finally be with the ones we love forever, in the presents of our God, and our Savior. . .
@JamesPalmer-ld8wj Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs. But I would rather believe in God and find out that I was wrong, than not believe in God and find out that I was wrong. There is no way that a soul got put into our body unless some higher intelligence than us put it there. And that's only one of over a million aspects that make believing in God the only possibility.
Just like your words, I believe it will be so beautiful.. Thank you for sharing.. I needed to see this
My dad died in 2015,I went through the process and fully accept his death now. We never stop missing them though. Life goes on and my dad's spirit still lives on in the infinite universe.
Your dads body died his spirit lives on in the afterlife
@@PostalWorker14 After you have ceased to exist, sooner or later an exact copy of yourself with an exact copy of your brain, with an exact copy of your consciousness, with an exact copy of your mind, with an exact copy of your soul and with an exact copy of your spirit will randomly be created from scratch and will be realised somewhere else, on another exact copy of this Earth, in another exact copy of our observable universe, in another universe that is completely disconnected from our universe that is also created from nothing and that also pops into existence without a cause that has it's very own space and time that has it's very own big bang followed by it's very own subsequent evolution.
Over the course of eternity your exact life you have lived so far and every other possible variation of your life will ultimately be lived an infinite number of times by other exact copies of you, that have an exact copy of your brain, that have an exact copy of your consciousness, that have an exact copy of your mind, that have an exact copy of your soul and that have an exact copy of your spirit, living on other exact copies of this Earth, in other exact copies of our observable universe, in other universes that are completely disconnected from our universe that are also created from nothing and that also pop into existence without a cause that have their very own spaces and times that have their very own big bangs followed by their very own subsequent evolutions.
In conclusion, life after (your) death does NOT exist because there is no way for who you were before you died to persist after the chemical reactions in your brain and body come to an end. After you die (your) brain will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) consciousness will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) mind will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) soul will no longer function and will become inactive and (your) spirit will no longer function and will become inactive.
My dad died in 2015 I had my wife to console me then now she’s gone also I miss them both terribly words can’t explain how much I miss them and their humor and love
The rug I had been walking on for 29 years had been pulled out from under me last week. Suddenly there is no routine, no caring for her, and no existence of my beloved Mummy in the house. Just sitting with a feeling of emptiness😔 and a huge gaping hole in my sad heart. I miss you Maa 💞😢
I feel your pain. I'm sorry for your loss, i lost my mum 3 weeks ago the pain is surreal. But we need to be positive. They would want that
@@Armyz I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Wishing you peace during this difficult time.
Thank you for your support and kindness 🙏
You’re not alone in the missing and the pain. That’s one thing we have in common even as senates. We are not alone.
I feel you. Lost my beloved mom 3 weeks ago and I feel I have no meaning to life. I loved taking care of here. It's definitely a gaping hole.
@@uptamistik I've lost that meaning as well caring for my dear dad, like a part of me has been taken with him. Half of me wants to soldier on, the other half cannot live with this intense grief and loss. Counselling is my only hope as no family around now. It's so dark and hopeless sometimes.
I thought of getting a grief counselor. I lost my grandparents and Dad recently. I can hear their voices and have voicemails from them. It makes me cry. I keep thinking of good memories with all of them. And I got angry at myself for not talking to them all sooner and not seeing my Dad sooner. Ugh it’s so hard. My heart goes out to everyone on here. May you comfort and peace. God bless. ❤
I know how you feel I lost my mon almost 3 years ago and stll cry for not be able to go for the last Christmas to spend time with her, almost she was predicting her death. Very hard to leave with the regrets 😢 also could hear her voice in the kitchen calling me in the morning after her funeral . Was very real, was almost she was inside a tunnel. Passed at 78 from heart failure.
I have been a full time caregiver for three years to my father that is very nearly 95 years. He has severe dementia. He is now slipping away in hospital. in these 3 years I woke up with him had breakfast with him, lunch, dinner, watch TV, do crosswords, have small altercations, laughs, jokes, walks, do some gardening together, reminisce together. In these three years I would assist him with medications, when he was ill, I would see to his tax papers, I would clean him when he had " accidents" and I did all this giving up my job. He is tatooed on my skin now. The simbiosis complete. Now he is slowly shutting down it will take a hell of a lot to get past the pain and sense of loss.
From Italy
When my baby girl Phoenix died on May 26 2023 i also died inside. However something in me was born. The way i see life. The way i see God. My relationship with God. Has developed an entire new dimension. I am so empty and can't wait to be w her. Being w her naturally has become my life goal. That's all i want. My other kids give me motivation to keep going. The pain in my soul is torturous. My heart goes out to anyone who has lost a child. Altho it has become better where i can go longer talking about her without crying or go longer wo crying for her, this pain has no comparison and only those who have gone thru it can truly understand. I love you my Phoenix 🐦🔥 💔
I lost my ex after dealing with his alcoholism and depression, not even a year after I left. He said he was getting help and had 2 daughters. I just found out today, 3 years later. Covid increased his anxiety and depression and he drank himself to death before his birthday. I’m beyond floored but this video is a beautiful reminder.
After losing my dad in 2012 and my grandma who raised me in 2017 she was 99 1/2 - what I've learned is : it's not something you get over, but something you get through.
How does one get through?
I lost my grandfather yesterday after he got a cardiac arrest, before getting cardiac arrest, a month ago, he told me that his chest is paining a lot and it is hard to breathe, he told this thing to his sons but they did not take it serious and I am regretting so much right now that I wish I could have taken him to the hospital but I didn't. I'll always regret. Please everyone reading this comment, pray for him
Praying for you.
Please dont have any regrets.
We cannot predict any future events but yes we can learn from them the hard way just as the people that coined that phrase.
“Learning the hard way” is such a great lesson on learning how to be a teacher to others for instance, your Grandkids.
You will have grandkids yourself some day
What will teach them?
What will you do with them?
Will you teach them how to build a lean to from a boyscout manual?
Will you teach them how to weld?
Will you teach them how to rip a board on a circular saw?
Will you teach them basic gun safety and then take them hunting?
Have you taught yourself any of these things?
Do you learn all about the things you can possibly do yourself from books?
This is what I did at a young age…a young married 19 year old that married his absolutely gorgeous and incredibly smart high school sweet heart.
We learned so much from reading how to books.
We became proficient at everything and saved sooooo much money from doing things ourselves, doing without cable tv and creature comforts and being debt free for most of our adult lives.
I had a wonderful 33 yesr marriage before cancer took her but in the meantime I invested in my kids and taught them skills I learned on my own.
I grew up without a Dad and had to be a man from a young age.
I was the youngest and most neglected of five boys without a Dad and as a free range kid I had friends, mostly from divorced homes , the 80’s were like that.
We raised eachother, us kids.
We learned right from wrong, we learned respect , we learned creed, we policed eachother, we had fiistfights and were best friends the next day.
We built bicycles by piecing together three parts bikes into one.
We made mistakes , we learned the skills and strengths of the orhers and everyone had their duties based in their craft.
It was a great way to grow up.
It made us men at a young age.
We all had stories, we all had pains, some of us were spoiled and some abused but we dealt with it.
We learned from it and we passed it to our kids.
I just had one of my adopted daughters send me a fathers day card thanking me for teaching her all the tricks and how to use all the tools.
She often shares with me every time she buys a new power tool.
She just got a new table saw and shes teaching her Son how to use it.
My wife was also a teacher.
She went from a nurse tech to a LPN to A RN to a NP and was the first To get her Doctorate of nursing at the college she got all her other degrees at.
She even became a professor of graduate Nurse Practitioners all while fighting stage Iv colon cancer.
My role was to take care of her, run the household, run my own mobile mechanic business and take care of our two adopted grandkids that we recently adopted.
When she died I had zero time to grieve and handled so much red tape I sometimes thought I was going to die from stress.
Its getting better now but now that I can relax more I find myself really grieving her and missing her badly.
I keep looking to see if I can find a letter she may have left for me to
Give me some sort of closure.
This is really hard but Im doing it and Imm getting by like I always did.
I KNOW i will see HER AGAIN.
@@Wookinpanub235 Great words!!. I hope things get easy for you as well :)
😭
My wife was killed in a horrific car crash we were in, Nov 2022. Every day i put time aside to grieve, in repect to her and also for me. I will always do this.
I lost my husband my daughter lost her daddy in a motorbike accident I dont know what to do with myself or how I will carry on with everything
@@flowers6869😥😢....I don' t know what to tell you that could help...just try to be strongh ...I know it's easy to speak... sending love to you and your family ❤️
Thankyou ❤️
@@LarissaBrighidCailleach thankyou ❤️
Lost my kid last month I don't know even can someone pray for me
I am praying for you now
Praying for you ❤
Prayed for you ✨
I lost my only brother 13 days back , the pain is unbearable
I wonder if I can ever accept my reality
I know how hard this must be and how much you all must have loved each other. I promise you as dark as it looks right now, everything changes and there will be a day when you can look back with love and fond memories ❤
So sorry for your loss 🤍 I lost my brother in 2020. Siblings are our first best friends 🤍 May your brother RIP amd know your grief is just love with no place to go 🤍 Take care of you 🤍
So sorry about your loss Pratiksha.. please try to stay strong mentally, let the emotions flow and cleanse.. i am myself in this grieving process.. ❤
I lost my husband last week suddenly at 42, and our daughter lost her daddy, he was the love of my life I feel panic every evening as night draws in and I feel so lost
I am so sorry to hear that love .. despite of everything you WILL find yourself again ,you'll be mad at the world , mad at everyone , mad at god too , sad as well but once you come to acceptance that maybe you cna't live with your husband anymore , maybe you can live FOR him . I hope you find your peace soon sweetheart
Sending love 💜
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from ?..
You will feel lost and so broken as though walking in a wakened dream and all the daily motions we go through in life for the living of our lives ie, going to work to make the money to pay the bills doesn't stop because we lost our most precious love and for some their soulmate as my beautiful wife was to me.I went through the day on a kind of auto pilot and was completely alone having no support from any of my brothers,and so feeling complete abandonment I turned back to our father in heaven, with uncontrollable tears and mixed emotions knowing deep deep down inside that I thought I wouldn't make i as was suicidal after so many conflicting emotions largely due to so many things which eventually lead to my wifes passing.That was on 28th August 2021.I now content myself due to my strong spiritual beliefs in Jesus and feel safe in the knowledge I will see her again in the afterlife in heaven and this is what keeps me going till my time comes for that reunion.I watched many nde's on RUclips which helped immensely with uncontrollable grief and pain of loss.These were the things that gave me strength and assurances of heaven and reunion with all our loved ones but most especially with my beautiful gorgeous best friend confidante love of my life and soulmate.God bless you my sister and God give you the strength to carry on this journey until you meet your husband again when your time comes also.Today I still cry but no longer in the fetal position with uncontrollable tears.I will never move on, but I am moving forward my dear.I send you love and compassion,if I can make it so will you.Again my heart felt condolences and try and remember many many more people are having this self same feeling of hopelessness after such loss so, knowing this also helped me imeasurabley drawing strength from each others weakness.💔🙏 x
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones cos I’m going through the same stage of grief, for me that’s the biggest pain humans have to go through to be honest. So I pray you find peace, comfort and happiness sooner than you’ll be hoping!
From 2007 to 2017 my dad, my sister, my nephew and my son passed on, it’s been so hard but the truth is, the only way out is through.
I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay.
@@richardmcguinn732 Thank you 🥲
@@zenjen3039 You’re absolutely welcome, I know life can be so cruel and unfair to us sometimes okay. But please do everything you can to hang on cos joy will be knocking at your door sooner than you’ll expecting my friend.
Sending you Love and Healing in Jesus Name 🙏🤍🕊from UK
sending you love, i also lost my father and brother it is very hard to live without loved one, whole family suffering 😭
My father lost his battle to cancer for 3 years and passed on August 4th 2023💔 so I needed to hear this...
I lost Mom on December 16, 2022. She suffered with dementia, as well as many physical debilitations in her last 5 years. I know her death was a beautiful release. I find myself on the floor, fetal, crying so hard there is no sound. I watch it as awareness and send love into that pain. I realize that it is trauma, my trauma, my mother's unheard pain, her forgotten self, screaming out through me to acknowledge the path her spirit chose. My grief is real, her pain is real and it is my gift to her to acknowledge, process and transmute that combined suffering through me and release it. Thank you, Todd. This video was right on time, as usual. Much love.
@@DavidWood-sv1fq I'm so sorry for your heartbreak and loss. This life is indeed precious in its finiteness, and I know that the memories we hold of our dear ones only strengthen the bonds that we hold with them. Peace and love to you.
My mom wasn’t hugs and kisses but I wish her her body died but her spirit lives on in afterlife
I lost my husband one month ago. The pain is so intense. It doesn't go away. I am so alone. People in my circle don't understand what I am going through. I received insensitive comments. I don't blame anyone cause they don't know or understand what i am going through.
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones cos I’m going through the same stage of grief, for me that’s the biggest pain humans have to go through to be honest. So I pray you find peace, comfort and happiness sooner than you’ll be hoping!
I feel the same. No one can really understand the amount of loss you're going through. I will reach out to a counseller however and I suggest you do the same. Take care.
Tears...are cleansing! The departed lives on forever in the ❤️.....
Remember sister when she was born....& Now awful to experience "she" is no more! She is free.... In infinite light 🕯️
@@maryseokley6061 After you have ceased to exist, sooner or later an exact copy of yourself with an exact copy of your brain, with an exact copy of your consciousness, with an exact copy of your mind, with an exact copy of your soul and with an exact copy of your spirit will randomly be created from scratch and will be realised somewhere else, on another exact copy of this Earth, in another exact copy of our observable universe, in another universe that is completely disconnected from our universe that is also created from nothing and that also pops into existence without a cause that has it's very own space and time that has it's very own big bang followed by it's very own subsequent evolution.
Over the course of eternity your exact life you have lived so far and every other possible variation of your life will ultimately be lived an infinite number of times by other exact copies of you, that have an exact copy of your brain, that have an exact copy of your consciousness, that have an exact copy of your mind, that have an exact copy of your soul and that have an exact copy of your spirit, living on other exact copies of this Earth, in other exact copies of our observable universe, in other universes that are completely disconnected from our universe that are also created from nothing and that also pop into existence without a cause that have their very own spaces and times that have their very own big bangs followed by their very own subsequent evolutions.
In conclusion, life after (your) death does NOT exist because there is no way for who you were before you died to persist after the chemical reactions in your brain and body come to an end. After you die (your) brain will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) consciousness will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) mind will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) soul will no longer function and will become inactive and (your) spirit will no longer function and will become inactive.
@@maryseokley6061 I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones cos I’m going through the same stage of grief, for me that’s the biggest pain humans have to go through to be honest. So I pray you find peace, comfort and happiness sooner than you’ll be hoping!
I'm in so much pain, the loss is unfathomable..
How is there beauty in grief?
Nothing is beautiful right now..
My whole world is black..
It's only been 2 weeks since I lost the love of my life..
Any spirituality I had is gone..
😢 what you said! Exactly
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones cos I’m going through the same stage of grief, for me that’s the biggest pain humans have to go through to be honest. So I pray you find peace, comfort and happiness sooner than you’ll be hoping!
I do desperately wish you’re feeling better at the moment.
@@dennenejones9441i pray you’re feeling much better now.
i lost my father two days ago.. it is so tough.. after losing my loving mother 16 years ago. it took so many years to adjust to this loss and now i ve lost both of them 😢
What a beautiful video! Couldn't stop crying. Thank you, Todd, my guru.
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones cos I’m going through the same stage of grief, for me that’s the biggest pain humans have to go through to be honest. So I pray you find peace, comfort and happiness sooner than you’ll be hoping!
Lost the love of my life 3 weeks ago...18 yrs together. Just going thru the motions. Breathe in breathe out.
Sorry to hear this, I don't know how I will cope when my husband goes his terminally ill...his my only friend as I don't have other close friends...how are you coping ...love and light ✨ 💛
I lost my grandma in August of 2020 during the pandemic. At times I feel okay, sometimes fine. But then I remember her, our moments. When we would cook together, eat together laugh together and just talk about her life. Sometimes we'd cry together or I to her. Ever since she died I find myself walking around in life lost with no sense of direction nor wanting to find a way. I feel I am floating above the deep end not knowing how to swim. I cried watching this video which I haven't done for sometime. I feel like I'd be lying if I said it gets easier. The truth is nobody knows if it gets better or worse...it just keeps going. I hope you find some comfort in reading this knowing your not hurting alone. Even though I am married now and have a great life...that fog still comes by, the cloud over me catches up to me and pours down on me. All we can really do is just take it one day at a time.❤
I just want to hug him and never let go I'm starting to cry
my mother passed on oct 11 on a wednesday night. she was 89 and suffering for the past 15 months
from weaknesses and other ailments. it was her time; her body was telling her it was time.
unable to talk she squeezed my hand with all her might few minutes before she fell unconscious.
i felt the last beat of her heart with my hand. i love you mother, with all my heart and soul.
Lost my mother February 19th 2022 to Cancer and my sister who was only 51 passed suddenly this past April. I feel lost in this life without them both, my mom was my world and my sister was my second mom. I have a strong faith in God but this pain I feel is too much to bear at times. I am going to seek grief and depression counseling to help me deal with losing the 2 woman that raised me. I pray in time through God and prayer will help heal all our hearts that are broken from losing our loved ones…..
I lost my youngest brother 3 weeks ago and it is so painful. I have been avoiding to recall the story of how he stop breathing. Because I would not be able to hold my heart. Trying my best to deal with my grief but at the same time I hope I will stay like this forever. He is so important in my life that I dont wish to accept his passing at all.
Feeling the same .. let's not fucking accept their death ... it's not logical not acceptable.. would rather deny than accept
My youngest brother died too,I just keep thinking it is just a dream and I will wake up and see him I cry for you everyday,Micheal I AM GOING TO MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY.😢😢💔GONE BUT NOT EVER FORGOTTEN ABOUT.
I LOVE YOU BROTHER INFINITI.
March 18,1988
August 11,2023.
Sending you Love and Healing In Jesus Name Amen 🙏
Hello 👋 I was wondering how you are doing at this moment? I do hope and pray that your heart be Full of Gods Love and that The Pain you feel be released a little daily In Jesus Name I Pray 👑🙏🤍🕊
Thanks for your time on this. It's a powerful message.
My little brother, uncle, baby, best friend, cousin, sister feels like constant overwhelming grief an saddeness 😢its so draining and tiring and the last thing i want to do is be alone with myself lol.. prayers for all the lost hurt souls out there may you find solace or and peace within to live life to the full and make your passed loved ones so proud ❤
No words. Only tears of gratitude. 🙏💙
Deaar Todd. Thank you for the reminder to spend time everyday with these feelings. Loss and grief have so many faces. 🙏💓
I lost my Mother 2 weeks ago and I'm struggling but trying my best to think of the good times rather than on the negative
3 months in from losing my mum the pain and emotions are a lot stronger than in the beginning. I hope anyone reading this remains strong as out loved ones would want that
My grandma just passed away yesterday. I'm so broken because she was the rock of my entire family. I want my grandma back
Yours is grandmother, what if it was your mum. My Dad has slept, as it stands here, life is very hard for me to deal with.
@@ojoborchikasiliaugusta3878 My grandmother raised me, so it feels as though my ma passed. But either way it hurts and my condolences go out to you. I'm still trying to cope so I'm in the same position as you.
Sending love
@@ToddPerelmuter Thank you so much
Bless your heart Todd…💞
The fact that Im watching this video shows that im still not over my grieving process. I lost my mother 2 years ago after a horrible battle with cancer.. I tried to avoid grief with distraction, moved to a wholy new country, new job, but I guess things have to take their course
Thanks, this is great. Living it, feeling it...♥️
Thank you very much. ❤
Thank you ❤🙏
Thank you for this guidance Todd. It has been 18 mo. since the passing of my husband and the hardest challenge of my life to continue moving forward without him here. I've had faith that things will get better, but starting to think the suffering has been too long. I figured I need to think about it differently, as many solutions in life come that way. I had been at a loss on what to do. God bless you for helping people as you are.🙏🏻💖 💖💖
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from ?..
I lost my wife my best friend a week ago, I feel so empty and can't see a future without her. I love her so much it's breaking me apart and I dont know what to do. I'm so lost
Thank you ❤😢
Its traumatic and exhausting. Especially when u lose someone in your arms took their last breathe. I lost husband due to Covid 3yrs ago. It's been a journey of healing myself. U have to put your mind at ease. Tell yourself it was out of your control. Have to move on when u are ready. The pain won't leave or u won't forget. But u must find peace within u. Get strength to move on without them. Not easy but with support of family friends it can be done. If u feel don't help seek therapy. 🙏
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from ?..
thank you
I needed this today.
God bless this man🙏
After you have ceased to exist, sooner or later an exact copy of yourself with an exact copy of your brain, with an exact copy of your consciousness, with an exact copy of your mind, with an exact copy of your soul and with an exact copy of your spirit will randomly be created from scratch and will be realised somewhere else, on another exact copy of this Earth, in another exact copy of our observable universe, in another universe that is completely disconnected from our universe that is also created from nothing and that also pops into existence without a cause that has it's very own space and time that has it's very own big bang followed by it's very own subsequent evolution.
Over the course of eternity your exact life you have lived so far and every other possible variation of your life will ultimately be lived an infinite number of times by other exact copies of you, that have an exact copy of your brain, that have an exact copy of your consciousness, that have an exact copy of your mind, that have an exact copy of your soul and that have an exact copy of your spirit, living on other exact copies of this Earth, in other exact copies of our observable universe, in other universes that are completely disconnected from our universe that are also created from nothing and that also pop into existence without a cause that have their very own spaces and times that have their very own big bangs followed by their very own subsequent evolutions.
In conclusion, life after (your) death does NOT exist because there is no way for who you were before you died to persist after the chemical reactions in your brain and body come to an end. After you die (your) brain will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) consciousness will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) mind will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) soul will no longer function and will become inactive and (your) spirit will no longer function and will become inactive.
Beautiful 🙏🍃 Thank you for the video
Hope you’re feeling much better if you’ve gone through grief?
Please keep these coming 🙌🏾💚
After you have ceased to exist, sooner or later an exact copy of yourself with an exact copy of your brain, with an exact copy of your consciousness, with an exact copy of your mind, with an exact copy of your soul and with an exact copy of your spirit will randomly be created from scratch and will be realised somewhere else, on another exact copy of this Earth, in another exact copy of our observable universe, in another universe that is completely disconnected from our universe that is also created from nothing and that also pops into existence without a cause that has it's very own space and time that has it's very own big bang followed by it's very own subsequent evolution.
Over the course of eternity your exact life you have lived so far and every other possible variation of your life will ultimately be lived an infinite number of times by other exact copies of you, that have an exact copy of your brain, that have an exact copy of your consciousness, that have an exact copy of your mind, that have an exact copy of your soul and that have an exact copy of your spirit, living on other exact copies of this Earth, in other exact copies of our observable universe, in other universes that are completely disconnected from our universe that are also created from nothing and that also pop into existence without a cause that have their very own spaces and times that have their very own big bangs followed by their very own subsequent evolutions.
In conclusion, life after (your) death does NOT exist because there is no way for who you were before you died to persist after the chemical reactions in your brain and body come to an end. After you die (your) brain will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) consciousness will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) mind will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) soul will no longer function and will become inactive and (your) spirit will no longer function and will become inactive.
BEAUTIFUL AMEN 🙏
I lost my father last April and this resonates so deeply with me - thankyou for sharing ♥
@@DavidWood-sv1fq After you have ceased to exist, sooner or later an exact copy of yourself with an exact copy of your brain, with an exact copy of your consciousness, with an exact copy of your mind, with an exact copy of your soul and with an exact copy of your spirit will randomly be created from scratch and will be realised somewhere else, on another exact copy of this Earth, in another exact copy of our observable universe, in another universe that is completely disconnected from our universe that is also created from nothing and that also pops into existence without a cause that has it's very own space and time that has it's very own big bang followed by it's very own subsequent evolution.
Over the course of eternity your exact life you have lived so far and every other possible variation of your life will ultimately be lived an infinite number of times by other exact copies of you, that have an exact copy of your brain, that have an exact copy of your consciousness, that have an exact copy of your mind, that have an exact copy of your soul and that have an exact copy of your spirit, living on other exact copies of this Earth, in other exact copies of our observable universe, in other universes that are completely disconnected from our universe that are also created from nothing and that also pop into existence without a cause that have their very own spaces and times that have their very own big bangs followed by their very own subsequent evolutions.
In conclusion, life after (your) death does NOT exist because there is no way for who you were before you died to persist after the chemical reactions in your brain and body come to an end. After you die (your) brain will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) consciousness will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) mind will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) soul will no longer function and will become inactive and (your) spirit will no longer function and will become inactive.
I just lost my mom of dementia. Thankfully she passed peacefully in her sleep last night. It has broken me, feeling a sort of emptiness and sadness. She was an incredibly strong women, stubborn at times, always loving, caring and supportive. As children, that’s all we want. Mom, I love you, Marc ❤
I lost my husband this year to cancer..he was only 36..theres no pain that can compare..the ache is unbearable at times..we were together 19 yrs..h.s sweethearts..most days i wish God took me too..a part of me died with him that day💔
Sending love
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones cos I’m going through the same stage of grief, for me that’s the biggest pain humans have to go through to be honest. So I pray you find peace, comfort and happiness sooner than you’ll be hoping!
Lost my mom to kidney failer she gave her last breath when i was with her nd im use all the negativity to my boxing career in be famus one day got gave me a talet he teaches my mind nd my hands to war till i hang to gloves and retire god bless every one goin thru depression nd seeing this video because we are in a dark path but we are trying to see the light
Sending love
Hopefully i can get through the grief of losing my mother a year ago. Shes all i had. The world is different without her and seems meaningless. Hopefully something in time will change things for thw better. Right now im a lonewolf with no sense of direction.
I lost my dad 2 weeks ago, and it was unexpected. So many things we'd planned to do that ill never get to experience. Memories every where I turn. Feel like I'd rather die than face the world alone without him, my sole parent.
Sending you all my love 💖
That's what can trigger me a lot, I had big plans this year for my Dad for the summer and had the rug pulled out. So much sadness and grief can still hit me.
I lost my husband just 15 days back and can't accept the fact that i will never be able to see him touch him hug him or just be around him, i wish i could say him how much he meant to me.
Im sorry about your loss, my condolence goes out to you, hopfully youre better now? Its nice talking to people with similer experience likewise, i lost my late wife to a horrible car wreck four years ago it was a terrible experience for me, but i kept strong for my teenage daughter hoping for the best future for her, it'd be nice to talk to you more maybe have a great conversation if you dont mind send me your gmail adress so i could reach out on you .?
Sending love
Sending love
Thank you for this video,I stumbled across it on my feed.i really need to hear words of comfort.just in may of this year,I lost my soulmate,been having difficulties with grief.
Sending all my love ❤
My father died few days ago, and I'm running around the city, bringing documents back and forth, with no time to process the loss. bureaucracy is the aspect of death no one talks about and I hate it.
Life doesn’t end it changes
After you have ceased to exist, sooner or later an exact copy of yourself with an exact copy of your brain, with an exact copy of your consciousness, with an exact copy of your mind, with an exact copy of your soul and with an exact copy of your spirit will randomly be created from scratch and will be realised somewhere else, on another exact copy of this Earth, in another exact copy of our observable universe, in another universe that is completely disconnected from our universe that is also created from nothing and that also pops into existence without a cause that has it's very own space and time that has it's very own big bang followed by it's very own subsequent evolution.
Over the course of eternity your exact life you have lived so far and every other possible variation of your life will ultimately be lived an infinite number of times by other exact copies of you, that have an exact copy of your brain, that have an exact copy of your consciousness, that have an exact copy of your mind, that have an exact copy of your soul and that have an exact copy of your spirit, living on other exact copies of this Earth, in other exact copies of our observable universe, in other universes that are completely disconnected from our universe that are also created from nothing and that also pop into existence without a cause that have their very own spaces and times that have their very own big bangs followed by their very own subsequent evolutions.
In conclusion, life after (your) death does NOT exist because there is no way for who you were before you died to persist after the chemical reactions in your brain and body come to an end. After you die (your) brain will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) consciousness will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) mind will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) soul will no longer function and will become inactive and (your) spirit will no longer function and will become inactive.
I never understood the love I had suppressed for the person many loss until he was gone. When he died, apart of me died with him. His death has been beyond impactful. I will never be the same. Taking the time to grieve him everyday is something that I can’t control because it just happens everyday no matter how many laughs, smiles or good times. I know this will be a process.
Accepting the nightmare of grief for what it is and allowing yourself to feel all of the feelings is the only way forward without the trauma
My brother tries to rationalize death but it is a loss that you can grow and learn from
Blessed to have anyone now days some don't have support or anyone to love them adopt your own family even if it's a pet we all need love
Thank you for your output it was very helpful I love you all ❤❤
Grief really hurts but I am happy to feel that pain.
Hope you’re feeling much better now?
Lost my little sister in a car accident. In 2018..
I grew up with her all my childhood. It's difficult indeed.
Great video btw brotha 🙏🏼
I lost my dad 20 years ago, and my mother 2 years ago,I was her caregiver for the last 18 years of her life, I'm a loner and it seems that all I do every day is cry ,wishing they could come back,I miss them so so much
I'm so sorry. I can relate. If you can find it on here, read my post about my father dying a couple of years ago. He and my sister and I were my mother's care giver for over fifty years, due to her getting hurt in a serious car accident when they were newly weds. They were on their way to church one Sunday morning when it happened, out in California where he was stationed in the Navy, back in the late 1950's. Anyway my post might make you see that you're not so completely alone--- that there are others out there like me, who can understand your pain and your loss, even though most people do not seem to get it at all. God bless you.
@@jman3254 Thank you
@@Pault3788 After you have ceased to exist, sooner or later an exact copy of yourself with an exact copy of your brain, with an exact copy of your consciousness, with an exact copy of your mind, with an exact copy of your soul and with an exact copy of your spirit will randomly be created from scratch and will be realised somewhere else, on another exact copy of this Earth, in another exact copy of our observable universe, in another universe that is completely disconnected from our universe that is also created from nothing and that also pops into existence without a cause that has it's very own space and time that has it's very own big bang followed by it's very own subsequent evolution.
Over the course of eternity your exact life you have lived so far and every other possible variation of your life will ultimately be lived an infinite number of times by other exact copies of you, that have an exact copy of your brain, that have an exact copy of your consciousness, that have an exact copy of your mind, that have an exact copy of your soul and that have an exact copy of your spirit, living on other exact copies of this Earth, in other exact copies of our observable universe, in other universes that are completely disconnected from our universe that are also created from nothing and that also pop into existence without a cause that have their very own spaces and times that have their very own big bangs followed by their very own subsequent evolutions.
In conclusion, life after (your) death does NOT exist because there is no way for who you were before you died to persist after the chemical reactions in your brain and body come to an end. After you die (your) brain will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) consciousness will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) mind will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) soul will no longer function and will become inactive and (your) spirit will no longer function and will become inactive.
Sending love
I had a former girlfriend of mine die on the 11th. We went separate ways after HS and just began to reconnect. Recently I had a desire to want to meet up with her again to talk with her. Came home from work and found out she passed suddenly. I’m completely shattered. I loved her. I’ve never experienced a pain like this before. This hurts so much.
Lost my daughter Christmas day , and your vid probably saved my live from where i was headed .
Mai is my wife .
Emma was my dearly beloved daughter i lost , my best friend .
Thank you .
My heart goes out to you
I've been grieving for 31 years, and I'm still grieving!!!
I lost my partner of over 2 years last March 17, 2024 & until now I cannot accept his passing.It was a massive heart attack that did him.Everyday I think of him.Everyday I talk to him,,,grief is a real hard work,,,😢😢😢
I lost my husband 10 days ago, ew have been together for 19 years and left me with 5 beautiful and wonderful children. The pain is unbearable and hurting me so much every day. I have to be strong for my kids.
Sending love
I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones cos I’m going through the same stage of grief, for me that’s the biggest pain humans have to go through to be honest. So I pray you find peace, comfort and happiness sooner than you’ll be hoping!
I pray you’re feeling much better at the moment.
To those who have lost their loved ones my prayers are with you and your family and you may find you in the midst
Attachment to someone we love is never easy to let go. Grieving process is a way to heal the love we have. It can be moments of appreciation and gratitude that warms the heart. Let it be. To know someone lovely was in your life . Now safe and peaceful
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@@jsmith6262 It is kind of you to let me know. 👍☺️
@@sumithrasiva1507 After you have ceased to exist, sooner or later an exact copy of yourself with an exact copy of your brain, with an exact copy of your consciousness, with an exact copy of your mind, with an exact copy of your soul and with an exact copy of your spirit will randomly be created from scratch and will be realised somewhere else, on another exact copy of this Earth, in another exact copy of our observable universe, in another universe that is completely disconnected from our universe that is also created from nothing and that also pops into existence without a cause that has it's very own space and time that has it's very own big bang followed by it's very own subsequent evolution.
Over the course of eternity your exact life you have lived so far and every other possible variation of your life will ultimately be lived an infinite number of times by other exact copies of you, that have an exact copy of your brain, that have an exact copy of your consciousness, that have an exact copy of your mind, that have an exact copy of your soul and that have an exact copy of your spirit, living on other exact copies of this Earth, in other exact copies of our observable universe, in other universes that are completely disconnected from our universe that are also created from nothing and that also pop into existence without a cause that have their very own spaces and times that have their very own big bangs followed by their very own subsequent evolutions.
In conclusion, life after (your) death does NOT exist because there is no way for who you were before you died to persist after the chemical reactions in your brain and body come to an end. After you die (your) brain will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) consciousness will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) mind will no longer function and will become inactive, (your) soul will no longer function and will become inactive and (your) spirit will no longer function and will become inactive.
I lost my sister at the age of twelve she was 13 she drowned in a car accident. I watched my mother n father greave . It was strange I was all they had left at home . I started using cannabis to sleep at night 🌙 I tried to run from the grief. I ended up on heroin by the time I was 17 . But I have realised that when u learn you grow . Today I'm doing better however there are still bad days . Freedom comes from within ✨️ thank you Todd ❤
the hard part is acceptance because it’s too painful at first
I lost my cat, brother and father on consecutive days. It knocked the wind out of me for awhile. Slowly getting on with my life .
I just lost my stepfather. He was truly my father, and all i can do is cry. RIP my king 🕊️
Sending love
My experience was very different. I was in the room when my mother passed. My dreams thereafter were that of my mother screaming and yelling at me and I woke in the morning crying. I finally woke up one day and said I forgive you. Not for anything my mother did while alive but she left me.
This may never be seen
Today i lost my mother, she was everything to me, now im 21 with aspergers, cant cook, cant drive, last of my family
Right now it just feels like everything is turned against me, feeling cold, alone, desperate need of a hug, and just non-stop flowing tears since im on my own without any important life skills
Sending you love
I lost my beloved husband February 2023. Seems like yesterday. Still going through the grieving process.😢😢
I lost my mom last year and my sister 3 years ago from a murder I’m still not over it but I must say I took the first step to getting help by going to therapy
My God bless you with light and love& strength.may the souls of our near and dear ones always be blessed and may they rest in peace.May God bless us too to bear the irreplaceable loss and shower His Grace ,love , light and healing upon us.Amen
Last year on February my uncle was driving back from Pennsylvania because he is a delivery driver then he got in a really bad car crash. His wife survived by he did it. It was very hard for my family. I am so heartbroken from this day every time, I always think of him, and almost every night I cry 2:24
😢 I hope he’s in a better place now
Sending love
I thought I had a good relationship with my father. I loved him. He was not big on showing love, especially after I became an adult. I have found out he didn't include me in his will. He only included my 2 brothers. It is haunting me. Not greed. I am not worried about material things but what did I do to him. What did I do to make him angry enough at me to not want to include me.
i lost my little brother (23) to suicide less than a week ago. he was my best friend in the world and i am heartbroken. i had no idea he was feeling that way. he was the most positive, selfless, innocent kid and he saved me from suicide multiple times. it kills me that i couldn't do the same for him. lord gimme peace 💔
Sending all my love
I lost my career job. It was my life. Decades of friendships were my family. Im alone now, .. with no interest in living. ... the loss put me in depression.
I have anxiety and insomnia.
I don't sleep anymore. I only stress on my loss, and how i want my life back. Im unable to accept. I just suffer. Im unable to do anything else because of depression . Its mentally paralyzing.. .. I've called 988. Its not going well for me
I lost my mum June 12th last year 387 days ago I haven’t stopped crying since. Heartbroken 💔 forever
I lost my feincee jul 14 2023 at the age of 33 she was in the medical field helping other's she was such a beautiful woman inside and out i would never wish loss on anyone i can't even describe my feelings of loss grief loneliness hurt stress financially physically and emotionally im honestly scared rest in peace Naomi 💔💔💔
I left my boyfriend's house on Tuesday - been taking care of him after his stage 4 lung cancer diagnosis. Came back to my house for a shower and when I returned to his house, I found him on the floor - he had passed away. My grief is unbearable, please pray for me.😥😰 Knew he was in last stage but that doesn't make it any easier.
Sending all my love
@@ToddPerelmuter Thank you so much, not dealing too well right now.💞
Sometimes it's too much to process all at once. Takes time for that to run it's course.
I lost my dad two months ago I just can’t live without him it’s hard to accept. I’m trying to get over it but I’m unable to do it. I still feel everyday that he will come home tonight but he’s not coming ….. he was too young just 44 my mom and I are in great shock. This feeling is the worst no one can describe it. I feel lost everyday I miss him so much.
Sending love
I lost my father two months ago. I cannot think of anything else when I am awake.
Sending love
Celebrating them what a blessing they brought into your lives one day you see them again Heaven What have we lost we be reunited one day no more tears knees will bow and acknowledge Jesus as our lord and savior peace harmony all the days forever and ever thankyou Jesus the 👑
I thought I would die, the pain is so aching
I still grieve I think of the good memories not the bad
My bestfriend died one week ago from that Day I am just thinking about him only . My mind is not ready to accept the fact that he is no more . 😢
It’s hard to understand grief but it is a process