@@zexo6584 They show no emotional response. Dont give you the time of day. Etc. Imagine someone who you met at a park, but no contact/connection was established. That's how you know. Ghosting? Just drop it
@@loser4cent 7 years?! The fuck is wrong with you man? forget about her and move on already, otherwise, you gonna end up imploding yourself and she still wouldn't give 2 flying fucks.
I hate doing these things to women but I have no choice. When I try to be nice (which is in my nature) they run away. When I almost ignore them they come back.
TEZ I feel you on every level. I'm goin through the same EXACT THING it's fucked up like you said but females want the opposite of what you give them sadly that's why no contact is so effective Ik this.
I was just like you, but eventually I was forced to ignore mine for 3 weeks straight then she started crawling back! 🤣 (in all honesty though, I probably fucked up miserably what happened next!).
Explore17 they always come crawling back 🤣🤣once you show em that ain't no other guy like you and can live without them. Then they come questioning you wanting answers and saying your acting different talking about are you talking to someone else? Or moving on, losing their shit lol
The no contact rule is critical And it does work %100 If it doesn’t work, then it still worked Believe it or not This is Because if she doesn’t reach out to you or you don’t win her back after using the no contact rule, then all that really means is that she was never that in to you in the first place and it’s time for you to move on my friend. Speaking from experience Know your worth folks
@@firoskhan4198 If you have to choose from two persons in your life tgan choose the second one. Because if u have loved the first person than you wud not have fell for second person. And you got your answer.
In my case ... Its different He said me to go away from his life.... So i never contacted him back ....i know he must be happy.. Yes it was a fyt...if he really cared abt me ....shouldnt he reach out?
Bad move - any genuinely confident guy will see through pathetic "shit test" bs and see it the behaviour of an insecure dog or child, and not be interested
I've cut contact for 7 weeks with my ex, and YES this worked!! You're a genius, man. I know my worth, now I got my respect back. She doesn't want to lose me but I won't invest in worthless people. I may kick her ass this week and will move on. Thanks a lot for your videos!! You let me focus on myself and get what I want. Incredible stuff.
No contact definitely works. 4 years of FWB's we never got into a fight. Finally went into a relationship after a year of her asking for it. In 4 days she started 2 fights with me and ended it. I didn't beg or plead, didn't chase. In 3 weeks she sent me this emoji 👀 I had no clue what that mean so I ignored it and went on with my life. 3 days later she sent me another texting saying "So you're ignoring me now"? We talked on the phone and the very first thing she said after the small talk of, how are you, how you been, she said I miss you. Moral of the story, stay in no contact people. It works, it's hard as hell, but worth it.
I messed up with my girl all the time she breakup patchup and this time it's been 10 days she don't want me to be with her she says she don't love me anymore. But last night she talked to me but very harshly and said the same thing that she won't come back. Do you think if I won't be in contact she will come back?
No contact rule is to focus on yourself ! To be in the right head space , not always wasting energy on another person who is taking you for granted ! to better yourself , all the other things fall into place naturally ...good or bad you will have your answer ...The no contact rule is not a narc manipulative tool to hurt the other person ...But it is definitely there to maintain your own self worth and dignity , even for some over thinkers , sanity ... peace
If you abruptly stop talking to someone for no reason except you are self centered, socially inept and have no respect for other people then you are a dipshit and don't deserve anybody.
Agreed. I hesitate to call no contact “wrong” or “dysfunctional.” Different strokes for different folks. But I feel strongly that if an issue cannot be addressed and resolved with positive, respectful communication, it’s not a good fit for me. I’m honest and sincere and I don’t say hard things I don’t mean. If someone says they don’t want to see me anymore, I believe them and I cut my losses. If it was all a ploy or test for me to “prove myself” by chasing, I flunked. If they need a “temporary break” I’m moving forward. Maybe we’ll catch up later or maybe not.
If a girl tries to do this to a guy with high self esteem then this won't work. I had girls who suddenly stopped contacting me and I will usually just assume that they lost interest and I will merely move on and forget about them.
@@RantTherapist Science includes facts and evidence. If isn't surprising you didn't provide any. You are the one glorifying that you don't know shit, you clown.
It’s different in the context of a LTR where both parties have invested more than just feelings. But I agree, if I’m ever disrespected so much to where a girlfriend ghosts me she gets cut off for life out of principle. No second chances
You ignored her and now she is your fiance. Sounds like you found yourself a winner with great self esteem! Maybe If I just ignore all the women I find attractive one of them will pay my mortgage and work 3 jobs to buy me a ferrari.
yungmatt009 build up your roster man. Don’t talk to just one girl. It helps. Because don’t think for one minute that girls talk to only one guy at a time. You are just the guy in the moment. Make the most of it.
I don't deny that this works. But the fact that this is what "love" ultimately boils down to, kinda makes me want to take myself out of this misery and just off myself.
Ir you look into the many forms of Love in the Christian and Greek perceptive you'll see the connection between woman and man is the lowest type of Love, the strongest being the Love the Lord feels towards us.
@@coralbricks Thanks for that thoughtful comment. I do have some experience looking into those different types of love, but that was ~15 yrs ago. I remember some of them, but don't remember all of them. And definitely couldn't give a good holistic overview of all of them. Probably worth going back and taking a look at.
She is weak. Weak people tend to leave rather than willing to work things out. They run away from you, from their problems and when life beats them up, they come back crawling . That simple. NC helps you out.
I totally agree with this. I remember one day I had a date with a woman and it was fun. I didn't reveal more about myself to her. The next day I decided to remain quiet, doing my stuff. She later called me, I don't know for what reason. I didn't pick the call. She call 3 more times. Still I didn't pick the call. At night she finally called. I picked and I started greeting her. She wanted to know why I didn't pick up her call and also asked me if she did something bad to me as a result of rejecting her call. I was short of words. I couldn't even respond. To my surprise she apologized and wanted us to meet again to know what's going on. My expectation was that she was supposed to leave me after rejecting her calls but in reality, it is the opposite. Now I see why No Contact rule works.
David Moon don’t chase a check either, chase yourself. What does that mean? There are things we need to do, and thinks we want to do, find your balance. Giving too much to one side, and you’re losing your battle.
No it's actually the most right to say that. Because even if it's a must, it's still manipulative, subliminal; so it's devastating for your relationship through that person's subconcious. *I hate human mind*
I've been in no contact for 7 weeks and she has not reached out once during that time. No contact doesn't always get them anxious enough to make the move. They make the move when they still have an interest level in you (still attracted). When they don't, you never hear from them again, period.
My girlfriend and I started to argue about how she wanted to go out and party and all this immature things I dont want in my life.. and I pretty much walked out of her place because of that. It definitely hurt a lot and I was super frustrated. I havent talked to her since. She knows that there will be none of that if we had a relationship. I absolutely like her so much, but I will not put myself in a position to fail knowing and accepting someone who wants to live that way. KNOW YOUR VALUE KINGS 🤴 no contant.
They seek to fullfill their needs that their current man cannot. For example he might be good at sex and good at ignoring her so she seeks your attention and non sexual time that she cannot get from her lover. Do not feed her needs, she is his problem now, not yours. Find the courage to walk away from those vampires. It will drive them crazy that you deny anything sexual with them, they cannot comprehend that you did a complete 180 turn. This is the power of being a man, you can change your circumstances at any given moment using the power of your mind.
Heard this from other coaches, but the way you present it is so unique that it sounds like a new concept. Great job, sir! You definitely deserve more subscribers. The content in your channel offers so much value, man!
That means she is either in a rebound relationship or was never interested in you in the first place. NC will help you to pull yourself together and move on. I am nearly jn the 4th week of my NC and hasnt reached out to me so far. So I presume he Never loved me in the first place, therefore this thought motivates me not to get too much upset and get over asap.
If this is true, it just proves to show how moronic and pathetic human beings are... love is not a way of manipulation- if you need to psychologically manipulate someone to love you, it’s not love.
It’s not manipulation. It’s simply moving on from being dumped and not being a bitch about it. If she wants to get back with you then she’ll contact you, if not then we must keep our heads up and carry on.
I think its 50 50 it may or may not work. Depending whether the person really liked you in the first place. I think if he or she doesn't contact you after 2-3 weeks, its pretty much over.
Exactly this only works out if she was into you in first place, otherwise it does not even though you are winning cause you get her or you safe time. The issue is that then you do not see her the same way as before
You're right but it's a win-win situation though. Either she comeback to you or she won't comeback at all. If she doesn't comeback then it's still a win, it just shows that she's not into you in the first place
It's such a waste of time to try to get a certain person to be interested in you. I would rather go travel to have fun on my own. I do not want what I cannot have because when I travel I always run into a surprise and it's a better alternative 😂
I did the No Contact routine 10 years ago on a chick I liked when I could tell it wasn't going anywhere. She just contacted me 10 years later, 3 months out of a 6 year relationship and asked ME out. The No Contact routine is real.
@Tyler Durden the important thing was that I spent 10 years doing my own thing. If it was going to happen, it would happen on its own. The best thing I did was go no contact.
Look guys let me give you a tip. If you go no contact with someone, which you didn’t spend enough time before going no contact. It may not work. Best trick is : before going no contact just give her your full attention for day or 2 than she will push away from you little. After just text her and go no contact. The no contact break will be intense for her and you but it will work much better. I know it’s kinda manipulative but if you come this far to apply this trick to someone than you need to rethink your values and purpose in life.
No contact is like "the magnetic effect" - basically women are like magnets: positive only attracts negative, and negative only attracts positive! (Basically too much attention repels her, and too much ignorance attracts her!).
@@xonlytyrek3601 I'm trying to apply as I learn about those weird creatures: apparently my crush is making it really hard for me so I started researching! 😅 (I'm 21 and new to this stuff!).
great advice. thank you sir. the best way of gaining the attention of someone who isn't treating you right...is by withdrawing YOUR attention from them...looking forward to reading your book...
No contact only works if the girl still cares. If she’s already talking to someone new then it most likely won’t work. It’s only jeopardizing your chances with her as she’s sharing her time with something new and shiny.
Hey Chris... I did use No contact rule to my girlfriend who was pulling away from me.. And It worked💯. Thank you bro and keep on doing dis kind of vedios I love them they are saving relationships.
I just experienced it’s effectiveness just 3 hours ago. My girlfriend suddenly pulled away after 4 months of our times together on a daily basis. I felt like emotional shit got thrown at me. Just did meditation and stayed cool for a week. It worked like charm. She texted me three hours ago and asked if I am really ok why this silence . I said I am ok. But she keeps asking really are you ok? Are you testing me with your silence? Lol. We had a nice one hour video chat. Chemistry seem to be returning back . Lol
I’ve dealt with plenty woman out my life i can honestly say your right bro..it’s really does build the attraction with the no contact rule, if you talk to each other every day all day it’s not gonna be no excitement than she gone get bored with you, the refreshing feeling of not talking to each other in a minute than reunite is damn near magical she gone be so happy to see you again 💯
Thank you Develop Attraction thanks to your video I was able to get my woman back and now starting to get intimate. Please continue doing what you’re doing.
I know that everything you're saying is true, but is anyone else not sickened that we have to conjure up a sense of anxiety in the person we want in order for them to be attracted to us? Like if I have to do that in order to keep someone I'm interested in, interested in me, then how could that ever end well?
If it works use it - if it doesn't work change it. The basis of every scientist that ever lived. Life is a great big social experiment, don't take it personally, just observe and learn over time and remember to experiment whenever you're able. Never stop growing my gals and guys. x
Thank you so much. I've actually been doing the no contact rule for a few years now and I think I'm starting to see some progress. She texted me and told me to "leave me alone" or she will "call the police and get a restraining order". She finally texted me back, thanks again!!
this is true..ghost a woman for real and all she will do is think about you...But that's not the reason to ghost a woman is to get back together...it's used to move yourself on and the results of that is...she'll do nothing but think about you the rest of her life..the no contact rules is close to the language of silence which ends all conversations. Be it an argument or a conversation of accusation...I used it in court hearings which had the effect of untruth being directed towards me. Having had practice (and it does take practice) Proved the guilt on the other. What I've learned in using silence ...the uncomfortable atmosphere that shows up lets me know I just obtained the upper hand and leave the aggressor standing in their in their own shame ...
I have no idea how I stumbled upon your videos, but I’m 2 and a half deep and I’ve never made a more sure audible purchase than buying yours just now. Fantastic content
I didn't contact her... And she got married to another guy within 6 months... When it's not written in the fate nothing you do can change it... I still love her alot...But she's gone for ever...won't even see her in this life
I've made a huge mistake in my relationship, i asked my gf about a guy that she was talking about, because i found out that he liked all her pics on instagram, and i saw that she liked his new pic, and a VERY VERY OLD one. The problem is that im not close to her right now, and it will take a while for us to meet again. After that, admiting my mistake to myself i started being an alpha again, doing the no contact rule worked well.
It even works when I go out alone. Earbuds in, looking too hip for the place, NEVER have eye-contact with other than the staff....Works wonders - the girls contact ME in bars, asking questions. I even tried some props when going out alone - a lollipop can work wonders, if you wear a suit like me :)
I’d highly recommend Atomic Attraction! One of the best relationship books out there. It’s always best to read the book multiple times to grasp the information.
Think of it as a magnet, negative charge NEVER attracts negative charge! - one of you will eventually find a way back if you guys are still attracted to each other.
I love this no contact rule this stuff is very effective he'll make them come back to you on their hands and knees begging take control back of the relationship the hell what they think
Well its true. I, personally think that you shouldn't let her reassign you to your old patterns, reaching out to her way to often. Great Day from Germany.
Sounds like you are sorely focussed on her. That is a *huge mistake* You need to invest in yourself. No contact on its own isn't going to solve the problem. It's the guys that only focus on one girl that never gets them back. Start dating other women. This will make you feel a lot better, will give you an abundance mentality and you will look more attractive in her eyes (women love men with options). You need to get atomic attraction. It will change your views in a positive way.
Then you must keep dating other women, man. I know you really love your ex but you really need to give other women a chance. Once you truly "move on", she will come back.
Tactical x Recon do you think there is like a "energetic" reason behind it? Like the energy within you once you truly move on has an effect on the exterior that makes her come back? Just curious about your opinion
The no-contact rule did jack-shit for me. I’m a woman, not a man, not sure if that makes a difference. He seemed even more hostile and less interested in me after no-contact.
Your cocmment doesn't make any sense. "No contact" isn't a scientific method that you apply and get a result from. You went no contact and then reached out? And you're surprised he was upset? lol If you went no contact, you should've kept moving on and eventually he would start to see things with 'rose colored glasses' as people usually do when the dust settles and reached out to you. My guess is you went no contact for 30 days and then hit him up? THAT doesn't work.
autumn111155551 I understand completely. Love yourself More. Nothing is more important than how you feel. He doesn't deserve you and moving on is the only option!!
exactly!!!! know why? because he was probably sincere, and your tactics first disappointed him! then hurt him! then pissed him off! then turned him off to you! *** YOU MISREPRESENTED YOURSELF AND YOUR TRUE FEELINGS FOR THIS PERSON, AND TRIED TO MANIPULATE THE SITUATION FOR YOUR OWN BENEFIT! TRY JUST BEING OPEN, HONEST, AND DIRECT NEXT TIME.. AND THIS GOES FOR THE MEN TOO!
426 09 ~ hi.. no, not all men will appreciate or like that type of woman.. infact, most men just want sex.. its not about YOU its about THEM.. not ALL men feel this way.. BUT MOST.. AND THAT is WHY, in addition to the women who are playing their selfish games too, is much divide and imbalance with relationships.. its all basically selfishness for one half of the population, and sincerity and genuiness for honest, true love, and life together, etc.. for the other! finding our right match ( our soulmate ) is very difficult in a reality like we have rightnow! THIS IS WHY the answer is 3 parts! 1- being transparent, open, honest and direct! like you said. 2- really wanting a healthy relationship and to find/be with your soulmate, 3- those who dont want anything else have TO NOT SETTLE AND LET THE SELFISH SEEKERS USE THEM IN ANYWAY! that is a choice.. you dont get fooled so easily, if you stay strong and pay close to attention to any potential soulmates when you meet them! we can usually tell who wants truth and who just wants fun! 3- we need JESUS to guide us, and help us be aware of who is who, and to give us strength to resist the mistakes some of us innocently, but knowingly are making!
I used to do no contact for a few months to try and get an ex back now I do no contact forever because if she doesn’t see my value the first time she doesn’t deserve a second chance. Know your worth gentleman. If she pulls away, move on immediately and continue to meet other women and live your life. If she comes back, bang her a few times but don’t take her back. She isn’t worth any serious commitment
I've been doing this for years and it always work, but what really kills me is knowing that nobody can really love you for who you are then, if I have to manipulate someone in order to give me the attention I want then is it really worth it? Sure, to get laid I couldn't care less but when I actually feel for the woman then what's the point? The advice is on point 100% I just feel hopeless about ever finding a meaningful connection lol
I do wrong way with my ex,,, but now when i watch your video and i apply to my self within one weeks no contact with her,, and now she message me,,, but i still apply no contact i ignore him again,, i do no contact fo 1 month from now on,,, thank you to you,, very nice,,
Just started no contact, she wanted to be friends and I said I can not do that (she’s in another relationship and “loves” me but is not in love with me) let’s see what happens 👍
Hooked up with this girl, we end up spending the night together 3 times. Lately she got cold, I went no contact for 3 days and start publishing on Instagram me having fun and she reached to me yesterday and now she’s warm again
A girl ghosted me and I followed this video and ghosted her, we never spoke to each other again. Moral of the story: If you want something, chase after it. Don’t wait for things to happen, MAKE things happen!
The guy I’m crazy about was very attracted to me. We’ve been intimate, he expressed interest, sent me sexy messages on and off but then slowly started to drift away with the I’m so busy excuse. I asked him if he no longer had an interest in seeing each other and he said he just can’t go outside his own schedule right now and he’s just too busy. I was heartbroken but I told him I understood. He has not reached out since. It’s been 3 weeks. I asked if I did something wrong and he said “no we are good” and I said I hope we can stay friends and he said to reach out to him anytime. Wtf??
Do the "No contact rule" actually works for a person that you've been datuing for about 7years and suddenly she seems to loose interest and apparently behaves strangely, doesn't engage, doesnt call as frequent, texts when she is in need, doesn't conversate as regularly, and seemingly she doesn't even support my struggle anymore How can I apply this rule? Will it work on her? By the way, we have a child together and we have been together for 8years now Please help!!!
If you’re struggling to maintain no contact, I’d recommend Chris’ book Atomic Attraction. Kept me busy for a few days at the start of no contact and it’s full of useful information.
Am I a bad person?? I was in a relationship with a girl, we both loved each other. Everything went well for 2.5 years, then suddenly she left me, I cried a lot. After a month she comes back, seems she can't live without me. She left me because I was not getting successful in my career, and she thought our relationship was a big distraction for me. Idk why but I don't feel like being with her anymore, I don't feel the love that I once felt for her. It's been more than one year since we broke up, she still loves me.
Hi Chris.. Thanks for this great video and book, which I also own..! 👍 So I've been in radio silence since the last contact with my ex a few weeks ago.. I VERY rarely post on social medias, but now I want to start showing my active, social and positive lifestyle.. I'm not too keen about selfies, so I usually just shoot non-selfies.. I look better in the real world than in photos, ha ha.. 😎😜 Does it matter to post selfies, or is it enough to post photos from my activities or the nature I experience combined with funny and positive comments about what I experience..? I mean, does a selfies create more missing feelings for my ex than just a non-selfie photo from me..? I'm almost sure she's in a rebound relationship.. Thanks for your answer in advance..
My ex gave me an ultimatum, contacted me a bit - I ignored - they unfriended me. He tried the no contact rule and after 8 months he tried to reconnect. I blocked him. Some people aren't affected by NC because they aren't interested. Sorry
My friend told me about this while I had the hots for someone last summer. I should have listened to him, but didn't so now I will for the next girl I date.
I'm doing this now. Chances are she's never been happier. She's one of these women that acts like she wants to date someone and when a guy comes along it's like he's stalking her.
Do you recommend to stay in no contact for ca. 30 days ? Or do you only have to wait till she reaches out ? P.s. As always you say what I mostly heard or read but .... ur saying it in some way that reaches my brain easier than other sources. Thanks again, now I really KNOW how to handle with women. Even if I fuck up due to my emotions or stupidity ... still I know how to handle it the right way.
I agree undoing NC after 30 days will undo your momentum, you will feel rejection twice and your EX's interest level is down. No Contact means no contact. It is as long as it takes until your Ex reaches out. 6-10 weeks is usually when your Ex will reach out. It can also be sooner or longer.
Develop Attraction but waiting is not matter my bf hates me, he feela uneasy ( ys i know we had some misunderstandings but my love is pure for him) he thrown away a gift which i have presented him 4 the 1st time., now he is not showing any intrest in contacting or caring, and tells i moved on and u also do so.its my 2nd lv i want this untill my death any advice would be appreciated plz.help how to recover him and make him only mine.am fed up its been 3 months v have talked .
No contact is a powerful message to regain personal power and respect. Don't chase someone that doesn't want you in their life
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How to know somoene doesnt want you??
@@zexo6584
They show no emotional response. Dont give you the time of day. Etc.
Imagine someone who you met at a park, but no contact/connection was established. That's how you know.
Ghosting? Just drop it
Harder said then done. 7 years 10 months gone. I’m trying my best to get over her and move on.
@@loser4cent 7 years?! The fuck is wrong with you man? forget about her and move on already, otherwise, you gonna end up imploding yourself and she still wouldn't give 2 flying fucks.
I hate doing these things to women but I have no choice. When I try to be nice (which is in my nature) they run away. When I almost ignore them they come back.
It's sad but true. That's female nature.
TEZ smart👌🏾
TEZ I feel you on every level. I'm goin through the same EXACT THING it's fucked up like you said but females want the opposite of what you give them sadly that's why no contact is so effective Ik this.
I was just like you, but eventually I was forced to ignore mine for 3 weeks straight then she started crawling back! 🤣 (in all honesty though, I probably fucked up miserably what happened next!).
Explore17 they always come crawling back 🤣🤣once you show em that ain't no other guy like you and can live without them. Then they come questioning you wanting answers and saying your acting different talking about are you talking to someone else? Or moving on, losing their shit lol
The no contact rule is critical
And it does work %100
If it doesn’t work, then it still worked Believe it or not
This is Because if she doesn’t reach out to you or you don’t win her back after using the no contact rule, then all that really means is that she was never that in to you in the first place and it’s time for you to move on my friend. Speaking from experience
Know your worth folks
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She fall in love with someone. So what can I do ? I need her. Does anyone can help me please ?
@@firoskhan4198 If you have to choose from two persons in your life tgan choose the second one. Because if u have loved the first person than you wud not have fell for second person. And you got your answer.
In my case ... Its different
He said me to go away from his life.... So i never contacted him back ....i know he must be happy.. Yes it was a fyt...if he really cared abt me ....shouldnt he reach out?
Speaking from experience: it doesn't really work well. I am probably in the minority here, and that's OK, but that's my experience.
How about just focus on yourself on don’t worry if she comes back or not.
Exactly
Thats unconsciously application of the rule.
Desperation
Facts! Workout too. That shit feels hella good!
Sometimes it just not that easy
Always stay away from peoples who doesn't respect you
women just disrespect you to test if you are carismatic alpha dominant etc
Bad move - any genuinely confident guy will see through pathetic "shit test" bs and see it the behaviour of an insecure dog or child, and not be interested
what if i think that people that are disrespectful towards me are not people who are worth my time or interest
k mahes yes just stay away distance yourself from them
If girl truly loves you she never test
It's quite hard to keep to the no contact rule with my wife because every morning she asks me what i want for breakfast.
loll
simply equip your toilet with everything you need.. and put phone on silence.
Then no contact rule is working fast for u ...😊
Travel for a week...hahaaa
Same with me
I've cut contact for 7 weeks with my ex, and YES this worked!! You're a genius, man. I know my worth, now I got my respect back. She doesn't want to lose me but I won't invest in worthless people. I may kick her ass this week and will move on. Thanks a lot for your videos!! You let me focus on myself and get what I want. Incredible stuff.
did you?
Hope you did
True king, you got my respect.. man I wish I had a girl so I could beat the shit out of her😔
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No contact definitely works. 4 years of FWB's we never got into a fight. Finally went into a relationship after a year of her asking for it. In 4 days she started 2 fights with me and ended it. I didn't beg or plead, didn't chase. In 3 weeks she sent me this emoji 👀
I had no clue what that mean so I ignored it and went on with my life. 3 days later she sent me another texting saying "So you're ignoring me now"? We talked on the phone and the very first thing she said after the small talk of, how are you, how you been, she said I miss you. Moral of the story, stay in no contact people. It works, it's hard as hell, but worth it.
I messed up with my girl all the time she breakup patchup and this time it's been 10 days she don't want me to be with her she says she don't love me anymore. But last night she talked to me but very harshly and said the same thing that she won't come back. Do you think if I won't be in contact she will come back?
The "so you're ignoring me now" text is such a relatable point
lol give her the same treatment back. ill never understand the way girls behave
No contact rule is to focus on yourself ! To be in the right head space , not always wasting energy on another person who is taking you for granted ! to better yourself , all the other things fall into place naturally ...good or bad you will have your answer ...The no contact rule is not a narc manipulative tool to hurt the other person ...But it is definitely there to maintain your own self worth and dignity , even for some over thinkers , sanity ... peace
If you abruptly stop talking to someone for no reason except you are self centered, socially inept and have no respect for other people then you are a dipshit and don't deserve anybody.
E GIBSON Nah, you just value your own time.
E GIBSON why do you feel so entitled? You must not have shit going for yourself.
If you have to go no contact to get her attention or for her to get yours, the relationship is not healthy.
Truth..yes .
Agreed. I hesitate to call no contact “wrong” or “dysfunctional.” Different strokes for different folks. But I feel strongly that if an issue cannot be addressed and resolved with positive, respectful communication, it’s not a good fit for me. I’m honest and sincere and I don’t say hard things I don’t mean. If someone says they don’t want to see me anymore, I believe them and I cut my losses. If it was all a ploy or test for me to “prove myself” by chasing, I flunked. If they need a “temporary break” I’m moving forward. Maybe we’ll catch up later or maybe not.
Beta.
Nicholas Clarke facts that’s some beta shit. All the video is saying is that 24/7 communication is how she loses interest.
@@amasion2882 exactly - if a girl isn’t blowing up your phone and wanting every piece of you then .... next!
The quickest way to gain’s someone attention is to remove yours.
How to remove yourself
@@ieshitatsb4692 don’t talk to them
If a girl tries to do this to a guy with high self esteem then this won't work. I had girls who suddenly stopped contacting me and I will usually just assume that they lost interest and I will merely move on and forget about them.
you don't know shit about shit BRO, you can't deny SCIENCE.......lol
@@RantTherapist - No, he is right. If you have options why get low for 1 girl ? It's obvious why people in general get disappointed.
@@RantTherapist Science includes facts and evidence. If isn't surprising you didn't provide any. You are the one glorifying that you don't know shit, you clown.
Then you never cared much for the girl to start with, just a F@@k
It’s different in the context of a LTR where both parties have invested more than just feelings. But I agree, if I’m ever disrespected so much to where a girlfriend ghosts me she gets cut off for life out of principle. No second chances
This is 100% true! I have personally done this to my girlfriend and now she is my fiance, it works if you do it the right way.. 🙂
Khaled Hashim how long did you go no contact? Did she respond first or did you contact her?
You ignored her and now she is your fiance. Sounds like you found yourself a winner with great self esteem! Maybe If I just ignore all the women I find attractive one of them will pay my mortgage and work 3 jobs to buy me a ferrari.
How is the right way?
@@Shirdimajid practise is the right way
@@Aven-Sharma1991 in that case that woman was not truely into u in the first place.
Did this for a week and it worked. Hate myself for wondering throughout those days if she'd text back.
Did you text her or she text you? I'm going through this also
Did you text first or she did?
yungmatt009 build up your roster man. Don’t talk to just one girl. It helps. Because don’t think for one minute that girls talk to only one guy at a time. You are just the guy in the moment. Make the most of it.
She is never gonna come back, tough pill to swallow but move on now !
I don't deny that this works. But the fact that this is what "love" ultimately boils down to, kinda makes me want to take myself out of this misery and just off myself.
Ir you look into the many forms of Love in the Christian and Greek perceptive you'll see the connection between woman and man is the lowest type of Love, the strongest being the Love the Lord feels towards us.
@@coralbricks Thanks for that thoughtful comment. I do have some experience looking into those different types of love, but that was ~15 yrs ago. I remember some of them, but don't remember all of them. And definitely couldn't give a good holistic overview of all of them. Probably worth going back and taking a look at.
Right, its exhausting !
Stop being a pussy
Soft ass😆
She is weak. Weak people tend to leave rather than willing to work things out. They run away from you, from their problems and when life beats them up, they come back crawling . That simple.
NC helps you out.
Amen!
Maybe they are not that into you.
Theres particular power in letting things go. Just consider it from the another perspective.
Damn peach
She is weak dudes , a strong dominate rich women who is honest never no contact me ...
I totally agree with this. I remember one day I had a date with a woman and it was fun. I didn't reveal more about myself to her. The next day I decided to remain quiet, doing my stuff. She later called me, I don't know for what reason. I didn't pick the call. She call 3 more times. Still I didn't pick the call. At night she finally called. I picked and I started greeting her. She wanted to know why I didn't pick up her call and also asked me if she did something bad to me as a result of rejecting her call. I was short of words. I couldn't even respond. To my surprise she apologized and wanted us to meet again to know what's going on. My expectation was that she was supposed to leave me after rejecting her calls but in reality, it is the opposite. Now I see why No Contact rule works.
You have to be willing to let them go no matter how attractive they are. Get on with your life and if she calls show your appreciation and make plans.
Checks over chicks
*cheeks
Chase a check never chase a bitch
David Moon don’t chase a check either, chase yourself.
What does that mean?
There are things we need to do, and thinks we want to do, find your balance. Giving too much to one side, and you’re losing your battle.
Yup
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“Will have a devastating effect on your relationship in a positive way”
There’s gotta be a better way to say that
Maybe "Will have a massively positive effect on your relationship" would work better? Either way the vid had already been done so meh
No it's actually the most right to say that. Because even if it's a must, it's still manipulative, subliminal; so it's devastating for your relationship through that person's subconcious.
*I hate human mind*
I've been in no contact for 7 weeks and she has not reached out once during that time. No contact doesn't always get them anxious enough to make the move. They make the move when they still have an interest level in you (still attracted). When they don't, you never hear from them again, period.
Get another girl move on, I guarantee you will hear from her again. Stay no contact forever.
My girlfriend and I started to argue about how she wanted to go out and party and all this immature things I dont want in my life.. and I pretty much walked out of her place because of that. It definitely hurt a lot and I was super frustrated. I havent talked to her since. She knows that there will be none of that if we had a relationship. I absolutely like her so much, but I will not put myself in a position to fail knowing and accepting someone who wants to live that way. KNOW YOUR VALUE KINGS 🤴 no contant.
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I had no contact with my ex for 9 years. Finally got a friend request last year after she got married to some dude lol
I bet she hates the guy now! 😂
Lmao 😂🤣 same! Plus she prego. Dodged that bullet.
Lmao wow 😂
They seek to fullfill their needs that their current man cannot. For example he might be good at sex and good at ignoring her so she seeks your attention and non sexual time that she cannot get from her lover. Do not feed her needs, she is his problem now, not yours. Find the courage to walk away from those vampires. It will drive them crazy that you deny anything sexual with them, they cannot comprehend that you did a complete 180 turn. This is the power of being a man, you can change your circumstances at any given moment using the power of your mind.
@@adegiare ok boomer
Heard this from other coaches, but the way you present it is so unique that it sounds like a new concept.
Great job, sir!
You definitely deserve more subscribers. The content in your channel offers so much value, man!
Cristiano Sacramento appreciated!
The damn no contact : Just did it and she successfully got a new boyfriend and she is posing on Instagram together in different weird angles!!!!
Red Star Gems she will do that to the new boyfriend as well. Trust me on this.
She’s not worth it. NC exposed her
That means she is either in a rebound relationship or was never interested in you in the first place. NC will help you to pull yourself together and move on. I am nearly jn the 4th week of my NC and hasnt reached out to me so far. So I presume he Never loved me in the first place, therefore this thought motivates me not to get too much upset and get over asap.
If this is true, it just proves to show how moronic and pathetic human beings are... love is not a way of manipulation- if you need to psychologically manipulate someone to love you, it’s not love.
Kiss Me Where My Cheeks Meet Thank you for posting this.
You must be a woman
Ironic how in the hell is this manipulation? You must be a beta huh
It’s not manipulation. It’s simply moving on from being dumped and not being a bitch about it. If she wants to get back with you then she’ll contact you, if not then we must keep our heads up and carry on.
I think its 50 50 it may or may not work. Depending whether the person really liked you in the first place. I think if he or she doesn't contact you after 2-3 weeks, its pretty much over.
Josie Weir are you sure? Now I feel scared
Exactly this only works out if she was into you in first place, otherwise it does not even though you are winning cause you get her or you safe time. The issue is that then you do not see her the same way as before
You're right but it's a win-win situation though. Either she comeback to you or she won't comeback at all. If she doesn't comeback then it's still a win, it just shows that she's not into you in the first place
It's such a waste of time to try to get a certain person to be interested in you. I would rather go travel to have fun on my own. I do not want what I cannot have because when I travel I always run into a surprise and it's a better alternative 😂
Jajaja Bro
Lol , truth
I did the No Contact routine 10 years ago on a chick I liked when I could tell it wasn't going anywhere. She just contacted me 10 years later, 3 months out of a 6 year relationship and asked ME out. The No Contact routine is real.
@Tyler Durden the important thing was that I spent 10 years doing my own thing. If it was going to happen, it would happen on its own. The best thing I did was go no contact.
A leftover that is 10 years older... great deal bwaaaahahaaha
Look guys let me give you a tip. If you go no contact with someone, which you didn’t spend enough time before going no contact. It may not work. Best trick is : before going no contact just give her your full attention for day or 2 than she will push away from you little. After just text her and go no contact. The no contact break will be intense for her and you but it will work much better.
I know it’s kinda manipulative but if you come this far to apply this trick to someone than you need to rethink your values and purpose in life.
No contact is like "the magnetic effect" - basically women are like magnets: positive only attracts negative, and negative only attracts positive! (Basically too much attention repels her, and too much ignorance attracts her!).
Explore17 spot on with this comment !
@@xonlytyrek3601 I'm trying to apply as I learn about those weird creatures: apparently my crush is making it really hard for me so I started researching! 😅 (I'm 21 and new to this stuff!).
great advice. thank you sir. the best way of gaining the attention of someone who isn't treating you right...is by withdrawing YOUR attention from them...looking forward to reading your book...
No contact only works if the girl still cares. If she’s already talking to someone new then it most likely won’t work. It’s only jeopardizing your chances with her as she’s sharing her time with something new and shiny.
Ariik Kiira if she’s already talking to someone new then you should realize you dodged a bullet.
BUDDA has spoken!
I like this guy. The poise and confidence in your delivery is impeccable. Great job, bro!! Thanks for such powerful insights. 👏🏿👍🏿💪🏿
Ninon De lenclos: Love never dies of starvation but often of indigestion!
Law 16: Use absence to increase respect=attraction.
Hey Chris... I did use No contact rule to my girlfriend who was pulling away from me.. And It worked💯. Thank you bro and keep on doing dis kind of vedios I love them they are saving relationships.
I just experienced it’s effectiveness just 3 hours ago. My girlfriend suddenly pulled away after 4 months of our times together on a daily basis. I felt like emotional shit got thrown at me. Just did meditation and stayed cool for a week. It worked like charm. She texted me three hours ago and asked if I am really ok why this silence . I said I am ok. But she keeps asking really are you ok? Are you testing me with your silence? Lol. We had a nice one hour video chat. Chemistry seem to be returning back . Lol
So how are you two right now?
I’ve dealt with plenty woman out my life i can honestly say your right bro..it’s really does build the attraction with the no contact rule, if you talk to each other every day all day it’s not gonna be no excitement than she gone get bored with you, the refreshing feeling of not talking to each other in a minute than reunite is damn near magical she gone be so happy to see you again 💯
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It’s true it works I did that to my ex girlfriends and they wanted me back but I didn’t want them back never again
sillypuffer how long did you go no contact before they reached out to you? It's been a month for me so far
the no contact is effective only for those who really loved you I guess
This is true
True 🔥
Thank you Develop Attraction thanks to your video I was able to get my woman back and now starting to get intimate. Please continue doing what you’re doing.
For me it worked in two days. I hope everyone is that lucky. Don´t lose hope!
Same here 48 hours
Could you contact me to talk with me about my relationship with my girl
It worked in just 24 hrs. All i did was delete her contact. The moment she couldn't see my DP, she 4x texted me 😂
I know that everything you're saying is true, but is anyone else not sickened that we have to conjure up a sense of anxiety in the person we want in order for them to be attracted to us? Like if I have to do that in order to keep someone I'm interested in, interested in me, then how could that ever end well?
you misinterpret it then. No contact is mainly used to get yourself back on track. The side effect is that they might get anxiety and come back.
I don't care if they stoped contacting me or not. I loose interest when they start doing this.
If it works use it - if it doesn't work change it. The basis of every scientist that ever lived. Life is a great big social experiment, don't take it personally, just observe and learn over time and remember to experiment whenever you're able. Never stop growing my gals and guys. x
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No contact is a test if she still attracted to you.. It is the most effective way if you implemented it right
Thank you so much. I've actually been doing the no contact rule for a few years now and I think I'm starting to see some progress. She texted me and told me to "leave me alone" or she will "call the police and get a restraining order". She finally texted me back, thanks again!!
Thank you for all the free content and value Chris! Just ordered your book Atomic Attraction:)
All of your theories are really really effective, everything you tell is actually truth, it has helped me a lot to improve myself as a person.
I’ve been calling this “protocol”
For years but glad to see it has a real name “the no contact rule” and it works almost all the time
The no contact rule really works
this is true..ghost a woman for real and all she will do is think about you...But that's not the reason to ghost a woman is to get back together...it's used to move yourself on and the results of that is...she'll do nothing but think about you the rest of her life..the no contact rules is close to the language of silence which ends all conversations. Be it an argument or a conversation of accusation...I used it in court hearings which had the effect of untruth being directed towards me. Having had practice (and it does take practice) Proved the guilt on the other.
What I've learned in using silence ...the uncomfortable atmosphere that shows up lets me know I just obtained the upper hand and leave the aggressor standing in their in their own shame ...
I have no idea how I stumbled upon your videos, but I’m 2 and a half deep and I’ve never made a more sure audible purchase than buying yours just now. Fantastic content
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I didn't contact her... And she got married to another guy within 6 months... When it's not written in the fate nothing you do can change it... I still love her alot...But she's gone for ever...won't even see her in this life
We broke up now. Reason, i don't give her enough attention
Update?
I've made a huge mistake in my relationship, i asked my gf about a guy that she was talking about, because i found out that he liked all her pics on instagram, and i saw that she liked his new pic, and a VERY VERY OLD one. The problem is that im not close to her right now, and it will take a while for us to meet again. After that, admiting my mistake to myself i started being an alpha again, doing the no contact rule worked well.
It even works when I go out alone. Earbuds in, looking too hip for the place, NEVER have eye-contact with other than the staff....Works wonders - the girls contact ME in bars, asking questions. I even tried some props when going out alone - a lollipop can work wonders, if you wear a suit like me :)
I’d highly recommend Atomic Attraction! One of the best relationship books out there. It’s always best to read the book multiple times to grasp the information.
What happens when both are trying to implement the no contact rule?
Breakup
Thats better. You will miss and become interested to each other again.
Both of them succeed in life 😂
Think of it as a magnet, negative charge NEVER attracts negative charge! - one of you will eventually find a way back if you guys are still attracted to each other.
I guess we both did that and the result end of relationship 😕
This is undoubtedly the best channel to Develop Attraction 👍
wow.Man you really saved my day .. I would say this is one of the best genuine advice i ever heard. Keep it up buddy , you are doing a marvelous job
I love this no contact rule this stuff is very effective he'll make them come back to you on their hands and knees begging take control back of the relationship the hell what they think
white wolf lmaooo love this comment because it's so damn true
Well its true. I, personally think that you shouldn't let her reassign you to your old patterns, reaching out to her way to often. Great Day from Germany.
KEEP on making videos!! I saw that you stopped. But you are actually awesome bro!
I gave flowers , chocolates and serenaded her with self penned love songs for 10 years then i got her ! I am 38 she is 69.
Takin her back
What the...
Lol
Wtf
as always very clear message and very intressting subjects thanks keep going we need this type of knowledge enjoy your day
its been 8 months for me now looks like a loss cause.
Sounds like you are sorely focussed on her. That is a *huge mistake* You need to invest in yourself. No contact on its own isn't going to solve the problem. It's the guys that only focus on one girl that never gets them back. Start dating other women. This will make you feel a lot better, will give you an abundance mentality and you will look more attractive in her eyes (women love men with options).
You need to get atomic attraction. It will change your views in a positive way.
Tactical x Recon i have dated other woman
Then you must keep dating other women, man. I know you really love your ex but you really need to give other women a chance. Once you truly "move on", she will come back.
Tactical x Recon i know im working on it.
Tactical x Recon do you think there is like a "energetic" reason behind it? Like the energy within you once you truly move on has an effect on the exterior that makes her come back? Just curious about your opinion
It’s been almost two months. I’m over it
The no-contact rule did jack-shit for me. I’m a woman, not a man, not sure if that makes a difference. He seemed even more hostile and less interested in me after no-contact.
Your cocmment doesn't make any sense. "No contact" isn't a scientific method that you apply and get a result from. You went no contact and then reached out? And you're surprised he was upset? lol If you went no contact, you should've kept moving on and eventually he would start to see things with 'rose colored glasses' as people usually do when the dust settles and reached out to you. My guess is you went no contact for 30 days and then hit him up? THAT doesn't work.
Men pay more attention with an attentive woman.
autumn111155551
I understand completely.
Love yourself More. Nothing is more important than how you feel.
He doesn't deserve you and moving on is the only option!!
exactly!!!! know why? because he was probably sincere, and your tactics first disappointed him! then hurt him! then pissed him off! then turned him off to you! *** YOU MISREPRESENTED YOURSELF AND YOUR TRUE FEELINGS FOR THIS PERSON, AND TRIED TO MANIPULATE THE SITUATION FOR YOUR OWN BENEFIT! TRY JUST BEING OPEN, HONEST, AND DIRECT NEXT TIME.. AND THIS GOES FOR THE MEN TOO!
426 09 ~ hi.. no, not all men will appreciate or like that type of woman.. infact, most men just want sex.. its not about YOU its about THEM.. not ALL men feel this way.. BUT MOST.. AND THAT is WHY, in addition to the women who are playing their selfish games too, is much divide and imbalance with relationships.. its all basically selfishness for one half of the population, and sincerity and genuiness for honest, true love, and life together, etc.. for the other! finding our right match ( our soulmate ) is very difficult in a reality like we have rightnow! THIS IS WHY the answer is 3 parts! 1- being transparent, open, honest and direct! like you said. 2- really wanting a healthy relationship and to find/be with your soulmate, 3- those who dont want anything else have TO NOT SETTLE AND LET THE SELFISH SEEKERS USE THEM IN ANYWAY! that is a choice.. you dont get fooled so easily, if you stay strong and pay close to attention to any potential soulmates when you meet them! we can usually tell who wants truth and who just wants fun! 3- we need JESUS to guide us, and help us be aware of who is who, and to give us strength to resist the mistakes some of us innocently, but knowingly are making!
I’m blocked for blowing up her phone lol I panicked 🤦🏽♂️😂 lesson learned. First time I’ve done this. Never again.
Did you get her back
I tried the no contact, she found a new boyfriend
Hard Feelings how long you were together???
I applied no contact to someone who I borrowed a lot of money..in just one hour she started chasing me.
You are the best coach out there. Thanks a lot for helping all of us
I used to do no contact for a few months to try and get an ex back now I do no contact forever because if she doesn’t see my value the first time she doesn’t deserve a second chance. Know your worth gentleman. If she pulls away, move on immediately and continue to meet other women and live your life. If she comes back, bang her a few times but don’t take her back. She isn’t worth any serious commitment
I've been doing this for years and it always work, but what really kills me is knowing that nobody can really love you for who you are then, if I have to manipulate someone in order to give me the attention I want then is it really worth it? Sure, to get laid I couldn't care less but when I actually feel for the woman then what's the point? The advice is on point 100% I just feel hopeless about ever finding a meaningful connection lol
hi, do you know if the no contact rule works if i didn’t get the last word in? she ignored my last message and im just waiting
@@ferdricks9361 it could still work, its worked like that for me many times before, just be as unavailable as possible lol
I do wrong way with my ex,,, but now when i watch your video and i apply to my self within one weeks no contact with her,, and now she message me,,, but i still apply no contact i ignore him again,, i do no contact fo 1 month from now on,,, thank you to you,, very nice,,
Just started no contact, she wanted to be friends and I said I can not do that (she’s in another relationship and “loves” me but is not in love with me) let’s see what happens 👍
Good luck man!
@@bradleypost8971 like mate 👍
Hooked up with this girl, we end up spending the night together 3 times. Lately she got cold, I went no contact for 3 days and start publishing on Instagram me having fun and she reached to me yesterday and now she’s warm again
Well, I implement this, and it's been 1 year...I have lost almost all of my contacts.
A girl ghosted me and I followed this video and ghosted her, we never spoke to each other again.
Moral of the story: If you want something, chase after it. Don’t wait for things to happen, MAKE things happen!
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I’m doing no contact right now. It’s working like a charm! I wonder if it works on more than one or two girls at a time...
The guy I’m crazy about was very attracted to me. We’ve been intimate, he expressed interest, sent me sexy messages on and off but then slowly started to drift away with the I’m so busy excuse. I asked him if he no longer had an interest in seeing each other and he said he just can’t go outside his own schedule right now and he’s just too busy. I was heartbroken but I told him I understood. He has not reached out since. It’s been 3 weeks. I asked if I did something wrong and he said “no we are good” and I said I hope we can stay friends and he said to reach out to him anytime. Wtf??
Browneyed girl he got someone else or dating another girl, believe it...
Sorry
Do the "No contact rule" actually works for a person that you've been datuing for about 7years and suddenly she seems to loose interest and apparently behaves strangely, doesn't engage, doesnt call as frequent, texts when she is in need, doesn't conversate as regularly, and seemingly she doesn't even support my struggle anymore
How can I apply this rule? Will it work on her?
By the way, we have a child together and we have been together for 8years now
Please help!!!
Niqqa sounds like your bitch is cheating on you. Gl with the investigation
No contact doesn't always work . Sometimes no contact results in no contact, she moves on.
Us nerds need these lessons instead of going with the flow 😂
Nerd is so bad , Should not be a nerd
Only dead fish goes with the flow inni
If you’re struggling to maintain no contact, I’d recommend Chris’ book Atomic Attraction. Kept me busy for a few days at the start of no contact and it’s full of useful information.
How do you use the no contact rule if you see her 5 days out of the week at work?
Fabian Garcia work in a different place
Am I a bad person??
I was in a relationship with a girl, we both loved each other.
Everything went well for 2.5 years, then suddenly she left me, I cried a lot.
After a month she comes back, seems she can't live without me. She left me because I was not getting successful in my career, and she thought our relationship was a big distraction for me.
Idk why but I don't feel like being with her anymore, I don't feel the love that I once felt for her.
It's been more than one year since we broke up, she still loves me.
Stay with her, and by the time you spend with her, you will realize if you want her or no, things can change...
@@nikolaramic thanks for the suggestion.
Drop her, if she cant stay with you through bad times she's not worthy. Find someone who is.
Don't drop her like it's hot
First you have to find some girl to have no contact with in order for this to work lol
Hi Chris.. Thanks for this great video and book, which I also own..! 👍 So I've been in radio silence since the last contact with my ex a few weeks ago.. I VERY rarely post on social medias, but now I want to start showing my active, social and positive lifestyle.. I'm not too keen about selfies, so I usually just shoot non-selfies.. I look better in the real world than in photos, ha ha.. 😎😜 Does it matter to post selfies, or is it enough to post photos from my activities or the nature I experience combined with funny and positive comments about what I experience..? I mean, does a selfies create more missing feelings for my ex than just a non-selfie photo from me..? I'm almost sure she's in a rebound relationship.. Thanks for your answer in advance..
My ex gave me an ultimatum, contacted me a bit - I ignored - they unfriended me. He tried the no contact rule and after 8 months he tried to reconnect. I blocked him.
Some people aren't affected by NC because they aren't interested.
Sorry
All sounds good till they block you for the fourth time I am realizing she just is moving on what do you think
When her attraction level is above 50 - 60% implementing No Contact Rule will get back Ex, GF, Wife or person who has rejected you in 90% of cases
Love your videos there short and don’t waffle on like loads of others
My friend told me about this while I had the hots for someone last summer. I should have listened to him, but didn't so now I will for the next girl I date.
I had the unfortunate lesson of what not to do with a text based "relationship".
Weren't even dating and I totally came off a stalker.
I'm doing this now. Chances are she's never been happier. She's one of these women that acts like she wants to date someone and when a guy comes along it's like he's stalking her.
Just ignore her and when she finally contacts you send her a link to a mgtow video
@@goldanimal3931 Ah.
We have ourselves a "real man" and future alimony slave here...
@@remc0s haha sure kid im already going strong 10 years with my wife. Now you can go and drop ur ass on the pinup
@Rollie55 not every marriage ends in divorce you sad pessimist
@Rollie55 oke no ofcourse my marriage is not immune to divorce, im not that ignorant xD i cant look into the future!
I think these videos make a lot of sense, but the ad that plays along with it says no contact is wrong lol. I’m listening to you Chris 👍
Do you recommend to stay in no contact for ca. 30 days ? Or do you only have to wait till she reaches out ?
P.s. As always you say what I mostly heard or read but .... ur saying it in some way that reaches my brain easier than other sources. Thanks again, now I really KNOW how to handle with women. Even if I fuck up due to my emotions or stupidity ... still I know how to handle it the right way.
It's better to wait until she reaches out. But it does depend on the type of situation.
I agree undoing NC after 30 days will undo your momentum, you will feel rejection twice and your EX's interest level is down. No Contact means no contact. It is as long as it takes until your Ex reaches out. 6-10 weeks is usually when your Ex will reach out. It can also be sooner or longer.
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david one my nc stayed fr 10 months
Develop Attraction but waiting is not matter my bf hates me, he feela uneasy ( ys i know we had some misunderstandings but my love is pure for him) he thrown away a gift which i have presented him 4 the 1st time., now he is not showing any intrest in contacting or caring, and tells i moved on and u also do so.its my 2nd lv i want this untill my death any advice would be appreciated plz.help how to recover him and make him only mine.am fed up its been 3 months v have talked .