PTSD from Childhood Trauma in an Adult Male.❤️❤️❤️
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- I’m Toren Wolf, and this is my Dad. ☺️❤️ He has PTSD from childhood trauma. I thought his story could help others.❤️❤️❤️
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Hello Toren's dad. I am crying alongside you, both out of empathy for your loss and crying of pride too.
I don't know you, nor Toren, nor Serenity. We are strangers. But as a fellow human I wanna thank you and commend yall on being people of light. Cheers to you!
i'm autistic and lost both my parents when i was very young, i'm wishing you the best and for the life that follows tragedy to be blessed
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I'm so sorry to hear that about your parents. May they both rest in peace. 😔🕊️💔
Thank you for being strong enough to share. As a mom I am hugging you for all your loss and hard times.
I love that your mama laid down and cried with you. That is super validating for kids to see that their parents have emotions and tough times too..
you guys were all she had and she probably felt closer to your father the closer she was to you. You are a part of him.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
I'm autistic and have C-PTSD, and I'm so grateful I found your safe haven of a channel. Listening to Father Wolf (I'm sorry for not knowing your name) was both saddening and made me feel hopeful. You are strong and resilient, and you show the world that feeling your feelings is a strength. Thank you ❤
It’s James. It says in the video “James is working on this with a therapist”
I can see a lot of you in your son. The peaceful and yet carefully curated talking. Thank you for your story, these are hard to find from a man's perspective.
I love when people speak deliberately and calmly. I also noticed that, this whole family has such beautiful open (and brave) hearts.
Thank you Papa Wolf. You are the bravest leader of the pack. 💔🖤
Thank You Torens Dad for opening up. I think this is very helpful for boys/young men seeing a man talking about sadness, anger and distructive ways to manage them and them finding other more wholesom ways.
And now we all know how Toren will look like when he's an adult.
And he sounds a bit like You.
I think You are all good for each other😊
My uncle was trapped in a garage fire . He was alive, badly burned. But died very shortly after. I can’t watch fire scenes in movies till this day
Thank you for being vulnerable with us and sharing your story. ❤
Your family is remarkable and I'm so grateful to you for sharing this heartfelt, healing story. This is such important work. Thank you.
This was so insightful. What a sad story. 😢 My heart was crying for you!
My PTSD is complex and not acute, but therapy definitely helps. Trauma sucks. ❤❤❤❤❤
Such a beautiful (physically & mentally) well-spoken family.
I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢🎉
Sending you much love, prayers and hugs honey. I'm SOOOOOOO sorry. It's never easy to lose a parent. I'm a newly diagnosed 62 yr.old high functioning autistic and learning how better deal with meltdowns. May our heavenly Father bless you and give you peace. Prayers, peace, and much love to ya honey. 🙏✝️❤️🕊️💜🌹🌻
I am so in awe at how incredible your entire family is, opening up to help the community around them. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing. My Dad lost his father at 12 from a heart attack and sadly his mother didn't do well in the 70s as a single mother of four. She turned to booze and set a poor example on how to deal with Trauma. Only 1 of the 4 managed to really tackle their issues (Sadly it isn't my dad) and he struggles a lot with being a good father. What I'm saying is. Thank you, for fighting through that wall to become an awesome dad for Toren. Because sometimes I feel like I don't have a "good" father either and I get super jealous when I see people with a good relationship with their dad. Sorry for your recent loss as well. Wishing you all the healing in the world.
I am SO sorry! Toren has great parents. So loving.
You have become the Dad that so many wish they had. You should feel proud of all the hard work you put in to get there!
Your family is full of strong individuals, very inspiring ❤
Yhank you for sharing all this.
I'm so glad every time men talk about their feelings, especially difficult ones. You are an amazing human and the perfect role model for Toren. Thank you for sharing!! Sending your family lots of love ❤
You are so strong for being able to get through those situations and be able to talk about them. Sending love and support 🤍
Sending him the biggest, tightest hugs!!!! I know it’s not easy at all to talk about or bring to the surface, the toughest and difficult things we go through in life especially when young, my heart swells so much for your father❤️❤️❤️sending so much peace and love to you all!!
Hello Toren's dad. Thankyou for sharing your story!
Recently I read "Waking The Tiger" by Peter Levine, who is an expert on trauma, and it has already helped immensely. I am working my way through his other books, as well as "The Body Keep the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk.
Just wanted to share as I think these books would be very helpful to you! x
Body Keeps The Score was recommended by my favorite therapist and kicked it all off for me, opened up so much healing. Great book.
Thanks you for sharing your experience with us. My son lost his dad at 9 now he is 22. This really helps me with insight. We openly discuss his dad often. I think that’s the only why to heal. ❤
ur doing great with that approach, much love to you ❤
Thank you for sharing. Hearing you talk about how you struggle to express or process your emotions, and how that can turn into rage when you let restraints go, the shame and fear of yourself after that happens.. I'm glad I'm not alone. Thank you so much for sharing yourself here. Keep working and stay awesome ❤️
As a late-diagnosed middle-aged AuDHD it's been interesting to realize how much of one's emotional experience depends on other people in order to process. Our culture has a lot of conflicting messages/values regarding strength and grief, particularly in terms of how men deal with our feelings. The keening scene of Midsommar is particularly insightful in this regard i.e. the communal mirroring of grief is immensely cathartic and demonstrates that our emotional life is meant to be shared, that emotional balance is a collective responsibility.
Thank you for sharing, I'm sorry for your loss. ❤
I appreciate you being willing and able to share your experience in an effort to help other's.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I have PTSD from something entirely different, and Im only a teenager. Im so sorry for what happened, and I hope you can continue to heal. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for staying strong for all these years. Its so powerful to see ❤❤
I'm so sorry for your past and recent loss. Thank you so much for sharing. Condolences. ❤
My mom lost her dad at age 10. She was the best mom ever but she talked about her grief for the rest of her life. My heart goes out to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your grief story.
He is making such a great effort to talk about it, I feel bad for him.
The power sharing your story has is indescribable and honorable. ❤
It’s the sharing of stories that have brought me out of really dark places. I appreciate the courage and strength you have to express yourself not only to those around you but to many strangers on the internet. My prayer is that many more people will share their experiences from grief and childhood trauma so that others won’t feel like they’re alone in their pain. You not only shared your trauma, but you shared the possibility of healing and finding a way through the pain. ❤
Condolences for both your fathers. I’m sure they’d be very proud of the progress you’ve made. You have a wonderful family that’s helping so many people. May God protect you all. ❤
Heartbreaking story 💔 Thank you for sharing and expressing yourself ❤❤
❤😢 I am so glad you are finally able to process your feelings in a healthy way. Bless you. What a hard road you've been on. How is your brother? Your mom must be needing a lot of support now too. I hope both she and your brother have the tools you now have to work through this new grief. ❤
Thank you for sharing this deeply emotional trauma with us. it helps so much
Thank you so much for your vulnerability and openness. I can relate in so many ways. Your family and this channel have become a safe space for me even though we are just “strangers” on the internet. Thank you all for making me feel so much less alone. Sending love and healing to you and I’m so sorry for the loss of your stepdad. I pray he rest peacefully 🕊️
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 my prayers are with you & your family. I was able to work through my ptsd and no longer go through those moments anymore (miracle.)
I appreciate you, your wife & son’s openness to share struggles and real life.
Sending love to the three of you. ❤️🙏 and again, thank you.
Sending so many safe hugs 🫂🫂🫂💜💜💜 This share was so vulnerable. Thank you for sharing with us. PTSD can be difficult to manage, but it looks like you have a great support system and have done a lot of healing. Wishing you all the peace in your soul 💜
So sorry about what you and your brother went through!
Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your healing journey! 🥰
I have been so blessed to have my parents around. One of them is currently in hospital with scary things.
I can only imagine how hard both of those traumas hit.
Thank you for sharing..
My deepest condolences on your losses.
Sending you love and perseverance.
I'm very sorry for the loss of your dad, & step-dad. Much love to you, and your beautiful family.
Thank you so much for sharing such an emotional and life changing part of your life and your journey because of what happened as well. I have C-PTSD and didn’t know that emotional block was something anyone else has gone through. Thank you for helping me learn more about myself in sharing your personal experiences 🖤
I am so sorry that you not only lost your dad at such a young age, but in such a heartbreaking way, and that you witnessed part of it... you must have suffered so much as a child, and still now as that will never leave you, it becomes part of who you are (I still have my parents but i have lost my stillborn daughter so whilst I havent been in your shoes I know grief at its core level, like yourself). You seem like such a kind, emotionally intelligent and wonderful person, some of us who go throigh the worst pain end up being the more empathetic as we know what its like to suffer so much. Thank you for sharing, i know it wont have been easy but its the videos your family make that help so many others
Thank you Torens dad for sharing your story. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You have a beautiful family and I’m so glad you and Serenity have each other. Many hugs
Thank you for sharing your most precious feelings and thoughts. I cried with you. It is helpful to hear your story and I am grateful to feel a human connection to you even though we are strangers.
Thank you so much for sharing something that isn't easy to. I'm so proud of where you are right now seeing all that costed. I don't know you nor your full history but I'm glad I could hear you. ❤ Love the emoji heart as the channel signature, It's so accurate. ❤
I love your family ❤ you all make my heart swell
Firstly, you and Toren look and sounds so much like each other ❤
Secondly, I have to comment on how apropos those pictures behind you are to your family. So poignant.❤❤
We all seem to mask so much: emotions, responses and well-being trying to “fit in” and not show weakness to others. And yet we all have our struggles, some more than others, with getting through life. I hope with content such as shared by Toren, Serenity and yourself that we become more understanding of ourselves and others. ⭐️
Lastly, my condolences to you and yours over the loss of your father and recently your stepfather. 🥀
So so much love to all of you ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing. Sending hugs ❤
I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your Dad and step-father 🌼🩵🩵🩵. I hope this is ok to say, especially when I could see the pain in your eyes, and hearing it in your voice, sending huge hugs 🌼🩵🩵🩵
I’m so sorry for what happened but i’m so proud of you and your brother for kicking through this! i’m glad you can talk about hard topics, sometimes I have a hard time expressing myself too, thank you for sharing this. ❤
You guys are so wonderful, thank you for your honest sharing ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story! It sounds like you had some great support oeople in your life, and thats so awesome! Your wife seems like such a wonderful person!
Hello Father Wolf thank you for sharing i also lost my father after a years long fight with cancer i was 18 I don’t want to trigger anyone so i will simply say he died at home i still get flashbacks of his illness and i thought i had to be strong for my mom i still struggle during certain times of the year.
This was so deep and I’m so sorry you went through that pain as a child and your recently grieving the loss of your stepdad as well now. My heart goes out to you and my prayers are with you guys right now.❤❤❤
Thank you for being brave enough to share this. You and Serenity and Toren are making lives better.
Sending so much love ❤️ thank you for sharing
Thank you so much for sharing your story. ❤
Wow! Thank you for sharing. You have come so far! I'm so sorry for the loss of your step Dad. You have such a beautiful family
I am so very sorry for you and your families loss. I am very proud of all of you and thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the help that you have given me and my family. Yall are in my prayers and thought sending hugs as well for the family. Mrs. Wolf, this is meant as a Motherly love and hugs for you and your family. Just tring to let you know I admire you and have the upmost respect for you first, being you are Mom. I had to go thur a divorce after 28 years of marriage, bc of the ex hubby at the time having things to do with people on social media. I am old enough to be yalls Mom so just tring to let you know were I am coming from. Plus I am very relgious and do not do that, which has been done unto me. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY! PS: I am sorry I am just trying to honor GOD by putting what I am saying to him in capital letters, bc after all HE IS GOD and that is how I promised him I would show respect to HIM. Thanks
Such an incredibly strong father u have hun ❤
Very courages James, thank you so much for sharing ❤ and im so sorry for your loses. Wow, we all go through trauma throughout our lives, ive suffer with ptsd as well and the wall...i definitely get. Just imagine your beautiful family, had you not had the courage to allow that wall to come down! Bless you 🙏 ❤❤
So so much love to all of you ❤❤❤❤
I‘m so so sorry you had to experience that.
James, I am so sorry for the losses you've been through. I don't know that you get past things, or over things, but more like learning to live with things that have happened in our lives. I am so proud of you for speaking up. I can see it wasn't easy. You and Serenity are so right for each other, because you have both been through so much mentally and emotionally. Not everyone umderstands. You are both wonderful parents to.Toren. You have all helped me so much in understanding more about myself.
Sending big {{{{HUGS}}}} your way, and hold each.other a little closer. ❤️
My dad was killed when I was 16. Idk if it was better or worse that I was older. I wish I had the platform to share the story and let teens know they aren’t alone because I sure felt alone. I have a hard time just talking about it but if someone asked me questions I’m able to answer them in full detail. I bottle my emotions but when I’m on the verge of explosion I shut down and focus on other things to calm down. So many things and traumas I’ve experienced in life the hardest was losing a part of myself the day my dad was killed 😢
this moment prepared you for your life ❤
Thank you for sharing your story.
I lost my mother when I was two, and my father I lost twice - first when he kicked me out at 14, and secondly when he passed about 20 years later.
I admire how you handled all of this and looked for creative ways to deal with the emotional outlet. You said you have been through trauma therapy and I currently am, myself. I wondered if you have given EMDR a try? Thank you for sharing your story. Glad Serenity helped you so well all throughout. Well said on needing people to help, you can do so much alone, but not completely. Take care, especially after the loss of your stepdad, too.
Thank you for sharing your story ☺️
Thank you James for sharing. ❤️
Sending love to you and your family
I’m so sorry
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Thank you for this explanation. 👏
Sorry for your trauma
thank you for sharing your story
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My heart hurts for you all❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is really helpful ty
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Thanks for checking this out Angel Baby
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Thank you so much for being so beautiful in showing your true feelings. I can relate so much. Thank you 🙏🥹
I believe we need so much more of this.
Feels very healing.
You are such a wonderful person.
Your family seems such a safe understanding haven now🥹
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But how do you let it out out at the time
An awful tragedy. Processing can take decades. I think the intense emotions that are shut down need to come out. There are more appropriate ways to express them that don't hurt others.
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Thank you for sharing made me feel less alone
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