I just want to say thank you for everyone in the comments! I want you all to know that your kind words have reach me and my dad's ears and that we hear you! Thanks again for all the words of encouragement and everything you do for others!
As a fellow schizophrenic, I can tell you this. Schizophrenia is not easy at all. His dad is amazing and I am really happy that they have such a strong bond.
Hi. Just super curious. What is the relationship of schizophrenia and empathy? Can you feel it? Cognitive and affective? Or only one of those. Or none of those?
Im so so so happy to see a fellow asian schizophrenic! Ive been following this channel since I was 9 and I'm now 18. I didnt expect my diagnosis but this channel helps more than I can even describe :)) im so proud of daniel for sharing his story
It genuinely seems that schizophrenia and other psychotic illnesses goes under-diagnosed in Asian communities. Same goes for many of the Natives/Indians (some tribes prefer different words) I’ve met. It seems the infrastructure for mental health just isn’t there and the fact that there’s a stigma to begin with really doesn’t help.
He didnt understand it at first, but with time has come to learn of his sons illness. He cleaely says this in the video, just his english isnt perfect.
My cousin is schizophrenic in his 50s. He struggled for many years, messed around by the healthcare system. He met his girlfriend, someone who's experienced working with people with many mental health issues, and he's finally happy. It took a long time, but I'm so pleased for him. He's a great person
Everyone in this story is a hero. Daniel obvs, his family, his college roommate, those police officers who recognized his mental health emergency, and Chris for amplifying his voice.
7:30 I hope Daniel knows how incredible it is that he self-reflected in that moment, called the cops, and asked for help. I'm in awe of his courage and self-awareness.
That stands out to me as well. Being afraid to hurt others and wanting to ‘turn himself in’. That self awareness will help him a lot in living with schizophrenia.
Sadly the cops have to deal with so much mental health crisis when mobile mental health crisis teams should be involved instead. It is incredibly hard to differentiate between some substance abuse and some mental health crisis. Cops are underqualified to deal with their cases. The system needs to change and the public needs education. Proper education, including mental health courses, should be a government's #1 concern. Special Books For Special Kids is a wonderful resource. A giant step for humanity.
as a schizophrenic woman, i am so happy you made this video. so many people think we are evil and want to hurts others, when i have never had the urge or any voice tell me to. my auditory and visual hallucinations are normal humans having normal conversations. but thank you again. this makes me cry. you do more for others than you know. 💗
I am very curious: How did you recognize that the people having conversations around you weren´t real? There had be some type of feedback to know for sure (friends, family that don´t see them). I mean in a big city there are always so many random people around you.
It's not always hearing a whole conversation. I get directives like "run" "get away" or messages like "they are watching you" "they can hear you" Sometimes it's ambient noise like a high frequency buzz or a beep. Maybe loud bangs. Yes, I do try to find the source of the sounds or run from them.
Schizophrenics are 4 to 7 times more likely to commit violent crime like homicide and assault, and this doesn't include the extreme psychological violence they inflict on their loved ones, especially on helpless underage children. No amount of saccharine propaganda and whining about "stigma" is going to change this depressing reality.
I have a son who has schizophrenia and bipolar. He is now 27. He started having symptoms when he was 21. Instead of recognizing his illness, he was put in jail for breaking his the taillight on his father’s car. We thought by him going to jail, he at least would get help, but it took soooo long getting him help. It has been an unbelievably slow and painful process for him as well as us. He is back on meds and doing better…. I’m hoping he can gain an understanding of the disease as you have. This video is an excellent way to get the awareness out there to everyone. Thank you so much for sharing… you are amazing ❤
From one father to another, Thank you so much for being a GOOD man. We need many more just like you. Thank you sir. To the son so very proud of your courage. You are a gift.
❤❤ so true. It was amazing seeing the father working so hard to UNDERSTAND his child and his pain and experience. So many don't, because it isn't how THEY experienced life. This dad made me so emotional in a positive way. So much love for this sweet family.
“ you were the first step of my journey to recovery” How beautiful! I’m so thankful for this channel. It is impossible to hear these testimonies, without growing as a human being, and being a better person in this world.
I live with schizophrenia now for over 30+ years and it hasn’t always been easy. I can so relate to your voices… I too feel I have no privacy & get very frustrated with my voices, too!! The struggle is real❤
As an Asian person who struggles with mental health, I often feel understood personally and culturally. Seeing how much love and understanding Daniel's father has for him and how eloquent Daniel is just gives me so much hope. Thank you for sharing your story, Daniel! Edit: just gotta say I love the setup too, the League of Legends in the background, the Attack on Titan manga print ... super awesome
I've been watching these for years (and an now a patron), and I never expected to now have a friend dealing with delusions much like Daniel describes here. This channel helped prepare me to keep being his friend during this, and Daniel's interview gives me hope that my friend can find some recovery.
my partner has a paranoid schizophenia. he also had to quit his first uni and job because of that (and in and out of hospitals). but 15 years+ after his diagnosis, he is living his best life 😊 i think finding the med that suits you is one of the most important thing, other than having a support system ❤ my bf had taken clozapine (highly monitored) and now moved to olanzapine. now he sometimes had couple of lights and a bit of voice but nothing bad. he had episode only once every couple of years.🙂 things will get better, there is hope 🥰
It’s so refreshing to see an Asian family being supportive and helpful of their son. I know it’s not uncommon for them to be dismissive of it because of they way the parents were raised!
Dismissive is inaccurate in my experience. It’s more denial and refusal to change their views rooted in ignorant, false narratives on mental health issues being signs of weakness. And white parents (also from my experience being biracial) hold these outdated views as well. Most cultures and specifically people from this father’s generation all over the world share these misconceptions of mental health. Disappointed and uncomfortable seeing a white woman saying this as if it’s your lived experience when it’s clearly that ubiquitous generalization that all Asian parents are callous authoritarians.
We are in 2023... And still, the schizophrenia remains being misunderstood. If someone with this illness takes meds, people expect you to behave and be cured, as if schizophrenia were like just a flu or a headache. Finding your right medication is the hardest thing I've ever known, what works for one, may not work for others... Nobody can understand how it is to live with this illness until you live with someone who has it. And it is devastating and hopeless. I'm saying this from the bottom of my heart. I so wish this illness, along with bipolar and schizoaffective disorder would disappear forever. How can we live in a world where these illnesses exist? My compassion and best wishes to y'all. You're not alone. 🙏🏻💜💙🇲🇽
So sad that when he was diagnosed he thought the doctors were just lying to him so nobody would believe what he was saying. What a cruel illness to make people so sick but then part of that illness is making them believe they aren’t sick so they don’t seek help.
This is such a beautiful and powerful interview. So much love and respect between the father and son. And such warmth and authentic connection between Chris and Daniel.
When youre in psychosis, it makes sense to YOU. The voices, the being paranoid, the delusions you have, the thinking cameras are everywhere, thinking people are talking about you ,all the signs you see etc... it makes sense to YOU
It’s amazing how in tune he is with his psychosis and what he’s experienced. It really shows he’s worked hard with his therapist, what a great man trying his hardest.
Thank you for bringing mental illness to the light and showing people getting help without prejudice or ridicule. Too many people think it is a weakness to get help when it is the opposite.
My brother has schizophrenia and his delusions are almost exactly the same! I sent this video to my mom. Thank you so much for sharing your story! You give hope to those stil struggling and family members of those struggling.
I am a teenager about to go into adulthood living with schizoaffective disorder bipolar II type. It has been a long road these last few years and this channel has helped me a lot and makes me feel less alone and encourages me to share my experiences with the world. Much love to you guys for what you do!
Much love to you for your journey! Just the fact that you are here makes me very hopeful for where your journey is headed. Wish you all the best, friend 🙏
I have to agree with him. SBSK has truly helped a lot and I mean a lot with my personal schizophrenia. I was born with schizophrenia which is extremely rare, I found out after high school I had it. Something about seeing schizophrenia outside yourself, just has an extremely comforting and humanity effect. I will always be thankful for this. Thank you SBSK, honestly there’s nothing like you. ❤
@@078theo we’ll effective empathy over emotional or stubborn lol, sounds like an insult. But I’m used to the internet. If not schizophrenia is an complex illness. For me for example in my time in it. I’ve seen faces jump out at me, black figures chase me, creatures crawling on walls n ceiling, even a woman hanging in kitchen choking. I have intense schizophrenia. I also hallucinate pain personally, usually a feeling of in dessert dryness extreme thirst n pain, one time I woke up hallucinating fish hooks in my nose. Delusions wise, split personalities isn’t schizophrenia, but personally I’ve had moments under intense stress that, I all of the sudden thought I was some one else after I snapped out of it I felt I was in dream rest of day shaking. So if u know effective empathy Better, I’d need u to tell me. If ur trolling owell trolls come n go lol.
I’m mixed Asian and our community and culture generally reject mental health issues and often too proud to admit if your kids have it so I’m so happy his father came around and is so open minded and accepting of it now. It makes all the difference in the world.
This helps a lot. My gf is in a psych unit now being diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia. I'm crying all the time because i feel like i just lost the love of my life and like i just gave her away. But i know that she needs help and that it's beyond me. Honestly, all i want is for her to laugh again. I just miss her laughing. I even miss the annoying things. If she can come back and be herself again like this guy is, than that's all i need. I miss her so much. It breaks my heart in a million pieces.
Big hugs dude. I have a friend w paranoid schizophrenia and he hardly contacts me anymore and same for the rest of his friends because his medications make him apathetic to almost everything. It’s sad.
She will get better once she is on her meds. Promise. She will need all the love and understanding she can get. Don't give in to the stigma about this disease. People who have support do much better. There is hope. Sorry, it's really hard.
This is beautiful. I also have schizophrenia, and it took a long time to realize it. My brother’s girlfriend is a psychiatric nurse and even she didn’t realize what was happening until it became obvious. She helped me understand what was happening, and I got the medication needed to get it under control. My brother and his girlfriend’s caring are what got me through this. I could have ended up homeless without my family.
I was crying about my son having schizophrenia last night. Crying for him because yesterday was his injection day I went in with him and watched the nurse give him his injection. I hated seeing that thick medication being injected into him. Schizophrenia stopped his education in the 9th grade and I can not get over all of the things a young man his age should be doing anything but injections. Besides now it is prom and graduation and that is not happening. I don't know I need help to let those things go.
My son was supposed to attend his graduation Sunday but he's in too much psychosis right now to handle it. Luckily the school is going to present him with his diploma in a smaller ceremony next week. He's going to be starting abilify injections next week because he forgets his meds all the time or is at a friend's house n I fall asleep n don't get him to take them. It's super hard. I have 2 sons with schizophrenia out of myb4 and the lives we envisioned for them versus what has happened is tough. I am going to do my best to celebrate lil victories n think of what they can do vs can't. Otherwise I'll be crying too much. It's hard not to feel the way we do tho I totally feel the same.
I hope the best for you. I would like to say that he’s lucky to be diagnosed this early and treated. My mother lived with paranoid schizophrenia WITHOUT treatment nor diagnosis (hence constant psychosis and delirium) for more than 50 years. She got diagnosed after attacking me during a psychotic episode (I was 15 and alone, shortly after divorce.) but since it has been more than 50 years, in her case, it’s degenerative (physically; brain). To make it worse, she had untreated Psychosis Post Partum (my older brother’s harsh and traumatic birth at 18) and long lived abuse and discrimination. Bc of her conditions she abused his son and my father (who protected me). All of this to say, it could be worse, doesn’t matter, what matter is that your son is getting treated and has your support, and I hope a warm community :)
This guy is seriously brave. His perseverance will help so many people. His openness about his struggles and how he overcame them and how he continues to do so now is seriously impressive.
Daniel is so courageous to share his personal struggle with mental illness in order to help others. It is wonderful that SBSK was instrumental in helping him too. He’s paying it forward and that gives us all the inspiration to do the same in whatever ways we can. Thank you Daniel. Thank you Chris. We are all made a litter bit better when we share. 👍🏻🌹👍🏻
@Daniel: This may not mean much coming from some stranger over the internet, but I’m genuinely happy you’re in a good place now as far as your struggles are concerned. I can’t claim to know what this particular illness is like, but it can’t be easy. Your pop seems like a great guy; I hope you realize just how lucky you are to have people like him in your corner. Also, sweet gaming setup, I’m kinda jealous 👍
To help me understand what it is like and relate, to me it seems like religion is a milder form of schizophrenia that shares a source/location in the brain because there are so many similarities... Feeling like you are being watched all the time, hearing messages or voices, talking to invisible supernatural entities that have no physical reality, imagining things you are convinced are real but aren't, being convinced whatever you believe is reality based on no actual evidence, feeling persecuted or becoming angry and defensive when you feel threatened if anyone questions or disagrees with your beliefs, feeling mysterious or other worldly sensations, feeling sure irrational things are reality and true, even to justifying them with hatred and violent force. (as in the long history of religious wars and persecution... witch trials, infanticide, jihads, the Inquisition, the Crusades, etc). Whereas schizophrenia originates with internal individual perceptions, religions are mostly fed initially by "sacred texts" external messages, established dogma, and serial brainwashing involving a legendary mythical, but deceased figure. "Cults" are one step removed in that they have a living leader to captivate his followers and can dictate his evolving beliefs as truth over time.
@@CharGC123 I've been thinking about that as well. Could be that the people of the olden times just never got diagnosed because the illness was not known back then. You may want to read about St. Gemma Galgani's diary, it was very interesting reading it while keeping this background in our mind. (Hopefully my comment doesn't offend anyone...)
I spent some time living with a relative who is schizophrenic when I was a teen and it really helped open my eyes. He was a genuinely good person, and it was obvious that he did not choose to experience these audio and visual hallucinations. It was NOTHING like what I had seen in movies. I’m grateful I had the experience and I am in awe of the strength it takes to deal with this disorder. Thank you for sharing your story!❤
This guys one of my favourite people you’ve ever showcased, he really reminds me of my friends and this guy is a fuckin pure soul. Not only is he self aware, he is so smart to the point where it’s almost surreal seeing someone know this much about their own delusions. I’ve never really seen anyone that had this much hindsight I’ve had psychotic episodes as a result of drugs and I can’t imagine having that constantly.
Daniel and his Father… wow. Brought tears to my eyes, what gems of humans. As a 1st gen American born to Indian parents and having mental issues myself, this interview meant a lot.
i am so glad my mom stayed with me when i was telling her all about my voices making fake facebook accounts and messaging them fucked up shit. but my mom knew i was just ill. and i think it saved my life. if ur schizophrenic out there bro, just know that theres people who know the truth
This man is so strong, so courageous and so intelligent….recognising that you have it is 50% of the journey toward functional healing. His dad likewise is a salt of the earth individual
My son's college friend and roommate started hearing voices. He didn't say anything because he thought that everyone did. My nephew the same. Both are getting help and are living wonderful lives. I wish this young man and his family nothing but the best in their futures.
Daniel really has a way with words, the way he describes his experiences before he was diagnosed really helps put it into a concept that most people can understand easily, and more importantly, empathize with you. You are going to help so many people. Thank you.
I wish Daniel and his father all the best in dealing with this. I was recently diagnosed with a mental illness and I’m still in denial, but watching this video and reading the comments helps me know that I’m not alone. I wish there was a cure for mental illness.
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what a beautiful human being. his honesty and him sharing his experience has made such a profound impression on me... all that hes been up against, truly traumatic experiences whether they actually happened or not is besides the point, theyre his experiences and he so bravely explains it in a way ive never heard before. before this interview i never understood paranoid schizophrenia and now i not only understand it, but it actually explains a lot in regards to my brother who committed suicide who believed this was happening to him. i feel connected to him in a way i coudnt when he was alive-and i tried sooo hard to. this was incredibly therapeutic for me. i wish i could thank daniel...years of therapy hasnt done nearly as much as you have in your 35 min interview :')
thank you for posting this. my girlfriend recently went through a psychosis episode that was persecutory in nature, where she fully believed me and my family were out to get her along with like anything she saw pop up on her phone. she held me at knife point cause I didn't understand what was going on until it had escalated too far. I was scared for myself but all I could think of was how scared she must be to think that she was all alone in this world and that everyone was out to get her. so I just kind of sat through it and tried calming her down while still being held like that for a few hours. finally, I realized there was nothing I could do to help ground her in that moment so I finally fought back just enough to get the knife away from her so she wouldn't harm herself either and soon after a crisis intervention team arrived. I feel bad just putting this out there but if anything I feel like this is the right place. but um, I'm commenting this because I also need some advice. it's now been almost a month, she's been in a behavorial health center, and I'm trying to understand things so I can learn how to help her if I can at all, or at least learn what not to do. I don't want to diagnose her myself, but for me it's felt like she has bpd but had a persecutory pyschosis episode. she didn't have any hallucinations, just delusions. I'm trying to do all I can to heal myself but also learn from it. I found out I'm autistic as well, at 20. so still figuring all that out as well. if anyone has any advice whatsoever, it'd be appreciated.
and by," fought back," I never hit her or anything like that. I just grabbed ahold of her arm and held it behind her back until help got there and disarmed her.
Can't really help as I don't know anybody who has schizophrenia but I feel for you and you heart is in the good place by trying to understand her ! In the video Daniel's dad insisted a lot on the help of social workers , so I think you should try to talk to the specialists helping your girlfriend, they might help you understand better her state and how to react. I wish you the best !
@Claire Nief thank you! I've been trying to, but neither me nor her parent know where she's actually being held, so I can't actually get into contact with any of them. speaking of which, her mom just called me asking if I've gotten any more information as to where she may be. so back to that I go
@Sugarsore I've been trying, first call with the provider was april 20th and I've been waiting to be set up with a therapist since. honestly, it's really hard!! I want to let everything I feel out already but I have to force myself to wait for that therapist. it sucks cause, while I haven't felt too s****dal yet, I can kind of feel myself slipping slowly. like my perspective of life is getting blurred? I can't focus on things as much, I dissociate a lot, etc. I think the trauma is just fr kicking in now. but yeah, definitely trying to get into therapy, thank you!
OMG I want the Dad to be my Dad. The love and bond is beautiful. This young man struggling everyday is so much stronger than he understands. Story time. I go to a Pain Clinic every week and there is Rob who I met the first time he was in angry talking to a trashcan. I knew and heard him go, then tell me he was having a bad day! I wished him a better day. Now if he is having a bad day he tells me. It is incredible. I have my own issues so, hearing a fellow human being is so beneficial. Hearing his Dad say he didn't choose it. So true and unfair. 😊
Daniel thank you so much for sharing your story. I’m am so glad you are doing well and proud of you that your are standing up against this illness. Many years ago my youngest brother started acting strangely. He had a good job but was using drugs. He became very paranoid. Our family tried to help him but we were so confused. After awhile it became clear that he had the symptoms of schizophrenia. He then started to do a lot of damage to our homes and smashed out windows of family businesses and many many vehicles. We tried to get him help but he refused. I found out recently that he passed away. He was 66. He didn’t not live the life he should have had. I loved him very much but I couldn’t help him. I am so happy that your family found a way to love and support you. So great that you were able to find it within yourself to accept their help. May you continue to be well and have the love and support of family and friends. You are not alone. ❤️
Daniel, I don't know if you'll read this or not. I'm so proud of you telling your story, I agree this channel has brought so much information out! Your father is amazing too, I'm so glad you met Chris and shared your story, I believe you will help others without a doubt!! Thank you, Daniel!!
I am currently a Social Worker and studying to become a Clinical Social worker inorder to do therapy. Daniel you are inspiring ❤ You said it gets worse before it gets better, but it will get better. Thank you for saying this, no truerwords were ever spoken. May you continue to be happy & well. You have amazing parents, great job to them for their love & support.
I had a bad trauma response, and I’m better now, but I had psychosis for a few months. It’s horrible. But Daniel seems very nice and I’m so happy his medicine seems to be working. His dad seems awesome, too.
@@kanwalraja466 my psychosis was just because of the antidepressant I was prescribed. I stopped taking it and it went away. It’s probably because I was in my early twenties at the time.
I lost my favorite person to suicide and he showed symptoms of schizophrenia but nobody seemed to acknowledge that word. He would seem to have conversations with someone who wasnt there while he was surrounded with family. He went on medication and from what i heard he didnt like being on it. Mental health seemed to be taboo. Idk if its culture of being Filipino or if it was just something brushed under the rug. So i applaud you for sharing and bringing light to your diagnosis. This can save a life. Your dad is so supportive i love it. Such a blessing. May your dreams and goals become reality. Take care.
Thank you Daniel. You are so articulate. I understand schizophrenia so much better after watching this. Your dad is awesome. ‘Just understand him and help him’. Such simple yet powerful parenting advice.
Literally same, I'm high functioning but I have those days where I can't help but get paranoid oe just worried that someone's outside my window or door. Sometimes I even see full body aperations and thats when I get upset and walk up to my hallucination and it'll just disappear right before I'm about 1-2 feet away... smh
Thanks to Daniel and his Dad. You help me understand more about mental health. I respect and admire both and receive a very warm hug from me. Thank you Chris.
Daniel giving you kudos for all the amazing work you do was heartfelt. Thank you Daniel for sharing this. I have a friend who was recently diagnosed with schizophrenia. Hearing your story has helped so much.
Daniel, you are not a coward! Coming forward with your story is a very, very brave thing to do. The voices during that first episode were trying to make you THINK you were a coward. I pray for peace for you. 💙✌️
True! It breaks my heart when he said that, he was very brave. Imagine being that self-aware under that psychosis, he even wanted to report himself to the police. He also didn't want to offend anyone and forced himself to stop cursing Jesus. Speaks volume of his integrity and personality!
Omg Daniel, your dad is so freakin' cute! My brother has schizophrenia & bipolar disorder so I can relate as a family member, looking in. Support from loved ones is CRUCIAL! I am sooo grateful your parents were open to learning about your diagnosis and accepted the reality of it, wanting to only help you. I am also aware every culture is different when it comes to mental illness. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻❤️❤️
His dad is so compassionate and understanding, it’s so sweet to see how much he cares and all he does and Daniel is clearly super smart and a very loving son
Thank you Daniel, for being willing to accept help. I have a son who still does not think HE has the problem. It's been many long, hard, years, and since he is an adult, there is nothing I can do. :(
Daniel - I watched your interview. You are VERY brave to share your experiences and challenges with SBSK viewers! I can tell how much empathy and love you have for others who struggle with mental health. You are a blessing and an asset to others! Thank you!
I wish I could like this video twice. It always shocks me (in a good way) to see Viet people and their parents who actually understand mental health issues. Brings tears to my eyes seeing the love in this family. Thank you for sharing ❤
So amazing to see that level of empathy and understanding. Many Asian families, of many countries, look so poorly upon mental illness. So much that it's not even treated as illness deserving of treatment and supportive recovery. There's no encouragement to learn about it, understand it, or accept a condition for what it is. Instead, it's ridiculed, mourned, or reacted in anger by other family members - whether it's a stigma of having someone psychotic in the family, or being "punished" religiously for not acting piously enough. To hear his dad say all those positive things was rare, but beautiful.
2 minutes in and i'm all teared up, thank you for doing what you do Chris. It's beautiful. - Sheep. Edit: Thank you for sharing stories to the entire world, i love people like you doing what you do.
This was one of my favorite videos on this channel. I can relate with some of his symptoms. Daniel is clearly very intelligent. I worry about him when his parents pass away.
Its incredible to hear Daniel talk about seeing other people's reaction to his current mood/state and how it is a signal for him to remember to take care of himself. Daniel is obviously a very smart and caring young man. My uncle had paranoid schizophrenia and was fortunate to be able to drive a car, go to the flea market and make friends with the vendors he met there. I know that he never failed to go every weekend to have conversations with people and get out of the house. He said that it was the best way to lift his mood because if he started feeling overwhelmed, he could just say that he had to go because he was meeting someone for lunch.🥰 He figured out clever ways to "escape" if he ever needed to. He promised his mother that he would always take his medicine and we are fortunate that he kept his promise. His mother would wake him up to take his medicine as scheduled whenever he slept passed the correct time.....as his medicine could make him sleepy. All that to say, that don't believe that you will never: drive a car, make friends that you will talk to every weekend, or go to college because you absolutely will do all of these things and whatever else you want to do. You just have to plan a path that fits you, complete with "escapes" if necessary. 💕
Whatever happened that night, the experience and the trauma of the memory is still real. Regardless if it actually happened or not, it doesn’t lessen the fear and the pain.
Wow, Daniel! Really proud of you! You have clearly developed a great self awareness in your recovery and I love that you were willing to take the risk of putting yourself out there to try to share your story and help others. That is a wonderful thing, Sir! Thank you for taking the risk. I know this video will help others who are struggling with some of the same issues. ❤
My dad also had paranoid schizophrenia which he mixed with drugs and he almost couldn’t comprehend anything in the last years of his life but he still was a very nice and caring person. He died on April 5th 2020 and I miss him everyday
Hey pyro, im super proud of you for doing this. Takes a lot of strength to face your demons one on one. I relate in my battle with combat ptsd and honor your words of wisdom. Thank you SBSK for sheading light to this part of mental health struggles and doing your due diligence in perusing truth in this mental endeavor.
@@danieltuongHI Daniel. Is Pyro your gaming name? I saw you were playing something on the PC. Are you a big video game fan? I am, I'd like to know what you enjoy playing.
@@danieltuong OK thank you! I've actually heard a lot about League of Legends, just never got into playing it myself. It's been around awhile from what I've heard.
"Remember where you came from", his advice to people just starting to experience psychosis, is beautiful. That can also be advice to friends and family..Remember where they came from, Remember who they are without the illness.
Thank you Daniel and thank you to your father, this has given me hope for my son. He has schizophrenia and he still struggles its a very hard for him he doesn't have much support. Im hoping to share this with him and give him some hope! This can show him he is not alone. This was so helpful. Daniel your explanation of ur systems was remarkable to be able to elaborate on them, well done. Hope to see more of there. We must support our love ones with Schizophrenia💚
I am reading a book called “The Collected Schizophrenias” by Esmé Weijun Wang, and it has helped me cope with my previous diagnosis of schizoaffective disorder (I recently learn I am instead autistic). The field of mental health is ever-evolving. Some of the things Daniel talked about in the video I can relate to a lot. I wish him the best!
Daniel you are very smart & explained your disease very very good! This was one of the best interviews I've seen explaining Schizophrenia. Your dad is so nice Daniel. Best wishes to you & ur family.
That picture in the back is amazing... I love it. I love how him and his father are so close. I never had that. Kindness and compassion and trust. ❤❤ live the best life you can. Much love.
Protect this man & his father. His dad loves him so dearly, reminds me of my dad. I wish him well. This was a great interview & he genuinely seems like such a cool person
Daniel, I really believe your honesty and strength in sharing your story will save a life. Thank you so much for your advocacy.
Thank you for sharing Daniel! You are very brave!
I just want to say thank you for everyone in the comments! I want you all to know that your kind words have reach me and my dad's ears and that we hear you! Thanks again for all the words of encouragement and everything you do for others!
@@danieltuong ❤️ wishing you the best! We are stronger together!
@@danieltuong thanks for sharing your story!
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As a fellow schizophrenic, I can tell you this. Schizophrenia is not easy at all. His dad is amazing and I am really happy that they have such a strong bond.
I just wanna say that you’re so strong and I’m so happy you’re here!
As someone who got diagnosed when I was young I appreciate everyone who helps me improve I’m not great still but I’m trying
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Hi. Just super curious. What is the relationship of schizophrenia and empathy? Can you feel it? Cognitive and affective? Or only one of those. Or none of those?
@@078theo it depends on the person I can feel most cognitive empathy but it doesn’t work the other way for me
I love the dad, what a sweet and supportive father.
The sweetest, kindest, funniest, toughest Dad!
@@jilewait was hilarious when he said “maybe he lazy” 😭😭
I will say he does explain his experiences in a succinct matter.
Im so so so happy to see a fellow asian schizophrenic! Ive been following this channel since I was 9 and I'm now 18. I didnt expect my diagnosis but this channel helps more than I can even describe :)) im so proud of daniel for sharing his story
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It genuinely seems that schizophrenia and other psychotic illnesses goes under-diagnosed in Asian communities. Same goes for many of the Natives/Indians (some tribes prefer different words) I’ve met. It seems the infrastructure for mental health just isn’t there and the fact that there’s a stigma to begin with really doesn’t help.
Yes! The support this Asian dad gives his son is astounding!
There's much love in this family, and no shame! 💙
Yeah can we ever expect a diagnosis really tho, they just kinda hit. All 4 of my autoimmune inflammatory disease came on randomly over 8 years.
This young man is so wonderful and what a wonderful supportive dad!
You can tell the dad doesn’t really understand it, but wants to help. What a sweet guy
how do you know?
@@dorna2325you can clearly tell
@@dorna2325weren’t you listening at all
He didnt understand it at first, but with time has come to learn of his sons illness. He cleaely says this in the video, just his english isnt perfect.
it seems like his english is fluent but he has a heavy accent@@Grizzles1
My cousin is schizophrenic in his 50s. He struggled for many years, messed around by the healthcare system. He met his girlfriend, someone who's experienced working with people with many mental health issues, and he's finally happy. It took a long time, but I'm so pleased for him. He's a great person
Thanks for your insight.
That's so amazing. ❤
Yes but a schizoprenic can have wellness!
that's absolutely amazing, i hope they're still together
Everyone in this story is a hero. Daniel obvs, his family, his college roommate, those police officers who recognized his mental health emergency, and Chris for amplifying his voice.
I'm Vietnamese and I see my dad in his dad. What a lovely guy, trying his best.
2:25 "I love you, Dad." With a genuine smile and a fist bump that warmed my heart. ❤
7:30 I hope Daniel knows how incredible it is that he self-reflected in that moment, called the cops, and asked for help. I'm in awe of his courage and self-awareness.
That stands out to me as well. Being afraid to hurt others and wanting to ‘turn himself in’. That self awareness will help him a lot in living with schizophrenia.
Yeah, he can't go wrong with such an amazing attitude in life. His honesty makes him so respectable.
and lucky, police has a particular way to dealing with mental problems in the us, mostly shooting first and asking questions later
Yea the police are horrible towards us mentally ill folk esp poc
Sadly the cops have to deal with so much mental health crisis when mobile mental health crisis teams should be involved instead.
It is incredibly hard to differentiate between some substance abuse and some mental health crisis. Cops are underqualified to deal with their cases.
The system needs to change and the public needs education. Proper education, including mental health courses, should be a government's #1 concern.
Special Books For Special Kids is a wonderful resource. A giant step for humanity.
as a schizophrenic woman, i am so happy you made this video. so many people think we are evil and want to hurts others, when i have never had the urge or any voice tell me to. my auditory and visual hallucinations are normal humans having normal conversations. but thank you again. this makes me cry. you do more for others than you know. 💗
Hi. What is the relationship between schizophrenia and empathy? Do you feel when another is hurt? Just super curious. Can you feel affective empathy?
I am very curious: How did you recognize that the people having conversations around you weren´t real? There had be some type of feedback to know for sure (friends, family that don´t see them). I mean in a big city there are always so many random people around you.
It's not always hearing a whole conversation. I get directives like "run" "get away" or messages like "they are watching you" "they can hear you" Sometimes it's ambient noise like a high frequency buzz or a beep. Maybe loud bangs. Yes, I do try to find the source of the sounds or run from them.
Schizophrenics are 4 to 7 times more likely to commit violent crime like homicide and assault, and this doesn't include the extreme psychological violence they inflict on their loved ones, especially on helpless underage children. No amount of saccharine propaganda and whining about "stigma" is going to change this depressing reality.
@@078theowhy couldn't she?
"My mission was to find out what the mission was" This really struck me.
That could be your
LIFE
I have a son who has schizophrenia and bipolar. He is now 27. He started having symptoms when he was 21. Instead of recognizing his illness, he was put in jail for breaking his the taillight on his father’s car. We thought by him going to jail, he at least would get help, but it took soooo long getting him help. It has been an unbelievably slow and painful process for him as
well as us. He is back on meds and doing better…. I’m hoping he can gain an understanding of
the disease as you have. This video is an excellent way to get the awareness out there to everyone. Thank you so much for sharing… you are amazing ❤
His dad is truly a selfless person
His dad rules!
Dad of the year!
I love his dad so much!! ❤ Advocating for understanding his son and others with schizophrenia
No
@@Crazyeg123shhhhhh
From one father to another, Thank you so much for being a GOOD man. We need many more just like you. Thank you sir. To the son so very proud of your courage. You are a gift.
❤❤ so true. It was amazing seeing the father working so hard to UNDERSTAND his child and his pain and experience. So many don't, because it isn't how THEY experienced life. This dad made me so emotional in a positive way. So much love for this sweet family.
“ you were the first step of my journey to recovery”
How beautiful! I’m so thankful for this channel. It is impossible to hear these testimonies, without growing as a human being, and being a better person in this world.
I live with schizophrenia now for over 30+ years and it hasn’t always been easy. I can so relate to your voices… I too feel I have no privacy & get very frustrated with my voices, too!! The struggle is real❤
I'm so encouraged to see a dad who went from not believing his son to being really supportive and understanding and advocating for his son.
As an Asian person who struggles with mental health, I often feel understood personally and culturally. Seeing how much love and understanding Daniel's father has for him and how eloquent Daniel is just gives me so much hope. Thank you for sharing your story, Daniel!
Edit: just gotta say I love the setup too, the League of Legends in the background, the Attack on Titan manga print ... super awesome
Huge hugs
Yeah, hes super organised and aesthetic. Quite impressed with the setup.
I love league and aot too
This dad is a treasure
I've been watching these for years (and an now a patron), and I never expected to now have a friend dealing with delusions much like Daniel describes here. This channel helped prepare me to keep being his friend during this, and Daniel's interview gives me hope that my friend can find some recovery.
Brain disorders seems so hard. I am impressed by people who can do the work and the people who support them.
my partner has a paranoid schizophenia. he also had to quit his first uni and job because of that (and in and out of hospitals). but 15 years+ after his diagnosis, he is living his best life 😊 i think finding the med that suits you is one of the most important thing, other than having a support system ❤ my bf had taken clozapine (highly monitored) and now moved to olanzapine. now he sometimes had couple of lights and a bit of voice but nothing bad. he had episode only once every couple of years.🙂 things will get better, there is hope 🥰
Good for him! I’m happy for him ❤
It’s so refreshing to see an Asian family being supportive and helpful of their son. I know it’s not uncommon for them to be dismissive of it because of they way the parents were raised!
are you asian
Right !?!? So happy to see this
@@rae7864 are you asian
Dismissive is inaccurate in my experience. It’s more denial and refusal to change their views rooted in ignorant, false narratives on mental health issues being signs of weakness. And white parents (also from my experience being biracial) hold these outdated views as well. Most cultures and specifically people from this father’s generation all over the world share these misconceptions of mental health.
Disappointed and uncomfortable seeing a white woman saying this as if it’s your lived experience when it’s clearly that ubiquitous generalization that all Asian parents are callous authoritarians.
@@cnVincenti literally I was shocked but not surprised to read such ignorant comments from, of course, white women
We are in 2023... And still, the schizophrenia remains being misunderstood.
If someone with this illness takes meds, people expect you to behave and be cured, as if schizophrenia were like just a flu or a headache.
Finding your right medication is the hardest thing I've ever known, what works for one, may not work for others...
Nobody can understand how it is to live with this illness until you live with someone who has it. And it is devastating and hopeless.
I'm saying this from the bottom of my heart.
I so wish this illness, along with bipolar and schizoaffective disorder would disappear forever.
How can we live in a world where these illnesses exist?
My compassion and best wishes to y'all.
You're not alone.
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Im a sufferer it needs to be cured ASAP
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So sad that when he was diagnosed he thought the doctors were just lying to him so nobody would believe what he was saying. What a cruel illness to make people so sick but then part of that illness is making them believe they aren’t sick so they don’t seek help.
This is such a beautiful and powerful interview. So much love and respect between the father and son. And such warmth and authentic connection between Chris and Daniel.
When youre in psychosis, it makes sense to YOU. The voices, the being paranoid, the delusions you have, the thinking cameras are everywhere, thinking people are talking about you ,all the signs you see etc... it makes sense to YOU
They are real spirits. One talked to me on the train on December 8th. The so-called hallucinations are real.
The story he told before the symptoms started sounds terrifying to go through. I'm glad he's seeing a therapist and taking medications.
It’s amazing how in tune he is with his psychosis and what he’s experienced. It really shows he’s worked hard with his therapist, what a great man trying his hardest.
Thank you for bringing mental illness to the light and showing people getting help without prejudice or ridicule. Too many people think it is a weakness to get help when it is the opposite.
You're absolutely right! Admitting you have a mental illness in our society is very daunting! It takes a brave person to step forward and admit it. 👏
Some of the strongest people I know have successfully battled through mental illness. 💕
My brother has schizophrenia and his delusions are almost exactly the same! I sent this video to my mom. Thank you so much for sharing your story! You give hope to those stil struggling and family members of those struggling.
My 12 year old has episodes of psychosis and the BEST advice for parents is yes, JUST CALM DOWN! Good job, dad!! Keep supporting your son!
I am a teenager about to go into adulthood living with schizoaffective disorder bipolar II type. It has been a long road these last few years and this channel has helped me a lot and makes me feel less alone and encourages me to share my experiences with the world. Much love to you guys for what you do!
Good luck friend.
Much love to you for your journey! Just the fact that you are here makes me very hopeful for where your journey is headed. Wish you all the best, friend 🙏
🙏🏻🙏🏼Stay encouraged, you're not alone
I have to agree with him. SBSK has truly helped a lot and I mean a lot with my personal schizophrenia. I was born with schizophrenia which is extremely rare, I found out after high school I had it. Something about seeing schizophrenia outside yourself, just has an extremely comforting and humanity effect. I will always be thankful for this. Thank you SBSK, honestly there’s nothing like you. ❤
It’s amazing to hear, he has so much support from his dad
Hi. What is the correlation between affective empathy and schizophrenia? Do you have affective empathy? Just super curious.
@@078theo we’ll effective empathy over emotional or stubborn lol, sounds like an insult. But I’m used to the internet. If not schizophrenia is an complex illness. For me for example in my time in it. I’ve seen faces jump out at me, black figures chase me, creatures crawling on walls n ceiling, even a woman hanging in kitchen choking. I have intense schizophrenia. I also hallucinate pain personally, usually a feeling of in dessert dryness extreme thirst n pain, one time I woke up hallucinating fish hooks in my nose. Delusions wise, split personalities isn’t schizophrenia, but personally I’ve had moments under intense stress that, I all of the sudden thought I was some one else after I snapped out of it I felt I was in dream rest of day shaking. So if u know effective empathy Better, I’d need u to tell me. If ur trolling owell trolls come n go lol.
My son showed signs from a very early age too.
@@andreawisner7358 for me personally it helped me get more used to it, and control it better. I hope it helped ur son the same
I’m mixed Asian and our community and culture generally reject mental health issues and often too proud to admit if your kids have it so I’m so happy his father came around and is so open minded and accepting of it now. It makes all the difference in the world.
He really does a great job of explaining what it feels like to feel the universe is speaking to you, and what it feels like to come back to reality
This helps a lot. My gf is in a psych unit now being diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia. I'm crying all the time because i feel like i just lost the love of my life and like i just gave her away. But i know that she needs help and that it's beyond me. Honestly, all i want is for her to laugh again. I just miss her laughing. I even miss the annoying things. If she can come back and be herself again like this guy is, than that's all i need. I miss her so much. It breaks my heart in a million pieces.
Big hugs dude. I have a friend w paranoid schizophrenia and he hardly contacts me anymore and same for the rest of his friends because his medications make him apathetic to almost everything. It’s sad.
She will get better once she is on her meds. Promise. She will need all the love and understanding she can get. Don't give in to the stigma about this disease. People who have support do much better. There is hope. Sorry, it's really hard.
Hope you're okay xxx how are you going now???
This is beautiful. I also have schizophrenia, and it took a long time to realize it. My brother’s girlfriend is a psychiatric nurse and even she didn’t realize what was happening until it became obvious. She helped me understand what was happening, and I got the medication needed to get it under control. My brother and his girlfriend’s caring are what got me through this. I could have ended up homeless without my family.
What were the obvious symptoms?
Which medication?
His dad is so incredibly sweet 🥲 they are lucky to have each other ❤
I was crying about my son having schizophrenia last night. Crying for him because yesterday was his injection day I went in with him and watched the nurse give him his injection.
I hated seeing that thick medication being injected into him.
Schizophrenia stopped his education in the 9th grade and I can not get over all of the things a young man his age should be doing anything but injections.
Besides now it is prom and graduation and that is not happening.
I don't know I need help to let those things go.
You love your son but you are allowed to grieve over the difficulty and sense of loss at his diagnosis.
My son was supposed to attend his graduation Sunday but he's in too much psychosis right now to handle it. Luckily the school is going to present him with his diploma in a smaller ceremony next week. He's going to be starting abilify injections next week because he forgets his meds all the time or is at a friend's house n I fall asleep n don't get him to take them. It's super hard. I have 2 sons with schizophrenia out of myb4 and the lives we envisioned for them versus what has happened is tough. I am going to do my best to celebrate lil victories n think of what they can do vs can't. Otherwise I'll be crying too much. It's hard not to feel the way we do tho I totally feel the same.
i’ve been on abilify injection and its not that bad, the illness is bad
I hope the best for you.
I would like to say that he’s lucky to be diagnosed this early and treated. My mother lived with paranoid schizophrenia WITHOUT treatment nor diagnosis (hence constant psychosis and delirium) for more than 50 years. She got diagnosed after attacking me during a psychotic episode (I was 15 and alone, shortly after divorce.) but since it has been more than 50 years, in her case, it’s degenerative (physically; brain). To make it worse, she had untreated Psychosis Post Partum (my older brother’s harsh and traumatic birth at 18) and long lived abuse and discrimination. Bc of her conditions she abused his son and my father (who protected me).
All of this to say, it could be worse, doesn’t matter, what matter is that your son is getting treated and has your support, and I hope a warm community :)
This guy is seriously brave. His perseverance will help so many people. His openness about his struggles and how he overcame them and how he continues to do so now is seriously impressive.
Daniel is so courageous to share his personal struggle with mental illness in order to help others. It is wonderful that SBSK was instrumental in helping him too. He’s paying it forward and that gives us all the inspiration to do the same in whatever ways we can. Thank you Daniel. Thank you Chris. We are all made a litter bit better when we share. 👍🏻🌹👍🏻
@Daniel: This may not mean much coming from some stranger over the internet, but I’m genuinely happy you’re in a good place now as far as your struggles are concerned. I can’t claim to know what this particular illness is like, but it can’t be easy. Your pop seems like a great guy; I hope you realize just how lucky you are to have people like him in your corner. Also, sweet gaming setup, I’m kinda jealous 👍
To help me understand what it is like and relate, to me it seems like religion is a milder form of schizophrenia that shares a source/location in the brain because there are so many similarities... Feeling like you are being watched all the time, hearing messages or voices, talking to invisible supernatural entities that have no physical reality, imagining things you are convinced are real but aren't, being convinced whatever you believe is reality based on no actual evidence, feeling persecuted or becoming angry and defensive when you feel threatened if anyone questions or disagrees with your beliefs, feeling mysterious or other worldly sensations, feeling sure irrational things are reality and true, even to justifying them with hatred and violent force. (as in the long history of religious wars and persecution... witch trials, infanticide, jihads, the Inquisition, the Crusades, etc). Whereas schizophrenia originates with internal individual perceptions, religions are mostly fed initially by "sacred texts" external messages, established dogma, and serial brainwashing involving a legendary mythical, but deceased figure. "Cults" are one step removed in that they have a living leader to captivate his followers and can dictate his evolving beliefs as truth over time.
@@CharGC123 I've been thinking about that as well. Could be that the people of the olden times just never got diagnosed because the illness was not known back then. You may want to read about St. Gemma Galgani's diary, it was very interesting reading it while keeping this background in our mind. (Hopefully my comment doesn't offend anyone...)
I spent some time living with a relative who is schizophrenic when I was a teen and it really helped open my eyes. He was a genuinely good person, and it was obvious that he did not choose to experience these audio and visual hallucinations. It was NOTHING like what I had seen in movies. I’m grateful I had the experience and I am in awe of the strength it takes to deal with this disorder. Thank you for sharing your story!❤
This guys one of my favourite people you’ve ever showcased, he really reminds me of my friends and this guy is a fuckin pure soul. Not only is he self aware, he is so smart to the point where it’s almost surreal seeing someone know this much about their own delusions. I’ve never really seen anyone that had this much hindsight
I’ve had psychotic episodes as a result of drugs and I can’t imagine having that constantly.
Same here, especially me with weed. If I may ask, what drugs triggered your psychosis?
Daniel and his Father… wow. Brought tears to my eyes, what gems of humans. As a 1st gen American born to Indian parents and having mental issues myself, this interview meant a lot.
i am so glad my mom stayed with me when i was telling her all about my voices making fake facebook accounts and messaging them fucked up shit. but my mom knew i was just ill. and i think it saved my life. if ur schizophrenic out there bro, just know that theres people who know the truth
Thanks Daniel for sharing your lived experience with paranoid schizophrenia it helps me as a future Occupational Therapist to help my clients.
This man is so strong, so courageous and so intelligent….recognising that you have it is 50% of the journey toward functional healing. His dad likewise is a salt of the earth individual
My son's college friend and roommate started hearing voices. He didn't say anything because he thought that everyone did. My nephew the same. Both are getting help and are living wonderful lives. I wish this young man and his family nothing but the best in their futures.
Daniel really has a way with words, the way he describes his experiences before he was diagnosed really helps put it into a concept that most people can understand easily, and more importantly, empathize with you. You are going to help so many people. Thank you.
I wish Daniel and his father all the best in dealing with this. I was recently diagnosed with a mental illness and I’m still in denial, but watching this video and reading the comments helps me know that I’m not alone. I wish there was a cure for mental illness.
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what a beautiful human being. his honesty and him sharing his experience has made such a profound impression on me... all that hes been up against, truly traumatic experiences whether they actually happened or not is besides the point, theyre his experiences and he so bravely explains it in a way ive never heard before. before this interview i never understood paranoid schizophrenia and now i not only understand it, but it actually explains a lot in regards to my brother who committed suicide who believed this was happening to him. i feel connected to him in a way i coudnt when he was alive-and i tried sooo hard to. this was incredibly therapeutic for me. i wish i could thank daniel...years of therapy hasnt done nearly as much as you have in your 35 min interview :')
thank you for posting this. my girlfriend recently went through a psychosis episode that was persecutory in nature, where she fully believed me and my family were out to get her along with like anything she saw pop up on her phone. she held me at knife point cause I didn't understand what was going on until it had escalated too far. I was scared for myself but all I could think of was how scared she must be to think that she was all alone in this world and that everyone was out to get her. so I just kind of sat through it and tried calming her down while still being held like that for a few hours. finally, I realized there was nothing I could do to help ground her in that moment so I finally fought back just enough to get the knife away from her so she wouldn't harm herself either and soon after a crisis intervention team arrived. I feel bad just putting this out there but if anything I feel like this is the right place. but um, I'm commenting this because I also need some advice. it's now been almost a month, she's been in a behavorial health center, and I'm trying to understand things so I can learn how to help her if I can at all, or at least learn what not to do. I don't want to diagnose her myself, but for me it's felt like she has bpd but had a persecutory pyschosis episode. she didn't have any hallucinations, just delusions. I'm trying to do all I can to heal myself but also learn from it. I found out I'm autistic as well, at 20. so still figuring all that out as well. if anyone has any advice whatsoever, it'd be appreciated.
and by," fought back," I never hit her or anything like that. I just grabbed ahold of her arm and held it behind her back until help got there and disarmed her.
Can't really help as I don't know anybody who has schizophrenia but I feel for you and you heart is in the good place by trying to understand her ! In the video Daniel's dad insisted a lot on the help of social workers , so I think you should try to talk to the specialists helping your girlfriend, they might help you understand better her state and how to react. I wish you the best !
@Claire Nief thank you! I've been trying to, but neither me nor her parent know where she's actually being held, so I can't actually get into contact with any of them. speaking of which, her mom just called me asking if I've gotten any more information as to where she may be. so back to that I go
Consider seeing a therapist. It has helped me immensely.
@Sugarsore I've been trying, first call with the provider was april 20th and I've been waiting to be set up with a therapist since. honestly, it's really hard!! I want to let everything I feel out already but I have to force myself to wait for that therapist. it sucks cause, while I haven't felt too s****dal yet, I can kind of feel myself slipping slowly. like my perspective of life is getting blurred? I can't focus on things as much, I dissociate a lot, etc. I think the trauma is just fr kicking in now. but yeah, definitely trying to get into therapy, thank you!
OMG I want the Dad to be my Dad. The love and bond is beautiful. This young man struggling everyday is so much stronger than he understands. Story time. I go to a Pain Clinic every week and there is Rob who I met the first time he was in angry talking to a trashcan. I knew and heard him go, then tell me he was having a bad day! I wished him a better day. Now if he is having a bad day he tells me. It is incredible. I have my own issues so, hearing a fellow human being is so beneficial. Hearing his Dad say he didn't choose it. So true and unfair. 😊
You seem nice.
@@sugarsore Awwwe that is sweet. Thank you. I just believe there are so many bad things happening. I bring joy and being silly is a superpower!
What a story! Daniel, I wish you the best of your life and I hope this video can helps reach out to those who have the same condition as you.
Daniel thank you so much for sharing your story. I’m am so glad you are doing well and proud of you that your are standing up against this illness.
Many years ago my youngest brother started acting strangely. He had a good job but was using drugs. He became very paranoid. Our family tried to help him but we were so confused. After awhile it became clear that he had the symptoms of schizophrenia. He then started to do a lot of damage to our homes and smashed out windows of family businesses and many many vehicles. We tried to get him help but he refused. I found out recently that he passed away. He was 66. He didn’t not live the life he should have had. I loved him very much but I couldn’t help him.
I am so happy that your family found a way to love and support you. So great that you were able to find it within yourself to accept their help.
May you continue to be well and have the love and support of family and friends. You are not alone. ❤️
And I want to thank Daniel's dad for his service. 💙🇺🇸😊
Daniel, I don't know if you'll read this or not. I'm so proud of you telling your story, I agree this channel has brought so much information out! Your father is amazing too, I'm so glad you met Chris and shared your story, I believe you will help others without a doubt!! Thank you, Daniel!!
I am currently a Social Worker and studying to become a Clinical Social worker inorder to do therapy. Daniel you are inspiring ❤ You said it gets worse before it gets better, but it will get better. Thank you for saying this, no truerwords were ever spoken. May you continue to be happy & well. You have amazing parents, great job to them for their love & support.
Daniel you are a wounderful person.... your brain has alot of empathy in it ...... keep goinh bro....sending love from India ....
What a great guy, and his family is so supportive and wonderful
I had a bad trauma response, and I’m better now, but I had psychosis for a few months. It’s horrible. But Daniel seems very nice and I’m so happy his medicine seems to be working. His dad seems awesome, too.
How did you fix ur psychosis
@@kanwalraja466 my psychosis was just because of the antidepressant I was prescribed. I stopped taking it and it went away. It’s probably because I was in my early twenties at the time.
I lost my favorite person to suicide and he showed symptoms of schizophrenia but nobody seemed to acknowledge that word. He would seem to have conversations with someone who wasnt there while he was surrounded with family. He went on medication and from what i heard he didnt like being on it. Mental health seemed to be taboo. Idk if its culture of being Filipino or if it was just something brushed under the rug. So i applaud you for sharing and bringing light to your diagnosis. This can save a life. Your dad is so supportive i love it. Such a blessing. May your dreams and goals become reality. Take care.
Thank you Daniel. You are so articulate. I understand schizophrenia so much better after watching this. Your dad is awesome. ‘Just understand him and help him’. Such simple yet powerful parenting advice.
this topic really should be bought up more, thank you so much for making this video, looking forward to watching!
Literally same, I'm high functioning but I have those days where I can't help but get paranoid oe just worried that someone's outside my window or door. Sometimes I even see full body aperations and thats when I get upset and walk up to my hallucination and it'll just disappear right before I'm about 1-2 feet away... smh
His dad is so sweet ♡
Thanks to Daniel and his Dad. You help me understand more about mental health. I respect and admire both and receive a very warm hug from me. Thank you Chris.
Daniel giving you kudos for all the amazing work you do was heartfelt. Thank you Daniel for sharing this. I have a friend who was recently diagnosed with schizophrenia. Hearing your story has helped so much.
Daniel, you are not a coward! Coming forward with your story is a very, very brave thing to do. The voices during that first episode were trying to make you THINK you were a coward.
I pray for peace for you. 💙✌️
True! It breaks my heart when he said that, he was very brave. Imagine being that self-aware under that psychosis, he even wanted to report himself to the police. He also didn't want to offend anyone and forced himself to stop cursing Jesus. Speaks volume of his integrity and personality!
Omg Daniel, your dad is so freakin' cute! My brother has schizophrenia & bipolar disorder so I can relate as a family member, looking in. Support from loved ones is CRUCIAL! I am sooo grateful your parents were open to learning about your diagnosis and accepted the reality of it, wanting to only help you. I am also aware every culture is different when it comes to mental illness. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻❤️❤️
His dads love is so beautiful ❤
His dad is so compassionate and understanding, it’s so sweet to see how much he cares and all he does and Daniel is clearly super smart and a very loving son
Thank you Daniel, for being willing to accept help. I have a son who still does not think HE has the problem. It's been many long, hard, years, and since he is an adult, there is nothing I can do. :(
Daniel - I watched your interview. You are VERY brave to share your experiences and challenges with SBSK viewers! I can tell how much empathy and love you have for others who struggle with mental health. You are a blessing and an asset to others! Thank you!
His dad holding himself accountable for his previous beliefs is so refreshing
I wish I could like this video twice.
It always shocks me (in a good way) to see Viet people and their parents who actually understand mental health issues. Brings tears to my eyes seeing the love in this family. Thank you for sharing ❤
So amazing to see that level of empathy and understanding. Many Asian families, of many countries, look so poorly upon mental illness. So much that it's not even treated as illness deserving of treatment and supportive recovery. There's no encouragement to learn about it, understand it, or accept a condition for what it is. Instead, it's ridiculed, mourned, or reacted in anger by other family members - whether it's a stigma of having someone psychotic in the family, or being "punished" religiously for not acting piously enough. To hear his dad say all those positive things was rare, but beautiful.
The artwork in the back is amazing
Daniel is such a kind person.I am so impressed by his noble perspective.
I agree.
This story helps us understand more of what our grandson is going through. Thank you so much for sharing it.
2 minutes in and i'm all teared up, thank you for doing what you do Chris. It's beautiful. - Sheep.
Edit: Thank you for sharing stories to the entire world, i love people like you doing what you do.
This was one of my favorite videos on this channel. I can relate with some of his symptoms. Daniel is clearly very intelligent. I worry about him when his parents pass away.
Its incredible to hear Daniel talk about seeing other people's reaction to his current mood/state and how it is a signal for him to remember to take care of himself. Daniel is obviously a very smart and caring young man. My uncle had paranoid schizophrenia and was fortunate to be able to drive a car, go to the flea market and make friends with the vendors he met there. I know that he never failed to go every weekend to have conversations with people and get out of the house. He said that it was the best way to lift his mood because if he started feeling overwhelmed, he could just say that he had to go because he was meeting someone for lunch.🥰 He figured out clever ways to "escape" if he ever needed to. He promised his mother that he would always take his medicine and we are fortunate that he kept his promise. His mother would wake him up to take his medicine as scheduled whenever he slept passed the correct time.....as his medicine could make him sleepy. All that to say, that don't believe that you will never: drive a car, make friends that you will talk to every weekend, or go to college because you absolutely will do all of these things and whatever else you want to do. You just have to plan a path that fits you, complete with "escapes" if necessary. 💕
Whatever happened that night, the experience and the trauma of the memory is still real. Regardless if it actually happened or not, it doesn’t lessen the fear and the pain.
Wow, Daniel! Really proud of you! You have clearly developed a great self awareness in your recovery and I love that you were willing to take the risk of putting yourself out there to try to share your story and help others. That is a wonderful thing, Sir! Thank you for taking the risk. I know this video will help others who are struggling with some of the same issues. ❤
My dad also had paranoid schizophrenia which he mixed with drugs and he almost couldn’t comprehend anything in the last years of his life but he still was a very nice and caring person.
He died on April 5th 2020 and I miss him everyday
Hey pyro, im super proud of you for doing this. Takes a lot of strength to face your demons one on one. I relate in my battle with combat ptsd and honor your words of wisdom. Thank you SBSK for sheading light to this part of mental health struggles and doing your due diligence in perusing truth in this mental endeavor.
Thanks shane I love you man!
@@danieltuongHI Daniel. Is Pyro your gaming name? I saw you were playing something on the PC. Are you a big video game fan? I am, I'd like to know what you enjoy playing.
@@tetsuoakira8294 That would be league of legends!
@@danieltuong OK thank you! I've actually heard a lot about League of Legends, just never got into playing it myself. It's been around awhile from what I've heard.
"Remember where you came from", his advice to people just starting to experience psychosis, is beautiful. That can also be advice to friends and family..Remember where they came from, Remember who they are without the illness.
What a great guy! And what an amazing father. I wish him all the best and thank him for sharing his story so openly.
Oh wow you finally have your comments section back! amazing.
Thank you for sharing your story Daniel. I hope you continue on your journey and know we are all supporting you.
Thank you Daniel and thank you to your father, this has given me hope for my son. He has schizophrenia and he still struggles its a very hard for him he doesn't have much support. Im hoping to share this with him and give him some hope! This can show him he is not alone. This was so helpful. Daniel your explanation of ur systems was remarkable to be able to elaborate on them, well done. Hope to see more of there. We must support our love ones with Schizophrenia💚
So heartwarming to see a Dad like this
I am reading a book called “The Collected Schizophrenias” by Esmé Weijun Wang, and it has helped me cope with my previous diagnosis of schizoaffective disorder (I recently learn I am instead autistic). The field of mental health is ever-evolving. Some of the things Daniel talked about in the video I can relate to a lot. I wish him the best!
Daniel you are very smart & explained your disease very very good! This was one of the best interviews I've seen explaining Schizophrenia. Your dad is so nice Daniel. Best wishes to you & ur family.
That picture in the back is amazing... I love it.
I love how him and his father are so close. I never had that. Kindness and compassion and trust. ❤❤ live the best life you can. Much love.
His dad loves him so much and you can see it. He’s so comprehensive. Amazing relationship.
Protect this man & his father. His dad loves him so dearly, reminds me of my dad. I wish him well. This was a great interview & he genuinely seems like such a cool person