TAYLOR SWIFT: WIFE MATERIAL? How to Get A Man To Propose! | Shallon Lester
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Husband material is a good character. Honesty, responsibility, calmness, supportive. Attraction you can figure out very quickly. However then bad character comes in slowly and ruins it.
I found someone like that and physically he looks acceptable but i am not attracted/passionate about him, don't miss him, etc? What do i do? let him go?
@@e3mel5eer83 you should not have dated him in the first place, if you weren't attracted to him. It only takes a very short time to figure out if you're attracted to somebody. Sometimes instantly. My point is 'after' the attraction, you have to make sure he has a good character.
@@saratemp790 make sense. You’re right. I thought I would like him with time but that never happened :(
Or he just gets sick of you dear because of your shit personality
My biggest advice is, look for someone who is:
1- selfless
2- emotionally intelligent
3- emotionally tough/ strong
@@lizzyw7861 amen sister. Learnt this the hard way with my last relationship.
Rare ❤
And consistent
Yes! A good life is one with someone who wants YOU to be happy
Why selfless
husband material is someone who’s dependable, someone who shows up and someone who’s reliable
How about honesty?😂
these are all the same things
Husband material:
+ someone dependable in case of an emergency, knows to act fast when times are serious
+ someone financially responsible
+ someone who loves family
+ solution-driven
+ someone who is protective so much that you feel like you won’t ever get hurt or bothered by external people
+ someone who makes their friends your friends too, someone who wants to integrate you into their life permanently
+ someone who can cook, cleans, and maintains the house and upkeep
+ takes initiative
The airport test is such a good way to summarize it. Its competence, awareness, chivalry, maturity, and masculinity all rolled into one. A total non negotiable. They don’t need to be a perfect person but that piece needs to be rock solid
Faking sweet domesticity at the start is just as bad as a man acting romantic and helpful at the start.
Oh well
ikrr
i agree, long term doesn't work
Agreed I acted like myself flaws and all, while working on trying to better myself and he tells me he loves me more than he’s ever loved anyone.
Men don’t like sweet girls they walk all over them. You have to be somewhat masculine for them to respect yoh
Husband material is somebody who is calm. He doesn't look for drama or gives you reasons to start drama. Responsible with money. Fit and healthy. He doesn't get too comfortable, he keeps giving you the same kind of energy and attention even after he gets you. His apartment is tidy and knows how to take care of himself.
you’ve never looked more gorgeous! Don’t ever change this look!
Thank you!!
@@shallonlester Yes, I love the yellow on you
So, in the past couple of years 3 of my friends got married, and 3 are still single. The 3 that are still single are funny, smart, independent, with amazing jobs and beautiful. And the 3 that got married are the ones that were all the damsel in distress ALL the time. First they needed a new car because theirs has been breaking down, then they needed a place to live, then they needed help getting a job. And you would think this would turn men off, but it seems to do the exact opposite! So playing the victim helps :)
It's simple. Purely an instant chemistry love on both sides. I experienced this in my life and I was proposed to basically immediately! I had to let it settle down a little. But it was the best marriage ever! We both loved everything about each other! We both wanted to make each other happy which made ourselves happy. We never had a fight, argued or said a bad word to each other! It was magic! The best thing I ever did in my life ! He was everything to me, protector, lover, provider, convadant, therapist, councillor, loyal great guy. And yes he fixed things!😅 He was a big and strong firefighter and very selfless. So I don't think a lady needs to just look for a guy that fits the qualities in your shopping list. It's a natural feeling that can't be denied. Not lust!! But a mutual feeling that you can not describe. He cooked too😊! We knew that we weren't happy without the other. And it's been like that for over 15 years! And going strong! ❤😊
Why is everything in past tense? 😭
❤❤❤❤❤ love this
@MISSMADISONMEDIA yes, why?!
I was so sad this had somehow all come to an end until you wrote you're going strong at the very end 😅
I'm gonna get married to someone just like that. Thanks for letting me know there are happy people out there! God bless
For me husband material is if a guy can find solutions to a problem. My current boyfriend, I can go upto him with 90% of my problems and he can solve them.
Yup, people underestimate how important it is to get yourself a person who is good in living life: who can deal with documents, fix things, manage events that happen in life etc.
I am still in love with my husband not only because of his personality and sense of humor, but also because he is a great person to tackle life challenges with. Not gonna lie. When I am telling him that I love him it is 1) when he makes me laugh, 2) when he took something off my shoulders and dealt with it successfully
I just wanna mention that yes if it is the RIGHT guy, going about it by being domestic is going to work, HOWEVER, this is the formula for disaster on the wrong manipulative guy, take a good look at your guy first, see if he's worth it
Very true, and that’s what’s fucked up about the bad guy is they will turn your positive behavior into a target on your back. Toxic people always turn your best qualities into your weaknesses.
Husband material for me, is the guy who knows what to do and how to act according to the situation, someone who I don't have to explain everything to and feel anxious for all the time!
OMG yes the EXPLAINING. I may as well just do it myself
I feel like the best way to get someone to propose is say you don’t wanna live with them unless you’re engaged
The engagement chicken is cracking me up because for me it was an apple crisp.
I made apple crisp and got a ring that same week 🤣
But it’s a tale as old as time!
The way to the heart is the stomach it’s just facts.
Yeah, an apple crisp dessert is a winner.
It literally is. Even if you mess it up once it’s like cute and adorable that you tried.
My boyfriend had got into a car crash and I showed up to the accident scene and followed to the hospital. I got proposed to in the emergency room. 😂 ring came in a month.
Realistically, husband material is a longer list than this, but my top 2 are they do what they say they will do, and i can rely on them to not loose their shit when something goes wrong.
My partner, that then was just a friend who had a crush on me, literally said “marry me” after tasting my basque cheesecake topped with strawberries cooked in balsamic vinegar and honey
The one who is “Husband material” for me is the guy who is able to solve my problem (car trouble, home maintenance stuff, etc) WITHOUT having to mansplain or lecture.
I knew I was ready to dump my ex when I was obviously stressed/panicked about having a flat tire but he kept going on about how I should have gotten an alignment 🙄but the guy who popped on my spare no question asked (and no charge) I was ready to marry. 😅
Also, the guy who jumped my car, and the maintenance guy who fixed my AC, the one who unclogged my sink, fixed my garbage disposal….etc etc etc (I’m noticing a pattern) 😂😂😂
My single mother friend once told me I could hire someone to do all the jobs my boyfriend does for me. 💀We broke up four years after the relationship
I don't think there's too much you can do to get a man to marry you. I think when he's ready to get married, he'll just get married to pretty much whoever's around lol. It's more of a timing thing.
As you progress in a relationship you think will be long-term, you should probably be sussing it out anyway whether this is something they want to do with you. Then it's less about "getting" them to propose and more about you both deciding it is time to do it
And if you want to get married (soon) and they don't, you need to either deal or dump them
My colleague and her long-term partner got married semi-recently because she put forward the notion that there was no reason to put off taking advantage of the social and financial benefits for them and the kids. And he agreed because he's locked in to the relationship
@@user-gp9es3rd3eya I had a coworker like that. Wanted to get locked down married and have kids cause it was on her checklist. Good for her. But she’s let herself go and hit the wall
I’ve had 2 marriage proposals. The first guy I was kind to, which he loved and the second one I was already being a wife (supporting him emotionally and in his career and dreams). The secret to getting a proposal is to be his best friend first. For me husband material is someone who supports me emotionally and can reassure me and who has a good job to support me financially. If he can’t reassure me, he’s out.
The perfect husband.....he protects me, he provides for me, he's my best friend and doesn't crack under pressure. He adores me, but also gives me my space. ❤
Four proposals in my life so far. For two I cooked for two I didn’t. But to all four I had said I don’t want to be a wife. They wanted to prove me wrong. The sad part is, I meant it.
Damn girl I’m tryna get like you
@@MISSMADISONMEDIA lol I think it was only because it was genuine, I wasn’t playing games. Deep down I really didn’t want to marry them, even though I’m traditional. But when men feel the pressure’s off, and especially if you aren’t interested in marrying THEM, they get a bit self-conscious and try hard to change your mind!
@@alicat5very true
It always works when you hit a man's ego ......
I’m with the love of my life and I never talk about it. When his family or mine bring it up I change the subject. He’s been dropping hints abt me being his forever lady..
Husband Material for me:
- 100% can fix things (cars, plumbing, etc.)
- Outdoorsy / has survival skills (I married a Marine of course ❤)
- Good in a crisis
- Outgoing, works on solid friendships
- Financially intelligent, not rich necessarily but good with the money he does make
Amen sister! Too bad I came close to it, but he didn't want to be a husband again.
Been married for 10 years. This is spot on. My chicken was yasa tibbs, an Ethiopian fish curry. Way to a man's heart.
I laughed when you said "you wear a little apron when you do it" (about serving lasagna) because my apron says "Let's Cook" with Breaking Bad's Walter White on it
Can you please do a video on how to be better at arguments, especially with your boyfriend?
I find it hard sometimes to not get emotional, to not lose the thread of the underlying theme and being able to express myself properly and instantly.
Love your videos, they changed my life
Im so domesticated I love to cook from scratch and clean but i dont want children nor do i date single dads. My dating pool is so small. I put on my dating profile I want to be half housewife work part time, would love to get married. Single forever but happy and free
Husband material is a good quality and is something that I did look for when dating. Because I know that no matter what, I would have a man that would go that extra mile for me and kids and would be a provider. In the other hand, as a woman, I learned to be the person I wanted to date and marry (expressing the qualities I want in a man). Calm, patient, be a provider (in case is needed), you know, setting the example of what I want, because that is what I am.
For me I think husband material is honestly just a man who's nice, sweet, loyal and has my back. And who wants to take care of me (even though I can do it myself, but I want him to want to help me). Just a man who genuinely loves me for me
The problem is if you make them a fancy dinner once, they expect that for every meal. My husband says I don't like to cook because I don't take 1+ hours to make a meal every time I cook, even though I cook 99% of our meals and always from scratch. That includes me doing Thanksgiving or Christmas meals at his parents house for entire extended family every year. (By myself usually, which is a lot of work for one person feeding 12+ people) I love cooking, but there's also just the practicality of needing to make faster meals on weekdays when I'm working long hours.
Aw, hope he can learn to appreciate what you do instead of criticize. Wanting you to be in the kitchen so much after work seems unreasonable, no?
@@veronikat6996 Yes, I think it is unreasonable. To his defense, he pays for nearly everything and has also offered to hire a housekeeper to give me more time to do the things I enjoy like cooking and gardening. He also makes sure to say thank you whenever I cook or do chores.
Please make a video on Ballerinafarm 😭 that interview was horrifying to read . Her husband the heir of a billion dollar airline company wouldn’t even buy her tickets to Greece for her birthday 😮and the way he insisted she drop out of julliard to get married after a month . The whole thing was a red flag .
Shallon’s read so much ACOTAR that she’s using “winnow” in her everyday vocabulary 🙌🏻
To be seen as gf material: bake. Wifey level: lasagna. Has worked like a charm. A hb has to bring: generosity (financially too but mostly in spirit, time, with me and others), kindness, playfulness.
My takeaway from this video is, be the best partner you can be, play the part. Make a roast chicken 🍗 And if your partner is not doing the same, be comfortable walking away.
My husband works in finance, and I used to work in a whiskey lounge in a very high income area right next to a golf club. Here’s what these guys have said they think is wife material:
Sweet: they want to come home and experience peace, not more combative situations. She doesn’t have to be submissive - they all said they liked a little feistiness - but she has to be their teammate. A teammate can tease you, and teammate can point out when your slipping up, but they aren’t your rival. They aren’t your opponent. They aren’t trying to “win” against you, they want someone to win with.
Natural beauty: they don’t want her to look like a completely different person when she wears makeup, or to be visibly packed full of fillers
Small waist/waist ratio: some men like a small waist and big boobs, some men like a small waist and the thick ass, some dudes like a lean, muscular hourglass figure, some like a thick hourglass figure, and some like a very skinny lean figure. But they all like either a small waist or a small waist in comparison to the hips and/or tits.
Enjoys being physically intimate. Duh.
Laughs at their jokes: Duh. Don’t be a school marm over their jokes (and if their jokes aren’t for you, neither is the guy)
Occasionally makes them a nice, home cooked meal: everyone loves having a delicious meal cooked just for them. EVERYONE.
Is kind to children, animals, and the elderly: most guys who want to get married also want to have kids. So they obviously want a woman who seems like she will be nurturing and loving to their children.
Low neuroticism: they don’t want to be your therapist. They want you to be an adult and handle your shit without internally falling apart all the time. A little freak out here and there is normal and expected. But no stable, healthy, successful guy wants to moonlight as an unpaid therapist. Get your shit together.
Takes care of their health: being a primary care taker is ever sexy. No one wants to be one before they absolutely have to be. If you aren’t doing everything you can to be healthy (diet, exercise, healthy lifestyle), they’re not going to take you on. You can have health problems, but the woman they marry will her health problems as a motivator to stay and be healthy, not an excuse to give up and exacerbate the situation while expecting them to enable it.
I used to think getting a prenup was a bad omen on the marriage but now I'm definitely getting one and my lawyer sister also keeps telling me to lol
husband material is someone who i feel so safe with that i can turn my brain off because i know he's got things handled. ❤ it allows me to be in my feminine, softer energy in those moments with him.
Yeah please!!!Talk about The Ballerina Farm!!
Can confirm. Married. I could make my husband tuna casserole and he will eat the whole pan.."what is in this?! This is so good!!!" Top it off with making sure theres leftovers for his lunch...men are simple. Women are complex.
Women play mental gymnastics and overthink too much. Men are simple
Since I watch your videos, I finished my master, got the job of my dream, been promoted, then find my life partner and got marry, bougth a house. Your advice helped me so much in most areas of my life. Not once I could follow or make the severals glows up you put out in this channel. I am so ashamed of my appearance. That is where I get stuck.
As a therapist we are not supposed to comment about who a person should or should not date in that kind of context. That was a weird thing of her to say if he was my client I would say typically in my time of working with you have to pattern of dating x type of woman, how do you feel and think about the differences of your current partner.
You are 100% correct, you will definitely not pin down a rich Jewish guy until 32-ish. 😂
Wow, I have such a visceral reaction to hearing about a man wanting anything domestic or whatnot because I do immediately see it as submissive. But hearing you define it in such a different way is really really helpful.
🥹 thank you!! Look I’m a worker bee feminist and to keep us producing, I think we’ve been sold the narrative that, exactly, domestic = submissive. But if working doesn’t equal this reptilian monster female then a domestic woman therefore can’t equal a spineless submissive wuss, you know? If one extreme isn’t true then the other one isn’t either.
And I think it’s actually beta males who have a massive incentive to keep women like us working AND trying to do everything else. It means there’s less for them to do!
So we need to start reexamining what we’ve been sold and more importantly how happy does it make us?
@@shallonlesterYes gosh wow!! I've had this exact discussion with my partner but it's so hard to hear it and trust it when a man is saying it. But hearing it from a smart woman I admire I can digest it so much more.
I noticed a pattern of women who say “I do everything in the house, I help him when he needs but he doesn’t appreciate it” who end up getting hurt and disappointed, a man needs that feminine energy and nurturing and empathy, you don’t need to go out of the way to do every single thing. Women underestimate how much being kind to your man goes, and being masculine and fixing everything (not even physically) is not what men want.
Husband material = the organised dad at the airport energy. It's the guy who you know has his stuff together and you don't need to think twice, you trust his judgement and his plan.
Dont all people want stability and predictablity in their long-term relationship? Isn't it kind of the point
The trick is to COVER THAT CHICKEN TO KEEP THE MOISTURE IN 💦 I cook my man we call it the marry me chicken (on the stove) and I cook chicken legs in the oven Season and cover with tin foil, cook @425 for 45 min and then another 45 mins at 350 and they are falling OFF the bone. My man’s fave and it’s super easy.
Every guy I’ve dated had proposed. I said yes to none of them. Well I said yea to one then he cheated and I called it off. What an idiot he was. How can you be devastated that someone called it off when you were the one who cheated ??? Make it make sense.
Husband material for me is someone who has a provider mentality! Not in a trad wife kind of way, but in the airport test kind of way. His mindset is to be that he’s willing to be selfless towards his wife and children. A lot of guys these days resent their wives for not working or not paying for dinner or half the bills, and don’t understand the sacrifice women make to their bodies, lives, and spirits to raise his children!
Additionally, he has to treat me right and make me laugh! I have zero tolerance for any forms of abuse - but this should be the case for every woman.
I roast a turkey every week or so and had three men ask to marry me. Watch out for who you invite to dinner 😂
I don't know if i'm wife material and frankly i don't care, but i'm not sure Taylor is either. First, she has 0 sense of humour and seems to take herself very seriously. Not sure it's very fun to be married to such a person. Also, as far as the nurturing goes, looks like she reserves that to her cats and not to human beings. Not a word about the little girls who got murdered in Southport (and who were fans of her) and no apology to her Austrian fans, who spent thousands to attend her concert, when the concert was cancelled.
She’s been known to do a lot of good for CA patients and donates to the food bank in different cities and countries she’s been in. What have you done? You don’t know her personally how would u know what her sense of humor is like 🙄
@@Bunny11344 you don't know her
or me either. The way she reacted publicly, in front of a camera, to harmless jokes (by jo koy and tina fey) maybe is an indication of her lack of sense of humor???
@@fautpaspoussermamie well she’s living life to the fullest regardless and she’s done more for a lot of people than you have. Do you donate or volunteer?
@@Bunny11344 yes i do. Do you?
@@fautpaspoussermamie I do actually I help out with local seniors who don’t have any family and I work with CA patients
Women nearly always initiate the divorce.
The happiest women are single and childfree…
🙋♀️🙋♀️hey girl! Single and child free here and happy as can be! I never cry anymore 😌 PS I was once married…🤮
I think happiest are taken and child free 😂 the ones with kids are the most unhappiest and mean they take it out on everyone
Husband material for me is also a man who is a good host. This is really big in my culture and many men take pride in being a welcoming, social host. I've seen boyfriends/husbands of friends who can't even hold a conversation and look at their phone half the time, when they have guests at their house. The woman then has to be the caterer, the entertainer, the conversationalist, everything. It's cringe and exhausting.
How i got married was due to your previous advice about getting married after a year of living together 🤣 when we moved in together after two year of dating, I told him if everything goes right and well we should get married after a year and we did💓 Bonus point: I cook and bake very good so it always help especially if your cooking is much better than his mum’s 😏
I’ve heard about 2 guys lying about having a therapist and repeated what “the therapist said” be careful with that lol
That’s a red flag for me😅I would never date any guy that was seeing a therapist
I love your videos, its incredible how interesting are your points of view and everytime they are actual facts...simply love them.
Do you find that the Merediths get chosen as wives because they stick around until the switch happens? I’m in a relationship already, but the academic in me finds the phenomenon interesting
Hm. Some of them yes. But I don’t think that correlates to a happy marriage. They will brag about getting the guy, but do they have his attention? His adoration? Or is she just a role that he is filling? From what I’ve seen, men who marry the girl who waits around forever end up cheating.
husband material I think blue collar or engineer nerdy jobs handy man , safe job, already has a home purchased that being a condo or house and lives by himself. Introvert no female friends no contact with exes open to delete social medias together.
Shallon, please make a video on the JLO/Affleck situation!
Greetings from Zürich ☺️
I 100000000%%% agree with u on the part where u said “in order to be a wife you have to have the confidence to walk away “
Ahhhh I can 👏not 👏wait for your take on Ballerina Farm. I’m fascinated
One part longer video is better also because we have to listen to the same intro again because it’s the same topic, same ad for trips, then be pointed to part one again and it’s repetitive versus one longer episode that covers the topic. Please do one long episode 🙏
I made chicken enchiladas… We got a proposal two months later
Shallon, I think I kinda love your unyielding hatred for the Meredith's of the world!!😂😂
God this is going to sound horrible but I am a shape shifter (Gemini moon) and if I like a man I know how to get a man. I know how to play the game, and I’m happy to do so. I’m also not lying I’m just amplifying the traits that I do have when it comes to the person. I know how to shift I know how to morph into what he desires. I hope I don’t get a lot of hate for this lol I probably will but I’m so good at it. I change like a chameleon to fit into my surroundings and that’s how I’ve been lucky in relationships. They don’t last because I don’t want them to. Ekkk even more toxic of me lol
Yeah, you sound like a psychopath sorry
The chicken thing is so funny (I’m mostly veg but if I eat meat it’ll be a little bit of chicken. I tell all my friends it’s my banana bread and 1 really good salad that got him hooked. I was gonna ask if anyone else has that 1 salad that got him
I want to see you do a video on the drama with the It Ends With Us cast.
All great advice thank you but when you threw in the lasagna I was like nono there’s definitely some compound being broken down while cooking that’s released as a gas we inhale and perhaps it triggers certain memories or chemicals or hormones associated with wifey or maybe even their mother I don’t know this is all speculation but you’re onto something and it’s probably more scientific than it would first appear
Also how fucking sexist of that therapist to say he can't date you because you own a business???
Shallon is working harder than Kris Jenner and we love to see it ❤
I just want someone who is kind and genuinely loves me back like it shouldn't be this hard❤
At the moment I'm in my information gathering mode. I don't see husband material anywhere in Texas. Maybe I need to move.
All the men here that are drawn to me are feminine, don't want to lead, very emotional, maybe closet gay?
What is going on?
My ex husband was a fixer around the house. He just couldn't fix himself to not do drugs or cheat on me.
I want a good man. Not man hating. Just want a manly man I can be my feminine self with.
Just waiting...
Hi!! I’m coming with a piece of advice/food for thought ❤ It’s very often the demographics that play a big role in the search, but also - where are you searching? If it’s dating apps, then maybe you need to make some alterations in your profile (Shallon offers a course Appy Endings, and it’s really amazing, it made my experience on dating apps way better 😊). OR maybe look at it that way - you might display some behaviors that attract certain type of men. But get curious, not furious with it, you’re there to assess. Just as Shallon said “you need to dress for the job you want” and it might as well relate to how someone behaves too
Could you say something more about it? Describe what kind of person you are or whatever you feel like could matter
You have to outgirl them!
@Nyuffykah at this point I just leave.
Really? In Texas? I always thought of Texss as a place to look.for a husband material.
NY is deft not it, either!
sorry to break it you but they're not husband material in other states too. lol. I think it's a matter of luck to be honest.
I have very high and specific standards so to me husband material means The full package. Like, all of the good stuff you can think of. Lucky me, I found that rare unicorn. Hopefully I get to keep it too
Add some cheese on top of the lasagna . And sprinkle a little herb in the middle . So it looks like you did it
No! I love your long videos! I get ready or clean to your videos and I love it. :D Love you Shallon!
Hahahah I love this video and how you show us how to keep our own power in this situation also. And trust ourselves.
If he really proposes now or soon, I predict a divorce before 2026 😂
I definitely want to go on the girls trip to the Amalfi coast!!
I love how running a business is masculine but running a house and raising children to be emotionally and mentally healthy is different
The most important word you used today was "partner".
Husband material is the guy who makes sure all the doors are locked and all the blinds are closed before we go to bed at night
“Fuck that copy machine!”
Cracked me up shallon!!!😂😂😂😂
24:56 shallon hit the core , everytime
Imho husband material is someone emotionally stable, self aware, hard working, generous. Has little to no connection with absolute numbers in the bank account or specific looks/height etc. I know plenty of very high earning men who live paycheck to paycheck and/or tall a*holes lol
Hahah my new favorite shallon quotes: 😂 "Yes Jeff! 🫡" and "your doooone, buddy 😈" 😂
The legal contract idea instead of marriage is perfect. For me the main reason to get legally married is if you plan on having kids (my opinion)
Gonna need that cake recipe bestie!!
Yes I cooked for my husband before we got married of course and was sweet, we did hobbies together, we were cool. Then we got married and I found him to be abusive. It was terrible.
Husband material: Goes out of his way to connect with my family (not in a weird way)
I made coronation chicken sandwiches for my man . He really liked them so I hope I get a proposal soon 😂
Your best video yet!
@9:31 - Not reading any of the other comments yet before posting this so I can be fully authentic in my expression of what I think husband material is. Great question! (So this is just me, but husband material FOR ME, is anyone with a certain masculine energy #1.) (you may laugh) but a man I can go on an adventure with and know I'm fully protected, provided for, Not that I like the bad boy, but a CONFIDENT man that owns his masculinity. Maturity, whether in years or in emotions, a rugged bear of a man is my type, whose career and creative life needs no tweaking by me. In the rough, male qualities makes me fall to love at first site, so I guess I am a traditional female in that sense. Just one look that shows he doesn't need to compete with a woman, nor does he need to suppress her to embody his power, including types such as, high power creatives, (actors, directors, rockers, painters, bonus for facial hair, tattoos, business suits, or shaved heads.) ;)
In a nutshell, without having to read that whole paragraph, I'll summarize it like this: "He rises to the occasion." (interpret that however you wish) ;) It's vague for a reason because it's about what YOU as the woman wants / needs, not what will "get him to commit" begrudgingly.
Wait a minute he proposed?
No but that’s the rumor, that he’s about to
Woman's World by Katy Perry was terrible, but her second single "Lifetimes" is actually nice and nostalgic!
Can you do a video on th ballerina farm, trad wife controversy?
Haha omg you read my mind
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let him go. So i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Ina Garten:
I think you pronounced Ina correctly - rhyming with China. Amy Adams pronounced it that way in the movie "Julie And Julia."
Loved this topic!💗💗💗
Literally what I did, and he’s called Jeff 😂. I left until he sorted himself out. He’s a totally different man now. He said I was the first person in his life who’d cared enough to set a boundary with him.