becoming THAT WOMAN in your 20s: appearance, money, charisma, hobbies & relationships
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- Опубликовано: 17 фев 2023
- becoming that WOMAN in your 20s: appearance, money, charisma & relationships
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I learned from my twenties how shallow people are. Looks make or break how people treat you off the bat. Be the most attractive person you can be for yourself because I promise you get better treatment
True but also jealousy. Bad bad bad jealousy
Sure, but also why would you want to be around people who only treat you kindly if you’re attractive? You can’t control how others treat you but you can control your environment (for the most part). You don’t actively need to be spending time with people who only value you as a person based on what you look like.
@@teddyf3960 most people treat you based off looks
@@teddyf3960 Its bad.... But that is hpw pple is, since it cant be changed why not use it to your advantage
Fr but it hurts so bad . Having this realization
I just turned 20 and I feel lost. I feel alone, I feel a lot of anxiety, especially in social settings. I feel like I don’t know myself. I feel like I’m trying to do so many things, but not really knowing what I want
You are gonna get over it gurl. Its just a matter of time. You are a goddamn woman who is gonna manifest everything she aspires. Just have faith.
Loads of love❤
@@ME-eo2ju thank you so much for this!!!!!!
I felt this! But I would say to break out of this you gotta KNOW YOURSELF. You already lowkey figured out what you gotta do it’s just about seeing it through. & always remember BE AUTHENTIC. Be genuine! It pays in the long run… I’m telling you. You’d be surprised how many people are NOT GENUINE !
@@LuvKitKatt THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THISSS !!!! I had to learn how to not be so hard on myself and to accept things because I’m still young and learning. And I’m slowly learning that people’s intentions are not pure, and it hurts. But as long as I feel like I’m genuine to myself it’s all that counts
Me too 🫶🏽
I FELT EVERY PART OF THIS VIDEO, especially the part of boundaries, i literally lost all my friends cos i finally started having boundaries when i turned 25, i guess not everyone was meant to finish the journey with us, but tbh am glad i believe they weren't meant to be in this next chapter of my life, better now than realizing this later,
I feel you on the losing people portion. I'm glad you did what you needed to do ❤️
But how do we find new friends after we've lost all of them...
@@MsSimixx just keep doing the things you love. Go to the places that inspire you and you will meet like minded people so you dont have to struggle to fit in but also becar2ful I trying to not just say or I vibe with this person. Because not every vibe is healthy. They might turn our to be horrible. For the most part dont rush the finding new friends process. Just be yourself first. Understand you and everything else will follow in due time
thank you for being the big sister we all need
My pleasure ❤️
I second that
right! totally agree :) love her
like seriously ❤️
Yes, really needed this because I’m 25 and I do not like my appearance and that’s due to the fact that I don’t like my body and I know it’s something I can change but I’m lazy 😩 so I feel in order to step into my womanhood I need to gain confidence and it starts with loving my body first. I rebuke the spirit of laziness
Yes AMEN 🙏
you *are* not lazy, you are being lazy right now. but laziness is not your identity. you can make change and can make change now. just sit in a quiet place, maybe put a song that gets you in a flow (i usually start with the song tajdar e haram, it's a spiritual song so sets me in right mood) and start from scratch. think of it as a prayer to god, say to god why you feel you are miserable, first address your worries. and then start visualising from now on, exactly from where you are, what small changes u can do to lead to ur desired state. and visualise urself doing them, visualise ur hurdles clearing up one by one. finish the visualisation as the song ends. open your eyes, thank god, and start taking just the next right step you can take. you can do it!
@@tai-gm8sywow 🌟 thanks for that gem
Period girl you got this 🫶🏾💗
I literally just turned 20 today and I came across this video, I needed this, thank you.
Am 21 ❤
same i turn 20 yesterday
I don’t ever comment on videos but thank you coming from a 19 year old turning 20 in December.💓🧘🏾♀️
I’m glad this was valuable! ✨
For someone without a mother figure… thank you for the advice ❤
Wow, you’re so welcome ❤️
I turned 22 months ago, I literally don't know which direction I want to go and this video makes so much sense. I needed this!
I’m glad you found it! ❤️
I only started watching your videos by chance last night, and from then on, I was hooked. Most of the videos i watched piqued my interest, touching on topics I've been wanting to start, but didn't know how too. Every video i watched felt specifically tailored for me. The manner in which you communicate your message is so clear and simple. Your videos are not so long, which keeps me engaged... Thank you for your videos
Wow, thank you so much. I appreciate you taking the time to comment this and I'm glad you're already enjoying the content! ❤️
I just turned 22, and I just feel confused in my 20s and I wanna be the best version of myself and all the pressures from society and what others expect from you is difficult
It is because society makes it this way! Especially them being obsessed with stripping the “innocent” energy that you have.. is crazy !
I will be turning twenty in a few months and this was absolute gold. You just got a new subscriber!
This is my first time watching you and I can already see myself staying my attention span is awful but I was engaged from start to finish I definitely needed this💕
Can we get a tutorial on your hair??
Your hair is GORGEOUS!!
Omg I always say this; being open to LISTEN even if you may not agree, that's always a good thing. Girl you just got a new subscriber x😚
It opens up a new world! Welcome to the winning side ❤️
Thank you so so much for this, i’m turning 20 in a months time- this vid arrived just in time😊
You really are my big sister on the internet, thank you so much for this ❤️
Wow! Adama, the topics you touched on and the wisdom you shared is absolutely dynamic. I can relate to the areas of combining skill sets, censoring what one consumes on social media, nurturing healthy relationships and much more. I look forward to watching other videos of yours! Thank you.
As soon as you mentioned fitness and lifting I subscribed. Overall valuable information!
I love your content! I’m currently in my journey of becoming THAT woman and your video confirmed a lot for me. Thank you!!
wow your videos always come at the right moment for me truly a big sis for me
I'm so glad they do! ❤️
This video was so powerful. Thank you for your words of wisdom ,and inspiration. You inspired me as a woman in my 20’s. Keep shining ✨
Thank you so much ❤️
I discovered your page today and I love it! you just gained a new subscriber!
I really needed a video like this ❤ earned a new subscriber
Youre so well spoken!!! Love your content as well
Turning 25 in a couple of weeks, I feel so behind bc I’m just now starting to be consistent with putting myself first. Better late than never though ❤ thanks for the video
I think i found the channel I've been looking for!!!
I just love everything that you do Adama. Your contents are very valuable and I always take something enriching from it. Thank you ❤
Thank you lovely, appreciate you too! ❤️
Very valid points and your voice is so soothing ! Can we please get details on your hair ? It’s gorgeous 🫶🏽
You are so well spoken and articulate, your voice and intonation make me want to listen to you speak ALL DAY LONG ❤
I love your voice and the entire message of this video, I really think that more people need to hear this (especially the finance stuff)
Thank you! ✨
Video came right in time! Thank you.
I really enjoyed this, i cant wait to watch more of your content
You’re voice is so soothing and calming
You are so well spoken
I’m 17 ready to become the best version of my self and this video has had a great impact on me thanks 🙏 ❤
I just discovered your channel and I'm in love. I'm turning 25 this year and super scared but this video just warmed my heart. Thank you Adama❣
I turned 25 on March 4 this year 😊
You’re welcome! ❤️
You’re scared to be alive? Thank God for every year because eventually you won’t get the next one
Loved it soo much!
Your hair>>> omg!!
Adama! You’re really THAT GIRL!!! I don’t know how else to put it. It’s astonishing
Beautiful video, just had a break up after 5 years and was looking for some uplifting videos, I turned 25 two months ago and I've always wanted my 25th year to be the year I finally move into my woman hood, surprisingly this was also the year I felt like I was depressed for the first time in my life, also made the most money this year, but I still felt like something was missing, I look at myself and I feel like a complete mess, I hate the way I look, I have so many dreams, aspirations and things I want to do, but I couldn't just get myself to do them, I'm hoping with this break up, I can finally break free from that cage and look and feel the way I really want to
Girl we are in the same boat, I’m 24 Turning 25 next month and was forced to move back with my parents and I’m also broke. But thanks god I found a fantastic job that I love and where I can grow, I am looking at life now with positivity.
You got this girl, just remember you are a boss women and you control your own life just manifest the things you want and you will achieve that!! 🙏❤️
I’m 30 and I think there’s a lot of gems in this video! 💎 I find these types of videos quite interesting cause everyone has a different lived experience that shapes the advice given. Generally love your content and was happy to learn you’re a fellow Geographer as well 😁🌍
I am 52, want to change my life for the 2nd innings. I started my fitness journey and want to be the fittest at my 53rd birthday. I am doing Pilates, gym and learning new languages to keep my brain young. I love your voice n your videos. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm 18 & I live with a single dad, I love this type of content I can't wait for my future self when I have mentors who prepare me for womenhood instead off be dreaming about one day I'll be the women I wanna be, no it's a everyday task the content I watch, the things I do, the people I surround myself with etc.
I love that segment about hobbies! Btw, what's your skincare routine? You're glowing
Thank you! It's pretty simple I use Avene foaming face wash and moisturisers and sometimes i use Tretinoin thats about it! ❤️
I am 39 and can sense the maturity in you. It’s extremely refreshing. Your amazing my dear ❤❤❤
i turned 20 last week I really needed this
Thank you for this, always look forward to your uploads! ❤
Thank you! 🥺❤️
Love the hair!
loved this!!
Just discovered your video, just turned 25 4/4 an been going through a quarter life crisis an also creating boundaries for myself
You are very well spoken
I'm in my forties and I really liked your video. You reminded me on having hobbies 😅
I subscribed to your channel 😉
instantly subscribed, this is such a valuable (and concise) video! tyyy
Thank you! ❤️
Short but very complete video with good information
Your voice is so soothing❤.. I needed this as I turn 27 ..late 20's but better late than never I guess
stepping into my womanhood rn, thank you Adama
Love your video babe❤️🙏🏽
I love the way you express yourself, you seem to be a natural speaker. I really enjoyed your advice. 🙂😘❤️
Thank you so much! ❤️
Absolutely loved this ❤ Also you look so lush 🥰 love your space 😍
Thank you so much! ❤️
your hair looks amazing😍 can we pls get a tutorial?
Thank you for this. Can you make a video about Leaning into you Feminine Energy and controlling your emotions next?
I'm 23 and working on moving out of my home city. Because i realised i dont actually like the mindset of this city. I thought i was immune because i wasnt from a "small town" but im realising i need to move somewhere else for my own sanity
First time watching and I’ve subscribed already, just what and who I need to listening to in this my mid 20’s
I'm glad you found the channel! ❤️
This video came right on time, thank you!
I’m glad! You’re welcome ❤️
Thank you very much. Got to be 26 today and i am not happy i just met your video.
The boundary part got to me so deeply because i haven't set that up well enough.
Anyways thank you very much for this video.
Also i love❤ your voice.
So inspiring and engaging! Thank you!
You're welcome! 💕
I love this whole video!! Thank you for sharing this 🔥❤️
Thank you! ❤️
This is the only video I needed to watch today.
Thank you ❤️
My pleasure, you're welcome!
Loved your perspective ❤
Thank you! ❤️
This is so important
I am so happy I came across this channel. I met a fabulous 86 year old woman today who looked phenomenal and i thought “that’s who I want to be” so I have to start taking steps to become like that ❤❤❤
This is such high quality content, loved the vid!
Thank you Anna! ✨
You just got a brand new subscriber!! Thank you ❤
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I love your hair ❤❤
Yess ! Speaking of fitness appearance yoga works for me , also you can do a Little with a lot ❤
Oh WOW this is deep. I’m in my forties but it speaks to me….every single word. I’m happy I came across your video and subscribed in the first few minutes. Thank you!
I appreciate it, you're welcome! ❤️
I too, relate to this comment. I am in my 40 and I feel zero negative impact on my life due to my age.We women must never feel outdated. We should be confident in age and not 🚭 ashamed of age but confident cuz you are gaining wisdom and experience
i love this channel so much! 🥰
Thank you! 🥺❤️
beautiful advice thank you! spoke to my soul
This makes me happy!
Thoroughly enjoyed this. I really have to work on my boundaries.
I'm glad you did! ✨
9:29 this!! Multiple people will try to push your boundaries. Definitely ! Definitely!
first time here and Im here to stay. You are so beautiful and I love how you speak
Thank you!! ✨
You had me at Sims😂 Thank you for sharing this information!
amazing video, thank you so much for the advice!!!
You're welcome!!
Totally enjoyed!
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YES TO ALL OF THIS!!!!!!!! I feel so inspired after watching this, thank you :) I don't know if you've heard of Superhuman multi-tasking meditations, but my friend recently showed me the app and it has changed my life - reminds me so much of everything you share here. It's rooted in visualizing how you want to think/act/feel and supports you to becoming this ultimate version of you... aka becoming THAT WOMAN!! Can't help but share b/c it's changed my life and it really reminds me of your content haha :)) x
I’m 36 and this was very insightful, thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it! ❤️
First video and I have to subscribe this video was the inspiration I needed today thank you!
You're welcome! I'm glad you're over on this side now ✨
😂😂I felt called out when you mentioned the sims!! Thanks for the advice❤❤
Our sims community is an interesting one 😂❤️
LOVE IT!!!!!!!!
I totally agree get with those more seasoned who can pull you up to
I like your voice.. it doesn’t put me to sleep like most RUclipsrs 😍
before starting the video right away , beautiful hair! xD
I love and appreciate that you said “ that woman “ it’s degrading to oneself to state “ that girl” it’s a maturity level I think we all need to learn the difference. Speaking from an entomology perspective
Firstly, it's nice to meet my namesake 'Lorna'. Also I love how this video is calm, enriching & fulfilling .💝
Hey! Thank you ❤️
when i was about 13, i dreamt i had a 13 year old daughter named Lorna, so i thought i'd save that name for future use. i ended up not naming them any Lornas, though it's funny I did remember that dream a few days ago.
Your hair in this video is the first time I've seen my hair texture as beautiful. Wow. You're absolutely stunning.
Wow, thank you! ❤️✨
I love your charisma
The best advice on leveling up I’ve heard in a long time, without the pump and flare of fake in my face. Thank you.
you are so amazing, thank you very much for your inspiration and advice
Thank you! ✨❤️