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He forgets one step before that; stop giving a fck. Let go of your feelings and then you can approach. Have the right mindset before getting social is important
@@AlexanderYavhe actually was pretty good, I’m not drinking alcohol anymore, I met some dudes and my energy was high, I started talking with people through the night before get to the club, I got reject to some girls but I felt good with myself, I’m I’ll do it tonight again.
I attract. Simple. Main focus is to have fun. The rest should follow through. But if not, at least I’m still having fun.✨ drinking helps tho lmao. You’ll definitely feel like a superstar after a drink or two or however many you need 😂🤩. Also, NEVER sit on your phone scrolling!!! Sorry to say it, but it gives off insecure vibes. Say this to yourself constantly “I PAY MY OWN F*CKING BILLS AND MAKE MY OWN MONEY SO I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO TAKE UP SPACE” and trust me you’ll feel bossed up and in control. Less anxiety. 😂👍🏽✨🥃
Going out solo Tonight in torontoin a dance club. It's been 6 months no friends so i was done with it. i will reply to this comment later (edit) it was amazing i had a good time. It took me some balls to talk to people but when i did i told them the truth that I'm trying to make new friends i came here solo they invited me to their group and we had a good time
10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list..............
I go out very often and it started when I realized that I'm outgrowing my friends. I get attention from everyone because it's uncomfortable. I always dress very well so, it's always a conversation starter. Women asking so,what do you do and I'll ask why is that your first question and they'll answer because you are dressed up and everything
Tripp I have 2 questions for you 1.Can a guy also approach a woman at a bar if she's with a friend or more people? Do I join them or leave them be? 2. Half the time I go out and approach woman at a bar they say don't want to buy them a drink. Do I still sit with her, chat, and try to get her number or move onto the next woman?
Looking foward to hearing this topic discussed in more videos. Great job! I have tried solo before and it was freeing. I learned so much about myself and what I thought was fear. These tips you provide are the best summary of what I learned. Also, you need to shrug off rejection and keep pushing through. Do not leave the bar/venue just becuase of 1 rejection - push on and you will be amazed at the results!
It's honestly difficult, I consider myself handsome and I go out alone a lot, I'm cursed with social anxiety and introversion (I'm 65% introverted) and generally shy. There are outlier nights but dating apps picks up the slack for me in terms of meeting women.
"I don't recommend drinking, try to do this sober." That's just a silly unnecessary handicap. There's a reason everyone else and most likely you are at the bar in the first place and that's because alcohol helps you loosen up and socialize. Same reason people have gone to bars since they've existed. Some people don't need that, they have zero social anxiety, or maybe alcohol even makes them feel worse. But if that's the case just speak for yourself only rather than prescribe for others.
It helps you loosen up and socialise however your brain doesn't get better at cold approaching or gets conditioned for rejection, because it is clouded with alcohol. So you don't learn anything in the end. Alcohol is a mask you use as a cope to stop you from actually being able to deal with social anxiety.
I am a woman living in Moscow, been ostracized by ex pat group and can not speak Russian. I have to go alone. As a woman, at least I can look nice. This helps.
i just dont feel like going to a bar and sitting there knowing full well no one is going to try to make conversation with me unless i make it with them, and that is guaranteed when it comes to women. ill pay $10 to have two beers for the privilege to do that.
Just take your laptop and use it to make lots of money. And dress in a way that it is obvious that that is the case. While ignoring all beautiful women around you and acknowledging everyone else warmly and kindly. And tip the waitresses or waiters very well. That will do it. 🤣
A man who is attractive never has to be concerned about chicks, wherever whenever, they find him attractive ,alone, in groups here there everywhere.Its THAT SIMPLE.
@@newt9095 there's a dance that occurs for a man whos letting a chick or multiple chicks earn his time,so yes when the dance settles u must recognize who earned ur time.
Naw i pay attention to everything. I see everything. Tip on a water?!?!? Dude just wants to hit up at an advantage. Some good advice, but y'all should drink. At least one and then nurse it.
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I don't even want to talk to women.
I just wanna go out for my social health and improve my social anxiety.
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Exactly. I'm married anyway, my wide travels for work, just trying to get out the damn house
@@rodcooper7532that’s one form of cheating
That's the easiest way to talk to women naturally anyway. If everyone enjoys your company, you draw more people
Me too I’m petrified
My primary focus when I'm out solo is to have fun. Meeting women is secondary or even tertiary.
Goin out solo tonight… let’s go
How did it go
How did it go?
Same bro, fuck it
Me too bro.. f*ck it.. and the worst that could happen is that I got to my daily steps 😂 it's time to fiestaaa 🎉
@@Sunny-sy4jtim going tonigth here in Portugal, gonna be tuff😂
He forgets one step before that; stop giving a fck. Let go of your feelings and then you can approach. Have the right mindset before getting social is important
Once I realized that I don’t have to care, my entire mindset changed and I was able to desire fun.
Getting ready to go out alone and sober today, wish me luck guys.
How did you go?
@@AlexanderYavhe actually was pretty good, I’m not drinking alcohol anymore, I met some dudes and my energy was high, I started talking with people through the night before get to the club, I got reject to some girls but I felt good with myself, I’m I’ll do it tonight again.
@@jeansouza9558 so how did it go? 😂
Doing this today my man 🧍🏾♂️
i have learned from this short video more than the ten years of experimenting solo, thank you bro
“Immediately start approaching.” My inner introvert: “nope your staying home.”
You won't know unless you try
I attract. Simple. Main focus is to have fun. The rest should follow through. But if not, at least I’m still having fun.✨ drinking helps tho lmao. You’ll definitely feel like a superstar after a drink or two or however many you need 😂🤩. Also, NEVER sit on your phone scrolling!!! Sorry to say it, but it gives off insecure vibes. Say this to yourself constantly “I PAY MY OWN F*CKING BILLS AND MAKE MY OWN MONEY SO I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO TAKE UP SPACE” and trust me you’ll feel bossed up and in control. Less anxiety. 😂👍🏽✨🥃
Going out solo tonight looking forward to it
Going out solo Tonight in torontoin a dance club. It's been 6 months no friends so i was done with it. i will reply to this comment later (edit) it was amazing i had a good time. It took me some balls to talk to people but when i did i told them the truth that I'm trying to make new friends i came here solo they invited me to their group and we had a good time
Sooo…?
@@georgeradulescu6573 check original comment
@@Kyriekyra39 Good stuff my brother!
im a girl but all my friends turned out being shitty and I broke up with my bf so im going out of my comfort zone next weekend and go out alone
If u are in Florida. We can hangout
Hope it went well
@@Hub71995that would have been mint
I’ve just moved to a new town. I’m a woman but this helped me a lot
going sober and solo geez
10 things to quit for all Strong Men:
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business)
4. Not prioritizing your health
5. Wasting your precious time
6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it)
7. Chasing meaningless relationships
8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
9. Wasting time by scrolling social media
10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list..............
Nail biting and masturbation are big ones
Easy to say im trying man chill
I go out very often and it started when I realized that I'm outgrowing my friends. I get attention from everyone because it's uncomfortable. I always dress very well so, it's always a conversation starter. Women asking so,what do you do and I'll ask why is that your first question and they'll answer because you are dressed up and everything
I play pool by myself all the time. At a few bars in a Downtown area by where i live. Its Easy
I bet it is, you know all your opponents moves😂
I absolutely do notice other people at bars or restaurants…
Unless you're the one alone, focus on your friends.
Tripp I have 2 questions for you
1.Can a guy also approach a woman at a bar if she's with a friend or more people? Do I join them or leave them be?
2. Half the time I go out and approach woman at a bar they say don't want to buy them a drink. Do I still sit with her, chat, and try to get her number or move onto the next woman?
Just talk to them like normal and see if you guys vibe. You may find out you don't even want their number.
Looking foward to hearing this topic discussed in more videos. Great job! I have tried solo before and it was freeing. I learned so much about myself and what I thought was fear. These tips you provide are the best summary of what I learned. Also, you need to shrug off rejection and keep pushing through. Do not leave the bar/venue just becuase of 1 rejection - push on and you will be amazed at the results!
I’m the only single one in the squad at the moment so that’s why I’m here
Well, I went out.... but didn't really talk to anyone...
I’m going out solo with TRIPP Advice’s spirit
African proverb
Before marriage have two eyes open
After marriage close one
If you know the beginning then the end will not trouble you.
I am from Sydney Australia and have been going out alone to bars for the last 6months and still go home the same way I went to the bar. ALONE
It's honestly difficult, I consider myself handsome and I go out alone a lot, I'm cursed with social anxiety and introversion (I'm 65% introverted) and generally shy.
There are outlier nights but dating apps picks up the slack for me in terms of meeting women.
its not possible to try this long and not succed you must be doing something wrong
Going out alone tonight guys.Stay strong 🔥
Allready did that , that was awsome
"I don't recommend drinking, try to do this sober." That's just a silly unnecessary handicap. There's a reason everyone else and most likely you are at the bar in the first place and that's because alcohol helps you loosen up and socialize. Same reason people have gone to bars since they've existed. Some people don't need that, they have zero social anxiety, or maybe alcohol even makes them feel worse. But if that's the case just speak for yourself only rather than prescribe for others.
Well, if you're new to it, it's like going to class. You're not gonna learn very much if you show up drunk.
It helps you loosen up and socialise however your brain doesn't get better at cold approaching or gets conditioned for rejection, because it is clouded with alcohol. So you don't learn anything in the end.
Alcohol is a mask you use as a cope to stop you from actually being able to deal with social anxiety.
Thanks 💐
I like how the title says "solo" yet the assumption is that I want a woman
I am a woman living in Moscow, been ostracized by ex pat group and can not speak Russian. I have to go alone. As a woman, at least I can look nice. This helps.
Only go to bar if you find girl outside and take to bar otherwise you limit your opportunity and waste money!
Only thing that feels weird is when you try to intervene while they’re in like a football huddle talking😂
Probably doesn't help if you're throwing up gang signs ethier dude lmao
@newt9095 Same, ig probably circle around the bar again for a better opening? What would you do? (genuinely asking)
He literally said on the title "step by step" and yet I didn't learn shit! Another click bait! 🤦🏻♂️
Why man?!
This was not a step by step guide at all. This was a single excerpt from a podcast that says "first step break the ice asap."
You sound like Dave Rubin.
i just dont feel like going to a bar and sitting there knowing full well no one is going to try to make conversation with me unless i make it with them, and that is guaranteed when it comes to women. ill pay $10 to have two beers for the privilege to do that.
Just take your laptop and use it to make lots of money. And dress in a way that it is obvious that that is the case. While ignoring all beautiful women around you and acknowledging everyone else warmly and kindly. And tip the waitresses or waiters very well.
That will do it. 🤣
That would be just a goldigger magnet tho.
no ur running from the problem rather than fixing it
@@ElvenMans so an almost all attractive women magnet? Got it. Thank you. The defense rests. 🤭😄
@@anyone6415 no. You'd be doing the opposite of that. You just simply did not understand My answer is all. 😅
Live in mass. And do better online then the real world
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We all on here trying to figure out how to get girls while going out alone... When Jeffrey Dahmer was out there every night pulling two loads SMH
This is low key kind of creepy
why?
A man who is attractive never has to be concerned about chicks, wherever whenever, they find him attractive ,alone, in groups here there everywhere.Its THAT SIMPLE.
An attractive guy with bad social skills and anxiety doesn't get girls
@@newt9095 there's a dance that occurs for a man whos letting a chick or multiple chicks earn his time,so yes when the dance settles u must recognize who earned ur time.
Bs. I’m attractive and get 0 pu//y
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Naw i pay attention to everything. I see everything.
Tip on a water?!?!? Dude just wants to hit up at an advantage. Some good advice, but y'all should drink. At least one and then nurse it.