YOUR MINDSET IS RUINING YOUR LIFE

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @Webgud
    @Webgud 4 месяца назад +452

    The man just sat there for about 30 minutes with no edits or cuts, pouring out his soul on camera, a freaking legend.

  • @luvurselfgng
    @luvurselfgng 4 месяца назад +206

    “you have a brain so strong it’s weak” so true man

    • @Ftkhlk
      @Ftkhlk 4 месяца назад +4

      which was the part that actually made me cry

    • @luvurselfgng
      @luvurselfgng 4 месяца назад +3

      @@Ftkhlk yeah it definitely hit on a whole nother level man🚶🏻

    • @dmc1806
      @dmc1806 2 месяца назад

      Great advice on other videos. evan 4 social anxiety I subbed friend. 💯%:EXCELLET OUTLOOK 🎯 @urzvex

    • @rissachantalxo
      @rissachantalxo Месяц назад +2

      That part!!

  • @CrackheadEnergy420
    @CrackheadEnergy420 4 месяца назад +188

    I have negative thoughts every single day from the second I wake up to when I fall asleep. Every single day on this planet is a mental battle and I just keep having mental breakdowns. I have no idea what to do.

    • @youkai7838
      @youkai7838 4 месяца назад +21

      start journaling bro

    • @marvelousnduka6682
      @marvelousnduka6682 4 месяца назад +18

      Go out and talk to people
      Reduce you lone time

    • @itsmopok
      @itsmopok 4 месяца назад +29

      pray, journal , go on walks/workout, seek God. helped me so much ! i mean it

    • @NewAgeRenegXde
      @NewAgeRenegXde 4 месяца назад +12

      You got this, seek help, speak to your loved ones, make new experiences and accomplish goals.
      Stay strong, me and many others want you to succeed.
      You being on this video is a good step.

    • @fumetsu_sama
      @fumetsu_sama 4 месяца назад +1

      Watch David Goggins interviews

  • @Denexospitidenexodouleia
    @Denexospitidenexodouleia 4 месяца назад +47

    16 years old teenager here who suffers from anxiety and loneliness which have lead me to not want to talk and communicate with real people and rather staying home and trying to take this cheap fake of dopamine consuming lot of porn and lot of hours by playing video games and feel empty and depressed lot of times.Most of the time I am acting weird and angry to others even if I don't mean to.I don't want to say lot but I want to just thank you for your work and your willingness to help us by pushing us to make ourselves better.This video worthed every second of it you made me being in tears some parts you have earned a huge amount of respect from me.
    Now everyone that read this I suggest to forget and forgive yourselve for all the downside your life had maybe and start to live a life that you are proud of and stop thinking about everything bad or get anxious of the future(you are so concerned about what it was and what will be there is a saying“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery,but today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the present.”,God bless you all.

    • @Denexospitidenexodouleia
      @Denexospitidenexodouleia 4 месяца назад

      @@Scarlet068 Man I know you have passed hard times from the past and I know that is hurts.But I want you to know that no matter what your situation is or how depressed you are you will always have people to support you till the end.We as generation we are passing hard times when everything is depending on technology and everyone needs to live with technology.Technology isn't a bad thing at his own indeed it's very beneficial to people who use it when is truly nessacary but come on who uses technology for only good purpose everyone is addicted to some shit a lot of more than he should.But man me also have passed very difficult last times but i am saying to myself don't give up no matter what and I want you also say that to yourself we are not watching this kind of video because we bored we watch this because we know who we are and what we can do.And last thing I want to say is to stop thinking what other people think or say abouy you they dont do it because they hate you but because you are different.I am proud of you

    • @marvelouss132
      @marvelouss132 4 месяца назад +6

      I'm also 16 and experiencing the same thing as you. I'm starting to see that it was all because of the way I was thinking.

    • @rainaki1685
      @rainaki1685 4 месяца назад +1

      This system is designed to make everyone, especially the youth, lonely, depressed, anxious and angry. I was where you were when I was 15-16. You're on the right path having awareness and looking for healing.

    • @eumetciascott338
      @eumetciascott338 4 месяца назад

      @@Scarlet068​​⁠​​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠same honestly I feel like I wasted my high school years being scared barely talking to people not having any friends because of it and it really took a toll on me cause I know this is not who I am. But I feel like the best thing I did for myself was face my fears with joining a sport it helped me open up a little and I was rotc those things made me feel like I belonged since I was lonely. However I can definitely say I have changed over the years I cut my hair off got a nose piercing and dyed my hair those things definitely made me feel better about myself and I feel like even though I wasted my high school years being alone I can definitely make it up now since I’m going to college and I have freedom I’m gonna try to make friends and join some activities. If not than I won’t pressure myself as long as I’m doing something with myself.

    • @Denexospitidenexodouleia
      @Denexospitidenexodouleia 4 месяца назад +3

      @rainaki1685 appreciate this man I am glad you understand as the time passes by we are going worse and worse

  • @CursedReflection
    @CursedReflection 4 месяца назад +24

    Bro you’re on your way. I’m 30 and you have no idea how much these videos help bro. You remind me of myself at a point in time when I was getting it together.
    Now days it’s an everyday mental war, and I’m battling depression, but I just had a son and it’s helping me win more everyday. I’m in a rebuild phase from nothingness right now, but I believe I’ll be back. My wife and my son deserve a good life and a protector and I have to be whole and present in order for that to happen. Thank you bro. You’re saving lives.

  • @tidex4483
    @tidex4483 4 месяца назад +11

    love this dude whole heartly. he became my brother not somebody i look up too. i can change his life just as much as he can change mine. no bs

  • @rytiksas6556
    @rytiksas6556 4 месяца назад +14

    Just fumbled the love of my life and it hurts so bad, I know things will get better, but right now its tough man

  • @EpicYoutuber123
    @EpicYoutuber123 3 месяца назад +6

    this is actually crazy, being able to talk like this for 30 minutes straight no cuts no edits, i mean it’s actually crazy to me, i feel like you have to have real talent to be able to speak like this, and communicate like this to others , it’s amazing

  • @realpeas
    @realpeas 3 месяца назад +6

    SAYING THANK U IS NOT ENOUGH, ILL BE STICKING AROUND...

  • @samilife4785
    @samilife4785 Месяц назад +2

    The Holy Spirit is talking trough this brother. People need to hear this because a lot of people are blind from the truth!

  • @keitwilliamsmusic
    @keitwilliamsmusic 4 месяца назад +28

    I am going through it with my own mental health and coming down from a panic attack. Thank you for reminding me that I am the one in control of my life, not anyone else.

  • @redcrow669
    @redcrow669 4 месяца назад +16

    Watching this while applying for jobs hits different 🙏

  • @Ftkhlk
    @Ftkhlk 4 месяца назад +5

    cried 3 times watching this coming from a lonely perspective on life

  • @philmeadows4760
    @philmeadows4760 3 месяца назад +4

    I feel like the way you deliver your message is amazingly authentic. I'm about to turn 39 and honestly needed to here this today. From the bottom of my heart thank you. Sometimes as we get older our flame can get dimmed. This helps me right now. I'm getting back to it with new vigor thanks for the inspiration 🔥

  • @StarOcto
    @StarOcto 2 месяца назад +3

    This man is changing my whole life rn basically and I kinda wanna cry. My bf tells me that the way I think is how reality is gonna be and im stubborn when he tells me things like that and now I kinda understand what he's trynna tell me.

  • @Angero_
    @Angero_ 4 месяца назад +4

    You're the realest human being in existence

  • @AO-pn2uo
    @AO-pn2uo 3 месяца назад +3

    Our mentality is our reality

  • @noodIepigpoo
    @noodIepigpoo 4 месяца назад +5

    Thank you so much for making these videos. They have helped me a lot these past few weeks. They make me feel like I’m talking face to face with a friend

  • @anttheknee64
    @anttheknee64 4 месяца назад +2

    I just love this dude so much and a part of me tells me im not appreciating the videos message enough and i should do more if i want to comment but he would be against that idea, he would say a comment doesnt need to be all extravagant to show love

  • @Healersarah
    @Healersarah 4 месяца назад +4

    I needed this video for real ! like I'm so lost I'm still on my way to discover myself but it's so hard to not know who you truly is , and what do you actually wanna do regardless of anybody else's opinion . and as you said how can you know what do you like in life without really trying to do things that are new ? thank you so much for this video Shimon it remainds me to stay disciplined and to stick on the things that lead me to be the best version of me and as you said in one video : you are actually who you wanna be time is just slow ! period !

  • @andydataguy
    @andydataguy 4 месяца назад +8

    Been watching your channel like mad thes last few weeks. Glad you blew up recently. Am going through a major life reset and have found comfort in hearing your precocious perspectives. Reminds me of myself at your age. Thank you for sharing your journey brother.

  • @kaylinalvarez7462
    @kaylinalvarez7462 3 месяца назад +3

    I’ve been feeling lonely and out of place for a couple years now and I just want to be normal and have real connections and conversations. I struggle to make friends cause I feel like I’m not interesting enough, or I feel like I’m not motivated enough to find my purpose. But I’ve been watching ur videos trying to find a way to help myself

  • @Learn_Abou
    @Learn_Abou 4 месяца назад +2

    awe man, i appreciate the content you make, i am glad i get it from someone who has been there, i really despise the day i watched the thing, but ever since i told myself i will quit i see change, and it feels good, sometimes i fall, but i cant stay down all i want is to be a better me everyday

  • @AndyJxmes
    @AndyJxmes 4 месяца назад +9

    I swear you always giving us exactly what we need and I'm happy I found your page...I really needed this

  • @psych0ticgaming352
    @psych0ticgaming352 4 месяца назад +3

    Best half an hour I could have spent. These are the words I don’t hear. You speak on only the real things in life 💯

  • @Juicein
    @Juicein 2 месяца назад +1

    You are a radiant soul, bro. You showed for me up just in time… 🙏 Thank you.

  • @mason3641
    @mason3641 Месяц назад

    This dude is such an amazing speaker that it's hard for me to comprehend. Like how can he go on and on for 30 minutes straight pouring out pure wisdom. It's crazy to me

  • @boredomsmyhobby
    @boredomsmyhobby 4 месяца назад +6

    thank you for the wisdom of the day

  • @telaya32
    @telaya32 4 месяца назад

    Idk what I would do without you Shimon. I have depression and I have been beside myself for a few days now. Your words are so healing to my mind because it is so easy to get lost in my thoughts and stray far from reality. Thank you for bringing me a little closer to earth.

  • @madslappers5913
    @madslappers5913 4 месяца назад +4

    Love you shimon and thanks for the message, I have learned that I need to own up to my mistakes in life, but also not be so hard on myself. I’m still learning and I’m still young, but I will keep at it.

  • @TwoTallTowers
    @TwoTallTowers 12 дней назад

    As of right now I’ve been watching this on repeat everyday

  • @Stimbäär
    @Stimbäär 4 месяца назад +5

    bro i'm speechless thank u fr !

  • @Practicingenglishuser-gw4qs
    @Practicingenglishuser-gw4qs 4 месяца назад +4

    I'm trying to learn how to speak as you speak. I'm Brazilian and for me it's so advanced and amazing the way that you talk. 😮
    I really appreciate your videos.
    Have a great day. 🎉

  • @1MS0T1R3D
    @1MS0T1R3D 4 месяца назад +2

    I'm really thankful for your videos, thank you so much for this, every word you say feels like a warm hug to my soul

  • @islandnative8084
    @islandnative8084 2 месяца назад

    This is perfectly said straight up. I've been struggling and figuring out life and who I am deep down inside. Its been depressing for me feeling like I got no one to go to or anywhere with. But like you said "Living my life the way I want to and not the way others want me to is the way to go" it's got me thinking now how I can or should start making changes in my life or start setting goals for myself

  • @Sergmagnum
    @Sergmagnum 4 месяца назад +2

    So glad I found this channel

  • @Big_Iced
    @Big_Iced 4 месяца назад +1

    Shimon you deserve everything you want and more you are a truly soulful person and you are bright much love from Winnipeg ❤ keep pursuing your life🤟🏼👌🏼🎸🔥💯

  • @jcarpenter12
    @jcarpenter12 4 месяца назад +4

    I appreciate you man your words mean a lot

  • @ShaqeeesMcdonald
    @ShaqeeesMcdonald 4 месяца назад +2

    Hey man I love your channel, and I can’t say nothin less. You only speak the truth, and even if it may not seem like the truth, it is. My long distance gf broke up with me about a week ago, and I’m kinda goin through it. She broke up with me because she was goin up to the lake for a few weeks, and she was gonna be with a few boys, and she didn’t wanna hurt me. She wasn’t gonna be able to talk much at all, because she was gonna be so busy, and in past situations, I always got mad whenever she was busy because we wouldn’t have time to talk. I always wished we could just have more time to text. She said she just wanted to be single for a while. I get her reasons, but having trouble just understanding. She’s the love of my life, I love her to infinity and beyond, she’s the sweetest prettiest most wonderful person I know. She felt the same way about me.She said we could try again later this year. I’m just strugglin man, I love her so much but it’s just hard because we can’t be together right now.

  • @-jaszx100
    @-jaszx100 4 месяца назад +1

    i see u in me i get scared of repetition but at least i know im consistent, its hard to convince myself theres someone who thinks like me but i’ve never not been surprised

  • @Spiritualkevi
    @Spiritualkevi 4 месяца назад +8

    Thank you bro, you really helped me out! 🙏❤️

  • @artstudy1136
    @artstudy1136 4 месяца назад +2

    Tbh I know I can be in my own head a lot but my biggest problem is my inability to let go of the past and it gets to the point to where it effects good friendships/relationships and I don’t want to have the people around me deal with that anymore

  • @KarenBarnes-h8i
    @KarenBarnes-h8i 2 месяца назад

    Thoughts come to us and we have to weigh them, judge them, filter them.
    Our ability to do this gets better with experience, hopefully.
    We are part child, part parent, and part adult. The child believes whatever we tell ourselves and has the faith to power those ideas, for better or not. The parent is the guardrails, fearful. The adult listens to the parent but is not bound to their ideas; it takes the child in hand and speaks hope and possibility to him or her, and the child believes and achieves.

  • @roibenhaim3509
    @roibenhaim3509 3 месяца назад

    plz dont leave youtube you are one of the bast!! u help so much

  • @realpeas
    @realpeas 3 месяца назад

    Man, thank you. this video gave me hope. thank you thank u thank u thank u thank uuu.

  • @kiandre8921
    @kiandre8921 4 месяца назад +7

    Love the vids bro, best RUclipsr in my eyes right now💯

  • @Zanokuhlengcobo1
    @Zanokuhlengcobo1 4 месяца назад

    Thank god we have good human beings like u

  • @vplaza73
    @vplaza73 4 месяца назад

    I am deeply grateful for your wise words and old soul. 🙏❤️❤️Listening to you while decluttering my place is also helping unclog my mind and reassemble my soul. Sometimes my capacity feels like a brick; however, curiosity & sponge-like is soul. [Side Funny note: SpongeBob SquarePants turns 25 this year😅]
    Sincerely,
    grateful for you ❤

  • @LuluLushiku
    @LuluLushiku 4 месяца назад +1

    I respect you a lot shimon

  • @2kGotti
    @2kGotti 2 месяца назад

    Bro I love you. You don't what change your videos will do for my life but this helps.

  • @DexterjansenDikokobele
    @DexterjansenDikokobele 4 месяца назад +2

    Bro u spitting facts💯👍 but I'm done with life bra

  • @MrGram2
    @MrGram2 4 месяца назад +1

    You should do public speaking, this is inspiring and relatable

  • @myztral460
    @myztral460 4 месяца назад +1

    i was just passing a bad moment , and i had your video in my recommandations, just thank you about that , you help me a lot and i am grateful to know your channel ❤️ (sorry for my bad english i am french🇫🇷)

  • @katherinemc3850
    @katherinemc3850 4 месяца назад +2

    thank you❤

  • @fumetsu_sama
    @fumetsu_sama 4 месяца назад +1

    I appreciate this video, it came at the right time as usual for me💪🏽🙏🏽

  • @coppervalley_1660
    @coppervalley_1660 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you. ❤

  • @GarUnited1
    @GarUnited1 4 месяца назад +48

    Like this comment so it reminds me to watch this video again 😢

  • @vlllalnous
    @vlllalnous 4 месяца назад

    LMAO Paused as soon as I started the video, LOVE the tigers eye necklace! its my favorite gemstone and i have a bracelet with them 💕 i get really excited when i see people wearing it

  • @700GUTTA
    @700GUTTA 4 месяца назад

    Wise beyond your years lil bro... thanks for the motivation

  • @gage323
    @gage323 4 месяца назад +1

    The goat is back 🔥

  • @Ominous.1
    @Ominous.1 4 месяца назад

    Hey man im 32 and i hit some hardtimes recently. And your videos really help

  • @alexislightfoot746
    @alexislightfoot746 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you 💗

  • @RisingTestostorone
    @RisingTestostorone 4 месяца назад

    I'm 14 g, thanks for all you do for us man

  • @bones10x
    @bones10x 2 месяца назад

    You know what it is, a lot of this content hits because its trending. But, what I found is.. I ain’t got nobody around me on that type of time to conversate about things like this with, its like therapy, bro talking to me (no diddy) but Im responding on the other side of the screen like “damn you right bruh..”

  • @chamberlinmaba3443
    @chamberlinmaba3443 4 месяца назад

    You're the best dear bro🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Guest-dg3pc
    @Guest-dg3pc 4 месяца назад +1

    brotha how did you develop such a positive attitude? I wish I had a friend like you to talk to 24/7.

  • @СуатКуршун
    @СуатКуршун 4 месяца назад +2

    Hey man can you make a video about how to explore new hobbies and get busy so not to think about the negative thoughts?

  • @kevinrevin4377
    @kevinrevin4377 4 месяца назад

    I wont even lie you helped me out alot with girls and life and you made me understand alot of shit its sad to see you leaving the app but do you bro i loved your sht and at times i asked myself what would shimon davis do

  • @geikaci
    @geikaci 4 месяца назад +2

    dude i love what you did with your hair

  • @HakuriNa
    @HakuriNa 4 месяца назад +1

    I got the message thanks!

  • @alcatechnologies7491
    @alcatechnologies7491 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for that something, made my morning

  • @Elasindonel
    @Elasindonel 4 месяца назад

    My favourite 🎉

  • @Cwesade
    @Cwesade 4 месяца назад

    I agree with your video title

  • @sagar3230
    @sagar3230 3 месяца назад

    glad i found ur channel!!

  • @h3xz.v
    @h3xz.v 3 месяца назад

    the realest.

  • @faxx420
    @faxx420 4 месяца назад +1

    Hey man, i appreciate the videos and been watching for some time and just wanted to say thank you and that you should make some audio books or post these on spotify as a podcast so i can listen throughout the day? Love the videos

  • @armaggeddonnn
    @armaggeddonnn 4 месяца назад +4

    🙏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽

  • @momomurad7397
    @momomurad7397 4 месяца назад +8

    I was homeschooled so im socially awkward when it comes to talking to someone its exhausting so i was wondering do you have any tips for people like me

    • @rainaki1685
      @rainaki1685 4 месяца назад +1

      I'm socially awkward and I went to school. Don't be ashamed, embarressed of yourself and conscious about everything you do and say. Let it go. We are all different. Different is what makes you beautiful. You will find your tribe and people will accept you when you accept yourself. You are possibly empathic or introverted and that might be why its so exhausting talking to people. Or you may be calculating and watching everything you say and do, that could be exhausting interacting too. Accept yourself. We all have different paths.

  • @Jumpuptothepast
    @Jumpuptothepast 4 месяца назад

    I have missed you man

  • @DreamyStarryWizard
    @DreamyStarryWizard 4 месяца назад +1

    New Banger

  • @cultoosk
    @cultoosk 4 месяца назад +3

    Nice video man.

  • @elijahxzr
    @elijahxzr 4 месяца назад

    you know that a man that doesn’t want better for himself is destined for failure

  • @jedii6x252
    @jedii6x252 4 месяца назад +1

    hey shimon, been binge listening to your videos whilst trying to be a bit more productive. i’ve been really lost recently. the girl i’m in love with has been mentally struggling for a few months now and it’s really affected me deeply due to the distance between us. i feel like ive kind of lost myself to her and not been able to find myself again. whilst we are no longer together, i still consider her one of my best friends, but im struggling without her and the lack of communication between us. i don’t want to cut ties with her, but what advice would you give to someone trying to find themselves again after becoming so lost in another person?

  • @hxhxhxb
    @hxhxhxb 4 месяца назад +1

    Timing on this is something...

  • @lipe17.
    @lipe17. 4 месяца назад +1

    back at it again

  • @benlebanon2495
    @benlebanon2495 4 месяца назад +1

    Hey Shimon Davis! I appreciate the videos you put out to and some of them has helped me a while with my life and relationships. This time I've come to only ask you one question. My partner's parents dont approve of me being her boyfriend. What should I do?

  • @roibenhaim3509
    @roibenhaim3509 3 месяца назад

    thanks bro fr thanks

  • @josepharoh7958
    @josepharoh7958 4 месяца назад

    Love you bro

  • @KimjuliusNathaniel
    @KimjuliusNathaniel 4 месяца назад

    Thanks bro

  • @Koljon
    @Koljon 4 месяца назад +1

    Do you think there is a purpose to life?

  • @hypergaming3691
    @hypergaming3691 2 месяца назад

    man thankyou

  • @KaprineTheFirst
    @KaprineTheFirst 4 месяца назад

    Thanks man

  • @bloozbus
    @bloozbus 4 месяца назад +1

    shimon why dont u do long courses about a certain topic and really go in details with it

  • @KimjuliusNathaniel
    @KimjuliusNathaniel 4 месяца назад

    thanks bro

  • @TwitchIsDead
    @TwitchIsDead 4 месяца назад +1

    Where did all of this wisdom come from? did you read books or did you just think about life until you had the answers ? very curious

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  4 месяца назад +4

      I just think about life

    • @TwitchIsDead
      @TwitchIsDead 4 месяца назад +1

      @@AskShimonsomething I am going to start taking the time to do

  • @BELUECEFA
    @BELUECEFA 4 месяца назад

    W man! W video!

  • @DripyTv
    @DripyTv 4 месяца назад +2

    First view

  • @damarkisallen1013
    @damarkisallen1013 4 месяца назад +1

    Man I gotta say how are you so cool

  • @FurbingTin
    @FurbingTin 4 месяца назад +4

    Anybody reading this you are not alone we all struggle and need help, not all are courageous enough to attempt to acknowledge and be better tho 🫶🏼 don’t give up man

  • @planettobi
    @planettobi 4 месяца назад +1

    For the algorithm