"The Goal is not to run a marathon, it's to become a runner." I think this is an awesome mindset because not only does it help you stick to your habits, but it will make you comfortable with failure. Even if you don't complete that marathon, you're still a runner and it won't put you off trying again.
It also supports the idea that "personal image/identity" is a more effective way of forming or breaking habits over setting goals. For example, in the context of breaking bad habits, when someone is trying to quit smoking, they usually say "I'm trying to quit so I shouldn't" when it's more effective to say "I'm not a smoker so I don't smoke".
not only that, if you just want to run the marathon, after you do it you'll probably stop working out. However, if you're a runner, you can't stop after running the marathon, you have to keep training or else you won't be a real runner
I have got rid of most of the social media around 6 months ago. I keep RUclips because I use a lot of learning videos. But the rest like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, ... I cancelled. It is awesome...
Which is a terrible, exaggerated suggestion. Using social media wisely is a better course of action. Like a tool, you should use it but not abuse it. You wouldn’t even be able to watch these videos without social media.
I think the true and important difference is that social media should be controlled and used with purpose. Mindlessly scrolling on instagram will waste time and could subconsciously ruin your self esteem due to comparison. This is one example. When used consciously for specific purposes, it’s a net positive.
*We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.* One of the best book ever read, with most practical advice . The idea is to be 1% better everyday
this could be the best review of any 'self-help' book I've ever seen. Not only a great summary... but concrete examples of how you used the knowledge to develop real systems for change. Outstanding!
"The Goal is not to learn an instrument, it's to become a musician." "The Goal is not to run a marathon, it's to become a runner." Underrated words~ Thanks for helping me a better person~ You earned a sub!
I think these are empty words. The musician part is for sure, if you look at it realisticaly under the current capitalist system. The relationship between all those factors like instrument types, genres, age, etc. makes it sound really stupidly oversimplified. What if a 14yo would hear this? "If I do not become a musican, it is futile to learn an instrument. If I won't make a living out of (cause that what makes someone acknowledged professional for the plebs) it is not even worth just for the sake of it?" Think about what if you"d say that to an elderly... Also running a marathon for the fun or health reasons shouldn't (and in my opinion in most case must not) lead to eager to became a runner. These are false motivations, contradicting the idea about not to chase goals but improve the system. And imho that; my friends; is more toxic than straightly getting told by boomers, that you cant make a living out of beeing musician, any artist, runner, scientist, etc...
@@angyalbandi94 We all view it differently. It's an eye opener for me because I only focused on the small things. I guess it taught me that the end goal is not just on learning an instrument but becoming a musician. If I just focus on learning an instrument then my goal is finished and I wont continue anymore since I dont have other goals. That's how I see it
There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.
yes, I read somewhere most people actually know what to do different, its just...they dont do it. People often know they are acting destructive, but pushing yourself to overcome your bad habits is the hard part
My notes :) - A slight change in your daily habits can guide your life to a very different destination - Massive success is not a result of massive steps, but small ones - Compound effect is 1% better each day, which results in 37x better in a year - Success is the produce of daily habits, not once-in a lifetime transformations - Small changes are not noticeable( first stage known as valley of disappointment). To see change, you must stick to something for a while (exponential growth). - Forget about goals, focus on systems instead. Not on the product, but the process of how you will get there - Set specific realistic goals - Goals are good for setting a direction, but systems are best for making progress - Layers of behavior change: Outcomes, processes, identity. Most focus on outcomes, but successful people focus on identity or the person they want to become) - Law 1: Make it obvious. ○ Create a habit scorecard, and label each habit positive, negative, or even ○ Unless you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate ○ Make habits clear (ex. "I will read a book for 15 minutes daily at 6am in the other bedroom", rather than "I will read this month") ○ Stack habits. After [current habit], I will [new habit] ○ Environment > Motivation. To drink more water, always have a water bottle around. To read more, always have a book nearby. Get bad habits out of sight - Law 2: Make it attractive. ○ You can make hard habits more attractive if you can learn to associate them with a positive experience ○ Dopamine is not just linked to pleasure, but also when we anticipate it. Thus, the craving is what causes us to take action in the first place. ○ Use temptation bundling. Link working out with watching a show or listening to music, so you get something you want to do, when you do something you need to do. ○ Put yourself in the right environment. Do get fit, surround yourself with people who make going to the gym a norm. ○ Your habits are modern-day solutions to ancient desires. New versions of old vices. The underlying motives behind human behavior remain the same. - Law 3: Make it easy ○ The more you do something, the easier it becomes over time ○ Easy habits are more likely to happen, so stick to an easy habit, and not wanting to wake up at 6 when being used to waking up at 8 ○ Reduce friction from good habits, increase friction in bad habits. ○ 2-min rule to stop procrastinating. Start small with habits, work out for only 5 min to start with, or only stretch for a bit every day to start. Get the retinue anchored in place and then slowly increase the difficulty. Don’t try to do too much too soon. - Law 4: Make it satisfying ○ What is immediately rewarded is repeated. ○ Good habits don’t feel too good short term, but feel good in the long run, so add immediate pleasure after doing a good habit. ○ Have a habit tracker ○ Lost days hurt you more than successful days help you ○ Don’t break the chain of doing a good habit. Create a habit contract.
There's a book called Success Secrets Of The Elite, it talks about how using some secret techniques you can attract a lot of money, it's not some bullshit, it's the real deal. Great video btw
I’ve always say that showing up is half the battle. You’ll be amazed what you can achieve by just showing up. My commitment to myself was to show up at work each day (5 days per week) while I was undergoing a challenging and prolonged 5 year medical treatment for a neurological disease, even though I lacked confidence due to a decrease in ability and didn’t feel 100%. I decided that I would tell no one about my challenges, but if anyone asked me to leave because my performance was inadequate, I’d leave. I got through the treatment, recovered, and thrived. I continued to acquire work skills and experience, as well as get paid, throughout the treatment.
Thank you for this inspiring comment - from someone who suffers from neuropathic pain. I've paused my studies because of it, but I'm planing to go back and start studying today.
@@marko6168 at 33 I was told my condition was degenerative and would only get worse. I wasn’t willing to give up life as I knew it (and a chance to earn a living) and resign myself to a life on the couch receiving a disability pension. I’m nearly 47 now, and look back and can see I made the right decision. My husband calls me “TC”, short for Tough Cookie. We’ve all got inner strength, even if we may not look strong, and even if there are barriers.
@@shaktipragyan1661 I made a miraculous recovery. I did not experience degeneration, as many doctors cautioned. I got better and stronger. All of the problems started in 2009 but after several years of treatment I've had many years of very normal health 😀
Also a powerful habit I have learned: Plan your day at the evening of the day before before going to bed. This will not only help to be more productive the next day, but also makes you sleep better because most of the possible uncertainties are already elaborated.
My problem is getting out of bed. But having my clothes ready and having my day planned actually makes it easier for me to get up. I think a normal person would get up earlier if they don't have this stuff ready. Me, it makes me wanna hit snooze lol
That helps prevent analysis paralysis as well. You don't have to think about what choices you have, then end up doing nothing - you'll already have picked.
If you’re having trouble cleaning try making a list. My wife bought a dry erase board and then a bunch of magnets to write on. She put chores that take max 5 minutes on each one. Sweeping, wiping counters, scrub toilets etc. Every time we finish a chore we take it off the board. This gamification of chores has helped us keep our house clean. You get a sense of accomplishment from removing a magnet and when you see the chore is done you feel amazing at the cleanliness. We try to make our way through the list in 7 days or less. But never being hard on ourselves if we don’t accomplish it.
I started using those squishy ring wrist bands I put 5 min max chores. The wrist band bother me until I get it done. Well when I get it one doneI just put it in the basket for tomorrow.
"The Goal is not to run a marathon, it's to become a runner." I think this is an awesome mindset because not only does it help you stick to your habits, but it will make you comfortable with failure. Even if you don't complete that marathon, you're still a runner and it won't put you off trying again. “You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems” - James Clear I have already ready this book and this is the perfect summary. I recommend everyone to read it. Good effort to make such summaries. 👍
Just repackaged wisdom from pre-Greek times. Participation is more important than Competition (to Win on Olympic games). The problem is the Savage Competitive (Capitalist) System :( Cooperation helped Human Survival & Progress ;)
I think the hardest part is working on oneself. That doesn't mean we can't ask for some kind of help. On my channel, I also work on well-being routines. They are simpler, but short-term goals help in not getting frustrated too quickly. Greetings.
"We feel good about our bad habits immediately, but very bad about them in the long run." "We feel bad about our good habits immediately, but very good about them in the long run."
i’m going to be 39 years old in March of 2022. I told my friend in December I would have a six pack by my birthday. Her laugh or disbelief boosted my habit. Now, one month away, I’m pretty much there now. So, yes, it works.
@@jameswilliam9965 - no gym for me, James. Luckily I have a 12kg iron kettle bell (picked it up years ago, but with little use before). It is my little baby more than ever now. Besides that, food habits. I always ate clean so it was just a matter of cutting my craving for sweets and enjoying the cheat days. If you're on your way, rock on. Just discipline yourself and you should be be fine. You know the game of mindset.
I’ve deleted Facebook, I started reading books and listening to podcast last april, I started meditating last june, I started exercising (jumping rope) last august, and I can tell that I’ve improved so much. In my STEM classroom Im always the one reciting and active, my teachers also love the way I talk to them, my classmates look up to me like a valedictorian or something🤷 my classmates always asks to teach them in physics/biology. I also became a night owl person(I dont know why). I did all of it even without knowing this book tho, I still feel grateful for summarizing this book and getting it straight to the point. Thank you❤️
@@soonsuicidal I use messenger, not fb, I also chose modular learning not online class, we only use google meet when there is a consultation in our school.
THANK YOU ! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Due to severe ADHD I can no longer read physical books and even audio books are challenging to me. Your presentations in VISUAL form...I get it! I finally can understand what a book is about. I'm 55 years old and I finally can understand. THANK U SO MUCH!!
For anyone trying to use their phone less, I highly recommend changing the settings to grayscale so that your phone doesn't display color. It makes the stuff on the screen look dull in comparison to real life and will make you way less tempted to scroll through photos & videos.
This was FULL of great advice about habit formation, but what stood out to me most: "DON'T BREAK THE CHAIN - lost days hurt you more than successful days help you." That is too true. I'll try to keep that in mind as I work out, study Spanish, practice keyboarding, etc.
It's great to learn your studying spanish. I'm Colombian, and I learned English to get a good job, keep it up so you can visit our beautiful country and try our traditional and delicious food. Te deseo muchos éxitos 😊
I have read the book twice. But this video just gave me more perspective about what author was trying to communicate. I believe it just how meticulously you have summarized this book. Kudos my brother!! 👍👍
Successful investing is hard work because it means disciplining your mind to do the opposite of human nature. Buying during a panic, selling during euphoria, and holding on when you are bored and just craving a little action. Investing is 5% intellect and 95% temperament.
Government policy has thrown the future under the bus for decades. The day of judgment is near. I predict an 80% drop in the stock market. Investors will abandon stocks in favor of real estate. There will be no money in banks... You must devise a strategy for survival.
It's often true that people underestimate the importance of financial advisors until they feel the negative effects of emotional decision-making. I remember a few summers ago, after a tough divorce, when I needed a boost for my struggling business. I researched and found a licensed advisor who diligently helped grow my reserves despite inflation. Consequently, my reserves increased from $275k to around $750k.
Recently, I've been considering the possibility of speaking with consultants. I need guidance because I'm an adult, but I'm not sure if their services would be all that helpful.
I've shuffled through investment coaches and yes, they can be positively impactful to an individual's portfolio, but do your due diligence to find a coach with grit, one that withstood the 08' crash. For me, Rolando Diaz turned out to be better and smarter than all the advisors I ever worked with till date, I’ve never met anyone with as much conviction.
Thanks for the advice, It’s reassuring to hear positive experiences. I feel more confident about moving forward with Rolando Diaz now. Thanks for sharing your experiences!
So true, I especially like the part about bad days and how to not let that get in the way. I improved my life tremendously in my senior year of high school, I basically dedicated the entire time to self improvement. Went from 220 pounds to 160, got really fit, and basically just enjoyed life to the max. About a year later I got a mild injury at the gym which caused me to start breaking all these good habits and I got fat again within another year. Now I’m getting fit again and going to dedicate myself to keeping good habits, I know it’s possible since I’ve done it before, all that’s needed is to stick to it.
Hey there! I'm one of those who didn't read the book, so I took notes from this video. I've noticed that the mapping here is a bit messy, so I've worked on my notes a bit more to improve the structure and make them easier to quickly browse over. I suggest doing it by yourself for better memory, but it costs me nothing to share anyway. Some typos and mistakes are possible. CUE - MAKE IT OBVIOUS 1. Habit scorecard Write down daily behaviors Rate (positive/negative/neutral) 2. Stacking habits "After [current habit] I will [new habit]" 3. Implementation strategy Set specific time & place 4. Design your environment Zoning Place cues in sight Make bad habits invisible CRAVING - MAKE IT ATTRACTIVE 1. Temptation bundling Combine musts & needs (Premack principle) 2. Group influence Mingle with positive people 3. Reprogram perception of hard habits Shift the mindset Associate with positive experience & image Make bad habits unattractive RESPONSE - MAKE IT EASY 1. Reduce friction Make habits easier to follow, more convenient 2. Prime your environment Prepare for execution of the task 3. Two-minute rule Start small Scale down the task to 2 min & build up Make bad habits inconvenient REWARD - MAKE IT SATISFYING 1. Immediate consequence Habit contract Reward for good habits Punishment for bad habits 2. Habit tracking Create sensory indicators of progress Celebrate success Accountability partner 3. Deal with bad days & failures Don't break the chain of continuity Show up Make bad habits unpleasant STAY PATIENT & FOCUS ON SYSTEMS, NOT JUST GOALS
I juz wanna say thank you. I do the same thing in college ... always simplify the lecturer's notes in classes for easier and faster revisions later. Itz a good systemm of learning. Another two ways are ... 2. Revise the notes a few times. 3. Teach or share with others for better self-understanding ( the more you share, the deeper it ingrains into your subconscious.
Can confirm that the atomic habits approach to life does indeed work. When I was younger I would always struggle with drawing. Once I learned about the 1% better every day tip and the 2 minute rule, and put those into practice, I made more progress in 6 months than I had made in 10 years. This year I added learning Japanese to my every day routine and now I practice that 7 days a week, along with my drawing practice. Oh sure, I'm not a master of either skill, but I'm definitely way further along than I would have been if I had never tried improving myself by just a little bit every single day. They've also opened more doors for me in terms of having more people to converse with about those subjects. You won't notice the results right away, but if you keep at it you will reach a breakthrough moment. It's like leveling up in an RPG. Although I got financially wrecked this year thanks to car trouble and inflation, my overall productivity was better than the last 4 years combined. Next year I plan to stack other habits like learning more about 3D modeling/animation, and practicing how to play music. I have a lot of creative ideas I want to put out into the world and atomic habits are helping me achieve that. So yeah, in summary.... LEARN TO APPLY THIS SHIT TO YOUR LIFE BECAUSE IT WILL MAKE YOU SO MUCH HAPPIER! 😂
Good for you! I also incorporated these methods and my drawings have improved immensely over this last year. But also my enjoyment of the daily routine. Thanks for sharing your story. I wish you the best!
@@clyreane575 I will try to answer your question. The idea behind the 2 minute rule is that it serves as a bare minimum requirement so that it's as easy as possible to get started. The easier a habit is to start, the easier it will be to continue doing in the future. In order to be good at drawing, you have to first develop the habit of drawing. Otherwise, you will get nowhere. So by setting a goal as simple as "I will draw for at least 2 minutes," you then begin to set the building blocks for turning drawing (or any other activity) into a habit. If you set a timer on your phone for 2 minutes, you can then decide whether or not you would like to continue drawing after the timer runs out. The point is you met the minimum requirement. You defeated procrastination. You accomplished that tiny goal and it was so easy that you ought to be able to do it again the next day. And the day after that and so on. Then eventually, 2 minutes turns into 5 minutes. 5 mins turns to 10, 15, 20, 30, an hour, etc. You're gradually leveling up your ability to consistently practice for longer and longer periods of time, and as a result you can improve much faster. Of course, it's still important to have a specific goal in mind as to what you are trying to achieve. Like becoming good at drawing hands, for example. Some days you might feel tired and unmotivated, but even something as simple as just drawing a circle will help you keep the habit alive. I can say with absolute certainty that this method works because it's exactly what I did.
This was such a GREAT and well crafted video. As a visual learner who has been putting off reading this book, this was a GREAT HELP. Good eye for colour scheme, well written and relevant points. Great job.
Thank you for this powerful presentation. Absolutely perfect and outstanding skills. I am practically reading everyday going to the gym at the park and working out for 30min. Yoga 30-1hour 3-4x a week. Learning a few languages for 15minutes a day. Playing the piano for 10 minutes. Writing for 25 minutes is what I strive for and will be enjoying next in my good habits. ❤ 😊
This book is sheer magic. Made me quit smoking of 5 years in 14 days. Truly truly inspiring! Edit : I haven't gone back to the nasty habit for those who wanna know.. the idea here is to be 1% better every day and I hear about how far I have come every day and that's mindboggling. I have been trying the same technique for turning into a vegetarian and Its just like the first time. Vegetarian for 2 months and counting and soon to be vegan!
@@raymondlawson1751 I started reading as a habit recently and this book was my second read after The power of subconscious mind. So I already had some idea how I can train my mind using manifestations. I manifested clearer skin and good health, free from any bad habit. Went cold turkey and only went back when I craved for it badly. Started logging days when I went without smoking. Of course it was coupled with exercise and diet as well and I got completely free in 14 days. Hope it helps ❤
This is a great summary of a super helpful book. Once I had got my procrastination under control the Atomic Habits approach made me reach my language goals. I can truly say that these 3 steps worked for me: 1.From James Clear’s Atomic Habits: knowing that I was only going to work for 2-10 minutes a day on French helped me focus on developing the habit. It was pressure but kinda “fun” pressure to know this was my learning window and it was closing in a matter of minutes. 2. I kept my focus high in that 2-10 minute daily learning window by using the contrarian procrastination method from Michael Kennedy Your Success Method - removing my mental obstacles from prior failures and the everyday life barriers was key for me in getting going and keep committed. 3. James Clear in Atomic Habits talks about keeping the habit chain unbroken - this is super powerful shit if you are even vaguely competitive. After about 10 days straight of keeping the chain going and literally drawing an unbroken chain on my calendar (like he describes) I couldn’t face the very visual shame of the failure of a break in the chain. It's small things like this reinforced every day that cemented the habit in me. I’m now waaaay better at French than before this approach - although not fluent or close to that - but six months in I can now finally see my own path to fluency - I’d say this was my breakthrough moment. 😊 Seeing the progress I have made doing only these 3 steps every day and knowing that this has gotten easy for me now (habit formed) makes me feel I can scale up and achieve whatever I can commit to. So freaking exciting to change up after years of stagnation and failures. I have a bunch of other goals I want to achieve now and I think it's all possible. I’m so thankful for these two books and videos like this that make the knowledge accessible 👏
Moi aussi. Par contre, je me suis servi de cette méthode pour améliorer mes peintures. Tous les soirs, je consacre 2 minutes (qui deviennent toujours 2 heures, tant que je m'y applique, une fois commencée), à la peinture ou au moins au dessin. Mes capacités se sont incroyablement augmentées. Bonne continuation avec ton français!! Bravo!!
@@baigskt I would recommend reading it. This summary is good yes, but in this book all aspects were described in detail. That's the reason why I would read it if I were you.
From James Clear's "Atomic Habits," I've learned that effective habit formation is not solely reliant on willpower or motivation, but rather on the design of our systems. Clear's insights emphasize the importance of creating an environment conducive to success, making small changes that accumulate over time, and understanding the psychology behind habit formation. I particularly appreciate his approach of focusing on systems rather than solely on goals, as it aligns with the idea that consistent, small actions lead to significant long-term results. The practical strategies outlined in the book, such as making time for new habits, overcoming lack of motivation, and designing environments for success, resonate deeply with me. Clear's concept of falling to the level of our systems, rather than rising to the level of our goals, is a powerful reminder of the importance of building effective habits. I'm eager to delve into "Atomic Habits" to further explore Clear's insights and apply them to my own life. The promise of learning how to overcome habit breakdowns and tap into latent potential is incredibly enticing, and I believe this book has the potential to make a significant positive impact on my personal growth journey.
10:32 if you are one of those who live in a shoebox like me where everything i do is on a desk next to the bed, going out of the room and setting the intention before going back in and sitting down on the exact same seat actually helped to shift the mindset. great video and summary! much appreciated!
I agree 10000%! I have my pc where I watch shows and game on the same desk in the same room where I study. I always go outside into the balcony or living room to take a breather and then go back in to immediately study or work without touching my pc. Also don't get up from your desk to bed to sleep, that completely ruins your rythm. Keep moving between rooms and go in a room with a sole intention and that intention only. Breaks all distractions and works like magic.
There is also trick used, that they also did study on- You can use your desk-lamp only when you are learning/studying, and after a while your brain starts to focus everytime you turn your lamp on and will know its time to study, because it will bind learning and lamp together nicely.
I'm 73 years old and still learning how to get myself to accomplish what I say I want accomplish. My time is running out. Don't get me wrong, I've had a great life so far and being retired is the best job I've had so far. My goal is to write some stories like the ones I read when I was a new teenager. These are stories that made me determined to become an electronics engineer. Song story short, I've had a wonderful career designing and programming hardware with commuters in them. I made good money and, most importantly, I loved it. I love stories in books and in moving pictures. I've read over thirty five books this year so far. I thought this would make it easy for me to write similar stories. It wasn't. I think Atomic Habits and this video are going to be a great help in changing my system to something that will help me accomplish this. I have done it for my fitness. I started walking an hour and a half almost three years ago and it was easy. Somehow almost by accident, I created a habit of rising before dawn and walking about five miles five or six times per week. It was easy but I didn't know why. This video based on Atomic Habits made me realize that I deployed some of those principals accidentally. Now I'm going to apply them on purpose to my writing. NaNowRimo (National Novel Writing Month) is starting in November. The goal is to write 50,000 words in November. That's about 1613 words per day. That's a lot of words but, the real goal is to write some every day and that's what I'm going to do. Thank you B.C. Marx, you have inspired me to create a new system that supports my writing goals.
In terms of the crypto space, I personally took two months to learn the importance of operating in the right manner, and it was through adapting that I was able to save myself from potential losses. I am grateful for the expertise of John Joseph in this area.
What makes John Joseph stand out from other account managers is his ability to adapt to changing situations. His managerial skills are unmatched, and his weekly signals have proven to be profitable. Many others are working with him as well, which is a pleasant surprise.
Wow, that is amazing to hear! I'm glad that John's trading strategy and services have been so effective for you. Doubling your monthly salary in just seven working days is truly impressive.
Wow. I spent 7 years being at rock bottom as a drug addict. I finally got my life together about 18 months ago. WHERE was this video/book when I needed it? This video explains exactly what took me 7 years of hardcore suffering to figure out.
the chapters of this video are pretty solid 3:05 goals and SYSTEMS to achieve the goals 3:35 succesful and unsuccesful people share the same goals!! 4:04 4:10 goals are good for setting the direction,but systems are best for making progress 4:25 it is not because of you ,it is because you have the wrong system for change 4:45 just as atoms are the building blocks of the universe, atomic habits are the building blocks of remarkable results 5:10 the best way to change your habits is to focus on the person you want to become instead of the results that you want 5:16 the goal is to become that succesful person you should look up to 5:29 remind yourself everytime you workout, I am an athlete and a heavyweight 5:45 everytime you write code,you are a programmer. and everytime you instruct a team you are a leader 7:10 the 4 laws that will guide us to do it law 1 make it obvious 7:25 write down your habit behaviours on your score card 7:45 until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and call it fate 8:08 what you need is a time and a place that will promote doing the things to become succesful 8:19 say and write down I will do this at this time and this location 8:34 habbit stacking=tie a desired habit to an existing habit; after habit B I will habit A 9:22 more influenced by the environment then willpower or motivation 9:30 hard for positive habits in negative environments 9:45 make the cues visible and obvious 10:02 more like the relationship with the objects from the environment determines our behavious 10:08 imagine it as a place filled with relationships 10:35 the mantra; one space one use 10:43 10:49 the best thing to get rid of a bad habit is to make in invisible,for example put it in other room,hide the tv remote somewhere deep, dont buy cheap crap 11:05 make good things attractive 11:20 dopamine and feedback loops dopamine vital to voluntary movement, motivation, learning, memory, punishment 11:55 dopamine release not only when they experience pleasure,but also when they expect IT gambling addicts biggest pleasures are right before placing a bet 12:28 the craving causes us to take action in the first place 13:25 find groups where the habit desired is the norm 13:4013:4513:5214:0014:22 online platforms thrive from catering and appealing to the primal underlying motives of the human nature 14:31 your habits are modern day solutions to ancient desires 14:5515:0515:20 reprogramming the mind making hard habits attractive by associating them with positive experiences cleaning the house=clean house saving money=more money 15:25 make bad habits unatractive make good habits easy 15:3615:3915:4215:4615:52 forming habits should be measured in number of repetitions not in time 16:0816:1216:48 reducing friction the law of least effort=rerouting, arranging places, reorganizing objects and their relationships 16:5316:55 priming the environment for use I will layour my workout stuff the night before so I can easily get the workout done 17:17 using the 2 minute rule to stop procrastinating 17:2517:3017:33 start with a scaled down version of your habit repeat the habit CONSISTENTLY EVERY SINGLE DAY 17:4717:55 create barriers between yourself and bad habits leave your credit card if you have bad spending habit 18:1418:30 make it satisfying most important rule this feels good,lets repeat it 18:4319:1219:20 add immediate pleasure for good habits,rewarding 19:5520:0820:2320:2520:45 necesary to have a habit tracker,to be able to value the work and reward the most important thing is do the work everyday,never miss out,never chicken out, even if you dont finish it all,all the workouts it definitly matters that you showed up and did something 21:1521:30 the habit contract,how to hold yourself and be held by others accountable write verbal/written contracts and hold yourself accoutable with them and make people hold you accountable with them 21:4022:2825:5326:4027:0027:1027:40 list of bad/good habits push bad habits everyday and pull good habits
I'm very pleased and grateful to have the oppurtunity to be able to acess and watch this masterpiece. I wish everyone that 2022 becomes the change year for the ones that really commited and are positive with and really wanna try to change their life/habits. Best of luck and be connectec with your true you!
This video quite literally changed my life, i have changed so much since 5 months ago. Past me seems so far and distant, so I do have some advice for those who are following the same path of self improvement. Take it slow, at first i started to walk every day for a month, then the next month i started to jog, then as soon as i realized it, i was running every other day. Then this caused me to start lifting weights causing me to become more focused and busy. Now, dont get me wrong, those times were hard, really hard, and i know that the future will be even harder, but dont give up. One of the most influential aspects of my improvement was meditation and practicing stoicism. This will differ for different people, but find a habit that causes you to reflect upon yourself, to discover who you are. Write in a journal, or meditate. Do something, it really does help. as a side note, I guess this could be a of a time capsule for me, to measure the stages of my life, coming back to edit as i see fit. Edit 1: I have finished Atomic Habits by James Clear, and can say it is a really good and interesting book if you would like to learn about the inner workings of habits. Concise lessons of magnitude packed into a small handheld book, its powerful. After reading it, I have more clarity in what i am doing. Recently, times have been tough, i have fallen off track, relapsing into bad habits, but I am in the process of recovering, a necessary roadblock to change. Cheers, and until next time -salmonnumber4. 2/12/2024 In the future, I will look back upon this post and edit it with any new information. Now I know no one will probably see this but, I want you to improve, to become better one step at a time. You can do it, I believe in you. You got this, just believe, take the leap and live your new life now. ❤
I love how he's building his habits on the exact ones I needed which are "working out" and "studying". I'm also currently reading this book and I think he covered the content pretty nicely.
"Environment is the invisble hand that shapes behavior." Such a powerful observation. One must recognize the environment they are in, take control of it, and evolve/adapt/escape to create the most positive environment possible to enable themselves for the maximum potential.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 2 months ago about self development and now have 74 subs and almost 55 hour watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so much lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place
@@thecommunity4965 I now have 270 subs and almost 100 hrs of watch time! Thanks for asking I realized that the main reason for doing this is not about the success but the inspiration I've been providing some people with my stories while helping others do the same as I shared the lessons & experiences through making videos to have a sense of meaningful purpose. Therefore, I’m planning to quit nursing to pursue youtube full time as there are lots of issues in our traditional health systems as these don’t align with my values. It’s a huge learning curve but I love helping people through making videos. Also, as part of my video creation progress, I’m switching to a better editing software and a camera so the learning curve is much higher and slows down the completion speed of my next videos so please hang on tight! I do appreciate your support and kind words! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! 🙂
@@Emp31 Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say based on what you said that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my RUclips channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a RUclipsr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this RUclips thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)
I think the 2-minute strategy is brilliant. You just show up and encourage yourself to do just a little bit more, and eventually, you have a new routine.
Nice Summation. Based on it I bought the book yesterday. My life was transformed in 24 hours. No joking. I went from being a total slob for 50 years to having a clean house that will stay clean and get cleaner every day by just attaching the habit to the act of closing my laptop. I've also done 70 squats and run wind sprints today (by attaching them to a habit). And I've eaten healthy without any issue. That's in 36 hours and it wasn't even hard to do! Thanks for the summary. It's had 9 million views, so RUclips has probably thanked you financially, but thanks personally.
I bought this book last year and still now I have not even read a single page yet.. this video is really helpful. Thanks a lot bro. This really helped.
I can't believe I've found someone who explained everything about me in only few minutes. Not only my habits but what I've done, what I'm aiming and the way I do it before.
Yes! These are the reasons I enjoy RUclips and facebook. I learn from others actions/reactions. Everything we want to learn is right in front of us. Doing it, requires systems. Can't just watch 1 video and expect to know it.
The environment bit is spot on. I lived in a toxic envirinment for decades and kept self-sabotaging throughout, in spite of having read tons of similar books as that. Good job, and good luck on your new lifestyle!
I have owned the book for years. I never read it because the thought of reading it seemed overwhelming in my busy life. Thank you so much for creating an impactful summary I can chew on in small bites, and make improvements in my life.
i watched this video almost exactly 2 months ago and i cant stress enough the tsunami of changes that has altered the course of my life in the best way possible. ive never been so motivated and gotten so much work done all by these "atomic habits" in the most healthy, non-toxic way ever, im the most productive ive been in a long time
it's frustrated when staying at the valley of disappointment. but it's more hurtful to fall into that valley time after time. so be consistent to go ahead until we make a breakthrough.
This is an underrated comment. I wholeheartedly agree with you. The pain of starting over and over prolongs that time spent in the valley of disappointment and if we are able to create good systems to go through it one time instead of a million times then we won't be in the valley nearly as long as we would be otherwise. We'll "break through" like you said.
This was truly a masterpiece from start to finish. Not only did you neatly sum up the book, but your personal application at the end was eye opening to me. Now I have a better idea as to how I'll be using this new information. Thank you
When people talk about "Self care," this video describes what I think that really means. Or at least, should mean. Never underestimate how powerful it is to just sit down and do a little bit of housekeeping in your brain.
As a person who hasn't read the book, your video helps me get to know what this book talks about. Moreover, your presentation somehow helped me find room for criticism about this book. Thank you for sharing a video that helped me point out the good side and the bad side of the idea in this book. I appreciate it.
That part about making separate zones in your house really works! I was already doing this for about a year or so. And then I saw this video and was like “Yo, I’m on the right track”. I turned my basement into a 1.music studio zone. 2. Workout Zone with weights, pull up bar and more. 3. Study zone (prayer, studying and reading) And I constantly keep it very neat and tidy every week.
Just gonna throw this out there. As an over-thinker I really liked this. A lot of true facts, and very helpful in understanding. So, from an over-thinker's brain, find a "distraction" that's productive / life-fulfilling and a lot will change. There is one for everyone!
@@averyelizabethlunn8980 Sure, any distraction that makes you forget about what your doing. It could be seen as "a waste of time". I'm told that Video games are a distraction, driving, Talking to people about our social lives, are all "a waste of time", but I've gotten to understand so much from it. And now I'm on the verge of starting a business just from talking to family and friends, I would of never thought it could happen. The hardest part is being confident that what I'm doing is not a waste of time..
I unconsciously went and sat in a coffee shop to listen to this video and halfway through realized I accidentally did what the book was all about: getting out of my appartment to avoid negative cues and using the link in my brain between coffee bars and reading/writing in order to absorb the information more easily. I get it now!
I love the analogy of compound interest being used effortlessly to describe the many benefits of habit-forming and how small changes compound into great long-term habits and outcomes. It goes to show, that fundamentally, it's in our best interest to work on the small yet important things; improving by 1% every day doesn't sound like much, but it will inevitably improve our lives in many ways.
So you love the only thing that makes no sense. You know 1% sounds small but is actually very large after a while? Math isn't magic, the large change you see on the graph, that's meant to be all your own doing. That 1% compound goal will become unsustainable after a while.
As a person that often feels trapped in their unhealthy & unproductive routines by their ADHD, I can say that the valley of disappointment is very real. This video on the other hand gave me hope!!! Thank you for working hard while making this video that inspired me to start small and better myself!
I feel you. I have this perfectionist annoying attitude. I don't know why I'm stuck on this for so long . I keep fighting it because I dont finished anything and at the end of the day I regret what I did. Spending so much time to perfect things that doesn't matter.
This strategy can actually give such good results (at least for me). You just don't care about goals, you just do some things daily which are necessary to achieve the goals. If you focus on your progress daily, you will be disappointed but if you see your progress in months/years, you will be satisfied, but never chase the high achieving a goal because it will create bad habits and lead to disappointment.
For the people who think doing little can lead to big like he is explaining in the beginning. I stopped having more then 1 snack a day. I lost over 10 pounds in 2 months
@@Trusttheprocessagain Everyone has a metabolism, you wouldn’t exist without one. I lost 10kg (22lb) from switching my daily snacks with a sugar free tea instead. Placing blame on unhealthy eating habits on metabolism/genetics is just copium.
I slept on this video for the whole 3 weeks and decided to watch it now. As I was watching it, I realized how greatly the video is done and started to wonder if there must be a big team behind this video and I'll check them out later. I finished the video, fully, subscribed, and read the About which left me in awe. All this is done by one person! I know what is required to make such content. I would like to thank you very much for this video, this is so very helpful and I'm sharing this with all my friends right away. thanks again!!
I started with 100 push ups a day. I was already pretty fit but I want to become much stronger. 3 months later I'm at a minimum of 500 a day. I started out with just the pushups, but now I regularly go the gym and exercise every part of my body. I've also started eating healthier food and more of it, as well as drinking a lot more water. I feel like a new person, and I'm just getting started. Thank you for this fantastic video, it was a huge help to me getting started.
WoW....James Clear! I am only 7 minutes and 16 seconds into watching this video and my mind is blown! Thank you for clarifying my perspective and life-changing insight.
I can't count all the "wows" and mindblowing moments I got while watching, the presentation is absolutely stunning ! Such a quality production, you have my wow for that ! And the content in itself is so nurturing and smart. This book was on my list but it's getting my priority now thanks to you. Thank you so much for this perfect, clear, educative resume.
I’ve listened to this video about 4-5 times while working , but now I’m ready to watch it and take notes. What an outstanding presentation and distillation of info broken down so we can easily put everything to great use. I truly appreciate all of your work and creativity❤️
A teacher of mine suggested me this book. Some People might think that a book can't change our lives, but I can tell that it is posible. This book is an eye-opener. It helps foucusing on the most important habits and get rid of the usseless ones.
This is actually one of the few motivation coaches who seem to actually have a real system instead of just vague motivation rules. That doesn't mean that I think that he is THE coach, but certainly the systematic approach (= heuristics) definitely is much more valuable long-term and I can personally confirm this. His system also seems to work on (Kantian) transcendental logic, and variable structures in his formulas. I will try his concept and look forward to what results I will be achieving.
I have just finished reading Atomic Habits, and this amazingly beautiful video popped up in my recommendations, I feel super lucky and blessed because I was going to summarize the book in format like this! You are a savior! Special thanks for sharing how you applied the books' ideas into your practice! This is a LIFE-CHANGING video like "changing 1 degree in trajectory of a plane's flight " !
Every sentence is packed with information and insight. I'm going to have to rewatch the videos to fully appreciate it all, but I'm sure I'll enjoy watching it every time. The visuals are great too. And the best part is you're not holding back - I love a *detailed* summary! Subscribed!
I just wanted to say thank you because 2 years ago when you uploaded this video it appeared on my recommended when I was at the lowest and also pinnacle of bad habits. I constantly ate junk food not knowing what it would do to me and this video led me to a journey of self improvement. I just wanted to say thank you. If it wasn’t for this I wouldn’t have been on self improvement and I wouldn’t have been in the gym grinding and I wouldn’t have a RUclips channel popping off now. Thanks man
This is an awesome breakdown and it's incredible how much we have to work on not being distracted in this crazy age we live in. Personally, I wake up, have coffee, and turn on freedom, which is a program that blocks apps and websites, and that gets me through the work day. In the evening I usually read, and in the beginning it was difficult, but somehow that flipped in my brain and now I find a good book more satisfying than a good movie or video game. When my brain is too tired from working and reading I get on a treadmill and walk and light-jog while I watch some youtube or a movie. With outcomes I'm still in the valley of disappointment after almost a year, but I feel good with my progress each day so there's that, and at this point relapse into bad habits seems unlikely.
I kinda just blind myself to the future/past and only focus on the present, and generally make what I feel are "good" decisions on a moment to moment basis. This has yielded fantastic results so far, but I get the feeling this method of self improvement wont last. Thank you for this invaluable video, I'll definitely be applying at least some if not all practices spoken of.
Coming back here after 5 months just to let you know that I've watched your video yet again and it really does help in making my life better and improving my habits. Just a little motivation to show that these things you do really do help people! Keep it up!
I also got a lot better with this method in just 2 years. I no longer think of myself as a failure, in fact, I don't even believe in the concept of it.
This book always seemed daunting to me, I have so many goals I want to achieve, so many bad habits I want to break. But this video helped me realize that I need to make little changes first and worry about those goals later. The examples you gave were incredibly helpful, throughout the whole video I was coming up with ideas how to implement the theories and tips in my every day life. And not only that, I suddenly saw how I could help and advise people who have expressed their dissatisfaction with their life to me. Like my parents who want to stop being overweight, or my younger brother who keeps skipping his homework and studying in favor of playing games. Incredible video, super helpful! I feel like I'll be very thankful for this video years later.
I recently considerably reworked my sleep schedule, and I feel like that change has brought way more to me than I ever could've imagined. Because now that I wake up at 3:30 am every day instead of 12pm, now that I've managed to change something about myself, I feel like everything else I've ever wanted to do is within reach, as silly as it sounds. I did this by moving up my alarm by 10-15 minutes every day, and using the application "alarmy" to set an alarm that requires me to take a picture of my sink in order to stop ringing, so as to force me to get up
@@severrd550 Even students have a general work-day schedule. My whole point is that though merulox might've been helped by this, it's terrible anecdotal support considering he could've made just about any change in his life and improved, and the fact he over shot all the way to 3:30 basically just tells me he didn't improve at all.
Thank you for the video. This video has changed my life. I am now a reader, first book I read is Atomic Habits and I decided to become a lifetime learner. Remember James Clear said, "Habits are compound interest of self improvement"
Thank you for becoming the person who's stepped out of themselves to realise, change and share this information. Your intentions are of the purest form and greatly appreciated! I express my highest gratitude to you sir! A lot of effort has gone into this.. absolutely amazing!
He sure has put himself out there and neck on the chopping block. Courageous is what i'd say. Some solid street smarts in there too. This guys no fool. ty 4 all friend.
The part about cues being tied to rewards really resonated with me. I used to be a drug addict and when I was, I would get excited at the process of having to find a dealer, even though it’s a huge pain and stressful, I started liking it because my brain associated it with the very strong reward of getting high.
This is one of the best summaries of a book I've ever seen. Very thorough and well-explained, but not to the point of dissuading me from purchasing the book. The graphics are also well-presented and kept me interested. Thank you.
You are right, they are really good. It feels like you have a critical eye for evaluation. I have explained the book 'The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.' Will you evaluate it?
I would say that having a forward/positive mindset is the most important trait. People acknowledge all these bad habits but many don't believe they can fix them or even consider changing for the better. If you tell yourself you can't do it, you'll certainly have an extremely rough time, but if you tell yourself you can do it, than its not impossible and you can have the motivation or confidence to actually do that task. I'm not trying to be corny with all this talk but people using excuses such as procrastination and being too lazy are already putting themselves down. Its definitely hard to avoid or ignore negativity in life but if you endure those unpleasant times, it will put you in a much better position mentally, physically, etc. Make sure to always take care of your body and prioritize yourself before anything or anyone else; I believe in all of you!
I almost didnt watch this video because its 28minutes long, but so glad that I did! FINALLY a motivational video that I actually find helpful because of the practical advice
You're that one kid everyone wanted in their presentation group. Seriously this is amazing production quality.
Aside from misspelling Carl Jung, this was indeed a great pres
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YES I want you in my presentation group hahahah !!!
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This is mind blowing. OMG!!!!!!
"The Goal is not to run a marathon, it's to become a runner."
I think this is an awesome mindset because not only does it help you stick to your habits, but it will make you comfortable with failure. Even if you don't complete that marathon, you're still a runner and it won't put you off trying again.
It also supports the idea that "personal image/identity" is a more effective way of forming or breaking habits over setting goals.
For example, in the context of breaking bad habits, when someone is trying to quit smoking, they usually say "I'm trying to quit so I shouldn't" when it's more effective to say "I'm not a smoker so I don't smoke".
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@@user-nermush_21 Thanks! I hadn't realised it gained a few likes until now!
not only that, if you just want to run the marathon, after you do it you'll probably stop working out. However, if you're a runner, you can't stop after running the marathon, you have to keep training or else you won't be a real runner
"get rid of social media" seems to be the number one key element in any of these type of motivational/life coaching-videos!
4 years post Fake-Book best business has increased 10 fold since I left the toxic fake brain washing platform!
I have got rid of most of the social media around 6 months ago. I keep RUclips because I use a lot of learning videos. But the rest like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, ... I cancelled. It is awesome...
Which is a terrible, exaggerated suggestion. Using social media wisely is a better course of action. Like a tool, you should use it but not abuse it. You wouldn’t even be able to watch these videos without social media.
Lol people that let social media fuck with their lives suck😂 just use it to get money and you won’t be having a toxic relationship with it
I think the true and important difference is that social media should be controlled and used with purpose. Mindlessly scrolling on instagram will waste time and could subconsciously ruin your self esteem due to comparison. This is one example. When used consciously for specific purposes, it’s a net positive.
Secret Pathway To Triumph is so unique. I can’t believe I hadn’t heard about it sooner. It’s amazing how life-changing this can be.
I can't believe I hadn't heard about Littler Books sooner. Especially now this channel doesn't produce videos anymore.
*We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.* One of the best book ever read, with most practical advice . The idea is to be 1% better everyday
Kaisen?
Love this
@@kuznjecov yes Kaizen
reminds me of what kita from haikyuu says
yes! and wake up with purpose ... upload the subconscious every night ... then download in the morning
this could be the best review of any 'self-help' book I've ever seen. Not only a great summary... but concrete examples of how you used the knowledge to develop real systems for change. Outstanding!
I can't stop watching 💯🚀
Yea dude you get an A+++ for this.
@@alexandraalmanzar570 😛
Agreed!
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"The Goal is not to learn an instrument, it's to become a musician."
"The Goal is not to run a marathon, it's to become a runner."
Underrated words~ Thanks for helping me a better person~ You earned a sub!
"The Goal is not to run a marathon, it is to be faster than the reaper." - some guy
''Mastery'' by Robert Green :)
I think these are empty words. The musician part is for sure, if you look at it realisticaly under the current capitalist system. The relationship between all those factors like instrument types, genres, age, etc. makes it sound really stupidly oversimplified. What if a 14yo would hear this? "If I do not become a musican, it is futile to learn an instrument. If I won't make a living out of (cause that what makes someone acknowledged professional for the plebs) it is not even worth just for the sake of it?" Think about what if you"d say that to an elderly... Also running a marathon for the fun or health reasons shouldn't (and in my opinion in most case must not) lead to eager to became a runner. These are false motivations, contradicting the idea about not to chase goals but improve the system. And imho that; my friends; is more toxic than straightly getting told by boomers, that you cant make a living out of beeing musician, any artist, runner, scientist, etc...
@@angyalbandi94 We all view it differently. It's an eye opener for me because I only focused on the small things. I guess it taught me that the end goal is not just on learning an instrument but becoming a musician. If I just focus on learning an instrument then my goal is finished and I wont continue anymore since I dont have other goals. That's how I see it
I hate running though
There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.
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Bloody hell mate this production value is insane
Surprised you haven’t seen this video before- I bet you’ve read the book though ahahaha
Hi Ali.....Big fan of your channel👍...Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment.. Appreciated 🙏
sounds aussie
@@escaping.ordinary Please tell me what you use for the presentation I really need that. Btw loved the video 😄
I've been watching your summaries as well. My favorite being The Unfair Advantage.
I feel like internally, I always knew these things, but I’ve never acted on them. It’s nice to hear them plainly. :)
In the exact same boat my friend. Had it in my mind for ages but never took action
Same here
Yes like everybody dude.
literally everyone knows this things but doing a action will make you smart not by just thinking
yes, I read somewhere most people actually know what to do different, its just...they dont do it. People often know they are acting destructive, but pushing yourself to overcome your bad habits is the hard part
My notes :)
- A slight change in your daily habits can guide your life to a very different destination
- Massive success is not a result of massive steps, but small ones
- Compound effect is 1% better each day, which results in 37x better in a year
- Success is the produce of daily habits, not once-in a lifetime transformations
- Small changes are not noticeable( first stage known as valley of disappointment). To see change, you must stick to something for a while (exponential growth).
- Forget about goals, focus on systems instead. Not on the product, but the process of how you will get there
- Set specific realistic goals
- Goals are good for setting a direction, but systems are best for making progress
- Layers of behavior change: Outcomes, processes, identity. Most focus on outcomes, but successful people focus on identity or the person they want to become)
- Law 1: Make it obvious.
○ Create a habit scorecard, and label each habit positive, negative, or even
○ Unless you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate
○ Make habits clear (ex. "I will read a book for 15 minutes daily at 6am in the other bedroom", rather than "I will read this month")
○ Stack habits. After [current habit], I will [new habit]
○ Environment > Motivation. To drink more water, always have a water bottle around. To read more, always have a book nearby. Get bad habits out of sight
- Law 2: Make it attractive.
○ You can make hard habits more attractive if you can learn to associate them with a positive experience
○ Dopamine is not just linked to pleasure, but also when we anticipate it. Thus, the craving is what causes us to take action in the first place.
○ Use temptation bundling. Link working out with watching a show or listening to music, so you get something you want to do, when you do something you need to do.
○ Put yourself in the right environment. Do get fit, surround yourself with people who make going to the gym a norm.
○ Your habits are modern-day solutions to ancient desires. New versions of old vices. The underlying motives behind human behavior remain the same.
- Law 3: Make it easy
○ The more you do something, the easier it becomes over time
○ Easy habits are more likely to happen, so stick to an easy habit, and not wanting to wake up at 6 when being used to waking up at 8
○ Reduce friction from good habits, increase friction in bad habits.
○ 2-min rule to stop procrastinating. Start small with habits, work out for only 5 min to start with, or only stretch for a bit every day to start. Get the retinue anchored in place and then slowly increase the difficulty. Don’t try to do too much too soon.
- Law 4: Make it satisfying
○ What is immediately rewarded is repeated.
○ Good habits don’t feel too good short term, but feel good in the long run, so add immediate pleasure after doing a good habit.
○ Have a habit tracker
○ Lost days hurt you more than successful days help you
○ Don’t break the chain of doing a good habit.
Create a habit contract.
Thank you for putting your notes out there. I might even snatch these myself😊😈
No way
Thank you very much
Thank you
Thank you for sharing this summary!
There's a book called Success Secrets Of The Elite, it talks about how using some secret techniques you can attract a lot of money, it's not some bullshit, it's the real deal. Great video btw
I’ve always say that showing up is half the battle. You’ll be amazed what you can achieve by just showing up. My commitment to myself was to show up at work each day (5 days per week) while I was undergoing a challenging and prolonged 5 year medical treatment for a neurological disease, even though I lacked confidence due to a decrease in ability and didn’t feel 100%. I decided that I would tell no one about my challenges, but if anyone asked me to leave because my performance was inadequate, I’d leave. I got through the treatment, recovered, and thrived. I continued to acquire work skills and experience, as well as get paid, throughout the treatment.
Thank you for this inspiring comment - from someone who suffers from neuropathic pain. I've paused my studies because of it, but I'm planing to go back and start studying today.
@@marko6168 at 33 I was told my condition was degenerative and would only get worse. I wasn’t willing to give up life as I knew it (and a chance to earn a living) and resign myself to a life on the couch receiving a disability pension. I’m nearly 47 now, and look back and can see I made the right decision. My husband calls me “TC”, short for Tough Cookie. We’ve all got inner strength, even if we may not look strong, and even if there are barriers.
Glad to hear your story dear, and also very happy for you. How z u now? How z life? @H W
@@shaktipragyan1661 I made a miraculous recovery. I did not experience degeneration, as many doctors cautioned. I got better and stronger. All of the problems started in 2009 but after several years of treatment I've had many years of very normal health 😀
@@mizmelbourne Keep shining darling ❤️
Also a powerful habit I have learned:
Plan your day at the evening of the day before before going to bed. This will not only help to be more productive the next day, but also makes you sleep better because most of the possible uncertainties are already elaborated.
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mentioned in the video
and the book
Said so nicely - completely agree! 😊
My problem is getting out of bed. But having my clothes ready and having my day planned actually makes it easier for me to get up. I think a normal person would get up earlier if they don't have this stuff ready. Me, it makes me wanna hit snooze lol
That helps prevent analysis paralysis as well. You don't have to think about what choices you have, then end up doing nothing - you'll already have picked.
If you’re having trouble cleaning try making a list.
My wife bought a dry erase board and then a bunch of magnets to write on.
She put chores that take max 5 minutes on each one. Sweeping, wiping counters, scrub toilets etc.
Every time we finish a chore we take it off the board. This gamification of chores has helped us keep our house clean.
You get a sense of accomplishment from removing a magnet and when you see the chore is done you feel amazing at the cleanliness.
We try to make our way through the list in 7 days or less. But never being hard on ourselves if we don’t accomplish it.
Can you tell me it's name, or a link to amazon if available? Thanks
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@@hussainalmukhles3951 I'm using Qudoo, which is helping us a lot, but there are others too I think
I started using those squishy ring wrist bands I put 5 min max chores. The wrist band bother me until I get it done. Well when I get it one doneI just put it in the basket for tomorrow.
"The Goal is not to run a marathon, it's to become a runner."
I think this is an awesome mindset because not only does it help you stick to your habits, but it will make you comfortable with failure. Even if you don't complete that marathon, you're still a runner and it won't put you off trying again.
“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems” - James Clear
I have already ready this book and this is the perfect summary. I recommend everyone to read it.
Good effort to make such summaries. 👍
Just repackaged wisdom from pre-Greek times. Participation is more important than Competition (to Win on Olympic games).
The problem is the Savage Competitive (Capitalist) System :( Cooperation helped Human Survival & Progress ;)
I think the hardest part is working on oneself. That doesn't mean we can't ask for some kind of help. On my channel, I also work on well-being routines. They are simpler, but short-term goals help in not getting frustrated too quickly. Greetings.
"We feel good about our bad habits immediately, but very bad about them in the long run."
"We feel bad about our good habits immediately, but very good about them in the long run."
@@carlosfloresherrera5893 two videos with same title
ima put this quote on my wall... someday... (hint for someone to tell me to put it up now)
@@chopinfrederic5040 Bro did you even watch the video💀
@@chopinfrederic5040 DO IT
Absolutely 👍
i’m going to be 39 years old in March of 2022. I told my friend in December I would have a six pack by my birthday. Her laugh or disbelief boosted my habit. Now, one month away, I’m pretty much there now. So, yes, it works.
Very awesome, happy early birthday and rock the 6 pack this summer!
@@moldymoss3991 - 🙏
@@yoursubconscious wht did you do? do you go to the gym?
@@jameswilliam9965 - no gym for me, James. Luckily I have a 12kg iron kettle bell (picked it up years ago, but with little use before). It is my little baby more than ever now. Besides that, food habits. I always ate clean so it was just a matter of cutting my craving for sweets and enjoying the cheat days. If you're on your way, rock on. Just discipline yourself and you should be be fine. You know the game of mindset.
@@yoursubconscious ayo nice keep grinding sigma
Has anyone read "Nuclear Habits" by Ben Furey? i found it to be very thought provoking!
@@davidross9365 no joke
@@davidross9365 why please ?
I’ve deleted Facebook, I started reading books and listening to podcast last april, I started meditating last june, I started exercising (jumping rope) last august, and I can tell that I’ve improved so much.
In my STEM classroom Im always the one reciting and active, my teachers also love the way I talk to them, my classmates look up to me like a valedictorian or something🤷 my classmates always asks to teach them in physics/biology. I also became a night owl person(I dont know why). I did all of it even without knowing this book tho, I still feel grateful for summarizing this book and getting it straight to the point.
Thank you❤️
Are you studying biomedical engineering?
How can you even survive without FB here in Philippines esp the primary mode of communication now is FB messenger? Esp in these online class times
@@soonsuicidal I use messenger, not fb, I also chose modular learning not online class, we only use google meet when there is a consultation in our school.
@@Pclub4ever sorry to say, but, no mate.
Being a night owl is linked to high intelligence according to some articles and yt videos. Take it with a grain of salt though.
THANK YOU ! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Due to severe ADHD I can no longer read physical books and even audio books are challenging to me. Your presentations in VISUAL form...I get it! I finally can understand what a book is about. I'm 55 years old and I finally can understand. THANK U SO MUCH!!
❤️
I am just like you Samantha. I feel you.
Me too. I'm 40 years and 2 months. I believe I can fix my ADD
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For anyone trying to use their phone less, I highly recommend changing the settings to grayscale so that your phone doesn't display color. It makes the stuff on the screen look dull in comparison to real life and will make you way less tempted to scroll through photos & videos.
@@nightapplepoisonapple7149 happy I could help! Cheers to your success
Hmm, never thought about it, interesting, I will try it and see if it works..
yes, and on the iphone it's just a triple-click away to quickly change to greyscale (or back when needed)
@@lifeflame turn off that setting, and more friction created!
@@scape. oh i like it with the triple click. too much friction and I wouldn't even bother using it...
You have brought the whole 300-page book to this 28-minute visual presentation. I love your presentation skill. Thank you!
It's a good book. Can't be considered a waste of money. Better than spending money on junk foods
Still it is worthy reading those 300 pages.
Goals are good
For setting a direction,
But systems are best
for making progress.
- James Clear
Brilliant quote!
Added to which life and the now always changes and goals can chain you to something that no longer makes the most sense.
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This was FULL of great advice about habit formation, but what stood out to me most:
"DON'T BREAK THE CHAIN - lost days hurt you more than successful days help you."
That is too true. I'll try to keep that in mind as I work out, study Spanish, practice keyboarding, etc.
tumhari maa randi 💯💞
It's great to learn your studying spanish. I'm Colombian, and I learned English to get a good job, keep it up so you can visit our beautiful country and try our traditional and delicious food. Te deseo muchos éxitos 😊
I have read the book twice. But this video just gave me more perspective about what author was trying to communicate. I believe it just how meticulously you have summarized this book.
Kudos my brother!! 👍👍
Hey Mateen ....Thanks for sharing and leaving a comment .... have a great day :)
Always try to condense or summarize non-fiction books.
@@escaping.ordinary OP0
Successful investing is hard work because it means disciplining your mind to do the opposite of human nature. Buying during a panic, selling during euphoria, and holding on when you are bored and just craving a little action. Investing is 5% intellect and 95% temperament.
Government policy has thrown the future under the bus for decades. The day of judgment is near. I predict an 80% drop in the stock market. Investors will abandon stocks in favor of real estate. There will be no money in banks... You must devise a strategy for survival.
It's often true that people underestimate the importance of financial advisors until they feel the negative effects of emotional decision-making. I remember a few summers ago, after a tough divorce, when I needed a boost for my struggling business. I researched and found a licensed advisor who diligently helped grow my reserves despite inflation. Consequently, my reserves increased from $275k to around $750k.
Recently, I've been considering the possibility of speaking with consultants. I need guidance because I'm an adult, but I'm not sure if their services would be all that helpful.
I've shuffled through investment coaches and yes, they can be positively impactful to an individual's portfolio, but do your due diligence to find a coach with grit, one that withstood the 08' crash. For me, Rolando Diaz turned out to be better and smarter than all the advisors I ever worked with till date, I’ve never met anyone with as much conviction.
Thanks for the advice, It’s reassuring to hear positive experiences.
I feel more confident about moving forward with Rolando Diaz now. Thanks for sharing your experiences!
So true, I especially like the part about bad days and how to not let that get in the way. I improved my life tremendously in my senior year of high school, I basically dedicated the entire time to self improvement. Went from 220 pounds to 160, got really fit, and basically just enjoyed life to the max. About a year later I got a mild injury at the gym which caused me to start breaking all these good habits and I got fat again within another year. Now I’m getting fit again and going to dedicate myself to keeping good habits, I know it’s possible since I’ve done it before, all that’s needed is to stick to it.
Are you applying the “easy “ switch in regards to eating?
Great to hear keep it up 💪
I have a similar story. I was feeling good, at a healthy weight then hurt my knee on a run, May 5th 2020. Put on 20 lbs in about 3 months.
Wow!🧠👏👍💪
That's an incredible journey you're on. Seeing that you've changed before, I believe that you'll be able to revert to your good habits again!
Hey there! I'm one of those who didn't read the book, so I took notes from this video. I've noticed that the mapping here is a bit messy, so I've worked on my notes a bit more to improve the structure and make them easier to quickly browse over. I suggest doing it by yourself for better memory, but it costs me nothing to share anyway. Some typos and mistakes are possible.
CUE - MAKE IT OBVIOUS
1. Habit scorecard
Write down daily behaviors
Rate (positive/negative/neutral)
2. Stacking habits
"After [current habit] I will [new habit]"
3. Implementation strategy
Set specific time & place
4. Design your environment
Zoning
Place cues in sight
Make bad habits invisible
CRAVING - MAKE IT ATTRACTIVE
1. Temptation bundling
Combine musts & needs (Premack principle)
2. Group influence
Mingle with positive people
3. Reprogram perception of hard habits
Shift the mindset
Associate with positive experience & image
Make bad habits unattractive
RESPONSE - MAKE IT EASY
1. Reduce friction
Make habits easier to follow, more convenient
2. Prime your environment
Prepare for execution of the task
3. Two-minute rule
Start small
Scale down the task to 2 min & build up
Make bad habits inconvenient
REWARD - MAKE IT SATISFYING
1. Immediate consequence
Habit contract
Reward for good habits
Punishment for bad habits
2. Habit tracking
Create sensory indicators of progress
Celebrate success
Accountability partner
3. Deal with bad days & failures
Don't break the chain of continuity
Show up
Make bad habits unpleasant
STAY PATIENT & FOCUS ON SYSTEMS, NOT JUST GOALS
I juz wanna say thank you. I do the same thing in college ... always simplify the lecturer's notes in classes for easier and faster revisions later. Itz a good systemm of learning. Another two ways are ...
2. Revise the notes a few times.
3. Teach or share with others for better self-understanding ( the more you share, the deeper it ingrains into your subconscious.
Thank you,❤️
Thank you so much, I appreciate it a lot.
thanks for this structure it helped alot
Thanks, this helped me revisit the 28 mins content quickly.
Can confirm that the atomic habits approach to life does indeed work. When I was younger I would always struggle with drawing. Once I learned about the 1% better every day tip and the 2 minute rule, and put those into practice, I made more progress in 6 months than I had made in 10 years. This year I added learning Japanese to my every day routine and now I practice that 7 days a week, along with my drawing practice. Oh sure, I'm not a master of either skill, but I'm definitely way further along than I would have been if I had never tried improving myself by just a little bit every single day. They've also opened more doors for me in terms of having more people to converse with about those subjects. You won't notice the results right away, but if you keep at it you will reach a breakthrough moment. It's like leveling up in an RPG.
Although I got financially wrecked this year thanks to car trouble and inflation, my overall productivity was better than the last 4 years combined. Next year I plan to stack other habits like learning more about 3D modeling/animation, and practicing how to play music. I have a lot of creative ideas I want to put out into the world and atomic habits are helping me achieve that. So yeah, in summary.... LEARN TO APPLY THIS SHIT TO YOUR LIFE BECAUSE IT WILL MAKE YOU SO MUCH HAPPIER! 😂
Good for you! I also incorporated these methods and my drawings have improved immensely over this last year. But also my enjoyment of the daily routine.
Thanks for sharing your story. I wish you the best!
congratsss, and keep on the good work McJorneil ^^
inspiring!
@Go-go 63 if u don't mind me asking, how exactly did you apply this to drawing? Do you practise 2minites a day? Or what?
@@clyreane575 I will try to answer your question. The idea behind the 2 minute rule is that it serves as a bare minimum requirement so that it's as easy as possible to get started. The easier a habit is to start, the easier it will be to continue doing in the future. In order to be good at drawing, you have to first develop the habit of drawing. Otherwise, you will get nowhere.
So by setting a goal as simple as "I will draw for at least 2 minutes," you then begin to set the building blocks for turning drawing (or any other activity) into a habit. If you set a timer on your phone for 2 minutes, you can then decide whether or not you would like to continue drawing after the timer runs out. The point is you met the minimum requirement. You defeated procrastination. You accomplished that tiny goal and it was so easy that you ought to be able to do it again the next day. And the day after that and so on.
Then eventually, 2 minutes turns into 5 minutes. 5 mins turns to 10, 15, 20, 30, an hour, etc. You're gradually leveling up your ability to consistently practice for longer and longer periods of time, and as a result you can improve much faster. Of course, it's still important to have a specific goal in mind as to what you are trying to achieve. Like becoming good at drawing hands, for example. Some days you might feel tired and unmotivated, but even something as simple as just drawing a circle will help you keep the habit alive. I can say with absolute certainty that this method works because it's exactly what I did.
This was such a GREAT and well crafted video. As a visual learner who has been putting off reading this book, this was a GREAT HELP. Good eye for colour scheme, well written and relevant points. Great job.
Wow, thank you Racquel..... and thanks for leaving a comment..... appreciated 🙏
As someone with ADHD who finds reading books sadly frustrating, I also appreciated this video.
@@Weiner-Worm I’m gonna start reading that book that I’ve been putting off
@@cjadventures8840 Ok have at it bro
well studies show that no normal person learns in a specific way but in all ways, it is an illusion that we think we learn better in certain ways.
Thank you for this powerful presentation. Absolutely perfect and outstanding skills. I am practically reading everyday going to the gym at the park and working out for 30min. Yoga 30-1hour 3-4x a week. Learning a few languages for 15minutes a day. Playing the piano for 10 minutes. Writing for 25 minutes is what I strive for and will be enjoying next in my good habits. ❤ 😊
This book is sheer magic. Made me quit smoking of 5 years in 14 days. Truly truly inspiring!
Edit : I haven't gone back to the nasty habit for those who wanna know.. the idea here is to be 1% better every day and I hear about how far I have come every day and that's mindboggling.
I have been trying the same technique for turning into a vegetarian and Its just like the first time. Vegetarian for 2 months and counting and soon to be vegan!
👍Good to hear that..
you will start again anyways
@@schnitzelhannes6431 How would rate yourself as a person on a scale of 1 to 10?
Hi thats so awesome I am wanting to kick the habit as well. Are you able to share how you applied the Atomic Habits?
@@raymondlawson1751 I started reading as a habit recently and this book was my second read after The power of subconscious mind. So I already had some idea how I can train my mind using manifestations. I manifested clearer skin and good health, free from any bad habit. Went cold turkey and only went back when I craved for it badly. Started logging days when I went without smoking. Of course it was coupled with exercise and diet as well and I got completely free in 14 days. Hope it helps ❤
This is a great summary of a super helpful book. Once I had got my procrastination under control the Atomic Habits approach made me reach my language goals. I can truly say that these 3 steps worked for me: 1.From James Clear’s Atomic Habits: knowing that I was only going to work for 2-10 minutes a day on French helped me focus on developing the habit. It was pressure but kinda “fun” pressure to know this was my learning window and it was closing in a matter of minutes. 2. I kept my focus high in that 2-10 minute daily learning window by using the contrarian procrastination method from Michael Kennedy Your Success Method - removing my mental obstacles from prior failures and the everyday life barriers was key for me in getting going and keep committed. 3. James Clear in Atomic Habits talks about keeping the habit chain unbroken - this is super powerful shit if you are even vaguely competitive. After about 10 days straight of keeping the chain going and literally drawing an unbroken chain on my calendar (like he describes) I couldn’t face the very visual shame of the failure of a break in the chain. It's small things like this reinforced every day that cemented the habit in me.
I’m now waaaay better at French than before this approach - although not fluent or close to that - but six months in I can now finally see my own path to fluency - I’d say this was my breakthrough moment. 😊 Seeing the progress I have made doing only these 3 steps every day and knowing that this has gotten easy for me now (habit formed) makes me feel I can scale up and achieve whatever I can commit to. So freaking exciting to change up after years of stagnation and failures. I have a bunch of other goals I want to achieve now and I think it's all possible. I’m so thankful for these two books and videos like this that make the knowledge accessible 👏
Moi aussi. Par contre, je me suis servi de cette méthode pour améliorer mes peintures. Tous les soirs, je consacre 2 minutes (qui deviennent toujours 2 heures, tant que je m'y applique, une fois commencée), à la peinture ou au moins au dessin. Mes capacités se sont incroyablement augmentées.
Bonne continuation avec ton français!! Bravo!!
How did you get your procrastination under control? I really struggle with procrastination 😭
I've already read this book and this summary is perfect.
I highly recommend reading this book for everyone.
this summary is enough or should i read the book
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@@baigskt 😂😂
@@baigskt I would recommend reading it. This summary is good yes, but in this book all aspects were described in detail. That's the reason why I would read it if I were you.
@@baigskt this summary will tell you things, but reading the book makes the things stick on your mind
so I would prefer reading the book
From James Clear's "Atomic Habits," I've learned that effective habit formation is not solely reliant on willpower or motivation, but rather on the design of our systems. Clear's insights emphasize the importance of creating an environment conducive to success, making small changes that accumulate over time, and understanding the psychology behind habit formation. I particularly appreciate his approach of focusing on systems rather than solely on goals, as it aligns with the idea that consistent, small actions lead to significant long-term results.
The practical strategies outlined in the book, such as making time for new habits, overcoming lack of motivation, and designing environments for success, resonate deeply with me. Clear's concept of falling to the level of our systems, rather than rising to the level of our goals, is a powerful reminder of the importance of building effective habits.
I'm eager to delve into "Atomic Habits" to further explore Clear's insights and apply them to my own life. The promise of learning how to overcome habit breakdowns and tap into latent potential is incredibly enticing, and I believe this book has the potential to make a significant positive impact on my personal growth journey.
10:32 if you are one of those who live in a shoebox like me where everything i do is on a desk next to the bed, going out of the room and setting the intention before going back in and sitting down on the exact same seat actually helped to shift the mindset. great video and summary! much appreciated!
I agree 10000%! I have my pc where I watch shows and game on the same desk in the same room where I study. I always go outside into the balcony or living room to take a breather and then go back in to immediately study or work without touching my pc. Also don't get up from your desk to bed to sleep, that completely ruins your rythm. Keep moving between rooms and go in a room with a sole intention and that intention only. Breaks all distractions and works like magic.
This is great advice. My work area is also a place of leisure, so breaking that up is critical for productivity.
thank you so much
Going to try this advice!
There is also trick used, that they also did study on- You can use your desk-lamp only when you are learning/studying, and after a while your brain starts to focus everytime you turn your lamp on and will know its time to study, because it will bind learning and lamp together nicely.
I'm 73 years old and still learning how to get myself to accomplish what I say I want accomplish. My time is running out. Don't get me wrong, I've had a great life so far and being retired is the best job I've had so far. My goal is to write some stories like the ones I read when I was a new teenager. These are stories that made me determined to become an electronics engineer. Song story short, I've had a wonderful career designing and programming hardware with commuters in them. I made good money and, most importantly, I loved it.
I love stories in books and in moving pictures. I've read over thirty five books this year so far. I thought this would make it easy for me to write similar stories. It wasn't. I think Atomic Habits and this video are going to be a great help in changing my system to something that will help me accomplish this. I have done it for my fitness. I started walking an hour and a half almost three years ago and it was easy. Somehow almost by accident, I created a habit of rising before dawn and walking about five miles five or six times per week. It was easy but I didn't know why. This video based on Atomic Habits made me realize that I deployed some of those principals accidentally. Now I'm going to apply them on purpose to my writing. NaNowRimo (National Novel Writing Month) is starting in November. The goal is to write 50,000 words in November. That's about 1613 words per day. That's a lot of words but, the real goal is to write some every day and that's what I'm going to do.
Thank you B.C. Marx, you have inspired me to create a new system that supports my writing goals.
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Literally the best content creator just released content on my favorite book which I like to revisit every few days. Bless you
Wow, thank you Orgel's! I appreciate your comment.... Have a great day :)
@@escaping.ordinary 11th 11111r 11121 is a 1st
@@escaping.ordinary mindblowing video
@@escaping.ordinary this video disserves 1 billion views
@@escaping.ordinary i don't know if you'll get to see this but what software do you use to create your animations
Thank you for the informative video. I always prioritize diversifying my investments and never invest my entire savings in one specific type or area.
In terms of the crypto space, I personally took two months to learn the importance of operating in the right manner, and it was through adapting that I was able to save myself from potential losses. I am grateful for the expertise of John Joseph in this area.
What makes John Joseph stand out from other account managers is his ability to adapt to changing situations. His managerial skills are unmatched, and his weekly signals have proven to be profitable. Many others are working with him as well, which is a pleasant surprise.
Wow, that is amazing to hear! I'm glad that John's trading strategy and services have been so effective for you. Doubling your monthly salary in just seven working days is truly impressive.
I would like to learn more about this individual that seems to be in everyone's thoughts. Is there a way I can contact him?
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Wow. I spent 7 years being at rock bottom as a drug addict. I finally got my life together about 18 months ago. WHERE was this video/book when I needed it? This video explains exactly what took me 7 years of hardcore suffering to figure out.
That's amazing. Well done, Giuseppe xxx
And somehow with all that suffering you still figured it out, very impressive!! It shows how strong you are :)
Same man I went through that aswell.. Well actually I still am :/
@@isabelfperdomo Lets not jinx him, it has only been 18 months, he has a much longer history of being self-destructive than not.
the chapters of this video are pretty solid
3:05 goals and SYSTEMS to achieve the goals
3:35 succesful and unsuccesful people share the same goals!!
4:04
4:10 goals are good for setting the direction,but systems are best for making progress
4:25 it is not because of you ,it is because you have the wrong system for change
4:45 just as atoms are the building blocks of the universe, atomic habits are the building blocks of remarkable results
5:10 the best way to change your habits is to focus on the person you want to become instead of the results that you want
5:16 the goal is to become that succesful person you should look up to
5:29 remind yourself everytime you workout, I am an athlete and a heavyweight
5:45 everytime you write code,you are a programmer. and everytime you instruct a team you are a leader
7:10 the 4 laws that will guide us to do it
law 1 make it obvious
7:25 write down your habit behaviours on your score card
7:45 until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and call it fate
8:08 what you need is a time and a place that will promote doing the things to become succesful
8:19 say and write down I will do this at this time and this location
8:34 habbit stacking=tie a desired habit to an existing habit; after habit B I will habit A
9:22 more influenced by the environment then willpower or motivation
9:30 hard for positive habits in negative environments
9:45 make the cues visible and obvious
10:02 more like the relationship with the objects from the environment determines our behavious
10:08 imagine it as a place filled with relationships
10:35 the mantra; one space one use
10:43
10:49 the best thing to get rid of a bad habit is to make in invisible,for example put it in other room,hide the tv remote somewhere deep, dont buy cheap crap
11:05 make good things attractive
11:20 dopamine and feedback loops
dopamine vital to voluntary movement, motivation, learning, memory, punishment
11:55 dopamine release not only when they experience pleasure,but also when they expect IT
gambling addicts biggest pleasures are right before placing a bet
12:28 the craving causes us to take action in the first place
13:25 find groups where the habit desired is the norm
13:40 13:45 13:52 14:00 14:22 online platforms thrive from catering and appealing to the primal underlying motives of the human nature
14:31 your habits are modern day solutions to ancient desires
14:55 15:05 15:20 reprogramming the mind making hard habits attractive by associating them with positive experiences
cleaning the house=clean house
saving money=more money
15:25 make bad habits unatractive
make good habits easy
15:36 15:39 15:42 15:46 15:52 forming habits should be measured in number of repetitions not in time
16:08 16:12 16:48 reducing friction the law of least effort=rerouting, arranging places, reorganizing objects and their relationships
16:53 16:55 priming the environment for use
I will layour my workout stuff the night before so I can easily get the workout done
17:17 using the 2 minute rule to stop procrastinating 17:25 17:30 17:33
start with a scaled down version of your habit
repeat the habit CONSISTENTLY
EVERY SINGLE DAY
17:47 17:55 create barriers between yourself and bad habits
leave your credit card if you have bad spending habit
18:14 18:30 make it satisfying
most important rule
this feels good,lets repeat it
18:43 19:12 19:20 add immediate pleasure for good habits,rewarding
19:55 20:08 20:23 20:25 20:45 necesary to have a habit tracker,to be able to value the work and reward
the most important thing is do the work everyday,never miss out,never chicken out, even if you dont finish it all,all the workouts it definitly matters that you showed up and did something
21:15 21:30 the habit contract,how to hold yourself and be held by others accountable
write verbal/written contracts and hold yourself accoutable with them and make people hold you accountable with them
21:40 22:28 25:53 26:40 27:00 27:10 27:40
list of bad/good habits
push bad habits everyday and pull good habits
thank you
Ayee Thank you bro
Wow you are very detailed and disciplined to be able to type this out, this is very helpful. Wish you success.
Thank you for the helpful index!
Thank you ❤
I'm very pleased and grateful to have the oppurtunity to be able to acess and watch this masterpiece. I wish everyone that 2022 becomes the change year for the ones that really commited and are positive with and really wanna try to change their life/habits. Best of luck and be connectec with your true you!
wishing 2022 to be the year of change to you too
Hows that goin for ya
Start now, if you're reading this
This video quite literally changed my life, i have changed so much since 5 months ago.
Past me seems so far and distant, so I do have some advice for those who are following the same path of self improvement.
Take it slow, at first i started to walk every day for a month, then the next month i started to jog, then as soon as i realized it, i was running every other day. Then this caused me to start lifting weights causing me to become more focused and busy.
Now, dont get me wrong, those times were hard, really hard, and i know that the future will be even harder, but dont give up.
One of the most influential aspects of my improvement was meditation and practicing stoicism.
This will differ for different people, but find a habit that causes you to reflect upon yourself, to discover who you are.
Write in a journal, or meditate. Do something, it really does help.
as a side note, I guess this could be a of a time capsule for me, to measure the stages of my life, coming back to edit as i see fit.
Edit 1:
I have finished Atomic Habits by James Clear, and can say it is a really good and interesting book if you would like to learn about the inner workings of habits. Concise lessons of magnitude packed into a small handheld book, its powerful.
After reading it, I have more clarity in what i am doing.
Recently, times have been tough, i have fallen off track, relapsing into bad habits, but I am in the process of recovering, a necessary roadblock to change. Cheers, and until next time -salmonnumber4. 2/12/2024
In the future, I will look back upon this post and edit it with any new information. Now I know no one will probably see this but, I want you to improve, to become better one step at a time.
You can do it, I believe in you. You got this, just believe, take the leap and live your new life now. ❤
Thanks a lot. Your comment is going to be the catalyst to a better and more disciplined life for me
@@amalkumar256 That's the spirit! I believe in you!
I love how he's building his habits on the exact ones I needed which are "working out" and "studying". I'm also currently reading this book and I think he covered the content pretty nicely.
It's the most common types of people so yeah
"Environment is the invisble hand that shapes behavior." Such a powerful observation. One must recognize the environment they are in, take control of it, and evolve/adapt/escape to create the most positive environment possible to enable themselves for the maximum potential.
@Tristan Taaen please tell me what part of the vid you quoted, and thank you! 😊
@@Katrica670 @9:32. Thank you!
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 2 months ago about self development and now have 74 subs and almost 55 hour watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so much lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place
How is it going right now
@@thecommunity4965 I now have 270 subs and almost 100 hrs of watch time! Thanks for asking
I realized that the main reason for doing this is not about the success but the inspiration I've been providing some people with my stories while helping others do the same as I shared the lessons & experiences through making videos to have a sense of meaningful purpose. Therefore, I’m planning to quit nursing to pursue youtube full time as there are lots of issues in our traditional health systems as these don’t align with my values. It’s a huge learning curve but I love helping people through making videos.
Also, as part of my video creation progress, I’m switching to a better editing software and a camera so the learning curve is much higher and slows down the completion speed of my next videos so please hang on tight! I do appreciate your support and kind words! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! 🙂
You've got ten times more subscibers now! Your comment is the perfect example of how change will truly occur if you put effort into it.
@@Emp31 Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say based on what you said that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my RUclips channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a RUclipsr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this RUclips thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)
big cheers to the visual design team for coming up with such captivating illustrations and animation
Im currently reading this book and it's eye opening. It's a unique perspective, we don't usually think how small habits can make such a big impact.
I think the 2-minute strategy is brilliant. You just show up and encourage yourself to do just a little bit more, and eventually, you have a new routine.
It really does work. Just showing up to the gym is huge even if you don’t workout in the beginning.
Nice Summation. Based on it I bought the book yesterday. My life was transformed in 24 hours. No joking. I went from being a total slob for 50 years to having a clean house that will stay clean and get cleaner every day by just attaching the habit to the act of closing my laptop. I've also done 70 squats and run wind sprints today (by attaching them to a habit). And I've eaten healthy without any issue. That's in 36 hours and it wasn't even hard to do! Thanks for the summary. It's had 9 million views, so RUclips has probably thanked you financially, but thanks personally.
are you still going strong?
@@rowun he didnt reply so he probably doesnt waste time on youtube meaning he is going strong hahah
@@Sharigloo ruclips.net/video/Pi7O_PnmI_U/видео.html clearly
Thanks for sharing - good luck Tony - small steps every day - you got this!
Thank you for sharing, all positivity for your new journey 😊✌️
I bought this book last year and still now I have not even read a single page yet.. this video is really helpful. Thanks a lot bro. This really helped.
I can't believe I've found someone who explained everything about me in only few minutes. Not only my habits but what I've done, what I'm aiming and the way I do it before.
Yes! These are the reasons I enjoy RUclips and facebook. I learn from others actions/reactions. Everything we want to learn is right in front of us. Doing it, requires systems. Can't just watch 1 video and expect to know it.
This book seriously changed my life forever! I truly encourage people to read the book. That book is powerful.
The way you said "book" 3 times in such a short comments give me big bot vibes.
@@exanimato6586 JAJA for real
@@exanimato6586 lol
The environment bit is spot on. I lived in a toxic envirinment for decades and kept self-sabotaging throughout, in spite of having read tons of similar books as that. Good job, and good luck on your new lifestyle!
I have owned the book for years. I never read it because the thought of reading it seemed overwhelming in my busy life. Thank you so much for creating an impactful summary I can chew on in small bites, and make improvements in my life.
i watched this video almost exactly 2 months ago and i cant stress enough the tsunami of changes that has altered the course of my life in the best way possible. ive never been so motivated and gotten so much work done all by these "atomic habits" in the most healthy, non-toxic way ever, im the most productive ive been in a long time
who asked cringelord
No need to give kids like ok_boomer attention. Good job Sofia! Hopefully I also become productive in the long run
@@itsarqum8086 ew who uses points and commas in a sentence creep
@@Mintsmaakk sad
@@joonal829 your mom was sad when she saw you born
it's frustrated when staying at the valley of disappointment. but it's more hurtful to fall into that valley time after time. so be consistent to go ahead until we make a breakthrough.
This is an underrated comment. I wholeheartedly agree with you. The pain of starting over and over prolongs that time spent in the valley of disappointment and if we are able to create good systems to go through it one time instead of a million times then we won't be in the valley nearly as long as we would be otherwise. We'll "break through" like you said.
This was truly a masterpiece from start to finish.
Not only did you neatly sum up the book, but your personal application at the end was eye opening to me. Now I have a better idea as to how I'll be using this new information. Thank you
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I cut out most of my sns, only using messenger & youtube, it helps
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@@lilithlee3731 what is sns?
I’ve been practicing shirlest’s hidden methods for a month now, and my life is already shifting in amazing ways.
Practice does not make perfect, but it does prove consistency over time.
huh
Practice makes progress.
Practice makes permanent.
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When people talk about "Self care," this video describes what I think that really means. Or at least, should mean. Never underestimate how powerful it is to just sit down and do a little bit of housekeeping in your brain.
As a person who hasn't read the book, your video helps me get to know what this book talks about. Moreover, your presentation somehow helped me find room for criticism about this book. Thank you for sharing a video that helped me point out the good side and the bad side of the idea in this book. I appreciate it.
That part about making separate zones in your house really works! I was already doing this for about a year or so. And then I saw this video and was like “Yo, I’m on the right track”.
I turned my basement into a
1.music studio zone.
2. Workout Zone with weights, pull up bar and more.
3. Study zone (prayer, studying and reading) And I constantly keep it very neat and tidy every week.
Just gonna throw this out there. As an over-thinker I really liked this. A lot of true facts, and very helpful in understanding.
So, from an over-thinker's brain, find a "distraction" that's productive / life-fulfilling and a lot will change. There is one for everyone!
Can you give examples of some of your “distractions”?
@@averyelizabethlunn8980 Sure, any distraction that makes you forget about what your doing. It could be seen as "a waste of time".
I'm told that Video games are a distraction, driving, Talking to people about our social lives, are all "a waste of time", but I've gotten to understand so much from it. And now I'm on the verge of starting a business just from talking to family and friends, I would of never thought it could happen. The hardest part is being confident that what I'm doing is not a waste of time..
I learned that doing what I want will give me the best opportunity possible because I'm already doing it and I'll never stop doing it regardless
I unconsciously went and sat in a coffee shop to listen to this video and halfway through realized I accidentally did what the book was all about: getting out of my appartment to avoid negative cues and using the link in my brain between coffee bars and reading/writing in order to absorb the information more easily. I get it now!
This is the video playing on repeat in my headphones at 4 AM while I make the sudden push to "change my life"
I love the analogy of compound interest being used effortlessly to describe the many benefits of habit-forming and how small changes compound into great long-term habits and outcomes. It goes to show, that fundamentally, it's in our best interest to work on the small yet important things; improving by 1% every day doesn't sound like much, but it will inevitably improve our lives in many ways.
I don’t like his accent
So you love the only thing that makes no sense. You know 1% sounds small but is actually very large after a while? Math isn't magic, the large change you see on the graph, that's meant to be all your own doing. That 1% compound goal will become unsustainable after a while.
“ It’s hard to stick to a positive habits in a negative environment.”
This is the best summary I've every heard. I feel as if I read the whole book. Now it's time to execute!
@@tibo3987 wtf r u taking about
This is one of the best videos on RUclips! THANK YOU! You have brought the whole 300 pages book to 28- minutes video.❤
As a person that often feels trapped in their unhealthy & unproductive routines by their ADHD, I can say that the valley of disappointment is very real. This video on the other hand gave me hope!!! Thank you for working hard while making this video that inspired me to start small and better myself!
I feel you. I have this perfectionist annoying attitude. I don't know why I'm stuck on this for so long . I keep fighting it because I dont finished anything and at the end of the day I regret what I did. Spending so much time to perfect things that doesn't matter.
Universe is really giving me the signs to change myself 😑✨🧿
It gets personal sometimes🤣
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Universe doesn't care what you do.
@@spiritualanarchist8162 so as to your channel and also my comment has nothing to do with you
Philip get up ! Go to the gym . ‼️‼️😂😂
This strategy can actually give such good results (at least for me). You just don't care about goals, you just do some things daily which are necessary to achieve the goals. If you focus on your progress daily, you will be disappointed but if you see your progress in months/years, you will be satisfied, but never chase the high achieving a goal because it will create bad habits and lead to disappointment.
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For the people who think doing little can lead to big like he is explaining in the beginning. I stopped having more then 1 snack a day. I lost over 10 pounds in 2 months
You have metabolism lol
@@Trusttheprocessagain Everyone has a metabolism, you wouldn’t exist without one.
I lost 10kg (22lb) from switching my daily snacks with a sugar free tea instead. Placing blame on unhealthy eating habits on metabolism/genetics is just copium.
@@vichentez yes but you must be 21 years old. Idk how my auntie lost 40 pounds at 64. HELP!
I slept on this video for the whole 3 weeks and decided to watch it now. As I was watching it, I realized how greatly the video is done and started to wonder if there must be a big team behind this video and I'll check them out later. I finished the video, fully, subscribed, and read the About which left me in awe. All this is done by one person! I know what is required to make such content.
I would like to thank you very much for this video, this is so very helpful and I'm sharing this with all my friends right away. thanks again!!
I started with 100 push ups a day. I was already pretty fit but I want to become much stronger. 3 months later I'm at a minimum of 500 a day. I started out with just the pushups, but now I regularly go the gym and exercise every part of my body. I've also started eating healthier food and more of it, as well as drinking a lot more water. I feel like a new person, and I'm just getting started. Thank you for this fantastic video, it was a huge help to me getting started.
thats incredible congrats
He think he one punch man
Dang, Im starting with 1 pushup a day 😂
@@evilbutterfly8 gotta start somewhere. The fact that you’re starting at all is progress. Good luck man!
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WoW....James Clear! I am only 7 minutes and 16 seconds into watching this video and my mind is blown! Thank you for clarifying my perspective and life-changing insight.
I can't count all the "wows" and mindblowing moments I got while watching, the presentation is absolutely stunning ! Such a quality production, you have my wow for that ! And the content in itself is so nurturing and smart. This book was on my list but it's getting my priority now thanks to you. Thank you so much for this perfect, clear, educative resume.
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Just say you’re stupid 🤣
and have you read it yet ?
Bro is so intuitive and reasonable. This is a game changer. Thank God people like you exist.
I’ve listened to this video about 4-5 times while working , but now I’m ready to watch it and take notes. What an outstanding presentation and distillation of info broken down so we can easily put everything to great use. I truly appreciate all of your work and creativity❤️
A teacher of mine suggested me this book. Some People might think that a book can't change our lives, but I can tell that it is posible. This book is an eye-opener. It helps foucusing on the most important habits and get rid of the usseless ones.
This is actually one of the few motivation coaches who seem to actually have a real system instead of just vague motivation rules. That doesn't mean that I think that he is THE coach, but certainly the systematic approach (= heuristics) definitely is much more valuable long-term and I can personally confirm this. His system also seems to work on (Kantian) transcendental logic, and variable structures in his formulas. I will try his concept and look forward to what results I will be achieving.
I have just finished reading Atomic Habits, and this amazingly beautiful video popped up in my recommendations, I feel super lucky and blessed because I was going to summarize the book in format like this! You are a savior! Special thanks for sharing how you applied the books' ideas into your practice! This is a LIFE-CHANGING video like "changing 1 degree in trajectory of a plane's flight " !
Every sentence is packed with information and insight. I'm going to have to rewatch the videos to fully appreciate it all, but I'm sure I'll enjoy watching it every time. The visuals are great too. And the best part is you're not holding back - I love a *detailed* summary! Subscribed!
My first run I am watching at 0.5X speed. 😁😁
Really great comment for someone that eats babies. Subscribed!!
I just wanted to say thank you because 2 years ago when you uploaded this video it appeared on my recommended when I was at the lowest and also pinnacle of bad habits. I constantly ate junk food not knowing what it would do to me and this video led me to a journey of self improvement. I just wanted to say thank you. If it wasn’t for this I wouldn’t have been on self improvement and I wouldn’t have been in the gym grinding and I wouldn’t have a RUclips channel popping off now. Thanks man
I have watched thousands of self improvement videos. This is by far the best. Without even finishing the video, bought the book. Great stuff.
This is an awesome breakdown and it's incredible how much we have to work on not being distracted in this crazy age we live in. Personally, I wake up, have coffee, and turn on freedom, which is a program that blocks apps and websites, and that gets me through the work day.
In the evening I usually read, and in the beginning it was difficult, but somehow that flipped in my brain and now I find a good book more satisfying than a good movie or video game.
When my brain is too tired from working and reading I get on a treadmill and walk and light-jog while I watch some youtube or a movie.
With outcomes I'm still in the valley of disappointment after almost a year, but I feel good with my progress each day so there's that, and at this point relapse into bad habits seems unlikely.
Nice man. I wish you good luck
What are you working towards? What is the meaning for you of forming better habits?
I kinda just blind myself to the future/past and only focus on the present, and generally make what I feel are "good" decisions on a moment to moment basis. This has yielded fantastic results so far, but I get the feeling this method of self improvement wont last. Thank you for this invaluable video, I'll definitely be applying at least some if not all practices spoken of.
I appreciate the effort you have put in summarizing this book and how practical you made it to be. Absoulutely amazing video.
Coming back here after 5 months just to let you know that I've watched your video yet again and it really does help in making my life better and improving my habits.
Just a little motivation to show that these things you do really do help people! Keep it up!
It would be cool if people did this more often. Thank you as I only recently found this.
I also got a lot better with this method in just 2 years. I no longer think of myself as a failure, in fact, I don't even believe in the concept of it.
@@himanshusingh5214 That is awesome man!
This book always seemed daunting to me, I have so many goals I want to achieve, so many bad habits I want to break. But this video helped me realize that I need to make little changes first and worry about those goals later. The examples you gave were incredibly helpful, throughout the whole video I was coming up with ideas how to implement the theories and tips in my every day life.
And not only that, I suddenly saw how I could help and advise people who have expressed their dissatisfaction with their life to me. Like my parents who want to stop being overweight, or my younger brother who keeps skipping his homework and studying in favor of playing games.
Incredible video, super helpful! I feel like I'll be very thankful for this video years later.
I recently considerably reworked my sleep schedule, and I feel like that change has brought way more to me than I ever could've imagined. Because now that I wake up at 3:30 am every day instead of 12pm, now that I've managed to change something about myself, I feel like everything else I've ever wanted to do is within reach, as silly as it sounds.
I did this by moving up my alarm by 10-15 minutes every day, and using the application "alarmy" to set an alarm that requires me to take a picture of my sink in order to stop ringing, so as to force me to get up
Are you not employed? How were you able to change your sleep schedule by 8.5 hours and continue to function at work?
@@tommyvincent399 they changed it 10-15 minutes earlier each day
@@Johnpdf Right how was he able to go to work everyday between waking up at noon and waking up at 3:30 am
@@tommyvincent399 perhaps they're still a student...
@@severrd550 Even students have a general work-day schedule.
My whole point is that though merulox might've been helped by this, it's terrible anecdotal support considering he could've made just about any change in his life and improved, and the fact he over shot all the way to 3:30 basically just tells me he didn't improve at all.
Loved it! Absolutely a keeper. That's my new habit: to watch this every day for 7 days at 7pm to remember the concepts and priorities of good habits
Thank you for the video. This video has changed my life. I am now a reader, first book I read is Atomic Habits and I decided to become a lifetime learner. Remember James Clear said, "Habits are compound interest of self improvement"
Thank you for becoming the person who's stepped out of themselves to realise, change and share this information. Your intentions are of the purest form and greatly appreciated! I express my highest gratitude to you sir! A lot of effort has gone into this.. absolutely amazing!
He sure has put himself out there and neck on the chopping block. Courageous is what i'd say. Some solid street smarts in there too. This guys no fool. ty 4 all friend.
The part about cues being tied to rewards really resonated with me. I used to be a drug addict and when I was, I would get excited at the process of having to find a dealer, even though it’s a huge pain and stressful, I started liking it because my brain associated it with the very strong reward of getting high.
I've never thought about it that way
This is one of the best summaries of a book I've ever seen. Very thorough and well-explained, but not to the point of dissuading me from purchasing the book. The graphics are also well-presented and kept me interested. Thank you.
You are right, they are really good. It feels like you have a critical eye for evaluation. I have explained the book 'The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.' Will you evaluate it?
I would say that having a forward/positive mindset is the most important trait. People acknowledge all these bad habits but many don't believe they can fix them or even consider changing for the better. If you tell yourself you can't do it, you'll certainly have an extremely rough time, but if you tell yourself you can do it, than its not impossible and you can have the motivation or confidence to actually do that task.
I'm not trying to be corny with all this talk but people using excuses such as procrastination and being too lazy are already putting themselves down. Its definitely hard to avoid or ignore negativity in life but if you endure those unpleasant times, it will put you in a much better position mentally, physically, etc. Make sure to always take care of your body and prioritize yourself before anything or anyone else; I believe in all of you!
And the pomodoro technique helps as well 💯
I almost didnt watch this video because its 28minutes long, but so glad that I did! FINALLY a motivational video that I actually find helpful because of the practical advice