@@Big_Icedeveryone deserves a friend, weird or bad those people need someone to help them. If you leave the weird and bad people alone they will stay weird and bad, but being a friend or trying to help them will help and make them understand they should change
I started watcjing him yesterday, i find vomfort in listening to him cause he be spitting facts and he is straight forward. He has changed my mindset fr. U have helped and healed a 17 year old. Thank you Shimon
I feel like my own comfort zone always just gets me through my worst days but it doesn’t mean that I can change and become a better version of myself and because of that I want to change who I am right now. My own comfort zone is just stopping me from pursuing my dreams Thank you for the support man I appreciate it ❤️🩹✨
It’s healing to see you interviewing people and just chilling because it feels like something I could never do. But seeing you do this makes it feel like it’s achievable and possible because it is. Whenever I get the chance to step outside my comfort zone I’ll try slowly but surely. Thanks
Yeah I really relate to being so Isolated in my “healing” enlightenment journey that I really need to relearn social skills. I got to the point of having anxiety because of it so I’m trying to build that confidence up. My comfort zone was being uncomfortable so I need to break away and feel peace
Went to a skatepark about an hour walk away from the crib. Met some cool folks and genuinely had great conversations. Even though I was by myself for most of the time I had a great time. Been getting back into old hobbies and unexplored avenues of mine. My loner mindset has been my greatest strength rather than just a weakness. I’ve realised that I’ve always been holding myself back in my own authenticity and self image. Now I’m set on making new goals and doing more rewarding risks. I’m gonna be the me that I wanna be and I’m excited for that. Having watched this just tells me I’m going down the right path
Man this dude is amazing I’m so beyond glad I have came across your channel. Your videos have helped me out so much and I’m forever thankful. Btw I’m 3 years clean from self harm❤
You honestly SAVED Me shimon, you were right there when I needed it the most. I can’t thank you enough to pull me out of my worst phase of life. I love you, We appreciate you.
I love this other style of content. It's really cool also when your inside, just talking to us, but once your outside you can really see how your good energy and vibes radiate to the people around, and that's truly motivating. Thank you man, you are one of the key components that changed my life
I started watching him yesterday . And he do be spitting facts. He don't js be talkin all that bs in ya ear. So I js listen to him as work or wtv I'm doin. His voice very calming and he don't sound like he lecturing you or nun. He's helping me out alot with my social skills now all I gotta do is... go out and do it😅.
Yo just wanna let you know about something, I was watching one of your videos talking about pornography 7 months ago, and i told myself that I'm gonna quit. I tried so many times but i always failed, relapse after each attempt but now I have started another one and I have this feeling, I have this little voice, whispering in my ear that this is the right one, I am going to do it, I am going to get through it and that today it has been 43 days without pornography nor masturbation the most days I have been able to reach so far , I am gradually managing to get rid of it and to be more disciplined and focused on myself, to make myself better than what I was every new day Thank you, @shimondavis. I'm gonna keep moving forward in this new path no matter what!!
Its tough man. Real talk. But i believe you are genuinely trying because you did not fail to mention that you fell multiple times. Seriously takes courage for that. But keep trying no matter what. People like Shimon are actual therapy for cleaning your brain from the dopamine intoxication that is this modern accesibility to all thing bad for your soul and spirit. I recommend getting as busy as you can. Be productive and social. i had my fair share of problems just like that. My job, my friends and working as a free photograph on racetracks and meets in a city of dreamy cars is just as good as burning all your devices. Grab a camera and walk into a park. No expensive shit. The older the better. Getting a pet will bring life back into your heart. A couple months ago, i was gifted my baby girl nina. My everything, my sugar. She brought air into what seemed to be on life support. Caring for something so fragile and seeing it grow to being a beautiful creature is just the most heart healing view ever. I legit cried seeing how she went from fitting in the palm of my hand to outgrowing my newborn nephew. Seriously, just as shimon said, its comfort holding us back. I wish you all the success in life bro.
@LaSarthe963 Thanks man for the thoughtful words! And you're totally right. Always being busy is the cheat code, actually. Plus, I'm so happy for you, bro! I really hope we can be our best selves every day, big thanks to you man.
Hey man i dont know you but im proud of you. You did what so many of us fail to and thats inspiring as hell. Im only three days "sober" but this comment makes adding 40 more days to that feel more possible. I hope you can continue this progress and make more meaningful relationships in the process!
Man you’ve become one of my favorite people to listen to you’ve really helped me start pushing myself to do the things I know I need to much appreciation and much love
The algorithm sent you to me… You have an old soul, relatively speaking , and that’s a good thing. I’m older person who has learned so much from you. Keep doing what u do. God is speaking to us…through you. You are the chosen one ☝️ 👍🏾
this video made me realize i havent had the motivation to draw in awhile so i got out my drawing tablet and started a new project yesterday. it was inspiring seeing you approach people and start conversations like its nothing. nobody seemed bothered by it, they even looked like they appreciated it! ik you made some of their days better, idk how to describe it but this video has such a positivity energy. it was inspiring seeing you in social spaces laughing and joking around without any fear. normally something like that would paralyze me with fear. this video helped me realize its all mental, healing is a process but its beginning to feel manageable. im determined and feeling optimistic about the future, thank you for uploading this
I appreciate the transparency especially when you said you get a little rusty after those isolation moments. I totally can agree. It’s good to know that I’m not the only one although I don’t necessarily have problems with talking to people I’m always learning
You give the best advice! I like how you said you isolate and reflect. I do that too. Ive been afraid alot bc im an artist wi fear of rejection but im making small strides. Im learning and growing through grief and ive changed alot in 3 years ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
this is really giving me the confidence to go out and socialize, it's scary for me sometimes to speak to strangers even though i want more friends to talk to but i remember that's how you make more friends and stuff yk? lmao
Stepping out of our comfort zones unlocks potential. As Rainer Maria Rilke insightfully observed, 'The only journey is the one within.' Growth happens when we challenge our boundaries and embrace discomfort to discover new opportunities and strengths.
Hey Shimon i’ve been watching your videos for like 5-6 months and at every videos you post i always watch them with a smile on my face because you are like a big brother giving advice his younger brother and you always have that chill and friendly energy (sorry if my english is bad) thank you for what you do and keep up with your videos Thank you
You might me the only self improvement youtuber I watch. You actually practice what you preach. Also, take your breaks your true fans will understand when you require solitude. I wish and pray for the best for you man, don't quit ever!
Bro you are crazy wise for your age. I'm getting ready to turn 30 and I feel like I've learned from you, friend. Thanks for spreading positivity over anything.
I wanna approach more people this year at university , I just wanna break that thing that I am introverted , and approach people easily . Shimon makes the thing look like it's sooooo doable and easy but in reality it's not that simple man . Or maybe it's looking creepy for me cuz I'm not familiar with it who knows but I am gonna try it out !!
A lot of the times what holds me back is this one thought i have when i look at people that have achieved what i want. Its that "that must be lonely " so please a video on that Shimon because i have struggled with that for years and been in a survival mode since.
im so glad i stayed up to watch this video bro, the real world interactions help so much. The different environments and scenarios really captivated me into this video. I know most days you won’t be able to do something outdoors such as this, though this definitely altered my perspective on being social as I have always struggled with it. Much Love Shimon 🤞🏽
you helping me bro. found your channel when i was motivated to get better and staying subscribed and watching your videos really stops me from slipping back. appreciate it
Man, I feel you bro, I like how you be starting up these conversations. I have also practiced these similar types of start ups before, but usually it happens whenever I was doing partner works or a get to know each other type of school and college activity was on about. I remember trying to do something similar when there was a girl who I remember sitting next to me, I did ask the question what she was interested, and I also went trying to know more. And I like how you did something like that, talking to anyone. Sometimes I just have trouble thinking what I want to say, how I approach or talk with others, cause I overthink. Even thinking about what I should say, cause even I thought, it would be awkward if I said "Hello" to someone. I usually think I would start off by asking some interesting question about anything. I like you word bro, thank you so much for this 🤙
You're videos help me out so much. I was laying in my bed asking God to help me be more productive and proud of myself. I want to make an impact. And watching your videos, seeing you get outside and be proactive, the way you're so down to earth and connected with yourself and The people around you makes it feel like i'm really there with you. Gives me that motivation to take action myself. Thank you Shimon🫶🏾
I know I am late to the motivational speech but this hit me at such a good time. Tomorrow will be the beginning of something new to me that has been making me uncomfortable for weeks now. I've been postponing this issue and I've had enough. I need to be courageous and just do it. Tomorrow marks a new day, a new chance. To whoever is reading this, know that every day is a new time to start over. Become better, be happier - work towards better mental health, success and health. Thank you for this video! It means a lot!
Comfort doesn’t get you to know where. It makes you stay in the same places. You don’t achieve and you don’t get ahead. The only cool thing about being comfortable is you feel safe, relaxed, and less toxic people in your life. I’m really starting to see the uncomfortably is where you grow. You will fail and you will when but that’s part of growth. So please go do the things you want to do and accomplish because time is short and regret sucks.
Started watching your videos over the last 2 months. Your videos generally hit that spot in my head where it sounds like there is a voice talking to me without sound. Ik weird way to describe. But there have been some videos that were exceptional. I mean my surrounding looks nothing like yours as a North African in Germany but somehow there is this crazy way that these videos apply to life anyway. Keep up your work brother. Wether the views look good or not, that shit is not important from what i learned. Its all love
I have always said "My comfort zone is barbed wired and I'm inside it." And this year, I was forced to move on from the comfort I've had for years. My job announced lay offs and I was one of them. And I PANICKED. But now i see it as a blessing. I am registered for college now pursuing something of much higher caliber that will give me the life I truly want. But I keep telling myself I can't do it. It'll be too hard. Not cut out for it. But this video was the pep talk i needed.
You can heal by chilling if you prioritize healthy habits and build upon yourself and your skillset. But outward growth is not on your time, there are less victories, and it can feel like a rollercoaster it also makes your inward chill time harder to get back to.
This makes me want to cry, it makes me happy seeing him interact with others and bring smiles to their faces , and it makes me upset how I lock myself in my room and how I have .. no true friends or close ones … due to my shyness, this gave me a boost to put myself out there but I know I won’t do it … but I hope I find the confidence to do so one day 🥲
I haven’t had a job for two years and I’ve been too terrified to get back into it, I’m in tears listening to this because this makes me feel so disappointed in myself but thank you.
Your content is amazing. Soothing background music. It’s perfect. It’s calming, the music allows me to relax and take in your words. These videos are what I didn’t know I needed. Continue the great work. Thank you.
Didn’t expect this video but imma take it as a sign im in the right path I never done roller skating in my life but a friend if mine invited me to go though i was hesitant at first i went anyway bruised my ankle a bit fell on my butt a couple times but had fun met new people made friends and exchanged contacts by the end of the night I learned how to roller skate and got sum confidence out of the whole experience so keep doing ur thing ❤im 17 rn but I’ve learned a lot about myself from watching you so truly appreciate and value what u been doing
Thank you for sharing this bro and imma continue to push foward and strive for the better and i will admit i am the type of person who falls in Love with Routine and comfort but i will push myself beyond that im already having very Uncomfortable Life changes but there all for the better !
I watched one of your videos for the first time last night, and subscribed instantly. You are so damn chill. Thank you for spreading the good messages good sir 🙏💕
As we speak, I am destroying my comfort zone. I’m a North Dakota native, taking on the massive city of Boston. I can’t tell you how freeing it is. I never thought fear could feel so good. Because I know i’m growing as a person. So long as I move forward, and grow as an individual. There is no wrong path. Fight fear and judgment, fight those thieves that are robbing you of your joy. It’s time to step out of the nest y’all. You are not doing it alone…
Great video man, I recently watched a video by tykwondoe and in the video he specifies that second guessing stops us from doing what we want / achieving what we want because we fear the unknown and that alone holds most of the human population back because most of us doubt ourselves . So, if you feel like going for something (approaching people ,trying out a sport etc) ,JUST DO IT ,because truly, you can never know if said person would enjoy a convo with you until you've said hi, you'll never know if you're bad at baseball until you've been on the pitch and failed ,even if you don't get it right on your first few tries you can still be taught and practice till you get it right. So, don't doubt yourselves and JUST DO IT.
I fr started doing this like a week before your video lol. Great video man, I hope everyone starts doing this. I legit was walking to school this morning and saw a city worker so I asked him what he was working on cause he was just chillin, then we started having a conversation and I had a feeling he knows my Grandpa cause he’s older and my Grandpa retired from working with the city as a Foreman. So I asked him and told him my Grandpas name he paused for a little bit then looked at me and said word for word what I can remember. “that’s your Grandpa, wow. Your Grandpa is hands down the best person I’ve ever worked with he was nice never once was racist and just the coolest hard working man” And that kind of shocked me not cause I didn’t believe him but because I did believe him. Then he told me about the time around when my mom was born and he said that, “your grandpa was really happy and excited and him and the boys took him out for drinks and they got drunk” Anyway the city worker is cool guy and we exchanged names and im going to ask my Grandpa about him Just a totally random circumstance to it’s cool.
This experiment would be really different here in the Netherlands because small talk is not really in our culture haha. Amazing video though, love your perspective and wisdom. Keep it up!
14:16 that happened to me man, trust me, i been like this last year, i gotta do something you know what I'm saying😎🔥 so i gotta get my mental streat like you said.
This makes me wanna go out and talk to people, even though I usually hate talking to people. 😂 There was a time when that was different... back at uni, but that's a loooong time ago.
Y’all…ive always wanted to try boxing and ive been in the locker room practicing punches in the mirror. There is only one punching bag area in the main gym and it’s in the very front where ALL of the people are. Im about to go out there and practice on it for the first time and i know my social anxiety is going to go CRAZY. This is definitely way out of my comfort zone 🫠
I managed to box and survive for about a minute 💀 it was so nerve wracking and i felt like an awkward deer in headlights 😂 next time I’ll try 2 minutes
crazy to see you grow so fast, been here since 5k omg ! congratulations on 400k dude that’s awesome keep grinding . I definitely needed this reminder, I’ve been wanting to be a youtuber for yearssss but always holding myself back smh 😅 one of these days I gotta post something
this was such a cozy video lol, i'm kinda introverted but this made me want to go out and talk to some random people
I Agree.
No forreal
You just gotta sense their vibe before you try and have a conversation with them cause there’s some weird and bad people on earth
@@Big_Icedeveryone deserves a friend, weird or bad those people need someone to help them. If you leave the weird and bad people alone they will stay weird and bad, but being a friend or trying to help them will help and make them understand they should change
bro has changed so many people💗
I started watcjing him yesterday, i find vomfort in listening to him cause he be spitting facts and he is straight forward. He has changed my mindset fr. U have helped and healed a 17 year old. Thank you Shimon
I cannot believe you’re only 21. Just wish I found your channel sooner. I really enjoy hearing your thoughts and life philosophy.
I feel like my own comfort zone always just gets me through my worst days but it doesn’t mean that I can change and become a better version of myself and because of that I want to change who I am right now. My own comfort zone is just stopping me from pursuing my dreams Thank you for the support man I appreciate it ❤️🩹✨
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It’s healing to see you interviewing people and just chilling because it feels like something I could never do. But seeing you do this makes it feel like it’s achievable and possible because it is. Whenever I get the chance to step outside my comfort zone I’ll try slowly but surely. Thanks
Yeah I really relate to being so Isolated in my “healing” enlightenment journey that I really need to relearn social skills. I got to the point of having anxiety because of it so I’m trying to build that confidence up. My comfort zone was being uncomfortable so I need to break away and feel peace
Went to a skatepark about an hour walk away from the crib. Met some cool folks and genuinely had great conversations. Even though I was by myself for most of the time I had a great time. Been getting back into old hobbies and unexplored avenues of mine. My loner mindset has been my greatest strength rather than just a weakness. I’ve realised that I’ve always been holding myself back in my own authenticity and self image. Now I’m set on making new goals and doing more rewarding risks. I’m gonna be the me that I wanna be and I’m excited for that. Having watched this just tells me I’m going down the right path
Man this dude is amazing I’m so beyond glad I have came across your channel. Your videos have helped me out so much and I’m forever thankful.
Btw I’m 3 years clean from self harm❤
Congrats
@@oscarknowsnothing5498 thank you
Congratulations
You honestly SAVED Me shimon, you were right there when I needed it the most. I can’t thank you enough to pull me out of my worst phase of life. I love you, We appreciate you.
I love this other style of content. It's really cool also when your inside, just talking to us, but once your outside you can really see how your good energy and vibes radiate to the people around, and that's truly motivating. Thank you man, you are one of the key components that changed my life
I started watching him yesterday . And he do be spitting facts. He don't js be talkin all that bs in ya ear. So I js listen to him as work or wtv I'm doin. His voice very calming and he don't sound like he lecturing you or nun. He's helping me out alot with my social skills now all I gotta do is... go out and do it😅.
This video popped up at the right time. Thank you so much. I needed this.
Yo just wanna let you know about something, I was watching one of your videos talking about pornography 7 months ago, and i told myself that I'm gonna quit. I tried so many times but i always failed, relapse after each attempt but now I have started another one and I have this feeling, I have this little voice, whispering in my ear that this is the right one, I am going to do it, I am going to get through it and that today it has been 43 days without pornography nor masturbation the most days I have been able to reach so far , I am gradually managing to get rid of it and to be more disciplined and focused on myself, to make myself better than what I was every new day Thank you, @shimondavis. I'm gonna keep moving forward in this new path no matter what!!
Its tough man. Real talk. But i believe you are genuinely trying because you did not fail to mention that you fell multiple times. Seriously takes courage for that. But keep trying no matter what. People like Shimon are actual therapy for cleaning your brain from the dopamine intoxication that is this modern accesibility to all thing bad for your soul and spirit. I recommend getting as busy as you can. Be productive and social. i had my fair share of problems just like that. My job, my friends and working as a free photograph on racetracks and meets in a city of dreamy cars is just as good as burning all your devices. Grab a camera and walk into a park. No expensive shit. The older the better. Getting a pet will bring life back into your heart. A couple months ago, i was gifted my baby girl nina. My everything, my sugar. She brought air into what seemed to be on life support. Caring for something so fragile and seeing it grow to being a beautiful creature is just the most heart healing view ever. I legit cried seeing how she went from fitting in the palm of my hand to outgrowing my newborn nephew. Seriously, just as shimon said, its comfort holding us back. I wish you all the success in life bro.
Failed to mention, she was a 1 month old rescue kitten. Man i tear up thinking about that day
@LaSarthe963 Thanks man for the thoughtful words! And you're totally right. Always being busy is the cheat code, actually. Plus, I'm so happy for you, bro! I really hope we can be our best selves every day, big thanks to you man.
Hey man i dont know you but im proud of you. You did what so many of us fail to and thats inspiring as hell. Im only three days "sober" but this comment makes adding 40 more days to that feel more possible. I hope you can continue this progress and make more meaningful relationships in the process!
@@jakedefusco8373 Good luck to us thank you really man i hope we all can hea from tha shit
life begins at the end of ur comfort zone ❤, also, you should drop the playlist, really soothing :)
Man you’ve become one of my favorite people to listen to you’ve really helped me start pushing myself to do the things I know I need to much appreciation and much love
The algorithm sent you to me… You have an old soul, relatively speaking , and that’s a good thing. I’m older person who has learned so much from you. Keep doing what u do. God is speaking to us…through you. You are the chosen one ☝️ 👍🏾
this video made me realize i havent had the motivation to draw in awhile so i got out my drawing tablet and started a new project yesterday. it was inspiring seeing you approach people and start conversations like its nothing. nobody seemed bothered by it, they even looked like they appreciated it! ik you made some of their days better, idk how to describe it but this video has such a positivity energy. it was inspiring seeing you in social spaces laughing and joking around without any fear. normally something like that would paralyze me with fear. this video helped me realize its all mental, healing is a process but its beginning to feel manageable. im determined and feeling optimistic about the future, thank you for uploading this
always showing up at the right moments for me man, hats off to u brother
I appreciate the transparency especially when you said you get a little rusty after those isolation moments. I totally can agree. It’s good to know that I’m not the only one although I don’t necessarily have problems with talking to people I’m always learning
You give the best advice! I like how you said you isolate and reflect. I do that too. Ive been afraid alot bc im an artist wi fear of rejection but im making small strides. Im learning and growing through grief and ive changed alot in 3 years ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for being here. You helped me prepare and become stronger to leave a toxic relationship tomorrow. Thank you.
Glad I could help
this is really giving me the confidence to go out and socialize, it's scary for me sometimes to speak to strangers even though i want more friends to talk to but i remember that's how you make more friends and stuff yk? lmao
Stepping out of our comfort zones unlocks potential.
As Rainer Maria Rilke insightfully observed, 'The only journey is the one within.' Growth happens when we challenge our boundaries and embrace discomfort to discover new opportunities and strengths.
Lesson of the day: Be comfortable being uncomfortable
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Those conversations were so wholesome, thanks for sharing ❤
You look like Arthur Morgan, going around, greeting everyone, trying to get your honor up :D
@@rytiksas6556 I’m avoiding that cutscene area 🤧
Hey Shimon i’ve been watching your videos for like 5-6 months and at every videos you post i always watch them with a smile on my face because you are like a big brother giving advice his younger brother and you always have that chill and friendly energy (sorry if my english is bad) thank you for what you do and keep up with your videos
Thank you
You might me the only self improvement youtuber I watch. You actually practice what you preach. Also, take your breaks your true fans will understand when you require solitude. I wish and pray for the best for you man, don't quit ever!
Bro you are crazy wise for your age. I'm getting ready to turn 30 and I feel like I've learned from you, friend. Thanks for spreading positivity over anything.
I'm 33 and I'm learning a lot from him and I'm not ashamed
Am just shocked at how fast your channel is growing ❤❤❤❤ congratulations 🎊
Thank you ❤️
I wanna approach more people this year at university , I just wanna break that thing that I am introverted , and approach people easily .
Shimon makes the thing look like it's sooooo doable and easy but in reality it's not that simple man .
Or maybe it's looking creepy for me cuz I'm not familiar with it who knows but I am gonna try it out !!
A lot of the times what holds me back is this one thought i have when i look at people that have achieved what i want. Its that "that must be lonely " so please a video on that Shimon because i have struggled with that for years and been in a survival mode since.
im so glad i stayed up to watch this video bro, the real world interactions help so much. The different environments and scenarios really captivated me into this video. I know most days you won’t be able to do something outdoors such as this, though this definitely altered my perspective on being social as I have always struggled with it. Much Love Shimon 🤞🏽
you helping me bro. found your channel when i was motivated to get better and staying subscribed and watching your videos really stops me from slipping back. appreciate it
Man, I feel you bro, I like how you be starting up these conversations. I have also practiced these similar types of start ups before, but usually it happens whenever I was doing partner works or a get to know each other type of school and college activity was on about. I remember trying to do something similar when there was a girl who I remember sitting next to me, I did ask the question what she was interested, and I also went trying to know more. And I like how you did something like that, talking to anyone. Sometimes I just have trouble thinking what I want to say, how I approach or talk with others, cause I overthink. Even thinking about what I should say, cause even I thought, it would be awkward if I said "Hello" to someone. I usually think I would start off by asking some interesting question about anything. I like you word bro, thank you so much for this 🤙
you helped me get out more and be comfortable at school, thank you man
You're videos help me out so much. I was laying in my bed asking God to help me be more productive and proud of myself. I want to make an impact. And watching your videos, seeing you get outside and be proactive, the way you're so down to earth and connected with yourself and The people around you makes it feel like i'm really there with you. Gives me that motivation to take action myself. Thank you Shimon🫶🏾
I know I am late to the motivational speech but this hit me at such a good time. Tomorrow will be the beginning of something new to me that has been making me uncomfortable for weeks now. I've been postponing this issue and I've had enough. I need to be courageous and just do it. Tomorrow marks a new day, a new chance. To whoever is reading this, know that every day is a new time to start over. Become better, be happier - work towards better mental health, success and health. Thank you for this video! It means a lot!
Comfort doesn’t get you to know where. It makes you stay in the same places. You don’t achieve and you don’t get ahead. The only cool thing about being comfortable is you feel safe, relaxed, and less toxic people in your life.
I’m really starting to see the uncomfortably is where you grow. You will fail and you will when but that’s part of growth. So please go do the things you want to do and accomplish because time is short and regret sucks.
Keep posting vids man you’re making the world a better place 🫵🫵
Started watching your videos over the last 2 months. Your videos generally hit that spot in my head where it sounds like there is a voice talking to me without sound. Ik weird way to describe. But there have been some videos that were exceptional. I mean my surrounding looks nothing like yours as a North African in Germany but somehow there is this crazy way that these videos apply to life anyway. Keep up your work brother. Wether the views look good or not, that shit is not important from what i learned. Its all love
I have always said "My comfort zone is barbed wired and I'm inside it." And this year, I was forced to move on from the comfort I've had for years. My job announced lay offs and I was one of them. And I PANICKED. But now i see it as a blessing. I am registered for college now pursuing something of much higher caliber that will give me the life I truly want.
But I keep telling myself I can't do it. It'll be too hard. Not cut out for it. But this video was the pep talk i needed.
yo, i started to watch you a bit recently and i just wanna thank you for helping out. im glad we still have good people in the world 💜
Im proud of everyone that’s here trying to change their lives for the better.
he's changing generations one video at a time. Thank you bro ❤
You’re spreading facts here man 💯
So happy to see shimon practicing what he preaches - most of these 'Conquer ur mind and defeat social anxeity' type ppl are actually introverted as
You can heal by chilling if you prioritize healthy habits and build upon yourself and your skillset. But outward growth is not on your time, there are less victories, and it can feel like a rollercoaster it also makes your inward chill time harder to get back to.
You actually are the best. Every video helps me through so much.
This makes me want to cry, it makes me happy seeing him interact with others and bring smiles to their faces , and it makes me upset how I lock myself in my room and how I have .. no true friends or close ones … due to my shyness, this gave me a boost to put myself out there but I know I won’t do it … but I hope I find the confidence to do so one day 🥲
I haven’t had a job for two years and I’ve been too terrified to get back into it, I’m in tears listening to this because this makes me feel so disappointed in myself but thank you.
Your content is amazing. Soothing background music. It’s perfect. It’s calming, the music allows me to relax and take in your words. These videos are what I didn’t know I needed. Continue the great work. Thank you.
Didn’t expect this video but imma take it as a sign im in the right path
I never done roller skating in my life but a friend if mine invited me to go though i was hesitant at first i went anyway bruised my ankle a bit fell on my butt a couple times but had fun met new people made friends and exchanged contacts by the end of the night I learned how to roller skate and got sum confidence out of the whole experience so keep doing ur thing ❤im 17 rn but I’ve learned a lot about myself from watching you so truly appreciate and value what u been doing
Thank you for sharing this bro and imma continue to push foward and strive for the better and i will admit i am the type of person who falls in Love with Routine and comfort but i will push myself beyond that im already having very Uncomfortable Life changes but there all for the better !
Appreciate the video bro, it seems harder then ever to socialize. Everyone is so disconnected imo
Lots of love man, thank you for always trying to give us the best advice, you really do help❤(also thank you for always being so honest)
Am Gilbert from Ghana bro your videos helps me so much Thank you so much ☺️
Thanks for sharing your point of view and experience. It's very refreshing and down to earth. I appreciate it
Shimon dropped an ABSOLUTE BANGER of a video. Ts genuinely so amazing
I watched one of your videos for the first time last night, and subscribed instantly.
You are so damn chill. Thank you for spreading the good messages good sir 🙏💕
ayeee im from PA my PA brother got to escape he’s a lucky one😂
@@donttalk. 😭🤞🏾I hope you get out also
What’s better than PA
4:40 its amazing how fear has gripped my life since childhood until middle age.
Bruh, the people on this campus are so receptive… *I love it💜💛
As we speak, I am destroying my comfort zone. I’m a North Dakota native, taking on the massive city of Boston. I can’t tell you how freeing it is. I never thought fear could feel so good. Because I know i’m growing as a person. So long as I move forward, and grow as an individual. There is no wrong path. Fight fear and judgment, fight those thieves that are robbing you of your joy. It’s time to step out of the nest y’all. You are not doing it alone…
Welcome to Boston bro 😎
Great video man, I recently watched a video by tykwondoe and in the video he specifies that second guessing stops us from doing what we want / achieving what we want because we fear the unknown and that alone holds most of the human population back because most of us doubt ourselves . So, if you feel like going for something (approaching people ,trying out a sport etc) ,JUST DO IT ,because truly, you can never know if said person would enjoy a convo with you until you've said hi, you'll never know if you're bad at baseball until you've been on the pitch and failed ,even if you don't get it right on your first few tries you can still be taught and practice till you get it right. So, don't doubt yourselves and JUST DO IT.
i feel like your that one cozy big brother. thanks bro💓
Keep the positive vibes flowing 😁
Love you bro I needed ‘this @ this time god bless bro sending love from the chi 💯
Wise beyond your years. ❤️❤️❤️
Went out today picked a small little flower after going on a walk
@@klustory ❤️
Keep up the good work
I just accepted a job offer as an ICU nurse at a trauma hospital and got to move out on my own, starting on 10/21!
Yeeee
I loved this new video format, keep up the good work Shimon, we're all behind you!
Big ups brother
This guys vids get my attention every time love the energy from these
wow i saw this when i needed it the most
Thank you for another video and it's my birthday, today, but I'm happy to hear your videos it keeps me up to enjoy life and take risks.
I fr started doing this like a week before your video lol. Great video man, I hope everyone starts doing this.
I legit was walking to school this morning and saw a city worker so I asked him what he was working on cause he was just chillin, then we started having a conversation and I had a feeling he knows my Grandpa cause he’s older and my Grandpa retired from working with the city as a Foreman. So I asked him and told him my Grandpas name he paused for a little bit then looked at me and said word for word what I can remember. “that’s your Grandpa, wow. Your Grandpa is hands down the best person I’ve ever worked with he was nice never once was racist and just the coolest hard working man”
And that kind of shocked me not cause I didn’t believe him but because I did believe him. Then he told me about the time around when my mom was born and he said that, “your grandpa was really happy and excited and him and the boys took him out for drinks and they got drunk”
Anyway the city worker is cool guy and we exchanged names and im going to ask my Grandpa about him
Just a totally random circumstance to it’s cool.
So many facts💓
This experiment would be really different here in the Netherlands because small talk is not really in our culture haha. Amazing video though, love your perspective and wisdom. Keep it up!
I just discovered your channel, love these pep talks!
Luv this brodie
Thank you for helping me improve.❤
14:16 that happened to me man, trust me, i been like this last year, i gotta do something you know what I'm saying😎🔥 so i gotta get my mental streat like you said.
Make a video on depression please. That thing holds me back so many times
This makes me wanna go out and talk to people, even though I usually hate talking to people. 😂 There was a time when that was different... back at uni, but that's a loooong time ago.
watching this made my heart beat faster thinking about the uncomfortable thing I have to do
❤great video. Love from South Africa Davis
damn the timing this was needed 💯
I don’t know if you know this but I just came across your last video today and this one I just have to say your changing my life already ❤
Thank you bro
My pleasure
Y’all…ive always wanted to try boxing and ive been in the locker room practicing punches in the mirror. There is only one punching bag area in the main gym and it’s in the very front where ALL of the people are. Im about to go out there and practice on it for the first time and i know my social anxiety is going to go CRAZY. This is definitely way out of my comfort zone 🫠
I managed to box and survive for about a minute 💀 it was so nerve wracking and i felt like an awkward deer in headlights 😂 next time I’ll try 2 minutes
🤣❤️keep at it ! The nerves will die down. Just start slow and build good technique.
Thanks 🙏 man for everything you say
Shimon Davis I be so happy when you post pls keep posting keep up the grind much love ❤
Thank you for the video Shimon 💜
Yo you are a dope soul fam.ur videos help me out alot
This was so relaxing
thanks you man
crazy to see you grow so fast, been here since 5k omg ! congratulations on 400k dude that’s awesome keep grinding . I definitely needed this reminder, I’ve been wanting to be a youtuber for yearssss but always holding myself back smh 😅 one of these days I gotta post something