Men Fall in Love When You Do NOTHING

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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024

Комментарии • 194

  • @Empressmanifestor
    @Empressmanifestor 2 месяца назад +198

    The nuance to the Robert Greene scarcity in the Art of seduction is that first you must give the person a taste of you , your greatness , you have to make yourself a presence in the persons day to day and most importantly they have to like you, ….. seduction does not work on someone who does not like you.
    They have to have had some initial attraction, they must have benefited from your presence, eg felt your love and care ….. or you brought them peace, whatever it is they liked
    As with human nature, what is there everyday we naturally start to take for granted… we develop a false self of security that it’s there in abundance and it’s not going anywhere…
    Only then when you’re gone …. And that love and care you gave …. Do they start to miss it and value it because it’s not always going to be around.
    But you cannot miss something you never had and you don’t miss something you don’t want.
    Remember the nuance, know the audience you are playing to.

    • @marshadupree2968
      @marshadupree2968 2 месяца назад +5

      Beautifully said. ❤

    • @Love2Love927
      @Love2Love927 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you for your comment ! It’s magnificent ❤🎉😊

    • @Sharon-jg9ls
      @Sharon-jg9ls 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you. Needed this, as I was feeling taken for granted and told my bf let’s take the weekend to ourselves and talk when he’s back in town. Been unsure who should reach out first.

    • @MeghanK-hm4hj
      @MeghanK-hm4hj 2 месяца назад +1

      Perfectly said, just started talking to someone and we both felt great physical and emotional attraction from day one, it was overwhelming for us both, he even disappeared for a day, I got crazy and said I wasn't happy that he just disappeared, he got back quickly and now he can go silent sometimes because of his busy schedule but enables to keep checking on me especially if I don't send a good morning message, he panics and sends messages. When I ask if he needs space and wants me to stay away, he says he is just tired and can't interact as much as me but never disappears again and doesn't want me to be gone silent full day as well.😂😂

    • @jelizabethpetrie6656
      @jelizabethpetrie6656 2 месяца назад

      @@MeghanK-hm4hjjust be sure they never ask you for money. Too many cat fishers out there with that push pull technique

  • @aalyyy.
    @aalyyy. 4 дня назад +4

    So true. All of the guys I dated who were obsessed with me, I did nothing to get them to be like that. They genuinely just did it on their own and that’s the best way this should be done. It’s natural and if the chemistry isn’t there then no one got hurt to begin with! 🖤

  • @Empressmanifestor
    @Empressmanifestor 2 месяца назад +113

    Be okay with a person not liking you….
    Acknowledge it and even point it out to the person, without getting angry at them,
    Tell them it’s obvious you’re not interested , tell them you will make it easy, it’s okay you don’t like me, wish them the best (no hard feelings because that just hurts your own soul) and walk away….
    NB . It’s doesn’t mean you won’t feel hurt, it doesn’t mean you won’t feel sad, we are human and we have feelings, but even though you feel hurt and feel sad,
    You know you will be okay anyway, you can take care of your own feelings and can self soothe and make yourself feel better
    It’s not a weakness to show you cared
    It takes strength to show your heart, and to have that rejected, it takes strength to be okay with it and leave with the mindset you will give it to someone else who does like you

    • @saturnianitch8384
      @saturnianitch8384 2 месяца назад

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @dawrightleo13
      @dawrightleo13 2 месяца назад +1

      That was beautifully written

    • @Love2Love927
      @Love2Love927 2 месяца назад +1

      I agree & have done exactly that ! I actually felt better afterwards 😂

  • @MirandaOrmiston
    @MirandaOrmiston 2 месяца назад +381

    I have such a hard time finding the line between "doing nothing" and completely ignoring them 🤷🏻‍♀️😔

    • @cheekytitaable
      @cheekytitaable 2 месяца назад +8

      Lol

    • @bellamorenita6138
      @bellamorenita6138 2 месяца назад +73

      Definitely I ignore them and do nothing now I forget that they are after me lol they gotta remind me now

    • @mariammalik5931
      @mariammalik5931 2 месяца назад +3

      🤣😭😭😭

    • @clark.mellarke
      @clark.mellarke 2 месяца назад +22

      Yeah. It's less chaos to just walk away.

    • @HiNinqi
      @HiNinqi 2 месяца назад +57

      As much has been discussed on this channel... Men are 100% worth ignoring.

  • @Dreamsareareality
    @Dreamsareareality 2 месяца назад +73

    You are telling the truth. Love is organic, no magic spell, no over buying, no forcing, nothing fake. It just happens. ❤❤

  • @merber6070
    @merber6070 2 месяца назад +176

    I lose interest once I have to train them like a dog, I want mutual obsession 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @MarinaM-o6p
    @MarinaM-o6p 2 месяца назад +90

    I AGREE …NO GETTING TOGETHER , NO SEXUAL ACTIVITY .

    • @mareecrook2162
      @mareecrook2162 2 месяца назад +16

      The internet caused the disconnection

    • @MeiMariie
      @MeiMariie 2 месяца назад

      Same here babes, we not Fucking till I got you wrapped around my finger, and for some people that might translate to a ring😂

  • @BlackRoseFlorida
    @BlackRoseFlorida 2 месяца назад +24

    This is so TRUE 😂 The more you fall back, the better.

  • @hanakobeauty
    @hanakobeauty 2 месяца назад +19

    The power of letting go, the power of …just surrender yourself 🎉
    Be effortless… who cares about having a relationship 🎉
    Put yourself on a pedestal, especially if you are a woman because we tend to underestimate ourselves. Put the price UP 🆙

  • @sterneprinzessin
    @sterneprinzessin 2 месяца назад +21

    Wow. One of your best videos. If both are attracted, things will develop on their own.

  • @shawdeejay5408
    @shawdeejay5408 2 месяца назад +31

    This is so true . I self sabotaged because I got impatient with a guy I realllly liked . He showed he liked me until I got needy 🙁. Now I’m dating a guy who’s super into me almost to the point it seems simpy like just doing too much it doesn’t seem he’s being real and I’m the one taking it slower doing nothing . It’s very true haha 😂

  • @stylephyles8932
    @stylephyles8932 2 месяца назад +34

    lol..."You start to do monkey double back flips"...🤣🤣🤣 DON'T DO IT TO YOURSELF. Alex sometimes I come to listen for the funny sandwiched in between the main message...guaranteed to always hit at just the right moment...Love your channel for years 💛

  • @attrikahazarika
    @attrikahazarika 2 месяца назад +50

    Rather than making videos on what men wants. Pls make videos on how men need to transition because women are the not the same anymore. They are inclined to emotional and financial independence which makes men not very important than who they are. Educate men on what they need to bring to the table. Women love to love men but they love themselves too.

  • @spacito8617
    @spacito8617 2 месяца назад +3

    Best video so far of Alex…I love how he is evolving with his content…so true! I definitely agree many times we ruin everything by our “performance” and definitely they pick up on our desperation/fear of losing them. We definitely act differently when we like them vs just wanting to be friends. I’ve been there doing the backflips and spinaroonies lol true connections are never forced they just happen organically
    true dat Alex ❤

  • @ShreeMorar
    @ShreeMorar 2 месяца назад +12

    All your videos have been amazing and so informative!!!! You are definitely what us girls needed in our lives 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @hd-bbyy
    @hd-bbyy 2 месяца назад +11

    Your knowledge growth is noticeable. Keep going!

  • @musingsofharmony3159
    @musingsofharmony3159 29 дней назад +6

    I really wear my heart on my sleeve. If I'm happy and like something, I'm doing backflips. Hard to do nothing, but very necessary.

    • @BIGSISTERENERGYRISE
      @BIGSISTERENERGYRISE 19 дней назад +3

      Same. And it hurts to hold back.

    • @musingsofharmony3159
      @musingsofharmony3159 7 дней назад +1

      ​@BIGSISTERENERGYRISE Yeah, totally agree. I'm slowly seeing how I have sabotaged myself over the years by rushing. Alex is helping me so much.

  • @l0us3rr
    @l0us3rr 2 месяца назад +17

    “It doesn’t seek it, it is sought** after." 'Seeked' isn't a word, Father Alex.

    • @RubGoddess
      @RubGoddess 2 месяца назад +3

      Lots of his words aren't right, lol!

    • @muonlyteYoloBeautyConsulting
      @muonlyteYoloBeautyConsulting 2 месяца назад +18

      He speaks more languages than just english....
      Calm down. He is wiser than most men

  • @Nycmichele
    @Nycmichele 2 месяца назад +7

    One of your best videos. You truly understand the human mind

  • @jeantttttt566
    @jeantttttt566 2 месяца назад +20

    Not reacting does work

    • @YvetteInnerGrowth
      @YvetteInnerGrowth Месяц назад

      Indeed also pulling away if he is not consistent or not investing on the proper level

  • @luisaah5707
    @luisaah5707 2 месяца назад +7

    I am so grateful that I found your channel. It helped me to stop this anxious loop of actions that was making the situations worse. Now I can spot the anxious thoughts and they are getting less and less intense. I am getting more secure and more people are approaching me now. So thank you for your tips and tricks. Especially the friendzone tips.

    • @razz0dazzle
      @razz0dazzle 2 месяца назад +1

      Me too, the ruminating was driving me crazy, his videos are super helpful ❤

  • @tesla4473
    @tesla4473 2 месяца назад +6

    You know you stand on business Alexis, when there is lot of triggered comments. Love the way you are going, you are speaking truth and truth is always disliked, because you're telling people that instead of focusing on doing and impressing people they have to take a look at themselves and most of the people don't like themselves. Doing nothing is exactly how yin healing works. No effort, just gentle sensing of energy resistance and healing opens, energy starts to flow. When in doubt, i always revert back to self and i can see the energy chaos that is happening inside of me and start gently cleaning the trash. People are afraid of doing this, because you will become more magnetic, but also more average in a sense (no participation in drama, no control games).

  • @basshunter9018
    @basshunter9018 2 месяца назад +8

    that's so true though Al, I get angry when someone's 'into me' for no reason. when i don't like them back...i can feel them perusing me and it's irritating

    • @sasorah6414
      @sasorah6414 2 месяца назад +2

      Well don't go on a date with someone if you don't like them.

  • @lotusflower947
    @lotusflower947 2 месяца назад +9

    Am sure there were always observant people who gathered information about what was happening around them even in prehistoric times. Now there is an outlet to share that info

  • @wonderland0409
    @wonderland0409 2 месяца назад +28

    😂"They may be like a snake waiting to digest you"

  • @ShreeMorar
    @ShreeMorar 2 месяца назад +6

    Thank you so much Alex !!! Needed to hear this !!!!

  • @3nchantrxs
    @3nchantrxs 2 месяца назад +3

    Prehistoric Alex 😂. Amazing content as always 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @katolang1161
    @katolang1161 2 месяца назад +11

    Not Seeked Father Alex, the word is sought. 🥂 I love your videos!!!!

  • @wrangelinhabitant161
    @wrangelinhabitant161 Месяц назад +2

    Monkey double backflips😂you made my evening 😂😂😂😂🎉

  • @jaydeal4079
    @jaydeal4079 9 дней назад

    This is on repeat till it sinks in

  • @caramelmosaicmosaic7940
    @caramelmosaicmosaic7940 2 месяца назад +23

    So what happens when everybody starts doing …nothing?

  • @ky_wee
    @ky_wee 2 месяца назад +20

    Hi Alex I’m not sure if many people think about this or have many questions about it but could you do a video about men that dislike women? I’ve been associated with a lot of men in my life who have always talked down on women but I don’t understand why they are in a relationship with one if that’s the case. I’d just like to understand on a more phycological level if you have any pointers on it thank you!

    • @VendieSolde
      @VendieSolde Месяц назад

      Because of sex, theyre using women for sex. That's it.

  • @brittneymarshall2278
    @brittneymarshall2278 2 месяца назад +11

    🥴🥴🥴I just bought this guy I’m dating some shoes I’m take them back

  • @YaYa-gy6rn
    @YaYa-gy6rn 2 месяца назад

    Very good insight once again. Love how you quoted Rumi. 😊❤

  • @bhavna123
    @bhavna123 Месяц назад +1

    True,.. but it's tiring to play games !

  • @zoenoore840
    @zoenoore840 2 месяца назад +1

    this video and the Wu Wei video are your best ones. Thank you.

  • @crys-anngayle2546
    @crys-anngayle2546 2 месяца назад +2

    I've acted desperate before to turn men off and get them to make a decision and decide if they wanna stay or leave

  • @Jeannene-m7e
    @Jeannene-m7e Месяц назад

    Thank you. Beautiful Message. 🔥

  • @melissadavis225
    @melissadavis225 Месяц назад +1

    ❤ I'm. Not doing anything either just met some one ..and I'm doing nothing. Letting it happen organically good point .❤

  • @msgs6850
    @msgs6850 2 месяца назад +18

    I feel like this use to backfire on me ! They would say Well you never called me i thought you didnt like me and i was showing you i was interested and you would always postpone our dates and they would move on and i have men say they had kids w/other ppl because i wouldn't do anything that's why they went somewhere else ! And i would ignore them as well i have to really like you in order for me to put effort ! Or somtimes i would lock eyes w/men and its crazy lol

    • @tesla4473
      @tesla4473 2 месяца назад +8

      Had that happen too, the more i was without these kind of people, the more transparent their manipulation would appear. These men are like "how dare you not chase after me". I don't like that energy, instant turn off now. Smells of gaslighting, controlling behavior. I used to try to overexplain myself in these scenarios, now i am like "stop attacking my freedom"

    • @Franziska1008
      @Franziska1008 2 месяца назад +11

      Don’t worry it sounds like these men were feminine bc no masculine man does complain! Women do but not masculine men. 😅

    • @Authenticnerd123
      @Authenticnerd123 Месяц назад

      I dumped a girl because she was being too cold. I have self respect. I am not horny enough to chase someone who ignores me for ages

    • @Authenticnerd123
      @Authenticnerd123 Месяц назад

      ​@@Franziska1008Complaining makes women masculine

  • @mirzanadiafateema7107
    @mirzanadiafateema7107 Месяц назад

    Your words and works are beautiful.. ✨ ❤️ from 🇧🇩

  • @basshunter9018
    @basshunter9018 2 месяца назад +3

    if it's not there...then it's not there. cant make it happen on your own

  • @This2ndHalf
    @This2ndHalf 2 месяца назад +30

    No spinaroonies?? 😄

  • @efrequency1009
    @efrequency1009 2 месяца назад +1

    You are very talented I love your art !

  • @karolinadominguez6529
    @karolinadominguez6529 2 месяца назад +1

    You should have a podcast on Spotify,it will be fire 🔥

  • @naomilopez7802
    @naomilopez7802 2 месяца назад +6

    Right I don’t need anyone to feel Comfortable with myself ?

  • @MySideHustleStash
    @MySideHustleStash Месяц назад +1

    Works all the time ❤

  • @ascensionvaldes1412
    @ascensionvaldes1412 2 месяца назад +3

    ❤genuine self love❤❤❤

  • @yudollia
    @yudollia 2 месяца назад +3

    I love when you say freakazoid

  • @aries7176
    @aries7176 2 месяца назад

    I love that quote!

  • @jelizabethpetrie6656
    @jelizabethpetrie6656 2 месяца назад +1

    Had always thought Caesar Milan’s methods apply to children & men😂

  • @rebecca_muniz
    @rebecca_muniz 2 месяца назад +5

    I like any thing organic 😂

  • @ishaniupadhyay3961
    @ishaniupadhyay3961 2 месяца назад +2

    Nice as always

  • @jodyh2077
    @jodyh2077 2 месяца назад

    HUSTLE VS FLOW 👌

  • @bhagavatilad3268
    @bhagavatilad3268 2 месяца назад +1

    It’s called the dance of Natraj in Hindu mythology I wasn’t going to tell you this until I saw your artist flare check it out these are all the forms your soul goes through before love truly enters your life at least that’s what I believe love always things get easier and easier for you that’s how you know things are changing much love to you

  • @thedacoates2524
    @thedacoates2524 Месяц назад +1

    I understand all that you are talking I use a lot of what you talks about 😉😉😉😉😉

  • @nubiancutie5972
    @nubiancutie5972 2 месяца назад +3

    What if it’s the other way around with guy doing too much and not knowing whether he really likes me or is he obsessed??

  • @jayboatner4271
    @jayboatner4271 2 месяца назад +1

    I think his advice is for more anxious styles ppl, i have an avoidant style so idk when to show i care vs feeling like it's doing too much, pushing ppl away or already doing everything naturally Alex is saying. I might be rushing in the beginning but the moment i don't get the same effort lol i back off. Maybe to much

  • @dhritisharma4490
    @dhritisharma4490 2 месяца назад +3

    He just mentioned Bhagvad Gita❤️

  • @bebecitan
    @bebecitan 2 месяца назад +2

    thank you Alex ❤❤❤❤

  • @inira7418
    @inira7418 6 дней назад

    Problem today 24 hours access through mobile. We weren't made to date like this

  • @makeishainniss2440
    @makeishainniss2440 Месяц назад +1

    Not the bull in a China shop😄

  • @trendbuzz31
    @trendbuzz31 2 месяца назад

    You’re awesome 👏 ❤ best advice

  • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
    @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 2 месяца назад +6

    It's not fair. The handsome men and women have both genders VYING after them no matter what. That's why they don't have to do "nothing" and people flock to them!

    • @mcmc8556
      @mcmc8556 2 месяца назад +4

      Even of they are good looking, they will repell others by their attitude.

    • @elizabethiwu3332
      @elizabethiwu3332 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂​@chocolatelover1101

  • @Alekszandruh
    @Alekszandruh 2 месяца назад +7

    This is my man. He literally wants me to do nothing and he calls, texts, plans, it’s the weirdest thing I’ve ever experienced. It’s like being with a cave man. I’ve had to retrain myself and still can’t get it right.

    • @Cutestx2
      @Cutestx2 2 месяца назад +6

      What do you mean weird . Relax in your femininity woman! Let the man be the man

    • @Sashaa249
      @Sashaa249 2 месяца назад +4

      This is being ungrateful.. in this pookie man era where every man wants sugar mommy and wants princess treatment themselves, you have found a real masculine man, and you’re being masculine while we women are meant to be feminine

    • @Alekszandruh
      @Alekszandruh 2 месяца назад

      @@Sashaa249 😂😂😂🫣🫣🫣 the fact that this is so true. I’m still fighting my old mindset, but thankfully he’s still around. By the grace of God really.
      Thank you ladies for the reminders. I need to sit my a** down.

  • @kairosunltd130
    @kairosunltd130 2 месяца назад +3

    🎯🎯🎯🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🤍🤍🤍things just happen organically 💯💯💯
    Yes Father Alex, Yesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss honey❗❗❗💐💐💐 That's how it works. Value doesn't seek but it's sought after 😊☺️🥰😍 that's a whole sermon 🔥🔥🔥🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @aries7176
    @aries7176 2 месяца назад +6

    Do you think that if two people once had mutual love for each other that they can have that love again? Even if you broke up and have not seen each other in almost a year?

    • @razz0dazzle
      @razz0dazzle 2 месяца назад

      Sending you a hug and peace ❤

    • @coffee_pigglet
      @coffee_pigglet 2 месяца назад

      If the love was there once. It’s still there somewhere. As long as both parties are willing to rekindle it. Yes it’s possible

  • @EternalLove.1111
    @EternalLove.1111 2 месяца назад +1

    I did all the work effort eevrything just 4 this one sided relationship to a dismissivr avoidant who has lied numerously to me cheated and manipulated me....disyance showed me how trashy he is and he needs 2 heal himself

  • @benahAkech
    @benahAkech 2 месяца назад +1

    😂Guess i have learned my lesson the hard way after literally a whole year..never again

  • @AnjaKreft-te1xp
    @AnjaKreft-te1xp 2 месяца назад

    Omgg!!! Thank youuu

  • @naomilopez7802
    @naomilopez7802 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your Videos??

  • @LanieMy
    @LanieMy 2 месяца назад

    Love this video

  • @mel8469
    @mel8469 2 месяца назад

    Thank You ❤

  • @andreahowlett7844
    @andreahowlett7844 2 месяца назад +1

    You crack me up, I love this video 🙌🏼 creepazoids 😂😂

  • @luciamihok7195
    @luciamihok7195 2 месяца назад

    😅😅 quite uplifting really

  • @Ababy7
    @Ababy7 2 месяца назад

    But me doing nothing is THE act….

  • @camrynmcgough2612
    @camrynmcgough2612 2 месяца назад +1

    less is always more

  • @chantelleclark5854
    @chantelleclark5854 2 месяца назад +2

    Mate you don’t like me I’m gone I could be sobbing you would never know

  • @Mariella-k6j
    @Mariella-k6j 2 месяца назад

    PREACH 👏👏

  • @cocoakisses10
    @cocoakisses10 2 месяца назад +13

    Creepezoid😂

    • @kairosunltd130
      @kairosunltd130 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😁😁😁

  • @everydayintuition2334
    @everydayintuition2334 2 месяца назад

    He not lying😂

  • @Efalonda
    @Efalonda 13 часов назад

    Do nothing = reading but ignoring messages?

  • @sassy46201
    @sassy46201 2 месяца назад

    Human being. Don’t mix me with no animal.

  • @Airendeau2095
    @Airendeau2095 Месяц назад

    All the dudes i meet just want the cat

  • @sassy46201
    @sassy46201 2 месяца назад

    Even when they do do less as a woman

  • @carismacatalyst1289
    @carismacatalyst1289 2 месяца назад

    ...😂 just doing nothing...
    ❤🎉😅

  • @mariammalik5931
    @mariammalik5931 2 месяца назад

    “The nothingness” now I gotta go watch the never ending story

  • @GracefullyMe82
    @GracefullyMe82 2 месяца назад

    Right 🙂❤️🔥

  • @chantelleclark5854
    @chantelleclark5854 2 месяца назад

    True that

  • @mattanderson6672
    @mattanderson6672 16 дней назад

    thx

  • @anonymousb430
    @anonymousb430 2 месяца назад

    This works

  • @cuchusurf
    @cuchusurf 2 месяца назад +3

    If you're a woman, show interest in knowing each other. If he likes you, he'll let you know, or it'll be obvious (we're bad actors).
    If he's spending time with you, you must assume a type of attraction. It can be just sexual or romantic...
    Just don't try to change the type of attraction he has... this is not crepuscule we are stubborn as hell. That's it. We are simple.

  • @PernillasPolitiskaÅsikter
    @PernillasPolitiskaÅsikter 2 месяца назад

    When I did nothing I had results? What the actual f.. What do you mean? When ? How? You mean stop talking too? This might work for women. A female could just look good. I guess you are right. It might be true.
    Well. I have had a lot of interests when I talked and laughed with others, and it drew attention to me. And interest.
    Is that doing "nothing"?

  • @karolinah12
    @karolinah12 2 месяца назад

    Rather a pre-historic man than the males of today.

  • @sandraknapska5138
    @sandraknapska5138 2 месяца назад +1

    What's the music in this video?

  • @louiselarge
    @louiselarge 2 месяца назад +3

    Do you mean not do anything like with them or just not doing anything at all

  • @Jayismariee
    @Jayismariee 2 месяца назад

    We in love now you and me

  • @naomilopez7802
    @naomilopez7802 2 месяца назад

    Right ?

  • @Girlwithapurse03
    @Girlwithapurse03 2 месяца назад +4

    I meann when I fall in love is because the guy is doing something 🤔 so im not sure

  • @lovepower1440
    @lovepower1440 Месяц назад

    I love you 😅😅😅