We’ve seen so many of you asking about how to start your healing journey after listening to this podcast. To support you, we’ve included a link to a free sexual trauma healing masterclass here: bit.ly/3zqxFxy We hope this resource offers the support you need. 💛
Hi Ranvir bhaiya , I have tried approaching u , viraj bhai , I have good experience in marketing and Sales as well as social media management, I need a job immediately, My mother is diagnosed with her2 positive breast cancer , and I am jobless since my own company closed and i am in debt , somehow when i tried recovering my Mother got diagnosed please help me out
The intro. 💪. What a genuine guy, ranveer. Kudos to your mom for raising a gentleman. India would be such a better place to live in if there are more guys like you. Thankyou ❤
I am extremely in awe with this woman because nobody and I mean it nobody is able to connect all three 'law, spirituality and psychological' aspects of such issues and she did all of it perfectly.
She is such a lovely therapist. From what all I am learning from my masters degree in Psychology, she is exactly displaying it there. We are taught how a therapist first actively listens to what the other person has to say and then paraphrases it and then summarises it to the client. I wish to be like her. A therapist as good as Neha is❤️ Manifesting 🧿
Found myself taking breaks in between because it was getting really triggering, but it's so so important to have more conversations like this! Thank you for doing this podcast, loved it.
To Ranveer-considering follow up topics: 1. Hidden incest... 2. Marry with exclamation mark: your depression will go away ...("shaadhi karlo, sab depression mit jayenge") 3. "forced marriage" [!!] ... India is a huge country...and much diversity
Sexual trauma is not only for women, so many men has gone through this and they never open up. They should start talking about it and heal. It’s much need of the hour
Friends telling a traumatised person to beer chill and go for casual sex is exactly like old parents tell traumatised married couples to have children and it will all “go away”. It is not boredom, it’s long term chronic trauma. People are uneducated
Trauma informed homes are a gift...but people who grow up in a family taht isnt trauma informed go through a lot of abuse but then kya karein we move on with sacrs....some rimes the scars heal some times they dont and after a certain age you learn to live with it and make peace ...its the "in between period thats hellish" Take care every one Thank you for the episode RA Much light Much fun!
@@beerbiceps can u look for the guy asking a job in comment section. he is in need ,please help him. its about his mother please look. His username "Uskeje-SarAayaan"
@@beerbiceps Hi Ranveer bhaiya I have tried approaching u and lakshay bhai, I have good experience in marketing and Sales as well as social media management, I need a job immediately, My mother is diagnosed with her2 positive breast cancer , and I am jobless since my own company closed and i am in debt , somehow when i tried recovering my Mother got diagnosed please help me out
@@beerbiceps Hi Ranvir bhaiya , I have tried approaching u , viraj bhai , I have good experience in marketing and Sales as well as social media management, I need a job immediately, My mother is diagnosed with her2 positive breast cancer , and I am jobless since my own company closed and i am in debt , somehow when i tried recovering my
During my college days , I remember, when I had the first encounter of someone touching my ass in an overcrowded bus, I was just 17 fresh out of school. I don't know, why but it felt so disgusting...later I had felt very demeaning about myself....it took me almost 5 to 8 years to come out of that rabbit hole...and regain my self esteem.... hardest part was ....I could not share it with anyone...not even my mum or sister.... I have tried and still continue trying my level best to give that space to my daughters where they can come home and unload their trauma....I regularly sit with them and discuss my own shortcomings, as a kid and teen and encourage them to share their own things also in the process tell them ...
Next time something like this happens you face the guy who is doing that on the spot. Does not matter if its you or someone else who is being humiliated. Either it's happening to you or anyone else stand up for it guys. And also someone touching you in public place is definitely wrong but it shouldn't take 5-8 years of trauma to deal with that according to me
A very deep one.... I am psychology Enthusiast and an empath so I could understand the concepts with ease but I guess it wasn't easy one to digest for all. I always wanted to be a part of such conversations that are put under a rug for generations just to get it going smoothly on the outside ,as they say. I never thought such a rare discussion will be avaialable on youtube for free. I am so grateful for both you for this ❤ This is insane. I know this podcast doesn't got much reviews because it is so ahead of time. 5 or 10 years down the line when people collectively will be ready to address it this episode is gonna be the treasure for them then. Again Thank you so much🙏🧿🌈✨️💐🙌. I was hesitant to start this episode because I am empath and it could trigger some wounds but thank God I did 😊🙌🙏🧿✨️🌈💐
Neha Bhat is very good in articulation and has deep understanding. Ranveer is a diamond and superb. He should do more of these interviews. Excellent interview and i would rate this as Ranveer's best and no. 1 in his entire timeline.
oh common the lady highlighting 2/3 case, practiced her studies in chicago, giving diplomatic answers and talking with most privileged guy who himself is learning about indian culture though the topic is very good and need tobe shared am not against it just a pov
The most important thing I learned from this podcast is that Maybee in some situation we can't be present there but we all can do one thing that is to be empathetic and kind to people..... More power to her!!
An only child here, the domestic violence part was very relatable. Growing up, watching parents fighting over little things and as she said, raising voice, hands and throwing objects, making mom feel that she is worthless... Man, I've seen alot. As a child, i wasn't able to do anything. Wasn't even allowed to raise my voice ( yes, I'm a girl). And always been a victim of this abuse. Dad abusing mom, mom cursing dad, mom being angry, mom abusing me, whatnot.... And the fun fact is that, i used to thing that this is how family works. Neither mom nor dad was there for me, even in my childhood. When covid hit and dad and mom were "home" always, all i could see was just fights... Fights and being slapped and verbal abuse.. God I should say this, Verbal abuse is no different than physical abuse. No bruises, but still more pain and horror in it. And at covid time, when school reopened, i really needed to talk to someone about this. But i was also so sure that none of my friends could understand what I'm going through because all of them had great family, loving family. I'm never jealous of their family becase I don't think there is something to be jealous of. I mean, that's how life is... That's how you live happily, with your parents, there's nothing to be jealous of. I'm actually very happy for everyone, not just my friends, but evryone who have a nice family/parents. and I should say this, that I only get to know that, i was growing in a toxic household when my friends talk about there families. When i was very young, i had no idea about this toxicity. As i grew older, as i could understand more, i realised how horror my life actually is. And once things start to be more and more violent, i was literally afraid to step into my house. I used to hate Friday's because after friday, Saturday and Sunday i should be in my house, getting beaten up and hearing things that i could never forget. The way the verbal abusing impacted on me is unexplainable. I used to be a cool, chill, smart, always happy girl. But verbal abuse made my world upside down, everytime mom yells at me, it used to shook me to the core. School was my only happy place. And once i was done being a victim if this toxic household, i knew i should speak about this and that's when i talked to my class tr. The relief is... I don't know hiw to explain. It was like being in a quite place after being in a big, loud crowd for a long period of time. But at first, even my tr asked me if it was some sort of build up story because she could never believe that I'm going through this much, bearing this much pain both physically, mentally and emotionally. And i showed her the marks of beating and everything. I still remember the terror in her eyes, seeing those. I'm so happy that she gave me the love and everything i lacked in my entire childhood. The love of a mother, the care parents gave their child. She was nothing less than a mother for me. I really do believe that blood is not that makes family. I still remember crying inside hearing my friend's stories, the love thier parents have for them, the love they have for the parents. I was only afraid of my parents. But now it's changing. I'm setting my boundaries. I learnt to say NO. I raise voice when needed. I'm no longer their toy. And also I stop him now, when they starts a fight. I just don't let any fight go beyond some point. Corrects dad. But as she said, the person should be ready to understand or at least try to understand what the other is saying. But his ego is something i can do nothing about. But now i strictly warn both of them. Its not like everything has end. But it has reduced, I'll say. Now I'm 19, thanks to my tr. If i never had the feeling that she could understand me, i can't even imagine what would have happened. So grateful that i had someone like her in my life. Also i was very good at studying but these made me unable to even sleep good. But thank God, i somehow managed it and scored well for the boards. Anyways, maybe some bruises are gone, but even after these yrs, i could literally feel the physical pain. And also i don't think i would ever be able to forget what she said to me, what all she yelled at me. She always used to say that i was the problem. Like why did i born, like bro what? Did i did something to made be??? Excuse me? What am i missing here??? Whatever, this was exactly why i was suicidal. Because she constantly used to yell at me that i was her problem so i thought why not put an end for her "problem" ie, her child. Yeah i know it was very rubbish and childish of me to think that way. I mean of course i was "child" back then. So Yeah thats it. Just thought that i could share this here. Maybe alot of people are going through the same. So for them, pls talk to someone you trust, build the courage to talk back, to defend yourself and to stand for your loved ones. But first, pls love yourself. Pls be kind to yourself,❤
Congratulations beer biceps for making 139k viewers aware of the damage that rapes makes in the victims life and this is what needed to reduce rape cases, that's the awareness.
Sometimes (often, actually 🙃) I thank RUclips and all associated stakeholders (the podcast/vlog creator first and foremost) for getting me pertinent, infotainment-rich material. This video clip tops the list. Each and every word in this was eye-opening, alarming and poignant.....but the Lady explains it all so well. Thank you Beer Biceps for asking all the right questions. The part about signs of se**al trauma not being that obvious in men (and the topic needing careful navigation to understand) hit home so hard. It makes me want to be that much more sensitive towards my loved ones.... There is a lot of educational material within this episode and not only from a clinical perspective. ONe great podcast! 👏👏👏👏👏 Many Thanks for this. On behalf of the audience, Thanks to Neha Bhat too for sharing such relevant and accurate information. More Power to You!
@BeerBiceps - Sometimes we don’t even know what abuse is . What qualifies as domestic abuse . What qualifies as financial abuse . How does one manage if its not society’s common definition ( which of course is relative) It will be good hear Neha’s understanding experience on it 2. A lot of people always ask me - Why therapy ., I don’t have a real issue like anxiety or panic attack . I loved her articulation of It’s growth mindset. Can we have hee talk more about how people who don’t have any surface symptom start with a therapist
You don't have to have multiple partners to know which partner suits you the best, relationship is not only about sex. btw amazing podcast, amazing guest..
2 hours podcast was like just 10 minutes. This is called as a perfect podcast when guest and host both are amazing humans, understanding each other while conversing and showing empathy to each other by body language and beautiful words. Thank you Ranveer bro for such an amazing podcast and whenever I watch your videos, it always doubles your respect in mind. You’re doing a fantastic job. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Hi Ranveer. Please do an episode on Narcissism. A lot of them don’t know of they’re in a narcissistic relationship or parenting. Btw love this episode. Looking forward for more such psychology based. episodes
I’m afraid since his reach is so much, ppl will start labelling ppl left right and centre, which is already happening. it’s a complex topic and the content on this subject in India is not very nuanced and can be detrimental. Other than Dr.Ramani there’s only one guy in India on RUclips whose doing an exemplary job but he’s not so popular so won’t be invited cause it’s a numbers game usually
I'm a somatic therapist in training, and I say this with the experience of being in therapy myself for three years that therapy is one of many ways of healing. It's not the be all, end all of healing. Different things work for different people at different points of their life. For me a mix of things has been helpful and sometimes being in therapy has even made things worse!
Solution according to me 1 Don't supress anything otherwise it will blast off 2 we need gender neutral laws because many loyal men get suffered and exploited because of it. 3 law should be made for letting sex hapens in a controlled way not to bully some one 4 taboo should be removed from sex 5 provisions should be made for couples legally and they should be given freedom 6 law should teach a lesson to people beyond gender 7 law should first understand that people have needs and look that how that needs could be met in an correct way instead of just making laws blindly or suppressing people
Another mysogynistic comment objectifying women. Sadly the commentor is also uneducated and uncultured. Birth is an accident. Hold on to these feelings when you're born as a woman in your subsequent births, Mr. Patil.
Abuse starts from mother innocently thrusting food forcefully into the mouth of the baby who refuses to eat or not hungry. This looks so simple yet it leaves a scar in the child's psyche . And this is so normal so rampant it happens in almost every household. Wonderful conversation this is. Thank you
I feel that. Even if it's said that humans don't remember their babyhood, I have carried this feeling of helplessness and forced trauma on me since then. This has led to a lot of issues around my character, my sexuality, etc.
@@Shivani-kw9kx I feel this force feeding parents have no ill feeling. They just think babies will starve so do that. Here doctors advice comes in handy. They must instruct the parents about how to feed when to do so. How to encourage the baby to eat by itself.
Today's dirty time is making everything dirty and forcing people to look at things with victim mentality otherwise in the past people were not complaining about their parents feeding them food forcefully because overall that time was good and lust was not completely imposed on the mind of society through movies,drama or entertainment shows.
The rarest podcast which is so deep and helpful for many people out there ❤ Love & healing to the ones who have been through any kind of abuse in their lives.
Yeah I have read that & even Uddhav Gita. Its as amazing as BG. But the depth of mind & unconscious prblms driving 2 sex prblms she is talking abt is mentioned already in our other books lyk upanishads & vedas too. Leftist & west just know kamasutra which is at th last part of th book not th entire book itself as they project it to b
@@RupaM-b9jyeah! These people are doing the works of asura's....driving people away from real knowledge and motivating them towards temporary pleasures
Thank you Ranveer! It was absolutely needed for the world! We would appreciate more of taboo toppics and also talking about how concretely processing these traumas and when do we know that it's done. This nonsense of a rape case being closed after 10 years like it never happened and being unpresentable to justice, for example, is a clear sign that people think time erases these things. Also talking more about hypersexuality as a contradictory response to fear of the partners. Also I would appreciate explanation about total lack of understanding of the dept of the trauma inflicted by the doer him/herself and is it because of them never being experiencing these type of violence themselves. Thank you so much! ❤
This podcast was absolutely amazing, especially as a trauma informed therapist, I got to learn so much. We need Neha ma'am again on the show!!! And Ranveer, every man should be like you❤
I am a psychologist and I am really thankful to this guy and the therapist to highlight very important topic in india infact I can say in the world people really don't know what to do with their problem which is deeply rooted but they often ignore As a Psychologist i will say to people please don't hesitate going to therapist even a sex therapist or a psychologist Podcast cannot heal you, but it can give you needful Knowledge like this podcast Going to a therapeutic clinic doesn't make you poor or mental infact it teaches you how to live life to fullest and making you feel more confident and more known to yourself that you have never experienced yet
Its an amazing podcast . Can you maybe do the similar podcast in Hindi so we can share with older generation who probably concieve media in HINDI . Nice work with this podcast ! 😄
This podcast is just so amazing.. I was going through anxiety dipression and anger issues and was very confused as to why this was happening but after listening to this podcast I understood a lot...
Well wish whole TRS tream"we love you guys "Try to bring madan guptha from Andhra Pradesh.He is extrem knowledged person we love he talks on Indian research on his way of view
Just listening to your intro literally brought tears to my eyes, my respect for Ranveer has grown immensely. You are a true man, i hope there are more guys and public influencers like you out there who can give out public statements to actually create an impact.
This is such a wholesome episode for all the aspects of mind. I do not think the thumbnail of the video does the content justice. The video has a lot more lovely topics, but we are prone to making snap judgements about it based only on its title and thumbnail.
There's no one thread that this episode follows. Too vague. You two are talking about a topic and not finishing it fulling. That feels very unsettling.
All he cares about is being relevant to the algorithm and current affairs. It's not about making people aware of topics, its about following trends and making business 🐒
He touched on various broad topics and I think this episode is an introduction to what many people go through that are "hidden" in the society. It is a great way to start a conversation about sexual trauma and trauma in general through his channel. May encourage some people to accept their past and seek help, you never know. She also recommended some books, you can read them if you want to go deep
@@avinash2150 Why shouldn't he care about his business? The episode was great about making people aware of these vulnerable topics in a broad spectrum, some of which we might not be aware as a society. Go read the books she recommended if you care about going deep into them. I don't think these conversations happen often and bringing a sex trauma therapist is an awesome job
Thank you Ranveer and Neha for this wonderful episode... I have got tremendous insights from this episode... I now, have got a much deeper knowledge of a major incident that happened in my life and it has already healed me somewhat... I really cannot thank you both enough!!!♥️
I got goosebumps after watching this podcast... You are dope ranveer.... Amazing work man... Waiting for this podcast for 3 years... And finally we are here 🔥 🔥 Ranveer Allahabadia🎉🎉 One correction- it's subjective but please don't promote multiple partners
I feel the background music in the intro is overly dramatic and distracting. If the goal is to help the audience understand the topic or issue being discussed, it would be better to use simpler, more neutral music, rather than something that feels like breaking news on TV. A more subtle approach would improve the overall experience.
Yes Ranveer pls change the background score in the beginning... Your podcasts are calming so we come with that mindset but the fast hard music is like a oxymoron ... I have to fast forward every time
Omg not touching your body parts is so real😢 and wow, just a single podcast has answered so many deep rooted questions. Its amazing when people actually know and understand your perspective
This is one of the best podcasts you could do, Ranveer. And Neha was so so brilliant. I am quite sure that many people who have been sitting on the fence about seeking help with feel confident and courage to go for it. Please have more of such content for everyone. Best
Although laws exist to prevent rape and sanction offenders, the mechanisms designed to apprehend these criminals, substantiate their crimes, and bring them to justice remain notably inadequate. Those in positions of power often craft these laws, only to subsequently ensure that they are seldom enforced.
This was a relatively difficult podcast to sit through. But it was very interesting and thought provocative. This episode increased the respect I had for Ranveer. He is more intellectual person than he looks. I always admired him for a good entrepreneur and a smart individual that he is but I realise how sensible and mature he could be at times while dealing with sensitive and complex topics like sexual and domestic abuse.
@@FreeFire-hz9qs My example would be tyranny. Raised by a petty tyrant who was raised by petty tyrants. In an effort to survive, I became a tyrant over myself. Because of that I became domineering over others until I realized that I was becoming that which wounded me. Once I saw that I began to let go of my need to dominate myself and with that, the need to control everything else also began to subside. I am becoming a person who can see people the way they are, meet them there, and treat them with dignity and respect. That’s freedom. That’s love and joy and peace. The need to control the self and others is a quick path to madness and death. Live100cent is absolutely correct. This was no one day job. I’m still working on it. But that cycle is so full of cracks now, as soon as the time is right I will shatter it and I will never have to worry about falling into that trap again.
I wish we could had a place where we can share. What we are feeling, no one is there to judge us, no one is there to make fun of our emotions and understand what we are feeling.
We need to have more podcasts like this. Kudos to both of you. This is like making people aware of the definition of abuse. Indian society needs to talk about subjects like these more often. Awesome conversation .
Hey Ranveer you are grt I being a female like to hit the gym/aerobics/yoga whenever I am in pain ,anger. I totally agree to neha on her concept of healing in india
1:24:11 but I saw different scenario where North Indian girls are taking charge to initiate conversation but south indian girls are shy , or even not interested in taking charge . I felt north indian girls are more Masculine than south indian boys 😂
I never get attracted to Ranveer's podcasts but today I just opened to see as what have mentioned on the thumbnail is it really relatable with video or not, but after watching for few minutes I got deep into the video and it was really amazing how you both are talking about real things in such a way that normally we people suffer but we don't find out like this is something on which we can talk or we can talk in a positive way like we always have doubts for these topics.
I am an emotional person and I was delaying this video for so long. Today I saw the video and came to know how these heinous act have become so common in our society and we have just accepted it. I really feel powerless and useless right now. What can I do sometimes I feel like people no longer fear the law and the law has become a joke in this country. I am thinking of leaving this country otherwise I will never get internal peace.
This was the one of best podcast Ranveer. I literally can't skip any part of it because i have been going through such a relationship with my boyfriend. I am confused with his behaviour. I am not saying he is toxic but sometimes he is not reacting to those things which he have to react. I love him a lot but all of my friends says he is not good for you. He always ignores the deep talks related to our future, he doesn't commit anything to me. I don't know what to do. Bt ryt know i started to maintain a gap with him so that i feel okay because i am dealing with anxiety nd these things triggered my anxiety a lot.
dear beer biceps, Though the quality of your videos is beyond my expectations, I would like to tell you that there is a mistake or flaw whatever you might say in the switch to 1.5x part because the white text is blending with your white sleeves. to fix that, you can add a shadow behind the text which can be used in any videos as it would not hamper anything . Thank you
Hello again! I have completed watching the entire episode today, this topic is very deep and diverse but I appreciate the guts of entire TRS team and guest Neha mam, to choose this topic and to present this topic in this way, you people did justice to this topic. Good luck for 17 more episodes to go. Thank you
From this episode i kind of found the reason why i find disgust with me. During our vacations, we used to go to our village and there was a person of maybe my grandfather's age who used to take care of some of our land, he used to touch me inappropriately in my private parts and tell me that i was such a good girl. I was just 7 or 8 maybe. After few instances, i was scared of that person and i used to hide when he used to come to our house. He still takes care of our home back in the village and is paid by my father. I have tried to find pleasure from my partner now, but i always end up being irritated. I had told by grandmother about it, but she told he was just playing with me and it was absolutely normal. She asked me to stop wearing tshirt and capri and start wearing something that would not lure him. I had almost forgotten about it, and could never understand the meaning of the problem that was there.
I am so happy to see you have included the topic marital rape in this podcast, as I am a lawyer and also a law masters degree student, I chose the topic marital rape in my masters final year dissertation, so much hardwork I gave for that entire dissertation as I know the topic's worth in recent times, also ironically in India marital rape is not a crime if the girl the above 18, only under 18 years girls are subjected to file case of marital rape, even worsen the situation was when the age limit was 15, I seriously don't know the logic behind this law as under 18 years even marriage is not valid our country, so marital rape is not a crime at all.... So coming back to my point, when I went for my dissertation viva all the eminent professor who tell themselves so much educated, experienced about laws etc etc, just after listening my topic they were like "how would you prove this in court" ? Even not a single line the listened and continued their same question, I know this can be hard to prove in court but dude, you can't ask one another question about this topic? Just one question came to your mind about such important topic...this is the reality of our education system and society, if you choose any controversial topic, they will just let you down anyhow
much needed episode for this generation,and thankyou ranveer for not hesitating and asking basic questions which are generally not answered and which stay in people's mind.power to u my brother
One of the most super super super super super super super super super super super super super super super amazing podcast I have seen and got the very of just being a mental health expert
I think more people should watch this video, well explained for both genders. Many people dont know how to react or empathize with someone who is going through such things so this video can be helpful to them.
thank God Neha madam said that Domestic violence is not gender specific. Often I feel that society becomes excessive Feminist and look on everything with Feminist glasses on.
@@shiraliprajapati5804 ism is not a preferrable theme in indian philosophy culture/ consciousness West had always put a labelling system, segregation system for their understanding and comprehension But in our culture societal or welfare or even scientific we don't need that ,our understanding and comprehension was always enhanced You see conflicts and confusion in West due to this system
We’ve seen so many of you asking about how to start your healing journey after listening to this podcast. To support you, we’ve included a link to a free sexual trauma healing masterclass here: bit.ly/3zqxFxy
We hope this resource offers the support you need. 💛
Hi Ranvir bhaiya , I have tried approaching u , viraj bhai , I have good experience in marketing and Sales as well as social media management, I need a job immediately, My mother is diagnosed with her2 positive breast cancer , and I am jobless since my own company closed and i am in debt , somehow when i tried recovering my
Mother got diagnosed please help me out
Want to listen capt. Praveen chaturvedi. A great guy having best ideas and working on that. Please call them
Please come back for Neha Bhat ma'am
Awesome.... Make a Hindi podcast with her.... Becoz many Hindi listener need her 😇
Avoid sweets, sugar, chocolate, fastfoods, watermelon to avoid lust feelings. 💪💪✌️
Eat ragi soup.
Brahmacharya since 1 year 😊
The intro. 💪. What a genuine guy, ranveer. Kudos to your mom for raising a gentleman. India would be such a better place to live in if there are more guys like you.
Thankyou ❤
Kudos to the parents* ☺️
He is a joker
Totally Agree ❤😊
@@HJHarsh-d8g that’s exactly what your Parents said when the Doctor Handed you to them 😂
@@sumirat6888 seems like it happened with you and still happening with you all people who see you may tell you a Joker
Her empathy is amazing. As a fellow healer, i think she is absolutely amazing. Thankyou for this episode ive learned a lot.
I am extremely in awe with this woman because nobody and I mean it nobody is able to connect all three 'law, spirituality and psychological' aspects of such issues and she did all of it perfectly.
She is such a lovely therapist. From what all I am learning from my masters degree in Psychology, she is exactly displaying it there. We are taught how a therapist first actively listens to what the other person has to say and then paraphrases it and then summarises it to the client. I wish to be like her. A therapist as good as Neha is❤️ Manifesting 🧿
Found myself taking breaks in between because it was getting really triggering, but it's so so important to have more conversations like this! Thank you for doing this podcast, loved it.
childhood trauma, toxic parenting . no one wants to talk about it because parents are meant to be gods in our society and not as normal humans
Same brother
To Ranveer-considering follow up topics:
1. Hidden incest...
2. Marry with exclamation mark: your depression will go away ...("shaadhi karlo, sab depression mit jayenge")
3. "forced marriage" [!!]
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India is a huge country...and much diversity
Agreed
Agree
Hidden incest is so so so so so much fucking important. I'm seeing it fucking everywhere and nobody is ready to even accept it.
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As a cis-male survivor of rape, I feel so validated by this episode, especially since it comes from a desi standpoint. Thank you!!!
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Love to you
Sending you lots of love dear ❤❤❤
Sexual trauma is not only for women, so many men has gone through this and they never open up. They should start talking about it and heal. It’s much need of the hour
But still they don,t understand the problem
Friends telling a traumatised person to beer chill and go for casual sex is exactly like old parents tell traumatised married couples to have children and it will all “go away”. It is not boredom, it’s long term chronic trauma. People are uneducated
Trauma informed homes are a gift...but people who grow up in a family taht isnt trauma informed go through a lot of abuse but then kya karein we move on with sacrs....some rimes the scars heal some times they dont and after a certain age you learn to live with it and make peace ...its the "in between period thats hellish"
Take care every one
Thank you for the episode RA
Much light
Much fun!
How the both situations are same? one is escaping the other is an extra burden
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Yes you said right he is bull bhit
@@Lamcuyp572L one is escaping?... that's NOT escape for someone whose been molested!
This is much needed for the Indian audience not just based in India but for the global Indian community. The intro is gripping!
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@@beerbiceps can u look for the guy asking a job in comment section. he is in need ,please help him. its about his mother please look. His username "Uskeje-SarAayaan"
@@beerbiceps Hi Ranveer bhaiya I have tried approaching u and lakshay bhai, I have good experience in marketing and Sales as well as social media management, I need a job immediately, My mother is diagnosed with her2 positive breast cancer , and I am jobless since my own company closed and i am in debt , somehow when i tried recovering my
Mother got diagnosed please help me out
@@beerbiceps Hi Ranvir bhaiya , I have tried approaching u , viraj bhai , I have good experience in marketing and Sales as well as social media management, I need a job immediately, My mother is diagnosed with her2 positive breast cancer , and I am jobless since my own company closed and i am in debt , somehow when i tried recovering my
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She’s a great conversationalist, love how she engages you in it
During my college days , I remember, when I had the first encounter of someone touching my ass in an overcrowded bus, I was just 17 fresh out of school. I don't know, why but it felt so disgusting...later I had felt very demeaning about myself....it took me almost 5 to 8 years to come out of that rabbit hole...and regain my self esteem.... hardest part was ....I could not share it with anyone...not even my mum or sister....
I have tried and still continue trying my level best to give that space to my daughters where they can come home and unload their trauma....I regularly sit with them and discuss my own shortcomings, as a kid and teen and encourage them to share their own things also in the process tell them ...
You handle challenges with such strength and grace.
But you casually commented this on the most used social application?
@@abhishekyadav3329 she just said she is now okay talking about it what do you mean?
Every womans' story and a few mens' too! You are setting a great benchmark here for sound parenting! Thanks for sharing this with us all.
Next time something like this happens you face the guy who is doing that on the spot. Does not matter if its you or someone else who is being humiliated. Either it's happening to you or anyone else stand up for it guys. And also someone touching you in public place is definitely wrong but it shouldn't take 5-8 years of trauma to deal with that according to me
A very deep one.... I am psychology Enthusiast and an empath so I could understand the concepts with ease but I guess it wasn't easy one to digest for all. I always wanted to be a part of such conversations that are put under a rug for generations just to get it going smoothly on the outside ,as they say. I never thought such a rare discussion will be avaialable on youtube for free. I am so grateful for both you for this ❤ This is insane. I know this podcast doesn't got much reviews because it is so ahead of time. 5 or 10 years down the line when people collectively will be ready to address it this episode is gonna be the treasure for them then. Again Thank you so much🙏🧿🌈✨️💐🙌. I was hesitant to start this episode because I am empath and it could trigger some wounds but thank God I did 😊🙌🙏🧿✨️🌈💐
Kudos to her for explaining such complex things on such a surface level!
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46:13 so kind of her to give a trigger warning. Very empathetic!
Neha Bhat is very good in articulation and has deep understanding. Ranveer is a diamond and superb. He should do more of these interviews. Excellent interview and i would rate this as Ranveer's best and no. 1 in his entire timeline.
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oh common the lady highlighting 2/3 case, practiced her studies in chicago, giving diplomatic answers and talking with most privileged guy who himself is learning about indian culture though the topic is very good and need tobe shared am not against it just a pov
Only if she decides to spend another 20L
The most important thing I learned from this podcast is that
Maybee in some situation we can't be present there but we all can do one thing that is to be empathetic and kind to people.....
More power to her!!
An only child here, the domestic violence part was very relatable. Growing up, watching parents fighting over little things and as she said, raising voice, hands and throwing objects, making mom feel that she is worthless... Man, I've seen alot. As a child, i wasn't able to do anything. Wasn't even allowed to raise my voice ( yes, I'm a girl). And always been a victim of this abuse. Dad abusing mom, mom cursing dad, mom being angry, mom abusing me, whatnot....
And the fun fact is that, i used to thing that this is how family works. Neither mom nor dad was there for me, even in my childhood.
When covid hit and dad and mom were "home" always, all i could see was just fights... Fights and being slapped and verbal abuse.. God I should say this, Verbal abuse is no different than physical abuse. No bruises, but still more pain and horror in it. And at covid time, when school reopened, i really needed to talk to someone about this. But i was also so sure that none of my friends could understand what I'm going through because all of them had great family, loving family. I'm never jealous of their family becase I don't think there is something to be jealous of. I mean, that's how life is... That's how you live happily, with your parents, there's nothing to be jealous of. I'm actually very happy for everyone, not just my friends, but evryone who have a nice family/parents. and I should say this, that I only get to know that, i was growing in a toxic household when my friends talk about there families. When i was very young, i had no idea about this toxicity. As i grew older, as i could understand more, i realised how horror my life actually is.
And once things start to be more and more violent, i was literally afraid to step into my house. I used to hate Friday's because after friday, Saturday and Sunday i should be in my house, getting beaten up and hearing things that i could never forget. The way the verbal abusing impacted on me is unexplainable. I used to be a cool, chill, smart, always happy girl. But verbal abuse made my world upside down, everytime mom yells at me, it used to shook me to the core. School was my only happy place. And once i was done being a victim if this toxic household, i knew i should speak about this and that's when i talked to my class tr. The relief is... I don't know hiw to explain. It was like being in a quite place after being in a big, loud crowd for a long period of time. But at first, even my tr asked me if it was some sort of build up story because she could never believe that I'm going through this much, bearing this much pain both physically, mentally and emotionally. And i showed her the marks of beating and everything. I still remember the terror in her eyes, seeing those. I'm so happy that she gave me the love and everything i lacked in my entire childhood. The love of a mother, the care parents gave their child. She was nothing less than a mother for me. I really do believe that blood is not that makes family. I still remember crying inside hearing my friend's stories, the love thier parents have for them, the love they have for the parents. I was only afraid of my parents.
But now it's changing. I'm setting my boundaries. I learnt to say NO. I raise voice when needed. I'm no longer their toy. And also I stop him now, when they starts a fight. I just don't let any fight go beyond some point. Corrects dad. But as she said, the person should be ready to understand or at least try to understand what the other is saying. But his ego is something i can do nothing about. But now i strictly warn both of them. Its not like everything has end. But it has reduced, I'll say. Now I'm 19, thanks to my tr. If i never had the feeling that she could understand me, i can't even imagine what would have happened. So grateful that i had someone like her in my life. Also i was very good at studying but these made me unable to even sleep good. But thank God, i somehow managed it and scored well for the boards.
Anyways, maybe some bruises are gone, but even after these yrs, i could literally feel the physical pain. And also i don't think i would ever be able to forget what she said to me, what all she yelled at me.
She always used to say that i was the problem. Like why did i born, like bro what? Did i did something to made be??? Excuse me? What am i missing here??? Whatever, this was exactly why i was suicidal. Because she constantly used to yell at me that i was her problem so i thought why not put an end for her "problem" ie, her child. Yeah i know it was very rubbish and childish of me to think that way. I mean of course i was "child" back then. So Yeah thats it. Just thought that i could share this here. Maybe alot of people are going through the same. So for them, pls talk to someone you trust, build the courage to talk back, to defend yourself and to stand for your loved ones. But first, pls love yourself. Pls be kind to yourself,❤
Sorry for what you have been through. Be Happy & Be Strong ❤
@patelsumit20 😊🖤
Oh...I am half way through and I am so much loving this conversation....it's really Time that we need more of such discussions
Congratulations beer biceps for making 139k viewers aware of the damage that rapes makes in the victims life and this is what needed to reduce rape cases, that's the awareness.
It was because of the lady who approached them and paid them for the podcast
Thank to the lady who paid him for that
Sometimes (often, actually 🙃) I thank RUclips and all associated stakeholders (the podcast/vlog creator first and foremost) for getting me pertinent, infotainment-rich material. This video clip tops the list.
Each and every word in this was eye-opening, alarming and poignant.....but the Lady explains it all so well. Thank you Beer Biceps for asking all the right questions.
The part about signs of se**al trauma not being that obvious in men (and the topic needing careful navigation to understand) hit home so hard. It makes me want to be that much more sensitive towards my loved ones....
There is a lot of educational material within this episode and not only from a clinical perspective.
ONe great podcast! 👏👏👏👏👏 Many Thanks for this.
On behalf of the audience, Thanks to Neha Bhat too for sharing such relevant and accurate information. More Power to You!
@BeerBiceps - Sometimes we don’t even know what abuse is . What qualifies as domestic abuse . What qualifies as financial abuse . How does one manage if its not society’s common definition ( which of course is relative) It will be good hear Neha’s understanding experience on it
2. A lot of people always ask me - Why therapy ., I don’t have a real issue like anxiety or panic attack . I loved her articulation of It’s growth mindset. Can we have hee talk more about how people who don’t have any surface symptom start with a therapist
You don't have to have multiple partners to know which partner suits you the best, relationship is not only about sex. btw amazing podcast, amazing guest..
It's lust too much of lust these days.. everything is normal..
You always don't need to come to Canada and smell up the place.
This is your best podcast till date. Mark my words.❤
First image that comes into my mind is "Therapy is costly" even though I am open for it.
Trueeeee😭I'm spending minimum 10k a month
2 hours podcast was like just 10 minutes. This is called as a perfect podcast when guest and host both are amazing humans, understanding each other while conversing and showing empathy to each other by body language and beautiful words.
Thank you Ranveer bro for such an amazing podcast and whenever I watch your videos, it always doubles your respect in mind. You’re doing a fantastic job. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Been waiting for this podcast for so long! Finally it's here. ❤️
Wow can't believe i just finished a 2 hr long podcast. It was so interesting, so insightful. ❤
Hi Ranveer. Please do an episode on Narcissism. A lot of them don’t know of they’re in a narcissistic relationship or parenting. Btw love this episode. Looking forward for more such psychology based. episodes
I’m afraid since his reach is so much, ppl will start labelling ppl left right and centre, which is already happening. it’s a complex topic and the content on this subject in India is not very nuanced and can be detrimental. Other than Dr.Ramani there’s only one guy in India on RUclips whose doing an exemplary job but he’s not so popular so won’t be invited cause it’s a numbers game usually
I'm a somatic therapist in training, and I say this with the experience of being in therapy myself for three years that therapy is one of many ways of healing. It's not the be all, end all of healing. Different things work for different people at different points of their life. For me a mix of things has been helpful and sometimes being in therapy has even made things worse!
Solution according to me
1 Don't supress anything otherwise it will blast off
2 we need gender neutral laws because many loyal men get suffered and exploited because of it.
3 law should be made for letting sex hapens in a controlled way not to bully some one
4 taboo should be removed from sex
5 provisions should be made for couples legally and they should be given freedom
6 law should teach a lesson to people beyond gender
7 law should first understand that people have needs and look that how that needs could be met in an correct way instead of just making laws blindly or suppressing people
Fully agree
Another mysogynistic comment objectifying women. Sadly the commentor is also uneducated and uncultured.
Birth is an accident. Hold on to these feelings when you're born as a woman in your subsequent births, Mr. Patil.
Liked for only last point.
Well said 🙏🙏
It should still be considered taboo for teenagers
as a psychology student it was very very wonderful please bring in more content like this love u ranveer
I agree 💯 with your words
Abuse starts from mother innocently thrusting food forcefully into the mouth of the baby who refuses to eat or not hungry. This looks so simple yet it leaves a scar in the child's psyche . And this is so normal so rampant it happens in almost every household. Wonderful conversation this is. Thank you
I feel that. Even if it's said that humans don't remember their babyhood, I have carried this feeling of helplessness and forced trauma on me since then. This has led to a lot of issues around my character, my sexuality, etc.
Quite true, parents are abusive in many ways
@@Shivani-kw9kx I feel this force feeding parents have no ill feeling. They just think babies will starve so do that. Here doctors advice comes in handy. They must instruct the parents about how to feed when to do so. How to encourage the baby to eat by itself.
@@UM8831-u8m true
Today's dirty time is making everything dirty and forcing people to look at things with victim mentality otherwise in the past people were not complaining about their parents feeding them food forcefully because overall that time was good and lust was not completely imposed on the mind of society through movies,drama or entertainment shows.
The rarest podcast which is so deep and helpful for many people out there ❤ Love & healing to the ones who have been through any kind of abuse in their lives.
Thats why people should read bhagwad gita....and maintain their balance in life
Yeah I have read that & even Uddhav Gita. Its as amazing as BG. But the depth of mind & unconscious prblms driving 2 sex prblms she is talking abt is mentioned already in our other books lyk upanishads & vedas too. Leftist & west just know kamasutra which is at th last part of th book not th entire book itself as they project it to b
@@RupaM-b9jyeah! These people are doing the works of asura's....driving people away from real knowledge and motivating them towards temporary pleasures
Hare Krishna || Radhe Radhe 🙏
@@vik4am radhe radhe ... Haribol!
Amazing Ranveer, thanks for bringing her she is really great with engaging the audience . Lot of love Ranveer for being this in open
Informative, enlightening, triggering and something which made me sigh and cry.
Thank you Ranveer! It was absolutely needed for the world!
We would appreciate more of taboo toppics and also talking about how concretely processing these traumas and when do we know that it's done.
This nonsense of a rape case being closed after 10 years like it never happened and being unpresentable to justice, for example, is a clear sign that people think time erases these things.
Also talking more about hypersexuality as a contradictory response to fear of the partners.
Also I would appreciate explanation about total lack of understanding of the dept of the trauma inflicted by the doer him/herself and is it because of them never being experiencing these type of violence themselves.
Thank you so much! ❤
This podcast was absolutely amazing, especially as a trauma informed therapist, I got to learn so much. We need Neha ma'am again on the show!!! And Ranveer, every man should be like you❤
I am a psychologist and I am really thankful to this guy and the therapist to highlight very important topic in india infact I can say in the world people really don't know what to do with their problem which is deeply rooted but they often ignore
As a Psychologist i will say to people please don't hesitate going to therapist even a sex therapist or a psychologist
Podcast cannot heal you, but it can give you needful Knowledge like this podcast
Going to a therapeutic clinic doesn't make you poor or mental infact it teaches you how to live life to fullest and making you feel more confident and more known to yourself that you have never experienced yet
I needed this badly, I can't thank enough this platform 🙏
happy to hear u r from Karnataka ☺️☺️🎉. ಕನ್ನಡ ... ಕರ್ನಾಟಕ ..
Yeh
This was genuinely the best podcast. Please bring more of her podcasts
Its an amazing podcast . Can you maybe do the similar podcast in Hindi so we can share with older generation who probably concieve media in HINDI . Nice work with this podcast !
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This podcast is just so amazing.. I was going through anxiety dipression and anger issues and was very confused as to why this was happening but after listening to this podcast I understood a lot...
Well wish whole TRS tream"we love you guys "Try to bring madan guptha from Andhra Pradesh.He is extrem knowledged person we love he talks on Indian research on his way of view
Just listening to your intro literally brought tears to my eyes, my respect for Ranveer has grown immensely. You are a true man, i hope there are more guys and public influencers like you out there who can give out public statements to actually create an impact.
This is such a wholesome episode for all the aspects of mind. I do not think the thumbnail of the video does the content justice. The video has a lot more lovely topics, but we are prone to making snap judgements about it based only on its title and thumbnail.
25:58 time heals wounds? NO, time only teaches you how to live with that pain
What you’re saying is a mere philosophy mate. What she’s talking about is about practicality.
Oh wow so Sigma 🐺👿🐺🐺so cool bro 👿🐺🐺👿👿ahh wuuu ALPHA MALE let's goo 👿🐺🐺👿
You're so smart that the timing of the video is much needed and more perfect ....became a big fan of you bro ..kudos to your work ❤
There's no one thread that this episode follows. Too vague. You two are talking about a topic and not finishing it fulling. That feels very unsettling.
All he cares about is being relevant to the algorithm and current affairs. It's not about making people aware of topics, its about following trends and making business 🐒
@@avinash2150capitalism with utter unsastifaction
He touched on various broad topics and I think this episode is an introduction to what many people go through that are "hidden" in the society. It is a great way to start a conversation about sexual trauma and trauma in general through his channel. May encourage some people to accept their past and seek help, you never know. She also recommended some books, you can read them if you want to go deep
@@avinash2150 Why shouldn't he care about his business? The episode was great about making people aware of these vulnerable topics in a broad spectrum, some of which we might not be aware as a society. Go read the books she recommended if you care about going deep into them. I don't think these conversations happen often and bringing a sex trauma therapist is an awesome job
Thank you Ranveer and Neha for this wonderful episode... I have got tremendous insights from this episode... I now, have got a much deeper knowledge of a major incident that happened in my life and it has already healed me somewhat... I really cannot thank you both enough!!!♥️
Really?
Right 😊
I got goosebumps after watching this podcast... You are dope ranveer....
Amazing work man... Waiting for this podcast for 3 years... And finally we are here
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Ranveer Allahabadia🎉🎉
One correction- it's subjective but please don't promote multiple partners
Very powerful podcast...very powerful intro... Well done Ranveer... We should be taking accountability as a society...
I feel the background music in the intro is overly dramatic and distracting. If the goal is to help the audience understand the topic or issue being discussed, it would be better to use simpler, more neutral music, rather than something that feels like breaking news on TV. A more subtle approach would improve the overall experience.
your observation 🫡
Yes Ranveer pls change the background score in the beginning... Your podcasts are calming so we come with that mindset but the fast hard music is like a oxymoron ... I have to fast forward every time
Thank you Ranveer for this episode
I’m sorry for all the people (women and men)who went through such kind of traumatic experience.
Omg I love your approach to human psyche, depth psychology..wanting to enjoy the deep dives.
in the very first minutes of the video , i learned i too have Binging issue . thanks to this lady
Omg not touching your body parts is so real😢 and wow, just a single podcast has answered so many deep rooted questions. Its amazing when people actually know and understand your perspective
This is one of the best podcasts you could do, Ranveer. And Neha was so so brilliant. I am quite sure that many people who have been sitting on the fence about seeking help with feel confident and courage to go for it. Please have more of such content for everyone. Best
Amazing podcast , you are doing well ,keep doing this.
You both nailed it verry deep and difficult things you could manage to explain....with so maturity and responsibility.
Is this the real beer biceps channel? I hope it is?
Although laws exist to prevent rape and sanction offenders, the mechanisms designed to apprehend these criminals, substantiate their crimes, and bring them to justice remain notably inadequate. Those in positions of power often craft these laws, only to subsequently ensure that they are seldom enforced.
Here for Neha Bhatt❤. Just love for ya❤
This was a relatively difficult podcast to sit through. But it was very interesting and thought provocative. This episode increased the respect I had for Ranveer. He is more intellectual person than he looks. I always admired him for a good entrepreneur and a smart individual that he is but I realise how sensible and mature he could be at times while dealing with sensitive and complex topics like sexual and domestic abuse.
We need more episodes with her. This was such an eye opener. Do bring her back for more. 🥳🥳
I feel like breaking some generational cycles today, who’s with me?❤
Only if it was a one day job...
@@Live100cent Okay, just one crack today, and then tomorrow and then tomorrow, because eventually…
@mrhanekoma86 good idea, bevopen to some days no work too
@@mrhanekoma86 example?
@@FreeFire-hz9qs My example would be tyranny. Raised by a petty tyrant who was raised by petty tyrants. In an effort to survive, I became a tyrant over myself. Because of that I became domineering over others until I realized that I was becoming that which wounded me. Once I saw that I began to let go of my need to dominate myself and with that, the need to control everything else also began to subside. I am becoming a person who can see people the way they are, meet them there, and treat them with dignity and respect. That’s freedom. That’s love and joy and peace. The need to control the self and others is a quick path to madness and death. Live100cent is absolutely correct. This was no one day job. I’m still working on it. But that cycle is so full of cracks now, as soon as the time is right I will shatter it and I will never have to worry about falling into that trap again.
I wish we could had a place where we can share. What we are feeling, no one is there to judge us, no one is there to make fun of our emotions and understand what we are feeling.
Not mature enough to understand this kind of podcast!
We need to have more podcasts like this. Kudos to both of you. This is like making people aware of the definition of abuse. Indian society needs to talk about subjects like these more often. Awesome conversation .
Hey Ranveer you are grt
I being a female like to hit the gym/aerobics/yoga whenever I am in pain ,anger. I totally agree to neha on her concept of healing in india
I never went to gym😢
Neha! You're so amazing. Thank you for this podcast Ranveer!
1:24:11 but I saw different scenario where North Indian girls are taking charge to initiate conversation but south indian girls are shy , or even not interested in taking charge . I felt north indian girls are more Masculine than south indian boys 😂
She was just amazing 😭😭😭... developed an intellectual crush for her... please bring her again on your show @beerbiceps
I never get attracted to Ranveer's podcasts but today I just opened to see as what have mentioned on the thumbnail is it really relatable with video or not, but after watching for few minutes I got deep into the video and it was really amazing how you both are talking about real things in such a way that normally we people suffer but we don't find out like this is something on which we can talk or we can talk in a positive way like we always have doubts for these topics.
Very captivating podcast. Thank you Ranveer.
This was such a beautiful podcast ❤
Thank you for this podcast. Very much needed in today’s time.
I am an emotional person and I was delaying this video for so long. Today I saw the video and came to know how these heinous act have become so common in our society and we have just accepted it. I really feel powerless and useless right now. What can I do sometimes I feel like people no longer fear the law and the law has become a joke in this country. I am thinking of leaving this country otherwise I will never get internal peace.
Thank you for bringing this topic its very important right now for our indians but also globally
Would welcome more podcasts about processing human emotions... Fantastic episode!! Thank you
Heavenly info. Excellent podcast bro 💛
This was the one of best podcast Ranveer. I literally can't skip any part of it because i have been going through such a relationship with my boyfriend. I am confused with his behaviour. I am not saying he is toxic but sometimes he is not reacting to those things which he have to react. I love him a lot but all of my friends says he is not good for you. He always ignores the deep talks related to our future, he doesn't commit anything to me. I don't know what to do. Bt ryt know i started to maintain a gap with him so that i feel okay because i am dealing with anxiety nd these things triggered my anxiety a lot.
dear beer biceps,
Though the quality of your videos is beyond my expectations, I would like to tell you that there is a mistake or flaw whatever you might say in the switch to 1.5x part because the white text is blending with your white sleeves. to fix that, you can add a shadow behind the text which can be used in any videos as it would not hamper anything . Thank you
we want more of this sir great knowledgable pod. loved it
Hello again! I have completed watching the entire episode today, this topic is very deep and diverse but I appreciate the guts of entire TRS team and guest Neha mam, to choose this topic and to present this topic in this way, you people did justice to this topic. Good luck for 17 more episodes to go.
Thank you
From this episode i kind of found the reason why i find disgust with me. During our vacations, we used to go to our village and there was a person of maybe my grandfather's age who used to take care of some of our land, he used to touch me inappropriately in my private parts and tell me that i was such a good girl. I was just 7 or 8 maybe. After few instances, i was scared of that person and i used to hide when he used to come to our house. He still takes care of our home back in the village and is paid by my father. I have tried to find pleasure from my partner now, but i always end up being irritated. I had told by grandmother about it, but she told he was just playing with me and it was absolutely normal. She asked me to stop wearing tshirt and capri and start wearing something that would not lure him. I had almost forgotten about it, and could never understand the meaning of the problem that was there.
I am so happy to see you have included the topic marital rape in this podcast, as I am a lawyer and also a law masters degree student, I chose the topic marital rape in my masters final year dissertation, so much hardwork I gave for that entire dissertation as I know the topic's worth in recent times, also ironically in India marital rape is not a crime if the girl the above 18, only under 18 years girls are subjected to file case of marital rape, even worsen the situation was when the age limit was 15, I seriously don't know the logic behind this law as under 18 years even marriage is not valid our country, so marital rape is not a crime at all.... So coming back to my point, when I went for my dissertation viva all the eminent professor who tell themselves so much educated, experienced about laws etc etc, just after listening my topic they were like "how would you prove this in court" ? Even not a single line the listened and continued their same question, I know this can be hard to prove in court but dude, you can't ask one another question about this topic? Just one question came to your mind about such important topic...this is the reality of our education system and society, if you choose any controversial topic, they will just let you down anyhow
Thank you, both, for this MASSIVE healing prayers and information 🌹🙏🏽🪷 BLESSINGS to all🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 from Belgium, Europe 🦋
much needed episode for this generation,and thankyou ranveer for not hesitating and asking basic questions which are generally not answered and which stay in people's mind.power to u my brother
Thank you so much for bringing such amazing and eye opening conversations.
This is a great interview. Thanks for doing this!!!
One of the most super super super super super super super super super super super super super super super amazing podcast I have seen and got the very of just being a mental health expert
My body smelled of him when this happened to me. I trusted him as a father figure
I think more people should watch this video, well explained for both genders. Many people dont know how to react or empathize with someone who is going through such things so this video can be helpful to them.
thank God Neha madam said that Domestic violence is not gender specific. Often I feel that society becomes excessive Feminist and look on everything with Feminist glasses on.
Is not gender specific ( the most feminist talking point ever) it's feminism
Tum hi bta do kitne percentage me feminist hona chahiye 😅
Feminism means equality, it doesn't support women over men. What you are describing isn't at all feminism. Just letting you know what feminism means.
@@saisbooksclub6521 how much feminism is 'excessive' ?
@@shiraliprajapati5804 ism is not a preferrable theme in indian philosophy culture/ consciousness
West had always put a labelling system, segregation system for their understanding and comprehension
But in our culture societal or welfare or even scientific we don't need that ,our understanding and comprehension was always enhanced
You see conflicts and confusion in West due to this system