*Important topic for discussion..... sometimes wife face lots of problems just because that partner who would be behaving like an animal....after everything had happened she suffered from severe infections and these infection took long time to be cured fully, during this period this period of time she has to perform all her house chores also so, .....girls and women please take care of yourself from such type of verocios animals*
Wtf are these comments? This is a serious issue and the therapist was smart enough to explain it happens to both the genders and how to solve it, but people have made it a notion that things that make them uncomfortable must contradict their beliefs and are not ready to listen. Truly pathetic but very nice conversation ranveer.
You really need a good and deep understanding of humanity, love and compassion to understand how much depth and importance this particular podcast holds in Indian history! Hats off ranveer and Neha! If people can understand it and take this seriously, this will break the generational curses of many women and men! I really pray, hope and wish!
I like to get married but I am not ok with naked sex..I am not asexual...I am ok with hugs and french kiss and all..I will be open about all this in my profile...I will only marry if the partner is ok with all these.. Consent is important even in marriage
@@aryangovind422 yes genius! She's implying she won't be willing to marry someone who doesn't want the same things as her or isn't comfortable with her boundaries in the marriage
People in comment section be like - I have to introspect, think and question the norm! Too much work. Just say - "western influence", "bakwas" "breaking family" etc.
Just today my mother met one of my previous neighborhood friend. She got married not long ago (1-2 years), and is forced to live with the husband's family and the husband is so torturous and manipulative that she got pregnant against her will immediately after marriage, and then after giving birth, she again got pregnant. Her mother is so upset, so hopeless about the situation, the woman herself is opposite to happy too about all these, but she got almost no way out other than divorcing, risking backlash and then financial struggle with two young kids. If the marriages were like this where women would get to live with their own parents and siblings after marriage, instead of husband's family, situations like this would never ever happen. The husbands won't get to rape the women, and the women would get to time their pregnancy on their own terms. She is a graduate, but the husband's family make her cook and clean and everything, and she can't even do any job and can't earn too. They made her lose the chance of financial independence and killed the chance of her getting out of that mess too.
I have been through this in live in relationship. One must leave. Whether married, not married. Whether you have children or not. Very Bad for you. For your children. Just bad for everyone. Imagine your children being, growing up to be the same. Get Out…..Value yourself
These are the informative topics which should be discussed and shared more. Greatly explained . Seeing our loved ones suffer and normalising is biggest suffer anyone could ever had.
Nice concept not spoken very often or ignored. But this is very common. This happened with my cousin and they broke up after having child when he is 5.
I loved 2 points you made- 1) Both partners have to work on a relationship with the self in order to authentically relate with each other and 2) Please don’t go to a Sanyasi yogi (particularly male) for relationship advice!
there are many many poeple who said its backchodi but as a person i m totally agreee what she is sayingggggggggggggggggg ,i m love her there is a deeply something to understood what is happening in realityyyyyy
Frankly if we people start taking this discussion seriously and understand what they are suffering and leave that environment. I guarantee there will be only 1-2% married couple will be staying together. Harsh reality of human existence.
Does anyone think it is due to too much of hyper individualism in today's era where people even after marriage tend to think like individuals only rather than as couple during intimate situation?
No. I think it's because of lack of love and respect towards oneself as well as towards others. I being an empath & extremely considerate person have never seen any person, be it friends or family being similarly reciprocative of the kindness, they start taking you for granted. The same mentality is also probably reflected in bed/intimate moments. Individualism could be one of the reasons but not the only reason. I'd say lack a right teachings(sanskar) is what is making people egoistic and inconsiderate disrespectful people. Whilst everyone craves for love, nobody is willing to give it with open arms. And if one does give it, others take advantage & break that person. Most people lack the basic emotional intelligence!
@@ruchitat9345 when two people are a married couple then naturally there is love and understanding between them. Things that you said happen when two people come in relationship for the first time (no marriage yet). Constant push for individual growth, success in today's era has made people take more and give less (hyper individualism). It has raised expectations without considering others feelings thus resulting in what's mentioned in the name of the video.
@@bhuvaneshwarij1326 i hear and understand everything that i say. I am not representing "most men" of our country. I care for respect and equality of both partners in a marriage thats why i am here discussing the issue rather than ignoring it altogether. If you have reasonable arguments then please do share.
Ya I agree with you that as a married couple you should think both ways If someone is not comfortable with someone they have to clear it before marriage and even after marriage you cannot only think about yourself that my partner will respect my things Both have to adjust with each other which is called love
Dont have any problem with bringing law against the predator 🤔 But how innocent men will prove their innocence in the court is big question While talking about bad men u can't forget about bad women According to supreme court, 498 A n DV laws are the most misused laws The self proclaimed feminists who are throwing " fake cases kam hoti hai" stats dont understand that conviction rate of ₹*pe is less than 70 % Only bad men n women are using the laws for their own benifits
wow she is worried about people not leaving after childerns ....i understand concerns but 90% marriges break if thats the case ...i do ask my wife but IDK is it good suggestion to leave lol so much western infulence here
what western influence so you are suggesting to live with abusive partner and suffer for life rather than leaving them what concerns you understand. it's not western influence its human sense which you lack clearly
Firstly, I completely against the term called Marital R@pe. Well, I think these needs the social awareness, understanding and harmony between husband & wife. You can use any other term like harassment or anything which describes the forceful S@xsual activity between husband & wife but not R@pe as if we think so, then there will be no deference between the husband & the other person. Secondly the consent of a person is very difficult thing. When a husband is not ready or don’t have mood, the wife gets easily upset and many of times she cheats also. And same for the husband also. In that scenario husband has to perform if he is ready or not. While in the case of wife or female if she says no means no, you can’t force her like she forces to husband.
@@esaie4110 How to prove it in the first place? Secondly, why should I care what's happening in their bedroom? Most importantly, with increasing number of women in the workforce and earning money(atleast that's the trend right now) can a man force himself on a woman?
Typical feminist talk... Bro Ranveer don't be reactive where you don't need to. All feminist minds want a man to behave like women and women to behave like men. Because of this families are falling apart.
Funny how standing up for basic rights and human decency is now considered 'spoiling society.' Maybe if more people were 'woke,' we wouldn't have to deal with ignorance like this. Stay behind if you want, but the rest of us are moving forward.
@@SaranyaGunasagaran all these things may happen in your nonsense so called modern world.. Not in mine... We are born, raised from cultured, qualified and Orthodox family and we are married to such families, we believe in love, respect and relationships... Not lust, rupee and situationships...
For men if you not getting what you wants from your women's is called failure of Purushartha.. courts also take sides of women and raps men says you don't have potential, be a Kabil person then women will come to you Jhakh maar ke😂😂
It means the debate of marital rape comes in when women started expecting more and more and more love after watching someone who are getting more love, because earlier it was consensual, normal and enjoyable....in shastra the love aspect or the aspect of lovable life is is relatable with good karmas or it is women's potential to get the desired love from their men... because for men if you not getting what you wants from your women's is called failure of Purushartha.. courts also take sides of women and raps men says you don't have potential, be a Kabil person then women will come to you Jhakh maar ke😂😂
Wow, you really typed all that nonsense and thought it made sense? First of all, love and consent are not negotiable, and rape doesn’t suddenly become okay just because you're married. No one’s ‘karma’ or ‘potential’ justifies abuse. If you're that insecure that you believe ‘Purushartha’ means forcing love out of someone, you clearly don’t understand relationships, let alone basic human decency. Instead of worrying about ‘good karmas’ bringing you women, maybe focus on being a decent human being who actually respects others’ autonomy. You’d get a lot further with that than this delusional, outdated, and toxic mindset
Much needed conversation!! People who are thinking about unsubscribing Ranvir are the perpetrators..
Or maybe it's just a very loaded question without any black and white answers
Or maybe you don't value your partner their consent and are a perpetrator
*Important topic for discussion..... sometimes wife face lots of problems just because that partner who would be behaving like an animal....after everything had happened she suffered from severe infections and these infection took long time to be cured fully, during this period this period of time she has to perform all her house chores also so, .....girls and women please take care of yourself from such type of verocios animals*
Wtf are these comments? This is a serious issue and the therapist was smart enough to explain it happens to both the genders and how to solve it, but people have made it a notion that things that make them uncomfortable must contradict their beliefs and are not ready to listen. Truly pathetic but very nice conversation ranveer.
Exactly 💯
Notice how the ones bashing are guys/men.
Very important & insightful topic. Thankyou Ranveer & Neha.
Where?
@@nayab6129in your home!!!
You really need a good and deep understanding of humanity, love and compassion to understand how much depth and importance this particular podcast holds in Indian history! Hats off ranveer and Neha! If people can understand it and take this seriously, this will break the generational curses of many women and men! I really pray, hope and wish!
HEY ATINY!
@@mimitabiswas4534 Hey
I like to get married but I am not ok with naked sex..I am not asexual...I am ok with hugs and french kiss and all..I will be open about all this in my profile...I will only marry if the partner is ok with all these..
Consent is important even in marriage
you are a nice and honest person
True
When you're in a marriage you have to think both ways may be your partner will have some desires that he'll want
@@aryangovind422 yes genius! She's implying she won't be willing to marry someone who doesn't want the same things as her or isn't comfortable with her boundaries in the marriage
People in comment section be like - I have to introspect, think and question the norm! Too much work. Just say - "western influence", "bakwas" "breaking family" etc.
So they are western society is superior than
All perpetrators in the comment section saying about unsubscribing 😂😂😂😂😂
Just today my mother met one of my previous neighborhood friend. She got married not long ago (1-2 years), and is forced to live with the husband's family and the husband is so torturous and manipulative that she got pregnant against her will immediately after marriage, and then after giving birth, she again got pregnant. Her mother is so upset, so hopeless about the situation, the woman herself is opposite to happy too about all these, but she got almost no way out other than divorcing, risking backlash and then financial struggle with two young kids.
If the marriages were like this where women would get to live with their own parents and siblings after marriage, instead of husband's family, situations like this would never ever happen. The husbands won't get to rape the women, and the women would get to time their pregnancy on their own terms.
She is a graduate, but the husband's family make her cook and clean and everything, and she can't even do any job and can't earn too. They made her lose the chance of financial independence and killed the chance of her getting out of that mess too.
Marriage should be made illegal , Any forcing women to stay at dangerous place like with in laws should be sent to jail
I have been through this in live in relationship. One must leave. Whether married, not married. Whether you have children or not. Very Bad for you. For your children. Just bad for everyone. Imagine your children being, growing up to be the same. Get Out…..Value yourself
Absolutely!.... so well put!
The real faces of evil are here in the comments section...sad
These are the informative topics which should be discussed and shared more.
Greatly explained . Seeing our loved ones suffer and normalising is biggest suffer anyone could ever had.
Nice concept not spoken very often or ignored. But this is very common. This happened with my cousin and they broke up after having child when he is 5.
I loved 2 points you made- 1) Both partners have to work on a relationship with the self in order to authentically relate with each other and 2) Please don’t go to a Sanyasi yogi (particularly male) for relationship advice!
Glad that she talked about both the 'genders'.
Equally? 🤔
I think she's right this happens its terrible this situation
Such an informative & undiscussed topic🙏
This has to be one of the most disappointing comment sections
Neha Bhat Ma'am, we really need more of the likes of you in society ...... 👍👍👌💐
Criminals in the comment section, so scary
there are many many poeple who said its backchodi but as a person i m totally agreee what she is sayingggggggggggggggggg ,i m love her
there is a deeply something to understood what is happening in realityyyyyy
Woww. She's a good explainer
Frankly if we people start taking this discussion seriously and understand what they are suffering and leave that environment. I guarantee there will be only 1-2% married couple will be staying together. Harsh reality of human existence.
Yes😢
All perpetrators thinking about unsubscribing 😂😂😂😂
Why ???
omg that's not good perpetrator I didn't know now I know why they keep doing this it's disgusting
Very TRUE.
Hmm bohot ko mirchi lagegi
How do I share this video 🤕
By using share option
Bhai shadi hi nhi karni hai
What a lady!❤
PLease share HER name and BOOK
Plz make an episode in Hindi,
Hahaha i should read a help book to understand that I am in trouble 😅
Does anyone think it is due to too much of hyper individualism in today's era where people even after marriage tend to think like individuals only rather than as couple during intimate situation?
No. I think it's because of lack of love and respect towards oneself as well as towards others. I being an empath & extremely considerate person have never seen any person, be it friends or family being similarly reciprocative of the kindness, they start taking you for granted. The same mentality is also probably reflected in bed/intimate moments. Individualism could be one of the reasons but not the only reason. I'd say lack a right teachings(sanskar) is what is making people egoistic and inconsiderate disrespectful people. Whilst everyone craves for love, nobody is willing to give it with open arms. And if one does give it, others take advantage & break that person.
Most people lack the basic emotional intelligence!
@@ruchitat9345 when two people are a married couple then naturally there is love and understanding between them. Things that you said happen when two people come in relationship for the first time (no marriage yet). Constant push for individual growth, success in today's era has made people take more and give less (hyper individualism). It has raised expectations without considering others feelings thus resulting in what's mentioned in the name of the video.
Do you even hear yourself? Mrg doesnt mean you own that woman..most men in India dont understand meaning of consent
@@bhuvaneshwarij1326 i hear and understand everything that i say. I am not representing "most men" of our country. I care for respect and equality of both partners in a marriage thats why i am here discussing the issue rather than ignoring it altogether. If you have reasonable arguments then please do share.
Ya I agree with you that as a married couple you should think both ways
If someone is not comfortable with someone they have to clear it before marriage and even after marriage you cannot only think about yourself that my partner will respect my things
Both have to adjust with each other which is called love
Seriously????😅😮..god too much missleading
Explain whats misleading here???
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Dont have any problem with bringing law against the predator 🤔
But how innocent men will prove their innocence in the court is big question
While talking about bad men u can't forget about bad women
According to supreme court, 498 A n DV laws are the most misused laws
The self proclaimed feminists who are throwing " fake cases kam hoti hai" stats dont understand that conviction rate of ₹*pe is less than 70 %
Only bad men n women are using the laws for their own benifits
Yeh to first day se hi ho raha marriage is me Kehne ki bat kya hai
Life is only one
Dharm ka palan karo. Usi se tumko Arth, Kaam aur moksh ki prapti hogi. Baki sab bakwas hae.
Y? 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Tmc
Tho iska dharm sai kya lena dena ?
I liked your username 😂
Terrible😮💨
Y? 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Time to unsubscribe 😑
Why?
So you do with ur partner? And u think it's completely fine and justifiable
Please do
Please do and please be as loud as possible can so that women will know that you have to be avoided. 🤷♀️
@@karthikanair5162 well said👏👏
Why do i think she stutter everytime when female is molesting male topic has been discussed. I think she do not keeping thinks same for both sides.
Why do you think 🤔
Wokeism at its best 😂😅
wow she is worried about people not leaving after childerns ....i understand concerns but 90% marriges break if thats the case ...i do ask my wife but IDK is it good suggestion to leave lol so much western infulence here
what western influence so you are suggesting to live with abusive partner and suffer for life rather than leaving them what concerns you understand. it's not western influence its human sense which you lack clearly
So western culture far superior than us you mean to say for them human life more important than something made as marriage a tool of oppression
Firstly, I completely against the term called Marital R@pe. Well, I think these needs the social awareness, understanding and harmony between husband & wife. You can use any other term like harassment or anything which describes the forceful S@xsual activity between husband & wife but not R@pe as if we think so, then there will be no deference between the husband & the other person. Secondly the consent of a person is very difficult thing. When a husband is not ready or don’t have mood, the wife gets easily upset and many of times she cheats also. And same for the husband also. In that scenario husband has to perform if he is ready or not. While in the case of wife or female if she says no means no, you can’t force her like she forces to husband.
Sorry sir but foreful sexual activity is basic of rape
No is no! It goes both ways! But lets be honest it happens more to women than men!
@@esaie4110 How to prove it in the first place? Secondly, why should I care what's happening in their bedroom? Most importantly, with increasing number of women in the workforce and earning money(atleast that's the trend right now) can a man force himself on a woman?
@@lostpirate-jr9rf indeed it is hard to prove. Whats the link btw women are working nowadays and rape? Like really!
@@esaie4110Is that a competition?
Typical feminist talk...
Bro Ranveer don't be reactive where you don't need to.
All feminist minds want a man to behave like women and women to behave like men. Because of this families are falling apart.
Not everything is about feminism, but so called "sigma" mind like yours won't understand
Accha .... Aur ??
Marital rape and oppression karne walo ko families nahi kahes rakshas kul kahete , tumara jaise family kaali kaa roop lekar vinash hi hona chahiye
Paid podcast
Paid by who? Women? Feminists?😂 make it make sense
These kind of wokists are spoiling the society.
keep sleeping then
Funny how standing up for basic rights and human decency is now considered 'spoiling society.' Maybe if more people were 'woke,' we wouldn't have to deal with ignorance like this. Stay behind if you want, but the rest of us are moving forward.
Just like you
Yeah just like monster making society unsafe
Kya Bakwas topic hai
Ise bakwas dimag se samjha nhi ja sakta na
@@SiyaaShukla bakwas mera dimagh nahi yeh topic hai and if you cannot see that then I feet sorry for you
Nonsense
Ha tum
Yeah from your eyes reality will be nonsense because you know why you said that
@@SaranyaGunasagaran all these things may happen in your nonsense so called modern world.. Not in mine... We are born, raised from cultured, qualified and Orthodox family and we are married to such families, we believe in love, respect and relationships... Not lust, rupee and situationships...
For men if you not getting what you wants from your women's is called failure of Purushartha.. courts also take sides of women and raps men says you don't have potential, be a Kabil person then women will come to you Jhakh maar ke😂😂
It means the debate of marital rape comes in when women started expecting more and more and more love after watching someone who are getting more love, because earlier it was consensual, normal and enjoyable....in shastra the love aspect or the aspect of lovable life is is relatable with good karmas or it is women's potential to get the desired love from their men... because for men if you not getting what you wants from your women's is called failure of Purushartha.. courts also take sides of women and raps men says you don't have potential, be a Kabil person then women will come to you Jhakh maar ke😂😂
Yai gyaan apne jija ji ko bhi dena he will be happy
Wow, you really typed all that nonsense and thought it made sense? First of all, love and consent are not negotiable, and rape doesn’t suddenly become okay just because you're married. No one’s ‘karma’ or ‘potential’ justifies abuse. If you're that insecure that you believe ‘Purushartha’ means forcing love out of someone, you clearly don’t understand relationships, let alone basic human decency. Instead of worrying about ‘good karmas’ bringing you women, maybe focus on being a decent human being who actually respects others’ autonomy. You’d get a lot further with that than this delusional, outdated, and toxic mindset
@@HenneCindie I would say yahi gyaan tum apne brother, husband and son ko de dena unki life bhi safe aur happy ho jayega
@@ninijr30 WELL SAID 👏