Disclaimer: I know I’m going to hear the argument “you can do and be all these things and he’ll still not treat you right” and for that I agree, what I also agree with is that there is a right and wrong type of man FOR YOU. So, Don’t stop until you find him but make sure you are also giving your 100% best so that when it’s all said and done at least you can say, I did all that I needed to do and I was everything I needed to be. This is all about YOUR development, not his. Ps. I knew my light was way too bright so it’s creating all kinds of shadows on my face, I certainly don’t look my best here but it is what it is, enjoy!
Anyone else feeling tired of looking for the one? Like I’m here working on myself and watching all these videos to get a better understanding of what’s out there and what to do and I get called entitled by people for asking for the bare minimum. Honestly for now I’ll just rest single 🤷🏽♀️
@@AM-yw4ck you don't look for "the one" that's Disney shit, there's a lot of guys you probably compatible with instead of "one" ... Instead of looking for a guy who checks all of the boxes look for someone who you deal way better and have more chemistry than other guys ...he doesn't necessarily need to check all of the boxes
It's not about looking for the one it's about you being the one..as mentioned bring your best self forward and eventually the best for you will meet you ..
Women should all date for marriage. They should respect themselfs more than that. I see to many women waist their time in relationships and have a baby with him and they break up. Its not smart and very selfish toward the baby. Dont so something that other people are doing, it doesnt make it right nore healthy no matter how many people normalize this dating culture.
Literally. People are complicating it and the young girls are in a panic to keep up with these performances to get something out of men and they think they’re in control when the man can just choose if they like or don’t like them😢
did you know that a man that likes you don’t necessarily means he has the intention to be in a relationship with you and also be in the same page? learned that the hard way not so long ago 😢
@@shanicew7165 If he ghosts you he DIDN'T like you at first. Not like that. A man who thinks your entitled doesn't like you like that either. Men treat the woman they love like a princess anyway... He doesn't feel that way about you if he doesn't act like your the prize to him. If he wants you like that he'll see you as a prize to be valued
I think a big part of being a "princess" is the guy has to be attracted to you in order for him to precieve you as a princess. If he's not attracted to you then it will show in his actions and you will respond in a masculine way and thats how the roles usually reverse where the woman ends up chasing the man even though shes not attracted to his low energy but shes trying to balance the relationship herself . Which is why its important to not waste your time on a man who isnt attracted to you and go find a man who finds you attractive and you find him attractive so the energy between you two will balance.
Yeah a man who is really attracted to you will not be asking you out at 9pm without organizing transport. Or maybe he just want a booty call and nothing more. I expect men to be gentlemen and if they do not consider my personal safety at night to meet them...then I'm not going. But don't follow me, I'm in my Queen energy. Queens are very busy people and cannot afford to have their time wasted and be up late at night without due cause. They have elaborate bedtime routines, elaborate morning routines,work in the morning, people to see, people to give orders to and people to execute at dawn. 😅🤣😂
this is true, unfortunately some women haven’t realized that sexual interest isn’t mutually exclusive with genuine attraction from a man yet, so that’s getting a lot of us stuck out here. and not everybody wants to admit it, but shit i will 🤷🏽♀️
My current partner has proved to me that there are men who will treat you with a love and kindness you never thought was possible. And it won’t be in extravagant gifts or empty promises. It will be in the way they listen to you when you express your feelings, reassure you in your lowest moments and respect their commitment to you. If you want that, it is possible. Sustain high standards and be open and willing to see people in a deeper way!
My fiancé always tells me that the reason why he knew I was the one was because "ever since our first date, our conversation went on for hours. I just had to learn all about you. I never went on a date before that kept me mentally engaged" so ladies, level up your MIND to become a princess. Although its fun to gossip and consume endless amounts of "fluff" information (things on TikTok you forget about an hour later), what will really make you interesting (to men AND women) is learning, experiencing new things, creating something, reading.. level up your mind and the princess energy will follow :)
Good guys will treat you right even if they are not into you If he treats you badly it’s not only because he’s not into you, but also because HE’S NOT A GOOD GUY RUN
That's right. You should never be with a man who does not care how you get home. You shouldn't even have to ask. How much more in a case where the woman asked, and Breeny is saying you should not ask, and is talking about how a woman should be to get princess treatment. If a man asks a woman out, and does not make provision for her to get back home, or does not care how she gets home, he is treating her badly. You cannot blame a woman for that. That man does not deserve to be with any woman. Period.
Depending on what you mean by treating badly, you should never be with someone who treats you badly but you can always get BETTER treatment from a guy using these tips. Thank you for your contribution ❤
If you talk to people who are happily married, they'll tell you: your partner cant read your mind. My mom gave princess energy (and still does; she learned to drive in her mid 20s cause there was always someone to drive her around) early in her marriage. do you inow what she told me? she got so frustrated that my dad wasnt reading her mind. finally she learned to communicate what she wanted and things got better. Theres nothing wrong with asking for a cab, but there are ways to ask that are less direct but still clear. i.e. "9 is pretty late, how will I get home?" if he offers to get you a cab, sweet. if he responds like the second guy, at least you know what's up. carry yourself like a princess, yes. and be ready to communicate your desires / concerns when your partner can't read your mind. that's my suggestion. ❤
I really wanted to share one thing with You Breeny and I think the time has come…. I am absolutely in love with your NEW ATTITUDE!! You seem more unapologetic, straight to the point, emotionally free from trauma/bad experiences, flowing & nurturing, not absorbed by anything bad or stingy… You became fully just like a feminine flower🌸 and I love that, I am ten toes down for that and I just cannot wait for many more of Your joy coming out of You in future videos💖
From my experience life is not a rulebook - it's not like you give X and will receive Y. The way a man treats a woman depends on: 1. His values and upbringing (I know some men who are really respectful and helpful even towards the women they're not into) 2. His level of attraction to the woman - this is the trickiest part, because with a few exceptions, like relationship which grew on the base of frendship, there is not much a woman can do with her good personality or behaviour to force it. Men like what they like. A woman can be a little bit boring, not super dressed up, even push back at the begining but if she's his type, he wil treat her specially.
Unfortunately, I'm' neurodivergent so I can't always go by social norms and rules. I go by what's safe, what's psychologically sound, and what doesn't make me or the other person insecure. In that way, I had to create my own rule book for myself and just let other people get on with their own rule book.
I agree so much, men who have certain upbringing you have to ask because they don’t even know how to be romantic and each woman is different regardless
And can we stop over analysing relationships!!! Like this is tewwwww mucccchh!!! If you try to follow all these rules, guidelines, dos & don’ts- often being pushed by people who ARE NOT in relationships… we’ll all be single, mad & “right”. Feminine this. Masculine that. Man just get out there & love… the two of you will figure that shit out once it’s right.
@@yanikeonpurpose um the reason why people are over analyzing they are trying to make sense of their failed relationships and traumatic relationships. If you don't know where you have been, then how can you move forward or know where you are going. Ain't nobody trying to repeat multiple heartbreaks and trauma. That stuff destroys your soul and spirit.
Ladies I’m a bit older with some life experience and its real simple… Even a man that truly loves you will take you for granted at times because it’s human nature to become complacent when you’re comfortable and settled in a relationship but know the difference… There is NOTHING that this same man won’t do for you to show you how important you are to him, especially if he knows you feel neglected. This love has to be reciprocal though for it to be genuine and you have to be open to letting him express this in his own unique and sometimes unconventional way. It may not look like traditional romance but the effort and time he puts in will let you know you are his queen (not his princess!). Trust me.
I think communication is important in every relationship regardless of how you view gender roles/feminine/masculine. Men will ask you to travel across the city at their convenience, to wear certain shoes on a date e.c.t. Women should feel confident asking men for things too if they want to. I used to not say anything and keep it pushing if the energy wasn’t giving but honestly asking makes things a lot easier and most of the time they are receptive. Men are human at the end of the day and the dating pool is so diverse so not every woman they date excepts/ wants the ‘princess treatment’ so sometimes you need to let it be known. This can easily be applied to non romantic relationships too. I used to be the one to wait for someone to offer to drop me home but now I’ve started asking I’m now at a 100% success rate. Don’t let labels block your blessings. The worst someone can say is no and that’s when you keep it pushing.
Any women that is going cross the way for a date is thirsty…either way that should all be discussed prior to the date. Especially if she accommodating a man. There ms a time to ask and it’s not when your dating around but when you get to know that a guy is into you and he’s asking for commitment, exclusivity and relationship. Not on dates…who’s wasting money on randoms🤷🏽♀️
Another thing is if you are just dating becareful who’s car your so willing to get into…you my not make home. Safety first❤ Individuality first… pay for your basic needs…unless they offer and that includes food on the date ❤
@@SanctifiedLady If you view yourself as a ‘rando’ when you are dating that’s very unfortunate. Paying for the date is even the bare minimum. Even my friends who I’m completely platonic with treat me to dinner. If you can’t ask a man for anything even during the dating stage that man can do nothing for you and will do less once they commit. I’ve asked and I have received. Again don’t let rigid perceptions block your blessings. PSA I’d never get in to anyone’s car on the first date or give them my actual address if they booked me an Uber.
I studied history and I love period drama. Before I and you ladies were born, a man had to court a woman. He had to present himself to her in the company of other ladies in a public place. If she was interested, she would allow him a walk or a dance, always in the view of everyone else in public. Then it was up to the man to enquire as to who she was and where she lived. Then he would attend her address and leave his calling card. If she approved, she would agree to a date, always chaperoned. I now live my life in a similar way. A man has to approach me in a way that would be approved of if my mother or father were reading the message or standing right next to me. If his approach is correct, I will agree to take his number. If he is to take me on a date, I let him know that my safety buddy knows who I'm with, his picture, his name, his licence plate and the location that I'm due to meet him and when I am supposed to be back home by. So not only does he have to behave himself, he actually has to look after me until I arrive back home safely because If anything happens to me, my safety buddy is sending all his details to the police and news media. My safety buddy is my chaperone. We get so caught up in men vs women we forget the realities of women's safety and men's ego needing to display their leadership skills. A man who doesn't care about your safety....shouldn't be going on a date with you period especially at 9pm. I always say bad things happen when the sun goes down.
Fair enough you can ask for certain things, but the person on twitter didn’t ask, she gave options. 😅 …We’re supposed to be feminine but also independent. She spoke to him like he’s her husband 😂
For me the ultimate princess treatment is a man giving you his last name and providing physically, emotionally, and financially for you FOR LIFE. Anything other than this like Ubers, etc. don’t mean shit to me 🤷🏾♀️. When I listen to happily married women, it’s true that many of them just carried themselves in a way to have a man invest and give them the “princess” treatment. But beware that many men can start off with grandiose gestures (over the top gifts, flowers, etc.) but where it MATTERS they don’t invest because they are PLAYERS. So yes, expect princess treatment, but think about what actually matters in the long-run.
wow ! i haven't even watched the video yet but the nails, the hair, the beat, the body, the outfit and jewellery. genuinely so gorgeous i had to stop and take a breath. this is a woman who takes care of herself and it shows! i usually don't praise ppl for their appearance but it just really inspired me in my goal of looking more put together. keep slaying
I don't really agree that asking a man something is masculine. I feel it is okay to communicate what you expect and what you want from a man. They are also totally free to decline and refuse your request. i feel it is how you ask. If it is an order it will probably not come off well. I have asked in the past my date if he will pick me up and he said he was happy to do it. The right man will be happy to do your request and if he cannot he will say it and communicate his boundaries.
I like that this video is still humbling and that it promotes these things without encouraging the idea that men need to bend over their backs to meet our needs even if we’re being a terrible partner! Love and respect is a two way street and I’m glad this video really demonstrates this💞✨
Part 2 please. I need more of this. I'm just so use to doing everything by myself but I really don't want too. I'm just tired of being the Queen in shining armor for these men bc being a giver is natural to me. But I'm just ready to receive I'm TIRED
This is facts! When I started implementing these things in my dating life...it was a complete difference. Making those changes can be difficult ladies, but if you want different you have to look in the mirror and then assess. Switch things up if what you're doing is not getting the results. Treat yourself ladies too, whatever that looks like for you and your budget. But don't be stingy about you first and foremost.
Never force anything, just hit the NEXT button. You DO DESERVE PRINCESS TREATMENT. PERIOD. If it is in that man to be good to a woman then that’s what he’ll be. If not be gone.
Nah b don't apologise because what you said was 100% right. Some people aren't on the same wavelength and will only learn from feeling the negative experiences to the point they'll change their behaviour and that's when they will believe what you said was right. It's the same with men. If they want to be treated like a king then they have to naturally carry themselves like a king.
Be who u are to your core If he doesn’t like u for u leave don’t change for a man change for you or you’ll never be happy trust me. The right guy will do the right stuff.
Wow, Breeny. This is the most mature video I've seen from you. It reminds me a lot about your "taking accountability" video, but way more rationalized, humble and with no double standards. THIS IS BRILLIANT. Self-development is not sugarcoating, it's actually one of the most difficult thing to do. It's in humans' nature to overlook their flaws, and it takes so much courage and awareness to own that and deal with it. We all need to take more accountability for ourselves and will automatically attract more quality people in our lives. Not to self-loath, but to be aware and ACT ON IT. WELL DONE! Greetings from Serbia xx
This so good. I’m in my 20s and I watch your videos on my 5am commute to work. You and Fumi are me favorite channels on YT. I’ve learned and worked on so much in myself through your videos and it’s literally been a game changer. I’m super grateful.
My transformation has been insane these past few months, my expectations have risen and my confidence is so much enhanced than it's ever been before. I am that queen and I always get princess treatment!
your videos lately have been so much softer even though you're calling out and not excluding yourself either.... loved listening to this. Sending love from a sister in christ
I have been watching your videos for a long time now and I just wanted to say that you changed my life completely and been able to listen to your advice is a blessing 🥰 thank you breeny
This is a really insightful video, Breeny. This isn't related to the topic of this video but I kind of wonder if we women are being too hard on ourselves and always striving to be perfect for men. I definitely understand bettering ourselves and advising each other, but I don't really see men putting this much pressure on themselves to be perfect for us. I mainly see more self improvement videos from and for women. Yes, we need to work on ourselves, but we need to give ourselves grace and breathing room. It almost seems like we're doing the most for men, but the energy is not matching. Are men watching self improvement videos? Are they attending seminars on relationships? Are they striving to be better versions of themselves everyday? Sorry, I'm just thinking out loud.
Not true....have you watched Kevin Samuels (RIP)....he literally educates men on how to be, dress, comport themselves, and choose women. There are many videos like his on RUclips. Men also want to date great women and many of them have difficulty doing so.
You keep getting more GORGEOUS! I subscribed to your Channel over a year ago when I heard you say "I'm not too expensive...you just can't afford me" WOW! We should never accept bread crumbs or bad treatment. If he stops treating you like a QUEEN. End it!!
Breeny you’re the big sis everyone young girl needs fr fr, I’ve learnt so much things from you This is a more confirmation that I’m doing everything right.. Love you Breeny ❤
Girl you better preach! Stay high above the negativity honey. This message is soo needed whether they’re ready to hear it or not! You are so amazing and transparent and I’m glad for Your healing. Blessings.
I see this silly advice everywhere about not replying or answering right away and I find it ridiculous. The energy of trying to hold back is felt. It's one thing to be busy or to be detached and another thing to do this intentionally to seem busy or whatever. This type of energy is felt, the man doesn't even have to be that smart to notice this bs..
This is not meant in a mean way, but in your previous video you disagreed with Lori Harvey's dating style. Which is fine, we do not all have to like what she does. But I do find it interesting that your next video is about princess treatment. Do you not think that the men she meets tend to treat her like a princess? They spoil her rotten, always "take care of her needs and try to meet them". Isn't she ironically an example of what you mean with princess treatment?
Yes! I think Lori is treated great (from what it appears) I’m really only making this video based on the backlash from twitter. This wouldn’t even be a topic that I would have discussed outside of it. This is a message for those who WANT princess treatment but are going about it in a masculine way. I’m not against being treated right that’s not what the Lori video was about it was more about the serial relationships that she enters. Thanks for your message and hopefully that cleared it up x
I disagree.. Lori is treated by them men the way they treat every woman they date and how most men with real money treat women they're dealing with in general ..a man can buy you boats, unicorns and food for a village and not care about you beyond sex simply because the financial aspect is nothing to him ..Lori's treatment is neither here nor there because she can treat herself exactly the same way without any men so by default any man with her has to at a minimum treat her like a princess because as stated in this vid treat yourself that way first..beyond that it's not similar because she's doing actual relationships with all then dons, if she followed this vid she wouldn't have went public with 5/7 of those guys and binned them after a week..(future? Diddy? Diddy son? No way you think them man are serious)
I feel like you shouldn’t have to “ask or earn it”, you should be treated like a princess regardless. If you have to ask or if you have to earn it then he is not the man for you. Of course there will days when y’all both are emotionally and physically drained;however, nobody should have to ask.
Not Breeny finding a nice way to say the same thing lol - love it. Standby what you said 100%, there’s a big difference from being and pretending. I’ve done both and they feel different from the inside-out.
Honestly this video was meant for me, I am now realizing the last guy I was recently talking to & my energy when it came about meeting up. I feel like there should be a video about when you know to stand your ground & show a man what you want vs what you feel like you deserve which is entitlement cause after our convo he told me he likes me but he felt masculine energy. So now I gotta get to work on that lol I definitely will suggest over saying a man is the one that gotta come see me for example. And if the man can’t hear that, then I know were he is at.
I totally agree with you in every single thing you talked about, and I really hate it when they just convince women they’re the prize without really being a person with value to be perceived as a prize, there are many factors determining men’s treatment and your covered a good amount enough to bring real change in outcome..
Breeny, don't let the backlash stop you from making this content, what you are saying is a good reality check. Made me think where I am not being in my feminine energy and where I can improve. Thank you
It's really great to allow a man to give to u out of his own free will. But in an addendum to this, if he isn't, you can certainly inform him of your standards and needs. And if there's no change--well, you just aren't with the right guy. Leave peacefully.
I disagree on „earning“ respect and princess treatment. Earning is masculine energy and this earning mindset opens the door for manipulation by narcissists. You deserve just by being a woman all this! Not every man will treat you well. But you can inspire a man to treat you well. By being very respectful and high maintenance for yourself. By treating yourself the best
I agree with you in terms of the way the text was worded, I think she could have gotten what she wanted if she had asked in a different way. Like bring up the fact that you don’t have transportation and see what happens. Acting entitled and expecting things, especially from a stranger, is not cute
This is so good, Breeny! If women would focus more on building themselves up and walking in their divine image, they will attract the right men and be treated accordingly.
Breeny … please feel free to talk about anything you feel. You are truly inspiring. Even if you spoke about dolphins someone would still have something to say… it’s refreshing to see a different perspective on various things that affect our individual and collective lives and cater to our growth both personally or relationship wise.. Bless Breeny… (that tweet hot though😂😂)
Please be so kind to do a part two video. You have logical points and examples to follow. Therefore this information is so valuable for us women who are alpha females.
As a lady who likes both men and women and who maneuvers the world on a 50:50 masculine to feminine energy, I would say that all this is so true and I love how Breeny specifies by saying 'masculine' or 'feminine' energy. It always comes down to the balance of those two energies in relationships, despite your gender. Loved how her points were also around just being a nicer human to someone else, being courteous, being transparent, and being authentic about you and your experiences rather than being demanding, entitled and disengenous.
Honestly bree, you were right and your message was meant for those that was supposed to receive it. I wasnt always the type either that wanted to hear criticism about dwelling in my feminine energy but now i love to hear the positive criticism because overall it can actually help us get the treatment we actually desire. We need women to tell us the blueprint. Growth is necessary period. Just understand that no matter how you say it whether it had a little sugar or not, people will get triggered and feeled attacked unfortunately. If a woman says she's a waiting, all the non virgins get furious. Ive literally seen this. It's a weird world we live in.
BREENNNNNN!!!!! this is the one!! Omg yes you preached on this one sis! The accuracy is real!! Accountability is the word of the year ladies. YOU have TO BE waht it is you want t attract. Period.
I agree with you Breeny!! Let's play our role and I understand the comments saying find yourself someone who loves you but even when someone loves you, having to deal with an entitled person a daily basis is exhausting and can kill the relationship. Thanks big sis ❤
I remember watching her a while ago and she seem sad to me , I feel like people who give great advice they be the ones suffocating. Sometimes you just gotta live your life and forget the how tos because you can follow every advice and still not get what you want . I am receiving princess treatment it’s been 5 years now and honestly I don’t why , I don’t even think am great person . Am just cold ,distant and don’t ask for anything
Yeah I'm in my Queen Empress Era. Men already know I'm attractive and are after my kingdom empire but they had better know that I'm not averse to cutting off a few heads to protect my kingdom no matter how much I like/love a person. I'd rather be respected and feared than adored and pampered. Princesses have everything done for them and never have to make difficult decisions. Even in Disney, there is never an Evil/bad princess. There is always an Evil Queen.
I don’t think she was demanding or feeling entitled. I think she genuinely uses that question to figure out if there will be transportation. She just wanted/wants to know how moves are being made. Not everyone drives so they rely on their date to pick them up or they will have to use some sort of public transportation. I do feel like his response was rude and he could’ve left it at “I can’t provide that but can help you figure what form of transportation will work best for you so we can meet up.” He could’ve even offered to ride the bus together or just to find a way to go together.
Yasss come thru part 2 ! I always say dont order steak and lobster when your really chicken tenders and french fries 👏🏾 I will take myself to nobu and sexy fish before I ask anyone to do it because thats the standard I set for myself
Everything Breeny is saying is true, some people just aren't ready to hear it, it takes a certain level of maturity and understanding to deep this... Keep it up Bre, we love to see a smart woman articulate herself well and teach young women
Part 2 please 🙏 also its important to know if you're dealing with a man or boy. Don't expect a boy to act like a man. If you're in a relationship or dating a person you think still needs some work, learn how he operates and use it to influence him on how you want him to treat you. Women need to start investing in their relationships
Ladies it's really simple, a man will treat you the way you treat yourself. There is no such thing as "wrong type of men" either. Everything is a reflection of the relationship you are having with yourself. For instance in this case- The lady didn't feel worthy enough to naturally get asked by her man to pick her up or book an uber. Hence why she felt the need to ask for it and also why he said no. She believes she needs to control the situation cz she isn't naturally gonna get there. Moreover, it's kinda selfish to ask him like that when you just started going out. You're not his responsibility. You are your own human being, your own responsibility. This lack of responsibility and not taking care of things herself, showed up as him not asking to pick her up and saying NO in the end.
There is nothing you can do or say to make a man treat you well. If he wants to treat you good he will if he doesn't then he won't. There are women that demand and get what they want. Then there are women who are so 'feminine' and are treated like trash LOL. Ladies be yourself (unless you really need to change lol) and look out for the signs. A man that is into you will bend over backwards and accept you for you. If you like pretend lol speak softer, laugh softer and be a yes girl- if a man is not into you he will show you pepper. Shine your eyes ladies. Its not always about us sometimes it's the men that are just trifling xx
I find it funny that you say women shouldn’t be triggered by someone who’s not trying to hurt you, but you dragged Lori Harvey for an hour just because her dating choices didn’t suit you. / evoked jealousy or some sort of trigger in you
Oop. I didn’t see it this way but I get your perspective. I think Lori was a hot topic and many people were lauding her as revolutionary and a great role model for young women, and Breeny just shared a different perspective..
@@yzma6142 sharing a Different perspective is different from what she was doing. Plus liking misogynist comments like „they hit and dump her“ just doesn’t sit right with me
Male opinion here, but this is gold Breeny. Rage on. You said you shouldnt ask, the text wasn't even asking. It was ordering or demanding from him, giving only 2 options that suit her. Before she's even shown her value. As a male, major red flag. Nothing worse than being bossed around. An actual man doesn't want to replace their mother bossing them around. Why do they want a replacement father figure by demanding princess treatment they haven't earned?
Bro, my first Queenly opinion is that no King would be asking a Queen to go somewhere at 9pm at night alone. No chaperone and no guards. No, I have an elaborate nightly and morning routine and executions at dawn. 🤣😅😂 I need my beauty sleep. I'ma keep my Queen Empress energy.
Most of these things have everything to do with the type of man and his willingness to do it. If a man loves you or wants to spoil you he will even with bare no effort from the female
You are absolutely correct. These are the little lessons that should be learnt from example…in the home. Sadly this is not always possible, so you are doing a wonderful thing for so many young girls today, thank you, Australia.
Mm I don’t know that I really agree with this. If a man you’re dating really likes you, he will want to do a lot for you without you really doing too much. And if he doesn’t really like you, then why would you want to be with him?
yes yes yes respect goes both ways and dating with the intention of a committed serious relationship/ marriage only works for mature emotional healed people and that you speak youre opinion and thoughts about this topic in an respectful and open-minded way makes you a real Queen a lot of people are just sheep’s and are not self aware of theire own behavior and see things on social media so it’s ego based and not from the heart thankyou fore speaking up !❤️
The people who say you're 'this age and single' are the ones that are gonna end up divorced 3 times with 4 children from different daddies. Your prince charming is on his way to you
We want... no we NEED a part twoooo *looks back over my notes from the video* My head hurts because I know theres more to learn but I don't know where to start in this subject.
I believe a woman has to show to a man how she wants to be treated and also carry herself in a certain way for a man to want to give her that treatment, if he picks it up that’s a man who has the potential to be hers if not on to the next. No need to ask, force or demand because the right one would be happy to treat you like his princess. Do you know how proud men are when their friends compliment their women or how they treat her?
I always thought" he is a man and I am a woman and men should give their women flowers and gifts because its the norm it is what he is supposed to do, it's required of him" but this video has completely opened my mind to a new way of thinking. Even at gunpoint, nothing would have stopped me from watching this lol, I loved it so much. Excellent video, so informative and I am desperately waiting for part 2
I’m married but if I were in this dating realm I wouldn’t want a man I’ve not met before to pick me up. I also would not want him to know my location. I also would not ask him to send me an Uber. Once I’m comfortable with him and want to see him beyond date 2 or 3 then maybe but even then if we are seeing each other beyond date 2 or 3 he’d be the type of guy that I wouldnt have to ask.
I also asked the woman out for lunch or something during the daytime if I hadn't met her before. I would give the time and location to meet. I do this for *their* sake. Then I see women on Tiktok say how they should refuse to go on a date with a man who doesn't pick them up at their home. Like, do these women never watch true crime shows? Good luck with that.
Disclaimer:
I know I’m going to hear the argument
“you can do and be all these things and he’ll still not treat you right” and for that I agree, what I also agree with is that there is a right and wrong type of man FOR YOU.
So, Don’t stop until you find him but make sure you are also giving your 100% best so that when it’s all said and done at least you can say,
I did all that I needed to do and I was everything I needed to be.
This is all about YOUR development, not his.
Ps. I knew my light was way too bright so it’s creating all kinds of shadows on my face, I certainly don’t look my best here but it is what it is, enjoy!
Anyone else feeling tired of looking for the one? Like I’m here working on myself and watching all these videos to get a better understanding of what’s out there and what to do and I get called entitled by people for asking for the bare minimum.
Honestly for now I’ll just rest single 🤷🏽♀️
@@AM-yw4ck you don't look for "the one" that's Disney shit, there's a lot of guys you probably compatible with instead of "one" ...
Instead of looking for a guy who checks all of the boxes look for someone who you deal way better and have more chemistry than other guys ...he doesn't necessarily need to check all of the boxes
Can you help us write down a list to ask a date to see if he will be able to form a long term relationship where kids will be involved.
It's not about looking for the one it's about you being the one..as mentioned bring your best self forward and eventually the best for you will meet you ..
Women should all date for marriage. They should respect themselfs more than that. I see to many women waist their time in relationships and have a baby with him and they break up. Its not smart and very selfish toward the baby. Dont so something that other people are doing, it doesnt make it right nore healthy no matter how many people normalize this dating culture.
Step 1 (the ONLY STEP): Date a man who actually likes you.
The end.
Literally. People are complicating it and the young girls are in a panic to keep up with these performances to get something out of men and they think they’re in control when the man can just choose if they like or don’t like them😢
A man can like you at first but your entitlement turns him off so he ghosts you or fades away they you turn around saying he’s fake
did you know that a man that likes you don’t necessarily means he has the intention to be in a relationship with you and also be in the same page?
learned that the hard way not so long ago 😢
@@shanicew7165 If he ghosts you he DIDN'T like you at first.
Not like that.
A man who thinks your entitled doesn't like you like that either.
Men treat the woman they love like a princess anyway...
He doesn't feel that way about you if he doesn't act like your the prize to him.
If he wants you like that he'll see you as a prize to be valued
True, but they can like you today and in 18 months they are bored
I think a big part of being a "princess" is the guy has to be attracted to you in order for him to precieve you as a princess. If he's not attracted to you then it will show in his actions and you will respond in a masculine way and thats how the roles usually reverse where the woman ends up chasing the man even though shes not attracted to his low energy but shes trying to balance the relationship herself . Which is why its important to not waste your time on a man who isnt attracted to you and go find a man who finds you attractive and you find him attractive so the energy between you two will balance.
Yeah a man who is really attracted to you will not be asking you out at 9pm without organizing transport. Or maybe he just want a booty call and nothing more. I expect men to be gentlemen and if they do not consider my personal safety at night to meet them...then I'm not going. But don't follow me, I'm in my Queen energy. Queens are very busy people and cannot afford to have their time wasted and be up late at night without due cause. They have elaborate bedtime routines, elaborate morning routines,work in the morning, people to see, people to give orders to and people to execute at dawn. 😅🤣😂
this is true, unfortunately some women haven’t realized that sexual interest isn’t mutually exclusive with genuine attraction from a man yet, so that’s getting a lot of us stuck out here. and not everybody wants to admit it, but shit i will 🤷🏽♀️
So true👏🏻👏🏻
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This !! Exactly 💯
My current partner has proved to me that there are men who will treat you with a love and kindness you never thought was possible. And it won’t be in extravagant gifts or empty promises. It will be in the way they listen to you when you express your feelings, reassure you in your lowest moments and respect their commitment to you. If you want that, it is possible. Sustain high standards and be open and willing to see people in a deeper way!
I love this ❤
Yes biggest attraction is in how he treats you 💫
My fiancé always tells me that the reason why he knew I was the one was because "ever since our first date, our conversation went on for hours. I just had to learn all about you. I never went on a date before that kept me mentally engaged" so ladies, level up your MIND to become a princess. Although its fun to gossip and consume endless amounts of "fluff" information (things on TikTok you forget about an hour later), what will really make you interesting (to men AND women) is learning, experiencing new things, creating something, reading.. level up your mind and the princess energy will follow :)
Good guys will treat you right even if they are not into you
If he treats you badly it’s not only because he’s not into you, but also because HE’S NOT A GOOD GUY
RUN
That's right. You should never be with a man who does not care how you get home. You shouldn't even have to ask.
How much more in a case where the woman asked, and Breeny is saying you should not ask, and is talking about how a woman should be to get princess treatment. If a man asks a woman out, and does not make provision for her to get back home, or does not care how she gets home, he is treating her badly. You cannot blame a woman for that. That man does not deserve to be with any woman. Period.
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Depending on what you mean by treating badly, you should never be with someone who treats you badly but you can always get BETTER treatment from a guy using these tips.
Thank you for your contribution ❤
DATE A MAN THAT LIKES YOUU!! Nothing you do can make a man treat you right if he wants to treat you right he will.
If you talk to people who are happily married, they'll tell you: your partner cant read your mind. My mom gave princess energy (and still does; she learned to drive in her mid 20s cause there was always someone to drive her around) early in her marriage. do you inow what she told me? she got so frustrated that my dad wasnt reading her mind. finally she learned to communicate what she wanted and things got better.
Theres nothing wrong with asking for a cab, but there are ways to ask that are less direct but still clear. i.e. "9 is pretty late, how will I get home?" if he offers to get you a cab, sweet. if he responds like the second guy, at least you know what's up.
carry yourself like a princess, yes. and be ready to communicate your desires / concerns when your partner can't read your mind. that's my suggestion. ❤
I really wanted to share one thing with You Breeny and I think the time has come…. I am absolutely in love with your NEW ATTITUDE!! You seem more unapologetic, straight to the point, emotionally free from trauma/bad experiences, flowing & nurturing, not absorbed by anything bad or stingy… You became fully just like a feminine flower🌸 and I love that, I am ten toes down for that and I just cannot wait for many more of Your joy coming out of You in future videos💖
Thank you sooooo much :)
@@kemzyacco5629 I really think you will achieve that level💓
Such a sweet comment
Wow spreading such love and positivity ❤ that’s nice to see. You seem well grounded yourself! More power to you
Breeny is not only mentally beautiful but she literally looks like a doll. What did we do to deserve such a gem?!
From my experience life is not a rulebook - it's not like you give X and will receive Y. The way a man treats a woman depends on:
1. His values and upbringing (I know some men who are really respectful and helpful even towards the women they're not into)
2. His level of attraction to the woman - this is the trickiest part, because with a few exceptions, like relationship which grew on the base of frendship, there is not much a woman can do with her good personality or behaviour to force it. Men like what they like. A woman can be a little bit boring, not super dressed up, even push back at the begining but if she's his type, he wil treat her specially.
Unfortunately, I'm' neurodivergent so I can't always go by social norms and rules. I go by what's safe, what's psychologically sound, and what doesn't make me or the other person insecure. In that way, I had to create my own rule book for myself and just let other people get on with their own rule book.
I agree so much, men who have certain upbringing you have to ask because they don’t even know how to be romantic and each woman is different regardless
And can we stop over analysing relationships!!! Like this is tewwwww mucccchh!!! If you try to follow all these rules, guidelines, dos & don’ts- often being pushed by people who ARE NOT in relationships… we’ll all be single, mad & “right”. Feminine this. Masculine that. Man just get out there & love… the two of you will figure that shit out once it’s right.
@@yanikeonpurpose um the reason why people are over analyzing they are trying to make sense of their failed relationships and traumatic relationships. If you don't know where you have been, then how can you move forward or know where you are going. Ain't nobody trying to repeat multiple heartbreaks and trauma. That stuff destroys your soul and spirit.
Ladies I’m a bit older with some life experience and its real simple…
Even a man that truly loves you will take you for granted at times because it’s human nature to become complacent when you’re comfortable and settled in a relationship but know the difference… There is NOTHING that this same man won’t do for you to show you how important you are to him, especially if he knows you feel neglected. This love has to be reciprocal though for it to be genuine and you have to be open to letting him express this in his own unique and sometimes unconventional way.
It may not look like traditional romance but the effort and time he puts in will let you know you are his queen (not his princess!). Trust me.
I think communication is important in every relationship regardless of how you view gender roles/feminine/masculine. Men will ask you to travel across the city at their convenience, to wear certain shoes on a date e.c.t. Women should feel confident asking men for things too if they want to.
I used to not say anything and keep it pushing if the energy wasn’t giving but honestly asking makes things a lot easier and most of the time they are receptive. Men are human at the end of the day and the dating pool is so diverse so not every woman they date excepts/ wants the ‘princess treatment’ so sometimes you need to let it be known.
This can easily be applied to non romantic relationships too. I used to be the one to wait for someone to offer to drop me home but now I’ve started asking I’m now at a 100% success rate. Don’t let labels block your blessings. The worst someone can say is no and that’s when you keep it pushing.
Any women that is going cross the way for a date is thirsty…either way that should all be discussed prior to the date. Especially if she accommodating a man.
There ms a time to ask and it’s not when your dating around but when you get to know that a guy is into you and he’s asking for commitment, exclusivity and relationship.
Not on dates…who’s wasting money on randoms🤷🏽♀️
Another thing is if you are just dating becareful who’s car your so willing to get into…you my not make home.
Safety first❤ Individuality first… pay for your basic needs…unless they offer and that includes food on the date ❤
@@SanctifiedLady
If you view yourself as a ‘rando’ when you are dating that’s very unfortunate. Paying for the date is even the bare minimum. Even my friends who I’m completely platonic with treat me to dinner. If you can’t ask a man for anything even during the dating stage that man can do nothing for you and will do less once they commit. I’ve asked and I have received. Again don’t let rigid perceptions block your blessings.
PSA I’d never get in to anyone’s car on the first date or give them my actual address if they booked me an Uber.
I studied history and I love period drama. Before I and you ladies were born, a man had to court a woman. He had to present himself to her in the company of other ladies in a public place. If she was interested, she would allow him a walk or a dance, always in the view of everyone else in public. Then it was up to the man to enquire as to who she was and where she lived. Then he would attend her address and leave his calling card. If she approved, she would agree to a date, always chaperoned. I now live my life in a similar way. A man has to approach me in a way that would be approved of if my mother or father were reading the message or standing right next to me. If his approach is correct, I will agree to take his number. If he is to take me on a date, I let him know that my safety buddy knows who I'm with, his picture, his name, his licence plate and the location that I'm due to meet him and when I am supposed to be back home by. So not only does he have to behave himself, he actually has to look after me until I arrive back home safely because If anything happens to me, my safety buddy is sending all his details to the police and news media. My safety buddy is my chaperone. We get so caught up in men vs women we forget the realities of women's safety and men's ego needing to display their leadership skills. A man who doesn't care about your safety....shouldn't be going on a date with you period especially at 9pm. I always say bad things happen when the sun goes down.
Fair enough you can ask for certain things, but the person on twitter didn’t ask, she gave options. 😅 …We’re supposed to be feminine but also independent. She spoke to him like he’s her husband 😂
For me the ultimate princess treatment is a man giving you his last name and providing physically, emotionally, and financially for you FOR LIFE. Anything other than this like Ubers, etc. don’t mean shit to me 🤷🏾♀️. When I listen to happily married women, it’s true that many of them just carried themselves in a way to have a man invest and give them the “princess” treatment. But beware that many men can start off with grandiose gestures (over the top gifts, flowers, etc.) but where it MATTERS they don’t invest because they are PLAYERS. So yes, expect princess treatment, but think about what actually matters in the long-run.
Period.
Best comment ever! Pure facts!
wow ! i haven't even watched the video yet but the nails, the hair, the beat, the body, the outfit and jewellery. genuinely so gorgeous i had to stop and take a breath. this is a woman who takes care of herself and it shows! i usually don't praise ppl for their appearance but it just really inspired me in my goal of looking more put together. keep slaying
I don't really agree that asking a man something is masculine. I feel it is okay to communicate what you expect and what you want from a man. They are also totally free to decline and refuse your request. i feel it is how you ask. If it is an order it will probably not come off well. I have asked in the past my date if he will pick me up and he said he was happy to do it. The right man will be happy to do your request and if he cannot he will say it and communicate his boundaries.
I like that this video is still humbling and that it promotes these things without encouraging the idea that men need to bend over their backs to meet our needs even if we’re being a terrible partner! Love and respect is a two way street and I’m glad this video really demonstrates this💞✨
Part 2 please. I need more of this. I'm just so use to doing everything by myself but I really don't want too. I'm just tired of being the Queen in shining armor for these men bc being a giver is natural to me. But I'm just ready to receive I'm TIRED
I feel the exact same way.
@@tamaral.cummings2407 yes so tired of the disappointment
This resonates
This is facts! When I started implementing these things in my dating life...it was a complete difference. Making those changes can be difficult ladies, but if you want different you have to look in the mirror and then assess. Switch things up if what you're doing is not getting the results. Treat yourself ladies too, whatever that looks like for you and your budget. But don't be stingy about you first and foremost.
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Never force anything, just hit the NEXT button. You DO DESERVE PRINCESS TREATMENT. PERIOD. If it is in that man to be good to a woman then that’s what he’ll be. If not be gone.
Nah b don't apologise because what you said was 100% right. Some people aren't on the same wavelength and will only learn from feeling the negative experiences to the point they'll change their behaviour and that's when they will believe what you said was right. It's the same with men. If they want to be treated like a king then they have to naturally carry themselves like a king.
Agreed 100%🎈
We really do not need to ask for anything. Our energy speaks for us.
Thank you ❤
Be who u are to your core If he doesn’t like u for u leave don’t change for a man change for you or you’ll never be happy trust me. The right guy will do the right stuff.
You shouldn’t need a man so bad that you sacrifice yourself and happiness
Wow, Breeny. This is the most mature video I've seen from you. It reminds me a lot about your "taking accountability" video, but way more rationalized, humble and with no double standards. THIS IS BRILLIANT. Self-development is not sugarcoating, it's actually one of the most difficult thing to do. It's in humans' nature to overlook their flaws, and it takes so much courage and awareness to own that and deal with it. We all need to take more accountability for ourselves and will automatically attract more quality people in our lives. Not to self-loath, but to be aware and ACT ON IT. WELL DONE! Greetings from Serbia xx
This so good. I’m in my 20s and I watch your videos on my 5am commute to work. You and Fumi are me favorite channels on YT. I’ve learned and worked on so much in myself through your videos and it’s literally been a game changer. I’m super grateful.
Hello! Can you please answered who is Fumi?
Her and Fumi need to collaborate ASAP! Cause they be giving the best tips on some big sister energy.
@@camilleamaclean exactly
@@user-pz2vr8ur1b Fumi Desalu. She’s also a RUclipsr who does advise, fashion, relationship and girl talk videos.
My transformation has been insane these past few months, my expectations have risen and my confidence is so much enhanced than it's ever been before. I am that queen and I always get princess treatment!
your videos lately have been so much softer even though you're calling out and not excluding yourself either.... loved listening to this. Sending love from a sister in christ
I have been watching your videos for a long time now and I just wanted to say that you changed my life completely and been able to listen to your advice is a blessing 🥰 thank you breeny
I'm so glad! ❤
This is a really insightful video, Breeny. This isn't related to the topic of this video but I kind of wonder if we women are being too hard on ourselves and always striving to be perfect for men. I definitely understand bettering ourselves and advising each other, but I don't really see men putting this much pressure on themselves to be perfect for us. I mainly see more self improvement videos from and for women. Yes, we need to work on ourselves, but we need to give ourselves grace and breathing room. It almost seems like we're doing the most for men, but the energy is not matching. Are men watching self improvement videos? Are they attending seminars on relationships? Are they striving to be better versions of themselves everyday? Sorry, I'm just thinking out loud.
No they are not they just move on to the next woman bc they just like the chase
Not true....have you watched Kevin Samuels (RIP)....he literally educates men on how to be, dress, comport themselves, and choose women. There are many videos like his on RUclips. Men also want to date great women and many of them have difficulty doing so.
@@evadburns but he mainly bashed women though
@@jackiereacts7201 He bashed women, but he was hard on men about levelling up.
@@evadburns please can you give examples of similar channels? Asking to recommend for my brothers
Love how you are giving the keys to the secret chambers. Heal, be who you want to attract & no more dusty men. Our crystals are clear.
You keep getting more GORGEOUS! I subscribed to your Channel over a year ago when I heard you say "I'm not too expensive...you just can't afford me" WOW! We should never accept bread crumbs or bad treatment. If he stops treating you like a QUEEN. End it!!
Breeny you’re the big sis everyone young girl needs fr fr, I’ve learnt so much things from you
This is a more confirmation that I’m doing everything right.. Love you Breeny ❤
Girl you better preach! Stay high above the negativity honey. This message is soo needed whether they’re ready to hear it or not! You are so amazing and transparent and I’m glad for Your healing. Blessings.
I see this silly advice everywhere about not replying or answering right away and I find it ridiculous. The energy of trying to hold back is felt. It's one thing to be busy or to be detached and another thing to do this intentionally to seem busy or whatever. This type of energy is felt, the man doesn't even have to be that smart to notice this bs..
This is not meant in a mean way, but in your previous video you disagreed with Lori Harvey's dating style. Which is fine, we do not all have to like what she does. But I do find it interesting that your next video is about princess treatment. Do you not think that the men she meets tend to treat her like a princess? They spoil her rotten, always "take care of her needs and try to meet them". Isn't she ironically an example of what you mean with princess treatment?
Yes! I think Lori is treated great (from what it appears)
I’m really only making this video based on the backlash from twitter. This wouldn’t even be a topic that I would have discussed outside of it.
This is a message for those who WANT princess treatment but are going about it in a masculine way.
I’m not against being treated right that’s not what the Lori video was about it was more about the serial relationships that she enters.
Thanks for your message and hopefully that cleared it up x
I disagree.. Lori is treated by them men the way they treat every woman they date and how most men with real money treat women they're dealing with in general ..a man can buy you boats, unicorns and food for a village and not care about you beyond sex simply because the financial aspect is nothing to him ..Lori's treatment is neither here nor there because she can treat herself exactly the same way without any men so by default any man with her has to at a minimum treat her like a princess because as stated in this vid treat yourself that way first..beyond that it's not similar because she's doing actual relationships with all then dons, if she followed this vid she wouldn't have went public with 5/7 of those guys and binned them after a week..(future? Diddy? Diddy son? No way you think them man are serious)
I don’t know why but i love breeny so much ❤️she speaks openly and you educate me on a lot if things sis… God bless you darling ❤❤
Thank you beautiful 🥹❤️
I feel like you shouldn’t have to “ask or earn it”, you should be treated like a princess regardless. If you have to ask or if you have to earn it then he is not the man for you. Of course there will days when y’all both are emotionally and physically drained;however, nobody should have to ask.
Not Breeny finding a nice way to say the same thing lol - love it. Standby what you said 100%, there’s a big difference from being and pretending. I’ve done both and they feel different from the inside-out.
Honestly this video was meant for me, I am now realizing the last guy I was recently talking to & my energy when it came about meeting up. I feel like there should be a video about when you know to stand your ground & show a man what you want vs what you feel like you deserve which is entitlement cause after our convo he told me he likes me but he felt masculine energy. So now I gotta get to work on that lol I definitely will suggest over saying a man is the one that gotta come see me for example. And if the man can’t hear that, then I know were he is at.
I totally agree with you in every single thing you talked about, and I really hate it when they just convince women they’re the prize without really being a person with value to be perceived as a prize, there are many factors determining men’s treatment and your covered a good amount enough to bring real change in outcome..
Yes!
Thank you for your contribution ❤
Breeny, don't let the backlash stop you from making this content, what you are saying is a good reality check. Made me think where I am not being in my feminine energy and where I can improve. Thank you
PART 2 PART 2 PART 2!!!! BREENY I AM FEIGNING FOR A PART 2 💗
Sending you love & light
Don’t listen to *some* of these comments you are receiving 🙄
It's really great to allow a man to give to u out of his own free will. But in an addendum to this, if he isn't, you can certainly inform him of your standards and needs. And if there's no change--well, you just aren't with the right guy. Leave peacefully.
Over 7,000 languages and sis is speaking the truth! Same way if you are an alpha male you don't need to say it, your aura speaks for itself.
I am just admiring the Beauty in You😍❤
You are my role model and inspiration Breeny.❤
I disagree on „earning“ respect and princess treatment. Earning is masculine energy and this earning mindset opens the door for manipulation by narcissists. You deserve just by being a woman all this! Not every man will treat you well. But you can inspire a man to treat you well. By being very respectful and high maintenance for yourself. By treating yourself the best
I agree with you in terms of the way the text was worded, I think she could have gotten what she wanted if she had asked in a different way. Like bring up the fact
that you don’t have transportation and see what happens. Acting entitled and expecting things, especially from a stranger, is not cute
This is so good, Breeny! If women would focus more on building themselves up and walking in their divine image, they will attract the right men and be treated accordingly.
Breeny … please feel free to talk about anything you feel. You are truly inspiring. Even if you spoke about dolphins someone would still have something to say… it’s refreshing to see a different perspective on various things that affect our individual and collective lives and cater to our growth both personally or relationship wise.. Bless Breeny… (that tweet hot though😂😂)
that tweet in the beginning 😬😬 daaaamnnn
Got to bring chivalry and gentlemen back!💯❤💐
😂😂😂 The boring part got me DEAD! this is so true for a lot of women that think they are the price.
The jumpcuts though😩
It was edited really quickly, sorry!
Please be so kind to do a part two video. You have logical points and examples to follow. Therefore this information is so valuable for us women who are alpha females.
if you need a man to treat you better, you need to find another man
“You want princess treatment but do you treat yourself like a princess” that’s deep! I’m just secs into the video and words be hitting already 😂
As a lady who likes both men and women and who maneuvers the world on a 50:50 masculine to feminine energy, I would say that all this is so true and I love how Breeny specifies by saying 'masculine' or 'feminine' energy. It always comes down to the balance of those two energies in relationships, despite your gender. Loved how her points were also around just being a nicer human to someone else, being courteous, being transparent, and being authentic about you and your experiences rather than being demanding, entitled and disengenous.
Honestly bree, you were right and your message was meant for those that was supposed to receive it. I wasnt always the type either that wanted to hear criticism about dwelling in my feminine energy but now i love to hear the positive criticism because overall it can actually help us get the treatment we actually desire. We need women to tell us the blueprint. Growth is necessary period. Just understand that no matter how you say it whether it had a little sugar or not, people will get triggered and feeled attacked unfortunately. If a woman says she's a waiting, all the non virgins get furious. Ive literally seen this. It's a weird world we live in.
No, I don't think that's the problem, breeny is just a pickmeisha and that's why people are tired of her🙄
BREENNNNNN!!!!! this is the one!! Omg yes you preached on this one sis! The accuracy is real!! Accountability is the word of the year ladies. YOU have TO BE waht it is you want t attract. Period.
Be the person you want to meet period
I agree with you Breeny!! Let's play our role and I understand the comments saying find yourself someone who loves you but even when someone loves you, having to deal with an entitled person a daily basis is exhausting and can kill the relationship. Thanks big sis ❤
I miss this lady a lot ❤️😫
your hand movements with those nails are quite satisfying, can't explain it.
🎉🎉🎉🎉 YESSSS!!! Make a part 2 please!! I was with you EVERY step of the way in this!!!! Not enough women talk about this!!!!!
But you’ve never received princess treatment breeny
Facts 😂.
This is exactly why you're my favourite RUclipsr. You couldn't have said this better!😤😤😤😤
I remember watching her a while ago and she seem sad to me , I feel like people who give great advice they be the ones suffocating. Sometimes you just gotta live your life and forget the how tos because you can follow every advice and still not get what you want . I am receiving princess treatment it’s been 5 years now and honestly I don’t why , I don’t even think am great person . Am just cold ,distant and don’t ask for anything
Yeah I'm in my Queen Empress Era. Men already know I'm attractive and are after my kingdom empire but they had better know that I'm not averse to cutting off a few heads to protect my kingdom no matter how much I like/love a person. I'd rather be respected and feared than adored and pampered. Princesses have everything done for them and never have to make difficult decisions. Even in Disney, there is never an Evil/bad princess. There is always an Evil Queen.
Who seems sad ?
I don’t think she was demanding or feeling entitled. I think she genuinely uses that question to figure out if there will be transportation. She just wanted/wants to know how moves are being made. Not everyone drives so they rely on their date to pick them up or they will have to use some sort of public transportation. I do feel like his response was rude and he could’ve left it at “I can’t provide that but can help you figure what form of transportation will work best for you so we can meet up.” He could’ve even offered to ride the bus together or just to find a way to go together.
By asking that question she also saves herself cuz she found out quick that he was an immature mean axx hole.
You break things down so well - as always look forward to your next video ❤
Thank you 😊
The way I clicked on this so fast 😂
You. Betta. Preach! Set the standard and he has to meet that or keep stepping. Talk about it!
Part two please ❤ - Especially for people in more long term committed relationships!
Yasss come thru part 2 !
I always say dont order steak and lobster when your really chicken tenders and french fries 👏🏾
I will take myself to nobu and sexy fish before I ask anyone to do it because thats the standard I set for myself
I'm not going to any of those places. Lol! but I'll book myself on a beach holiday in a heartbeat. Lol!
@@marleyhill34 period
Everything Breeny is saying is true, some people just aren't ready to hear it, it takes a certain level of maturity and understanding to deep this... Keep it up Bre, we love to see a smart woman articulate herself well and teach young women
If I a 15 year old can understand this I dont see why peolpe wouldnt understand this, it is simple
Part 2 please 🙏 also its important to know if you're dealing with a man or boy. Don't expect a boy to act like a man. If you're in a relationship or dating a person you think still needs some work, learn how he operates and use it to influence him on how you want him to treat you. Women need to start investing in their relationships
I loved this ❤ Please do more videos based on the techniques and what you can do to naturally put him in his masculine.
Ladies it's really simple, a man will treat you the way you treat yourself. There is no such thing as "wrong type of men" either. Everything is a reflection of the relationship you are having with yourself.
For instance in this case-
The lady didn't feel worthy enough to naturally get asked by her man to pick her up or book an uber. Hence why she felt the need to ask for it and also why he said no. She believes she needs to control the situation cz she isn't naturally gonna get there.
Moreover, it's kinda selfish to ask him like that when you just started going out. You're not his responsibility. You are your own human being, your own responsibility. This lack of responsibility and not taking care of things herself, showed up as him not asking to pick her up and saying NO in the end.
There is nothing you can do or say to make a man treat you well. If he wants to treat you good he will if he doesn't then he won't.
There are women that demand and get what they want. Then there are women who are so 'feminine' and are treated like trash LOL.
Ladies be yourself (unless you really need to change lol) and look out for the signs. A man that is into you will bend over backwards and accept you for you. If you like pretend lol speak softer, laugh softer and be a yes girl- if a man is not into you he will show you pepper.
Shine your eyes ladies. Its not always about us sometimes it's the men that are just trifling xx
I find it funny that you say women shouldn’t be triggered by someone who’s not trying to hurt you, but you dragged Lori Harvey for an hour just because her dating choices didn’t suit you. / evoked jealousy or some sort of trigger in you
Oop. I didn’t see it this way but I get your perspective. I think Lori was a hot topic and many people were lauding her as revolutionary and a great role model for young women, and Breeny just shared a different perspective..
Get over it! You are clearly the triggered one, still obsessing over a past video for what?
@@yzma6142 sharing a Different perspective is different from what she was doing. Plus liking misogynist comments like „they hit and dump her“ just doesn’t sit right with me
Male opinion here, but this is gold Breeny. Rage on. You said you shouldnt ask, the text wasn't even asking. It was ordering or demanding from him, giving only 2 options that suit her. Before she's even shown her value. As a male, major red flag. Nothing worse than being bossed around. An actual man doesn't want to replace their mother bossing them around. Why do they want a replacement father figure by demanding princess treatment they haven't earned?
She’s a dusty! 😂
@@SanctifiedLady lol!
Bro, my first Queenly opinion is that no King would be asking a Queen to go somewhere at 9pm at night alone. No chaperone and no guards. No, I have an elaborate nightly and morning routine and executions at dawn. 🤣😅😂 I need my beauty sleep. I'ma keep my Queen Empress energy.
Thank you for your contribution ❤
Agreed, plus he might assume she was driving there.
Most of these things have everything to do with the type of man and his willingness to do it. If a man loves you or wants to spoil you he will even with bare no effort from the female
No keep talking about relationships as well, your advice is fantastic
Boys are attracted to princessess, and kings are attracted to a queen 👸
You are absolutely correct.
These are the little lessons that should be learnt from example…in the home.
Sadly this is not always possible, so you are doing a wonderful thing for so many young girls today, thank you, Australia.
Mm I don’t know that I really agree with this. If a man you’re dating really likes you, he will want to do a lot for you without you really doing too much. And if he doesn’t really like you, then why would you want to be with him?
Not the little dance at the end😂😂, ATE once again breeny, love it fr!!!
21:43 if he is not initiating you already have an answer👏👏👏 this is pure god send wisdom
yes yes yes respect goes both ways and dating with the intention of a committed serious relationship/ marriage only works for mature emotional healed people and that you speak youre opinion and thoughts about this topic in an respectful and open-minded way makes you a real Queen a lot of people are just sheep’s and are not self aware of theire own behavior and see things on social media so it’s ego based and not from the heart thankyou fore speaking up !❤️
Breeny where can I get this dress lol, you look stunning
The people who say you're 'this age and single' are the ones that are gonna end up divorced 3 times with 4 children from different daddies. Your prince charming is on his way to you
Thank you beloved ❤
Breeney, you really said craven’ and like free food and fancy restaurants 😂. On point sister. No filter required in my world ❤
First of, Breeny you look gorgeous as always! Content on point...
We want... no we NEED a part twoooo
*looks back over my notes from the video*
My head hurts because I know theres more to learn but I don't know where to start in this subject.
I believe a woman has to show to a man how she wants to be treated and also carry herself in a certain way for a man to want to give her that treatment, if he picks it up that’s a man who has the potential to be hers if not on to the next. No need to ask, force or demand because the right one would be happy to treat you like his princess. Do you know how proud men are when their friends compliment their women or how they treat her?
You create the standard by being the standard,I Honour you miss Breeny,God bless and grant your heart desires,road to 1million!
I always thought" he is a man and I am a woman and men should give their women flowers and gifts because its the norm it is what he is supposed to do, it's required of him" but this video has completely opened my mind to a new way of thinking. Even at gunpoint, nothing would have stopped me from watching this lol, I loved it so much. Excellent video, so informative and I am desperately waiting for part 2
Same sis!!!
Aww thank you 🥰
I’m married but if I were in this dating realm I wouldn’t want a man I’ve not met before to pick me up. I also would not want him to know my location. I also would not ask him to send me an Uber. Once I’m comfortable with him and want to see him beyond date 2 or 3 then maybe but even then if we are seeing each other beyond date 2 or 3 he’d be the type of guy that I wouldnt have to ask.
Exactly! Who in their right mind is giving their address to a man they barely know. People just say anything online.
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I also asked the woman out for lunch or something during the daytime if I hadn't met her before. I would give the time and location to meet. I do this for *their* sake. Then I see women on Tiktok say how they should refuse to go on a date with a man who doesn't pick them up at their home. Like, do these women never watch true crime shows? Good luck with that.
I'm loving your looks, you need to drop where you get your outfit nowadays !
that was not harsh at all. excuses wasn't even needed. some need to hear things like this !
i’m saving this for the gym !! it’s so good 😍😍 can’t wait to watch !!