let's get deep about BODY IMAGE (marriage weight gain, crowded gyms, and pinterest fad diets)
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
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gotten several complaints about the microphone and I hear you. if you watch with headphones, this is a difficult video to get through BUT I appreciate you guys trying. This mic is new for me so I'm figuring it out and I think I know what the solution is. I'm gonna keep trying to get better with every video. thank you for your patience
I thought everything sounded fine, don’t sweat it sis 😁
There's a little ASMR-y vibe to it, but that's not bad IMO.
"I would buy some really expensive tea cups." Haven't heard a better love story than this.
Ngl I’m into how this mic makes you sound like you’re on a podcast
She is actually
Wonderful video. I hated my body for most of my life. Two things were major turnarounds for me: turning 50/hitting menopause, and recovery from mental illness (a lot of healing of past trauma). I love my body now, and ironically, I'm the heaviest I've ever been, due to the creeping pounds of age and the effects of one of my antidepressants. But I'm so happy, and have an incredible amount of peace. I wouldn't trade anything, including whatever society's current standard of beauty is on a given day, for those. Learning to screen out the constant barrage of messages from the media is difficult, but it can be done. Ultimately, it comes down to this - did you wake up this morning? Can you walk, hear, see? If so, congratulations! Everything else is gravy. EVERYTHING.
This is actually so inspring! I am at this awkward stage in life where I recognise the importance of accepting my body for the way it is a long as it is functional and not care too much about the aesthetics but due to years of being trained to only consider one type of body or lifestyle to be beautiful, it is so hard to accept myself for who I am. I have started to seek therapy so hopefully that'll help me change my mindset but it is frustrating to be aware that something is off about my brain and not my body that is leading to my body image issues but not knowing how to fix it 😅
hahahaha I love this " Everything else is gravy" I havent heard that saying before but its such a perfect description!
Honestly I think having a gym that has a men's side and sisters's side is a great idea. Muslims need to make this happen.
Salam! When I got married I was so so scared and insecure about my body. And btw i live in a western country (mexico) and my husband is 100% arab. So when we got married he moved with me and he got a little too excited with the western women, i mean like his eyes were everywhere. And here women show soooo much skin. So that alone was so distracting (for him).... However, at that time my self esteem was on the ground. I was so heart broken. Because we were just married and he didn't payed attention to me but his eyes would be on other girls... Like literally ALL THE TIME. So i felt like there is something wrong with me. I mean, i wear the hijab and i dress modeslty (alhamdulillah). I was so sad, my hair started falling, i gained weight. I became so insecure with myself and with him. I just wanted to share this. I think we all need help in this journey on accepting ourselves. And learning to be in peace with our body.
Your husband should lower his gaze to avoid fitnah may allah guide him. And by the way you ur soooo beautifull. It didn’t come from my pocket allah the creater of heaven and earth said that !!!! So be happy sister since allah sees you beautiful .
You are doing your hijab but your husband is failing at his 😭😭. If you told him you are gonna take your hijab off, what would his reaction be? Of he would have a bad reaction, it would make him a hypocrite
@ F R. Salam. Next time you and your husband go out, and he has wondering eyes, film it with your phone.
Then go marriage counselling together, (not an imam, they're misogynistic) and show them the video.
Realise the girls he look's at, don't look as good as you. Since he isn't romantically involved with them.
If you don't have kids yet, make a fake profile on Facebook with a photo of a random hot girl, and try flirting with him.
If he tells the imaginary girl, that he's single. Or flirts with her, then you can make a decision to divorce him now, instead of having kids with a cheating husband.
Cheating husbands, are always deadbeat dads sis 💁♀️.
You deserve so much better than that.
There's a guy that Allah has made for you (soul mate), and he's most likely making Du'a for a girl like you.
Your not going to meet that guy, if you stay with some dude who doesn't act like a husband.
He's acting like he just hit puberty, and he's like "wow! Females!".😑
A woman wants a MAN. Not this lil boy.
May Allah give you strength, and help you make the best decision, Ameen. 🙏
Salam, I can understand you and at the same time when you’re self esteem is low it makes things way worst you even start to get so paranoid that he’s looking at other women because you feel bad about yourself, it sucks when your husband doesn’t make you feel beautiful but all I can recommend is to work on your self esteem, that’s what I did, I stopped depending on him to make me feel attractive and I just worked on my mental health and physical health as well…. By the way are you Mexican? I am Mexican and Muslim I like to hear of other Mexican Muslims…
Bad Husband.
It’s definitely not a coincidence. The Walmarts near my house always have fresh veggies, fruits, meats, etc. I went to a Walmart in another city and they didn’t have any fresh food. All frozen and processed foods!
Suuki mai means skinny woman. Also, I agree with what you were saying about fashion. I have a weird hairline so that whenever I wear a hijab without an underscarf, you see baby hairs in all directions and it just looks strange. And the reason why I think it looks strange is just because we have been so used to seeing a single type of ideal hijab style with an ideal hairline. So, it is hard to feel confident wearing a hijab that will never suit my face and hairline. Moreover, exercising is important in daily life, and it is true that specificity training will only give results to the specific thing you are training for life (like a long distance runner training for a marathon would not be great at lifting weights). But, I do think that it is important to try to incorporate different types of exercise, if your goal is only to be healthy. For example, cardio and resistance training in combination would be the best for this goal. Lastly, I have been going to the gym for many years (and I am only 20) and even though I feel comfortable and ignore ppl most of the time at the gym, I still get self-conscious some times. But I try my best to ignore and focus on myself and my workout. The way I see it, people are always going to have opinions and thoughts and questions, but that is on them and not me. I want to better myself. And I never see many other women, even non-hijabis. And I always find it sad because exercise is so important and because of the stereotype that it is a manly and aggressive sport, many women are deterred from it and are unwilling to try it out. If you could address the issue of muslim women and exercise barriers, I think that would be very important and interesting discussion. Addressing the reasons why these women feel this way and possible solutions. Thanks for reading, if you read this far lol
Loveeee this video, especially the marriage aspect. Ik this might sound creepy but your literally like an elder sister. I always hear non-Muslims talk about body image and stuff and I just don't find myself relating to it so I'm truly grateful for this video!
not creepy at all! 😁
Mashallah you have great skin
you are too kind!
This is so relatable from start to finish! I love hearing someone who isn’t like… idk, certified fitness blog or a nutritionist or on the other hand, a body positivity blogger per se talk about these things. Very real, very comforting.
It’s not a coincidence - look up food/grocery deserts. In areas of low income there tends to not even be a grocery store within walking distance.
Your story resonated a lot with me. As a desi woman what makes everything harder is the expectations from your own mother. No matter what size I’ve been she’s always criticized me. When I was 30lbs lighter she said I looked like a zombie. Now she says I look like a fat donkey. There’s no way to win and she’s always in my head.
YES! My mother did the same. I either looked "sloth"/ "fat" when I was about 10kgs lighter "sick" . There is no in between. I think part of that is because my mother never came to terms with her body. Whenever I get her critique in my head I have to remind myself that that was then she is not saying it right now (because I am grown up and don't allow it), I am going to acknowledge it but reject it because it isn't my reality. I just wish women were more positive and less judgemental towards other women :/
Same!
I had my third kid 9 months ago and I’m basically a single parent so I have no time for myself so my health and weight are down the drain, I really want to focus on changing my lifestyle and be healthier but I literally don’t get a chance to even do anything for myself I can’t even shower everyday lol I eat whatever I can whenever I get a chance, inshallah if you have kids your husband will be very supportive and helpful with raising your baby. Btw I love your talks I watch them at night after my baby sleeps so keep them going please you can literally talk about anything I’ll watch it lol
Girl. I got the same double chin. Its called the happily married double chin. Embrace it babe 😅😘❤
So true, we never think we're good enough! I now look at old pics and I can't BELIEVE how thin and adorable i was and i did NOT feel that way!!!
Oh yeah can totally relate to feeling insecure about lack of curves or a hourglass figure 😭 again I can’t explain how great it is to resonate so much with a gal who looks like me ♥️ thanks Tazzy🌸🤍
I feel you ! All my curves are on my face ! 🤣 🤣 🤣
@@aipeshya I'm sorry this made me laugh out loud 😂😂😂😂😂 relatable !
I have just discovered your channel and girl, I must say like you! Keep it up :)
welcome!
Such a great video-thank you for sharing your experiences with body image! Definitely relate to the body image/aging aspects. And I also appreciate how you mentioned focusing on other things beyond aesthetics. For me personally, I love the gym & it really clicked for me when I focused on athletic performance more than anything else. Granted, I go to a niche gym bc I could never with these huge commercial gyms.
"It's not your body, it's you"
Wooow, that hit me hard ! 😢😢😢
I do feel jealous of the body I used to have in my 20's,but for sure would never wish to go back to that toxic mentality I used to have towards myself...
I love you Tazzy and your channel rocks. My grandson listens to your voice and falls asleep… when he hears you sing he always laughs so happily. Keep at it girl!
“15 pounds ago” is so relatable ahaha 😂😂
When I lived in Cairo there was gym for women now I'm in San Diego where just 2 ot 3 gum for Women only and they too far for me I train from home but it would be nice if there more of it.
Some bros I’ve grown up with are completely clueless.
Their wives are on birth control and have gained weight because of this.
Instead of understanding they make fun of them! Like a hole ur causing this cuz your to” manly” to use anything.
Some guys are trash lol
@Lipstick Nista desperation, it’s difficult trying get a relationship these days, especially trying to hold on to a marriage. 70% of Muslim marriages end in divorce within 3-5 years.
@@piqueny8872 what’s your source for that stat?
YASSSS keep it coming with this content tazzy! Love it - have also been loving your podcast btw, UNFAZED WITH TAZZY PHE for those who are interested 😏
This is 10/10 relatable I totally feel you being skinny then realizing I gained weight and it's been hard to accept it. I also hate gyms so I've started doing workouts at home via fiton which is free. And I love your ending looking at overall health ❤
Tell em sis!!!
That’s a gorgeous mug
So I am the in the same both in that I feel SUPER insecure because I agreed to marry a Pakistani man , he is soooooooooo thin and I am not even close to being thin and he said he doesn’t care but he hasn’t met me in person , I know I know for those of you that will say that ppl that meet online and marry are crazy , don’t go there because getting married the traditional way didn’t work for me in the past either lol . Anyway I know that the majority of Pakistani ppl are thin and I feel sooooooo nervous to even go to Pakistan like I’m sure the clothes there won’t fit my body type and I will be mortified when trying to find anything to fit me 😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣
The majority of Pakistani people are not thin! There’s a lot of variance in body types and sizes, like anywhere. Also if you go there you can order online and stuff, and even in shops it’s very common for people to buy unstitched clothing and get it tailored for their body. You’ll be fine.
Yes don’t worry sis you got it !!!!
Girll lovee this content. Moreee
dont know how i feel about the new mic, makes your voice sound different like a podcast lol
Im 31, Im still trying to get thiccc lol since like 14 but learned a lot about fitness late in life … and now as a Muslim gyms are just uncomfortable i def want to open an all female gym InshaAllah
When she said buzz lightyear I dieddddd
Had a breakdown in the middle of grocery shopping (figuratively). And called my bff to calm down 😂 now you post this just in tiiiime!❤️
I know I should exercise, but I hate doing it. Even if I have time to do it. First, I have to mentally (and physically) prepare to exercise. I can't eat or drink anything hours beforehand or else I get a stitch when I exercise. And then when I actually exercise, I can only do it for a short period before my heart beats so fast, and afterwards I just feel tired and sweaty and still somewhat unaccomplished. I wish I was one of those people who could exercise regularly and feel energized after doing so, but it's just not my experience :(
I HAVE A CUP OBSSESSIONNN doesn’t help when all I drink is coffee and tea 👀
Loving your reflexions, thanks for sharing ! I'm a new fan 😅
Where I live, there's womens only gyms!
20:00 Men constantly face bullying snd harassment for their appearance hair, lack of muscle and ability. Especially brown men. When they workout and get a body that their proud it there right to be proud and show it off. There are a lot struggle men go through that is not look at serious and this in no way neglecting women’s issues. Men and women both have issues and neither gender is allowed to on the others causing problems.
Even if you were a skinny kid growing up it still feels weird gaining weight when you grow up.I used to be skinny as well and i never had much curves.Now i am 8-10 kilos more than i was 4 years ago and its the most i have weighted untill now.Hypothyroidism helped i guess there .I am still not that curvy but i do t care about that anymore i dont even want to show my body shape that much.Despite being skinny before i always had a belly that very easily became bloated and stayed bloated.Now that makes me feel even worse because my belly has obviously more fat than before and also it looks even bigger than before when i get bloated(which is every day all day).On me bloated belly= i look kinda pregnant and i lowkey hate it.I am so glad now the weather is finally colder and i can wear bigger clothes and more layers than before
I learned for healthy food advice go to a Registered Dietitian--- they are licensed. Nutritionist- is not licensed in USA, some Dieticians may call themselves that.
Fitness advice at gym...go to someone with exercise science background- 4 years of college study it...and people who lost alot of weight +80 pounds and kept it off for 3 years or more.
Avoid advice from gym rats + celebrities who give wrong advice that's not science backed.
I love your videos and your channel but i just cannot watch these videos where you sit so close to the mic and talk in whispers! Ugh! I get like 2 minutes in and my ears can't take it :(
Yes !!!! Women's only gyms 🏋️♀️
Your outfit matches your mug.
Oh Tazzy I just love your humor so much❤️
Same here about cups, it takes me long to decide which mug for a tea, took me a couple of years.
I thought I was fat even though no one called me fat in my life in teens. Reality was because I did not get any validation or been told explicitly that I was a good weight, so I automatically assumed I was fat and not good enough. Fortunately, I was going through a spiritual high, getting deep into my deen, it did not effect me,I ended up with more confidence and just this overwhelming happiness in my soul so getting external validation was a minor issue, I started wearing hijab and abaya, not the fashionista type, later got into fashionista type but alhamdullah I am over that now wearing a burqa without veil.
I fast now mondays and thursday since last Ramadan, its helped me with my relationship with Allah swt and a body feeling good alhamdullah.
It's as if you're describing my life!!
Thank you Tazzy for accompanying me during my morning routine! 💛 Jazakallah khair sister 🥰
Women's gyms yes !
Great video 🙌🙌🙌
Also love the color combo of your sweater and hijab 🤩
This was all over the place, but I'm here for it.
Same sis. Ramadhan always resets
thank you for cancelling gyms.. its the most uncomfortable place plus i just dont understand "SETS" "REPS" I mean cool if they work for u.. but for me, you let me run outside and i would do that for hours just no.. 1..2..3.. and god if u r in Pakistan.. aunties will tell u how much acne u have.. they will be over there for the same reason but they will make sure to make you feel bad about ur body and height and hair and ur existence.. lol ok im done..
Join the club , mugs and plates . I buy Mumin mugs for $25-$30.
they are worth it lol in my eyes!
YOU SHOULD START A PODCAST!!!!!
She does have one😌
She already has one!!!!
"Unfazed with tazzyPhe"
@@jboj8430 thankkk uuuu
Love all these videos! A tazzy phe podcast would be so awesome 😎
I loved this tazzy! I’ve been watching you again and I really missed doing so :) I also agree for women’s gyms! Also it’s good to have a mindset of why you’re working out, like I want to do it because it makes my body feel good and it’s alright if I’m slow with it.
Very soothing voice!!!
Yeah vegetable juices, slim fasts, smoothies, protein shakes, milks, and teas are fine ways to stay on the light weight sides yeah
I suggested mosque have gyms for familys...but totally agree womens only gym would be awesome.
Curves - women only.
Yoga studios - majority women most times...occasionally a dude joins.
Please do podcasts !!!! Love it 😁
Tazzy! I hope you see this because I always love the topics you discuss in your videos and I want to tell you that going through a physical (& mental) change in your late 20s (frontal lobe come through!) is definitely a real thing to contend with. As for digestive issues - get on some good probiotics, they will change your life! And I'd recommend getting some resistance bands and kettlebells and following Chloe Ting or MadFit workouts from home which really help you get into shape and build up stamina at your own pace without feeling like you need to be at the gym to achieve good results. All the best! xx
"Mai" is used for "lady" in punjabi (or siraiki- I'm pretty sure about this lol)
ahahahahahahahahahahahahaha lmaooooo the story about cups
Excellenté dahling
How do I know my Pakistani husband is losing his mind ?
this was interesting but you kept hitting the microphone it was so irritating
Wow that "training for specs" is revolutionary
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Do podcasts please like long ones, love listening to you! 🤗
Loving the podcast vibes! I adore this formatttt
Love your sweater Taz
Great video!
I love cups too 😊
Good job 👏👍👌
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Mai is maid. You were called skinny maid
How dare you to call tazzy phe a maid🤦
I hate u 😭
@@morehan5592 She's translating the word "mai".
You’d look much better without hijab. God will still love you without it - I’m sure he doesn’t care about some material on your head!
Not the point. Not helpful.
@@MsLeanneO if someone has body issues and another gives said person a tip to improve said body, then I can’t see how that isn’t the point. Thank you, please come again.
@@Whereisshellymiscavige Your “tip” was not helpful to her improving. We don’t wear hijab to look pretty, that’s not the point. Taking it off to look better is not the point of hijab. It’s actually a very insulting and unhelpful thing to say to a hijabi.
Of course we would all look better without hijab. Duh. We all know this and it’s not helpful to point out the obvious. We wear hijab for modesty, to intentionally conceal part of our beauty and as a sign of devotion to Allah ( God ). It is a part of our religion not a fashion choice.
So yes, you missed the point. Your comment was rude, unhelpful and ignorant.
@@MsLeanneO you say my tip was not helpful to her. How do you know? Why are you taking her agency away from her? To think she is unable to speak for herself is more insulting than saying she’d look better without some polyester on her head. And again, I don’t think God is so petty to care about whether or not someone wears fabric on it their hair. Surely the almighty is beyond such trifle considerations...
@@Whereisshellymiscavige I know because she is still wearing her hijab. She would take it off if she wanted to and she doesn’t need your suggestion to come to that conclusion because she’s not an idiot.
You are in the wrong and you aren’t able to admit it. Your ignorance of our religion, the importance and purpose of hijab is blatantly obvious. I spelled it all out for you and you just double downed instead of trying to learn something. Pity.