Regularism: Trading the American Dream for a Normal Life

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  • Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
  • S/O to ‪@LifeAs_Kiki‬ for her video "I Gave Up On The American Dream: Regularism"- This video really helped me gain clarity on the thoughts I've been toiling with lately. I hope I did a good job adding to the conversation.
    Enjoy
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Комментарии • 17

  • @LifeAs_Kiki
    @LifeAs_Kiki 2 года назад +13

    You are SOOOOOOOO DEEP! We are making being “regular” normal again. 🥰 I’ll be getting that book today! Love the video! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ItsMeMissRuby
      @ItsMeMissRuby  2 года назад

      Thank you. And you are SO REAL girl. I appreciate. 🙏🏽 The book is bomb. Enjoy ☺️

  • @Brickington23
    @Brickington23 2 года назад +4

    I gave up on the “American dream” a long time ago because nowadays the “American Dream” is to make enough money so the problems of this nation don’t apply to you instead of fixing said problems.
    The Key to life is for me is to help/love people in need, value family/friends, and to enjoy the little things. That’s all there is to it, very simple but people overcomplicate it.

    • @ItsMeMissRuby
      @ItsMeMissRuby  2 года назад +1

      I love the way you put that. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Sashstashreview
    @Sashstashreview 2 года назад +1

    I started watching your sew in for beginners a few minutes ago n now I’m here. You have a nice spirit. Thanks for the video.

  • @Islanddreamer430
    @Islanddreamer430 2 года назад +2

    Yes I love that book and it put so much of the anxiety I’ve lived with at ease. Everything is hevel!

    • @ItsMeMissRuby
      @ItsMeMissRuby  2 года назад

      That book has forever changed me 🙌

    • @Islanddreamer430
      @Islanddreamer430 2 года назад

      @@ItsMeMissRuby me too sis. It made me unsubscribe from the rat race and really look at myself like “What are you doing?”. Life is but a vapor. Reminded me to love God, do good, and trust that my steps are ordered by Him while I’m here.

  • @treasuretshabalala132
    @treasuretshabalala132 8 месяцев назад +1

    I'm not a believer, but I love the way you're using the concept of God in your message because I think it speaks to what religion ideally tries to teach!
    In psychology, we have these concepts called the Id, Ego, and Superego. I'm no Psychologist btw, just someone with an interest in the topic and the Id is that force within us that always tries to push us towards 'perfection'. It says "do more, earn more, work harder!!" I think people usually mistake the Id for the Ego. The Ego basically mediates your relationship with reality (reality testing) and allows you to see things for what they are instead of getting clouded by your own perspective. That's why it's extremely important to have an Ego, which if you don't, you'll be like today's generation; glorifying "delulu"
    And then of course there's the Superego. The Superego is ideally the voice of reason. It reminds you who you are. It scolds and plays the role of the father basically within your inner world. I believe what you guys call God is the Superego personified. I see now that there were major benefits to having a faith cos without it, especially in today's world, a lot of people are controlled by the Id, and I doubt the Id could ever be satiated cos its idealistic; its not allowed to be sated!
    This consumerism-materialism culture goes so much deeper than simply telling people to give up on the American dream. It speaks to how healthy and balanced a person is psychologically. That's why I don't look up to people who exploit and sell ALL their time and lives away just to get a shiny new toy or to impress their friends. It's infantile.
    Great video though Sis, looking forward to more on the topic.

  • @moniemoon3193
    @moniemoon3193 2 года назад

    I enjoyed this. Makes sooooo much sense!! This is something I try to live by daily. Appreciate your viewpoints 🥰🥰

  • @SamBritliAirtight
    @SamBritliAirtight 2 года назад

    Clicked on this video for title and i resignate with everything here. So much time has been spent catering to the corporate world but what about my world. Working for me and me only luv this vid.

  • @BGambino1215
    @BGambino1215 2 года назад

    No I clicked on this video cause I randomly saw your rick ross jayz freemason lyric breakdown video...THAT MAN IS A FREEMASON 😆 ...glad your doing alive n doinh good tho that was a old video....and you sound very smart lol

    • @ItsMeMissRuby
      @ItsMeMissRuby  2 года назад

      lol dang throwback! I love it! And yes I’m fantastic these days. God is good 🙏🏽🙌

  • @HakWilliams
    @HakWilliams 2 года назад

    It's you!