The pivot- yes this. I lost my entire artistic career in a few days after covid, the galleries that showed me shut down in multiple places and I went from having steady income and lectures and fellowships for the next 16mnths to nothing so I pivoted a few weeks ago, redid my resume etc, and just got a job at a blockchain company .. it's not 'my dream' but it is money to support my family
Such an authentic and genuine person. Many would chose the hard sale tactic. You tell people not to put themselves in financial hardship. Rare! Your amazing! 🙏❤️💥
Yes. She has a business and it’s understandable in my eyes. It doesn’t discount what she said on the video, especially what were going thru as a community. Most speakers don’t event mention anything close.
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I normally don't comment, but l have to ❤THANK YOUUU❤ FOR ACKNOWLEDGING ALL THOSE MEN/ BOYS WHO HAVE BEEN MURDERED AT THE HANDS OF COPS. I listen to you often, and have told some many people about you in general, but man, l was not expecting you to say what you said acknowledging those young men at the beginning of your video; this is why YOU were put on this earth; to change lives. You are AMAZINGGGG!!!!!
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Tuning in from SW Michigan. I enjoy your common sense approach in everything. I am age-69 and past my career days but I recently left my old life on a rural 5-acre homestead in order to simplify our life. My 75-years old husband was diagnosed with early cognitive decline about 3 years ago and we have been working hard ever since to put most of that cognitive decline into remission. We have totally changed our diet and lifestyle in order to be healthier. I sold our twenty-year property and home and almost everything we owned. I bought and move us into a condo in a small town of 33,327 (as of the 2018 census.) This is a different kind of reinventing of my life as a caretaker and retired businesswoman who is working on her own healing journey from multiple Autoimmune Conditions at the same time and her husband's healing journey as well. For me, this meant letting go of our old, rural isolated life, finding and choosing a new community with more social services, making new friends, taking on a 30-year mortgage after leaving our mortgage-free property in a very poor disadvantaged community where we never fit in and there were NO social services for a person with cognitive decline. Our old community was a VERY hard place to live (physically hard in the snow belt of snowy Michigan and in an old home with no a/c ) and just no place to grow old. I have been working on re-imagining our life for the past 8-years planning this move to a community where we know no one and everything is different. I am in the midst of creating a new future for myself and my husband together. It's been a LOT of change, downsizing our life 100%, and leaving everything and everyone we know behind and starting our life together totally over. Looking forward for the free daily posts.
What a brave, inspiring person you are! I wish you success and joy in your courageous new life! ❤️ Have you ever come across the theory that cognitive decline in some people can be caused by too much sugary, starchy carbohydrate intake. And that cutting those carbs combined with supplementation with organic coconut oil or MCT oil may help?
Hello from the Florida panhandle! Thank you for all that you do and for addressing the murder of Mr. Floyd. I agree, if you have not seen the video, don't look for it. Too painful!
Hello Mel, this is day I don’t know maybe 20 of watching your videos for several hours each day. I am so grateful for all of your tips. I have talked a lot about the topics with my dear friend, and she has learned a lot, too. Today I realized that the big trauma of 13 years ago has only been buried, but it’s not dead. The old mindset still exists in me and has not been replaced as I thought. Maybe I’ll have to work on it again.
Hi mel, am listening from Zambia and I am so glad to have found you at a time like this. I look forward to listening to your material daily. I love how real and so human your experience and public fails are, you speak about them with so much confidence and you ve owned them and continue to move past everything. Thankyou for sharing.
I enrolled in your course today, so excited. I took a sabbatical 1.5 years ago & a bit stuck in a flimsy job that's not for me...& in a foreign country. Nervous about re-entering my old industry or what's in store. Procrastination level 9999. I don't want to work for other people rest of my life, hope your course can help realise this dream. Thank you for your wisdom these last few months ❤️
I absolutely loved your show, have followed you since I discovered it, as well as following some of the experts you brought on to help us! I am so sorry this happened to you. It is definitely a time of new beginnings and thank God for you to help us through them!
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I am so grateful to hear that I am not alone in having to reinvent myself.... that the world changed and now you too are needing to reinvent yourself. Thank you for saying it just so matter-of-factly.
Seem like a very self aware/ intelligent lady. Am currently going through a real change process while dealing with a poor family dynamic. Everything you have said I can resonate with. Keep it up👍
Lakewood Ohio, I know this video is a few weeks old I'm just now watching it for the first time, trying to get caught up on all your videos You've been extremely helpful for me throughout these last three four months of my life Thank you so much for everything you do Mel! 💞
Hi Mel you are an inspirations to so many people . please sow your wisdom and your self confidence I WISH YOU AND ALL THOSE KNOWS THE WORTH IN INVESTING IN ONESELF GOD BLESS YOU
Bonjour Madame Robbins💝🤗WE ALL LUV U for what u r doing!!! Only God could repay U in heaven🤩🌹 Je viens de Malaisie, l am from Malaysia maam🙋♂️🌷Millions of TQ to U🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you Mel for all the work you expressed with legal rights and justice for all. I am from Savannah Ga and we were blessed to have. Peaceful protest because our Mayor Johnson and all leaders in all disciplines protested with the community it’s of Savannah. Looking to see social justice post. ❤️🤗👍
I think all of your content is suited best for a channels like OWN and/or PBS . I am so appreciative of what you offer. I am doing the mindset reset series and enjoying the process. Wishing you the very best.
2020 forced a lot of us to reinvent ourselves. Not an easy ride yet worth getting back to the truth of who we are. I'm so happy for this time to reset and take inspired action... Here's to creating a new chapter feeling afraid yet doing it anyway! It sucks. And worth going through it all, now that I made it through the other side. Commitment to my own transformation. Thanks Mel.
I wondered if you would talk about this. Thank you Mel. I live in Minnesota about 40 minutes away from Minneapolis where most the rioting is going on currently. Where George Floyd was murdered.
Litterally love you so much mel honestly you are litterally one of my Faveourite most influential people ever. I’d love to meet you one day hope you can come to the UK and do a talk ❤️
There is so much to comment on in your video, but first, your talk show was canceled??!! No no no! I love your show. There must be another opportunity for you to continue. Yes to your coaching program! You inspire me. I’m actually in a very good place and don’t need to reinvent myself, but I am always seeking self-exploration and self-improvement and readiness for whatever might happen next. Thank you!
Just found this vid Mel, I'm subscribing to your channel today, don't want to miss your positive vibes any more! Down to earth, positive, heartfelt you're my shoulder when I'm feeling good and not so good. Thank you for dealing with the current situation escalating in the USA. I'm in England where the situation is almost a mirror image of what's happening there. You need a wider platform as the powers to be are too entrenched in the old form of almost colonial rule, we the people are inclusive, we are one we can't be divided no more. Bring us together, under the umbrella, we need some guidance
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Thank you for your knowledge and information. Thanks for being an ally, I also appreciate the way that you advocate and work and move thoughts forward. I appreciate you and think that you are doing a great job of helping people do better.
Got my hours drastically cut, slow sales as a artist, not reinventing myself just looking outside the box how I can get out there more with my skills to make ends meet and continue my business. Been continuing to do my art during this virus, maintaining normalcy as much as I can and will continue to do so. Watching this video to see what everyone else is doing to survive during this crisis. Enjoy listening to you Mel, thank you for your content.
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Hi Mel, You are just great! Don't you know that? I am a great fan of you from Bangladesh! I keep watching your series regularly and I enjoy it. keep doing the good work. Cheers!
Hi Mel! I so missed seeing your personal, inspiring messages after you started your show. Your inspiration is amazing and makes me want to be all I can be. You have a gift and you are blessing others. I really appreciate you.
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I'm newly.retired. I was an accountant. I live in NC. I need to reinvent my life, too. I just read your book, "Stop Saying You're Fine." I have downloaded "Five Second Rule" on my Kindle, and I will read it soon.
You took my question today re: boundaries. I clearly drew the boundary of not communicating w/ my narcissistic Xhusband. He has put me and my kids through hell for many years. Other than my sister, every other person in my life respects that boundry. What I struggle w/ is continuing to QUESTION MYSELF bc we were always close, it was the MOST important thing to my parents for us to be in each other’s lives, and it’s tough for all of the children. My kids and my nieces/nephews (all of whom speak to me, and still maintain relationships w/me). In addition, my only other sibling/sister ghosted my family, mainly due to my decision to separate from sis#1. Whenever I discuss the issue w/ppl, I hear “life is short...she’s your sister...be forgiving!” However, my friends who know the WHOLE story get it. I know I made the right call! By not respecting my boundry, it is a betrayal, and is toxic to me, my kids, and my friends. Why do I feel like I owe them or my parents to continue trying to repair. The expiration date was long passed. How do I lose the twinge of guilt for my decision. How do I completely detach, and let it go, so I can feel peace in my heart 💜??? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank You! Marisa Ragusa Case
Marisa it sounds to me like you have made a sound and well thought out decision with respect to your Sister. Trust that, and your instincts. If your closest friends understand then that's the litmus test. If your Sister at a later time can change her position and earn your respect again, then so be it. It will be meant to be. Otherwise, and until then, stick to your guns and be proud and confident in your decision.
Shawn Mann Thank you for responding. I know I made the best decision for myself and my kids. However, I’m still so hurt and feel betrayed by both sisters. I guess it’s the “Italian” guilt that creeps it’s way into my mind on occasion;) it truly helps me to stay strong when I hear and feel support like yours. TYSM💛
@@marisacase5413 . You are quite welcome Marisa. I feel that it's not so much guilt. Maybe family love? I think if more folks were open minded to being truly happy and caring for themselves (and less judgemental to others in troubled circumstances such as your own),there would be less conflict and drama in the world. You have to be happy in your own heart everyday. You are all you have !
Mel that is SO expensive for those of us would love this and need it, can't you bring down cost. I mean it's a pandemic in our pockets as well as our lives and alot of people out of work so the poorest ONCE AGAIN can't afford this "INVESTMENT" in ourselves when we so desperately need. I mean were clearly GLUED to your every word, dear Guru Mel (not being sarcastic). Truly, some of us get up to the hope of your golden tidbits of "quick immediate fixes" each day. Sad but TRUE.Yes I get it, you are a BUSINESS WOMAN AND YOU ARE REINVENTING yourself and this is one BIG way to generate income QUICKLY but how about your loyal followers (like us)????
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But Mel.....what do you do when you don’t actually know what to do?! I don’t have a business idea or plan, I don’t have a passion I think could make me money...I’ve been stuck for years!
Never too late to reinvent so motivating. Very sad how that man died. Now all that's left is a burned down city and closed businesses in the wake..doubly sad
I’m one of those who is down about the state of the world, and wanting to know where and how I can plug in and serve outside of work. I see suffering people everywhere, and the results of collective and systemic division and bias everywhere. Our culture needs to change, and I want to help, but outside of my little corner at work, I don’t know how to help.
Hey Mel ! Georgia here .I am so sorry to hear about your show being cancelled. You are excellent in what you do and help so many .I truly need a lawyer , not sure if I can it even if you are interested but if so... Please let me know cause I just love all your work!!!
All lives matters. And I think that racism against ALL races should be fought for now. I am fed up of racism against everybody. This must stop ! We are all one !
I would love to take this course, but 400 dollars (American) is just not feasible for me (and many others) in a time when so many have lost their jobs and have a lot of uncertainty in paying essential bills. It's a pretty elite bubble that could afford this in this moment. (not trying to be nasty- just honest. I do appreciate your videos and the work you do). Much love.
She gives so much free information and help but she also has to earn a living. I did her free class after the first of the year and it was very helpful!
@@sarakoury1671 , definitely- and I appreciate that! The thing is, the price of this course is a bit much, imho, when I can take a university class (with accreditation and leading to a degree) for the same cost, and many other classes of this caliber are offered for significantly less than 400 American dollars.
I am from South Africa and I call you my therapist as I can’t afford one ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Saaammmme😭🤞from South Africa too, I just found this amazing woman!❤
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@@Aishwarya_0310 she is amazing ,
Thank you for speaking about George Floyd. I live in Minneapolis and this is a sad, scary situation. 🙏
The pivot- yes this. I lost my entire artistic career in a few days after covid, the galleries that showed me shut down in multiple places and I went from having steady income and lectures and fellowships for the next 16mnths to nothing so I pivoted a few weeks ago, redid my resume etc, and just got a job at a blockchain company .. it's not 'my dream' but it is money to support my family
Mel Robbins
hi, how are you doing now?
Good for you! Wishing you success and feelings of fulfillment.
Such an authentic and genuine person. Many would chose the hard sale tactic. You tell people not to put themselves in financial hardship. Rare! Your amazing! 🙏❤️💥
U realize that she is doing almost all the time an ad, she is selling her or other stuff in every Video, Email...
Yes. She has a business and it’s understandable in my eyes. It doesn’t discount what she said on the video, especially what were going thru as a community. Most speakers don’t event mention anything close.
She comes across as fake to me. What are you on?
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I normally don't comment, but l have to ❤THANK YOUUU❤ FOR ACKNOWLEDGING ALL THOSE MEN/ BOYS WHO HAVE BEEN MURDERED AT THE HANDS OF COPS. I listen to you often, and have told some many people about you in general, but man, l was not expecting you to say what you said acknowledging those young men at the beginning of your video; this is why YOU were put on this earth; to change lives. You are AMAZINGGGG!!!!!
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Mel... Im shocked your show was cancelled!! I'm so sad. Your show was Amazing. You'll do Amazing!!
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Tuning in from SW Michigan. I enjoy your common sense approach in everything. I am age-69 and past my career days but I recently left my old life on a rural 5-acre homestead in order to simplify our life. My 75-years old husband was diagnosed with early cognitive decline about 3 years ago and we have been working hard ever since to put most of that cognitive decline into remission. We have totally changed our diet and lifestyle in order to be healthier. I sold our twenty-year property and home and almost everything we owned. I bought and move us into a condo in a small town of 33,327 (as of the 2018 census.) This is a different kind of reinventing of my life as a caretaker and retired businesswoman who is working on her own healing journey from multiple Autoimmune Conditions at the same time and her husband's healing journey as well. For me, this meant letting go of our old, rural isolated life, finding and choosing a new community with more social services, making new friends, taking on a 30-year mortgage after leaving our mortgage-free property in a very poor disadvantaged community where we never fit in and there were NO social services for a person with cognitive decline. Our old community was a VERY hard place to live (physically hard in the snow belt of snowy Michigan and in an old home with no a/c ) and just no place to grow old. I have been working on re-imagining our life for the past 8-years planning this move to a community where we know no one and everything is different. I am in the midst of creating a new future for myself and my husband together. It's been a LOT of change, downsizing our life 100%, and leaving everything and everyone we know behind and starting our life together totally over. Looking forward for the free daily posts.
What a brave, inspiring person you are! I wish you success and joy in your courageous new life! ❤️ Have you ever come across the theory that cognitive decline in some people can be caused by too much sugary, starchy carbohydrate intake. And that cutting those carbs combined with supplementation with organic coconut oil or MCT oil may help?
With your attitude and common sense 'spunk', you will succeed. Wishing you a smooth transition. Be blessed! I, too, am starting over....
Love how you’re a teacher and a student - it’s your most trustworthy asset x
I'm from Suriname and I've been watching your videos since yesterday. So far I've learned SO MUCH, thank you!
Hello from the Florida panhandle! Thank you for all that you do and for addressing the murder of Mr. Floyd. I agree, if you have not seen the video, don't look for it. Too painful!
Hello Mel, this is day I don’t know maybe 20 of watching your videos for several hours each day. I am so grateful for all of your tips. I have talked a lot about the topics with my dear friend, and she has learned a lot, too. Today I realized that the big trauma of 13 years ago has only been buried, but it’s not dead. The old mindset still exists in me and has not been replaced as I thought. Maybe I’ll have to work on it again.
Hi mel, am listening from Zambia and I am so glad to have found you at a time like this. I look forward to listening to your material daily. I love how real and so human your experience and public fails are, you speak about them with so much confidence and you ve owned them and continue to move past everything. Thankyou for sharing.
Minnesota here! Thank you for your sound advice and words of encouragement! Especially during civil unrest and a pandemic!
I enrolled in your course today, so excited. I took a sabbatical 1.5 years ago & a bit stuck in a flimsy job that's not for me...& in a foreign country. Nervous about re-entering my old industry or what's in store. Procrastination level 9999. I don't want to work for other people rest of my life, hope your course can help realise this dream. Thank you for your wisdom these last few months ❤️
Hi Shannon. Can I get your opinion on the coarse? Would you recommend?
I absolutely loved your show, have followed you since I discovered it, as well as following some of the experts you brought on to help us! I am so sorry this happened to you. It is definitely a time of new beginnings and thank God for you to help us through them!
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Me too! She help me save my n soul…Mel I wish you nothing but blessings in everything …Thank you
Thank you so much for being here with us.
A great Day everyday. Mel Robbins.. Watchin from. Philippines
I am from Germany and I love your tips which help me grow. 👍❤️
I am so grateful to hear that I am not alone in having to reinvent myself.... that the world changed and now you too are needing to reinvent yourself. Thank you for saying it just so matter-of-factly.
I love the way you talk, you explain things and how you inspire people like me. I wish I could articulate as excellent just like you!
Seem like a very self aware/ intelligent lady. Am currently going through a real change process while dealing with a poor family dynamic. Everything you have said I can resonate with. Keep it up👍
I like so much the speeches of this great speaker-woman!
Lakewood Ohio, I know this video is a few weeks old I'm just now watching it for the first time, trying to get caught up on all your videos You've been extremely helpful for me throughout these last three four months of my life Thank you so much for everything you do Mel! 💞
Thank you, Mel. You always share what's really needed. You are a National Treasure!
Hi Mel you are an inspirations to so many people . please sow your wisdom and your self confidence I WISH YOU AND ALL THOSE KNOWS THE WORTH IN INVESTING IN ONESELF GOD BLESS YOU
Bonjour Madame Robbins💝🤗WE ALL LUV U for what u r doing!!! Only God could repay U in heaven🤩🌹
Je viens de Malaisie, l am from Malaysia maam🙋♂️🌷Millions of TQ to U🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you Mel for all the work you expressed with legal rights and justice for all. I am from Savannah Ga and we were blessed to have. Peaceful protest because our Mayor Johnson and all leaders in all disciplines protested with the community it’s of Savannah. Looking to see social justice post. ❤️🤗👍
I think all of your content is suited best for a channels like OWN and/or PBS . I am so appreciative of what you offer. I am doing the mindset reset series and enjoying the process. Wishing you the very best.
Very authentic. Keep being yourself, keep being your own boss. You don't need a TV show. But we need YOU 😍💛🌞
2020 forced a lot of us to reinvent ourselves. Not an easy ride yet worth getting back to the truth of who we are. I'm so happy for this time to reset and take inspired action... Here's to creating a new chapter feeling afraid yet doing it anyway! It sucks. And worth going through it all, now that I made it through the other side. Commitment to my own transformation.
Thanks Mel.
In orlando ,Fla. Your a lifeline to me right now. Thank you for what you are sharing mel.
I wondered if you would talk about this. Thank you Mel. I live in Minnesota about 40 minutes away from Minneapolis where most the rioting is going on currently. Where George Floyd was murdered.
Litterally love you so much mel honestly you are litterally one of my Faveourite most influential people ever. I’d love to meet you one day hope you can come to the UK and do a talk ❤️
the word is spelled "literally" . sorry, had to share
Nkechi from Nigeria. Just discovered this site and I am super excited
You’ve got an original valley girl here, born and raised in the SFV, Ca. Watching you from our empty nest in Ventura County, Ca 🌴🌞
Hai.. Merhaba
Im from Bali, Indonesia
But stay in Turkey right now. Thanks for sharing
Thank you for addressing the George Floyd issue & giving that insight on your career in the justice system. I have even more respect for you now.
There is so much to comment on in your video, but first, your talk show was canceled??!! No no no! I love your show. There must be another opportunity for you to continue.
Yes to your coaching program! You inspire me. I’m actually in a very good place and don’t need to reinvent myself, but I am always seeking self-exploration and self-improvement and readiness for whatever might happen next. Thank you!
Just found this vid Mel, I'm subscribing to your channel today, don't want to miss your positive vibes any more! Down to earth, positive, heartfelt you're my shoulder when I'm feeling good and not so good.
Thank you for dealing with the current situation escalating in the USA.
I'm in England where the situation is almost a mirror image of what's happening there.
You need a wider platform as the powers to be are too entrenched in the old form of almost colonial rule, we the people are inclusive, we are one we can't be divided no more.
Bring us together, under the umbrella, we need some guidance
I saw a few short videos from you. You are amazing. Really love the way you think.
Love you Mel , everything you say is my next action skill plan
Hey Mel! I’m Ann coming from Largo, FL...two miles from Indian Rocks Beach. Great to see you. Looking forward to watching...stay safe and be well. ✌🏼💚
my sister showed me that video.. too sad, i had no words..
Love your work Mel!
- a fan from the Philippines
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Thank you for your knowledge and information. Thanks for being an ally, I also appreciate the way that you advocate and work and move thoughts forward. I appreciate you and think that you are doing a great job of helping people do better.
Good morning from Hemel Hempstead, near London. Yes, bit late, but better late than never Mel! x
OMG talking about a narcissistic father....you were talking directly to me...thanks..
Portland, OR
Thank you for chiming in!
Time to reinvent us all!
Hello from Florida! I need a "new gig" after a bad job experience!! I am also AARP age. Love your intelligence and passion.
Got my hours drastically cut, slow sales as a artist, not reinventing myself just looking outside the box how I can get out there more with my skills to make ends meet and continue my business. Been continuing to do my art during this virus, maintaining normalcy as much as I can and will continue to do so. Watching this video to see what everyone else is doing to survive during this crisis. Enjoy listening to you Mel, thank you for your content.
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Thank you for being you,from here in South Australia 💐
Hello from Germany. RIP George Floyd, it s unbelieveable
Mel! So excited to reinvent with you. Reinvent 2020! We got this.
You got this Mel.
Great info as usual! So happy you spoke up about the current racial issues in our country!
I am tunning from Cali, Colombia,,South America
i am tuning in from Calgary, Alberta in Canada!
Tuning in from Adelaide, South Australia.
Hi Mel, You are just great! Don't you know that? I am a great fan of you from Bangladesh! I keep watching your series regularly and I enjoy it. keep doing the good work. Cheers!
Carol from New Rochelle, NY So excited to have started the Power of YOU! OMG so excited
From Kansas! You have helped me sooooo much! ❤️
Hi Mel! I so missed seeing your personal, inspiring messages after you started your show. Your inspiration is amazing and makes me want to be all I can be. You have a gift and you are blessing others. I really appreciate you.
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Hi Mel Thank you for all the Motivation... many greetings from Germany ❤️🤗
I'm newly.retired. I was an accountant. I live in NC. I need to reinvent my life, too. I just read your book, "Stop Saying You're Fine." I have downloaded "Five Second Rule" on my Kindle, and I will read it soon.
You took my question today re: boundaries. I clearly drew the boundary of not communicating w/ my narcissistic Xhusband. He has put me and my kids through hell for many years. Other than my sister, every other person in my life respects that boundry. What I struggle w/ is continuing to QUESTION MYSELF bc we were always close, it was the MOST important thing to my parents for us to be in each other’s lives, and it’s tough for all of the children. My kids and my nieces/nephews (all of whom speak to me, and still maintain relationships w/me). In addition, my only other sibling/sister ghosted my family, mainly due to my decision to separate from sis#1. Whenever I discuss the issue w/ppl, I hear “life is short...she’s your sister...be forgiving!” However, my friends who know the WHOLE story get it. I know I made the right call! By not respecting my boundry, it is a betrayal, and is toxic to me, my kids, and my friends. Why do I feel like I owe them or my parents to continue trying to repair. The expiration date was long passed. How do I lose the twinge of guilt for my decision. How do I completely detach, and let it go, so I can feel peace in my heart 💜??? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Thank You!
Marisa Ragusa Case
Marisa it sounds to me like you have made a sound and well thought out decision with respect to your Sister. Trust that, and your instincts. If your closest friends understand then that's the litmus test. If your Sister at a later time can change her position and earn your respect again, then so be it. It will be meant to be. Otherwise, and until then, stick to your guns and be proud and confident in your decision.
Shawn Mann Thank you for responding. I know I made the best decision for myself and my kids. However, I’m still so hurt and feel betrayed by both sisters. I guess it’s the “Italian” guilt that creeps it’s way into my mind on occasion;) it truly helps me to stay strong when I hear and feel support like yours. TYSM💛
@@marisacase5413 . You are quite welcome Marisa. I feel that it's not so much guilt. Maybe family love? I think if more folks were open minded to being truly happy and caring for themselves (and less judgemental to others in troubled circumstances such as your own),there would be less conflict and drama in the world. You have to be happy in your own heart everyday. You are all you have !
From Kentucky here, I love to subscribe your channel, it helps me.
i promise you !
i have drawn boundaries!
it was horrible
BUT!! 4 years later we Alllll doing well bc I DREW BOUNDARIES 🥰
Mel that is SO expensive for those of us would love this and need it, can't you bring down cost. I mean it's a pandemic in our pockets as well as our lives and alot of people out of work so the poorest ONCE AGAIN can't afford this "INVESTMENT" in ourselves when we so desperately need. I mean were clearly GLUED to your every word, dear Guru Mel (not being sarcastic). Truly, some of us get up to the hope of your golden tidbits of "quick immediate fixes" each day. Sad but TRUE.Yes I get it, you are a BUSINESS WOMAN AND YOU ARE REINVENTING yourself and this is one BIG way to generate income QUICKLY but how about your loyal followers (like us)????
You can always find an alternative.
Can you afford one of her books? You can even get one free with an Audible trial
She has free books and courses available!
Nia from NYC. Thank you, Mel.
Couldn’t agree more. Much love everyone. Let’s collectively raise our awareness and create a world we want to see - starting with each one of us.💜
Watching from Cape Town, South Africa!!! 💟🎯💟
Mel, you're skin looks great! Keep drinking your distilled water!
I was gonna comment on how good she looks. Is it the distilled water? Thats pretty much all i drink
I believe distilled water is only good in small doses and is toxic longterm.
@@jroses1225 fake news
The perfect way to start the morning... thank you
Watching from Sumatera, Indonesia!
So honest about your situation. You inspire me. I know you will be brilliant at wherever you do x
Hello friend I'm new here I've been trying to send you a friend request but it's not connecting, pls would you mind sending me a friend request if you don't mind
But Mel.....what do you do when you don’t actually know what to do?! I don’t have a business idea or plan, I don’t have a passion I think could make me money...I’ve been stuck for years!
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same, any news there tiffany?
I don't like marie forleo but there's this:
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Never too late to reinvent so motivating. Very sad how that man died. Now all that's left is a burned down city and closed businesses in the wake..doubly sad
I’m one of those who is down about the state of the world, and wanting to know where and how I can plug in and serve outside of work. I see suffering people everywhere, and the results of collective and systemic division and bias everywhere. Our culture needs to change, and I want to help, but outside of my little corner at work, I don’t know how to help.
I've been watching your videos... It helps me a lot :) Thank you!
Hello from Islamabad, Pakistan.
Excited to listen you everyday recent
Few days its totaly gives inspiration💗💖
Hi! From Norwalk, CA. Get topic! I need to hear this today. As, I was just laid off from my employer of 29 years 😊
Hey Mel ! Georgia here .I am so sorry to hear about your show being cancelled. You are excellent in what you do and help so many .I truly need a lawyer , not sure if I can it even if you are interested but if so... Please let me know cause I just love all your work!!!
Buena Vista, Saskatchewan, Canada 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦
Tuning in from the Netherlands 🇳🇱
From Philippines God bless everyone.....
I am in the Basque Country - but I am from Brazil - Sao Paulo!
Basque country how lucky Ive always dreamed of going there
Pontiac, MI, currently working on the Mind Reset and focusing on my RAS.
Thank you , watching from utube, in USA Michigan
Please offer this course for free... Many out there including me in need of this course
All lives matters. And I think that racism against ALL races should be fought for now. I am fed up of racism against everybody. This must stop ! We are all one !
Watching the day after the 3 guilty verdict announced ❤️🎉❤️🙏 in Ann Arbor MI. Love you Mel 🤗
Tuning in from Michigan!
Great content, thanks Mel. I like it. Greetings from Germany.
I would love to take this course, but 400 dollars (American) is just not feasible for me (and many others) in a time when so many have lost their jobs and have a lot of uncertainty in paying essential bills. It's a pretty elite bubble that could afford this in this moment. (not trying to be nasty- just honest. I do appreciate your videos and the work you do). Much love.
She gives so much free information and help but she also has to earn a living. I did her free class after the first of the year and it was very helpful!
@@sarakoury1671 , definitely- and I appreciate that! The thing is, the price of this course is a bit much, imho, when I can take a university class (with accreditation and leading to a degree) for the same cost, and many other classes of this caliber are offered for significantly less than 400 American dollars.
Thank you from Mauritius.. 👍👍
Listening from Dallas, Texas. 🙌🏽
Wow, I appreciate you for addressing this issue and making it real for those who question how deep it is.
I am tuning in from Fountain Valley, CA
Hi , I am from South Africa, Durban
Hi Mal! I’m from Korea and it’s 2am right now lol 😂