RESET Your MINDSET | The Secret To Having A Mindset of a High Achiever | Mel Robbins

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Комментарии • 254

  • @analegon5739
    @analegon5739 2 года назад +114

    Wow 😳 this video helped me a lot i started crying because I'm in a relationship For 4 years and i have done everything i can for him and he talks to many women treats me like trash verbally abusive and on top he homeless i have slept in the street donate blood for money and everything i do isn't enough and it's time to walk away and find my self worth and re love myself again 💪💪📍📒🖋️📍

    • @theresag.4188
      @theresag.4188 2 года назад +15

      Omg that's awful. You can only do so much. Put that love toward yourself! You can do this!!!!! It may be hard but ask for help and don't give up!❤ imagine your new happy life ! Good luck!

    • @lissam8988
      @lissam8988 2 года назад +13

      Please don't put your blood sweat and tears into someone that does not have their own vision especially if it's been proven over a period of years. You cannot fix him, He is the one who has to fix himself and not you or anyone else is going to do it.
      Now take all that that you've learned and move forward and create a new you. Don't count it as a failure count it as a learning experience if you're young and have no children you have so many possibilities and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

    • @vicster3758
      @vicster3758 2 года назад +12

      You can make the change! You are worth it

    • @romalisa2
      @romalisa2 2 года назад +12

      Definately walk away as you say,,you deserve better

    • @tammybain6582
      @tammybain6582 2 года назад +3

      Start listening to the Righteousness series by Creflo Dollar and Andrew Womack daily it will change your life.

  • @cwismbarr
    @cwismbarr 2 года назад +75

    Literally started crying when I did the visualization exercise to "see" my desired life with self-worth. Thank you for sharing how to shift mindset.

    • @alhajibaba9339
      @alhajibaba9339 2 года назад +1

      Dr success can help solve all the problems you might be facing, message him now it's not too late💝🌹🌹

    • @theresag.4188
      @theresag.4188 2 года назад +2

      You almost don't want to come back to your current life huh! I want to get back there so bad so now is the time to kick my ass to get it back!!!!!!👊

    • @authentic_lori3735
      @authentic_lori3735 2 года назад +1

      Awaww... I can imagine.. I was like that too.. It's a beautiful journey when you know what you deserve and you go at it

  • @eddy300
    @eddy300 2 года назад +11

    I LOVE what you said about not giving the world access to your mind before getting deliberate with your self first. GOLD.

  • @sayusayme7729
    @sayusayme7729 2 года назад +11

    Been rewiring my brain for quite sometime now, extremely grateful for beauty souls who’ve paved the way with sustainable action 💜
    Thank you Mel 🎆

  • @motivationbaychannel6891
    @motivationbaychannel6891 2 года назад +31

    The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

  • @jackiedixon5076
    @jackiedixon5076 2 года назад +11

    At 75, I have always been a closet songwriter.
    I have had passion for this since I was a boy. It just seemed like I wouldn't play my songs, I was afraid of rejection really bad. Even though I enjoy the process I keep it my secret. I hope someday I would like to have that feeling of confidence to play them for anyone. Thank you

    • @divineflow2288
      @divineflow2288 2 года назад +1

      Dear Jackie, you're 75 that someday is now!! Release the songs and let's hear them!you have nothing to lose!! 💕

    • @romalisa2
      @romalisa2 Год назад

      So,,,Curious,,have you played them for anyone?

  • @JanineHyslop
    @JanineHyslop 2 года назад +1

    I love how when you swear it sounds needed and deliberate, and not just a filler.

  • @jeffxcc
    @jeffxcc 2 года назад +1

    Love the "Let it be." 🎶 Example, so true the train is on the track not so easy to switch tracks!

  • @kathycardinal480
    @kathycardinal480 2 года назад +1

    I felt it when you laughed at him for wanting to cry, shows a lot about your relationship.

  • @dianesmith5809
    @dianesmith5809 2 года назад +1

    Thank you, thank you, thank you. I stopped taking my phone to bed and not shutting it off till 3:00am. Last night I got a good night's sleep. Love your videos.

  • @Melanie.8888
    @Melanie.8888 2 года назад +2

    Wow I'm that way I also have the attitude when others tell me I cant do that makes want too. 40yrs of dyslexic I went college late life was diagnosed with rare illness fig out my invention patented myself now I'm finishing up my book I'll be 59 in March. Never Give Up

  • @spiritualbadbabebossbitch
    @spiritualbadbabebossbitch 2 года назад +2

    I am smart enough now. I deliberately choose to get up on my first alarm. No more snoozing.. i choose to think about how I think. Now I deliberately choose to catch my negative and limiting beliefs and choose to think of what im grateful for and what is positive in my life.
    I am deliberately visualizing myself as who I dream to be and for 30 seconds im going to feel like I am worthy. Im going to feel smart enough for 30 seconds. Im going to feel loved and cherished and successful.
    Thank you Mel!

  • @quinceia8225
    @quinceia8225 2 года назад +3

    What a lovely, empathic, methodical man. You are so valuable. I am grateful to witness you.

  • @MK-be6lf
    @MK-be6lf 2 года назад +5

    Thank you Chris for sharing yourself. Thank you Mel for sharing Chris to us💖

  • @dawnburchett4411
    @dawnburchett4411 2 года назад +4

    I needed this so much. Tonight I’m moving my phone out of our bedroom. I’m working on creating new habits and changing my mindset

  • @MsFranF
    @MsFranF 2 года назад +1

    You 2 are amazing because you are so transparent with each other.
    SUBSCRIBED!

  • @MsTheresa7412
    @MsTheresa7412 2 года назад +2

    Exercise, the getting started part is what I hate but when it's over I feel so good. You are so right!!!

    • @silvestaobai6040
      @silvestaobai6040 2 года назад

      I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago okay....
      Contact Dr Wilson 🏃🏃

    • @silvestaobai6040
      @silvestaobai6040 2 года назад

      Message him on WhatsApp

    • @silvestaobai6040
      @silvestaobai6040 2 года назад

      ±2348102689570⏯⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️
      Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.......

  • @joannawhitehat2255
    @joannawhitehat2255 2 года назад +2

    I have covid but I'm going to do it anyway!

  • @johannvandermerwe4826
    @johannvandermerwe4826 2 года назад +2

    I like you and all your videos Mel... One thing I love about you is that you swear and this is just fantastic, so natural. Thank you. 👌👌 Greetings from South Africa.

  • @laurafisher4199
    @laurafisher4199 2 года назад +4

    My limiting belief is that I'm not good enough, not smart or savvy enough and I have been isolating myself instead of forming a Decluttering and Organizing business.

  • @newtuber4freedom43
    @newtuber4freedom43 2 года назад +2

    Omg, just found this ... i am at the point where i don't even try to hide the depression & anxiety anymore. Probably a cry for help. I recognize i cheer for others but never for me. I stand up for others, but never for me. i have such a long list of these default neg bad beliefs. i have a lot of hard work ahead. Do i tackle one at a time or all together?
    🤚🏻👌🏻👍🏻✌🏻🙏🏻

  • @GinaSesay1
    @GinaSesay1 2 года назад +1

    My limiting beliefs is the I don’t have enough to get the job done. Whether it’s money or resources or anything along those lines. And I’m just going to start with whatever I can do for free until I have the funds to do the bigger stuff.

  • @johnemery2723
    @johnemery2723 2 года назад +2

    i used it to stopsmoking tobacco drinking alchol and now im working on the elimination of mary jane/THC AND DRUGS I DONT NEED. AND YOU ARE THER FIRST PERSON TO TOUCH ON THIS SUBJECT WITHOUT FEAR OF EMBARESSMENT FOR PROVIDING THE TRUTH.

    • @johnemery2723
      @johnemery2723 2 года назад +1

      Serious man people fear ridicule because they help I gives a badge of honor this that even try just 1%. It gives them reason to try an. Keep up the good work I know your doing it right because I did it and it works

  • @LizzS17
    @LizzS17 2 года назад +1

    Well, today I woke up and put your videos on. I also went to sleep listening to your videos.

  • @tradingthefuturemarkets4403
    @tradingthefuturemarkets4403 2 года назад +1

    Gosh Mel this video ..total real honest talk from you both .. thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @edwinvelasquez316
    @edwinvelasquez316 2 года назад +1

    Mel u are filled w/so much love and sharing it w/the world. These videos are so amazing I can listen to this all day. Thank you so so much. My feeling is indescribable at the moment but very awesome. I will start the excercises thanks again for your guidance.

  • @crystalyanez2400
    @crystalyanez2400 2 года назад +1

    Wow I love this @Mel Robbins
    This is as real as it will get! God bless you guys! You guys gone through it!

  • @manu__inlove3026
    @manu__inlove3026 2 года назад +2

    MEL you're my morning routine.😁🌻💛🧡☀️💖💙😘

  • @405OKCShiningOn
    @405OKCShiningOn 2 года назад +1

    Deliberate.
    Determined.
    Morning practice!
    I'm here learning ✍️💡💯
    Mel, happy 2022, support and joy to you. 💪💯💪

  • @lionbearcat
    @lionbearcat 2 года назад +2

    My limiting belief is "I don't deserve.." I am basing my entire life around the person I was before I turned 13. I need to accept the past, realize my family did the best they could with the life experiences they had and let myself start changing. It's okay to change and I am willing to change.

  • @celebratelife8436
    @celebratelife8436 2 года назад +10

    Thank you so much for putting together that wonderful video!!! I really needed it and it truly made my day🙏🌟💮🌸🌻🌷🎉 You are the best!

  • @iptalyluxurytravel
    @iptalyluxurytravel 2 года назад +1

    How have I missed not knowing about Mel Robbins

  • @DemetriPanici
    @DemetriPanici 2 года назад +4

    Focus only on what you can control and you will find success

  • @AgentKimChandler
    @AgentKimChandler 2 года назад +2

    I am so glad I found this channel. This was an amazing video. I am a visual person and easily distracted and attracted to the negative daily..I'm working on this..there is so much I want to do . I'm in a good place to do it. Just need the right mindset.

  • @myrnacanlas7633
    @myrnacanlas7633 2 года назад +1

    Hello Ms. Mel good day from the Philippines magandang umaga po.
    YES I already do the thing cellphone away from me before bed time thank you for that advice hoping to do more of the challenge 👍🥰👍

  • @robinwhitmarsh128
    @robinwhitmarsh128 2 года назад +8

    My limiting belief is Being afraid of failure and that I will never be enough, which will not let me get my business up and going. Keeps me from getting healthy again, because as everytime in the past I failed at getting healthy. Which is why I have to do it again and again. Life just seems to always be a mess.

  • @Tia.K.C
    @Tia.K.C 2 года назад +5

    Always wonderful and consistent advice. I accomplished so much last year, yet I insisted on beating myself up at the end of it. I realized that my subconscious fears really needed to be looked at and released.
    To help, I would love to recommend Gary Zukav's book, "the seat of the soul". It opened my eyes when he talked about how our actions and choices create our karma. Our thoughts and desires do not create our karma but our actions do.

  • @carlabemesenewkirk3561
    @carlabemesenewkirk3561 2 года назад +1

    That I am not worthy of being loved . That I have to prove myself .by people pleasing in order to be wanted around .

  • @dianaabad3910
    @dianaabad3910 2 года назад +1

    I agree. I think I’m not smart enough or I’ll never get there. But In hind site I’ve accomplished so much and was stollen from me from family. I’m going forward again. But must get rid of my default.

  • @denisekiefer3057
    @denisekiefer3057 2 года назад +1

    That everything good will be taken away (ingrained into my psyche by my mother who lost her mother when she was 12, and adopted this belief and then passed it onto me, the 1st child, because that is how she has lived her life...in fear) so therefore I do not deserve anything good.

  • @domesticdiva1045
    @domesticdiva1045 2 года назад +1

    Taking a leap of faith… I believe in ME. Thank You for the encouragement.

  • @Autumology
    @Autumology 2 года назад +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed this video. It was very helpful. I will say that for me, Identifying 5 goals daily is a lot. I felt overwhelmed at the idea of having to identify what it would take to achieve each goal, making it really hard to focus on any one.

  • @bobbieschroder6617
    @bobbieschroder6617 2 года назад +1

    A long time ago, I trained myself not to look at info (news, email, etc.) on my phone an hour, or even longer, before before I go to sleep.
    And as for when I wake up, I only look at the info on my phone AFTER I've done my morning routine and I'm getting ready to sit down for coffee. That's the time that I then look at the info on my phone, which is usually about 1 1/2 hours after I wake up.

  • @ryusico
    @ryusico 2 года назад +1

    Wow! Resetting your mindset is the best! 👍👍👍

  • @romalisa2
    @romalisa2 2 года назад +2

    Thank-you Mel and Chris you are both a blessing indeed

  • @janetbaalham7286
    @janetbaalham7286 2 года назад +1

    Thank you mine isle not good enough I will fail x But listening to you has really helped

  • @BalladofJanine
    @BalladofJanine 2 года назад +10

    Thank You Mel, I'm excited to change this mindset of not being good enough, it reflects onto others my energy and stops what I could be out there for me.👍💪💪

  • @MK-be6lf
    @MK-be6lf 2 года назад +1

    This is raw. Wonderfully raw.

  • @giovanigraham4319
    @giovanigraham4319 Год назад +1

    Love your work!!

  • @GYX2021
    @GYX2021 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing Mel and Chris! All the best wishes ❤️

  • @danruhl8538
    @danruhl8538 Год назад +1

    You are exactly right

  • @MK-be6lf
    @MK-be6lf 2 года назад

    @Mel Robbins, Chris is so lucky he gets to be all that, PLUS he gets to spend time with the kids. My hubby would say, a dream come true. A success!

  • @JaredJacobsonLaw
    @JaredJacobsonLaw 2 года назад +1

    Wowwww what a pleasure to see your other half! Adds so much to the message thank u 🙏

  • @nynthworld4152
    @nynthworld4152 2 года назад +1

    Mel Robbins is cool.👍

  • @rashmigupta6222
    @rashmigupta6222 2 года назад +1

    Mel mam you are good person ❤

  • @GinaSesay1
    @GinaSesay1 2 года назад

    Sometimes also, that in too tired. I have a blood disorder that makes me fatigued, and so sometimes I’ll procrastinate because I can feel myself getting tired or I know I will be instead of just working until I’m actually tired.

  • @belindaeylesdivineskybridg6160
    @belindaeylesdivineskybridg6160 Год назад +1

    Really excellent thanks very much definitely got me just the authenticity of it all it made a tear come to my eye it’s beautiful🎉🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤The Real is so needed because to be able to connect you need the real raw truth thanks for giving it

  • @mayamiller5662
    @mayamiller5662 2 года назад

    I love it so much. You're amazing I love you I love listening to you and this video is one of my favorite video and I enjoy listening so much and I will replay it again. Thank you. ❤️

  • @xeik7482
    @xeik7482 2 года назад +1

    Chris it's awesome that you're so supportive!!

  • @gina7800
    @gina7800 2 года назад +1

    Wow, Chris is super brave for sharing. Thank you Chris. Mel, you are an amazing person ❤ love you

    • @melrobbins
      @melrobbins  2 года назад

      Agreed! He is pretty amazing ❤️

  • @mrsjrstartzel
    @mrsjrstartzel 2 года назад +2

    👍👍my biggest thing is I has success and lost it. I am not sure I am worthy of it again. The 5 second rule has helped me a lot

    • @alhajibaba9339
      @alhajibaba9339 2 года назад

      Dr success can help solve all the problems you might be facing, message him now it's not too late💝🌹🌹

    • @svengrot7943
      @svengrot7943 2 года назад

      十2349155456138⏭⏭
      Hello it's work i can't believe..

  • @romalisa2
    @romalisa2 2 года назад

    Im doing it,,,its a must as you say,,My phone is in the kitchen not in my bedroom I dont use snooze,,I get up but today have been awake since early hours,and feel drained with worry thoughts were hijacked feel better now after watching your video which I sought out,,,,,on purpose,, look forward to your videos this coming week

  • @yourprogress
    @yourprogress 2 года назад +1

    I have this strong belief that no matter what I do to get coaching clients, I just won’t get any clients and earn the amount of money I want to earn.

  • @jussaraspader3459
    @jussaraspader3459 2 года назад +1

    Thanks Mel for the great video. I'm grateful for the ways you suggested to get confidence.

  • @Kelli5555
    @Kelli5555 2 года назад +2

    Wonderful. I just sent a email to a real estate agent. I’ve run my own cleaning business for 5 years and it’s not what I want to do anymore. I have a lot of limited beliefs, self-judgments and fears coming up. I want to work in the real estate business, go to school or run community groups.

  • @louannp120
    @louannp120 2 года назад +1

    You are speaking for all of us. Thank you

  • @ellewonderful7145
    @ellewonderful7145 2 года назад +2

    Literally listened to this and cried on my elliptical after being in my feels today

  • @thebullwhisperer916
    @thebullwhisperer916 2 года назад

    I cannot use yoga but i enjoyed everything else Yahuah baruk you! Shalum & ahavah

  • @SAI-uj5wh
    @SAI-uj5wh 2 года назад +2

    Awesome video thank you so much! Explaining the science behind visualisation was so helpful!

  • @deevamuir8106
    @deevamuir8106 2 года назад +1

    Wow! Thank you! Inspired 💝

  • @thegreenwoodelf8014
    @thegreenwoodelf8014 2 года назад +1

    What a blessing you are M 🙏🏻 thank you

  • @margaretbrice7082
    @margaretbrice7082 2 года назад

    Thank you Mel and Chris, great teaching. Mel, will do the phone👏💪

  • @lelaanderson7453
    @lelaanderson7453 2 года назад

    I’m ready to put my phone outside my bedroom!! I will!👍🏽

  • @kikiedmiranda1563
    @kikiedmiranda1563 2 года назад +1

    💪💪💪...yess! I will try...

  • @Kelli5555
    @Kelli5555 2 года назад

    Just bought the book to do daily! Thanks for showing that!! 💜💜

  • @evelynetoussaint9407
    @evelynetoussaint9407 2 года назад +1

    Thank you sooooo much 🙏💖🙏

  • @bordercollieluxi
    @bordercollieluxi 2 года назад +2

    I repeat your content in my mind and someday I will sing a song of this

  • @saikrishna5541
    @saikrishna5541 2 года назад +1

    I have wonderfully using your science 5secounds rule it help me in everything thankyou for this and keep on doing of your best on what people want.

  • @sandrafry5200
    @sandrafry5200 2 года назад +2

    Awesome training. Really helpful. Getting deliberate.

    • @sherrihead548
      @sherrihead548 2 года назад

      Thank you so much I shared this with my boyfriend and kids please keep going

  • @TheKatieKotte
    @TheKatieKotte 2 года назад

    Thank you 😊 💓

  • @Tesha410
    @Tesha410 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing you’re appreciated

  • @leeninini
    @leeninini 2 года назад

    Mel I just love you so much

  • @USA50_
    @USA50_ 11 месяцев назад

    Really good episode 👍🇺🇲😄

  • @LaSorciereFeuillue
    @LaSorciereFeuillue 2 года назад +5

    Mel I work in Childcare and a palm touch is one of the first things a baby will do to interact.
    I'm studying Nursing and am going to introduce this to patients to help their process.

  • @Wilson_Cool
    @Wilson_Cool Год назад +2

    13:00 visualization exercise
    13:15
    13:37
    14:20 positive emotions

  • @KingBabaJames
    @KingBabaJames 2 года назад

    Every time i focus my mind in visualization and thinking of things wanted to be accomplish. It comes true. I'm just too stubborn to focus, and keep implementing my exercise.

  • @claudiaweldon9460
    @claudiaweldon9460 2 года назад

    Your great thanks 🥰🥰

  • @evelynetoussaint9407
    @evelynetoussaint9407 2 года назад

    Merciiiii 🙏💖🙏🦋

  • @JaredJacobsonLaw
    @JaredJacobsonLaw 2 года назад

    Your the best Mel 🏆🏆🏆

  • @MrDeterministicchaos
    @MrDeterministicchaos 2 года назад

    It helps alot to say I want to and I love to and I can do that that's sooo easy thats a breeze because It's the spoonful of sugar that helps that medicine go down Because everything is easier when you want to.. it's like putting Grease on the gears on the bicycle chain it just goes along smoother easier and wow before you know it your down the block and round the corner and gosh this is fun I'm living breathing that cool crispy air and wow I love life Thanks Mel 😊

  • @texasstardust6010
    @texasstardust6010 2 года назад +2

    I really love the Messages and the Topics you embrace , Miss Mel.
    If I may offer a suggestion... :
    Foul language. I am wondering if it's necessary, since there's been times I'd like to share something with someone.
    I don't, at times... due to the choice of language. I feel that the spoken word is such a powerful tool, and a powerful message .... but is it necessary to use F - bombs, etc. It takes away from certain aspects of the conversation and the message that is being imparted.
    It's your Channel, I just find that swearing may not be conducive to really reaching some that need to hear and process your message. ( Teenagers ,us " older ones" that don't find Foul language appealing ). My Grandmother told me once ( as I teenager ) " that Foul language was attempting to express oneself forcefully but not effectively. "
    I am familiar with all you spoke of, I don't consider any of those things " Woo woo".... it's the Universe showing us what we need to pay attention to.
    I appreciate you and your messages, Miss Mel... in spite of my thoughts on certain choices of words. ~ Blessings.

  • @visam28
    @visam28 2 года назад +1

    I love to hear her curse!

  • @antoniodossantos5960
    @antoniodossantos5960 2 года назад

    Thanks Mel Robbins 🌎 Greetings from Colombia. The Venezuelan Immigrant writer 🇻🇪

  • @dianaabad3910
    @dianaabad3910 2 года назад

    Fantastic

  • @debrandw246
    @debrandw246 2 года назад +1

    I would love to tell Mel my situation because there is no way out. I am in a corner that has no way out. I would love for her to hear my story. She would quit her job.

  • @rozdevin2468
    @rozdevin2468 2 года назад +1

    Yes... but Mel, I use my phon for my sleep meditation... then, watch should I do?

  • @michellecd4722
    @michellecd4722 2 года назад

    I intentionally choose to NOT own a "smart" phone, so it's a non-issue for me. A flip phone is all I need & I highly, highly recommend it. I also turn the sound off when needed to not be disturbed. I seek out information when I want it, I am not bombarded by anything.

  • @ScribaeEducantum
    @ScribaeEducantum 2 года назад +1

    Hey
    Thanks, nice job 👍

  • @Sophie-eo8ev
    @Sophie-eo8ev 2 года назад

    Okay I will try 👍
    Perth Wheatbelt
    Western Australia 🇦🇺 👏👏👋❤️

  • @twanahanson5422
    @twanahanson5422 2 года назад

    God thank you