My favorite aside about the story is that the pimp who lost said: “It don’t matter, I’m still Bobby, I’m still me.” In other words, he would never have let winning or losing the fight change who he was at his core. That’s such an important lesson.
I learned about honor one day at Jack N the Box. Two Mexicans who worked there had a disagreement. They didnt cuss at each other nor cause a scene in the restaurant. They walked across the street and duked it out. One lost, gave up (the other one did not stomp him out). Then they both finished out their shift together -- and that was that.
People just have no sense of control on emotions and couldn’t handle fixing problems with words. I hope the understanding of psychology would spread out to the masses so these fights are replaced with compassion, understanding, and compromise.
@@PeterMalkovich552 am I? As far as I know, people are starting to understand empathy. For starters, one of the most popular twitch streamers is a psychologists who interviews other prominent streamers which propagates to the audiences who wouldn’t have otherwise been aware of their own self. This awareness of teaching people an aspect of humanity that schools don’t teach theoretically should spreads exponentially amongst society You may be right with asking too much from old people today, but Millenials and GenZ by the looks of it, seems to be more than ready for that change with all their drive to put mental health first than anything else. It first starts with awareness.
@@PeterMalkovich552 well thats the weird part. Doesn’t this video prove that there is hope? That even pimps have the capability to have honor? If they can achieve a sense of honor and learning how to stand down, what’s stopping them in going further and learn a better way to resolve conflicts? You can’t call these people deathly behind if they are only a step closer to exercising their self-awareness. What makes you believe that people are way behind the times? By my understanding, people do have some sense of self-awareness. It’s just not exercised due to many reasons such as the environment telling people to “just be tough” which I believe is what these pimps have found themselves in. Point is, they may appear like they’re behind the times, but you may not know who they truly are as you only see what they put out based on the environment they’re in. Also, I understand what you mean by “This time, it’s different” but you have to also understand, were at an era that humanity has never seen before; information age. No one can ever prove that this era is different but if you just thought of it critically, you’d realize that this time, things really are different. I don’t have time to explain but you can look up Industry 5 that theorizes a new consciousness shift that’s coming up based on the same pattern since humanity’s history. To put it in the most basic description, universal basic income and robots will eventually make humanity be focused more on themselves and leave all the work to automation. I’m not saying that Industry 5 theory predicts everything. It’s merely a data point that you can use to decide whether or not we should start expecting people to resolve conflicts verbally and not this “Trial by combat” solution.
@@PeterMalkovich552 @Claire Loprensa May I (in the most humblest way) ask if you two realize you're speaking in hindsight? Of course corresponding with individuals with maturity and civility is the way to go; however, it is near impossible to achieve most of the time. Instances like that are so rare, and take a huge amount of self control from both parties. Furthermore, that self control must always be self taught or aquired from someone; it is simply not built into our basic anthropological system. You mention psychology yet are somehow oblivious to basic psychological principals. For goodness sake one of the first psycology lessons they teach you in college is the "fight or flight" response mechanism that is built in our nature as humans; and I think you two fail to realize this. I grew up in a violent and rough upbringing. There were instances where I was able to talk in a civil manner and hash things out accordingly; there were also times where it was impossible to do so and ended up in a fist fight (or worse). If you didn't grow up in that context, then honestly good for you; and I genuinely do NOT mean that in a condescending manner. In fact I'm quite envious if you didn't grow up like that because had I not grew up in that fashion, I wouldn't have been disfigured in my teens. It's easy to speak in hindsight. Of course people should learn to have self control and deal with situations in a mature manner; that goes without question. But the day that happens is the time I win the lottery 5 times in a row. I hope I shed some light, and I really hope you two don't take any of what I said the wrong way. I just hope you two understand the difference between wishful thinking and reality.
I remember seeing two guys about to fight, seconds before they squared up, one of the guys pulled his gun out and passed it over to his buddy, then they went toe to toe. I gained some respect for that stranger
@@mod.s.7921people that say shxt like this ain't ever been to the hood.........I mean like all that fighting shxt sounds good and it's respectable at first but for how long??? People that really grew up in the hood knows that fighting shxt GETS REAL OLD REAL FXCKING FAST! Honestly you beefing with some motherfxcka's y'all be fighting 7 days a week 365 days a year real shxt you'll fight a motherfxcka on Monday Tuesday.......... bro by Thursday Friday you just like man fxck this shxt I'm gonna just kill this motherfxcka real shxt so ALOT of dudes feel like they graduate from all that fighting shxt they just start shooting from the beginning real shxt
As a man who has lost 90 percent of the fist fights I’ve been in, I’ve never stabbed someone who squared up and beat me fair and square. Never shot someone over anything. And when I lose I dust off and go about my day. I’ve never lost any respect for standing for what I think is right, win or lose. It’s not who wins, it’s throwing down regardless of the perceived outcome. And most people I’ve had altercations with have become friends in the long run. Being a coward is letting people run you over without action. And every lost fight taught me how brave I really was.
This sentiment/attitude is lost in the modern world. Sanitized and padded rooms for us all and everyone is ok with Big Brother wiping your ass and chin from cradle to grave. Nowadays it would've landed you in a slammer because some pussy didn't like the fact that there were consequences forshittalking. Talk smack, get whacked. Nothing corrected my behavior more than the promise of anasskicking if I didn't behave myself more than the appeal to authority ever did.
Personally, I avoid fist fights like the plague, but not out of fear of getting my ass kicked. One, we live in a very litigious society, and I don't want to lose a lawsuit and be financially ruined because I'm jackass started to fight with me that I happen to win, or at least got in a good enough shot that he felt he could take me to court over it, and two, I have a horrifying amount of very expensive dental work that I don't want to get messed up and then have to pay a fortune to fix. If it weren't for those two factors, I really wouldn't be anywhere near as worried about getting into a fight. Obviously it's still something to avoid and it is always best to settle ones disagreements by having the superior argument, and basing your stances off facts and rational thought, but we live in a world where the majority of people are irrational, and The basic fabric of reality is under constant attack by a particular group of people who are not afraid to attack others in a group and then act like they are the ones being victimized, and for some reason the areas were the sorts of people tend to operate the most also our areas where the police either will not or instructed to not interfere with them or arrest them.
@@TD-ug4mg I'm 23 and only lost one tooth so far due to an internal granuloma (so no fault of my own). I think many people who have gotten into fist fights and not lost a tooth yet don't know how much of a hassle tooth issues are compared to broken bones for example
That's how I grew up. That loss stings but I have earned more respect taking a loss than a lot of these soft youngsters get cheating their way to a win......the problem these these days is these internet tough guys have no idea what a good a good punch feels like and might pull a weapon or something to never know.....part of life's lessons is learning how to accept and learn from loss/defeat and get stronger from it. That way you don't act like an azz when your winning.
The most impressive thing is that he understood the deeper meaning behind that incident at such a young age too, even in adults not alot of people would be able to take away any moral value from that and would just say "that was crazy, these guys are savages"
For real. I think this is why stories are, or in this case witnessing an unfolding events, important. Because it can show moral in action that would otherwise difficult to explain in an explicit manner. Regardless the age, he was able to grasp the moral in the incident because it was presented to him.
Few years ago my baby brother was dealing with some bully in school, it was brought up time and time and nothing was ever done by the parents or school. He finally opened up to me telling me “it’s not gonna stop man, I just don’t want to go to school anymore.” I told him sometimes bullies just need to get dealt their own lunch. My brother was so terrified of losing the in a fight to this kid, that when I told him “he might come back at you after you hit him and stand up to him, but it’s not about winning or losing the fight. Once you stand up to someone that treats you like that, it’s known that you won’t just take it.” He was scared of getting expelled and I told him don’t worry about that. Had to tell me mom,“mom, your gonna get a call tomorrow most likely and little man might be in trouble, but he needs to know that he’s not coming home to trouble either and YOU CANT BE ANGRY WITH HIM”. She didn’t want him to fight obviously. Next day came around, brother got a few days suspension for punching this kid before school even started, mom picked him up, I took him for ice cream and we hung out for a few days before I went back home. He never had any issues ever again, here we are 3/5 years later, him and ole boy are best friends. Funny how life works out.
100% good shit bro. I literally did the same thing with my brother except I went a step further. When he turned 4 I immediately got him in an MMA gym training 3 days a week, and he’s been wrestling for 8 year now. Only reason was I knew he needed to have the confidence one day when he might be confronted with bullying. Why net prep him to whoop some ass? When he started 6th grade I told him to pick the biggest 8th grader and say fuck you looking at? Toughest kid at school no doubt. Love it.
You helped him become a man. Wish my dad would have taught me this I got bullied a lot when I was younger I had to learn to stand up for myself. My first week of high school I punched a dude who deserved it I got suspended and caught two charges and got shamed for defending myself. Wish I had the confidence from a younger age to bust a dude square in the jaw.
I love the smile he gets on his face and when talking about his aunt listening to the song and talking bout splitting the freezepop with his cousin. That made the story for me.
@@ItsJustAgamingThing For reallll . I could almost taste the popsicle, feel that warm summer air, and hear the laughter that filled those summer days of my youth.
Damn people nowadays could learn a lot from Bobby. No reason for people to die, or go to prison when you can settle it and move on like grown adults. Bobby is the man!
Yes for someone who is willing to fight in public, in front of children, over where they can and can't sell the sexual services of women he is very much "the man" for not also adding the killing/attempted killing of one or more humans via firearms usage. I'm sorry that your standards for someone being "the man" are so low.
@@williamwinstrop3918 It's the principle behind the story that's important. Not reason behind the fight or the people involved in it but the story itself.
This generation knows nothing about why we were harder. Knuckle up one on one and there's a secret code to not hit more than once if knocked out or you cross a line where your man will get involved and then possibly if there's a bitch ass, someone gets shot. Today they just shoot
@@BranqonBoom it does sound like he’s repeated it 100 times, or that he’s repeating a story somebody else told him....but he’s talking about the 70s, and to quote Joe Rogan “it’s entirely possible”
@@Wazza555 i was down by the river one day and this guy came up to me he says buddy eh what u doing down here by this river and i said listen buddy do own this here river and that was the day i met my dog
I learnt about honour when a friend who served in the army was wounded in Iraq and separated from his unit. He hid in an abandoned house and unluckily he was found by a Republican Guard soldier. He tried to Pull his side arm but his shooting arm was broken and he had a gut shot so reaching over was too painful. The Guard walked over and instead of shooting my friend he disarmed him and tended to his wounds taking the bullet out his gut and bandaging it up and putting a splint on his arm. He then gave my friend his radio and told him in perfect English to call his friends and writing down where they were so they could find him. When asked why he didn’t kill him The Guardsman replies “It wouldn’t honour my ancestors to kill an enemy who can’t fight back….If I kill it is with the risk of my own death.” He then left, they met again not long after when the guardsman and two others surrendered to the British Army two days later.
I remember going to a skating rink with my dad when I was about 8 years old. It was funny and odd watching my dad put on some roller blades on and attempt to learn for the very first time in a public place, he fell a couple times and most kids laughed at him and I fell a bit embarrassed. But he got up each time without embarrassment and dusted himself off. I went from embarrassed to proud and learned a very valuable lesson that day. Fall 8 times, get up 9.
We have a saying in ice hockey, "If you're not falling, you're not trying hard enough." We also say "the more you fall, the faster you learn to get up."
I was at a skating rink birthday party with my mom & brother when I was rather young, my mother was skating and I think this was the 1st time a nerve related balance issue she did not yet know she had caused her to fall while on the rink- that woman got up and tried to keep skating not realizing she had dislodged her kneecap to the outside & half down her leg 😷😬!!!!! I have been astounded by how tough my mother on many occasions 🤯....... I also think the world should thank God my mother is the church-choir type and not interested in achieving power by force cause if my mother was gangster she would be fucking scary!!!!!!!!!
Thats not honor though 🤨, that's PERSEVERANCE. I'm not trying to be a troll, but it's important to make that distinction. A kid in school getting bullied might think because he got back up after getting beaten that he has "honor" even after shooting up the school. Honor, and perseverance mean 2 different things.
As a young guy in my 20s I started working at a place with a bunch of guys that were in their late 40s and 50s, and they all talked like him and had stories like his. It made the day go by quick listening to them but I also learned a lot from their stories. I could sit here for hours listening to this man.
Truhfully, I'm not at home watching Joe host some people just because he has to please the cancel mobs and the libtard leftists. I have no idea who this guy is and not interested in criminal stories. Where's guests like Ben Shapiro, Jocko Willink or Nick Dipaolo? Just asking...
The irony of being a sore loser is that you're doubling down on your insecurity and showing it publicly. So you're losing twice. Take the L, find the strength to move on, and keep working. Of course that depends on having a good community that supports second chances and doesn't pigeon hole you. You could leave and find better environments, but not everyone has that option.
All that applies to women too, Ive witnessed some of the most disgusting behavior Ive ever seen come from a women that decided to double down on her insecurity.
In the 90's I was watching a hockey game with my GF, and there was a fight. Both players got rid of their helmets. The player who lost was falling backward, and the guy who won grabbed his jersey, so he wouldn't crack his skull on the ice. My GF asked me, why he did that after fighting him. I said, that's the code. The fight is over. They both have the same job as enforcers, it's respect. She couldn't wrap her head around it
I remember as kids, a Johnny hurled one of those frozen snowballs, the one's soaked in water, hit me in the eye. I reacted and slid down the hill after him, swept his feet then mounted him, I punched him in the eye - with gloves on, one time. The fight was over after that.
I can imagine if women were the stronger sex but their minds were still wired the same way they would annihilate each other lol. they can be pretty ruthless.
old dude once told me that "Difference between guys fighting and girls fighting- guys understand that there's certain things you don't do in a fight unless you are trying to kill someone.."
My cousin was shot and killed by a coward who was losing to him in a fist fight. Now he's either still on the run or dead because of his actions. It's better to take a fair lose than take someone's life. You win some, you lose some. But live to fight another day.
Shame about your cousin man, you're right that it's better to lose than kill someone. Easier said than done though. It's not easy to accept defeat, especially when you have a gun. That's what makes guns so dangerous. Not to defend anyone. To play devils advocate, he could have easily feared that if he surrendered, your cousin wouldn't have stopped, or worse, knocked him unconscious and kept beating him to a pulp. How is he to know better, he doesn't know your cousin like you do, and we all wear different masks for different people in a sense. You don't know another man's mindset, especially when he's losing. For your cousin, it's just a random stupid fight that's probably not worth the hassle but, ego is what it is, but for the guy losing, it's now life or death. He's certainly a twat for shooting a man in a fist fight he was losing (and he would be if he was winning), but can you honestly say that if you had that trump card to whip out and earn an instant victory, you'd be brave enough to take a loss and accept the possible consequences, even if you feared that your own death is one of them? What if after being knocked out, your cousin noticed the gun, that's a very compromised position. Accepting vulnerability isn't a male strongsuit, if we're being honest with ourselves. Your cousin could have killed him just as easily as far as he's concerned. It could have been a green light for your cousin to press harder. You just don't know. It's still technically a ballsy move to shoot a man dead as there are still bad consequences for it, but it's the easier choice because those consequences aren't as immediate or even as harmful as those for accepting defeat. But ballsy doesn't equate to honour and it was dishonourable to pull a gun in a fist fight, but between honour and death, most are choosing to drop honour for survival. That's the law of the jungle, honour is often a fantasy. That's why you don't fight unless absolutely necessary, you're always going to sacrifice something for it. Just gotta back it off, take the hit to your ego and perception, and live and let live. But can you trust the other guy to not just shoot you in the back, it's one of those things, shit happens. It's a sucky note to end on but I don't mean nothing negative by it, it just saddens me that things are this way because men don't really come together in outwardly positive ways, it's always insular.
@@stinger4712 Thats exactly right. Zimmerman was a wannabe but failed MMA student who had no aptitude for fighting. So he went the route other wannabe fighter cowards go - pretend Cop
If you stumbled onto this video or sought it out, i hope that it impacted you the way that it did me. You can't be a boss, until you learn how to take a loss. It's a part of the process. Doesn't matter if you're a CEO or a food cart owner, same principal. Love the jewel here. The loss only sets you up for success, if you are wise enough and have enough honor to get past it.
Best story I have ever heard. I grew up fighting either alone or in groups. We never took out any weapons, if we lost we lost and if we won then we left with our heads held high. We always knew we could lose our next street fight so we stayed humble and never backed down. Man, I miss those days.
@@nzgkilla You have to understand that fighting is not for everybody, but for warrior types, fighting can sometimes be enjoyable; especially when there's an honor and mutual respect between you and your opponent.
This is some powerful stuff right here. To all the youngsters, the young minded people, and more importantly the wise people from time to time who may even forget along the way. (Myself included) Brand this story in your hearts. This should be part of your foundation. In the words of Ali and Joe. “Learn how to take a Loss. This lesson is in damn near everything.” Love these dudes and their content! God Bless to both of them and their love ones.
I think the then vs now dichotomy is usually false rose-tinted glasses. There are honorable and dishonorable people in the past and likewise nowadays. No way to measure either but reminiscing fondly seems like an out growth of discontentment with the present moment in my opinion. And there's always a reason for discontentment if we lack gratitude and a willingness to try to help reality be better.
100% honorable. The problem is nowadays too many people have no honor and you can’t predict who those people are. I’m a big dude so trouble doesn’t tend to square up with me (not that it can’t or won’t) but as I’ve matured I have learned there is no embarrassment in walking away or apologizing (even if you are not wrong). Unless you are truly at risk of being killed do whatever you need to to get away. I’d rather question my manliness next week than leave my loved ones over something stupid.
Yeah. This is super important. I LOVE that line at the end. Atleast you are still here if they need you. What if something serious popped off next week and you aren't around cause you got hurt messing with some clown on the street? That's my biggest fear.
My drummer got into a fist fight while carrying concealed, dude called him out and he took it off and handed to his friend and scrapped with the dude hard. No clear victor but nobody got shot and that was a good thing.
I feel like your drummer still won. The other guy would have seen the gun being passed off, and realised how serious picking fights actually can be. One time I was dragged out of a crowd by a homeless dude, the crowd was leaving a boxing event that ended in controversy, I had to nearly break his wrist to release the old person grip... any other bloke in the crowd would have snotted him and left him bleeding in a heap.
You can see Ali has only told this story a few times. With no rehearsal, he still paints a vivid picture. Ali is one of the best story tellers in the history of comedy. Watch his sets, you won't be disappointed.
My late uncle a highway patrolman here in brazil, he was one the most "passionate" people I ever met, if he was happy the whole city would know, same ifnhe was angry. Quick to anger, quick to laugh as well, however everytime he got in a fight he would call a witness to A. make him swear he wouldnt arreast the guy if he lost, B. hold his gun.
@@guillermoflores314 He taught me how to flip people off when I was about 6, "Give me your little hand, when someone annoys you, do this". Mom was pissed.
Wow I’m almost 60 years old now and that brought me way back to high school . we weren’t carrying guns but it was common place to have a pocket knife on you . I remember a fight where one of the combatants handed me his pocket knife to hold before the flight . That’s how it used to be . We weren’t out to kill somebody during a fight but rather to find out who would prevail . It May was a different story though in the street if you were jumped by surprise or someone was trying to rob you . My knife was for defensive purposes only or if I had to cut something …
I once watched 3 brothers getting beat up one after the other by the same kid and they absolutely fucking refused to attack him 3 on 1 Last one did some damage though 😭😂
That's incredible boy I can't tell you how many jumpings I've been In on the bystander and receiving end of that shit is traumatic lmao I felt like I was being attacked by hyenas or a pack of baboons fists and uncoordinated volleys just pummeling my ass 😂
Dejavu! lol! When I was a Kid, a new guy came to our colony , we had some verbal spat , me and my brother fought with him 1 on 1 , both of us got into submission by him on the street, we were so embarrassed that we didn't even look up till we reached our bed ! The next day our friends made a fking roast carnival of us , we laughed it off with them, and now it is just a sweet memory!
@lilcreaper007 been there once couldn't even tell which direction punches were coming from, yet none to the chin, and no combos, just frat boys who couldn't really punch jumping a drunk me.
It takes integrity to have honor, respect to have honor, belief to have honor. That man never knew he was going to teach that lesson, and yet he did. People are always watching how you carry yourself; so look good, even if it hurt.
Pimps are quiet complex and diverse characters, even when the world itsefl is loosing their "honor", some of these unlawful characters are more "lawful" thant the lawful itself. Hope i didnt messed up trying to explain what calls my atention lol
Those pimps have more thoughtful nuanced critical thinking skills than most people today. Most people these days can't even have a genuine verbal discussion in person or online where they respectfully disagree with each other, nevermind managing to show respect and honour after being pimp smacked
Growing up in a rough, poor neighborhood you learned quickly that it's ok to lose, everyone is going to lose at some stage, especially with boys, and growth spurts etc. Nobody judged you for losing. What you would get judged on by your peers was if you took a beating. As in didn't fight back. That was frowned upon. Also, there was a kind of fairness, no nutshots, no jumping in or ganging up etc.
Bobbi forces women to sell themselves and he takes their earnings with violence. Bobbi has no honour. He's a pimp reprobate scumbag who should be in jail or six feet under.
At this point if you were a kid in the 90s thats old-school and we showed respect compared to how things are now. I'm so grateful I lived in a time before the internet age exploded and before cell phones were even a thing beyond just being a phone. You were forced to actually look around you and experience your life. There's a certain freedom to not being able to look things up or know the answer to everything you wonder, especially as a kid
Great story with a great pointe, and beatiful presented 😊 I work with kids and if we play games or sports and they try to cheat, I always tell them that its better to loose with honor, than win without. In the end, you gotta be able to look yourself in the mirror and respect that person.
@@xxjr8axx True, but you can have honor in one department, but not another. Honor among men does not necessarily translate to honor between men and women.
@@xxjr8axx A pimp needs his hoes and the hoes need a pimp. Im not saying youre wrong cause youre 100% right but its not always that easy. These woman who are addicted selling their body need protection and a pimp can give that, because these woman will sell their bodies and put themselves in danger regardless.
A simple story but a great lesson… unfortunately many young men never learned honor and integrity… losing a fight fair and square does not make you less than a man… dust yourself off and live to fight another day… today people pick up guns and kill and lose their freedom because of their lack of honor…
@@sikwitit773 single moms bro single moms is the answer there. I was bothered by people my mom handed me a rock in a sock and said handle it make sure you are the only one standing at the end. everyone else will get the point
Great whole interview. Ali never disappoints in dialog and he's entertaining just speaking with a peers. Worth the watch plus he gives great details to gardening that I've been wishing to jump in only lack the knowledge to begin nor have neighbor's who expand eating healthy. Good watch!
Really? I thought it was by far the worst episode of JRE I've ever seen. Ali seems ignorant and just rambles half the time. At one point he just goes off about how gay people shouldn't raise kids. I'm open minded and although I disagreed with his opinion from the start I was willing to hear his thoughts. He proceeded to make zero sense in rationalizing his opinion. Just sounded like an ignorant fool to me.
@@jbayley6963 in no way was his stance about gay couples a joke. He was dead serious. How could you even interpret that as a joke? That wasn't the only reason I thought the episode was bad by the way. I thought dude just had an overall low iq and was rambling nonsense the whole episode.
I remember being a young kid in Mexico and watching older kids settling arguments like this. Bare knuckle, bare chested fights. Clean licks, bloody noses, no beat downs by a bunch of guys on one. They fought for a minute until one of them quit and then their differences were settled. You might even see them a couple weeks later chilling over a couple beers. Not like today where everyone makes disagreements out to be about some bullshit like oppression, microagression, or some other nonsense where they go tell mommy/daddy, the school administration...or worse, they bring guns into the mix.
My compadre has a saying, "there's no idiots left in Mexico. There's only chingones /badasses)." Everyone is a chingon and willing to lie, cheat, kill, for it. No honor.
For real, I've lived in many parts of America and have had positive experiences with people of all races so I am tired of the constant blaming every problem on white people, or straight people, or males. I think I have only ever run into a couple genuine racist white people in my entire life and yet the media is constantly trying to convince me that everyone around me is a white supremacist who hates me. Most white people I have met either bend over backwards with generosity to not be racist or straight up hate themselves for something that happened way before any of us was alive. I sometimes WISH that was the problem because fist fights would be more manageable than watching the country slowly turn into a bunch of emotional marxists. I would rather deal with openly hostile far right wingers because at least I would know where they stand as opposed the the radical lefties that scheme to infect everything and turn everyone into irrational pussies.
Yeah teachers let you scrap it out without the police being notified like in Canada and US. So stupid and so many crybabies here because some bully will get rinsed and they would have 911 or the school. Even as young adults nobody wants to take responsibility for their words or actions and it creates irresponsibility for wrong doers
We need more Bobby's in this world. Knows how to fight fair and square, accepts his loss and shows respect. You may lose some and win some but you still live to fight another day. (Boyz N da Hood)
Ali Siddiq is quite simply a master storyteller! If I taught high school or for that matter college English I would direct my students to Mr. Siddiq’s monologues if you want to see a true virtuoso in action.
My little brother and I got into an argument about something once. I threw a punch at him and fists were flying. Now he was always fitter and bigger then me so he obviously won. I was fighting half dazed after one lunch. But after we let all the rage out we dropped the issue after arguing just a little more. No lingering hatred, still loved each other, and our parents never knew a thing. I still love him to this day and I learned I'm a little more tenacious in a fight then I thought I was.
@@lennynguyen2620 Honor, as a construct, encompasses all that reaps. Whether it’s achieved through success or comes as a byproduct of loss, its innate principles can only go as far as its contextual parameters will allow.
I love these guys, ali siddiq is one of my fav comedians. He adds an element to comedy that i dont feel is represented enough. Thank you!! And if you read that, have a good day too, point that chin up
The pimp is smart. He didn't try to save face, he didn't seem to care that he lost, he admitted it was fair and was humble. More people in the hood could do with hearing this story, you don't always need to be the big man trying to act hard as it just perpetuates violence. If you lose, accept it and don't escalate because the moment you stab or shoot somebody you've just sacrificed years of your life when you're in jail for the sake of 20 minutes of embarrassment after losing said fight.
I tried surfing once and nearly drowned trying to get out past the waves to the point where you could catch a wave. After paddling and trying to get out for what felt like forever I felt something touching my hands when I was paddling. It was the sand. I ended up several hundred feet down the beach and about 10 to 15 ft closer to the beach from where I had started swimming with the board. It was a good thing, because I was too tired to swim if I was out in deep water I tried bull riding once. On the first jump out of the gate it felt like the bull ripped my arm out of socket. I spent the next 6 seconds planning my escape and timing it out so that when he went left I could go right. And then I had to try and climb up the fence with one noodle arm. Sometimes failure teaches you that you have no business doing that stuff ever again
Lmao these aren’t things you try once and know how to do. You can’t know if you like surfing or anything until you can actually learn it. With that said I tried to learn to surf, a few times a year for about 5 yrs. Never got it. It’s hard and sucks when you suck at it.
I don't know who this guy is but the life lessons he can impart would be amazing. And Joe was right...the way he started that whole story just captivates you and draws you in. You hang on every word wanting to know how the story will unfold. Fantastic.
My half sister is the type to say she's never lost a fight. When I first met her she told me that shit and I looked her dead in her eyes and said "then you musta not been in many fights cause even the best of the best have a loss or two." I spent 7 straight years fighting AT LEAST once a week and boy howdy I've had my bell rung a few good times lol. And I shook hands and walked t. F. Off afterwards no weapons no cops no bs.
Dignity and honor are two very valuable, yet completely intangible, things, based on even more abstract things. You either get it, or you don’t. The beauty of both is that only YOU can lose it, they can’t be taken from you. In life, where everything can be taken from you, that makes them very special and worth preserving.
My favorite aside about the story is that the pimp who lost said: “It don’t matter, I’m still Bobby, I’m still me.” In other words, he would never have let winning or losing the fight change who he was at his core. That’s such an important lesson.
Right...once a pimp always a pimp to the core....🙄
@@lovehate4666 - Facts, homie ain't gone let anybody knock his hustle...
@@gebrik184 exactly.
Like kahbib." Whether I win or lose I know who I am "
Seriously that hit home with me too
"I learned honor... From a pimp... In Mississippi... When I was a kid..." Joe's right, that's a great start to a story.
Sounds like a movie starring Terrance Howard
I’m a pimp from Mississippi… real talk
I would watch this movie
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I learned about honor one day at Jack N the Box. Two Mexicans who worked there had a disagreement. They didnt cuss at each other nor cause a scene in the restaurant. They walked across the street and duked it out. One lost, gave up (the other one did not stomp him out). Then they both finished out their shift together -- and that was that.
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People just have no sense of control on emotions and couldn’t handle fixing problems with words. I hope the understanding of psychology would spread out to the masses so these fights are replaced with compassion, understanding, and compromise.
@@PeterMalkovich552 am I? As far as I know, people are starting to understand empathy. For starters, one of the most popular twitch streamers is a psychologists who interviews other prominent streamers which propagates to the audiences who wouldn’t have otherwise been aware of their own self. This awareness of teaching people an aspect of humanity that schools don’t teach theoretically should spreads exponentially amongst society
You may be right with asking too much from old people today, but Millenials and GenZ by the looks of it, seems to be more than ready for that change with all their drive to put mental health first than anything else. It first starts with awareness.
@@PeterMalkovich552 well thats the weird part. Doesn’t this video prove that there is hope? That even pimps have the capability to have honor? If they can achieve a sense of honor and learning how to stand down, what’s stopping them in going further and learn a better way to resolve conflicts? You can’t call these people deathly behind if they are only a step closer to exercising their self-awareness.
What makes you believe that people are way behind the times? By my understanding, people do have some sense of self-awareness. It’s just not exercised due to many reasons such as the environment telling people to “just be tough” which I believe is what these pimps have found themselves in. Point is, they may appear like they’re behind the times, but you may not know who they truly are as you only see what they put out based on the environment they’re in.
Also, I understand what you mean by “This time, it’s different” but you have to also understand, were at an era that humanity has never seen before; information age. No one can ever prove that this era is different but if you just thought of it critically, you’d realize that this time, things really are different. I don’t have time to explain but you can look up Industry 5 that theorizes a new consciousness shift that’s coming up based on the same pattern since humanity’s history. To put it in the most basic description, universal basic income and robots will eventually make humanity be focused more on themselves and leave all the work to automation. I’m not saying that Industry 5 theory predicts everything. It’s merely a data point that you can use to decide whether or not we should start expecting people to resolve conflicts verbally and not this “Trial by combat” solution.
@@PeterMalkovich552 @Claire Loprensa May I (in the most humblest way) ask if you two realize you're speaking in hindsight? Of course corresponding with individuals with maturity and civility is the way to go; however, it is near impossible to achieve most of the time. Instances like that are so rare, and take a huge amount of self control from both parties. Furthermore, that self control must always be self taught or aquired from someone; it is simply not built into our basic anthropological system.
You mention psychology yet are somehow oblivious to basic psychological principals. For goodness sake one of the first psycology lessons they teach you in college is the "fight or flight" response mechanism that is built in our nature as humans; and I think you two fail to realize this.
I grew up in a violent and rough upbringing. There were instances where I was able to talk in a civil manner and hash things out accordingly; there were also times where it was impossible to do so and ended up in a fist fight (or worse). If you didn't grow up in that context, then honestly good for you; and I genuinely do NOT mean that in a condescending manner. In fact I'm quite envious if you didn't grow up like that because had I not grew up in that fashion, I wouldn't have been disfigured in my teens.
It's easy to speak in hindsight. Of course people should learn to have self control and deal with situations in a mature manner; that goes without question. But the day that happens is the time I win the lottery 5 times in a row. I hope I shed some light, and I really hope you two don't take any of what I said the wrong way. I just hope you two understand the difference between wishful thinking and reality.
I remember seeing two guys about to fight, seconds before they squared up, one of the guys pulled his gun out and passed it over to his buddy, then they went toe to toe. I gained some respect for that stranger
I think you saw 2 'men' fight. The problem is with the 'kids' these days.
It's crazy the amount of respect one gains by that simple action, even from the guy he's fighting, if he has any sense.
Sounds stupid as fuck.
@@mod.s.7921people that say shxt like this ain't ever been to the hood.........I mean like all that fighting shxt sounds good and it's respectable at first but for how long??? People that really grew up in the hood knows that fighting shxt GETS REAL OLD REAL FXCKING FAST! Honestly you beefing with some motherfxcka's y'all be fighting 7 days a week 365 days a year real shxt you'll fight a motherfxcka on Monday Tuesday.......... bro by Thursday Friday you just like man fxck this shxt I'm gonna just kill this motherfxcka real shxt so ALOT of dudes feel like they graduate from all that fighting shxt they just start shooting from the beginning real shxt
As a man who has lost 90 percent of the fist fights I’ve been in, I’ve never stabbed someone who squared up and beat me fair and square. Never shot someone over anything. And when I lose I dust off and go about my day. I’ve never lost any respect for standing for what I think is right, win or lose. It’s not who wins, it’s throwing down regardless of the perceived outcome. And most people I’ve had altercations with have become friends in the long run. Being a coward is letting people run you over without action. And every lost fight taught me how brave I really was.
You haven't been in enough fights if you havent had your ass beat. 💯 Lots of folks don't understand that.
This sentiment/attitude is lost in the modern world. Sanitized and padded rooms for us all and everyone is ok with Big Brother wiping your ass and chin from cradle to grave. Nowadays it would've landed you in a slammer because some pussy didn't like the fact that there were consequences forshittalking. Talk smack, get whacked.
Nothing corrected my behavior more than the promise of anasskicking if I didn't behave myself more than the appeal to authority ever did.
Personally, I avoid fist fights like the plague, but not out of fear of getting my ass kicked. One, we live in a very litigious society, and I don't want to lose a lawsuit and be financially ruined because I'm jackass started to fight with me that I happen to win, or at least got in a good enough shot that he felt he could take me to court over it, and two, I have a horrifying amount of very expensive dental work that I don't want to get messed up and then have to pay a fortune to fix. If it weren't for those two factors, I really wouldn't be anywhere near as worried about getting into a fight. Obviously it's still something to avoid and it is always best to settle ones disagreements by having the superior argument, and basing your stances off facts and rational thought, but we live in a world where the majority of people are irrational, and The basic fabric of reality is under constant attack by a particular group of people who are not afraid to attack others in a group and then act like they are the ones being victimized, and for some reason the areas were the sorts of people tend to operate the most also our areas where the police either will not or instructed to not interfere with them or arrest them.
@@TD-ug4mg I'm 23 and only lost one tooth so far due to an internal granuloma (so no fault of my own). I think many people who have gotten into fist fights and not lost a tooth yet don't know how much of a hassle tooth issues are compared to broken bones for example
So you was just out here getting your ass whipped. 😂😂😂. Nah just joking.
I love hearing Ali Siddiq tell stories, he’s got a real gift.
It's easy to tell a story that's true.
@@BeardMan01 not really.
@Sunshine I guess if you're challenged or too many drugs maybe? You're literally just recalling memory.
@@BeardMan01 nah some ppl j suck at telking stroies,god awful pacing,no punchline,j a drawn out recollection
@@oharrison7158 Just like some people suck at grammar, eh?
This is so spot on. “Got to learn to take a loss. Sums up darn near everything in life.”
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You look like a grown man. This is like fundamental wisdom that most CHILDREN are taught, and you're acting like you've never heard it before.
That's how I grew up. That loss stings but I have earned more respect taking a loss than a lot of these soft youngsters get cheating their way to a win......the problem these these days is these internet tough guys have no idea what a good a good punch feels like and might pull a weapon or something to never know.....part of life's lessons is learning how to accept and learn from loss/defeat and get stronger from it. That way you don't act like an azz when your winning.
took a loss today, but glad I did rather than avoid finding out
@@spaceork6973 hi
The most impressive thing is that he understood the deeper meaning behind that incident at such a young age too, even in adults not alot of people would be able to take away any moral value from that and would just say "that was crazy, these guys are savages"
For real. I think this is why stories are, or in this case witnessing an unfolding events, important. Because it can show moral in action that would otherwise difficult to explain in an explicit manner. Regardless the age, he was able to grasp the moral in the incident because it was presented to him.
They are savages, they’re pimps
He was raised by people who taught him right.
Actually him being a kid is probably what made him understand the deep meaning more
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Few years ago my baby brother was dealing with some bully in school, it was brought up time and time and nothing was ever done by the parents or school. He finally opened up to me telling me “it’s not gonna stop man, I just don’t want to go to school anymore.” I told him sometimes bullies just need to get dealt their own lunch. My brother was so terrified of losing the in a fight to this kid, that when I told him “he might come back at you after you hit him and stand up to him, but it’s not about winning or losing the fight. Once you stand up to someone that treats you like that, it’s known that you won’t just take it.” He was scared of getting expelled and I told him don’t worry about that. Had to tell me mom,“mom, your gonna get a call tomorrow most likely and little man might be in trouble, but he needs to know that he’s not coming home to trouble either and YOU CANT BE ANGRY WITH HIM”. She didn’t want him to fight obviously. Next day came around, brother got a few days suspension for punching this kid before school even started, mom picked him up, I took him for ice cream and we hung out for a few days before I went back home. He never had any issues ever again, here we are 3/5 years later, him and ole boy are best friends. Funny how life works out.
You did a good thing. What a big brother should do. All aspects of this story
You did good bro, big ups!
Reminds of TASM when flash connects with Peter, it do be like that sometimes
100% good shit bro. I literally did the same thing with my brother except I went a step further. When he turned 4 I immediately got him in an MMA gym training 3 days a week, and he’s been wrestling for 8 year now. Only reason was I knew he needed to have the confidence one day when he might be confronted with bullying. Why net prep him to whoop some ass? When he started 6th grade I told him to pick the biggest 8th grader and say fuck you looking at? Toughest kid at school no doubt. Love it.
You helped him become a man.
Wish my dad would have taught me this I got bullied a lot when I was younger I had to learn to stand up for myself.
My first week of high school I punched a dude who deserved it I got suspended and caught two charges and got shamed for defending myself.
Wish I had the confidence from a younger age to bust a dude square in the jaw.
I love the smile he gets on his face and when talking about his aunt listening to the song and talking bout splitting the freezepop with his cousin. That made the story for me.
For me it was one pimp calling the other one a 'bitch'. :DDD
Yep, I was right there with him getting that icy.
When he said “half for half” made me feel younger
Why?
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For reallll . I could almost taste the popsicle, feel that warm summer air, and hear the laughter that filled those summer days of my youth.
What a good, ridiculous short story with an actual moral lesson.
The moral lesson is to as the elitists do, when you have the power use it. Not my rule, but it sure is what the politicians and elitists do.
@@bobbyd9319 So everyone should strive for psychopathy or to be sociopaths?
@@atomsk1972 just the successful people.
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The real moral of the story is, pimpin ain’t easy.
Damn people nowadays could learn a lot from Bobby. No reason for people to die, or go to prison when you can settle it and move on like grown adults. Bobby is the man!
Yes for someone who is willing to fight in public, in front of children, over where they can and can't sell the sexual services of women he is very much "the man" for not also adding the killing/attempted killing of one or more humans via firearms usage.
I'm sorry that your standards for someone being "the man" are so low.
@@williamwinstrop3918 I think your missing the point of the story buddy. Cuck season is here and your the first in line!!
He's also a pimp
@@williamwinstrop3918 It's the principle behind the story that's important. Not reason behind the fight or the people involved in it but the story itself.
@@williamwinstrop3918 he said learn something not everything. Calm down champ
That's old school for real! Much respect to the folks who get whooped and keep on trucking. Can't win them all. Honor.
Losing builds character because it prepares you to be a winner
This generation knows nothing about why we were harder. Knuckle up one on one and there's a secret code to not hit more than once if knocked out or you cross a line where your man will get involved and then possibly if there's a bitch ass, someone gets shot. Today they just shoot
ANYBODY KNOW WHY THESE FOOLS AINT NEVER WANNA GET A REAL AFCN NAME???
I MEAN ALI SADIQ? THATS ARAB RIGHT??? YALL GOT 90% OF AFRICAN CULTURE YALL CAN GET WITH BUT YALL GO TAKING SOME VERSION OF A CAUCASIAN NAME...
@@VOLCAL You seem a bit unhinged.
So many lessons in this story ... he had me from the jump "I learnt honour from a pimp"..
Nuthin but a G thang an some Chicken wings 🤪
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Not just any pimp..a Mississippi pimp
@@BranqonBoom it does sound like he’s repeated it 100 times, or that he’s repeating a story somebody else told him....but he’s talking about the 70s, and to quote Joe Rogan “it’s entirely possible”
@@BranqonBoom you was probably raised in the suburbs
Totally. Damnnnnn deep shit.
One of the best stories I've ever heard actually. Interesting, funny and with a deep lesson.
your life is boring then
@@DoesNotInhale 😅😅😅
@@DoesNotInhale Tell a better story then
I do commentary videos on my RUclips channel while I’m high asf lol
@@Wazza555 i was down by the river one day and this guy came up to me he says buddy eh what u doing down here by this river and i said listen buddy do own this here river and that was the day i met my dog
I learnt about honour when a friend who served in the army was wounded in Iraq and separated from his unit. He hid in an abandoned house and unluckily he was found by a Republican Guard soldier. He tried to Pull his side arm but his shooting arm was broken and he had a gut shot so reaching over was too painful.
The Guard walked over and instead of shooting my friend he disarmed him and tended to his wounds taking the bullet out his gut and bandaging it up and putting a splint on his arm. He then gave my friend his radio and told him in perfect English to call his friends and writing down where they were so they could find him. When asked why he didn’t kill him The Guardsman replies “It wouldn’t honour my ancestors to kill an enemy who can’t fight back….If I kill it is with the risk of my own death.” He then left, they met again not long after when the guardsman and two others surrendered to the British Army two days later.
Man, that is a heavy, heavy story.
Oh now that's top gun right there. Epic respect.
I bet they had to hug each other
@@Vinylgoof The Guardsman lives in the UK now after giving up a lot of intel that saved lives. Him and my friend are still in touch to this day.
@@arashinoakumyo3535 Crazy...
I remember going to a skating rink with my dad when I was about 8 years old. It was funny and odd watching my dad put on some roller blades on and attempt to learn for the very first time in a public place, he fell a couple times and most kids laughed at him and I fell a bit embarrassed. But he got up each time without embarrassment and dusted himself off. I went from embarrassed to proud and learned a very valuable lesson that day. Fall 8 times, get up 9.
Word.
We have a saying in ice hockey, "If you're not falling, you're not trying hard enough."
We also say "the more you fall, the faster you learn to get up."
I was at a skating rink birthday party with my mom & brother when I was rather young, my mother was skating and I think this was the 1st time a nerve related balance issue she did not yet know she had caused her to fall while on the rink-
that woman got up and tried to keep skating not realizing she had dislodged her kneecap to the outside & half down her leg 😷😬!!!!!
I have been astounded by how tough my mother on many occasions 🤯....... I also think the world should thank God my mother is the church-choir type and not interested in achieving power by force cause if my mother was gangster she would be fucking scary!!!!!!!!!
@@robdeskrd God bless her.
Thats not honor though 🤨, that's PERSEVERANCE. I'm not trying to be a troll, but it's important to make that distinction. A kid in school getting bullied might think because he got back up after getting beaten that he has "honor" even after shooting up the school. Honor, and perseverance mean 2 different things.
"Social media made you all too comfortable with disrespecting people without getting punched in the face for it"
-Mike Tyson
That's actually a very deep and accurate truth.
This is the most accurate shit EVER
Yep
That's what the laws are set up for
basically summarizes conservatives.
As a young guy in my 20s I started working at a place with a bunch of guys that were in their late 40s and 50s, and they all talked like him and had stories like his. It made the day go by quick listening to them but I also learned a lot from their stories. I could sit here for hours listening to this man.
Truhfully, I'm not at home watching Joe host some people just because he has to please the cancel mobs and the libtard leftists. I have no idea who this guy is and not interested in criminal stories. Where's guests like Ben Shapiro, Jocko Willink or Nick Dipaolo? Just asking...
@@ANPHKI Ben Shapiro? Ok, so you are only interested in fake operators?
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Ali Siddiq is my favorite comedian and one of the greatest storytellers in this day and time.
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Oh shit. Red chested Robins. That's how I learned he's a great story teller
@@crushingbelialyup lol
The irony of being a sore loser is that you're doubling down on your insecurity and showing it publicly. So you're losing twice. Take the L, find the strength to move on, and keep working. Of course that depends on having a good community that supports second chances and doesn't pigeon hole you. You could leave and find better environments, but not everyone has that option.
Well said!
Dead on! I've seen ppl get hurt or killed for not grasping this concept more than a few times & it's sad
Well said. But everyone has that option if they are willing to deal with the pain of it leaving. We aren't 🌳
DJ kaled needs to read this have you seen his hot ones video.
All that applies to women too, Ive witnessed some of the most disgusting behavior Ive ever seen come from a women that decided to double down on her insecurity.
In the 90's I was watching a hockey game with my GF, and there was a fight. Both players got rid of their helmets. The player who lost was falling backward, and the guy who won grabbed his jersey, so he wouldn't crack his skull on the ice. My GF asked me, why he did that after fighting him. I said, that's the code. The fight is over. They both have the same job as enforcers, it's respect. She couldn't wrap her head around it
Sorry for my honesty but your GF doesn't seem to be very bright
Girls usually don't understand honor... integrity.. nor principles
I remember as kids, a Johnny hurled one of those frozen snowballs, the one's soaked in water, hit me in the eye. I reacted and slid down the hill after him, swept his feet then mounted him, I punched him in the eye - with gloves on, one time. The fight was over after that.
I can imagine if women were the stronger sex but their minds were still wired the same way they would annihilate each other lol. they can be pretty ruthless.
old dude once told me that "Difference between guys fighting and girls fighting- guys understand that there's certain things you don't do in a fight unless you are trying to kill someone.."
My cousin was shot and killed by a coward who was losing to him in a fist fight. Now he's either still on the run or dead because of his actions. It's better to take a fair lose than take someone's life. You win some, you lose some. But live to fight another day.
That's the Trayvon Martin/ George Zimmerman story...
some people delude themselves into thinking they can't lose, no matter what. everything just win win win with nothing to learn
Friday quote?
Shame about your cousin man, you're right that it's better to lose than kill someone. Easier said than done though.
It's not easy to accept defeat, especially when you have a gun. That's what makes guns so dangerous. Not to defend anyone.
To play devils advocate, he could have easily feared that if he surrendered, your cousin wouldn't have stopped, or worse, knocked him unconscious and kept beating him to a pulp. How is he to know better, he doesn't know your cousin like you do, and we all wear different masks for different people in a sense. You don't know another man's mindset, especially when he's losing. For your cousin, it's just a random stupid fight that's probably not worth the hassle but, ego is what it is, but for the guy losing, it's now life or death.
He's certainly a twat for shooting a man in a fist fight he was losing (and he would be if he was winning), but can you honestly say that if you had that trump card to whip out and earn an instant victory, you'd be brave enough to take a loss and accept the possible consequences, even if you feared that your own death is one of them? What if after being knocked out, your cousin noticed the gun, that's a very compromised position. Accepting vulnerability isn't a male strongsuit, if we're being honest with ourselves.
Your cousin could have killed him just as easily as far as he's concerned. It could have been a green light for your cousin to press harder. You just don't know. It's still technically a ballsy move to shoot a man dead as there are still bad consequences for it, but it's the easier choice because those consequences aren't as immediate or even as harmful as those for accepting defeat. But ballsy doesn't equate to honour and it was dishonourable to pull a gun in a fist fight, but between honour and death, most are choosing to drop honour for survival. That's the law of the jungle, honour is often a fantasy. That's why you don't fight unless absolutely necessary, you're always going to sacrifice something for it. Just gotta back it off, take the hit to your ego and perception, and live and let live. But can you trust the other guy to not just shoot you in the back, it's one of those things, shit happens. It's a sucky note to end on but I don't mean nothing negative by it, it just saddens me that things are this way because men don't really come together in outwardly positive ways, it's always insular.
@@stinger4712 Thats exactly right. Zimmerman was a wannabe but failed MMA student who had no aptitude for fighting. So he went the route other wannabe fighter cowards go - pretend Cop
If you stumbled onto this video or sought it out, i hope that it impacted you the way that it did me. You can't be a boss, until you learn how to take a loss. It's a part of the process. Doesn't matter if you're a CEO or a food cart owner, same principal. Love the jewel here. The loss only sets you up for success, if you are wise enough and have enough honor to get past it.
It did
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You can't win them all, learning how to get back up is important. As we all going to lose to old age, disease and death at some point. Respect
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As you are sad 😢
you ain't getting back up from death brotha
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Tis a win for me at the moment 🤣
Best story I have ever heard. I grew up fighting either alone or in groups. We never took out any weapons, if we lost we lost and if we won then we left with our heads held high. We always knew we could lose our next street fight so we stayed humble and never backed down. Man, I miss those days.
why dont you start combat sports…
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You do realise fighting in the street isn’t cool? People could get paralyzed and killed over that shit and your ass talking like its a jolly good time
@@nzgkilla You have to understand that fighting is not for everybody, but for warrior types, fighting can sometimes be enjoyable; especially when there's an honor and mutual respect between you and your opponent.
@@laughingoutloud3713 lol, I was a damn kid.
This story is so good, I watched the full interview and Still clicked on this to hear it again
This needs to be heard by so many people
This is some powerful stuff right here. To all the youngsters, the young minded people, and more importantly the wise people from time to time who may even forget along the way. (Myself included) Brand this story in your hearts. This should be part of your foundation. In the words of Ali and Joe. “Learn how to take a Loss. This lesson is in damn near everything.” Love these dudes and their content! God Bless to both of them and their love ones.
I wish it was more like this now! Back in the day you fight then walk off... no shooting people.
People wouldn’t be so soft and talk crazy online if that’s how things were handled these days :/
People just don’t know how to swallow their pride nowadays
Too many snowflakes ❄️ with guns these days.
Then who ever loses goes and gets a gun. Its been this way since the wild west dummy
I think the then vs now dichotomy is usually false rose-tinted glasses. There are honorable and dishonorable people in the past and likewise nowadays. No way to measure either but reminiscing fondly seems like an out growth of discontentment with the present moment in my opinion. And there's always a reason for discontentment if we lack gratitude and a willingness to try to help reality be better.
You don’t tell Bobby where to be ……
“BIATCH”…. Lol 😂😂😂😂
All great pimps speak in the third person!!😂
Lmao
Nuthin but a G thang an some Chicken wings 🤪
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@@mattyjay8896 this is a fact.
Lil' Joe
I bet I git dem T-Shirts done B4 you!!!!????
100% honorable. The problem is nowadays too many people have no honor and you can’t predict who those people are. I’m a big dude so trouble doesn’t tend to square up with me (not that it can’t or won’t) but as I’ve matured I have learned there is no embarrassment in walking away or apologizing (even if you are not wrong). Unless you are truly at risk of being killed do whatever you need to to get away. I’d rather question my manliness next week than leave my loved ones over something stupid.
Yeah. This is super important. I LOVE that line at the end. Atleast you are still here if they need you. What if something serious popped off next week and you aren't around cause you got hurt messing with some clown on the street? That's my biggest fear.
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"I learned HONOR from a PIMP" - That line had me already down on the floor hahaha
So did he learn chastity from a whore?
In Mississippi…..when I was a KID
My drummer got into a fist fight while carrying concealed, dude called him out and he took it off and handed to his friend and scrapped with the dude hard. No clear victor but nobody got shot and that was a good thing.
I feel like your drummer still won.
The other guy would have seen the gun being passed off, and realised how serious picking fights actually can be.
One time I was dragged out of a crowd by a homeless dude, the crowd was leaving a boxing event that ended in controversy, I had to nearly break his wrist to release the old person grip... any other bloke in the crowd would have snotted him and left him bleeding in a heap.
The guy’s name didn’t happen to be Tom, did it?
@@j-me6317 I wanna know now too lmao
@@j-me6317 it was. Who tf askin
Old school g shit
You can see Ali has only told this story a few times. With no rehearsal, he still paints a vivid picture. Ali is one of the best story tellers in the history of comedy. Watch his sets, you won't be disappointed.
Ali siddiq is such a good story teller. Every time I come across dude I’m invested and cracking up.
Ali is one of the best story tellers in the game. You can really visualize everything he says
My late uncle a highway patrolman here in brazil, he was one the most "passionate" people I ever met, if he was happy the whole city would know, same ifnhe was angry. Quick to anger, quick to laugh as well, however everytime he got in a fight he would call a witness to A. make him swear he wouldnt arreast the guy if he lost, B. hold his gun.
Sounds like a good man fr 😂
brazillian?
@@guillermoflores314 He taught me how to flip people off when I was about 6, "Give me your little hand, when someone annoys you, do this". Mom was pissed.
@@crsc3095 Yes, I am
@@Peagaporto i could tell from the story. something that would only happen there
Wow I’m almost 60 years old now and that brought me way back to high school . we weren’t carrying guns but it was common place to have a pocket knife on you . I remember a fight where one of the combatants handed me his pocket knife to hold before the flight . That’s how it used to be . We weren’t out to kill somebody during a fight but rather to find out who would prevail . It May was a different story though in the street if you were jumped by surprise or someone was trying to rob you . My knife was for defensive purposes only or if I had to cut something …
"We used to argue, then fight. These young boys just shoot, then ride out." - Bruce Bruce
“Whatever happened to catching a good ole fashioned and passionate ass whooping and getting shoes coat and your hat tooken.” - Eminem
Was you a Jet or a Shark ?
Cornpop, is that you?
Congrats on your life and making it this far, 60 is a huge achievement nowadays
Ali Siddiq is one of my favorite story tellers, plain and simple. Chappelle, Coco and Siddiq are the best storytellers in comedy imo.
😎💯👑❤💪🏿
@dash Man Who is Coco?
@@dreday3303 Joey Diaz
I agree… Chappelle and Ali are very similar in the way they tell stories. Definitely two of my favorites.
Charlie Murphy too (RIP)
I once watched 3 brothers getting beat up one after the other by the same kid and they absolutely fucking refused to attack him 3 on 1
Last one did some damage though 😭😂
That's some cool shit too.
That's incredible boy I can't tell you how many jumpings I've been In on the bystander and receiving end of that shit is traumatic lmao I felt like I was being attacked by hyenas or a pack of baboons fists and uncoordinated volleys just pummeling my ass 😂
Dejavu! lol!
When I was a Kid, a new guy came to our colony , we had some verbal spat , me and my brother fought with him 1 on 1 , both of us got into submission by him on the street, we were so embarrassed that we didn't even look up till we reached our bed !
The next day our friends made a fking roast carnival of us , we laughed it off with them, and now it is just a sweet memory!
@lilcreaper007 been there once couldn't even tell which direction punches were coming from, yet none to the chin, and no combos, just frat boys who couldn't really punch jumping a drunk me.
Shoutout to Ali for having the balls to say what no one else will about things needing to be normal again. this segment was good too.
You talking about his fucking roundabout rant about gay people and how in his opinion they don’t deserve to have children? Yeah, “balls”
"normal" means leaving all the crazy "progressive" garbage alone and getting back to traditional values, which ARE traditional because they WORK !
@@markjackson3531 lol
@@SnailHatan lol yourself. ?
@@markjackson3531 traditional values are a lie. The fact that you don’t see that is both hilarious and sad.
It takes integrity to have honor, respect to have honor, belief to have honor. That man never knew he was going to teach that lesson, and yet he did. People are always watching how you carry yourself; so look good, even if it hurt.
This is now one of my favorite stories of all time. Thank you for that. I will be telling others about this story. It must be spread far and wide.
"And I Know some Part of my NECK ain't Ready for a REAL Animal!" Omg I'm crying laughing at that line, priceless!
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Regardless of what you might think of pimps, the ability to have thoughtful nuance allowed him to recognize the lesson of honor in that moment.
We should all think the same,pimps are filth low life scum etc
Pimps are quiet complex and diverse characters, even when the world itsefl is loosing their "honor", some of these unlawful characters are more "lawful" thant the lawful itself. Hope i didnt messed up trying to explain what calls my atention lol
@@therobbieunited look at Captain obvious over here missing the whole damn point
Pimps don't cry
Those pimps have more thoughtful nuanced critical thinking skills than most people today. Most people these days can't even have a genuine verbal discussion in person or online where they respectfully disagree with each other, nevermind managing to show respect and honour after being pimp smacked
Growing up in a rough, poor neighborhood you learned quickly that it's ok to lose, everyone is going to lose at some stage, especially with boys, and growth spurts etc.
Nobody judged you for losing. What you would get judged on by your peers was if you took a beating. As in didn't fight back. That was frowned upon.
Also, there was a kind of fairness, no nutshots, no jumping in or ganging up etc.
where in the poor rough neighborhood i grew up in if you lost your social standing would decline and others would swoop like vultures
I was down real low.. then saw this clip.. and reminded myself to react appropriately and not like a child to my current loss!
"this is a great start to a story"
Love it
That's a real pimp fist fight ..R.I.P Bobby...🤣🤣🤣
I could listen to this guy talk all day. Funny ass hell. Bobby got whooped tho but he didn't lose his honor.
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Yessss
Bobbi forces women to sell themselves and he takes their earnings with violence.
Bobbi has no honour. He's a pimp reprobate scumbag who should be in jail or six feet under.
@@bertrandrussell894 not necessarily. Pimps are essentially just bodyguards for the girls for a percentage
@@stephengrigg5988 Yeah. I'm sure he was a blessing to the women he extorted.
Ali tells it like it is, this story is another great example of a lesson learned
When is Ali gonna get his hour man. Really love this dude’s stories, just a few seconds in you already know it’s gonna be great.
At this point if you were a kid in the 90s thats old-school and we showed respect compared to how things are now. I'm so grateful I lived in a time before the internet age exploded and before cell phones were even a thing beyond just being a phone. You were forced to actually look around you and experience your life. There's a certain freedom to not being able to look things up or know the answer to everything you wonder, especially as a kid
Frfr things are so fast paced and scattered and dehumanized now. Back in the 90s life felt real
Great story with a great pointe, and beatiful presented 😊
I work with kids and if we play games or sports and they try to cheat, I always tell them that its better to loose with honor, than win without. In the end, you gotta be able to look yourself in the mirror and respect that person.
im glad to see him rise in fame, bro one of my favorite comedians today
Even pimps have honor. What are these fools doing these days killing each other. Be a Bobby 💪
Pimp’s victimize women, nothing is honorable of taking advantage of a woman and turning her into a commodity.
even? few people really have honor
@@xxjr8axx True, but you can have honor in one department, but not another. Honor among men does not necessarily translate to honor between men and women.
That’s my new motto. “Don’t be a bitch, be a Bobby.”
@@xxjr8axx A pimp needs his hoes and the hoes need a pimp.
Im not saying youre wrong cause youre 100% right but its not always that easy.
These woman who are addicted selling their body need protection and a pimp can give that, because these woman will sell their bodies and put themselves in danger regardless.
Love this dude. So underrated.
Ali is underratedly hilarious and an amazing storyteller.. good stuff. Wish a lot of people learn honor
Learning to take a loss the most important lesson ever.... yet knowing how to win is also important too.
A simple story but a great lesson… unfortunately many young men never learned honor and integrity… losing a fight fair and square does not make you less than a man… dust yourself off and live to fight another day… today people pick up guns and kill and lose their freedom because of their lack of honor…
The real question is why these young men never learned Integrity or how can the cycle stop?
@@sikwitit773 single moms bro single moms is the answer there. I was bothered by people my mom handed me a rock in a sock and said handle it make sure you are the only one standing at the end. everyone else will get the point
Great whole interview. Ali never disappoints in dialog and he's entertaining just speaking with a peers.
Worth the watch plus he gives great details to gardening that I've been wishing to jump in only lack the knowledge to begin nor have neighbor's who expand eating healthy. Good watch!
Really? I thought it was by far the worst episode of JRE I've ever seen. Ali seems ignorant and just rambles half the time. At one point he just goes off about how gay people shouldn't raise kids. I'm open minded and although I disagreed with his opinion from the start I was willing to hear his thoughts. He proceeded to make zero sense in rationalizing his opinion. Just sounded like an ignorant fool to me.
@@JordanShowghi "a gay couple adopting is like getting a dog without having a garden". What an inexplicably ignorant statement.
@@peterdixon7872 good job hes a comedian then and that was a joke.... snowflakes
Have you seen
Post Malone meets Elon Musk
It’s hilarious!! 👽
@@jbayley6963 in no way was his stance about gay couples a joke. He was dead serious. How could you even interpret that as a joke?
That wasn't the only reason I thought the episode was bad by the way. I thought dude just had an overall low iq and was rambling nonsense the whole episode.
Thanks Ali for sharing a real story, laced with raw humor! I could listen to you 24/7! Go Professor Ali!
We need more people with Bobby’s mind set in this world
Ali Siddiq, next to a great comedian he's a great storyteller as well!🙏😆
Nuthin but a G thang an some Chicken wings 🤪
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Have you seen
Post Malone meets Elon Musk
It’s hilarious!! 👽
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Oh this gonna be a gooood one
I remember being a young kid in Mexico and watching older kids settling arguments like this. Bare knuckle, bare chested fights. Clean licks, bloody noses, no beat downs by a bunch of guys on one. They fought for a minute until one of them quit and then their differences were settled. You might even see them a couple weeks later chilling over a couple beers.
Not like today where everyone makes disagreements out to be about some bullshit like oppression, microagression, or some other nonsense where they go tell mommy/daddy, the school administration...or worse, they bring guns into the mix.
My compadre has a saying, "there's no idiots left in Mexico. There's only chingones /badasses)."
Everyone is a chingon and willing to lie, cheat, kill, for it. No honor.
@@theabhorrentchef7226 that's why need a annual purge
go back to mexico so you can settle your problems properly again
For real, I've lived in many parts of America and have had positive experiences with people of all races so I am tired of the constant blaming every problem on white people, or straight people, or males. I think I have only ever run into a couple genuine racist white people in my entire life and yet the media is constantly trying to convince me that everyone around me is a white supremacist who hates me. Most white people I have met either bend over backwards with generosity to not be racist or straight up hate themselves for something that happened way before any of us was alive.
I sometimes WISH that was the problem because fist fights would be more manageable than watching the country slowly turn into a bunch of emotional marxists. I would rather deal with openly hostile far right wingers because at least I would know where they stand as opposed the the radical lefties that scheme to infect everything and turn everyone into irrational pussies.
Yeah teachers let you scrap it out without the police being notified like in Canada and US. So stupid and so many crybabies here because some bully will get rinsed and they would have 911 or the school. Even as young adults nobody wants to take responsibility for their words or actions and it creates irresponsibility for wrong doers
We need more Bobby's in this world. Knows how to fight fair and square, accepts his loss and shows respect. You may lose some and win some but you still live to fight another day. (Boyz N da Hood)
Also on Friday
Great life lessons we can learn from listening! Cheers!
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Nuthin but a G thang an some Chicken wings 🤪
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Those pimps should've tried DMT instead
Those dmt elfs.
Ali Siddiq is quite simply a master storyteller! If I taught high school or for that matter college English I would direct my students to Mr. Siddiq’s monologues if you want to see a true virtuoso in action.
Omg “you don’t tell Bobby where to be!” That line will be used hundreds of times in my household going forward lol
My little brother and I got into an argument about something once. I threw a punch at him and fists were flying. Now he was always fitter and bigger then me so he obviously won. I was fighting half dazed after one lunch. But after we let all the rage out we dropped the issue after arguing just a little more. No lingering hatred, still loved each other, and our parents never knew a thing. I still love him to this day and I learned I'm a little more tenacious in a fight then I thought I was.
“That’s a great start to a story” might be the funniest thing Rogan has ever said on this podcast 😂😂😂
It’s not a long list.
indeed. 110% accurate
Honor accepts consequence as it's bounds. Sometimes, failing sets boundaries.
this is the best comment I've seen in a long time. thanks for sharing this!
Forgive me for my ignorance. Can you explain what that means?
@@lennynguyen2620 Honor, as a construct, encompasses all that reaps. Whether it’s achieved through success or comes as a byproduct of loss, its innate principles can only go as far as its contextual parameters will allow.
I've never in my life said this to, or about, a pimp....but, God bless Bobby.
Honestly the amazing content and stories on this channel man. Ali was always a good story teller.
Nuthin but a G thang an some Chicken wings 🤪
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What a great story - you can learn something from anyone - even 2 pimps on a street corner !! Great clip - thanks for sharing !!
Ny dad used to say you could learn something even from a stupid person, you could learn what NOT to do.
You can learn a lot from pimps especially women
Nuthin but a G thang an some Chicken wings 🤪
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I love these guys, ali siddiq is one of my fav comedians. He adds an element to comedy that i dont feel is represented enough. Thank you!!
And if you read that, have a good day too, point that chin up
i really love his style of story telling! I find a chip of wisdom every time i listen to Ali Siddiq.
The pimp is smart. He didn't try to save face, he didn't seem to care that he lost, he admitted it was fair and was humble. More people in the hood could do with hearing this story, you don't always need to be the big man trying to act hard as it just perpetuates violence. If you lose, accept it and don't escalate because the moment you stab or shoot somebody you've just sacrificed years of your life when you're in jail for the sake of 20 minutes of embarrassment after losing said fight.
Most ppl in the hood don't fight lmao
Solid lesson of real respect..thank you Ali!
Nuthin but a G thang an some Chicken wings 🤪
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Ali Siddiq is honestly one of the funniest guys. I don’t know why he doesn’t get that much exposure
hasn't sold his soul that's why
@@godspeed6563 Correctamondo.
Needed to hear this, about trying and failing. Is better than not trying at all
Ali Siddiq is the greatest story teller ever.
I tried surfing once and nearly drowned trying to get out past the waves to the point where you could catch a wave. After paddling and trying to get out for what felt like forever I felt something touching my hands when I was paddling. It was the sand. I ended up several hundred feet down the beach and about 10 to 15 ft closer to the beach from where I had started swimming with the board. It was a good thing, because I was too tired to swim if I was out in deep water
I tried bull riding once. On the first jump out of the gate it felt like the bull ripped my arm out of socket. I spent the next 6 seconds planning my escape and timing it out so that when he went left I could go right. And then I had to try and climb up the fence with one noodle arm.
Sometimes failure teaches you that you have no business doing that stuff ever again
Can't wait to hear the story of your first bungee jump!
I learned to surf in Spain, and it was fun, but I learned that the punishment/payoff quotient was a little too lopsided for my taste.
@@gthetree1 I was talking to my son about risk vs reward the other day. I feel you man
Lmao these aren’t things you try once and know how to do. You can’t know if you like surfing or anything until you can actually learn it. With that said I tried to learn to surf, a few times a year for about 5 yrs. Never got it. It’s hard and sucks when you suck at it.
@@mdsign001 😂
That's so awesome... great story and lesson learned!!!
Probably one of Greatest Openings for a True Story. About Honor.
One of the best Rogan pod casts. I laughed so much. Had a good day at work.
I don't know who this guy is but the life lessons he can impart would be amazing. And Joe was right...the way he started that whole story just captivates you and draws you in. You hang on every word wanting to know how the story will unfold. Fantastic.
I laughed at the first 10 seconds as well. My uncle taught me this lesson as a child. No words, just his actions. We laugh about it till this day.
Respect..Honor amongst Men. Truly Admirable
I love Ali! Real dude.
This one HAS To be animated this is amazing lmao
My half sister is the type to say she's never lost a fight. When I first met her she told me that shit and I looked her dead in her eyes and said "then you musta not been in many fights cause even the best of the best have a loss or two." I spent 7 straight years fighting AT LEAST once a week and boy howdy I've had my bell rung a few good times lol. And I shook hands and walked t. F. Off afterwards no weapons no cops no bs.
Or you aint fought nobody worth a damn yet
Dignity and honor are two very valuable, yet completely intangible, things, based on even more abstract things. You either get it, or you don’t. The beauty of both is that only YOU can lose it, they can’t be taken from you. In life, where everything can be taken from you, that makes them very special and worth preserving.
The fact that Bobby the Pimp talked about himself in the third person made me LAUGH OUT LOUD!!
Ali is a legandary story teller. You have to hear his comedy. He is such a funny comedian and waaaaay under rated
The fact that the aunt, knew she couldn't leave after that hat was on her car, is Hilarious
One of the best short interviews I have seen. Good story with a good moral end. We all have too learn to loose.